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Speaker 1: Dre and the Cold and you are tuned in to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Mind where a drug's mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober thought. And we got a guest today. I am

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Speaker 1: so excited. I'm very excited because first of all, we

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Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying, I was like, I

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Speaker 1: love it. I love it. But we talk so much

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Speaker 1: about like our signs on here. A lot of the

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Speaker 1: listeners are always like, oh, I can tell Lexus and

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Speaker 1: Piscey not ain't even a Piscey. They're like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: think she a Gemini, bro, what did you talking about?

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Speaker 1: So I feel like so many times, like a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, we talk about it just because it's so interesting,

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Speaker 1: but we really don't know what the fuck are we

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Speaker 1: talking about? Because I do the same thing. If a

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Speaker 1: I'll be like you a capricorn. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: I'll be trying to read Somebody each asked a Scorpio, Well,

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Speaker 1: that's that's kind of good. You know, so we just

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Speaker 1: came to straighten things out. So before we start, give

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Speaker 1: us a little introduction and let the girls know who

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Speaker 1: you are. Of course. What greetings everyone. I'm Gg Robinson,

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Speaker 1: owner and founder of I Am Living a Line. It's

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Speaker 1: my online activation community where we discussed into it's of astrology,

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Speaker 1: life coaching, all things sacred, sexuality and waste speeds like

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Speaker 1: a waste Yes, okay, so I could just go ahead

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Speaker 1: get a little chatty on that. Yeah, you know, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to, you know, waste of time because I

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Speaker 1: love astrology. I'm so excited we're about to get us

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Speaker 1: real real started. Okay, so first thing we wanted to

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Speaker 1: tackle is love, sex and astrology. Yes, and how does.

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Speaker 2: That really connect?

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Speaker 1: And is it? Is it real? Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Because you know, like I said, like I was, I

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Speaker 1: But people often say that they're like old scorpios have

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Speaker 1: the best sex, they're very sexual. But in my experience,

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Speaker 1: my best sex didn't come from a scorpio. And I

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Speaker 1: had two serious relationships with a scorpio. So who was

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Speaker 1: your being sexual partner? I would have to say one

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Speaker 1: and the other was a Virgo. M me a Capricorn.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think my top two would have

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Speaker 1: I had just say a fledge. I mean, okay, So

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Speaker 1: what does sex and signs have to do with each other? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I'm glad that you guys said that, like even

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Speaker 1: It's so much more to stra than just your sun signs.

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Speaker 1: So sun sign is the day you were born? On

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Speaker 1: the constellations, Like right now, any babies being born are Aquariuses,

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Speaker 1: But when we start to move into other parts of

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Speaker 1: which is your Mars energy. Right, So depending on what

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Speaker 1: Mars sign that I don't know what. Yes, so let

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Speaker 1: So when you're drawing in Virgo energy, they are tapping

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lexp And it's sugarl

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Speaker 1: drain and the cold, and it's time to make an announcement.

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Speaker 1: Times we're overdue. Second show, second live show. Is it

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Speaker 2: We did have two shows.

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Speaker 1: Well, let me tell y'all right now, we're not doing

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Speaker 1: two shows on one night, So y'all better get y'all

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Speaker 2: We're done.

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Speaker 1: On Wednesday, March sixteenth, we're gonna be in Charlotte for

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Speaker 1: our second live show. I'm super excited because we got

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Speaker 1: So yes, we're gonna be at the Comedy Zone in Charlie.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be huge, it's gonna be amazing. I hope

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Speaker 1: you'll already. Y'all need to get y'all tickets. And because

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Speaker 1: y'all March sixteenth. Get your tickets right now. Come party

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Speaker 1: Big things are great too. But on the show, you know,

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Speaker 1: Maybe they came to help you to learn how to

427
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Speaker 1: speak up for yourself.

428
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Speaker 2: You speaking a word right now through right now.

429
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So understand that when we draw people in with

430
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,199
Speaker 1: drawing them in because they are things we need and

431
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 1: things we need activated not all people. That's one thing

432
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 1: that I you know, me being Polly, I have a

433
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 1: you are I am Polly, So being a firm believer

434
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,679
Speaker 1: that when you come in contact different different people in

435
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: my life have turned on different things in me. But

436
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,159
Speaker 1: we got all these gifts in us and sometimes we

437
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,160
Speaker 1: don't know it until a person comes along and they

438
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,479
Speaker 1: like spark your interests and right next thing you know,

439
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: like this is a talent of yours in your life,

440
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,399
Speaker 1: but now this is a talent of yours. So people

441
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 1: come in to teach you so much about yourself and

442
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,679
Speaker 1: when you start to know your chart, when they show up,

443
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 1: like she's like, oh I know you in my moon.

444
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: See that's smart. Now you know how to use the

445
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 1: energy when it shows up. Versus saying I don't mess

446
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 1: with scorpios, I don't mess with the right. But they

447
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 1: hurt me. No, if they hurt you, well, how did

448
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 1: they hurt you? What did you let them have that

449
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 1: you didn't speak up for yourself? What happened that you

450
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: didn't learn the lesson of how to now take that

451
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 1: and incorporated.

452
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 2: So do you think it's odd?

453
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Speaker 1: Like if you meet somebody and you'd be like, what

454
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: are you going now? I want to ask people that

455
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 1: and I'm sending to you and I'm like, girl, break this.

456
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 3: Time.

457
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: Okay? So with anything spiritual, right, So this is no

458
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Speaker 1: matter whether we're doing tarror cars or you have to

459
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: get permission, you know. So that's what I.

460
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,120
Speaker 2: Can't look up his art without him knowing.

461
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: Type you don't want to, okay, then your mind is

462
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: just gonna be all over the places it up. You

463
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: don't literally have because understand where our energy, So it's

464
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 1: our energetic permission, right. Or we talk about consent a lot, right,

465
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Speaker 1: So this is still consent. So when you go into

466
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Speaker 1: that perspective, it allows you to see what it is

467
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 1: that you're you know, you are attracting. But if they

468
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: don't know you doing it, then you're gonna go in

469
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: thinking you know something about them that they don't know.

470
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: And so now you're moving sneaky, right. You know, this

471
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: is why you try to act a certain way that

472
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: you think that they lie. They try to be a

473
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: person that you know, which is still not gonna see

474
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 1: all of that stuff and it makes you feel like,

475
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 1: you know, maybe I don't even want to talk to

476
00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 1: you no more before you even get to know that.

477
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: So even I have a hard time that, trust me,

478
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: because you know, people always want to give me that

479
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 1: information when I look at myself and I'm like, no,

480
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 1: not yet, Like, let me allow myself to like really

481
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: synergize with your energy and see and then yeah, we'll

482
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: get into the astrology. I'll look at that stuff, but

483
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't run to that directly. I want I want

484
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 1: my intuition to let me know. I want to start

485
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: using the body to let me know that this is

486
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: a good experience for me. This is a lot of

487
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: good experience for me. So when people are talking, I'm sorry. Look,

488
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 1: when people are really trying to get to know their

489
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: emotional side and their personality, they need to look at

490
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: their moon sign period. You need to look at your

491
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Speaker 1: moon sign period. I don't care what if you said today,

492
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start doing astrology moon sign, Okay, hammering in

493
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Speaker 1: on it, study it every single day. Moon is a

494
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: very important you know energy too, I mean we all are.

495
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Speaker 1: But when it comes down to like I bet you

496
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 1: you a lot of your your friends call you when

497
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: it comes down to really heavy things that they need

498
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: to talk.

499
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: About all the time.

500
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: That's because part of your energy is also you know,

501
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,959
Speaker 1: not to nudge a little bit, but part of it

502
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,679
Speaker 1: is also doing this like you are a reader. You

503
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Speaker 1: are somebody who could intuitively help people get to the

504
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: next level. She feels it a lot because that when

505
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: that Leo Moon is feeling some kind of way and

506
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 1: you get into that mode not even knowing that you're

507
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: doing it. It's just intuitively come out of you. You get

508
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: these downloads and just different things and you're like, hmm,

509
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know where they came from. That's because

510
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: that Prices is very tied to the end, got you

511
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: very tied to the well. When we first met, remember

512
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: we had a conversation. We first met at a bar.

513
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Speaker 1: We were bars and we none of the girls really

514
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 1: knew each other. But I kept telling how I'm like,

515
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 1: it's so weird, I don't know none of these girls.

516
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: All the girls, Remember, they just kept coming up to me,

517
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Speaker 1: like girl telling me their life story, telling me. I'm like, bro,

518
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,479
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna make Long Island. Yeah, no, I'm not

519
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: trying to get y' all therapy right now? They did?

520
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Speaker 1: They start, And I feel like people generally all aways

521
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Speaker 1: do that with Lex and with me they don't because

522
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: they know it's not I'm not the one.

523
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Speaker 2: To come giving better help.

524
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Speaker 1: It's like it's not giving edge. Yeah, because her advice

525
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: is gonna be like, well, why don't you just do better?

526
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: Why you having a problem? But it's because your choices.

527
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 1: It's like really dry everything almost like hand holding. It's like, well,

528
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Speaker 1: how do you want to do it? Like you know,

529
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: you're almost you're nursing them into a space. Is how

530
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Speaker 1: les personality is. It is like and I always so

531
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Speaker 1: because she's out of all my friends, she definitely is

532
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Speaker 1: the person who when I'm sad and stuff, I always

533
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Speaker 1: have to call and talk to her, not even because

534
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Speaker 1: and not for the reason that most people would think,

535
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Speaker 1: because I think watching the show, most people would think, oh,

536
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Speaker 1: she probably want to call Lex, so lexim at collapse,

537
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Speaker 1: But like, no, Lex is just very She is very

538
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Speaker 1: intuitive and very I don't know, in tune with her emotions. Yes,

539
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: and I've told her and I've said it's on a

540
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Speaker 1: show too. Over the course of time that we've been friends,

541
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Speaker 1: she's made me more intune with my emotions, more of

542
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Speaker 1: an emotional person, because I didn't used to be that

543
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Speaker 1: way at all. Like I used to be a bad communicator,

544
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Speaker 1: Like if somebody would piss me off, I wouldn't want

545
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: to talk to you no more. It's like, okay, you

546
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: pisced me off between my friends, no more. But when

547
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 1: I became friends with her, I used to tell her

548
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: at time, so we'll be trying. You gotta be my

549
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: friend no more. She used to be like bitch, no, Like, yeah,

550
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 1: we gonna talk about this shit. We're gonna figure it out.

551
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Speaker 1: And thankfully, I'm thankful for it because if she would

552
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Speaker 1: have just let me be that way, we probably wouldn't

553
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 1: be friends anymore, you know, But she got that emotional

554
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 1: that's mature, because it's the most mature. Even though people

555
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: say that you are extremely emotional, it's because you're learning

556
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: how to handle so much. You got so much of it,

557
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: so it's from that, and then when it does become

558
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: a few you jump into the venus perspective like hold on,

559
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,239
Speaker 1: this is my relationship, let me work it out right.

560
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: So that makes sense. So this is why I'm saying,

561
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: like you you are all these inergies. We're literally everything

562
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: in the zodiac. Let me just clarify that you're every

563
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 1: sign in the zodiac from Arias to Pisces, just in

564
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 1: particular ways. God, okay, so your child, lets us know

565
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 1: in what ways you are these things. If some are

566
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: bigger than others, right, some things are more you need

567
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: to focus on more than you focus on other areas,

568
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: depending on you know, because it also gets even deeper,

569
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: like it, let us know stuff that your family was

570
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: dealing with. I can pull that stuff up. I can

571
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 1: tell you what your mama was dealing with. So it's

572
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff going on in that chart. It's

573
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: not just about your son's sign. So when we talk

574
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 1: about you know, I like this person they got the

575
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: best sex because they the sun sign. Wrong, that's not

576
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: the truth. I'm glad you said that because I'm tired

577
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: of these scorpios walking around thinking that they just run ship.

578
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm you know about me, and now we don't.

579
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: Now they took some intensity, they say that because scorpios.

580
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: Now we talked about who has the most intense intensity

581
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: in sex? Yeah, I can now we're talking about scorpios

582
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: or we're talking about who is the most romantic leading

583
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: up to say yeah, I agree with that, okay, or

584
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: even taris is sometimes or sometimes libra. So it's like

585
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: there's characteristics that can give you a possibility of how

586
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: a person can be. But because it's so rounded, it's

587
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: so much, they don't necessarily have to stand on it,

588
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: because they may have other placements that doesn't allow them

589
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: to be that.

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00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 1: off of your first link. Got you So, speaking of libras,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to really talk about rising signs because I

619
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Speaker 1: feel like that's what people a lot of the time

620
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Speaker 1: don't really know about, is will.

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Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about it.

622
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Speaker 1: So my rising sign is actually Libra, So I didn't know. Yeah, So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, so I looked it up before because I

624
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Speaker 1: had my my verse to see the key, but I

625
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Speaker 1: just couldn't find it. But yeah, so I'm my risin

626
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Speaker 1: sign is a liberal, Okay, so I just want to

627
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Speaker 1: know what exactly does because I don't even really know

628
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Speaker 1: what exactly does your rising sign mean. So your risin

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Speaker 1: sign is what you look like to the world. Okay,

630
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Speaker 1: So when you show up right, even though you're a tarist,

631
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Speaker 1: when you go out, if people had to guess what

632
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: you were depending on if they was just only looking

633
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: at your appearance, not even if you didn't open your mouth,

634
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: most people would would say, oh, you're a Libra, okay,

635
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: because the vibration of your your outer energy is what

636
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: that gives off. You have to have your birth time

637
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Speaker 1: what it is. So like mine is a Leo. Every

638
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: time you are you a Leo? I'm like, no, I'm

639
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: not Leo. But nobody ever asks me if I'm a Libra.

