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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Let's go Welcome to Wednesday's show. Morning. All right around

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Speaker 2: the room, we check out with everybody here in the studio.

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Speaker 2: First up, he's resigning from coaching his son's basketball team

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Speaker 2: and being too busy. Is this very common theme here?

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Speaker 2: He is, Yeah, Yah, it is a common theme.

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Speaker 3: And I got a question for you guys, Like I

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Speaker 3: am busy and we have four boys, and there's a

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Speaker 3: lot of sports.

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Speaker 2: All of them are in different sports.

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Speaker 3: One plays football, to play baseball, one's about to start basketball.

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Speaker 2: A lot of sports going around.

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Speaker 3: So I'm asking you, guys, is it okay to miss

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Speaker 3: practice once in a while, especially for the four year

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Speaker 3: old he's playing baseball. He's four years old, and out

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Speaker 3: of all these practices I have to go to, if

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Speaker 3: his is in the way, I'm like, cut it.

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Speaker 2: We're not taking him to that practice. Oh so you

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Speaker 2: don't even go you I thought you met you miss practice.

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Speaker 2: You're not even sending him? No, no, no, no, he's

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Speaker 2: not sending him like we got to take him there.

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Speaker 2: He's four and it's just a lot to do all that.

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Speaker 2: So I told my wife, if there's anyone out of

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Speaker 2: our four boys that can skip a practice, it's him,

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Speaker 2: and I'm cool with it, but I want to ask

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Speaker 2: you guys, like, I know it's a team thing and

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Speaker 2: I don't ever want to encourage kids to miss practice

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Speaker 2: for teams.

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Speaker 4: But he's four, amy, I mean, yeah, I think it's okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if you don't have the bandwidth one day

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Speaker 4: and there's something that's got to give, I mean, I

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Speaker 4: just think that, Yeah, you don't want to let the

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Speaker 4: team down, but things happen. You're not doing it all

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Speaker 4: the time. This is every once in a while.

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Speaker 5: No, you signed up for a team sport. If they

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Speaker 5: have practice, you have practice. You show up to practice.

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Speaker 5: If you don't practice, you don't play.

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Speaker 2: And I think if you signed up and you can go,

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Speaker 2: if you can't go, you can't go. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: hold on no. He is tired. I get it. I

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Speaker 2: like what she said.

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Speaker 3: Bandwidth hery, the band's about the pop I say, no, practice,

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Speaker 3: that's not what bandwidth is.

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Speaker 4: Maybe three other kids are demanding this and that, and

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Speaker 4: you're being pulled five different.

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Speaker 3: Directions' bandwidth Okay, get the rubber band's being pulled in.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: Hey, so do you imagine coaching four year olds?

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Speaker 2: I think the coach would rather us not have practice.

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah whatever, you know, you know how to

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Speaker 2: parent right, the wrong way to parent. Well, there's wrong,

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Speaker 2: but there's no real Like I'm not saying this is wrong.

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Speaker 2: You do you? Okay? I kind of I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: I felt bad doing it, so I kind of wonder what.

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Speaker 4: I changed my stance. By the way, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, next time. At first we thought the Palette investment

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Speaker 2: was a pretty cool deal. Now we're wondering if it's

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Speaker 2: even real. Here's lunchbox, guys. Let me tell you the

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Speaker 2: two thousand and five Nissan Ultimate. There has been some

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Speaker 2: drama around her.

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Speaker 5: She's been hurt, she's been injured, she's been taken to

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Speaker 5: a mechanic.

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Speaker 2: They couldn't figure out what was wrong with her.

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Speaker 5: I've been riding my bike every day and I finally said,

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Speaker 5: you know what, I'm taking it to the dealership and

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna say, guys, find out what's wrong with her and.

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Speaker 2: Tell me whether it's going to be And I got

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Speaker 2: a call and this is the.

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Speaker 5: Dramatic, this moment he of somebody talking to you, Yes,

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Speaker 5: come pick up your car. That's all the voicemail said.

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Speaker 5: And so when I showed up. This is what the

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Speaker 5: guy told me.

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Speaker 2: See, you think you saved your life.

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Speaker 5: Huh, yes, sir man, I thought you were gonna call

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Speaker 5: me and tell her she was dead.

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Speaker 2: No, the midpick, the midpipe, the flex clamp, the ring

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Speaker 2: wheels broke, so they removed the red and clamp ring.

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Speaker 5: Well this is great news because everybody was ready to

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Speaker 5: bury her and you know, leave her out the pasture.

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Speaker 2: But I'm glad she's still kicking. You're you're a hero

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Speaker 2: and you don't even know it a little bit exactly. Wait,

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Speaker 2: how much it costs that two hundred and forty dollars?

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Speaker 2: That's it. I never heard of some of that stuff cars,

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Speaker 2: but I never clip ring. I never heard of that.

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Speaker 2: Never heard of it either.

