WEBVTT - Dramatic Questions? We got answers! 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:06.000 This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:10.000 Chris Harrison and Lauren Z mccoveany from the home office 0:00:10.000 --> 0:00:14.360 in Austin, Texas love shows like Today because well, it's 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:17.800 about you, guys. We reached out and said, hey, what 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:21.320 questions do you have for LZ and I. It's always 0:00:21.920 --> 0:00:25.639 a moment of trepidation excitement as we find out what's 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:27.960 on your mind and what you guys want to talk about. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:30.520 Elsie one of the things that I know we got 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:32.800 questioned about and we can jump into it right away. 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:37.320 Merritt Street and how things are going? Where are you guys, 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:39.000 and how's the network going? 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:42.440 I know, And there's still this element of like, people 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:43.879 ask when are you going to be on merit and 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:47.639 I feel bad because we're working on it. We are 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:50.520 in the process of staffing up for our morning show. 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:53.440 I think we can give that update. We are interviewing 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:57.040 candidates for our morning show team and staff, and we 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.040 are in the process. Well why don't you give the 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:00.000 reality dating show? 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.240 The reality dating show? And people have asked more details 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.520 about it, and we're not going to get into the 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:10.120 concept of it yet, but what we will say is 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.480 we are starting the you know again, kind of like 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:16.240 the Morning Show, the production phase. We're going to get 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:19.959 into casting and putting the show together and then, you know, 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:22.920 I'm not sure. I hadn't thought about this when we 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:25.160 would talk about the concept and when all that stuff 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.160 will get out, But well down the road, I don't 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:29.000 think it is the time to know. It's definitely not yet, 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.520 but but we do. Yes, we're very very good. We 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:35.520 love the team we've put together, the people were working with, 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:38.880 the people were working for, the Merritt family has been 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:42.480 fantastic and Doctor Phil and Joel Cheatwood and everybody over 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.360 there Phil McIntyre. So it's just been more and more 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.600 exciting and I will have more and more Doctor Phil 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:50.400 episodes popping up. I'll let you guys know via social 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:54.480 media when I will be on. Who knows when you're 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:57.160 listening to this, but I know May seventh, there's one 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.400 coming up. We're talking about the Nil College deal, so 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:02.400 that one will be airing, so I'll let you guys know. 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:06.440 But exciting stuff, and everything's going phenomenally well over there. 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:09.799 That is the Merritt Street update. And by the way, 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:13.800 Elsie looks up our next question. You can download the 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:18.880 free app Merit Plus to watch free on any Apple devices. 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.920 And also you can go to merritt Street dot com 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:24.800 and then you can put in your zip codes. You 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:26.400 can find out how to watch on Dish, how to 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:29.640 watch on direct and as we are adding subscribers, you 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:31.720 can find out where you can watch. So there you go. 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:34.960 Okay, I'm going to dive in with a hot question. 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:39.440 Send an anonymously. This is a relationships question. How long 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:42.840 should you wait to have sex in a new relationship? 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:44.880 I have my answer. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:46.640 Okay, you have a definite you have like a. 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:49.560 I don't have a number. I just have a formula. 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:50.919 Okay, formula that's even better. 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:55.520 I think it's proportionate to you and where you're at 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.840 in your life. Oh yeah, okay, And by that I 0:02:57.960 --> 0:03:01.920 mean and it's also your age is another part of 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:06.399 that math equation. I do think, like I don't think 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:11.360 people in their late teens early twenties. I think that 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.680 at that age and I'm making a sweeping generalization, but 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.160 I think at that age a lot of people think, oh, 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:18.800 I can just took up with someone and like I 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:20.680 won't have any feelings. I also think there can be 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:24.240 a difference between how males and females really feel in 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:27.639 those situations. But if you're at that age and you're 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:29.880 I think you just need to be honest with yourself. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.480 Are you convincing yourself, Oh, I can sleep with someone 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:35.440 right away, I won't get attached. I think at that 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:38.200 age of life you get more attached. Our feelings are big. 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:42.120 At that age you have big obsessions, big swings. Breakups 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.680 are hard. The older you get, the more in control 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.280 of your own feelings you hopefully become. If you're maturing 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:49.640 and growing and working on yourself. And I do think 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:52.839 the older you get, and especially as you know more 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:55.800 of what you want, it can be easier to lessen 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:59.760 how much time you become, like the length of time 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:01.720 which you wait to be come intimate with someone. What 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:02.160 do you think? 