WEBVTT - The Co-MOHs

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in the rub.

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<v Speaker 3>Dub Dub and the tub tub Tub.

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<v Speaker 2>We have an exclusive, an exclusive special guest here today.

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<v Speaker 3>I heard it here first.

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<v Speaker 2>You already here first, because we have been trying to

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<v Speaker 2>get her in the scrubbing in chair for a while now,

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<v Speaker 2>long time.

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<v Speaker 1>We have we've put we have sent feelers out for months.

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<v Speaker 3>And dates for different dates, and the date has come.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a busy gal, busy gal, corporate gal, corporate gal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and also a como for the Gatagar wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you can turn on your microphone.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi guys, Hello, we were just saying how the few

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<v Speaker 2>times you've been on you've actually filled in for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So I haven't gotten to I know, a favorite person.

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<v Speaker 4>So this is sorry to.

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<v Speaker 2>Certain of strong.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, I'm really happy to be here. Thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>No, who is your old favorite person?

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<v Speaker 4>You're still my favorite?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, you're just at it.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like that Sophia's like but beyond me.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, yeah, I need to figure that out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, then I'm getting it. I've been around Sophia in

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<v Speaker 2>my mind. I've been around her a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Of times, I know, But I feel like what I

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<v Speaker 1>realized also to throughout this whole process is like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys have all come to different things, like if I

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<v Speaker 1>have a birthday dinner, you all come. If Taco Tuesday

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<v Speaker 1>bits and pieces, not everybody there, but like you've all

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<v Speaker 1>been in the in the mix, but like it hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been so full on and like less people involved, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>See, I i'te disagree to really yeah, but I but

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<v Speaker 4>it was different because I was like talking to her

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<v Speaker 4>without you do you know what I mean? Like the

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<v Speaker 4>problem no no, no, no, no no no, the cancer is

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<v Speaker 4>coming out. No, as in like we were talking every

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<v Speaker 4>single day, like just and I planning your bachelorette like

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<v Speaker 4>coming together and the secrets and the planning. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think it was like a different level of bonding that

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<v Speaker 4>was not in a bad way, separate to like hang

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<v Speaker 4>out with.

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<v Speaker 2>You, well in a great way. There's there's always a

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<v Speaker 2>party setting, so there's it's loud. Yeah, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it's like just just second.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think the thing is I always knew, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I was always like, I love Paulina. I never say

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<v Speaker 2>didn't think that. I just didn't know you at it

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<v Speaker 2>at a certain level, a deeper level.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think with Sophia, I literally I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know her.

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<v Speaker 1>After the trip, I was like, I love Yeah, She's.

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<v Speaker 4>One of those that like you have to spend time

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<v Speaker 4>with her to like really get to know her, and

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<v Speaker 4>then she's actually like so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, people just don't know that like side, that fun

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<v Speaker 4>side to her. Yeah, And she is very motherly, weirdly enough,

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<v Speaker 4>and she she was her house.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom on The Bachelor and kept us on time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I love that about her, Like I literally

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<v Speaker 1>love that about her. It's one of my favorite things

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like, like I remember when we went

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<v Speaker 1>to go visit her for her birthday and she like

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<v Speaker 1>made all of us a key to the apartment, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's something.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, Oh, like it's so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's really thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 3>But do you know what I mean, Like, oh, that's

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<v Speaker 3>so nice that you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>She thinks, like all of them, she thinks ten steps ahead,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe if we come home at different times, people

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<v Speaker 1>will need a key, you know, yeah, I would never think.

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<v Speaker 3>That far ahead.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah she's she's smart one, Yeah, she's on.

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<v Speaker 2>Top of it. So we did. Our first plan of

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<v Speaker 2>action was planning the bachelorette together, and people.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, just kidding, I'll say that engagement, but

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<v Speaker 4>like that wasn't really it was like our first like

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<v Speaker 4>secret that we knew.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah you and I was yeah yeah, And

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<v Speaker 2>people were wondering what what the best and worst part

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<v Speaker 2>of being coma with me? Has been?

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<v Speaker 4>Best and worst? Start with the best, Okay, the best.

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<v Speaker 4>And I've said this to everyone I know, don't let

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<v Speaker 4>anyone tell you Becca till he is lazy. That girl

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<v Speaker 4>is so on it, so thorough, so thoughtful. So everything

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking at you, I don't even.

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<v Speaker 2>Be says I you tell are you telling people I'm lazy?

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<v Speaker 3>You're lazy?

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<v Speaker 2>I can say, are you telling people?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I say it on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>The best part was getting to with you and like

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<v Speaker 4>really get to know each other on like a deeper level.

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<v Speaker 4>And we just had so much fun planning it too,

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<v Speaker 4>and like came together so quickly and just like there

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<v Speaker 4>was some like things got outed and like the planning

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<v Speaker 4>and the phone calls and the face times and like

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<v Speaker 4>the million text threads. It was just really fun planning everything.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the worst part, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 2>There was the worst part. You gotta pick one, just

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<v Speaker 2>like wondering if I, oh, no, she's like I was

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>She sometimes would take long to answer a text. Yes

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<v Speaker 4>that I know that quick answer?

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<v Speaker 2>Really what on what?

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<v Speaker 4>Just sometimes I had to really dig for one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you were probably better than I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>So then what happened about this? Maybe she used it because.

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<v Speaker 1>You and a lot of text threads that I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>with you takes you a long time to respond.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a little bit of time to plan things.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like a quick yeah, was it a time crunch?

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<v Speaker 2>When I when there's a time crunch is when I thrive.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not a I don't plan in advance. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not getting everyone keys to the house before they arrive.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm not on that level. Yeah, but when

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<v Speaker 2>it's crunch time, I thrive.

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<v Speaker 4>And you really did thrive.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you, but we were all like all

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<v Speaker 2>the same page with that, but we crushed crush.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>No notes, not one note, no notes, no notes.

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<v Speaker 4>About us to really we feeled it. Yeah, yeah, literally literally, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>People were messaging me after the bacherette and they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>what may are I can't remember they worded it in

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<v Speaker 1>such a way they were like how like why was

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<v Speaker 1>it so like so like why did you have so

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<v Speaker 1>little girls? And I was like that's all I wanted,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I I feel like every bacherette that I've gone

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<v Speaker 1>on as like a guest to a bachelorette, there's always

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<v Speaker 1>weird dynamics involved in everything, and like the bride is

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<v Speaker 1>responsible for like making sure they're comfortable and that group

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<v Speaker 1>is comfortable and everybody's like thing. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want a simpatico, an easy, manageable number. And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you guys kept saying that the whole weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like easier to plan.

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<v Speaker 3>You get like one car on table.

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<v Speaker 4>Very strongly about this too, yeah, because I felt like

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<v Speaker 4>it's what you have been saying that you really wanted,

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<v Speaker 4>was like have your best friends in one space because

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<v Speaker 4>it never happens, like we're never all together. And Beck

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<v Speaker 4>and I kind of put our foot downe on that,

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<v Speaker 4>like keeping it small and tight to really give you

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<v Speaker 4>your dream weekend. But I think it's what made it

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<v Speaker 4>so special.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because and I just know it just as like

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<v Speaker 1>being a spectator in other bacherette parties. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just know, I don't want that. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>that feeling. That weekend, I literally just want to be

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<v Speaker 1>it just wanted to be easy breezy, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>literally easy breezy, like I felt like the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's also it was quick, so it gave us

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<v Speaker 2>a chance to all bond without you feeling like you

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<v Speaker 2>had to accommodate a lot of personalities or people who

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<v Speaker 2>maybe were.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally had fun the whole time. Yeah, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>do any anything.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think because we also all know each other,

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<v Speaker 4>there wasn't anything like awkward meetings or like the high

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<v Speaker 4>school friend the college friend post college friend, Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we just all already like we knew it wasn't gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be great going in. I think it's like it's hard expectations.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think so too.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't ready to go home. It's just rare normally

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I too.

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<v Speaker 4>Another night could have been like good, you kind of

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<v Speaker 4>went downhill that last day I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I could have come back pull through. We

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<v Speaker 2>could have pulled through. I forgot about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think if there was one more night, we

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<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't have drank.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I think we would have didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Drink that much though I don't think it was I really,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it was the drinking.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was surprised you said that on that last podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>If we drink a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>We drank when we got there on Friday, Friday night,

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<v Speaker 1>Saturday day and Saturday night.

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<v Speaker 3>That's no the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>But we drank, but we ca Yeah, like no one

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<v Speaker 4>ever was like we were just you were just fouring shots.

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<v Speaker 2>Though one night you are just like.

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<v Speaker 4>Another another anything about me and we'll be pouring tequila shots.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone asked, what do you think the alcohol level will

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<v Speaker 2>be for the wedding weekend?

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<v Speaker 4>What did you say this weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Balls to the wall?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think we're gonna I mean we're in Mexico. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're gonna have so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But the whole thing with up until the balls to

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<v Speaker 2>the walls comment, Donya has been like I really have

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<v Speaker 2>to take it easy the night before the wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was surprised by that comment not gonna light

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<v Speaker 4>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>So here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>When I have too much alcohol the next day, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like a little bit slumbery, A little bit, yes, So

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<v Speaker 1>what I want I want to make sure that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't blow my load on Thursday night and then Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like so slumbery, right.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's contradicting my balls the walls.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, I know, So I gotta figure that out.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you should just take it easy, enjoy yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And the wall is Friday and Saday.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And like you don't want to be like hungover on

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<v Speaker 4>your wedding day or like feel right bloated or slumbering.