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Speaker 5: But they were, I mean the other place put in

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Speaker 5: new fuel pump, new spark plugs. Knew this, they did

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Speaker 5: all sorts of work. Couldn't figure it out. This guy

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Speaker 5: just said, oh, some little ring and boom. I walked

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Speaker 5: outside and I was like, there's no way he's gonna

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Speaker 5: work started right up all of us back.

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Speaker 2: So what's the all to get all the way through winter?

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Speaker 2: Yeah till next year?

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Speaker 5: Yeah is going to be Winter is coming but the

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Speaker 5: hall of my is Okay, I'm happy, I'm happy, Okay,

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Speaker 2: She recently called herself a bonehead. She meant to mail

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Speaker 2: out a package, but she sent it back to her

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Speaker 2: house instead. Here's an age.

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Speaker 4: So I got three songs from women that I'm obsessed

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Speaker 4: with right now and I listen to them on repeat.

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Speaker 4: The first one is Kylie Morgan, If he wanted to,

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Speaker 4: he would?

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Speaker 6: Hey, Ray, is this the.

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Speaker 2: Singer that you were with? No? No, No, that's Hannah Ellis.

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Speaker 4: Yeah when she was milking the cow and got knocked over.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not heard though, So that's who is that?

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Speaker 4: Kylie Morgan?

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Speaker 2: Kylie Morgan. And it's called if you wanted.

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Speaker 4: To, he Will, Yes, he would, If he wanted to,

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Speaker 4: he will, which is a great song for my friend

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Speaker 4: and I were breaking it down the other day of

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Speaker 4: you know, get.

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Speaker 2: Off the pot well or just.

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Speaker 4: Like if you're with a guy, and it's like if

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Speaker 4: you if you wanted to call, he would, If he

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Speaker 4: wanted you to meet his mom, he would take it home.

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Speaker 2: If he prioritized you.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, what else Miranda Lambert? If I was a cowboy? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's not brand new or anything. It's just one I'm listening.

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Speaker 2: To on repeat, Got It? I know this one, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm cutting edge, I'm not.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and Megan Maroney, I'm not pretty?

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Speaker 2: Did it?

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Speaker 1: Morgan?

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Speaker 2: Your ex boyfriends, exolfriend dude something like this to you

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Speaker 2: and we talked about.

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Speaker 7: It with me many Megan is in so his current girlfriend, well,

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Speaker 7: I don't know if they're still together. Yeah, but current

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Speaker 7: girlfriend yeah, was like trolling me online and then we

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Speaker 2: Meganmoney is such a good writer. Aside from everything else,

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Speaker 2: he's such a good writer. That Hair's That song is

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Speaker 2: like the greatest ever. It's like from even I think

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Speaker 2: it's before this record. It's a hairsaw your best friend.

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Speaker 2: It's hard me to do.

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Speaker 4: That with other music, which Advite was a cowboy of

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Speaker 4: was yeah twenty twenty two Palomino when she put that

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Speaker 4: out got It last year.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you for sharing that. Right, Let's go from

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Speaker 2: Mountain Pine, Arkansas. He struggles sleeping at night, but maybe

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Speaker 2: he just needs to turn off the light. Bobby Bone,

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Speaker 2: thank you very much. They just turn off all lights.

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Speaker 2: I just want to share something that I was thinking about.

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Speaker 2: And it's not about me. It's about lunchalks. So if

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Speaker 2: Lunchbox sees a celebrity out on the street, or sees

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Speaker 2: goes absolutely bonkers, right ah my, screams at him, yells like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, it's a celebrity, even if it's not

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Speaker 2: even a real celebrity, like somebody that just might have

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Speaker 2: a little bit of mild fame on TikTok, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: We get celebrities in here all the time, every day.

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Speaker 2: He never freaks out when real celebrities are here. He

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Speaker 2: didn't even look it, didn't even look at him. He

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Speaker 2: he does nothing. He just stares at his computer, doesn't interact,

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Speaker 2: doesn't try to get a picture. But if he sees

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Speaker 2: one out in the wild, he's all about running and

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Speaker 2: attacking them. So why do you care about them out there?

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Speaker 2: But when the bigger ones are in here, you don't

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Speaker 5: Because this is normal, like they're just coming in here

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Speaker 5: like whatever. So it's not about the celebrity, it's about

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Speaker 5: seeing them in the wild. It's sort of like when

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Speaker 5: Eddie sees Amy in the wild, he freaks out.

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Speaker 2: Do you see well, he just waves, he doesn't scream out.

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Speaker 5: But it's pretty cool to see Amy, Like now he

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Speaker 5: did it with what's his name?

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Speaker 2: Who'd you do with h Russell? That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: It's when you're out in the wild, you don't expect

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Speaker 2: Do, it's just like, ah, it's crazy.

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Speaker 5: It's sort of like when you see your maleman at

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Speaker 2: It's like, what what are you doing here? Like it's

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Speaker 2: so out of place that you just do it? Fair?

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Speaker 2: Fair on that point. What about the other side of

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Speaker 2: it when when people come in you never even acknowledge them.

