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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to You.

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Speaker 2: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Uh So, stress, anxiety, fear, Yeah, it's all in there.

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Speaker 3: It's all part of the cortisol level. Yes. So on TikTok,

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Speaker 3: there's a trend. It's called cozy maxing, and it's what

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Speaker 3: people are finding a lot of success with when they

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Speaker 3: do it to get through this stuff.

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Speaker 4: So what is it that's exactly that when life feels

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Speaker 4: like a locked try cozy maxing. And it's maxing out

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Speaker 4: the coziness. So if you just want to like chill

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Speaker 4: on the couch and watch TV, do it.

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Speaker 2: Don't just do it like that.

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Speaker 4: Put on the softest PJS, light your favorite candle, dim

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Speaker 4: the lights to the perfect you know, it's almost like

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Speaker 4: the esthetically setting the mood just for yourself though, and

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Speaker 4: you know you're going to do a bath. Do it

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Speaker 4: up with the bubbles, with the sense, with the everything,

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Speaker 4: with the lights and the candles and all that, and

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Speaker 4: it's supposed to really work, and it's going all over

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Speaker 4: TikTok right now and really kind of just bring you

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Speaker 4: into that like cozy sweatpants.

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Speaker 2: Feeling of life that we all need.

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Speaker 5: Ye time, I want to take a nap, I'll like

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Speaker 5: take a nap on the couch with all the lights

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Speaker 5: on in my clothes from the day, Like it's kind

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Speaker 5: of a waste.

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Speaker 2: This is more like playing with that chill music, really

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Speaker 2: setting the mood for yourself.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a sensory thing, isn't it Like I

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Speaker 3: need to smell a certain erama, I need the lighting

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Speaker 3: to be a certain way, and maybe the right music.

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Speaker 3: It does take you away. So I'm I'm an advocate,

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Speaker 3: but it's people are saying on TikTok that really works.

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Speaker 4: It really does work. We all one need this in

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Speaker 4: our lives at least once a week, so considerate.

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Speaker 3: Here I found a picture of.

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Speaker 4: It was like beije on white on beige, sandy vibes.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I know what the scars. There's another shot.

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Speaker 2: Oh, like a cowboy hat?

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Speaker 3: Are you going next stage? Shorts? White shorts with.

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Speaker 2: A white thinking about doing a hat as well.

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Speaker 3: No, but I'm not talking about you for one second.

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Speaker 3: I want feedback.

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Speaker 5: I'm just thinking it's interesting that.

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Speaker 4: We want to do that showing the forearm. That's a

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Speaker 4: deep V. I'm definitely gonna we're gonna pull that v off.

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Speaker 4: I would like to okay, I've been chesting.

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Speaker 2: You need the right necklaces.

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Speaker 3: I do need that's the problem. I need the right accessories. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So those are my pictures. Are you down? What about

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Speaker 3: this one?

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Speaker 2: I like that's going to take you a minute to

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Speaker 2: grow that man bun?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I could could Can you

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Speaker 3: get a man bun kit?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: But take me back to the second photo, the second

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Speaker 5: and spot is it like?

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Speaker 3: I think this is the one. I like it.

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Speaker 4: By the way I write that one, that one really captivated.

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Speaker 3: I can't show you these photos right now, but they're

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Speaker 3: they're very how would you just go on their earthy tone?

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Speaker 3: They're like tans, and they're definitely not what you think

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Speaker 3: I'd wear.

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Speaker 5: Never expect you in any of those.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I think it's great. The first one's not that

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Speaker 2: to you. I just don't like that white scarf. You

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Speaker 2: don't know what that is? Is it like it looks

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Speaker 2: like a scarf? It looks like a blanket.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is what I mean. That's just so basic.

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Speaker 4: That seems like you're gonna go take a meeting. That

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Speaker 4: feels like Ryan me, I want you more beach viby. Yes,

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Speaker 4: I like that one that one's my favorite dark hat,

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Speaker 4: and then all beige.

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Speaker 3: But it's like snake skin print, who cares? And these hats?

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Speaker 3: Should I go with one of these?

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Speaker 4: And these hats it's like a cowboy meets top hat.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is a top cowboy hat. I don't know, guys,

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to break the fourth wall.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, be a little different.

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Speaker 4: I mean your vibe at Tanya's wedding was very beachy, cool, yeah, trendy.

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Speaker 3: The first night.

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Speaker 2: It was black tie.

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Speaker 3: The second night, ye uniform. Piper is on the line. Hi, Piper,

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Speaker 3: good morning. It's Ryan and Sisney and Tanya.

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Speaker 6: Hi, guys.

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Speaker 3: How are you? Oh?

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Speaker 7: I'm doing okay. How are you okay?

