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Speaker 2: Speaking of moments? Can I just ask, like, because I

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, this podcast had eyes, y'all. I am

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Speaker 1: wearing a first of all high Welcome to adulting. I'm

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Speaker 1: to show each other. This is Jordan Carlos.

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Speaker 2: You already knew what it was.

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Speaker 1: You already knew it was. You already knew what it was. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but there is this really great fashion designer named Rachel Antonov.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I love her. Yes, Yeah, she's dope. She

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Speaker 1: is inclusive. She has like a wild, fun New York

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Speaker 2: over and over, folks. If you could see this, Oh

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Speaker 1: It's giving and hell in Dexter and Hell, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I can't watch crime shows no more. Why Like the

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Speaker 2: Show because Marissa Harding.

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Speaker 1: Mariska Hargitay, how dare you icon icon more syllables? Please

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Speaker 1: teach us Mariska Hargita, teach.

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Speaker 1: So I will not continue this podcast episode unless you say.

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Speaker 2: Her scene Melissa Archipelago. Fine, Oh you know what?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just saying it's Jane man Steel's daughter will

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Speaker 1: You know her name, I know her name, you know

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Speaker 1: We already talked about my shirt.

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Speaker 1: Look hard soft, I'm inclusive. I'm talking about tacos. Just kidding.

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Speaker 1: You gotta make pain funny. Joynay, you gotta do it.

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Speaker 2: Three seasons deep. She's got her podcast, The pat Down.

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Speaker 1: She's a whole ass. Like it gets greater later, Like

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Speaker 1: Bon geor bitches let's go. Today's another day. We're feeling alive.

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Speaker 1: We got top titty meat. This is amazing, It is amazing.

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Speaker 2: Are you in Atlanta?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing in La? Are you taking just

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Speaker 3: I'm promoting my new judge show. So I'm out here

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Speaker 1: I love this, I love this for you. Can you

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Speaker 1: everybody miss past new court show, Miss Pat Settles. It

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Speaker 1: you grow up watching court shows? Have you been in

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Speaker 2: Answer? Answer what you can without self incriminating. We can

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Speaker 2: What you know about the system. Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Hey we got some villain ass mothers out here. You're

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Speaker 4: That's what happened for me when I you know, and

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Speaker 4: Well, it blew through the whole area all they just

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Speaker 4: If y'all only knew what I went through to get

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Speaker 1: You know what's so great is that I was talking

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Speaker 1: can't necessarily be intimidated by because at one point we

440
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Speaker 1: were the young ones and everyone's just like, what is this?

441
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, what is she known?

442
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: It's just like if we are really being like we

443
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,159
Speaker 1: have to love ourselves and speak our truths, Like why

444
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't we do that with somebody that's twenty years younger,

445
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 1: three years younger.

446
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 4: I learned a lot from him too, Yeah, tell us

447
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 4: about that, I'll be.

448
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 3: Honest with you.

449
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 4: It was almost like God put us together because when

450
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 4: I promoted my very first book, I kind of had

451
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:24,680
Speaker 4: to miss Pat show deal.

452
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 3: But it was like at the very beginning.

453
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:31,199
Speaker 4: And he saw me on a talk show and his

454
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 4: daddy said, you.

455
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 3: Should really read this later book. She's interested. Well, we're

456
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 3: rewinded to two three years later, Lee Daniel.

457
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 4: He hooks us up and this kid studied me. Mind you,

458
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,400
Speaker 4: that was my third writer. A lot of times in Hollywood,

459
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 4: most times you don't get three writers on the same project.

460
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 3: When it don't.

461
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 4: Work, they throw it out at don't But I was

462
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 4: blessed to get three tries. And this kid came in

463
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 4: and he studied me, and he knew every joke I

464
00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 4: ever told.

465
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Speaker 3: He listened every interview. He brought us some shit up

466
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:02,880
Speaker 3: like how you know that?

467
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 2: Wow.

468
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, we pretty much had the show pre cast, and

469
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 4: the daddy and his sister he had already had them.

470
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: Wow.