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:05.440 I think when it comes to having sex, buyer beware 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.600 you need to know yourself, is what I'm saying. Know 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:10.800 what you want out of this, And Lauren just hit 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.160 the nail on the head. You have to be honest 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:16.600 with yourself. I think we fool ourselves a lot and 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.000 think you can do something and there's going to be 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:22.280 no emotional tax. There is an emotional tax to it. 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:24.720 If you're just going to jump and sleep around, and 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:29.400 just know this. It does change things. The sex changes things. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.800 And if you want more out of a relationship, if 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:34.760 you want this to go somewhere, if you think there's 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:38.000 a possibility of it being meaningful, then you need to 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.520 treat it as such. You need to have respect for it. 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:45.560 And I'm not being the old traditional you know, there's 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:48.760 no definite time stamp of two dates, three dates, five 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:51.400 dates a year, whatever. It's different for all of us, 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:54.120 but there is a level of respect you need to 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.640 have if you want something serious out of this relationship. 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:58.960 If you're going to just bop around on the first 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:01.440 date and you're going to be treated as such, well, 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:03.080 I don't be surprised when you are. 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:09.479 I think sex either makes things quickly less meaningful, like oh, 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.279 this is just a hookup, or it makes things quickly 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.840 more meaningful like oh what are we now? And now 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.120 we're intimate, and it accelerates things that. 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:18.800 Can go either way. So yes, just be what do 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:20.560 you want there be that can go either way for 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:21.440 the guy girl or. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:24.040 Advice is when it comes to sex, buyer beware. 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:25.920 Yes, well it's all right. 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.720 Jimmy wants to know a little bit more a little 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.520 bit of a sex question. If your partner cheats on you, 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.119 do you think there is ever a chance of making 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:38.560 it work? Since I'm asking these questions, my answer is 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.760 a little more ready swall you think on it? I 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:45.560 do think so. I think I'm just a believer that 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:51.360 relationships people make mistakes. I don't know, I've never gone 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:56.640 into any relationship really Like, I'm not that person who's 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.520 like things are black or white and if you do this, 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:02.600 it's over forever. I think guy make mistakes. I think 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.479 everybody makes mistakes, and it's totally case by case in 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:09.760 a relationship. And what's always proportionate to me or meaningful 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:13.640 to me rather is one what was the intent when 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:16.880 the person messed up? Were they being totally careless with you? 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:21.800 Were they trying to hurt you? Or were they traumatized 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:24.400 and hurt in some way themselves which created a mistake, 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.480 Like where's their heart at and what's the intent? And two, 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:32.400 what's the effort on them fixing what they did? How 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:34.799 committed are they? How much real work are they doing? 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.040 And whether it's cheating or I don't know, hiding a 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:41.800 gambling dead or abusing alcohol or whatever it is, I 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:43.960 think those two things always tell me whether you should 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:44.960 stay in a relationship. 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.440 This is another one that kind of, like the sex questions, 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:52.000 very age and experience dependent, right. I think when we're younger, 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:54.480 we have this kind of very black and white thought 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:55.640 of the world. 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:56.680 And cheaters are bad. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.200 Well, it's it's almost like you see you're evil. You 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.480 see what some of the college kids are doing now 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:05.960 with their ideas and their thoughts and the kind of 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:08.600 revolution they got going on. It's like everything's very black 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:11.320 and white. Right. It's that's when you're younger. I think 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:13.840 you're able to have those things. As you get older, 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.800 you realize there's a big gray area in life and 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:20.760 you realize there's a lot of perspectives and you got 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:23.320 to take things in and like Lauren said, it kind 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:26.080 of depends. It really depends on the person and in 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:30.840 the experience and how they talk about it. So yeah, 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:32.680 I just would say life's not so black and white. 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.880 So the older you get, I think there is much 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:35.960 more of that ability. 