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Speaker 1: There's a kid.

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Speaker 2: He's a twelfth grader, and he's being called unbeatable. And

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Speaker 2: he won the Script's National Spelling Bee brew Hot Soma.

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Speaker 2: He spelled twenty nine words correctly in the tiebreaker, beating

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Speaker 2: Faisan Zaki by nine to win the title on Thursday

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Speaker 2: night of Spelling Bee Champion. The words that they spell

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how to say the word. He

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Speaker 2: got a trophy and fifty thousand dollars in cash and prizes.

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Speaker 2: The team from Tampa has won three consecutive bees before,

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Speaker 2: the most prestigious spelling competition in the English language. And now,

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Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen, Oh no, now these are commonly misspelled words.

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Speaker 2: These aren't the words. These aren't the crazy words that

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Speaker 2: they say. Like let me see if I even have

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Speaker 2: audio of them saying some of these words, because I mean,

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Speaker 2: I realize that's the point, Like they the really hard

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Speaker 2: words to spell are the ones that sound a certain

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Speaker 2: kind of way, but they don't spell them that way,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? That that's why they're difficult,

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Speaker 2: I guess, because you know, the say it in sentence

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Speaker 2: and say it you pronounced it again, and then they'll

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Speaker 2: pronounce it and say it back or jel all this stuff, Kiki,

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Speaker 2: what Fred shows? Spelling Bee Commonly misspelled words from the

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Speaker 2: Merriam Webster English Dictionary. Absence absence.

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Speaker 3: A B, since E, S.

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Speaker 2: N C E that's correct, Often spelled A B S

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Speaker 2: C N s C A B C E N S

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Speaker 2: E A bunch of different ways. Elementary Paulina, accommodate my uh, commodated.

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Speaker 3: Accommodate A C C O M D A and G

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Commodate, accommodate A C C O M M O D

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Speaker 2: A t E accommodate accommodate. Yeah, good work appolling it.

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Speaker 2: One more for you. Basically, oh, basically, basically, basically B A,

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Speaker 2: S I, C A L L Y correctly.

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Speaker 1: That is correct. Basically, girl, it is correct.

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Speaker 2: Jason Brown commonly misspelled words in honor of the spelling be,

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Speaker 2: which was last night, fifty thousand pesos for you if

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Speaker 2: you get this right? Okay, zucchini? Oh y, okay?

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 1: Z U C C H I N I that's right?

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Speaker 1: Is correct? Wow, that is how you spelled zucchini. I

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Speaker 1: love me.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Nice job.

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Speaker 2: Klin oh man, Kalen contesting Kalen, Yes, de cemetery cemetery.

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Speaker 6: Okay, c E M I t A r y c

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Speaker 6: E M E t e r y s Terry.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing to argue about here.

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Speaker 3: I just smelled the way argue was asking what I

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Speaker 1: And that you put an I in there somewhere. I

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Speaker 1: don't know c E M E t r Y. I

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Speaker 1: thought there was like a men.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And finally rufio.

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Speaker 2: Definitely the one. Definitely, Oh yeah, no, that's not even

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Speaker 2: fair because you're definitely gonna be probably you put it

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Speaker 2: in the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Every spell it wrong every week.

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Speaker 4: I can't spell hold on d E f O I

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Speaker 1: That is correct. Yeah, definitely that is correct.

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Speaker 2: But with a lot of these words, I don't even

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Speaker 2: bother anymore. Like I've said this to you guys before.

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Speaker 2: This is why the world stupider, because I'll just get

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Speaker 2: Like I just did a Google search for most commonly

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Speaker 2: misspelled words that look like mom and Lely, the whole

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Speaker 2: did you mean the closet comment? But did you mean

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Speaker 2: most commonly misspelled? Like that's when I met boom. I

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Speaker 4: Even if I spell it right, and like that's that

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Speaker 4: don't look right, I'll go back and misspell it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, spell it right, yep.

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Speaker 2: Do you ever reach a point where you're so far

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Speaker 7: Yes, that's when you started speaking a series.

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Speaker 6: To go to Google and like kind of do it

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Speaker 2: So if it's upper case, sometimes it won't correct you

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Speaker 1: It has to be. PC doesn't want to offend you.

