1 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: And I invited you here. I thought, I made myself 2 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: perfectly clear. When you're a guest to my home, you 3 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: gotta come to me empty. And I said, no, guests, 4 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff, 5 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: So how do you dare to surbey me? 6 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 2: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm richer winegar Ellis 7 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 2: is moving around in the studio, and I thought, oh, 8 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: it's something going on. Everything's fine. Everything's fine, and that's fine. 9 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 2: That's how podcasting works. I observe things and then I 10 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: comment on them, and everybody benefits from me making mistakes. 11 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:15,559 Speaker 2: So we're here, we're in the studio. What's going on? 12 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 3: Trying to find something to clean my glass? 13 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 2: Our guest has very dirty glasses. Apparently, do you know 14 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 2: what I have a I have a lens wipe. I 15 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: would love you one of those. 16 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 3: Ye I am a little OCD about dirty glasses. And 17 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 3: I probably left my lens wipe in the car. Oh 18 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,559 Speaker 3: you have a fresh one. Yeah, Oh yeah. 19 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 2: I'm so prepared. 20 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 3: Nice you don't even have glasses on you. 21 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 2: No, but you have to be prepared for everything. 22 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 3: Your Lord, you should have been my mother. 23 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 2: There's still time the guest. I'm you know, I'm kind 24 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 2: of proving myself to just be very useful today already. 25 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, very useful. 26 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: So now we've got the guests, we'll have clean glasses. 27 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: That's to be very exciting for everybody. What's going on 28 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: in my life? Ah, you know, I'm just kind of 29 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 2: finally admitting to myself that it's time to change the 30 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 2: battery on the garage door opener. The rumors have been 31 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,959 Speaker 2: kind of circulating, will he change the battery on the 32 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 2: garage door opener? And I'm going to do it after 33 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 2: about ten to eleven months of it barely working, it 34 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 2: might be time. So there's that saw a car on 35 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 2: fire on the freeway. That was last night. But if 36 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: somebody wants to get that out to the proper authorities, 37 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: just in case they haven't taken care of it yet. 38 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: That car is on fire, it could explode at any moment. Again, 39 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 2: this was about fourteen hours ago, so who knows. And 40 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 2: so I think we've i mean, think of all the 41 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: territory we've already covered. I've thought Ellis was doing something. 42 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 2: I've offered a lens wipe to the guest and garage 43 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 2: door opener. Cars exploding what could happen next? I think 44 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: we should get into the podcast. I love today's guest. 45 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: She's absolutely fantastic. It's Amy Landeck Or. Amy. Hi, welcome 46 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: to the podcast. Your glasses look great now. 47 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 3: I also have a cop Do you have a lozenge? 48 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: You're pushing it? We have parts and a cigarette. 49 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,119 Speaker 3: Interesting. I wanted to tell you our car blew up? 50 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 3: What I had a Chevy Volts in the driveway. This 51 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 3: is crazy. So I we are going to a Dodgers game. Okay, 52 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 3: Bradley Whitford with Bradley Whitford is my husband, right, you know, 53 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 3: look him up. 54 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 2: Don't look up Bradley. But Bradley reach out. 55 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 3: So he was at Ralph's getting some last minute something 56 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 3: milk or something. I'm at home and I am getting ready. 57 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 3: He's just gonna swing by pick me up and we're 58 00:03:58,960 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 3: going to go to the game. 59 00:03:59,600 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 2: Sure. 60 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 3: So I let the dog out to take a pee 61 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 3: before we leave, and I noticed that flames are coming 62 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 3: out of the child ball and I like, we did 63 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 3: not park in the garage. We never do. The garage 64 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 3: is just where we put a bunch of junk, and 65 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 3: so it's outside and we have all these trees very 66 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: close that would link right to our house if this 67 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 3: keeps going. And I stupidly just first call him like 68 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 3: and he's like, well, no, no, that's not true. The 69 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 3: stupidest thing I did first was I went and I 70 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 3: took I was trying to find water, and I took 71 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: like a picture of water, and I threw it at 72 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 3: the flames, which of course made it worse. You're not 73 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 3: supposed to do that. And then I facetimed him and 74 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 3: he's in line at the Ralphs and I'm like, the 75 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 3: car's on fire, and he sort of froze it, and 76 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 3: the people behind him are like, call nine one one, 77 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 3: call nine one one. I'm like right, So I called 78 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 3: nine one one and they're like, just don't throw water, right, 79 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 3: I've already I've already done that, and it's in the 80 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 3: engine now and the whole thing's going, and the fire 81 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 3: truck came like within less than five minutes. That's it 82 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 3: was very efficient. I don't think they're that busy in Pasadena, 83 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 3: that's where I lived, right, And it was funny because 84 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 3: they said they were wherever they came from. They were 85 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 3: sort of laxadaisical as they pulled up and then they 86 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: saw what was happening, and they jumped out of the 87 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 3: car and ran down the driveway. They're like, it's weird. 88 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 3: We couldn't see the smoke from when we were driving in, 89 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 3: so we didn't think it would be this bad. And 90 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 3: then they spent an hour putting it out. But anyway, 91 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 3: if I had not taken the dog out back, if 92 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 3: I had taken the dog out front, I would not 93 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 3: have seen that. We would have gone to the game, 94 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: and our house would have burned down with our pits inside. 95 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 3: It could have been like, really bad. 96 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 2: You have so many people to think the dog, yes, 97 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: those nosy shoppers yes. And then lastly the fire always, 98 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: lastly the fire. Lastly, how do they put it out? 99 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 3: They literally just well they use water, but they have 100 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 3: a power host that is so strong, and they sit 101 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 3: there for you know, half an hour till it's out 102 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 3: out right right. 103 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 2: So and then what was there like a giant scorch 104 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 2: spot on the driveway. 105 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 3: Yes, oh, in a car in the car was completely like, 106 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 3: you know, not the car, It didn't. The great thing 107 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 3: was there was a good firewall in the car, so 108 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 3: the front burned, but it never caused the back to burn. 109 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 3: The back did not, but the front of the car 110 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 3: was like ash on the Oh it was insane. 111 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 2: What caused the fire? 112 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:40,559 Speaker 3: These were early early Vaults. Sometimes the battery would catch 113 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 3: fire when you were charging. 114 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: That is not great to hear. No, I don't love 115 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 2: now I know electric car owner. 116 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 3: No, I know. Well we were like, we're big electric 117 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 3: car owners and Bradley's like, you know, huge on the environment. 118 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 3: We still kept the second Vault. We have another VOWS 119 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 3: because it's a later, later model. 120 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 2: Oh okay, and then so you just called uh or 121 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 2: I assume the fire department kind of took care of 122 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 2: getting rid of the car. 123 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't. You know. It's funny. No, 124 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 3: you have to call it toet service. Still you have 125 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: to make another Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to 126 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: get towed out. No, they're not going to do anything 127 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 3: like that for you. 128 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 129 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: I guess I've never seen a fire trucks towing a car. 130 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't got to toe you. They just got 131 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 3: to put out the fire. They don't like move, they 132 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: don't like take down the building after they fire out. 133 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 2: That's something they should consider. That could be a new 134 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: element of the business. 135 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it could be something they charged. 136 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: For right, h yeah, this could be a new fund, 137 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 2: you know, a new source of funds. 138 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 3: For the fire we contract your new building. 139 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great. I feel like a lot of firefighters 140 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: kind of like could cross over into that. 141 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 3: Why are firefighters always cute? 142 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: They're always no, I mean, like unbelievably attract like. 143 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 3: Legit, Like my husband doesn't even mind when I'm just like, honey, like, 144 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 3: what is going on? 145 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: I don't understand. Are they like scouting malls like model agencies? 146 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 3: You know, maybe they're going to Abercrombie and Fall and 147 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 3: they're just getting them people work there, the people and 148 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: they're a little bit older. Have you ever thought about 149 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 3: being a firefighter? 150 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 2: Right, it's like the military going into high schools to 151 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 2: recruit people. The fire department goes to Abercrombie. That kind 152 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 2: of makes sense. And then they always had like the 153 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: uniform is always good looking, even like the blue shirt 154 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 2: they wear. 155 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 3: Oh it's I don't know, it's very strange. 156 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then of course they're like kind of doing 157 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 2: just this wonderful service. 158 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:26,119 Speaker 3: I know. So then it's like a romanticized hole irresistible 159 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 3: worship thing. Yeah, are they. 160 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 2: Still going down the pole? Do we know if they 161 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 2: still have the poles. 162 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: I'm sorry this took a turn. Oh dear, are they 163 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 3: going down the poles? I'm just going to leave that. 164 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we should. The other thing about the 165 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 2: fire department that I find interesting, a little darker or 166 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 2: a little uh more dramatic, is that being able to 167 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 2: leave a baby there. 168 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 3: What do you mean? 169 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: Are you familiar with this? 170 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: Leave babies? 171 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: Apparently you can surrender a baby at the fire department. 172 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 3: You're like that, the fire leaves baby fire like this, 173 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 3: you can't trust they save the baby and then they 174 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 3: just put the baby on the ground and go. Somebody's 175 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 3: got to take care like my car, the car and 176 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 3: the baby. The baby surrendered to a fire department. 177 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, how did that all come into being? 178 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: Well, when I put that law into place, I have 179 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 3: no idea. 180 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 2: It's a very interesting. 181 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: No idea, but it's a really well maybe also because 182 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 3: you know the other thing fire departments always do is 183 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 3: they go grocery shopping and they cook. 184 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 2: Did you Oh, that's a big. 185 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 3: Part of it, because they stay for a couple of 186 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: days and they make their own meals. So there's always 187 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 3: like really cute fire guys in the grocery store too, 188 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 3: so they they're nurturing, they can cook and take care 189 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 3: of the baby. 190 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 2: I guess, how is this not like a dating app? 191 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 2: This would be like the rye like ry about they're 192 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 2: exclusively just people at the fire department. 