1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to a breaking news episode of the 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: Almost Famous podcast today. I am joined, of course, by 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: my lovely, beautiful, intelligent co host. 6 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 3: Ben Hagen's gracious. 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 2: And like the Andy Cohen of the Bachelor franchise, specifically 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 2: on TikTok, his name is Zachary Reality. We're so happy 9 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 2: to have him. 10 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 4: So happy to be here, especially like after such a 11 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 4: crazy year of Bachelor Nation. So it's a good time 12 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 4: to come on with the end of the year. So 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 4: Happy New Year, guys, Almost. 14 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 2: Happy Almost New Year. Well, so Friday afternoon, Jill and 15 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 2: I are here. We're looking at all the instagrams of 16 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:48,599 Speaker 2: the quote happy couples and we're like, why are none 17 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: of these people hosting pictures of each other? There are 18 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: no Instagram hard launches, and to this time we still 19 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: don't have some you know. 20 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 3: True. 21 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, So, first off, Aaron and Eliza have not to 22 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: be heard from at all on Instagram. 23 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 3: What about Kat and John Henry. 24 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: She posted a story that they were going to move 25 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 4: to San Diego together, or that's what it said in 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 4: the credits. Yeah, they posted that they were like still together, 27 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 4: and then he reposted her story but nothing else but. 28 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: Just stories, and Jill and I thought that was a 29 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 2: little weird. Then we were like trying to explain it, 30 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 2: saying like, possibly the show may have like not wanted 31 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: spoilers to the people who were watching on Hulu. Maybe 32 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 2: they gave him a little bit of like a twenty 33 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: four hour hold. But then I'm at a Jonas Parler 34 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 2: concert and all of a sudden Ben texts me, and 35 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: he goes Kylie and Avan they just posted that they 36 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 2: what they broke up or that he cheated, and I 37 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: was like, well, wait a second. And then you were like, 38 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 2: but he posted yesterday that they were together. And I'm like, 39 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: I was literally on their Instagram, like not even twenty. 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 3: Four hours ago. 41 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: How they posted that they were together in this amount 42 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: of time, in this twenty four hour spand you're telling 43 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: me they went from nothing which was weird, to actually 44 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 2: posting something to then posting a breakup announcement. How did 45 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: that all happen so fast? Like this is where we 46 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 2: have to pour in, Zach, Why don't we. 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 3: Actually hasn't Ashley hasn't breathed yet, She's just good. 48 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 2: I like, so weird it out about what possibly happened. So, Zach, 49 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: why don't you'll break it down for us a little 50 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: bit and then we'll do the speculation. 51 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 4: So she posted a couple photos of him throughout the season, 52 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 4: just of like what was on the show, so just 53 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 4: kind of like promoting the show whatever. So he was 54 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 4: already on her grid, but he never posted her to 55 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 4: begin with. The day after the show, we all see 56 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 4: what happens. They leave together as boyfriend and girlfriends because 57 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 4: she wanted to get engaged and Avan did not, and 58 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 4: we can get into that too. But then the day 59 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 4: after the show, they post a picture together, very high quality. 60 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 4: They probably hired a photographer. I thought it was a 61 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 4: movin post because it looked like it was in an 62 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 4: apartment that they moved in together on Instagram. 63 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 2: But there's no confirmation of this. Is this speculation, Yeah, okay. 64 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 4: So that's what it assumes. I mean, the caption was 65 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 4: like we you know, when something's worth fighting for. 66 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 67 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 4: So then the next day or like hours later, she 68 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 4: posts a story. I don't know if you want to 69 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 4: like read it word for word, but basically saying that 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 4: there was multiple infidelities and that things have come to 71 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 4: the light. So then she untags herself and deletes all 72 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 4: those posts, so there was three of him on her page, 73 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 4: and then unfollows him. She has the story up, and 74 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 4: then the next morning he posts that he confirmed he 75 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 4: did cheat on her. He's working on himself. He apologizes, 76 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 4: and then he deletes the posts from his page, but 77 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 4: he still follows her. 78 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 3: You know, I get all of my information, so Ashley 79 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 3: mentioned that the texted her. I get all of my 80 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 3: information from you. I love it. So I just want 81 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: to tell everybody out there, you know, as we continue 82 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 3: this conversation, if you want to stay up to date 83 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 3: with reality television, right, I mean in general Bachelor and 84 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 3: Bachelor I kind of get focused on while the seasons 85 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 3: are airing. But then you also, you do have a 86 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 3: lot of good breaking news, and you do a great 87 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 3: job at not spreading rumors that are not you know, 88 