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Speaker 1: All right, let's bring in our guests. Please. Welcome from

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Speaker 1: gen season of The Bachelorette. Brady Bred.

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Speaker 2: Welcome, trying to meet you, guys.

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Speaker 4: We're so happy to me you.

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Speaker 3: I just I just saw all those record albums and

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Speaker 3: if people could see it, they're actually stored on the.

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Speaker 2: Wall on a nice case there. I'm missing a couple

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Speaker 2: back here. I got to tell those I've got a

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Speaker 2: couple of records. I'm just too lazy to put more

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Speaker 2: of those classics.

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Speaker 1: It's like work, you know, really, it is like I want.

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Speaker 2: To come home. I don't want to do more work.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 3: I love that you don't that you have albums, that

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Speaker 3: you have an actual turntable that you play them on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I coming back. My friend calls me

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Speaker 2: a hipster for doing that, and I but at some point,

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Speaker 2: I just gotta I just got to lean into it.

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Speaker 2: I just say it sounds crispery, you know, on the turn.

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Speaker 1: So did you just start this or has this been

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Speaker 1: annoying going.

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Speaker 2: Two years ago?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just you know, I like, really like music. And

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Speaker 2: then it's nice to kind of I'm not a collector

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Speaker 2: of anything, so now I can collect these and now.

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Speaker 1: You can talk about something too.

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Speaker 4: My son is a collector of music.

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Speaker 3: He's got like, I don't know, two thousand CITs, some

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Speaker 3: ungodly Yeah, he's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Love you realice, how much money you're actually putting into it.

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Speaker 4: I know, I don't put a diamond it.

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Speaker 2: He buys I slowed down big time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Or you paid ten dollars a month and store

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Speaker 1: your music on your phone.

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Speaker 2: Now there you go, and I do that too.

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Speaker 3: Now before we get into anything outside, one of the

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Speaker 3: questions for you, you I don't know where it is,

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Speaker 3: but Susan's from Philly and you're from Pennsylvania.

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Speaker 2: Yep, yep. So I grew up in near Gettysburg, so

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Speaker 2: a really small town, a lot of mountains, a lot

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Speaker 2: live in Mannheim, which is in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, probably about forty five to fifty minutes from me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's like twenty minutes from Leicester City. So

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Speaker 2: I lived in Lancaster for a little bit, but uh, definitely.

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Speaker 3: And then just one more question. People can't see what

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Speaker 3: you have on an Oriels. Who is is that the

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Speaker 4: Yes, it is a little different Philadelphia, So how do

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Speaker 2: Pennsylvan where I grew up is like five minutes from

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Speaker 4: I failed geography.

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Speaker 1: Pittsburgh is Pittsburgh, but the Steelers not A big Steelers fan.

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Speaker 2: An Eagles fan, Ravens. I was happy though for the

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Speaker 1: Yes I have.

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Speaker 2: I have a lot of friends or Eagles fans, and

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Speaker 2: you know the stigma around the Eagles fans. I put

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Speaker 2: that aside. This this playoff, there's scary.

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Speaker 1: It's good and you know they greased the polls, like

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Speaker 2: They try?

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Speaker 3: Okay, other than following your favorite sports teams and collecting albums.

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Speaker 1: Let's go on your wall.

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Speaker 4: Don't s going on your life? Tell us what are

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Speaker 2: You know. Working. So I work as a I'm working

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Speaker 2: a little bit of HR and and safety for a

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Speaker 2: mechanical solutions company, Industrial solutions. So we do like anything metal,

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Speaker 2: a lot of well, there's a lot of machine showing.

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Speaker 4: So are you like the Osha person that makes sure

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Speaker 4: my son does that?

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Speaker 2: Really? Yeah? Exactly, Yes, that's what I'm to school for.

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Speaker 4: He does it for a company here in Austin.

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Speaker 2: Oh. He sounds like a good guy.

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Speaker 1: My son's a great because you have the same job, that's.