640
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Speaker 1: They always ask me if I'm like a Leo or

641
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Speaker 1: an eries, like some type of fire. Sign aries is okay,

642
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: So the Pope, when we talk about signs, every sign

643
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: has a polar opposite sign. So think about a quarter

644
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: heads and tails. If heads is Libra, tails is aries,

645
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: so that means they still are guessing right, but they're

646
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: guessing more because Arias is a stand offish part of Libra.

647
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: So the reason why they're guessing arias is because you

648
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: the libra comes in and she's like this, She's like, ooh,

649
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: what's going on? What is this? Let me taste that.

650
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: It's like everything is about oh oh, it's like right.

651
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: But when she's safe, when she's safe and comfortable, she's

652
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: all in the libra.

653
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah okay.

654
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 1: But when she's trying to see what's going on, she

655
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: has the guard to that's the Ares. So they're saying, oh,

656
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: you are aries is because they see a little level

657
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: of protection. You ain't got the guard down, you ain't

658
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: in this. Oh let's see what let me touch that. Yes,

659
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: you know, but libra is just your rising sign. What

660
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: you look like? Okay? And then I have one more

661
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: question too, like what about cuss? Is that really a thing?

662
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,719
Speaker 1: Cus is a thing? So all these signs have thirty

663
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: degrees that they separate. So, for example, aries is the

664
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Speaker 1: first sign. It goes from zero degrees to thirty degrees,

665
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: and then what comes in after that is tar Tarars

666
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: kicks up at thirty one degrees and goes to city degrees.

667
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: So if you're born on let's just say the last

668
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: day of Aris, right almost, if you're born on the

669
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 1: last day of Aris. You are both aries and tars

670
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: cup because that number. So you're saying you're only on

671
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: the cusp if it's the last if it don't have

672
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: to be just it could be like maybe like next

673
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: to the last day. So I mean like if you're

674
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: born and it's based on your degrees so far example,

675
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: let me show y'all. So it's not like the first

676
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: day of a sign. It's the first day too, because

677
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: saying the last day of the sign before is the

678
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: first day of the next sign. Okay, Because we're we're

679
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: talking about something moving in a sample. So if it's

680
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: going from a circle, when I get to twenty nine degrees,

681
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: I'm one degree away from tars, but I'm still in Aria,

682
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: so I'm both Aries and Taris. So it just literally

683
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: means a sign that's closed. So like for example, this

684
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: is your dress, so in your lilith energy, right, it's Sagittaries,

685
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: but it's at twenty nine degrees, So you are both

686
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: Satar Sagittaris and Capricorn in your energy. So you can

687
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: use both of those. You can decide to be when

688
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: you want to wild out, you can be you can

689
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: be a you can be Capricorn, when you wild out,

690
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: or you can be Sagittarius when you wild out, which

691
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: is take me on a trip to wildyute, you know

692
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it's it's when we're looking at it,

693
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: we're looking at the numbers. The numbers is what give

694
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: you whether or not your cusban. So what is your

695
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: what is Lily? It's the wild woman. Okay, it's the

696
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: wild energy. It's what that makes it if you decided

697
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: to say I don't care what nobody say, because sometimes

698
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: your emotions that get you caught up is because you

699
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: think about what other people think for me or your

700
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: processing sometimes, you know. So let's just say you're saying

701
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't care. When you say I don't care, that's

702
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: your wild woman coming up, and she's saying, listen, I'm

703
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: about me now. I want to make sure I'm doing me.

704
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: So when you get into that space, she's not thinking

705
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: about what anybody else is saying. She's not thinking about

706
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: what she got to take care of. It's about herself.

707
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: So it's the most aggressive self care space that we

708
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: got on our chart. Is your Lilith energy coming out

709
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: off to Lila is definitely popping popping up on me

710
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 1: sometimes libra okay, so so that means I be that's

711
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: I'll be moaning. Sometimes that's nice and like, so when

712
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 1: you don't care, you get completely in your feminine because

713
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: that's what libra is, especially the female perspective of it.

714
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: Oh she could be so feminine, but it's Venus. She's

715
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: ruled by Venus. So the taris could be that way,

716
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: even though sometimes tars like that, like the like be

717
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: a little bit aggressive and then it gets into the

718
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: feminine space. But the libra is all feminine, like, oh,

719
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: it's just everything is about beauty and only look at

720
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: our piece is so beautiful. Oh my gosh, she's gorgeous.

721
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: Everything's about that. So in your wild energy, when you

722
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,320
Speaker 1: are just like care that definite, I do feel a

723
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 1: little more, you know, you know, we get that little

724
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: wine and yeah, exactly, okay, okay, all of this matters.

725
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 1: Like all of this I think is really important when

726
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: you are establishing great sexual relationships because when you start

727
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: to talk to people about these parts of you and

728
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: how you you know, because they have to take time

729
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: to learn this, but if you give them the indication

730
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: of these things, and they can also tell you how

731
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: they are and now you can like, oh, okay, well

732
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: he's doing that because he like this. Oh she's doing

733
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: that because you know, so we can take off the

734
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:37,240
Speaker 1: expectation and the guess work and what we're doing in relationships,

735
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 1: because that's the that's the what causes a lot of time,

736
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: you know that always and I'll just be feeling like

737
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: my ship all over the place, like my chart is

738
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: just a me. It's beautiful?

739
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 3: Is it is?

740
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: Because I feel like beautiful? But see, I feel like

741
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: at least hers and it makes it like, you know,

742
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 1: she got a lot of virgo in her. I feel

743
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: like my ship is you got ebra, you gotta said

744
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: just Harry's, you got Gemini, you got you gonna get

745
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: it off.

746
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: But I think like we really know each other.

747
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: But that's why I say, like everybody looks at us like, oh,

748
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: you're the tourist and I'm Leo. I'm supposed to be

749
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: the wild one and you're supposed to be the common

750
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: But when it comes down to it, I'm more organized.

751
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: I'm the one that kind of like always is like, okay, Dre,

752
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: we gotta do this at this time.

753
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: I'm the one that's always like what the stuff?

754
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 1: What you know, what's going like I'm the person that's

755
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 1: like always hands to dre but like, oh is it done?

756
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: The queen is let me know, let me know. When

757
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: you need me to show up, I'm there. But then

758
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: when it comes down to the money, you don't be

759
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: the first one in the meeting.

760
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: How much we getting paid?

761
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm always on top of even in my personal finances,

762
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: Like I've always been like that. I'm really good with

763
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: money and just always on top of SHEP.

764
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 4: When you do it.

765
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all is your girl XP and it's your

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788
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Speaker 1: so let's move on to the next topic, because I

789
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,439
Speaker 1: feel like I see people talk about this so much,

790
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: even myself included, and I'm be doing what I'm talking about.

791
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: I'm just saying what the KEYD is saying when the

792
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: macaroni being microblade. Okay, ohtro grade, Yes, y'all know what

793
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: the hell I was saying. Yeah, damn it. So mercury

794
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: and retrograde, please explain this and what does it mean?

795
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 2: Does it affect each sign differently.

796
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: So let's start by the meaning of mercury retrograde and

797
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: what it is. So Mercury is our planet of communication,

798
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: so our ability to do podcasts and what we're doing

799
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: right now, all this is mercury God. Okay, So when

800
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,879
Speaker 1: mercury goes into retrograde what okay, So have y'all ever

801
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: been playing with a spinning top when you was kids,

802
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: and you know how you spinning really really fast and

803
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: when it starts to slow up and like it moved

804
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: backwards before it stopped, that's mercury retrograde. So what I

805
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: mean is when mercury, before Mercury changes signs, it has

806
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: to slow down before it changes signs, and when it

807
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 1: slows down, that's the mercury retrograde. That's us looking If

808
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: we were to look up at it, we'll be like, oh,

809
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: Mercury is moving backwards. But no, it's just getting ready

810
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: to change signs and it has to slow down before

811
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: it changes signs, waiting to take the nigga rims going

812
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: back exactly. That's what we're talking. Hold on the top, Yeah,

813
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: it's using that.

814
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 3: That.

815
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 1: Remember they have to spind rims on the shoes. Well,

816
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: remember the shoes.

817
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 2: All right, taking it too far?

818
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 1: It was at the same time it was okay, they

819
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: had the little y'all. I know I'm not the only

820
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: person in the room that were I don't remember the

821
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: rims on the shoulder and when you walk these beIN indeed.

822
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: But back to so when that happens, it's we're in

823
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: a period where we're supposed to be reviewing things, reviewing

824
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 1: what reviewing communication. If you get a contract, you're supposed

825
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: to make sure you read it several times over because

826
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: when things slow down, we just don't see it the

827
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: way we would see it if it was not slowing down,

828
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: meaning like you, you will look at something like, okay,

829
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: I see that that word is breakdown. You know what

830
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But when you when you're moving fast or

831
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: retrograde is coming in, it looks like something else. So

832
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: that's the reason why we shouldn't sign contracts during retrograde.

833
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: We shouldn't. If you break up doing a retrograde, it's

834
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 1: not real because it's a period where you are reviewing things.

835
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: All the ri words review, revise, remember, you know, retire,

836
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: what all the ri words you can come up with,

837
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to be doing during retrograde. So

838
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: that's the reason why exites show up during retrogrades. They

839
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: trying to renew, They trying to renew it. They're trying

840
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: to help you to remember what it was like when

841
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: we were together.

842
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 5: Come on.

843
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 1: Up, everything always sasing the best of your relationship. Do

844
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 1: you remember when we was doing this? They always like

845
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 1: to use those words. But your job is to also

846
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 1: make sure that during the period of retrogrades, you're not

847
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: falling back into all patterns. So that's why you're reviewing it.

848
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 1: So if the egg shows up, you're probably be like, oh,

849
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: we know what. I'm like that. He used to text

850
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 1: me every morning. So when I get into this next relationship,

851
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: I want that. I don't want him. I want that

852
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 1: texting every morning. So it's like these periods come around.

853
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: And also they come around too because sometimes we're holding

854
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 1: onto attachments we need to let go of, okay, So

855
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: when they come back in and you think it's something

856
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: new and y'all good for five days and on the

857
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: sixth day go back into what you knew it was

858
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: the reason y'all broke up in the first place. Then

859
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: you can be like, oh, okay, this is about my boundaries.

860
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,439
Speaker 1: I'm not holding good boundaries. I just let him come

861
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 1: or let her come right on back in when you know,

862
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: I said I want to these things. So retrograde is

863
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: to help you to uphold certain parts of yourself. And

864
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: that's why when it comes around, we should be excited. Now, Okay,

865
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna ask, because I feel like

866
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: everybody be running around on fire, so we should be embracing. Yes,

867
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: you should be like, oh, retrograde is coming. Okay, let

868
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: me see what's gonna show up, right, Okay, whatever show

869
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: up this is, I could finish this, I can revise it,

870
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 1: I can remember it. So a lot of things that

871
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: we may start off in retrograde don't. They don't make it.

872
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: New jobs. You know, you go and you know it

873
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: just doesn't make it. But it doesn't mean that you're

874
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: not supposed to have it. It means you're just supposed

875
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 1: to work on it. So when retrograde ends, you can

876
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: move forward. Okay. I'm like, I'm gonna started all my

877
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: niggas in retrograde then, because it don't end up like

878
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 1: it's supposed to end up.

879
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 2: It's not happening that way.

880
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I've always been very like particular

881
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,959
Speaker 1: about not starting a they new during retro grade because

882
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: I feel like I kind of always knew this, Like

883
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 1: it's not a good idea, it's not. Now you can

884
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: work on it. M yeah, you could do that, but

885
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: you want to be mindful that when. Now, if you

886
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: are drawing most of your relationships during retrograde, then what

887
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 1: I would say, just off the bat, that means that

888
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,439
Speaker 1: you need to reevaluate relationship as a whole, Like as

889
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: a whole, you need to reevaluate them, Okay, because if

890
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: you you keep drawn these experience during retrograde, that's literally

891
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: spears saying you need to review the relationships right right,

892
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: So it's how we use it. So no, we shouldn't

893
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: we shouldn't wrong, we shouldn't be scared. And then depending

894
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 1: on what sign the retrograde is in, because you just asked, well,

895
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: is it always a sign for everybody? No, depending on

896
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: where the mercury retrograde is. So also, each mercury retrograde

897
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: is different, different retrogrades, Like don't they have like a

898
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: venus retrogra venus, yes, and venus retrograde is way more

899
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: brutal to me, it is okay, because that's now involving

900
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: your money. Now what's involving your stability. It's all the

901
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: things that are associated with v So when you have

902
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: to retrograde, still got to review and revised. But now

903
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: it's about money, it's about stability, it's about you know,

904
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: the things you have versus the things you desire. So

905
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,959
Speaker 1: you have to like take an account of the fact

906
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 1: that you are supposed to have twenty you know, twenty plus,

907
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 1: you know, thousands in your account, but this particular project

908
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: and you don't have it. It's because you've been giving

909
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: away your time. See Venus retrograde make you think about

910
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:24,760
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff.

911
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 2: You get pissed off, like I've been.

912
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: Giving myself away and I ain't got nothing to show

913
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: for it. The retrograde stuff got you, okay, So I

914
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: just I don't understand the whyury Mercury retrograde became so popular, Like, well,

915
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 1: it's it's always a fast it's always a trend, you know,

916
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: when somebody started talking about something, that becomes this thing.

917
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: And I think because we have to communicate, like it's mercury, right,

918
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: So it's just it's common for everybody and not only

919
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: that it also disrupts our cell phones. It's you know,

920
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: because it's mercury, so you know, it's ruling all of

921
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 1: our ability to communicate. So then that's when you know

922
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: ig starts get slow and load it up. And then

923
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 1: you know, all these social media platforms that we count

924
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 1: on using on a daily they also get slow. So

925
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: it ain't just affecting our ability to communicate to one another,

926
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,360
Speaker 1: it's our ability to communicate through our devices being this

927
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,280
Speaker 1: retrograde ain't affecting our devices. She affecting our bags.

