1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Thank you for You're coming back. Part two is underway? 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Age limit? Is there an age limit for you on dating? 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: Is this? Is there an age like you're like, you 4 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: gotta be this age and you can't be over that age? 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 2: So is there a Shannon, I'm gonna be honest with you, 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 2: these twenty two year olds are on my body. 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can believe it. 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 2: And it's so. And I'm like old enough to be 9 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 2: your mama. Like I'm forty one years old. I don't care. 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 2: I don't even like girls my age. A da da dah. 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 2: They immature very yeah, yeah, and immature for sure. I'm 12 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: just saying that's that's not my thing, right, But I 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 2: mean there's some little cutie pies, but they're young as hell. 14 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: So you say you're forty one, so if they're like 15 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 1: at least has to be at least thirty and then 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: I'm not a going above fifty. So is there like 17 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: thirty and fifty that's my that's my demo? Or is 18 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: it thirty sixty that's my demo? What's what's what's the demo? 19 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 2: What's the It depends. It depends on the man. It depends. Yeah, 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: because if I if I really like love you or 21 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: I like you. I'm the one that I'm the one 22 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 2: to have sex all day. So you can't be too old? 23 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: Were you that you can't? You gotta be able to 24 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 2: hands with me because I'm in my prime right now. 25 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: Hell yeah, I did say I wasn't gonna yees listen. 26 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: Joan, check my bang over there. Join. But you call 27 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: criticism when you dated Savage? I think he was twenty four. 28 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:41,839 Speaker 1: You were thirty three. 29 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 2: Is that nine years? Yeah? 30 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? Is that? Is that the is that the biggest 31 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: age discrepancy as far as you being older? Amber? Let 32 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: me find out you're passing out now, ladies and Jolly. 33 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: Ranch got no again. 34 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: I mean guys like what they like? 35 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: These young boys shed it. I mean, you know, after 36 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: a while you just say. 37 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: You know, like we were and when I was when 38 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 1: I was in high school and the teacher didn't look 39 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: like they look now. I'm what I'm saying. When you 40 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: found when you had one teacher that you like, yeah, 41 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: and here you are, like twelve thirteen and she's like 42 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: twenty five, You're like, wow, man, I can't wait to 43 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: get so I guess yeah, I can. I can see guys. 44 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: I think that's what I think that's what happened with 45 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 2: girls my age, right, These young boys watched us for 46 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: a long time and now they're old enough to pursue 47 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 2: us and date us, and that's why they're on us 48 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 2: like that. Okay, yeah, that makes sense. That makes sense. 49 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: You see the situation. And I think she got more 50 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: criticism than you, Drea Michelle and Jalen Green. I think she. 51 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: I think her oldest son is actually the same age 52 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: is Jalen Green? And you know, and you know, Jayleen's 53 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: grown and people are like, well, you know, groom, she 54 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: didn't meet the kid when he was seven. Bro, I mean, 55 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: come on now, Yeah, I don't know if you know her, 56 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 1: but what do you think about that situation? 57 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: I one, I think to each his own, and he 58 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 2: is a grown man, correct. I think that the outrage 59 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: is more so that her son was the same age 60 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: my son, my oldest is twelve. So if my oldest 61 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 2: was twenty two, I may feel different as a mother 62 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: talking to a twenty two year old. I don't know. 63 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 2: I'm not sure about that. But for me to talk 64 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: to a twenty two year old, I don't really care. 65 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: I wouldn't date them and be serious with them, but 66 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: I had my little fun and then I'll keep it moving, 67 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 2: you know. But I think that was the outrage. But 68 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 2: I think they look beautiful together and have a baby together. 69 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: They seem happy, They seem very happy. 70 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm looking at al Pacino. Al Pacino's eighty three. 71 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: Uh he just had a baby and uh she was 72 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: twenty nine. 73 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: Wow. 74 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I said too. 75 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, good for her, but that might be a bit. 76 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: But that might be a bit bunch. Ever, that might 77 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: be a bit more. 78 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: How much is Albutineo worth? 79 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: Probably three hundred? 80 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: Well, good for her. 81 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: Well, he definitely he definitely ain't going all day, so 82 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 1: hopefully you know, she only scheduled. 83 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. See yeah, See that's what I can't deal with. 84 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 2: I can't deal with. I can't deal with that. That's 85 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 2: too old for me. 86 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: I mean god, Lee, I mean, well, you have to 87 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: get somebody this twenty the early thirties, that's. 88 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: Not true medications. 89 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, okay with the metter case you better 90 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: case you medter case, you better cass shot. Shout out 91 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: to Roe Sparks. Let me ask you this. Yeah, when 92 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: someone shares dating your your youngest son's father, yes, you 93 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: you'll be okay, with like when when when other celebrities 94 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: date people that you once dated, you be okay with that? 95 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: You're like, try to you trying to beat me or 96 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: something like that. Do you do you get upset with it? 97 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, if you look at my track record, 98 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 2: all my exes dated, Babbage is after me. I was 99 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: their initial Babbage, right, and then Babbage is when to 100 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: date them because I dated them. That's just how the 101 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: game goes. 102 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: But they can't see you though, which you mean the 103 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: ones they dating now for you, ain't you? They try 104 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: to get they try to replace you. 105 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: If that's your opinion, I'll take it. I'm not finna 106 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 2: say that. Okay, you know, but God bless them. Look 107 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 2: when it comes to my children, as long as my 108 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: children are happy, I grew up with step parents. I 109 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 2: know how it is to have step parents, or my 110 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: mom was dating people and stuff like that. I don't 111 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 2: feel no type of way. As long as these women 112 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: are nice to my children, that's all I care about. Honestly. 113 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 2: All the other stuff is it means nothing to me. 114 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: But why do people try to get in a way 115 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: when someone is dating someone older, be it the man 116 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 1: dating a younger woman or the woman dating a younger man. 117 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: Why do people always try Why they can't just be 118 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 1: happy for him? I mean, that's not your life. Yeah, 119 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: why do you care? Yeah? 120 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 2: I don't know why. I mean, you know how the 121 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: internet is. They just everyone has an opinion. Everyone has 122 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 2: something to. 123 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: Say, but they think their opinion matters to it does not. 124 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: Because I'll tell you when I got canceled because I 125 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 2: endorse Donald Trump. Right when I'm out in the street, 126 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 2: I'm not canceled. Everybody still wants pictures. Everybody says to me, 127 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: I still go. Do you know charity softball games give 128 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 2: out autographs? Show up here there in the third You 129 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: would think it never even happened on the internet. So 130 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 2: the Internet is faked. 131 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: It's just a It's just a loud as. They make 132 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: the most noise it is. I had to learn that 133 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: in the hard way because I was thinking, because everybody's 134 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: had something negative to say Amber and I was like, damn. 135 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: But then my sister says, Shannon, do you think you 136 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 1: could be where you are on ESPN? You did? You 137 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: got Club Shashe, you got Nightcap, you got all these 138 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: sparks and advertisers. Do you actually think you could be 139 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: this if all these people hated you exactly, and once 140 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: you really think about. 141 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 2: It, No, everybody that can talk about you or meet 142 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 2: on the internet, when they see us, they would ask 143 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 2: us for a picture and they would be excited. 144 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: Not one person I've met in the last three years 145 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: since I've been on my own have ever said anything 146 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: that somebody said to me on the internet. 147 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. It's all fake. It's all fake outrage. 148 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: And you sit at home and you read it and 149 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: you're just like consumed with it. You get all nervous, 150 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 2: and then you go out. You're like, no one really 151 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: gets it. I don't care. 152 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: Give me some relationship advice. What's the best relationship advice 153 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: you can give me? Am, I'm hurt right now. I'm 154 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: hurt right now. Oh pull, hustle hard up. 155 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: You're trying to get somebody back. 156 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: Hell, I might be trying to get somebody. 157 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 2: You trying to get somebody. I would say, be a genuine, 158 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 2: a genuine person, don't be a liar, don't be a 159 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: love bomber. Spend some money. Girls like money, Shannon. 160 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: They do. Yes, I'll hustle. I ain't got it like that. 161 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: You got it like that? 162 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 2: You've been you you got had club shase shape for 163 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 2: three years. Yeah. If you have money, you gotta spend 164 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: money on girls. If you want an upper echelon type 165 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 2: of girl, you have to spend money much enough, nothing crazy, 166 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 2: but you got you gotta take the girls shopping. You 167 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 2: gotta be like yo. 168 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: I was, no, okay, you do not. 169 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: I was thinking about you. I bought you a Chanel 170 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: bag or a burkin. I just think channel bag is fine. 171 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 2: Early on it is fine. 172 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: They started like twelve fifteen hour. 173 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 2: Chanel bags do too, though sheel bags are up there 174 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: as well. All I'm Shannon, No, you got it. Don't 175 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: sit here and act like that. Don't be cheap. Girls 176 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 2: don't like that. You got to spend that money. 