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He's gutted food assistance, He's passed 19 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 2: the largest cut to healthcare in American history, all to 20 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: create a piggybank that he can then raid to fund 21 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 2: just partially those tax breaks for billionaires. 22 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: I first met Representative Sarah McBride at the DNC in 23 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen, when she became the first openly transperson to 24 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: take the stage at a political party's national convention. We 25 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: got to know each other a little bit better when 26 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: she came to a screening of a documentary I had 27 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: done a year later, called Gender Revolution, which examined our 28 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: changing notion of gender identity. Well since then, she has 29 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: served four years as a Delaware State Senator and now 30 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: is the first openly trans person in Congress. Sarah is 31 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: so smart and so kind, and I think she is 32 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: one of the rising stars of the Democratic Party. So 33 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: I am thrilled to have her here in our studio 34 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: for an extended conversation. Congresswoman McBride, thank you so much 35 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: for joining us. 36 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 2: Thank you. I am so excited to be here with you, 37 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 2: to see you once again. It has been too long. 38 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: It has been a long time, and as I told you, 39 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: I've texted you a few times. I was so afraid 40 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: that you were not into me. Anymore, or we're ghosting 41 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: me or something, and I'd never heard back from you, 42 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: so I was like, what happened to Sarah? 43 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: I can't believe I was missing Katie Kurrk's texts. I'm 44 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: so sorry. I am so sorry. I did not mean 45 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: to ghost Katie Kurk. 46 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: That's okay. I'm just glad this has finally happened. Sarah. 47 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: You have had quite the freshman year in Congress. Since January. 48 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: The Trump administration has kidnapped, attained, or deported American citizens, 49 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: unleashed the National Guard to American streets, attempted to end 50 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: birthright citizenship, gotten rid of hundreds of thousands of federal workers, 51 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: significantly decreased the budget for medical research, threatened and extorted 52 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: news organizations as well as colleges and universities, pardoned all 53 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: of those who participated in the January sixth insurrection, among others, 54 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: alienated some of our closest allies, put in place tariffs 55 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: that might be unconstitutional. Those are just a few things. 56 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: So I'm going to say, you're just scratching the surface 57 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 2: with that. 58 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, the list goes on and on. Oh and I forgot. 59 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: He presided over the longest government shutdown in history. How 60 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: would you describe your first ten months at the Capitol. 61 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: Well, I will start by saying it is genuinely a 62 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: privilege to get to represent what I hope everyone knows 63 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: is objectively the greatest state in the history of the Union, 64 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: Delaware in Congress, and I am in all that I 65 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: have the privilege of being there. But I certainly wish 66 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 2: I had entered a very different Congress than the one 67 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 2: I have entered, a very different Washington than the one 68 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: I have entered, because the last ten months, which I 69 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 2: think for all of us, have felt like a decade, 70 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 2: I have had a front row seat to the chaos, 71 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: to the incompetence, and I think, more than anything else, 72 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: the cruelty of this administration. They have set out to implement, 73 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 2: page by page, bullet by bullet Project twenty twenty five, 74 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 2: to turn back the clock on our nation's progress, not 75 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 2: just fifty years, but one hundred years or more, devastating 76 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: the social safety net in this country, passing the largest 77 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 2: cut in American history, not just the largest cut to 78 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,679 Speaker 2: medicated in an American history, the largest cut to healthcare 79 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 2: in American history. They are firing thousands of qualified federal workers, 80 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 2: dismantling agencies, dismantling programs that are saving lives here and abroad, 81 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 2: all in an effort to prove that government can't work 82 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: by making it not work, and ultimately, all in an 83 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: effort to consolidate power for this president, who without question 84 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 2: is a want to be authoritarian. Through all of that, 85 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: whether it's the abridgment of due process, the attack on 86 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 2: immigrant communities, the attack on vulnerable communities across this country, 87 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 2: this administration and Republicans have engaged in a strategy that 88 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 2: is as old as politics itself, and it is the tired, weak, 89 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 2: insecure strategy of authoritarian wannabes, and that is to divide 90 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 2: a country and to misdirect the public's attention by telling people, 91 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: as they see their healthcare ripped away, as they see 92 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 2: costs rising, as they see their future slipping away, that 93 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: the people who are to blame for that are not 94 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 2: the Republican politicians passing those policies in Washington, but rather 95 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: immigrant communities or trans young people, or anyone who is misunderstood. 96 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: And it's had dangerous consequences for so many people across 97 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 2: this country. But as scary as it is to see 98 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 2: right now. I think for me, the last ten months 99 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 2: have only reinforced my resolve because I truly believe everything 100 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 2: is on the line in this moment, and that means 101 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 2: we have to fight hard, but we have to fight smart. 102 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 2: It means we have to build the kind of diverse 103 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: coalition we need to win and deliver, and it means 104 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 2: that we have to ultimately figure out how to make 105 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: this government work, because I believe that what we're seeing 106 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: right now, the rise of authoritarianism, the rise of trump Ism, 107 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: it is the byproduct of a crisis of hope this 108 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: country has that individually or collectively, we can't meet the 109 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,239 Speaker 2: scope and the scale of the challenges that we face. 110 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 2: That fosters anger people give up on government seeing and 111 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: respecting them and ultimately delivering for them, and that anger 112 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: feeds trump Ism, and also it leads to people viewing 113 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: politics as a place for entertainment rather than progress. And 114 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 2: I think that's one of the reasons why I see 115 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 2: so many professional provocateurs in Congress right now, essentially on 116 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: the other side of the aisle, because when people give 117 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 2: up on government being a force for good, then we 118 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 2: see it as a force for entertainment, and that only 119 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 2: furthers that crisis of hope we have as a country. 120 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:05,119 Speaker 1: You know, Delaware is a blue state, the Great State 121 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: of Delaware, Sarah, But forty one percent of voters in 122 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: your state did vote for President Trump in the last election. 123 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: And I'm curious. You talk to your constituents all the time, 124 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: how are they responding to the chaos of these initial 125 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: ten months of the second Trump administration. 126 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: I have the privilege of representing the entirety of Delaware, 127 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: which means I represent urban, suburban, and rural areas. I 128 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: represent blue areas, purple areas, and red areas. And unlike 129 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 2: most people who just see political discussion happening on the 130 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 2: news or on social media, I get to go out 131 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 2: and talk to people across the political divide about politics, 132 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 2: and I actually think it's one of the blessings of 133 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: my job. What I hear very frequently from people is 134 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 2: that they're scared. For some it's they're scared about the 135 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 2: future of our democracy. They're scared for their dignity and 136 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: their freedoms. But more than anything else, I hear people 137 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: being scared about their future, Scared about whether they're going 138 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: to be able to afford healthcare, Scared about whether they're 139 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 2: going to be able to put food on the table 140 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 2: and send their kids to good schools and pursue the 141 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 2: American dream and buy a home. And I think from 142 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 2: the folks who I talk to who have voted for 143 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: this president, who aren't necessarily dedicated Trumpers, but people who 144 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: I would describe as Trump tolerant, the biggest thing I 145 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: hear from them is that they feel like this president 146 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: has broken the core promise he made in the twenty 147 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: twenty four election, which was to focus on making life 148 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: more affordable in this country, and they feel like he 149 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 2: has not only shirked that priority, he's actually made the 150 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: cost of living crisis worse with those tariffs that you mentioned, 151 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: with cuts to healthcare that are going to increase premiums 152 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 2: one hundred two hundred three hundred. 153 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: Percent for people. 