928
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 2: It's different, you know.

929
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: So that's the sign that's the retrograde and that and

930
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: then also like looking at Jupiter, like it's so much

931
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: of the chart that we ignore right now, Jeebra's and Pisces,

932
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: So everybody should be like looking at where your price

933
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 1: is in your chart because that's where your money is

934
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: coming through. You see what I'm saying. Pisces come to

935
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: help you to in all the bad stuff that you

936
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: need to clear up, and it's gonna bring you newness.

937
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: But we're around here worrying about retrogrades and stuff, and

938
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 1: you round Jupiter is trying to say, hey, where you

939
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: need money because you ain't clear on your details. You

940
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: can't even get the money that's supposed to be given

941
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: to you because you are not clear on where how

942
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 1: it's gonna get to you, what vehicles that when it's

943
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: gonna come through, what that project is. Because we do

944
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: got some you know, things are going well. Yeah, we

945
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: paid attention to that Jupiter you did either you are

946
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: in her Jupiter sign or something. I was like, oh,

947
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:20,320
Speaker 1: that's how they're expanding. Hold on, you know, keep talking girl, Okay,

948
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: but no, I do feel like the mercury and retrograde.

949
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: That makes sense because I feel like everybody has a

950
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: personality on Twitter, like or on Instagram, like, everybody creates

951
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: this other persona.

952
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 2: So I feel like that's right.

953
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 1: That's why mercury retrograde became so popular because everybody's like, oh,

954
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 1: I know what this is, and it's like, you don't

955
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: even really know, but it's just that's your outlet to talk.

956
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: Like most of the about astrology on the Internet, they

957
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: don't be knowing what They're just picking up on something

958
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: they heard and regurgitating it. You know. But I also

959
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: say I'm grateful for that because I've been doing this

960
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 1: for a very long time and when I first started

961
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: it was still a very taboo conversation. So the fact

962
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: that people are talking about it is really good because

963
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: now we can start to have the real conversation. Right,

964
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: So I ain't mad that they talking about it, even

965
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 1: though they're mad, wrong, I ain't mad about it because

966
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: now people can find the truth when they start to really,

967
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: you know, dig into it. Your Jupiter's in Leo, So

968
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: Jupiter's expanded is your expansion, right, So when she comes in,

969
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: she's automatically giving it. She's helping to blow up your

970
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: bag and vice versa, and the energy back back and forth.

971
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: So the way she structures and put things in together,

972
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: that's illuminating your Jupiter energy. So you're like, yeah, I'm

973
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: gonna go with you. Let's gone the money talk. The

974
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: money is going exactly exactly okay.

975
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 2: So that so I get it now though.

976
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: Because everybody always says I dated a tourist in my

977
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: past and it was the most horrible experience ever.

978
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 2: Yes, horrible.

979
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: Now my mom is a tourist, my sister is a

980
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: tourist andres a tourist, and my sister's live like my

981
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,839
Speaker 1: best friend. Yes, I love my sister down same way

982
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: with my mom, like my mom like this, and Drea

983
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: and my mom actually have the same birthday, but I

984
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: tend to I don't like tourists like that. I like them.

985
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,479
Speaker 1: And it was like, honestly, you don't choose your sister,

986
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: you don't choose your mom, you know. So I had

987
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 1: to like my sister no matter what, and my mom

988
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: no matter what.

989
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: But it was kind of the same shit with me

990
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: and Drea.

991
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: Like when I moved here, I didn't have nobody, so

992
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: when she would try to cut me off, I'm like, well, bitch,

993
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: too bad.

994
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 3: You know.

995
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: But now it's just like I feel like now I

996
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: get it. Now that we're going into the other signs,

997
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, this is why, because we literally feed

998
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: off of each other, and it's communication first, you know

999
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, the stimulation for communication is how

1000
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,840
Speaker 1: y'all can knet. I'm glad you told me that she

1001
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: has your mom's birthday too, because now we're starting to

1002
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: get into a whole real thing. Yeah, mom has the

1003
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: same births because that way, well, I really do believe

1004
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: that we travel together as soul sometimes, and so the

1005
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: fact that her mom and you have the same birthday,

1006
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: that's how she knew the cling on and how she

1007
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: knew that your relationship would work, even though she may

1008
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 1: not have been clear about it, because she knows that energy.

1009
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: And that's what I mean. I'm starting to draw in

1010
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: so many people that has my birthday, and men and

1011
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: women are different. So that's probably why you wouldn't dig

1012
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: in the tars men. But personally, I don't like tourist

1013
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: men either. I mean no, I mean, oh, you don't

1014
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: really care for them neither. I mean, I told y'all.

1015
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: So it's where the other placements are the sun's side.

1016
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: It's other placements that they have a lot of tars

1017
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: did absolutely not. I cannot. And that's why I feel

1018
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 1: like my I don't really fit the tourist scope because

1019
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: I don't really have a lot of tourists in my

1020
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: start except for just the fact that it's my son's

1021
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: sign and you gotta got a well rounded energy. They

1022
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: don't get everything. You know a lot. What is your

1023
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 1: son's sign. I didn't even ask you that every son. Okay, okay, okay,

1024
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: I I can see that. Look. I've learned to lie.

1025
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I know you for readers now. But

1026
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: that's but because what did you say your your mercury

1027
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 1: was your communication? Your communication, and what is your mercury.

1028
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: My mercury is in aries, okay, and your mercury is

1029
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 1: in d mercury is aries me okay, and then your

1030
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: mercury's work on Okay.

1031
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:24,919
Speaker 2: That makes sense.

1032
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: That makes sense because I feel like, like I said,

1033
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: we always talk about how complex we are on this show,

1034
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: and we kind of just give one side because this

1035
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: is lighthearted, this is fun, but like our relationship outside

1036
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: of Poor Minds is so different. So I do feel

1037
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:43,439
Speaker 1: like like I'm a I'm very goofy in real life

1038
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: still like I'm not saying I'm not, but I don't

1039
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 1: really still a client. But what I'm saying is I

1040
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: do have like it's really fifty fifty because a lot

1041
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: of times my conversations with people are very serious and

1042
00:50:55,360 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: very like you know, educational, it's business. Come on in

1043
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: a detail, Yes we're doing and how and why why

1044
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 1: are we doing this? How much time is gonna be?

1045
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: That's still fun, especially if it's like again, especially how

1046
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 1: how Dre comes in. It's fun because y'all gonna do

1047
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: this and it's gonna bring in a lot of opportunities

1048
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: and expansion. But it's gonna be fun too, right right,

1049
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: you know, because she if it's too much work, she

1050
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: ain't she's gonna jump off of it anyway, it's gonna

1051
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: be all you And another fun comes back in and

1052
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: she's like, Okay, we ready, Yes it's forgiven, but I

1053
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: will but let me not. But that keeps you good too,

1054
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: and does keep me good. But because I do like

1055
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: being in controls, I feel like the way I do

1056
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: it is the best way, in the right way. But

1057
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 1: I will say it's not like it used to be.

1058
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: Like in the beginning, it was very much giving. Let

1059
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 1: me know what time we gotta record and press the

1060
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: red button. I'll be there. Now she definitely has a

1061
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: lot of more like I can't just do ship. I

1062
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: used to just make decisions without asking her no, no, now,

1063
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: So it's definitely way. But in the beginning, yeah, I

1064
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 1: definitely used to be like cause she used to be like, Drea,

1065
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: you need to learn how to edit? Why that's not

1066
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 1: what I signed up for. I signed up to record

1067
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: with you. Why did I sign up to be an editor?

1068
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: She didn't want to do. I was like, can you

1069
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: up over this? No, I'll think about it. Actually, can

1070
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: you do it, I gotta go to my Oh, I

1071
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: understand you. I feel like that's the thing about me too.

1072
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: Like we even have talked about this on a few episodes.

1073
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: How she's always been a person who, like you know,

1074
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: she always had a job shell. Everything always had to

1075
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: be stable with me. It's like some kind of way

1076
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: I would always figure out how to have some man.

1077
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: But I would quit if something was no longer suiting

1078
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: me or I didn't want to do it anymore. Okay,

1079
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm going because I could find another job. And I've

1080
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 1: always been that way in every aspect of my life.

1081
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 1: Like even as a kid, my mom used to always

1082
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: complain because I would tell her one day, Oh, I

1083
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: want to do karate, and then she'll pay for a

1084
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: hundred dollars for me to join karate, and then I'll

1085
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,399
Speaker 1: do the shit for two weeks and be like, Mama,

1086
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this no more. All I

1087
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 1: want to do ballet. She'll pay for me to go

1088
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: take ballet. I'll do it for like two months, quick praise, dancing,

1089
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,399
Speaker 1: the band, every like. I literally have done everything as

1090
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: a kid. It was the president. I did everything as

1091
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 1: a child. I did everything. I played basketball, I was

1092
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 1: a cheerleader to get I played basketball, it goes I

1093
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: played softball, it goes on and on.

1094
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 2: But I sell you.

1095
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 1: She had this guy pay like three thousand dollars for

1096
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: her to take a last class. She fucked up my lashes.

1097
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: I had to cut my lashes off. She was like,

1098
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: thanks for the money. I don't want to do this.

1099
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: He gave her three thousand dollars. And I literally have

1100
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: always been that way, I feel like until this, and

1101
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: that's why my mom is like so proud of me

1102
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: now with like this was the show that balance because

1103
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 1: that was me coming in like, dre give it a year.

1104
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 1: She was like, no, yes, yes, I'm not. I said,

1105
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,439
Speaker 1: just give us one more year. No yes.

1106
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 2: It was like a point because yeah, I don't You're

1107
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 2: gonna work it out.

1108
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: I had the same job, but when I was fifteen

1109
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: years to when I graduated high school, then I moved.

1110
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: I started working at like TGI Fridays when I was eighteen.

1111
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: I stayed there till I was like twenty something. Then

1112
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: when I quit there, I was like, well, in between times,

1113
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:20,959
Speaker 1: I was like working at the strip club. I worked

1114
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: at the strip club four years. I moved here, had

1115
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 1: the same job four years, you're gonna work it out.

1116
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 2: I think about me, I'm gonna keep a job.

1117
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: And I'm gone into it.

1118
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 2: But I may be crying in the morning on the

1119
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 2: way to that bitch.

1120
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: But you're gonna go, but I'm a go. And that's

1121
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: where I feel like we're different because I never used

1122
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: to understand that about Lix. Like I used to be like,

1123
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: if you aren't happy, why you don't just quig? And

1124
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: she used to be like, Drea, I need a job.

1125
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: I need to work, like all that earth in hunch

1126
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: that makes it so it's like ground is even though

1127
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm the if I just hold on, it could get better.

1128
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: If it hold on, I'll feel better about it. Something

1129
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: about it's gonna change if I keep going, whereas you

1130
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: having all the air and all the energy that was

1131
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: because I'm the same way. I'm like, listen if it

1132
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: don't make me feel good. And I'm a huge abage.

1133
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 1: I tell people all the time, like, please do what

1134
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: you love to do, because that's what lets other aspects

1135
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 1: in your charm work. So meaning like if you if

1136
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: it's in alignment, like she's in alignment to work and

1137
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 1: get out, that's in your alignment and when it's time

1138
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: to go, you leave because you tried everything to work

1139
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: it out before you left. If she tried to stay

1140
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 1: in a place where you try to and you know

1141
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: it's time you leave, it'll have all an effect all

1142
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 1: the areas. Your emotions starting to be an effect. Your

1143
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 1: love life is starting to be an affair. Everything is

1144
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,319
Speaker 1: starting to be an affair because the person you'll get

1145
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: rolled up one time like, oh you wrote me up, Well,

1146
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: you won't see me now because your shorten employee. Bitch,

1147
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:46,439
Speaker 1: good luck.

1148
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 2: What's up y'all?

1149
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: Is your girl like any's your girls are in the

1150
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: call now. Look y'all know Valentine's Day just passed a

1151
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: few weeks ago, and I know y'all getting it in.

1152
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: I got it.

1153
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 2: Something, man, but I'm.

1154
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 1: The man was.

1155
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 2: So we're gonna tell you.

1156
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,080
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1157
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1160
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1161
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1162
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1166
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1167
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Speaker 1: top of this, the pill Club is gonna donate ten

1168
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Speaker 1: dollars to bedsider dot org to women who don't have

1169
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: access to you know, birth control and other things like

1170
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: that that we need. So on top of that, we're

1171
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,759
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1172
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Speaker 1: the pill club dot com slash poor minds and get

1173
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: your birth control. Girl. So let's move on.

1174
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,879
Speaker 2: Okay, Now we're gonna get into the bed.

1175
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: Let me just say I love it here. Okay. So

1176
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna touch back on that the what was it

1177
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 1: the Venus sign or the Mars sign that has to

1178
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: do with sex? Yes, because I want to get a

1179
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: little bit deeper into that. So we really want to

1180
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: talk about the Mars sign and what does it really

1181
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: mean to have good sex? Like what sign is really that?