471
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 4: The only person I picked for the show was a

472
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 4: young even now to the director, because Debbie Allen directed

473
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Speaker 4: the show.

474
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 2: Wow.

475
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 4: He wanted to really push the envelope. That's why my

476
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 4: show left from Fox and went to Hulu. Hulu shot

477
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 4: the pilot and said, hell, no, y'all black folk crazy.

478
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: Well, I love it because it's a sitcom, but y'all

479
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 2: be cursing up a blue streak on it, and I'm like,

480
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 2: why I like that?

481
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Speaker 3: What?

482
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 2: Oh shit? They said all the seven words right, So

483
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 2: I love I love that bit. It's like what you

484
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 2: want to say, right, And we pushed the envelope.

485
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,239
Speaker 4: We do we you know, we did my mama, Uh,

486
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 4: boyfriend molested me. We did black hair, we did abortion,

487
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 4: we did you name it?

488
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Speaker 3: We do it over there.

489
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 4: And that's what I like about being at BET because

490
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 4: they let me be black.

491
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Speaker 2: Oh trust said.

492
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Speaker 1: Again, I love it because you know, it's important not

493
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 1: to dumb down anybody's voice because no one's going to

494
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: respond to that, like if you really want to respect.

495
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 1: And I tell Jordan all the time, like we could

496
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: be funny as the day is long, but if we're

497
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 1: not using our platform for good, then what's the point.

498
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 1: And so what you're doing right now is like not

499
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: just opening the door for other women over forty, it's

500
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 1: like it's making people feel seen and safe and heard,

501
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 1: you know, to have important conversations because for me, the

502
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,719
Speaker 1: most awkward important conversations I had with my mom was

503
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 1: because of an episode of good times or different strokes,

504
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: Like it was always like what does this mean? You know,

505
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: it's also giving language to people who don't have it,

506
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: who say, oh, but this scene is what I meant,

507
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: you know what I.

508
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 3: Mean, and people like I have a gay daughter.

509
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 4: So I was raised in the South, and you know,

510
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 4: if you're raised in the South, and if you know

511
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 4: anything about the South, oh, they just teach you to

512
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 4: hate people that don't follow the room. And so I

513
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 4: grew up thinking if you was gay, something was wrong

514
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 4: with you. And a lot of times we never step

515
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 4: back and take a look at the world until that

516
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 4: world come inside of our house.

517
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Speaker 3: Yep. Well, I don't.

518
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 4: Remember ever seeing a gay person when I was coming

519
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 4: up as a kid, because I didn't really understand it.

520
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 4: But when my daughter came home gay, I had to

521
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 4: choose between do I worry about what she lick on

522
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 4: or do I continue to love her as.

523
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,479
Speaker 3: Do I love her because she's my child?

524
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Speaker 2: Yep.

525
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 3: That was an eye open it for me.

526
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 4: And when we put it in the episode when I

527
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 4: tell you my gay population have damned near triple triple triple,

528
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 4: because in that episode that I've done, I try.

529
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 3: To teach parents, you know, no matter what your child.

530
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 4: Grew up to be, you gotta love them regardless, and

531
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 4: you gotta accept their sexuality the same way they accept

532
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 4: your alcoholism, your undercover whole.

533
00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 3: One, everything a mama do. They tried to keep their kids.

534
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 4: From no One and just well, two weeks ago, I

535
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 4: remember this girl coming up to me.

536
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 3: She said, my mother has never understood me being gay.

537
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 4: She said, I brought her to your show and she

538
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 4: laughed at every fucking gay joke.

539
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: Now she want to talk about me being gay.

540
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 2: Wow.

541
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 3: So that's what I want to do.

542
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 4: I want to open people's minds. Whoever said you know

543
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 4: sucking dick was right? So why are you gonna judge

544
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 4: me for a sucking dck?

545
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: That's true.

546
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna judge you for doing what you do.

547
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 4: All I asked my daughter not to do is use

548
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 4: my civil ware because she's nasty.

549
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, getting back to sucking deck, sometimes it's wrong. You

550
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 1: know what. I thought it'd be better if you put

551
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: sunglasses on when your sucking deck, but it's really just dark.

