Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in the rub.
Speaker 3: Dub Dub and the tub tub Tub.
Speaker 2: We have an exclusive, an exclusive special guest here today.
Speaker 3: I heard it here first.
Speaker 2: You already here first, because we have been trying to
Speaker 2: get her in the scrubbing in chair for a while now,
Speaker 2: long time.
Speaker 1: We have we've put we have sent feelers out for months.
Speaker 3: And dates for different dates, and the date has come.
Speaker 3: She's a busy gal, busy gal, corporate gal, corporate gal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also a como for the Gatagar wedding.
Speaker 3: I think you can turn on your microphone.
Speaker 4: I don't want to do that.
Speaker 2: Hi guys, Hello, we were just saying how the few
Speaker 2: times you've been on you've actually filled in for me.
Speaker 2: So I haven't gotten to I know, a favorite person.
Speaker 4: So this is sorry to.
Speaker 2: Certain of strong.
Speaker 4: Anyway, I'm really happy to be here. Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: No, who is your old favorite person?
Speaker 4: You're still my favorite?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you're just at it.
Speaker 4: I feel like that Sophia's like but beyond me.
Speaker 3: I know, yeah, I need to figure that out.
Speaker 4: Yeah the same.
Speaker 2: Yeah, then I'm getting it. I've been around Sophia in
Speaker 2: my mind. I've been around her a lot.
Speaker 1: Of times, I know, But I feel like what I
Speaker 1: realized also to throughout this whole process is like you
Speaker 1: guys have all come to different things, like if I
Speaker 1: have a birthday dinner, you all come. If Taco Tuesday
Speaker 1: bits and pieces, not everybody there, but like you've all
Speaker 1: been in the in the mix, but like it hasn't
Speaker 1: been so full on and like less people involved, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean.
Speaker 4: See, I i'te disagree to really yeah, but I but
Speaker 4: it was different because I was like talking to her
Speaker 4: without you do you know what I mean? Like the
Speaker 4: problem no no, no, no, no no no, the cancer is
Speaker 4: coming out. No, as in like we were talking every
Speaker 4: single day, like just and I planning your bachelorette like
Speaker 4: coming together and the secrets and the planning. And I
Speaker 4: think it was like a different level of bonding that
Speaker 4: was not in a bad way, separate to like hang
Speaker 4: out with.
Speaker 2: You, well in a great way. There's there's always a
Speaker 2: party setting, so there's it's loud. Yeah, there's a lot
Speaker 2: of people.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's like just just second.
Speaker 2: But I think the thing is I always knew, Like
Speaker 2: I was always like, I love Paulina. I never say
Speaker 2: didn't think that. I just didn't know you at it
Speaker 2: at a certain level, a deeper level.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: But I think with Sophia, I literally I feel like
Speaker 2: I don't know her.
Speaker 1: After the trip, I was like, I love Yeah, She's.
Speaker 4: One of those that like you have to spend time
Speaker 4: with her to like really get to know her, and
Speaker 4: then she's actually like so fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, people just don't know that like side, that fun
Speaker 4: side to her. Yeah, And she is very motherly, weirdly enough,
Speaker 4: and she she was her house.
Speaker 2: Mom on The Bachelor and kept us on time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I love that about her, Like I literally
Speaker 1: love that about her. It's one of my favorite things
Speaker 1: because I feel like, like I remember when we went
Speaker 1: to go visit her for her birthday and she like
Speaker 1: made all of us a key to the apartment, and
Speaker 1: I was like, that's something.
Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, like it's so nice.
Speaker 2: That's really thoughtful.
Speaker 3: But do you know what I mean, Like, oh, that's
Speaker 3: so nice that you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: She thinks, like all of them, she thinks ten steps ahead,
Speaker 1: like maybe if we come home at different times, people
Speaker 1: will need a key, you know, yeah, I would never think.
Speaker 3: That far ahead.
Speaker 4: Yeah she's she's smart one, Yeah, she's on.
Speaker 2: Top of it. So we did. Our first plan of
Speaker 2: action was planning the bachelorette together, and people.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, just kidding, I'll say that engagement, but
Speaker 4: like that wasn't really it was like our first like
Speaker 4: secret that we knew.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah you and I was yeah yeah, And
Speaker 2: people were wondering what what the best and worst part
Speaker 2: of being coma with me? Has been?
Speaker 4: Best and worst? Start with the best, Okay, the best.
Speaker 4: And I've said this to everyone I know, don't let
Speaker 4: anyone tell you Becca till he is lazy. That girl
Speaker 4: is so on it, so thorough, so thoughtful. So everything
Speaker 4: I'm looking at you, I don't even.
Speaker 2: Be says I you tell are you telling people I'm lazy?
Speaker 3: You're lazy?
Speaker 2: I can say, are you telling people?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I say it on the podcast.
Speaker 4: The best part was getting to with you and like
Speaker 4: really get to know each other on like a deeper level.
Speaker 4: And we just had so much fun planning it too,
Speaker 4: and like came together so quickly and just like there
Speaker 4: was some like things got outed and like the planning
Speaker 4: and the phone calls and the face times and like
Speaker 4: the million text threads. It was just really fun planning everything.
Speaker 4: I think the worst part, I don't think.
Speaker 2: There was the worst part. You gotta pick one, just
Speaker 2: like wondering if I, oh, no, she's like I was
Speaker 2: not gonna say.
Speaker 4: She sometimes would take long to answer a text. Yes
Speaker 4: that I know that quick answer?
Speaker 2: Really what on what?
Speaker 4: Just sometimes I had to really dig for one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you were probably better than I don't understand.
Speaker 3: So then what happened about this? Maybe she used it because.
Speaker 1: You and a lot of text threads that I'm on
Speaker 1: with you takes you a long time to respond.
Speaker 4: We had a little bit of time to plan things.
Speaker 3: It was like a quick yeah, was it a time crunch?
Speaker 2: When I when there's a time crunch is when I thrive.
Speaker 2: But I'm not a I don't plan in advance. I'm
Speaker 2: not getting everyone keys to the house before they arrive.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm not on that level. Yeah, but when
Speaker 2: it's crunch time, I thrive.
Speaker 4: And you really did thrive.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, but we were all like all
Speaker 2: the same page with that, but we crushed crush.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you.
Speaker 3: No notes, not one note, no notes, no notes.
Speaker 4: About us to really we feeled it. Yeah, yeah, literally literally, yeah,
Speaker 4: I agree.
Speaker 1: People were messaging me after the bacherette and they were like,
Speaker 1: what may are I can't remember they worded it in
Speaker 1: such a way they were like how like why was
Speaker 1: it so like so like why did you have so
Speaker 1: little girls? And I was like that's all I wanted,
Speaker 1: Like I I feel like every bacherette that I've gone
Speaker 1: on as like a guest to a bachelorette, there's always
Speaker 1: weird dynamics involved in everything, and like the bride is
Speaker 1: responsible for like making sure they're comfortable and that group
Speaker 1: is comfortable and everybody's like thing. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I just want a simpatico, an easy, manageable number. And
Speaker 1: I feel like you guys kept saying that the whole weekend.
Speaker 1: It was like easier to plan.
Speaker 3: You get like one car on table.
