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It uh 21 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: is Cheeky's courte Bota Bob. 22 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 3: Girl, get a job, Okay, we'll get. 23 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: To it next. Good morning, Kiki, Good morning, Hi, Calin, Hi, 24 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: Hi Jason, Hi, Pauline Show. Is this here? 25 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 2: Babahamine eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five, 26 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:13,839 Speaker 2: context the same number anytime We're on all the platforms, 27 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: run the iHeart app. We're on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok everywhere. 28 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: Search for The Fred Show throughout the morning and ketchup 29 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: all day headlines, fun fact and the Entertainer Report this hour. 30 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: And we're commercial free too, What are you working? Okay? 31 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 4: Real Housewives on Capitol Hill. Also that dude who climbed 32 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 4: that skyscraper, he had headphones in, and I will tell 33 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 4: you what he was listening to during his climb. 34 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: Dune. 35 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: We didn't need it, but the whole thing. 36 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: And I watched it too. I watched like an hour 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: and twenty minutes. So I'm part of the problem. The 38 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: Fred Show. It's Geeky's Court, all rise. The Honorable Judge 39 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: Kiki is presiding. 40 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 3: All right, let's get in the court room. The gabble 41 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 3: has been hit. 42 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 5: It says, hey, Keike, am I wrong for needing a 43 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 5: little help with my kids? 44 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 3: Even though I don't work. 45 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 5: My name is Kim, I may stay at home mom 46 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 5: with three kids, two in school and a toddler who's 47 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 5: glued to me. Twenty four to seven. I love my kids, 48 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 5: but I'm beyond burnt out. So in a moment of frustration, 49 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 5: I wrote a post on Facebook about being tired, and 50 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 5: I mentioned maybe hiring a part time sitter to come 51 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 5: over a few times a week just so I can breathe. 52 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 5: That's when my mother in law went insane on my post. 53 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 5: She wrote a long comment about how her son worked 54 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 5: so hard and how she was a single mom and 55 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 5: did it on her own. 56 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 3: She went off. 57 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 5: Then she called my husband, who came home mad and said, 58 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 5: if I'm so stressed with one kid at home, his 59 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 5: mom will help, or I can just go get a job. 60 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 3: Since the post, my mother in law is. 61 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 5: Now at my house daily, being condescending and trying to 62 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 5: teach me how to be a mother. 63 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 3: It is torture. 64 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 5: Am I wrong for wanting a little paid, because clearly 65 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:06,679 Speaker 5: now I'm being punished so much to say I can't wait, 66 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 5: fall that I cannot wait because first of all, girl, 67 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 5: you you better than me, because let me tell you something, 68 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 5: the moment your mama would have pulled up, I would 69 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 5: have booked me in a vacation on your credit card. 70 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 3: I would have left you. 71 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 5: Know what you want to come teach me how to 72 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 5: be a mother after I've raised two of your other 73 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 5: grandchildren and I just need a little break. 74 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: I got mad on Facebook. 75 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 5: Hey, come come on over here, mama and take these 76 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 5: kids and let me go live my best life. 77 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 6: SnSe. 78 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: That's what y'all. Y'all would have act like. That's what 79 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 3: I'm haing every day. 80 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 5: You know, I feel like, you know, everyone makes a 81 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 5: mistake of getting frustrated taking things to social media sometimes, 82 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 5: But that doesn't mean that just because you're a stay 83 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 5: at home mom, you don't deserve a break or you 84 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 5: don't deserve a little help sometime. 85 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 2: Right, Because it's twenty four to seven, yes, and it's 86 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: no one's saying here that one person's working harder than 87 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: the other. 88 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: That's not what this post was. 89 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: This post was simply like, man, every now and again, 90 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: I just like a break, because you know, you can 91 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: go to your job and work hard for eight hours 92 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: and you know the compartment lies and be around adults 93 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: and do all that, and then you can come home 94 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: and then that goes away. 95 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: This never goes somewhat. 