WEBVTT - Reach your 2023 Goals with these... Slight Changes!

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<v Speaker 1>Pushkin Hey Slight Change listeners. Happy New Year. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you all had a peaceful and RESTful holiday. New Year's

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<v Speaker 1>resolutions can often feel impossible to keep. I remember giving

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<v Speaker 1>up on them altogether for a while. I figured, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the point when I'm just going to give up on

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<v Speaker 1>my goal after a few weeks of intense effort. But

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<v Speaker 1>in the last five years or so, I finally decided

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<v Speaker 1>to apply the best insights from behavioral science to my

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<v Speaker 1>own life so that I could set smarter goals and

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<v Speaker 1>actually stick to them. And it's been life changing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a completely different relationship now with goal setting

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<v Speaker 1>and motivation, and we've talked about some of that amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>life changing behavioral science on the show. So I decided

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<v Speaker 1>to go back into the archives and share three interviews

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<v Speaker 1>with experts who delve deep into useful strategies for making

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<v Speaker 1>change in your life. They'll give you the practical tools

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<v Speaker 1>and motivation you need to not only set great goals,

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<v Speaker 1>but sustain your commitments well into twenty twenty three. On

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<v Speaker 1>today's episode, we'll hear from my good friend and fellow

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<v Speaker 1>behavioral scientists, doctor Katie Milkman, who shares evidence based techniques

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<v Speaker 1>we can use to change our behavior and actually reach

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<v Speaker 1>our goals, including commitment devices, the fresh start effect, and

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<v Speaker 1>the tool of temptation bundling. I'd love to hear about

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<v Speaker 1>which insights resonate most with you and the ones you're

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<v Speaker 1>planning to try out. You can connect with me on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram at doctor Maya Schunker. My research group has studied

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<v Speaker 1>this phenomenon where at the beginning of sort of a

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<v Speaker 1>new chapter in your life, you are more motivated and

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<v Speaker 1>likely to make a change. That's doctor Katie Milkman, author

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<v Speaker 1>of the book How to Change Moments. When you leave

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<v Speaker 1>college and you shift identity is and take on a

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<v Speaker 1>new role, or when you become a parent, those moments

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<v Speaker 1>they feel like new beginnings and chapter breaks in our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>and they free us from the baggage that we had before.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people who do make big change are

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<v Speaker 1>looking at moments that feel like breaking points and doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Katie Milkman's a professor of behavioral economics at the University

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<v Speaker 1>of Pennsylvania. She's also a friend and collaborator. We got

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<v Speaker 1>to work together on some projects when I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the Obama White House, and she happens to be an

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<v Speaker 1>expert on change. As you know, this show is all

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<v Speaker 1>about how people navigate the big changes in life. We're

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<v Speaker 1>talking swing for the fences, change your life type changes.

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<v Speaker 1>What Katie's research has taught me over the years is

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<v Speaker 1>that small tweaks to our mindset in daily behaviors can

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<v Speaker 1>actually inspire big change within ourselves. I've personally been using

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<v Speaker 1>insights from Katie's research my own life for a while now.

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<v Speaker 1>In this special episode, Katie and I dive deep into

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<v Speaker 1>the science of change. I hope our conversation will leave

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<v Speaker 1>you with some valuable tips to help your approach change

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<v Speaker 1>differently in your own life. I'm Maya Shankar and this

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<v Speaker 1>is a slight change of plants. Well, Katie, I was

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<v Speaker 1>curious to know how you got into the topic of change. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in love with behavioral science, but it took

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<v Speaker 1>me a little while to figure out that I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on change. And what happened is I went

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<v Speaker 1>to a seminar over at the med school and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of brilliant people over there thinking about behavioral

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<v Speaker 1>science and medicine. How can we help patients make better decisions?

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<v Speaker 1>How can we improve the scions of doctors as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was in this seminar and a graph went up,

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<v Speaker 1>which normally doesn't change your life, but this graph changed

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<v Speaker 1>my life. The graph just showed a breakdown of how

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<v Speaker 1>many premature deaths are due to different causes, from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>accidents to environment to daily decisions, and forty percent of

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<v Speaker 1>premature deaths turn out to be the result of decisions

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<v Speaker 1>that we can change on a daily basis about things

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<v Speaker 1>like whether or not we drink or smoke, what we eat,

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not we're physically active, we buckle our seat belts.