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Speaker 2: What you have to adore being the safety guy. It's

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Speaker 1: What's what's different since coming off the show.

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Speaker 2: A little more attention, you know, I'm I like to

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Speaker 2: consider myself a pretty private guy. And now when I

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Speaker 2: go out and it's just it's cool. Though I can't

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Speaker 2: I get's it's fun, especially if I got my friends

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Speaker 2: sure you got.

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Speaker 4: How long did you stay on the show?

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Speaker 2: A day?

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Speaker 4: How did you feel? When can I even ask that?

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Speaker 4: How did you feel.

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Speaker 2: When I got sent home?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was it was like.

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Speaker 2: Ripping a band aid off. So it wasn't it wasn't

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Speaker 2: too bad. I think it happened so quick that it was. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys knew the experience. It's a little

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Speaker 2: I've never I've flown like twice before going out there,

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Speaker 2: So going across the country and just yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: over it though, going across the country definitely helped. But

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Speaker 2: let's let's calm down, and I pick up my phone

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Speaker 2: and it's blowing up. Oh yeah. I'm like, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I Actually the first thing I did. I flew into Baltimore.

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Speaker 2: was stuck to like a weighted vest if you know

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Speaker 2: just gonna move both of these. And when I moved

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Speaker 2: And then it was just when they announced the potential cast.

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Speaker 2: looking at me, the nurse, and I'm like, and my

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Speaker 2: mom said, she looked across, and then people looking at

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Speaker 2: their phones and looking at me. Right, I get back

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Speaker 2: there and she's like, you're the guy that could be

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Speaker 2: any I don't know what you're talking about. I could

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Speaker 2: be You're definitely the guy. And I'm like, who's asking? Right?

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Speaker 2: And thankfully I had a friend who works there, she

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Speaker 3: They were talking about, so where do you live now Manheim, Pennsylvania?

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Speaker 3: But I grew up in near Gettysburgh.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, and your family where do your parents live?

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Speaker 2: Still in near Gettysburg. She's like the biggest Bachelor Nation

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Speaker 1: She's like she.

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Speaker 2: Might have. I think she did. She's she's she's a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she's watch all Right, Well, we're gonna

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Speaker 3: we're gonna.

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Speaker 4: Be asking you some questions.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna dig a little deeper.

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Speaker 3: So bad tor Nation can get to know you better

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Speaker 3: and they can get some of your fabulous advice. But first,

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Speaker 3: of the day, Susan, go.

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Speaker 1: For it, and that is, what do you think is

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Speaker 1: the most important thing about yourself to showcase on a

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Speaker 2: HM. For me, it's definitely a sense of humor. And

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Speaker 2: I'm always firing off jokes and I think I need

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Speaker 2: me some validation there. But I'd say a sense of

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Speaker 2: humor just because it can show how unserious somebody can be,

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Speaker 2: especially in a first date. That's nerves are high on

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Speaker 2: those like you try. I try to go in pretty calm,

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Speaker 2: but if you care about it, you're gonna be nervous anyway.

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Speaker 2: I like anything you care about you're gonna be nervous for.

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Speaker 1: The gift of laughter is the best that makes it

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Speaker 1: more comfortable. Once you get it out, you know, and

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Speaker 2: You get the nerves down. And especially and that you

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Speaker 2: life is always going to be super serious no matter

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Speaker 2: what you do, things are going to go wrong. And

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Speaker 2: having the ability to, like, well, I do you have

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Speaker 2: to be angry about stuff all the time, and that.

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Speaker 1: What impresses you on a first date. I'm sorry, Kathy,

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Speaker 1: that's a good question.

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Speaker 2: Oh, probably the same thing, but I mean just someone.

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Speaker 2: I like to see someone who's caring at first you know.

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Speaker 2: That's a big thing for me.

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Speaker 1: Is just someone they're caring though first dates.

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Speaker 2: That's a good question. That's tough.

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Speaker 4: I can't answer that. If they ask questions about you, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's true.

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Speaker 1: They seem interested.