96 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that dad's or moms who work and 97 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 2: then come home don't contribute once they get home, because 98 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 2: they do. But it's like, I don't know, it's two 99 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: different things. 100 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 3: Right, and we shouldn't compare it. 101 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 5: But it gets messy when your mother gets in the 102 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 5: comments and she's telling me about her life as a 103 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 5: single mother, Like, girl, you should have picked a different baby. 104 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 3: Daddy ain't got none doing me. 105 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 5: I don't know, you know, Like, hey, so I just 106 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 5: feel like, you know you should he should stick up 107 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 5: for his wife in this sense, and like, hey, mom, 108 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 5: I understand that triggered you, but you know we're going 109 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 5: to handle it at home. And if your wife is 110 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 5: crying out saying she needs a little help, a little assistant, 111 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 5: a break every now and then, see how you guys 112 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 5: can work that out. 113 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 1: Well, I'm not sure if you mentioned this, but how 114 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: many kids did mom have? 115 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: Oh? 116 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 3: She didn't say. 117 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 2: And then did mom never hire a babysitter ever to 118 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 2: go do anything? She never did one thing for herself ever, No, 119 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 2: she took her and if she didn't her back, I 120 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: would argue that she needed to that she did. You know, 121 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: you should prioritize yourself just a little bit from time 122 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 2: to time. You guys are the Jerry though eight five 123 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: five five three five. What would you do if mom 124 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: in law came around with an opinion about you wanting 125 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 2: a little bit of relief from what three kids? 126 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 6: Was it? 127 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 3: Yes? 128 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: M Paulia, the mom in the room. 129 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, so thank you first of all, yes for acknowledging 130 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 7: that being a say at home mom is work, and 131 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 7: it is a lot of work. 132 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 8: Me. 133 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 3: I am Pauline de Row. 134 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 7: I am on this radio every morning, but when I 135 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 7: go home at ten on one am, whatever time I'm 136 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 7: off the radio, I am mom until bedtime. So I 137 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 7: understand that being at home with a kid all day, 138 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 7: every day, with my one child who is two years old, 139 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 7: it is a lot. And you guys know that I 140 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 7: am an outsourcing queen. I will outsource and get me 141 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 7: a babysitter. And I've got a couple in rotation. So 142 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 7: if my mother in law is not available or my 143 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 7: sister whatever at my sister in law, then I will 144 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 7: have somebody came watch my baby for a couple of 145 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 7: hours while I get things done around the house, do 146 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 7: some work or whatever it is I gotta do, right, 147 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 7: go to an event whatever. 148 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 3: Now, my mother in law, I know I say this. 149 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 7: I am blessed that she if she saw me put 150 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 7: that on Facebook, she would probably call me and do 151 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 7: the right thing and say, hey, honey, can I come 152 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 7: help you. I saw your post, like, there's no need 153 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 7: for that. I'll come help you now. And everybody has 154 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 7: that relationship, and you know, I hope that I can 155 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 7: be amazing mother. You know, I'm a grandmom, mother in law, 156 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 7: whatever in the future. My only issue with that is like, yeah, 157 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 7: mother in law is wrong for that. Just because she 158 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 7: struggled as a single mom does not mean that I 159 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 7: have to do the same. And I mean that respectfully, 160 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 7: Like my mom was a single mom, but I will 161 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 7: not endure the same struggles that she did because I. 162 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 3: How do I say this? 163 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 7: I believe in in a asking for help, but I 164 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 7: also I also set up my life a certain way 165 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 7: where it's like, no want I want the help, you 166 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,559 Speaker 7: know what I mean, Like, if I'm not there, somebody 167 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 7: else will be there to watch my baby. 168 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 3: I feel like that's so wrong, so wrong, so wrong. 169 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 7: That mother is struggling three kids all day, every day, 170 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:45,119 Speaker 7: twenty four to seven. 171 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: Is a lie. Well, it's projection, obviously, it is projection. 