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<v Speaker 1>Those kinds of decisions accumulate more than I could have

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<v Speaker 1>ever imagined. I had just no idea of the magnitude.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I saw that and realized, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>tools of behavioral science could be applied to improve health

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<v Speaker 1>outcomes and health decisions, I could have this enormous impact.

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<v Speaker 1>And then then I sort of started thinking, like, Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if it matters that much with health, it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>obvious that it would accumulate in areas like savings and education.

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<v Speaker 1>And similarly, even if I've never seen an exact breakdown

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<v Speaker 1>of that sort, so that really just got me excited

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<v Speaker 1>about the potential to use this thing that I found

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<v Speaker 1>so interesting, so exciting and fun to actually have an impact.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was that was it for me. I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>curious about how your journey changed, because you've had many

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<v Speaker 1>career shifts, but you certainly went from you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>more laboratory based focus too, you know, jumping into the

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<v Speaker 1>White House to tackle change head on from a policy perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>How did how did you shift? It's interesting because in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, my big shift in life was from the

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<v Speaker 1>violin to cognitive science that I'm just remembering, like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I also had this other really big shift changes and

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<v Speaker 1>changing person to host. Um. I think this is true

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<v Speaker 1>across science too, But certainly when we were working in

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<v Speaker 1>the government, the stakes feel so high you just can't

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<v Speaker 1>screw up because these are real people's lives and they

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<v Speaker 1>can be affected by the work you're doing. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so funny. Mean, we actually worked together on some projects.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually one of them used an insight from your book,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was the fresh Start Effect. And I'm curious

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<v Speaker 1>if you can share what the fresh Start effect is.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very exciting at the time to have hot

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<v Speaker 1>off the press's research coming out of your lad actually

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<v Speaker 1>applied to a problem that we were trying to solve

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<v Speaker 1>in the government. So my research group has studied this

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<v Speaker 1>phenomenon where at the beginning of sort of a new

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<v Speaker 1>chapter in your life, you are more motivated and likely

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<v Speaker 1>to make a change. And we've often studied small changes

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<v Speaker 1>in this context, like you go to the gym more,

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<v Speaker 1>or you search on Google for the term diet more frequently,

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<v Speaker 1>or you're more likely to set a goal on a

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<v Speaker 1>goal setting website. But I also think you know where

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<v Speaker 1>the interest in this topic came from was the realization

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people who do make big change

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<v Speaker 1>are looking at moments that feel like breaking points and

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. And so I tell stories about bigger changes

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<v Speaker 1>book moments when you leave college and you shift identity

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<v Speaker 1>is and take on a new role, or when you

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<v Speaker 1>become a parent. Those moments they feel like new beginnings

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<v Speaker 1>and chapter breaks in our lives, and I think they're

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<v Speaker 1>freeing in a way. They free us from the baggage

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<v Speaker 1>that we had before. But they can also be freeing

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<v Speaker 1>psychologically because we feel like you're a new person. You

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<v Speaker 1>can take on a new identity. Whatever wasn't working before,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever ambition you failed to have before you can shed

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<v Speaker 1>that and say okay, now I can do it. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I do think we could study big change, and I

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<v Speaker 1>actually think some of the research we've done around small

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<v Speaker 1>change is inspired by a recognition that these might also

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<v Speaker 1>be the triggers for big change. Was there a particular

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<v Speaker 1>moment in your life where you felt the fresh start

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<v Speaker 1>effect play out, where it really felt like a new

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<v Speaker 1>beginning and there was a certain set of habits or

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<v Speaker 1>behavior changes that you witnessed. Oh my gosh, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do mesearch so totally, meaning like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of my research is motivated by like, oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. I wonder if other people, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>like asked my friends, oh yes, me too, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I realized, okay, like this might be this might be

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<v Speaker 1>something we're shutting. I will say one example that I

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<v Speaker 1>love is that I realized I wanted to write this

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<v Speaker 1>book for a long time. Finally what happened that triggered

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<v Speaker 1>it When I actually began. My son was three years old.

