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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Les Pete and it's

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Speaker 1: sugarl dry in the call and you are tuned into

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Speaker 1: another episode of poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober thought. Y'all got a little ski We do. We

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Speaker 1: do well as y'all can hear. We have a special

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Speaker 1: guest today because y'all been asking us and.

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Speaker 2: They haven't haven't really, yes.

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Speaker 1: They haven't want you to come on here, so wild

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Speaker 1: So if y'all you know so obviously y'all, if y'all

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Speaker 1: haven't recognized her, boys, we have Wheezy from Horrible Decisions. Hi.

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Speaker 2: Hey, it's so sweet. They're asking for me. They're so jealous.

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Speaker 1: We were getting so many emails like where's Wheezy? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I was so jellous because like one of my favorite episodes,

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Speaker 2: Like because whenever we were like super busy with working ship,

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Speaker 2: we would do a lot of solo and one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite solo episodes Mandy ever did was with y'all

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Speaker 2: and I was like, fucking bitches and I can.

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Speaker 1: Be a good solo episode in Jamaica too. That was Oh.

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Speaker 2: I know that was our Patreon, but I mean our

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Speaker 2: main episode. I was so fucking mad. And then I

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Speaker 2: feel like I always talk about Drea from somebody else.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I'm hearing and Drea story,

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Speaker 2: Menny and Drea, Drea Kikey, all the tea. It's like,

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Speaker 2: I don't have nothing with Drea. So I feel like

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Speaker 2: we just have to do something so I could be included.

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Speaker 1: I know, we do, we do. Okay, so we're gonna

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Speaker 1: do a little ketchup, little ketchup segment. So what's been

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Speaker 1: going on with juices? The quarantine has been going on.

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Speaker 1: Let the girls know what's tea? Nothing.

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Speaker 2: I started a new podcast that's been fun. I started

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Speaker 2: a podcast with one of my favorite comedians, a stude

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Speaker 2: out in LA and it's just about like random facts

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Speaker 2: and shit. So we like, we're doing an episode tonight

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Speaker 2: about space, We're doing one about fucking Will Smith.

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Speaker 1: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's fun. What's really fun is we made a list

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Speaker 2: of shit we want to talk about, and we got

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Speaker 2: weaves on there and plastic surgery. I was like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, I've got the.

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Speaker 1: Girl, my alley r. I love a little plastic surgery boots.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and my co host is like, I mean, I'll

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Speaker 2: let you find somebody for that part.

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Speaker 1: Well, you got the perfect one girl.

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Speaker 2: What else am I doing?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I write a lot?

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Speaker 1: So you did sweet something. I wanted to ask you

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Speaker 1: about that. You sweeted something about something about something getting

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Speaker 1: on a show. What's going on with it? You know?

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Speaker 1: If a writer, now, bitch not fit?

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Speaker 2: I mean okay, So basically, like I write a bunch

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Speaker 2: of shit and you could submit it to certain networks

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Speaker 2: I started just going to sketch classes and one of

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Speaker 2: the pilots I wrote got picked up. Now does that

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Did I get paid for it? Yes? So basically they

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Speaker 2: own it for like a year right when you sell it,

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Speaker 2: I get to keep the money and I get it back.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, but it's cool because I got to write stipulations.

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Speaker 2: Like they were like, okay, well, is there any person

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Speaker 2: I'm conceited. I was like, well, I would like to

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Speaker 1: Let me. Yeah. Yeah, but that's other than that. You're

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Speaker 2: Well because because it's on hold, so basically I get

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Speaker 1: Need to write something so I can get more than

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Speaker 1: three dollars on my account. You shall do.

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Speaker 1: Because I I'll just be talking about being broke. All

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Speaker 2: Bitch, buy some penny stocks.

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Speaker 1: If I buy some penny stocks, then I'm gonna have

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Speaker 2: That's all I do all the motherfucking day during this

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Speaker 2: quarantine is look up stocks, masturbate cook.

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Speaker 1: I'm really tired of masturbating. Honestly, I can't do it

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Speaker 1: no more. My coach would be like, bitch again. I

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I think you guys are getting fucked though.

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Speaker 1: Who got bugged? I might get fucked tonight. I had

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Speaker 2: You have their own debut, and so you're telling me

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Speaker 3: I can, but I don't know. These niggas ain't really

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Speaker 2: It's just the hassle of it. It's like if you

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Speaker 2: So Okay, I wanted to talk.

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Speaker 2: I get paid for it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I know that me and Joy have talked about this

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Speaker 2: he knows that when he's like especially our New York show,

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Speaker 2: Like of course he knows I used to be a whore.

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Speaker 1: That's what the show is, right.

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Speaker 2: But I think in the same like aspect, I do

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Speaker 2: I mean, it has been very difficult for me with

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Speaker 1: Get horny when you're interviewing and talking about this. I'm like, no,

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's a persona. I agree, But Andrea

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Speaker 1: So like we do the same ship right, right, and

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Speaker 3: Like if nobody listens to the yard in boxo Instagram,

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Speaker 2: But not even look at y'all pictures, right, Like what

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Speaker 1: Not too far from the truth, you know, the way off.

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Speaker 2: Also another thing too, like niggas assume when you're on

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Speaker 2: Like it's like ship like that that you never even

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Speaker 3: What they want to show you on Instagram, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean? A lot of the time, a lot

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Speaker 3: of that sheet just really be a aside, right.

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Speaker 2: I used to too. I really genuinely did too. And

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Speaker 2: to be honest with you, it's not like it didn't

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Speaker 1: She just don't talk about that. She openly Listen.

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Speaker 1: By till they they was dragged me. Somebody said how

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Speaker 3: And I remember when I first went natural, it was

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00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 3: so hard to find like a lot of women on

434
00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:02,160
Speaker 3: you you two who had hair like mine that has

435
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,680
Speaker 3: successful natural hair journeys, And I just was like, what.

436
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 2: They don't my hair. It's it's like six girls, okay,

437
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,439
Speaker 2: the other ones are different kind of black girls. They

438
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 2: have all white friends and be like I just put

439
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,760
Speaker 2: cocon and I'm sleeping.

440
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 3: And I'm like, if I put some coconut aill of

441
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 3: my hair and go I here looking like, don can

442
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 3: you do think that's that's they shit?

443
00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:24,600
Speaker 2: But you know what the type of black girl I'm

444
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 2: talking about, I am not that one either. But me,

445
00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:28,280
Speaker 2: I don't know.

446
00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:30,879
Speaker 1: Now. I want to know how you feel because a

447
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,440
Speaker 1: lot of people I feel like I'm interviewing you, but

448
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I just be asking. She Yeah, So

449
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,120
Speaker 1: a lot of people say, because I've spent a lot

450
00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 1: of time with you. We went to Jamaica together. I

451
00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 1: had a good time with you. I turned up with you.

452
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 1: But a lot of people be saying, like, you want

453
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,160
Speaker 1: to be white? Are you identified? Like you say things

454
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 1: about wanting to hang out with black people, but you

455
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,880
Speaker 1: really want to be around white folks. I never got

456
00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 1: that feeling from you, you know what I'm saying. But

457
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 1: I'll be reading. I'll be reading you know, the comments

458
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 1: and stuff that people be saying. So how do you feel, like,

459
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,439
Speaker 1: how do you feel about that? Because I know with

460
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 1: me going up, I went to an all white school

461
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 1: growing up. Yeah, a lot of the times I had

462
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 1: identity identity issues within myself. So did you ever feel

463
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 1: like you kind of have like identity issues a little bit?

464
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,879
Speaker 2: You knew what's funny, like the things that you're saying.

465
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: I actually didn't really feel like anybody said about me

466
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:22,120
Speaker 2: until Horrible Decisions Because Mandy and I contrast so much, right,

467
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 2: and I think that's the.

468
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 1: That's the difference. Mandy is ghetto, that's my busies. But

469
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,919
Speaker 1: you know, Mandy little ghetto like Weezy. You know, we

470
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 1: can take Weedy to the.