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Speaker 3: Thanks? It sounds like you're not doing as well as

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Speaker 3: you want to be doing. So what's happening? Says your

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Speaker 3: sister is trying to one up your wedding.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like I think so.

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Speaker 1: So.

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Speaker 8: Like basically, I got engaged in like November, like six

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Speaker 8: fish months ago, and I've been deep in the wedding

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Speaker 8: planning thing and then, you know, very exciting because like

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Speaker 8: my sister also got engaged recently. But the issue is

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Speaker 8: that she set her wedding date a week before mine

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Speaker 8: and I've had mindset for like a minute.

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Speaker 3: So okay, then why there's clearly a reason why she

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Speaker 3: did that. You don't do that coincidentally, what's the issue?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I know she really she's like always wanted to

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Speaker 8: get married in Italy, like fancy on the water and

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Speaker 8: all that, and she says it's going to be a

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Speaker 8: small wedding and it really shouldn't be a big deal.

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Speaker 8: She was looking at a venue that she liked in

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Speaker 8: Italy and they randomly had like an opening a week

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Speaker 8: before my date, so she booked it.

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Speaker 3: I would like to officiate. I like the food, I

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Speaker 3: like olive oil. I can make time for it.

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Speaker 5: You can't just start afficiating every single wedding.

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Speaker 3: Why would you on the water? You just her sister.

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Speaker 5: It's just yeah, it's not the point, you know, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: Know, Sisney. We'll come back to Piper. I'm sorry about

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Speaker 3: this for this little dispute, but I did not know

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Speaker 3: when I spent all of my time studying to be

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Speaker 3: ordained that it was going to be exclusive, Like there

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Speaker 3: was no buy out here, exclusivity clause in the deal

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Speaker 5: No clause in you It's very possessive all.

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Speaker 3: Right, pining that piper back to you, why did why

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Speaker 3: would your sister? Are you? Have you always been competitive?

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Speaker 9: Mike?

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Speaker 7: Kind of?

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Speaker 8: We're pretty close in age, so you know, it just

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Speaker 8: like is what it is. I think she's always tried

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Speaker 8: to one up me like that. But now I just

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Speaker 8: can't stop thinking, like what if we get sick, like

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Speaker 8: in travel, Like what if our parents get sick, like

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Speaker 8: they will have gone to hers and not mine.

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Speaker 2: You know, you can't do it.

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Speaker 4: You can't do the what ifs because what if you

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Speaker 4: get sick? Even if nobody there, this wasn't the issue,

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Speaker 4: how do.

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Speaker 3: You deal with it? Because it's she's done it. There's

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Speaker 3: a reason she's done it, and now what's the reaction

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Speaker 3: and that you have. You can't both do this, So

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Speaker 3: either got to talk to her and she's got to

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Speaker 3: move it, or you got to postpone. You can't just

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Speaker 3: you can't just have your weddings back to back like

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Speaker 3: that and you kind of deposits been paid.

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Speaker 7: They have been paid.

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Speaker 8: That's the thing. Like the money is a huge factor.

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Speaker 8: So for both of you, I feel, yeah, yeah, well.

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Speaker 4: Then it's then it is a marathon party wedding double

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Speaker 4: weekend like keep the party going.

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Speaker 2: No, that's so cham.

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Speaker 3: It's the hands she's been dealt and ain't gonna find

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Speaker 3: out what the issue was with your sister.

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Speaker 2: Can you check with your venue?

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Speaker 5: Can you check with your venue to see if there's

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Speaker 5: anything before hers?

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Speaker 8: The thing is like, I love my venue and she

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Speaker 8: knows that. So again feels kind of malicious on her part.

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Speaker 8: But yeah, I think it might just be one of

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Speaker 8: those things where we're like, we see who's loyal to

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Speaker 8: who and the family.

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Speaker 10: Unfortunately, we're gonna play it out.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have to play it out. It's not the

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Speaker 3: hand we want. We're gonna have to play it out.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, Piper congratulates on the most important thing.

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Speaker 3: You found the love of your life and you're going

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Speaker 3: to spend the rest of your life getting old together

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Speaker 3: with them.

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Speaker 5: So you didn't like the getting old together.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why I said. It was in my

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Speaker 3: head because you kept saying it.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it.

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Speaker 3: Somebody said it to me.

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Speaker 2: You're the one that brought it up. Yeah, I think I.

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Speaker 3: Sharon says it in one of his songs. That's fine,

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Speaker 3: Well that's why I.

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Speaker 9: Brought it up.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's not new piper.

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Speaker 3: How do we deal with each other on a regular basis.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea what we're going to. Let you

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Speaker 3: go and good luck to you.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, thank you, trying to be positive.

