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Meg, good morning, welcome to the program. 12 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: How are you Hi? 13 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 3: Good morning, I'm good, How are you you? 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:36,599 Speaker 1: And all right? 15 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: What's going on with this guy Seth? This is, of 16 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: course waiting by the phone. We're trying to figure out 17 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: if you've been ghosted. It feels like you've been ghosted. 18 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: You think I got to know though, how you met, 19 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 2: about any dates that you've been on, and then where 20 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 2: things are now? 21 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 4: Sure, I honestly think this is probably some sort of 22 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 4: weird misunderstanding, so I'm hoping we can work it out. 23 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: I met Seth on Hinge and he's a really great guy. 24 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: We had a lot in common and we just hit 25 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 3: it off. We went on two dates. 26 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 4: They were great, Like I had the they're probably the 27 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 4: best dates I've ever been on, Like I had the 28 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 4: best time. I really felt connected to him, Like it 29 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 4: just felt like we were on the same page. So 30 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 4: I definitely expected to have a third date, but he 31 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 4: like disappeared, So I don't know, it feels like something. 32 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 3: It just doesn't make sense to me. I feel like 33 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 3: something must have happened, and like we've got to reconnect 34 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 3: because I can't imagine that I'm actually ghosted from someone 35 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: that I connected that well with. 36 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 2: Interesting, So this is a two date ghost. We hear 37 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 2: a lot about one date, and then you don't hear 38 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: from the person. 39 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: Wish I am. 40 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: We've had this debate many times, whether you really owe 41 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: somebody anything after a first date, Like do I really 42 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 2: need to call you after one date and explain to 43 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 2: you why I don't like you? 44 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: Like I don't know, but two dates, maybe three, I 45 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: don't know. 46 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 2: But here you are really confused because you like this 47 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: guy and you don't see a problem, and then he 48 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 2: goes away and you can't get a hold of him, 49 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: and it's like that, hold on a minute, Well, we 50 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 2: on two different day or you know what happened. 51 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it just doesn't make sense me. 52 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 4: Like I said, like, these are the best dates I've 53 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 4: probably ever been on. So it's clear to me that 54 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 4: he didn't call, he didn't reach out like I tried 55 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 4: texting him, nothing like. 56 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: It just doesn't I don't know, like what happened. It 57 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 3: went so well, I don't understand. 58 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: Okay, well that's where we come in. We're gonna play 59 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: a song, come back, call Seth. You'll be on the phone. 60 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: We're gonna ask these questions on your behalf. And the 61 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 2: hope is always is that we can straighten things out 62 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: and set you guys up on another date and pay 63 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 2: for that. 64 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 3: All right, I look forward to that. Thank you so much. 65 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: Hey Meg, Hey, welcome back. Let's call Seth. 66 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: You guys actually went on two dates and you felt 67 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 2: like both dates went really well. I believe that you said. 68 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 2: I want to make sure I get this right. These 69 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: were the best two dates that you've ever been on. 70 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 3: Yes, they really were. 71 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 2: Which is interesting because you go from two of the 72 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 2: best dates ever and not hearing from this guy. 73 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: So where is the disconnect? Right? 74 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't understand, like there had there been something 75 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 4: that came up like I just can't imagine anything actually 76 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: ghosting me ghosting. 77 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: All right, we let's see if we can figure this out. 78 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna call Seth right now. Good luck, Meg, Thank 79 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: you so much much. 80 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 3: I can't wait to talk to him. Thank you. 81 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 5: Hello. 82 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: Hi's is Seth? 83 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 4: Uh? 84 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, this is Seth mask A calling Hi. 85 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: You certainly may Seth. Well, we're so polite, may I asked? 86 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred Show, 87 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 2: the morning radio show, and I have to tell you 88 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now, and I 89 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with the call. Can 90 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: we chat for just a second on the year. You 91 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: can hang up at any time, okay, yea, yeah, sure, 92 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: I know it. I know it's a little bit weird 93 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: to get a call like this, but we're calling on 94 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: behalf of someone named Meg, a woman named Meg who 95 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: reached out to us as she went on two dates 96 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: with you. 97 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: I hope you remember her? 98 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, yeah, I do, all right. 99 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: Kind of a standard kind of a standard answer for 100 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: something that may have gone awry. What happened with her? 101 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 2: Because we spoke with her for a little while. She 102 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 2: had great things to say about you and about the 103 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 2: two dates that you went on, and she seems surprised 104 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: that she hasn't heard from you. 105 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: Can't get a hold of you. What's your side of 106 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: the story. 107 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, Okay, she said it was awesome. That's 108 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 5: I mean, that's school. That's flattering. I guess I. 109 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 2: Believe if I'm correct about this, she said it was 110 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 2: these are the two best dates she's ever been on. 111 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: Yep, wow, okay, and you don't feel the same way. 112 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 3: Well, I mean. 113 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 5: Kind of half and half. 114 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,679 Speaker 6: But uh, I guess I'm sure there were some details 115 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 6: she probably left out. I guess I'll tell my side 116 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 6: of the story. Then drinks for great had a great 117 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 6: time obviously. 