193 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 3: I agree, you could call it like you know, hot 194 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 3: stuff poles. 195 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 2: Every every person on this would be a catch, yes, 196 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 2: or at least like as a like a matchmaker that 197 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:04,559 Speaker 2: could charge a lot of money and then just kind 198 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 2: of go over the. 199 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 3: Plus, he sleeps at the place a couple of nights weeks, 200 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 3: so you'd always get a little downtime, right, you know, 201 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:13,599 Speaker 3: this is like an ideal man, it is an ideal situation. 202 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 2: Wow, every fire person should uh, I think that there. 203 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 2: That should be the first thing on you were dating 204 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: app profile. At least it's like I work for the 205 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 2: fire department. Absolutely, I can cook. 206 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 3: I can cook, and people give me their babies. They 207 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 3: trust me with their babies. 208 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: Ready to be a parent? 209 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 3: Yes? Ready, ready, Wow, that's really I'm left handed. So 210 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 3: I'm kind of like debating. He goes, and this mic 211 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 3: is sort of like a little bit in my. 212 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 2: We kind of set these traps for the guests, just 213 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 2: keep them on. 214 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 3: Their fisting so I'm like, spend drift on the right, 215 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: coffee on. 216 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 2: The Have you struggled as a left handed person your 217 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 2: whole life? 218 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 3: I mean, have I struggled? Are a real pain? Seemed 219 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 3: like the biggest people swear on this Oh yeah, okay. 220 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 2: This is the the crasses podcast in the Oh. 221 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 3: Scissors are a real pain in the ass. That's my 222 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 3: big swing. 223 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 2: Curse word X rating. 224 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why X rated. They always were like, that's 225 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 3: the one place where I really knew the world was 226 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 3: not like that. I And then when, of course, when 227 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 3: I found out at some point in my life that 228 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 3: like they used to like, you know, think we were 229 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 3: crazy people. Right, it was kind of like burn us 230 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 3: at the stake or something, right, and then they would 231 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 3: like tie your hand so you couldn't use it, so 232 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 3: you would be forced to learn how to use your 233 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 3: right hand. 234 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 2: Creasy. 235 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 3: But then I kind of felt like it was something 236 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 3: kind of cool and I don't know, like I'm different, 237 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 3: of course, It's like it's different than all you regular 238 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 3: right handed people. I have special qualities. 239 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: I wonder how many, uh like a percentage of people 240 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: in the world is who are that's not. 241 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 3: That much Like it's actually like a pretty rare variant. 242 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it must be very small. I mean, my mom's 243 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 2: left handed. I don't think anyone else in our family 244 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: or her family is left handed, and your mother, yes, Just. 245 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 3: So that's why I feel so maternal towards it. Left handed. 246 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: You've been nurturing this entire episode. So it's really scissors. 247 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 2: But why because they they make left handed scissors. 248 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you have to go by Yeah, it's almost 249 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 3: like a gag no, right. 250 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 2: Like a break. 251 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 3: You have to go get that. But in school, there 252 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: weren't left handed scissors. 253 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 2: And so do you just have to ask? 254 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 3: You're literally like no, it hurts your You're literally like 255 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 3: shoving your hand and it hurts to cut. 256 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 2: And how is it that differently shaped? 257 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 3: I don't even because there's like the little the little oh. 258 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 2: You're kind of almost have to flip it over exactly. 259 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 3: And you know what, I don't know if I ever 260 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 3: tried that. Oh. 261 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 2: Interesting, So this is kind of your fault. 262 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, if i'd only given it a little bit more 263 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 3: mcguiver effort, I could have figured it out all those 264 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: years ago. Other than that, it's like, although it's still 265 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 3: a thing when people go are you left handed? Like 266 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 3: my husband. Every time I say it, it's like, are 267 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 3: you left handed? I'm like, honey, you know I'm left handed, 268 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 3: but he's like wow, like and my uncle's left hand. 269 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 3: Like left handed people know left handed people right, But 270 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 3: it's like yeah, and what does it mean? 271 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: And I'm trying to there aren't that many other I guess, 272 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 2: like if you were shifting a. 273 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 3: Car, there's ambidextress, right, So I do there is some 274 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 3: What often happens with left handed people is they adapt 275 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 3: and some things they do well with their right hand right. So, 276 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:22,959 Speaker 3: like I can't remember because I haven't really been very 277 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 3: athletic lately, but I do like yoga, you can use 278 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 3: both hands. But like I remember, like baseball softball, I 279 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 3: could kind of hit on either side right. So there's 280 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 3: some people too that are like hardcore left And I 281 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 3: think I have a little bit of ambidextress commit well, 282 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 3: or I just naturally have more flexibility. 283 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 2: Now I'm trying to like imagine things I do all 284 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 2: the time only with my right hand hold the. 285 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 3: Whole world's made. Well, that's not true because if you're 286 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 3: in Europe, you're going to have the stick on the 287 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 3: other side. 288 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 2: Oh right, that is a nightmare. 289 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 3: I have a funny story about this. Okay, So I 290 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 3: was I was asked to do this movie called Hunter's 291 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 3: Prayer that shot in England many I don't know, maybe 292 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 3: ten years ago. And I they always ask you, you know, 293 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 3: like on your special skills, like do you drive a car? 294 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 2: Right? 295 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,719 Speaker 3: Of course I do drive a car. And I was 296 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 3: playing this like very badass corrupt police FBI. I think 297 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 3: I was FBI. And I'm supposed to be, you know, 298 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 3: very fascile with a stick. 299 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 2: Theme today. 300 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 3: So I don't even know how to drive stick, let 301 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: alone being fascial with it, right, And they so they 302 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 3: shoot a scene before I get there with my stunt 303 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 3: double and it establishes this particular type of car that 304 00:14:55,920 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: only comes in a stick. So they're like, I'm like, 305 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 3: I won't be you know, I can't. I can't. I 306 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 3: can't drive it on camera. And they want this character 307 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 3: to be able to get in the car, slam the 308 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 3: door and pull away, right, So like we're going to 309 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 3: get you driving lessons. 310 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 311 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 3: So and I had to drive on the wrong other 312 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 3: side of the streets. I'm trying to learn stick and 313 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 3: be on the other side, and I was. It was 314 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 3: so really cute though it was really fun. I was 315 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: staying in Harrogate, which is very like very northern in 316 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 3: this cute sweet you know older like you know, driving 317 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 3: teacher came. Then we would you know, toodle around the 318 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 3: town and I felt somewhat able. But anyone who drives 319 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 3: a stick knows that like the actual like the smoothness 320 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 3: takes a lot of it. 321 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: It takes a lot. 322 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 3: You can't like, you can't like fake that. 323 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 2: No shift, and it takes a long time just to 324 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 2: like get into like a even being bumpy at. 325 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 3: Driving exactly like you know I mean, And so we 326 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 3: wasted all this money and time and then you know, 327 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 3: we get on camera and every time I shift, the 328 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 3: car jerks, which does not look like a badass FBI 329 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 3: woman in you know, in front of a big castle. 330 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 3: And so they had to like use the I'm like, 331 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 3: they had to redo the thing and use the stunt double. 332 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, we should have just done it, We 333 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 3: should have just done that anyway, Yeah, that. 334 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: Feels like something that's just change the shot. Right. You 335 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 2: can't count on somebody to be able to drive stick, 336 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 2: like most movies don't count on the actor to drive 337 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: the car at all. 338 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 3: Exactly. 339 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 2: So what are we doing? 340 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. And I was like very happy that 341 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 3: this is also making me think of another stunt double 342 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 3: story that will blow your mind. But I was on 343 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 3: a show that shall remain unnamed, and they did not 344 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 3: tell me until I got there on the day that 345 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 3: they wanted me to ride a horse in the scene 346 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 3: to a mark holding a antique rifle that costs like 347 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 3: fifty pounds. And I was like, I got into kind 348 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 3: of an argument with the director, and when the show 349 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 3: runner found out, he was like horrified and it was 350 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 3: apologizing to me, but I'm like, this is after I mean, 351 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 3: this is oh my god, this is like are you kidding? 352 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 2: And these are two things that separately are dangerous horse 353 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 2: and holding a gun exactly. 354 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: And I hadn't been shown properly how to shoot the gun, 355 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 3: and I hadn't been asked if I knew how to 356 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 3: ride a horse, and she goes, well, it was in 357 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 3: the scene. And it wasn't in the scene. By the way, 358 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 3: is that it didn't say anything about me shooting the 359 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 3: shotgun that was twenty you know, really old and heavy. 360 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 3: You really also want to look like you know what 361 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 3: you're doing, yes, And then The other was that we 362 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 3: were by raging river and in the scene it says 363 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 3: you just get on the horse, Like at the end 364 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 3: of the scene, I can get on a horse. Yeah, 365 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 3: I love horses, But that is not the same as 366 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 3: asking me. And they should have even checked if I 367 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 3: knew how to do that. 368 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 2: Of course, I think that that helps everybody. 369 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 3: Ultimately, Yes, it's like, do you feel comfortable mounting a horse? Plus, God, 370 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 3: we're just really getting into some Plus they did not 371 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 3: tell me that when I'm mounting the horse, there's gonna 372 00:17:55,560 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 3: be a girl in front of me holding a baby. 373 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 2: This is the crazy Machine where just several people are killed. 374 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I was like, what are we doing? 375 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 3: And anyway, it turns out and I knew we had 376 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 3: stunt doubles. No one told the director that we had 377 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 3: stunt doubles there to do. 378 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: All are they doing on a smoke break? 