Speaker 4: Very strongly about this too, yeah, because I felt like
Speaker 4: it's what you have been saying that you really wanted,
Speaker 4: was like have your best friends in one space because
Speaker 4: it never happens, like we're never all together. And Beck
Speaker 4: and I kind of put our foot downe on that,
Speaker 4: like keeping it small and tight to really give you
Speaker 4: your dream weekend. But I think it's what made it
Speaker 4: so special.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because and I just know it just as like
Speaker 1: being a spectator in other bacherette parties. I was like,
Speaker 1: I just know, I don't want that. I don't want
Speaker 1: that feeling. That weekend, I literally just want to be
Speaker 1: it just wanted to be easy breezy, and it was
Speaker 1: literally easy breezy, like I felt like the whole time.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well it's also it was quick, so it gave us
Speaker 2: a chance to all bond without you feeling like you
Speaker 2: had to accommodate a lot of personalities or people who
Speaker 2: maybe were.
Speaker 1: Literally had fun the whole time. Yeah, I have to
Speaker 1: do any anything.
Speaker 4: And I think because we also all know each other,
Speaker 4: there wasn't anything like awkward meetings or like the high
Speaker 4: school friend the college friend post college friend, Like yeah,
Speaker 4: we just all already like we knew it wasn't gonna
Speaker 4: be great going in. I think it's like it's hard expectations.
Speaker 2: A little bit.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think so too.
Speaker 2: I wasn't ready to go home. It's just rare normally
Speaker 2: I'm like, I too.
Speaker 4: Another night could have been like good, you kind of
Speaker 4: went downhill that last day I did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I could have come back pull through. We
Speaker 2: could have pulled through. I forgot about that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if there was one more night, we
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have drank.
Speaker 3: Like, I think we would have didn't.
Speaker 2: Drink that much though I don't think it was I really,
Speaker 2: I don't think it was the drinking.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was surprised you said that on that last podcast.
Speaker 3: If we drink a lot.
Speaker 1: We drank when we got there on Friday, Friday night,
Speaker 1: Saturday day and Saturday night.
Speaker 3: That's no the whole time.
Speaker 4: But we drank, but we ca Yeah, like no one
Speaker 4: ever was like we were just you were just fouring shots.
Speaker 2: Though one night you are just like.
Speaker 4: Another another anything about me and we'll be pouring tequila shots.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Someone asked, what do you think the alcohol level will
Speaker 2: be for the wedding weekend?
Speaker 4: What did you say this weekend?
Speaker 2: Balls to the wall?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we're gonna I mean we're in Mexico. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I think we're gonna have so much fun.
Speaker 2: But the whole thing with up until the balls to
Speaker 2: the walls comment, Donya has been like I really have
Speaker 2: to take it easy the night before the wedding.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was surprised by that comment not gonna light
Speaker 4: to you.
Speaker 3: So here's the thing.
Speaker 1: When I have too much alcohol the next day, I'm
Speaker 1: like a little bit slumbery, A little bit, yes, So
Speaker 1: what I want I want to make sure that I
Speaker 1: don't blow my load on Thursday night and then Friday,
Speaker 1: I'm like so slumbery, right.
Speaker 4: But that's contradicting my balls the walls.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I know, So I gotta figure that out.
Speaker 4: I think you should just take it easy, enjoy yourself.
Speaker 2: And the wall is Friday and Saday.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 4: And like you don't want to be like hungover on
Speaker 4: your wedding day or like feel right bloated or slumbering.
Speaker 3: Slumbery is really the word is slumbery?
Speaker 2: Are you trying to make hangover sound nice? It's not hangover.
Speaker 1: It's not hangover. It's just like tired. It's like tired
Speaker 1: and fatigued.
Speaker 4: That's a hangover.
Speaker 1: Slumbery's called the hangover, but there's no headache involved.
Speaker 3: There's no like, ugh, I need water, do you know
Speaker 3: what I mean?
Speaker 1: Water?
Speaker 3: Okay, I sleep I need to be like Warzon.
Speaker 2: Okay, So you could go balls the walls as long
Speaker 2: as you can sleep in on Friday, correct saying, I
Speaker 2: don't know if I want to test that theory because
Speaker 2: I think you're I think this is like you trying
Speaker 2: to convince yourself that nothing better than a juicy, kosher chicken,
Speaker 2: and this this is feeling similar.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm going to just nurse one drink
Speaker 1: that night rehearsal dinner.
Speaker 4: It's also the girl that came back from the Bachelor
Speaker 4: ry and was like, I'm never drinking again, and we
Speaker 4: never got drunk.
Speaker 3: I got drunk. I got drunk.
Speaker 4: When Friday.
Speaker 2: Are you talking about dinner after the boudoir she I
Speaker 2: think you were sick from out slubbery.
Speaker 4: Anyway, I am going to have a great time, but
Speaker 4: I think you need to take it easy up until
Speaker 4: the actual day day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that might be our job to like, I.
Speaker 4: Think so too. I was like, hey, Paulina, why don't
Speaker 4: you like talk to her later when she said that
Speaker 4: whole comment about like going ham and I was like,
Speaker 4: I'll reel her in later.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we'd be just giving her like soda
Speaker 2: water with yeah, like.
Speaker 3: Or like acting like it's real. Okay.
Speaker 2: I think we might have to like step up and
Speaker 2: be just like on top of that.
Speaker 3: I agree Mommy and Daddy.
Speaker 2: Mm mmm, No, I feel like I don't know the
Speaker 2: story of how y'all met. Oh my goodness, I don't
Speaker 2: think I know how y'all met.
Speaker 4: So it was a eleven years ago at a.
Speaker 3: Radio Disney Music.
Speaker 4: Award, Sophia's first one, like before Descendants yeah came out
Speaker 4: or anything.
Speaker 3: Yes. So I was there with.
Speaker 1: Uh, like a record label person, and he sat we
Speaker 1: were just like coincidentally sitting next to Pauline and Sophia,
Speaker 1: and he left because he was obviously doing like five
Speaker 1: hundred things backstage, and he was like, oh, meet Pauline.
Speaker 1: You guys will be great friends. Yeah, and just walked
Speaker 1: away and like literally left me, and I.
Speaker 2: Was like okay.
Speaker 1: And then we just like started like talking the whole show,
Speaker 1: jamming out to like all the performances. And then I
Speaker 1: think we realized that like we lived close to each
Speaker 1: other or like somewhat close to each other.
Speaker 4: I was still in college, like I was still at
Speaker 4: LMU in school.
Speaker 1: And then it really started happening because we started working
Speaker 1: out together.
Speaker 4: We went to boxing together.
Speaker 3: After my friendships start really in the in the in
Speaker 3: the g y M.
Speaker 4: Correct and then the rest is kind of history. We
Speaker 4: would to go to like Coral Tree after the gym
Speaker 4: every day and.
Speaker 3: I would hit on our trainer.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Yep.
Speaker 2: Yeah wait what year was this though?
Speaker 3: It was when I was living next to you.
Speaker 4: No, before, it was before Becka moved in.
Speaker 2: I moved in twenty sixteen.
Speaker 3: It was the dates that you get remember.
Speaker 4: Two thousand, like fourteen, because I had just moved I
Speaker 4: moved to La Yeah yeah, fourteen. Yeah, it was eleven
Speaker 4: years ago.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, wow, yeah.
Speaker 4: A long time ago.
Speaker 2: It was just a bonding.