177 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: Man, I might have to put two ends in ch nail. 178 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 2: You don't get it from what's that website? The Ta 179 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 2: moved or Ali Baba. 180 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: Public breakups? You know you date public? You got to 181 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: break up public and it's bad. Yeah, and it's really 182 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: bad now between CARTI and Offset. If you're in a 183 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: situation like that, would you go back and forth with 184 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 1: your X online? 185 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 2: I would not, but some people feel the need to. Why. 186 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: I also think I've been famous much longer than Cardi. Yeah, 187 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 2: I think when you're newly famous, you do feel like 188 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: you have to explain to the internet. So you I've 189 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 2: taken plenty of l's on the internet because I just 190 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: didn't explain myself. They've associated me with men that I 191 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 2: never even met in my life. And just like, I'm 192 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 2: not going to sit here all day and dwell on this. 193 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: They're going to do it anyway whatever. But she she 194 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 2: feels the need that she has to defend herself, and 195 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: I'm actually not mad at it. Like I look back 196 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 2: and be like, damn, it's kind of inspiring that she 197 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 2: does that. I kind of wish I did that early on. 198 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: You know, well, when you and Kanye broke up, he 199 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: had something a song to say, and he says something 200 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: really negative about you, and I felt that he could 201 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 1: like that. He said that he had like something he 202 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: had to take a bath or something. You remember that 203 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: that didn't couldn't have made you feel good. 204 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 2: Well, listen, I'll tell you something, Shannon. Men that are 205 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 2: in new relationships sometimes they have to say mean things 206 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 2: about their ex so their girlfriend. Their girlfriend doesn't feel 207 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: bad about it. 208 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 1: No, No, I am in the problem. I am in 209 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: the problem. 210 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 2: Nobody tuk it down to somebody else it psychologically or like, 211 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 2: that's what they do so the girl can be like, yeah, yeah, 212 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: talk about her. So it makes me feel good. I'm 213 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 2: not an insecure If a man said that about his ex, 214 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 2: I'd be like, you spent two years with her, You 215 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 2: took her all around the world, you brought her everything 216 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 2: she wanted. She knows your whole family his you know 217 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 2: his aunties and cousins. They still hit me in Dan's 218 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 2: and call me and text me years and years later, 219 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 2: checking on me and my kids. So I was good 220 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 2: enough for you to be with. It's not like me 221 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 2: and Kanye were. We were together in a relationship for 222 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 2: two years. You know what I'm saying. So to say 223 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 2: that about me is that wasn't cool. 224 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: Did you hit him up and say, bro, why you 225 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:46,599 Speaker 1: do that for what? 226 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 2: For what? I'm not hitting that man up. He knows what. 227 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 2: One day I'll get my apology. One day he'll come 228 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 2: out and be like, I should have never said that, 229 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 2: dumb ash it. But that's why I said he likes 230 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: fingers in his booty. Oh, because it was just like 231 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 2: but I didn't say that as a factual statement. I 232 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 2: said it because it's like, you want to hurt my feelings. 233 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna hurt your feelings. So you know, it 234 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 2: was childish and it was immature, But thirty showers was 235 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 2: crazy when I didn't even have sex with you unprotected 236 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 2: until you got tested. You're Kanye Weston. I made you 237 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:30,599 Speaker 2: get tested before we had unprotected sex. So how you 238 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,839 Speaker 2: got to take thirty showers after me? I wasn't the 239 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 2: one au cheating and doing dumb. I didn't do anything. 240 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I do know. Let me ask you this, 241 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: what about these rumors? You know there's a Chris Rock rumor. 242 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: There was a room with c J. Stroud and then 243 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: this room of last room with Amon Shumper because I 244 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: think they photographed you. 245 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, Amon is I called Emon to hook me up 246 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: with other guys. That's my dog, like, Emon is like 247 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 2: literally one of my best friends. So me and mom 248 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 2: have nothing going on. We never had nothing going on. CJ. 249 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 2: Straw was nice enough to give me a ride home. 250 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 2: I was in Houston. My assistants from Houston. He went 251 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 2: to go visit his mom and I didn't have anybody 252 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 2: with me. I was supposed to take the sprinter back 253 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: to the hotel for this charity game last year, and 254 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: the sprinter left me. So CJ was like, I live 255 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: in Houston. I don't mind giving you a ride back 256 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 2: to the hotel. I'm not going to leave you here 257 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 2: to get it uber and I was like, thank you, 258 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: I appreciate it took me to the hotel. We're all 259 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 2: over the internet the next day. So it's just like 260 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 2: things like that. It makes my life tough because let's 261 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 2: say I am pursuing a man or somebody likes me 262 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 2: and they're like everybody you know, it's just not what's 263 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 2: happening at all. 264 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, my beautiful, dark twisted fantasy album. Yeah that 265 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: was about you. Huh. 266 00:13:58,720 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 2: You gotta ask him that. 267 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean people say he was making good 268 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 1: music when he was with you. He might need to 269 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: get back. 270 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: They all make good music with me. 271 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,599 Speaker 1: I'm saying he need to come on back, you know. 272 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 2: Oh no, No, he don't need to come back. 273 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: He didn't come back. He need to come to Amber Music. 274 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 2: No. No, I'll be his friend, but I don't. 275 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: On the Blame Game, Amber Rose on the Blame Game songs, 276 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: what were you trying to say? 277 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 2: Who you I say nothing on that Jesus talk. 278 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: You say Jesz taught me the blame game skit. 279 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 2: Oh that's a mean yeah, No it's not. No, the 280 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 2: Internet says that it's me right, that is not me, okay, 281 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 2: just like the Internet said he found me in the 282 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 2: strip club in my life, that did not happen. 283 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: He rescued you here, rescued. 284 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 3: No. 285 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: When Kanye jumped up on that stage and took that 286 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: mic from Taylor swellt yeah, what was going through your mind? 287 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: I was like, Holy, did you have any idea he 288 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: was going to do that? 289 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: No? No, No, I had no idea. I had no 290 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 2: idea he was going to do that. And he was 291 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 2: so fast. He was like sitting right here, and then 292 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: I think it was like Beyonce's Solange and like we're 293 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 2: sitting next to me on this side, and he was 294 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 2: so fast. And you know, even to this day, I 295 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 2: tell people like he was wrong for taking Taylor's moment. Yes, 296 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 2: I agree with that. Was he wrong in what he said? No, 297 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 2: he was not wrong. And I think over time being famous, 298 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 2: you see a lot of things that are just not okay. 299 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 2: And they used celebrity as pawns in their in their 300 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 2: weird little game, right, and he was just fed up, 301 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 2: and when he got off the stage, he was instantly remorseful. 302 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 2: He apologized to Taylor and her mom. 303 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: It's over though. You can't apologize for that. I mean, 304 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: you gonna apologize. 305 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 2: I get it, I get it, but at that moment, yeah, 306 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: I get it. 307 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: To have something. I don't know if we've ever seen 308 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: it's kind of like a protest, and we've seen, you know, 309 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: politicians and somebody throw a pie in their face and 310 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: put eggs and you know, things like that. But to 311 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: be at the Grammy, that's her. The matter of fact, 312 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: I think I might have been her first. 313 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 2: It was the MTV Awards and. 314 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: That might have Yeah, well she she won what Album 315 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: of the Year or something of the year. 316 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 2: She won Video Video Year. Yeah, one Video of the 317 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 2: Year over Beyonce single Ladies. That's kind of crazy sing 318 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 2: come on it is crazy. And I love Taylor Swift. 319 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: She's always been very nice to me and my children. 320 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 2: But Beyonce should have won and sometimes. 321 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: But that wasn't his place. It was if if Beyonce 322 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: jump up on stage and snatch that snatch the microphone, 323 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: I can live with that, but not him. 324 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 2: I agree with you. 325 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: What was the ride home? Be true? 326 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 327 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: So on the ride home was it quiet? It was like, damn, Kanye, 328 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: I think you might have messed up on this one. 329 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: What was the ride home like? 330 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 2: Well, if I remember correctly, he was on the phone 331 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 2: with people and I think people were just like, why 332 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 2: didn't you just write that? But then we went to 333 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 2: the Spoted Pig and we were having a good time, 334 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 2: and he did feel bad. You know, Like it's hard 335 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 2: for me because I do have a place in my 336 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 2: heart for Kanye, you where I know the good side 337 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 2: of him. I've experienced the good side of him. But 338 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 2: when he surrounds himself with people that just feed the 339 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: dark side of him, he's not living at his full potential. 