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Speaker 3: No, he talks about you know, it's a great song

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Speaker 3: from way back when he talks about getting old together.

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Speaker 2: Perfect.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you just told us last week that you

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Speaker 5: don't like that.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't because I think it's a state of mind.

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Speaker 3: I want to be young for a long.

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Speaker 2: Time together, exactly.

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Speaker 3: I want to be energetic for a long time together.

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Speaker 3: I want to be flexible and mobile for a long

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Speaker 4: And with who.

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Speaker 3: We don't know if it's who's.

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Speaker 5: The I don't have one in mind. I just think

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Speaker 5: in general, that's a great match for you.

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Speaker 3: And you just had this epiphany just this morning. Yes, wow,

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Speaker 3: all right, So it's us one eight hundred and five

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Speaker 3: to a one oh two seven. Want to grab Rachel here,

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Speaker 3: who's been on hold for a second. Here's a Rachel.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing.

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Speaker 7: I'm good?

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Speaker 1: Thanks?

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Speaker 10: How are you great?

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Speaker 3: So you're calling about a friend of yours who got

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Speaker 3: cheated on? Yes, what happened? And how can we help you?

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Speaker 10: So?

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Speaker 11: My friend recently proposed to his boyfriend, But my friends

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Speaker 11: and I are having a hard time feeling excited or

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Speaker 11: happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on him

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Speaker 11: and it was devastating from my friend because they've been

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Speaker 11: dating for years and years, and after he found out

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Speaker 11: about the cheating, he was heartbroken. My friend ended up

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Speaker 11: mending things with his boyfriend and they've been together ever since.

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Speaker 7: And now my friend.

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Speaker 11: Proposed, So it was kind of shocking, and he didn't

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Speaker 11: tell anyone he was going to do it, and he

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Speaker 11: only sent us pictures after the proposal in our group chat.

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Speaker 11: They're just trying to get us to celebrate, and we

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Speaker 11: want to support our friend and be happy for him.

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Speaker 11: But now that we know that fiance cheated, be happy or.

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Speaker 9: Support Well wait, so.

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Speaker 3: Does he yeah, exactly, he knows that he was cheated

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Speaker 3: on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 3: so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through it.

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Speaker 3: He forgave his partner at the time, right, and they

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Speaker 3: It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,

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Speaker 3: You just never know what anybody's going through, and if

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Ryan, Sisny Tanya the La Boo Boo craze.

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Speaker 7: It's for real.

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Speaker 3: They are the new garbage pale kid patch craze. Here's Matthew, Connecticut. Hi.

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Speaker 13: My name is Matthew Ramponent. I'm on the autism spectrum.

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Speaker 13: I'm a huge fan of Ryan Seacrust. I was wondering

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Speaker 3: As a matter of fact, she's going to be into

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Speaker 2: Let's do it? Wait?

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Speaker 3: That is it?

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Speaker 2: Then that just happened.

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Speaker 3: I missed it.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Matthew. That's your news. Good things will happen.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate you reaching out. Thanks for listening. One eight

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Speaker 3: Let's see Morgan. That is you? You dial that number?

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Speaker 3: How are you Morgan?

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Speaker 1: How are you guys?

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Speaker 3: We're okay, Actually, all things consider, we're good. So you

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Speaker 3: What are your worries? What are your real worries.

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Speaker 1: I'm more that it's going to cause a rest between

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Speaker 3: Three of you are living together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah for right now?

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Speaker 3: Okay, and she's room.

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Speaker 1: No, she's been staying on the couch. I mean maybe

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Speaker 2: Didn't you do this at some point in your life?

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Speaker 3: Let me shed some light on it. Has this happened

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Speaker 4: I would just support it, Morgan, like go with the flow.

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Speaker 4: See what happens, because otherwise you're going to be this

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Speaker 3: She's off the couch and in the room. Make her

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Speaker 1: I know it's true to start paying, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Well, we split the rent five ways when I was

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Speaker 3: It was tandem. He sure was tanam and Tanas was

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Speaker 5: Oh oh what does it mean?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, it's starting to get under my skin there.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, what because it doesn't you just say it

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Speaker 2: I hear it all the time. It's her crutch.

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Speaker 3: It's a crutch. Oh, I don't think you're knowing you are?

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Speaker 3: Do you know you're saying?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 5: I knew I was saying it, because what are you?

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Speaker 6: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: It's Morgan, good luck, thank you, It's gonna be okay,

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Speaker 3: keep okay, all right? What did it mean when you

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Speaker 5: It's different in the in the context in which I owe,

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Speaker 5: which was what? And this context was was she maybe

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Speaker 3: Heay, No, that's not what you meant? And no she wasn't.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it was what I meant.