Speaker 4: It was just on her left kind of instant.
Speaker 3: Yeah, totally instant.
Speaker 1: And it was so funny because Sophia had had she
Speaker 1: filmed Descendants.
Speaker 4: I think they had filmed, but it hadn't come out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so they were like, she's gonna be in this movie,
Speaker 1: to send this Disney movie, and I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: and then it turns out that this Disney movie turns
Speaker 1: out to be like high Musical of the New Generation,
Speaker 1: which I thought was so funny.
Speaker 3: And I remember we got these.
Speaker 1: Like uh, we were at E at the time, and
Speaker 1: we got these like delivery. They're like apples, candy apples
Speaker 1: and they had like all the cast photos on them,
Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, that's my friend I met
Speaker 1: at a The Right Disney musical.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, movie might be a big deals with
Speaker 2: their face on it. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Was that Sofia's first big role? Yeah, like that was
Speaker 2: like that was.
Speaker 4: A thing that like kind of catapulted her career. She
Speaker 4: had like smaller roles before that, but yeah, that was
Speaker 4: like the big, the big one.
Speaker 2: What was that like for you? Like being the little
Speaker 2: sister watching because you know it's your siblings, are your
Speaker 2: best friends do things, but you know them, like even Haley.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm like I watched people freak out and I
Speaker 2: just think of her home with me, and I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's so weird.
Speaker 4: And people always ask me like, what's it like having
Speaker 4: her as a sister, and I'm like, I don't know
Speaker 4: much as just my sister. I do think that when
Speaker 4: it all kind of happened, it was very weird to
Speaker 4: see like close family and friends mainly like acting differently.
Speaker 4: And I was like, but she hasn't changed. Her job
Speaker 4: is just on a screen. So it was a bit
Speaker 4: weird for me to see people reacting so like strongly
Speaker 4: or like fans would like die over her, and I'm like, huh,
Speaker 4: I understood it, and I was so proud, and I
Speaker 4: you know, like I've she was born this to be
Speaker 4: her career. So like when you know someone wants something
Speaker 4: so badly and then success is rare, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean, especially in that industry, So for her to
Speaker 4: actually achieve what she wanted to and still is. From
Speaker 4: that perspective, I was so proud and happy and thrilled.
Speaker 4: But it is weird to like see this person that
Speaker 4: like I live with her and I know this like
Speaker 4: other side to her that like I'm like, she's just
Speaker 4: like a nerd, Like she was always like the nerd
Speaker 4: in school. She's so smart, like highest GPA, like went
Speaker 4: to UCLA and teacher's total teacher's pet, like loved school,
Speaker 4: and now she's like on red carpets and it's it's
Speaker 4: so I know that side of her. Yeah, So it
Speaker 4: was always a little bit funny to see people's reaction.
Speaker 4: But I don't know, I think I'm just really proud
Speaker 4: to be her sister, and I think it's really cool
Speaker 4: to see our dreams coming true. And we both have
Speaker 4: very separate lives, like we all we both do our
Speaker 4: own thing, but it's still weird. People stop her and
Speaker 4: I'm like, you sure.
Speaker 2: You know this?
Speaker 4: You know that is not that I'm kidding.
Speaker 2: I do feel like y'all both have that for each other,
Speaker 2: like I was. I remember on the boat when we
Speaker 2: were on the Bachelorette and she's like, come take a
Speaker 2: picture with me, like all survived, like she. I feel
Speaker 2: like the pride of having each other as a sister
Speaker 2: is very mutual for y'all.
Speaker 3: Totally definitely, yeah, yeh yeah.
Speaker 2: And a lot of people were asking because when I
Speaker 2: found out what you do, because I had for a
Speaker 2: long the longest time, I didn't know what you did
Speaker 2: for work. And I remember when you started working with
Speaker 2: for and started building Tower twenty eight, and I realized
Speaker 2: your role in it. I was like, this is incredible.
Speaker 2: So a lot of people were asking how you got
Speaker 2: started there and what that process is.
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, well one, thank you, it's been really cool.
Speaker 4: So I went to Lame, I got my bachelor's and
Speaker 4: I I didn't know that my career was a career
Speaker 4: that I could aspire to have. And I knew I
Speaker 4: loved beauty, the beauty industry. I knew I loved makeup.
Speaker 4: I didn't want to be makeup artist. And my mom
Speaker 4: actually found this like masters's program at FITAM and it
Speaker 4: was specifically in product development and marketing in the beauty industry.
Speaker 4: So I did that program and my last semester, my
Speaker 4: now boss founder of Tower twenty eight, Amy was a
Speaker 4: guest speaker and she presented this brand she wanted to
Speaker 4: create and she was like in the middle of like
Speaker 4: raising money and like figuring everything out. And I left
Speaker 4: the class and I DM turned out. I was like,
Speaker 4: I will at your coffee. I want to intern for you,
Speaker 4: I want to work for you. I want to learn
Speaker 4: from you. And I ended up being one of her
Speaker 4: first interns and then first turned first employee. And I'm
Speaker 4: still here, so we Yeah, I mean it was me
Speaker 4: and my coworker Jass, and a few people that are
Speaker 4: like the OG crew are still there and here we
Speaker 4: are seven years later. And I I mean there were
Speaker 4: three people with a lot of different hats in the startup.
Speaker 4: So I developed most of our products. We obviously had
Speaker 4: consultants and it's everything's a team effort coming in and out.
Speaker 4: But I developed the products. I did all of our socials.
Speaker 4: I kind of you know, did a lot of it
Speaker 4: with obviously alongside Amy and Jess and our team, but yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm still there today.
Speaker 1: It's just crazy because like, do you know how many
Speaker 1: brands and like I don't know the makeup space, but
Speaker 1: like just in general, like no, none, My entire face
Speaker 1: is brought to you by Tower twenty eight because just
Speaker 1: tells me what to use and where to use it.
Speaker 1: So like, if you like what's going on here, the
Speaker 1: majority is I love you, But I feel like there's
Speaker 1: so many brands that start, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: There's so many, like you said, startups, and this one
Speaker 1: is now Tower twenty eight is like it's massive, and
Speaker 1: I just feel like that's also very rare, Like.
Speaker 4: That's entirely right, Like I a lot of startups fail,
Speaker 4: most do Yeah, I mean if you think of support,
Speaker 4: like there's a lot, but there's not that many compared
Speaker 4: to how many are in the world and how many
Speaker 4: people are launching and now with TikTok it's daily, there's
Speaker 4: nothing else that's a viral or coming up.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: No, the Tower twenty eighth story is such a rare
Speaker 4: success story. So and my mom always tells me, like
Speaker 4: success is rare enjoy it, and I really, I mean
Speaker 4: Amy and I always talk about how we just did
Speaker 4: not expect this. You hope, right, you hope and you
Speaker 4: dream for this to be everything you want it to
Speaker 4: be and bigger, but we really did not think that
Speaker 4: it would become what it has become. And I'm just
Speaker 4: really grateful to have have the experience that I have
Speaker 4: to like literally name a brand, pick the Pantones. Yeah,
Speaker 4: go to the first Sephora call to now or like this.
Speaker 1: You know, it's so crazy, the one of our the
Speaker 1: first meetings that we had about the wedding. Paul Oh, actually,
Speaker 1: you know what, it's actually really great. It's a really
Speaker 1: great thing that she did for our first wedding meeting.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna save it for a while.