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<v Speaker 3>Slumbery is really the word is slumbery?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you trying to make hangover sound nice? It's not hangover.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not hangover. It's just like tired. It's like tired

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<v Speaker 1>and fatigued.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a hangover.

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<v Speaker 1>Slumbery's called the hangover, but there's no headache involved.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no like, ugh, I need water, do you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Water?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I sleep I need to be like Warzon.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So you could go balls the walls as long

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<v Speaker 2>as you can sleep in on Friday, correct saying, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I want to test that theory because

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're I think this is like you trying

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<v Speaker 2>to convince yourself that nothing better than a juicy, kosher chicken,

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<v Speaker 2>and this this is feeling similar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I'm going to just nurse one drink

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<v Speaker 1>that night rehearsal dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>It's also the girl that came back from the Bachelor

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<v Speaker 4>ry and was like, I'm never drinking again, and we

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<v Speaker 4>never got drunk.

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<v Speaker 3>I got drunk. I got drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>When Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you talking about dinner after the boudoir she I

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<v Speaker 2>think you were sick from out slubbery.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, I am going to have a great time, but

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<v Speaker 4>I think you need to take it easy up until

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<v Speaker 4>the actual day day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think that might be our job to like, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think so too. I was like, hey, Paulina, why don't

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<v Speaker 4>you like talk to her later when she said that

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<v Speaker 4>whole comment about like going ham and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll reel her in later.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think we'd be just giving her like soda

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<v Speaker 2>water with yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Or like acting like it's real. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we might have to like step up and

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<v Speaker 2>be just like on top of that.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree Mommy and Daddy.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm mmm, No, I feel like I don't know the

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<v Speaker 2>story of how y'all met. Oh my goodness, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I know how y'all met.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was a eleven years ago at a.

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<v Speaker 3>Radio Disney Music.

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<v Speaker 4>Award, Sophia's first one, like before Descendants yeah came out

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<v Speaker 4>or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes. So I was there with.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, like a record label person, and he sat we

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<v Speaker 1>were just like coincidentally sitting next to Pauline and Sophia,

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<v Speaker 1>and he left because he was obviously doing like five

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<v Speaker 1>hundred things backstage, and he was like, oh, meet Pauline.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys will be great friends. Yeah, and just walked

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<v Speaker 1>away and like literally left me, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we just like started like talking the whole show,

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<v Speaker 1>jamming out to like all the performances. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>think we realized that like we lived close to each

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<v Speaker 1>other or like somewhat close to each other.

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<v Speaker 4>I was still in college, like I was still at

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<v Speaker 4>LMU in school.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it really started happening because we started working

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<v Speaker 1>out together.

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<v Speaker 4>We went to boxing together.

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<v Speaker 3>After my friendships start really in the in the in

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<v Speaker 3>the g y M.

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<v Speaker 4>Correct and then the rest is kind of history. We

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<v Speaker 4>would to go to like Coral Tree after the gym

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<v Speaker 4>every day and.

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<v Speaker 3>I would hit on our trainer.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wait what year was this though?

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<v Speaker 3>It was when I was living next to you.

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<v Speaker 4>No, before, it was before Becka moved in.

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<v Speaker 2>I moved in twenty sixteen.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the dates that you get remember.

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<v Speaker 4>Two thousand, like fourteen, because I had just moved I

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<v Speaker 4>moved to La Yeah yeah, fourteen. Yeah, it was eleven

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<v Speaker 4>years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, yeah, wow, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>A long time ago.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just a bonding.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just on her left kind of instant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally instant.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was so funny because Sophia had had she

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<v Speaker 1>filmed Descendants.

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<v Speaker 4>I think they had filmed, but it hadn't come out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so they were like, she's gonna be in this movie,

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<v Speaker 1>to send this Disney movie, and I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it turns out that this Disney movie turns

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<v Speaker 1>out to be like high Musical of the New Generation,

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<v Speaker 1>which I thought was so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>And I remember we got these.

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<v Speaker 1>Like uh, we were at E at the time, and

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<v Speaker 1>we got these like delivery. They're like apples, candy apples

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<v Speaker 1>and they had like all the cast photos on them,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, hey, that's my friend I met

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<v Speaker 1>at a The Right Disney musical.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, movie might be a big deals with

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<v Speaker 2>their face on it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that Sofia's first big role? Yeah, like that was

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<v Speaker 2>like that was.

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<v Speaker 4>A thing that like kind of catapulted her career. She

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<v Speaker 4>had like smaller roles before that, but yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 4>like the big, the big one.

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<v Speaker 2>What was that like for you? Like being the little

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<v Speaker 2>sister watching because you know it's your siblings, are your

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<v Speaker 2>best friends do things, but you know them, like even Haley.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I'm like I watched people freak out and I

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<v Speaker 2>just think of her home with me, and I'm like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's so weird.

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<v Speaker 4>And people always ask me like, what's it like having

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<v Speaker 4>her as a sister, and I'm like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>much as just my sister. I do think that when

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<v Speaker 4>it all kind of happened, it was very weird to

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<v Speaker 4>see like close family and friends mainly like acting differently.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, but she hasn't changed. Her job

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<v Speaker 4>is just on a screen. So it was a bit

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<v Speaker 4>weird for me to see people reacting so like strongly

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<v Speaker 4>or like fans would like die over her, and I'm like, huh,

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<v Speaker 4>I understood it, and I was so proud, and I

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like I've she was born this to be

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<v Speaker 4>her career. So like when you know someone wants something

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<v Speaker 4>so badly and then success is rare, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, especially in that industry, So for her to

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<v Speaker 4>actually achieve what she wanted to and still is. From

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<v Speaker 4>that perspective, I was so proud and happy and thrilled.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is weird to like see this person that

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<v Speaker 4>like I live with her and I know this like

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<v Speaker 4>other side to her that like I'm like, she's just

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<v Speaker 4>like a nerd, Like she was always like the nerd

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<v Speaker 4>in school. She's so smart, like highest GPA, like went

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<v Speaker 4>to UCLA and teacher's total teacher's pet, like loved school,

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<v Speaker 4>and now she's like on red carpets and it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>so I know that side of her. Yeah, So it

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<v Speaker 4>was always a little bit funny to see people's reaction.

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't know, I think I'm just really proud

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<v Speaker 4>to be her sister, and I think it's really cool

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<v Speaker 4>to see our dreams coming true. And we both have

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<v Speaker 4>very separate lives, like we all we both do our

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<v Speaker 4>own thing, but it's still weird. People stop her and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, you sure.

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<v Speaker 2>You know this?

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<v Speaker 4>You know that is not that I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>I do feel like y'all both have that for each other,

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<v Speaker 2>like I was. I remember on the boat when we

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<v Speaker 2>were on the Bachelorette and she's like, come take a

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<v Speaker 2>picture with me, like all survived, like she. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like the pride of having each other as a sister

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<v Speaker 2>is very mutual for y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Totally definitely, yeah, yeh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of people were asking because when I

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<v Speaker 2>found out what you do, because I had for a

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<v Speaker 2>long the longest time, I didn't know what you did

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<v Speaker 2>for work. And I remember when you started working with

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<v Speaker 2>for and started building Tower twenty eight, and I realized

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<v Speaker 2>your role in it. I was like, this is incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>So a lot of people were asking how you got

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<v Speaker 2>started there and what that process is.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, yeah, well one, thank you, it's been really cool.

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<v Speaker 4>So I went to Lame, I got my bachelor's and

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<v Speaker 4>I I didn't know that my career was a career

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<v Speaker 4>that I could aspire to have. And I knew I

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<v Speaker 4>loved beauty, the beauty industry. I knew I loved makeup.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to be makeup artist. And my mom

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<v Speaker 4>actually found this like masters's program at FITAM and it

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<v Speaker 4>was specifically in product development and marketing in the beauty industry.

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<v Speaker 4>So I did that program and my last semester, my

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<v Speaker 4>now boss founder of Tower twenty eight, Amy was a

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<v Speaker 4>guest speaker and she presented this brand she wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>create and she was like in the middle of like

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<v Speaker 4>raising money and like figuring everything out. And I left

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<v Speaker 4>the class and I DM turned out. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I will at your coffee. I want to intern for you,

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<v Speaker 4>I want to work for you. I want to learn

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<v Speaker 4>from you. And I ended up being one of her

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<v Speaker 4>first interns and then first turned first employee. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>still here, so we Yeah, I mean it was me

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<v Speaker 4>and my coworker Jass, and a few people that are

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<v Speaker 4>like the OG crew are still there and here we

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<v Speaker 4>are seven years later. And I I mean there were

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<v Speaker 4>three people with a lot of different hats in the startup.

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<v Speaker 4>So I developed most of our products. We obviously had

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<v Speaker 4>consultants and it's everything's a team effort coming in and out.

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<v Speaker 4>But I developed the products. I did all of our socials.