471
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:47,680
Speaker 4: Walk with my moments Like give us an example, bitch, Yeah,

472
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,959
Speaker 4: but give us an example.

473
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 2: Of a nigga moment when I get very upset, You're like, bitch,

474
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:58,159
Speaker 2: who whoa maybe she is from Florida. No, but I

475
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: think that the show makes us coin try so much.

476
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 2: And that's that's no blab like why I think that happens.

477
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: But oh, hanging out with white people. So it's weird

478
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: because the taste that I have while a fluent bitch,

479
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 2: I like niggas around me. So this is what I mean.

480
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 2: I love going to like bougie shit, but with my

481
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 2: black friends. But I think that maybe that part isn't

482
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 2: ever noticed because when I have like a fun story

483
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 2: or I'm talking about something, there was white people there,

484
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 2: I mean, and we being real. Like I used to

485
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 2: go to raves all the time with my nigga friends.

486
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 2: Bitch love it. I would go right now.

487
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: So I went to when I was in college, shoe

488
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 1: that to rights like playing zero right, they don't even.

489
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 2: People put you in a box all the time if

490
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 2: you like different ship though, you know what I'm saying,

491
00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 2: Like like so, I mean, it's it's fine, but trust me,

492
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 2: I am the nigga of the Caucasian spaces. But I

493
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 2: mean I should don't bother me like even you know,

494
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: it's funny. I was thinking about when we were people

495
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 2: were talking about hedonism, and I'm glad I can say

496
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 2: this now I'm not on my podcast. But people were

497
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: writing in the comments like, oh, Wheezy just didn't like

498
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 2: it because it was black. I said, nah, I like

499
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 2: it because I found I thought it was tacky. This

500
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 2: ain't me just just being a hunted Like if you

501
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 2: know you vacation a certain way, and like Alex, I

502
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: know you feel the same if you go to nice

503
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 2: ass fucking hotels and restaurants and shit like that and

504
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: then you go to that one's what you're finn And.

505
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 1: Now I'm wrong.

506
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, But not that shit was

507
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: just I don't like buffets. I need room service. I

508
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 2: don't want no exterior room. I don't like that. I

509
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: like it to be inside.

510
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie I had a good time just

511
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: because I was drunk so much, But you were lived

512
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: the whole time because one I was drunk, but two

513
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: I didn't hook up with anybody. I didn't hook up with,

514
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: not one person. I just had a good time because

515
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 1: I was with my friends getting drunk. But as far

516
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 1: as like.

517
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 2: What my expectations were probably higher.

518
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't see and that's I didn't go in

519
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 1: expecting anything.

520
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 2: I did think that I would expect to see like

521
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 2: people I would want to fuck. Yeah, I wasn't smart.

522
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: The only people I wanted to fuck were the people

523
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: that worked there. You can't fuck with people that work.

524
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 1: But we were the best looking people.

525
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 2: There, Bandy and her friends that came lex like.

526
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 1: That was we were the best looking people. It is

527
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: what it is.

528
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 2: So like when you know, for example, you going to

529
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 2: a club, if you and their friends are the best

530
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 2: looking there, would you want to leave or stay there

531
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: for three days? Because there's free book in Jamaica?

532
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: You ready to go? Bitch? I was ready to go.

533
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: But we had fun. We had happy too. We had

534
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 1: fun when we went snorkeling, like when we did the

535
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: Little Adventures.

536
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 2: Oh, I had a great time. That was my favorite day.

537
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: But also like I think the other thing too is

538
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: like I wish I was a little more drunk the

539
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 2: whole time.

540
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: But I don't really.

541
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 2: Vacation like that I get at night or like certain situations.

542
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 2: But also this is very hoity toity me. But if

543
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 2: there's somebody I don't want to funk around.

544
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, get so I could do what I myself?

545
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, trash very.

546
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: I mean people are hitting on you, you know, they're like,

547
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: what's up, how you doing? And they walk around with

548
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 1: they digs out titties.

549
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 2: Now, see, Mocha Fest is going to be different, I'm

550
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 2: sure because there's a younger crowd, right, it's.

551
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: Younger, it's more black, like this was like there's a

552
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: lot of old white dicks. I'm not saying maybe if

553
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 1: there was money, we need to do. That's what I'm saying.

554
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: We need to do a weekend with the bdbs. That'll

555
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: be a different the BDBS, the big the big dick ballers,

556
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: the big dig ballers. Okay, you know now I'm talking. Now,

557
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: tell me some bdbs. Y'all would have seen my whole

558
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: pussy out the whole weekend.

559
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 2: I thought it was no let's just ask just swallows

560
00:25:58,600 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: up every bikini that.

561
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: I souci a pussy was out. You know. Garfield likes

562
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: to make an appearance swallowing up the bikinis.

563
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: All right, all right, okay, but no, I do like

564
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 2: white shit though. I love it so you feel like

565
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 2: you have a good balance, though, bitch, I know I

566
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 2: got a good balance to fuck.

567
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: I mean, yo, I mean you know that, But I

568
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: feel like I just wanted to talk about it because

569
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: I do feel like sometimes like I know you like

570
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: white shit, but I like some white shit too, you

571
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We all like a little we

572
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: all like music, you know certain places, like we all

573
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: like a little white shit. That's all were you brought

574
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: up to like too? Though?

575
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I think I grew up in a white

576
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: neighborhood and went to a white high school. But I mean,

577
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 2: keep in mind is funny because the running joke on

578
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 2: my show is that I fuck white dudes. I haven't

579
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 2: fucked more white guys than black guys. I haven't. Like

580
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: when I started the show, I just happened to be

581
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: dating one. But I mean it was never It's never

582
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 2: a preference for me. It would never be the be

583
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 2: all end all. And I think it's just because I'm

584
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: more like I'll fuck anybody, you know what I'm saying.

585
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: You could throw a Japanese dude my way and I

586
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: might be like.

587
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: No, but I want to.

588
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 2: When I was in Japan, I was on tender like

589
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 2: crazy because like the straight hair guys, like we're kind

590
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 2: of getting to me, and then the junetow from Rush

591
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 2: Hour that nigga was fine, but like, I don't know,

592
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: I just I feel like I'm open to a lot

593
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 2: more shit. But I think the open mindedness is also

594
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: sometimes like immediately white shit, which is cool to me

595
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: because I don't give a fuck. At the end of

596
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 2: the day, I have a lot of range and I'm

597
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 2: happy to show it shit. I was doing my new

598
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 2: podcast the other day and read a comment about how

599
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 2: I was ghetto, and it's funny because across from you know,

600
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 2: my co host who has a super straight voice, Dude,

601
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 2: I'm the hood rade on it. So it's just like,

602
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 2: it's really your demographic because who am I speaking to

603
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 2: on onhore decisions? Black folks, who for the most part

604
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: are fine with me, but some of them will be like,

605
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 2: I'm not black enough for them. Now I'm doing another

606
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 2: podcast it ain't as black, and I'm too much of

607
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 2: a nigga on there. So it's crazy.

608
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: Both of y'all. So I have never had sticks for

609
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: the white dude before.

610
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 3: So would you would you say that black pain is

611
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 3: better than white pen or do you feel like all

612
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 3: pain is equal?

613
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 2: Well, let me let Lex answer.

614
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: I'll answer, I've had sex with a white guy. At

615
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: the end of the day. I told y'all, and I'll

616
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: say this all the time. This is a color's only pussy. Okay,

617
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: this is nigga only pussy period. Okay, I don't yeah,

618
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: I don't dip in the Okay.

619
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: The reason that black men will be better for me,

620
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: you or you is because it's comfortable and it's something

621
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 2: like us. You know what I'm saying. You feel comfortable.

622
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: You're probably using the same verbiage or in sex, so

623
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: you're gonna feel more comfortable and it's what.

624
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: You're used to.

625
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 2: White guys are definitely not better, but they're different and

626
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: exciting way. Like the main thing I think that's the

627
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 2: dopest thing about white dudes is they're so hype to

628
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: fuck you, and like in a way that's like almost

629
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: sit there like, oh my god, Like you're just so

630
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 2: fired to them, you know what I mean.