340 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: So I feel bad when I see things that he 341 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 2: does sometimes, and I'm like, you don't have somebody around 342 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 2: you that's maternal in a way, that's gonna They're gonna 343 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 2: sit you down and love on you and get you 344 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: to do the right things. 345 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 1: You know, do you believe he's a different person after 346 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: his mom died? How much impact did that have on him? 347 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: Because everybody seemed to believe that from the moment that 348 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: happened that he's been a very different Kanye with so 349 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:07,360 Speaker 1: I haven't had. 350 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 2: The pleasure of meeting his mom. I've met Kanye after 351 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 2: his mom passed, but I will tell you from experience. 352 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 2: My mother lost her mother at a young age. So 353 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 2: when I did get with Kanye, I knew how to 354 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 2: take care of him because I had always taken care 355 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 2: of my mother. 356 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 1: And so. 357 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 2: He wasn't acting like that with me, Shannon. He wasn't 358 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 2: that guy he did the MTV show, But he wasn't 359 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 2: acting like how he's acting now. When he was with me. 360 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 2: He wasn't doing that because I would sit him down 361 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: and talk to him and, you know, tell him to 362 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 2: go in the other room and take a picture of 363 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 2: his mom and speak to her and tell her about 364 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 2: your day and tell her how much you miss her, 365 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 2: and light some candles and cry and it's okay. You know. 366 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 2: I don't think he has anybody around him that's really 367 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 2: I don't know, just loving on him, just loving on 368 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 2: him the proper way. That's just me from the outside 369 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 2: looking in. That's just how I feel. 370 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: When you see Kanye today, what are your thoughts? 371 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 2: Again? I think that he has enablers around him that 372 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 2: don't actually care about him. That's what it looks like 373 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 2: to me. I don't have inside information on what's going 374 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:27,479 Speaker 2: on in that camp, but just looking from the outside, 375 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 2: and that's what it looks like to me. 376 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: When you see Kanye and his wife, I don't know 377 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 1: if it's his ex wife, the reports that they're getting divorced, 378 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 1: so forth, and song Let's just say for the sake 379 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 1: of argument, they are together and you see how she's dressing. 380 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 1: Is that she's dressing like that or Kanye dressing her honey? 381 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 2: Is for her like that? Yeah? He did the same 382 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: thing to me and Kim is. 383 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 1: Why is he like? I mean, obviously you're a very 384 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 1: statuesque woman. You have curves, you you know, you're very figured. 385 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: What is it? What is it a about that that 386 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: he wants the world to know, look at my woman? 387 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: We can see he wants other men to want his woman. 388 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 2: That's what he's into. He likes that, he likes he 389 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 2: likes that men are like drooling over his woman. That's 390 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 2: what he's into. 391 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean I like to think anybody 392 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: that I'm I'm with that somebody wants her. If Helen 393 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: don't nobody want her. But me, I need a real 394 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 1: sens I need to real sens what I'm doing. But 395 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: to like to really like man, I won't. 396 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants all his friends doing his girlfriend. He 397 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 2: wants everybody that when you walk in a room, that 398 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 2: his girlfriend or wife is the most desirable. 399 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 1: And she's the baddest be in the room. 400 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 2: That's what he likes. 401 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 1: Yeah m hm, And you dressed like that because that's 402 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 1: what he wanted. You want to please your man. 403 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 2: I was young, and who I'm gonna tell Kanye No, 404 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,120 Speaker 2: Like when I'm that young, it's like, Okay, you're buying 405 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 2: me this stuff. I do look pretty cool. But Shannon, 406 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 2: now if you look at old pictures of me when 407 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 2: I'm dating Kanye, but I'm out by myself, I have 408 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 2: all his clothes on. Yeah, I have a baggy jeans on, 409 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 2: T shirt, big ass jacket. I rated his closet when 410 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 2: he wasn't home, I would wear all his stuff because 411 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 2: I used to hate to dress like a whore. Basically, 412 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 2: I used to hate it. So I used to rebel 413 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 2: when he wasn't home and I would go in his closet. 414 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: So I ask you this, ideally, how does the amber 415 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: rose like to dress is the occasion appropriate. So if 416 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to the Grammys, I'm going to someplace else, 417 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to dress appropriate. But when I'm in when 418 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: I'm just hanging out with my girls, I'm saying, you're 419 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 1: not wearing all that stuff. 420 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: No, I'm in sweatpants and I'm in a sweatsuit usually 421 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: with some Jordan's on, maybe a little dad hat or something. 422 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 2: I'm very casual. 423 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 1: Would you? I mean I don't think you had you did? 424 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: I mean I think you did have one little seat 425 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: through dresses that Kanye put his wife in at one 426 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 1: point in time. 427 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I did. Amber I cried, really, yes I did. 428 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 2: I remember crying. I was in like Italy or Paris 429 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 2: or something, and I remember crying and arguing with him 430 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 2: and being like, I don't want to wear this. I 431 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 2: don't want to wear it. You don't understand his fashion. 432 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 2: I'm a genius, you know. I hear, and it's like, Okay, 433 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 2: I still don't want to wear it, but I wind 434 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 2: up wearing it. They ate me up on the internet 435 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 2: and they ate me up and then. 436 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 1: I'm like, the guys will try to eat you up. 437 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: To the guys. The guy loved it. The guy loved it. 438 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I really just don't. 439 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: Well, that's something you let as you look back, that 440 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 1: was many many years ago. It was if that was 441 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: something you do again. You never do anything like that again. 442 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: Do what were something like that? No, but that was 443 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 1: because that was prior kids. It was so you got 444 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 1: kids now, so you guys be like, nah, I got boys. No, 445 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: I can't do that. 446 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. So I'm actually on only fans, right, okay, 447 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 2: And so I know only fans has like this stigma 448 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 2: of like corn and right, I am on only fans. 449 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:15,640 Speaker 2: I'm doing cute pictures, selfies. I'm talking to my fans. Hey, 450 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 2: what are you doing today? Oh I'm going on Club 451 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,120 Speaker 2: Shadehay today. Make sure you tune in next week. 452 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: Blah blah. 453 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 2: That's my only fans. I make a lot of money 454 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: on only fans. 455 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: Beat picks, No, I don't do feed No. 456 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 2: I mean everybody got their price. Yeah, somebody asked for 457 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 2: a feet pick. It depends on what they want to 458 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 2: pay outs and my feet who cares? But yes, because 459 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 2: I have children, there's certain things that I just will 460 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: not do because I respect and love my boys. 461 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,640 Speaker 1: You're a model for Louis Baton Ford models Vogue Walk 462 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 1: to Run with at New York Fashion Week? How is 463 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 1: that world? What is it like to be a model? 464 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: Because I think you know what is is? What is 465 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: that world like? I would like to go to fashion 466 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: Week in Paris. I like to go sit down and 467 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: see a Tom Ford show or d or whatever the 468 00:23:58,119 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 1: case may be. I like to see one of those shows. 469 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: What what's that world like? 470 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: Ever, I personally don't like it. Really, It's not my thing, Shannon. 471 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 2: I'd rather have a barbecue with some loud music and 472 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 2: be with my friends and like dance and just have 473 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 2: a good time with no phones and just chill out. 474 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 2: I'm that girl, right. Fashion week is very superficial. Although 475 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 2: I love brands. 476 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: I'm wearing Baman, but I'm looking at the shoulder pass. 477 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's something I probably should know. 478 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, my adjusts. So don't get me wrong. I 479 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 2: like certain things within fashion, but I do not like 480 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 2: the fashion world. Most of the people are ugly. There's yeah, 481 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 2: there's ugly on the inside too. You know, they're just 482 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 2: ugly people on the inside. Because it's not about who 483 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 2: you are as a person, it's about what you have 484 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 2: on and only what you have on. So it becomes 485 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 2: very over there because no one is actually real. It's like, 486 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: what did you have to do to put this eight 487 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 2: thousand dollars outfit on? What did you have to do 488 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:11,159 Speaker 2: to get that? 489 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: You know? 490 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 2: And that's all they care about out there, So it's 491 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:15,400 Speaker 2: just not really my world. 492 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: Wow, is modeling really a cut the business? It is? 493 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 2: It is very much. It's like every other business. It's 494 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: like depends on who and what what you know, what 495 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 2: connection you have is all the same, it's all the same. 496 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 1: Did you ever interact with Naomi Campbell? Tower Banks? Did 497 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: you ever meet They were a. 498 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 2: Little bit before you, way before me, like twenty years before. 499 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I got something because this seems to be like 500 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: the last year and a half, there's been all this 501 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: talk about these Hollywood parties. 502 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. 503 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: Ever, what's really going on? 504 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 505 00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: You ain't up anybody to hard with. 506 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 2: I've been to probably everyone. I've been to every puff party. 