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 3: verified and validated. Yet I think it's a really hard 89 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 3: thing to do because well, bacheloration does weird stuff all 90 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 3: the time. Okay, So two thoughts on what what you 91 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 3: were saying. If you would have given me like odds 92 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 3: on which couple I put money on working after this, 93 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 3: quite honestly, I don't know if any of them, I 94 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 3: don't know if there's only zero of them, zero of them. 95 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 3: But if you would have told me that Kat and 96 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 3: John Henry had the best shot, that would have been 97 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: the wildest thing I've ever heard that. I mean, at 98 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 3: least even and Kylie weren't shown on the show, which 99 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 3: typically on Bachelor in Paradise means that they're doing our right. So, 100 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: you know, let's kind of transition here because we've talked 101 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 3: about what's happened. They've broke up within a day of 102 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 3: this announcement going on, there's infidelities. Is there anything else 103 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 3: out there that we know on what happened here? Like 104 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: how did she find out? When did she find out? 105 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 3: Did she find out before the show was over? Maybe 106 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 3: the show said, hey, don't say anything about it yet. 107 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 4: No, no, no, she said, twenty four hours. 108 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's a shocking thing. Twenty four hours. 109 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: Why what I'm assuming is that girls once she hard 110 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 2: launched the Instagram and said like a confirm that they 111 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: were still together despite what they said at the end 112 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 2: of the episode, Because the end of the episode does 113 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: seem like one I think the show ABC is going 114 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 2: to be a little bit positive about where the couples are, 115 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: especially after you watched that final episode. And I also 116 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: think that like it maybe even be a little bit 117 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 2: outdated the information on there. So once they hard launched 118 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 2: that they were in fact still together, you think that 119 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 2: certain girls flooded her Instagram box saying that like we 120 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: saw him cheating on you, or like I was the 121 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: one he cheated on you with. 122 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 4: That's the only possibility that she got a bunch of 123 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 4: dms with photoproof. I mean for her to post that 124 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 4: so quickly, like she believed it immediately, and how hard 125 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 4: is it to cheat when you're on a show, so 126 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 4: you have to be low key anyway. He lives in 127 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 4: San Diego and she's in North Carolina, so it's not 128 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,119 Speaker 4: like he couldn't get away with it for this long. 129 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 4: They're not allowed to post together anyway, and I think 130 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 4: she was like, all right, I'm your girl, post me 131 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 4: on your Instagram. And maybe he didn't want to do 132 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 4: the post to begin with, kind of like how he 133 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 4: didn't want to get engaged and she did, and that 134 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 4: he was exposed within twenty four hours, so she had 135 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 4: no choice but to break up with him. 136 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: It's shocking that throughout the entire season. He never posted 137 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: one promo shot of the two of them together. That 138 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 2: says a lot in hindsight. 139 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:45,679 Speaker 5: It says everything. 140 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 3: It's an really interesting dynamic because you know, we can 141 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 3: go in here and I don't know even personally, and 142 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 3: I don't know Kylie at all. In fact, I didn't 143 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 3: even know who she was, and she came on the season. 144 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 3: At least I knew him because he was, you know, 145 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 3: late into the season, he was on Rachel Rachel's season, 146 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 3: thank you. But like there's some there's just bad behavior 147 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 3: obviously happening, because now he's owned up to it, Like 148 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 3: this isn't an assumption or a guest that you know 149 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 3: he was cheating. No, he's owned up to it. She 150 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 3: was very clear. I read her post. I was like 151 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 3: that she went at him like she's pissed, she's mad, 152 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 3: she's her Bachelor Data And I want to hear your 153 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: two thoughts on this, because I don't understand the world 154 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 3: very much anymore, especially people's reactions to stuff. Bachelor Data 155 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 3: came out yesterday and said that on her post, she 156 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 3: had a lot of comments that were kind of hating 157 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 3: on Kylie, being very mean to Kylie in this process. 158 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 3: Once Bachelor Data posted about the infidelities, why like, can 159 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 3: you guys explain to me why Kylie was now the 160 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 3: one getting hated on for it. Well, I'll say this. 161 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: On my episode with Jill on Friday, I said that 162 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 2: that episode made me like just kind of like, ough, Kylie, 163 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 2: what the hell I look with the whole engagement Like literally, 164 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: it seemed like all she cared about was engagement. But 165 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 2: now my whole perspective is well sort of change what 166 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: I think. She was too obsessed with the thought of it, 167 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 2: but now that I see that she has been cheated on, 168 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 2: I'm just like think, God, you didn't get engaged. Could 169 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 2: you imagine having wasted that moment on a man like this? 170 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 3: Oh? 171 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 4: I never understood why people get engaged on the show. 172 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,079 Speaker 4: I still can't fathom it after only being together for 173 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 4: that many weeks. Like I literally do not think I 174 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 4: could do it. So I always get really surprised. 