379 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 1: Oh? 380 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 3: Here's what it was. There was like a group of us. 381 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 3: We were all like nuns with guns. 382 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I love whatever this is. I wish you 383 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:27,199 Speaker 2: would know. 384 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 3: I know, I know it all got cut anyway, so 385 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 3: you'll never see it. But the background and the stunt 386 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 3: doubles looked exactly the same, so unless someone told her 387 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 3: we have these people available for you. But it was 388 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 3: a very like chaotic environment and in a chaotic set, 389 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 3: and so she never knew, and I think that was 390 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 3: and the whole day she never knew. And we ended 391 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 3: up just changing the blocking of the thing because I said, 392 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 3: there's no way that I'm doing this on a horse, 393 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 3: and then the horse person and the gun person thanked 394 00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 3: me because you know, there were all these young actors 395 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 3: on this show that would never say no, right. 396 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like, well, I have to do this. 397 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 2: I don't want to. 398 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 3: Get exactly And I was in a scene with a 399 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 3: bunch of like local hires and people who are so 400 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 3: like afraid to say they didn't know how to ride 401 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 3: a horse either, and so I'm like the old lady 402 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 3: who's like, no, good for him, I don't care. I 403 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 3: don't want to die today. 404 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 2: Well for that to be happening post rust, it's especially crazy. 405 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 3: It was even weird because there was like an article 406 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 3: that day about how he Alec Baldwin had like fought 407 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,199 Speaker 3: to ride the horse on camera and the horse trainers 408 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 3: were like, you're not a good enough rider to do that. 409 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 3: That's unsafe. So it was actually in the trial that 410 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 3: he was pushing. 411 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 2: That a little bit, right. 412 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it was a very strange experience. I've 413 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: had more than a few. But but yeah, anyway. 414 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 2: And nuns with guns, nouns with guns, that feels like 415 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:50,640 Speaker 2: it should very at least be a calendar series TV. 416 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 3: There's something that it would be fun if it was drag. Oh, 417 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 3: that's great, I could get like really sexual totally. 418 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 2: I also, wow, I I just have so many questions 419 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 2: about that. That's fascinating. It feels like you're just attracting 420 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 2: danger wherever you go. I'd be true, it's just a catastrophe, 421 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: that's true. 422 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 3: The cars are blowing up. Yeah, I'm falling off horses. 423 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: I tried to. I actually could drive a stick pretty 424 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 2: well about in England. Rented a car and nearly didn't 425 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 2: make it out of the parking garage. It was humiliating 426 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 2: because why because I was used to driving with my 427 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 2: right hand circle right and then. 428 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 3: You'll be left right, nightmare. There you have it. 429 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 2: And then I did run into a curb going about 430 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 2: fifty miles an hour, So that's not fun. 431 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 3: No, and right, that was the other problem. It's like 432 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 3: it's not just that I'm doing the stick. I'm doing 433 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 3: it on the wrong side of the car. 434 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 2: I can't believe you're alive to be here on the podcast. 435 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 2: It's America. It is America so many different ways. 436 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 3: It's a miracle. 437 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 2: Well, I feel like there's something else that's not a miracle, 438 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 2: something that's a little bit more troublesome. I was excited 439 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 2: to have you here on the podcast today, Amy. I 440 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 2: thought Amy is going to come by. I'm sure she'll 441 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:57,959 Speaker 2: have some story about a car being on fire. We'll 442 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,680 Speaker 2: get into that and then I'll I'll move on. 443 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 3: We'll have your absurd request. 444 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 2: Well, I was a little upset when you showed up 445 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: to my podcast. I said, no gifts, holding. 446 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 3: No one means it when they say that. I literally like, 447 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 3: you're saying, bring me a gift, let's be honest, how annoyed? 448 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 3: No gifts? Please, no gifts. And then they're like, can 449 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 3: you believe she showed up and she didn't bring a gift? Well, 450 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 3: I didn't bring you anything, so it's fine. 451 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,880 Speaker 2: Okay, good, Well, then we'll just keep talking about cars. 452 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: I did. 453 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 3: First of all, it came in a very cute pink Yes, 454 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 3: it's very nice hotels and resorts. 455 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 2: Gorgeous bank. 456 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 3: My mother stays there during Christmas. 457 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 2: And the one in Pasadena. Yes, it's a very nice. 458 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 3: Resort, stunning, and it smells really good. Oh, everything's like pink, 459 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 3: which I like. Yeah, and it's like a nice pink. 460 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 2: A very faint pink, like bright. 461 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 3: Pink and black is cheap. Faint pink and black is elegant. 462 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, like bright pink and black is very victorious. 463 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 3: Secret or yes, or the the girls in green in 464 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 3: those jackets. 465 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, totally girls, something apples or something that ladies. Yes, wow, 466 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 2: good for me. 467 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 3: For interesting that we couldn't come up with pink. 468 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 2: Or ladies. Okay, let's let's get in here. Okay, there 469 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 2: are two options. 470 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 3: I've got two guests. Not only did I bring guests, 471 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 3: and they're not related to each. 472 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 2: Okay, it doesn't matter. Uh, would you open first? 473 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's open the little one first. 474 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 2: They're pretty dense. 475 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 3: This is in. I also wanted to point out my 476 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 3: special paper, Gorge's Critical Role, which some of your listeners, 477 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 3: of course, might be into. We are really into them 478 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 3: in our house, and so I bought Critical Role wrapping 479 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 3: paper probably four years ago, and I still have it. 480 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 2: I think that's kind of the rule with wrapping papers. 481 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: You buy it and then it just goes. 482 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 3: In a I wrapped what I needed that year, and 483 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 3: then I think it's I think it's very cute though. 484 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 2: So I thought it a great rap. 485 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:00,479 Speaker 3: It would be good for you. 486 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 2: All right, let's that's thick wrapping paper. 487 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 3: I like it. 488 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 2: Okay, open. I debated bringing you out, but oh what, Okay, 489 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 2: this is it says Santa's pipe smoke, big ass brick 490 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 2: of soap. 491 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, take it out. It is a very nice bar 492 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 3: of smells so good. This is a regift from the Uh. Yes, 493 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 3: it's a beautiful thing of soap. 494 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 2: Look at that thing. You could's quality. 495 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 3: That's quality soap. I know someone gave you. I heard 496 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 3: one of your podcasts where oh, Wendy, she brought you 497 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 3: like smelly toilet paper. 498 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: Oh yes, the strawberry strawberry yes. 499 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, that's so fun. And then 500 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 3: I forgot that. You know, Basically, I have like a 501 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 3: little cabinet at home where I put little things that 502 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 3: we maybe got gifted that we're not going to use, 503 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 3: and I try to figure out if someone might want them. 504 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 3: And this was a recycled stocking stuffer. 505 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 2: This is a great stocking. 506 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 3: I think it says Santa his pipe. 507 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,640 Speaker 2: Yes, this is very Christmas oriented. Duke Canon, I don't 508 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: know what that is. 509 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not sure, but you can regift it or 510 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 3: use it. 511 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,719 Speaker 2: I will probably use it. 512 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 3: I mean I thought, honestly, when I took the soap out, 513 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, nice soap. 514 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 2: And I say that's a smell like smoke. 515 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, actually you can get go real close. It 516 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 3: does have a smoky quality like a smoke. No, but 517 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 3: just in a nice I know you really want to 518 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 3: wear like a super masculine scent, right, that's right for you. 519 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard of this brand, the Duke Cannon soap. 520 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 2: Any are you a bar soap person or a shower jail. 521 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 3: Person shower gel? 522 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 523 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 3: Yeah. Bar soap kind of freaks me out because it 524 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 3: always gets down to that like bottom part and you 525 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 3: know at that point it's just like disgusting. 526 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 2: What does this film feel like? 527 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:54,880 Speaker 3: Is it small enough that I should throw it away 528 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 3: like I'm wasting right, and then it just gets caught 529 00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:00,239 Speaker 3: in your drain and everything gets backed up. Yeah, so 530 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 3: I like a good pump. 531 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, uh, you're off the podcast, leave 532 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 2: the ship. 533 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 3: I'm not even trying, you guys, not even try. 534 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 2: Wow, this is a very I guess I don't mind 535 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 2: a bar soap for hands, because frequently it smells pretty good. 536 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, but also like as a house thing, you know, Oprah, 537 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 3: If you go stay at Oprah's house, of which I've 538 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 3: never done, she replaces the guest soap for every guest 539 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 3: because you don't want like the stuff that was on 540 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 3: the other guests. 541 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 2: So she's just throwing the rest in the ocean. 542 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's destroying the earth. I don't even want to 543 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 3: talk about Oprah. Get a little disappointed lately, to say 544 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 3: the least. But and I'm fifty six, so she was 545 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 3: a big part of my sure life. Right, I'm very disappointed, 546 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 3: but whatever, not because of soap, but she got me 547 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:56,159 Speaker 3: into this thing about like dried up old soap. 548 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 2: So I guess that was the one that got you 549 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 2: into the soap thing. 550 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess that's why I'm giving you that soap. 551 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 3: Get it out of my house. 552 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 2: I don't like a bar soap in a public place. 553 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,959 Speaker 3: Well private, sure, if it's just us privately, sure, just 554 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 3: us in our But if you have. 555 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 2: A bar soap in your place of business? What are 556 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 2: you doing? Oh? 557 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 3: Or yeah, I don't yeah, or a guest bathroom. I 558 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 3: think now that's. 559 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 2: Just it's uh, I think we've all moved on in 560 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 2: a way. Yeah, I think it's more just therefore the smell. 561 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 3: It can be very decorative. Yeah, my mom is really 562 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 3: into decorative soaps. Okay, so I actually one of my 563 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 3: fun things is to like really go find wherever I am, 564 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 3: like the most extraordinarily beautiful soap. 565 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 2: Where's the best soap you've gotten? 566 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good question. Probably like Santa. 567 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 2: Barbara Barb feels like probably the good soap capital of. 568 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 3: The like one of those like high end gift stories. Right, 569 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 3: it's like super decorated and floral. 570 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,119 Speaker 2: And bar soap is like seventy dollars exactly. 571 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,360 Speaker 3: No, I think that's about right. 572 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I believe that. 573 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, I think I did buy like a very 574 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 3: expensive bar soap there. It probably was like maybe fifty 575 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 3: maybe seventy. But that's a that's a lot tough so 576 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 3: but you don't use that soap. That sop's just there 577 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,720 Speaker 3: to say, it's like potpourri or something exactly, it's like poopury. 