507 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 2: I've been to every white party since two thousand and nine. 508 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: I've been to every party. 509 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: And you just going the wrong You go in the 510 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: right room, not the wrong room. 511 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 2: I don't think there's rooms Chan, I'm gonna be honest. Now. Look, 512 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be very, very transparent on the show. If 513 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,919 Speaker 2: these freak offs are happening, it's on a completely different 514 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 2: day than the actual Puffy. It's not that day because 515 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 2: every time I was there, Puff was there the whole time. 516 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 2: You know, he's hey, you got the Sarah, he's on 517 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 2: the DJ booth, he's the host of the party. I 518 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 2: will say that now I've had this conversation with ray J. 519 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: Rayge is one of my best friends. I said, ray 520 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 2: did they ever invite you to a freak golf? Because 521 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,919 Speaker 2: they never invited me and I donet been at these parties. 522 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,919 Speaker 2: I just feel like, why. 523 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 1: Get the invite because I know you don't get down 524 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 1: like that. 525 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: Maybe they know I don't get down like that. Okay, cool, 526 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 2: but you would think maybe an assistant would come up 527 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 2: and be like, hey, you like girls, or like, you 528 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 2: know you into Never no one ever asked me that. 529 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 2: They never asked ray J either, And me and ray 530 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 2: J was talking about it. We were like, i'dn't been 531 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 2: to the party, the after party, the after after party, 532 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 2: I've never seen none of that stuff. But that's not 533 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 2: to say that it does not happen or invalidate people that. 534 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,120 Speaker 2: But I do think it's a different day that I'm 535 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 2: just not invited to. I don't know. 536 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 1: You think it's a plot because we saw it happened 537 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 1: with Russell Simmons. Now we see it happen with Pete Diddy, 538 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: and you think it is a plot or a ploy 539 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: to take down prominent hoigh powered black man. 540 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. It really depends on the evidence, right, 541 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 2: because they did say that there were drugs in the 542 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 2: baby oil. I don't know. That's a legend. 543 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 1: A thousand bottles of baby on. 544 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I don't know, because the Internet 545 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 2: is fake, Like you said earlier, you just don't know. 546 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 2: But if that is in fact true, then that that 547 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 2: is a problem. One thing I do know about Puff 548 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 2: is that he's an abuser. You know, he abused Cassie. 549 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 2: We all saw the videos. It is not okay. And 550 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 2: but as far as the freak offs, I don't know 551 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 2: about that. I just. 552 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,199 Speaker 1: Did you have When I say relationship, I don't mean 553 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: intimate relationship. Did you have a relationship with Puff Daddy? 554 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 1: Where you cool? Did you talk? Did you know him? 555 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: Things like that. 556 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 2: I would say that we didn't talk on the phone 557 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 2: and we didn't hang out, but I was always invited 558 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 2: to the party. Okay, and that's the extent of our friendship. 559 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,640 Speaker 1: Okay. Now, is it true that you were at the 560 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 1: Halloween party that Puff's sons and ray J got into it? 561 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 2: I was, yes, I was right there. 562 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 1: What happened? 563 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 2: They just pressed ray J. They were just like, stop 564 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 2: talking about dad, and then ray J said what he said, 565 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 2: like something like I know your dad better than you 566 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 2: know your dad or something like that, and then it 567 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 2: just got ugly for a second. Yeah, because I'm cool 568 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 2: with Christian and Justin and Quincy, but then I also 569 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 2: love ray J. It's like my brother, and I'm just like, guys, 570 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: please just just stop. It's not worth it, y'all. Don't 571 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: want to do this, like so it, you know. And 572 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: I told ray Je, I said, look, that's their dad. 573 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 2: What do you expect them to do? Like of course 574 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 2: they're going to stand up for their dad, you know 575 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 2: what I mean? 576 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: Like rightfully. 577 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 2: So. 578 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 1: But it's reported that breeze It Chris Brown was the peacemaker. 579 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: Is that true? 580 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 2: I think I was the peace name that was you? Well, 581 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: from what I remember, I was going to both sides 582 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 2: and like, y'all don't need to do this. But maybe 583 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 2: Chris came down at some point. It was in the garage. 584 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. 585 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: What have you learned about thing? Oh, because you've had 586 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: more than fifteen minutes, you've had two decades of it. 587 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's going on sixteen years. What have I learned 588 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 2: about fame? That half of these motherfuckers don't know what 589 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 2: they're doing. All the publicists, all the fake ass managers, 590 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 2: all the business managers, they all manipulate all of us 591 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 2: into thinking that they have all the answers when we 592 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 2: ourselves have the answers as the entertainers or the socialites 593 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 2: or the famous people. We got here because of us. 594 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 1: Before a manager, before a publicist. 595 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and some people just have that it factor, 596 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 2: you know. But it's funny because very early on, you 597 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 2: get the publicists, you get the ship manager, and they 598 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 2: tell you like, oh, you know, you want to make money. Now, 599 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: you gotta twork, you gotta sell sex on the podcast, 600 00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 2: you gotta just say that you girls and guys, and 601 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 2: so you eventually start to lose yourself in this fake 602 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 2: entertainment world because they're intimidating you every day that you're 603 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 2: gonna lose it all if you do not do what 604 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 2: they tell you to do instead of standing ten toes down. 605 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 2: But that intimidation changes you as a person. 606 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 1: It's fame a drug because I believe something. I believe 607 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: it is. I believe it's suffocating. I believe it can 608 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: be intoxicated and people once and once you become hooked 609 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: on it, you'll do anything to keep it. 610 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 2: Maybe for some people, not for me. I don't give 611 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 2: it about being famous. 612 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: You famous, now famous? 613 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 2: You cannot be famous, No, you can't be on famous. 614 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 2: But yeah I don't. I mean I don't actively do things. 615 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: To you know, to be in the publics. Just like 616 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 1: look at the Amber Road, look at what you're doing, 617 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: look at what you's wing. 618 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 2: Really quiet? Yeah, like I'm really quiet with my So. 619 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, money, what have you learned about money? 620 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 2: Oh? 621 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 1: Lord? 622 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 2: Just save save? Say say I remember I spent my 623 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 2: first million and I gagged because I was like, what did. 624 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 1: You spend it on? 625 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 2: Going to Miami Fountain, blue partying, bottles, outfits, clothes, shoes, dumb, 626 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 2: just a bunch of dumb. And then I was like, 627 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 2: then I got a business manager, Like you need to 628 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 2: pay taxes and I'm like what, So then I was 629 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 2: like in the hole. It was like very early in 630 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 2: my career. But I definitely never I didn't do that again. 631 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,320 Speaker 2: I definitely did not do that again. 632 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: What's been what's your what's your best and worst purchases? 633 00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 2: My best and worst purchases. You know, when I had 634 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 2: new money, I had like seven cars for no reason. 635 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: What? 636 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 2: And now I have two cars? So yeah, I just 637 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 2: I don't live the same way anymore. I'm more I 638 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 2: save now and I think about things before I buy them. 639 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna take this dress back and like, I'm 640 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 2: gonna exchange it for another dress when I have another interview, 641 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 2: let us know so. 642 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: We could make sure you take it back before we 643 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: are entered. 644 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 2: I put the little receipt in in my drawer next 645 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,360 Speaker 2: to the bed. I'm taking this shit right back. 646 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 1: It's Lord, have mercy. What's the number one thing that 647 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: you learned in entertainment business? 648 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 2: No one genuinely likes you. They just use you for 649 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 2: They just use you for what they need you for. Really, 650 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 2: it's not real life. 651 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: No, do you really believe that, Amber? 652 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know that for a fact. Yeah, No, one 653 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 2: genuinely cares like it a transactional hunh Yeah, at your 654 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 2: lowest point that they don't give up. It's like, when 655 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 2: are you gonna get better so we can get you 656 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 2: to do what we want you to do? 657 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, let me ask you this, if you could 658 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 1: go back and do anything differently, what would you do. 659 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 2: Being famous? 660 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you can go back and do anything of 661 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 1: your life, you go back. If I say, am, but 662 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:24,840 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna give you an opportunity to 663 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 1: go back. You can get the time machine and you 664 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: can go back, and you can do get a do over. 665 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 1: What would you do? 666 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 2: That's such a hard question, Shannon. I would appreciate my 667 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 2: children as babies more because it flew by so fast. 668 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,800 Speaker 2: And my Sebastian, he's gonna be twelve tomorrow. 669 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: Wow, congrats that barely birthday. 670 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, his birthday is tomorrow. And then my son is five, 671 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 2: and I was just like, you guys would just send 672 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 2: my belly like what happened? 