Speaker 3: And we're back.
Speaker 2: Wow off after crazy tease.
Speaker 4: Cliffhanger.
Speaker 3: It wasn't the most graceful, but it got done.
Speaker 2: That's all we needed.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I was like laughing so much because again, everybody
Speaker 1: has their strengths and their weaknesses, and I always forget,
Speaker 1: like how Pauline has such a corporate job and like
Speaker 1: knows all these things. So our first wedding meeting, we
Speaker 1: like roll up to the like in the coffee shop
Speaker 1: and she like pulls out this what was an excel?
Speaker 3: What was her presentation?
Speaker 6: Word present No, I had like an excel she like
Speaker 6: made out for her with like do dates and deadlines and.
Speaker 3: What's the pantone name color of the wedding.
Speaker 1: I'm like, the who's it?
Speaker 3: It's gonna be white.
Speaker 2: And we're talking about.
Speaker 1: Know, like the green that you guys are going for,
Speaker 1: Like what's the pan tone. I'm like, what is a pantone?
Speaker 4: She was like already what that is? And I was like,
Speaker 4: like the color code, like it has to be a
Speaker 4: specific green so everything is cohesive, and she was like
Speaker 4: I don't know green.
Speaker 2: And I like figured it.
Speaker 4: I got the pantone for her. I had a whole
Speaker 4: thing spre.
Speaker 1: Then I kept just like taking her whatever word presentation
Speaker 1: and just like kept forwarding it.
Speaker 2: That's the nicest thing she could have done for you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you probably were just sending that to every vendor, every vendor.
Speaker 3: Here's my power preson.
Speaker 4: Also they used are like merch like our Tower twenty
Speaker 4: eight merch vendor that we use, and I like connected them.
Speaker 4: We had a whole Yeah, a separate Excel sheet for this.
Speaker 2: I love it though, Yeah, you're so good at it.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that about you until we started doing
Speaker 2: The Bachelor and me, that's like, I just don't.
Speaker 4: Have to be honest. You know, I'm like the most
Speaker 4: Type B person there is, but yet I think my
Speaker 4: job has made me a little Type A in that
Speaker 4: way where like everything has a deck and an Excel
Speaker 4: sheet and a process. And I actually made one for
Speaker 4: the Bachelorette trip and Sophia and I both go, we
Speaker 4: don't have excel, so no one ever opened it. Let
Speaker 4: me tell you, it is so detailed, but no one.
Speaker 4: That night, I go to Sage. I was like, did
Speaker 4: you open it? She goes, I don't have that.
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is. And I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god. When when you were talking about product development,
Speaker 2: do you have a product that you were part of
Speaker 2: the development process that you were most proud of?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Man, Like, is there one where you were like I
Speaker 2: did that?
Speaker 4: I do, I definitely do. I think the early like
Speaker 4: the first ones I ever developed, so like Shine on
Speaker 4: our Lip Jelly, Yeah, yeah, I definitely felt like it
Speaker 4: was one of those where like Amy and I'm forever
Speaker 4: grateful to her for this, she kind of like threw
Speaker 4: us on the deep end and said go. And I
Speaker 4: had this like notes page and I would just write
Speaker 4: down like in a meeting, like if I didn't get something,
Speaker 4: I'd just like write it down on a notes page
Speaker 4: and then like go. When I went home, out researched
Speaker 4: it because I was like, what are they talking about?
Speaker 4: And she was like, Okay, we're gonna make a lip jelly.
Speaker 4: It was actually a lip oil back then, like go
Speaker 4: to the lab and I was like what, So I
Speaker 4: think developing lip jelly with Amy, like I've had no
Speaker 4: idea what I was doing in the moment, and it's
Speaker 4: still our best selling and it's like top at Sephora.
Speaker 4: So I think that definitely is one I'm really proud
Speaker 4: of because I also just felt like it was. It
Speaker 4: was also my first one. And our Beach Please Are
Speaker 4: Cream Blush the Shade Magic Hour. We were in a
Speaker 4: Sephora meeting and one of our merchants called it the
Speaker 4: orgasm of clean beer. Wow reference orgasm as in the
Speaker 4: NAR's blush that's like no one can top it. And
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm good, I can retire. That's all
Speaker 4: I had to hear. So I think those two am
Speaker 4: really proud.
Speaker 2: You're like write that on your resume. Orgasm dupe, dupe exactly. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's what I mean. I just am. I was blown
Speaker 2: away when we were doing the planning the Bachelorette because
Speaker 2: she was like, Paulina was like, let's make some cute
Speaker 2: sweat sets for us to all travel it and she
Speaker 2: was designed and she was sending them so fast. I
Speaker 2: was like, where are you finding these designs? It was
Speaker 2: like a butterfly with a string connecting the butterflies.
Speaker 3: I'm like, invisible string connecting them?
Speaker 2: Did you find where are you finding this? So it
Speaker 2: wasn't it? That was very impressive to me. The corporate
Speaker 2: life in me comes out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's a chip that I don't I do
Speaker 3: not have.
Speaker 4: I honestly, I don't think I had it. I think
Speaker 4: I was always get it, you know as in like
Speaker 4: I think when you're in that environment, you don't really
Speaker 4: have a choice and you're like trained a certain way
Speaker 4: right and right everything has to be a certain way.
Speaker 4: And to be fair, like we're more casual at Toower
Speaker 4: twenty eight, we're still we still act a little bit
Speaker 4: like a startup, but yeah, there's like a process there's decks,
Speaker 4: there's Excel sheets, there's agendas to meetings. You know, everything
Speaker 4: is like very set in stone. So I think it's
Speaker 4: you're trained almost to be that way. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean it's just like your job. If you were like,
Speaker 2: this is what I have to do and you told
Speaker 2: me to do it, I'd be like, how do you
Speaker 2: know how to do this? You just learned.
Speaker 3: I think you'd figure it out.
Speaker 2: You'd figure it out the pantone, you figure out the Paulina.
Speaker 2: Would you say that you consider Tanya to be your
Speaker 2: this is capitalized best friends?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the right answer.
Speaker 3: Do you ever answer that?
Speaker 2: Do you ever get jealous when Tanya hangs out with
Speaker 2: other friends like Becca? No? Healthy your response? Did you
Speaker 2: expect that you would be made of honor? No?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 4: But here's the thing. I knew that you had, let's
Speaker 4: to call it three three to four people that you
Speaker 4: were kind of toggling between, and I knew that our
Speaker 4: friendship wouldn't. It wasn't hindering on it whether or not
Speaker 4: I was made of honor, Like, I wasn't gonna like
Speaker 4: be offended by it.
Speaker 6: I think it can't tell me if if if it
Speaker 6: was just my sister, I'm gonna get there, okay, if
Speaker 6: it was just Becca fight, if it was like just
Speaker 6: your sister, of course not.
Speaker 4: I actually told you one night. I was like, tee,
Speaker 4: do whatever you want to do, like I will still
Speaker 4: act as if I am your maid of honor.
Speaker 3: That's what I did. I did what I wanted to do,
Speaker 3: said f TP.
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know what that means.
Speaker 3: The patriot it okay, and I'm going to do my
Speaker 3: own thing. Yeah, I'm gonna have three.
Speaker 4: I think if it was just Becca would have been
Speaker 4: a little bit like interesting.