552
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 3: You can do that with the lights off.

553
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, I still want to see what I'm eating.

554
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: But like, you know, sorry, Jordan, what were you gonna say?

555
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 2: It wasn't about sucking dicks? But I was gonna say,

556
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 2: like you ever put a.

557
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: Dick in your mouth and you're like, this ain't it?

558
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You need a shower giving

559
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: red onion. You know it's given a spring onion. There's

560
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: an onion, there's a there's a savory component that I

561
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: was not expecting here.

562
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say no, okay, but I.

563
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: Wanted to ask you ever had second dick so small

564
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 1: you just pretend that it's big, just to be like,

565
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing this for you, and it's just like, no wonder.

566
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm an actor is the ultimate actor school.

567
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 3: You can't act when you're holding it with two fingers.

568
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 4: I don't give them fun if you viola David Youn

569
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 4: have to say something.

570
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: Really, I feel like I might get the Creative Arts Emmy.

571
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: There should be an NAACP Image Award for that, because

572
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: I have definitely. It's sort of like you know when

573
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: my when my kids spells something wrong, I'm like, good job.

574
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: It's the same thing, right Anyways, Sorry, I went from

575
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 1: dick sucking to my kids. Sorry Jordan, what we were.

576
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: Saying, Hey man, you know they.

577
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: Have to find some sucking dick. But you know the

578
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: TMG really I don't even know what TMJ stands for.

579
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: I just know that my jaw locks a little bit, right.

580
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just don't like when people try

581
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: to choke you out and act like that's cute. That's

582
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: just not my thing. It's like, why do you want

583
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 1: to hurt me?

584
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? I really think you

585
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 3: sucking big wrong. The problem is you're down there too long?

586
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 3: And who's going down on that long to get the

587
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 3: Joe lick? You're supposed to just look at to get

588
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 3: the bills paid and keep going. I'm done?

589
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, But what if I'm paying the bills and I'm

590
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: just doing it out of kindness? I don't know.

591
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this though, please, did y'all know

592
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: that penetration on average, I've read this report. Penetration on

593
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 2: average only last five point four minutes on average. Really, yeah,

594
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: most people don't want it longer than that. Wow, that

595
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 2: stopped all your tracks. That stopped all your tracks at

596
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: that you're just processing that shit?

597
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying think of five minutes, be cause I'm

598
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: actually trying to think of like five minutes in terms

599
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: of songs because I like to play music.

600
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 4: Sure, that's two songs, thank you? At least a song

601
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 4: and a half.

602
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: Are you a producer?

603
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 3: Only on TV?

604
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 2: It's like two Drake songs. That's a bit it and

605
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,959
Speaker 2: it's called the temper Random Mandible ar Joint. That's what

606
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 2: it is.

607
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 1: No, that's too long, that's what.

608
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: They call it.

609
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: Team j oh okay you yeah, you know. I just

610
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: feel like the culture is becoming where we could actually

611
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: ask for things right now and not be shamed. Hopefully.

612
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: So if we can do that, like in an office

613
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: setting or a restaurant, thoughts on the side that was

614
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: never a thing growing up. Can you leave us off?

615
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 2: No?

616
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: This is how it comes. So I feel like if

617
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: we can do that outside of the house, like we

618
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: should be able to do it inside the bedroom. I

619
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: don't know who's listening to this or who needs this.

620
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: If you are asking or telling your partner that you

621
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: would like something different and they're judging you or being

622
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: upset or like I don't want to, then maybe that's

623
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: not your partner. Maybe you should have different conversations around sex.

624
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: That's true, Miss pat Have you ever had to tell

625
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 1: somebody they're not doing it well and they got mad

626
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: at you?

627
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 4: No, I've been mad for thirty one years. I always

628
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 4: tell my husband. He's not doing it well because sometimes

629
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 4: you fall asleep.

630
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: Fall asleep, you'd.

631
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: Be like, remember this, remember when I did it well?

632
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: Use your imagination from nineteen eighty five.

633
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's amazing. I love it.

634
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: Thirty one years I've been married thirteen Jordan, how long

635
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: you've been married?

636
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 2: Sixteen years?