673 00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: And I don't know. 674 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,799 Speaker 2: I just so it makes me sad sometimes I wish 675 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 2: I I wish I understood that that first, second, and 676 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 2: third year was going to go by so fast. 677 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 1: What do you learn about mixing business and friendship. I 678 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: don't do that, you never have, or you don't do 679 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 1: it anymore. 680 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 2: Well, okay, I guess going back to your question, yes 681 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 2: I have, and it always turned bad and I always 682 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 2: had to kind of break up with them and be like, 683 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,879 Speaker 2: I love you as a friend, so to not mess 684 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 2: up our friendship. We cannot work together? 685 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:35,800 Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, how did they take it? 686 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 2: Some better than others, But we remain friends after. 687 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 1: It was friends stealing from you to steal jewelry, money 688 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: and even slept with your boyfriends. You have people you had? 689 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh hello, on hold on time. I so 690 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 1: you got people. 691 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 2: I told you all the well my men after they 692 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,839 Speaker 2: had me Shanon, It's weird. It's like kind of lesbian ish. 693 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: So does that make you say, ain't they were never 694 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: your friend? If they were willing to do something like 695 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 1: this to you? 696 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 2: You were never my friend. You never cared about me, 697 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 2: you never hear about me. You were this is what 698 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 2: you always wanted to do. And I truly believe that. 699 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: And I will never talk to these people ever again 700 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:20,919 Speaker 2: in my life. 701 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 1: How much money they steal from you? They were a 702 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 1: large summer money like five ten, two. 703 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 2: Hundred fifty thousand HM yep, and then fled to Jamaica 704 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:32,760 Speaker 2: and you ain't. 705 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 1: Seen the sins. Nope. Did you want to get over 706 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 1: there and go to Jamaican and get them? You know? 707 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 2: I did, Lord have hold on. 708 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: Did you have a friend call Social service on you? 709 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 2: That's a tough one. I mean someone did call Social 710 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,439 Speaker 2: services on me. Yes, it was not my friend. 711 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:57,839 Speaker 1: Though people be doing you wrong? 712 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 2: Huh twice twice on me. I mean I obviously got 713 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:04,760 Speaker 2: cleared both times. 714 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:05,880 Speaker 1: Did you know that person? 715 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:06,279 Speaker 2: Yes? 716 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,800 Speaker 1: I knew them very well, so they were friends. 717 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,959 Speaker 2: They just tried to hurt me in a way where 718 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 2: I will never forgive them for that. 719 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 1: You got to be able to forgive amber, because forgiveness 720 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 1: is not for them, it's for you who said that. 721 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 1: Because you're holding on to it, you can't be free. 722 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 1: They can never be free without They can never be 723 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:25,800 Speaker 1: freedom without forgetting. 724 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 2: They didn't think about them until you bring them up 725 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 2: or I see them on the streets. I don't think 726 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 2: about them. It's not like I'm sitting all day thinking 727 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 2: about this. 728 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 1: No. No, but that's there's still there's still a little 729 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: bit of bondage that you're still in captivity with it. 730 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,879 Speaker 2: It's just how I'm built me over. 731 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 3: I won't. 732 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 2: I won't hate you forever. 733 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,800 Speaker 1: You're in School of Dance with Kat Williams, Mike Ems, 734 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 1: Tiffany HAIs, Pete Davis in a Little Duval Nick Cannon. 735 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: I was that experience. 736 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 2: It was super fun. It was so much fun. You know, 737 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 2: it's crazy. I was pregnant with Sebastian on set and 738 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,840 Speaker 2: I didn't even know it yet. Really yeah, because I 739 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 2: remember my son McCurtain and I was cramping and I'm like, 740 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 2: the hell is going on? And then I found out 741 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 2: I was I was pregnant. 742 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: Wow. Do you want to act more? 743 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 2: I do want to act more? Yeah, I think I 744 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 2: actually just had a meeting with an agent yesterday to 745 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,839 Speaker 2: do more acting. It's pretty fun. 746 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm asking this, what type of mother is Ambarrose? So 747 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,800 Speaker 1: when say you're an unbelievable mother, he spoke glowingly, he spoke. 748 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if I've ever had somebody 749 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: on here speak so highly of wild ranch'all stay married. 750 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,880 Speaker 1: He's like, we're better as friends, yes, but yeah, but 751 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: what type of mother are you? 752 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 2: I am an extremely hands on mother. I get up 753 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 2: every morning and take my children to school. I feed 754 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 2: them every morning. I picked them up from school, I 755 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 2: cook them dinner every day, and I take them to 756 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 2: their extra curricular activities. I do not have a nanny. 757 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 2: I've never had a nanny. Really, Nope. My kids wouldn't 758 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 2: even know what to do with a nanny. They'll be like, 759 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 2: where's my mama. They don't. They're only used to me. 760 00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 1: In a situation. I read somewhere they say, what you 761 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 1: craved as a child, you overcompensate as a parent. 762 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,919 Speaker 2: Maybe, so that actually makes sense And I never thought 763 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 2: about that until you said that. That's maybe why I'm 764 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 2: that type of mother. 765 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,280 Speaker 1: What type of boys are you trying to raise? Because 766 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 1: you like you, You are definitely a mom. You're a 767 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,359 Speaker 1: boy mom, Yes i am. 768 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 2: I'm also militant imitant. 769 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 1: Yes, you're strict parent. 770 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 2: You think Whizz is a strict parent, Like, okay, whatever 771 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 2: you want to do. But yeah, yeah, I'm the strict 772 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 2: parent for sure. 773 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,800 Speaker 1: You feel you have to be that because the dads 774 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 1: are not. 775 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just pushovers. Yeah, both of my kids dads 776 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:56,400 Speaker 2: are pushovers. I'm the disciplinary one for sure, so they 777 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 2: have to well, not so much Slash because he's five, 778 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 2: but Sebastian has to make his bad wash dishes. You know, 779 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 2: we have a housekeeper five days a week. But I said, 780 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,320 Speaker 2: Victoria works for me, She don't work for you. You 781 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 2: need to clean this up? Wow, she cleans up for me. 782 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 2: She don't clean up for you. You don't have a job. 783 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 2: Clean all this up. Put this stuff in there, take 784 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,240 Speaker 2: the trash out, and wash the dishes. 785 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 1: Wow. 786 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:20,800 Speaker 3: You know. 787 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,439 Speaker 2: So he needs to know that so when he gets 788 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,080 Speaker 2: out on his own, he don't have to depend on 789 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,359 Speaker 2: anyone to take care of him. 790 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,880 Speaker 1: What's the key to being a great co parent? Because, 791 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: like you said, you have two sons, two different dads, 792 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 1: and so obviously, like I said, I had Weizon and 793 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: he seems really really cool. But I'm sure your youngest 794 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: son's dad they probably have different personalities, and the way 795 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 1: you interact with one, you don't interact the way the 796 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: same way with the other. The other co parent, So 797 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 1: what's the key to co parenting? 798 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:56,359 Speaker 2: The key is to not worry about anything but your child. Okay, 799 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,799 Speaker 2: once you talk about you got my son around that bit, 800 00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 2: why he over here doing that? You took a picture 801 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 2: over here with None of that matters. If your baby 802 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:11,759 Speaker 2: is safe and fed and happy and healthy, don't bother 803 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 2: nobody with that dumb ass shit. Just be a parent, 804 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 2: that's it. 805 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: Should a woman try to live a lifestyle once the 806 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 1: guy's gone, that she lived with the guy if they 807 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,279 Speaker 1: were to have a kid together. So let's just say, 808 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: for the sake of argument, you had the god was 809 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:35,800 Speaker 1: worth five hundred million. Y'all not married. So what do 810 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,320 Speaker 1: you think a respectable amount of monthly child support should be? 811 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 2: It depends on how you want your child to live, right, 812 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 2: So it depends on the man. If you're not going 813 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 2: to see the child that much, right, if you're like 814 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 2: busy and the child is with the mom. More often 815 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 2: depends on how you want your child to live. You 816 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 2: can't spite the mom because I'm saying spite the child 817 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,960 Speaker 2: because you at the mom. That's not cool. So it's 818 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,439 Speaker 2: like that's she's not finna live off my money, blah 819 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,799 Speaker 2: blah blah. But now you're spiting the child because now 820 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 2: the child don't have a backyard or a swing set 821 00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 2: or amenities that you could bring with your money just 822 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 2: because you want to. 823 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, and I don't really know 824 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 1: a whole lot of kids that need fifty thousand, hundred thousand, 825 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,839 Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty thousand, two hundred thousand dollars. 826 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 2: I love this a lot of money, that's very loud. Yeah, yes, 827 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,879 Speaker 2: it's a lot of money. Yeah yeah. I mean, look, 828 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,399 Speaker 2: I never took my baby daddy's to court. 829 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: They just break you off, do it. They do what 830 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 1: dad should do. 831 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow. 832 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,280 Speaker 1: Do you think sometimes women actually try to get pregnant 833 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 1: from men? Yes, that's a real thing. Yes, you've had 834 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 1: girlfriends say, oh, I'm trying to Hey, I'm trying to 835 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:48,280 Speaker 1: have girlfriends. 