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Speaker 2: Yes, men have to work on that a little bit,

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Speaker 2: answering que asking questions back. I've been getting good at

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Speaker 2: like putting that them.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you, yeah, you should, because that's one

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Speaker 4: That's yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think the main thing is, like I'm just trying

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Speaker 2: to advertise myself to impress the girl, Hey, that doesn't work.

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Speaker 2: Going to let them do the same thing back a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and whatever you do, Brett, if you're if you're

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Speaker 4: I'm not even going to charge you. No dead fish keep.

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Speaker 2: And it's like because you know, like only the guys

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Speaker 3: Yeah and the guys and the guys guy, and then

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is what it is.

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Speaker 3: But so you you I read up a little bit

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Speaker 4: You have got no problem there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean at this point, yeah, I mean I'm

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Speaker 3: And you said, I you said, Barren swim truck, swim

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Speaker 2: There's so many like I well, if you guys have

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Speaker 2: And and but they're like I was like, if I'm

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Speaker 1: We're checking our d ms every day. We got we.

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Speaker 3: Got, we got thirty year olds who wanted to day.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not dating anybody now, No, not at all. Well,

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Speaker 2: I would say I'm picky, but I think everybody is.

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Speaker 4: I just did well season.

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Speaker 2: Drinking, barking up the right tree. But but I also

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Speaker 4: The guys are giants.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy. They're picking some prospects out. It's nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, as someone who's five eight, I appreciate the hype.

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Speaker 2: That's a good height. Too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, drink right.

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Speaker 1: It's awful. It's awful. It's awful. So you used to

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I think so, Like I'll notice if like I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 4: Hey, let me get you another beer.

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Speaker 1: I'm really sorry, I'm going and I'm sorry something like

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Speaker 2: It's if I did. Yeah, there's some times there's some intimidation, but.

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Speaker 2: I do enjoy a good beer. But what's your favorite beer? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Oh you're not into the bougie beers, then I don't

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Speaker 1: It hurts a corona with some lime. But I like

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Speaker 2: And the good line. I like a good line like

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Speaker 3: I can't now we're talking, okay, so or tequila and

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Speaker 2: I like in Minnesota. I don't like foka straight. I

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Speaker 1: What is your background? Like your family heritage?

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Speaker 2: Uh, German, Irish and Scottish.

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Speaker 1: And they were just in Scotland.

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Speaker 2: How was it? Oh? They were I was watched.

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Speaker 4: I live in Scotland. It is beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I really want to go Scotland Island.

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Speaker 3: I have to make the news to you, Bratt, you

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's what he said. The hardest

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Speaker 1: Just no clue what they're saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so I have to ask you a question Brett.

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't know this, but back in the day, I

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Speaker 3: I pushed the scales like two hundred pounds. I was

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Speaker 3: you're a guy. And but I think Bachelor Nation people

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Speaker 4: What is that?

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 4: What was the experience like, and what's the response been?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was interesting, you know, but I don't fit

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Speaker 2: I mean, I've always been a large guy, so you know,

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Speaker 2: you had a lot of attention for that.

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Speaker 4: But positive I'm hoping though, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: For the most part. Yeah, yeah, I mean there's there's

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Speaker 2: A bodybuilder, a powerlifter or something.

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Speaker 1: Like taking steroids.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, well and uh yeah, some people are arguing

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Speaker 2: them Mark you were talking about you know what?

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Speaker 4: Said? He goes, listen, I don't care. Just pour me

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Speaker 4: a beer. I really can't.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm like. Just give me another beer and

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Speaker 2: I'll be good.

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Speaker 1: He's got such a kind face, he's so sweet.

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Speaker 4: I know you're like a teddy bear.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I keep that a lot, Yeah, try to keep

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Speaker 2: I don't because you have a great smile.

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Speaker 3: But you have a great smile and an easy demeanor.

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Speaker 3: That's why thank you. You never know what somebody else's day.

