1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Am I wrong for not telling my sister our husbands 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: went to a strip club? This is okay, OP, where 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: we tell the craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sam and John. 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: Do you think OP should have told about the strip club? 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: Endeavor? 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 3: Okay, So there are a lot of situations where people, 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 3: even couples, go to the strip club and it's like, yo, 8 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 3: it's fun, We're having a good time. 9 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 2: Like it's just it's a fun activity. 10 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. That's where me, John and Riley always me, oh yeah, 11 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: of course. 12 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 3: And my girlfriend is so happy about it, so happy 13 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 3: about it. 14 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: Just kidding. 15 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 1: John's just like sometimes I just need a fat ass 16 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: in my face to think yes, and Riley's ass ain't enough. No, 17 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: it's just kidding. It's big, and it's protein film, it's 18 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: big protein, it's huge. 19 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 2: We may go during the day, though, we don't go 20 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: at night. Yeah. 21 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, respectfully, respectfully the most respectful way. 22 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 23 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: But that being said, I think if there's a question 24 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 3: of whether or not, like you kind of know, if 25 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 3: someone would want to know that kind of thing or not, 26 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 3: I'm going to guess here that person would because the 27 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 3: question being asked, So I'm going to say that they 28 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 3: should they should tell. 29 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: Okay, well let's see what actually happens. So me, female 30 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: thirty and my husband twenty eight live in Las Vegas, 31 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: which is strip club central. My sister's female thirty six 32 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: husband male thirty eight visits Vegas each year to see 33 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: a sports game while my sister stays home with my kids. 34 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: The sport is called ass. Yeah, it's exotic pole dancing. 35 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: I love that sport. 36 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 3: To the world champions, baby, I mean, they're athletes, the abs. 37 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 2: You gotta have to do some of those tricks. Come on. 38 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 1: He was here this past weekend along with my brother, 39 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: Mail twenty eight. We all went out to dinner and 40 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: my brother mentioned that they were going to a strip 41 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: club afterwards. He asked if we wanted to come. My 42 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: brother knows that my husband and I have gone to 43 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: strip clubs together, but I felt it would be weird 44 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: to go with my brothers, so I declined. My husband said, yes, 45 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:52,639 Speaker 1: I'm not naive. 46 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: I know a lot of these. 47 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: Women offer enhance services beyond dancing. Hand I trust my 48 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: yeah enhanced as my husband one hundred percent. To stay 49 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: within the boundaries we've previously discussed. I know my brother's 50 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: fiance knows he went to a strip club last time 51 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: he was in town. But I have no clue what 52 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: boundaries they have in this arena, or if my sister 53 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: knew brother in law was going. I figured since they 54 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: were openly discussing it in front of me, everything was 55 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: probably on the up and up. 56 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: Mmm, what do you think about that assumption? 57 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 3: I think we need to put an ICU in the comments. 58 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 3: If you see what's about to happen. 59 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: I think so too. 60 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: When my husband got home, I obviously wanted all the 61 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: gory details. My husband tells me that he and my 62 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: brother each got a few lap dances in the main room, 63 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: but my brother in law went into the private rooms 64 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: for a big boy dance, as my husband called it. 65 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: What's a big boy dance? I imagine that's a dance for 66 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: your big boy? Is it like a I mean, they're 67 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: I think they're doing the deed. 68 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: Do you think so? I feel like that's what they're 69 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 2: talking about. 70 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, he said he thinks brother in law spent around 71 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars. The last time we went. A private 72 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 1: dance costs two hundred dollars, so that's already suspicious to me. 73 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh, big protein just made a big face. Oh yeah, 74 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 2: I like pikes. 75 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: My husband said that the woman gave brother in law 76 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: her phone number. When I said, what the hell to that? 77 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: My husband walked it back and said he wasn't sure 78 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: if brother in law got her number, only that brother 79 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: in law said she offered to give it to him. 80 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: My husband said, after the private dance, another woman came 81 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: up to them and brother in law said, no thanks, 82 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: I already blew my wad. He could have either meant 83 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: money or something else. Either way, gross. 