175 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 2: There's just not enough pressure to get engaged on Paradise. 176 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:53,439 Speaker 2: I mean, you can so easily leave Paradise not engaged 177 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: and last, So That's why I'm like you, I understand 178 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 2: the pressure that comes from the main show, and you're 179 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: gonna get a lot of pressure from Bachelor Paradise too, 180 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 2: but in Paradise you can finangle it to. 181 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 3: Not Okay, can we go back to my question. We've 182 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: got off this. So I think what Ashley was saying 183 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 3: there was that maybe people were hating on Kylie because 184 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 3: the only perspective of Kylie they have is maybe from 185 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 3: the show, and that she was a little pushy and maybe, 186 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 3: you know, some people found her annoying. Yeah, so people 187 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 3: are like, I don't like Kylie anyways, like you know whatever. Still, 188 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 3: that's why I get confused. But that's where I get 189 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 3: confused with people's response to things like this, And I 190 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 3: need Zachary now to tell me, like, have you seen 191 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 3: these comments that are mean? Why are people being mean 192 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 3: to Kylie? Is there a second story here that I'm missing? 193 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 6: See? 194 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 5: It feels like a lot of people are now starting 195 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 5: to support her. 196 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 4: I think people were mean to her during the season 197 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 4: a little bit because it felt like she was pushy 198 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 4: with Avan and like wanted more than she was getting. 199 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 4: And then the whole Blake thing at the end was 200 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 4: really strange. So maybe there were some red flags that 201 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 4: she ignored. So that's why people are possibly coming for her, 202 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 4: But I think you have to like rally for Kylie 203 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 4: because she was the one that was cheated on, Like 204 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 4: she posted that picture with him so excited to finally 205 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 4: show it off. Like you guys know how exciting it 206 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 4: is after the show to finally post your relationship. So 207 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 4: you can only imagine how like embarrassed and devastated she 208 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 4: feels to have to take that down within twenty four 209 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 4: hours after thinking that for three five months that she 210 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 4: was going to post with this man and this was 211 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 4: going to be this whole thing. 212 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 3: I would be going scorched earth if I was hurt, 213 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: Like I would be just absolutely throwing darts right now, 214 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 3: And she kind of did. I mean, her post was 215 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 3: as direct of a breakup post as I've ever seen, 216 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 3: Like she was like, no, screw that. Twenty four hours later, 217 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 3: he's cheated on me. Please respect my time in privacy 218 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 3: because honestly, I'm boiling over and I get it, Like, 219 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 3: I just didn't understand why people were at not supporting 220 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 3: her a one hundred percent. What Zachary is saying is 221 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: maybe during the show they weren't, but then like twenty 222 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 3: four hours later, once this came out and the dust settled. 223 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 3: Then everybody's kind of back on like, hey, she was 224 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 3: cheated on, Like we got a rally that makes sense 225 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 3: to me. 226 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 2: Now let's talk about how absolutely crazy Even has to 227 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 2: be to cheat on somebody in the midst of having 228 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: a televised relationship with them in which it ends with 229 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: them leaving together. 230 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 4: What I feel like we have to read his statement 231 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 4: before like discussing it, because okay, read this saves a 232 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 4: lot to unpack with it. 233 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 5: Let me get it up. 234 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 3: As Zach pulls us up, I have a general question 235 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 3: for you, Ashley and Zach as he's kind of pulling 236 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 3: up the statement. Have we ever had a scenario in 237 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 3: Bachelor Nation like this, like a cheating scandal I mean 238 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 3: a cheating scandal while the season's airing, you know, and 239 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,599 Speaker 3: after the season's done, and they're like, yeah, he was 240 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 3: cheating on me, Like I'm sure we have. 241 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 4: But you know, what's interesting as people are saying that 242 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 4: the same thing happened with Brandon and Serene but they 243 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 4: actually got engaged, but apparently he cheated on her. And 244 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 4: what's interesting is that Brandon and Even have the same 245 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 4: last name, and Serene and Kylie have the same last 246 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 4: name too. Whoaas Brandon Jones, Avan Jones, Kylie Russell, Serene Russell. 247 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 2: That is but Nanas, now, wait when he did when 248 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 2: Brandon cheated though, that was far into their relationship, right 249 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 2: and but I mean not that that excuses anything. It's 250 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: just like wild that like while they're still front and 251 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 2: center and people are still waiting to find out like 252 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: if the end and engagement or whatnot. 