578 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,199 Speaker 2: What is soap made out of? Do we know what 579 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 2: soap is made out of? Is it wax? 580 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 3: Well? When I invented soap again, I brought you I'm 581 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 3: just realizing. Yeah, no, that's a good question. 582 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, what are we Is it like like large glcerin 583 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 2: glacer Now you just say glittering, like you know what glycerin? 584 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 3: Well, exactly, I don't really know what glcerin is either, 585 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 3: but I feel like that's a big ingredient. 586 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, Glcerin's got to be at the top of them. 587 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 3: It's like a liquid thing that can be hard. 588 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 2: It gets gelatine gelatin maybe, but gelatin feels like it 589 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 2: would really fall apart pretty quickly in water. But people 590 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 2: are making soap all the time. 591 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're all making their gets wet and falls 592 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 3: and then a hole. It doesn't make any sense. 593 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 2: No, I don't. I will only let soap be purchased 594 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 2: for me. I'm never going out for a bar of 595 00:27:59,000 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: soap for cage. 596 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 3: Now. You don't have to. At least that giant break, 597 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 3: big ass break of soap is how it's described. 598 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 2: Do you do a big thing for Christmas? 599 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 3: Yes? Christmas is huge in my house, which is sort 600 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,239 Speaker 3: of funny. Because my grandfather was a German Jew who 601 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 3: escaped during the war, but we always my mom's side 602 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 3: was not, but also my grandmother. So incredible story is 603 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 3: that my grandmother on my dad's side is you know, 604 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 3: a descendant of farmers in Indiana, and her father was 605 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 3: in the Ku Klux Klan marching band, but not because marching, 606 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 3: not because he was like into the ku Klux Klan, 607 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 3: but because it was the only marching band that you 608 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 3: could be a part of a Indiana back in the day. 609 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 3: So I think this might have been like pre I 610 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 3: don't know if there was ever pre hoods, but I 611 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 3: can't imagine my great grandfather in a hood. I don't 612 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 3: think that was it. But she fell in love with 613 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 3: my grandfather, who University of Michigan saved him. There was 614 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 3: a time in the early Nazi regime where if you 615 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 3: could get sponsored by a like an education institution that 616 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,719 Speaker 3: would take you away, they would let you because they 617 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 3: didn't want any of the smart Jews there. They wanted 618 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 3: you taken away. So University of Michigan paid for his 619 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 3: passage and he became a professor there. But we never 620 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 3: really talked about he became very he was he was 621 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 3: a religious you know, I think they went to like 622 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 3: a Unitarian church. But like so I always knew I 623 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 3: had these like Jewish and I had Jewish aunts and uncles, 624 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 3: so there was always a combo going on. We were 625 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 3: always kind of doing a little bit of Hanukkah. But 626 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 3: Christmas was like the greatest day of my life every year, 627 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 3: and both of my parents were extremely over done in 628 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 3: their gift giving. It just became hence two gifts, not one, right, 629 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 3: of course, gone too far. I may I always brought 630 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 3: you three and was brought you something from Japan. But 631 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, it's like a little too much 632 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 3: and I might want to give that to somebody. 633 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 2: But that I know another gift based podcast. 634 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 3: Yes there might be someone else, but but yeah it 635 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 3: was wait, I. 636 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 2: Totally lost usually talking about Christmas being going all crazy. 637 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so it was like we got like a 638 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 3: thousand gifts. So I am I continue that tradition we have, 639 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 3: you know, you have the stocking. If there were kids, 640 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 3: you would put the cookies out and we would write 641 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 3: a letter that goes on until you're about fifteen, and 642 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 3: then everyone. 643 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 2: Just like it's just a dirty dish. 644 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, now it's just annoying, right, but you you know, 645 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 3: you have the fireplace open with the footprints and oh 646 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 3: the whole nine. 647 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 2: Wow, they're like props. 648 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 3: And huge stockings and then tons of gifts. It's really fun. 649 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 2: That's right. 650 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 3: I love Christmas. 651 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 2: That sounds lovely. 652 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's fun. 653 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 2: And I'm just still thinking about the KKK marching. 654 00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 3: My dad's been trying to write a movie script about 655 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 3: that for the like is really fascinating. 656 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: A tricky line to walk, yes, yeah, I know. 657 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 3: Although he was perfectly like welcoming and loved my grandfather 658 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 3: and had no problem, he wasn't his belief system. 659 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 2: It literally was. 660 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was pretty pretty interesting going to their farm. 661 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 3: It was very different than you know, my the my 662 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 3: grandfather's side of the family. Now, because of the state 663 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 3: of the United States, my father is actively seeking his 664 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 3: dual citizenship because if you were a descendant of a Jew, 665 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 3: you can, and then your descendants can, and so we 666 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 3: have looked into getting an attorney to expedite it just 667 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 3: in case any of us need to get the hell 668 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 3: out of here. 669 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, a lot of people in. 670 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 3: Germany would be the safe place. 671 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 2: Life surprises life as a way, let's open this next 672 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 2: thing here say nice rapping. 673 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I'm not really that good at rapping 674 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 3: better than me, but I did wrap. 675 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 2: It better than me. Oh, it's a book, do you 676 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 2: know I'm familiar through TikTok. To be honest, they let them. 677 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 3: When this came out, I bought six of them for 678 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 3: these girlfriends of mine for Christmas. And then I kind 679 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 3: of just like, I don't know, A couple have already 680 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 3: had it, so I've had like three on my bookshelf. 681 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 3: I did inscribe it to you, though you don't want 682 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 3: to read the inscription. 683 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 2: Says Bridger. You need to just let them bring in. 684 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 3: So let them? Is this I never got to the 685 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 3: second part of the book. 686 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 2: What's that there? 687 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 3: Let them? And then there's also like not being a 688 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 3: total asshole. 689 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 2: Oh okay. 690 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 3: Suggestion is not that you just like don't caretake anyone ever. 691 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 2: Right, But I think that people have only taken the 692 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 2: first half. 693 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,719 Speaker 3: They only want the first half. But I am one 694 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 3: of those people where when someone's upset, I get extremely 695 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 3: uncomfortable and I try to manage the situation right. And 696 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 3: that sort of simple phrase was something that I felt 697 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 3: around Christmas time could be really helpful, you know, like 698 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,239 Speaker 3: if someone's upset because this, that or the other thing, 699 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 3: you let them. And it was really funny because I 700 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 3: probably did the like actively was doing it for a 701 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 3: few weeks and it was like some point where Fraley 702 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 3: was irritated about something and I didn't respond. He's like, oh, 703 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 3: are you just letting me? Is that what we're doing? 704 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 3: And I was like, and I was like, he's right, 705 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 3: that's what I was doing. I was like, oh, well, 706 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 3: let him be upset and. 707 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 2: Then you have to let him be upset about being 708 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 2: let them. 709 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, book, Yeah, exactly, but it might I don't know 710 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 3: a lot about you. I don't know if you need this. 711 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 2: This is it? Yeah, I remember this like blew up 712 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 2: on various social media for all. 713 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 3: It's like the one now are you mad at me? 714 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,959 Speaker 3: It's like, I think, if you have a title, you know, 715 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 3: this is like such a great all you don't need 716 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 3: to read it. You just have to go, you know, 717 00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,360 Speaker 3: and just let them. It's like a mantra, don't need 718 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 3: to read the inside and you're done. 719 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 2: Do you think mel Robbins is out there freaking out saying, 720 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 2: there's the other half of the book. I've now created 721 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 2: an army of people who don't care about it. 722 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 3: By the way, she does bring that up a lot 723 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,839 Speaker 3: because she gets a lot of shit for this because 724 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 3: everyone's like, this is like a theory where it's like, 725 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 3: you're mad, I don't give a ship. 726 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I don't have no responsibility for anybody ever care. 727 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 3: I don't care. And she's like, that is not but 728 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 3: that's not because they've read the first half, not the 729 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 3: second half. They just haven't read it at all. 730 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 2: Right, I'm sure. 731 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 3: She's happy that people are still buying it just and 732 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 3: then they're like, you know what, I got it. I 733 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 3: got it. 734 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 2: I'm sure she's happy people are buying it. 735 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 3: Let them theory. 736 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's such an interesting one because it's so 737 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 2: appealing to be like, oh, I don't ever have to 738 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 2: be responsible again. 739 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,959 Speaker 3: I feel like it should go like right up there, right. 740 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 2: This is how everybody is. They buy the book, they 741 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 2: put on their bookshelf, and they stop caring about other people. 742 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, there you have it. 743 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 2: Let them. 744 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,240 Speaker 3: It'll remind you every time that you're at. 745 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 2: Work when you started taking this advice, How did it 746 00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 2: change anything for you? Yeah? 747 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 3: I kind of actually, I mean, look, you know, I 748 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:08,879 Speaker 3: have my father wrote a memoir. He's a very very 749 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 3: well known radio disc jockey in the Midwest. Yes, he's 750 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,959 Speaker 3: in like the Rock And'll Hall of Fame Museum. Yep, Yep. 751 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,879 Speaker 3: His name's John And this is really his middle name, 752 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 3: Records Landecker. So the racist Grandpa. His last name was Records. Oh, 753 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 3: so it became my dad's middle name. He was not racist, 754 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 3: the great grandpa. He was just in the Kukooks network. 755 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:38,840 Speaker 3: But my dad, Yeah, he he became a disc jockey. 756 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 3: So I'm only saying that he wrote a memoir that 757 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 3: that is public, so I can say, like he was 758 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,760 Speaker 3: an alcoholic and a drug addict when I was younger, 759 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 3: and children of alcoholics and drug addicts tend to really 760 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 3: get freaked out when people are like upset or the disorder. 761 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 3: So I was always like an alan On type adjacent 762 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 3: person my whole life, Like I knew the whole you know, 763 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 3: like I didn't cause it, I can't cure it. There's 764 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,799 Speaker 3: another c there's like I don't know what the other 765 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 3: off the one is, but there's three of them. 766 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 2: Let them, yeah, let them. 767 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 3: And so that idea of like you know, not feeling 768 00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 3: like you're gonna die if someone's mad, like not having 769 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 3: a panic inside. That was always something that I aspired to. 770 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 3: What I really liked about this title was literally it 771 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 3: was like an easy thing to remember. 