84 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 3: I feel like that's a little bit of a double entendre, 85 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: meaning both at once. 86 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: So now I'm deciding if I tell my sister all 87 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: of this. My family is pretty sexually liberated, but we 88 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: don't discuss details with each other. My sister and I 89 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: are very similar, and obviously I don't consider it cheating 90 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: That my husband was there, so I wouldn't be surprised 91 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: if she was okay with brother in law doing the same. 92 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: But I can't be sure all that happened. Is he 93 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: really stupid enough to do something my sister considers cheating 94 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: in front of my husband and her brother, knowing how 95 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: easily it could get back to her, And there is 96 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: a big fat juicy update. But John, do you think 97 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: OP should tell her sister? 98 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: Yes, I one hundred percent think that OP should say 99 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 3: it because better safe than sorry. Right, Maybe OP brings 100 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 3: us up and it's like, hey, here's what happened. You know, 101 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 3: they went to the strip club. There was this big dance. 102 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 3: It was five hundred dollars. The last time we was 103 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 3: two hundred. Maybe it's nothing, Maybe you're fine with it, 104 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 3: but I wanted to tell you just in case. 105 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 2: Then if it's not anything, which kind. 106 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 3: Of seems unlikely to be, but if it really is, 107 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 3: you know, if the sister considers it nothing, she's like, oh, 108 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 3: that's fine, whatever. 109 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 2: But if it isn't, then it's like. 110 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 1: And I think like generally tell the truth, yes, and 111 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: I think like to all people, but you especially are 112 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 1: obligated to tell the truth to the relationship that is 113 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: strongest between two people. Right, the brother in law you're 114 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: probably not as close to as your freaking sister. So 115 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: you owe truth to your sister over like the brother 116 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: in law. Of course, what if she's one of the boys, 117 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: that's true. What if she's a pick me girl? 118 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: What if she's she's trying to follow the bro code 119 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 2: and trying to be a bro. 120 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, don't disrespect the bros, even if it's against 121 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: your sister. But let's get into this update. She's visiting 122 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: me next month and my plan is to casually mention 123 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: that they went. If she asks for more details, I 124 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: will tell her everything, but if she brushes it off, 125 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: I won't push the subject. She's the type to keep 126 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: marital issues private and seems one hundred percent against the 127 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: idea of divorce, so telling her will most likely just 128 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: hurt her feelings and accomplish nothing. Am I wrong for 129 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: not telling her? Will waiting only make things worse? Or 130 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: is it best to stay out of it altogether and 131 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: spare my sister's feelings? So we kind of went over 132 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: that a little bit, and there is an update. Thanks 133 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: everyone for replying. I now know I have to tell her. 134 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: Can I get some feedback on this message? 135 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 2: Please? 136 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: So I'm sure husband's name wouldn't be dumb enough to 137 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: do this without telling you, But just FYI, the boys 138 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 1: went to a strip club while he was in town. 139 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: Felt like I had to tell you just in case. 140 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 1: And also, oh, he's asking for some more encouragement because 141 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: he's dreading sending this like you wouldn't believe so the 142 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: comment are saying. Protozo Patriots says, if your actions cover 143 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: up his crime in a way, you're an accomplice to it. 144 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: Be honest with your sister. She deserves to know, and 145 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: if there are any repercussions for him, that is his fault. 146 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: Opie says, I'm not worried about repercussions for him. That's 147 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: the whole problem. I don't think she will leave him regardless. 148 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: I think she should have divorced him years ago. I'm 149 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: worried that telling her will make her feel terrible about 150 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: herself and accomplish nothing. Oh so she's like he's a 151 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: piece of shit anyway. That colors it a little bit, 152 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: It does, It does? Wolf Ryder says, you are wrong. 153 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: Sister has a right to know brother in law made 154 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: his choices. If you even wait to tell her, she's 155 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: going to hold it against you. Should probably look at 156 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: your own husband too. Though he started telling you everything, 157 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: then when he realized what he was saying and to whom, 158 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: he began backpedaling, which means he's not against holding things 159 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: from you. Doesn't sound like one hundred percent trustworthy man. 160 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 2: Great point. 161 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: Great call out, which is a difficult thing to hear, 162 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: But Opie says, I just think my husband didn't want 163 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: to give me any information. He wasn't one hundred percent 164 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: sure of extremely trustworthy. But thank you for the feedback. 