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<v Speaker 1>We decided we were going to move out of our

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<v Speaker 1>apartment into a house. We bought the house, we signed

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<v Speaker 1>the papers, and that day I said, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready, we're moving to a new house. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>fresh start. This is a moment and the project started

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<v Speaker 1>from there. So that was a big one for me. Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the anecdotes around the fresh start that I

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<v Speaker 1>love the most is Obama decided that he would stop

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<v Speaker 1>smoking for good when the Affordable Care Act passed, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait, a next level the fresh start effect,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he truly chose us in a lifetime experience to

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<v Speaker 1>anchor his commitment on. And it was like aligned on,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was aligned on like a health focus. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, of course Obama one ups all of us

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<v Speaker 1>and does the thing in the best way imaginable. Duh.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do love that, Like there's no other future,

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<v Speaker 1>one of those where he can be like, oh maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I can cave a little now because they'll be this

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<v Speaker 1>other right the other time I pass health Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>other time I pass healthcare as president. I love that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't I don't think I knew that. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>that's amazing. Um, have you used the fresh start effect

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<v Speaker 1>maya or like in hindsight, have you ever noticed that

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<v Speaker 1>a fresh start shifted? I have something for you, I swear,

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<v Speaker 1>I swear to God every Sunday. I'm committing to eating healthily.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that there's too many damn Sundays, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I always feel like I've gotten on to give it

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<v Speaker 1>a go. Yeah, but yeah, I mean, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard for so many of us to keep our resolutions.

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<v Speaker 1>And in reading your book, it did make me think, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>choose really markable milestones for pivoting, like big moves, like

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<v Speaker 1>when I moved from DC to California, getting married, big

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<v Speaker 1>events like that, because I do think you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>your identity is changing a bit, and any behaviors at

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<v Speaker 1>a company identity shifts might be more sticky, or at

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<v Speaker 1>least they have than in my experience. I think that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>And you get the benefit not only of the sort

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<v Speaker 1>of psychological break and the fresh start and opening a

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<v Speaker 1>new chapter, but you also have physical change, which is

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<v Speaker 1>so important to disrupting sort of bad habits or routines

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<v Speaker 1>and giving you that real blank slate to build upon

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<v Speaker 1>and say like, oh, I'm not going to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the burrito shop every day for lunch, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever your bad habit is that you want to kick

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<v Speaker 1>um exactly. Yeah, I think one of my favorite insights

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<v Speaker 1>from the book, and it's inside I've been using in

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<v Speaker 1>my own life since I read your research years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Is around temptation bundling. Do you mind for sharing what

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<v Speaker 1>that is? And then I'd love to let you know

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<v Speaker 1>how I've been using it. Yeah, I want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>about your temptation funneling. Um that this is gonna be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So temptation bundling is a solution I came up with

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<v Speaker 1>because I had two problems. Taking you back to grad

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<v Speaker 1>school again. I was taking all these hard engineering classes

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<v Speaker 1>and I was stressed out, and I'd come home after

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<v Speaker 1>a long day of classes, and all I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do was just like indulge in entertainment, right, like turn

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix and binge watch TV, read tempting novels. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted I wanted to dive into that and

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<v Speaker 1>escape my reality, and I didn't want to do my

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<v Speaker 1>problem sets. On the flip side, I also knew I

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<v Speaker 1>should really be getting exercise. I was an athlete in college,

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<v Speaker 1>but again when I came home from a long day,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to put on sweats and go to

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<v Speaker 1>the gym. So these two problems, like I couldn't get

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<v Speaker 1>myself to do my homework because I was procrastinating, indulging

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<v Speaker 1>in all this entertainment, and I couldn't get myself to exercise.

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<v Speaker 1>And all of a sudden, I realized, like, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>what if I solved them all at once? What if

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<v Speaker 1>I only let myself enjoy this entertainment that I love

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<v Speaker 1>so much while I'm exercising, I'd start craving trips to

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<v Speaker 1>the gym to find out what happens next in my

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<v Speaker 1>latest page turner, and I would stop wasting time at

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<v Speaker 1>home on this sort of literary garbage that normally captures

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<v Speaker 1>my attention, and I just focus on my problem sets.