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of you know, did a lot of it

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<v Speaker 4>with obviously alongside Amy and Jess and our team, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still there today.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just crazy because like, do you know how many

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<v Speaker 1>brands and like I don't know the makeup space, but

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<v Speaker 1>like just in general, like no, none, My entire face

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<v Speaker 1>is brought to you by Tower twenty eight because just

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<v Speaker 1>tells me what to use and where to use it.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, if you like what's going on here, the

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<v Speaker 1>majority is I love you, But I feel like there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many brands that start, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many, like you said, startups, and this one

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<v Speaker 1>is now Tower twenty eight is like it's massive, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like that's also very rare, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>That's entirely right, Like I a lot of startups fail,

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<v Speaker 4>most do Yeah, I mean if you think of support,

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<v Speaker 4>like there's a lot, but there's not that many compared

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<v Speaker 4>to how many are in the world and how many

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<v Speaker 4>people are launching and now with TikTok it's daily, there's

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<v Speaker 4>nothing else that's a viral or coming up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>No, the Tower twenty eighth story is such a rare

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<v Speaker 4>success story. So and my mom always tells me, like

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<v Speaker 4>success is rare enjoy it, and I really, I mean

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<v Speaker 4>Amy and I always talk about how we just did

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<v Speaker 4>not expect this. You hope, right, you hope and you

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<v Speaker 4>dream for this to be everything you want it to

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<v Speaker 4>be and bigger, but we really did not think that

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<v Speaker 4>it would become what it has become. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>really grateful to have have the experience that I have

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<v Speaker 4>to like literally name a brand, pick the Pantones. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>go to the first Sephora call to now or like this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's so crazy, the one of our the

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<v Speaker 1>first meetings that we had about the wedding. Paul Oh, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's actually really great. It's a really

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<v Speaker 1>great thing that she did for our first wedding meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm gonna save it for a while.

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<v Speaker 3>And we're back.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow off after crazy tease.

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<v Speaker 4>Cliffhanger.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't the most graceful, but it got done.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all we needed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like laughing so much because again, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>has their strengths and their weaknesses, and I always forget,

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<v Speaker 1>like how Pauline has such a corporate job and like

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<v Speaker 1>knows all these things. So our first wedding meeting, we

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<v Speaker 1>like roll up to the like in the coffee shop

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<v Speaker 1>and she like pulls out this what was an excel?

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<v Speaker 3>What was her presentation?

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<v Speaker 6>Word present No, I had like an excel she like

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<v Speaker 6>made out for her with like do dates and deadlines and.

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<v Speaker 3>What's the pantone name color of the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, the who's it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be white.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, like the green that you guys are going for,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what's the pan tone. I'm like, what is a pantone?

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<v Speaker 4>She was like already what that is? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>like the color code, like it has to be a

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<v Speaker 4>specific green so everything is cohesive, and she was like

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know green.

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<v Speaker 2>And I like figured it.

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<v Speaker 4>I got the pantone for her. I had a whole

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<v Speaker 4>thing spre.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I kept just like taking her whatever word presentation

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<v Speaker 1>and just like kept forwarding it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the nicest thing she could have done for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you probably were just sending that to every vendor, every vendor.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's my power preson.

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<v Speaker 4>Also they used are like merch like our Tower twenty

0:22:34.119 --> 0:22:37.440
<v Speaker 4>eight merch vendor that we use, and I like connected them.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a whole Yeah, a separate Excel sheet for this.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it though, Yeah, you're so good at it.

0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:46.640
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that about you until we started doing

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<v Speaker 2>The Bachelor and me, that's like, I just don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Have to be honest. You know, I'm like the most

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<v Speaker 4>Type B person there is, but yet I think my

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<v Speaker 4>job has made me a little Type A in that

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<v Speaker 4>way where like everything has a deck and an Excel

0:23:01.119 --> 0:23:04.639
<v Speaker 4>sheet and a process. And I actually made one for

0:23:04.760 --> 0:23:07.159
<v Speaker 4>the Bachelorette trip and Sophia and I both go, we

0:23:07.200 --> 0:23:10.800
<v Speaker 4>don't have excel, so no one ever opened it. Let

0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:13.400
<v Speaker 4>me tell you, it is so detailed, but no one.

0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:17.959
<v Speaker 4>That night, I go to Sage. I was like, did

0:23:18.000 --> 0:23:19.719
<v Speaker 4>you open it? She goes, I don't have that.

0:23:19.840 --> 0:23:21.199
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what that is. And I was like,

0:23:21.200 --> 0:23:27.440
<v Speaker 2>oh my god. When when you were talking about product development,

0:23:27.480 --> 0:23:29.919
<v Speaker 2>do you have a product that you were part of

0:23:29.960 --> 0:23:32.840
<v Speaker 2>the development process that you were most proud of?

0:23:33.720 --> 0:23:33.920
<v Speaker 4>Oh?

0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:36.359
<v Speaker 2>Man, Like, is there one where you were like I

0:23:37.240 --> 0:23:37.560
<v Speaker 2>did that?

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<v Speaker 4>I do, I definitely do. I think the early like

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 4>the first ones I ever developed, so like Shine on

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<v Speaker 4>our Lip Jelly, Yeah, yeah, I definitely felt like it

0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:53.200
<v Speaker 4>was one of those where like Amy and I'm forever

0:23:53.240 --> 0:23:55.120
<v Speaker 4>grateful to her for this, she kind of like threw

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<v Speaker 4>us on the deep end and said go. And I

0:23:58.000 --> 0:24:00.200
<v Speaker 4>had this like notes page and I would just write

0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:02.480
<v Speaker 4>down like in a meeting, like if I didn't get something,

0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:04.040
<v Speaker 4>I'd just like write it down on a notes page

0:24:04.040 --> 0:24:05.919
<v Speaker 4>and then like go. When I went home, out researched

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:07.760
<v Speaker 4>it because I was like, what are they talking about?

0:24:08.240 --> 0:24:10.480
<v Speaker 4>And she was like, Okay, we're gonna make a lip jelly.

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:13.240
<v Speaker 4>It was actually a lip oil back then, like go

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:15.960
<v Speaker 4>to the lab and I was like what, So I

0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:20.000
<v Speaker 4>think developing lip jelly with Amy, like I've had no

0:24:20.080 --> 0:24:22.520
<v Speaker 4>idea what I was doing in the moment, and it's

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 4>still our best selling and it's like top at Sephora.

0:24:26.600 --> 0:24:29.520
<v Speaker 4>So I think that definitely is one I'm really proud

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<v Speaker 4>of because I also just felt like it was. It

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:35.520
<v Speaker 4>was also my first one. And our Beach Please Are

0:24:36.760 --> 0:24:40.560
<v Speaker 4>Cream Blush the Shade Magic Hour. We were in a

0:24:40.600 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 4>Sephora meeting and one of our merchants called it the

0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:47.840
<v Speaker 4>orgasm of clean beer. Wow reference orgasm as in the

0:24:47.920 --> 0:24:52.000
<v Speaker 4>NAR's blush that's like no one can top it. And

0:24:52.119 --> 0:24:55.159
<v Speaker 4>I was like, I'm good, I can retire. That's all

0:24:55.200 --> 0:24:57.199
<v Speaker 4>I had to hear. So I think those two am

0:24:57.240 --> 0:24:57.680
<v Speaker 4>really proud.

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:03.600
<v Speaker 2>You're like write that on your resume. Orgasm dupe, dupe exactly. Yeah, Yeah,

0:25:03.640 --> 0:25:06.080
<v Speaker 2>that's what I mean. I just am. I was blown

0:25:06.119 --> 0:25:08.800
<v Speaker 2>away when we were doing the planning the Bachelorette because

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 2>she was like, Paulina was like, let's make some cute

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 2>sweat sets for us to all travel it and she

0:25:14.200 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 2>was designed and she was sending them so fast. I

0:25:16.800 --> 0:25:18.760
<v Speaker 2>was like, where are you finding these designs? It was

0:25:18.760 --> 0:25:21.440
<v Speaker 2>like a butterfly with a string connecting the butterflies.

0:25:21.480 --> 0:25:23.119
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, invisible string connecting them?

0:25:23.400 --> 0:25:27.400
<v Speaker 2>Did you find where are you finding this? So it

0:25:27.440 --> 0:25:30.880
<v Speaker 2>wasn't it? That was very impressive to me. The corporate

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:32.080
<v Speaker 2>life in me comes out.

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:34.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's it's a chip that I don't I do

0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:34.880
<v Speaker 3>not have.

0:25:35.359 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 4>I honestly, I don't think I had it. I think

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:40.359
<v Speaker 4>I was always get it, you know as in like

0:25:40.400 --> 0:25:43.440
<v Speaker 4>I think when you're in that environment, you don't really

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 4>have a choice and you're like trained a certain way

0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:48.080
<v Speaker 4>right and right everything has to be a certain way.

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 4>And to be fair, like we're more casual at Toower

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:53.360
<v Speaker 4>twenty eight, we're still we still act a little bit

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:56.720
<v Speaker 4>like a startup, but yeah, there's like a process there's decks,

0:25:56.760 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 4>there's Excel sheets, there's agendas to meetings. You know, everything

0:26:00.840 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 4>is like very set in stone. So I think it's

0:26:04.240 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 4>you're trained almost to be that way. Yeah.

0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean it's just like your job. If you were like,

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:10.200
<v Speaker 2>this is what I have to do and you told

0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:11.520
<v Speaker 2>me to do it, I'd be like, how do you

0:26:11.560 --> 0:26:13.160
<v Speaker 2>know how to do this? You just learned.