1182
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: Like matter it matters that sex, I mean signs when

1183
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: it comes to compatibilitybility matters. Okay, So meaning when we

1184
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: start to think about how signs link up, and we

1185
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: look at the Mars energy. Mars is also your initiation

1186
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: in six drives. So let's use me for example. Okay,

1187
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: I have Mars and Okay, now, even though my Leo

1188
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: shows up and I show about sexy sometimes and people

1189
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 1: think I'm ready to get down me, I am so

1190
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: slow to do. Like I'm not the initial. I ain't

1191
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: initiate nothing, okay, meaning I could be in the room

1192
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: hot and steamy, but if you don't know because I'm

1193
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: not the initiated, I'm the I'm the old woman love

1194
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: and sex. So I want to be initiated first, and

1195
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: then once you initiated, and now I'm like, okay, so

1196
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: that matters. So if I'm with another Mars and Pisces person,

1197
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,959
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen? If we're in the bedroom, gonna sitting

1198
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna be sitting there, both want to do it,

1199
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 1: but nobody, nobody will wind up coming and going to sleep.

1200
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 2: In Virgo.

1201
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: Right, Yes, but that's what does that mean? I pull

1202
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: your dick out, Yes, it's ready to go, That's what

1203
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: I mean. Mars and Virgo. It's like I don't care

1204
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 1: what's going on, I'm ready to do it now. But

1205
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 1: I see and that's crazy because I guess when I

1206
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: think of like art signs like virgo toys, but sex

1207
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 1: is different. Now, yeah, we're getting the sex thing. Virgos

1208
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: is just like really yes, they are always ready to go,

1209
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: you knowson, I know Lex is so horny. Okay, you are, lady, bro,

1210
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: you always wild to me because you said mine is

1211
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: in cancer, right, So what does that mean? So it's

1212
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: the feeling now, right, So you're really feeling somebody or

1213
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: if you around them and y'all injury is good, or

1214
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: they got good hands, or they started touching on you,

1215
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 1: touching on you in a certain type of way, that's

1216
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: your that's your language. Your language is this. It's gotta

1217
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: gotta make you feel something. If it ain't making you

1218
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 1: feel nothing, no, but if you are feeling something that

1219
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: the other person ain't saying something, right, that's what you

1220
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: like that. Listen, I'm feeling this, what's going on? Come on,

1221
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: let's go. But it has to be after that. She

1222
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 1: don't need that, yeah, no, need that a part. So

1223
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: when it comes down to sex compatibility for her, it's

1224
00:59:56,080 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: any signs are connected. She's ready to go. So when

1225
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 1: we start talking about what's not legal, when it comes

1226
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: down to for you, don't discriminate. For you, it don't matter.

1227
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: For her, it matters. It's gotta be in. It's gotta

1228
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 1: be somebody who got some intensity, somebody who wats in

1229
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: the room that can kind of make her feel something.

1230
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: So what Mars signed does cancer match with? That's what

1231
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's got to be an intensity energy. So

1232
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 1: that could be a could be Scorpi your dynamic in Mars.

1233
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: We don't want to talk about Mars. It could be

1234
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: Scorpio for sure. Sometimes cancer energy likes pulling on virgo

1235
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 1: because Virgo is ready to you won't me? I think

1236
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: so she won't y'all. I love you and you want

1237
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: to be.

1238
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 2: You want to be, That's why you.

1239
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: Want my Virgo Mars. Get off. I do not want

1240
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 1: you want me? I told you a million times you

1241
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: want me bad. That makes sense now, Sometimes sometimes the

1242
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:08,560
Speaker 1: cancer energy can pull on the virgo dynamic. Okay, because

1243
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: again im I tell you it's the g yes and

1244
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 1: not just so the feeling of it or Pisces energy.

1245
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 1: Anybody that got hands, you know what I'm saying. So

1246
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 1: the cancer no, no, no no, no, no, no, no

1247
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 1: no no. When I say they got hands, I'm talking

1248
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: about that touch. All women can agree with me that

1249
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: not all men have that touch. So they got that

1250
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: touch for you. So it's it's it's somebody who's in tune.

1251
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 1: So that's why I said Scorpio. Scorpio tends to be

1252
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: really in tune with their intensity. Pisces is another one.

1253
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: They tend to like watch you and want to see

1254
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 1: certain things so they can kind of break'll. They'll be

1255
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: more in tune into the details of it, you know

1256
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But depending on where the other aspects

1257
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: are for you, if it all comes because they can

1258
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: have a venus perspective that your cancer really feels and

1259
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 1: it still opens you up, so you are a little

1260
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: bit intricate, but once you do feel it, like I say,

1261
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: you own them, yall, Yeah, I definitely, yes, I do.

1262
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: But when you say so, when you say mars, so

1263
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: that means that like their mars would have to be

1264
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: in Scorpio. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, Because what I was

1265
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: gonna say, because like I said earlier, like I feel

1266
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: like I had good sexual encounters with sag just here,

1267
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 1: but we don't okay, very close to scorpio. It's right

1268
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: on the line, so meaning we go from libra scorpio

1269
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: to sage. So if it's a sad person, I can

1270
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 1: guarantee you it's some scorpio in there because of how

1271
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,720
Speaker 1: the plane is a transition, so it's some scorpio in

1272
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: that chart. So now we're starting to talk about compatibility

1273
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: and language like it has a lot to do with

1274
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: whatever else is there. But you want to know what

1275
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 1: the mars is because unless you know how this sex

1276
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 1: is going to be initiated, who's gonna do what? So

1277
01:02:54,920 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: I know if I'm looking, you know, I what's crazy

1278
01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: because I am like, if you take it too long,

1279
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,439
Speaker 1: I'm feeling what's up and the signs do not matter

1280
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: because I like her, I don't care. It's like, oh

1281
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it.

1282
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 3: Come on.

1283
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: But I am more piky, like I'm very very stingy

1284
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 1: with my I say that all the time on the show.

1285
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: I really And that's why I told you so me

1286
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: giving even about even if because you didn't have to say.

1287
01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 2: Pik baby stingy.

1288
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 3: Girl.

1289
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 1: I love I love the cap on this app. What

1290
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm more about me we reading your moss we both

1291
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:50,439
Speaker 1: reading both.

1292
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is stingy is wild.

1293
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: I am a little stingy, Yes, for sure. It's the

1294
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 1: difference between stingy and pinky. What is your like when

1295
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 1: you're stingy, that means like it or live no, Because

1296
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: like if you already be like, well, I'm horny, that's

1297
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 1: being that's not like you're But if I already fucked

1298
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: you exactly kind of the same person, that's being picky.

1299
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: You're not stingy because're gonna give it to that nigga

1300
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: about thirty times before you cut a nigga, because you're

1301
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 1: not stingy. With stingy, am I wrong me, that's stingy

1302
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 1: because I'm not going, Hey, when somebody knew I'm I'm

1303
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: going to have sex with a new who want it?

1304
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: Who won't it? All I'm saying is niggas all right,

1305
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 1: catch so I'm going to both y'alls. But what I'm

1306
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: saying is stingy. Stingy was a stretch, was a stress. Okay,

1307
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna move on. Ok So, now we're

1308
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 1: gonna get into the bop of the week. So let

1309
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: me ask you this. We're gonna get into the bot Oh,

1310
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: we didn't even do the because I was so excited. Okay,

1311
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: is there a sign that connects to people, like musically

1312
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,360
Speaker 1: your creative side? Like what sign is that? Yeah? So

1313
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 1: creativity when we think about it, is the air Air

1314
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 1: signs are more creative. So that's your Libras, that's your

1315
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: Gemini and your Aquarius. So we start to get into

1316
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 1: like who maybe, And when I say this, keep in

1317
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 1: mind I'm talking about aspects, right, so you can have

1318
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 1: this in many parts. We're not just talking to my

1319
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: son's signs. So when it comes down to thinking about

1320
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 1: who can be the most talented writer or who's best

1321
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: at writing, Gemini sign because Gemini rules of minus communication, right,

1322
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: But aquariuses are too, but they are more far fetched

1323
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: and far out when it comes down to how they

1324
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,439
Speaker 1: create music, you know what I'm saying. So now we're

1325
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:57,960
Speaker 1: talking about one hundred three thousand versus a big boy.

1326
01:05:58,040 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. This is Gemini and Aquery

1327
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: so created, but just the ways and wish how they

1328
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:08,439
Speaker 1: go out. It was because I love them too. Yeah,

1329
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 1: me too, me too, because I feel like I feel

1330
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 1: like I am a creative person, but it's like something

1331
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:18,400
Speaker 1: I can speak through music, Like if I can't talk

1332
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: to somebody because my communication is off, I can send

1333
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:23,600
Speaker 1: them a song like this is how I feel right now. Yes,

1334
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 1: when I'm sad, I'm going to listen to a song

1335
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 1: that's gonna make me cry. When I am never send

1336
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: me songs because you want me to sing you a song,

1337
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,919
Speaker 1: I'll send you a song right now. Zero.

1338
01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 2: I hate you, I hate you. I'm just.

1339
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: Well. I feel like it's because me and you can communicate,

1340
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 1: so I can tell you how I feel all the

1341
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: time with my words. But sometimes when I'm dealing with someone,

1342
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: like sometimes I'll just send them a song like, oh,

1343
01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: listen to this, like so this is how I'm feeling.

1344
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 1: So I definitely sometimes I communicate through playlists too, like

1345
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 1: I like to make playlists like I have just went

1346
01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 1: on a dream relistened the other day and it just

1347
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: really took me back to like a time and I

1348
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: we need to give the dream his flowers really quick.

1349
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: But caause totally the way his Cause when I hear music,

1350
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: I hear it a little differently sometimes, like I feel

1351
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 1: like I hear it how the artist hears it. Like

1352
01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 1: so sometimes when there's a song that necessarily people don't

1353
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: like and they feel like, oh, this song is trash.

1354
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, but I hear what they were hearing in

1355
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: the studio, like it's not that it's not bad like

1356
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 1: y'all are saying it's bad. Like So when the Dream

1357
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 1: made his first album, Love Hate, he transitioned the music

1358
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 1: from song to song and it was like the songs

1359
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: blend in together, you know what I'm saying.

1360
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 2: So that was just like something for me to like.

1361
01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 2: I just held on that to that for a long time,

1362
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 2: like I love that album.

1363
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:49,160
Speaker 1: So anyways, I just wanted to say I do feel

1364
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 1: like my music something with my signs that Virgo, you

1365
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 1: have a lot of Virgo and again keeping contact and

1366
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 1: keeping in mind that Virgo and Jim and I are

1367
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 1: rule by Mercury, right, Mercury is communication Because you have

1368
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 1: a lot of Virgo in your chart, you're looking for

1369
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: ways to communicate. Music is the language to your it

1370
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 1: definitely for communication. I do. I do because I also

1371
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 1: will say the guy was dealing with he's a Virgo too,

1372
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,720
Speaker 1: and he is a music He's the same way like

1373
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,560
Speaker 1: he'll send me songs, we'll send each other like communication.

1374
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 1: I think all Earth signs so like people with Earth

1375
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 1: sign place mes really really love music. I mean that's

1376
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: rapper based Capricornramatorius.

1377
01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 2: I know that's music.

1378
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so let me get into the sorry y'all. So

1379
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 1: my bob of the week is by Pink Sweats and

1380
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: we do. It's a song by Pink Sweats. It's called

1381
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: for me, and honestly, I feel like we have slept

1382
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 1: on Pink Sweats, including me. I don't think I think

1383
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: I've done one song by him, but he can sing.

1384
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 1: His vibe is just different.

1385
01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 2: Swat Pink Sweats, damn.

1386
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:58,639
Speaker 1: It, Pink Sweats. Yes, I love his music. He's very different.

1387
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:05,599
Speaker 1: He's much you made me feel around.

1388
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 2: I love you baby.

1389
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Kink Sweat was sucking lit at the.

1390
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:22,560
Speaker 3: My nigga said, rag, I don't know what, but I

1391
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,639
Speaker 3: need somebodynna say rack.

1392
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 1: Shark. That's why we ain't no what the is shron

1393
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 1: rack thig was shot up to keep sweat. Yes, but yeah,

1394
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:39,799
Speaker 1: so yeah, that's my bother of the week, Pink Sweats.

1395
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 1: It's called for me.

1396
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 2: He's very much a lover boy. I love his music.

1397
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:45,639
Speaker 2: Is he's very emotional with his music and that taps

1398
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 2: into my movie.

1399
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 1: Fine, my love.

1400
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 2: If I like to watch movies that.

1401
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 1: Make me cry, I like to listen to music that

1402
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 1: makes me cry. I love feeling emotional. I do. But

1403
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:56,639
Speaker 1: I told somebody that, Like, you don't think that's weird.

1404
01:09:56,640 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: It's like, it's not about me being sad. Sometimes when

1405
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: I cry, I'm not ins necessarily sad. I cry when

1406
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:05,679
Speaker 1: I'm happy and releasing. Yes, like when I'm overwhelmed with emotion,

1407
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: like when I sometimes I'm not even kidding, like when

1408
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 1: I think about my nephews. It literally makes me cry

1409
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: because I love and that love is.

1410
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 2: So pure, you know what I'm saying.

1411
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: So it's like all the time when I'm crying and

1412
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily sad, it's just it's how I release.

1413
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 1: They say Pisces Moon sound. We're great at writing of music.

1414
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:26,639
Speaker 1: You know. Michael Jackson was a Pisces moon. That makes

1415
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 1: sense because I feel his music a lot. I am.

1416
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: I all right, what's your bob? Okay? So I have

1417
01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:42,960
Speaker 1: two VIPs? Okay, So my first bob is don't play

1418
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: that by King one and twenty one Savage? Yeah why,

1419
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 1: which is why I was really shocked that this wasn't

1420
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: your bob, because I know how much you love King,

1421
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 1: I love King Vaughon. I'm in King Vaughn stand right.

1422
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: I will shollow him wherever he goes. So that's my bob.

1423
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 1: I really like these songs. And he's crazy because he

1424
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 1: had like played a snippet of it before he dies.

1425
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 1: And the song finally like just Savage is at his

1426
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 1: feature always. I love. Yeah, it's a good song.

1427
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 2: So that's my vibe.