154 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: They're frustrated that he's betrayed his promise to them. I 155 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: will say one of the reasons why it is such 156 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 2: a blessing for me in this moment to have a 157 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: job where I go out and I talk to people 158 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 2: across the political divide about politics, because it is so 159 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 2: easy in this moment to feel like politics itself, which 160 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 2: is at the end of the day of the art 161 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: of persuasion, that it's pointless because when you go on 162 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 2: social media and when you turn on the TV, you 163 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 2: see just the loudest voices, you see just the most 164 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 2: extreme perspectives, which is what most people see. It's easy 165 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,719 Speaker 2: to go our divide. Our disagreements are so significant that 166 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 2: we can't have a national dialogue. There's no way to 167 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: hear one another, there's no way to find common ground, 168 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 2: there's no way to convince other people of my position 169 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 2: because we're just so far apart. And when you actually 170 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 2: get out of those spaces and into the real world 171 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 2: for those conversations, you realize, yeah, we have disagreements, and 172 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 2: yes there are pretty profound disagreements, but most people are 173 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 2: actually good people. Most people are decent people, and we 174 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: have actually a lot more in common than what the 175 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 2: algorithms make it seem. 176 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: Or reinforce right, well reinforce for that matter. 177 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 2: For as toxic as this moment in our politics is, 178 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 2: being able to interact with people who think differently than 179 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 2: I do has actually not only reinstilled my beliefs and 180 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: my values, because I've been having to defend those values 181 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 2: in those beliefs in those policies in those conversations. But 182 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: it's actually made me more hopeful because it has allowed 183 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 2: me to see that politics as a form of change making, 184 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 2: which at the end of the day requires us to 185 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 2: change one another's minds, that is still possible. 186 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 1: You did a very thoughtful podcast with Ezra Client, which 187 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: I thought was so well done, and I thought it 188 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: was interesting, Sarah, you said out in the real world, 189 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 1: people aren't catastrophizing what's happening to our democracy as much 190 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: as they cared about these kitchen table issues, you know, 191 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: about being able to participate in the American dream. But 192 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm curious, do you find your constituents, even some of 193 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: those who supported President Trump, concerned about the erosion and 194 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: the downright destruction of certain institutions and norms, or do 195 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: they kind of put it off as that's just Trump 196 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: being Trump. 197 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 2: I think there are people who I talk to who 198 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 2: are outraged and fearful about the democratic backsliding that this 199 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 2: country is undeniably experiencing right now. I'm certainly outraged by 200 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 2: it and believe it is not a very real threat, 201 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 2: but a very real problem in this moment. It's not abstract, 202 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: it's not a hypothetical. It is happening, and I think 203 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: you know since that podcast, it's only gotten more obvious 204 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 2: and more extreme, and therefore more and more people are 205 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: rightfully bringing it up to me, and not just the 206 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 2: people who were bringing it up to me eight months 207 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: ago and a year ago, or ten years ago, for 208 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 2: that matter, And so I'm hearing about it more and more, 209 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: without question. That doesn't mean that we should make it 210 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 2: the central point of all of our messaging, because if 211 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 2: you truly believe that democracy is on the line in 212 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 2: this moment, which I do, then the most important thing 213 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 2: for us right now is to build a coalition that 214 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 2: can help to protect democracy. And for the folks who 215 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 2: are outraged by what we're seeing right now, they see it, 216 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: they understand the assignment. They're already fighting hard. If we 217 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 2: are going to get the kind of numbers we need 218 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 2: not just to win the House, but hopefully to win 219 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 2: the Senate and eventually to rewin the presidency, which is 220 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: the only way to stop the democratic backsliding that we're 221 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 2: seeing right now, then we're going to have to convince 222 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 2: those Trump tolerant voters that just as much as we 223 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 2: will defend democracy, we will also so focus as much 224 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: on the fact that they need affordable housing, affordable childcare, 225 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 2: affordable healthcare, affordable groceries. I think when you're scared, it's 226 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 2: very easy to fall into a place where you want 227 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 2: to see everyone fight in ways that feel viscerally comforting 228 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,719 Speaker 2: to you. That's an understandable instinct, and some of politics 229 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 2: is preaching to the choir. But we also have to 230 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 2: have the courage to grow our congregation in this moment, 231 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: and that means continuing a focus on the economic realities 232 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: that people are facing. And I will say, we can't 233 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: separate those things from the democratic backsliding that we're experiencing. 234 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 2: How So, in the last election, Donald Trump created an 235 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: unholy alliance with tech oligarchs and billionaires. He said, you 236 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 2: fund my campaign and facilitate my consolidation of power, and 237 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 2: I will pay you off with massive tax breaks. Over 238 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: the last ten months, he has destroyed these life saving programs. 239 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: He's gutted food assistance, he's past the largest cut to 240 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 2: healthcare in American history, all to create a piggy bank 241 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 2: that he can then raid to fund just partially those 242 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: tax breaks for billionaires. And so, when we protect healthcare, 243 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 2: for instance, when we protect snap. We're not only helping 244 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 2: to save lives for the people who rely on those programs, 245 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: but we're also taking away the piggybank that Donald Trump 246 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 2: is using to fund his consolidation of power and his 247 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 2: authoritarian project that is facilitated by these billionaires in tech oligarchs. 248 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: The second reason is the first speech that I gave 249 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: on the floor of the House of Representatives. I thought 250 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 2: long and hard about what I wanted to talk about, 251 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 2: and this was in February, so this was early in 252 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 2: the Trump administration, and I decided that I wanted to 253 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 2: focus in and touch on the themes of Franklin Roseult's 254 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 2: nineteen forty four State of the Union address, which your 255 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 2: casual observer would not be aware of what he said 256 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 2: in that speech, but it's one of my favorite speeches 257 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 2: because it helps to reinforce how connected economic opportunity is 258 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 2: with our freedom and our democracy. Because in that speech, 259 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 2: which he delivered in the well of that same chamber 260 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 2: that I delivered my first speech, he delivered it as 261 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: war raged on two continents, as Americans were dying in 262 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 2: order to defeat tyranny. He talked about how necessitous people 263 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 2: are not free people when you're hungry and you're out 264 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 2: of a job. That those are the things that dictatorships 265 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: are made of. When people are hungry, when they're out 266 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: of a job, when they're angry, when they're frustrated or 267 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: hopeless and hopeless, right, it leads to two things. That 268 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 2: leads either to people hearing that strong man who says 269 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 2: I alone can fix it and finding hope in that person, 270 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 2: or because they're hopeless, they give up and opt out 271 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 2: of the system entirely. When you don't have enough housing 272 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 2: or healthcare to go around, when there's not enough food 273 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: to go around, and you've got that strong man who 274 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 2: can then dole it out, it increases their power. It 275 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 2: allows him to reward those who are sycophants and punish 276 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 2: those who he believes are his enemies. And you see 277 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 2: it over the last ten months. They'll call these programs 278 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 2: democrat programs. And listen, if you want to call medicaid 279 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 2: and Medicare and snap a democratic program, find by me. 280 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: But what they're saying in that is that these are 281 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: programs that democrats made and that democrats rely on, and 282 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 2: so we're going to punish these people. We're going to 283 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 2: punish LGBTQ people because we believe that there are political enemies, 284 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 2: because we perceive that the people who rely on those 285 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 2: programs or the people who are in those communities are 286 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: part of our faction that are standing up to us, 287 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 2: and we want to punish them. And so when there's 288 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 2: scarcity in the economy, it can increase that strong man's 289 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 2: power in doling out what little healthcare, what little housing, 290 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 2: what few jobs remain. 