172 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: Thanks you. It's a mom who, yes, who, I don't know. 173 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 2: She had a difficult time I guess raising her kids, 174 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: and that's respectable and the best job she could. But now, 175 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 2: but this mom, this younger mom, wants to go about 176 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 2: it differently, and I think she has every right to 177 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 2: do that. And I don't know any anytime that the 178 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: in laws get involved in the parental direction, especially if 179 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 2: it's not about safety or well being, which this isn't. 180 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 2: This is this has more to do with the adults 181 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 2: than it does with the kids. 182 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 7: But moms could judge all the time though, even if 183 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 7: it's not by mother in law. If I was to 184 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 7: post on social media or whatever, just even vent to 185 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 7: a friend, like, people can be so judgy because they'll say, like, 186 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 7: you know, oh you stay home all day, you don't 187 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 7: need a break or whatever, you know what I mean, 188 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 7: a lot of projection from moms to it, and it's sad. 189 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 3: I don't like that. 190 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: I also, I don't love the cry for help on Facebook. 191 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that. 192 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: I mean, it's like, you handle it, like if you 193 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 2: want this, if there is something you want to do, 194 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: then I would maybe not don't put it out there. 195 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: Someone texted that and I kind of agree. It's like, okay, 196 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 2: well then right, let's do that. Do what you want 197 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 2: to do. If you want to hire a babysitter, if 198 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 2: you want some help, if you want some relief, then 199 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 2: you have every right to that. But I don't like 200 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: it when people go to Facebook first, because you are 201 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: kind of opening yourself up. 202 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 3: To everyone's opinion, right, yeah. 203 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: And everyone is going to come at it from the 204 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 2: perspective of what they have available to them. True, and 205 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: if they can't afford a babysitter, or they don't have one, 206 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: or they're in a relationship or a dynamic where that 207 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 2: person doesn't think that, you know, whatever, so then they're 208 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 2: gonna get upset because of what they can't have, right. 209 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 3: I'm guilty of that. You guys know. 210 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 7: I love going to social media or love calling my 211 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 7: husband's mom. Okay, I had to stop, But in this case, 212 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 7: you're right, Like, if you open yourself up to that 213 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 7: criticism or feedback on social media, you're going. 214 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 3: To get everyone's perspective and opinions. 215 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 5: And they're not a mixed feeling. Somebody on it take 216 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 5: said the mom is spoiled. You only have one kid 217 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 5: at home. 218 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 3: That doesn't change anything. 219 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: It's still hard Mandy. How you doing good? How are you, Hi, Mandy? 220 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: Good morning. 221 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: So you're stay at home mom and you hear this 222 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: Kiky's court and you think what. 223 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 8: I think she is absolutely entitled to some paid help. 224 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 8: I think the mother in law is completely in the wrong. 225 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 8: She should not have gone and commented went on a 226 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 8: tie rate on her post every mom, every dad, whatever 227 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 8: you do inside her outside of the house, you deserve 228 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 8: that break. 229 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: What How about mom in law? 230 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: To Paulina's point, being like, Wow, she's going through it 231 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 2: right now, Like let me let me call and let. 232 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: Me help her. 233 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: It's cry for help. 234 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: I'll be the one. Let me come in and take 235 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 2: it over for a few hours. 236 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, I guess it depends on their relationship. 237 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:19,839 Speaker 8: I have a good relationship with my mother in law, 238 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 8: so I would love that, But it sounds like they 239 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 8: may not have the same type of relationship. But now 240 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 8: she feels like she's being tortured. 241 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 242 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 3: I guess it depends. 243 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you better off going to care dot com. 244 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 7: In my opinion, if your mother in law's going to 245 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 7: treat you like that and stay comments like that, if 246 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 7: from your children, no, we're going to urban citter dot 247 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 7: we're going somewhere else. 248 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: Well that's what I'm saying. 249 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 2: Well, she worn't coming at it from a judg's mental standpoints, like, 250 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: this isn't about I don't need teaching someone how to parent. 