772 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 2: Oh do you know what I mean? 773 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 3: It was just like it's like let them like. It 774 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 3: doesn't mean don't care about the bop you love and 775 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 3: you know, don't take responsibility for this stuff that you do, 776 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 3: but for the stuff that you can't control, and you're 777 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 3: just overmanaging. 778 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 2: You know. 779 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 3: I had a when I was pregnant with my child. 780 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 3: My my mom was a Hathai yngar teacher doula. Oh wow, 781 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 3: and she was going to be my doula. Now, if 782 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 3: you know me, I am not a natural childbirth person. 783 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 3: I give me all the drugs, right, give me the drugs. 784 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 3: But I was trying to please my mother. Oh boy, 785 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 3: so I agreed to have her be my doula. I 786 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 3: agreed to do natural childbirth. We get into the hospital 787 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 3: and my mom's with me, and I am like vomiting, 788 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 3: but I haven't even like opened up enough, so they 789 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 3: physically opened me and they go and my doctor's not 790 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 3: there yet who has the natural childbirth plan? And they're like, 791 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 3: what you know, we're going to admit you to the 792 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 3: regular floor, which I knew was the floor where you 793 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 3: could get drugs if you wanted to get drugs. And 794 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 3: the reason I knew this is I did a tour 795 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 3: of the Birthing Center floor. And when I went on 796 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:41,920 Speaker 3: the tour, first of all, there's a woman like screaming 797 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 3: bloody murder as we're walking by, and I was like, 798 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 3: and then the woman looks at all of us, this group, 799 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:54,399 Speaker 3: this tour group, and she was like, know who you are? 800 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 3: And she said it in this like very she repeated it. 801 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 2: No who you. 802 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 3: Up from the shadows, and yeah, if you are a 803 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 3: person who might want an epidural, do not come to 804 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 3: this floor. 805 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:12,720 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, and I knew. 806 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm an epidurl. And I was like 807 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 3: ashamed of friends who've like done documentaries around natural childbirth, 808 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 3: Like this is a shame issue, right, Like I'm ashamed. 809 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 3: You know, Gabby Hoffins, one of my closest friends, Like, 810 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 3: she'll have a baby right here on the floor in 811 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 3: front of us, if you know, like no problem, although 812 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 3: she is not judgmental, but I would think she would 813 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 3: judge me. Right, So we get put into this room 814 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 3: and my mom puts me in a bathtub and I 815 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 3: spend about an hour in the bathtub trying to regulate everything. 816 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 3: And I just looked up at her and I was like, mom, 817 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 3: I want the epidural and she I thought she was 818 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 3: gonna like be really mad, and she was just like okay. 819 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 3: And I know it was a huge moment for us 820 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,399 Speaker 3: with each other, so I didn't even need to at her. 821 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 3: But that comes back. What that has to do with 822 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:06,359 Speaker 3: it is like that's that simplicity, like know who you are. 823 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 3: I've used that like a thousand times in my life, 824 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 3: like who am I? What do I want? 825 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 2: Rather than being defined by everybody else's what your opinion 826 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 2: is of me. I feel like you're doing a lot 827 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 2: of good work for mel Robbins right now explaining what the. 828 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 3: Black glasses on. I'm basically doing a mail rob. It's 829 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 3: a personage. 830 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,839 Speaker 2: You're like, you're the second half of the book. For now. 831 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 2: You're going to be all over TikTok. People be like, oh, 832 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 2: that's what was supposed to. 833 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 3: Say, that's what it was. I got it. I don't 834 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,800 Speaker 3: just put it on your shelf, read the side. 835 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,280 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be surprised if that book is just blank 836 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 2: and they just put that title on the cover and 837 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 2: they're like, this is going to sell, it's going to 838 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 2: look into this. 839 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 3: I have like a book someone gave me that was 840 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 3: like a pretty hefty book and the cover is like 841 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 3: everything that has made me proud of Donald Trump or 842 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,000 Speaker 3: something and you and it's just an empty. 843 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:53,840 Speaker 2: That's a great gag. 844 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 3: It's a great gag. And it's just empty pages that. 845 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 2: Could be used as a journal. Yes, like a that's 846 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 2: a good hidden Yeah. No, one's going to look into it. Yeah, 847 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 2: private thoughts, that's true. Interest, that's true. Wow, let them. Yeah. 848 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,200 Speaker 2: I I feel like that's kind of like part of 849 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,360 Speaker 2: human behaviors, like just being the reason it blew up 850 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 2: in situations like you're just looking for an excuse to 851 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 2: do the bare minimum and so. 852 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 3: Well, I think if you're like you know, yes, if 853 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 3: you're a toxic narcissist, that could be used inappropriately. But 854 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,399 Speaker 3: also I think there's a lot of people who are 855 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 3: really trapped in people pleasing. Oh yeah, I mean about 856 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,959 Speaker 3: depends on which direction you're coming from. But you're right 857 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,879 Speaker 3: for the for the for the real assholes of the world. 858 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 3: It's real like co sign right totally. 859 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, But it may, but it also makes perfect sense. 860 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 2: I should be letting more people do a lot of things, 861 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 2: and I simply can't. Yes, I'm just constantly paranoid about 862 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:47,760 Speaker 2: everyone's behavior. 863 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,880 Speaker 3: Clearly. I mean the name of your podcast is like 864 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:51,439 Speaker 3: telling people what to do. 865 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, maybe I should give let them a 866 00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 2: little bit more of a shot. Yeah, it's hard. It's 867 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 2: hard to just let didn't. 868 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 3: You come up with I said, no gifts. 869 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 2: Deep greed, and just because you knew control issue, it 870 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 2: was going to be the opposite. No, it was. It 871 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 2: was just a thing that kind of I kind of 872 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,400 Speaker 2: wanted to do a podcast, but obviously it's hard to 873 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 2: come up with an actual idea that I had. I 874 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 2: was driving home from a writing job I had, and 875 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,520 Speaker 2: I just came into my mind. It's like, oh, that 876 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 2: is kind. 877 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 3: Of a podcast already, a great idea. 878 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 2: And then thank god the network was there to set 879 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,400 Speaker 2: it up. And because I'm very lazy, I wouldn't have 880 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 2: done it on my own. 881 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,680 Speaker 3: Me too, And it's exactly right. 882 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 2: Exactly right, that's the network. And so now I'm just 883 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,040 Speaker 2: surrounded by objects that have for I think we have 884 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 2: almost three hundred episodes and probably fun I probably have 885 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 2: like five hundred objects. 886 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:46,760 Speaker 3: I brought you the best gift. 887 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 2: Of course, we finally got to one that I could use. 888 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,280 Speaker 2: The rest of this will be sent to the dump. 889 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,919 Speaker 3: I really actually want to know, knowing it's not mine, 890 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 3: are you allowed to say, like, what has been one 891 00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:57,919 Speaker 3: of your favorite gifts? 892 00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, okay, And I feel like I answered this 893 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:02,040 Speaker 2: same thing all the time. So I'm going to try 894 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 2: to be a little I'm going to try to branch 895 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 2: out here because I usually say a car garbage can 896 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 2: was given to me, which is a great time, a 897 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 2: beautiful waff liaron. But more recently, a friend painted a 898 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,320 Speaker 2: picture of my new dog, which was just really lovely, 899 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 2: which is like a good gift regardless of pocast, you know, 900 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 2: like Paul Rubins was on and so like this cactus 901 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,839 Speaker 2: candy right here is just like a very that's fun, 902 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 2: memorable thing. Yeah. I feel like most of the gifts 903 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 2: murder thing. Let's see, Oh this is murder seed wrote 904 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 2: Maria Thayer made this for the Iowa State Fair, I 905 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,720 Speaker 2: want to say, And she kind of does the seed 906 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 2: art every year. That's cool, and so she brought this, 907 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 2: but I was the photograph of right here. Yeah, that's 908 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 2: a picture of Iowa Deborris. 909 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:53,920 Speaker 3: Oh god, I even recognize her. 910 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,040 Speaker 2: She looks years old. Yes, that is her at that age. 911 00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:57,919 Speaker 3: Oh, I see. 912 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 2: And she sent a photo of her self dressed as 913 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,680 Speaker 2: a president to an Etsy person to paint of her. 914 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 3: Oh that's really cute. 915 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,480 Speaker 2: But I've gotten a lot of This is smelling salts, 916 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 2: which is essentially drugs, and most of the things are fun. 917 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 2: I feel like like that's weird. Ally gave me his 918 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 2: high school trophy. Oh wow, I mean I've kind of 919 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,359 Speaker 2: gotten a little bit of everything. Yeah, it's a wild one, right. 920 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 3: What's it for? 921 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:28,359 Speaker 2: It's for debate, I believe, expository. I believe that's kind 922 00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 2: of the amy is now just destroying the That's a 923 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 2: beautiful masquerade mask is that's what we call those? Yeah, 924 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 2: that's from Chris Fleming. Yeah. I've just gotten a lot 925 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:47,840 Speaker 2: of wonderful things, and now I've got let them and 926 00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 2: so I've finally made it to the end of the 927 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:50,920 Speaker 2: rainbow gotten. 928 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 3: Now wait here shows my my brain fog. Who what 929 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 3: was the second gift? You say, let's see, Oh, there 930 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 3: was some o the picture. What kind of dog do 931 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 3: you have? 932 00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:05,800 Speaker 2: Oh, she's a rotweiler. 933 00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,760 Speaker 3: Can I see. Yes, I took I'm obsessed with dogs. 934 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,640 Speaker 2: I last night took a photo of her that I 935 00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 2: just said. I've had her. We've had her for eight 936 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 2: months now. She just turned a year, and she's just 937 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 2: the most beautiful creature. 938 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,800 Speaker 3: My god, I have a funny story. Speaking of gifts, 939 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,440 Speaker 3: let's hear. So I'm friends with Samantha Ronson, who's like 940 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:29,319 Speaker 3: this DJ Mark sister and an artist in her very 941 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 3: own right. Oh wow, Oh, she's very cute and beautiful. 942 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 2: She's a beautiful guy. 943 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:43,720 Speaker 3: She's beautiful. So we lost, you know, our dear pet Izzy. 944 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 3: I think it was two summers ago. 945 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 1: She was a. 946 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:52,959 Speaker 3: Chihuahua mix. We'd also lost our boxer Otis shortly before. 947 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,720 Speaker 2: It was devastating, the worst feeling. 