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Speaker 2: Well, didn't say that next time say that.

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Speaker 3: Don't go oh it's weird.

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Speaker 2: It's not weird.

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Speaker 5: Everybody raise your hand if you think it's weird.

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Speaker 2: No one raised their hand. Everybody literally Mark dubs me

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Speaker 3: It's not creepy yet, but it's getting there. Okay, No, no,

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Speaker 3: and no, you need to admit this first before you

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Speaker 2: Don't get me started on your winking.

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Speaker 5: No one likes my o's.

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Speaker 2: I'm sad about it. You don't even notice you're doing them.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do.

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Speaker 2: It's involuntary, like.

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Speaker 3: And we have we have doctor Kellinger on the line

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Speaker 4: They can do a remixed song with all your oh

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Speaker 5: See the different inflections mean different things.

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Speaker 3: Mean nothing. But it's on the verge of really weird.

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Speaker 5: Fine, do it anymore perfect, that's impossible.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: You don't. It's not punishment for you not to do

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Speaker 5: Oh, Michaela likes it.

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Speaker 4: Why he is so sensitive about like unimportant things like

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Speaker 3: I'm not sensitive about it.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking to Tnia because my oh's are a part

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Speaker 4: And if she's got like her hands crossed and a

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Speaker 3: All closed off by the Because we have to go,

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Speaker 3: it's time for Ryan's roses. Here we go.

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Speaker 9: Guys.

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Speaker 3: You may think I'm being paranoid, but my husband has

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Speaker 2: No, oh, everything's there.

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Speaker 3: This is Daniel. Daniel, good morning, thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: Can we just jump to the found her in the bedroom?

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Speaker 3: What was she doing in the bedroom?

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Speaker 10: Well, he said she was changing clothes and that they

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Speaker 9: He immediately turned it around on me.

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Speaker 10: And would you rather change in the bedroom or a bathroom?

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Speaker 10: And we had a huge fight, and she was super

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Speaker 10: I'm worried he's seeing her.

449
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Speaker 3: Has he ever seen women before?

450
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Speaker 10: I mean not since high school, like, but ever since

451
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Speaker 10: he's come out he hasn't.

452
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Speaker 3: Hmmm, it could It makes sense that she could have

453
00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 3: been just using the space, right, I mean, why do

454
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Speaker 3: you think that he'd be cheating? Why do you take

455
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Speaker 3: it that far?

456
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Speaker 10: Well, they're always going out and they never invite me,

457
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,600
Speaker 10: and it's.

458
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Speaker 7: A consistent thing.

459
00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 10: Like he's they're always getting together for drinks or there's

460
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Speaker 10: just spending a lot of time together and he doesn't

461
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Speaker 10: tell me about it, and he doesn't he doesn't invite me.

462
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Speaker 10: It's just really it's really secretive, and it just feels

463
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Speaker 10: like he's keeping all these secrets from me.

464
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Speaker 3: All Right, So you think he's more than a best friend.

465
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Speaker 3: You think that maybe there's just something something's going on

466
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Speaker 3: and he's hiding it from you.

467
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Speaker 4: It's rare that it's a new dynamic, like this is

468
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 4: a new friend, and so why aren't you being included?

469
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Speaker 4: I think this is an old friend from the past, like, oh,

470
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,199
Speaker 4: you've been homies so forever, then you wouldn't be so

471
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Speaker 4: stressed out about it.

472
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Speaker 3: What's her name right? Her name is Jada, Jada? Jada, Jada?

473
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Speaker 3: Got it? Okay, Hold on one second, we're going to

474
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Speaker 3: make the call so we can find out best friend

475
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Speaker 3: or not. Next for the middle of Ryan's Roses here

476
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Speaker 3: on Kiss fab So, Daniel is worried that his husband

477
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 3: has met a woman at the gym. They do hang

478
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,880
Speaker 3: out like best friends a lot without him. He doesn't invited.

479
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 3: They go out for drinks, hanging out together, and recently

480
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Speaker 3: she was in their bedroom, and he said she was

481
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 3: just using the space to change, which could be, but

482
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Speaker 3: he thinks that he's seeing her right that he's married

483
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Speaker 3: to him and seeing her. He said he hadn't been

484
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 3: with a woman since high school to his knowledge. Since

485
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 3: they've been together, he certainly hasn't. So what is going on?

486
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 3: Is it just a new best friend or is it more?

487
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 3: Daniel thinks it's more. He just thinks it's It's very

488
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 3: strange how they've been hanging out so much. Yeah, he

489
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 3: doesn't get asked, asked to come at all or invited. So, Daniel,

490
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 3: I need you say Ryan, you have my permission to call,

491
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 3: and then your husband's name.