253 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's out there. 254 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 4: There's no excuse for why he cheated. 255 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 3: He says, there's never an excuse. Really. Yeah. 256 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,719 Speaker 4: So, after a careful thought and consideration into writing this, 257 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 4: I want to first and foremost apologize to Kylie, my family, 258 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 4: and my friends for my actions. I have made major 259 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 4: mistakes in the relationship and hurt someone who was very 260 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 4: close to me at this time. I am extremely I 261 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 4: am an extremely low place, trying to work on myself. 262 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 4: I am doing my best to find healing and be 263 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 4: a better person. Please have grace and respect for Kylie 264 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 4: and her family through this difficult time. 265 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 5: Thank you. 266 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 3: Again. I don't know even I don't know Kylie. There 267 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 3: is not like a character judgment that I can fully 268 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 3: make and get behind right now because I just don't 269 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: know them, and so I can't say, yeah, we saw 270 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 3: this coming or we didn't. It's a terrible decision no 271 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 3: matter what. And he's owning it, right, it's a terrible decision. 272 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 3: It's not okay, rally behind. I just feel like the 273 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 3: line there, please have grace for Kylie and her family 274 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 3: or friends at this time, like I think it should be, 275 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 3: please have grace for me, Like what's Kylie getting grace for? 276 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: Like maybe support like support, but like grace and support 277 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:33,559 Speaker 3: aren't the same thing, like graces like unconditional forgiveness, and 278 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 3: I don't know she needs forgiveness right now. Yeah, that's 279 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 3: actually very strange, is that it is not anyway, Maybe 280 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 3: just a weird word choice after days of thinking about 281 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 3: the post, but no matter what, Let's go back then 282 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 3: to he's owning this. This is this is a thing 283 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 3: not being denied. But at this point all we have 284 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 3: are these two like posts, right, we don't have any 285 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 3: other information coming out. There's no other interviews and there's 286 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 3: no pictures leaked anything like that. Ryzach no Zachary. 287 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 5: So at least he owned it. 288 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 4: I think that's where we can at least give him credit, 289 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 4: Like he literally said he confirmed it. 290 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 5: Immediately. I think. 291 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 4: I feel like so many guys would lie about it 292 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,199 Speaker 4: or wait days or try and twist the narrative. 293 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 5: So I can at least respect that. 294 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 4: And now it's like nipped in the butt, like she 295 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 4: found out she was cheated on. He owns it, he 296 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 4: says he's sorry, he's gonna work on himself. So there's 297 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 4: no more speculation because they both were so straightforward, like 298 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 4: you were saying about Kylie's post, like they're both really 299 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 4: straightforward in their stories. We know exactly where they stand. 300 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 2: All right, Well, I guess we're just gonna have to 301 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: wait in here. Just want to let everybody know we 302 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 2: did reach out to Kylie and Avin. 303 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: Of course they we did not hear back. 304 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 2: But you know, if I were her, I'd be like, yeah, 305 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do every. 306 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 3: Podcast at some point. I bet she does. I mean, 307 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 3: you know, we've had in the past two where relationships 308 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 3: have gone sour and then you know, months later they 309 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 3: come on and they're like, no, that that was a 310 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 3: terrible situation for me. And I want to tell my 311 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 3: story because I've held it in and it doesn't do 312 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 3: you know, et cetera, et cetera. But this is one 313 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 3: of the well the wildest scenarios that I've experienced with enbachchlination, 314 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 3: only because I'm typically not up to date on the headlines. 315 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 3: Like I get the headlines when we sit down for 316 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 3: the podcast and i read through the notes, maybe the 317 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 3: night before, and I'm like, Oh, they're having a baby, 318 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 3: or they got married, or that's happening, or I do 319 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: follow Zachary reality, which has been a big benefit to 320 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 3: now on my job, but also just to me keeping 321 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 3: up with my friends. You do a great job. I 322 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 3: recommend following you. It's like maybe the only I don't 323 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: know what you call it, like reality journalist that I 324 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 3: followed consistently. And then I always watch your stories because 325 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 3: it's always interesting to me. But like I watched it, 326 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: I texted the thread. We have an almost famous thread 327 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 3: with a few people in it. I was so excited Zachary. 328 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 3: I had the dats before everybody else, so I was like, 329 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 3: they are moving in together. They're very happy. 330 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 7: Then the next day I was like, this event, Yeah, 331 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 7: it was a real turn of events and post any 332 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 7: I was almost was going to post about it when 333 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 7: Kylie posted, I was going to like, wait a second, 334 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 7: So thank god I did because I didn't know, Like I. 335 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 5: Actually like didn't believe it at first. 