631
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: And I'm just the thing is, though I don't I

632
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: can't imagine myself having sex with a white man as

633
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: an adult. They're gonna say, yeah, suck that cop. No,

634
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: they won't.

635
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 2: Because I have to be now, I think the white

636
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 2: boy like you have to pick your starter white boy,

637
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 2: so I think it has to.

638
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: Be the white dude, the starter, white boys, the starter.

639
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gotta be like a like a basketball playing

640
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 2: white boy, but that doesn't have a black scent a wig. No, no, no,

641
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 2: no no, because if wigg has a black scent, you

642
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: don't want them to be like to like yeah really

643
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,719
Speaker 2: like I actually do, not like I'd be like if

644
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: I wanted someone that sounded like that not to love,

645
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 2: but I don't like that ship because I feel like

646
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 2: they're trying too hard to be honest. My favorite type

647
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: of white boy is like not like American pie white guy,

648
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 2: like Douche White, but I like like an.

649
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: Artisty white boy, you know what I'm saying. That'd be

650
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: like kind of free love, maybe like a man, butN

651
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: like John Mayer.

652
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they'd be like, no, I do see color,

653
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 2: and I acknowledge your pain, like I'm not even I.

654
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: Hate that.

655
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 2: I didn't vote for him.

656
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: They love to tell me that.

657
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: No, I'm totally liberal as fuck, man, I'm liberal as man.

658
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: Love your brains, Love your brains.

659
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: Yo? Did you hear that? Did you get that in there?

660
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: Did you hear that new bab album fire.

661
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: No, they'd be like, yo, my ex Chandra, Yeah you

662
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 2: heard me. I mean also, sometimes it feels like you're

663
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 2: doing something bad that's fucked up to say.

664
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 1: But for both, yeah, I figured, and honestly, I'm not

665
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I feel like a lot of times people

666
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: put pressure on white men and be like, oh, you're

667
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: fucking with black women because it's a fetish. But I

668
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of black women have a fetish

669
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: for white women.

670
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 3: I do feel like they have a fetish because I

671
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 3: have dated a white guy before. I didn't have sex

672
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: with him, but we were talking for a little while,

673
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 3: and I talked about these on the show before, and

674
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 3: that situation just scorned me completely. I think that why

675
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 3: I haven't because girl, he left me strandy. We're not

676
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 3: strandy because I was able to pay to get back

677
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 3: to Houston. But he left me in Miami.

678
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: Because I wouldn't give him no pussy, wanted to pink cock.

679
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: It was so trifling. I was like, what the fuck?

680
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: He was so mad and he didn't even say nothing.

681
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: He just loves see. You had a bad one. I

682
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: had a bad experience.

683
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think I'm just But first, first you

684
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: go to I tell all my friends Billy, Okay, Billy's

685
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 2: too that's too white of a name.

686
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 4: You gotta go.

687
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: You gotta get them there with like a cool name

688
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 2: like Jasper.

689
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: Oh that's spicy, you know.

690
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 2: Then it it's like a sugar daddy white. It's gonna

691
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 2: be greg.

692
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: Well.

693
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, though, you have to find the type

694
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 2: of white celebrity you're into, and then you know your

695
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: white guy type she needs to.

696
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: Go for, like chat Hanks, that's her. That's her.

697
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 2: So you want them to have a black she want

698
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 2: a wigger. He's funny though, That's the one thing.

699
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: Maybe he's just a lot of these dms and he

700
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: like them. He like them. Chocolate girl.

701
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: I had one white boy say something to me that

702
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: I thought was like it's like is he It was

703
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 2: funny as fuck. So he was a comedian and we

704
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 2: were out and uh something happened. Oh it started raining

705
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: right and I was like, oh, call the uber. He

706
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 2: was like, okay, I got you.

707
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: He was like I get it.

708
00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: I already saw the track, so I know.

709
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: No, he didn't say that's why I would be borderline,

710
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: but like, ha ha, but if a white man said

711
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: I'd be liked by that guy when he said the

712
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: show hair, he was like, oh, black women don't usually

713
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: look that good.

714
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 3: When yeah, you got offended. But I feel like if

715
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,719
Speaker 3: a black dude would have said that, you probably wouldn't

716
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 3: have been as nah.

717
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 2: If a black dude would have said black black girls

718
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: don't look good for red hair, you'd have felt weird too, right.

719
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 2: I think I think I would have felt weird because

720
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 2: it would feel like how you say, like gods be like, oh,

721
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: you're pretty for a dark skinned girl, and now that's

722
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 2: too much.

723
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: That's too much. But I mean, black men have told

724
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: her that before, So I don't like compliments like that.

725
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 1: I feel like, just compliment me and leave it at that.

726
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: You know, when you mentioned the you look good for

727
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 2: a dark skinned girl thing that black men have said

728
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 2: that the number one thing that I hear about, like oh,

729
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 2: like you're just dark enough, like I like girls fucking

730
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 2: with girls your colors from black men. White boys ought

731
00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: to be.

732
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: Like that, Oh yeah, say stuff like now I'm not

733
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: gonna lie. In high school, I experience that a lot

734
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: of people will be like, oh, you're pretty for a

735
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: black girl. You're the prettiest black girl I've ever known.

736
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: But I grew up in a super super country town,

737
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: super racist, like, and then it's weird.

738
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 3: It's almost like they have to validate being attracted to

739
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 3: you for themselves. I guess absolutely take it a step

740
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 3: further and say things like, oh, yeah, you don't have

741
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 3: typical black features, Like what the fuck is that?

742
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 2: Because because blackness is not conventional beauty to anybody else.

743
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 2: Sometimes even black men look at the black men that

744
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 2: like get rich and start dating white girls and think

745
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:35,919
Speaker 2: they were the baddest bitch.

746
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: It's because that's what they thought conventional beauty was.

747
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 2: Think about. I don't know if this happened to y'all,

748
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 2: but when I was growing up, I think the reason

749
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: I had a hair or like identity crisis was because

750
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 2: I was watching MTV or watching these girls, or thinking

751
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 2: the most popular girl in my school look like this.

752
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 2: So maybe that's why I'm not pretty enough, like I

753
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: had those things happen to me. But black men do

754
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 2: that too. Black women do it to each other.

755
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, we really do, We really really do. I'll have

756
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: to agree with you. I feel like a lot of

757
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: times that's why, you know, a lot of black women,

758
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: they get in the industry and they start getting their

759
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: like nose done. They start doing this and start doing

760
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 1: that to their face because it's like you go on

761
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 1: the comments, like there's certain people that get posted like

762
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: on the Shade Room and stuff like that. You go

763
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: to the comments and that's a black blog and you

764
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: see all these black people like, damn, that's a bell

765
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: pepper on their face. Oh god, damn. That shit hurts

766
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 1: my feelings so much. I've seen it the only times

767
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: me it's me.

768
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 3: Too.

769
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,879
Speaker 2: I would at least do it in my group chat

770
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 2: like it's so tacky like, but not even that. I

771
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 2: think the people the nose thing to me. So I

772
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: only like to talk about in appearance when I feel

773
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 2: like it's something that can lead it's your clothes or

774
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 2: it's something else, because when it's there, something you can change.

775
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: Because I think when it's something that black people are

776
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 2: known for being talked about, lips, all of these things,

777
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: wide hips and now everybody wants to those same things.

778
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 2: I just don't find it conducive to like tear another

779
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 2: black person down talking about those things that white people

780
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 2: should on all those times I'm gonna talk about your ass.

781
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: I feel period. Not then okay, y'all they invented the

782
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: news job bro. Okay, so we're gonna get into the

783
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: next topic. But before we get into that, I'm gonna

784
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: do my little item of the week. Now, y'all know

785
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: I got three dollars personsual, but with this Current app.

786
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all, download the Current app, and you

787
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: can spend more money than your three dollars because it

788
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: lets you overdraft one hundred dollars and you don't get

789
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 1: charged for it. So Current is a mobile bank with

790
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: a visa debit card and you get paid up to

791
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 1: two days faster, and it gives you an overdraft fee,

792
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: like I said, of one hundred dollars, So if you

793
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: got three dollars, you really got a hundred and three dollars. Okay.