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:14.160
<v Speaker 3>I think you'd figure it out.

0:26:14.280 --> 0:26:18.880
<v Speaker 2>You'd figure it out the pantone, you figure out the Paulina.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you say that you consider Tanya to be your

0:26:22.920 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 2>this is capitalized best friends?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:29.239
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:26:30.240 --> 0:26:32.119
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's the right answer.

0:26:32.320 --> 0:26:33.720
<v Speaker 3>Do you ever answer that?

0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:36.159
<v Speaker 2>Do you ever get jealous when Tanya hangs out with

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:46.480
<v Speaker 2>other friends like Becca? No? Healthy your response? Did you

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:49.920
<v Speaker 2>expect that you would be made of honor? No?

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:50.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh?

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:51.480
<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:58.240
<v Speaker 4>But here's the thing. I knew that you had, let's

0:26:58.280 --> 0:27:00.280
<v Speaker 4>to call it three three to four people that you

0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 4>were kind of toggling between, and I knew that our

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 4>friendship wouldn't. It wasn't hindering on it whether or not

0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:12.439
<v Speaker 4>I was made of honor, Like, I wasn't gonna like

0:27:13.200 --> 0:27:15.159
<v Speaker 4>be offended by it.

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:19.200
<v Speaker 6>I think it can't tell me if if if it

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:22.160
<v Speaker 6>was just my sister, I'm gonna get there, okay, if

0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:26.639
<v Speaker 6>it was just Becca fight, if it was like just

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:28.080
<v Speaker 6>your sister, of course not.

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 4>I actually told you one night. I was like, tee,

0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:33.440
<v Speaker 4>do whatever you want to do, like I will still

0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:35.520
<v Speaker 4>act as if I am your maid of honor.

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:37.239
<v Speaker 3>That's what I did. I did what I wanted to do,

0:27:37.640 --> 0:27:39.200
<v Speaker 3>said f TP.

0:27:40.280 --> 0:27:41.720
<v Speaker 4>You know, I don't know what that means.

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:45.439
<v Speaker 3>The patriot it okay, and I'm going to do my

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:47.000
<v Speaker 3>own thing. Yeah, I'm gonna have three.

0:27:47.119 --> 0:27:48.320
<v Speaker 4>I think if it was just Becca would have been

0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:49.920
<v Speaker 4>a little bit like interesting.

0:27:51.520 --> 0:27:53.959
<v Speaker 1>But I appreciate that answer because I know I know

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:56.399
<v Speaker 1>that No, but I wouldn't have like let it affect it.

0:27:57.480 --> 0:27:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I know, but it would have been a little salciate

0:28:00.520 --> 0:28:04.159
<v Speaker 1>salty about it because I'd be like, oh, okay, fine,

0:28:04.600 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 1>what did I do?

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:09.000
<v Speaker 4>See I was going, but I would I didn't really

0:28:09.280 --> 0:28:15.040
<v Speaker 4>please choose Becca, and I wonder were it goes. Honestly,

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:20.320
<v Speaker 4>you can do it. I don't really want it, I know, like.

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:23.520
<v Speaker 2>She she wanted me to want it more, and so

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 2>I had to start like I don't think I ever pretended,

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:29.639
<v Speaker 2>but I was basically like, here's the thing. I know

0:28:29.840 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 2>how you want things done, and I think Paulina is

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:34.639
<v Speaker 2>going to do that for you in the way that

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:37.240
<v Speaker 2>you want it done it and I am happy to

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 2>simply be a rads maid.

0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:43.160
<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you, nobody's just a rads maid. Let

0:28:43.200 --> 0:28:45.120
<v Speaker 3>me tell you what I was gonna say.

0:28:45.120 --> 0:28:48.880
<v Speaker 4>That Becca has really stepped in and that yeah, sorry,

0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:51.040
<v Speaker 4>I stepped up. You really did. Yeah, more than you

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:51.720
<v Speaker 4>thought you were going to.

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:53.360
<v Speaker 2>Well, a lot of people were like, has there been

0:28:53.360 --> 0:28:56.240
<v Speaker 2>anything where that we disagreed on? And I was thinking

0:28:56.280 --> 0:28:58.640
<v Speaker 2>about it, and I don't think. I think both of

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:00.239
<v Speaker 2>us were at the point where if one of us

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 2>felt strongly about something, it was just like, okay.

0:29:02.320 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 4>Let's do that.

0:29:02.960 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I don't think there was ever a disagreement of

0:29:05.560 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 2>like like a tension that I can think of. But

0:29:09.160 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 2>I have to compliment you, your sister and your mom

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 2>because y'all threw one of the most gorgeous, gorgeous parties

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:20.520
<v Speaker 2>events that I have been to in a long time,

0:29:21.440 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 2>and for Tanya and Robbie, and it was absolutely stunning.

0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 2>Haley and I walked up and the lady goes, just

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.600
<v Speaker 2>go walk down this path and to the left, the

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 2>harpist will be there.

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 5>We each other like the hoops, and it was just

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 5>I was like, is there someone here that can marry

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:45.360
<v Speaker 5>these two?

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Because it was literally so We're like walking in and

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:51.720
<v Speaker 1>I looked at everything and I was like, oh my gosh,

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:55.120
<v Speaker 1>the attention to detail is like what really blew me away?

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>So like it was the invisible string theme themed wedding shower,

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:02.160
<v Speaker 1>and so like everything was made on acrylic, so everything

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:04.520
<v Speaker 1>was see through, Like the menus were see through, the

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:07.680
<v Speaker 1>bar menu was see through, the welcome thing was see through.

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:10.720
<v Speaker 1>They had strings tied to all the champagne glasses that

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 1>said invisible string and her names, everyone's names were an

0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:20.560
<v Speaker 1>invisible string, and like it was just so much thought

0:30:20.600 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>and detail and love and I literally turned to robbing

0:30:22.680 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I feel like this is more thoughtful.

0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 3>Than that weddings gonna be.

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.280
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you, I do need to major shout

0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:34.920
<v Speaker 4>out to Sophia and my mom because I had a

0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:37.680
<v Speaker 4>hand in it, and like a lot of things were

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 4>like loosely my idea, but like they really executed, Like

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:45.760
<v Speaker 4>the harpist was Sophia's idea, Like my mom flew with

0:30:45.840 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 4>all the acrylic things from Miami. Oh yeah, like her

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 4>like it was really like I don't deserve as much credit.

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 4>They really deserve full credit here. They really it was

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 4>incredible and I'm so glad that you loved it.

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 1>And not only did I love it, Honestly I could

0:31:02.520 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 1>cry thinking about it. But it was because it was

0:31:04.880 --> 0:31:09.880
<v Speaker 1>like my immediate family, Robbie's immediate family, and then it

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 1>was like our chosen family. And it was obviously like

0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:16.000
<v Speaker 1>everybody's met and everybody's hung out before, but it was

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>in such an intimate setting and like, I want to

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.520
<v Speaker 1>give Becca a little bit of credit because she gave

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:26.720
<v Speaker 1>a speech on the off the cup. People are standing

0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 1>up and giving speeches like off the cuff, and it.

0:31:29.400 --> 0:31:33.360
<v Speaker 4>Felt like such a It got everyone really emotional from

0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 4>the start. And Robbie's mom the next day told my

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:40.640
<v Speaker 4>mom like it felt like this like enchanted fairy tale

0:31:41.160 --> 0:31:45.040
<v Speaker 4>other world because it was it was also fully closed off. Yeah,

0:31:45.080 --> 0:31:48.360
<v Speaker 4>so we didn't really see the outside world for a

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:51.280
<v Speaker 4>few hours and we're just in this little bubble and

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:54.160
<v Speaker 4>everyone was just so emotional with such a special like

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:58.160
<v Speaker 4>Robbie's son made a speech out of nowhere, like yeah,

0:31:58.160 --> 0:32:01.680
<v Speaker 4>he was just so sweetn.

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 3>Age she stands up and she goes.

0:32:04.440 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 1>So pink starboards used to be my favorite stars of

0:32:08.200 --> 0:32:09.120
<v Speaker 1>the bunge.

0:32:08.760 --> 0:32:11.160
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, oh, she's going there.

0:32:11.080 --> 0:32:16.240
<v Speaker 2>But no one knew. Looked around, you know.

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Robbie, and I understood and all I cared about. So

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:21.880
<v Speaker 1>then she goes onto this whole speech. Becca breaks down

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:23.640
<v Speaker 1>in tears, which is very rare.

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 2>I do that when I it's talking in front of people.

0:32:26.600 --> 0:32:30.120
<v Speaker 2>It's like I get nervous, and then when I'm also

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 2>talking about something emotional, it like.

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:36.160
<v Speaker 1>And then she rounds out the speech with so now

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 1>red starbursts are actually my favorite flavor. And I was like,

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:43.240
<v Speaker 1>oh wow, it was poetic poetry, poetry.

0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:46.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, because at first I was like, how is

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:48.959
<v Speaker 4>she going to circle back to the pink starboards.

0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't going to end on that, but everyone started

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 2>clapping and I was like short to the point.

0:32:59.640 --> 0:33:02.720
<v Speaker 1>And then Sophia I had like the playlist and the

0:33:02.760 --> 0:33:05.800
<v Speaker 1>harpist was playing like the most thoughtful songs to a

0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 1>relation Mare Morris Like it was just like.