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Speaker 3: Do one nice thing for somebody to say, one nice

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, my dad kind of pushed that into me

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Speaker 2: as a kid, just helping, like make friends with someone

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Speaker 2: you wouldn't normally go out of your way to be

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Speaker 4: All right, let's get into our fan questions for today. Brett.

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Speaker 3: We answer fan questions and we want you to join

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Speaker 3: in and give some sage advice. I'm gonna read this

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Speaker 3: here we go. Anonymous asks, O MG, I need your help.

444
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,439
Speaker 3: A year ago, my best friend finally broke up with

445
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 3: her shitty boyfriend that she was with for three years.

446
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,479
Speaker 3: For context, we're both twenty six now. She still is

447
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 3: yet to even remotely move on, and it's finally gotten

448
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 3: to a point where I need to seriously step in.

449
00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,639
Speaker 3: I let her grieve the relationship they broke up because

450
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,800
Speaker 3: he cheated and heal for the first six months. It's

451
00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:52,879
Speaker 3: one thing to not really want a serious relationship, but

452
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 3: she wanted to explore the.

453
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 4: Idea of someone else.

454
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 3: I'm honestly worried because I don't want her to think

455
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 3: about going back to him is even an option. How

456
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 3: do I help her get back out there and at

457
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 3: least get comfortable with dating and keeping her eyes open.

458
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to rush her, but I feel like

459
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 3: if I let her, she'll never get back out there.

460
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:17,359
Speaker 1: Wow, and it's way past six months.

461
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 4: Do you want us to give her your phone number?

462
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 2: I guess so. I mean I as couch her through this.

463
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,680
Speaker 2: You know, you know, as your friend, you got to

464
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 2: be a good friend and yeah, and that is okay,

465
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 2: there we go.

466
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Speaker 4: How old are you brat?

467
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah?

468
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 4: How old are you?

469
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 2: Brett twenty nine?

470
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 4: Oh she's twenty six, let me go her call me

471
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 4: all right.

472
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: No, she's being a good friend by reaching out and help.

473
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 2: She wants some help. What does she do?

474
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 1: What would you do?

475
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's very tough. She said they dated

476
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 2: for three years.

477
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then he cheated on her. Yeah.

478
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a delicate it's a fine line there because

479
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 2: you know, it's a delicate situation where you're like, I

480
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 2: haven't been in those shoes before, but I've that happen.

481
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 2: And first off, can I swear yes, yes, fuss that guy?

482
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 1: I say it all the time.

483
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: And you but you got to tell your friendly fuck him.

484
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: And but you have to be delicate because there's a

485
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:17,919
Speaker 2: three year situation. Relationship's six months. Yeah, I know, but

486
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 2: it's like people, Yeah, it's you gotta be tough love,

487
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: but be comforting after that, you know, like, hey, just

488
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 2: lay it all out there. You don't have to be

489
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,719
Speaker 2: shy about it and just said, look what he did sucks.

490
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: You can't go back to him because he's just gonna

491
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 2: use that again, he already portrayed you once. I don't

492
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 2: care if he's changed. He already messed you over once.

493
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 2: We got to find something else, because there's better people

494
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 2: out there who won't do that to your work more

495
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 2: than that, right, I love that.

496
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Speaker 4: I love what you just said.

497
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 3: But also I would say to my best friend, I

498
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 3: would say, you know, line here and and moping and

499
00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 3: just feeling horrible, do you realize you're giving away all

500
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 3: your power to him? He doesn't deserve it, He doesn't

501
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 3: deserve your bright light. That you're letting him extinguish your bread, like,

502
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 3: don't let him do that.

503
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: Like and also anonymous, you're saying I don't want to

504
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: rush her. You are not rushing her. Six months, six months,

505
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,360
Speaker 1: plenty of time to mourn. Now it's time to take

506
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: the first step.

507
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a hard one. But here, hey, at

508
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 2: least go on one shitty date where the guy doesn't

509
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 2: ask you any questions and like that, and then you'll

510
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 2: be like, all right, now.