794
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: So you can use it for free with fifty five

795
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: thousand ATMs, and even if you're under eighteen you can

796
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: still use this. It's better than all the other apps.

797
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: You can send people money, get money from your babb's,

798
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: all that stuff like that. And this is a real

799
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: bank account, so you get a card and everything. You

800
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: could put it on your PayPal account whatever you want

801
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 1: to do. But basically, just download this and use the

802
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: cold poor minds and you're gonna get all your shit.

803
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: Just remember this is good for college students because I

804
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: know y'all be hungry trying to go out to eat,

805
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: and you ain't got enough money in your account. So

806
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 1: download the current app and you're gonna be good to go.

807
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean, but it is a good app though

808
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 3: it is it is, I mean, but hopefully they don't

809
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: be like you and use their overdraft protection to go. Oh,

810
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 3: I'm gonna use that overdraft I got So I got

811
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,959
Speaker 3: my twelve hundred dollar stimulus check and the shoes.

812
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: I wanted was thirteen hundred dollars. So with my current app,

813
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: I was able to get the shoes. It was in

814
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: the negative one hundred dollars if I didn't get Josh

815
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:53,879
Speaker 1: the goddamn thing.

816
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 2: Listen, I can't believe how many motherfuckers were just finish

817
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: shit with this fucking stimulus check.

818
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, babe, it's gonna be broke again. I feel off.

819
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: Amazon spiked traffic the day that the first round of

820
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: checks came out by twenty nine percent.

821
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 2: Bitch, twenty nine percent.

822
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 1: Now what do you have to get? Did you see

823
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: this thing about to be a trillionaire? Oh?

824
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, people are mad, but I'll be on there of day.

825
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:22,320
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna get into the bait a the

826
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: b a a Okay, So I'm really excited to talk

827
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: about it, about these tips. Why I specifically waited to

828
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 1: talk about this threesomes, No, because we talked about threesomes.

829
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: This is it's kind of but you know, it's kind

830
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: of like three songs, but it's different because you were

831
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: in a throttle before. Oh see, that's different. Though. It

832
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 1: is different because it's different like laying down and fucking

833
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: having threesomes. And we know, we know you love a

834
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: good threesome, but.

835
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 2: She has never been.

836
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: Sorry, I actually apparently I know, bitch, and I don't

837
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: know you, so you must she loved to do three

838
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: some honey, don't let hell lot of you. No, I

839
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: really don't, y'all, girl, really don't. I don't know. Well,

840
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: I mean as long as the day mammy we had

841
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: a com We told this story before, but just loves

842
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: to be She's a creep like me and the dude

843
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: I was fucking with one time, like she forced us

844
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: to want to force us. Let me not use that

845
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: word because that seems a little weird, but she does

846
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: because you wanted to that nigga did Let's not do this.

847
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: She was like, can y'all have? She was excited. She

848
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 1: was like, so, dress laying in the bed, dress laying

849
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: in the bed, and I'm sucking my nigga. Yo, this

850
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:40,839
Speaker 1: is a theme.

851
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 2: Everybody says, I'm just grabbing wine too, because y'all drinking.

852
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 2: Everybody says, you're very directive.

853
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: She is like, wh she get that liquor in and

854
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: she was like, le you just suck his dick. I'm like, what,

855
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm a director. I should be like a foreign director.

856
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: You would be actually a fun job.

857
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: Okay. So anyways, were gonna get into it's hard doing

858
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: podcasts with friends because y'all just start talking. Anyways, So

859
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: we want to talk about actually being a relationship with

860
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: a guy and a girl. Yeah, so I don't even

861
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: know what.

862
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 2: Can y'all hear me because it's raining really hard?

863
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can hear the rain, but I can hear you. Yeah,

864
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: we can hear you.

865
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let me gets too much another room.

866
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, So, how is it being in sexual relationship

867
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: with a man and a woman because you identify what

868
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: as bisexual? Straight? What's what is it Okay, y'all, my bad.

869
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: We have a little technical technical difficulties. Y'all know, we

870
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: real ghetto over here. I mean, it's okay. We was

871
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 1: getting off topic anyway, So we want to talk about

872
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,800
Speaker 1: thrupples and how is it being in a relationship with

873
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: a man and a woman. So it's real emotional because

874
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: it's two bitches.

875
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 2: I wanted to try it because I'm bisexual, right, so

876
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: I felt like, okay, this has gotta be it. Like

877
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 2: I genuinely feel like when I'm dating a guy, like

878
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 2: sometimes not something's missing, but I think about women a lot, and.

879
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: So you like that kuchio girl, I do, but also.

880
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 2: Like feelings, you know what I'm saying, Like it's not

881
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 2: just pussy, Like I like having that close connection to

882
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 2: a woman. So at the time I started dating a

883
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 2: girl that I was dating like years ago, like seven

884
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 2: years ago, scissors. So we started seeing each other again.

885
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 2: But I knew I couldn't just be with her and

886
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 2: it wasn't like it was her fall. I just wanted

887
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: to also fuck niggas, right, But she is definitely more

888
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 2: of an emotional and emotionally intune person I think that

889
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 2: I am. So I was like I know it'll be great.

890
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 2: Instead of just fucking niggas together, let's have a boyfriend.

891
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 2: And that was my idea, and it honestly went well.

892
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: It just wasn't.

893
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 2: Realistic because we weren't all in the same place. I

894
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 2: feel like we were all in the same city, it

895
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 2: would have been lit. But to me, some of the

896
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 2: best parts of it. Like, I'm not a very jealous

897
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 2: person when it comes to that.

898
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: See, that's all I was about to say, because I

899
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: get jealous you start spending too much time with the other. Bitch,

900
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: I'm be like, what about me?

901
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 3: I guess because I like women too, I wouldn't give

902
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 3: jellius about something.

903
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: But this is not sex. This is a relationship.

904
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 3: I mean, yes, I don't think that I could be

905
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 3: in a relationship with a man and a woman, but

906
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 3: I think if I was, I would not get jellous.

907
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: See I could be a relationship with two niggas.

908
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 2: Fine, bitch, I would love that today.

909
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Absolutely, I told you my

910
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: y'all all fucking together. Well, I meanship. I mean I

911
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: don't want I wouldn't want them to fuck each other,

912
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: but if they did, I wouldn't I mean fucking He

913
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 1: got good digging. If you want to try, why not?

914
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,399
Speaker 2: I mean, just second a little bit, so I ain't

915
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 2: got to do it today.

916
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: Like it was.

917
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 2: I mean for me, the jealousy part I think most

918
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 2: people feel is how who feels stronger about the other one?

919
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 2: How does one person feel about this way? And are

920
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: you going to spend more time with that person? So

921
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: those things for me were automatically kind of eliminated because

922
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 2: I brought the two together. Now immediately they liked each other,

923
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 2: which was great. He felt like she definitely needed was

924
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 2: the one that needed to feel the most included, because

925
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 2: he was like, I feel like you and I have

926
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 2: had a relationship before you and her and have a

927
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 2: relationship before you guys have the longest one. She probably

928
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 2: feels like what the fuck? So you made sure to

929
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 2: do that and he was really good at it. I

930
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 2: will say this other thing, Her and I will fight

931
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: a lot also because we were also very close friends,

932
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 2: like sometimes we get bitchy with each other, and he

933
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 2: was a very good mediator.

934
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 1: Oh okay, because people like two bitches. I'll because if

935
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: both these bitches fight and I get fucked today.

936
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 2: So we got to fight in a car and we

937
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 2: get home and he was sitting I remember her barstool.

938
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 2: I'm on the couch, she's on the chair, and he's like, okay,

939
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 2: we will start with you. I felt like it was

940
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: very tense for a moment. When we got in the car.

941
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 2: Let's hear what happened.

942
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 1: I'd be like, bit, that would be me. Yeah, But

943
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. Every single time y'all had sex,

944
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: it had to be the three of y'all.