0:33:08.960 --> 0:33:12.520
<v Speaker 2>I felt like it was just a mini wedding.

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 3>It was a mini wedding. It really was a mini wedding.

0:33:15.360 --> 0:33:18.080
<v Speaker 1>It was so so special and I was like so

0:33:18.160 --> 0:33:20.040
<v Speaker 1>emotional the whole night. And I also just got like

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 1>I drank champagne, martini, tequila shots.

0:33:25.640 --> 0:33:29.000
<v Speaker 3>I was just like balls to the walls.

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 4>It was so special and I yeah, it's just how

0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:32.280
<v Speaker 4>much we love you.

0:33:32.640 --> 0:33:34.480
<v Speaker 2>A lot of people thought it was the what people

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 2>were like, did they get mayor it was just a

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 2>wedding ceremony.

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like I thought it was.

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:42.560
<v Speaker 1>It looked beautiful like I'm literally never. I mean, I'm

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 1>never in my life.

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 2>I love you literally, we're just making one into it. Yeah,

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 2>it was very special. Speaking of love, A lot of

0:33:52.560 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 2>people were wondering about, oh, your love life. But before

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.960
<v Speaker 2>we get to that, we're gonna take another race.

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<v Speaker 5>Today.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I was giving me the.

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<v Speaker 2>Signals though, ride on time another electric teaser before the.

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<v Speaker 3>Brain click today. Let me tell you a.

0:34:21.800 --> 0:34:23.839
<v Speaker 2>Lot of people were wondering about your love life. All

0:34:23.880 --> 0:34:27.320
<v Speaker 2>this talk about love and weddings and goodness.

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<v Speaker 4>I am not single, but I do keep that part

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<v Speaker 4>of my life private.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>I am just so excited for, like any of my

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:43.400
<v Speaker 1>friends to get engaged, Like I'm like so ready for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I mean looking at around the room.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, point, I just stare at each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so excited because I feel like there's something

0:34:54.800 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 1>like there's just something so I can't put into words,

0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:02.080
<v Speaker 1>like how special it is to have like these people

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:04.200
<v Speaker 1>that are just so so formative and so close to

0:35:04.239 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 1>you spending so much time together, Like it is really

0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:11.680
<v Speaker 1>and like even like it's so funny because so many

0:35:11.680 --> 0:35:13.360
<v Speaker 1>people kept coming up to me and like they like

0:35:13.480 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 1>want your mom to like my parents want her to

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 1>come visit them in San Diego, and like yeah, and

0:35:19.200 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I don't know, just I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like everybody got so much closer and it's just such

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:27.000
<v Speaker 1>a beautiful thing to be a part of that. Like

0:35:27.040 --> 0:35:29.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait for my best friends to experience.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say, like this week and because it was

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<v Speaker 4>like two events back to back, and the Bachelorette was

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<v Speaker 4>two weeks ago, it's just it's made me so excited

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 4>for that phase of life, not that it's anytime soon,

0:35:42.080 --> 0:35:44.840
<v Speaker 4>but just like it's just such a beautiful thing to

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:47.240
<v Speaker 4>your point to see, Like even my mom was saying,

0:35:47.280 --> 0:35:51.560
<v Speaker 4>like these three families that have never even truly like met,

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 4>spent that much time, and it just felt like it

0:35:54.600 --> 0:35:57.120
<v Speaker 4>just became this one big family and it was just

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<v Speaker 4>so especially like the next day when like Robbie's parents

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:02.400
<v Speaker 4>to do that event, like it was just so nice,

0:36:02.760 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 4>so nice, so nice.

0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:05.919
<v Speaker 1>And like that was also so cool too because I've

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:09.720
<v Speaker 1>never experienced anything. Yeah, there's like a Persian wedding tradition

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 1>and I've never gone to one, and so for it

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<v Speaker 1>for my first one to.

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<v Speaker 3>Go to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Very very wild but like so much fun, like just

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<v Speaker 1>the best time. And it made me realize too, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it just made me so excited for the wedding because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's gonna be it's gonna be all this

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<v Speaker 1>times too.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I made everyone that's so puffed for the wedding.

0:36:30.640 --> 0:36:33.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think Hayley's kind of been like, you know,

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 2>is it gonna be like a lot of people I

0:36:34.920 --> 0:36:37.560
<v Speaker 2>don't know, And after the dinner She's like this that

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<v Speaker 2>made me so excited. I feel like the wedding's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be so so much fun. Yeah, And I was like

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<v Speaker 2>it is. Those are the people, like it's all about

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<v Speaker 2>the people, and they surround themselves with good people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because you are good people.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:51.040
<v Speaker 3>We stick together.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>People are asking for giving speeches at the while listen

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:03.040
<v Speaker 4>wrote my speech. I have timed my speech. This is

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<v Speaker 4>more minutes and thirty seven seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>Wo. The wow? Was that long or short?

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah, sorry, I didn't realize that part of this.

0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:15.879
<v Speaker 2>I know the wow that she went to. She thinks

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<v Speaker 2>so meticulous about exactly exactly right.

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<v Speaker 4>Four minutes seems perfect. Fine. I can shorten it, I

0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 4>can make it longer.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea. What I fly sounds likely by Bye.

0:37:28.680 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 4>Was told to add a few jokes in there, but

0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:35.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm not a jokey person to do that. Jokes people did,

0:37:35.239 --> 0:37:37.000
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, oh man, okay, a lot some

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 4>jokes in there. I did put one in, but it's

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:40.839
<v Speaker 4>kind of like calling Robbie out a little bit.

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I think I'll laugh the trigger of it, from the

0:37:43.920 --> 0:37:44.760
<v Speaker 2>trigger of it.

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<v Speaker 4>From what he wears the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I heard it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, I will leave it for the wedding. But

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:55.879
<v Speaker 4>I do. I do have my speech like ninety eight

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<v Speaker 4>percent ready.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, dang, I don't don't look at me here. I

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:03.240
<v Speaker 2>have not written it.

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 3>Off the cuff. Becca was pretty good, So I mean

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 3>save that for the wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>You should, Honestly, there's so many more people at the

0:38:09.920 --> 0:38:14.160
<v Speaker 4>wedding you should started with the Pink Star Wars and

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:17.440
<v Speaker 4>it with the Red it's like the perfect I realized.

0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:20.360
<v Speaker 2>Like the people who don't know him as Red Star.

0:38:20.239 --> 0:38:22.280
<v Speaker 3>Wars, it might lay a little flat.

0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:24.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I gotta I gotta be a little bit more universal.

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:26.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's porch. Yeah.

0:38:26.880 --> 0:38:28.560
<v Speaker 4>As I was writing and I was like, oh damn,

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:31.200
<v Speaker 4>I know, because you don't want to do jokes, and

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:33.120
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, they're not gonna laugh, and I look like

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm not funny.

0:38:33.760 --> 0:38:34.200
<v Speaker 5>And I don't know.

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:34.879
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:38:35.160 --> 0:38:38.440
<v Speaker 1>That's the hardest thing about speeches. I know, I know,

0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:43.080
<v Speaker 1>I haven't even written my vows, but well.

0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:48.240
<v Speaker 2>My chat GBT GBT are funny speech from Made of Honor.

0:38:49.239 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 4>Oh my TikTok searches are. Before I wrote my now,

0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:58.479
<v Speaker 4>I was like, you see, I was doing research because

0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:00.440
<v Speaker 4>I didn't know how long they were supposed to be.

0:39:00.840 --> 0:39:02.800
<v Speaker 3>What did it say for four minutes and thirty seconds?

0:39:03.760 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 3>She's like, got it done done?

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:09.279
<v Speaker 4>No, it did say around five minutes. Okay, Yeah, So

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 4>I kind of kept it under just because there's a

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:15.040
<v Speaker 4>lot of speeches I heard, Yes, Robbie's grooms, wos wait,

0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:15.359
<v Speaker 4>are you.

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:17.359
<v Speaker 2>Gonna write it down? Are you gonna read off your phone.

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna read it off my phone unless printed is better.

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:24.920
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, totally up to you. I'm zero preference.

0:39:24.920 --> 0:39:25.960
<v Speaker 4>I don't ask my mom.

0:39:25.800 --> 0:39:27.719
<v Speaker 3>I'm may me memorize it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, no, no joking.

0:39:29.320 --> 0:39:31.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have a notebook and pretend like i'm reading.

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:33.279
<v Speaker 2>But I'm just I think I'm gonna go off the cap.

0:39:33.640 --> 0:39:34.239
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 4>For a Sophia's album party, I memorized my speech. I've

0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:39.560
<v Speaker 4>never been more nervous in my life.

0:39:39.560 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

0:39:40.480 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 4>It was like to fifteen people, I was like, never again.

0:39:44.320 --> 0:39:46.880
<v Speaker 1>No, I know, it's pressure to memorize, and also like

0:39:46.920 --> 0:39:48.600
<v Speaker 1>when you read something it's fucked out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I was so concerned with like hitting every

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:54.439
<v Speaker 4>sentence that I had memorized. Yeah, never again.

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:59.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, no, I I don't know what. I don't

0:39:59.120 --> 0:40:02.000
<v Speaker 2>know how I'm gonna hit navigate that, but I'll know

0:40:02.040 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 2>in about three weeks.