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Speaker 2: So then I'll type the same word next to it

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Speaker 1: I'm nuts.

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Speaker 2: You guys want some relationship news, Yeah, not not personal

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Speaker 2: relationship news. I just want to update you on I

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Speaker 2: just want to update you on the research being done

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Speaker 2: in relationships. Getting married could save your life from cancer, Allegedly.

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Speaker 2: A twenty thirteen study has gain traction on social media

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Speaker 2: this week claiming that married cancer patients have better outcome

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Speaker 2: outcomes than those who were single. A team found that

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Speaker 2: being married reduced the risk of death but up to

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Speaker 2: twenty percent more than chemotherapy in five types of cancer breast, cold, erectal,

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So I've heard some people say that they think their

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Speaker 2: marriage is shortening their life. But according today, according to

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Speaker 2: Dance though, if you have a partner, then you're more

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Speaker 2: likely to live longer. I would imagine because you've got

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Speaker 2: someone there who loves you, is supporting you.

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Speaker 1: I mean that makes sense to me. I guess, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you just want to get out of there.

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Speaker 1: Get out of where which part the marriage?

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Speaker 3: Marriage? Like a lot of people want to just get out.

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Speaker 7: So like if I could just check out, you know,

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Speaker 7: maybe just see what the pearly gates are about, then

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Speaker 2: Wait, now, all of a sudden, rather you rather die

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Speaker 2: than I'm ecused, where are we going with this?

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Speaker 5: Not me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like some married people are.

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Speaker 4: Like, hey, because when you're married, like you say you're

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Speaker 4: sick whatever, Like you say, I'm sick, and I'm going

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Speaker 4: to fight for everything because I don't want to give up.

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Speaker 2: My money, give up your money. I mean, if you're dead,

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Speaker 2: then your money. What does it matter if your money's gone?

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Speaker 2: But this is what I wonder. I mean, I think

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Speaker 2: they say people in couples live longer than single people.

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Speaker 1: Is that true? I think I read that somewhere.

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Speaker 6: They do say that, but then the story below that

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Speaker 6: I just feel like all these studies, they're.

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Speaker 3: Always like wine's good for you, chocolate's bad, Like what

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Speaker 7: And all the people who live to one hundred, A

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Speaker 7: live into one hundred? And the women are like, I

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Speaker 7: was never married, I've never had a man.

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Speaker 3: I'm bacon yeah yeah, and live in peace. But if

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Speaker 3: I try that, it wouldn't work, right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, Paulina, do you believe as a married woman?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Do you believe? And you have a kid now that

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Speaker 1: you will live longer.

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Speaker 2: Because of Hobby or or do you believe that he's

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Speaker 8: Honestly, honestly, yeah, I think he's taking years off. And

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Speaker 8: I do think I'm gonna live a long life. Okay,

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Speaker 8: prosperous life. That's all my psychic told me.

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Speaker 3: I won't do that. However, However, I always said this.

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Speaker 2: And I did a card reader her this morning, and

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Speaker 2: that's what I told her. I also told her an

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Speaker 3: Coming, so she paid more premium.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, an important message is coming. We'll tell me more.

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Speaker 2: Well I can't. I just it's coming. Don't worry.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you I'm living a long life. But I

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Speaker 8: But I also know that, all right, I will ride

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Speaker 8: for this theory that I think that men benefit way

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Speaker 8: more than women do in marriage and relationships. Like I

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Speaker 8: hell I'm dying on because I truly believe that. But

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Speaker 8: I did tell Hobby just because he is more healthy

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Speaker 8: all that, so he will outlive me. And he made

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Speaker 8: So you could date these twenty year olds.

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Speaker 1: I know it.

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Speaker 8: So when I'm eighty, I'll be gone, right or one

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Speaker 2: So dating twenty year olds entercight. No, he's older, a

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Speaker 1: It's good for hobby.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's what I said.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I don't.

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Speaker 2: Have a lot of long term relationship experience, but I

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Speaker 2: suppose I can think of times when I feel like

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Speaker 2: don't know, Or you should make the argument, do you

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Speaker 2: try harder in life because you're doing it for your

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Speaker 2: partner and your families? Now kids, I would argue, I

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Speaker 2: just a wife, just a spouse or a husband, because

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Speaker 1: Live for your kids.