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Speaker 2: They don't really they're not here. They're here to promote

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Speaker 2: their music. They should still be nice. I just he

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Speaker 2: doesn't talk to anybody that comes in here, no one.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't look at him when they perform. He gets

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Speaker 2: on his Facebook, and by the way, he gets on Facebook,

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Speaker 2: which is weird, and then he talks to all his

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Speaker 2: old high school friends and sometimes be like, hey, Lunchbox,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, huh. It's sometimes they talk to me and

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Speaker 2: I don't know what they're talking about. It's just are

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Speaker 2: how disinterested you are when celebrities are in here, but

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just seeing them in the wild here. It's

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Speaker 5: the same old, same old. They come in, they play

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Speaker 5: a song, they tell the same story they've told a

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Speaker 5: million times. I'm great, all right, move on. Like they're

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Speaker 5: not talking to me. They're just trying to sell tickets

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Speaker 5: to their concert.

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Speaker 4: They're at the grocery store. They're not there to talk

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Speaker 4: to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I have their one on one attention,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, what you scared them? That's when I

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Speaker 2: want attention. Okay, So that's I was thinking about that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, do you want me to start saying hide

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Speaker 2: on when they come in here? And yeah, you would

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Speaker 2: just like be normal. I acknowledge them, bye man every

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Speaker 2: time I do. And I still I try to go

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Speaker 2: to the bathroom when they're done. You still try. Who

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Speaker 2: have you washed your hands with so far? Who's that? Totally?

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Speaker 2: That one?

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Speaker 8: I think?

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Speaker 5: Three?

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Speaker 2: It was Uh, it was Tim mcgrawl, I think. And

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Speaker 2: then that.

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Speaker 5: Guy was the first of the o g Who was

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Speaker 5: the other the Adam Durretts kind of gross?

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Speaker 2: That guy, Yeah, I don't know his name yet, but

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Speaker 2: I just did. Those are three that you've been able

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Speaker 2: to walk in the bathroom with and watch hands with. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's it's rough man.

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Speaker 2: Year on phone Jared who lives in Pennsylvania. Hey Jared,

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Speaker 10: I have got a question for Amy. How do you

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Speaker 10: Or husband an ex wife? She's remarried, now. But just

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Speaker 10: I'm self a point too, so like I focus, I

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Speaker 2: And Amy nailed it. If you can create a positive patrol,

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Speaker 4: And even if it's combating it for your own brain,

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Speaker 2: Is she fighting for custody of the kids, Jared, I've

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Speaker 10: And from state of Pennsylvania. That that that really does

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Speaker 2: And does she upset by that? I mean, is that

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Speaker 10: I mean, she's taken She's called Child and Youth Services

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Speaker 2: Amy gave some great advice. Just protect yourself with facts

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Speaker 4: Will encourage you to do this. You've got six kids.

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Speaker 2: I see later that sucks. That's good advice, though, Amy like,

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Speaker 4: So when you get home from work with your dogs,

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Speaker 2: It was a lemone stand they did. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 2: I saw. Oh, so that that person was fine, but

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Speaker 2: I see would you should you put a dog six days?

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, yeah, I guess to figure it out.

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Speaker 4: Well, he said that dogs should have a five hundred

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Speaker 2: That's one point. We go down, we go down, we

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Speaker 2: You can see whatever you want to him. You don't

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Speaker 2: Maybe not fifty Max. All right, great story, that is

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Speaker 2: what it's all about. That was telling me something good.

437
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Speaker 2: All right, let's follow up, but Scuba's Steve. It's time for.

438
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Speaker 4: Steve.

439
00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:08,600
Speaker 2: So the segment was find something old that your partner

440
00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:10,439
Speaker 2: doesn't like and then toss it out.

441
00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,440
Speaker 9: Right, exactly. I had this backpack that I've been holding

442
00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,720
Speaker 9: on for nine years. Got a new one, but it

443
00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:16,679
Speaker 9: has so many memories to me that I can't get.

444
00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,800
Speaker 2: Rid of it. Nine years though I know.

445
00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,520
Speaker 9: I was like, why do you keep holding a backpack

446
00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:21,840
Speaker 9: you don't even use? I'm like, but I just I

447
00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,000
Speaker 9: love this Disney backpack. So it's time to get rid

448
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Speaker 9: of it. You're gonna get rid of it? I will, Yes,

449
00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,320
Speaker 9: as hard as it is, I'm going to do it.

450
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,399
Speaker 9: Is that trash cannon here for all of our stuff?

451
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,439
Speaker 9: This is for all of our stuff? Yes, yeah, okay, So.

452
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:36,959
Speaker 2: I'll play mine. Last night at like nine thirty, I mean,

453
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,480
Speaker 2: we're in the middle of a TV show and I remember,

454
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Speaker 2: I gotta do this bit, and I don't want to

455
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Speaker 2: do the bit because I love what I'm about to

456
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Speaker 2: have to give away. And so we're just laying on

457
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Speaker 2: the couch watching Invasion, which is the show on Apple TV.