511
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 4: See that's the problem she.

512
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 3: I'm guessing it's funny you said that, Bratt, because I'm

513
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 3: guessing she thought this was her guy.

514
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: There.

515
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 3: She already had picked out her wedding gown and what

516
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 3: style engagement.

517
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 1: She's crushed.

518
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,640
Speaker 3: She's crushed, and so exactly what you're saying, she's probably

519
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 3: exactly saying. That's, oh, you know, I don't want to

520
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 3: go back out. Their men are shit. You know, they lie,

521
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 3: they cheap, they steal. You know, I don't want a

522
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,360
Speaker 3: shitty date. That's probably exactly what she's right.

523
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 2: And that's a weird age too, like twenty three to

524
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: twenty six. It's like you just left college. You're probably like, well,

525
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:07,360
Speaker 2: I got I got my guy now and we're gonna yeah, yeah,

526
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 2: but you don't realize it's like twenty six is a

527
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 2: great agent there. I'm only three years removed from it,

528
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 2: but she was out there.

529
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:18,959
Speaker 1: She's gonna start loving herself again and not blaming herself.

530
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: And know how shallow that asshole is.

531
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, fuck, that guy sent his address and.

532
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: I would just hope that that guy it happens to him.

533
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 2: They never take him, does it?

534
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 4: You think it does? Brad?

535
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: I feel like yeah, I mean uh, I feel like,

536
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 2: especially because the kind of people you attract doing that

537
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 2: kind of stuff, that if someone's openly willing to do

538
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 2: that with you, I mean, who knows if I don't.

539
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 4: I think exactly the opposite.

540
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 3: I think I don't know where this is coming from,

541
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 3: but I just feel like men who cheat typically have

542
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 3: really nice, decent girlfriends and and that's who they pick

543
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 3: because they want to be cared for and taken care of,

544
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 3: and they then they're gonna cheat on them. It's the

545
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,719
Speaker 3: bitchy girls who guys don't. I mean, I don't know

546
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 3: if I'm right or wrong.

547
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 2: It just feels might make sense. Yeah, it does seem

548
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 2: to happen to the girls.

549
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: Would be like I'm going to flick you like a

550
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: flying out of here.

551
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, the bitchy girls. Would you know? He wouldn't dare

552
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 3: do it. He wouldn't dare. So is the lessener to

553
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 3: be a bit if you're a girl, I guess.

554
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 2: So you got to have a little bit of my mom.

555
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 2: My mom is very sweet and I love her to death.

556
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 4: She's got it in her.

557
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's got a little bit. I mean I've

558
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 2: seen her when she has to be the top dog,

559
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 2: and yeah are women.

560
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if you guys would just learn to

561
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 3: follow the leader, us being the leaders, right.

562
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 2: We'll get a fall line and then life will be easier.

563
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 4: Oh god, alright, all right, all right, we got it

564
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 4: all right.

565
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna play a little game. We're gonna ask

566
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: some fun questions. And this is so the listeners will

567
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 1: really get to know you. What would be the name

568
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: of your autobiography?

569
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 2: Dumb luck? I like it?

570
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 4: Why tell me why?

571
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: You know?

572
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 2: I just find myself in pretty decent situations here for

573
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: no good reasons.

574
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: So I think it's a lot of your attitude towards life.

575
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: How it does help, you know? Yeah? So I try to,

576
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: like I said, give out some kindness, but I get

577
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 2: rewarded here and there. Like I just found myself on

578
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 2: the Bachelorette when I wasn't even searching for that. So

579
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 2: how did you get on that? My best friend so

580
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 2: him and his wife watch it religiously, like all all

581
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,959
Speaker 2: every season, And one day he asked me for a

582
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 2: picture and my email, and I he did, he just

583
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 2: submitted me and then you know, I completely forgot about it.

584
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 2: And then one day, you know, I get a call.

585
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, the hell is this? And then were you mad? No?

586
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: I just thought I completely forgotten. I was laughing because

587
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't believe that this is.