291 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: So these two issues have to be dealt with simultaneously. 292 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: You have to have a too pronged approach understanding how 293 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: interwoven they are. Yes, I'm just curious. As a new 294 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: member of Congress, you walk around and, as you said, 295 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: the world presented on social media is often not reality. 296 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: When you interact with your Republican colleagues, do you ever 297 00:16:56,880 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: find areas of common ground? Is it civil? And how 298 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 1: do you understand the complete capitulation of the Republican Party 299 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 1: to Donald Trump. I'm just curious what you've picked up 300 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: actually been in Congress. 301 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 2: It's not hyperbole to say that the modern Republican Party 302 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 2: in Congress is a cult of personality. I mean, that's 303 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 2: one of the things that's like really jarring to see 304 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 2: up close, you go on the floor, and you know, 305 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 2: sometimes you can have these poster boards that might have 306 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 2: graphs or pictures of your constituents, pictures of a senior 307 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: highlighting your commitment to Medicare or Social Security. The Republicans 308 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 2: will put up these signs behind themselves on the floor 309 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 2: of the House, and it'll be like Donald Trump's face 310 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 2: gazing off into the distance with fireworks exploding behind him. 311 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 2: I mean, it's like bizarre, pitiful behavior. And I mean 312 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 2: that's a hallmark of authoritarianism. And that's what they've fostered, 313 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 2: a cult of personality. And I think a lot of 314 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 2: the Republicans in the House are Republican politicians who, unlike 315 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 2: Trump one, don't predate Trump. They rose in Republican politics. 316 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 2: They were elected to federal office during the Trump dominance 317 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 2: of the Republican Party. And so I think, unlike Trump one, 318 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 2: there are a lot more who are true believers, that 319 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 2: genuinely believe in Donald Trump. There are others who I 320 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 2: think still make the calculus that you know, better for 321 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: me to be here and to push back quietly or 322 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 2: behind the scenes than to stand up and lose my 323 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 2: primary and have someone who's a true believer here. I 324 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 2: think that's a big all those shrinking portion of the 325 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 2: Republican caucus. We see cowardice by some, and we see 326 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 2: genuine belief in this Trump project by many others in 327 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,439 Speaker 2: a growing faction. The closest thing that I can compare 328 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 2: Congress to is a reality. 329 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: Show survivor of real hothouse more like Real Housewives. 330 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 2: And this is not true for everyone, but it's true 331 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 2: for some, and certainly the ones that dominate the news. 332 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 2: And that is when you are on Real Housewives, the 333 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 2: way to get airtime is to pick a fight, it's 334 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: to throw wine in someone's face, and that behavior gets 335 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 2: you attention in this fierce attention economy, But for an 336 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 2: institution like Congress, for a workplace, it's completely corrosive and destructive. 337 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 2: And for some of these folks, I used to think 338 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 2: when I got there, their behavior was in pursuit of 339 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 2: attention for powers sake, right, Attention is power, Attention is influence. 340 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 2: Attention increases your capacity to have your policies be heard. 341 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: But I've come to realize that for many of these 342 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: professional provocateurs in Congress, it's that they are genuinely just 343 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:41,120 Speaker 2: addicted to attention. We know that attention on social media 344 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 2: is addictive. Right, when you post a picture on social 345 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 2: media and it gets a decent number of likes, it's 346 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 2: a dopamine hit. But for your typical person posting a 347 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 2: picture online, that's a cigarette puff. But when you go 348 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: viral nationally, that is a hit like the most addictive drug. 349 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 2: I mean, it's instantly addictive just off of one high. 350 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 1: I was gonna say that's like opioids. Yes. 351 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: And one of the most freaquing things I hear about 352 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 2: these particularly destructive people in Congress is they were so 353 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 2: normal when they got here, But then what happens is 354 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 2: they do something innocently well intended that goes viral, and 355 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 2: then they get hooked, and as is the case with 356 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 2: almost every other addiction, they will start to engage in 357 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 2: both self destructive behaviors, but also they will engage in 358 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 2: behaviors in search of that high, regardless of the collateral 359 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: damage for other people too. Part of my job, as 360 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 2: someone who's been on the receiving end of people trying 361 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 2: to pursue that attention high is to not be an 362 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 2: effective vessel for their high. 363 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: How do you do that. 364 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 2: By not taking the bait, by not giving them the 365 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 2: responses that they are seeking in that moment when they're 366 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 2: trying to pick a fight with me, because in reality TV, 367 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: how do you get not just a little bit of airtime, 368 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 2: but a season long story gets to have a feud 369 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 2: with someone, But that takes two to tango. I'm not 370 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: going to throw wine back in their face. I'm just 371 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 2: going to ignore them. That preserves my effectiveness for my constituents. 372 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: I also think it helps to present the public with 373 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 2: a very clear contrast between who the bullies are and 374 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 2: who the bullied is. But I also think that it 375 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 2: removes some of the incentive for these people to continue 376 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 2: to come after me, because they're not getting the high 377 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 2: as easily as they would otherwise get it, and they're 378 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 2: not getting the same kind of high because I'm not 379 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 2: taking the bait, and therefore they're not getting quite as 380 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 2: much attention. 381 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: And the attention isn't sustained. It could be a blip, 382 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 1: but it's not a steady flow. 383 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 2: Exactly, which gives them a bigger high. And I will 384 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 2: say that approach has actually also resulted in a number 385 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 2: of Republicans not only coming up to me and apologizing 386 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 2: for the behavior of other Republicans or implicitly doing so 387 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 2: by just being overly welcoming or more aggressively welcoming. But 388 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 2: some have said, let's figure out opportunities to work together 389 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 2: to show that not everyone's like that. And I'm proud 390 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 2: that I've introduced more bipartisan legislation than any other freshmen. 391 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 2: That legislation's not the sort of big, controversial, headline grabbing legislation, 392 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 2: but it's important legislations. Consumer protections for people who are 393 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 2: in debt against these predatory credit repair organizations that charge 394 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 2: large upfront fees and provide no service. These are important 395 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 2: bills outside of some of the perverse incentives in politics, 396 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 2: where you can not only work in a bipartisan way, 397 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,119 Speaker 2: but actually build relationships and trusts that maybe help you 398 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 2: across the aisle navigate some of the foreigny or more controversial, 399 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 2: more headline grabing issues too. 400 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 1: So do you think in a perverse way the cruelty 401 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: exhibited by she who shall not be named Nancy Mace 402 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: in a way helped you because it made some people, 403 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 1: in their effort to show they're not that person, reach 404 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,199 Speaker 1: out to you and want to work with you. 405 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 2: I think what has come my way and my strategy 406 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 2: and deal with it has increased my effectiveness. Yes, And 407 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 2: all I can say to those who've done it is 408 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 2: I hope they get the support and the love that 409 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,679 Speaker 2: they so clearly desire, and I hope they find the 410 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 2: healing that they so clearly need. 411 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,719 Speaker 1: Hi. Everyone, it's Katie Couric. You know I'm always on 412 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: the go between running my media company, hosting my podcast, 413 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: and of course covering the news. And I know that 414 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 1: to keep doing what I love, I need to start 415 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: caring for what gets me there, my feet. 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After eight Democratic senators got together with Republicans 425 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: and Angus King, an independent. They said, you know, we're 426 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: not going to get anywhere on healthcare. We're not going 427 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 1: to get anywhere on extending the Affordable Care Act subsidies 428 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,120 Speaker 1: with the government that shut down. Meanwhile, we're causing considerable 429 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: pain to a lot of people by stopping the SNAP benefits, 430 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: et cetera. And we got to get back to work. 431 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 1: And many progressives were outraged, like Bernie Sanders, he called 432 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: it a disaster. And I know you voted against it, 433 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: this negotiation to reopen the government. Can you talk about 434 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: why and how you felt about what some are terming 435 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: a capitulation and of are saying a necessary step to 436 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 1: get back to business. 