458
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,440
Speaker 2: So I'm not sure how a sleep we sound here,

459
00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,560
Speaker 2: but this is me talking to my wife. Go ahead, okay,

460
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:54,040
Speaker 2: it's Bobby reporting live snoring bulldog. It was my wife,

461
00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:56,520
Speaker 2: the wonderful Kaitlin. What's the one thing that I have

462
00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:57,760
Speaker 2: that you wish I would throw away?

463
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Speaker 4: Have you already said? What you it is?

464
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 2: No? But whatever it is, I'm gonna throw away. You promise?

465
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:05,919
Speaker 4: Is that seriously it?

466
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Speaker 2: Why did you get so excited?

467
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Speaker 4: Is that seriously it?

468
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,639
Speaker 2: What is it?

469
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Speaker 4: Seriously?

470
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:09,320
Speaker 2: The bit?

471
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Speaker 4: You have to throw it away?

472
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Speaker 2: What depends what it is?

473
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Speaker 4: Well, then that's not a bit.

474
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 2: Okay, what if it's not a bit?

475
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Speaker 4: That's stupid.

476
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 2: So ask your partner what okaya? What is it? What

477
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 2: is it? I'm not throwing the mirror ball.

478
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:27,800
Speaker 4: Oh I don't want you to throw the mirrorball.

479
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 2: I don't even see it. Okay, you pinky, promise you're

480
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 2: gonna throw this.

481
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Speaker 6: Away unless it's like now?

482
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Speaker 4: Is not sane?

483
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Speaker 8: Railer?

484
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Speaker 2: Make you promise no crosses count? Okay? What is it?

485
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,679
Speaker 4: The hogs shirt that has a million? Isn't it?

486
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Speaker 6: Sorry?

487
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Speaker 4: See you later, hogs.

488
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Speaker 2: Okay, I'll throw the way I'll earn it.

489
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Speaker 4: Thank you.

490
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Speaker 2: So it's a shirt that has since nineteen ninety nine. Wow,

491
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Speaker 2: and I wear it all the time mostly driver are crazy.

492
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 2: It's a cut off and on the front, oh, it

493
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Speaker 2: says it's this oh boy, and I'm a bag. It's

494
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 2: eating through as well. That's a cool shirt man, exactly,

495
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 2: I've had this since like ninety nine, two thousand. That's wow.

496
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 2: It was a T shirt and then I cut the

497
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Speaker 2: sleeves off and now I've been wearing this. This thing

498
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 2: is long. Don't throw that away? Have to that's the bit.

499
00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 2: Oh that's tough, man. Should I wear for more of

500
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Speaker 2: the show though today? Yes?

501
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 4: Wait, I think I feel like we need to have

502
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Speaker 4: a moment of silence or something.

503
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you should wear it just so you

504
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Speaker 5: can get one last wear lovely shirt.

505
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 2: Okay, this is a little something. The shirt away. There,

506
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Speaker 2: it goes in the trash can trash cany what do

507
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Speaker 2: you have?

508
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Speaker 4: Well I could. I didn't have anybody to ask what

509
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 4: it is. So but I saw something in my closet

510
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 4: that I was like, Okay, is it weird that I

511
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Speaker 4: still have this? But then also it may be not

512
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 4: a good thing to throw away. It's my bouquet from

513
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Speaker 4: my wedding.

514
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Speaker 2: Oh wow, save that at all?

515
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Speaker 4: Well, I I chunk it. I feel like they didn't

516
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Speaker 4: even ask me why I was saving it all these

517
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Speaker 4: years anyways, because it's not like he has the booten

518
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Speaker 4: err or whatever that he wore.

519
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 5: John get Jocket Jocket John get or throw.

520
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Speaker 2: It and then whoever catches it next want to get

521
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 2: a horse. Yeah, I like that. That's good. That's terrible.

522
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 2: That's a great idea. Okay, great idea.

523
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Speaker 4: But like, look there's dust everywhere on it, and it's

524
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 4: like this is this is seventeen years old.

525
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Speaker 2: Get rid of it. You see the chunk it? Why

526
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 2: would you keep it away? Put it? Get John, get John,

527
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 2: get John, get amy. Put it in there.

528
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Speaker 4: So it has nothing to do with my relationship. I

529
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Speaker 4: just don't even know that, even if I still was married,

530
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Speaker 4: that I need to be holding on exactly.

531
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Speaker 2: John, John, get in there, in there it is. It's okay.

532
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,719
Speaker 4: I also brought all my wedding photos from when I

533
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 4: was a kid.

534
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 2: But get rid of that lunch box.

535
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 5: Well, sitting on the couch with my wife. I went

536
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,199
Speaker 5: with her and I said, you want to get rid

537
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Speaker 5: of the man.