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:37.960 I think what you're talking about too, is like knowing 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:40.160 what you don't know, which is a phrase you say 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:43.000 a lot, like, for example, I've said this for a 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.840 long time, part of the reason I would never say, 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.120 if you if you know this person, sheets be done 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:50.960 with them. I have no idea what it's like to 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:53.520 be in a marriage for thirty years, right, I have 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:56.760 no idea what it's like to be married to someone 0:07:56.840 --> 0:08:00.720 who I don't know is I'm just I knowing has 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:02.800 been ill for many years. I don't know what arrangements 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:05.600 people have in relationships. I don't know what it's like 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:10.040 to be like. I do know people who have cheated 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.680 in situations where I'm sorry they were I knew that 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.800 they were in a marriage with someone who was deeply 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:18.360 mentally and emotionally abusive, like and eventually that marriage ended 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:19.840 and they were just trying to find a way out 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:21.760 and they were in a tough situation. Yeah, so I 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:24.600 just don't you know, you don't know what you haven't experienced, 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:26.440 I guess, and you have to try to be empathetic. 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:28.840 Definitely not a one size fits all answer. 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:30.840 I'll keep going, and then you should take over some 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:33.280 of these so that I don't have to be answering. 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.920 First, you're the best host. Wow, thanks all answer first 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:37.440 you can? 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:40.000 Okay, all right, let me throw it at you. Amy says, 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.680 are there any people from Bachelor Nation that you wish 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.680 you had maintained a friendship with who you didn't. 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:50.920 No, nobody that I wish i'd maintained. Because I have. 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:54.400 I've maintained these relationships. There are people I well, lots 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:56.640 of them that I wish I saw more. There are 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:58.959 so many, you know. One of the beautiful things about 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:03.560 our wedding was we got to see so many of 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:09.240 them because you know, Ashley and Jared, you know, Jade 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.439 and Tanner, like, we just don't get to see. 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.880 Them, especially because the pandemic yea Tristan Rossau just from 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.560 having events for so everybody's just spread around the country. 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:19.839 And so you know, Bob Getey, I don't even know 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.559 if he lives in America, somewhere in the Pacific Northwest, 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:24.679 I don't know, but I don't get to see him 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:26.720 enough and talk to you know, so we text and 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.640 we keep in touch. But I wish I could see 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:33.040 them more, because when we all do get together for 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.719 whatever reason, it's always such a lovely time. You know, 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:38.240 it was somebody who I think you'd loved but hadn't 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:40.400 kept in touch with as much. But we've reconnected with 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.240 a bit here and we need to see him again soon, 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:43.040 as Brad Walmack. 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:45.920 Yeah again. Yeah, I mean he's and he's right under 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:46.880 our nose here in Austin. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:48.400 But I mean when we first moved here, we got 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:49.839 dinner and you were like, oh, it was so good 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:51.760 to see you. So let's call Brad Walmack. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:53.959 Let's call Brad Walmack. Yes. You know, if there's a 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:58.280 takeaway from this podcast today, Brad, you're buying this dinner soon. 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.640 I don't think it's about it's all a wish that 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.360 we could see people more. You're right, I like sometimes 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.280 people pop up on Instagram and you feel like you're 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:07.880 seeing them, but that in person hang is always better. 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:11.240 But it's hard. Everybody's spread out everywhere and busy. But 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:13.559 it's great to be in a place where you want 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:15.000 to hang out with people and talk to them more. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:31.240 Grace is wondering what is your least favorite and most 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.319 favorite job that you have had over the years. 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:41.480 What if it's the same one. I've had a lot 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:45.200 of jobs, man, I've had a lot of jobs. I 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:51.200 guess the craziest, happiest time of was beginning my sportscasting careers. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.440 Just everything was new. I was starting the adventure of 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:58.439 launching this career. This is back in ninety three when 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:01.240 I graduated and I started working Oklahoma City, and it 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:03.160 was so new, and I was covering things for the 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:06.559 first time and doing things and making mistakes and learning 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:09.240 at such a high level. It was like drinking from 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.080 a fire hydrant. And luckily I had some amazing mentors 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:14.640 around me to teach me and and groom me, and 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.600 I worked hard at my craft. That was maybe my 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:21.640 most enjoyable time because it was so hard and fun 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:28.560 and just the reward, the risk reward was so high. 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:28.600 And it's good to build something. 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:31.000 Yeah, I mean, and again the Bachelor, We've talked about 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:32.880 it a lot. At the beginning it was wonderful, but 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:35.400 the beginning of it all was the best because you're 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:37.319 creating it all and it was so new and everything's 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:40.160 happening for the first time, and you know the travel 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:43.199 and even press and learning how to do it all 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.040 and handle it. That's exciting. What about you. 