588
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 4: You don't regret doing it.

589
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 2: No, not at all.

590
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 3: No, All right, who would I think I know the

591
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 3: answer to this question. But who is someone that inspires you?

592
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, probably my parents. Both of them do a

593
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: good job. But I just looking back, my dad taught me,

594
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 2: has taught me, and I make fun of him for

595
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 2: a lot of stupid lessons in my life that I

596
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 2: think when I was watching football games with him, he

597
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: would just look over and I was like five to seven,

598
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 2: and he would say something it would stick in my brain.

599
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 2: Now I've usedless information. So you're talking a lot of

600
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 2: good lessons. And my mom taught me you can be

601
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 2: kind and still be a bitch Yep, And.

602
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 4: Wait what, I want to know, what's what's one of

603
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 4: the best lessons your dad taught you.

604
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 2: One of the good ones was just kind of, like

605
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 2: like I said earlier, being kind of people because you

606
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 2: never know the effect it's going to have, kind of

607
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 2: going out of your way to be friends with people

608
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 2: maybe that are having a tough time and you know,

609
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: like maybe someone that would be considered a nerd or

610
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 2: a band kid, or maybe they are really into academics

611
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 2: or they're just getting bullied a lot. Yeah, you know,

612
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 2: being an athletic, so it was in a small school,

613
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 2: so I got to rub shoulders with a lot of people.

614
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 2: But just I think the biggest thing for me coming

615
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 2: off the show was seeing comments from people that I

616
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 2: knew and maybe wouldn't consider a friend but acquaintances or

617
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 2: rubbed shoulders with and knew them briefly and saying nice

618
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 2: things about me. It's like, oh, it made me realize

619
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,959
Speaker 2: how just being kind to someone in a small moment

620
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: the first.

621
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 3: And they don't have to Okay, wait, did you ever

622
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 3: get in trouble? Did your dad ever have to like

623
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 3: discipline you?

624
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 4: Your mom?

625
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 2: I was a dickad when I was a kid. What

626
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: you didn't give me? Example, didn't clean your eyebrows off?

627
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: So you know, you know did you do that? Oh?

628
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: It was I was in fifth grade and it was

629
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: the day before picture day, which is oh my god.

630
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 2: And uh So we lived in an a frame house

631
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 2: in the mountains, so we had one one bathroom and

632
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 2: that was my parents. And the night before, like I

633
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: was like, I just thought, for whatever reason, I had

634
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,479
Speaker 2: a unibrow and I didn't. But I didn't know how

635
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: to shave, so I just threw shaving cream all over

636
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: my forehead and just started going at it, and then

637
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 2: I realized I nicked like too far on this side,

638
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: So then I tried to even it out until I

639
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: had like made it look really weird, all look bad

640
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 2: and and uh.

641
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 4: Did you cry?

642
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 2: She didn't see me right away. I hit it that

643
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: night and I went I went to school thinking no

644
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: one would notice, and everybody was like, what is wrong?

645
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,239
Speaker 2: What is wrong with your face? I have my hood up.

646
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 2: And I remember crying during the day because I were

647
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 2: like all my friends were like, what an idiot? What

648
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: are you doing?

649
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 3: You do?

650
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 2: And I came back and I thought I thought my

651
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 2: dad would be just pissed at me. He asked, oh,

652
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: he laughed. I started crying in front of him because

653
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 2: he was laughing his ass off at me. He just

654
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: took me for a walk. We went we went to

655
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 2: the park and he was just talking. He was like,

656
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 2: buddy will grow back in a couple couple of weeks.

657
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 2: And my mom thought it was hilarious and she we've

658
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 2: got student ideas then, and she kept it. She hasn't heard.

659
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: I would definitely love it would.

660
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: Be a big picture in the house.

661
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 4: I mean, oh, that is so good.

662
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: Okay, what is your idea of a dream vacation.

663
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 4: Anywhere he doesn't have to get on an airplane teleport.