492
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Speaker 10: Go ahead, you have my permission to call. And my

493
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 10: husband's name is We're gonna.

494
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 3: Call him right now. And the woman, the new friend's

495
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 3: name is Jada. Let's see whose top of mind is

496
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Speaker 3: that you? Is it Jada? Is it somebody else? When

497
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 3: we're off from some roses? Okay, good lie, here we go,

498
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 3: be very quiet till we tell me he's on the air. Okay,

499
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:04,439
Speaker 3: here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, can I speak to Justin please?

501
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 9: This is he?

502
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Speaker 12: Hi.

503
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Speaker 2: My name is Melinda. I'm calling from Lakewood Flowers, How

504
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 2: are you doing this morning?

505
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 9: My god? What is every every call a telemarker didn't

506
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 9: even say spam?

507
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 4: Rais, Well, we're we're a local business here in Lakewood

508
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 4: and offering a free promotion.

509
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:39,679
Speaker 2: It's a free dozen red roses.

510
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 4: I don't need any cash from you, credit card info,

511
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 4: anything like that.

512
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: They're absolutely free.

513
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 9: Yeah. Yeah, And all I gotta do is what like

514
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 9: subscribe to your Flowers of the Months club?

515
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 4: Like no, no, there's no there's no subscription whatsoever. Like

516
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 4: I said, I don't need any information from you at all.

517
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 4: We just need the name of the person you want

518
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 4: to send them to and they can have them by

519
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 4: lunchtime today.

520
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 2: They are free. It's a beautiful arrangement. Does in red roses?

521
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 9: Ah, And so they just get roses for free?

522
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:13,479
Speaker 2: That's correct.

523
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 4: I mean, look, okay, if I'm being honest, if you

524
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 4: want the catch, it's that we hope that you like

525
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 4: the arrangements and then you come back as a customer

526
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Speaker 4: one day.

527
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Speaker 6: Yeah, And what happens if they don't get flowers and

528
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 6: this is all just like scam.

529
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Speaker 4: If they don't get flower, well, we can start with

530
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Speaker 4: the name of the person and then we can do

531
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Speaker 4: the note and then have the flowers sent up by

532
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Speaker 4: lunchtime today.

533
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Speaker 2: I'll make sure that they are delivered.

534
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:43,360
Speaker 9: M fine, all right, send them to Jada.

535
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 2: Okay, and what would you like to put on the card?

536
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 9: But on the card you deserve better. That's like with

537
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 9: the period after each word.

538
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Speaker 2: Ohkay, got it?

539
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 9: You period, deserve better period and then capitalize the hell

540
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Speaker 9: out of that.

541
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Speaker 3: Okay, you got it?

542
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: And do you want me to sign it?

543
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 3: Love?

544
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 4: Justin?

545
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, justin. Your voice is being broadcast on the radio,

546
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 3: and we've got your husband, Daniel on the line. You

547
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 3: seem all bothered by this call, so I just want

548
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 3: to be quick here. Your husband thinks you're having an

549
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 3: affair with Jada and you just sent roses to Jada.

550
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: Can you categorize your relationship with this woman?

551
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Speaker 9: Who the hell is this guy? Now? And I knew

552
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 9: I never should have answered this call.

553
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 3: Daniel is on the line. That's your husband.

554
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 2: Do you know him?

555
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 3: What's going on with you and Jada? Are you cheating

556
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 3: on Daniel with Jada?

557
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 9: No? No, look I don't know who you are, dude,

558
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 9: but like gayman, don't send each other red roses? But no,

559
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 9: of course he thinks.

560
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Speaker 6: I'm cheating because he thinks I'm cheating with every man

561
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 6: in town, and he might as well.

562
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Speaker 3: Just and it sounds like you're you're very cynical about

563
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 3: things here. I mean, he's just trying to figure out

564
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Speaker 3: what's going on, Daniel. Would you like to ask justin

565
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 3: any questions that you're here?

566
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Speaker 10: Yeah, what does you deserve?

567
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 3: Better?

568
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Speaker 1: Mean?

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Speaker 9: Look, first of all, you are way too paranoid, and

570
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Speaker 9: she is going through some things I want me to

571
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Speaker 9: tell anyone, And I'm definitely not saying any of this

572
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Speaker 9: on the radio. There are not that many you know,

573
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 9: jadas in the world. Okay, So, but are you the

574
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 9: better she deserves? Are we really trying to do this

575
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 9: right now?

576
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Speaker 2: That's a valid question.

577
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Speaker 6: Wait, like you mean like physically cheating? Seriously, like because

578
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Speaker 6: like I thought.

