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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in the rub.

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Speaker 3: Dub Dub and the tub tub Tub.

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Speaker 2: We have an exclusive, an exclusive special guest here today.

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Speaker 3: I heard it here first.

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Speaker 2: You already here first, because we have been trying to

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Speaker 2: get her in the scrubbing in chair for a while now,

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Speaker 2: long time.

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Speaker 1: We have we've put we have sent feelers out for months.

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Speaker 3: And dates for different dates, and the date has come.

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Speaker 3: She's a busy gal, busy gal, corporate gal, corporate gal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and also a como for the Gatagar wedding.

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Speaker 3: I think you can turn on your microphone.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, Hello, we were just saying how the few

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Speaker 2: times you've been on you've actually filled in for me.

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Speaker 2: So I haven't gotten to I know, a favorite person.

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Speaker 4: So this is sorry to.

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Speaker 2: Certain of strong.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, I'm really happy to be here. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: No, who is your old favorite person?

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Speaker 4: You're still my favorite?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you're just at it.

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Speaker 4: I feel like that Sophia's like but beyond me.

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Speaker 3: I know, yeah, I need to figure that out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah the same.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then I'm getting it. I've been around Sophia in

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Speaker 2: my mind. I've been around her a lot.

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Speaker 1: Of times, I know, But I feel like what I

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Speaker 1: realized also to throughout this whole process is like you

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Speaker 1: guys have all come to different things, like if I

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Speaker 1: have a birthday dinner, you all come. If Taco Tuesday

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Speaker 1: bits and pieces, not everybody there, but like you've all

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Speaker 1: been in the in the mix, but like it hasn't

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Speaker 1: been so full on and like less people involved, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: See, I i'te disagree to really yeah, but I but

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Speaker 4: it was different because I was like talking to her

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Speaker 4: without you do you know what I mean? Like the

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Speaker 4: problem no no, no, no, no no no, the cancer is

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Speaker 4: coming out. No, as in like we were talking every

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Speaker 4: single day, like just and I planning your bachelorette like

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Speaker 4: coming together and the secrets and the planning. And I

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Speaker 4: think it was like a different level of bonding that

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Speaker 4: was not in a bad way, separate to like hang

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Speaker 4: out with.

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Speaker 2: You, well in a great way. There's there's always a

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Speaker 2: party setting, so there's it's loud. Yeah, there's a lot

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Speaker 2: of people.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's like just just second.

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Speaker 2: But I think the thing is I always knew, Like

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Speaker 2: I was always like, I love Paulina. I never say

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Speaker 2: didn't think that. I just didn't know you at it

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Speaker 2: at a certain level, a deeper level.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: But I think with Sophia, I literally I feel like

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Speaker 2: I don't know her.

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Speaker 1: After the trip, I was like, I love Yeah, She's.

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Speaker 4: One of those that like you have to spend time

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Speaker 4: with her to like really get to know her, and

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Speaker 4: then she's actually like so fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, people just don't know that like side, that fun

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Speaker 4: side to her. Yeah, And she is very motherly, weirdly enough,

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Speaker 4: and she she was her house.

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Speaker 2: Mom on The Bachelor and kept us on time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I love that about her, Like I literally

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Speaker 1: love that about her. It's one of my favorite things

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Speaker 1: because I feel like, like I remember when we went

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Speaker 1: to go visit her for her birthday and she like

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Speaker 1: made all of us a key to the apartment, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, that's something.

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Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, like it's so nice.

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Speaker 2: That's really thoughtful.

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Speaker 3: But do you know what I mean, Like, oh, that's

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Speaker 3: so nice that you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: She thinks, like all of them, she thinks ten steps ahead,

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Speaker 1: like maybe if we come home at different times, people

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Speaker 1: will need a key, you know, yeah, I would never think.

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Speaker 3: That far ahead.

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Speaker 4: Yeah she's she's smart one, Yeah, she's on.