251 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 2: It's she wants some help. Okay, well I'm I'm your 252 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 2: mother in law, but i'm a mother figure here. Let 253 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 2: me come and do that, and then I get more 254 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,719 Speaker 2: time with my grandkids anyway, so everybody wins it. 255 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: Thank you, Mandy. 256 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, I do see. 257 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: I do see where you're coming at with that, but 258 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to there either. 259 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: The way she's acting, I'm saying, don't act that way, 260 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 2: and just offered to bring I going to be an asset. 261 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: Thank you, Mandy. Have a good day, true, Thank you too. Taylor. 262 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, Taylor. How are you? 263 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 9: I'm great? 264 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: How are you doing great? Kiki's court. 265 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 2: This is a battle between a mom and a mother 266 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 2: in law because mom wants some help, went to Facebook 267 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 2: said hey, I want a babysitter or something for these 268 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 2: kids because I'm driving me crazy. Mother in law is like, 269 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: I never had that, and it's being very judgmental. 270 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: What do you think. 271 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 9: Yeah, I can totally relate. 272 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 10: I am a single mom. 273 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 9: I have three kids, and you absolutely need a break. 274 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 9: I don't know about the mother in law thing, but 275 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 9: I do have my mom who helps and it's great. 276 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 9: But at the same time, it's also nice if I 277 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 9: can afford a babysitter, I would get one more often, 278 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 9: but just to have a babysitter where you know they're 279 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 9: not going to be. 280 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 10: Nagging at you like, Okay, well when are you coming home? 281 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 10: What do you need for? 282 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 6: Like what do they need for this? 283 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 9: What do you need to do with this? Where it's 284 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 9: like the babysitter, it's like here, I'm paying you, I'm 285 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 9: going out. I will be unavailable unless it's an emergency 286 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 9: for a couple of hours. 287 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 3: So totally get it. 288 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 1: I see. So like, if you're gonna have to manage 289 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 1: the babysitter, then what's the point. I may as well 290 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: just do it myself exactly. 291 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, And I don't need somebody nagging at me. Like 292 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 9: I said, I appreciate my mom and she helps me. 293 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 9: But the same thing, I'm sure it's nice to just know, like, hey, 294 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 9: I could call a babysitter and be like can you 295 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 9: come over, versus maybe you have to arrange things more 296 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 9: with the mother in law or mother in law gives 297 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 9: her opinion, like she was saying, and maybe you just 298 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 9: don't want to hear it all the time. 299 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I get it. Thank you, Taylor, Yeah, thanks 300 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: ever going you too. I use this example all the time. 301 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 2: But I have a friend. He works, he's high paying job, 302 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 2: just very successful. His wife put her career on the 303 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 2: back burner to stay at home and take care of 304 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: their kids. But once a month she goes out and 305 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 2: does her job. I'm trying to keep this vague because 306 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 2: I don't know that they want me to share their story. 307 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: But and they lose money on that, Like he could 308 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 2: be out working and making more, but he stays home 309 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 2: and watches the kids so she can go off and 310 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 2: do her gig. And it's because she now gets to 311 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 2: go out, and because she wants to, like she wants 312 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 2: the separation, loves her kids, but now she gets to 313 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: go out and do you know, be around adults and 314 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 2: have another purpose other than being a mom and whatever. 315 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 2: And it would be very easy to say, why don't 316 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 2: you just quit your job entirely because I make a 317 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 2: lot more money when i'm working than you do. 318 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: But that's not the point. 319 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: The point is we can lose money on this because 320 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 2: it gives you a sense and identity other than being 321 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 2: a mom, and that works for them and it makes 322 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 2: a lot of sense. 323 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: Now, Jay, you bring up a good point. Hi Jay, Hey, 324 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: how you doing? Hey Man? Say you say it? Say 325 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 1: your piece? 