Speaker 1: But I appreciate that answer because I know I know
Speaker 1: that No, but I wouldn't have like let it affect it.
Speaker 1: I know, but it would have been a little salciate
Speaker 1: salty about it because I'd be like, oh, okay, fine,
Speaker 1: what did I do?
Speaker 4: See I was going, but I would I didn't really
Speaker 4: please choose Becca, and I wonder were it goes. Honestly,
Speaker 4: you can do it. I don't really want it, I know, like.
Speaker 2: She she wanted me to want it more, and so
Speaker 2: I had to start like I don't think I ever pretended,
Speaker 2: but I was basically like, here's the thing. I know
Speaker 2: how you want things done, and I think Paulina is
Speaker 2: going to do that for you in the way that
Speaker 2: you want it done it and I am happy to
Speaker 2: simply be a rads maid.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, nobody's just a rads maid. Let
Speaker 3: me tell you what I was gonna say.
Speaker 4: That Becca has really stepped in and that yeah, sorry,
Speaker 4: I stepped up. You really did. Yeah, more than you
Speaker 4: thought you were going to.
Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people were like, has there been
Speaker 2: anything where that we disagreed on? And I was thinking
Speaker 2: about it, and I don't think. I think both of
Speaker 2: us were at the point where if one of us
Speaker 2: felt strongly about something, it was just like, okay.
Speaker 4: Let's do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think there was ever a disagreement of
Speaker 2: like like a tension that I can think of. But
Speaker 2: I have to compliment you, your sister and your mom
Speaker 2: because y'all threw one of the most gorgeous, gorgeous parties
Speaker 2: events that I have been to in a long time,
Speaker 2: and for Tanya and Robbie, and it was absolutely stunning.
Speaker 2: Haley and I walked up and the lady goes, just
Speaker 2: go walk down this path and to the left, the
Speaker 2: harpist will be there.
Speaker 5: We each other like the hoops, and it was just
Speaker 5: I was like, is there someone here that can marry
Speaker 5: these two?
Speaker 1: Because it was literally so We're like walking in and
Speaker 1: I looked at everything and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: the attention to detail is like what really blew me away?
Speaker 1: So like it was the invisible string theme themed wedding shower,
Speaker 1: and so like everything was made on acrylic, so everything
Speaker 1: was see through, Like the menus were see through, the
Speaker 1: bar menu was see through, the welcome thing was see through.
Speaker 1: They had strings tied to all the champagne glasses that
Speaker 1: said invisible string and her names, everyone's names were an
Speaker 1: invisible string, and like it was just so much thought
Speaker 1: and detail and love and I literally turned to robbing
Speaker 1: and I was like, I feel like this is more thoughtful.
Speaker 3: Than that weddings gonna be.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you, I do need to major shout
Speaker 4: out to Sophia and my mom because I had a
Speaker 4: hand in it, and like a lot of things were
Speaker 4: like loosely my idea, but like they really executed, Like
Speaker 4: the harpist was Sophia's idea, Like my mom flew with
Speaker 4: all the acrylic things from Miami. Oh yeah, like her
Speaker 4: like it was really like I don't deserve as much credit.
Speaker 4: They really deserve full credit here. They really it was
Speaker 4: incredible and I'm so glad that you loved it.
Speaker 1: And not only did I love it, Honestly I could
Speaker 1: cry thinking about it. But it was because it was
Speaker 1: like my immediate family, Robbie's immediate family, and then it
Speaker 1: was like our chosen family. And it was obviously like
Speaker 1: everybody's met and everybody's hung out before, but it was
Speaker 1: in such an intimate setting and like, I want to
Speaker 1: give Becca a little bit of credit because she gave
Speaker 1: a speech on the off the cup. People are standing
Speaker 1: up and giving speeches like off the cuff, and it.
Speaker 4: Felt like such a It got everyone really emotional from
Speaker 4: the start. And Robbie's mom the next day told my
Speaker 4: mom like it felt like this like enchanted fairy tale
Speaker 4: other world because it was it was also fully closed off. Yeah,
Speaker 4: so we didn't really see the outside world for a
Speaker 4: few hours and we're just in this little bubble and
Speaker 4: everyone was just so emotional with such a special like
Speaker 4: Robbie's son made a speech out of nowhere, like yeah,
Speaker 4: he was just so sweetn.
Speaker 3: Age she stands up and she goes.
Speaker 1: So pink starboards used to be my favorite stars of
Speaker 1: the bunge.
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, she's going there.
Speaker 2: But no one knew. Looked around, you know.
Speaker 1: Robbie, and I understood and all I cared about. So
Speaker 1: then she goes onto this whole speech. Becca breaks down
Speaker 1: in tears, which is very rare.
Speaker 2: I do that when I it's talking in front of people.
Speaker 2: It's like I get nervous, and then when I'm also
Speaker 2: talking about something emotional, it like.
Speaker 1: And then she rounds out the speech with so now
Speaker 1: red starbursts are actually my favorite flavor. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh wow, it was poetic poetry, poetry.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because at first I was like, how is
Speaker 4: she going to circle back to the pink starboards.
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to end on that, but everyone started
Speaker 2: clapping and I was like short to the point.
Speaker 1: And then Sophia I had like the playlist and the
Speaker 1: harpist was playing like the most thoughtful songs to a
Speaker 1: relation Mare Morris Like it was just like.
Speaker 2: I felt like it was just a mini wedding.
Speaker 3: It was a mini wedding. It really was a mini wedding.
Speaker 1: It was so so special and I was like so
Speaker 1: emotional the whole night. And I also just got like
Speaker 1: I drank champagne, martini, tequila shots.
Speaker 3: I was just like balls to the walls.
Speaker 4: It was so special and I yeah, it's just how
Speaker 4: much we love you.
Speaker 2: A lot of people thought it was the what people
Speaker 2: were like, did they get mayor it was just a
Speaker 2: wedding ceremony.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I thought it was.
Speaker 1: It looked beautiful like I'm literally never. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: never in my life.
Speaker 2: I love you literally, we're just making one into it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it was very special. Speaking of love, A lot of
Speaker 2: people were wondering about, oh, your love life. But before
Speaker 2: we get to that, we're gonna take another race.
Speaker 5: Today.
Speaker 4: I think I was giving me the.
Speaker 2: Signals though, ride on time another electric teaser before the.
Speaker 3: Brain click today. Let me tell you a.
Speaker 2: Lot of people were wondering about your love life. All
Speaker 2: this talk about love and weddings and goodness.
Speaker 4: I am not single, but I do keep that part
Speaker 4: of my life private.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: I am just so excited for, like any of my
Speaker 1: friends to get engaged, Like I'm like so ready for it.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean looking at around the room.
Speaker 3: Yeah, point, I just stare at each other.
Speaker 1: I'm just so excited because I feel like there's something
Speaker 1: like there's just something so I can't put into words,
Speaker 1: like how special it is to have like these people
Speaker 1: that are just so so formative and so close to
Speaker 1: you spending so much time together, Like it is really
Speaker 1: and like even like it's so funny because so many
Speaker 1: people kept coming up to me and like they like
Speaker 1: want your mom to like my parents want her to
Speaker 1: come visit them in San Diego, and like yeah, and
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't know, just I just feel
Speaker 1: like everybody got so much closer and it's just such
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing to be a part of that. Like
Speaker 1: I can't wait for my best friends to experience.