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<v Speaker 1>And I started doing it. Was just like magic. I

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<v Speaker 1>worked out every day. Time flew while I was at

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<v Speaker 1>the gym because I was engrossed in Harry Potter or

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<v Speaker 1>Alex Cross. And when I got home, I was ready

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<v Speaker 1>to work because I'd already had my indulgence and I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't as stressed out. And I also realized like I

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<v Speaker 1>could use them not only to help me exercise, but

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<v Speaker 1>in lots of places, like if you just tie something

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<v Speaker 1>tempting to a chore, you can magically turn it into

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<v Speaker 1>something you look forward to and do less of that

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<v Speaker 1>indulgent thing and feel less guilty about it, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if only you get a glass of wine while you're

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<v Speaker 1>making a home cooked meal, or listen to your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>podcast while you're doing chores. For all your listeners who

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<v Speaker 1>are doing laundry right now, Katie and I are carrying

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<v Speaker 1>you on. Go for it. Yes, your temptation bundling. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know there was a name for it, Yes, exactly. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I one of my favorite things in life is

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<v Speaker 1>discovering a new pop song that I love. And what

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<v Speaker 1>makes me really sad is that I very quickly, like

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<v Speaker 1>it loses the spark after a certain number of listens,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you just know, you only have fifteen amazing listens

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<v Speaker 1>with the song and before before it kind of becomes

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<v Speaker 1>old hat. Right, So, as soon as I discover an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing song, I will only allow myself to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>it while I'm working out from that point on, And like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a really non fun wife because my husband sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>and I will discover the song together and we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>cooking in the evening, We'll be having fun. He's like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's play that new album by Casey Musgraves, who's one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite artists, and I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't understand. That's only like a treadmill elliptical song

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<v Speaker 1>because I just feel like I have to protect it

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<v Speaker 1>and save it. But it certainly makes the work out

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more tolerable and a little bit more exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, I love pop music too, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we should trade some song recommendations later so we

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<v Speaker 1>can each share. It's now very seriously tied to my exercise.

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<v Speaker 1>Between intact, the one thing that can happen is when

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<v Speaker 1>you temptation bundle. Sometimes what can happen is the intrinsic

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<v Speaker 1>extrinsic motivation balance gets thrown off kilter a bit. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, initially I'm just using all of my internal

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<v Speaker 1>will to go exercise, but now I've got this extrinsic motivator,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a song. So on the rare occasion where

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<v Speaker 1>like my headphones are out of battery, or like my

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<v Speaker 1>phone's Wi Fi is not working, I'm like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I can do this anymore. Just have

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure your headphones are always working in your

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<v Speaker 1>your iPhone is always charged or whatever. Yes, I'm wondering

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<v Speaker 1>whether for temptation bundling. You see this plate on the

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<v Speaker 1>wild in places that were behavior change feels a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more serious. That's interesting. I'm trying to think if

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<v Speaker 1>I have a great answer for you. There's a study

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<v Speaker 1>I love of teachers who are trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how to motivate their students to do more math problems,

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<v Speaker 1>which kids apparently say they like doing math about as

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<v Speaker 1>much as they like eating broccoli. So that tells you

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<v Speaker 1>something about how delightful it is. And math is so

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<v Speaker 1>important to everything, as we both know. So these two

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<v Speaker 1>researchers suggested, basically a temptation bundle. What if the kids

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<v Speaker 1>could you listen to music, have snacks markers that they

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<v Speaker 1>like using, And they did that all on the day

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<v Speaker 1>when they're doing their math worksheets, but not at other times.

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<v Speaker 1>And the teachers were sort of skeptical. They were like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they'll focus less could so I'll be distracted.

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<v Speaker 1>And it turned out that kids persisted longer on math

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<v Speaker 1>when they were randomly assigned to groups that had these

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<v Speaker 1>i'll say temptations linked with them. It's not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not changing their lives in that day. It is cumulative.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that that's an example of like some

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<v Speaker 1>of the big goals we have in life, whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>getting through your math assignments or finishing a dissertation, if

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<v Speaker 1>you can find a way to make it more enjoyable,

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<v Speaker 1>that really matters. I love the math example, I think

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<v Speaker 1>for two reasons. I mean, the first is I just

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<v Speaker 1>love any time research findings violate our expectations. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>when the teachers are like, oh, I'm not really sure

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<v Speaker 1>that this is a good idea, but then you're able

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<v Speaker 1>to generate empirical data that runs counter to that hypothesis.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wonderful because it's moving the field forward. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think the other reason I love it is that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>success begets success, passion begets passion. It's kind of one

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<v Speaker 1>of those things where if you get a kid just

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<v Speaker 1>through that initial period and they're just learning the basics,

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<v Speaker 1>getting over those initial super hard humps, then they might