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.719
<v Speaker 4>It's gonna come to you. Mine. Just it was the

0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:08.960
<v Speaker 4>Sunday after the Bachgerette and I was sitting in bed

0:40:08.960 --> 0:40:11.120
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, oh, I'm gonna write. I'm gonna

0:40:11.120 --> 0:40:11.759
<v Speaker 4>write it now.

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<v Speaker 3>Dang, it just kind of flowed.

0:40:15.120 --> 0:40:17.959
<v Speaker 1>How would you guys rate me as a bride. Oh

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 1>but in what sense high strong or bride chilla?

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:26.959
<v Speaker 4>You think your bride chilla. I don't think you're as

0:40:27.120 --> 0:40:29.520
<v Speaker 4>chilla as you think. But she's not high but you're

0:40:29.600 --> 0:40:31.960
<v Speaker 4>not high strung. She's not as high strong as I

0:40:32.040 --> 0:40:36.320
<v Speaker 4>expected her to be. Same, So I guess anything under

0:40:36.360 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 4>that to me is chill for you. But she's like

0:40:40.480 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 4>in the middle.

0:40:41.960 --> 0:40:45.719
<v Speaker 2>Where do you feel like she's been not chilla?

0:40:46.080 --> 0:40:46.760
<v Speaker 3>Not chilla?

0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:52.400
<v Speaker 4>I feel like you've been chilling. You've been chilling areas

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:55.759
<v Speaker 4>that I did not expect you to be chilling. But

0:40:55.840 --> 0:40:58.400
<v Speaker 4>then like the batcherette, you were like pretty specific with

0:40:58.440 --> 0:40:59.080
<v Speaker 4>what you wanted.

0:41:00.120 --> 0:41:03.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but specific is one thing, but like high strong

0:41:04.040 --> 0:41:04.400
<v Speaker 1>is another.

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:06.200
<v Speaker 4>I don't think you've been high strung at all.

0:41:06.360 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, thank you.

0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 4>No, No, not high strong, that's a very yeah.

0:41:10.160 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm really curious what it's going to be like once

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 2>we're there and it's happening, if like all of it's

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:17.279
<v Speaker 2>gonna rise to service, right, or if you'll just be

0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:18.480
<v Speaker 2>I do you're gonna be?

0:41:18.680 --> 0:41:20.480
<v Speaker 4>I think it'll be chill because I think you and

0:41:20.560 --> 0:41:23.080
<v Speaker 4>Robbie have like a good perspective on like what matters

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:25.520
<v Speaker 4>is that like you have your people there and like

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:28.279
<v Speaker 4>you guys are happy and it's about the marriage, and

0:41:28.320 --> 0:41:30.759
<v Speaker 4>I think you guys have like a good perspective on

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.319
<v Speaker 4>it where I think a lot of people it's all

0:41:33.360 --> 0:41:36.799
<v Speaker 4>about the details, details and the wedding and the performance

0:41:36.840 --> 0:41:39.360
<v Speaker 4>and the show of it all, and I think you

0:41:39.400 --> 0:41:40.680
<v Speaker 4>guys are just really No.

0:41:40.640 --> 0:41:43.920
<v Speaker 1>My biggest fear is that like we're forgetting somebody, like

0:41:44.000 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>that's my invite. No, no, no, no, because the way

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:49.000
<v Speaker 1>we like did the invites, it was kind of like

0:41:49.040 --> 0:41:51.360
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a hodgepodge, like we were getting

0:41:51.520 --> 0:41:56.959
<v Speaker 1>names and addresses from parents like later on than we wanted.

0:41:56.600 --> 0:41:58.280
<v Speaker 2>And having a space for them at the table.

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like I'm just worried that like we've missed

0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:04.279
<v Speaker 1>an RSP somewhere and like that's kind of where my

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:06.239
<v Speaker 1>anxiety lies, not in like the is it going to

0:42:06.280 --> 0:42:06.919
<v Speaker 1>be pretty enough?

0:42:07.000 --> 0:42:08.880
<v Speaker 3>Is it going to be this enough? Like my anxiety

0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:10.520
<v Speaker 3>is in the like did I.

0:42:10.520 --> 0:42:12.440
<v Speaker 4>Miss some scene for someone?

0:42:12.680 --> 0:42:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:42:13.120 --> 0:42:13.440
<v Speaker 3>Yes?

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:17.359
<v Speaker 2>What are our duties come wedding time? Wedding day?

0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:21.280
<v Speaker 4>You know, I don't know. I'm assuming like getting ready

0:42:21.280 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 4>with you and making sure that you have everything you need,

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:26.040
<v Speaker 4>bringing chalk.

0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:29.360
<v Speaker 2>I heard that's yeah. You can write in the dress.

0:42:29.640 --> 0:42:31.799
<v Speaker 2>You can chalk the dress and it doesn't ruin it,

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:32.960
<v Speaker 2>but it covers scenes.

0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:37.640
<v Speaker 4>Wow, okay, chalk, I don't know. I think making sure

0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:38.720
<v Speaker 4>you're happy that day.

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I think just that's all I need. Yeah, like

0:42:41.680 --> 0:42:43.120
<v Speaker 1>get ready with me, don't leave my.

0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:47.719
<v Speaker 4>Side attached at the hip from the get there, which

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 4>Becca is going.

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 2>A little earlier than me, which is you're in chargeable

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:52.760
<v Speaker 2>the time you get there, I'll be like, she's all yours,

0:42:52.960 --> 0:42:57.759
<v Speaker 2>going to go out by the pool, your own babysitting.

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 2>That the como, baby, that's what you go to.

0:43:03.520 --> 0:43:04.120
<v Speaker 3>That's I'm saying.

0:43:04.160 --> 0:43:06.760
<v Speaker 1>Don't you feel like nice that you had other people

0:43:06.800 --> 0:43:07.600
<v Speaker 1>to like lean on?

0:43:07.680 --> 0:43:13.520
<v Speaker 2>And honestly, Sophia, we dubbed her Junior Como because she, yeah,

0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 2>very earned and deserved. She was like really part of

0:43:17.840 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 2>making She made the boat day happen. She did the blues,

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:24.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, a lot of that was on our Junior Como,

0:43:24.840 --> 0:43:27.920
<v Speaker 2>and so it's just it was like a fully it

0:43:27.960 --> 0:43:29.440
<v Speaker 2>was a team effort.

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 1>It was Sophia really does I don't know what the

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:37.480
<v Speaker 1>word is because it's like it's not it's not mother.

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:42.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like she really really she's kind of like me

0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:43.560
<v Speaker 1>in that sense.

0:43:43.760 --> 0:43:46.160
<v Speaker 3>She's so thoughtful.

0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:50.600
<v Speaker 4>And then follows with thoughtful.

0:43:52.320 --> 0:43:54.960
<v Speaker 2>No, but I know she is. Yeah, it's not.

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think motherly is the wrong word. I think

0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:01.279
<v Speaker 4>you and I are motherly. Yes, but she is very

0:44:01.960 --> 0:44:05.120
<v Speaker 4>thoughtful and like when she planned something.

0:44:06.080 --> 0:44:10.080
<v Speaker 2>She's very intentional everything. I did get to a point

0:44:10.080 --> 0:44:13.520
<v Speaker 2>where I said, Sophia, if I hear invisible string one

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:16.759
<v Speaker 2>more time, I love that. I know I'm not saying

0:44:16.800 --> 0:44:18.560
<v Speaker 2>she was doing it for, but you weren't around. We

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:20.840
<v Speaker 2>were we were doing something in the living room and

0:44:20.880 --> 0:44:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I can't hear this jingle one.

0:44:23.440 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 4>Or I feel like she's also good at like being

0:44:27.520 --> 0:44:31.760
<v Speaker 4>intentional and thoughtful, but like knowing what for the person why,

0:44:32.120 --> 0:44:34.799
<v Speaker 4>Like I wouldn't want some of the things that she did,

0:44:35.520 --> 0:44:37.919
<v Speaker 4>but like she knows that like you would.

0:44:38.360 --> 0:44:39.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I wouldn't want to think that.

0:44:39.680 --> 0:44:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I find that I'd love so much is because like

0:44:41.960 --> 0:44:44.239
<v Speaker 1>with you, with my friendship with you, I feel like

0:44:44.280 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 1>we're very similar with both cancers. We really like we

0:44:48.120 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 1>deal with stuff in a similar way. Things hurt us

0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:52.680
<v Speaker 1>in a similar way. So I feel like you really

0:44:52.719 --> 0:44:55.799
<v Speaker 1>like understand me, whereas I feel like Sophia and I.

0:44:55.880 --> 0:44:57.360
<v Speaker 3>Are very different, very different.

0:44:57.480 --> 0:44:59.680
<v Speaker 1>So for me, like when she does stuff that like

0:44:59.760 --> 0:45:01.799
<v Speaker 1>really speaks to my love language, I'm like wow, like

0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:03.400
<v Speaker 1>that's an effort, you know what I mean, because it

0:45:03.440 --> 0:45:05.600
<v Speaker 1>doesn't come natural to her. I kind of feel like

0:45:05.640 --> 0:45:09.000
<v Speaker 1>that way with you too, Like we're so different that

0:45:09.080 --> 0:45:12.120
<v Speaker 1>the things that you do like really hits, not saying it,

0:45:12.080 --> 0:45:13.000
<v Speaker 1>It isn't hit with you.