836 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 2: Lie about abortions to get money to get to act 837 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:55,080 Speaker 2: like they're pregnant. Yes, it's disgusting. This is why I 838 00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 2: stopped my slut walk by the way. Yeah, this is 839 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 2: why I'm no longer a feminist because I all the 840 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 2: dark side of what women can do. And I'm sitting 841 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:08,880 Speaker 2: here feeling slighted by men, and then I'm fighting for equality, 842 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 2: and I'm like, the only. 843 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 3: Equality is that you either you are crazy, y'all are 844 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 3: really you guys are extorting men, lying about pregnancies, saying 845 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,160 Speaker 3: you're on birth control when you're not to trap them, 846 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,440 Speaker 3: you know, And I mean not to sound vulgar, but 847 00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 3: if a man comes inside of you and you say 848 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 3: that you're on birth control. 849 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:37,520 Speaker 2: He trusts you. Stup that you would trap him like that. 850 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,840 Speaker 1: You don't do that to people, And that probably should 851 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,799 Speaker 1: have been his first mistake that he trusted someone. Huh yeah, 852 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 1: I mean, could you teach me? After talking to you, 853 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 1: You're like, don't trust nobody? 854 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't trust nobody. I don't. I 855 00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 2: really don't trust nobody. 856 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 1: We as told me, like after you got the day 857 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,080 Speaker 1: you got a divorce, you and him went to the 858 00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:01,600 Speaker 1: Script club. Yeah, y'all we can't be together, but come on, baby, 859 00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: let's go to the spill club. Get some ways. 860 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,120 Speaker 2: That's my dog. That's my dog. 861 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: And he said, you know what, I wouldn't I wouldn't 862 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: get you know, I just give her the money, let 863 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 1: her do her thing. I was like, Whiz, think about 864 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 1: what you said. You said you and Amber y'all went 865 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,360 Speaker 1: to court, y'all got a divorce. Come on, baby, let 866 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:20,919 Speaker 1: go to this club. 867 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:24,759 Speaker 2: We just cool like that. 868 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: He said it. He said, we're so much better as 869 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 1: friends than we were husband and wife. 870 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:36,719 Speaker 2: Also, in our defense, Wiz was twenty three when he 871 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 2: proposed to me. I was like twenty six. We were 872 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 2: very immature. We were just getting money. Our families were 873 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 2: just like, what you got this money? He got that? 874 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,879 Speaker 2: Our families up our marriage. Really gonna be honest. 875 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,720 Speaker 1: What happened? His mom didn't like you, Your mom didn't 876 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 1: like him. 877 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:57,960 Speaker 2: I mean just everybody just couldn't mind business. And then 878 00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 2: me and him start arguing because our family is intimidating 879 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 2: us and just making it hard where we could have 880 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 2: just been happy and peaceful. You know, it just wasn't. 881 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 2: It wasn't. If we would have gotten married later in life, 882 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 2: it would have been much easier because he really is 883 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 2: my best friend. They we're cool as hell. It was 884 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 2: just the wrong time. 885 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,840 Speaker 1: Can you have done a better job of keeping them 886 00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 1: my y'all? Damn business? 887 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but we when you're that young and you 888 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,840 Speaker 2: got so much money coming in on both sides, and 889 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 2: then you got a brand new baby and you got 890 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 2: the mama telling you, well, this is how y'all raised you. 891 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 2: And then my mom was like, well with this, and 892 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 2: then she's saying this and that, and then it's just like, well, 893 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, you need to tell her to stop 894 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 2: saying this. And he's like, well, you need to get 895 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 2: your other side of the family, and it's just a 896 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,839 Speaker 2: whole mess. It's a whole mess. 897 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 1: Are you partnering with Khalifa and Khalifa cush correct? Are 898 00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:53,080 Speaker 1: you partners? 899 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,280 Speaker 2: I wish I was giving my five percents. 900 00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: I've always I had had no idea. I mean when 901 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: we started started Club Shasha CJ my executive producer. Yeah, 902 00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: I never thought a lot of people that I'm sitting 903 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 1: down with because the way we started is that I 904 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 1: just reached in my phone and I just reached out 905 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 1: to people that I had in my phone. So I 906 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 1: never had any idea. But I've always said, man, I 907 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 1: want to ask Amberroll, why do here you get a 908 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,359 Speaker 1: tattooed on your full head? What does that even mean? 909 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,919 Speaker 1: I wanted to you couldn't put it on your back, 910 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: your arm, your thigh. 911 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 2: I mean, Shannon, not to get dark, because this conversation 912 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:36,880 Speaker 2: is very happy. I just never had a problem with 913 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 2: depression and anxiety. I always been a ball of sunshine. 914 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:46,320 Speaker 2: And you know, I had a baby and the pandemic 915 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:51,360 Speaker 2: hit and at all that happened, and then at the 916 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 2: same time I found out my baby daddy was cheating 917 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 2: on me. Our whole relationship, so it was a lot 918 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,120 Speaker 2: of hard pills of swallow and also trying to be 919 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 2: a mother, and I had a six year old at 920 00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 2: the time, and just California shut. 921 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: Down, California that the rest of the country didn't shut 922 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 1: down like California did. California shut down. 923 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 2: The California shut down. You almost like just could not 924 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,440 Speaker 2: leave your house, and everything was so scary in the news, 925 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 2: and my newborn baby and my mind me up. And 926 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 2: I got the tattoo because I felt like I just 927 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 2: needed to feel something. I just needed to look in 928 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 2: the mirror and see my kids. And I don't know, 929 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,879 Speaker 2: I was just I was in a very dark place. 930 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 2: And I also I didn't I didn't want to feel beautiful. 931 00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 2: I didn't want to feel pretty. I just kind of 932 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:48,240 Speaker 2: wanted myself up a little bit. Damn if that makes sense. 933 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,800 Speaker 1: No, I mean at the time, I mean I'm listening 934 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 1: at you, and you're telling me what you're going through 935 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 1: and that you didn't want to feel pretty. And you 936 00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,040 Speaker 1: get a tattoo, and obviously it's where everybody's going to 937 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:00,719 Speaker 1: be able to see it. Put it in a place, 938 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,879 Speaker 1: and like I said, I ask you, and I don't 939 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: mean to be disrespectful or anything like that, So I apologize, 940 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 1: But so you had postpartum? 941 00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 2: Yes? Why have postpartum? Because my entire relationship was a lot, 942 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:18,279 Speaker 2: a lot, you know, And I just was he seeing 943 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:18,880 Speaker 2: share at the time? 944 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:19,880 Speaker 1: Was that was the one he was? 945 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 2: He was seeing everybody. I don't think he was seeing Share, 946 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:23,720 Speaker 2: but he was definitely seeing everybody. 947 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:25,880 Speaker 1: How do you not know? You say you had intuition? 948 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 2: How do you not know you you have cloudy judgment 949 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 2: when you're pregnant? Oh okay, But it's also like, how 950 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 2: you gonna cheat on me when I'm pregnant? You know, 951 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,840 Speaker 2: I'm not feel to cheat back. At least play a 952 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 2: fair fight, cheat on me when I get my body back. No, 953 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 2: I don't do that. Okay, what am I going to 954 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 2: get your friends to make you mad? I'm not going 955 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:47,719 Speaker 2: to do that. That's ridiculous. 956 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,040 Speaker 1: I'm not you know, someone do that now? 957 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:54,320 Speaker 2: I'm not that Why that's so dumb, That's so stupid. No, 958 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 2: not doing that. It's ridiculous. 959 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 1: You have any more taxi? You got one of your 960 00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 1: thumb It used to. 961 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 2: Say Cam because what's his name was? Cameron? Uh huh, 962 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,799 Speaker 2: Well his name is Cameron. But I turned it into 963 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:09,200 Speaker 2: pain because he broke my heart worse than anyone could 964 00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:09,879 Speaker 2: ever bring behind. 965 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was gonna say that, Yeah, you're not 966 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,400 Speaker 1: gonna be able to have I don't know how guy's 967 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: gonna let you have somebody else's name on them. Yeah. 968 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 2: I turned it into pain. 969 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. So how many tattoos do you have? You have 970 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: seed the too in your forehead or see the thumb. 971 00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 2: I'm fully sleeved. 972 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 1: Really yeah, what made How were you forgot your first tattoo? 973 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:27,879 Speaker 2: I was young? 974 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,280 Speaker 1: Did you always want tatts? 975 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 2: I wanted to be ball headed with shades and I 976 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:37,960 Speaker 2: wanted to be tatted. Really yep, yep, this is all premeditated, Shannon, 977 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 2: This is all premeditated, And this is how I wanted 978 00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 2: to look. 979 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 1: I see what Pete Davidson just had all his tattoos removed. 980 00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 1: I think that's the cause out if it shortly sent 981 00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 1: over two hundred thousand dollars to have those tattoos. Would 982 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 1: you ever think about having your tattoos removed? 983 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,400 Speaker 2: No, it's just too painful. Really, I ain't doing that. 984 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 1: The removal is painful. Huh. 985 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,919 Speaker 2: The removal is more painful than the actually really yeah, 986 00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 2: oh yeah. 987 00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 1: You know what it is? Because I had my daughter. Uh, 988 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 1: she got a tattoo without my permission and that ended 989 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,120 Speaker 1: up having to take hers she got it yeh shet Yeah, 990 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 1: oh she was screaming. I don't know. I don't know 991 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 1: what to tell you because but you can actually hear. 992 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:11,480 Speaker 1: You can smell the skin burning. 993 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's bad. 994 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell her that every week. Got it up listen. Yeah, 995 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 1: she talked about she wanted to be reread. 996 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:18,920 Speaker 3: How old you? 997 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, she had had headed down on arm. I mean 998 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:23,800 Speaker 1: had just like Rihanna. 999 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she wouldn't be rereached. 1000 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 1: Funny I said, read, don't pay no bills up here. 1001 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,120 Speaker 1: I love you reread, but that had to come up 1002 00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: off there. 