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<v Speaker 1>actually realize that they really like this thing and then

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<v Speaker 1>just becomes easier and easier and easier to do every

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<v Speaker 1>problem from that point forward. So I do feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you can have massive long term effects. I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And if they have positive associations with math, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what more could we hope for. We'll be right back

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<v Speaker 1>with a slight change of plans. In this episode, doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Katie Melfin and I are talking about the science of

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<v Speaker 1>change and the different techniques we can use to spur

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<v Speaker 1>on that change. One technique is called a commitment device,

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<v Speaker 1>which locks you into a plan to reach your long

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<v Speaker 1>term goals. The key feature of a conmitment device is

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<v Speaker 1>that if you don't follow through with your plan, there's

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of penalty in place. I remember, I'm curious

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<v Speaker 1>if you actually remember the experience of first learning about them,

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<v Speaker 1>because for me, it was like mind blowing how powerful

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<v Speaker 1>they were, and actually mind blowing how few people use

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<v Speaker 1>them given how powerful they are. But the study that

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<v Speaker 1>I love that really I think illustrates nicely how much

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<v Speaker 1>they can help us is a study where they partnered

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<v Speaker 1>with a bank in the Philippines that saw low savings

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<v Speaker 1>rates and wanted to figure out if there was a

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<v Speaker 1>way to help people save more so they'd have the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to have better health have better life outcomes. Where

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<v Speaker 1>they came up with this idea that one of the

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<v Speaker 1>reasons people were having trouble accumulating savings balances is they

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<v Speaker 1>were constantly tempted to dip in. They were like, they

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<v Speaker 1>opened the bank account and then they put some money aside,

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<v Speaker 1>but then somebody's birthday or there's a holiday, and then

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<v Speaker 1>so the money came right back out and it never accumulated.

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<v Speaker 1>And that people said, you know, actually, I'd kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like it if I couldn't get them money out. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wish I couldn't act on those impulses. So

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<v Speaker 1>they developed this new kind of account. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>commitment savings account. So you put money in and you

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<v Speaker 1>are not allowed to take it out until a predetermined

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<v Speaker 1>date you choose, or a savings goal you choose. They

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<v Speaker 1>offered this kind of account to you know, a random

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<v Speaker 1>subset of customers alongside the usual account with the same

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<v Speaker 1>interest rate, but free in and out access. They saved

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<v Speaker 1>eighty percent more year over year than the control I

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<v Speaker 1>mean eighty percent more savings. Right, you've studied savings like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's life changing. So I love that story. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>hard commitment because when you put your money in, there

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<v Speaker 1>is another you know, there's a third party the bank

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<v Speaker 1>that is saying like you cannot have it. It is

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<v Speaker 1>not accessible to you. I'm preventing I'm preventing you from

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<v Speaker 1>So there's like a hard restriction on access to something,

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<v Speaker 1>and a commitment device is something you voluntarily opt into

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<v Speaker 1>that restricts you or penalizes you in some way if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't achieve your goals or pursue your goals in

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<v Speaker 1>the way you intend to. So that's a hard one

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<v Speaker 1>because there's no fudging it. There's soft commitments in the

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<v Speaker 1>world too, Like you know, you tell your partner or

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<v Speaker 1>your mom you're going to do something, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>ask them to give you a hard time if you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a weak commitment device. You're gonna get a

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<v Speaker 1>little You're gonna get ribbed a little bit. You're accountable

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<v Speaker 1>to someone, but you can back out. Yeah. I also

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<v Speaker 1>remember learning about commitment devices for the first time. Gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>we sound like such nerds are for years, Katie. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember where you were remember the day you learned

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<v Speaker 1>about commitment devices? I mean remember exactly where I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm like, yeah, I was in a class room.

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<v Speaker 1>My head exploded. Where were you? I was in my

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen with my roommates, and I was reading this paper

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, this is so exciting. The

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<v Speaker 1>researchers ran a study in which they had people outline where, when,

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<v Speaker 1>and how they were planning to get vaccinated. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was my study. Oh my gosh, this is so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>The flu shot study I'm talking about is your study.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's awesome. Okay, well the seminal work by doctor Milkman.