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:17.319
<v Speaker 3>It's just like you don't get it. You don't get it,

0:45:17.400 --> 0:45:18.759
<v Speaker 3>you know, like me.

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:21.799
<v Speaker 1>And so when you do stuff that that is like

0:45:21.880 --> 0:45:24.080
<v Speaker 1>my love language, I'm like wow, like that was Actually

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:26.160
<v Speaker 1>it makes me want to be a better friend and

0:45:26.239 --> 0:45:28.200
<v Speaker 1>like being more intentional and like thoughtful in that way.

0:45:28.360 --> 0:45:31.399
<v Speaker 4>It's easy to be thoughtful in the way that you

0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:34.320
<v Speaker 4>want to be thoughtful, yeah, versus like what the person

0:45:34.360 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 4>would want.

0:45:35.080 --> 0:45:41.200
<v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah, Yeah, that's true, It do be true. I

0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:45.440
<v Speaker 2>am so excited for the wedding. I I literally I

0:45:45.440 --> 0:45:47.640
<v Speaker 2>told Haley when I came back from the Bachelorette, I

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:50.240
<v Speaker 2>was like, I am obsessed with Puline and Sophia Raquel,

0:45:50.360 --> 0:45:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Like we had so much fun. It was such a

0:45:52.640 --> 0:45:55.360
<v Speaker 2>fun weekend with everybody was perfect, and I was like,

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:57.640
<v Speaker 2>she was like, I can't wait for the wedding. If

0:45:57.640 --> 0:45:59.480
<v Speaker 2>this was how much fun you'll had on the Bachelor,

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I want.

0:46:00.440 --> 0:46:04.640
<v Speaker 4>My bachorette to be a copy and paste the same people.

0:46:04.840 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 4>I just I don't want to change a thing and

0:46:07.120 --> 0:46:10.160
<v Speaker 4>like do that in a few years we can just go.

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:11.200
<v Speaker 2>We do I have to?

0:46:11.400 --> 0:46:11.959
<v Speaker 4>That's true?

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, Yeah, I mean we will kind of in

0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:17.880
<v Speaker 2>a few weeks.

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:19.160
<v Speaker 4>So it's going to be.

0:46:19.520 --> 0:46:24.719
<v Speaker 2>So I've loved, I've loved I've loved the whole process.

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:26.879
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't want it to end. I'm like kind

0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:28.520
<v Speaker 4>of sad, Like.

0:46:28.400 --> 0:46:29.920
<v Speaker 1>That's so nice though, because it was so funny. I

0:46:29.960 --> 0:46:32.759
<v Speaker 1>was listening to Victoria Garrett did a podcast about like

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:35.759
<v Speaker 1>or being a maid of honor and like all the

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:37.600
<v Speaker 1>duties that come along with it, and I remember listen.

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like listening to it and I was just like,

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I would be a horrible made of honor if that's.

0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 4>Like the noted.

0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:47.800
<v Speaker 1>No, But I feel like I didn't have those expectations

0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:50.120
<v Speaker 1>on anybody. Like I wasn't as much as I like

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:53.080
<v Speaker 1>I joke about it, I wasn't very like militant about

0:46:53.360 --> 0:46:55.440
<v Speaker 1>like I would throw things out to the group and

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:56.960
<v Speaker 1>say like, hey, can one of you, Like, I just

0:46:57.000 --> 0:46:59.480
<v Speaker 1>need one person for a lot of these things. I

0:46:59.560 --> 0:47:02.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't like I need somebody to hear every single thing.

0:47:03.480 --> 0:47:08.520
<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm. No, is that how it usually is? Yeah,

0:47:08.560 --> 0:47:11.719
<v Speaker 4>Like I have nothing to compare it to, Like this year,

0:47:12.440 --> 0:47:15.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm you're maid of honor and then my cousin's getting

0:47:15.200 --> 0:47:17.759
<v Speaker 4>married and I'm not technically her maid of honor, but

0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 4>like basically yes kind of. So it's my first time

0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:25.399
<v Speaker 4>doing it, but I've never been on the other side

0:47:25.400 --> 0:47:28.160
<v Speaker 4>of it, so I don't really know what the expectation

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:31.400
<v Speaker 4>versus well we've done is well.

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:33.800
<v Speaker 2>I also think it's so dependent on who the bride is,

0:47:34.160 --> 0:47:36.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, Like I was Alley's made of honor last year,

0:47:36.880 --> 0:47:39.359
<v Speaker 2>and it was also very chill. It was like I

0:47:39.400 --> 0:47:41.759
<v Speaker 2>wanted to I wanted to be there for more like

0:47:41.840 --> 0:47:43.480
<v Speaker 2>the dress things, and then she would just go to

0:47:43.480 --> 0:47:45.560
<v Speaker 2>San Diego by herself. I'm like, why didn't you tell me?

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:47.879
<v Speaker 2>She's like, it's fine, my mom came.

0:47:48.040 --> 0:47:49.759
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like you were like even like you had your

0:47:49.800 --> 0:47:51.640
<v Speaker 4>lost stress fitting and we were like, oh, we're all.

0:47:51.480 --> 0:47:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Going yeah, and we just just to learn up and

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:58.120
<v Speaker 1>everyone's like we'll be there I've.

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:01.359
<v Speaker 4>Had a call in the back room, so I had

0:48:01.480 --> 0:48:05.680
<v Speaker 4>roses for everyone. Sonny Wood like, yeah, we're I think

0:48:05.719 --> 0:48:09.319
<v Speaker 4>we also we want to do the stuff that we're doing.

0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:12.360
<v Speaker 4>It's not like because we are you're maid of honor,

0:48:12.840 --> 0:48:13.759
<v Speaker 4>we have to do it.

0:48:14.280 --> 0:48:16.480
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like you all were my best friends before,

0:48:16.520 --> 0:48:17.840
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like this like took it to a

0:48:17.880 --> 0:48:20.319
<v Speaker 1>whole other level for me.

0:48:20.920 --> 0:48:24.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think personally, I think that it's you know,

0:48:24.440 --> 0:48:29.680
<v Speaker 2>we know how important this time is for you and

0:48:29.719 --> 0:48:34.360
<v Speaker 2>how this is You're God willing the only time it happens.

0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:38.320
<v Speaker 2>And I think it's you know, as your friends getting

0:48:38.320 --> 0:48:40.239
<v Speaker 2>to watch you go through the process of dating and

0:48:40.280 --> 0:48:44.319
<v Speaker 2>finding Oh no, I'm tired and not might cry too,

0:48:44.360 --> 0:48:47.160
<v Speaker 2>but I don't want to. I think being your best

0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:50.680
<v Speaker 2>friends and watching you go through all the dating, even

0:48:50.680 --> 0:48:52.520
<v Speaker 2>though it was like fun and for the plot, I

0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:54.400
<v Speaker 2>know how I think we all know how much this,

0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 2>what this means to you and like finding your person

0:48:57.760 --> 0:49:00.680
<v Speaker 2>and having the wedding and all these festivity, So I

0:49:00.680 --> 0:49:03.680
<v Speaker 2>think we all wanted it to feel important and big,

0:49:04.400 --> 0:49:06.800
<v Speaker 2>even if it was a needing to learn how to

0:49:06.880 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 2>zip your dress, you know, I think it was just

0:49:09.560 --> 0:49:13.879
<v Speaker 2>it's been important to show up for something that you've

0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 2>waited for so long.

0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:17.799
<v Speaker 4>I think, like since we met you, it's really all

0:49:17.800 --> 0:49:20.600
<v Speaker 4>you've ever wanted is for like this season of life

0:49:20.680 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 4>and to meet your husband and start a family and

0:49:22.920 --> 0:49:25.520
<v Speaker 4>get married. And I think we would be like the

0:49:25.560 --> 0:49:28.480
<v Speaker 4>worst friends in the world if we didn't put that

0:49:28.600 --> 0:49:30.399
<v Speaker 4>level of importance on this.

0:49:30.600 --> 0:49:33.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we love you.

0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:33.920
<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

0:49:33.960 --> 0:49:36.520
<v Speaker 3>I love you guys too a lot.

0:49:36.560 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm tired.

0:49:38.880 --> 0:49:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had some big weekend weekend big weekends.

0:49:42.480 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Like amazing again, like it's like it's so yeah, but

0:49:46.680 --> 0:49:47.560
<v Speaker 1>you can still be tired.

0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:51.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm not on my period right now.

0:49:51.440 --> 0:49:54.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm about to be. But you should rest upstill until

0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:57.960
<v Speaker 2>I think you need to suck.

0:49:57.760 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 3>That you're about to get your period.

0:50:01.160 --> 0:50:01.719
<v Speaker 4>Goals.

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:08.640
<v Speaker 2>You should rest up until the wedding, is my como advice.

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:11.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh, you best believe I will be jeweled. I will

0:50:11.239 --> 0:50:14.200
<v Speaker 1>be I'm gona try and focus on sleep and.

0:50:15.200 --> 0:50:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Sleep wellness in ten thousand steps a day.

0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:18.399
<v Speaker 3>Ten thousand steps.

0:50:18.440 --> 0:50:20.360
<v Speaker 4>Wow, that's the guys. I can never hit that.

0:50:21.200 --> 0:50:22.640
<v Speaker 2>How long it takes to do that?