1003 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,040 Speaker 2: Wait, how old you? You only have a daughter. 1004 00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 1: I have two daughters and my son. 1005 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 2: How old are they? 1006 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: Thirty two and thirty one? How old are you share 1007 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:46,359 Speaker 1: that I'll be fifty seven. Continue, give me a little trend. 1008 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:51,439 Speaker 1: You WoT to give a little dread? Jordan, I feel 1009 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:55,200 Speaker 1: like that k doc swimming pools, pour up, drink, headshot drink. 1010 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:01,359 Speaker 1: They're not like us. Jordan did not like us. Y'all 1011 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:08,800 Speaker 1: that right down. Serve your procedures breast reduction, lightful suctions, 1012 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,000 Speaker 1: say like pegs bodox fillers face typed why you need 1013 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 1: to do all that? 1014 00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,320 Speaker 2: What you mean why not? 1015 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,799 Speaker 1: No, I'm saying this is your body. I'll never tell you. 1016 00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,320 Speaker 2: I look the same. Yeah, but I'm just not aging. 1017 00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 2: So what women do is they go and get these 1018 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,640 Speaker 2: procedures done where they look different. They look like a 1019 00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,720 Speaker 2: different person. I don't want to look like a different person. 1020 00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:36,200 Speaker 1: I just want to a younger version on yourself. You said, 1021 00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: what you want to look like a younger version of yourself? 1022 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:40,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I just want to stay youthful. 1023 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: You do realize the objective is that once you it's 1024 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,080 Speaker 1: the age because a lot of people have an appointment 1025 00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 1: that they can't reschedule. What do you mean appointment that 1026 00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 1: you can't reschedule? It's called death? Oh I mean, don't you? 1027 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:57,239 Speaker 1: I mean, so how long? So you want to be 1028 00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:58,719 Speaker 1: you want to be sixty looking like this? 1029 00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:00,960 Speaker 2: I will be sixty looking like this. 1030 00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:04,680 Speaker 1: Oh Lord, that mercy. It's okay, it's. 1031 00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:08,280 Speaker 2: Okay, it's fine, it's fine. It is definitely okay. 1032 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:12,919 Speaker 1: So all those procedures, I mean, you're like, man, that's. 1033 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:13,600 Speaker 2: Really not a lot. 1034 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:14,600 Speaker 1: It's up keep. 1035 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,160 Speaker 2: It's just it's just maintenance. It's that's not a lot 1036 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 2: of trust me. I know girls they get a lot. 1037 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 2: I know guys that get their bodies done. What kind 1038 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 2: of body what they had six packs? They get all that. Yeah, 1039 00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:29,839 Speaker 2: come on and it cuts in there. So what they 1040 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:33,279 Speaker 2: do is they light boat suction around the muscle and 1041 00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,000 Speaker 2: it makes it cut like stick out. 1042 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:35,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1043 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, guys doing that now, Yes, they won't. Well, some 1044 00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:45,400 Speaker 2: is genetics. Some is genetics. And if you want the 1045 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,800 Speaker 2: extra cuts, sometimes you need a little help. You go 1046 00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:49,839 Speaker 2: to doctor Matt Locke. 1047 00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 1: Uh your angela Black China fondly noms black China. She 1048 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,839 Speaker 1: got a breast and plants butt injection. She got all 1049 00:52:58,840 --> 00:52:59,600 Speaker 1: that stuff removed. 1050 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, good for her. Yes, she's happy. She seems 1051 00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 2: very happy. 1052 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,320 Speaker 1: She does seem very happy. Did you have a conversation 1053 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,719 Speaker 1: with her, I mean she's sold talk all the time. 1054 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:14,600 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, but you know we're just in different We 1055 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:18,240 Speaker 2: have different lifestyles, me and China. But that's my sister forever. 1056 00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,840 Speaker 1: Why do you think women are regretting some of the 1057 00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: decisions that they made when they were younger. Sisa said 1058 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:28,360 Speaker 1: she regrets getting her BBL as well. Why do you 1059 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 1: think women are starting to have those regrets ever. 1060 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:35,319 Speaker 2: Well, I think it's because it's it's a style at 1061 00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,480 Speaker 2: the time, right to have just a big, old fat ass, 1062 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 2: and then you realize, you well, you go to the 1063 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,680 Speaker 2: gym and you can't really run on the treadmill because 1064 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,080 Speaker 2: your ass is heavy as hell, and then you want 1065 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,000 Speaker 2: to go get it taken out, you know. So I 1066 00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,279 Speaker 2: mean I've done it. I got my butt done, and 1067 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 2: then I got everything taken out, right, So I got 1068 00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,320 Speaker 2: my butt done when it was in style, big stupid 1069 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 2: fat ass, and now I got it taken out? 1070 00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,440 Speaker 1: Is it hard for women to get to age gracefully? 1071 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,359 Speaker 2: I'm I'm happy with aging. I just feel like, if 1072 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 2: you know, if I can get some boatoks or some 1073 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,680 Speaker 2: you know, I really don't do much. What do I get? 1074 00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 2: Do I get, like maybe a little filler right here 1075 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 2: and some boatos on my face? You think you can 1076 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 2: get some bowtok, I'm gonna take you some boatos. You 1077 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 2: need a little bit right here. You got a couple, 1078 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:27,640 Speaker 2: We're gonna get rid of it. 1079 00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:28,920 Speaker 1: But I'm about to be fifty seven. 1080 00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,480 Speaker 2: But it's okay. It's just it's fine. You get a 1081 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:36,799 Speaker 2: little botox and then it just smooths it out. I'm 1082 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:37,839 Speaker 2: gonna go do it for free. 1083 00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:42,640 Speaker 1: It's fine, Oh Lord, have mercy. But but why is it? 1084 00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,799 Speaker 1: It seems to be a double stand that men men 1085 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,640 Speaker 1: can age gracefully. Yeah, oh you look so good. We 1086 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 1: love the salt and pepper, blah blah blah, but women. 1087 00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,680 Speaker 1: Because it's like men, men can get to age like 1088 00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,320 Speaker 1: be fifty five, sixty, seventy and still appeal to like 1089 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:05,680 Speaker 1: the high twenties, thirties, year old, thirty young forties, women 1090 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 1: not so much have now some like you and your situation. 1091 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,480 Speaker 1: You being who you are a You're gonna always be 1092 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:17,360 Speaker 1: able to appeal to basically from nineteen to your age, 1093 00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:18,360 Speaker 1: even nineteen. 1094 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 2: Be honest, it's not easy. I do go to the 1095 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,640 Speaker 2: gym five days a week, you know what I'm saying. 1096 00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,680 Speaker 2: I do drink a lot of water. I don't drink 1097 00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:28,400 Speaker 2: alcohol like that maybe a special occasion some. 1098 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:31,239 Speaker 1: There. Do you watch what you eat? 1099 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,200 Speaker 2: I eat in moderation, okay? So I am. I am 1100 00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,279 Speaker 2: from Philly, So I do like my cheese steaks and 1101 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:41,880 Speaker 2: my fork sandwiches and stuff like that. But instead of 1102 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 2: eating a whole one, I'll eat a half one, or 1103 00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:46,200 Speaker 2: instead of having fries with it, I won't have no fries. 1104 00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,839 Speaker 2: I'll just drink of water versus a root beer because 1105 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:52,880 Speaker 2: I love root beer. But yeah, I just mix it up, 1106 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:54,279 Speaker 2: mix and match it. 1107 00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:56,520 Speaker 1: Have you ever been body shamed? Do women bodies? Do 1108 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,759 Speaker 1: people body shait? Not just say women, but do you 1109 00:55:58,880 --> 00:55:59,720 Speaker 1: get body shamed? 1110 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:02,400 Speaker 2: I did, especially like after I had my kids and 1111 00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:06,600 Speaker 2: I was still fat, you know, but I didn't give 1112 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,800 Speaker 2: I didn't think about it. Twice. I was just like, 1113 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm fluffy because my kids have to lay on me 1114 00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,640 Speaker 2: and breast me, and I don't care. I'll go to 1115 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:16,879 Speaker 2: the gym and I'll figure it out. 1116 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,560 Speaker 1: Why are women so hard on each other on social media? 1117 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,839 Speaker 1: Is it really like this in real life? Or women 1118 00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 1: really this hard on each other and normally forget social 1119 00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: media take that out. Have women always been this hard 1120 00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:29,960 Speaker 1: on each other? Have y'all always been your toughest critics? 1121 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. I mean, I know 1122 00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,360 Speaker 2: this is kind of like frowned upon, but like I 1123 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,400 Speaker 2: usually hang out with guys, I don't hang out with 1124 00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 2: girls like that. And the girls that I do hang 1125 00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 2: out with, they're very confident. If you're insecure around me, 1126 00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:52,080 Speaker 2: it kids are like me, you're mixed, and I said, no, 1127 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:56,240 Speaker 2: I'm not. You're a Puerto Rican. Both of your parents 1128 00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:01,120 Speaker 2: are Puerto Rican. Generationally, down the line, the blacks and 1129 00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 2: whites mixed and then you became Puerto Rican. I understand 1130 00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,880 Speaker 2: the history, right. The difference between me and you is 1131 00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,719 Speaker 2: that I have a white parent and I have a 1132 00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,120 Speaker 2: black parent. It's a whole different culture. As sist, you 1133 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,400 Speaker 2: don't know what you're talking about, so stop telling me 1134 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,800 Speaker 2: who I am. And then she was like, you know 1135 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,280 Speaker 2: what your problem is. You just want to be white. 1136 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:23,920 Speaker 2: And I said, okay, So I just get up and 1137 00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:29,720 Speaker 2: I'm quiet, and I gotta walk past her desk to 1138 00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:33,400 Speaker 2: get out the classroom, and she went like this, and 1139 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 2: I was like what And I hit her with like 1140 00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 2: a six This is like a six piece, y'all. She 1141 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,520 Speaker 2: has a history of violence. What am I gonna do? 1142 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 2: You're gonna bully me and then beat me up? Are 1143 00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 2: you done? I'm never gonna let you do that to me. 1144 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,959 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get off first and now. And my both 1145 00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:56,760 Speaker 2: my mom and dad was like, that's right, that's what 1146 00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,440 Speaker 2: you do. And my dad was like, you always get 1147 00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:01,160 Speaker 2: the first, always. Yeah. 1148 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 1: How difficult was it going up by racial in the 1149 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:05,400 Speaker 1: nineties in South Philly. 1150 00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:08,560 Speaker 2: It was interesting for sure. 1151 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 1: Well maybe actually like what late eighties. 