165 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 1: Pale Condition ten to fifty six says, sounds like your 166 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: husband might have done a little more and held on himself, 167 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: which I could see too. Sparkle and Shine for says 168 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: no doubt, attempting to cover up his brother in law 169 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: as possible infidelity surely makes him as trustworthy as they come. Right, 170 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: Just remember Birds of a Feather and all that jazz. 171 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: Opie says he was trying to convey to me that 172 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: this was the type of stripper who gives out her 173 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: phone number, meaning she moonlights as a prostitute. He initially 174 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: said she gave him her phone number, which I took 175 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: to mean brother in law accepted her phone number. Then 176 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: my husband clarified that he wasn't sure if brother in 177 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: law accepted or not, just that she offered. 178 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: Right. 179 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: So now we can get into the updates. But does 180 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: any of that change your opinion of whether Opee should 181 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: tell the sister or is it even more emphatic? 182 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: Now? Yeah, I think it just makes it even more emphatic. 183 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 3: It's like, I do think there, I can see what 184 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 3: OPI is saying with her husband, but I thought that 185 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: that was a good call out that possibly. 186 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 2: Could be a situation there. 187 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: But I also do believe op and her saying like, oh, 188 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: he just wanted to be sure he was telling me 189 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: the truth. He wasn't backpedaling, he was just being like, Okay, 190 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to incriminate someone. I just want to 191 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: give the straight like. 192 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: A misinterpretation I agree to, but it it was such 193 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 3: a good thing to call out. Yeah, clarify and knowing 194 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 3: that OPI has hated him for years, Good luck girl. 195 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but let's get into this juicy update. So just 196 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: a quick update, because I know a few people were 197 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: invested in the story. I waited till Thanksgiving to bring 198 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: it up because I'm a coward. My sister's husband had 199 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: told her everything shortly after the trip ended. We ended 200 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 1: up having a good laugh, making fun of the three 201 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: of them and men in general for being dumb enough 202 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: to think strippers are actually into them. Happy to know 203 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: that my sister and I and soon to be sister 204 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: in law are indeed as similar as I suspected. We 205 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: are all as well, and we had a great Thanksgiving, 206 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: and there are some relevant comments. Long distance boyfriend Tutor 207 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: two says, well, here's an idea. You and sist go 208 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: to the mail strip club and have a good time. 209 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: You can all laugh about how it's all fun after glad, 210 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: it's all fun now, and Op says, I've been to 211 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: one and it was just gross and awkward. I wish 212 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: there was an actual equivalent for women, though, like a 213 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: place where hot men just listened to us vent and 214 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 1: rubbed our shoulders and complimented our makeup or something that. 215 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 2: Is billion dollar business right there. 216 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 1: And then survival Nut says, let me see if I 217 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: understand correctly, your brother in law may have had happy 218 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: times with a stripper and picked up an SDI and 219 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: you found out that night, but waited for a month, 220 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: giving him ample opportunity to infect your sister, and then 221 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: you told her. I may be a pessimist, but what 222 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: the fuck? I never really worried about SDDS. He didn't 223 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: spend that kind of money, so was probably just like 224 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: a handy. 225 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: I guess OP knows her prices, he knows the market. 226 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: How much? 227 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: How much is a hooker? These days, no idea Riley, 228 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: how much is a hooker in Vegas or a sex worker? Yeah, 229 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: average costs around two hundred and six hundred an hour? Whoa, 230 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: so he spent five hundred? Intelligent Aoli ninety says people 231 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: can get seeds from mouths, though your sister's very chill. 232 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: Five hundred versus two hundred. He must have tipped really well. 233 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 1: Things that make you go hmmmm and then up. Doc 234 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 1: sixty nine says your husband's backpedaling on the story about 235 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: your brother in law makes his own story suspicious. Are 236 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: you sure he didn't have a private dance too? Opie says, 237 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: I may be a weirdo, but actually I like it 238 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: when my husband has private dances, So that's not it. 239 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: And I think he backpedaled because he didn't want to 240 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: give me any info he wasn't one hundred percent sure of. 241 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: So it seems like Opie's just chill with it. Yeah, 242 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: it's not like an open relationship necessarily, but it's like they're. 243 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: Kind of like a little they're more little spicy. 