336 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 4: I was like, wait what It was just really shocking 337 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 4: how it all happened so quick. 338 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: So do you immediately reach out to people and see 339 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 2: if you get some inside sources? 340 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 3: No story like. 341 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 5: That, No, not anymore. 342 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 4: No, I just want to raport on what is out there, 343 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 4: what is the news, and recap the shows. I'm not 344 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 4: into the inside stories. 345 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 3: Well how about this. Can I make a deal with 346 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 3: you from here on out? When we have breaking news, 347 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 3: can you just come on and talk with us about it? 348 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 3: Because so often Ashley myself are sitting here and Ashley know, 349 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 3: you know, knows a lot more than I do about 350 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 3: these things. It's great to have your insight, and it's 351 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 3: great to have you there to give a any type 352 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 3: of kind of like answers to nuance that typically exist 353 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 3: in these situations. So please come back more often now. 354 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 3: I'd like that. I love a third perspective. 355 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm so down to come back. 356 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 4: You guys know I've been watching the show for Blake 357 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 4: fifteen years, like for a really long time. 358 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, a long time. 359 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks, Zach. I know we'll have more information unfolding 360 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 2: about this story very soon and stay tuned, guys. 361 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's unfortunate. 362 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 2: It's a really unfortunate We're like, we're like, I'm like rabid, 363 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 2: like gossip like animals right now. 364 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: But it's like, really sad. It is very unfortunate, that's 365 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 3: the thing. But there's still you know, I think it's 366 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 3: this is the weirdest scenario to close us up. This 367 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 3: is the weirdest scenario I've been a part of, because 368 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 3: we know what happened, Like we're not guessing, We're not 369 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 3: being like I wonder if or I wonder. It's like, no, 370 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 3: we know exactly what happened. They've both announced it really terribly. 371 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: They both owned it within twenty four hours, and now 372 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 3: we're here to be like that was a wild change 373 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 3: of events. Now, in any other Bachelor in Paradise season, 374 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 3: I think people are a lot more upset. It just 375 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 3: feels like this season, people like, well, this is the 376 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 3: one couple we thought could work, so screw this. 377 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 2: Like and leaving and like leaving that thought. Do we 378 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: think that Avan was really into her now like in hindsight. 379 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 5: I mean probably not. 380 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna be not enough. 381 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 2: He never really seemed happy. Now that I'm thinking about 382 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 2: all those scenes and them together. 383 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was thinking that too. 384 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 3: I was never smiled. 385 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, it didn't seem like he really, but then he 386 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 4: was fighting for it at the end. 387 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 5: Avan's kind of confusing. 388 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's he's been confusing since the beginning. 389 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to hear Rachel's perspective on this because. 390 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 3: We know what happened now on after the final rows, 391 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 3: Like you know, Rachel was like shocked and surprised that 392 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,400 Speaker 3: he showed up, and then she's like I gotta say yes, 393 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 3: right because this is awkward if I don't, and then 394 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 3: it's just a really weird situation. They walk off stage 395 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 3: and they're like, we haven't talked to each other since, like, yeah, 396 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 3: we're bounced, like they He's just he is. He's been 397 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 3: a confusing character and that's probably why they shouldn't choose 398 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 3: him as a bachelor. He was like a very clear 399 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 3: choice to be the Bachelor, and the show never really 400 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 3: even hinted at it, probably because they're like, I don't 401 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 3: know if this lo's ready. 402 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 6: Yeah for them to pick Zach over him, but I 403 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 6: don't think Avan was like very open on camera, Like 404 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 6: I think he's feel shy and like people who are 405 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 6: saying that his journey was like the same to Bachelorette, 406 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 6: where he got all the way to the end with 407 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,919 Speaker 6: Rachel they were the final two and then he didn't 408 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 6: propose to her, and kind of like the same thing 409 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 6: with Kylie because that's why she brought it up during 410 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 6: their breakup too. 411 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 5: It was kind of similar. 412 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like he's not there yet or this is 413 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's very weird. Anyways, zachar Reality go 414 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 3: follow him. Great, just zach Zachary, you do a terrific job, 415 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 3: and I want to make sure people know that this 416 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 3: is the breaking news podcast Almost Famous. Hey, we'll see 417 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 3: you soon. Until next time, I've been Ben, I've. 418 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 5: Been Ashley, and I've been Zachary. 419 00:19:59,640 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 3: Bye. 420 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 421 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,360 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.