1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Second date, up date, you're going back home for the 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: holidays can be really fun. 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm so exciting. 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: It can be great to reconnect with your siblings again, 5 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: your grandparents, relatives you haven't seen in a while, and 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: if you're really lucky, you might even see someone from 7 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: your past and have a little holiday hookups. 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 3: Family not your family, and. 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 2: When everybody goes out. 10 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, totally exactly. 11 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: Didn't your old pe coach reconnect and get the second 12 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: base or something? 13 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: No, he married. 14 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 5: I think one of my other friends. 15 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: Oh too bad for you, Brooke, mister Chance. But one 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: of our listeners, Simone, reconnected with someone recently, not a 17 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: next boyfriend. It was just a guy from her high school. 18 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: And I'm curious about how it went down because she's 19 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: on the phone right now, Simone. So what was this 20 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: a fellow student or a faculty member? 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 6: Oh my god, it was not a faculty member. Okay. 22 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 5: Honestly, I hooked up with more guys from my high 23 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,279 Speaker 5: school way post high school than I did in high school. 24 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: I was too dorky in high school. Nobody wanted to 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: I try. It's not that I didn't try. 26 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 3: Some are late and some skankers. What we call it bloomers, 27 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 3: all right, as long as you get it done. So someone, 28 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: who is this guy that you met up with? 29 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 6: So his name is Jack and we reconnected over Facebook 30 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 6: because I had posted that I was coming home and 31 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 6: I was really excited to spend time with my family 32 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 6: and friends, like for the holidays, and I was trying 33 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 6: to kind of give everybody a heads up that I 34 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 6: went to school with so we could try to plan 35 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 6: something and all catch up. 36 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like like a mini informal reunion almost. 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 6: Yeah. 38 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, And did you know that you wanted to hook 39 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: up with him immediately or did you want to wait 40 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: and see. 41 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 3: How it went well? 42 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 6: So that's the thing is that, like this, this is 43 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 6: a guy that we've never dated. We were always kind 44 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 6: of floating around in like neighboring circles, but we were 45 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 6: never super close. 46 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: Okay, and got it. 47 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 6: He was one of the first people to comment on 48 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,399 Speaker 6: this post. I was like, Oh, this would be great, 49 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 6: would love to catch up. And I was like catch up, 50 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 6: Like what do we have to talk about? Like we 51 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 6: didn't you. 52 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 5: Know, you know some people who stay in the hometown 53 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 5: that you're from. 54 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 2: Yes, maybe need some outside influence. 55 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 5: Everyone to watch this city is what she's saying. 56 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 6: Let me tell you, I will not miss an opportunity 57 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 6: to show off my glow up. So okay, that good. 58 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 3: So what did you and Jack do when you met up? 59 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 6: Well, this is the thing. So we were texting for 60 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 6: a while until I got back and trying to make 61 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 6: plans and I was staying with my family, so I 62 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 6: was like, why don't we just make it easy. You 63 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 6: can come pick me up from my family's place and 64 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 6: we'll go wherever you want to go. 65 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 5: Oh, so this feels more like a date than a 66 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 5: hangout if it's just you. 67 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 6: Too, Yeah, I guess so I think maybe. I don't 68 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 6: know if that was the intention, but things kind of 69 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 6: ended up taking life turn and it wasn't really anybody's fault. 70 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 6: But he came to pick me up when I was fit. 71 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 6: I just finished dinner with my family, and my family 72 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 6: was like, oh, you know, why don't you come in 73 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 6: for a second, which I kind of gave him the 74 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 6: look of like you don't have to do this, But 75 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 6: he was very cool and came in and be all 76 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 6: we're just hanging It was really sweet, like we were 77 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 6: all hanging out for a while and like because like 78 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 6: It's not like. 79 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: He knew your family in high school. You guys weren't even. 80 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 4: Really pressure situation. 81 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: Yes, I know if that happened to me, I would 82 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: absolutely not want to go inside there. I do not 83 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: want to spend my precious free time during the holidays 84 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: meeting some other person's family. 85 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 4: I love meeting families, yeah. 86 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 2: But not people meeting mine. 87 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 5: And parents always love me so much. 88 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: Okay, we get it, Brook, You're amazing everybody person in 89 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 1: the world, and everyone wants to go. 90 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 5: Their kids don't like me, but they like Okay, Well, 91 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 5: so what happened with Jack. 92 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 6: Well, so we're all talking and we ended up like 93 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 6: playing some games and everybody was played. 94 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 7: A good time. 95 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 4: So the full on like time. 96 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't mean for that to happen. 97 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 6: It just kind of did. 98 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 4: Playing the piano, singing carols together. 