538
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 2: Don't you dare? Say the ultima? Okay, Well I was

539
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 2: not thinking that, but nowadays that's a good answer. Okay,

540
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 2: what were you thinking that underwear?

541
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Speaker 7: Those boxes you have that have the gulf like pictures

542
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 7: on it, that's you want.

543
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 2: To see my wood? Yes, the silk ones. You know,

544
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 2: some ship gave those to me in college.

545
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: And you're still wearing that.

546
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't I some other girl gave them to you.

547
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Speaker 1: Definitely get rid of that, John, John, this is my

548
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Speaker 1: your colleagues got three wood on there in a measuring

549
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 1: and two thank you John.

550
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Speaker 2: Jo Jo to Eddie. Oh this is tough. I asked

551
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 2: my wife.

552
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 3: She said, your cowboy shirt that you had for so long.

553
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 3: I'm like, the one I wear every Sunday, all the

554
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 3: Cowboys game shirt.

555
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have it? Give that away? Oh no,

556
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: there is That's what I know. Listen, that's your most

557
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 2: famous shirt because it's old. I mean, it's easily look,

558
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 2: it's got holes in it. She don't like it. It's dirty.

559
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 2: And I worked to church the other day. She's like, dude,

560
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 2: do not do that. There was game day we had

561
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 2: a Yeah, game game day. I had to wear it.

562
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 3: So I thought too, maybe if I did this, it

563
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 3: would change the trajectory of the season. Yeah, we'll see,

564
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 3: I'm gonna chun I'm gonna get there.

565
00:24:55,359 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 2: He goes, yes, that's what does that mean. It's like, Dak,

566
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: we're getting chuck anything.

567
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 7: I mean, no, listen, there's a lot of benefits of

568
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 7: being married and stuff, but There's one benefit of being

569
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 7: single is that I don't have to get rid of anything.

570
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, good point, Like I have a lot of cool stuff,

571
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: raymon do anything. Yeah. I texted my wife. I said,

572
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: what's the one thing you hate that I wear, use,

573
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 2: or have at the house? And it was her honest

574
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 2: to god answer, And she hates this pendant necklace. It's

575
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 2: a little bit too long, and I've worn it to

576
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: every pool party I would go to family thanksgivings, Christmases

577
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 2: and she's like, dude, that thing is so out of style.

578
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 2: All the little diamonds are kind of faded. They would

579
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 2: never diamonds on it. I mean I bought it maybe

580
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 2: forty dollars a Pandora. It's maybe now four dollars. And

581
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:40,959
Speaker 2: she's like, I hate that. Are you gonna chunk it?

582
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to chunk it, chump, chunk, chunk, all right,

583
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 2: bring it in. Went to a bunch of pool parties

584
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Speaker 2: in that care.

585
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 4: These are like great memories apartlace.

586
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, dang, dang, dude, there it is in the can. Well, like,

587
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 2: did you have an thing? Okay? I just want to

588
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 2: make sure we don't miss anybody.

589
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 8: Mike d So whenever I was first losing weight, I

590
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 8: wanted to get cooler clothes. One of the first things

591
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 8: I ever bought was this Vengee T shirt that my

592
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 8: wife hates because it's really old and ugly and it

593
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 8: has like dark pit stains. But I still wear it

594
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 8: all the time. That's congress and she wanted me to

595
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 8: get rid of it.

596
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with her. It's the only one. I'm like, yeah,

597
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 2: I agree, John John, get John good, chun good. Okay, boom,

598
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 2: it's all how do you what do you do? We're

599
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: going to burn that. I got an idea. I just

600
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 2: need one idea. eBay, guys, pop it back out.

601
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 4: Oh guys, we're gonna burn it.

602
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 5: Burn it, burn it, burn it, burn it.

603
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: Burn it. We have to codes and regulations whatever that means.

604
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 2: Figure it out. And your wedding never happened, Well it

605
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 2: did all. Never lost a game. Cowboys are still going

606
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 2: to win the n FC, no problem, no problem. Lunchbox

607
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: is still out his would and then you, I'm thankful,

608
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 2: was positive. Yeah, we like it.

609
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 4: My marriage.

610
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 2: Being a super fan of celebrities is actually good for you.

611
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: And who are we super fans of We'll talk about

612
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 2: that in a second. Why your your fanness of a

613
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 2: celebrity could actually be something great in your life. Also,

614
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Speaker 2: let me say this Tomorrow tickets Guan Cell to the

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Speaker 2: Jacob and Foundation Flamingo Comedy Jam that I'm headlining and

616
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Speaker 2: Eddie will also be playing with me Raging Idiots. But

617
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Speaker 2: tomorrow at ten am Eastern, if you're down near Vero Beach, Florida,

618
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Speaker 2: tickets Guan Seal, Bobby Bones dot Com. Fandoms of celebrity

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Speaker 2: is good for you, Apparently, psychologists say that most fan

620
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Speaker 2: relationships famous people and even sports teams are positive. They

621
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Speaker 2: increase media enjoyment, they improve your emotional well being, and