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<v Speaker 1>So in your study you ask people where, when, and

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<v Speaker 1>how you're going to go get vaccinated, right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think what was so studying to me is like, so

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<v Speaker 1>you write down this forum. You know, I maya nine

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<v Speaker 1>am after I drop off my husband at work and

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<v Speaker 1>I go pick up my groceries, I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the CBS can get my flu vaccine. And what

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<v Speaker 1>was astonishing to me is that it significantly increased the

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<v Speaker 1>vaccination rate despite the fact that you weren't accountable to anyone,

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<v Speaker 1>right in this intervention. You were not required to send

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<v Speaker 1>the letter back to anyone, no one was on your case.

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<v Speaker 1>You were literally just planning it out for yourself. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was enough to significantly drive the numbers up, which

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<v Speaker 1>to me again was such an extraordinary, lightlift, low cost

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<v Speaker 1>intervention that could potentially save people's lives. And in your

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<v Speaker 1>book talk about the fact that we all have a

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<v Speaker 1>fairly Maybe not everyone, but many people have a very

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<v Speaker 1>high view of themselves, so they feel like they might

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<v Speaker 1>not benefit that much from commitment devices. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we can be very over optimistic about our ability to

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<v Speaker 1>use willpower to avoid temptation. And I'm wondering if you

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<v Speaker 1>have any thoughts or advice for helping people overcome this

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<v Speaker 1>overconfidence so that they can achieve their goals. Yeah, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Optimism is a really good thing, but in this particular case,

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<v Speaker 1>it plays tricks on us that are problematic because we

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<v Speaker 1>don't in general persevere as much as we think we will,

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<v Speaker 1>and we do tend to be present biased, right, so

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<v Speaker 1>we dramatically overweight whatever value will get from something instantaneously

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<v Speaker 1>rather than the long term value. So you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>can buy a present right now for myself, or I

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<v Speaker 1>can put money in savings. I'll take the present, even

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<v Speaker 1>if that's not really good for me in the long run.

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<v Speaker 1>And if we don't appreciate that, this disconnect keeps happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and we think we'll just barrel through and do what's

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<v Speaker 1>in our long term best interests, we don't choose to

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<v Speaker 1>use commitment devices because we don't recognize this challenge, so

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a really tough nut to crack. And

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<v Speaker 1>for me, the big thing was sort of seeing the

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<v Speaker 1>data and seeing, here's the evidence. If you see it

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<v Speaker 1>with your own eyes and you see how powerful these

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<v Speaker 1>tools are and how often we do stumble even though

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<v Speaker 1>we think we'll be able to push through. Maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>evidence will be enough to get people to recognize this

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<v Speaker 1>can be a really potent approach. You have lots of

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<v Speaker 1>colorful anecdotes sprinkled throughout of real people who are facing

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<v Speaker 1>these challenges and using these behavioral tricks of the trade.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do feel like in many ways you're wielding

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<v Speaker 1>the power of social norms by saying, hey, at least

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<v Speaker 1>here's a collection of people who are willing to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>that they maybe a bit overconfident about their ability to use,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, willpower to achieve their goals, and they're open

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<v Speaker 1>to using some of these strategies. So maybe either could

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<v Speaker 1>be a positive norm effect that comes from people reading

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<v Speaker 1>your book Fingers crossed. I love that. I like that

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<v Speaker 1>the modeling, and you know, anytime I can use insights

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<v Speaker 1>about social norms to make the world a better place,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm it's a win. What do you see in the

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<v Speaker 1>future of change research in your ideal feature? When I

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<v Speaker 1>think about what I'm most intrigued by and feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we've only scratched the surface of in studying change, there's

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<v Speaker 1>two big things. One is durability. What are the kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of tools that really propel change in an incredibly durable way?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? I think a key takeaway for me has been, like,

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<v Speaker 1>never stopped doing the thing that's working right. Don't like

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<v Speaker 1>assume you can temptation bundle for a month, then you've

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<v Speaker 1>built an exercise habit and magically, maya you will never

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<v Speaker 1>need to listen to a pop song again, and you'll

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<v Speaker 1>always want to go to the gym. So you got

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<v Speaker 1>to keep doing that. So we know that. But are

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<v Speaker 1>there any magical things that where if you sort of

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<v Speaker 1>can put them on autopilot or do them for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while and they propel you for it? I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to uncover some if they exist. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the other thing I'm really intrigued by is setbacks

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<v Speaker 1>and how to sort of how to prepare for them

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<v Speaker 1>and recover from them as effectively as possible. I think

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<v Speaker 1>some of the most interesting ideas I have encountered around

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<v Speaker 1>change work because they have they help us with those setbacks.