945
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 2: No, we would do it when she was sleeping, they

946
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 2: would do when I was sleeping.

947
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 3: Would she get would'all would she get mad? Because obviously

948
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 3: you didn't get mad.

949
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going if I if I hear some

950
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: some mac and cheese in the next room and I'm

951
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: not in now, But like, what the fuck.

952
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 2: These niggas doing bro thresouldn't hear?

953
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: Like? How tired?

954
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 2: Did three sims make you? Think about it? You ain't

955
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 2: never had the three some You'd be like, I hope

956
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 2: this nigga w't want to fuck again. You wouldn't be

957
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 2: happy if you do make you tired, it's make she tired.

958
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 1: I think you know too. You know what, sorry, girl,

959
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: we just be arguing in the middle of don't pay

960
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: attention to it's very horrible decisions. Wait a minute, now,

961
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: talk about it. You wouldn't know, I say, you would know. No,

962
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: I said, wait a minute, easy, and you would be

963
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 1: interested to know late threesome story anyways, Wait, you never

964
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 1: told it. There's nothing to tell. It was with a

965
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: white couple, and Dre just loves to put that out there.

966
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: I had a three some with a white couple a

967
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: long time ago. I was like twenty twenty one, and

968
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: she just loves that you have sex with a cracker.

969
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 1: She likes to bring it up every chance she gets.

970
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: There's really no story to it. I mean loves to

971
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 1: bring it up. This is the first time I ever

972
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: brought it up.

973
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 2: You remember we had text with that black girl.

974
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 1: They talk about you too, bitch. No, y'all, y'all would

975
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: have sex outside of the threesomes.

976
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean mainly obviously the threesome was the

977
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 2: exciting part. And they're like both I was both very

978
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 2: attractive to them. But the thing for me that was

979
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 2: important is like not to get an email, but I

980
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: feel like sharing my space with someone that has to

981
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 2: be really strong chemist three and we have to really

982
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 2: be in tune with each other, and so they just

983
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 2: at the time were the two people I was closest to,

984
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 2: more so her, But I wanted to share that, like

985
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 2: I felt like I made love with her, like I

986
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:12,760
Speaker 2: wanted us to a dog.

987
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: I wanted in the threesome.

988
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,399
Speaker 2: Though, I feel like all the threesomes I had were

989
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 2: so frivolous and so it kind of was just like whatever,

990
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 2: Like I could fuck this nik about myself, I wanted

991
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: this bitch, woll fuck me if I wanted. So it's

992
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: the point, Like, but it's really two people that I

993
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 2: genuinely wanted to fuck that I had a good time with.

994
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 2: It was just more to the sex. I have sex

995
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 2: with one person like that, it's always meaningful. So why

996
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 2: wasn't I having meaningful threesomes? That's why I really wanted

997
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 2: to throuble. In the end, I realize now, like the

998
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 2: person that I'm dating, he's like, nah, we can't.

999
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: Have we could fuck with just this is actually funny

1000
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: because the most threesomes that I've ever had but with

1001
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 1: this person, but with your boyfriend now, yeah, but they

1002
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: are not at all emotional anything.

1003
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 2: Right, that's more for us, which I'm actually okay with because.

1004
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna say. But do you miss like

1005
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: the emotional connection that you have with women when you're

1006
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: when you're dating a guy.

1007
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 2: Hmmm, I normally I do right now, No, But I

1008
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 2: think it's because I was always about her, like.

1009
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: It was her she got that good good.

1010
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 2: I have been making that I was in love with her,

1011
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 2: that we were very in love with each other, Like.

1012
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh I remember, says you know, I listened to the

1013
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: show girl.

1014
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 2: I just talked to her this morning.

1015
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: You know.

1016
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 2: It's crazy because she's saying, somebody new now and she's like,

1017
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 2: you know, I have to realize that, like you're my

1018
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: ex and you and I aren't talking like exes because

1019
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 2: we just jumped into friendship again. And she's like, but

1020
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 2: for somebody else, they're like, what the fuck is which

1021
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 2: is hitting? You have eleven o'clock at night to talk

1022
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 2: ship for at your ex and we don't treat each

1023
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 2: other like that?

1024
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: You know, you know I actually have that's beautiful though

1025
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: they have a good relationship.

1026
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 2: But to somebody else, how would it make you?

1027
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, because I'm thinking that beautiful for

1028
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: y'all before and we're not cool, no, mo, like we

1029
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: tried to be cool after, like when we first broke up.

1030
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: But but I'm saying that's beautiful for in the girl.

1031
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: But if I was weezy nigga, I'd be like, why

1032
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: you can't talk to me? What the fuck y'all got

1033
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: to talk about? He's yeah a man, you would be jealous.

1034
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: I would be, girlfriend, I'm gonna be jealous of anybody

1035
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: that's the ex that you're talking to while you talking

1036
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: to your eggs? Yeah, why are you talking to your eggs?

1037
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess because I'm not really jealous

1038
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 1: when it be coming to my relationships.

1039
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 2: Okay, a lot of men feel that way because they

1040
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,879
Speaker 2: feel like women can never Oh, well, she's not a man,

1041
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 2: so and like the.

1042
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: Bullshit of that is.

1043
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 2: I've definitely felt deeper for her than a lot of

1044
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 2: men that I've dated. But a lot of men feel

1045
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: like that though they feel like she doesn't have what

1046
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 2: I have, so in their head they don't equate it

1047
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 2: to the same as an ex. Right, Like, I hadn't

1048
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 2: been word and this is not him at always. He's

1049
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 2: a very secure person. But other niggas in the past

1050
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 2: would see me talking to scissors.

1051
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: And feel nothing when the and and everything for an

1052
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend that hit me up when really the strongest

1053
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: connection I had with her.

1054
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 2: I mean, we know that now because I ended up

1055
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 2: her game years down the road.

1056
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 1: Right, So do you think would your boo get mad

1057
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: if like you had sex with her like without him yesterday? Look, spillty,

1058
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 1: what do you think?

1059
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 2: I feel like no, the energy I got was no.

1060
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 2: But I also think that's because the foundation that I

1061
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 2: have now is very strong, like more so than I've

1062
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 2: had in the past.

1063
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: Like, bitch, you in love? Yeah you are not even that,

1064
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: but like I get what I.

1065
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 2: Have going like you know, I'm not when I was

1066
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 2: younger or maybe like just not as secure, Like I

1067
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 2: feel like I would see a bitch text.

1068
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: And be like, what the f you want? You know

1069
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: what I mean?

1070
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 2: But now it's like the bitch I ain't mean, Like

1071
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 2: I know she got we got going on, so I

1072
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 2: don't really care.

1073
00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: I know, that's right.

1074
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 2: The main that I just don't stand for, I don't

1075
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 2: like lying shit to me. When things are deceitful and

1076
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 2: you're hiding something, that's when it must mean more. But

1077
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 2: if you ain't lying, what do I give a fuck? Right? Okay,

1078
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 2: but that's also not for everybody. I like it.

1079
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I'm too jealous. I do not. If

1080
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: I hear you munched on that kouchie, you didn't eat

1081
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: my coochie today, I'm like, well, why you ain't eat

1082
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: my pussy? I don't give a damn if I'm on

1083
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: my parent nobody. That's because, Okay, a lot of my

1084
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,839
Speaker 1: friends that say that, remember I was in love with her.

1085
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 2: So if you really care about somebody like that, you.

1086
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna act like that.

1087
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 2: Right, Right, you had three with a bitch, and maybe

1088
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 2: y'all are cool, but it's not you being that invested.

1089
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: You would feel like that, and I think I would too, right,

1090
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: I remember acting up about a three someome that the

1091
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: nigga fell asleep, and I'm like, wow, you couldn't live

1092
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:53,959
Speaker 1: with the bitch I'm dead.