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:51.679 Least favorite job? Part time employee at Target In high 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:55.520 school and college, people are really mean to part time 0:11:55.559 --> 0:12:00.960 employees at Darks. They are madam you and I didn't 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:03.920 know specific information and prices about every single object at 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:04.720 the store. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:06.439 Would be nice to those Those folks work in the 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:07.600 summer jobs at Target. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.560 Well, I mean I was like, I'm a they I mean. 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.959 The next laurenz em Well, they just talk. 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:15.719 Down to you. They assume you're stupid, whether because you're 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:19.240 young or I I don't know. And yeah, they were 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:23.880 just really uh also so careless, Like would just drop 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:26.400 clothes on the floor and leave them in the clothing section. 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:29.400 I stupidly, as a teenager, thought, I like clothes, I'll 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.160 work in the clothing section. No, if you are getting 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.320 a part time job as a high schooler at a 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.160 place like a Target, be a cashier, the day goes 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:38.880 by so much faster and you just get to stand 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:42.439 in place and you were like running around and dealing 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:44.280 with a lot of people and it just goes by slowly. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:49.280 So best best job I've ever had. I mean, I 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:53.000 loved doing Roses and Rose. Yeah, because that was this 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:58.400 combination of like doing news but making it funny and 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.560 giving it this comedic twist. And I don't think we've 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:03.840 said this, but I will say I I guess we 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:06.040 can reveal that part of our plan with the new 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:09.679 reality dating show would be that I will do an 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.080 after show for it. Oh yeah, much like Roses and Rose. 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:13.319 We definitely should say that. 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:16.720 Yeah, so that's the plan. Maybe we won't share the 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:21.120 concept yet, but the idea would be Chris will host 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:22.959 the show and I will do an after show. And 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:27.079 I will absolutely relish doing that again because I loved 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:32.480 and working on the Yeah, yes, but I loved like 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:36.320 that comedic spin. I love getting Truly, what makes me happy, 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:38.439 however I can do it, is making people happy. I 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:42.600 don't think I like that. I've realized that about myself. 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:46.360 I just love making people laugh. But you know you 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:48.760 need the right venue to do it in. It's like 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:51.680 even on the podcast. Someday, you know, we get like 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:53.839 more in depth here, but it's not the venue of 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:57.440 like that ridiculous side of me where I was drinking 0:13:57.440 --> 0:14:00.840 wine and comparing the show to Game of Thrones and 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:03.760 like Taylor Swift albums and doing crossovers of everything I loved. 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:06.800 I forgot, I didn't say my worst. I was on 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:09.679 the sand and finished crew of a floor company at 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:14.880 French Brown Floors in Dallas, Texas summer job. When you 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.960 sand and finish floors like our hardwood floor, you just 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:21.080 hold this like seventy five pound machine as you're bent 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:23.160 over all day in a one hundred and eight degree 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.960 house because you can't have the air conditioning on because 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:27.840 of all the dust, and it's just a miserable job. 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:30.120 It's what kept me in college. I'm like, I will 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.440 get my degree. I will not do this. 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:35.760 That was But what's great is that you still remember 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.840 those skills and you yourself. I sand did and finished 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:40.720 our outdoor table, as I. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:42.320 Didn't sand and finish anything like. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:44.560 That, and I didn't trust him. I have to admit 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:46.720 He's like, I know what to do, and I'm like, babe, 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.080 that's an expensive table. I'm sure you know. I don't know. 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:51.280 Maybe we should call someone. No, you knew what to do. 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:53.840 Any question of questioned you. 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:57.040 I'm going to ask this next question because it's kind 0:14:57.040 --> 0:15:00.880 of sporty because the first Saturday and May is coming up. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:05.760 They're going to the Kentucky Derby. We're not going this year. 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:09.600 But Elsie tips, well. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.240 We're not going, and I shouldn't say we didn't have 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:14.080 a bad time and we got invited to. 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:16.280 Go, We got graduation, we had stuff, and we just 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:16.640 can't do it. 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:18.640 We just couldn't fit it in, but we were invited 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:20.520 and would have been happy to go again. So tips 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:26.080 enjoy it. I wish I'd put a little more time, 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:28.280 like I put time into the outfit, but put time 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:30.920 into the outfit. That's don't make it an afterthought, make 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:32.800 it a focus and the hat can I. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:35.480 Ask a question on behalf of women that you need 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:38.400 to answer. What's the shoe situation? What should I be wearing? 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:39.040 Shoe wise? 