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Speaker 3: That's where I'm as.

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Speaker 2: Even if you don't like your spouse, most people still

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Speaker 2: want to live for their kids, right of course, So

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Speaker 2: I would argue the kids would make you live longer.

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Speaker 2: But here's another question. Is like, and God forbid that

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Speaker 2: you're about to break up with somebody and then one

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Speaker 2: you get sick. You can't break up with them now,

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Speaker 2: so like you've got to support them at least through

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yeah, like that is that terrible?

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Speaker 2: That's where my first thought came from. Like that people

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Speaker 2: content at least because they're not. They don't want to

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Speaker 2: be the one who leaves the person when they're sick,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So like you're more likely

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Speaker 2: to say, they're more likely to save you from cancer

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Speaker 2: than chemo because I don't know, because maybe it takes

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Speaker 2: I really hate you, but you're sick, so I can't

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Speaker 2: be mean to you.

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Speaker 1: Is that terrible? That's where my brain goes.

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Speaker 2: My brain immediately goes to like what would I do

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Speaker 2: if I was in a dysfunctional relationship and the person

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Speaker 2: got sick. I wouldn't Like, you can't leave them. You

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Speaker 2: have to make it work right. You can't be that.

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Speaker 2: You're saying you you're getting a way better deal than

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: God.

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Speaker 1: Don't need another firm right man?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: I would go way younger.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I was like, Grandpa, get it together. Of course

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Speaker 2: get ghost to get to blogs? In just a second,

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Speaker 2: speaking of it? Should we do your blog about it?

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Speaker 2: What you're trying to get a hobby to do? Yes,

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Speaker 3: I love the hobby's promise. Hobby's promise.

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Speaker 1: What it's time for hobbies prom That's right?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Or do yeaes? Strap it on? Let's go fread show next.

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Speaker 6: The buck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they side.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. Fine

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Speaker 2: We call him blogs Paulina, Yes you ready, I am go.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, dear blog.

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Speaker 8: So I went for my six week check up to

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Speaker 8: When I walked in, I was pantsless and he knocks,

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Speaker 2: Like how do we avoid this from happening again?

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Speaker 8: And they list them out, So I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, hell, what a what.

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Speaker 8: You know, I've heard of people taking it out and

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Speaker 2: feel about kids? Well, I'm snipped, I'm done. Well that

446
00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,520
Speaker 2: might be a huge turn off for someone that the

447
00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,960
Speaker 2: options off the table. Plus like what does that say

448
00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,600
Speaker 2: about me? Never married, no kids, already snipped? Like what

449
00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,240
Speaker 2: are you out? Here doing bro. Oh you know, I

450
00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:24,359
Speaker 2: don't know. That's what I would be worried about. But no,

451
00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,480
Speaker 2: all right, well that's the plan. That's the plan.

452
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,480
Speaker 8: And he wants more information on the snippy snip because

453
00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,480
Speaker 8: I literally could not provide that to him. I really

454
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,679
Speaker 8: don't know. I've never done it before myself. So I

455
00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 8: feel like we might go down that route. We'll see,

456
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 8: and if we do, then I'll, you know, take care

457
00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,679
Speaker 8: of the iou. But as of right now, it's me

458
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:43,960
Speaker 8: and the IOU versus the world.

459
00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,480
Speaker 1: Nothing's crazy about those things. The IUDs is.

460
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,240
Speaker 2: I was dating a girl who had one, and she

461
00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:50,199
Speaker 2: comes back from the doctor one time and she's like, oh,

462
00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:51,960
Speaker 2: I'm good for another This says I'm good for another

463
00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:52,480
Speaker 2: two years.

464
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, wait on a but the package says six. Yeah.

465
00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 2: The doctor says, though, it's cool for two more years,

466
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,200
Speaker 2: and I guess I'm like, wait a minute. The doctor

467
00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:05,400
Speaker 2: just decides this, like right, we're just oh, because we're

468
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 2: just cool. Yeah, you won't have to worry about it.