244 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: They're they're a little spicy than your average relationship. That's right, 245 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: that's fine as long as there's consent and everyone knows. 246 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 3: So do we think that there should be a further 247 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 3: investigation of this to get the full you know, the 248 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 3: full FBI rundown. 249 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like neither Ope or her sister care. Yeah, 250 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: so I'm like, I don't think so live and let 251 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 1: live right, Live and let live. 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Time 256 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: for OKOP Reward Today, I afked up by kidnapping two people, 257 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: not one person, two people. 258 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 2: I've double the trouble if you ask me. 259 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: My mom invited people who were visiting from England over 260 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 1: to her house and ask me to pick them up. 261 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: My mom was about an hour away, and my apartment 262 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: is close to the visiting relatives. She sends me an 263 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: address and I proceed to said address. Now, mind you, 264 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: I've never seen these people in my life before, but 265 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: she told me the two people were supposed to come over. 266 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 2: I get to the house and there are. 267 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: Exactly two people standing outside, the dad and his five 268 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: year old son. It's snowing and sleeping outside, and I 269 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: rolled down my window to tell them to come in. 270 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: The dad says something and I just say, yeah, yeah, yeah, 271 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 1: I'm here for you. 272 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 2: Just come in. 273 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: They get in the car and we immediately start talking 274 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: like we know each other. He tells me his phone 275 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: is dead, so he couldn't call the people he was 276 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: supposed to see and confirm the pickup. I assume he 277 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: was talking about my mom. He asked me if he 278 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: could plug his phone into the USB, and I'm. 279 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 2: Like, sure, why not. Then he proceeds to. 280 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: Ask me about my life, and he asks if I 281 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: know my native language, and I laugh and I say yeah, 282 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: apparently not well enough. But then he starts mentioning the 283 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 1: word moonhor and every time he says it, it's like 284 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: munhor By, which translates to brother moonhor Munjor. And I 285 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 1: didn't pay close attention. I had an hour drive ahead 286 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,439 Speaker 1: of me. Then we keep talking about how he is 287 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: trying to learn English himself and is trying to get 288 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: his little boy accustomed in the English language. He is 289 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: really trying hard for people at home to start speaking 290 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: in Then he mentions how excited he is about the car. 291 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: The moonhor By is going to show moonhor By. I 292 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: don't know how to pronounce that. At that point, I 293 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 1: was ten minutes into the drive and already on the highway, 294 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: and it finally hit me and I ask him what 295 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: does moonhorn mean? He says, it's a person's name. At 296 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: that point, I'm like, that's a weird name to call 297 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: my mom, and he goes, Mom, isn't that your uncle? 298 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: And at that point I'm like, what the crap. I 299 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: go down the list of family members in my house 300 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 1: to see if maybe he recognizes them, and he does not. 301 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: We both have a pausled look in my face, and 302 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: his child is getting really scared. At this point he 303 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: asked his dad, Dad, who is this man driving us? 304 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 2: Then I decided to call my mom to clear it up. 305 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 1: Turns out I picked up the wrong two people, and 306 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: I had, in fact picked up two total strangers. My 307 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: mom asked me who I had in the car and 308 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I have no idea. I hang up 309 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: and tell them I was sorry. The fear in their 310 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: eyes I will never forget. I took the nearest u 311 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: turn and brought them home. Turns out the people I 312 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: was supposed to pick up lived a floor below the 313 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: people I actually picked up. 314 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 3: For a whole How do you not check so many, 315 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 3: so many steps had to happen where it could have 316 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 3: been found out like oh oh no, it's not it's 317 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 3: not us. 318 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like how do you how do you not just 319 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: be like yo, like what's your name? 320 00:13:59,240 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: Like who are you? 321 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 3: Or like especially the people because I kind of understand 322 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 3: the guy was distracted driving, but the two people going, 323 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 3: it's like, hey, so 324 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: Like it's weird that like both parties failed to recognize 325 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: that they are in the wrong place, you know, for 326 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: it's that's that's egregious.