326 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 6: Oh Jay? 327 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 11: So my pieces is first off, finally got on the 328 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 11: phone for the first time. 329 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: They see you, guys forever. Thank you guys. 330 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 10: Uh. 331 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 11: Here's the thing, Like everyone's talking about mom. I get 332 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 11: I grew up with a single mother with three kids. 333 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 11: My mom was a single mom. I gave the mom 334 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 11: needs a break, But no one's talking about dad. You know, 335 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 11: how about dad happiness? Dad needs a break? You know 336 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 11: the mother in law said that he's working on the lite, 337 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 11: he's working hard. You know, he comes home. I mean, 338 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 11: I'm apty sure he spend time with his you know, 339 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 11: with his family and his kids. You know, man with 340 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 11: sacrifice happiness to make his family happy. 341 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: So when when when does his dad get to break? 342 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 6: Mm hmm. 343 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 2: Interesting, Well we didn't we haven't really covered that. I 344 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: guess what we've covered is the fact that he's mad 345 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 2: that she's asking for help publicly, right. I mean, it's 346 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: almost like this this mom is getting ganged up on 347 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 2: by both her husband and her husband's mom. So no, 348 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 2: I don't sure for sure, because I don't know what 349 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 2: this guy doesn't. 350 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 5: His stance was, if you want more childcare, then you 351 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 5: can work, go to work. 352 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 12: He told his wife go to work. So you know, yeah, 353 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 12: right right right. I agree with mom, mom. They need 354 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 12: the time alone, you know, for to enjoy your life whatever. 355 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 12: I mean, me and a mom for sure, it's cough. 356 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 11: I mean, uh, but maybe the husband and wife need 357 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 11: to hire mom as a sitter so they go spend 358 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 11: time together. 359 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 2: To hire somebody else, because I don't that sounds like 360 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 2: a lot of negativity, A lot of negativity. I don't 361 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: know my mother in law anymore, a lot of judgmental activities. Yeah, Jay, 362 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 2: thank you, have a good day. And I mean dad 363 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 2: does deserve a break, we don't. 364 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. 365 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 3: I don't know on Facebook. Also, I don't understand is he. 366 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 2: I don't know that he does and doesn't get one. 367 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 2: I guess they don't have any information about Hey, Michelle, 368 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: you have the same mother in law? 369 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: Huh I do? Okay, morning guys, good morning, tell me 370 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: your story. 371 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 10: Yeah, So anytime if I post anything on Facebook. My 372 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 10: mother in law always has an opinion about everything, especially 373 00:14:56,400 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 10: my kids, and it drives me nut. She is she's 374 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 10: very helpful with everything else, but when it comes to 375 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 10: my kids, she drives me nuts. And I was a 376 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 10: stay at home mom with my son, and then I 377 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 10: have my daughter, and now I work at a daycare. 378 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 10: So but yeah, I have a job now and I 379 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 10: wasn't stay at home mom, so I feel her. 380 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 3: She's not wrong. 381 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: But why is Facebook the venue? 382 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 10: Do you think? 383 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: Because it just I guess you kind of open yourself 384 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: up for that a little bit. 385 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 10: And I've learned no, and I've learned not to do 386 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 10: that anymore, just because I don't want everyone's opinion. But 387 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 10: I think it's just like a like a topic, a 388 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 10: venting kind of thing that you do. So that's pretty 389 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 10: much I guess why I would do it, but I 390 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 10: don't do it anymore for that exact reason. 391 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: Just blocker ass man, just a block her. 392 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 3: Did you get an? I was asking did you get 393 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 3: that job? 394 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 5: Because of all the judgmentalness from the mother in law, 395 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 5: Like is that what made you go to work? 396 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 10: I wanted my own money. I'm tired of asking my 397 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 10: I was tired of asking my husband for money. But 398 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 10: I also got a job because I was tired of 399 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 10: being at home all the time and only talking to 400 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 10: a toddler. 401 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: Yeah that's really yeah, yeah it makes sense. So yeah, 402 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: thank you Michelle. Thanks guys, have a good day. 403 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 3: By the way, is it Tasa, Yes, it's Tasia. 404 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: Hi Taysa Kiki's court. 