Speaker 4: I will say, like this week and because it was
Speaker 4: like two events back to back, and the Bachelorette was
Speaker 4: two weeks ago, it's just it's made me so excited
Speaker 4: for that phase of life, not that it's anytime soon,
Speaker 4: but just like it's just such a beautiful thing to
Speaker 4: your point to see, Like even my mom was saying,
Speaker 4: like these three families that have never even truly like met,
Speaker 4: spent that much time, and it just felt like it
Speaker 4: just became this one big family and it was just
Speaker 4: so especially like the next day when like Robbie's parents
Speaker 4: to do that event, like it was just so nice,
Speaker 4: so nice, so nice.
Speaker 1: And like that was also so cool too because I've
Speaker 1: never experienced anything. Yeah, there's like a Persian wedding tradition
Speaker 1: and I've never gone to one, and so for it
Speaker 1: for my first one to.
Speaker 3: Go to be.
Speaker 1: Very very wild but like so much fun, like just
Speaker 1: the best time. And it made me realize too, Like
Speaker 1: it just made me so excited for the wedding because
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's gonna be it's gonna be all this
Speaker 1: times too.
Speaker 4: I think I made everyone that's so puffed for the wedding.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think Hayley's kind of been like, you know,
Speaker 2: is it gonna be like a lot of people I
Speaker 2: don't know, And after the dinner She's like this that
Speaker 2: made me so excited. I feel like the wedding's gonna
Speaker 2: be so so much fun. Yeah, And I was like
Speaker 2: it is. Those are the people, like it's all about
Speaker 2: the people, and they surround themselves with good people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you are good people.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 3: We stick together.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 4: People are asking for giving speeches at the while listen
Speaker 4: wrote my speech. I have timed my speech. This is
Speaker 4: more minutes and thirty seven seconds.
Speaker 3: Wo. The wow? Was that long or short?
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, sorry, I didn't realize that part of this.
Speaker 2: I know the wow that she went to. She thinks
Speaker 2: so meticulous about exactly exactly right.
Speaker 4: Four minutes seems perfect. Fine. I can shorten it, I
Speaker 4: can make it longer.
Speaker 3: I have no idea. What I fly sounds likely by Bye.
Speaker 4: Was told to add a few jokes in there, but
Speaker 4: I'm not a jokey person to do that. Jokes people did,
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh man, okay, a lot some
Speaker 4: jokes in there. I did put one in, but it's
Speaker 4: kind of like calling Robbie out a little bit.
Speaker 2: I think I'll laugh the trigger of it, from the
Speaker 2: trigger of it.
Speaker 4: From what he wears the bed.
Speaker 2: Oh I heard it.
Speaker 4: No, No, I will leave it for the wedding. But
Speaker 4: I do. I do have my speech like ninety eight
Speaker 4: percent ready.
Speaker 2: Wow, dang, I don't don't look at me here. I
Speaker 2: have not written it.
Speaker 3: Off the cuff. Becca was pretty good, So I mean
Speaker 3: save that for the wedding.
Speaker 4: You should, Honestly, there's so many more people at the
Speaker 4: wedding you should started with the Pink Star Wars and
Speaker 4: it with the Red it's like the perfect I realized.
Speaker 2: Like the people who don't know him as Red Star.
Speaker 3: Wars, it might lay a little flat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta I gotta be a little bit more universal.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's porch. Yeah.
Speaker 4: As I was writing and I was like, oh damn,
Speaker 4: I know, because you don't want to do jokes, and
Speaker 4: I'm like, they're not gonna laugh, and I look like
Speaker 4: I'm not funny.
Speaker 5: And I don't know.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: That's the hardest thing about speeches. I know, I know,
Speaker 1: I haven't even written my vows, but well.
Speaker 2: My chat GBT GBT are funny speech from Made of Honor.
Speaker 4: Oh my TikTok searches are. Before I wrote my now,
Speaker 4: I was like, you see, I was doing research because
Speaker 4: I didn't know how long they were supposed to be.
Speaker 3: What did it say for four minutes and thirty seconds?
Speaker 3: She's like, got it done done?
Speaker 4: No, it did say around five minutes. Okay, Yeah, So
Speaker 4: I kind of kept it under just because there's a
Speaker 4: lot of speeches I heard, Yes, Robbie's grooms, wos wait,
Speaker 4: are you.
Speaker 2: Gonna write it down? Are you gonna read off your phone.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna read it off my phone unless printed is better.
Speaker 3: I don't know, totally up to you. I'm zero preference.
Speaker 4: I don't ask my mom.
Speaker 3: I'm may me memorize it.
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no joking.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a notebook and pretend like i'm reading.
Speaker 2: But I'm just I think I'm gonna go off the cap.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you.
Speaker 4: For a Sophia's album party, I memorized my speech. I've
Speaker 4: never been more nervous in my life.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: It was like to fifteen people, I was like, never again.
Speaker 1: No, I know, it's pressure to memorize, and also like
Speaker 1: when you read something it's fucked out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I was so concerned with like hitting every
Speaker 4: sentence that I had memorized. Yeah, never again.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no, I I don't know what. I don't
Speaker 2: know how I'm gonna hit navigate that, but I'll know
Speaker 2: in about three weeks.
Speaker 4: It's gonna come to you. Mine. Just it was the
Speaker 4: Sunday after the Bachgerette and I was sitting in bed
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, I'm gonna write. I'm gonna
Speaker 4: write it now.
Speaker 3: Dang, it just kind of flowed.
Speaker 1: How would you guys rate me as a bride. Oh
Speaker 1: but in what sense high strong or bride chilla?
Speaker 4: You think your bride chilla. I don't think you're as
Speaker 4: chilla as you think. But she's not high but you're
Speaker 4: not high strung. She's not as high strong as I
Speaker 4: expected her to be. Same, So I guess anything under
Speaker 4: that to me is chill for you. But she's like
Speaker 4: in the middle.
Speaker 2: Where do you feel like she's been not chilla?
Speaker 3: Not chilla?
Speaker 4: I feel like you've been chilling. You've been chilling areas
Speaker 4: that I did not expect you to be chilling. But
Speaker 4: then like the batcherette, you were like pretty specific with
Speaker 4: what you wanted.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but specific is one thing, but like high strong
Speaker 1: is another.
Speaker 4: I don't think you've been high strung at all.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 4: No, No, not high strong, that's a very yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm really curious what it's going to be like once
Speaker 2: we're there and it's happening, if like all of it's
Speaker 2: gonna rise to service, right, or if you'll just be
Speaker 2: I do you're gonna be?
Speaker 4: I think it'll be chill because I think you and
Speaker 4: Robbie have like a good perspective on like what matters
Speaker 4: is that like you have your people there and like
Speaker 4: you guys are happy and it's about the marriage, and
Speaker 4: I think you guys have like a good perspective on
Speaker 4: it where I think a lot of people it's all
Speaker 4: about the details, details and the wedding and the performance
Speaker 4: and the show of it all, and I think you
Speaker 4: guys are just really No.
Speaker 1: My biggest fear is that like we're forgetting somebody, like
Speaker 1: that's my invite. No, no, no, no, because the way
Speaker 1: we like did the invites, it was kind of like
Speaker 1: a little bit of a hodgepodge, like we were getting
Speaker 1: names and addresses from parents like later on than we wanted.