1428
01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 1: And then you know, Nicky and Little Baby just came

1429
01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:17,280
Speaker 1: out with a song Nikki has the bars. Nikki got

1430
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 1: the bars for the bars period. I don't give a

1431
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: fuck with nobody say. At first, I'm not gonna lie.

1432
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 1: I first seen I was like, I don't know, you know,

1433
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:28,200
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like people with gaessing it a

1434
01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 1: little bit. But I listened to it a few more times,

1435
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 1: and I love you with you. I have never I

1436
01:11:32,760 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 1: haven't heard a Nikki verse that do we have a problem.

1437
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:42,759
Speaker 1: We don't. One thing I love about Nikka She's always

1438
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 1: gonna give us bars, and I feel like that's people

1439
01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: can say things like, oh, she messed up her legacy,

1440
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 1: things like that. I'm not gonna get into that, but

1441
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 1: what I will say is one thing we can count

1442
01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: on her is to deliver and she's gonna do that.

1443
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:55,000
Speaker 1: So we can never take that away from her. No

1444
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:58,160
Speaker 1: matter what happens or what goes on, we cannot take

1445
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 1: away from the fact that she is fucking She absolutely is.

1446
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,559
Speaker 1: And they actually have another song. Carr and Little Baby

1447
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 1: have another song that's about to come out, Like I guess,

1448
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:07,720
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I did see that, so I'm excited to

1449
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: hear that song as well. So, yeah, that's my two

1450
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 1: bops this week. So you listen to me, Yeah what what?

1451
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:17,360
Speaker 1: What did I I've been listening to some sir like

1452
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 1: the last twenty four hours because I'm I shift moved. Okay,

1453
01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 1: that's how I am. So I was kind of in

1454
01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 1: a sir kind of what's her name Isley? What's her

1455
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: first name? One of her songs about. Yeah, I've been

1456
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:35,719
Speaker 1: in that mode for like the last couple of days.

1457
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:43,640
Speaker 1: It's just really like feeling very intense. Yes, Alexy is amazing,

1458
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: like she she's just she's really good.

1459
01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 2: You can tell that them.

1460
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: Coming all the day to come through. I've had her

1461
01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 1: a few times as my bopular, so Alex love her. Okay,

1462
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:59,799
Speaker 1: wait before we get into the poor your Heart Hour segment,

1463
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:01,800
Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to talk about Hervey and Polly

1464
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: because that's very interesting. I really wanted to talk about

1465
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 1: it before we like finished the six topic. But yeah,

1466
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: like so look at me, so like, how did you

1467
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 1: decide that that's what you wanted to do? Oh my gosh,

1468
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:17,680
Speaker 1: now you get into a whole nother episode, but we're

1469
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 1: gonna shorten it. Yeah, okay, I like that. Let me

1470
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:26,320
Speaker 1: do the short versions. So in my marriage, you were,

1471
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 1: I was. I was married. I was married for thirteen years. Okay, okay.

1472
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: In my marriage, I was having a problem having orgasms. Okay, okay.

1473
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 1: So I was one of the women that was you

1474
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:43,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, faking orgasms. It wasn't his fault, okay,

1475
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 1: as if never I never believe it is a man's fault.

1476
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 1: But I felt like it was something about me that

1477
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 1: I needed to really explore more ons. So when I

1478
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 1: would go to him and say, hey, I want to

1479
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 1: test out Kama Sutra or I want to test out

1480
01:13:56,840 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 1: Tantra all these things, he just couldn't understand why. And

1481
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out a way to kind

1482
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:05,880
Speaker 1: of segue that in today. So anyway, long story short,

1483
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 1: but I finally came out and told him like, hey,

1484
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 1: I haven't been having orgasms or whatever, and I really

1485
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: it's not your fault, but I'm in this space where

1486
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 1: I want to open our relationship up. I want to

1487
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 1: explore more, because it's not just about me having sex

1488
01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:22,720
Speaker 1: with somebody else. It's about me realizing that I just

1489
01:14:22,800 --> 01:14:25,719
Speaker 1: don't know sex and I don't know me, and instead

1490
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 1: of me putting all this pressure on you. So we

1491
01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 1: talked about it. In my marriage, we talked about it.

1492
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 1: We didn't immediately just start bringing in partners. We started

1493
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 1: really allowing ourselves to date and you know, holding space

1494
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: for one another to see how those things would work.

1495
01:14:39,360 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 1: And so it was this long drawn out thing for

1496
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: me that I always knew that because I mean, I've

1497
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:46,880
Speaker 1: been into two women forever too. I consider myself at

1498
01:14:46,960 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 1: this point paying sexual. At that point, I considered myself

1499
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:52,280
Speaker 1: by sexual. So I thought maybe it was the fact

1500
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: that I just needed to have maybe more female partners,

1501
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:57,599
Speaker 1: you know, And it went from being more female partners

1502
01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 1: to me saying, well, no, I'm really interested in men too.

1503
01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 1: So probably gave me the foundation to really explore a

1504
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:05,800
Speaker 1: lot more of my Venus energy, which is aquarius energy.

1505
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: And it allows me to kind of, like, you know,

1506
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: I want to because I'm real weird, real weird and

1507
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 1: real different when it comes down to things that I'm

1508
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 1: you know, interested in and the types of people that

1509
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 1: I'm interested in. And I educate on sex. I go

1510
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: to Exoda because I teach on the exidaa's brain as well.

1511
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, I had to start to

1512
01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:30,240
Speaker 1: like really open myself up to all the things that

1513
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 1: I was and I realized in my marriage, I was

1514
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:36,720
Speaker 1: just playing this this trophy wife le or just being

1515
01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 1: what I felt like a wife, but it wasn't me.

1516
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 1: And so like I didn't want to leave my marriage

1517
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:45,400
Speaker 1: because I love he was like my best friend, so

1518
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to be with him. That we had a child.

1519
01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I want to be with you, but

1520
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 1: this ain't it for me. I want this plus some.

1521
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 1: So it's been an ongoing journey. I'm ten years in. Wow,

1522
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm a little ignorant. Was paying Okay, So

1523
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:05,439
Speaker 1: pan sexuality is being attracted to a more spirits than

1524
01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 1: so gender doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. So whereas before

1525
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:11,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm into women and men, Well I don't.

1526
01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 1: I may be into somebody that's transgender. I don't know.

1527
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 1: It's just the spirits because if they come in the

1528
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: room and they make me jokes, yeah, yeah, that is

1529
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: that energy from too. I'm just more open and I'm

1530
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 1: forty two, so I've had a lot of time to experience. Really,

1531
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: I ain't never been shocked on this show because with age,

1532
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 1: let me just say me, either is not because I

1533
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 1: thought it was all but just was. I felt like

1534
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:44,800
Speaker 1: I've had some time to experience something sexual. Was working

1535
01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:49,599
Speaker 1: somebody cool right now? Because you look it's looking youthful.

1536
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm not being funny. I was like, yeah, you were

1537
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 1: like in our same age, ya, that's why when but

1538
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm thirty and they being we all you look, you

1539
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,720
Speaker 1: look good. But I'm just drawn to because I'm at

1540
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:17,599
Speaker 1: this point to what. I just want to experience life

1541
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 1: and have a good life. And I don't feel good

1542
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 1: and I don't want to care about Oh I'm not

1543
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:23,240
Speaker 1: supposed to do this because your women are only supposed

1544
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 1: to be drawn to men and means well, I don't

1545
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 1: care about that. If that's for you, rock that, But

1546
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 1: for me, I want to rock everything that I am.

1547
01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 1: So I'm opening up more and more to what that

1548
01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: looks like for me. You know what I'm saying and

1549
01:17:35,479 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 1: exploring and I'm having a good time. My daughter getting

1550
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 1: ready to graduate from high school an empty nester, are

1551
01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 1: you are you dating? And when she asked it, I

1552
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm gonna segue into this because just

1553
01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:53,640
Speaker 1: because I'm Polly, we can't go through spaces where you

1554
01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:56,680
Speaker 1: feel like you want to get more into a singular perspective.

1555
01:17:56,960 --> 01:17:59,559
Speaker 1: So for me, this year coming into because the charts

1556
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:02,800
Speaker 1: on a shift sometimes, right, So for this year, it's

1557
01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 1: been more so about me finding a primary partner. So

1558
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 1: on Polly, you can be solo poly. So that's what

1559
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 1: I've been since my marriage separated. So solo poly is

1560
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm just by myself. There is no primary person that

1561
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 1: I deal with on the day of day. I just

1562
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: have partners that I spend time with. Gotcha, Okay, But

1563
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:22,360
Speaker 1: now I'm like, hmmm, I think I kind of do

1564
01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 1: want somebody that I can spend like more more of

1565
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:30,679
Speaker 1: a consistent with. So we're seeing each other, we're investing

1566
01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:33,599
Speaker 1: into each other because like, my brand is getting bigger

1567
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 1: and so I'm like, okay, I need to start thinking

1568
01:18:35,560 --> 01:18:38,439
Speaker 1: about how this thing is gonna like really be for me.

1569
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:41,080
Speaker 1: But my daughter decides not to do this with me,

1570
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 1: then you know what am I gonna have? So I'm

1571
01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 1: starting to now lean towards having somebody who there all

1572
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:51,639
Speaker 1: the time. And I'm like, you're still here, leave it today,

1573
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:54,320
Speaker 1: and see that's what I know. Like i'd be like, goodbye,

1574
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: you've been here for three today, But days I feel

1575
01:18:57,520 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: like that's no, You're like, never leave, and I'm like,

1576
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to go. I need you to go,

1577
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:05,760
Speaker 1: you know, I need another person and another nigga, maybe

1578
01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 1: another beach, you know. But see I'm like that too.

1579
01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:12,320
Speaker 1: Like I feel like, especially in my early twenties, I

1580
01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 1: experimented so much with like dating women, and I had

1581
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 1: some good it was some good relationships when I was

1582
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:24,040
Speaker 1: by myself. And that's why. Yeah, but it's not because

1583
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to, because honestly, I'm still attracted to women,

1584
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 1: like I would still be okay, not you. I don't

1585
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 1: know why you mean you are nuts. She's nuts, and

1586
01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: I feel like when she and it's going, and that

1587
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: means I feel like that's where the energy come from

1588
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:42,800
Speaker 1: because she really wants me to want party, and I

1589
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 1: feel like like maybe on a drunk like she wants

1590
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 1: me to get drunk and tryhood. That's because she always

1591
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 1: she always be saying it, and I'll be like, what

1592
01:19:54,200 --> 01:20:00,599
Speaker 1: the fu, bro, I could have I have one night?

1593
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:07,759
Speaker 1: So yes, I had like a traumatic and gonna be lying,

1594
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 1: gonna be lying, She's gonna be like stop like yeah,

1595
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 1: but yes I had a traumatic experienced a knowing me

1596
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 1: and I feel like after that experience, I definitely didn't

1597
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:26,639
Speaker 1: really fuck with women like that. It's not that I'm

1598
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: not interested, but it was just too traumatic for me,

1599
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 1: Like she was too emotional and I just didn't have

1600
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 1: time for the sheep. It stressed me out and I

1601
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 1: was just like, you know what, if this is what

1602
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:39,280
Speaker 1: dealing with women is, like, I'm not doing the ship

1603
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 1: no more. Yeah, it's no different. I don't know why

1604
01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:44,640
Speaker 1: people like taking all gender out. Relating to people are

1605
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 1: the same. You gotta work on you gotta, you know,

1606
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:50,840
Speaker 1: have this thing of communicating properly, saying what you want,

1607
01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 1: not expecting things on the back ends, not expecting people

1608
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 1: to mind read is the thing that make relationships bad,

1609
01:20:57,320 --> 01:20:58,760
Speaker 1: you know. So I'm pretty sure that was one of

1610
01:20:58,760 --> 01:21:01,560
Speaker 1: the relationships where she wanted all these things from you

1611
01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:03,640
Speaker 1: and didn't say it and just you know, so it

1612
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: was just making it difficult, you know. Mine was wasn't

1613
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:08,680
Speaker 1: that way because it was one of the things where

1614
01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 1: I was stepping into it and I was like, yo,

1615
01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:13,720
Speaker 1: I really want to see if I can just like

1616
01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 1: really be with a woman like I want to see it.

1617
01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 1: So I put everything into it the same way I

1618
01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:20,720
Speaker 1: would put into a relationship with being with a man,

1619
01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:23,280
Speaker 1: like all of it, you know. But it was me

1620
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:25,479
Speaker 1: right mean, and I could have went into it like

1621
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:27,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, this could just be sex for me

1622
01:21:27,280 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 1: and it would have been bad. So it's also about

1623
01:21:29,120 --> 01:21:29,679
Speaker 1: our intentions.

1624
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 2: So what do you Just let me ask you this?

1625
01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 2: Then we're gonna move on.

1626
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:36,759
Speaker 1: What do you see like like when I see myself

1627
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:39,680
Speaker 1: like settle down, I see myself with one man like

1628
01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 1: I do, unfortunately, because I wish I did like something else,

1629
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:45,080
Speaker 1: but I don't, unfortunately.

1630
01:21:45,160 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 2: But so what how do you see yourself?

1631
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 1: Like?

1632
01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:48,439
Speaker 2: What is your perfect relationship look like?

1633
01:21:48,960 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 1: Perfect relationships? Since you're Polly, you're right, since your Polly

1634
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:55,200
Speaker 1: and pan sexual, like, what does a perfect relationship look like?

1635
01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna get your answer today. But then when

1636
01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:58,000
Speaker 1: I come back on the show.

1637
01:21:59,080 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 2: It's gonna be different.

1638
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's gonna be different. Today, I desire to

1639
01:22:03,040 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 1: have a primary partner, somebody who I can share myself with,

1640
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:10,000
Speaker 1: so meaning like, I want somebody who understands that I

1641
01:22:10,080 --> 01:22:12,000
Speaker 1: do a lot of things. They can come with me.