637
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I mean, what are we supposed to know?

638
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: I think it's like a Netflix show. It's just like,

639
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 2: give it nine seasons, it gets better, you know what

640
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like those shows where they're like, you get

641
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: through the first three folks seasons, Okay, it gets good

642
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 2: on season five. But what do you think, ms Pat?

643
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 2: What's your secret?

644
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 4: I mean might just just honestly, I've just never broken

645
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 4: that trust barrier. And I think you know, once you

646
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 4: break the trust barrier, even if you get back together,

647
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 4: it's always gonna be in the back of your head,

648
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 4: so it's never gonna be like it was before.

649
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 3: I mean, respect communication, you know, and it's not easy

650
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 3: being with somebody for that loan.

651
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 4: You gotta you gotta constantly remind yourself you love this person,

652
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 4: or you gotta constantly remind yourself, you know, to do

653
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 4: something to spice it up. You know, I don't really

654
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 4: worry about the spice. I just worry about the honesty

655
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 4: and the respect. And that's what I get, because I mean,

656
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 4: when you're gonna went through a no good piece of

657
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 4: shit like I had before him, Man, you learn to

658
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 4: tell you, hey, this boring guy is alright with me.

659
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 2: Yes, that's my brand. Thank you so much, miss pat

660
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: for saying that, because I'm a boring guy and I

661
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 2: think that should be all right.

662
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Speaker 4: But in a relationship, you do have to learn how

663
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Speaker 4: to sacrifice. I tell you, I thought I would never

664
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Speaker 4: need this, but I went to marriage counselor about two

665
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Speaker 4: three years ago, first season a Miss Past show, and

666
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 4: it was a lot of things I didn't know about

667
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 4: my husband, even though we.

668
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Speaker 3: Had been together.

669
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Speaker 4: That it's a lot of things he didn't know about

670
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 4: me that changed your relationship. Like I like to say

671
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 4: I love you every day because my thing is, you know,

672
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 4: you don't know what that they gonna bring, and you

673
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 4: hope your loved one come back home. So I always

674
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 4: make sure I say I love you so many times

675
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 4: a day. My husband will never say I love it.

676
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 4: He said, you know, I love your pay the damn bills.

677
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 4: But I'm like, no, I don't the bills, don't come

678
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 4: in the mail and say I love you, pat what

679
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 4: eighty dollars do on Georgia power. So he learned that

680
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 4: part about me, and then I learned to respect his space.

681
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 4: I would say, we going here, we get up, and

682
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 4: let's dope. Well, that's not respecting nobody's.

683
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 3: Space, you fucking demanded. So now come to him and say, hey, would.

684
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 4: You like to go to this would be but before

685
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 4: he would get cussed to hell out you god damn motherfuckle.

686
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 3: Let's but he had talked to a man like that.

687
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: I love marriage counseling. I feel like, go if you can,

688
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: even if you think there's nothing wrong with you. Also like,

689
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: don't wait till it's too late.

690
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 4: You know.

691
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Speaker 1: I was talking to my therapist the other day. I

692
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: told this to you already, Jordan. She was like, why

693
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Speaker 1: don't you just say thank you to your husband for

694
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: all the things he does when you see him do it?

695
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, because I was really focused on

696
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: what he wasn't doing, And when I started saying thank you,

697
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: the gratitude actually felt like in my spirit, like I

698
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: was less anxious, less angry, less, disappointed, and I was like,

699
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize how many things you do in

700
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Speaker 1: a day. So thank you, you know. And I feel

701
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: like saying I love you is also my love language

702
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: because we're not promised tomorrow send me off in the world, right.

703
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's what Keith madges. When you can

704
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 4: understand each other and respect their boundaries. That's why you

705
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 4: never see my husband on the red carpet. He's like,

706
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 4: I don't that ain't me. I don't want to do

707
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 4: that shit, right. My husband tired from general motive. He

708
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 4: just want to stay at the house and see by

709
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 4: the dogs and fucking watch next makes on some TV

710
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 4: or some shit.

711
00:32:58,200 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: That sounds good to me.