948 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 3: I actually had to put my cat down and Izzy 949 00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 3: down within a week of each other. It was just 950 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 3: a terrible time, terrible time. By the way, while I'm 951 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:07,799 Speaker 3: shooting that horse. It was horrible. It was horrible. But 952 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 3: she wanted to get us a present. And there's this 953 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 3: artist who makes these like pretty expensive, like felt renderings 954 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,760 Speaker 3: of your animal that are three D in a little frame, 955 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 3: oh lovely, And she sent me the she sent me 956 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,000 Speaker 3: some of his work and was like, do you do 957 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 3: you have a good picture of Izzy? Do you you know? 958 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 3: I want to get this for you and Bradley and 959 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:32,720 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, that's just so sweet. 960 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 3: And I sent her pictures and and the thing showed 961 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 3: up and it is literally like the creepiest thing you've 962 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 3: ever had in your home, and like we had a 963 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,400 Speaker 3: text exchange about it and she knows, like she's like, 964 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,200 Speaker 3: what do you And I like, I couldn't. She was 965 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 3: like she thought it was hysterical. Thank god, she was 966 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,439 Speaker 3: not offended. Thought it was absolutely sterical. But it looks 967 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,719 Speaker 3: like you killed your dog and you have mounted. 968 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 969 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:57,760 Speaker 3: Yes, it looks like taxa. 970 00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 2: Do you have a picture of it? 971 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 3: I was just thinking I probably do somewhere on my phone, 972 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 3: but it would take me way too long. 973 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,040 Speaker 2: Oh that sounds really unsettling. 974 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 3: I mean we literally hide it on a bookshelf upstairs 975 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:07,840 Speaker 3: where no one can see it, and we sort of 976 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 3: pull it out as a gag the fold it's her head. 977 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,799 Speaker 2: Oh no, it really. 978 00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:17,280 Speaker 3: Looks like you mounted your dog. After It's very You could. 979 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 2: Have possibly thought that was a good idea for a game, 980 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:20,479 Speaker 2: but when you look at. 981 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:22,439 Speaker 3: It, like on the page, it looks kind of cool. 982 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 3: You don't realize that the three D quality will then 983 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,280 Speaker 3: make it look like you killed a deer. 984 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 2: Right, you know what I mean? Oh no, that's a 985 00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 2: bad option. 986 00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 3: It's not I mean, it was not good. It's not good. 987 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 3: You made me think of that, Yeah, it was, it was. 988 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:37,839 Speaker 2: That is a nice gift you can give somebody after 989 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,400 Speaker 2: their pet passes away. Is something a piece of art 990 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,800 Speaker 2: about the pet. Maybe not a three days. 991 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 3: And then I got like a rock with this cat 992 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,319 Speaker 3: she had for twenty seven years, Diamond. 993 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 2: Oldest cat I've ever heard me too. 994 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 3: And it was just weird because I ordered this rock 995 00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 3: with Diamond's name for her garden and it just sort 996 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:02,279 Speaker 3: of up like this, like this soap like. It was 997 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,960 Speaker 3: just this big gray block of nothing. I just said 998 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 3: like Diamond and she was like, you know, she's a 999 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,919 Speaker 3: virile as thete and I was like, sorry, mom, she's 1000 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,399 Speaker 3: not the rock I was. I didn't mean like some 1001 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,240 Speaker 3: rock that looks like a big turn. 1002 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 2: You could have made that up. 1003 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, it could have been better. It could have been better. 1004 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,439 Speaker 2: Oh wow, Uh well, I feel like we should play 1005 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 2: a game. Oh yeah, we're going to play a game 1006 00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 2: called Gift a Curse. But I need a number between 1007 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 2: one and ten from you. 1008 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:29,800 Speaker 3: Seven. 1009 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,799 Speaker 2: Okay. I have to do some light calculating right now 1010 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 2: to get our game pieces so you can promote, recommend, 1011 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 2: do whatever you want. I'll be right back. 1012 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 3: Well, I happened to be here in the week that 1013 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 3: a feature film that I made, that I wrote and 1014 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,880 Speaker 3: directed and act in that opened at south By Southwest 1015 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,800 Speaker 3: last year is having a theatrical release, which is a 1016 00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,799 Speaker 3: very big deal for these little low budget movies. So 1017 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:58,680 Speaker 3: it'll be at the Lemley Royale in Los Angeles starting 1018 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,280 Speaker 3: the twenty seventh, and it will be at the Quad Cinema, 1019 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:02,800 Speaker 3: New York starting in the twenty six and then it 1020 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 3: will reach out nationwide the next week. And the better 1021 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 3: it does, the better the more screens we get. I 1022 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 3: think we are on about forty so far and hoping 1023 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,280 Speaker 3: to go to like one hundred or two hundred across 1024 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 3: the country. 1025 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 2: Did you name the movie? 1026 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 3: It's called for Worse. It's inspired by It's a rom com. 1027 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:26,239 Speaker 3: It's my attempt at a very traditional rom com. Oh fun, Yeah, 1028 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 3: it's very trophy, very traditional. I have an insane cast. 1029 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 3: I have Gabby Hoffman and Ken Marino. 1030 00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 2: Oh, and wonderful. 1031 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 3: I mean just Kelsey, Ryan Hart, you know, Bradley Whitford. 1032 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if you've heard of him. Nika Haraga, 1033 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:45,280 Speaker 3: who's a really great young he's a skateboarder and a model, 1034 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,480 Speaker 3: but he also is a wonderful actor and all. If 1035 00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,879 Speaker 3: you bring up his name around any young girl under 1036 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,759 Speaker 3: the nage of twenty five, she's like, oh my god, 1037 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,759 Speaker 3: Ni Goo and god. Just so many people I can't 1038 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:59,840 Speaker 3: even you know, Claudia Saluski. Just an insane group of 1039 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 3: talented people joined me to make this little funny Oh, 1040 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 3: Missy Pile, Missy Pile, I'm the lead. 1041 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:09,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, amazing. Yeah. 1042 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 3: So I wrote myself a lead part in the movie 1043 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 3: because no one else is going to give it to me, 1044 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 3: and I directed it and I thought that was going 1045 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 3: to be really scary, but it really was, and it 1046 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:23,960 Speaker 3: was kind of fun. And it's inspired by my absurd 1047 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 3: behavior after my divorce. 1048 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 2: So fo worse right, Oh, I really like that idea. 1049 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 3: That's fun. 1050 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 2: Everyone go see the movie. 1051 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,040 Speaker 3: Four worse four worstmovie dot Com has a great place 1052 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,000 Speaker 3: to It has all the places it's playing and ticket links. 1053 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 2: Beautiful, beautiful, Okay, This is how we play gift or 1054 00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,120 Speaker 2: a Curse. I'm going to name three things. You'll tell 1055 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 2: me if they are a gift or a curse and why, 1056 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:48,319 Speaker 2: and then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong, 1057 00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:48,959 Speaker 2: Because there are. 1058 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:53,879 Speaker 3: Right or wrong? Is just your opinion, Amy, No, right 1059 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:54,320 Speaker 3: or wrong. 1060 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,280 Speaker 2: It's a universally truth. 1061 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,880 Speaker 3: That somehow I disagree with. Yes, all right, I'll just 1062 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,320 Speaker 3: let you have your opinion. 1063 00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 2: Getting ahead of the story, Amy Lambdecker. Okay, this first 1064 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,800 Speaker 2: one is from my listener named Denise. Gift to a curse. 1065 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 2: When you were walking and someone stops in front of you, 1066 00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,200 Speaker 2: but the second you catch up to them, they start 1067 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:14,400 Speaker 2: walking at your exact pace. 1068 00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:18,400 Speaker 3: Oh, curse. Why it's so creepy. No one wants to 1069 00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,600 Speaker 3: walk side by side with someone they don't know, Like 1070 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 3: you either want to get ahead or you want to 1071 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:22,320 Speaker 3: get behind. 1072 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:22,760 Speaker 2: Mmmm. 1073 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:27,239 Speaker 3: That is a very uneasy situation. It's like, am I 1074 00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,960 Speaker 3: supposed to talk to you? It's like it's like a 1075 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 3: car that just wants to drive alongside of you. You're like, 1076 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 3: are you going to kill me? Oh? 1077 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 2: A car alongside you is a very eerie feeling. 1078 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, it's even worse when it's just a person 1079 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 3: standing there. I mean, I don't know what they're going 1080 00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 3: to do to me. Why are they doing that? They're 1081 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:48,400 Speaker 3: taunting me, They're going to kill me, or they have 1082 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:53,839 Speaker 3: no spatial relation awareness. No, that is definitely not good. 1083 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 2: Wrong. 1084 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,600 Speaker 3: Oh, come on, wrong, Come on, that's a new friend. 1085 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,359 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you have. 1086 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 2: It seems like you're just not open to letting new 1087 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:04,480 Speaker 2: people into your life. 1088 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,480 Speaker 3: Not strangers on the street, which is a satistic stranger. 1089 00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 2: As a friend. You haven't walked to the same pace 1090 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:10,800 Speaker 2: as yet. 1091 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 3: Anyone who would do that is so creepy. I don't 1092 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 3: want them to be my friend. 1093 00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,359 Speaker 2: Well, it seems like you're wrong, and I need you 1094 00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:20,839 Speaker 2: to just kind of let you. 1095 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 3: I'll let you be right, and I'm. 1096 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:26,800 Speaker 2: Letting you be wrong. That's very generous. 1097 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:28,600 Speaker 3: Thank you, all right. 1098 00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,200 Speaker 2: This next one is from a listener named Sarah Jane. 1099 00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,359 Speaker 2: Gift you a curse people who put their bare feet 1100 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:34,360 Speaker 2: up on the dashboard. 1101 00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:39,600 Speaker 3: Oh I do that. It is disgusting, but I do it. 1102 00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:43,120 Speaker 3: I Mean, here's the thing. No one's eating off the dashboard, 1103 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,719 Speaker 3: no one's putting their face on the dashboard. No one's 1104 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 3: really even touching the dashboard with their hands. So like 1105 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 3: why is it so bad? I mean, it's kind of 1106 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 3: bad because you get like your little toeprints on the glass. 1107 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:57,279 Speaker 3: That's not a great look. But there's something really great 1108 00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 3: about the sun when it like hits your feet, you know, 1109 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 3: and you got your like toes up there. So I 1110 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,319 Speaker 3: have to say, what's it? What's the opposite of the gift? 1111 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:06,560 Speaker 3: The gift? 1112 00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 2: Correct gift? I don't see any people who have a 1113 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:14,120 Speaker 2: problem with this. I just don't. What's the problem? Who cares? 1114 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,160 Speaker 3: Why does that feel so good? To be right, it's 1115 00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:18,920 Speaker 3: got to be my codependancy. 1116 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:18,719 Speaker 2: It is. 1117 00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 3: It's entirely you've got to work on that, work on 1118 00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:22,800 Speaker 3: that off podcast. 1119 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:23,440 Speaker 1: No. 1120 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:26,279 Speaker 2: I think this is people who have an issue with this, 1121 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,200 Speaker 2: they've they've created the problem in their mind. The dashboard 1122 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 2: is for nothing else. 1123 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,960 Speaker 3: Now, I will say Bradley likes to put his shoes 1124 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,239 Speaker 3: on a table at home, and I do think that's 1125 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 3: not good. 1126 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,840 Speaker 2: That's right, that's dirty. 1127 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 3: Yes, I mean it's a very strange habit, Like we'll 1128 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,799 Speaker 3: just come down and they'll be like shoes on the time. 1129 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,400 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no. That's the only place you 1130 00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 2: can put your feet on the table is in the 1131 00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,880 Speaker 2: waiting room. Like an oil change place, yes, right. 