579
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Speaker 9: You meant like emotionally cheating or so because like physically cheating,

580
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 9: Like no, that's disgusting and like I can't believe why

581
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 9: would you even think that? Are you emotionally cheating? Here

582
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 9: we go? So let me hold up, actually, like, let

583
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 9: me talk to the other guy. What's your name? What's

584
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Speaker 9: your name? Ryan?

585
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Speaker 10: All right?

586
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 9: Yeah? Okay, So, like are you geyer straight?

587
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Speaker 3: I'm straight.

588
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Speaker 9: Okay, Well, Ryan, if you had a girlfriend or a wife, okay,

589
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Speaker 9: would it be possible for you to emotionally cheat with

590
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Speaker 9: a with a guy friend.

591
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 3: No, I don't think it would be possible.

592
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Speaker 9: That's a very no, and the question is ludicrous.

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Speaker 6: And the so my husband is the most paranoid because

594
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 6: he's cheating, like he's been cheating on the fort And I.

595
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Speaker 9: Get that, got it?

596
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 3: But like, all right, so guys, here's the thing, Daniel,

597
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Speaker 3: Just so, Daniel, it sounds like you've had a passive cheating.

598
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 3: It sounds like Justin is very passionate with the fact

599
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 3: that he's not. But I think Justin sounds like Daniel

600
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 3: needs a little more security and comforting knowing that you know,

601
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 3: you're with him and nobody else. It sounds like he's

602
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 3: not feeling that.

603
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 4: Why don't you include him more with these hangouts with Jada.

604
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 9: Because and he knows this, I don't have time to

605
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 9: baby him. She wants to keep our conversations on the low,

606
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 9: and I'm respecting her wishes. But you know, we all

607
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 9: go bowling. We can all go bowland together. Maybe really cute, Mean.

608
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Speaker 3: Dan, do you believe Justin going on? Do you believe Justin.

609
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Speaker 10: I mean, he's right. I have been paranoid, but like

610
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 10: all think, secrets are just he knows how. He knows

611
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 10: how I get when secrets are kept from me, Like

612
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 10: he would just tell me the truth when they're going

613
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Speaker 10: out and maybe invite me once in a while. I

614
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 10: don't need to be there every time, but I need

615
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 10: to be included in his life. I mean, he is

616
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Speaker 10: my husband. I feel like he's, you know, doing his

617
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 10: own thing now.

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Speaker 9: Mm hmm, it's all right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well Justin and Daniel, I do believe that Justin's

620
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 3: tell you the truth. I do think that a little

621
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Speaker 3: more compassion might need to be included this equation. Justin

622
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 3: to Daniel, and I wish you guys the best of luck.

623
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Speaker 3: Thank you for your time. I believe him, I do

624
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 3: believe him.

625
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: I believe him, but he's such a jerky.

626
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 3: Mean to his husband. On air with Ryan Seacrest, all right,

627
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: one to two pointy seven, because I've had let's go

628
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,719
Speaker 3: back to Daniel and Justin. Daniel thought that his husband,

629
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Speaker 3: Justin was cheating on him with a woman that he met,

630
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Speaker 3: I think working out at the gym, and they were

631
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Speaker 3: hanging out as friends and Daniel wasn't invited. And then

632
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Speaker 3: we get Justin his husband on the line, and Justin said, look,

633
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 3: she was in the bedroom of our changing clothes, nothing

634
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 3: happening there, and we're hanging out because she's going through

635
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: some things. He did send the roses to the woman,

636
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 3: not his husband. He sent the roses to Jada. But

637
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 3: I did believe that Justin is not having an affair

638
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 3: with Jada. He's just mean to his husband. Yeah, like

639
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 3: his husband's insecure about the relationship. His husband's paranoid, and

640
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 3: Justin's not making Daniel feel any more secure, and he's

641
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 3: not nice to him.

642
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 2: It's Justin's world and Daniel's just living in.

643
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 3: Condescending to him. But I do believe him. I don't

644
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 3: believe he's cheating, Tommy.

645
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 5: I don't think he's cheating, but I don't That's not

646
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Speaker 5: a marriage I would want to be in now.

647
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 3: They don't talk to each other the way a couple

648
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: should speak to each other, and communicating in a way

649
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 3: where where one's hearing the other, like they're not. I

650
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: don't think they're hearing each other. Gloria, good morning in Inglewood.

651
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Speaker 3: What did you hear?