622
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Speaker 2: they provide a sense of companionship. I would completely agree

623
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Speaker 2: with that. I think part of the reason now I know,

624
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: part of the reason that I love the Arkansas Razorback

625
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: so much as it was basically the only stable thing

626
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: I ever had in my childhood. Meaning, as I was

627
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 2: moving around as I was who knows, I knew every

628
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: Saturday Arkansas was gonna play and it was going to

629
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Speaker 2: be on free TV, and I knew on Tuesdays and

630
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 2: be basketball games, and that was the one thing that

631
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Speaker 2: no matter where I went, it was always happening. I

632
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: have a lot of consistency that was always super consistent

633
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Speaker 2: for me. I'm sure that's why I'm so what's emotional

634
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 2: about it? Good or bad?

635
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna not want to ever make fun of

636
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 4: the fact that how heart broken you get.

637
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 2: You should I'm definitely loser. Yeah, yeah, I mean I

638
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: should have got out of this. I mean, I'm forty three,

639
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: so but I feel like.

640
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 4: What's what everybody else's excuse to be obsessed with the teams?

641
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 2: Well or hold on, hold on, I don't know she's judging.

642
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: I'm not Taylor Swift a picture. You took an art

643
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: class to paint a picture for Taylor Swift, just to

644
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 2: give it to her.

645
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, And she told me I was so talented. I

646
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 4: still remember it. She said, you are so talented.

647
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 2: So I know what is your deal?

648
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 4: I mean, for it was for a while, Taylor. I

649
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 4: feel like that kind of fizzled off the older I got.

650
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 2: But who is it now?

651
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 4: Good question.

652
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 2: Once we saw a wom named Kimberly Snyder or something,

653
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Speaker 2: and oh yeah, that's vegan vegetarian talk. Yeah, He's like,

654
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Speaker 2: I'm so nervous to talk to her. I was like,

655
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: she cooks broccoli. We're all people. And I went up

656
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 2: and I was like, what up?

657
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Bobby said high and then I was like, okay, fine,

658
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 4: I'll stay high. And then Bobby's like, get a picture,

659
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 4: and I.

660
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: Was like, oh my god, who is Okay around the room.

661
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 2: The most famous person or thing that you just are

662
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: obsessed or loved mine for sure is the Arkansas Razorbacks. Okay,

663
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 2: you have to pick one.

664
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I'll pick one. I'll go with right now,

665
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 4: Rees Witherson. Can I choose?

666
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: Like Marvel superheroes, you can do whatever you want? Does

667
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 2: that count? Yeah? Mark? Okay, Yeah, Actually Marvel in general,

668
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: the superheroes in general.

669
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, like all superheroes.

670
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 2: You get to make out with one superhero, which on

671
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: want to.

672
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 4: Be Captain America?

673
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 2: Okay? Is it because of him the actor or because

674
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 2: of him the character? Definitely?

675
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 4: It turns out when he's the character too.

676
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. I call that Eddie. The Dallas Cowboys, but I

677
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: don't want to make out with any of them. I

678
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: just I just get it Cowboys for you, Cowboys, Sam Hunt,

679
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 2: we've been going ten years strong. No fizzle there.

680
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 3: Mine through Lena Magic and I would make out the

681
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 3: entire team and then uh, Habby, What about you.

682
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's your most passionate fandom type thing.

683
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah at alan Field House.

684
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: Do you go to games at all? Oh?

685
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 4: Every I went to every game in college, and I

686
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 4: tried to when I'm home, like for Christmas, I go.

687
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: You still go to a game of year? Oh yeah,

688
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: that's awesome, love it. Mike d easily post malone. Oh yeah, wow,

689
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 2: yeah mighty. Let's plus malone.

690
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 4: But I like the sports ones is y'all? Like all

691
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 4: that's from your childhood, which is.

692
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 2: Mine, is for sure a while for sure your parents

693
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 2: were Cowboys fans, and my mom is the biggest Cowboys

694
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: fans from cam Yeah, Abbey. Were your parents big Jayhawks fans? Yes,

695
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 2: my grandpa and my aunts went there.

696
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 4: And I just don't have that, I mean someone from

697
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 4: my childhood that I've always been obsessed with George straight right,

698
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 4: but I don't work range. Yeah, and I mean yes,

699
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 4: so from early on to now I would be obsessed

700
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 4: with him, but in a healthy way. And just in

701
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 4: case he hears this, I just don't have a sports

702
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 4: team that I You.

703
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 2: Don't like sports, ramitates, You're not a sports person, so

704
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 2: I know.

705
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 4: But like my grandma had pictures of Bear Bryant in

706
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 4: her ling room. They had a Crimson van with an

707
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 4: elephant tire cover. They bowled. They had elephant bowling pins

708
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 4: like they were hardcore, but like I never, It's not

709
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 4: like I grew up being like, oh, I've got to

710
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 4: go to Alabama.