437 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: The risk to SNAP was a choice by the administration. 438 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 2: They have been able to find money for a whole 439 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 2: host of pet projects for this president. There was still 440 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 2: money in the SNAP contingency funds that they could have used. 441 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: So the disruption that happened or was potentially happening to 442 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: SNAP was a choice by the administration. But to your point, 443 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 2: very real harm. 444 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 1: I was going to say, whoever's fault it was? People 445 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: were suffering, right. 446 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 2: And inevitably, even if the administration wasn't making all of 447 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 2: the choices it was making to disrupt food assistants and 448 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 2: other kinds of proactively cruel decisions to make matters worse 449 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 2: to play chicken no matter what. A shutdown presents real 450 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:48,159 Speaker 2: pain for people. People go without paychecks. Programs that constituents 451 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 2: of my small businesses in my state rely on were 452 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 2: either ground to a halt or operating less efficiently during 453 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,919 Speaker 2: the shutdown, and so there's real harm. And I think 454 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: no one wants a shutdown. We have a responsibility in 455 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 2: this moment to do all we can to both reopen 456 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 2: government and to have addressed the expiration of the Affordable 457 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 2: Care Act tax credits. I have heard from far too 458 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 2: many constituents, tens of thousands of constituents of mine, that 459 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: are seeing their healthcare premiums increase one hundred two hundred 460 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 2: three hundred percent, and I could not in good conscience 461 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 2: say to them that I'm going to accept this false 462 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 2: choice that Republicans had presented, which is that we could 463 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 2: either reopen government or solve the health care crisis. We 464 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 2: can do both, and we should do both. Obviously, the 465 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 2: Republicans were committed to not doing both. 466 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 1: Do you think they could have been brought to the table, Sarah. 467 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 2: I think that it would have been worth seeing how 468 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 2: the dust settled for a little bit longer. After the 469 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 2: elections in New Jersey and Virginia as people were still 470 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 2: just starting to go on to healthcare dot CoV during 471 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:06,639 Speaker 2: open enrollment and finding these incredibly high premium hikes. I 472 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 2: think it would have been worth seeing if those events 473 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:14,199 Speaker 2: indeed would change the Republican negotiating position, if enough pressure 474 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 2: had come to bear. Because the President had already said 475 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 2: we lost the election this year because of the shutdown, 476 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 2: you had Republicans speaking out about the problem with the ACA. 477 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 2: I think it would have been worth for a little 478 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 2: bit longer seeing if that reality would have changed anything. 479 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 2: Because the President was saying, abolish the filibuster. I think 480 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 2: it would have been worth when he was realizing that 481 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 2: that was not a potential path forward with Republicans in 482 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,920 Speaker 2: the Senate, to see whether he would have ultimately done 483 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: what he's done throughout his career, which is to throw 484 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 2: his Republican colleagues under the bus, because ultimately he wants 485 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 2: to get what he wants, and that is, in this case, 486 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 2: to get back on firm or footing because he was 487 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 2: losing the shutdown fight. I'm not going to sit here 488 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 2: and criticize other people's decisions and how they voted. I 489 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 2: voted the way I did because obviously I disagree with them, 490 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 2: but I also understand that these are really fraught decisions 491 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 2: to make, and I think we do ourselves and our 492 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 2: democracy a disservice when we try to pretend that every 493 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 2: single decision is so morally clear, so obviously black and white, 494 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: that anyone who disagrees with us is evil. That's just 495 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 2: not the kind of politics that I employ. And so 496 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 2: I can understand why some people would come to a 497 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 2: different conclusion than the one that I did. I felt 498 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 2: strongly and I voted no because of it. But I 499 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: think what's clear now is we've got to just keep 500 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 2: up the fight. The American people now understand after the 501 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 2: last several weeks that it's Republican's fault that healthcare premiums 502 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: are skyrocketing, and we're going to continue to bring that 503 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 2: message to voters next week, next month, next year, all 504 00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 2: the way through the next selection, and then, god willing, 505 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 2: if we have a majority, do all we can to 506 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 2: actually bring down healthcare costs. 507 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: Is that what you're hearing from your constituents, because I 508 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: know in Delaware more than sixteen thousand people will lose 509 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: their healthcare subsidies, and about five thousand could lose their 510 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: medical coverage altogethers that sound about right. 511 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 2: I've seen estimates of even more Delawareans seeing skyrocketing premiums, 512 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 2: and that does not even include all of the Delawareans 513 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 2: who will lose their coverage under the Medicaid cuts that 514 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: are on the horizon in a year. 515 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: So what are you hearing from them about getting back 516 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 1: to business and ending the government shutdown? 517 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I think there's a lot of frustration from 518 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 2: my constituents about the votes as they've transpired in the 519 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 2: Senate and the House. They feel like some people should 520 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 2: have held out longer in defense of their healthcare. And 521 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 2: my message to them is I see them, I hear them. 522 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: I've voted against the deal, and I'm going to keep 523 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 2: fighting for the principles that we've been fighting for, not 524 00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 2: just over the last several weeks, but for my entire 525 00:29:59,160 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 2: political career. 526 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: John Thune promised that this was going to be discussed 527 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: as part of the negotiations. Angus King told me he 528 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: thought John Thune was trustworthy. Speaker Johnson seems less inclined 529 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 1: as last time I checked. So I guess the question is, 530 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: did the Democrats get anything out of these negotiations? And 531 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: was the government shut down ultimately all for nought? 532 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think it was for nought. I think 533 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 2: a couple of things. One, there are appropriations bills that 534 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 2: have passed that are good bills that are going to 535 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 2: buttress snap in the face of disruption and chaos and government. 536 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 2: There are really critical investments that are included in those 537 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 2: appropriations bills. I do not believe those bills were worth 538 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: voting in favor of the deal, but there are some 539 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 2: things that came out of that deal. What's very clear 540 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 2: to me is that in September people were not talking 541 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 2: about the ACA TI credits. In September, people couldn't have 542 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:10,719 Speaker 2: told you who was to blame for the pending spike 543 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 2: in premiums. I think people now know when they go 544 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 2: on healthcare dot gov and see their premiums increase two 545 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 2: hundred percent, it's because Republicans were so committed to cutting 546 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 2: healthcare that they were willing to shut down the government 547 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 2: for five weeks. 548 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: But don't you think that Republicans will see, gosh, this 549 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 1: is such a vulnerability for us. We need to do 550 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 1: something about this, and they may be pushed to negotiate 551 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: and to extend some of these benefits. 552 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 2: I think that the only thing that Congressional Republicans are 553 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 2: more loyal to than Donald Trump is cutting healthcare for 554 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: the American people. I don't think that they care. I 555 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 2: don't think that they want to fix this. John Thune 556 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 2: may very well bring a bill to the floor of 557 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 2: the Senate because that's literally the extent of the deal 558 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 2: when it comes to the ACA tax credits. Whether it 559 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 2: passes or not, I don't know. Probably doesn't, but even 560 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 2: if it does, I have no faith that Mike Johnson 561 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 2: will bring something to the floor. We're going to do 562 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 2: a discharge petition to try to bring something to the 563 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 2: floor and have our Republicans have to answer for not 564 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 2: signing it on the record. Right, Yes, but Mike Johnson 565 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:19,719 Speaker 2: is perpetually having to appease the furthest right faction of 566 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 2: his caucus, and they do not want to extend the 567 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 2: ACA tax credits. And he has been in their pocket 568 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 2: since he became speaker. He has been in their pocket 569 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 2: for sure the last ten months. And I don't think 570 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 2: they're going to let him bring that bill to the floor. 