1642
01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:14,320
Speaker 1: They don't have to, they don't want to. But know

1643
01:22:14,439 --> 01:22:16,680
Speaker 1: that when I'm not with you, I'm still riding with you.

1644
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 1: I'm still I got you in heart, I got you

1645
01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 1: in mind, i got you in spirit. I'm always thinking

1646
01:22:21,120 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 1: the best for you, wanting the best for you, and

1647
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm only going to accept that in return. So my

1648
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:29,719
Speaker 1: stage of now is like building a foundation with somebody

1649
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 1: who know, we just solid. That sounds like a man,

1650
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,640
Speaker 1: We just really. I mean it doesn't have to be,

1651
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 1: but that's how most niggas are.

1652
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 2: I got you. I'm coming.

1653
01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:40,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's that Aquarius Venix. That's that

1654
01:22:41,040 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 1: sounds like a man. That's I mean, it could be,

1655
01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:45,479
Speaker 1: but I know some But the thing is what I

1656
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 1: think about, Like in my business right now, right ninety

1657
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 1: five percent of my income is from women, see what

1658
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. In business, So when I think about what

1659
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:57,840
Speaker 1: I can be happy with I'm not closing that ninety

1660
01:22:57,880 --> 01:23:01,080
Speaker 1: five percent out right, because I know they they watch me,

1661
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 1: they respond, they buy products, they sign up to my subscriptions.

1662
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,920
Speaker 1: Like women is who's funding me, who's paying more attention?

1663
01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:10,679
Speaker 1: Not that men are not because I have male partners.

1664
01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:12,960
Speaker 1: But even for example, one of my lovers, as in

1665
01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:16,160
Speaker 1: la right, love him to pieces, but if I put

1666
01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 1: out that I'm doing a class, his wife is in

1667
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:21,920
Speaker 1: class before him. See what I'm saying, and see, I

1668
01:23:22,040 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 1: don't know that's crazy because that's kind of how I

1669
01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 1: be seeing my life too. It's like I would definitely

1670
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:29,519
Speaker 1: love to be with like one guy, but I would

1671
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:31,360
Speaker 1: love for him to be okay with like, you know

1672
01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 1: me just kind of doing my own thing. I mean,

1673
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 1: he could do his own thing occasionally took so long

1674
01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 1: as we know about it, as long as we keeping

1675
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:43,479
Speaker 1: exactly because I can't be I just don't see myself

1676
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:47,759
Speaker 1: being able to only have one sexual partner, one sexual

1677
01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:50,360
Speaker 1: experience for the rest. And I don't want that. And

1678
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:53,640
Speaker 1: it's okay. I think I mean to be because I

1679
01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:55,439
Speaker 1: think it's crazy that you just said that you can

1680
01:23:55,479 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 1: only see also being with one guy. That's okay, I see, Okay.

1681
01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:01,639
Speaker 2: We're not lying anymore.

1682
01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:05,840
Speaker 1: I need to get out because I'm a cheater. Yeah,

1683
01:24:06,040 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 1: I'm a cheat because I don't know you like more,

1684
01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:15,599
Speaker 1: but you don't want it to be. Yeah, it's something

1685
01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:17,559
Speaker 1: in me that just likes to make a person feel

1686
01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 1: like you're my only one.

1687
01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1688
01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 2: So when I found out I'm not somebody.

1689
01:24:20,640 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 1: Else's only one, I'm like, I don't be on a

1690
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:26,800
Speaker 1: date with another man. That's what literally happened to me.

1691
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 2: I was on the date with somebody else, and I

1692
01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 2: found all my other niggas on the date with a bitch.

1693
01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:34,679
Speaker 1: I said, how dare you is? How crazy she is? Really?

1694
01:24:34,760 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 1: She is? Kind of I do believe in that. I

1695
01:24:39,320 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 1: just don't know. I don't know how to navigate and

1696
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 1: go about it yet because I don't know if I'm like,

1697
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with it. Yeah, you're working out, think

1698
01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: about you. You're going to work out your key words.

1699
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't work it out. I don't feel like I'm

1700
01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:59,599
Speaker 1: comfortable with it yet either. But look, even even even

1701
01:24:59,680 --> 01:25:04,000
Speaker 1: knowing consual, but niggas be poll That's what I'm saying.

1702
01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:07,320
Speaker 1: We are all doing it when you really think about it,

1703
01:25:07,400 --> 01:25:10,840
Speaker 1: even non sexually, Like, think about it you have friends

1704
01:25:10,880 --> 01:25:14,240
Speaker 1: that you call for certain things. Absolutely you don't sometimes

1705
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:16,439
Speaker 1: you don't mix them together. So understand that we are

1706
01:25:16,600 --> 01:25:20,320
Speaker 1: poly people period. It don't necessarily mean that you're gonna

1707
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:21,960
Speaker 1: have sex because some of the mining in my life

1708
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 1: that I consider partners, I'm not having sex with him.

1709
01:25:24,560 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 1: They're not there for that. They're there because sometimes I

1710
01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:29,000
Speaker 1: like to hop on a plane and go somewhere and

1711
01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 1: he liked me too, let's go. Or I like to

1712
01:25:31,240 --> 01:25:36,080
Speaker 1: go dance. Come on, I like to go dancing. And

1713
01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:37,880
Speaker 1: then they be like, okay, I want to go dance

1714
01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:48,000
Speaker 1: with you. Yes you know, No, no, no, I don't know.

1715
01:25:48,160 --> 01:25:50,560
Speaker 1: Because the thing is, I'll go on a trip and

1716
01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 1: niggas think they gonna FuG you know, when I get

1717
01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:55,560
Speaker 1: to here, it'd be like, oh, they know they're not

1718
01:25:57,439 --> 01:25:59,519
Speaker 1: as a queen of acting like oh I passed out,

1719
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:02,439
Speaker 1: sorry boom, I'm the queen of being like, yeah, you're

1720
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:07,400
Speaker 1: gonna get this this see and when we get there, none, nigga,

1721
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:12,479
Speaker 1: you just say still say that and I promise you.

1722
01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 1: And that's because they really want your energy. Understand that

1723
01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:19,360
Speaker 1: we are people of wanting to consume each other's energy.

1724
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:22,000
Speaker 1: So when a person if they think they could have

1725
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:24,240
Speaker 1: sex with you and you don't tell them anything different,

1726
01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,720
Speaker 1: then they gonna lead off that too. But if you're like, hey,

1727
01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:28,800
Speaker 1: I want you to be in my life because you

1728
01:26:28,960 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 1: serve these things and I'm gonna do these things for you, right,

1729
01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:34,320
Speaker 1: they're like where else you gonna get that from? You

1730
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:36,800
Speaker 1: can't get another gg not this one. There are a

1731
01:26:36,880 --> 01:26:42,320
Speaker 1: lot of period another one like it ain't another direct

1732
01:26:42,360 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 1: that we were just having this conversation, but we have

1733
01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:49,280
Speaker 1: talked about being more intentional on being in the front.

1734
01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm developing a relationship contract. I'm gonna share. I'm gonna

1735
01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:55,400
Speaker 1: send it to y'all. It's our relationship so many it's

1736
01:26:55,400 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 1: just stuff on there where you literally right out or

1737
01:26:58,240 --> 01:27:00,120
Speaker 1: type out what you want and then you let let

1738
01:27:00,120 --> 01:27:02,360
Speaker 1: them type it out to YouTube and then you start

1739
01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:06,200
Speaker 1: the negotiations. I like that, Like I want this yet

1740
01:27:06,240 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna give you this hold on this contract. Yes,

1741
01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:14,439
Speaker 1: I'm interested in having sex with you, but there are

1742
01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:18,320
Speaker 1: other things that I want. This dress and contract gonna

1743
01:27:18,360 --> 01:27:20,080
Speaker 1: be like, oh, we can have sex with the fine

1744
01:27:20,120 --> 01:27:22,679
Speaker 1: prices gonna be like includes a Berkeley, I can change

1745
01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:28,479
Speaker 1: it at any time. A wagon trips three times want

1746
01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:30,559
Speaker 1: to do it though it is and I'm a fine

1747
01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:37,839
Speaker 1: but she always finds them to get into our favorite

1748
01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:40,680
Speaker 1: segment of the show, which is pour your heart out.

1749
01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:42,559
Speaker 1: You know, if you have any questions, you can always

1750
01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:46,439
Speaker 1: send your questions to expoor Minds at gmail dot com.

1751
01:27:46,560 --> 01:27:48,360
Speaker 1: It's a s k P O you R M I

1752
01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:53,560
Speaker 1: N D S at gmail dot com. Also send your testimonials.

1753
01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:55,080
Speaker 1: You know, we would love to know if we have

1754
01:27:55,560 --> 01:28:00,040
Speaker 1: helped you your life up. So also the page you

1755
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:03,680
Speaker 1: say your favorite patrem if you're a Patreon member, make

1756
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,200
Speaker 1: sure you put that in the subject because you get

1757
01:28:05,240 --> 01:28:06,920
Speaker 1: to skip the line. Yes, you also do get to

1758
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:08,760
Speaker 1: skip the line. So yes, we're gonna go ahead and

1759
01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:10,439
Speaker 1: get into the questions. And you know, sees, we want

1760
01:28:10,479 --> 01:28:13,280
Speaker 1: you to help us answer the questions. So do you

1761
01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:14,880
Speaker 1: want to go first legs or do you want I'll

1762
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:18,000
Speaker 1: go first all time? It says high Lex Andrea. I'm

1763
01:28:18,040 --> 01:28:19,760
Speaker 1: a huge fan of the show and you both have

1764
01:28:19,920 --> 01:28:22,960
Speaker 1: improved my sex life immensely. I have been with my

1765
01:28:23,040 --> 01:28:26,200
Speaker 1: boyfriend for seven months now and we be fucking, but

1766
01:28:26,560 --> 01:28:29,240
Speaker 1: I have always struggled with sucking him off to completion.

1767
01:28:29,760 --> 01:28:32,320
Speaker 1: I have big hands and my boyfriend has a five

1768
01:28:32,400 --> 01:28:35,760
Speaker 1: to six inch penis with girth. He tells me to

1769
01:28:35,920 --> 01:28:38,360
Speaker 1: use two hands, but my big ass hands and his

1770
01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:41,639
Speaker 1: link makes it very difficult to get any rhythm going.

1771
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,400
Speaker 1: Any tips on sucking your BDB off and making him

1772
01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:48,559
Speaker 1: tap out from big hand birthday, not big hand Bertha

1773
01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:53,640
Speaker 1: and ike behb not the bdb bhb.

1774
01:28:53,960 --> 01:28:56,800
Speaker 2: Big hand Bertha. I let me say I have big

1775
01:28:56,880 --> 01:28:58,800
Speaker 2: hands too. I have very large hands.

1776
01:28:58,840 --> 01:29:01,639
Speaker 1: Your hands are dainty, though I know that my hands

1777
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:05,040
Speaker 1: are dainty, but I have long finger. I can wrap

1778
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:08,280
Speaker 1: my hand around a nigga about three fold time. So

1779
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:12,599
Speaker 1: even though that's what he likes, he likes to use

1780
01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:15,160
Speaker 1: hands whatever, But I feel like you gotta get on

1781
01:29:15,280 --> 01:29:15,919
Speaker 1: that mouthwork.

1782
01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:18,120
Speaker 2: Is if your mouthwork is doing right, he not gonna

1783
01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:19,080
Speaker 2: forget about the hands.

1784
01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:22,360
Speaker 1: Girl. Let me tell y'all, I'm sorry, I don't get

1785
01:29:22,400 --> 01:29:24,640
Speaker 1: to me get too vulgar, but you gotta have that

1786
01:29:24,840 --> 01:29:29,400
Speaker 1: wet mouth, make your mouth with Why is y'all's mouth? Y'all?

1787
01:29:29,960 --> 01:29:33,160
Speaker 1: If you're not slobbering while you're giving heads, you're not

1788
01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:35,839
Speaker 1: doing it right. You're not libby. If you ain't crying,

1789
01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 1: I should be watering. So if you get to that

1790
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 1: point where you're like choking and it's a lot of

1791
01:29:41,000 --> 01:29:43,920
Speaker 1: saliva being he is not gonna miss them hands.

1792
01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:46,599
Speaker 2: So I get it because I have big hands as well.

1793
01:29:46,680 --> 01:29:48,880
Speaker 1: So I feel like you need to focus on the

1794
01:29:48,920 --> 01:29:51,400
Speaker 1: mouthwork that's your mouth might be a little drop, but

1795
01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:53,560
Speaker 1: it's normal because you have to realize a lot of

1796
01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:55,840
Speaker 1: times we're having sex, we're moaning, our mouths are open,

1797
01:29:55,920 --> 01:29:58,120
Speaker 1: so we're drying our mouths out. So if a man

1798
01:29:58,200 --> 01:30:00,439
Speaker 1: eats you out before you're moaning, your mouth is open,

1799
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:02,760
Speaker 1: so you taking in all this air by the time

1800
01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:04,559
Speaker 1: it's time for you the seconds that your mouth dry,

1801
01:30:05,439 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 1: then if you smoke weed, which I don't know if

1802
01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:09,400
Speaker 1: you said say that, but I mean you might have

1803
01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:12,679
Speaker 1: common mouths. Right, It's a lot of different things. Funny.

