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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it's Lala Kent. Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hello, gorgeous,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. I have

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Speaker 1: the human who makes my life or is a piece

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Speaker 1: of my life that makes it makes itself untraditional. Hello

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Speaker 1: Titi Hi, I have Q and as I know, you

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Speaker 1: have to be to the airport. We're all going to

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Speaker 1: Utah for Easan's birthday, little Valentine's baby.

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Speaker 2: Tried to make a reservation.

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Speaker 3: That was the other thing, because birthday it's like everybody, Yeah, we're.

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Speaker 2: Going to Brandon's house, our brother.

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Speaker 4: But like that's the other thing, Like, let's just go.

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Speaker 2: Grab a bite to eat where nowhere Donalds.

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Speaker 4: I do like it, little bit.

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Speaker 2: Gina Lucia wants to know. Should I got to know?

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Speaker 2: Why are your episodes so short?

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Speaker 1: Now? I still love listening, but it's a bummer. By

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Speaker 1: the way, I get this a lot. You are seen,

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Speaker 1: you are heard. I don't like change. No one likes change.

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Speaker 1: You guys talk about the app. I get it. I

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Speaker 1: totally get it, and I just want you to rock

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Speaker 1: with me because your listenership is like you guys are

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Speaker 1: like my friends. It's the one place I can come

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Speaker 1: to share about my life, be open and honest. The

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Speaker 1: pod meaning you guys, that I've created is so incredible

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Speaker 1: and I appreciate you sticking with me. This podcast I

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Speaker 1: love doing, but it's also responsible for helping me provide

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Speaker 1: for my family, so I just want to say thank you. Also,

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Speaker 1: I know that the episodes at times have been short.

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Speaker 1: We're going We're going back. We hear you, we hear you,

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Speaker 1: We're going back, we got you, We're in motion. Ten

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Speaker 1: Heather fourteen asks I am losing my daughter to alcohol.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything I can say or do to get

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Speaker 1: her to change? This one actually broke my heart because

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Speaker 1: I feel that back when I was struggling and deep

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Speaker 1: in my alcoholism, had anyone said anything, and by the

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Speaker 1: way people did, I was not ready to hear it.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I would push them away. They were ruining

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Speaker 1: my good time. I had to come to it on

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Speaker 1: my own. And I think that this is the most

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Speaker 1: difficult thing that you're going to hear. I think you

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Speaker 1: have that conversation with her and express your concerns, but

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Speaker 1: you have to accept that you may have to love

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Speaker 1: her from afar. I saw the other day Mom sent

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Speaker 1: me a message that the girl and I'm blinking on

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Speaker 1: her name. She used to be on Real Housewives of

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Speaker 1: OC and she had two daughters. It was a Lexus

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Speaker 1: and one another and if you guys remember like season two,

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Speaker 1: I think the girls like loved to drink Lynn thank you.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Lynn.

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Speaker 1: One of her daughters was spotted in Orange County missing fingers.

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Speaker 1: Her family lives in San Diego. They've disowned her because

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Speaker 1: she couldn't get sober. She dabbled in heroin and then

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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine as a parent having to go through

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Speaker 1: that and just praying to some something beyond you to

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Speaker 1: come back to me. I am sending you so much love,

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Speaker 1: and I hope you know that you're not by yourself,

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Speaker 1: and I hope the Easton and I can give you

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Speaker 1: hope that your daughter will will see the light. And

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna pray for you. Melpite. What does your daily

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Speaker 1: routine look like with the kiddos. My daily routine.

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Speaker 2: Looks like this. We wake up at seven. Ocean wakes

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Speaker 1: Sosa wakes up, I feed the kids, Ocean gets ready

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if you can't take Ocean to school

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like this morning, I wouldn't have been able to

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Speaker 4: But you Yeah, your morning routines are pretty well.

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Speaker 1: I'm a creature of habit and I'm thirty five years

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Speaker 3: Follows, Yeah, I don't really know. Yeah, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: It's dinner time, it's vitamin time, Russia freaking teeth time.

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Speaker 1: Braid your hair, because if you don't breid Ocean's hair,

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Speaker 1: it is a rat's nest. Kathy Hannah four, When is

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Speaker 1: he going to fix his hair?

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Speaker 2: Nothing to fix? Nothing to fix.

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Speaker 4: This beauty, We asked Ocean every buddy. No, I'm on

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Speaker 3: I do want to cut it. It's getting there, I

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Speaker 3: So now it's like Ocean, could she get over it? Yes,

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Speaker 1: And anyone who's like comments on it that they don't

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Speaker 4: That thing I've like.

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Speaker 4: No, it's beyond I just go, wow, good for you.