664
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 2: I can teleport. How about a boat.

665
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: Do you like cruising?

666
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. No, I don't either. I don't like

667
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 2: boats either. I like boats on a lake. So me

668
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: and my friends go to, uh if you're familiar with

669
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: the Poconos, Yeah, in Pennsylvania, So we go up there

670
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 2: once a year. I've got two separate friend groups, so

671
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 2: we do that. So those are.

672
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: That's your dream vacation, that's your dream. Yeah, anywhere in

673
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 1: the world. You want to go to the mountains and

674
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: the Boconos in your hometown the same state.

675
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a simple guy.

676
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: Please get up to New York cat skills.

677
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: I mean, give me a kayak and a beer and

678
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 2: I'm in heaven.

679
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 4: Come to Austin. I've got a two man kayak. I

680
00:30:58,840 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 4: like Austin on kayak with you.

681
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: Great things about Austin, you will go.

682
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 3: All right, great, great, I grew up here. I didn't

683
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 3: grow up here. I grew up in Massachusetts.

684
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 2: But I like Boston from right outside of Yeah, it

685
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: was it was very cool.

686
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 3: Okay, given all the photo music albums on your wall,

687
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 3: what was your favorite band of musician when you were

688
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: in high school?

689
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: High school? Currently? Right now, my favorite band is a

690
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 2: band called Camp that is C A A M P.

691
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 2: And they're like little Mountain music, a little banjo boy.

692
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, Okay, did you you're too young? When

693
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 3: I was? Do you like jug band music?

694
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: Junk band?

695
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: Jug band? Oh yeah, like Jimmy remember like Jim Queskin.

696
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 3: Do you have you ever heard that name Jim Queskin?

697
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: I was back in my day.

698
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: He was as I like.

699
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: I grew up on Johnny Cash, Johnny Cash and those guys,

700
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: so I really like John Cash and his It was

701
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 2: a good mixture.

702
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 3: Like you know, who's your modern who's your favorite country

703
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: modern artist?

704
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: Oh? Pop?

705
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: Country?

706
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: Pop?

707
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: I'm not ill country people aren't into pop.

708
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,959
Speaker 2: I'm not really into pop country. I'm okay with it.

709
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 2: It gets the job done, you know, if you're drinking

710
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 2: a beer or something. But I do like Luke Combs.

711
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 2: If we're talking pop country people compared to that, I

712
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 2: look like him, And I don't.

713
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 3: Think you're better looking than Luke.

714
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 2: Thank you. I think that's a great though. But just

715
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 2: in case it gets back to him. But oh country,

716
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 2: there's a guy with the name of Charles Wesley Godwin

717
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 2: that I really like.

718
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 4: Oh, I have to listen to him.

719
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: So he's a West Virginia guys, mountain guy. He's got

720
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: some good some good music, all right. He got love songs.

721
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 2: I'm a sucker for a love song. He's got a

722
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 2: good bit of those.

723
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: I almost said hopeless.

724
00:32:55,840 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 3: Kathy god Wins his last name yep, yep, okay g

725
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: O w w g o d w y m yep.

726
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:06,719
Speaker 2: That's him, got it.

727
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: So I don't know if you had a chance to

728
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: get close with any of the men on the show.

729
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: But if you had to pick three guys from your

730
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: season and you were going to be on a deserted island,

731
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: who would they be?

732
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 2: Are we talking for entertainment or survival?

733
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 4: That's up to you.

734
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm taking Hakim either way, and I know he's gonna

735
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: watch this. I would do.

736
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: I love hockey, So.

737
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: I'm bringing Hakim.

738
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: But to her spirits up right, yeah, I don't.

739
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 2: And and maybe to keep me grounded, you know, and

740
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 2: just from the fact that he'll out talk me too.

741
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: But it's entertaining. It's good stuff. He has good points,

742
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 2: But I don't know how much he's gonna.

743
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 3: Help beer though, if you can find a bear.