711
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: I don't either. You're crazy. Your number one songs just

712
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 2: to the top three in country. Here's Morgan walland thinking

713
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: about me danking them, Jason aldiin try that in a

714
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 2: small town of two, Try that is everyone, Lady Wilson

715
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: Watermelon moons drag. A lot of congrats to Laney Wilson.

716
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 2: More then another number one, number one pop song, Nicki

717
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: Minaj and Ice Spice. Here's Barbie World and I've.

718
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 4: Got like the Baby. I'm gone, but I still want to.

719
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: Putty everyone rock song, food Fighters under you. Those are

720
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 2: your number ones? Okay, food Fighters older but back. Nicki

721
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 2: Minaj not exactly new, but Ice Spice is new. I'm

722
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 2: just trying to see Aldine's older. But Lany and Morgan

723
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 2: are you it's about fifty to fifty. That's cool. Yeah,

724
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,959
Speaker 2: I mean this isn't like the Beatles or Eagles, but

725
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 2: still it's cool to see. If you make good music

726
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 2: that you still have a shot to get on a

727
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 2: chart regardless of if you're nineteen or forty nine.

728
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 3: But I mean food fighters are in their fifties, right,

729
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 3: I would think so, yeah, pretty old.

730
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would think so. Your Zamy's pile of stories.

731
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 4: Have you heard of monk mode?

732
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 2: Monk mode? I would assume a monk mode is a

733
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 2: like a mode that you go into whenever you don't

734
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 2: want to talk to anyone for any reas and you

735
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 2: just want to be alone. Sometimes I go into monk mode.

736
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: Is that correct? Yeah?

737
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 4: I can be. This is applying particularly to social media,

738
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 4: or specifically to it. And what's ironic is the hashtag

739
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 4: monk mode has more than seventy six million views on

740
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 4: TikTok because it's like, oh, I'm maybe they're learning about

741
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 4: monk modes that they can go into monk mode.

742
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 2: Mode's interesting. What the mode is annoying is when people go, hey, guys,

743
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get off social media for a while. I

744
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: don't care. I won't even notice you're gone, because I

745
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 2: don't ever look for someone to post on social media.

746
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 2: I like when they post. I'll spend time with it

747
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: if I like it. But I'm never There hasn't been

748
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 2: one time in my life where I'm just like, I

749
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 2: cannot wait for X to post on social media.

750
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 4: What about when they come back and they're like, sorry,

751
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 4: I haven't been here for a while.

752
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 2: Again, I did notice. I had no.

753
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 4: Idea, So I know I haven't been on all day.

754
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 2: I've been on a monk mode for the last month.

755
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: You know what, good fool of me didn't know. Yeah,

756
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: that's cool.

757
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just a movement to unplug. Whatever that looks

758
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 4: like for you. But for a lot of people, it's

759
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 4: through social media. So bod he was done, and it

760
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 4: found that a lot of adults wish they could go

761
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 4: back and tell their younger selves, like, hey, do this,

762
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 4: don't do that.

763
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 2: To a study to find that, I would think everybody

764
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: want to go back and give you.

765
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 4: Somebody found out specifically what kind of advice they would

766
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 4: give their younger selves.

767
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: Okay, now it's interesting, Okay, what advice would most people

768
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 2: get their younger self? Save money, for sure, that's on

769
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 2: the list. I would say everybody. Probably I'm goss say

770
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: everybody because I don't have this experience, but it seems

771
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: like on television and even like emails we get everybody's like,

772
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: oh I had this one mislove the one that got aways? Yeah,

773
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: like go and don't let him get away?

774
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it says, don't be afraid of dating rejection.

775
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,479
Speaker 2: Dating rejection, of dating rejection. Okay, yeah, I go. Okay,

776
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: I get to not exactly say I'm missed, but that's

777
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 2: a good one, or like.

778
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 4: You may be just like oh I can't ask them

779
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 4: out because I'm too scared. Well, don't be scared. Just

780
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,800
Speaker 4: shoot your shot. See what happened.

781
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 2: Well, if someone who did not let the one get

782
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 2: away take it from me, that's right.

783
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 4: The top answers were Be more confident, try not to

784
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 4: care what other people think. Don't let opportunities pass you by.

785
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 2: Best and Apple, what are we going back? Yeah? Yeah,

786
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 2: bet on the Patriots six different times.

787
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 4: Take more photos, always be there for your friends, take risks,

788
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 4: relax and enjoy the ride. And then to Eddie's point

789
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 4: of saving money, save ten percent of your wages every month.

790
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 3: Oh I wish how good? Oh I could have easily? Yeah,

791
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 3: but I blew it. I went to the bars all

792
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:27,439
Speaker 3: the time.

793
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 2: Regardless of what we have, we always live within our means.

794
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 2: Sometimes you can live above, but rarely do we ever

795
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 2: live like below our means. Yeah, but we can because

796
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: other people are and we have at times live below

797
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 2: what we're making now. So yeah, I hear you, all right?

798
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 2: What else?