99 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 2: He was into it though, Yeah. 100 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 5: He was. 101 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 6: And I will say this, my dad was a little tipsy, 102 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 6: which around the holidays is not a surprise. Yeah, And 103 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 6: he was kind of ribbing them a little bit, like 104 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 6: what are your intentions with my daughter? I know, I know. 105 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: Let me go to the laundry room and then I'll 106 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: show you. 107 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: Is that not how your guys' family holidays. 108 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 5: I never had to take take my dad into the 109 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 5: laundry room. 110 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, just a pe teacher, I know. How did Jack 111 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 3: handle the ribbing? 112 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 6: He just kind of laughed it off, and finally I 113 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 6: kind of pulled him aside and I was like, hey, listen, 114 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 6: we can get out of here whenever you need to, 115 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 6: like we already were here a lot longer than I thought. 116 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 6: And he was like, I just got a text from 117 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 6: where my friends and they really need me, so I 118 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,239 Speaker 6: actually I have to get going. And he's like, well, well, 119 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 6: we'll catch up in a few days. And of course, 120 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 6: in my head, I'm like, did he really get a 121 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 6: text from his friend or I think that maybe he didn't. 122 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 5: I don't know, like maybe he thought you guys were 123 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 5: just going out as friends, and then your dad is 124 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 5: assuming that you're a couple. Like it just it feels 125 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 5: like a lot of weirdness. 126 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree. And the way we left it was 127 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 6: we'll make more plans, we'll text and we'll figure it out. 128 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 6: And then just never heard back from him. 129 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 4: Man, all complete ghost. 130 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 6: It's not like he's stalling, no, no, Like I just 131 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 6: he just went radio silent and so I don't know 132 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 6: what happened. 133 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: Are you crushing on him? Still? 134 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 7: Like? 135 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 2: You still like him? 136 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 6: Yeah? I mean especially too, like seeing how cool he 137 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 6: was with paying out with my family for a little bit, 138 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 6: that's impressing. 139 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 2: You know. 140 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: I did have a weird thought though, like, while he 141 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: was bonding with your family, do you have any single 142 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: siblings or or single hot aunts don that maybe like 143 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 1: could have swooped in. 144 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 6: No, I'm the only girl. I have two brothers. 145 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: Maybe that's an option for him though. 146 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean there's a chance that someone could have 147 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: taken him from you, right from under your nose. 148 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 5: Probably messed up family dynamics. If that's the case, it's. 149 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,799 Speaker 3: Called the holidays broke. Things happen. 150 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: But let's find out what really happened when we play 151 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 1: a song. Come back, call him and try and get 152 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,119 Speaker 1: your second date update. 153 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 6: All right, thank you? 154 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 3: All right, hold on second date update. 155 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: One of the main rules of dating, and I think 156 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: everybody knows this is if you really like someone, you 157 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: do not introduce them to your family for at least 158 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: three to four years until you're one hundred percent sure 159 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: they won't be scared off. Wow, I would say probably 160 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: even pop out a few kids with them before they 161 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: meet the family, just to be safe. Or you could 162 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: end up like Simone who was supposed to go out 163 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: with an old high school friend named Jack till her 164 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: family invited him inside during the holidays, and look what happened. 165 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 3: He ran away. Hasn't been heard from since that night. 166 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 4: I should have heard your advice first show. 167 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 5: Are we blaming the drunk dad? Is that where we're blaming? 168 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: Or no, we don't know who to blame. 169 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 4: That's where I'm leaning. I think that even though it's 170 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 4: a joke, it's still very intimidating to know your dad 171 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 4: is even thinking that. 172 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 5: It's such an old cliche joke, like realish my gun. 173 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Simon, do you wish that you hadn't let him 174 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: come inside that house that night? 175 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, we know where to send it up. 176 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: It's absolutely true the answer, Oh my god. I mean, 177 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: or do you wish that your dad was funnier? 178 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 6: I mean he thinks he's funny, which is way worse. 179 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well we're gonna try and get you 180 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: a second chance here. We're gonna call Jack and find 181 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: out which member of your family is the one to blame. 182 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 3: Or maybe it was something that was totally unrelated. 183 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 7: Love. 184 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 4: We think it has to be the fame. 185 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 2: I mean, come on, yeah. 186 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 3: It's like the holiday edition of Clue. 187 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, is it the mom in the kitchen with 188 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 5: the butcher knife or Colonel Father. 189 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 3: Let's get to the bottom of this. I'm gonna Dilla's 190 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 3: number right now. Here we go. 191 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: Hello, my nose brush the microphone. 