405 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 2: So basically to battle between daughter and mother in law 406 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 2: because daughter posted on Facebook that she wants a little 407 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 2: bit of free time away from being a stay at 408 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: home mom, and mother in law's got a problem with 409 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: that because mother in law and apparently never got a 410 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 2: moment alone. 411 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 11: Yeah. 412 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 6: I feel like it's a sign of the times and 413 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 6: if everything has to be a convenience these days, and 414 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 6: it's not all about that. People have it much much 415 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 6: harder than she does, including myself. So to have like 416 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 6: be at home with my kid, that'd be like a 417 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 6: breath of fresher. I have four children, and I'll put 418 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 6: that well, they were in four different schools, but it 419 00:16:56,880 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 6: was actually at one point six different schools in them too, 420 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 6: because they're all four years aparts. I had one in 421 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 6: high school to win grammar school, one in daycare, and 422 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 6: then one of my keyds that was in high school 423 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 6: also be at the dual enrollment where they went college 424 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 6: as well, And so it was just five and a 425 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 6: half hours of commuting every day on top of work 426 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 6: in eighty hours a week. And this is me myself 427 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 6: doing all day now. 428 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 2: But let me ask you this, does that mean that 429 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 2: this mom or that you don't deserve a little bit 430 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: of a break just because just because you have a 431 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 2: little bit of a struggle to find it, you know 432 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, I hear what you're saying, but 433 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 2: and you're coming at it from your perspective, and it 434 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: sounds like your hands are full and you're doing the 435 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 2: very best you can, which is admirable. But like, I 436 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 2: don't think this mother is saying she doesn't want to 437 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 2: be a mom or doesn't want to do this the 438 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 2: same way you're not saying that and that you're making 439 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 2: all these sacrifices. I think what she's saying is she 440 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 2: wants to break. And Tajia, if you could have one, 441 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 2: wouldn't you take it? 442 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 11: Oh? 443 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure? 444 00:17:57,119 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 6: And you know everybody deserves the break, But sometimes the 445 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 6: only break come when you're sleep, if you get a 446 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 6: chance to sleep, even when I go to the bathroom, 447 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 6: I don't get a moment from myself. I tell them 448 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 6: all the time myself, why does it turn into a 449 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 6: family redelion? Every time I want to go to everybody 450 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 6: wants to talk about this or actually I'm like, can 451 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 6: I get two seconds? 452 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: Let me. 453 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 3: Right? 454 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: No, I get it to me though it sounds and 455 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 2: I wish that you did have that opportunity, but it 456 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 2: does sound like mom is It's like it's it's oh, 457 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: I had to walk to school in the snow up. 458 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 2: He'll both ways associate you and it's like, but maybe 459 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 2: maybe you don't want that for your kids because you 460 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 2: had to do it. 461 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 6: Kind of thing right, and that's kind of like you 462 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 6: have to, you know, just appreciate what you have and 463 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 6: understand that there's so many people that Wouilhtik could be 464 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 6: in your shoes. And then my children they have no grandparents, 465 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,679 Speaker 6: your grandparents all four have passed, so I have nobody 466 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 6: to say, hey, Grandma's house this weekend, or I can't 467 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 6: super mom. 468 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: I really yeah, you're super mom. 469 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 2: Hanging there, Thank you, thank you, glad you called The 470 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 2: Entertainment Report, will do headlines and fun fact all Next 471 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 2: Fred Show. 472 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: Cawen's Entertainment report. He's on the fread show. 473 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 4: Real Housewife of Salt Lake City Angie Cassanavis made history 474 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 4: as she became the first Real housewife to testify before Congress. 475 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 4: She headed to Capitol Hill to testify about the importance 476 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 4: of US franchisers of all things. Angie, he didn't know, 477 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 4: owns the Lunatic Fringe Salon franchise with her husband Sean, 478 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 4: and she told lawmakers she was quite passionate about the 479 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:34,159 Speaker 4: franchise business model, as demonstrated in the Real Housewives of Salt. 480 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 3: Lake City Season six, episode four. 481 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:40,479 Speaker 4: Specifically, that episode featured and Angie and cassimate Lisa Barlow 482 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 4: in a very heated exchange about their respected business ventures, 483 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 4: which led to one of Angie's most iconic clap backs. 