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Speaker 2: Top of it. So we did. Our first plan of

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Speaker 2: action was planning the bachelorette together, and people.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, just kidding, I'll say that engagement, but

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Speaker 4: like that wasn't really it was like our first like

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah you and I was yeah yeah, And

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Speaker 2: people were wondering what what the best and worst part

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Speaker 4: Best and worst? Start with the best, Okay, the best.

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Speaker 4: And I've said this to everyone I know, don't let

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Speaker 4: anyone tell you Becca till he is lazy. That girl

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Speaker 4: is so on it, so thorough, so thoughtful. So everything

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Speaker 4: I'm looking at you, I don't even.

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Speaker 2: Be says I you tell are you telling people I'm lazy?

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Speaker 3: You're lazy?

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Speaker 2: I can say, are you telling people?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I say it on the podcast.

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Speaker 4: The best part was getting to with you and like

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Speaker 4: really get to know each other on like a deeper level.

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Speaker 4: And we just had so much fun planning it too,

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Speaker 4: and like came together so quickly and just like there

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Speaker 4: was some like things got outed and like the planning

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Speaker 4: and the phone calls and the face times and like

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Speaker 4: the million text threads. It was just really fun planning everything.

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Speaker 4: I think the worst part, I don't think.

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Speaker 2: There was the worst part. You gotta pick one, just

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Speaker 2: like wondering if I, oh, no, she's like I was

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Speaker 2: not gonna say.

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Speaker 4: She sometimes would take long to answer a text. Yes

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Speaker 4: that I know that quick answer?

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Speaker 2: Really what on what?

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Speaker 4: Just sometimes I had to really dig for one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you were probably better than I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: So then what happened about this? Maybe she used it because.

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Speaker 1: You and a lot of text threads that I'm on

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Speaker 1: with you takes you a long time to respond.

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Speaker 4: We had a little bit of time to plan things.

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Speaker 3: It was like a quick yeah, was it a time crunch?

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Speaker 2: When I when there's a time crunch is when I thrive.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not a I don't plan in advance. I'm

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Speaker 2: not getting everyone keys to the house before they arrive.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm not on that level. Yeah, but when

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Speaker 2: it's crunch time, I thrive.

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Speaker 4: And you really did thrive.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you, but we were all like all

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Speaker 2: the same page with that, but we crushed crush.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you.

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Speaker 3: No notes, not one note, no notes, no notes.

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Speaker 4: About us to really we feeled it. Yeah, yeah, literally literally, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I agree.

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Speaker 1: People were messaging me after the bacherette and they were like,

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Speaker 1: what may are I can't remember they worded it in

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Speaker 1: such a way they were like how like why was

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Speaker 1: little girls? And I was like that's all I wanted,

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Speaker 1: Like I I feel like every bacherette that I've gone

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Speaker 1: weird dynamics involved in everything, and like the bride is

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Speaker 1: responsible for like making sure they're comfortable and that group

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Speaker 1: is comfortable and everybody's like thing. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I just want a simpatico, an easy, manageable number. And

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Speaker 1: I feel like you guys kept saying that the whole weekend.

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Speaker 1: It was like easier to plan.

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Speaker 3: You get like one car on table.

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Speaker 4: Very strongly about this too, yeah, because I felt like

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Speaker 4: it's what you have been saying that you really wanted,

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Speaker 4: was like have your best friends in one space because

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Speaker 4: it never happens, like we're never all together. And Beck

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Speaker 4: and I kind of put our foot downe on that,

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Speaker 4: like keeping it small and tight to really give you

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Speaker 4: your dream weekend. But I think it's what made it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because and I just know it just as like

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Speaker 1: being a spectator in other bacherette parties. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I just know, I don't want that. I don't want

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Speaker 1: that feeling. That weekend, I literally just want to be

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Speaker 1: it just wanted to be easy breezy, and it was

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Speaker 1: literally easy breezy, like I felt like the whole time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well it's also it was quick, so it gave us

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Speaker 2: a chance to all bond without you feeling like you

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Speaker 2: had to accommodate a lot of personalities or people who

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Speaker 2: maybe were.