1804
01:30:12,720 --> 01:30:16,120
Speaker 1: I always like if like something is going on, but

1805
01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:20,479
Speaker 1: I always have a water on my dresser. But before

1806
01:30:20,520 --> 01:30:22,160
Speaker 1: you suck it, dick, take a little sip of water,

1807
01:30:22,400 --> 01:30:24,720
Speaker 1: wet that mouth up a little bit. I agree. I

1808
01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:29,280
Speaker 1: absolutely feel like head has to be like sloppy and girl,

1809
01:30:29,360 --> 01:30:34,439
Speaker 1: get that that vose what you need tap water. We

1810
01:30:34,520 --> 01:30:39,559
Speaker 1: don't need to take time, bitch, take a silk gross

1811
01:30:40,720 --> 01:30:46,400
Speaker 1: we that mouth only because we've been having serious conversation today?

1812
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:49,080
Speaker 2: Has she not been like Oka being the.

1813
01:30:51,160 --> 01:30:55,960
Speaker 1: Crazy? Okay question? But soon? Hey, Lex Andrea love y'all

1814
01:30:56,040 --> 01:31:04,880
Speaker 1: horse horse streaky worse. I'm a lady, That's what I'm saying.

1815
01:31:05,680 --> 01:31:11,000
Speaker 1: Y'all don't respect me. I've been seeing a guy for

1816
01:31:11,120 --> 01:31:14,280
Speaker 1: a couple months and everything is perfect. Communication is great, day,

1817
01:31:14,400 --> 01:31:17,360
Speaker 1: night's the whole shebang. Spends the weekend with me when

1818
01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:20,360
Speaker 1: I'm free. Sex is amazing too. The only thing is

1819
01:31:20,439 --> 01:31:24,080
Speaker 1: he's engaging in an open relationship. At first I was

1820
01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:26,360
Speaker 1: I thought he was capped, but I did my research

1821
01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:28,639
Speaker 1: and found out his fiancee has her own little piece

1822
01:31:28,680 --> 01:31:31,160
Speaker 1: on the side as well. I really be feeling like

1823
01:31:31,240 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 1: I'm his side beach sometimes because I can't talk to

1824
01:31:33,960 --> 01:31:36,800
Speaker 1: him after a certain time when he's at home. But

1825
01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:38,760
Speaker 1: every time I bring it up, he says I'm not

1826
01:31:38,880 --> 01:31:41,080
Speaker 1: his side beach. I really don't know what to do

1827
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:42,800
Speaker 1: with this point, and I be wanting to cut him

1828
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:45,800
Speaker 1: off because I can't get emotionally attached to him. Should

1829
01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:48,439
Speaker 1: I just continue to enjoy the ride or cut it off?

1830
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:53,000
Speaker 1: Because you are very well versed, well, it's emotions a

1831
01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:56,639
Speaker 1: part of the contract. Are you allowed to that because

1832
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:59,519
Speaker 1: there's certain many different ways to be open, many different

1833
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:02,080
Speaker 1: ways to be so it sounds like they have a

1834
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:05,479
Speaker 1: contract in their marriage that does not allow any type

1835
01:32:05,520 --> 01:32:08,560
Speaker 1: of emotional attachments. It's sex only. But how do you

1836
01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:11,400
Speaker 1: do that? What you mean how you have sex with

1837
01:32:11,560 --> 01:32:14,120
Speaker 1: people order some time with no emotion. You can do it.

1838
01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:17,280
Speaker 1: And what I what I mean and you can do

1839
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:20,640
Speaker 1: is because once you are clear, once you're clear on

1840
01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:24,360
Speaker 1: what the relationship is bringing to you, what the contract is.

1841
01:32:24,600 --> 01:32:26,759
Speaker 1: Then not not to say that you may not get feelings,

1842
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,439
Speaker 1: because that's a real thing. But when you get feelings,

1843
01:32:29,520 --> 01:32:32,360
Speaker 1: talk through them, talk them out, like, hey, I'm catching feelings.

1844
01:32:32,680 --> 01:32:34,439
Speaker 1: Maybe I need to pull back a little bit because

1845
01:32:34,439 --> 01:32:37,360
Speaker 1: if it's not the terms of the condition of the relationship,

1846
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:40,280
Speaker 1: I don't care what you're feeling, you can't have that.

1847
01:32:40,479 --> 01:32:42,920
Speaker 1: If he said, my wife says I can't talk to

1848
01:32:43,120 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 1: talk to anybody on the phone off for twelve then

1849
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:47,800
Speaker 1: respect him and his marriage. Otherwise you need to move

1850
01:32:47,840 --> 01:32:51,520
Speaker 1: on to somebody else. When somebody has an open relationship,

1851
01:32:51,720 --> 01:32:53,720
Speaker 1: their contract that they have with their wives, should they

1852
01:32:53,760 --> 01:32:57,080
Speaker 1: discuss their contract with the person that's they always they

1853
01:32:57,160 --> 01:32:59,360
Speaker 1: should always do. And I think there are some men

1854
01:32:59,439 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 1: out here that just like I'm pollly, you know, and

1855
01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 1: they don't I'm open. They don't say anything about like

1856
01:33:04,320 --> 01:33:09,200
Speaker 1: what what that looks like because everybody because some women

1857
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:11,479
Speaker 1: think open means you can just do everything you want

1858
01:33:11,520 --> 01:33:13,439
Speaker 1: to do. They think you I can call you whenever,

1859
01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:15,439
Speaker 1: I won't, text you when I won't, I can call

1860
01:33:15,479 --> 01:33:17,439
Speaker 1: you right now, want you to come over and have sex.

1861
01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:20,560
Speaker 1: That's not the case. It's very much structure depending on

1862
01:33:20,640 --> 01:33:23,360
Speaker 1: the situation. That's how mine started off. Eventually I got

1863
01:33:23,400 --> 01:33:24,519
Speaker 1: to a point and I was like, I don't care

1864
01:33:24,880 --> 01:33:27,240
Speaker 1: because I wanted to know him, so I was like,

1865
01:33:27,320 --> 01:33:29,800
Speaker 1: go do whatever you want to do. I don't care yet, right,

1866
01:33:30,040 --> 01:33:32,200
Speaker 1: But at first it wasn't like that. It was very structured.

1867
01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:34,880
Speaker 1: So it seems like she's involved with somebody who has

1868
01:33:34,920 --> 01:33:39,000
Speaker 1: structure to make sure that their marriage stay intact. Conversation

1869
01:33:39,280 --> 01:33:42,320
Speaker 1: to have a conversation that she's catching feelings and see

1870
01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:45,240
Speaker 1: if that is allowed, because it could be they could

1871
01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:46,559
Speaker 1: be in the place where they're like, hey, you can

1872
01:33:46,640 --> 01:33:48,760
Speaker 1: have somebody who's feeling for you, but we need to

1873
01:33:48,880 --> 01:33:50,680
Speaker 1: just discuss it. So I know that this is a

1874
01:33:50,760 --> 01:33:53,880
Speaker 1: discussion that needs to be had. Yeah, that makes sense.

1875
01:33:55,000 --> 01:34:03,960
Speaker 1: Because that ain't ship like what we were going. Okay, emotional,

1876
01:34:06,200 --> 01:34:12,080
Speaker 1: give us the emotional version, don't give us version that

1877
01:34:12,280 --> 01:34:14,519
Speaker 1: nigga ain't for you since move on next, get you

1878
01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:17,720
Speaker 1: another open nigga, try again and see that's why I

1879
01:34:17,840 --> 01:34:21,600
Speaker 1: feel like me and say, real adults, we was not

1880
01:34:21,720 --> 01:34:22,240
Speaker 1: gonna give that.

1881
01:34:24,080 --> 01:34:26,639
Speaker 2: Giving you is it worth the wrong?

1882
01:34:29,280 --> 01:34:31,840
Speaker 1: Right? I still want to know that too though, because

1883
01:34:34,600 --> 01:34:36,840
Speaker 1: especially when you know that he has a wife, like

1884
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:38,800
Speaker 1: I mean, it needs to be some other perks and

1885
01:34:38,880 --> 01:34:43,040
Speaker 1: my person. That's what I'm saying. Personal parks are you know,

1886
01:34:43,240 --> 01:34:46,080
Speaker 1: like as long as if you're being satisfied with all

1887
01:34:46,160 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 1: of your parks, then that's something that should be worked out.

1888
01:34:48,960 --> 01:34:52,000
Speaker 1: But if you're like feeling like left empty whenever he leaves,

1889
01:34:52,360 --> 01:34:55,439
Speaker 1: then that's when it's like I feel like, yeah, are

1890
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:58,400
Speaker 1: you with him? Baby? You know you can get more

1891
01:34:58,680 --> 01:35:02,000
Speaker 1: exactly because he's niggas mad niggas out here, and if

1892
01:35:02,040 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 1: he's open, bitch, let him know one that is available.

1893
01:35:06,439 --> 01:35:09,080
Speaker 1: I understand. I want to be like, gig I'm about

1894
01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:12,000
Speaker 1: to have mad niggas. Oh god, I'm about to have

1895
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Speaker 1: mad niggas. Especially now if she told me that's in

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Speaker 1: my chart, that's why I'm this way? But my chart said,

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Speaker 1: But my chart said, I'm supposed to have a few

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Speaker 1: of y'all, So why are you mad? And they gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, I want to sign and they don't want

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Speaker 1: to sign up to sign a sign up? She all

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Speaker 1: they gotta do is peing they little STD paper right there.

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Speaker 1: All that we got test TV paper? Okay. Question three,

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Speaker 1: Dear lex Andrea. I'm a PhD student at an ivy league.

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Speaker 1: And when I say you guys get me through the week,

1905
01:35:47,479 --> 01:35:50,400
Speaker 1: you get me through the week. Hearing two confident black

1906
01:35:50,439 --> 01:35:53,920
Speaker 1: women talk about their worth, knowing it and requiring people

1907
01:35:53,960 --> 01:35:57,040
Speaker 1: to treat them accordingly while also being vulnerable and trying

1908
01:35:57,080 --> 01:36:00,160
Speaker 1: to show themselves grace reminds me that these spaces are

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Speaker 1: lucky to have me, whether it's a bd B or

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Speaker 1: a p w I. You remind me that we girls

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Speaker 1: are deserving, need to be treated right and here to

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Speaker 1: get our things. It's genuinely amazing to see poor minds

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Speaker 1: take off. I tell everyone there is not a host

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Speaker 1: dynamic in the pods sphere better than y'all. Our fa

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Speaker 1: Meg said, bad bitch is my occupation, my conversation, pay

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Speaker 1: my rent. I'm trying to be like y'all and Meg

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Speaker 1: and make this my reality one day. As a public intellectual,

1918
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Speaker 1: you keep a girl confident in these white spaces. You

1919
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Speaker 1: guys are definitely out not out here ruining anyone's life.

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Speaker 1: It's actually life changing to see talented, funny, honest, sex positive,

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Speaker 1: and confident black women do their thing week after week.

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Speaker 1: I'm literally that, literally like tugged on my heartstrings. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but look ats bitch. Now we in the Ivy League,

1924
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Speaker 1: bach we at Harvard. Who exactly the girls are at Harvard? Listen,

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Speaker 1: but let me all stay with us, let me stop

1926
01:36:57,320 --> 01:36:59,960
Speaker 1: playing with us period. But let me also say that

1927
01:37:00,120 --> 01:37:03,360
Speaker 1: is because no, I went through something this week. I

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Speaker 1: have been dating this guy that I really really liked,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like the old me a year ago

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Speaker 1: would have just stuck around because I feel like, oh,

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Speaker 1: he's this person, he says. But me, now I walked

1932
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Speaker 1: away because fuck you, it's another you. I'm not going

1933
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Speaker 1: I can You're a very me and I'm not even

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01:37:20,439 --> 01:37:22,240
Speaker 1: gonna say that because you know what, I don't care.

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01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't care because I'm in the space to where

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Speaker 1: I don't need you for your money. I don't need

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Speaker 1: you for your thing.

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Speaker 2: What is that gross?

1939
01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:32,639
Speaker 1: So I feel good the fact that if a nigga

1940
01:37:32,680 --> 01:37:35,519
Speaker 1: not treating me right, if anybody's not treating me right,

1941
01:37:35,640 --> 01:37:40,000
Speaker 1: I can walk away. Not only because my confidence is up.

1942
01:37:40,479 --> 01:37:44,120
Speaker 1: I have built a career around me being true to myself.

1943
01:37:44,360 --> 01:37:46,599
Speaker 1: And if you're not serving me and making me happy,

1944
01:37:46,960 --> 01:37:49,240
Speaker 1: what am I here for? Yes, the things, the trips,

1945
01:37:49,479 --> 01:37:51,640
Speaker 1: all that shit is nice. But if you don't make

1946
01:37:51,680 --> 01:37:54,639
Speaker 1: me feel good about myself and you're not pouring into

1947
01:37:54,760 --> 01:37:56,760
Speaker 1: me like I'm pouring into you, I have the power

1948
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Speaker 1: to walk away.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 1: I used to deal with men and I had to

1951
01:38:00,479 --> 01:38:04,000
Speaker 1: because I needed my red pain, because I needed money.

1952
01:38:04,160 --> 01:38:06,200
Speaker 1: I needed to I wanted to go on this trip.

1953
01:38:06,520 --> 01:38:08,720
Speaker 1: I can do that. I'm the BDD now, Bitch, Mitch,

1954
01:38:08,840 --> 01:38:10,880
Speaker 1: I'm the nigga with money. What is you saying? So

1955
01:38:11,720 --> 01:38:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm glad that we're doing Ryan period. So I'm glad

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01:38:15,040 --> 01:38:16,920
Speaker 1: that we're doing this for the girls, because honestly, I

1957
01:38:17,080 --> 01:38:18,720
Speaker 1: was happy for myself. I'm like, I got up and

1958
01:38:18,760 --> 01:38:22,320
Speaker 1: I walked away from this nigga because next the full

1959
01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:24,720
Speaker 1: yes come on, Mine ain't full hit. I got a

1960
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Speaker 1: few open places. What is the pw ito Listen in

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Speaker 1: her dominantly white institute. I believe whether it's a BDB

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Speaker 1: or a p W, I okay right, like she's saying,

1963
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Speaker 1: so in those spaces, I know that's right. Legs school

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Speaker 1: the girls, I mean I went me aka the girls,

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Speaker 1: Well you know I was. I was in the white

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Speaker 1: space girls. I was in the White Boks for a

1967
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Speaker 1: long time. Question them before, Hey, ladies, I'm relocating to

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Speaker 1: the US from the UK this summer and I'm a

1969
01:38:58,040 --> 01:39:01,160
Speaker 1: bit nervous about making friends and daty with the niggas.