712
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: At first, it didn't because I was like, well, you know,

713
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 4: he won't go places with me. But then I had

714
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 4: to realize I come home to a good man. I

715
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 4: don't have no issues. I don't have no baby mama.

716
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 4: This man worked for twenty three years at Gentleal Motors.

717
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 4: I ain't never had to pay a bill until now.

718
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Speaker 1: We get questions from the audience about life and adult ting.

719
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Speaker 1: Yes we do, and we're gonna try and answer them.

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Speaker 1: Are you cool with that?

721
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm more than cool with that.

722
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: So first question is my partner is going through a

723
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: tough family loss and hasn't been up for any intimacy.

724
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: It's hard for us because we normally have sex three

725
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: to four times a week. I want to be there

726
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: for her, but I also feel like the intimacy will

727
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: help us both get through this. How do I approach

728
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: her about this without seeming insensitive? What do you think?

729
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 3: I personally think he should go put it in a

730
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 3: sock until.

731
00:33:53,520 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: She get over it. I can't the other match.

732
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 4: I'll even take his ass an Amazon and buy him

733
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 4: a blow up doll. Nobody wants you on top of

734
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 4: them when they stressed out. They're not gonna be into it,

735
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 4: So go play with yourself.

736
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Speaker 3: Does she get us shit together?

737
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

738
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, give her time, maybe a foot massage, like some

739
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 1: other way of physical intimacy without the way I'm bam thinking, man,

740
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: like maybe a massage, maybe you know, just something else.

741
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, he needs to do something to get her in

742
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 4: the mood, you know, center for a massage, like you said,

743
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:34,760
Speaker 4: take her to get her hair fixed.

744
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 3: I mean, but when it's time she had come around.

745
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but right now, put your penis in your pocketbook.

746
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, or just have her sit on your face just kidding.

747
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 2: Put your penis in your pocketbook where it's the lip.

748
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 2: I love that.

749
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: That is the name of this episode.

750
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Speaker 2: All right. Question number two, how do you find a

751
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: decent job with a criminal history? Is entrepreneurship the only

752
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 2: way to go? How do I maneuver through a job

753
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: market that is not felling friendly and still keep my

754
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 2: head up?

755
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 3: Well me being a convicted fella myself.

756
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 4: If it's a new felon, it's really hard and that's

757
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 4: why you see most convicted felaon turn to entrepreneurship. But

758
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 4: you're just gonna have to be honest on the application.

759
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 4: I mean, be honest in the interview. And I know

760
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 4: one thing.

761
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 3: If the felon is seven years old, you don't have.

762
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 4: To listen because it won't come up unless you're trying

763
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 4: to be a police soft for a firefighter.

764
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 3: I think, okay, I think it's seventy teen years old.

765
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Speaker 4: I would never fill out an application tell somebody I'm

766
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 4: a convicted fela because it's too old and you don't

767
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 4: supposed to be pulling it back too far. I think

768
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 4: seven years as as far as you can go. But

769
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 4: whatever state you live in you should check and you know,

770
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 4: if it's a new felon, of course it's gonna come

771
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 4: up right, But you just gotta stay positive because when

772
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 4: it's for you, it's for you.

773
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 3: Go on the interview and just sell yourself. Hey, I'm human.

774
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 3: Everybody makes mistakes.

775
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 4: You got some shit on your background too, but it

776
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,479
Speaker 4: just didn't make it on your working Okay, Yeah, be.

777
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 2: Honest, and you could have done something that's it's like

778
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 2: illegal in one state but legal in another.

779
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 4: You know, when people pull in your criminal background in history,

780
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 4: it's fateral, gotcha?

781
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, can you point blank? Also, I think

782
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: on an emotional level, and you know that you're not

783
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 1: that person you know, and people will say or think

784
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,280
Speaker 1: things about you. I think it's good to prepare yourself

785
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: for whatever questions might come your way, whatever attitude and

786
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: judgment might come your way, and do a mock interview

787
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: with a person who would ask you those things so

788
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: you're not caught off guard, so you hear them and

789
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: you know how to respond. You know, for me, when

790
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: people catch me off guard, you know, I would have

791
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: like a shaky voice and really try to get my

792
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: thoughts together. But if I think about what could happen

793
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: before I go into that room. I just feel more

794
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: on my voice, more prepared.