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<v Speaker 1>I think fresh starts sort of help us with the setbacks.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, Okay, wipe the slate clean. You're I get

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<v Speaker 1>to get up and go again. There's wonderful work by

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<v Speaker 1>my colleague Mersas Sharif on emergency reserves where she's figured

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<v Speaker 1>out these clever ways that you set a tough goal

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<v Speaker 1>but give yourself a couple get out of jail free

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<v Speaker 1>cards if you can't achieve it every day of the week,

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<v Speaker 1>and found that that's way better than giving yourself sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like a slightly easier goal because you're you're going

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<v Speaker 1>for the stretch, but you're giving yourself a little leeway.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that also is like about getting back up.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think there's some really fun, fundamental, interesting things

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<v Speaker 1>to be explored around creating structures for success after a setback,

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<v Speaker 1>and I look forward to studying that too, Katie. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that I feel most intimidated by is

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<v Speaker 1>this challenge of how it is we can change people's minds.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like one of those really elusive things, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's no one size fits all approach and I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if you have any thoughts on the most effective

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<v Speaker 1>strategies you've seen, either in research or just in your

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<v Speaker 1>personal life around how to change people's minds. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>such an interesting question. It's obviously really hard, just like

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<v Speaker 1>behavior change is hard, changing opinions is really hard. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually there are some common themes though, and one common

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<v Speaker 1>theme is exploration. So when we talked about the fresh

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<v Speaker 1>start effect and how these disruptions in our lives can

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<v Speaker 1>lead us to sort of be in a new environment

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<v Speaker 1>and you can therefore explore and you don't have old

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<v Speaker 1>bad habits necessarily already built to fall back on, there's

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<v Speaker 1>also an opportunity to do that in terms of mindset shift.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think when we have a set of beliefs

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<v Speaker 1>and expectations, were less likely to explore and read and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to people outside of our perspective. But if we can,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a moment that creates or forces some experimentation

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<v Speaker 1>and exploration, that can be incredibly powerful. Yeah. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that too, because it's not so pointed, right, It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I need you to change your opinion about this thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's let me just try to get you to expose

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<v Speaker 1>yourself to stuff. Period. I'm wondering if you have any

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<v Speaker 1>concrete ideas on how we can motivate people to engage

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<v Speaker 1>in that exploration, because exploration is very uncomfortable, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>we all have deeply entrenched views within us. Purposely going

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<v Speaker 1>on a mission to challenge those views is not exactly

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<v Speaker 1>the most fun adventure. It's just it's filled with cognitive dissonance.

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<v Speaker 1>It just feels uncomfortable. And so how do we incentivize

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<v Speaker 1>people to go on those little missions? You know? I

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<v Speaker 1>have to think that a big part of it is

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<v Speaker 1>probably through social norms, which is such a powerful tool.

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<v Speaker 1>For instance, if you end up with a roommate who's

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<v Speaker 1>a good student, your grades are likely to be a

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<v Speaker 1>bit higher. So you know, if we point out others

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<v Speaker 1>like you who have changed their mind, it gives you

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<v Speaker 1>license to say, like, oh, maybe, like it's reasonable for

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<v Speaker 1>someone like meeting to keep exploring and keep thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>different ideas. I think that might be a way that

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<v Speaker 1>we can introduce this exploration concept and not have it

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<v Speaker 1>be too threatening and have it be appealing. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly right. I mean, it's reminding me there's this

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<v Speaker 1>one interview I did with a woman named Megan Phelps Roper,

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<v Speaker 1>and she ends up leaving this hate group cult church,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was asking her, are you using your platform

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<v Speaker 1>today to convince other people? Because there's so much research

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<v Speaker 1>showing the power of a convert. So when you hold

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<v Speaker 1>the views that this person in front of you previously held,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you watch them walk you through their journey

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<v Speaker 1>of changing their minds, it can open your mind in

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<v Speaker 1>a really unique way because you feel attached to their

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<v Speaker 1>former value system. Right. You know that you started in

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<v Speaker 1>the same place, but they ended up in a different place.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the Department of Homeland Security uses this inside

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<v Speaker 1>all the time by recruiting former extremists to try to

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<v Speaker 1>convert the potential extremists away from that craft. It's so

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<v Speaker 1>interesting too, because I'm thinking about like the original, like

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen fifty five Solomon ash experiments where he'd bring all

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<v Speaker 1>these people into a room and he'd show them two cards.

