1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:00,720 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. 2 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 2: This is from Dasia on Steve Harvey FM. Daja says, 3 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he 4 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 2: was too emotionally immature for a serious relationship. But the 5 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 2: way he handled the breakup completely threw me off. He 6 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,319 Speaker 2: said he didn't want it to end, but that he 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 2: respected my decision and he'd always care about me. No guilt, trip, 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 2: no drama, just kindness and grace. It was a most 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 2: mature reaction I've ever gotten from anyone. Now I can't 10 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 2: stop wondering if I was wrong about him, or is 11 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: this just breakup guilt playing tricks on me. 12 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what breakup guilt is, but I 13 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 3: do know this though. You know, maybe you had the 14 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: wrong expectations. You know, sometimes you have maybe your partner 15 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 3: don't know exactly what you. 16 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: Want, okay, and not able to give it to you. 17 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,639 Speaker 3: So then now all of a sudden, but you may 18 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 3: have realized, you know, but there's a lot of people 19 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 3: give up with good people. Yeah, people do it all 20 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 3: the time. They just give up good people. And you 21 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 3: may have done that. 22 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:06,479 Speaker 1: Just now. 23 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: Now you finna be by yourself, you know, And and 24 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 3: that and that man with them problems that you think 25 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:17,199 Speaker 3: is emostly immature. Gonna go find somebody else that's gonna 26 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 3: think he's just right, and then you're gonna be looking 27 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:20,919 Speaker 3: crazy again. 28 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 1: So there you have it. That's your answer. 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 3: Could be another great decision you made. Ain't the last 30 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 3: time you've been by yourself. 31 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: Well, she's thinking about did she do the wrong thing or. 32 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 3: Messed it up? 33 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: You don't think broke up the guy? 34 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what it is. Yes, she's thinking she did 35 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 3: the wrong thing. So now what you want me to do? 36 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 3: It's the most maturest thing you do. Maybe he was 37 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 3: waiting on the breakup to act mature. Maybe he was 38 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: acting immature, so you could break up. We don't know. 39 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: We don't, but we do know she broke up with him, 40 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: and she's having that. We know how to make you 41 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: leave us? Hello? 42 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 3: Hello? 43 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: Oh good? Is that a bad time? Hello? Really? I 44 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: don't know about this response to guys. 45 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 2: You guys are too emotionally immature to handle this, this one. 46 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: I see. We're going to move on. 47 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: Terry on Steve HARVEYFM says, it seems like it seems 48 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: that after a month of watching YouTube videos and television, 49 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 2: my nineteen year old son has decided that one year 50 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: of college is enough and that his future lies in 51 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: house flipping. He's calling it, quote, easy money, and is 52 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 2: now suggesting that I take the money I was going 53 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 2: to use for his tuition and instead give it to 54 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: him now. So huh, yeah, instead give it to him 55 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: now so he can go in with a friend and 56 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: finance their first fixer upper project that he can flip 57 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 2: and be on their way to millions. I know it's 58 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: not that easy, and I don't want to ever crush 59 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: someone's dreams, but those dreams have to have some basis 60 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: in reality. 61 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: What should I do? 62 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants to leave college and start flipping houses 63 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 2: and make millions. 64 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: Well, you know, whip out. 65 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 3: Yep. But the part that scares me is he says 66 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 3: easy money. Right, that's the part that threw you easy money, brod. 67 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 3: There's no such thing. All the ease, all the casts 68 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 3: I know that made some easy money, they imprison everlast, 69 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 3: if you don't want to go to college, I understand 70 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 3: that if you want to start flipping houses, I got that. 71 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: But let me ask you just a basic question. 72 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: To flip the house, you got to own the house. 73 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: To own the house, you got to buy the house 74 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 3: now when you drop out of college. I don't knowing 75 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 3: where you got the down payment on your first house from. 76 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 3: I don't know you got it through some Now let 77 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 3: me just show you how this ain't easy. Okay, flipping 78 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 3: houses means plural? 79 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: How's this? How long is it going to. 80 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: Take you to flip the first one? 81 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: But I need you to flip out my house for gus? 82 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: You flipping? That's it, thank you. 83 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 3: Son's no easy money. 84 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: Go ahead. He thinks he wants to be on his 85 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: way to millions. 86 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.