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Speaker 14: I mean, I definitely have been in that type of

653
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Speaker 14: relationship where I've been the paranoid one, and having gone

654
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Speaker 14: through therapy, my therapist has always said that I tend

655
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Speaker 14: to be the type of person that attracts cheaters. And

656
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Speaker 14: even though it felt like I was being paranoid and

657
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 14: my ex accuse me as being paranoid, it turned out

658
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Speaker 14: to be true that he was cheating on me. So

659
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Speaker 14: I and through all my past relationships, I tended to

660
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 14: attract cheaters and that's what said my paranoia. And so

661
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Speaker 14: my therapist told me that I needed to date outside

662
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 14: my norm to break that cycle. And so I just

663
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Speaker 14: learned that you need to listen to your gut. And

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Speaker 14: I think even though Justin acted like that it was ridiculous,

665
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Speaker 14: I think Daniel needs to listen to his guts.

666
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Speaker 3: I agree they need to listen to each other. They're

667
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Speaker 3: not and I think that's where we leave it to

668
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Speaker 3: see where it goes. Gai, thank you very much listening.

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Speaker 3: It's Ryan's roses. This is kiss Susette, isn't Monabella on

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Speaker 3: the punk? And why Susette? How are you hey?

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Speaker 7: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 3: We're great? Congratulations I believe is due to you. You

674
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Speaker 3: got engaged.

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Speaker 7: Oh gosh, okay, gott No, not yet.

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Speaker 3: Oh not yet. So it's coming.

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Speaker 7: Maybe I don't know to come. I don't know. I yes,

678
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Speaker 7: not right now. I think I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Well, help us understand what's going on and why you're

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Speaker 3: here with us.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. So my boyfriend and I we've been together for

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Speaker 7: four years and we've just kind of been going through

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Speaker 7: it the last couple of months. He's really been struggling

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Speaker 7: with work. He's been bouncing from job to job.

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Speaker 2: He's doing the.

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00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 7: Door dash uber eats all of that, of course, to

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Speaker 7: make a little bit of money. But I've had to

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Speaker 7: spot him a rant since February. So he's struggling. And

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00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 7: recently he confided in my best friend and he told

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Speaker 7: her that he wants to propose at the end of

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Speaker 7: the month.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I'm just like, oh my gosh, of all

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Speaker 7: the time, you know, I don't know if we're ready

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Speaker 7: to take this step right now because of our finances.

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Speaker 7: It's just a lot.

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Speaker 3: You're told me exactly, are you not ready because of

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Speaker 3: his situation? Because you're not sure he's the right one? Like,

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Speaker 3: what's the what's the hesitation route?

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Speaker 7: I do think he's the one I really do and

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Speaker 7: I want to be engaged. I just don't know if

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Speaker 7: this is the time, you know, because like I want

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Speaker 7: him to be in a good place financially and to

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Speaker 7: not have to streuss. I mean, if we had to

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Speaker 7: plan a wedding, could you imagine.

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Speaker 4: What if you're engaged and you're not playing the wedding

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Speaker 4: right away?

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Speaker 7: Well, we have been together four years, so I kind

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Speaker 7: of just want to get married. If we're going to

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Speaker 7: get engaged, let's just do it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But the financial thing is not going to fix

712
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Speaker 4: itself overnight. So it's like, look, you're gonna be married,

713
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Speaker 4: You're gonna have finance problems for the rest of your life.

714
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 4: Like it's going to not problems, but like issues that

715
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Speaker 4: you have to work through and communicate on. You know.

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Speaker 4: It's not I don't think it's a deal breaker, especially

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Speaker 4: if you love him and you feel like this is

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Speaker 4: your dude.

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Speaker 3: Here's the other thing is that you've been with him

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Speaker 3: four years. Can't you just talk to him directly and

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Speaker 3: say no.

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Speaker 2: You just figure out a plan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's figure out a plan, and we need to

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Speaker 3: have a plan when certain things are in place, and

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Speaker 3: then we can start thinking about steps forward until then,

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Speaker 3: let's just do what we're doing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, my friend told me to act surprised because he

728
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Speaker 7: trusted her with telling her. But I mean, I don't

729
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Speaker 7: want to ruin it for him, but I kind of.

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Speaker 3: Maybe channel can your friend back channel that you are

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Speaker 3: in a place where you're thinking this, not knowing that

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Speaker 3: he's going to propose or or or.

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Speaker 5: You can say that you would just talk to your

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00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 5: therapist and she said that you cannot make any serious

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Speaker 5: long term commitments in the next three months.

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Speaker 2: Not a fortune teller.

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Speaker 5: No, you can just say that and then hopefully he'll

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Speaker 5: get the hint and be like, oh, she can't think

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Speaker 5: any commitments, not.

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Speaker 3: A fortune cookie.

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Speaker 2: I know that, Hannah Brown.

742
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Speaker 3: Which path do you think you should go? What do

743
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Speaker 3: you think?