799
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 4: One more that I want to mention is spend more

800
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 4: time with your parents.

801
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 2: I would say, drink more like, don't get ibs, and

802
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 2: I would give myself tips and I would say, because

803
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 2: if you do, what's gonna happen? If you're gonna strain

804
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 2: and it's gonna rip your BH and it's gonna hurt

805
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: for months and years. Is that on that list?

806
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 4: I don't see that year?

807
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 2: Okay? What else?

808
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 4: Shye Mooney from Dana Jay thinks that a hotel once

809
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 4: gave him Shacks dry cleaning by mistake because their names

810
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 4: are similar.

811
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,439
Speaker 2: Hilarious. Why is his shirt so big? Shake?

812
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 4: That's exactly what he got, like the drag?

813
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 2: Why is his Lakers jersey number thirty four that says

814
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: O'Neil on the back of it so large?

815
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, he thought he was getting back this black shirt

816
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 4: of his that he was having dry cleaned, but it

817
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 4: was really a pair of large black boxer shorts. That's

818
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 4: how big the shorts were. And then looking at the

819
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 4: tag as like s h A and he was like,

820
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 4: maybe they thought I was Shack.

821
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 2: That's funny. I know one time Shaq got mad at

822
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 2: me because I said, if I were standing at a

823
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 2: urinal and he was next to me, I would look down.

824
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: Shack got matter you want a podcast and like let

825
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,439
Speaker 2: me have it? And I was like it's for science. Yeah,

826
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 2: I'd be curious. I think anyone would do that. No,

827
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 2: of course, come on, no, you don't want to admit it.

828
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 2: They want to admit it. Then shackman up was like

829
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 2: this guy great, No, I'm not I would if I

830
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: were like Edie your lunchbox, I wouldn't care. That's their

831
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 2: normal sized. And what do you mean you don't know

832
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 2: that now? I'm talking about generally, like I would have

833
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: be curious. Basically it's seven foot or mini me. I

834
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: think you passed away and if you were doing I

835
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 2: would look too, just because I'm curious.

836
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 4: Anyway, I'm that's my file.

837
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 2: That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the

838
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 2: good news.

839
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: How lunchbox.

840
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 5: There was a nice husband in Maryland that decided to

841
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 5: get his wife a gift. He wouldn't have any luck

842
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 5: on the lottery. So he said, Hey, I'm gonna go

843
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 5: buy you some scratch off. She's cooking dinner. He comes home. Here,

844
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 5: he goes, here, you go, he goes, huh, let me

845
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 5: take a break from cooking, starts scratching.

846
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: And she thought she won five thousand dollars. Yeah, no, no, no,

847
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 2: she forgot that zero fifty dollars. So my question to

848
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 2: you is this, I want to know what drives you crazy.

849
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,479
Speaker 2: That it's not you, but let's remove that. Yeah. Two,

850
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 2: if he's unlucky and scratching, it's like, I want you

851
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 2: to scratch because I've been unlucky. And then she scratches

852
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 2: and wins. Was that ticket gonna lose how he scratched it,

853
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 2: probably it'd lost, same exact ticket, same ticket. And your

854
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 2: belief is because she scratched it, it changed underneath their.

855
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 5: Yes, it's like it's something with the numbers getting mixed

856
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 5: up or jumbled. But when you scratch, if you're having

857
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 5: that made no sense what you're talking about.

858
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 2: The numbers change.

859
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 5: No, they don't change, but they do they have technology

860
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 5: in those lottery tickets.

861
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 2: Oh they don't. They're paper. They are not paper.

862
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 4: He's joking. I can't I can't tell.

863
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 2: Is it technology or is it like vibes? It's the

864
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: technology can feel your vibes. Oh that's what hey, I

865
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: read about this with COVID. That's what I'm saying. It

866
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: messes with your head with him? Oh got it?

867
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:51,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

868
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: So you think had he continue to scratch with his

869
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 2: bad luck, he wouldn't have won. He wouldn't have won.

870
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 2: But because he gave it to her and it was

871
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: new luck, she won. That's because of her new luck,

872
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:00,320
Speaker 2: her new luck goode vibes.

873
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 5: Technology could sense it on the lottery ticket put the

874
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 5: winning number.

875
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 4: So all these years, the technology is sensing your bad vibes.

876
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 5: They're messing with me, yes, But one day they're gonna say,

877
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 5: you know what, this guy deserves it because they're gonna

878
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 5: be able to tell. I've been buying lottery tickets for years.

879
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 5: You think it tells, it knows how to tell. Yes, Okay,

880
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 5: all right, Well they won fifty thousand bucks. It's pretty good,

881
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 5: and they're gonna buy a new house. Not bad, not

882
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 5: bad for sure. Probably put it down payment on the house. No,

883
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 5: that's a down payment. I don't think they're gonna pay cash.

884
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 2: I didn't know what they were doing all right, great story.

885
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 2: That is what it's all about. That was telling me

886
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 2: something good.