0:50:22.719 --> 0:50:25.880
<v Speaker 4>The half No, the only days I've hit it is

0:50:25.920 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 4>my marathon training because I was running. Yeah, every other day,

0:50:30.080 --> 0:50:34.480
<v Speaker 4>I hit maybe two thousand steps in an office, sitting

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:35.480
<v Speaker 4>and meetings all day.

0:50:35.640 --> 0:50:38.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not realistic, I think unless you have a

0:50:38.880 --> 0:50:41.160
<v Speaker 2>job like Tawny was telling me that she hits like

0:50:41.239 --> 0:50:44.640
<v Speaker 2>seventeen to twenty a day just her shop is going

0:50:44.680 --> 0:50:46.000
<v Speaker 2>back and forth on her feet.

0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:48.040
<v Speaker 3>I know that's crazy.

0:50:48.080 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 2>But if you're just spending time in like just you're

0:50:51.520 --> 0:50:54.560
<v Speaker 2>simply your intention is to just get two thousands steps,

0:50:54.640 --> 0:50:55.400
<v Speaker 2>it takes forever.

0:50:56.000 --> 0:50:59.759
<v Speaker 4>Ten thousand steps is four to five miles. Yeah, that's

0:51:00.400 --> 0:51:02.840
<v Speaker 4>I'll trust me as the person that ran. That's a

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:05.640
<v Speaker 4>lot of miles. That's a lot of miles.

0:51:05.680 --> 0:51:07.399
<v Speaker 2>But she said she's gonna try and do it every

0:51:07.440 --> 0:51:08.280
<v Speaker 2>day until the wedding.

0:51:08.320 --> 0:51:08.759
<v Speaker 3>Every day.

0:51:09.120 --> 0:51:11.719
<v Speaker 4>I mean, you can do it. Gets Sunday, do it?

0:51:12.040 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 2>Walk down the air one.

0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh, we're having so much fun with Paulina. It is

0:51:17.320 --> 0:51:20.520
<v Speaker 1>time to wrap up today's podcast. Oh yeah yeah yeah,

0:51:20.560 --> 0:51:23.719
<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna ask if you could stay around this

0:51:23.840 --> 0:51:26.920
<v Speaker 1>week for a Thursday episode.

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:29.759
<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, come back for a Thursday episode? Wait?

0:51:29.800 --> 0:51:32.280
<v Speaker 4>Really yeah, I gotta check my calendar.

0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:37.600
<v Speaker 2>Guys, there will be a game. There will be questions

0:51:37.600 --> 0:51:41.440
<v Speaker 2>from scrubbers speaking of you have a best friend. You

0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:43.760
<v Speaker 2>have a best friend who's a scrubber.

0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:47.120
<v Speaker 4>Oh, Mike, Okay, okay, okay, can I say this story?

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:51.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay. My good friend slash coworker. Her name is

0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:58.520
<v Speaker 4>Vina love her. Her best friend is like die hard scrubber.

0:51:58.719 --> 0:52:02.640
<v Speaker 4>Her name is Alissa, like die hard. Like she listens

0:52:02.760 --> 0:52:07.080
<v Speaker 4>every single week, knew about me to do you guys, wow,

0:52:07.120 --> 0:52:10.400
<v Speaker 4>and put it together that like, wait, Paulina isn't a

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:14.680
<v Speaker 4>common name. It must be the same Paulina. Anyway, Tea

0:52:14.719 --> 0:52:18.719
<v Speaker 4>was very nice to do a little surprise meet up

0:52:18.760 --> 0:52:19.080
<v Speaker 4>with her.

0:52:19.400 --> 0:52:22.080
<v Speaker 1>She had come to visit her friend who works with Paulina.

0:52:22.200 --> 0:52:26.439
<v Speaker 1>She came to La for her birthday, and so we went.

0:52:26.800 --> 0:52:28.799
<v Speaker 1>Pauline and I went to the restaurant they were having

0:52:29.000 --> 0:52:31.839
<v Speaker 1>lunch at and brought her cupcakes and so I got

0:52:31.840 --> 0:52:33.360
<v Speaker 1>to meet her. We were there for like an hour.

0:52:34.120 --> 0:52:35.520
<v Speaker 4>So sweet, so sweet.

0:52:35.640 --> 0:52:37.880
<v Speaker 3>She said she's more of a Becca, yeah, which I

0:52:37.960 --> 0:52:38.319
<v Speaker 3>was like.

0:52:38.400 --> 0:52:40.839
<v Speaker 4>And Veena is more of a Tanya, Like Veena's more

0:52:40.920 --> 0:52:45.040
<v Speaker 4>like us, and Alyssa is more like you and Becca facetimed.

0:52:44.400 --> 0:52:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Her yeah and met her.

0:52:46.360 --> 0:52:47.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. She was so cute.

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:49.000
<v Speaker 4>She made it so cool.

0:52:49.080 --> 0:52:51.279
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you she did everyone always plays it cool,

0:52:51.320 --> 0:52:53.520
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I respect it. You know.

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:57.560
<v Speaker 4>She was so happy and it really is a testament

0:52:57.600 --> 0:52:59.680
<v Speaker 4>to both of you, like Tea did not have to

0:52:59.719 --> 0:53:02.120
<v Speaker 4>do that, and you did not have to pick up

0:53:02.120 --> 0:53:04.719
<v Speaker 4>the phone and like take the time. And I really know,

0:53:04.840 --> 0:53:06.680
<v Speaker 4>I do think it's so special that you guys are

0:53:06.719 --> 0:53:07.759
<v Speaker 4>always willing.

0:53:07.560 --> 0:53:10.200
<v Speaker 3>You tell me there's a big scrubber where.

0:53:11.880 --> 0:53:16.720
<v Speaker 4>But not everyone's like that and bring it to her.

0:53:18.000 --> 0:53:19.960
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, Tea, like I do, are you freeing?

0:53:20.040 --> 0:53:21.560
<v Speaker 4>She was like, on it, let's do it.

0:53:21.560 --> 0:53:22.480
<v Speaker 2>We're the cupcakes.

0:53:22.480 --> 0:53:24.000
<v Speaker 3>I'll be there and I was like, I was on

0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:24.920
<v Speaker 3>Balentine's Day too.

0:53:25.000 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 4>It was it was.

0:53:27.640 --> 0:53:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Lissa, Wait, a lot of people are saying, are you

0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:34.759
<v Speaker 2>a Becca Tanya what? She kind of answered that, and

0:53:34.880 --> 0:53:36.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm fascinated by this.

0:53:36.600 --> 0:53:37.279
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you.

0:53:37.680 --> 0:53:39.520
<v Speaker 3>I am Tanya.

0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:42.799
<v Speaker 4>Hold on, hold on, I am a Tanya. But I'm

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:45.800
<v Speaker 4>kind of in the middle. Yeah, I think so, I'm

0:53:45.840 --> 0:53:51.960
<v Speaker 4>not as Tanya as Tanya, but I'm definitely not a Becca. Dude,

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:55.440
<v Speaker 4>and I feel like I'm in I'm in a spectrum.

0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:58.600
<v Speaker 2>You are a Tanya with a Becca cuss with a

0:53:58.640 --> 0:53:59.240
<v Speaker 2>wing Becca.

0:54:00.000 --> 0:54:05.560
<v Speaker 4>Okay, I am a Tanya wing Becca an Tanya wing Becca. Yeah,

0:54:05.680 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 4>okay there, Yeah, I think I'm an enneagram eight.

0:54:09.320 --> 0:54:12.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh I just got what I was. I think you've

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:17.480
<v Speaker 2>taken the test of different answers. But yeah, all right, good.

0:54:17.280 --> 0:54:19.359
<v Speaker 4>To know people you've heard that first, like the best

0:54:19.400 --> 0:54:20.840
<v Speaker 4>case scenario, like right in between.

0:54:20.960 --> 0:54:22.239
<v Speaker 3>No, honestly, we say all the time.

0:54:22.239 --> 0:54:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if I could just have a little more

0:54:23.719 --> 0:54:25.799
<v Speaker 1>Becca and she could have a little more Tanya.

0:54:25.520 --> 0:54:28.759
<v Speaker 2>It'd be like a really, I have a little because

0:54:28.800 --> 0:54:30.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm in I'm Datana.

0:54:31.800 --> 0:54:32.520
<v Speaker 4>Is that what you're saying?

0:54:32.600 --> 0:54:35.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe maybe you're the perfect blend.

0:54:35.560 --> 0:54:37.879
<v Speaker 4>Of both of you, both of us. Oh, I love that.

0:54:38.320 --> 0:54:43.239
<v Speaker 4>What a compliment our love child. You're a child. Can

0:54:43.280 --> 0:54:44.480
<v Speaker 4>I be the scrubbing in child?

0:54:44.960 --> 0:54:49.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, scrubbing in child. And check your calendar if you're

0:54:49.320 --> 0:54:50.960
<v Speaker 2>available for a Thursday episode.

0:54:51.719 --> 0:54:53.719
<v Speaker 3>She's in the time.

0:54:53.719 --> 0:54:56.400
<v Speaker 2>All right, We'll be back on Thursday with more from Paulina.

0:54:56.640 --> 0:54:59.040
<v Speaker 2>We have a game, We have questions, all the things

0:54:59.080 --> 0:55:10.080
<v Speaker 2>you could ever want. Love you, somebody love you. M hm.