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<v Speaker 1>One had one line on it and one had three

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<v Speaker 1>and you had to figure out which of those three

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<v Speaker 1>lines was the same length as the one line. And

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like it was really simple task and it

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<v Speaker 1>was fairly straightforward. People didn't get it wrong except when

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<v Speaker 1>he introduced social pressure. So he'd bring a group in

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<v Speaker 1>and have seven of them consistently give those same wrong

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<v Speaker 1>answer before you give your answer, and people started messing

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<v Speaker 1>up and they're like totally confused, But was really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. That's the famous finding. When everybody else says

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong answer, you go along with it a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and you actually believe that you must be seeing things.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my favorite subfindings that I think gets less

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<v Speaker 1>play is that if there's just one truthful person in

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<v Speaker 1>that set, so six people out of the seven say

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong answer, but one says the right answer, you're

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<v Speaker 1>much more likely to follow your intuition and say what

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<v Speaker 1>you really think is right. So anyway, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's interesting in relation to this sort of power of

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<v Speaker 1>the one person who broke free. Just seeing one person

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<v Speaker 1>who agrees with your shows you a slightly different worldview,

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<v Speaker 1>can make it possible for you to feel comfortable going

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<v Speaker 1>against the grain. Yeah, I love that, So I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to get your thoughts on this. We are living

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<v Speaker 1>in a world right now where we're almost in like

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<v Speaker 1>this self help moment right where everybody's trying to optimize

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<v Speaker 1>their lives, and I do wonder where the limits are

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<v Speaker 1>of that, And at one point you have to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, like I just can't spend my whole

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<v Speaker 1>life trying to optimize. I just need to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>be and live and exist. And the reason I asked

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<v Speaker 1>that is it's alarming to me. I'll hear certain people say, oh, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's super important to be bored because actually boredom makes

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<v Speaker 1>you more productive, So like even boredom is now an

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<v Speaker 1>instrumental thing or becoming more productive, Like oh yeah, make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you stare out the window for at least five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes a day, because that'll help you be more productive.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like sometimes we don't just do things because

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<v Speaker 1>we've we just value those things. We always do things

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<v Speaker 1>because they have some instrumental value in terms of achieving

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<v Speaker 1>something else. And that's also super interesting, maya, because those

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<v Speaker 1>are like little hacks, right, like, oh, you know, stare

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<v Speaker 1>out the window for five minutes, And if we like

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<v Speaker 1>fill our life with all those little hacks, we actually

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<v Speaker 1>don't make space for the big momentous change. That's so interesting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're saying that because it's like, oh, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>taking up all your brain airwaves that you're not Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just don't have the time to think of macro.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great point. I think I'll wrath by asking

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<v Speaker 1>what the biggest change you feel you've experienced in your

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<v Speaker 1>life is. Oh, my gosh, there's so many, which is

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<v Speaker 1>part of what makes life so fun. I think, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the biggest most important changes for me went

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<v Speaker 1>from being focused on figuring out how to do my

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<v Speaker 1>own work or live my own life to taking on

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<v Speaker 1>the role of coaching and helping other people. All of

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<v Speaker 1>those relationships sort of reinforce the same change, which is

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<v Speaker 1>how meaningful it is to be looking out for someone

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<v Speaker 1>else besides yourself, and how much you can learn about

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<v Speaker 1>everything when you are coaching and helping someone else. And

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<v Speaker 1>that helped me actually be better at everything. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would say that's the biggest shift I've had in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope everyone will get that opportunity to have

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of a shift. Wow, what a positive change,

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<v Speaker 1>What a positive feet to end on. I know how

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<v Speaker 1>busy you are, and I know how much you optimize

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<v Speaker 1>your life in order to make room for these kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of conversations. So thank you so much. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>fun to chat with you. This was so fun, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh. A Slight Change of Plans is created an

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<v Speaker 1>executive produce by me Maya Shanker. Big thanks to everyone

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<v Speaker 1>Louis Gara who wrote our theme song, and Ginger Smith

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<v Speaker 1>of course a very special thanks to Jimmy Lee. You

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not chewing, fitting it right back out