1132 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 3: Where it's already like fill right dirty. 1133 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,640 Speaker 2: But at home, the shoe should be off before you 1134 00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:56,040 Speaker 2: get to a table. You can put your feet on. 1135 00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 3: I agree. 1136 00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,399 Speaker 2: But on the dashboard, go for it. If you're living 1137 00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:03,360 Speaker 2: your life, relaxed, live your life. Yeah, you're hanging loose. 1138 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,960 Speaker 3: I got my toes done yesterday. They're silver. 1139 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,680 Speaker 2: Oh that's a great color. That's a real aluminum. 1140 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:10,879 Speaker 3: So this this would look kind of kind of good 1141 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 3: on my desk. Very I couldn't put them here, But 1142 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:13,959 Speaker 3: I'm not a bad guess. 1143 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 2: Thank you. All right, you've gotten one right so far, 1144 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,040 Speaker 2: so okay, okay, And this is the final one. This 1145 00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,440 Speaker 2: is from a listener named Cameron Gift. You're a curse 1146 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:25,480 Speaker 2: Google search AI Summer Vie Woo. No. 1147 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 3: First of all, do you know that the guy who 1148 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,520 Speaker 3: made Chatchy GBT. I'm sorry, I know it's not a 1149 00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,520 Speaker 3: political podcast, but he's the biggest donor to the Trump administration. 1150 00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,080 Speaker 3: AI is going to take all of our jobs away. 1151 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 3: Like no, And I know I've really progressive. Friends were 1152 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 3: like it's coming and it's a great tool, and I'm like, 1153 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,400 Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I did use it for one thing. 1154 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:46,360 Speaker 2: To write your book. 1155 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. I was trying to write a card around something difficult, 1156 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 3: which was that someone had lost someone dear and a 1157 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,319 Speaker 3: baby had been born. A little bit like how do 1158 00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:57,240 Speaker 3: I write that card? 1159 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:57,719 Speaker 1: Right? 1160 00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,879 Speaker 3: And I actually did ask oh, and it did help. 1161 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,160 Speaker 3: I mean, this is what sucks, is it? It's helpful, 1162 00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,720 Speaker 3: but we're all going to die like soon. 1163 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 2: It's a kind of helpful. 1164 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good launching pad. I mean it's interesting 1165 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:17,760 Speaker 3: because I was actually like, I'm working on a script 1166 00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 3: with some people and we were having a little note 1167 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,680 Speaker 3: session Saturday. It was so fun and we're just like 1168 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,400 Speaker 3: going through this thing and coming up with jokes and 1169 00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 3: it was just such a blast. And I thought, is 1170 00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:29,920 Speaker 3: this the kind of thing that like, no one's going 1171 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,960 Speaker 3: to need us soon? It's horrifying, absolutely horrible, And it is. 1172 00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,320 Speaker 3: It was a sort of it's a sort of bigger idea. 1173 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,719 Speaker 3: It's not like Indie small. It's like and I feel 1174 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,560 Speaker 3: like those are the most susceptible, right, Oh, absolutely, because 1175 00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,439 Speaker 3: some of those are written really bad and people still 1176 00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,200 Speaker 3: love them, so studios don't care, like it's a piece 1177 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,920 Speaker 3: of shit, but everybody watches it. But how many Netflix 1178 00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:52,520 Speaker 3: rom coms need to be made that are mediocre, but 1179 00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:54,800 Speaker 3: they make a lot of money and no one cares. 1180 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 3: So A A I is going to be able to 1181 00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:00,600 Speaker 3: whip out like procedural scream. 1182 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:01,600 Speaker 2: I hate to hear that. 1183 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:05,279 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going to happen kids, But yeah, 1184 00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:06,960 Speaker 3: I guess there's always been these points in history where 1185 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,120 Speaker 3: everyone thinks everything's going to fall apart and it all 1186 00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 3: sort of figures. 1187 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:13,000 Speaker 2: It's this one feels actually keeps saying that. 1188 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,640 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, but if you read like nineteen eighty four, 1189 00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 3: it feels, particularly when you don't have reality anymore and 1190 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,360 Speaker 3: there's no truth, it's a little it's a little challenging. 1191 00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, is it worth all of these things so you 1192 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 2: can have a card written for you? Yes? 1193 00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:32,000 Speaker 3: No, I really deleted it. I'm not. Although it doesn't 1194 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 3: really matter because if you use Google, it's using AI anyway. 1195 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,080 Speaker 3: So what are we going to adapt? Have you stopped 1196 00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 3: using Amazon? 1197 00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:44,440 Speaker 2: No, it's horrible, I know, it's absolutely horrible. I feel 1198 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:46,360 Speaker 2: like we have to do something where it's almost like 1199 00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,080 Speaker 2: you everyone should commit one friend in their life to 1200 00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:50,520 Speaker 2: stop using these things so. 1201 00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 3: That we can all just ride on their back of 1202 00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:53,359 Speaker 3: doing it right. 1203 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 2: Well, I feel like almost like a chain letter where 1204 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:57,720 Speaker 2: it's like I would get you to stop, you would get. 1205 00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 3: Another pay it forward. 1206 00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how we get out. 1207 00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,360 Speaker 3: I did order it. So I was staying with my 1208 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:07,439 Speaker 3: friend in New York and she was away at her 1209 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:09,759 Speaker 3: she has like an upstate home, and she got a 1210 00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,239 Speaker 3: notification that Amazon had been dropped off and she was like, 1211 00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,279 Speaker 3: I didn't did you order Amazon? And I was like, 1212 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:18,520 Speaker 3: oh yeah, and she's like Amy, and I was like, 1213 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,360 Speaker 3: oh god, yeah, like I'm not supposed to do that. 1214 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,880 Speaker 3: Good for her, I know, so she really did stop? 1215 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:28,240 Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah, I mean, yeah, it stops. 1216 00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:29,840 Speaker 3: And then you know, you come down also to the 1217 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,560 Speaker 3: fact that all those people who work you know, not 1218 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:34,320 Speaker 3: the company. He needs to pay them more. That's the 1219 00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,879 Speaker 3: biggest problem, right, he needs to treat his employees better. 1220 00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,839 Speaker 3: But all the like subcontractors that also use Amazon, you're 1221 00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:44,799 Speaker 3: also sort of punishing them. It's like a very tricky thing. 1222 00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:47,760 Speaker 2: Oh, I mean we are all truly trapped. 1223 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 3: Yes, we're trap We're very trapped. They got power, Yeah, 1224 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,080 Speaker 3: they got us. There's like five people who own everything 1225 00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 3: and we are I mean, even to speak out right, 1226 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,000 Speaker 3: it's like, oh, well, then you know, you're never going 1227 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:01,560 Speaker 3: to work again. 1228 00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, there has to be some sort of regulation all 1229 00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:08,680 Speaker 2: this sort of thing. I don't. I just don't. It's 1230 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,759 Speaker 2: both easy to stop using it and almost impossible. 1231 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,600 Speaker 3: Almost impossible. So it's like when you get a remote 1232 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 3: control on your TV and then someone says that remote 1233 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 3: control is evil. You need to get up and turn 1234 00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:19,800 Speaker 3: the TV dial. 1235 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:21,960 Speaker 2: I'm not going to No one's going to do that. 1236 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 3: And I was born before remote controls, Like it was 1237 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 3: not a big deal, right, say, it really wasn't a 1238 00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,920 Speaker 3: big deal to stand up and change the channel. But 1239 00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:32,240 Speaker 3: God knows, once you get that convenience, you're like, what 1240 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 3: are you talking about? 1241 00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:36,320 Speaker 2: Right? So I guess, uh, it's just this thing where 1242 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,840 Speaker 2: you don't quite entirely give up. 1243 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,080 Speaker 3: I think you try to minimize, try. 1244 00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,120 Speaker 2: To minimize, and maybe make small. 1245 00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:46,439 Speaker 3: And then like find small businesses for the things you can't. Yeah, 1246 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:47,640 Speaker 3: I do do do that. 1247 00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:49,600 Speaker 2: I do do that, and then just feel an immense 1248 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 2: amount of guilt every waking. 1249 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, well sure always, But. 1250 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,040 Speaker 2: You're saying, cursed the Google search AI summer. 1251 00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:58,880 Speaker 3: Yes, cursed. Now what's the right answer? 1252 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 2: Of course? 1253 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:07,480 Speaker 3: Oh God, to get up and leave and protest. I'm 1254 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:08,640 Speaker 3: done with this interview. 1255 00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:13,680 Speaker 2: I'm a Google employee. Oh, absolute course. These are those 1256 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:17,920 Speaker 2: AI summaries are particularly infuriating because they're just forced on you. 1257 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:22,000 Speaker 3: By the way, they're also like wrong, they're wrong. 1258 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're very confident, so like I've seen, I 1259 00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 2: unfortunately am somewhat aware of how technology works, so I 1260 00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,240 Speaker 2: kind of was ahead of the game, knowing that they 1261 00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,600 Speaker 2: just send you the wrong things. But I know plenty 1262 00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:36,439 Speaker 2: of people who will just read that and then that's 1263 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:39,880 Speaker 2: what they're believing, and frequently it's just totally wrong. 1264 00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 3: We had a big discussion around whether the Kidd and 1265 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 3: Bad Bunnies super Bowl halftime was the kid who had 1266 00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:50,120 Speaker 3: been arrested by Ice, because I went on the internet 1267 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,560 Speaker 3: immediately and my stepdaughter is like, that is not that 1268 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:58,440 Speaker 3: kid and his name was Liam, I believe, and you know, 1269 00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:00,480 Speaker 3: and we were like, is it an you know, we're 1270 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,600 Speaker 3: trying to rewind and look up. And then I go, well, 1271 00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:07,280 Speaker 3: let me ask you know, Google and googlegles, yes, Bad 1272 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,840 Speaker 3: Bunny brought And then we realized how absurd that was 1273 00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:12,080 Speaker 3: of an idea that this poor kid who just got 1274 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,720 Speaker 3: out of deportation, which just show up at the Super 1275 00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,040 Speaker 3: Bowl halftime show. Because you know the first thing that 1276 00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,000 Speaker 3: him and his family want is a ton of attention. 1277 00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:21,920 Speaker 3: You know, that's exactly what you want when you barely 1278 00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:25,960 Speaker 3: like escape the clause of fascism. I gotta go on 1279 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 3: the Super Bowl show. And so no, this little boy 1280 00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 3: was him as a younger kid getting his you know, 1281 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,960 Speaker 3: he's an actor. Sure, but Google said it was limp. 1282 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:37,760 Speaker 2: Any piece of information now that you think is true, 1283 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 2: you should find four different But there. 1284 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:42,680 Speaker 3: Was this whole thing that like Trump called c SPAN 1285 00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,440 Speaker 3: yesterday that was going around was this well, you know 1286 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,320 Speaker 3: he used to call he used to call in and. 1287 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,600 Speaker 2: Be this other guy. He just think everything has happening. 1288 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,080 Speaker 3: So someone called into c SPAN and was used the 1289 00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,400 Speaker 3: name that he used to use when he would call 1290 00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,680 Speaker 3: into a place. But I was like, why would Trump 1291 00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,680 Speaker 3: care about c SPAN plus with AI anyone can do that, 1292 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,680 Speaker 3: you know, and I want to get four confirmations. 1293 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:03,160 Speaker 2: Yes. 1294 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,120 Speaker 3: And you know what else people do, know is they 1295 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,280 Speaker 3: like to throw something out there before it happens, Like 1296 01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:09,840 Speaker 3: the Dodgers refuse to go to the White No, it 1297 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,160 Speaker 3: wasn't the Dodgers. The Seattle Seahawks refuse to go to 1298 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:15,640 Speaker 3: the White House. And I'm like, yes, some some guts 1299 01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,640 Speaker 3: and that just wasn't true. That's just not true. And 1300 01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:20,400 Speaker 3: then you know it's like somebody threw it out there 1301 01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 3: so that they might feel the pressure or something. 