1970
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Speaker 1: I feel that it will be easier because niggas are

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01:39:03,600 --> 01:39:06,360
Speaker 1: easy and will approach you online or in person, but

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Speaker 1: breaking into a friendship group at the age of twenty

1973
01:39:08,880 --> 01:39:12,280
Speaker 1: two seems like it might be a bit difficult. I know, you, guys,

1974
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Speaker 1: moved to Atlanta when you already knew a few people here,

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Speaker 1: But do you have any tips on building friendships or

1976
01:39:18,000 --> 01:39:20,280
Speaker 1: a love life when moving to a new city or

1977
01:39:20,400 --> 01:39:24,120
Speaker 1: country without any real community there. I've never liked the

1978
01:39:24,280 --> 01:39:27,040
Speaker 1: lesbian friends girl energy in the DM, so I feel

1979
01:39:27,080 --> 01:39:30,240
Speaker 1: like trying to force social media friendships before our arrival

1980
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Speaker 1: will be corny. And I'm not the most outgoing person,

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Speaker 1: so I'm a bit nervous. I'll go ahead, there, you

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Speaker 1: can go. I feel like, honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I have had a pretty good success rate with meeting

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Speaker 1: people on social media and it working out. You know,

1985
01:39:47,320 --> 01:39:49,719
Speaker 1: I haven't. Yeah, you haven't been. Like I met Killer

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Speaker 1: on Twitter.

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Speaker 2: I did, you know?

1988
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Speaker 1: And that's literally like my best friend to this day.

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01:39:53,840 --> 01:39:57,320
Speaker 1: Like so I felt like, true, what the fuck you

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01:39:57,520 --> 01:40:03,759
Speaker 1: laughing egg? Oh god, I'm on Twitter? I did. It's crazy,

1991
01:40:03,880 --> 01:40:06,800
Speaker 1: Like I met Killer on Twitter. Even like Jazz one

1992
01:40:06,840 --> 01:40:09,200
Speaker 1: of my really close friends, like I met her on Twitter.

1993
01:40:09,400 --> 01:40:11,920
Speaker 1: Like I But I feel like you just have to

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01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:14,560
Speaker 1: be kind of like a good judge of character, but

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Speaker 1: you can also like understand that it's probably sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: not gonna work out, but don't get discouraged and don't

1997
01:40:20,040 --> 01:40:22,280
Speaker 1: get your feelings hurt. I mean, I feel like the

1998
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Speaker 1: way that I look at situations is you just have

1999
01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:28,280
Speaker 1: to take them for what they are. Like the last

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01:40:28,360 --> 01:40:30,439
Speaker 1: person that I became friends with that I met on

2001
01:40:30,520 --> 01:40:33,960
Speaker 1: social media, it didn't work out. But because of the person,

2002
01:40:34,080 --> 01:40:36,120
Speaker 1: I moved to Atlanta, And if I would have never

2003
01:40:36,200 --> 01:40:38,560
Speaker 1: moved to Atlanta, all of the opportunities and things that

2004
01:40:38,600 --> 01:40:42,400
Speaker 1: I've accomplished, I wouldn't have accomplished. So sometimes it's okay,

2005
01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:44,519
Speaker 1: you know, even if a bitch want to be your

2006
01:40:44,560 --> 01:40:47,479
Speaker 1: friends because oh girl, you pretty, we pretty whatever, it's

2007
01:40:47,520 --> 01:40:49,880
Speaker 1: okay to hang out a few times. She served her purpose.

2008
01:40:49,960 --> 01:40:52,320
Speaker 1: She served her purpose. Like she was saying earlier, sometimes

2009
01:40:52,320 --> 01:40:54,719
Speaker 1: people are just there to serve their purpose. Sometimes people

2010
01:40:54,720 --> 01:40:57,800
Speaker 1: are there to serve a purpose. And so like I said, like, yeah,

2011
01:40:57,840 --> 01:40:59,720
Speaker 1: I'm not friends with that person anymore. And the way

2012
01:40:59,720 --> 01:41:03,840
Speaker 1: we it was definitely like a traumatic experience. But if

2013
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:07,400
Speaker 1: I would have never matter for who you or her

2014
01:41:07,880 --> 01:41:17,280
Speaker 1: bold more so her though. Oh the point that I

2015
01:41:17,439 --> 01:41:19,840
Speaker 1: was making is, you know, sometimes it's just okay. You

2016
01:41:19,920 --> 01:41:21,960
Speaker 1: have to step out on faith and give people a chance,

2017
01:41:22,080 --> 01:41:24,519
Speaker 1: and you never know where even if the friendship doesn't

2018
01:41:24,560 --> 01:41:27,400
Speaker 1: work out, the fact that y'all met each other still

2019
01:41:27,520 --> 01:41:29,640
Speaker 1: might take you to a whole nother space, or it

2020
01:41:29,760 --> 01:41:32,600
Speaker 1: might get you indoors or get you opportunities that you

2021
01:41:32,760 --> 01:41:34,640
Speaker 1: never would have had if you wouldn't have took that

2022
01:41:34,720 --> 01:41:36,640
Speaker 1: leap of faith and became friends with that person. So

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Speaker 1: I don't think anything is wrong with that, especially considering

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01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:41,360
Speaker 1: the fact that you're only twenty, Like you're saying twenty

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Speaker 1: two like this, oh you twenty two, this youngest foot.

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Speaker 1: I feel like just be open minded too, like sometimes

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Speaker 1: you're going to meet people that don't necessarily like the

2028
01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:51,000
Speaker 1: things that you like, but just give it a try, yeah,

2029
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Speaker 1: because you may grow to like it. What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Is your girl like pe and it's your girl train

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Speaker 1: the call, and we are going to tell y'all about

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Speaker 1: Room dot com. So, if you are in the market

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Speaker 1: to buy a new car, you want to trade in

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Speaker 1: your car, you just want to sell your car. Room

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Speaker 1: dot com is a one stop shop and gets everything

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Speaker 1: finance with your own bank, yes, and they partner with

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Speaker 1: major banks to get you the right raid. So if

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Speaker 1: you want to finance in house, you can do that,

2040
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Speaker 1: or if you want to use your own personal bank,

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Speaker 1: you can do that as well. It's also really good

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Speaker 1: for trading your car, so, which is something that I

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Speaker 1: actually been thinking about because you know, we both own

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Speaker 1: our cars, so I'm thinking about trading my car in.

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Speaker 1: So Yes, gonna definitely use broom. Yes. Room is done

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Speaker 1: of your own home. So make sure, y'all check out

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Speaker 1: room dot com and get own.

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Speaker 2: It to get your new car.

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Speaker 1: Period. So next time you need to buy a car,

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Speaker 1: just grab your phone, go to room dot com and

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Speaker 1: check out thousands of great cars.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm ready for the song. I've been trying to

2054
01:42:56,360 --> 01:42:57,680
Speaker 2: speed this shit up. I'm ready to sing.

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01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:01,080
Speaker 1: I don't know the song all the way, but we're gonna.

2056
01:43:01,120 --> 01:43:03,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna try. Okay, So this is what we're gonna

2057
01:43:03,960 --> 01:43:06,400
Speaker 1: do because we're not gonna get too deep into this

2058
01:43:06,439 --> 01:43:09,000
Speaker 1: song because this episode we have been talking and talking.

2059
01:43:09,080 --> 01:43:11,960
Speaker 1: We are over on tom So I'm gonna sing the

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01:43:12,040 --> 01:43:14,360
Speaker 1: first verse. Look, this is the first verse. The first

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01:43:14,439 --> 01:43:17,840
Speaker 1: versus starts right here, this part right here. We gonna

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Speaker 1: sing the first verse and the chorus, and then we're

2063
01:43:19,760 --> 01:43:22,960
Speaker 1: gonna be done. It ain't even no pressure. But let

2064
01:43:23,040 --> 01:43:27,800
Speaker 1: me say this, I'm definitely giving Beyonce with this one

2065
01:43:28,400 --> 01:43:31,320
Speaker 1: because she did her thing. And I'm gonna talk to

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01:43:31,439 --> 01:43:35,439
Speaker 1: all the signs out there cause I love y'all, y'all ready,

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01:43:35,960 --> 01:43:37,960
Speaker 1: m come on, come on.

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Speaker 5: I was in love with the Sujet terry us. He

2069
01:43:44,680 --> 01:43:50,960
Speaker 5: blew my mind. He also had a flip side too

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01:43:51,080 --> 01:43:52,400
Speaker 5: much like a Gemini.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he was freaking like a tourist, the way he

2072
01:43:58,000 --> 01:44:03,000
Speaker 4: handled me. Flirtations like an aries.

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01:44:03,840 --> 01:44:05,320
Speaker 1: Which sign is best for me?

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Speaker 6: Capricorna Querious, Piscis aries, Taurus Gemini cancer, Oh Libra Virgo

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Speaker 6: Libra scrapio Sagretarius, I love capricorna Quarius, Pisces aries, Taurus

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Speaker 6: Gemini cancer, Oh Li Mi.

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Speaker 1: Sangretarious, I love Oo. I wish she was a virgo.

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Speaker 4: Me.

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01:44:39,640 --> 01:44:43,200
Speaker 1: I know how to show me love because I've been hurt.

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01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:49,200
Speaker 1: Fly Pisces, let me, she said, wee, I wish you

2081
01:44:49,400 --> 01:44:52,960
Speaker 1: was a virgocas me.

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01:44:54,840 --> 01:44:58,400
Speaker 4: And know how to show me love because I've been hurt,

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01:44:58,520 --> 01:44:59,600
Speaker 4: Bob Pisces.

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01:45:01,600 --> 01:45:10,639
Speaker 1: First of all, save time. This was a song. First

2085
01:45:10,640 --> 01:45:16,120
Speaker 1: of all, shut up. Yes, yes, she's using this astrology.

2086
01:45:16,439 --> 01:45:18,800
Speaker 1: Did you know what I feel like? I was in

2087
01:45:18,880 --> 01:45:23,880
Speaker 1: love with the Sagittarius? He blew my mind. We don't, Jason,

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01:45:28,080 --> 01:45:30,639
Speaker 1: We know that it was the first one for any

2089
01:45:30,800 --> 01:45:32,840
Speaker 1: artists listening. I feel like, can we get some more

2090
01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:34,000
Speaker 1: astrology songs?

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01:45:34,520 --> 01:45:34,680
Speaker 3: Right?

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01:45:34,880 --> 01:45:37,680
Speaker 1: We don't have enough astrology song? The right one? You

2093
01:45:38,880 --> 01:45:41,760
Speaker 1: one together, I'm gonna write and y'all just gonna yeah,

2094
01:45:41,800 --> 01:45:45,240
Speaker 1: we're gonna produce it together. You said we're gonna write it,

2095
01:45:45,240 --> 01:45:47,439
Speaker 1: and she said, I'm gonna perform. She took it over.

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01:45:51,520 --> 01:45:57,920
Speaker 1: We can have a best you, right and skill, and

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01:45:57,960 --> 01:46:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna perform it that I'm trying to honor your

2098
01:46:02,800 --> 01:46:05,840
Speaker 1: request and you took it from it. I'm like, okay,

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01:46:05,840 --> 01:46:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it. I'm just kidding. Okay,

2100
01:46:12,200 --> 01:46:14,760
Speaker 1: So tell everybody where they can find you. Yes, you

2101
01:46:14,800 --> 01:46:17,920
Speaker 1: can find me by you can google gg Robinson and

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01:46:18,160 --> 01:46:20,040
Speaker 1: everything will come up. But if you need to know

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Speaker 1: the handles, I am living a line on Instagram. I

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01:46:24,360 --> 01:46:28,759
Speaker 1: am living a line on Twitter on not on Twitter,

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Speaker 1: on TikTok on Twitter. It's aligned goddess. But literally, if

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Speaker 1: you just google G. G. Robinson, g I G I Robinson,

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Speaker 1: everything will pop up. My website is I am living

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Speaker 1: Aline dot com. Okay, we're gonna put all that info

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Speaker 1: in the bio. So do you do personal readings? I

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Speaker 1: do do personal reading? Yes, So if y'all want to

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Speaker 1: get a personal reading, please book her. You won't regret it.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be a good YEA. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for coming through. So I know I feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: a little different now. I'm excited. Yes back, and thank

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Speaker 1: y'all so much for tuning in. We hope y'all learned

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Speaker 1: more about the astrology and everything. And you you know, fine,

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Speaker 1: do your birth charge, get your number and get you

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Speaker 1: all the time you were born. Call Us gonna do

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Speaker 1: you a reading. Yes, we're gonna get to the bottom

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Speaker 1: of the our problems. Get it's been another episode of

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Speaker 1: poor by y'all. I'm a Scorpio. That was my song.

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Speaker 2: Of love making.

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Speaker 1: Are you zodiac freak? I've been looking for you. I

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Speaker 1: was waiting whatever love making you make me? Say you

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Speaker 1: want to kill? Talk about because you see what he

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Speaker 1: says to the group, hate somebody. He gonna sing me

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Speaker 1: song like