469
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, first of all, that I won't be here

470
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,280
Speaker 2: in two years, dont worry about that. But second of all,

471
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,159
Speaker 2: based on my track, right, you don't to.

472
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 1: Worry about it.

473
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 2: But then the other thing was like, well, wait, who

474
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 2: makes this decision? Like I don't know if I trust this,

475
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 2: Like this dude just took a look at it. It was

476
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 2: like another couple thousand miles on these. No, but apparently

477
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,199
Speaker 2: it has something to do with the fact that the

478
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 2: FDA will only approve them for so long. Within in

479
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 2: Europe there approved for much longer. So a lot of

480
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,919
Speaker 2: doctors will just go with what the European standard is.

481
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 2: And you know, because again, if I'm wrong about this,

482
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 2: I will correct myself. But but I was just like, oh,

483
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 2: are we sure about that? Like, can I see something

484
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 2: in writing?

485
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 6: Someone in our tech said that hers fell out and

486
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 6: that also happened to my college roommate.

487
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 1: No, fell out.

488
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 3: Oh I don't.

489
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 6: Know, this person said, aud hurts to put in. No

490
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 6: one tells us this. Plus mine just fell out one day.

491
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,119
Speaker 6: Oh no, honey, I know. Oh but my my roommate

492
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 6: in college hers fall out right on our dorm room floor.

493
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: Oh my, I don't know how.

494
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 3: I don't have one.

495
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,679
Speaker 6: But okay, just you know, all right, talk to your doctor, Okay,

496
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 6: I got to Mike.

497
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 2: Oh no, A lot of seconds John's here John has

498
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 2: some boy John, good morning.

499
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 3: How you doing what chapoulinea do?

500
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:20,360
Speaker 1: John going John.

501
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 2: Now entirely in the morning, So we got to be

502
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 2: kind of careful. I hear some babies in the background.

503
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 2: So if you got to a sect me, you didn't.

504
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 2: You didn't go to a very good practitioner.

505
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Speaker 9: Now, well, no, it's not bad. It's just, uh, you know,

506
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 9: when you're you make a decision with your sniff another

507
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 9: and it just doesn't work out.

508
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 1: So obviously, you know.

509
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 9: I got married again and we decided to have kids,

510
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 9: but I already had the snippy snippy, right, I'm just saying.

511
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 5: I was.

512
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 9: I heard, I heard the segment, and you know I

513
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 9: listen every day, so I'm kind of I'm on, I

514
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 9: want to let Paulina know that how painful reverse. So

515
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 9: it's kind the most It was the worst pain I've

516
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 9: ever been in in probably two weeks. It was two

517
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 9: weeks of absolutely same.

518
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: Okay, Now, the problem of ASECT to me yourself is

519
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 2: no big deal, right when they snip it.

520
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 9: Yeah, So what happens is they basically, you know, you

521
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 9: have I mean to get technical or you know, into

522
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 9: kind of how it all works, but they just basically

523
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 9: go in and just kind of snip one little spot

524
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 9: where the sperm comes through, and that's just it, and

525
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 9: they cut it and that's the it. Then what happens

526
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 9: is is then after so long, they have to go

527
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 9: back in and kind of connect it. And the thing

528
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 9: is that sometimes it doesn't work. And for me, I

529
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 9: got lucky enough.

530
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest with you, Hey, John, John, I

531
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 2: love you. I'm gonna get a vasect to me after

532
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 2: this call.

533
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 4: Here's also the problem is that you think Pauline is

534
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 4: gonna care about Hobby's pain and she had a baby,

535
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying that.

536
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but just saying that, this man is just saying that,

537
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 2: like I mean, it's it's just one more thing. And

538
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: then John, I assume at some point you're gonna go

539
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: in and do it again, right for the third time,

540
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 2: to shut it down.

541
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 9: No, So, actually we actually had one. I actually had two,

542
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 9: me and my wife. We have two now, so I

543
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 9: have three, but we have two kids, and and it

544
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 9: just happened that she has We've had a bad history

545
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 9: with a good past history and we had a couple

546
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 9: of losses.

547
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 2: Oh no, oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Okay, so

548
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,880
Speaker 2: you don't Basically you don't have to go back again,

549
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: is what you're saying.