1093
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 2: Maybe he didn't remember, like, maybe he didn't realize it,

1094
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 2: maybe he was lit, but like, that's how I took it. Now,

1095
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: if it was her, what I felt like that? Oh no,

1096
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 2: because I'm so invested in this person. I think that

1097
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 2: thruffles could only work for everybody to be that deep

1098
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 2: with each other. No, did you not get like that

1099
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 2: about women?

1100
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: I know I absolutely I had a girlfriend, did you No,

1101
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm talking about now. You do not like bitchies. You

1102
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: can't even be Drea friend for two weeks. She could

1103
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 1: be like, she get on my nerves. I don't exactly exactly.

1104
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 1: Very easily she'd be like, I don't like people really easy.

1105
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: I think sometimes dominant fems, not dominant women, but dominant

1106
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 2: feminine women, like they have a hard time getting invested

1107
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 2: with girls emotionally because that is hard for.

1108
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: Me to be. It's hard for you to be invested

1109
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 1: emotionally with a dude.

1110
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 3: It's hard for me to be invested emotionally with the

1111
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 3: dude or a woman. But I feel like with women absolutely,

1112
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 3: and I feel like way That's why I really don't

1113
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 3: be liking it to get deep between me and a woman.

1114
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 3: But that's inevitable if you fucking a woman. That's why

1115
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 3: I think, now I try not to fuck with me,

1116
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 3: You ain't trying to try not to, Yeah, I do.

1117
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:17,360
Speaker 3: I'll be trying to tempted. The devil will be on

1118
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 3: my shoulder.

1119
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 1: Okaya, okay exactly, But I feel and I felt bad

1120
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: afterwards I did anyway.

1121
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 3: Because I just have had terrible experiences in the past

1122
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 3: with fucking with women, like they just always get too

1123
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 3: emotionally invested, and it's like I don't.

1124
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 1: Feel that way.

1125
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 3: So then it starts to get awkward and it starts

1126
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 3: to be like a weird thing because I don't feel

1127
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 3: how they feel and they think I'm being a bitch

1128
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 3: or I'm being But.

1129
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,800
Speaker 2: You know what, as women were way too passive about

1130
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 2: what we want for some reason with other women, like

1131
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 2: we think we're gonna hurt their feelings, and I think

1132
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 2: other women would love that shit, you think, like I

1133
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 2: really do. I think if you're just up front and honest, that's.

1134
00:52:58,080 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: What we want men to do.

1135
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 2: But we don't do it to each other, right, that's

1136
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 2: just weird. So it's like if I'm just like this,

1137
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 2: I don't really know about one girlfriend, but I want

1138
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 2: to fuck, and they'd be like, Okay, I get it.

1139
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: If only a nigga could say that to me, right,

1140
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: because niggas ain't gonna say no because they were trying

1141
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: to get to the pussy. Niggas will say.

1142
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 3: But I feel like for a nigga to say some

1143
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 3: shit like that about you, he like doesn't care about

1144
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 3: you at all, not even one ounce.

1145
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's true. I mean, I got

1146
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 2: a whole last nigga with the motherfucker that said to

1147
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: me when I said, what are you looking for?

1148
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 1: I ain't really looking for nothing. But if it happens,

1149
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: it happens.

1150
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 3: But I feel like, but that's how he felt in

1151
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 3: the beginning, and that's because he didn't care, but then

1152
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 3: he grew feelings over time.

1153
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 2: That's a fair point.

1154
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: Well, let us know how y'all feel about throuffles and

1155
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: would you be in a relationship you know, which.

1156
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 2: Are so popular now. Brother they have one on like

1157
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 2: property Brothers that.

1158
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the bop A the Bye.

1159
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: So the bop other week is just the song that

1160
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: we've been listening to this week that we've been jamming to.

1161
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: We just like to talk music for a little bit,

1162
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: just so you know. We don't only suck dick and

1163
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: talk about eating pussy over here. So majority of the

1164
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,879
Speaker 1: time we do, but not all the So my bop

1165
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:13,240
Speaker 1: of the week, the first one is from Chloe and Hallie.

1166
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: If y'all don't know who they are, these are Beyonce's artists.

1167
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 1: She signed them. I want to say about two or

1168
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,439
Speaker 1: three years ago and to me, up to this point,

1169
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,920
Speaker 1: they haven't really had that song that just got me

1170
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: into them. I don't know any so, I don't really

1171
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,320
Speaker 1: know any until they released a song called do It

1172
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: and I think it's so cute. Yeah, it's called do

1173
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 1: It by Chloe and Hallie. I feel like it's more

1174
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: of their image, like it's kind of like a little

1175
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: risk for them, but it's not too risk. It's still

1176
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: like a little girl like they still look like innocent

1177
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: girls in the song. So that's my boy. I don't

1178
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: know about because I don't know about what. What's the

1179
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: one name nathik One? I don't know about her now. No,

1180
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. If you watch the video, you

1181
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 1: can definitely see her twerking and getting down and doing

1182
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: what she gotta do. But I feel like Beyonce really

1183
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: has she got something with these two girls. I really

1184
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: feel like they are stars and they're all right, they're

1185
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: super talented. So that's my bob of the week. I

1186
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: think it's dope and I love them.

1187
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 2: Okay, what's yours?

1188
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: So lex y'all know LyX affectionately loves to call me ghetto.

1189
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 3: So future album just so I like Solitaires. I was

1190
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 3: telling her. It's literally like, I'm not gonna lie. I

1191
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 3: used to be a huge Future fan. I feel like

1192
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 3: I used to feel like you could listen to his

1193
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: albums all the way through without skipping the song. This

1194
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 3: album not so much for me. It's only about three

1195
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 3: songs on here that I really just fuck with. Solitaires

1196
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 3: is a good song. I like, too Comfortable, and then

1197
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 3: I also like accepting my flaws. But then also, you know,

1198
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 3: it's a few other songs on here that have already

1199
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 3: came out of the singles, But those are the only

1200
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 3: three songs that I really like that came my futurehead.

1201
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I was.

1202
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 2: I woke up happy and I was like this I

1203
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 2: want I just wanted to get.

1204
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did so. I wanted some shit remember his

1205
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: Magic Air Feast Chin and.

1206
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 2: Not the parking lot leave and that, Like that's the

1207
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:13,399
Speaker 2: vibe that niggas in New York do not know that song.

1208
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: See I am ghetto too, I know, we see, we

1209
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,240
Speaker 1: know the team West. My nigga think I'm so Bama,

1210
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 1: which is hilarious because y'all see him like are you

1211
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: the white one? I'm like yes and no, no, you

1212
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,360
Speaker 1: a balance. You a good So what do you What

1213
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 1: have you been listening to? Because you have a good

1214
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: taste in music, I will say when I be watching

1215
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: little posts and stuff, I remember, this is a very

1216
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: random thing to say about you.

1217
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:41,839
Speaker 2: Bodydo that's the one you're coming?

1218
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: Yes, that's the one. But the first time I ever

1219
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: heard Oceanized by Billy Yes, it was because you posted

1220
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:50,839
Speaker 1: on your story. I was like, damn, this whole fun

1221
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 1: I said, Okay, I like Little Wee, I love it

1222
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: like that?

1223
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah too, if you want an older one. It's

1224
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 2: called too Fast by Sounder. A lot of people don't know,

1225
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: but Brent Faiaz has a group called Sonder that's okay,

1226
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 2: are so it's all his voice, but too Fast is

1227
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: lit and then there's a black dude this thing this

1228
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 2: but it's kind of whitish vibe. But I like alternative

1229
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 2: R and B. It's called dark Red by Steve Lacy. Okay,

1230
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 2: I like like guitars and shit and like, you know,

1231
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 2: drums and I do.

1232
00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: I think you have a You probably have a really

1233
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: good playlist because I think we kind of like the

1234
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,919
Speaker 1: same type of music like that. I have a whole

1235
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: playlist of like songs that were like on Grey's Anatomy

1236
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: and it's very alternative and it's so good. I'm gonna

1237
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: have to send it to you.

1238
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 2: But I like ship, like obviously turn out my workout ship.

1239
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 2: But I like to listen to music in the house.