118 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 5: If I want one to go on a second date. 119 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 3: And then we had a great time. 120 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 6: But the second time we hung out, she invited me 121 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 6: out to a holiday party. And that's when things took 122 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 6: a tight. 123 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 7: With this took a strong turn, all right. Why so 124 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 7: she invited me out to she said she called it 125 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 7: her a friend's holiday party. She's like, okay, cool, Yeah, 126 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 7: you know, that's that sounds fun. 127 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 5: Hanging out a little bit. 128 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 6: There's probably some food, some drinks and have a good times. 129 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 6: The first day was great, Like, honestly, I loved it, 130 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 6: And when I got there, I started realizing pretty quickly 131 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 6: that this was more of a family party, which obviously 132 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 6: took me by a total surprise. Like I'm thinking we're 133 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 6: gonna be hanging out with friends and instead, like her 134 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 6: mom and dad were there, brothers and sisters, cousins, family friends. 135 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: So this is a second yeah, and you're meeting everybody, 136 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: I mean literally everybody. 137 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, But like that's not even the worst part of it. Like, 138 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 6: as the night went on, I realized she must have 139 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 6: been telling people that we were in their relationship for 140 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 6: a while. 141 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: And this is only the second date. 142 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 2: I mean it would have been I think it would 143 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: have been bold to go to a friend party on 144 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 2: a second date, Like that's a lot to ask of 145 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 2: somebody that you've only gone on one day with. But 146 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 2: this was family, and so they're treating you like you're 147 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 2: the boyfriend. 148 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I'm like, honestly, I felt I felt bad, 149 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 6: so I went along with it. 150 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 5: So I didn't want to embarrass her. 151 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 6: I'm not that type of person to do that and 152 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 6: just stand her up like that would. 153 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 5: Have been terrible. But as I was going along with it. 154 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 6: I was telling myself like I would never talk to 155 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 6: the scroll again because that's it's kind of insane. 156 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, what is she? What does she think 157 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 2: this is? After one date? What is she telling people? 158 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,359 Speaker 2: And here to tell us more is Meg? Because I 159 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: forgot to mention that megus here. I want to bring 160 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 2: her in. I'm very forgetful. I get caught up in 161 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: the story. 162 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: Meg. 163 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 2: Did you did you bring him to a party with 164 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 2: your parents and siblings and tell them that you were 165 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 2: in a committed relationship? 166 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 3: I mean, you listen, high seth. We had a really 167 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: great time. I did. I did in write you to 168 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 3: a party and I didn't have two friends there, so 169 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,119 Speaker 3: it wasn't like, you know, a lie. 170 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: Okay, But in. 171 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 2: Fairness, hold on, no, Meg, I need you to answer 172 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 2: the question did you tell them that that was your boyfriend? 173 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 3: I mean, I I. 174 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 4: Think everyone you know dreads a lot of questions when 175 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 4: they're single during the holidays, so, like you know, sometimes 176 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 4: you just say things to get people off your back. 177 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 3: It wasn't really a big. 178 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: Deal though, but you got to tell Okay, if that's 179 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 2: what you're doing, you got to tell him that, like 180 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 2: he needs to be in on it, right, Like if 181 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: if that's if it's a strategy, if it's a gimmick 182 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: just simply so that people stop asking you questions, then 183 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: you got to be like, hey, this is what I'm 184 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 2: thinking about. First of all, we're going to a family party, 185 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 2: and second of all, I'm telling these people you're my boyfriend. 186 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: I think it didn't do that because. 187 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 2: You know that that was a great but I think 188 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: you also know that it would sounds a little aggressive 189 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 2: and he probably wouldn't have been into it. 190 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 4: I mean maybe I just you know, it was just 191 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 4: to me, it was just a fun party. 192 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 3: We were having fun. He had a good time. He 193 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 3: went along with it, so like he clearly like he 194 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 3: was picking up on it. I thought it was so cute. 195 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 3: I was like, wow, we're just like so like in sync, 196 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 3: Like he gets me. 197 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: I think he did that to be a kind person 198 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: because he didn't want to embarrass you in front of everybody. 199 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 3: Embarrassing I mean, like we had such a fun time. 200 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: But you're not in a relationship. 201 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 3: Okay, but like we but we were just having fun. 202 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 8: It's in a line you do understand, it's not it's 203 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 8: not really a lie. 204 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 3: I mean I mean, that's a really that's a stretch. 205 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship with this man? 206 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 3: I mean we're dating, aren't we? 207 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 2: We've been on dat, you went on AI, you went 208 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 2: on you, you were you were a dater. I mean 209 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 2: one time people were hey, Meg, one date like that 210 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 2: doesn't One date does not necessitate or or mean a 211 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: committed relationship. Like that's a very difficult to. 212 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 4: Put a committed relationship right off the bat. I was 213 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 4: just having fun, Like we all just want to get 214 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 4: through the holidays, don't we Like our families, there's so 215 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 4: much pressure on a Like let's just let's just like 216 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 4: enjoy it. We had a good time and like, let's 217 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 4: make some more memories together. Like, I don't know why 218 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 4: this is getting like so blown out of. 219 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: Whose side are you on? 220 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 8: I feel bad for her because I've been in this 221 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 8: position where family puts. 222 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: This pressure on you. 223 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 8: Like, girl, I'm out here living dreams and you're talking 224 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 8: to me about a man. 225 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Like it's you know they always do that. What 226 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: two things can be true? You really do two things 227 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: that can. 228 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 2: Be true, And you can also bring a man into 229 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: a situation that he didn't know about. 