550
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 5: You know.

551
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 9: The other thing is like we had she had to

552
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 9: do a procedure to get kids, and so we had

553
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 9: to have a tea section. She had to have a

554
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 9: tea section. So they were in there anyway.

555
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 2: Oh I see, Okay, they handled it. Then, Hey, John,

556
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 2: you're the man. I appreciate the perspective. Have a great day,

557
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening.

558
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 8: Look at this guy, I thought he was gonna tell

559
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 8: me if how he gets remarried. That's why I thought

560
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 8: he was going with this. And I was like, well,

561
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 8: if you get to be married to a twenty year old,

562
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 8: he better be snips.

563
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 1: Now.

564
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: My buddy, I won't say his name, but he's very

565
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: vocal that he will not get a aseectomy because his

566
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: next wife might want kids. Oh yeah, he said this

567
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: many times. Oh with that man, and I have no sympathy.

568
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and unless there's some serious complication, I have

569
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: no sympathy for a dude getting snipped versus what you

570
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: guys have to endure.

571
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:24,239
Speaker 5: Now.

572
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 2: Granted, this sounds like having to go back and double

573
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: down another time. That sounds like that was an extra effort,

574
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 2: but still what you guys go through.

575
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 4: Mmmmm, yeah, how he's looking at the sporting schedules like

576
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 4: March would be good two weeks.

577
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 1: You know.

578
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 2: I was talking to my brother in law about that

579
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 2: because he's talking about getting one too, and I said,

580
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,719
Speaker 2: you should have done it in March. Yeah, I mean

581
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 2: they were having a baby then. But it's like you

582
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 2: got two weeks or you know, of basketball games, sit

583
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 2: on the couch and you know, do it right around

584
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 2: there because you got nothing else to do. Hey, Marissa,

585
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 2: you're an actually you're an actual physician.

586
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's right.

587
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 1: And I'm a listener, but real doctors listening to this

588
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: thing tomorrow.

589
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 2: I'm concerned, Marissa. Okay, Well, what some professional thoughts on

590
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 2: this topic?

591
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 5: Uh huh, Well, I want to congratulate on your ud.

592
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 5: Congratulations one of the best forms of both control.

593
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, look at me.

594
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I want no great choice. Yeah, but I'm hearing

595
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 5: a lot of things you're saying, and I don't want

596
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 5: folks to get confused or if you had questions, I

597
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 5: wanted to offer up what I.

598
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 1: Know, Well, what do we need to know?

599
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 2: Like in thirty seconds, what do we need to know, Marissa,

600
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about getting now you do?

601
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: You should?

602
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 5: It's excellent. And like if you were to ask all

603
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 5: the guy in cologists what do they prefer for themselves,

604
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 5: They're going to choose a n IUD. So that says

605
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 5: a lot, right, that says a lot. What would we

606
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 5: like for our own selves? You know? These friends pretty

607
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 5: He's right, right, It's not that we're just kind of

608
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 5: like looking at this device and we're like, you probably

609
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 5: got a few more miles on it. It's because of

610
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 5: the way the FDA approves medication in the US, but

611
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 5: that's not been updated or medical devices for you and

612
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 5: in patience. So now that's been updated. So Paulina, as

613
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,959
Speaker 5: you go on and you think about, oh my baby's

614
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 5: two years old, three years old, that's how you can

615
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 5: remember like should I change it? Is it time to

616
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 5: change it? In this case is going to be seven

617
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 5: depending on the one you got. Yeah, congratulations.

618
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: Now, Marissa, I'm very scared because this woman, I've in

619
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: my forty three years of life, I've later in life,

620
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 2: when someone tells me they have this installed, I tend

621
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 2: to really be very confident that we don't. We're not

622
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: going to have any problems. Maybe a little too confident.

623
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Speaker 2: In fact, however, someone just texted that they had their

624
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: friend had three babies with one in How is that possible?