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Speaker 1: Literally had fun the whole time. Yeah, I have to

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Speaker 4: And I think because we also all know each other,

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Speaker 4: there wasn't anything like awkward meetings or like the high

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Speaker 4: we just all already like we knew it wasn't gonna

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Speaker 4: be great going in. I think it's like it's hard expectations.

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Speaker 2: A little bit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think so too.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't ready to go home. It's just rare normally

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I too.

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Speaker 4: Another night could have been like good, you kind of

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Speaker 4: went downhill that last day I did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I could have come back pull through. We

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Speaker 2: could have pulled through. I forgot about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if there was one more night, we

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Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have drank.

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Speaker 3: Like, I think we would have didn't.

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Speaker 2: Drink that much though I don't think it was I really,

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Speaker 2: I don't think it was the drinking.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was surprised you said that on that last podcast.

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Speaker 3: If we drink a lot.

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Speaker 1: We drank when we got there on Friday, Friday night,

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Speaker 1: Saturday day and Saturday night.

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Speaker 3: That's no the whole time.

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Speaker 4: But we drank, but we ca Yeah, like no one

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Speaker 4: ever was like we were just you were just fouring shots.

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Speaker 2: Though one night you are just like.

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Speaker 4: Another another anything about me and we'll be pouring tequila shots.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Someone asked, what do you think the alcohol level will

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Speaker 2: be for the wedding weekend?

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Speaker 4: What did you say this weekend?

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Speaker 2: Balls to the wall?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we're gonna I mean we're in Mexico. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I think we're gonna have so much fun.

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Speaker 2: But the whole thing with up until the balls to

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Speaker 2: the walls comment, Donya has been like I really have

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Speaker 2: to take it easy the night before the wedding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was surprised by that comment not gonna light

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Speaker 4: to you.

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Speaker 3: So here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: When I have too much alcohol the next day, I'm

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Speaker 1: like a little bit slumbery, A little bit, yes, So

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Speaker 1: what I want I want to make sure that I

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Speaker 1: don't blow my load on Thursday night and then Friday,

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Speaker 1: I'm like so slumbery, right.

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Speaker 4: But that's contradicting my balls the walls.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I know, So I gotta figure that out.

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Speaker 4: I think you should just take it easy, enjoy yourself.

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Speaker 2: And the wall is Friday and Saday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: And like you don't want to be like hungover on

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Speaker 4: your wedding day or like feel right bloated or slumbering.

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Speaker 3: Slumbery is really the word is slumbery?

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Speaker 2: Are you trying to make hangover sound nice? It's not hangover.

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Speaker 1: It's not hangover. It's just like tired. It's like tired

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Speaker 1: and fatigued.

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Speaker 4: That's a hangover.

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Speaker 1: It's just crazy because like, do you know how many

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Speaker 4: No, the Tower twenty eighth story is such a rare

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Speaker 1: You know, it's so crazy, the one of our the

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Speaker 3: And we're back.

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Speaker 2: Wow off after crazy tease.

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Speaker 4: Cliffhanger.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't the most graceful, but it got done.

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Speaker 2: That's all we needed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 1: So I was like laughing so much because again, everybody

449
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 1: has their strengths and their weaknesses, and I always forget,

450
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,679
Speaker 1: like how Pauline has such a corporate job and like

451
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 1: knows all these things. So our first wedding meeting, we

452
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: like roll up to the like in the coffee shop

453
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 1: and she like pulls out this what was an excel?

454
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 3: What was her presentation?

455
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 6: Word present No, I had like an excel she like

456
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:52,959
Speaker 6: made out for her with like do dates and deadlines and.

457
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 3: What's the pantone name color of the wedding.

458
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, the who's it?

459
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 3: It's gonna be white.

460
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 2: And we're talking about.

461
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: Know, like the green that you guys are going for,

462
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 1: Like what's the pan tone. I'm like, what is a pantone?