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Speaker 1: So to answer your question, Kathy, three here, it's fixed.

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Speaker 1: It takes a lot of work to get that hair

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Speaker 4: Oh, my goodness, I will say routine.

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Speaker 3: And then I hit a lot of meetings on Zoom.

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Speaker 2: In all the self work I've done. There's one.

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Speaker 2: Having my sponsor there it is.

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Speaker 3: Yes, just because I have to say this or I'll forget.

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Speaker 4: Good thing to ask. Yeah, so like that's you.

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Speaker 1: I have found my My therapy comes from talking to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't tell you how many times I've called

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you still on the peptide train? I know

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Speaker 3: Yes I am, but I get to get back on

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Speaker 4: You don't just continue doing.

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Speaker 3: But whatever it is, I have to wait for six months,

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Speaker 1: I finished my cycle, I think the end of October.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can go on it again.

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Speaker 2: If here's why you guys. You guys know I hate shots.

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Speaker 2: That I would do.

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Speaker 1: But I had a needle that was a little doll

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Speaker 4: That's for the bad.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say this person's name. I'm a teacher,

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Speaker 1: and my anxiety has been crippling watching you on VPR

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Speaker 1: and Insta. My joy that brings you joy, brings you

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Speaker 1: having anxiety where you're like this is completely debilitating, but

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Speaker 2: There weren't moments where I saw Easton. There were moments

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Speaker 2: You have the luxury of leaving, and you can do it.

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Speaker 1: And you're once you leave and you get situated and

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Speaker 2: God, You're gonna feel so good. The future is beautiful

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Speaker 1: like you don't have an identity outside of me.

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Speaker 2: And you said, when things.

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Speaker 1: Get wild on whatever show you're on, I have DMS

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Speaker 1: from people and I have nothing to do with it,

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Speaker 1: and it has bothered you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that I mean I that isn't I have

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Speaker 3: my own life separate from you, whether people know that,

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Speaker 3: because I don't post stuff. I don't post when I'm

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Speaker 3: out with my homies. I don't post when I go

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Speaker 3: to dinners. I don't post when I'm at the beach.

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Speaker 3: I don't post things with them with my friends, you know.

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Speaker 3: So it's like if people if I were to post that,

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Speaker 3: I don't think people would assume it either, because they're

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Speaker 3: assuming from what they see.

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Speaker 4: That's how I feel. Yeah, but I because I don't,

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Speaker 4: I'm not a look at what I'm doing. I should

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Speaker 4: post more? Should I post more? Tell me?

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Speaker 2: Yes, you should post more when you're so funny.

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Speaker 4: Like that's the thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm always doing shit away from my family. That's what

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Speaker 3: people don't understand. Like I'm always doing something away from

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Speaker 3: you guys. I don't post it, but like I have

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Speaker 3: my own identity. It's the people who follow you who

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Speaker 3: know me that assume that or think that. Yeah, and

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Speaker 3: I will tell you this, Bravo world is a very

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Speaker 3: very very very tricky, weird world totally of everybody has

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Speaker 3: something to say, and everybody who says something is pretty

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Speaker 3: much hurt.

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Speaker 4: It's crazy, which is great.

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Speaker 3: I love that about that everybody has a say, but

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Speaker 3: it's also like one person saying some one thing can

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Speaker 3: steer the whole narrative that way, I know, and that's

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Speaker 3: not what it is. I have my own identity outside

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Speaker 3: of my sister. I don't show it, but I'm starting

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Speaker 3: to think I might.

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Speaker 1: Please by all means, I would also like you to

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Speaker 1: do that. People think I hold you in mom hostage

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Speaker 1: Moms and about.

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Speaker 2: She's with Claudia.

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Speaker 3: She's like Julie, like, I'm going it, just like I

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Speaker 3: go with my buddies and grab coffee. Like a couple

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Speaker 3: of days a week, I go. You know, I'm going

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Speaker 3: to six Flags. I'm doing so much shit. I just

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Speaker 3: don't post because I don't I get it. Yeah, but no,

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Speaker 3: I have my own identity.

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Speaker 4: Because I'll do it.

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Speaker 3: I'll post for everybody else to see how I have

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Speaker 3: my own identity as well your identity.

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Speaker 1: One more time, the drinking if you every time you

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Speaker 1: hear this word, have a drink.

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Speaker 4: Fill them up.

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Speaker 1: You guys, Thank you so much for listening to a

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Speaker 1: bonus episode of Additionally La La, I love you so much.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to catch you guys next week on Wednesday

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Speaker 1: for a regular episode and Monday's remember Boner's up.

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Speaker 4: Love you, Bye bye