625
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 5: But that can't happen depending on the position, right, So

626
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 5: like it. This is a kind of id and what

627
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 5: if it's not positioned correctly? So you're right, I've taking

628
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 5: care of patients. We're pregnant with an iudine place. But

629
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 5: it really is really safe, and you don't want to

630
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 5: make sure it's continued. You evaluate it every year or

631
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 5: so unless you're having any symptoms and make sure it's

632
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 5: placed correctly. And oh my gosh, it's the right type. Yeah,

633
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 5: I'm don't be scared to inform Marissa.

634
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: You're going to be our staff doctor, and you're gonna

635
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 2: handle everyone I date from now on.

636
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: They're going to go through you.

637
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 2: That's going to be the first step, first of all,

638
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 2: the non disclosure agreement, and after they sign that, then

639
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 2: they got to go see you and make sure everything's

640
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 2: positioned properly before there are any positions happening over here.

641
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: Yes, rufio, doctor Fris got this bump on his lip.

642
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: He would like to shut up. He's gone, it's gone.

643
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't have it.

644
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 2: I got nothing, I got no problems in the listen,

645
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: don't worry doctor Sonya. My dermatologists got about thirty different

646
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 2: angles of this thing this week and told me that

647
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: a shut the hell up.

648
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: But Rufio wants to keep talking about it.

649
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 2: God, Marissa, this guy put an IUD in his mouth.

650
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 5: Doctor period. You just don't have the right kind of plumbing,

651
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 5: you know.

652
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, Marisa, I got to go and

653
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 2: call anytime.

654
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: We love you. Have a good.

655
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 3: Day, girl, can with an idea or not?

656
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 4: I'm scared so am I That makes that's one of

657
00:27:58,680 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 4: the safest rooms.

658
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 5: All the time.

659
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,239
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, you know what I've done all

660
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: of it? Anyway, let's waiting by the phone show. We

661
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Speaker 2: next after Miguel in two minutes. Fred Show, The Fread

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Speaker 7: Fred, fun so much, guys.

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Speaker 2: A lot of animal facts. This week. We learned that

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Speaker 2: wombats have square poops. We did learn that. You're welcome

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Speaker 2: you didn't know. Now we're gonna learn about koalas. Koala

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Speaker 2: bears have fingerprints that are nearly indistinguishable from human fingerprints,

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Speaker 2: which can even confuse forensic experts.

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Speaker 1: Here is what you do.

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Speaker 2: You guys, this has not been done yet on dateline.

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Speaker 2: You about to do some stuff, you know it's nefarious.

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Speaker 2: Gets you a koala, Bring the koala with you and

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Speaker 2: use its hands to commit the crime because they look

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Speaker 2: like human fingerprints. But nobody will ever know that it

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Speaker 2: was a koala, or was it? Or was it? Was

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Speaker 2: it a murderous koala? I don't know, but that's my defense.

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Speaker 2: You guys, there's a koala out there that has a

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Speaker 2: fingerprint a lot like mine.

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Speaker 3: He did it?

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Speaker 2: Go find him, go to the zoo. I don't know this.

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Speaker 2: Come on, he's a murderous koala. On the loop more

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Speaker 2: Fred Show. Next, You've got to wait. Fred Show is

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Speaker 2: on now, Money Show, Good Morning, everybody, Friday. It's the

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Speaker 2: Fred Show. Hik Hey, j sim Rufio, Shelby Shetty inserted

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Speaker 2: in Veneminea, Benjamin brand New waiting by the phone. This

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Speaker 2: is more controversial than I thought, by the way, I

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Speaker 2: did not realize. I knew that one question was bad.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know the other one was bad, though.

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Speaker 1: But you'll hear.

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Speaker 2: And there's a lot of opinions about this in just

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Speaker 2: a second. The Entertainment Report after that, what do you have.

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Speaker 6: In there, Kalin, Well, a fan want to see a

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Speaker 6: notoriously sexual singer in concert and is trying to sue

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Speaker 6: her because she was sexual at the concert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this was unbelievable.

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Speaker 3: Once everything she made I went to the.

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Speaker 2: Show, Yeah, and I thought it was gonna be a

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Speaker 2: Bible study and it was.

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Speaker 1: I surprised by that. Waiting by the Phone

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Speaker 2: Is new and it's two minutes way after Sabrina Carpet

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Speaker 2: The Red Show