192 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 3: Hey is this Jack? 193 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 7: Uh? Yes, this is he? 194 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 2: You are aking ready? I like Jack? 195 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 3: I know you see Jack. You're You're on the radio 196 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 3: right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 197 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 6: Uh. 198 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, I seem alert because I enter business call. 199 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 5: Uh this is kind of a business call. 200 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 2: It's about your business. 201 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: Ye, your personal business with an old friend of yours 202 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: name Simone. 203 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 7: Wait, what is this about? What's going on? 204 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: This is about a segment we do on our show 205 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: called a second Date Update, and our listeners will reach 206 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: out to us sometimes and ask us to help them 207 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 1: reconnect with an old fling or an old date that 208 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 1: they went out with that they haven't heard from in 209 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: a while. 210 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 7: Okay, but I'm not old. I'm not an old person. 211 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: Old people, you answered a phone number that you didn't 212 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: recognize that is old, So. 213 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: That Jack, I bet you're regretting it right now. 214 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 7: I was just you know, I thought maybe something was 215 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 7: wrong with my car's extended warranty. 216 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: It's okay, Yeah, Look, we all make mistakes, and your 217 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: mistake was answering this call. But we do want to 218 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: get some answers because Simone told us that you guys 219 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 1: hung out the other night, and you. 220 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 7: Know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt you, but I 221 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 7: just now I don't think I want to do. 222 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 2: This, okay? 223 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 5: Is it because it wasn't supposed to be a date 224 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 5: with Simone? Is I supposed to just be more like 225 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 5: of a friend hang out. 226 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 7: Like No, no, no, no, no, no no. I'm definitely 227 00:09:58,920 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 7: interested in Simone. 228 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: Well I was interested was I mean, look, I know 229 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: you're hesitant on talking about it, and I understand that, 230 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: but can you put yourself in Simone's shoes here, because 231 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 1: she was really looking forward to spending time with you 232 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: and reconnecting. 233 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 3: And I mean she had. 234 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 1: No intention of the night going the way that it 235 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: did where you were invited into her family's house. 236 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I mean she thought you. I mean maybe she 237 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 2: read it wrong. 238 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 5: The only reason you guys stayed there was because she 239 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 5: thought you were having a good time hanging out with 240 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 5: her family and playing board games. 241 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 7: Whoa, you guys know a lot about what happened. 242 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: Like date detectives. 243 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's kind of weird. 244 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: We talked to some run She told us about what 245 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: happened that night, and we were wondering if something happened 246 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: while you were in the house with her family that 247 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: made you No. 248 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 7: No, it was just well it wasn't. It was just 249 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 7: an uncomfortable situation. 250 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 2: Okay, she feels bad for that. 251 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, well no, but just no, not not going in 252 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 7: and talking to her family. Her family was great, nice. 253 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 3: And so great that maybe you hooked up with one 254 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 3: of them. 255 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 6: What. 256 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: Okay, that was a theory that I had. I'm glad 257 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: that we can squash it right now, but yeah, so 258 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: he can. 259 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: Definitely, was the text that you got the emergency text? 260 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 3: Was that real or was that fake? 261 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 6: No? 262 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 7: No, it was not real. I did not I did 263 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 7: not see the emergency. 264 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: But she knew that. 265 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 5: So don't feel bad admitting that. Like, I mean, it 266 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 5: was pretty obvious what made you run from the house. 267 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 7: So what made what made me need to leave is 268 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 7: I was having a nice chat with her mom and 269 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 7: as as we're talking I look over and I see 270 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 7: some Christmas cards and I see one from Simone with 271 00:11:56,240 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 7: another guy and they're both like nuggle up together, and 272 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 7: it was like a it looked like a you know, 273 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 7: a couple had sent a card and it was Simone 274 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 7: and this dude. 275 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 5: Well, I mean, she didn't mention anything about an ex boyfriend, 276 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 5: but obviously the card could have been sent out long before. 277 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 2: And then they broke up, Like, really do you send 278 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: Christmas card? I know, who brings a. 279 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 5: Guy over to your house with your family? If you're 280 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 5: dating someone else to a point where you're sending Christmas 281 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 5: cards together? Like, why wouldn't you just ask Simone? 282 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 2: Then? Why wouldn't you ask her? 283 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 7: Because I just felt like, in order to not just 284 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 7: escalate things, I wanted to I just you. 285 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: Know, I well, you just wanted to jump to conclusions. 286 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 4: I know you just took pictures recently. 287 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 1: I know you don't want to have that awkward conversation 288 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: with her, but I kind of do right now because 289 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 1: she's on the other line listening and wants to be 290 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: asked an awkward, escalating question. 291 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 7: What I'm HI. 292 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 6: In this whole time? 293 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 7: This is like, this is so awkward. 