744
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: Yea, he's got the effort though, I'll give him that,

745
00:33:56,040 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 2: he would try. Man, you know, I think of bringing Spencer.

746
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: I'm a big Spencer fan. Okay, Spencer's got a good attitude,

747
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 2: Spencer's got a good He's got the enthusiasm, He's got

748
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 2: the kindness and good kind of heart. But I've also

749
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 2: seen him when he's pushed to not being happy, he's

750
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 2: able to snap. I mean, yeah, yeah.

751
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 4: All right, we need one more.

752
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna upset somebody with this. But you know, whatever

753
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 2: you do, it's always gonna You could.

754
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 3: Say, wait, Brett, you could say, just just give me

755
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 3: an out here. You could say, you know, I can't

756
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 3: really pick a third guy, so instead I'm going to

757
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 3: trade one guy for Susan and Cathy.

758
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: I can do that.

759
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, You're welcome, but I'm gonna make you get on

760
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 1: an airplane, baby, all right.

761
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 2: You know what. I'm over it. I've gotten over it.

762
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 2: The way in was like, the first flight out to

763
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: l A was kind of I was like, well, I'm

764
00:34:56,680 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 2: gonna die, and and then the way back it was

765
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 2: a little easier. And then the second flight out for

766
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 2: the tell all that was like, I'm an expert, now

767
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 2: I know. There you go.

768
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 4: It's the same thing.

769
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,760
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't drink anything. I didn't eat anything.

770
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: I didn't use the bathroom. I didn't sleep No, I

771
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: can't sleep in money, didn't or planes or anything like that.

772
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm okay.

773
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 3: Well, Well, while Brett is thinking about trains planes and

774
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 3: what is it? Trains planes and trains planes, I can't remember. No,

775
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 3: there's a line trains planes and well I blew that one.

776
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 3: I can't remember, and and and since I blew that one,

777
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 3: we're just going to end it here, planes, trains, and automobiles.

778
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 4: Thank you. I came to me planes, trains, and you've

779
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 4: never heard that.

780
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: I forget it.

781
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: Wait before we wrapped up that one more. Okay, I

782
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: want to know his ideal first date.

783
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 2: Mmm.

784
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 4: She has to be upright, she has to be verbal.

785
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: Hmm.

786
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: Do you like the city she wants?

787
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 4: She wants to drink a beer?

788
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, she doesn't have to though, that's okay.

789
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 4: No, I mean if she's drinking, you'd like a beer?

790
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah. If i'm I would like a beer definitely. Oh.

791
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 2: I'm so bad at the first date thing. I'll be

792
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: when I get there. It's good. You know, I can

793
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: just be me and be cool. But planning it is

794
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 2: one of the.

795
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 3: We got to wrap this episode, but you and I

796
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 3: are going to get on the fundator.

797
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,439
Speaker 4: And I wonder how to plan. We're going to plan

798
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 4: a day cube, Brett. We're gonna make it happen.

799
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: The brewery, maybe some darts. I've learned that I'm okay

800
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 2: at darts, so I like that something to you know,

801
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: like like like that works. Yeah, something to do that

802
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 2: you just don't think about you're doing. Just talk at

803
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: the same time, you know, because when you're just hitting

804
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 2: down like it's dinner, that's great, but you're just it's

805
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 2: just you don't.

806
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: Have dinner, but it's conversation, you know.

807
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 4: But you can't be afraid of conversation. You just can't

808
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 4: be okay.

809
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: I don't think I'm just I'm going to say something stupid.

810
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 4: But all right, Well, thanks really thank you, Brett.

811
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,280
Speaker 3: We had not met before, but you are as lovely

812
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 3: and funny and kind as we heard you were. So

813
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 3: thank you for joining us and dishing out some really

814
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 3: great advice.

815
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 2: Thank you it was good to meet you guys finally.

816
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: And thank everybody else for joining us today and be

817
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: sure to follow us on Bachelor Happy Hour as we

818
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 1: have new episodes coming out every week and lots of

819
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: new guests.

820
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:34,400
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