571 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 2: I don't think they're going to let him negotiate with us. 572 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 2: And what is clear as Mike Johnson is only doing 573 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 2: Donald Trump's bidding and the bidding of the far right 574 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 2: people in his caucus. He is not a strong leader. 575 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 2: He's just reflective of those two stakeholders that he needs 576 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 2: to maintain his power, and one of those stakeholders will 577 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: prevent him from bringing an ACAA tax credit build to 578 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 2: the floor. 579 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 1: Mike Johnson did finally swear in Arizona's newest representative, Adelita Grihalva, 580 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 1: and she immediately signed on to the bipartisan petition to 581 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: force a vote to release the Epstein files, with the 582 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 1: vote planned for next week. Gosh, the whole Epstein thing 583 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: so much happening. Whether you're talking about Glaine Maxwell getting 584 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 1: preferential treatment at this minimum security prison, to Michael Wolf 585 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 1: a journalist interacting with Jeffrey Epstein, other names appearing in 586 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 1: some of these emails. What happens now? Can you just 587 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 1: kind of make sense of this circus for us? 588 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I will just say I don't 589 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 2: know the extent of Donald Trump's involvement with Jeffrey Epstein. 590 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 2: I don't know to what degree there is any involvement 591 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 2: or knowledge that he had throughout the most prolific child 592 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 2: sex trafficking ring in our country's history. But boy is 593 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: he acting suspicious behave behavior bringing Lauren Bobert into the 594 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 2: situation room to try to berate her into taking her 595 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 2: name off of the discharge petition, the stonewalling at every turn, 596 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 2: the desperation to avoid a vote on releasing the Epstein files, 597 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,880 Speaker 2: to the point that the Speaker of the House shut 598 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 2: the house down for fifty some days. Part of it 599 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,399 Speaker 2: was because he wanted to pass the continuing resolution, send 600 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 2: it over the Senate, and leave town to jam the Senate, 601 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 2: But genuinely his motivation for shutting down the House was 602 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 2: as much that as it was preventing the swearing in 603 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 2: of now Representative at a lad A. Grihalva, knowing that 604 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 2: she would be the two hundred and eighteenth signature on 605 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 2: this discharge petition. But their intimidation didn't work, and we've 606 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 2: hit that two hundred and eighteen mark. I was on 607 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,320 Speaker 2: the floor with Representative Grihalva when she signed that petition. 608 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 2: We're going to have a vote next week. I think 609 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 2: we're going to see a ton of Republican defectors. It'll 610 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 2: be interesting to see what happens then with an overwhelming 611 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 2: vote in the House as it goes over to the Senate. 612 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 2: It is incredibly alarming the extent to which Republican leaders 613 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 2: will go to cover up and to prevent the kind 614 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 2: of transparency that the American people, Democrats, independence and Republicans 615 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 2: alike want to see. With the Epstein files. What do 616 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,479 Speaker 2: you think the fallout is going to be? It must 617 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 2: be very hard to predict, but what will it actually do? 618 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 2: I know there's a big subset of Donald Trump supporters, 619 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 2: people who are part of the MAGA movement, who feel 620 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 2: very strongly about these files and about the involvement of 621 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:40,280 Speaker 2: a president with a pedophile ring basically right. There are others, 622 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 2: I think, maybe who won't be as agitated by what 623 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 2: might be in these files. It may be premature, but 624 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 2: how do you see this all shaking out? I think 625 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 2: it is premature to know for sure, but I think 626 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 2: what is clear is that this whole sequence of events 627 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 2: with the Epstein files is one more example of Donald 628 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 2: Trump and Republican politicians breaking their promises, saying one thing 629 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 2: ahead of the election and doing something entirely different once 630 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 2: they have power. And I think that that is a 631 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,799 Speaker 2: theme for this president and for this administration, and for 632 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 2: Republicans in Congress. They said they were going to lower prices. 633 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,240 Speaker 2: They aren't. They said that they weren't going to cut Medicaid. 634 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 2: They did. They said that they weren't going to touch Medicare. 635 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,800 Speaker 2: They did. They said that they would release the files. 636 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,720 Speaker 2: They're trying not to. And I think that that's probably 637 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 2: the biggest takeaway. Regardless of what's in the files at 638 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 2: the end of the day, regardless of what we get 639 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 2: when and if they're released in greater volume, regardless of 640 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 2: all of that, it reinforces the reality that this is 641 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 2: an administration of broken promises. 642 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 1: You and I met Gosh almost a decade ago, and 643 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,360 Speaker 1: it was at a time when great strides were being 644 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 1: made culturally. I think for the LGBTQ community, gay marriage 645 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 1: pass in twenty fifteen, there seemed to be the beginning 646 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: of a greater understanding of trans people. But now you 647 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 1: don't need me to tell you this. There has been 648 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 1: such a backlash, particularly against trans Americans. In Trump's inauguration speech, 649 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: he declared that there were only two genders. He's attempted 650 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 1: to cut funding for schools that teach about gender ideology. 651 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: He banned trans athletes from competing in women's sports. He 652 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: banned gender affirming care for trans kids, signed an executive 653 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: order banning trans troops serving in the military. I've thought 654 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 1: about you a lot as this has been happening in 655 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 1: Ergo why I texted you and you never texted me back. 656 00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: But why do you think this backlash happened? Do you 657 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:53,279 Speaker 1: believe looking back that the pendulums may be swung too far? 658 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,719 Speaker 1: How do you account for it? I don't think the 659 00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 1: pendulum swung too far. I think, more than anything else, 660 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 1: the reason why this has happened is because there was 661 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,880 Speaker 1: a well funded, well coordinated effort to fear monger and 662 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:14,839 Speaker 1: scapegoat around a vulnerable community. Trans people were just gaining visibility. 663 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: Trans people were at the start of mainstream political influence. 664 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,320 Speaker 1: La Verne Cox was on the cover of Time magazine. 665 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,799 Speaker 2: On the cover of Time, Katie Kuric was doing a 666 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 2: great documentary, and that put a target on our back 667 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 2: because we were making progress, right, but that progress had 668 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 2: not yet been matched by a level of public understanding 669 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 2: that would inoculate us to the effectiveness of the politics 670 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 2: of backlash. And when you have that reality right, you 671 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:55,760 Speaker 2: have a community of rising equality, of rising progress still 672 00:38:56,239 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 2: shaky ground that that progress is built on, which is 673 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 2: not the community's fault. It's just sort of the reality 674 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 2: of new progress. Right It's always most fragile at the start, 675 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:10,760 Speaker 2: and then that is met most explicitly by a well funded, 676 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 2: well coordinated right wing effort to demonize, fear monger and 677 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 2: scapegoat that community. It's had toxic consequences, dangerous consequences. It 678 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 2: is a reminder that progress is not linear. It's often 679 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:29,840 Speaker 2: two steps forward and one step back. It is a 680 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:34,359 Speaker 2: frightening time in this country to be trans. The policies 681 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 2: will have real consequences for real human beings. And the 682 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:43,800 Speaker 2: coarseness and meanness in our politics alone on trans issues 683 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 2: is about as dehumanizing as I've seen in modern politics. 684 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 2: And we can't give up our capacity to change people's minds, 685 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 2: to rebuild and to strengthen public support for the dignity 686 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:06,400 Speaker 2: of all people, including trans people. That means hard, painful, 687 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 2: often unfair conversations. It means meeting people where they are. 688 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 2: It means welcoming in in perfect allies for a conversation 689 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:19,239 Speaker 2: that allow them to gain greater perfection. And that's not 690 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 2: going to feel great. But I am not willing to 691 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 2: give up my power and my voice to bring about change. 