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Speaker 1: Well, Steve, you're trending after your speech at Investments invest

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Speaker 1: about haters.

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Speaker 2: Over the weekend. I'm sure you'll have a lot about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah again, what did I say?

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Speaker 3: What you said?

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Speaker 2: You know what you said?

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Speaker 3: A lot of stuff. I don't remember what I said.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well you got that. I don't watch him.

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Speaker 3: We got washing.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry, we got I believe was there. And why

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Speaker 2: did we let him go by himself? Why I knew it?

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Speaker 3: That's your last invest festival.

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Speaker 1: All right, we got that coming up. Tom Cruise associates

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Speaker 1: and a few Olympians say he stinks really badly, really bad.

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Speaker 2: And what Tom Cruise?

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Speaker 1: No, Tom, I.

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Speaker 3: Know plans and stuff that swear it's.

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Speaker 2: Doing all his own stunts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you doing your stunt. You'd be straight.

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Speaker 1: And finally, Nipsey Hustle's wax figure was revealed this weekend

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Speaker 1: in Atlanta. We'll talk about all of these stories at

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, but right now it is

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Speaker 1: time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: This is from Rayford in Oklahoma City. Rayford Ray Rayford says,

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty seven and my girlfriend is fifty seven. My

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Speaker 1: big brother came to stay with me for a week,

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Speaker 1: and she was all in his face and it bothered me.

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Speaker 1: When he left, he admitted that she was flirting with him,

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Speaker 1: and she said, he's the older version of me.

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Speaker 2: She has a younger sister.

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Speaker 1: Should I flirt with her sister to let her see

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Speaker 1: how it feels?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, go ahead and do that, because it sounded like

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Speaker 4: a bunch of mess right here. Yeah, yeah, that's what

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Speaker 4: she was doing. She got a younger sister.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just go ahead, go ahead, pray, go right?

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Speaker 3: Why you with her? Why she with you? She walked

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Speaker 3: up older version of you and that's all they did.

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Speaker 2: Why what they got twenty years between them?

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Speaker 3: You're thirty seven, she fifty. So how long you think

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Speaker 3: it's gonna lass?

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Speaker 4: Sure though he likes oh, she probably got herself together

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Speaker 4: and everything, but you know, okay, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, so you know, do you think he should flirt

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Speaker 2: with the sister? Okay?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean what they in a mess?

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Speaker 5: They in some mess.

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Speaker 3: How do you think that's the solution?

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Speaker 2: Mess? Begets mess.

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Speaker 4: That's gonna let her see how I feel. That's gonna change.

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Speaker 4: That's not gonna change what she said to your brother.

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Fatima and Huntington Beach.

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Speaker 1: Uh Fatima writes, my husband's best friend is in town

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Speaker 1: with his wife and I can't stand her. I refuse

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Speaker 1: to go hang out with them, and my husband told

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Speaker 1: them why How can he be so messy and start drama?

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Speaker 1: Was it best to be honest or should he have lie?

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Speaker 3: Well? Whoa whoa whoa whoa. Oh now y'all won't a lie?

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Speaker 3: Oh now, y'all won't.

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Speaker 5: Out of the.

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Speaker 4: Lion is very, very critical to the maintaining of relationship.

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Speaker 4: The moment you tell the whole truth and nothing but

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Speaker 4: the truth, relationships start to fall apart. Now, all he

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Speaker 4: had to do was say, hey, my wife said she

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Speaker 4: got COVID cod. Everybody would have been cool with that,

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Speaker 4: but don't know, no, man, she can't stand your damn wife.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he told.

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Speaker 5: That the truth.

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Speaker 2: How did that help anybody in this situation?

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Speaker 3: Nobody the lie would have worked.

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Speaker 5: I told y'all truth, man, Yes, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: He upset his wife too. She's upset with them, all right.

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Speaker 1: Say she don't want to watch, she can't stand.

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Speaker 2: She could have went out.

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Speaker 3: With she can't stay Sheila dog.

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Speaker 2: And he said it in front of Sheila.

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Speaker 4: I think it's caused how she looked on me personally,

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Speaker 4: cause you know, yeah, she don't even know what all

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Speaker 4: he said.

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Speaker 2: Though, Uh, she has no idea. She has no idea.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna move on to LaToya in Phoenix.

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Speaker 1: LaToya says, we have three children under age six, and

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Speaker 1: I'm the caregiver, disciplinarian and cook. My husband goes to

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Speaker 1: our room as soon as he gets home. I'm withholding

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Speaker 1: sex because I'm upset and tired.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't seem to care. Is he over me and

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Speaker 2: the kids? Sound like, yeah, yeah, he silent kids.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you wore out them. He'd have made the kids.

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Speaker 4: Now he gotta go. Gotta go, uh, or provide for

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Speaker 4: him and support him. He just wore himself.

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Speaker 5: He probably.

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Speaker 3: I really think he mad at hisself. He don't like

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Speaker 3: him though.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't do anything.

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Speaker 3: He go in his room, shut his door. I don't

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Speaker 3: want to hear his noise. I've been to work all day, which.

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Speaker 4: Is like extremely wrong on his part because the wife

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Speaker 4: has been with them all day and they need an

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Speaker 4: active daddy in They like, yeah, so he wrong on

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Speaker 4: so many levels. But the fact is he over with

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Speaker 4: me because you do withheld the sex and he don't care.

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Speaker 4: Don't you know why he don't want them more? Second,

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Speaker 4: because he don't want the more day. Hell, we ain't

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Speaker 4: having no more sex. Well, that means we ain't having

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Speaker 4: no more kids.

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Speaker 1: He solved that problem. Yeah, all right, Last one, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Last one. This is from Mike in Nashville. Mike says,

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend and my ex wife are so cool that

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Speaker 1: I see pictures of them on Facebook and my girl

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Speaker 1: hasn't even mentioned that they were together. My girl is

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Speaker 1: my ex wife, new man and I have not Are

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Speaker 1: they way too close? Am I crazy for feeling weird

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Speaker 1: about it?

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Speaker 5: Ah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they hang out.

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Speaker 3: His wife that met his ex's new man.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Huh. Everybody in the circle but him, He the one ain't. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: some mean like some swinging going on? Pimp what it

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Speaker 3: sound like? I don't know. I ain't saying none of

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Speaker 3: this sounds like swinging going.

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Speaker 4: On the club because everybody cool except you. Now have

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Speaker 4: you had the swinging conversation? And what did you say

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Speaker 4: when this conversation came up? I ain't swinging with no

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Speaker 4: damn body?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Cool?

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Speaker 4: All right, well, okay, now in all seriousness, that is

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Speaker 4: a weird dynamic I've never heard that before. Your wife,

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Speaker 4: your girlfriend is cool with your ex with your wife, wife.

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Speaker 2: And her new man.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, no, damn sir, everybody in the group, but.

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Speaker 4: You Well, that only tells me one thing. The comminator,

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Speaker 4: the common denominator in this group of who don't like

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Speaker 4: the one person in you. The ex wife don't like you,

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Speaker 4: your girlfriend don't like you, and the damn new husband

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Speaker 4: don't like you.

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Speaker 2: That's what they're talking about when they get together.

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Speaker 3: You know it?

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Speaker 2: What you saying?

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Speaker 3: What can he do to be a part of the group.

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Speaker 4: Kay, he.

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Speaker 5: Kn't be down.

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Speaker 3: They don't like it. They don't like it.

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Speaker 2: They don't like him. All right, thank you, Clo. Coming

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Speaker 2: up at the top of the hour.

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