795
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 2: You know.

796
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with being a little vulnerable, a

797
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: little emotional, because I do think people will respond to

798
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 1: that too and the truth. Like you said, if you

799
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,439
Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to hide, then it's like you can't

800
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: hurt me or come for me. So yeah, I say,

801
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: do that too.

802
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:08,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much.

803
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, this are some.

804
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: Good ass answers.

805
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, very good answers.

806
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: Next question, I am worried that when I die and

807
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 1: my adult children come to my house to clear shit out,

808
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: they're gonna find my vibrator collection and be traumatized. What's

809
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: the girl to do? Ooh baby, ooh baby damn.

810
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 4: What I say is put your deal dose in your wheel,

811
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 4: say if you find it, it's yours, and label them

812
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 4: little Charlie go to meet me.

813
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 2: Where does the rabbit go?

814
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 4: Put the kids' names on it. You want to pass

815
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 4: the deal those down to her?

816
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 3: I say, I want to. I want to leave you

817
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:57,760
Speaker 3: a good man. What a great idea.

818
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: I'm that is a new level of organization that I

819
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: had never thought of. That maybe I'll leave it with

820
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: some alcohol wipes next to it, just to be like,

821
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:10,479
Speaker 1: this is what your mom's uterus did. Anyways, I don't

822
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: even know where you know. Usually I'm never stumped. But

823
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: that was a good answer.

824
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: That's a good ass answer. I like that answer. I mean, yeah,

825
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 2: now you know this much about me, you know what

826
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

827
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's almost full circle to how we started the

828
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: podcast episode. Because yeah, we were talking about being honest

829
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: with your kids. They could take it because we're just people, right. Yeah,

830
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: So we ask all our guests, what is one thing

831
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: you want to do for yourself this year that you

832
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: haven't had a chance to do, the most adult thing,

833
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: And it could be anything very small, very big, even

834
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: medium sized.

835
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 2: Some people say travel.

836
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: Some people don't.

837
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,240
Speaker 3: Don't give her answers.

838
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to help her alone. I'm giving her

839
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: a pro.

840
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 3: Are y'all talking about me what I want to do?

841
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, look at the side, looking off at the distance.

842
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: She got a list, She got a list. You don't

843
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 1: know where to start.

844
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 4: Shit, you know, I was just telling somebody I'm always

845
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 4: taking family vacation because I'm such a family person, because

846
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 4: I grew up without a family, So I like a

847
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 4: lot of family around me, which is my kids and

848
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 4: my grandkids. I really would like to take a vacation

849
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 4: with just me and my husband.

850
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, a whole seven eight days just us.

851
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, no phone. What are we talking? Like a cruise

852
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: or like a just a.

853
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 4: I'm talking about like just flying somewhere somewhere is zotic nice?

854
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 3: I just want to go.

855
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 4: Somewhere with just me and him to connect. Yes, just

856
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 4: to connects. That's what I want to do.

857
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: I love that for you. Can I come? I'm just kidding.

858
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for sharing your gifts and your

859
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: challenge with us and the world.

860
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 2: Thank you so very much.

861
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: I know I just love her so much. I mean,

862
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: you guys, if you want to see her do some

863
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,240
Speaker 1: amazing stand up. She's got some stuff on Netflix, the Degenerates.

864
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: She's got a book called The Rabbit because that was

865
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: like her nickname while she was a drug dealer. What

866
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: you know, She's got an hour long special called Miss Pat.

867
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 1: Y'all want to hear something crazy? She got podcasts called

868
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: The pat Down with Miss Pat. Like she's so great.

869
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: She's on tour you know next year, you know, the

870
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: tours called Your Girl Done made it? Like, we just

871
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 1: love to see Big Titty Bitches when and she's got

872
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,919
Speaker 1: a new court show coming out on BT, Miss Pat

873
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Speaker 1: Settles It. Yeah, and I know we have some international listeners,

874
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: and I feel really bad for y'all that can't like

875
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 1: get a Hulu or BT. But you know you can

876
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: listen to her podcast because you know, podcast is like

877
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: Peanua pool, it's everywhere, so true.