692 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 2: And I think that we have to recognize that so 693 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 2: much of our power as a LGBTQ community has been 694 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,279 Speaker 2: the power of our proximity. When we are present and 695 00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 2: we are willing to be in often difficult conversations with 696 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 2: people who are not yet where we want them to 697 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 2: be in their journey of understanding. But because throughout the 698 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 2: last several decades we've been willing to be proximate and 699 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,320 Speaker 2: engage in those conversations, we have been able to build 700 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:56,399 Speaker 2: greater understanding, particularly for gay folks. Greater understanding that has 701 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 2: made not only the progress possible, but the progress then 702 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:01,320 Speaker 2: more permanent. 703 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 1: It's this well financed and deliberate anti trans campaign couple 704 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: with ignorance, honestly, that made it so potent and so effective. 705 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,919 Speaker 2: Well, and that's what I mean, that sort of lack 706 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 2: of understanding. 707 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 1: Right, So that leads me to talk to you about 708 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:23,319 Speaker 1: how we increase understanding. I thought it was interesting that 709 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 1: with Ezra Kleine you talked about people understand sexual orientation 710 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 1: better than gender identity, because with sexual orientation, everybody sort 711 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: of loves and luss and they can relate to that 712 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 1: and sort of understand. Okay, I kind of get that. 713 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 1: With gender identity, it's much harder for people who don't 714 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,919 Speaker 1: have that to relate to. It. Aren't trends who haven't 715 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 1: been transit in the closet right right? And so how 716 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 1: do we do a better job of reversing this demonization 717 00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 1: and this lack of understanding when it comes to trans people? 718 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:06,480 Speaker 1: For me, doing that documentary was extremely helpful and hopefully 719 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,839 Speaker 1: helpful to other people who kind of went on this 720 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,840 Speaker 1: journey with me. And I know you and I talked 721 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: back in the day about the reason why the documentary 722 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:19,239 Speaker 1: was effective and persuasive was I was the avatar for 723 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: the ignorant person or the uneducated person, and through my 724 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 1: journey of discovery, I became more knowledgeable and therefore more 725 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 1: understanding and compassionate. And how do we help people get there? 726 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,399 Speaker 1: Right now? We're at a deficit right when it comes 727 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 1: to understanding, and I would love to be an ally 728 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: and help with that, But how do we do it? 729 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 1: Because it's so hard right now? 730 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 2: There are a number of things we have to do. 731 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,800 Speaker 2: We have to be willing. Not everyone. I'm not asking 732 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 2: everyone to do this, but there has to be a 733 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,799 Speaker 2: continued effort around this trans one oh one right of 734 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 2: people sharing their stories and what it felt like for me. 735 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 2: For instance, when I was still in the closet, it 736 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 2: felt like a constant feeling of homesickness, just this unwavering 737 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,719 Speaker 2: ache in the pit of my stomach that would only 738 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,280 Speaker 2: go away when I could be seen and affirmed as myself. 739 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 2: And it was a homesickness that only grew with age. 740 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 2: The older I got, and the more fulfilled I got 741 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 2: in my professional life, in my academic career, all of 742 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,799 Speaker 2: that only reinforced the fact that I was watching my 743 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,480 Speaker 2: one life pass by someone I knew I wasn't And 744 00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,799 Speaker 2: I still know how hard it is to understand, well, 745 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 2: how do you know you're this when that's not what 746 00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 2: you were perceived to be born as? And I can't 747 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:42,000 Speaker 2: explain everything, but I do think that your documentary does 748 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,560 Speaker 2: a really good job of explaining the fact that we 749 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 2: might not be able to understand everything. And look, I 750 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 2: don't know what it feels like to be depressed, but 751 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 2: I know that that's a real phenomenon for people. And 752 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 2: I don't have to be able to understand what it 753 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,120 Speaker 2: feels like to be depressed to understand that that is 754 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 2: a real thing, and that people who are depressed are 755 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,359 Speaker 2: worthy of support and care and love so that they 756 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 2: can live their best lives. I think one of the 757 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 2: things that your documentary does so powerfully is, yes, it 758 00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,839 Speaker 2: tells the story and maybe allows some people to enter 759 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 2: into that experience of being trans sort of viscerally a 760 00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:17,279 Speaker 2: little bit more, but it also allows people to understand that, look, 761 00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 2: trans people are a reality of human diversity, and regardless 762 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,319 Speaker 2: of what you think about gender in this abstract, academic, 763 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:28,360 Speaker 2: intellectual sense, you've got people who are real people. We 764 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 2: have to decide are we going to treat them with 765 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 2: dignity and society? Are we going to create space for 766 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 2: them to live in society fully and freely with happiness, 767 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:39,399 Speaker 2: so that at the end of their lives they don't 768 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 2: look back at their life with regret, so they can 769 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,759 Speaker 2: get to the end of their lives having lived their 770 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 2: life to the fullest, which is all anyone wants. And 771 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 2: so if trans people are real, which they are, then 772 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,839 Speaker 2: the question for all of us is then how do 773 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,239 Speaker 2: we treat people? And I think if you can get there, 774 00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,360 Speaker 2: you can get most people into a solid pla of 775 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 2: broad support. They might not always agree with every single policy, 776 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 2: but they'll be there with good will and good intentions 777 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,920 Speaker 2: and recognize the fundamental humanity of the community that's being discussed. 778 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,000 Speaker 2: And that gets me to the next thing that I 779 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,840 Speaker 2: do think is important, which is on issues of gender identity. 780 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 2: I think across our politics we have just lost this 781 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 2: capacity to have challenging conversations, to have painful conversations, to 782 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:30,919 Speaker 2: differentiate between people who are committed in opposition to your 783 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,360 Speaker 2: dignity and people who are entering a conversation with goodwill 784 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 2: and good intentions and don't understand. We have to be 785 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 2: able to make a distinction between those two types of people, 786 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 2: and I think we've lost that distinction, and it has 787 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 2: resulted in us too often treating anyone who's not with 788 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 2: us one hundred percent as therefore an opposition to us 789 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:50,360 Speaker 2: one hundred percent. 790 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 1: Kind of a purity test that you talk about that, 791 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:57,960 Speaker 1: I think progressives sometimes fall victim too, that if you 792 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:04,000 Speaker 1: say anything that is slightly off a specific agenda, then 793 00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:04,720 Speaker 1: you're evil. 794 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,880 Speaker 2: I think in our politics we don't grapple with the 795 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 2: fact that people don't know what they don't know. 796 00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 1: If you're a woman navigating life transitions like pregnancy, infertility, parenthood, menopause, 797 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:25,840 Speaker 1: or caring for aging parents. 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You also 809 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 1: use the word grace a lot, which I think is 810 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 1: so appropriate, which is to me, compassion for someone's lack 811 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:29,160 Speaker 1: of understanding. 812 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 2: Well, and I think also not only compassion for someone's 813 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 2: lack of understanding, but just this recognition that one of 814 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 2: the reasons why I am a Democrat, one of the 815 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:42,319 Speaker 2: reasons why you know, my starting place on policy is 816 00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 2: from a more liberal or progressive perspective. Is because I 817 00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,879 Speaker 2: believe in the dignity of every human being. I believe 818 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 2: that people are whole people. I do not believe that 819 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 2: people are just their worst action, or just their worst thought, 820 00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,800 Speaker 2: or just their worst word. And for me, that principle 821 00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:02,640 Speaker 2: that every person has inherent dignity, that every person is 822 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 2: worthy of being treated with dignity, and that no one 823 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,240 Speaker 2: is their worst action. And that doesn't mean there shouldn't 824 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 2: be accountability. It doesn't mean that people shouldn't express how 825 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 2: someone's action makes them feel. It doesn't mean that when 826 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,319 Speaker 2: people are doubling down on cruelty and meanness that we 827 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:23,840 Speaker 2: should just well, okay, I'm going to ignore that. It means, though, 828 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:28,759 Speaker 2: starting from that basic place of dignity, creating space through 829 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,719 Speaker 2: that grace for people to grow. I think that's the 830 00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:33,880 Speaker 2: only way we move forward. And again, it doesn't always 831 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:37,399 Speaker 2: feel great. But I'm in this work because I want 832 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,360 Speaker 2: to make progress. I want to change people's hearts and minds. 833 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,839 Speaker 2: I want to change public opinion on all of the 834 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,799 Speaker 2: issues that I am passionate about, and the only way 835 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 2: to do that is to be in conversation with people 836 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 2: and to start from a place of mutual respect and dignity. 