1240
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 2: And sometimes I used to listen to stuff that I

1241
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 2: would listen to on the radio and I'd be like,

1242
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 2: does she give me too lit?

1243
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, so sometimes you just want to chill, have some wine, right,

1244
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 1: you want to time in my feelings, I listen to

1245
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: the Gray's Anatomy playlist. It's so good. So yeah, shout

1246
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: out to our box of the week. So now we're

1247
00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: gonna get into the questions this week. Make sure if

1248
00:57:59,920 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: you want your question answered on the show, you email

1249
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: us at Askpoorminds at gmail dot com. That's askpou are

1250
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: in my nds at gmail dot com. Okay, so I'm

1251
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,959
Speaker 1: gonna read the first one. It says, Hey, ladies, please

1252
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: keep me anonymous. How do you properly friend zone a

1253
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: nigga that you would still like to hang out with?

1254
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: This nigga wants me to be his girlfriend so bad

1255
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 1: and invites me out a lot, and every time I

1256
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: meet him somewhere he is surrounded by bdbs. I feel

1257
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: like they have more money than him, which makes me

1258
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: less interested in him and more interested in the guys

1259
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: I meet through him. The guy that likes me is

1260
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: very possessive towards me and really tells people that I'm

1261
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: his girlfriend and I am not, and never anything to

1262
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: make him feel like I never did anything to make

1263
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 1: him feel like I'm interested. When he sees me talking

1264
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:51,919
Speaker 1: to other niggas, he will get bothered and will even

1265
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: interrupt the conversation. I want him to continue to invite

1266
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: me places so I can keep adding bdbs to my roster,

1267
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: but I need to let the nigga that invite me

1268
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 1: to chill the fuck out and be okay with me

1269
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: doing me because niggas still try to talk to me,

1270
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: but it's just awkward because he'd be acting crazy. What

1271
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 1: should I do to keep this nigga around and get

1272
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: him to be okay with being strictly platonic friends of

1273
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: mine so I can continue to meet more niggas through him. Okay, Well,

1274
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 1: we gonna let you answer first.

1275
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 2: You did I tell you this girl was me? Like

1276
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 2: maybe last year, same time I was dating this dude

1277
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 2: and it was great, and I had fun with him,

1278
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 2: but then I started realizing how broke he was by

1279
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 2: his other friends. Oh shit, Now the friend zone thing,

1280
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you. I've been keeping it a hundred recently,

1281
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 2: and I think that it's really important to do this

1282
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 2: because I think people get the hint. First of all,

1283
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 2: you can't tell them that you don't want it to

1284
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 2: be a commitment thing, because if you end up having

1285
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 2: a boyfriend later, they're gonna be like, I thought you

1286
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 2: didn't want a nigga, So you gotta be like, you

1287
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 2: know what, I think a lot. I've been thinking a

1288
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 2: lot about you and I and like, you know, the

1289
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 2: different words you use about dating me and I really

1290
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 2: don't think we're compatible. There's a lot of things like

1291
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: you have to tell people that because then they definitely

1292
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 2: get the hint, especially when you tell someone that they're

1293
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 2: not for you, be like, we're not compatible, Like there

1294
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 2: are certain aspects of how we get on together that

1295
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm just not interested in. There's certain things about our dynamic.

1296
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 2: You don't have to tell me them our dynamic that

1297
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 2: I don't like. Now, whether you need to explain that

1298
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 2: or not, probably like I didn't. It depends how much

1299
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 2: you feel like you owe the nigga. You know what

1300
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying, But telling someone that you're not compatible or

1301
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: you don't feel that they're compatible with you and you

1302
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: don't like the dynamic they get the hint. You can't

1303
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,959
Speaker 2: tell a niggas commitment because people say I'm not ready

1304
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 2: for that as a way to push someone away. And

1305
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 2: then what really happens is when you are ready for something,

1306
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 2: you don't realize they've been waiting to hang it on.

1307
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 2: Oh you ain't ready now, I'll just give her.

1308
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 1: Time, right exactly.

1309
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 3: My thing is I just feel like she has to

1310
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 3: understand that if she's gonna tell these guy like, oh,

1311
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 3: I'm not really interested in you like they.

1312
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: He ain't about to invite you out no more. That's why.

1313
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: And that's my thing, you know what I mean.

1314
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, you think you're about to tell him, oh,

1315
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 3: I don't want to fuck with you like that, I'm

1316
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 3: not interested and he's still gonna invite you out, so

1317
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 3: you could.

1318
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 2: It's his girlfriends, right exactly.

1319
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 3: So it's just I mean, well, no, I don't know,

1320
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 3: because you know, niggas gonna be really giving the fuzz,

1321
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 3: and that's and that's what I'll be giving the.

1322
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: Niggas. Oh yeah, that's my beach, that's my shoty.

1323
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 3: I'm I'm fucking with her, But them niggas might see

1324
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 3: that be should be like damn that beach bad and

1325
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 3: still try to fuck with her behind the big You

1326
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 3: know how niggas get down.

1327
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 1: I mean, it depends what you want. And that's what

1328
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: I said. You can't find them on Instagram. Well, I

1329
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: don't think she wants no, No, she doesn't want to

1330
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 1: being BDB. She want their papers, so obviously he's bringing

1331
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: her around rich men and man and half things. This

1332
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 1: is my This is how I feel you should go

1333
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 1: about it. Now. It's probably not the best way, but

1334
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: I feel like this is keep it cool and keep

1335
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,480
Speaker 1: it cute until you find your BDB, and then once

1336
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: you get your BDB, then you can tell them like,

1337
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 1: oh look, this is because honestly, I feel like, Okay,

1338
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: he's not gonna invite you anywhere, no more or so

1339
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: if you tell him now, you're not gonna get invited anywhere.

1340
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: So she can't well obviously not. She's saying that she

1341
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: still wants to be invited and going out with him.

1342
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: So it's like if you still want to be invited

1343
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 1: to these exclusive parties or whatever you're going to. Sometimes

1344
01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: you gotta do what you gotta do to get to

1345
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 1: get into places you want to get into, you know

1346
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1347
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 2: But it depends how hard he claiming her right, because

1348
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 2: but does it. It's unbearable if I'm like, it's one

1349
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 2: thing to go to a party, but if you had

1350
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 2: a fucking party like that with someone you gonna be with, Like,

1351
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 2: come on now, I had a sugar chatty. This is

1352
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 2: like teny years ago.

1353
01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 1: M H. White dude.

1354
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 2: But one of his clients was a rapper and he

1355
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 2: was like, Hey, we're gonna go to Miami for the weekend.

1356
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 2: He was surprising me by taking me to his fucking

1357
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 2: rapper party, and I was like, oh no, no. I

1358
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 2: was like, I don't know if I'm ready for this.

1359
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 2: I really don't want to, like I want to go,

1360
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 2: and I knew he was probably like, she don't want

1361
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 2: to be seen with me, but I didn't want to

1362
01:02:58,440 --> 01:02:58,919
Speaker 2: say nothing.

1363
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 1: Bitch. We get there, he's looking at me. Oh so

1364
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, you know what I'm saying,

1365
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: Because he's trying to hold my hand like this song all,

1366
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: I am dead. I am really dead. Now. I'm sure

1367
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: this isn't your case. You probably like hanging with the

1368
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: dude you fuck them.

1369
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 2: But I don't know when I don't want to be

1370
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 2: in somebody's company like bitches, it takes vacations with niggas

1371
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 2: that they don't want to be like around.

1372
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't understand. I feel like heartbeat. I feel like, sis,

1373
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 1: get you a BDB at the next party, and you're

1374
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 1: just gonna have to be done with him. Go go

1375
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 1: and get your BDB and just tell him straight up.

1376
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 1: But just know that once you tell him that you're

1377
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: not that you don't want to be with him like that,

1378
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: and y'all you just want to be friends. He's not

1379
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 1: inviting you nowhere, So make sure you just get what

1380
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: you want from the situation. As far as snagging you

1381
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: a bed.