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Speaker 7: I don't know if the therapist fortune teller thing is

745
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 7: quite the way, but I kind of I think Ryan,

746
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Speaker 7: you're right that I just I didn't want to ruin it,

747
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 7: and that's why I didn't want to say anything. But

748
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 7: we've been together long enough and this is such a

749
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 7: serious thing that maybe I need to just talk to

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Speaker 7: him and say, I we just need a better plan.

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00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:53,919
Speaker 3: We think you should communicate that to him. That's the best,

752
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 3: most honest way to do it. I think he'll respect that.

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00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, and that's probably good for us communication wise and

754
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 7: stuff too. We'll probably do a conversation about this.

755
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 3: Well. Good luck get into that conversation soon. And we

756
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 3: appreciate reaching out to talk about it with us. All right,

757
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 3: best of luck, Thank you for your help, of course. Bye.

758
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,919
Speaker 3: Do love trying to figure out relationship issues here with you, guys.

759
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 3: I do love it, Yeah, I do. I don't know

760
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: if you notice certain mannerisms that your friends do, your

761
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 3: coworkers do, maybe your family does. For example, my mother,

762
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 3: Sysiny does exactly what you pointed out to me that

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Speaker 3: Tanya does, and my mother has got me doing it

764
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Speaker 3: as well.

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Speaker 2: It comes out on you every now and then, it does.

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Speaker 3: It's like a silent sort of communicative action exactly.

767
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 4: Nothing makes me feel more uncomfortable than when Tanya winks

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Speaker 4: at me.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about winking. There are two types of people,

770
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 3: winkers and non winkers. It's something that you can coordinate

771
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 3: or not coordinate, like. You can make it look tough

772
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Speaker 3: if you're not a winker, but if you're a winker,

773
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Speaker 3: it's easy.

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00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 4: She doesn't do it here, like she doesn't do it

775
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 4: on the show with me, But it's when we're having

776
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 4: our post or our pre show meetings and we're going

777
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 4: around the room with everyone like pitching different ideas and

778
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 4: talking and chatting. If she says something that I guess

779
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Speaker 4: she doesn't want us to know that it's the truth,

780
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Speaker 4: and who knows.

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Speaker 2: She just looks at me and winks, well, not nobody else.

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Speaker 3: What is that? So what what? Because I noticed during

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Speaker 3: this show you don't blink or wink. What is it

784
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Speaker 3: that you wink about? What is the message in your wik.

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Speaker 5: Ninety nine percent of the time, I want to rattle

786
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Speaker 5: Mark's cage a little bit, or like ruffle his feathers

787
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Speaker 5: a little bit, and so I'll say something that I

788
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 5: know is going to ruffle him, and I want her

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Speaker 5: to join in on the fun with me.

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Speaker 3: So we watch me manipulate and wind up. Our producers.

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00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 2: Get in on the wind up.

792
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 8: And it's.

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Speaker 2: Because I have computer.

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Speaker 3: So you need to hear her claim she is uncomfortable.

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Speaker 5: I can't wink. I can't see Mikayla. And if I

796
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 5: winked at Ruby, Mark would be able to see it

797
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 5: because it would be on my left side.

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Speaker 3: And the thing is, I'm a winker, so I got it,

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Speaker 3: and I do it like like I got you, bro,

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Speaker 3: or we're on the same page, or you know what

801
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 3: I'm saying, like I do like that because my mom

802
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 3: does it like that.

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00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no, I can't.

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00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 3: You don't wink and you don't blink. Have you ever

805
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 3: studied your being able to lubricate your eyes without blinking?

806
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 3: You don't.

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00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 5: I lubricate them on a daily basis. I use like drops.

808
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's my favorite part of the show, Sysney when

809
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 3: we say something to Tanya and this is an audio show,

810
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 3: right righty Titania and or ask something and she just

811
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,280
Speaker 3: opens her mouth and does it blink and doesn't say anything.

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00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,919
Speaker 2: Just maybe we'll get a nod, but he feel any better.

813
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 5: I also do this at home and Robbie will literally

814
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 5: like turn my head and be like the TV's that way.

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00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 3: Say something, say something. Uh, well, we are winkers, Tanya

816
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 3: and I and isn'tat we apologize at each other. Then

817
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 3: you make it look difficult to when you try on.

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00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 2: That and then she smiles to that. It's like a

819
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: double whammy.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate winkers. I like winkers. I'm a wink. That's

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Speaker 3: it for us today, Kiss FM. We're back tomorrow with

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00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 3: some more action, including a second date update. Thanks guys,

823
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 3: have a good one. It's Kiss FM. Thanks for listening

824
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,280
Speaker 3: to on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe

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Speaker 3: it and we'll talk to you again tomorrow