837 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,719 Speaker 2: And again, if someone's not showing me respect, that doesn't 838 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 2: mean I have to stay in the conversation with them. 839 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 2: But I'm going to give people a chance. You know, 840 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 2: this is a moment for us to decide. We've talked 841 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 2: a lot about this authoritarian project, to decide whether we 842 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 2: genuinely believe in democracy, not as a talking point, not 843 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 2: as an abstraction, not only when it's going right for us, 844 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 2: whether we genuinely believe it. Because democracy can only persist 845 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:21,239 Speaker 2: if we maintain our faith in other people's capacity to 846 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 2: change through nonviolent, peaceful political discourse. 847 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 1: And in this day and age, it's so hard to 848 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 1: do it because so many and I know you've talked 849 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 1: about this, Sarah, and I couldn't agree more. So much 850 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:37,960 Speaker 1: of our political discourse air quotes, is being done online. 851 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 1: People write things to me they would never say to 852 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:41,480 Speaker 1: my face. 853 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,200 Speaker 2: Coirs, colleagues of mine write things to me that they 854 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,960 Speaker 2: objectively do not say to my face. 855 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 1: And so we have to create spaces for that, which 856 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 1: is really hard to do. 857 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,840 Speaker 2: I think it is hard, and I know it asks 858 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 2: a lot more of unimpacted community to enter into that 859 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,840 Speaker 2: conversation than it does as for someone whose position I 860 00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:07,120 Speaker 2: might find harmful or offensive but just holds it casually. 861 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,239 Speaker 2: It is asking a lot more of me. 862 00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 1: It reminds me of when I did that documentary. When 863 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,399 Speaker 1: I would interview a couple of the trans folks who 864 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 1: I featured, they would say, it's not my job to 865 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:24,440 Speaker 1: educate people about my gender identity. No, this is why 866 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:28,839 Speaker 1: they created Google in essence, and I always thought, yes, 867 00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 1: I understand, that is a huge burden to have to 868 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 1: lead with that in every conversation, or in too many conversations. 869 00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:39,520 Speaker 1: Is asking a lot. On the other hand, I thought, gosh, 870 00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,320 Speaker 1: is this in some ways a missed opportunity. 871 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 2: You know? One of the things I actually disagreed with 872 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 2: Harvey Milk about was that everyone needed to come out, 873 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 2: that everyone had this responsibility to come out everywhere because 874 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,080 Speaker 2: I was the only way we're going to create change, 875 00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:53,920 Speaker 2: and I thought that that was an unfair burden. I 876 00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 2: still think that's an unfair burden to place on an 877 00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,799 Speaker 2: already vulnerable and marginalized community. People have to make the 878 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 2: best decisions for themselves, and if they feel comfortable sharing 879 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 2: who they are and sharing the wholeness of who they 880 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,799 Speaker 2: are with other people wonderful. For me, It's been a 881 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:13,040 Speaker 2: liberating experience. I don't think everyone in the community has 882 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,920 Speaker 2: to bear that responsibility, but for those who are willing 883 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,960 Speaker 2: to go in those spaces, for those who are willing 884 00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 2: to effectively meet people where they are, in those painful, unfair, 885 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 2: difficult conversations, we have to create space for those people 886 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,920 Speaker 2: to do it. Meeting people where they are is not 887 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 2: selling out. It's what this work is and it's how 888 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:38,440 Speaker 2: we build progress. It reminds me of what doctor Oz said. 889 00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 2: I don't often quote doctor Oz, especially these days, but 890 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 2: I went on a show to talk about my documentary 891 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,640 Speaker 2: and he did say something that I thought was very 892 00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 2: profound in its simplicity, which was, it's hard to hate 893 00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 2: up close. Yes, And I so believe that. I wanted 894 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 2: to ask you about schools because I feel like a 895 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 2: lot of the stirm and drang around trans issues are 896 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:07,400 Speaker 2: really centered at schools. And we read that forty seven 897 00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 2: percent of Americans, according to Pew, think it should be 898 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 2: illegal for public school districts to teach about gender identity 899 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:18,200 Speaker 2: and elementary schools. So I guess the question that I've 900 00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 2: struggled with how do you create an inclusive environment for 901 00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 2: all kids without some parents worrying that it's too much, 902 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 2: too soon, or it's a bridge too far. Well, I 903 00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:36,240 Speaker 2: always believe that we should have age appropriate curriculum regardless 904 00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 2: of what the topic is. Regardless of what the subject is, 905 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 2: one belief that I have is that no one is 906 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:45,440 Speaker 2: too young to learn to be kind. This is a big, complicated, 907 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 2: diverse world, and growing up is already hard enough, and 908 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:55,480 Speaker 2: growing up different is particularly hard in this day and age. 909 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,239 Speaker 2: Regardless of what identity we're talking about, regardless of what 910 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,759 Speaker 2: community we're talking talking about. At the end of the day, 911 00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 2: at a minimum, we should just guarantee that people understand 912 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 2: that the diversity of our society makes us beautiful, and 913 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,680 Speaker 2: that treating people with kindness and respect, regardless of what 914 00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:17,600 Speaker 2: that difference is, everyone should start from a place of 915 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 2: kindness and respect. And I don't think that anyone is 916 00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:26,399 Speaker 2: too young to learn that basic principle. And I would 917 00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:30,040 Speaker 2: hope that, regardless of where you fall on particular issues 918 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:34,360 Speaker 2: on LGBTQ rights, that most people could agree with that 919 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:35,360 Speaker 2: basic principle. 920 00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:40,480 Speaker 1: The anti trans rhetoric in this recent presidential campaign and 921 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:45,960 Speaker 1: in the Virginia gubernatorial race. I'm curious how effective you 922 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:50,840 Speaker 1: think this is and what the Democrats can do to 923 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: inoculate themselves from being kind of pigeonholed into these transpositions 924 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 1: that voters don't seem to really care about, but that 925 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:06,360 Speaker 1: are used to gin up this sort of visceral antagonism 926 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,360 Speaker 1: against certain candidates. What is the answer. 927 00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 2: I think part of it is we as a party 928 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,480 Speaker 2: have to have a bold economic agenda. The ad that 929 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 2: came out against Harris in twenty twenty four one, it 930 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,319 Speaker 2: was like this hodgepodge of all of the right wing 931 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,720 Speaker 2: greatest hits. It was trans immigrant people who are incarcerated 932 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,800 Speaker 2: all in one. But the line that I think reinforced 933 00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,319 Speaker 2: for some voters a disconnect that they had with our 934 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 2: party was they didn't feel like we were focused on 935 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 2: broad economic issues. 936 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 1: You had your priorities screwed up, is what they thought. 937 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 2: I think some voters have felt that way, and I 938 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 2: think that is in part a byproduct of the fact 939 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 2: that we haven't had a clear enough and bold enough 940 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 2: economic agenda. When we've had power, we have not delivered 941 00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 2: it enough, and when we have been running, we have 942 00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,879 Speaker 2: not been clear and focused enough on it. 943 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:01,040 Speaker 1: Now. 944 00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 2: The reality in the last selection in twenty twenty four, 945 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,960 Speaker 2: I should say, and in twenty twenty five, is that 946 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 2: the party that is actually obsessed with cultural war issues, 947 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:12,719 Speaker 2: the party that is spending money and perpetually talking about 948 00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,959 Speaker 2: trans issues, is actually the Republican Party. When some earl 949 00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,319 Speaker 2: seers and Virginia spent fifty four percent of her ad 950 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,320 Speaker 2: budget on trans ads, and I think the public is 951 00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:23,200 Speaker 2: starting to wake up to that fact that it's not 952 00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,480 Speaker 2: the Democratic Party that is hyper obsessed with talking about 953 00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 2: trans people, it's the Republican Party that is hyper obsessed. 954 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:33,160 Speaker 2: And I think in Virginia you saw that very clearly, 955 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 2: and I think Abigail Spanburger pursued that case really effectively. 956 00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,840 Speaker 2: I also think Abigail ran a campaign that was focused 957 00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,520 Speaker 2: on affordability. The contrast of this candidate being out there 958 00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:49,520 Speaker 2: talking about affordability with a laser focus on it, and 959 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:55,040 Speaker 2: when some earl sears hyper fixated on bathrooms and trans 960 00:55:55,080 --> 00:56:01,040 Speaker 2: athletes really reinforced that disconnect. I thought Abigail and Mikey 961 00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:05,080 Speaker 2: in New Jersey really demonstrated that our party can be 962 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 2: principled and pragmatic all at the same time. Neither of 963 00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,960 Speaker 2: them through trans people under the bus. Neither of them 964 00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 2: endorsed blanket policies that treat every trans person the same 965 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,120 Speaker 2: in a discriminatory fashion. Both of them held true to 966 00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,719 Speaker 2: their values, their principles, and their policies, and they met 967 00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 2: voters where they are. They did not shune in shame. 