484 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,399 Speaker 4: So responding to Lisa, who has a brand partnership with 485 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 4: a fast food restaurant, Angie told her, you do French fries, 486 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 4: I do franchise, and the clip went viral online with 487 00:19:58,480 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 4: franchise owners. 488 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 3: Specific thanking her. 489 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 4: That's when the Salt Lafe Lake City wife was tapped 490 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 4: to testify in support of the American Franchise Act, the 491 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 4: proposed federal bill was introduced in September of last year 492 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 4: and aims to clarify the joint employers standard of franchisers 493 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 4: and franchisees. So she made history, and she actually said 494 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 4: that iconic line on Capitol Hill. So I don't know 495 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 4: what's going on, but the world is wild. Spice girls 496 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 4: or Spice Girl, I should say. Melsie is thankful that 497 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 4: she raised her daughter out of the spotlight amid her 498 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 4: bandmate Victoria Beckham's very public family feud with Sun Brooklyn. 499 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 4: The singer was talking about her sixteen year old daughter, Scarlett, 500 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 4: and said the teenager has no plans to follow in 501 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 4: her footsteps in the music industry, something that. 502 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 3: She has said she feels very relieved about. 503 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 4: She said, so hard to be in the shadow of 504 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 4: a parent who's already had mainstream success. 505 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 3: And while she didn't name Victoria. 506 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 4: Specifically, she said, obviously I have friends who handle it 507 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 4: very differently, each to their own, no judgment, But for me, 508 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 4: probably because of my experiences with Face, I didn't feel 509 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 4: comfortable making that decision for her. As for how close 510 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 4: she is for their former bandmates, she said it fluctuates 511 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 4: like any friendship group, adding that she's always been very 512 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 4: close to Emma. Speaking of Emma aka Baby Space, she 513 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 4: actually defended Victoria on her own story, posting a video 514 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 4: of her dancing, saying, we love the way you dance. 515 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 4: By the way, Aside from Melby, the Spice girls reunited 516 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 4: for Emma's birthday, her fiftieth birthday. I think over the weekend, 517 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 4: despite everything going on, Victoria ak Posh Spice looked pretty happy. Elsewhere, 518 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 4: Cruz and Romeo Beckham were also spotted on a double 519 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 4: date with their respective ladies, So that's kind of showing 520 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 4: a united front with everybody aside from Brooklyn. And lastly, 521 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 4: as Alex Hanold, is that how you say his name? 522 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 4: That dude who climbed the skyscraper live on Netflix? He 523 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 4: was not doing it in silence, he said. He actually 524 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 4: made a very well thought out playlist. He made it 525 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 4: months earlier while he was training, and the familiar songs, 526 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,959 Speaker 4: he said, helped him to keep pace and stay locked 527 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,040 Speaker 4: in as he moved. 528 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 3: Hundreds of feet above the ground. 529 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 4: He revealed that he was mostly listening to Tool of 530 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 4: all Things. 531 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 2: When I had that, and that those annoying commentators in 532 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 2: his ear the whole time, because I'd be like, stop 533 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 2: talking to me. I'm literally scaling a seventeen hundred foot 534 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 2: building right now, Like I don't feel like talking to you. 535 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would get very exactly. 536 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 2: Wrong move and I'm splat, so like, stop asking me questions. 537 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: You really bought my inspiration or whatever? Me me, I 538 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: inspire myself. 539 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 3: I'd like to think myself, he said. 540 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 4: Even when the audio cut out at times, the music 541 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 4: acted like a mental metronome, steady focused and calming in 542 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 4: a moment where every move mattered. 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But no more than that, uh, 553 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: more than just being the whitest person ever. 554 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 2: Humans glow in the dark. It's just too faint for 555 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: our eyes to see. Our bodies emit visible light because 556 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 2: of chemical reactions happening in our cells. So it's not 557 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,919 Speaker 2: that I need a spray ten. I really do well 558 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 2: well same but you glow in the dark, no matter more. 559 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 2: Fred Show Next