Speaker 2: And having a space for them at the table.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I'm just worried that like we've missed
Speaker 1: an RSP somewhere and like that's kind of where my
Speaker 1: anxiety lies, not in like the is it going to
Speaker 1: be pretty enough?
Speaker 3: Is it going to be this enough? Like my anxiety
Speaker 3: is in the like did I.
Speaker 4: Miss some scene for someone?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: What are our duties come wedding time? Wedding day?
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know. I'm assuming like getting ready
Speaker 4: with you and making sure that you have everything you need,
Speaker 4: bringing chalk.
Speaker 2: I heard that's yeah. You can write in the dress.
Speaker 2: You can chalk the dress and it doesn't ruin it,
Speaker 2: but it covers scenes.
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, chalk, I don't know. I think making sure
Speaker 4: you're happy that day.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I think just that's all I need. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: get ready with me, don't leave my.
Speaker 4: Side attached at the hip from the get there, which
Speaker 4: Becca is going.
Speaker 2: A little earlier than me, which is you're in chargeable
Speaker 2: the time you get there, I'll be like, she's all yours,
Speaker 2: going to go out by the pool, your own babysitting.
Speaker 2: That the como, baby, that's what you go to.
Speaker 3: That's I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Don't you feel like nice that you had other people
Speaker 1: to like lean on?
Speaker 2: And honestly, Sophia, we dubbed her Junior Como because she, yeah,
Speaker 2: very earned and deserved. She was like really part of
Speaker 2: making She made the boat day happen. She did the blues,
Speaker 2: you know, a lot of that was on our Junior Como,
Speaker 2: and so it's just it was like a fully it
Speaker 2: was a team effort.
Speaker 1: It was Sophia really does I don't know what the
Speaker 1: word is because it's like it's not it's not mother.
Speaker 1: It's like she really really she's kind of like me
Speaker 1: in that sense.
Speaker 3: She's so thoughtful.
Speaker 4: And then follows with thoughtful.
Speaker 2: No, but I know she is. Yeah, it's not.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think motherly is the wrong word. I think
Speaker 4: you and I are motherly. Yes, but she is very
Speaker 4: thoughtful and like when she planned something.
Speaker 2: She's very intentional everything. I did get to a point
Speaker 2: where I said, Sophia, if I hear invisible string one
Speaker 2: more time, I love that. I know I'm not saying
Speaker 2: she was doing it for, but you weren't around. We
Speaker 2: were we were doing something in the living room and
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't hear this jingle one.
Speaker 4: Or I feel like she's also good at like being
Speaker 4: intentional and thoughtful, but like knowing what for the person why,
Speaker 4: Like I wouldn't want some of the things that she did,
Speaker 4: but like she knows that like you would.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't want to think that.
Speaker 1: I find that I'd love so much is because like
Speaker 1: with you, with my friendship with you, I feel like
Speaker 1: we're very similar with both cancers. We really like we
Speaker 1: deal with stuff in a similar way. Things hurt us
Speaker 1: in a similar way. So I feel like you really
Speaker 1: like understand me, whereas I feel like Sophia and I.
Speaker 3: Are very different, very different.
Speaker 1: So for me, like when she does stuff that like
Speaker 1: really speaks to my love language, I'm like wow, like
Speaker 1: that's an effort, you know what I mean, because it
Speaker 1: doesn't come natural to her. I kind of feel like
Speaker 1: that way with you too, Like we're so different that
Speaker 1: the things that you do like really hits, not saying it,
Speaker 1: It isn't hit with you.
Speaker 3: It's just like you don't get it. You don't get it,
Speaker 3: you know, like me.
Speaker 1: And so when you do stuff that that is like
Speaker 1: my love language, I'm like wow, like that was Actually
Speaker 1: it makes me want to be a better friend and
Speaker 1: like being more intentional and like thoughtful in that way.
Speaker 4: It's easy to be thoughtful in the way that you
Speaker 4: want to be thoughtful, yeah, versus like what the person
Speaker 4: would want.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Yeah, that's true, It do be true. I
Speaker 2: am so excited for the wedding. I I literally I
Speaker 2: told Haley when I came back from the Bachelorette, I
Speaker 2: was like, I am obsessed with Puline and Sophia Raquel,
Speaker 2: Like we had so much fun. It was such a
Speaker 2: fun weekend with everybody was perfect, and I was like,
Speaker 2: she was like, I can't wait for the wedding. If
Speaker 2: this was how much fun you'll had on the Bachelor,
Speaker 2: I want.
Speaker 4: My bachorette to be a copy and paste the same people.
Speaker 4: I just I don't want to change a thing and
Speaker 4: like do that in a few years we can just go.
Speaker 2: We do I have to?
Speaker 4: That's true?
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, I mean we will kind of in
Speaker 2: a few weeks.
Speaker 4: So it's going to be.
Speaker 2: So I've loved, I've loved I've loved the whole process.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want it to end. I'm like kind
Speaker 4: of sad, Like.
Speaker 1: That's so nice though, because it was so funny. I
Speaker 1: was listening to Victoria Garrett did a podcast about like
Speaker 1: or being a maid of honor and like all the
Speaker 1: duties that come along with it, and I remember listen.
Speaker 1: I was like listening to it and I was just like,
Speaker 1: I would be a horrible made of honor if that's.
Speaker 4: Like the noted.
Speaker 1: No, But I feel like I didn't have those expectations
Speaker 1: on anybody. Like I wasn't as much as I like
Speaker 1: I joke about it, I wasn't very like militant about
Speaker 1: like I would throw things out to the group and
Speaker 1: say like, hey, can one of you, Like, I just
Speaker 1: need one person for a lot of these things. I
Speaker 1: wasn't like I need somebody to hear every single thing.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. No, is that how it usually is? Yeah,
Speaker 4: Like I have nothing to compare it to, Like this year,
Speaker 4: I'm you're maid of honor and then my cousin's getting
Speaker 4: married and I'm not technically her maid of honor, but
Speaker 4: like basically yes kind of. So it's my first time
Speaker 4: doing it, but I've never been on the other side
Speaker 4: of it, so I don't really know what the expectation
Speaker 4: versus well we've done is well.
Speaker 2: I also think it's so dependent on who the bride is,
Speaker 2: you know, Like I was Alley's made of honor last year,
Speaker 2: and it was also very chill. It was like I
Speaker 2: wanted to I wanted to be there for more like
Speaker 2: the dress things, and then she would just go to
Speaker 2: San Diego by herself. I'm like, why didn't you tell me?
Speaker 2: She's like, it's fine, my mom came.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you were like even like you had your
Speaker 4: lost stress fitting and we were like, oh, we're all.
Speaker 1: Going yeah, and we just just to learn up and
Speaker 1: everyone's like we'll be there I've.
Speaker 4: Had a call in the back room, so I had
Speaker 4: roses for everyone. Sonny Wood like, yeah, we're I think
Speaker 4: we also we want to do the stuff that we're doing.
Speaker 4: It's not like because we are you're maid of honor,
Speaker 4: we have to do it.
Speaker 1: And I feel like you all were my best friends before,
Speaker 1: but I feel like this like took it to a
Speaker 1: whole other level for me.