878
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: Also, if you get a VPN sometimes you can watch

879
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 2: shows internationally. And you know, I mean, if you have

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Speaker 2: something that needs limited liability negotiation, maybe you could go

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Speaker 2: on to Miss Patch show. It could all happen. She

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00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: has quite the constellation of projects like somebody else I know.

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Speaker 2: And it's just really cool because she's down to earth. Yes,

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00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:19,479
Speaker 2: you get that real Atlanta pronounced Alanta feel from her,

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Speaker 2: and I appreciated that. You know, she's like just taking

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 1: It's a fun little place where it's like you're down

888
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,720
Speaker 1: to earth but like your head's still in the sky

889
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 1: like dreaming, you know what I mean. And so that's

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Speaker 1: such a beautiful place to live in. Also, just to

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Speaker 1: know that your voice matters, because I have a lot

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Speaker 1: of friends in their late forties early fifties who are

893
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: just like who wants to hear from me? Who wants

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00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: to hear what I'm doing. It's just like a lot

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Speaker 1: of people. A lot of people, by the way, a

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00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: lot of people are like you, yeah, and they would

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00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: love to hear from you.

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Speaker 2: Sis.

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Speaker 1: So it's just like whoever's listening to this podcast. Yeah,

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00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: just know that your voice matters. Like if you want

901
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: to say something or do someone, just fucking do it.

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00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: Please think as a fuck you know what I mean?

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00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, better out than in, like a cosmic fart, That's

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Speaker 2: what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: Or yes, belly buttons you know what?

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Speaker 2: You know what? Yes, that's in and out?

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00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: No, I say out.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you body shame me now for my

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00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: belly button. I'm over here, like little belly button you

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00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: like fucking whatever.

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00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: I truly have never heard anyone say it looked like

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Speaker 1: two dicks. So I was taken a black it was.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: It was two dicks, two dicks, two dicks at once.

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Speaker 1: But your dad is a guynecologist, is it?

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Speaker 2: What does that have to do with anything?

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Speaker 1: Well, he obviously has some saying in the matter. No,

918
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Speaker 1: like is it just like cleaner to have an outie?

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Speaker 2: First of all, he would always say, it's gonna go

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Speaker 2: back in. It's gonna go back in. When the kids

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Speaker 2: stopped laughing at you. It went back in. Finally when

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Speaker 2: I learned about crunches in the seventh grade, so I

923
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Speaker 2: did like a thousand crunches, and it was like, go

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Speaker 2: in in in more. And finally I was like.

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Speaker 1: This is so sad. This reminds me of when jan

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Speaker 1: put lemon juice on her freckles. So they go away,

927
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Speaker 1: and I have freckles, and I'm just like, do they

928
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Speaker 1: have to go away?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: We love them. And now people are putting freckles on

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Speaker 1: their face.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Now people are asking me if my freckles are real,

934
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, they're fake. And so's the backfat

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Speaker 1: move on.

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Speaker 2: You're right.

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00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: So all I'm saying is the thing that you are

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Speaker 1: always made fun of is the thing that will be

939
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Speaker 1: celebrated in life.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, noted me and my belly button

941
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Speaker 2: like that. Thank you, Michelle.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay, I feel like I've done it. Yeah,

943
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: I need to take off to these Michael core Target glasses.

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Speaker 1: I have my readers. Yes, So you guys, thanks for listening,

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Speaker 1: and bye bye.

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Speaker 2: This has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 1: Our senior producer is g Holley.

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Speaker 2: Our associate producer is Christina Chambers.

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Speaker 1: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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Speaker 2: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

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Speaker 1: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

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Speaker 2: Theme song in live show DJing is by DJ Don will.

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Speaker 1: Our live show producer is Marian Ways.

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Speaker 2: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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Speaker 1: Photography by Heis vander Most.

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Speaker 2: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstar and Daniel Kramer.

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Speaker 1: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod.

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Speaker 2: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 4: Mmm