968 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 2: They extended grace. They recognized that some people have understandable 969 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,799 Speaker 2: concerns or desires for nuance, that rules should be made 970 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:38,680 Speaker 2: in the context of sports and the places that are 971 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,520 Speaker 2: best able to make those rules, or individual athletic associations 972 00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,399 Speaker 2: that understand their sports the best and can make these 973 00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 2: rules free of political interference, like we've seen with four 974 00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,640 Speaker 2: hundred and thirty five members of the House of Representatives 975 00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,560 Speaker 2: believing that it's their job to micromanage third grade soccer. 976 00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,920 Speaker 2: That was effective, and they were principled and pragmatic. The 977 00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 2: elections in Virginia and New Jersey reinforced that it's a 978 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,360 Speaker 2: false choice that Democrats can win when we're true to 979 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 2: ourselves and also engage with voters with respect and understanding. 980 00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,759 Speaker 1: Do you believe that should be the guiding principles for 981 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:18,480 Speaker 1: the mid terms? Is affordability? The new it's the economy stupid. 982 00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 2: Yes. All of the candidates that ran who won in 983 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:25,600 Speaker 2: the twenty twenty five election, whether it was Mikey, cheryls, 984 00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 2: Zoron Mamdani, or Abigail Spanberger, all three of them employed 985 00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:35,320 Speaker 2: three kinds of politics incredibly effectively. One is the politics 986 00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,720 Speaker 2: of affordability, that hyper focus on making the American dream 987 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,560 Speaker 2: affordable and accessible for everyone. The second was a politics 988 00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 2: of curiosity and not judgment. They talked to voters across 989 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:48,080 Speaker 2: the political divide. The first video that Zoron Mamdanni went 990 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:51,480 Speaker 2: viral for was a video of him having respectful dialogue 991 00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,440 Speaker 2: finding common ground with Trump voters on the street. The 992 00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,560 Speaker 2: third was a politics of place. All of them very 993 00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:01,320 Speaker 2: much rooted their politics in their commitment to their neighbors, 994 00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,440 Speaker 2: to the community, to the state, to the city that 995 00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:07,040 Speaker 2: they were running to represent or govern, and that common identity, 996 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 2: which the Republicans do very effectively with that America first Moniker. 997 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 2: Rooting your politics in your community and your neighbors rather 998 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,800 Speaker 2: than your partisan or ideological affiliation. That is transcendent. And 999 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 2: so whether you were running in a red area or 1000 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 2: a blue area, whether you're progressive or a moderate, you 1001 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,440 Speaker 2: can run and win when you employ those three politics effectively, 1002 00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,080 Speaker 2: the politics of affordability, the politics of curiosity, in the 1003 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:29,920 Speaker 2: politics of place. 1004 00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: When you look toward the mid terms, how concerned are 1005 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 1: you about the tip for tat redistricting battles that are 1006 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:41,400 Speaker 1: going on in the country because it seems like Republicans may, 1007 00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 1: in fact, as its stands, gain one seat in the House. 1008 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:49,320 Speaker 1: Is that going to be insurmountable for Democrats? 1009 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,800 Speaker 2: I think what we've seen on redistricting is the perfect 1010 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:58,120 Speaker 2: example of fighting hard and fighting smart. We had to 1011 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 2: meet fire with fire. Republicans, if left to their own devices, 1012 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:07,800 Speaker 2: were going to redistrict in so many states that they 1013 00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 2: could have had a net gain that would have made 1014 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:14,720 Speaker 2: it much more challenging, if not potentially insurmountable, for Democrats 1015 00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:18,800 Speaker 2: to effectively compete for the House with these largely unprecedented 1016 00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 2: mid decade partisan redistricting efforts. California responded in kind that 1017 00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:29,520 Speaker 2: dramatically mitigated the impact of Texas. We just saw recently. Utah, 1018 00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 2: through fair maps in their courts, will potentially be having 1019 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:37,200 Speaker 2: a blue seat created in Salt Lake City. If we 1020 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 2: had just let Republicans pursue this redistricting strategy, with a 1021 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,480 Speaker 2: completely clear runway, we could have seen them lock Democrats 1022 00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 2: out of competition in free and fair elections for a 1023 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 2: generation or more. But because Democrats responded in the places 1024 00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 2: that they had power, we were able to mitigate the impact. So, 1025 00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,640 Speaker 2: whether it's a net gain for Republicans of wan to 1026 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,320 Speaker 2: three four, as long as it's in single digits, I 1027 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:07,200 Speaker 2: think we will be able to overcome whatever slight advantage 1028 01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,600 Speaker 2: Republicans gain in this battle. And what I always say 1029 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:14,439 Speaker 2: to folks who want to see Democrats fight as hard 1030 01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,480 Speaker 2: as possible in this moment, I say, if you want 1031 01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:18,680 Speaker 2: us to fight like blue state governors, you've got to 1032 01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:20,640 Speaker 2: give us the power of blue state governors. That means 1033 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,600 Speaker 2: getting us the majority in twenty twenty six, so that 1034 01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,600 Speaker 2: we have the levers of power in the House of 1035 01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 2: Representatives to hold this administration accountable, to serve as a check, 1036 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:31,800 Speaker 2: and to do all that we can with the power 1037 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 2: that we would have to protect our democracy and ultimately 1038 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:38,360 Speaker 2: restore care and protect people's pocketbooks. 1039 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 1: In closing, you've been a member of Congress for ten months. 1040 01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:47,320 Speaker 1: What do you think is the most valuable lesson you've 1041 01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:52,480 Speaker 1: learned so far? And how has your expectation matched the 1042 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: reality of what it's like to do this job. 1043 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,280 Speaker 2: As someone who had been in the state legislature, had 1044 01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,240 Speaker 2: worked in national advocacy, had spent a lot of time 1045 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 2: on the hill, knew a lot of history. I don't 1046 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 2: think anyone can realize what it's like until you were there. 1047 01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:13,240 Speaker 2: The Capital is such a cacophony of feedback and noise, 1048 01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 2: the world's most pivotal and impactful reality show that you 1049 01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,960 Speaker 2: could be stepping into. And again, that's a sad indictment 1050 01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:24,000 Speaker 2: of what Congress is like, and it's hard to fathom 1051 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:28,160 Speaker 2: until and unless you were there. I think the biggest 1052 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:32,040 Speaker 2: lesson that I take away from in this moment is 1053 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,760 Speaker 2: that with so much on the line, we're going to 1054 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:39,760 Speaker 2: have to do hard things. It's not going to feel 1055 01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 2: great all the time. It's not going to be fun 1056 01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 2: and fair. It's not going to always feel like we're 1057 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:51,560 Speaker 2: moving forward. But we are going to have to both 1058 01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:55,200 Speaker 2: play the short term game and the long game if 1059 01:01:55,240 --> 01:02:00,000 Speaker 2: we're going to make that progress permanent. There's something unsatisfied 1060 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:03,720 Speaker 2: buying in how long change takes. But one of the 1061 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,840 Speaker 2: things that I take solace in is the fact that 1062 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 2: change takes time. As unfair as that is, and as 1063 01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,720 Speaker 2: unsatisfying as that is, we can try to make it 1064 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:15,720 Speaker 2: as fast as possible, and we must make it as 1065 01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:19,200 Speaker 2: fast as possible. But the fact that it's hard, that 1066 01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,400 Speaker 2: is a feature of democracy, not a bug of it, 1067 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 2: because it also means that those on the other side 1068 01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 2: don't get everything they want in one foul swoop, and 1069 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,880 Speaker 2: so as unsatisfying as it can be, it's also a 1070 01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:34,480 Speaker 2: reflection of the fact that we maintain a healthy democracy. 1071 01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,440 Speaker 2: But there's a give and take that we can have 1072 01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:41,000 Speaker 2: these painful conversations out in the open, and that while 1073 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 2: it might be two steps forward and one step back 1074 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 2: in the long course of history, the arc of the 1075 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,640 Speaker 2: moral universe will bend toward justice. 1076 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:53,800 Speaker 1: I've so enjoyed and appreciated this conversation, Sarah. Thank you 1077 01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:58,400 Speaker 1: so much for doing this and for fighting the good fight, 1078 01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:01,520 Speaker 1: and for not giving up, and for putting up with 1079 01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,520 Speaker 1: so much bs, which I know is must be really 1080 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:09,960 Speaker 1: hard and painful, but carrying yourself with that word you 1081 01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:11,360 Speaker 1: often use such grace. 1082 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,480 Speaker 2: Thank you. It makes a lot easier. Having great friends 1083 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,360 Speaker 2: and family and everything back in Delaware makes all of 1084 01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 2: the things down in DC worthwhile. Thanks for having me. 1085 01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,360 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening everyone. 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