1382
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 2: Because he feels like he's able to show you off

1383
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 2: of exactly getting from it, I feel like, oh, I'm

1384
01:03:56,600 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 2: sorry if he feels like he in my opinion, if

1385
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 2: he's not getting something from it, like well, I mean,

1386
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:05,439
Speaker 2: she don't want to be with me. Are you still

1387
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 2: gonna give pussy? Maybe if you still giving pussy, he'll

1388
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 2: take you, and I.

1389
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 3: Was just gonna say, I just feel like she gotta

1390
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 3: be careful with this sheet too, though, like about like

1391
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 3: as far as like how you saying, and she should

1392
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 3: move with it because if she do some shit like that,

1393
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 3: you don't know what that nigga might go to his part.

1394
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 2: That's a good point.

1395
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: I mean, it is true. But at the end of that,

1396
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 1: he don't feel slighty. He don't feel slighter. But if

1397
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: a nigga fuck with you now, he don't. But he's

1398
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: not gonna fuck with her once she tell him that. Listen, No,

1399
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm talking about once she starts sucking with the bd B,

1400
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: they ain't gonna be on that level.

1401
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 2: Yeard, you never know, she said. No, she's saying, she's

1402
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,800
Speaker 2: saying because it's early on. So but I'm saying, but

1403
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 2: you never know. I mean, weezy, I'm sure, and you

1404
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 2: have met people.

1405
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: Sometimes you meet people and y'all just hit it off,

1406
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: and sometimes niggas don't give a fuzzn't right, thank you

1407
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: you talking about her limb chain. I mean, but sometimes,

1408
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, obviously these are

1409
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: people that he's not super super close with. Because she

1410
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 1: said that she's getting she's gotten some of his numbers.

1411
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: She said that she's gotten some bdbs and some of

1412
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 1: them that she not up. Yeah, well that's what she said.

1413
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even say why can't you dump him?

1414
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 2: Now?

1415
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. That's how I feel. I mean, like,

1416
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 1: if you got a few numbers, just tell him, or

1417
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: if you have.

1418
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 2: Moral person ever, But like, bitch, come on, how about

1419
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 2: you're gonna keep using the nigga together the niggas at

1420
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 2: some point like give up?

1421
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: And I do feel like you can't behind your own bdbs. Well, obviously,

1422
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 1: like I said, she's getting into these parties with him,

1423
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 1: so obviously she can't figure out. So obviously she can't.

1424
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 1: So obviously she probably can if she try, well, get

1425
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: some whole friends exactly. Like that's so that's why I said.

1426
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 1: I just feel like maybe you should just, you know,

1427
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: if you have some bdb's numbers from the past parties.

1428
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 1: But I feel like this can't continue on for too

1429
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 1: much longer. Go to one, maybe go to one more

1430
01:05:58,360 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: party and just stack them numbers up.

1431
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 2: Really, you got one more?

1432
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 1: Right? Okay?

1433
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 2: Go? They will start tracking your period.

1434
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: Oh they know labor day two?

1435
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So the next question needs queue up the

1436
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 3: question question for you both. On the previous podcast that

1437
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 3: was mentioned that your dude should be able to help

1438
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 3: out if a bill needs to be paid. Would this

1439
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 3: be like a one off or with or would the

1440
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:41,479
Speaker 3: lady be depending on the guy constantly to pay that bill?

1441
01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 3: Like when would the guy need to say enough, keep

1442
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 3: up the great work and continue to shine.

1443
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 2: Was that a dude?

1444
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like, you know, whenever you it

1445
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 1: just depends. Like I don't like to necessarily depend on

1446
01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 1: somebody every month for something. I don't like to do

1447
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 1: that because people be and people be. You know, you

1448
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: can't depend on other people. The only person I feel

1449
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: like you can really depend on is yourself at the

1450
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 1: end of the day when it comes to your bills

1451
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,720
Speaker 1: and your problems. So when I say have somebody that

1452
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 1: can look out for you, I think most women should

1453
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: understand that. Yeah, we like fucking with niggas who got

1454
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 1: money or bdb's or whatever we call it. But this

1455
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 1: is an extra you know what I'm saying. It's something

1456
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 1: that is not oh she froze again, God damn it,

1457
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 1: or we'll keep doing It's something that's not necessary, like

1458
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 1: we have to have it. So I feel like when

1459
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: I say, make sure you fucking with somebody that can

1460
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 1: do for you, it's like if you get in a

1461
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 1: bond one month and some some shit go wrong, Hey

1462
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 1: I can call you up. Hey you got my caring

1463
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: up this month. Hey you got this, you got my

1464
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: rent this month, something like that. But I don't think

1465
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: it should never be something that's like consistent every every

1466
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: every month.

1467
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 3: No, it shouldn't be consistent unless it's something that that

1468
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 3: y'all discussed, you know what I mean as far as

1469
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:01,000
Speaker 3: like him telling you, like, oh, I'm gonna pay this

1470
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 3: for you every month, you shouldn't expect him to pay

1471
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 3: every month unless it's a conversation that you're to head.

1472
01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 3: But I forgot this is actually coming from a miles

1473
01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 3: point of view. So yeah, unless you've told her that,

1474
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 3: I don't feel like she should be expecting you to

1475
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 3: take on that bill every month.

1476
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I don't, Like I said, now, if you

1477
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:27,120
Speaker 1: told her that anyan, you know you're not coming through

1478
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: on your promise. That's and that's another thing I hate

1479
01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 1: when niggas like approach you and they be like, oh,

1480
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: you won't be to take care of you. I got

1481
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 1: you I got you. Then when the time come for

1482
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 1: them to do it, they don't want to do it,

1483
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 1: or they do it for a few months then they

1484
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 1: be like, I don't want to do this shit. Yeah,

1485
01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 1: so it's like you just should Yeah, you should also

1486
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 1: be you know, just careful how you approach when in

1487
01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 1: that situation. So that's our advice on that. Just be

1488
01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: clear with how you plan to you know, approach approach

1489
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:54,920
Speaker 1: the lady.

1490
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 2: Right.

1491
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:58,560
Speaker 1: So, I think we're gonna finish it up because this

1492
01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:01,560
Speaker 1: is a long episode. So you got anything else you

1493
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 1: want to add? Well?

1494
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 3: I have wanted Weazy to give her perspective on the PA,

1495
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:09,519
Speaker 3: like what she do to keep her pH right because

1496
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 3: I know she called us up the pH queen you know, like.

1497
01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: Me, I'm dead. We've both some PA queens. We care

1498
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: about this she so I have really wanted her to

1499
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 1: give her like advice on it. But yeah, but we're

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Speaker 1: having technical difficulties right now. But make sure y'all check

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Speaker 1: out Weezy. Of course y'all know Weazy from Horrible Decisions

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Speaker 1: with Mandy Bee. They drop episodes every Monday. We'll put

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Speaker 1: all her information below. Shout out to Weezy, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. For coming on. I know we've been having

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Speaker 1: technical difficulties all day. And also check out her other

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Speaker 1: podcast that she has. It's called for Fact's Sake with Eddie.

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Speaker 1: It's with Weezy and Eddie, so make sure you check

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Speaker 1: that out. I'll put that link in the bio as well.

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Speaker 1: And you got anything else you want to add?

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Speaker 3: I was trying to think, do I have a Item

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Speaker 3: of the week? I'll oh, yeah, thanks key so yes,

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Speaker 3: So I updated my Amazon storefrant earlier this week. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna be adding all of my just favorite products that

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Speaker 3: I use for like my skin and vaginal and womb

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Speaker 3: health and just pretty much everything that I love that

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Speaker 3: I love to use, my favorite products, and then my

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Speaker 3: items of the week from the show I'm gonna be

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Speaker 3: adding on there, and then y'all could just directly click

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Speaker 3: the link and buy the products from there. The l

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Speaker 3: it's Amazon dot Com, slash dre and the call with

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Speaker 3: three e's I believe, But if that's not it, I'll

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Speaker 3: just go ahead and add it in a description box

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Speaker 3: as well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank y'all so much for tuning in. We'll see

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Speaker 1: y'all next week. Bye y'all, Bye,