294 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 6: I know, I'm sorry. 295 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 7: I mean, it's kind of cool that you went to 296 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 7: these lengths to try to get a hold of me, 297 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 7: but I just, you know, I just this is just 298 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 7: really bizarre. So who is the guy? Come on, tell me? 299 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 7: Are you seeing nobody? Are you in a relationship? 300 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: Because like, okay, hold on, Jack, you're asking like five 301 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: different questions. 302 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 3: Let's just let's do one question at a time. 303 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 2: Who's the guy? 304 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:30,319 Speaker 5: Oh? 305 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 3: I was gonna start what kind of sweater are you 306 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: wearing right now? Because that I might ease his tension 307 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 3: a little bit. 308 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: The guy. 309 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 6: First of all, I can't believe you even saw that card. 310 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 6: I I'm so mad at my mom right now. 311 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 3: Why are you dating that guy? 312 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 6: Not technically. 313 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 2: What your parents are wing? Wing Manny your side piece. 314 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 6: No, so listen, Okay, I'll be honest. That guy's is 315 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 6: a guy that I dated for a while. We always 316 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 6: did these stupid Christmas cards, and we're not exclusive. We 317 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 6: are not together. We hook up every once in a while, 318 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 6: but we're. 319 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: Not there's a ginnasy. 320 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 5: Okay, but you promise you're not exclusive with him? 321 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: Oh, you're not exclusive? And you send Christmas cards out together? 322 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 6: That seems Yeah, yeah, it was more of a joke 323 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 6: because we would do it every year, so we kind 324 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 6: of just kept up with the tradition because we both 325 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 6: didn't want our families hassling us at the holidays for 326 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 6: being single. So we were like, we should just do 327 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 6: a Christmas card anyway, and that backfired so funny. 328 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 7: So I just I'm actually, I mean, Simon, I really 329 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 7: want to be with somebody that's emotionally available and not 330 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 7: you know, still, even if it's not like you know, 331 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 7: you're not exclusive, you're still seeing him. I just I'm 332 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 7: just not comfortable being with somebody who's seeing other people. 333 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 6: So I just, uh, well, that's the thing, is like 334 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 6: I had a great time hanging out with you, and 335 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 6: I really want to get to know you better. And 336 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 6: I am not invested in this guy. Like I said, 337 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 6: it's somebody that I dated, and it was just I 338 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 6: didn't have anybody else I was interested in, and it 339 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 6: was just you know, I'll call him later today and 340 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 6: tell him that we can't see each other anymore. 341 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: Really, Jack, is that something that you'd be into, because 342 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: if you're willing to see her again, then we'll pay 343 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: for that date. 344 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 7: I have one question, did you hook up with him 345 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 7: over the holidays. 346 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 3: Would be honest. Here, Simon, did it happen and what 347 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 3: sweater were you wearing at the time. 348 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 6: It didn't happen over the holidays, but it has happened recently, all. 349 00:15:58,120 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: Jack, I need an answer from you. What do you 350 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: think one more date with Simone? 351 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 3: We'll pay for it? 352 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 7: I don't think so. And here's why. 353 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: It's a healthier why. 354 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 7: I feel like you could have told me that you 355 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 7: were getting out of a relationship, and I just I can't. 356 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 2: We get here. 357 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 3: It's the holidays. Everybody's sad. We understand. 358 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: You. 359 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 5: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 360 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 3: I was thinking, does that ever work on our show? 361 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: After the person says no, I'm not interested, and they 362 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: throw out one last ditch plea like hey. 363 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 3: What if I break up with the other guy? Will 364 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 3: you go out with me? 365 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: Then it's like a hail Mary? 366 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 3: Or what if I get a butt lift? 367 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 368 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 3: Or hey what if I put my dog down because 369 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 3: you're allergic? My god, it's. 370 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: Always n You made the boyfriend sound like the best option. 371 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: I just can't think of a time where that strategy 372 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: has ever worked, and she definitely gave it a try. 373 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 5: God, I just have this feeling that the guy on 374 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 5: the cards sweater Boy, doesn't know that they're not exclusive, yeah, 375 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 5: because anyone else. 376 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 4: Is always like that. The other one is always like what, wait, 377 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 4: I thought you were my girlfriend? 378 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? We sent out Christmas. 379 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 1: Cards for Yeah, how does it get more intimate than that? 380 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 1: But clearly we're not going to be doing any update 381 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:20,479 Speaker 1: with that couple anytime soon. But remember you can always 382 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 1: listen to any one of our second dates on YouTube, 383 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: because we've got hundreds of them up right now, so 384 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: a lot of people are actually choosing to listen to 385 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 1: our show that way. And remember you can always reach 386 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: out to us if you have a date that you 387 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 1: want us to get a hold of.