1302 01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 2: Right, and everyone's so ready for something, to a piece 1303 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,480 Speaker 2: of good news or whatever. They don't look at the show. 1304 01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:30,720 Speaker 2: Oh that was a tough one. Those they should be 1305 01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 2: a shave. Come on, that's shameful. 1306 01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 3: Behave I just want the like lesbians on the other side. 1307 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,600 Speaker 2: And this is all post heated rivalry. Hot hockey was 1308 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 2: riding a real high and now these guys have I 1309 01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 2: had a great time watching. 1310 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:46,680 Speaker 3: I have my husband on episode we just finished episode 1311 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:50,000 Speaker 3: three less okay, he's like, they're very good actor, they're 1312 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:50,880 Speaker 3: excellent actors. 1313 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:53,960 Speaker 2: Yes, only six episodes long too. 1314 01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:59,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's five. Five, it's not even six. The 1315 01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:00,040 Speaker 3: cottage is. 1316 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 2: Five Oh wow. Yeah. So next season will probably be 1317 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:08,560 Speaker 2: four hundred episodes because of that success, and now they 1318 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,880 Speaker 2: have a lot to clean up after this other behavior 1319 01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 2: from the hockey players. 1320 01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, no kidding, Good grief, good grief. What a disappointment. 1321 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,640 Speaker 2: Well you got two out of three? Okay, Well that's bad. 1322 01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:22,760 Speaker 2: That's the worst. I think we should answer a listener 1323 01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:25,280 Speaker 2: question Okay. People are writing into I said no gifts 1324 01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 2: at gmail dot com, begging for answers. Will you help 1325 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 2: me answer something here? Let's see this. One says, oh, 1326 01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 2: they didn't even address me or you. Usually they say 1327 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,800 Speaker 2: dear Bridger or something, but this just gets into it. 1328 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:39,520 Speaker 2: It says, I hate my sister in law's husband's sister's 1329 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 2: boyfriend in parentheses husband's sister's boyfriend. Does that make any sense? 1330 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 3: I hate my sister in law's boyfriend. 1331 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:52,120 Speaker 2: Let's just leave it at that, because the relative math 1332 01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,160 Speaker 2: I'm not working with right now. I hate my sister 1333 01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,120 Speaker 2: in law's boyfriend. My husband thinks I should have a 1334 01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,919 Speaker 2: conversation with him about keeping the peace, but I hate 1335 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,240 Speaker 2: him and I don't want him around my baby, who's 1336 01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 2: eighteen months old. He also hates dog's red flag and 1337 01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:05,280 Speaker 2: she has. 1338 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:06,640 Speaker 3: Done I don't even need to read me. 1339 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:09,520 Speaker 2: They almost broke up the day I had my baby, 1340 01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:12,000 Speaker 2: but made up while I was pushing my child into 1341 01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:12,720 Speaker 2: this world. 1342 01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,240 Speaker 3: I just found all this stuff that not off. 1343 01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:19,920 Speaker 2: Leave it alone. You're ruining they did. 1344 01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:20,840 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I keep reading. 1345 01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:23,720 Speaker 2: I apologize you were sent by a rival podcast. 1346 01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 3: Jesus Christ, I'm so sorry. 1347 01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:29,400 Speaker 2: Okay, let's see. Let's see, they almost broke up the 1348 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,480 Speaker 2: day I had my baby, but made up while I 1349 01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:33,440 Speaker 2: was pushing my child into the world. They now have 1350 01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,640 Speaker 2: been living together for about a year. How do I 1351 01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,200 Speaker 2: coexist with this terrible human in our lives? He also 1352 01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:40,480 Speaker 2: implied one time that my husband was going to kill 1353 01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:44,400 Speaker 2: him after they had a disagreement and never apologize for it. 1354 01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,840 Speaker 2: And my husband is acting chummy with him now for 1355 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,680 Speaker 2: the sake of the family. The terrible boyfriend also just 1356 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,880 Speaker 2: bought my husband a two hundred and fifty dollars watch. 1357 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:53,720 Speaker 2: What is with this guy? Is? 1358 01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 3: He is? 1359 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,480 Speaker 2: He left bombing my husband? And that's from Mary Anne. 1360 01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:59,720 Speaker 2: I mean the layers of whatever is going on in 1361 01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:00,640 Speaker 2: Mayor ends life. 1362 01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:03,880 Speaker 3: I mean, look, once you say he doesn't like dogs, 1363 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:08,320 Speaker 3: I'm right, We're done. Finished, We're absolutely done. What could 1364 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,480 Speaker 3: And you know you tell your sister in law, I 1365 01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,560 Speaker 3: would love to be the husband's sister who's dating this dick? 1366 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:16,280 Speaker 3: I guess is what? 1367 01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:17,640 Speaker 2: Yes? 1368 01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:21,160 Speaker 3: And so basically you just go to holiday events. You 1369 01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:24,720 Speaker 3: don't do any special side gatherings. If you want to 1370 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,640 Speaker 3: see you know, if he wants to see his sister, fine, 1371 01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:30,680 Speaker 3: you say, I don't trust people who don't like dogs, 1372 01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 3: and we're done. 1373 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:34,080 Speaker 2: Right, and then the two hundred and fifty dollars. 1374 01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 3: You know what you do? You let them, You let them, 1375 01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:42,840 Speaker 3: You let them robins about it. That's what you do. 1376 01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:44,280 Speaker 3: You let them. 1377 01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,280 Speaker 2: She wanted to be able to demonstrate the philosophy and action. 1378 01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:49,120 Speaker 3: That's a good question. 1379 01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 2: And let the Let this guy buy your husband as 1380 01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:52,240 Speaker 2: many watches as he. 1381 01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 3: Will them have their romance, but you do not get involved. 1382 01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:57,960 Speaker 2: The moment an affair happens with love. 1383 01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:01,400 Speaker 3: As they say, light and polite. Those are some allan 1384 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,640 Speaker 3: on keywords. Yeah, light and polite. This guy's work gone 1385 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,760 Speaker 3: and light and polite and hardly ever. 1386 01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:09,040 Speaker 2: Oh and hardly ever. 1387 01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. Interesting, that's my ad. 1388 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,920 Speaker 2: It's a good ad. Yeah, so do you need to 1389 01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:16,680 Speaker 2: write a book? Yes, this guy is going to be 1390 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:19,160 Speaker 2: gone in no time. Nobody likes him. Yeah, and now 1391 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 2: he's been exposed on this podcast. 1392 01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,680 Speaker 3: So like, is that no contact trend? Yeah, it goes 1393 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,040 Speaker 3: on the no contexts. The whole family goes no contact 1394 01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,880 Speaker 3: contact guy. Yeah, get rid of him, let him buy 1395 01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:31,840 Speaker 3: a few more watches, take him to a pond shop, 1396 01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:35,040 Speaker 3: et cetera. Take advantage. That's well, I don't think a 1397 01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 3: two hundred fifty dollars watch is that expensive? But is 1398 01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:38,480 Speaker 3: that just me giving away like mine? 1399 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:40,880 Speaker 2: I think I think that's like probably I'm a person 1400 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:42,160 Speaker 2: who buys a twenty dollars watch. 1401 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,600 Speaker 3: I don't buy watches, but I would imagine. 1402 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I think people buy thousands of. 1403 01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:49,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, like a watch is like a thousand dollars. 1404 01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:51,640 Speaker 2: Right, two hundred and fifty is like a good watch? 1405 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:53,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, why you get this is a. 1406 01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:56,560 Speaker 2: Twenty dollars watch and I love it? Yeah? Because I 1407 01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:57,520 Speaker 2: lose them all the time. 1408 01:04:57,880 --> 01:04:59,040 Speaker 3: Why do you wear a watch? 1409 01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:01,920 Speaker 2: Because in movies, I don't want to be able to 1410 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,520 Speaker 2: look at my phone. If I'm in a movie theater, 1411 01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:04,640 Speaker 2: I want to be able to look at the time. 1412 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,720 Speaker 3: I thought, like when you were acting in movies, I'm like, well, 1413 01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:08,400 Speaker 3: don't they have an opinion about your watch? 1414 01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:11,800 Speaker 2: I make one, Demanda. Anytime I book a role, I 1415 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:12,560 Speaker 2: get to wear the watch. 1416 01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:16,800 Speaker 3: I wear this twenty dollars, this seventeenth century No matter 1417 01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:18,080 Speaker 3: what I'm wearing this watch. 1418 01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 2: Uh, this guy's gone, Yeah, good luck, Maryanne. Don't write back. 1419 01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 3: In Yeah, that's not nice to her. 1420 01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:30,440 Speaker 2: Let me, okay, let me do whatever I want whenever 1421 01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,520 Speaker 2: I want. Absolutely Amy, I've had a wonderful time with you. 1422 01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:34,920 Speaker 3: Me too. 1423 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,600 Speaker 2: I felt my new soap, I've got my book. 1424 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:39,320 Speaker 3: You're the best time you've ever had. 1425 01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:43,320 Speaker 2: I've had the best time I've ever had. Unfortunately, we're 1426 01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:46,360 Speaker 2: wrapping up the podcast for good, and I mean, how 1427 01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:47,919 Speaker 2: can I have a better time than this? You've ruled 1428 01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:51,919 Speaker 2: this episode, the entire series is over. 1429 01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:53,160 Speaker 3: You're for a second. 1430 01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:55,800 Speaker 2: What if you just that would be such a fun 1431 01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:57,920 Speaker 2: surprise for a guest to find out that it's the last. 1432 01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:01,640 Speaker 3: No, right, No, but I didn't know if like, I 1433 01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:03,960 Speaker 3: don't know you were in some sort of transition period. No, 1434 01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:07,080 Speaker 3: I'm glad that's not true. I know I'm episode three 1435 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 3: hundred and God knows what we. 1436 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:13,680 Speaker 2: Can care about two probably to eighty eight or something. 1437 01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 3: I want to know what my numbers is else, do 1438 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 3: we know what the number? 1439 01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:17,640 Speaker 2: One know? 1440 01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:18,360 Speaker 3: My number is. 1441 01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:23,720 Speaker 2: Ninety ninety Wow number, start the countdown. That's a good number, 1442 01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:24,600 Speaker 2: solid number. 1443 01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:25,960 Speaker 3: That's a good I like it's round. 1444 01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like ninety two two. 1445 01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:32,520 Speaker 3: I will always go down. It's the greatest episode of 1446 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:33,560 Speaker 3: this podcast ever. 1447 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 2: Mark it down, write it down. Well, thank you for 1448 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:39,400 Speaker 2: being here, thank you for having me. Listener the podcast 1449 01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:41,360 Speaker 2: is over. I don't know what else to tell you. 1450 01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:42,480 Speaker 3: I can go to the bathroom. 1451 01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:44,280 Speaker 2: Amy. That's the one thing that's not going to be 1452 01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:45,680 Speaker 2: allowed for the rest of the day is for Amy 1453 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 2: to use the restroom. But listener, you can use the 1454 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:54,720 Speaker 2: restroom because the podcast is over. I love you, goodbye. 1455 01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:59,680 Speaker 2: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. Our 1456 01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:03,960 Speaker 2: Your producer is Ellis Nelson, and our episodes are beautifully 1457 01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:07,600 Speaker 2: mixed by Ben Holliday. The theme song is by miracle 1458 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,760 Speaker 2: worker Amy Mann, and we couldn't do it without our booker, 1459 01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:14,680 Speaker 2: Patrick Cottner. You must follow the show on Instagram at 1460 01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:16,720 Speaker 2: I said No Gifts, that's where you're going to see 1461 01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:19,720 Speaker 2: pictures of all these wonderful gifts I'm getting. And don't 1462 01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:20,880 Speaker 2: you want to see the gifts? 1463 01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:22,920 Speaker 1: He lie in? 1464 01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:24,280 Speaker 3: Why did you hear? 1465 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:31,920 Speaker 1: Gonta man? Myself perfectly clear, But you're a guest to me. 1466 01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:41,040 Speaker 1: You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no guests. 1467 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:48,080 Speaker 1: Your presences presence enough. I'm already had too much stuff, 1468 01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,840 Speaker 1: So how do your dance survey me