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:40.720 That's what's so hard. You have to do a lot 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:43.080 of walking, Yeah, a lot of walking. Yet you want 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:45.520 to be wearing heels because your outfit's cute, whatever your 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:47.240 comfort is. You know, that's tough. 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:51.320 Because by the way, they do sell flip flops, Like 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.640 there's kids with flip flops right outside the door as 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:56.200 you walk out, because they know everybody walks out. 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:58.640 Yes, it's like a wedding when they have flip flops 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:02.240 after dancing, like you are gonna want to be. Yeah, 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:05.360 there's so much walking because it's so small where the 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:08.000 derby is and it's on all these tiny little streets 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:10.840 that like cars can't get to you, like you have 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:14.880 to walk to get out of it all. So yeah, 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:18.720 enjoy yourself and try what's the signature drink. 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:20.000 I forget the mint Julip. 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:21.880 Is it the mintulap? Yes, but they have like a 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:22.680 special way they do it. 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:23.880 I thought mint julip. 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:25.640 Can't remember, but give it a whirl. 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:29.360 That is the drink. And by the way, for your 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:34.360 handicapping tips, look at some of these races, the Arkansas Derby, 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:39.000 Louisiana Derby, the Florida Derby, Lot of Lot, and don't 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:41.000 just look at the winner of those races. Look at 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.800 who may have finished second, very close, may have had 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.960 a bad trip. Look at those races for those three 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:48.840 year olds coming up, have a blast. One hundred and 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:51.760 fiftieth Kentucky Derby's coming up. It is a milestone. It 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:54.280 is a trip to Louisville. You won't forget. For all 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.800 of our friends we made last year in Louisville, we 0:16:56.840 --> 0:16:59.360 miss you, guys. Will we will be back, but we 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:01.800 just got some big family and life events coming up 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:03.400 that we just can't miss it for. But we'll be 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:08.359 watching on NBC. We appreciate it. Should I ask this 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:13.159 question from Mary, what are some IX like and I 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:15.760 mean like ikey like ooh ick, babe. 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.720 I don't think that you know what this is referencing. 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:19.840 So let me help you people today save the ick 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.919 like wh it gives me the ick? You know, no 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:23.199 one's saying ikey, but like you. 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:24.880 I just meant like I was trying to explain because 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:26.639 I didn't know if if you hear that, am I 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:27.560 enunciating it? 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:28.240 Oh? 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:28.359 Like? 0:17:28.600 --> 0:17:32.280 So yes? So Mary's asking, what are some ix you 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:35.919 used to get from someone if they would say or 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:38.040 do something on the first few dates? So basically what 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:43.720 gave us the ick? Go ahead? 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:46.800 I just remember the one I got the ick from 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:50.480 was a bad conversationalist, someone who didn't ask me one 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:55.199 question the entire night, didn't ask one question. I just 0:17:55.560 --> 0:17:59.119 which is odd because I did this to you, or 0:17:59.160 --> 0:18:00.880 maybe you did this to me. I'm not sure which, 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:03.080 but I'm glad we made it through that ick stage. 0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:05.840 But uh, someone who doesn't ever ask about you and 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:08.920 they just talk incessantly about themselves, that's an ick. 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:11.480 That's funny. I was gonna say the same thing. That's 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:16.240 my ick in romantic relationships and friendships and work relationships. 0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:20.240 That's my human ick. If a person never can go like, 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.560 I want to know about you, And Chris is saying, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.159 if you haven't heard us tell this story. On our 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:27.320 first date, I and I always say give people a 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:29.640 second date. I think the first date's an interview. It's hard, 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:30.760 people are nervous. 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:31.600 So airs wasn't perfect. 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:34.480 No, it was great. But I'll usually give people a 0:18:34.520 --> 0:18:37.000 second date if they I mean not anymore. But you know, 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:39.800 if there were one or two things off, I'd still 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:42.639 give a second date because first dates are weird. 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:44.400 Yeah, it's funny, we both have the same ick. 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:47.760 Yeah, But on our first date, I felt like Chris 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:50.040 did talk about himself quite a lot. But we talked 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:51.720 about it later and he said, I felt like you 0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:53.919 wanted to interview mode and asked me a million questions. 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:55.800 So that might have been my fault. And by the way, 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:58.080 I have an awareness. I tend to do that. I 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.720 like love people's stories, and so I asked them all questions. 0:19:01.280 --> 0:19:03.119 But I'm not looking for a lot back. I'm not 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:05.080 looking for the same level back. But if you don't 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:09.159 give me even a how are you, where are you from, 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:12.840 or what do you do for work, I'm very turned off. 0:19:13.200 --> 0:19:15.320 I don't want to interact with that person anymore because 0:19:15.920 --> 0:19:18.680 to me, any relationship is a two way straight any 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:22.680