1152 00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 2: It was the nineties. It was the nineties. Yeah, for 1153 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:17,720 Speaker 2: sure the nineties, and like I started first grade in 1154 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:24,080 Speaker 2: ninety one, okay, So it was definitely interesting because it's 1155 00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,480 Speaker 2: like the Italian and Irish out there, so they're like 1156 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 2: a different kind of racist sometimes. But I would like 1157 00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 2: have before I really even thought about race, I would 1158 00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,200 Speaker 2: have a crush on like an Italian boy or an 1159 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,800 Speaker 2: Irish boy, and then they would like see my mom 1160 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:40,760 Speaker 2: and they would be like, you know, call me like 1161 00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:44,920 Speaker 2: the hard r and I'm like, it's kind of crazy, 1162 00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:50,560 Speaker 2: like you know, and then and then or they would 1163 00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,120 Speaker 2: see my mom and they'd be like, damn, I just 1164 00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,600 Speaker 2: I had no idea, or I thought you were white, right, 1165 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,200 Speaker 2: or well if your dad's white, then you're white, but 1166 00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,200 Speaker 2: if your mom's black, then you're black. And it was 1167 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:02,280 Speaker 2: always like I had to just pick a side all 1168 00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 2: the time. So I think that was one of my 1169 00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 2: frustrations with Johnslyn, like I'm at the time, thirty nine 1170 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:13,920 Speaker 2: years old, are we really doing this? Like are you 1171 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,600 Speaker 2: that stupid that we really have to go I have 1172 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,360 Speaker 2: to go through this at thirty nine years old. It's insane. 1173 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:24,960 Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, do you hate that you felt like you 1174 00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:26,920 Speaker 1: needed to pick a side that I needed I got. 1175 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,920 Speaker 1: Why can't I just love both of my parents? The 1176 00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,320 Speaker 1: one is black, one is white. Why can't I embrace? 1177 00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:33,880 Speaker 1: Why do I have to choose a side? Why do 1178 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 1: I got to choose the Caucasian side of my family? 1179 00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 1: Why do I have to choose the black side of 1180 00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,880 Speaker 1: my family? Why can't I just embrace and be an 1181 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 1: embodiment of it all? 1182 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 2: That's my whole point. I always felt like that my 1183 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:45,200 Speaker 2: whole life. 1184 00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 1: But you felt that each side wanted you to choose, 1185 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 1: not my people. 1186 00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,000 Speaker 2: People on the outside of my family. 1187 00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna say you're outside forces wanted you to 1188 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,760 Speaker 1: choose you black, Say I'm black. Black power right on. 1189 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:01,600 Speaker 2: But it's like the one drop rule comes from white supremacy. 1190 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 2: It comes from Jim crow eraror where white enslavers would 1191 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,920 Speaker 2: rape black slaved women and had their they would have 1192 01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,120 Speaker 2: their kids, and they'd be like, oh, one drop, you're 1193 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:15,720 Speaker 2: still slave. You know, it comes from white supremacy. There 1194 01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 2: is no reason why I have to feel bad that 1195 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 2: I have a white dad and white family members. That 1196 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,200 Speaker 2: I love and I have to just say I'm black 1197 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 2: because the one drop rule is insane, right, And I 1198 01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:30,280 Speaker 2: love that I have my white uncles that introduced me 1199 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 2: to Pantera and Metallica and System of a Down and 1200 01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:41,040 Speaker 2: Leonard skinnerd and all these all that that's a part 1201 01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:44,640 Speaker 2: of my culture because of my white uncles. And then 1202 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,880 Speaker 2: my mom's side is you know, the Anita Baker, Luther 1203 01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 2: Vandros four Tops, Temptations, Teddy Pandagra. That is who I am. 1204 01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:57,600 Speaker 2: So somebody like Jocelyn bitch, You're not gonna just tell 1205 01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 2: me who I am. 1206 01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Why do you think 1207 01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:04,320 Speaker 1: Drake Drake receives so much hate? Do you think it's 1208 01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:05,240 Speaker 1: because he's bibracial? 1209 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:10,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he embraces his Jewish side so much that 1210 01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 2: it pisses people off. 1211 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,760 Speaker 1: What do you think of the people that are profited 1212 01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,640 Speaker 1: off for being in black spaces? You got a problem 1213 01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:19,600 Speaker 1: with that? Are you okay with that? 1214 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:27,160 Speaker 2: That confuses me. I'm gonna tell you why, because you 1215 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:31,400 Speaker 2: cannot blame you have to blame the consumer at that point. Right, 1216 01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:34,360 Speaker 2: So when people are like Amber, You're famous for no reason, 1217 01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:38,320 Speaker 2: it's like maybe, but you have to blame the consumer. 1218 01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:41,320 Speaker 2: You can't blame me, blame the people that buy into 1219 01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:45,240 Speaker 2: what I'm selling. Right, Yes, So if somebody like Drake 1220 01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:49,960 Speaker 2: or me is within black culture and we're biracial, why 1221 01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:52,680 Speaker 2: are you mad at us? We love y'all, you know, 1222 01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:56,040 Speaker 2: and we love white people too. And there's black people 1223 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:58,240 Speaker 2: that aren't good, and there's white people that aren't good. 1224 01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:00,919 Speaker 2: There's bad people in every race, and there's good people 1225 01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,520 Speaker 2: in every race. So you don't talk about people as 1226 01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 2: a monolith. That's unfair, you know what I'm saying. So 1227 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:11,640 Speaker 2: to benefit off of black culture is crazy. I hate 1228 01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:14,680 Speaker 2: when I see that, right because it's like you're not 1229 01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:19,200 Speaker 2: actively going into too. You're like, like me, I'm bi racial, 1230 01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,760 Speaker 2: like me, I'm Drake's is making rap music and it's 1231 01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:26,680 Speaker 2: really good. So people like it, like they buy it 1232 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:27,360 Speaker 2: by it. 1233 01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 1: Tyler caught a lot of backlash when she identified herself 1234 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: as black and a colored woman. She's being obviously she's 1235 01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,280 Speaker 1: South Africa. What's going on? 1236 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,720 Speaker 2: People are called color in South Africa. 1237 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:40,280 Speaker 1: Colored. 1238 01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,600 Speaker 2: There's a different culture over there. People in the US. 1239 01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:45,480 Speaker 1: They used to call you that. You call you that 1240 01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:50,840 Speaker 1: and fel doing you know, Yeah, filvil rising and the film. Yeah, 1241 01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: and you know, pre eighteen sixties, definitely they were called colored. 1242 01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:55,800 Speaker 1: They call you negro. 1243 01:02:56,520 --> 01:03:00,480 Speaker 2: But it has a negative conversation here in America because 1244 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:04,040 Speaker 2: of American history. It's not the same as South Africa. 1245 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,760 Speaker 2: So when she says that people are up in arms, 1246 01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,880 Speaker 2: but it doesn't mean the same thing over here that 1247 01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:10,720 Speaker 2: it does over there. 1248 01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:14,800 Speaker 1: You've been participating in Travis Scott's annual HBCU Celebrity Classic. 1249 01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:17,680 Speaker 1: What's your relationship with Tramp? You're cool, y'all. Obviously you're 1250 01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 1: cool because you go damn there every year. 1251 01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:22,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just I don't know, it's just super cool. 1252 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:27,240 Speaker 2: He invited me one year, which is crazy because I 1253 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,920 Speaker 2: don't talk to Travis Scott until the game is coming up, 1254 01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,560 Speaker 2: like in February, and I'm like, yo, bro, like what 1255 01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:35,560 Speaker 2: are we doing this year? Like how many outfits should 1256 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,360 Speaker 2: I bring? Is like after after party, and then I 1257 01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 2: won't I probably won't talk to him till next February. 1258 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:45,640 Speaker 1: Amber, I don't know. I was debating. You caught a 1259 01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:49,480 Speaker 1: lot of flat because you supported President Trump, your pilog 1260 01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,680 Speaker 1: using and say, look, I like talking religion, I like 1261 01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:53,800 Speaker 1: talking politics. Yeah, I ain't got no problem with it. 1262 01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,480 Speaker 1: And people like, we're going to cancel Amber Rolls because 1263 01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 1: she wearing the red hat make America great again? What 1264 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 1: went into your and Wiz said, you know, talking to Wiz, 1265 01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: he says, look, if that's what you believe, do you, 1266 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:10,240 Speaker 1: why are you worried about what everybody else thinking? Do you? 1267 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,800 Speaker 1: What made you decide to say, you know what? This 1268 01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:16,920 Speaker 1: to who I believe is the best candidate, This to 1269 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:20,160 Speaker 1: who I believe, this is, who embodies basically what I 1270 01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,240 Speaker 1: believe in, This, who I'm supporting. What went into your 1271 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 1: thought process? You knew that you was gonna catch some criticism, 1272 01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,400 Speaker 1: You're gonna catch some blowback and flat, but you did 1273 01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,160 Speaker 1: it anyway. What went into that decision? 1274 01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:36,080 Speaker 2: I just felt like he was the best for our country? 1275 01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:41,400 Speaker 2: And why not use my platform to say that? First 1276 01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:44,960 Speaker 2: and foremost. Second of all, no one can ever cancel me. 1277 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:46,920 Speaker 2: Only I can cancel me. 1278 01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:48,920 Speaker 1: Right? Is there anything you want to promote? You got 1279 01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,880 Speaker 1: anything coming out? You got a book, you got cosmetics 1280 01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:52,920 Speaker 1: or anything you want to promote? 1281 01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,520 Speaker 2: Yes, So I would like to announce that me and 1282 01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:58,160 Speaker 2: Ray J are coming out with a new show. Okay, 1283 01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 2: and we are talking about everything sports, politics, entertainment. It's 1284 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 2: me and him. We're gonna go nuts. I can't wait 1285 01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:09,960 Speaker 2: for you guys to see it, and also follow me 1286 01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:14,880 Speaker 2: on Only Fans. Subscribe to my Only Fans merch my merch. 1287 01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:16,479 Speaker 2: If you just go to the link in my bio 1288 01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:20,480 Speaker 2: at amber Rose on Instagram, you can get all the 1289 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 2: links there. But my Only Fans is just my day 1290 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,960 Speaker 2: to day life and stuff that I don't post on Instagram. 1291 01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:28,560 Speaker 2: So it's really it's really cool over. 1292 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,400 Speaker 1: There, Miss Ambrose. 1293 01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:33,320 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you so much. 1294 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 1: Future at your time. That was awesome. Thank you. Spotlight 1295 01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:39,880 Speaker 1: l A the newest exclusive nightclub for loud club shay 1296 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:42,439 Speaker 1: shade of film here. 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