230 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't do a ski, apparently a life that 231 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: he's unaware of. 232 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,559 Speaker 2: At least you could have done is given him a 233 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 2: heads up about what you did so that he can 234 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 2: choose whether he wants to walk into that or not. 235 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 2: And then he knows how to answer the questions and 236 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 2: he doesn't feel cornered. But you didn't do that, and 237 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 2: so now the guys thinks you're crazy. 238 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, no, listen, I get like, okay, I 239 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 4: could have told him, but like he went along with 240 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 4: it and it went so well, like mom, you love him, 241 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 4: my family loves him, Like it was great. 242 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: Have you never met been in a situation where you 243 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: you went along with it just to get out of it? 244 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 3: I guess so. 245 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 4: But like I felt like going along with it showed 246 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 4: like how instync we were, Like he read my mind, 247 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 4: Like we just had like such a good time. 248 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 8: He was trying to survive sis, like he didn't he 249 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 8: didn't know what you were capable of. 250 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 1: It's like thriving. 251 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 3: It felt like driving to me. I don't know, I 252 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 3: don't see. 253 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 1: It that way. All right, Well, look is that really wait? 254 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 3: Is that really? 255 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 4: Like? 256 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 3: Is that was that really a problem? 257 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: I think telling your family that you're in a relationship 258 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: with a man that you went on one day with 259 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 2: and not telling him that for him to be the 260 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 2: only one in the room that doesn't know is a problem. 261 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 2: But Sethil asked the question, I mean you did like 262 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 2: the first date the second thing? She I don't fully 263 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 2: believe that she was just doing this as a gimmick, 264 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 2: because I think she would have let you in on it. 265 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 2: But would you like to go out with her again 266 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: a third date? We try this, maybe you know, dinner, 267 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 2: we don't invite mom and dad and Mema and you know, 268 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 2: and the siblings and nieces in half years and you know, 269 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: maybe we don't have a family reunion on the third 270 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 2: date and we see what happens. 271 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: Would you like to try? 272 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 5: Man? Honestly, no, I'm sorry, Meg, I can't do really. 273 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 8: Oh you already tell the family you're supposed to get married. 274 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: When's the wedding that he doesn't know about? 275 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 2: You know what? 276 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 3: Being so silly? But we had a good connection. 277 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: Are we being silly? I mean, I think we're just 278 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 1: being realistic. 279 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: But uh so the roles reversed, you wouldn't have a 280 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 2: problem with this, Meg, I mean you go to seth 281 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 2: for a second day, he takes you to his parents' house, 282 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 2: he introduces you as his girlfriend. I mean, you wouldn't 283 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 2: and you didn't know anything about it, you wouldn't have 284 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 2: any issue with that. 285 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 3: I mean, if we're still connecting and having a good 286 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 3: time and vibing like you know what, that's dating like 287 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 3: different now, you know, so you got to just like 288 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 3: embrace what you got. 289 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: Hey, dating might be different. 290 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 2: You just got to make sure everybody who's dating in 291 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 2: this situation knows what where we're at. 292 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 4: You know what. 293 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 2: I think the biggest issue here with Seth was unaware 294 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: that he was your boy. 295 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 3: I mean, I hear you like it was like a problem. 296 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 4: I mean, but you know what I thought, since we 297 00:11:58,520 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 4: had so much fun, it wasn't a big deal. 298 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, hey, you seem like a nice person. Meg. 299 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 2: I think you jumped the gun here. I'll ask one 300 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 2: more time, because I don't dislike Meg. I just think 301 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 2: I think that was that was we we jumped to 302 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 2: conclusions here a little bit. But Seth, one more time, 303 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 2: I'll ask, do you want to go out with her again? 304 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. 305 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:17,839 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I need to pass. 306 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: Okay, he's not gonna do it. Hey, now, oh my gosh, 307 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: her surprise is a little what's a little concerning. I 308 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: haven't shocked every time she convinced herself. I think she did. 309 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 4: I really you know what, you meet people and you 310 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 4: have a connection with them, and you're like, you know, 311 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,199 Speaker 4: this is special, this is something different, you know, and. 312 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: It's a shame. 313 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 2: It's a shame when that's not reciprocated. But my issue 314 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 2: here is that it might have been if we hadn't 315 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 2: created this, this fantasy world that we weren't quite living 316 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: in yet. 317 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 3: Yeah no, I hear, I hear really problem. Like I'm 318 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 3: sorry that it was a problem. 319 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, wow, receptive. 320 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 2: I don't Normally people are totally Delulu. They're like, I 321 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: know you're talking about She says, be aware. All right, Look, 322 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 2: I hope things work out for you, Seth. Thank you, 323 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: br Answering. I wish you the best as well. 324 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you.