Speaker 2: Well, I think personally, I think that it's you know,
Speaker 2: we know how important this time is for you and
Speaker 2: how this is You're God willing the only time it happens.
Speaker 2: And I think it's you know, as your friends getting
Speaker 2: to watch you go through the process of dating and
Speaker 2: finding Oh no, I'm tired and not might cry too,
Speaker 2: but I don't want to. I think being your best
Speaker 2: friends and watching you go through all the dating, even
Speaker 2: though it was like fun and for the plot, I
Speaker 2: know how I think we all know how much this,
Speaker 2: what this means to you and like finding your person
Speaker 2: and having the wedding and all these festivity, So I
Speaker 2: think we all wanted it to feel important and big,
Speaker 2: even if it was a needing to learn how to
Speaker 2: zip your dress, you know, I think it was just
Speaker 2: it's been important to show up for something that you've
Speaker 2: waited for so long.
Speaker 4: I think, like since we met you, it's really all
Speaker 4: you've ever wanted is for like this season of life
Speaker 4: and to meet your husband and start a family and
Speaker 4: get married. And I think we would be like the
Speaker 4: worst friends in the world if we didn't put that
Speaker 4: level of importance on this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we love you.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I love you guys too a lot.
Speaker 4: I'm tired.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had some big weekend weekend big weekends.
Speaker 1: Like amazing again, like it's like it's so yeah, but
Speaker 1: you can still be tired.
Speaker 3: I'm not on my period right now.
Speaker 2: I'm about to be. But you should rest upstill until
Speaker 2: I think you need to suck.
Speaker 3: That you're about to get your period.
Speaker 4: Goals.
Speaker 2: You should rest up until the wedding, is my como advice.
Speaker 1: Oh, you best believe I will be jeweled. I will
Speaker 1: be I'm gona try and focus on sleep and.
Speaker 2: Sleep wellness in ten thousand steps a day.
Speaker 3: Ten thousand steps.
Speaker 4: Wow, that's the guys. I can never hit that.
Speaker 2: How long it takes to do that?
Speaker 4: The half No, the only days I've hit it is
Speaker 4: my marathon training because I was running. Yeah, every other day,
Speaker 4: I hit maybe two thousand steps in an office, sitting
Speaker 4: and meetings all day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not realistic, I think unless you have a
Speaker 2: job like Tawny was telling me that she hits like
Speaker 2: seventeen to twenty a day just her shop is going
Speaker 2: back and forth on her feet.
Speaker 3: I know that's crazy.
Speaker 2: But if you're just spending time in like just you're
Speaker 2: simply your intention is to just get two thousands steps,
Speaker 2: it takes forever.
Speaker 4: Ten thousand steps is four to five miles. Yeah, that's
Speaker 4: I'll trust me as the person that ran. That's a
Speaker 4: lot of miles. That's a lot of miles.
Speaker 2: But she said she's gonna try and do it every
Speaker 2: day until the wedding.
Speaker 3: Every day.
Speaker 4: I mean, you can do it. Gets Sunday, do it?
Speaker 2: Walk down the air one.
Speaker 1: Oh, we're having so much fun with Paulina. It is
Speaker 1: time to wrap up today's podcast. Oh yeah yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: but we're gonna ask if you could stay around this
Speaker 1: week for a Thursday episode.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, come back for a Thursday episode? Wait?
Speaker 4: Really yeah, I gotta check my calendar.
Speaker 2: Guys, there will be a game. There will be questions
Speaker 2: from scrubbers speaking of you have a best friend. You
Speaker 2: have a best friend who's a scrubber.
Speaker 4: Oh, Mike, Okay, okay, okay, can I say this story?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. My good friend slash coworker. Her name is
Speaker 4: Vina love her. Her best friend is like die hard scrubber.
Speaker 4: Her name is Alissa, like die hard. Like she listens
Speaker 4: every single week, knew about me to do you guys, wow,
Speaker 4: and put it together that like, wait, Paulina isn't a
Speaker 4: common name. It must be the same Paulina. Anyway, Tea
Speaker 4: was very nice to do a little surprise meet up
Speaker 4: with her.
Speaker 1: She had come to visit her friend who works with Paulina.
Speaker 1: She came to La for her birthday, and so we went.
Speaker 1: Pauline and I went to the restaurant they were having
Speaker 1: lunch at and brought her cupcakes and so I got
Speaker 1: to meet her. We were there for like an hour.
Speaker 4: So sweet, so sweet.
Speaker 3: She said she's more of a Becca, yeah, which I
Speaker 3: was like.
Speaker 4: And Veena is more of a Tanya, Like Veena's more
Speaker 4: like us, and Alyssa is more like you and Becca facetimed.
Speaker 3: Her yeah and met her.
Speaker 2: Yeah. She was so cute.
Speaker 4: She made it so cool.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you she did everyone always plays it cool,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I respect it. You know.
Speaker 4: She was so happy and it really is a testament
Speaker 4: to both of you, like Tea did not have to
Speaker 4: do that, and you did not have to pick up
Speaker 4: the phone and like take the time. And I really know,
Speaker 4: I do think it's so special that you guys are
Speaker 4: always willing.
Speaker 3: You tell me there's a big scrubber where.
Speaker 4: But not everyone's like that and bring it to her.
Speaker 4: And I was like, Tea, like I do, are you freeing?
Speaker 4: She was like, on it, let's do it.
Speaker 2: We're the cupcakes.
Speaker 3: I'll be there and I was like, I was on
Speaker 3: Balentine's Day too.
Speaker 4: It was it was.
Speaker 2: Lissa, Wait, a lot of people are saying, are you
Speaker 2: a Becca Tanya what? She kind of answered that, and
Speaker 2: I'm I'm fascinated by this.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you.
Speaker 3: I am Tanya.
Speaker 4: Hold on, hold on, I am a Tanya. But I'm
Speaker 4: kind of in the middle. Yeah, I think so, I'm
Speaker 4: not as Tanya as Tanya, but I'm definitely not a Becca. Dude,
Speaker 4: and I feel like I'm in I'm in a spectrum.
Speaker 2: You are a Tanya with a Becca cuss with a
Speaker 2: wing Becca.
Speaker 4: Okay, I am a Tanya wing Becca an Tanya wing Becca. Yeah,
Speaker 4: okay there, Yeah, I think I'm an enneagram eight.
Speaker 2: Oh I just got what I was. I think you've
Speaker 2: taken the test of different answers. But yeah, all right, good.
Speaker 4: To know people you've heard that first, like the best
Speaker 4: case scenario, like right in between.
Speaker 3: No, honestly, we say all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm like, if I could just have a little more
Speaker 1: Becca and she could have a little more Tanya.
Speaker 2: It'd be like a really, I have a little because
Speaker 2: I'm in I'm Datana.
Speaker 4: Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe maybe you're the perfect blend.
Speaker 4: Of both of you, both of us. Oh, I love that.
Speaker 4: What a compliment our love child. You're a child. Can
Speaker 4: I be the scrubbing in child?
Speaker 2: Yeah, scrubbing in child. And check your calendar if you're
Speaker 2: available for a Thursday episode.
Speaker 3: She's in the time.
Speaker 2: All right, We'll be back on Thursday with more from Paulina.
Speaker 2: We have a game, We have questions, all the things
Speaker 2: you could ever want. Love you, somebody love you. M hm.