463
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 4: She was like already what that is? And I was like,

464
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 4: like the color code, like it has to be a

465
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 4: specific green so everything is cohesive, and she was like

466
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 4: I don't know green.

467
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: And I like figured it.

468
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 4: I got the pantone for her. I had a whole

469
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: thing spre.

470
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 1: Then I kept just like taking her whatever word presentation

471
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: and just like kept forwarding it.

472
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 2: That's the nicest thing she could have done for you. Yeah,

473
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: you probably were just sending that to every vendor, every vendor.

474
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 3: Here's my power preson.

475
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 4: Also they used are like merch like our Tower twenty

476
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 4: eight merch vendor that we use, and I like connected them.

477
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 4: We had a whole Yeah, a separate Excel sheet for this.

478
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 2: I love it though, Yeah, you're so good at it.

479
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 2: I didn't know that about you until we started doing

480
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: The Bachelor and me, that's like, I just don't.

481
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 4: Have to be honest. You know, I'm like the most

482
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 4: Type B person there is, but yet I think my

483
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,439
Speaker 4: job has made me a little Type A in that

484
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 4: way where like everything has a deck and an Excel

485
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 4: sheet and a process. And I actually made one for

486
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 4: the Bachelorette trip and Sophia and I both go, we

487
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 4: don't have excel, so no one ever opened it. Let

488
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 4: me tell you, it is so detailed, but no one.

489
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,959
Speaker 4: That night, I go to Sage. I was like, did

490
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,719
Speaker 4: you open it? She goes, I don't have that.

491
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is. And I was like,

492
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:27,440
Speaker 2: oh my god. When when you were talking about product development,

493
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,919
Speaker 2: do you have a product that you were part of

494
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 2: the development process that you were most proud of?

495
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 4: Oh?

496
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 2: Man, Like, is there one where you were like I

497
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: did that?

498
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 4: I do, I definitely do. I think the early like

499
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 4: the first ones I ever developed, so like Shine on

500
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:51,239
Speaker 4: our Lip Jelly, Yeah, yeah, I definitely felt like it

501
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 4: was one of those where like Amy and I'm forever

502
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 4: grateful to her for this, she kind of like threw

503
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 4: us on the deep end and said go. And I

504
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 4: had this like notes page and I would just write

505
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 4: down like in a meeting, like if I didn't get something,

506
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 4: I'd just like write it down on a notes page

507
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 4: and then like go. When I went home, out researched

508
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 4: it because I was like, what are they talking about?

509
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 4: And she was like, Okay, we're gonna make a lip jelly.

510
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 4: It was actually a lip oil back then, like go

511
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 4: to the lab and I was like what, So I

512
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 4: think developing lip jelly with Amy, like I've had no

513
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 4: idea what I was doing in the moment, and it's

514
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 4: still our best selling and it's like top at Sephora.

515
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 4: So I think that definitely is one I'm really proud

516
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 4: of because I also just felt like it was. It

517
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 4: was also my first one. And our Beach Please Are

518
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 4: Cream Blush the Shade Magic Hour. We were in a

519
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 4: Sephora meeting and one of our merchants called it the

520
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 4: orgasm of clean beer. Wow reference orgasm as in the

521
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 4: NAR's blush that's like no one can top it. And

522
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm good, I can retire. That's all

523
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,199
Speaker 4: I had to hear. So I think those two am

524
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 4: really proud.

525
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: You're like write that on your resume. Orgasm dupe, dupe exactly. Yeah, Yeah,

526
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: that's what I mean. I just am. I was blown

527
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 2: away when we were doing the planning the Bachelorette because

528
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: she was like, Paulina was like, let's make some cute

529
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: sweat sets for us to all travel it and she

530
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: was designed and she was sending them so fast. I

531
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 2: was like, where are you finding these designs? It was

532
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 2: like a butterfly with a string connecting the butterflies.

533
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 3: I'm like, invisible string connecting them?

534
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 2: Did you find where are you finding this? So it

535
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 2: wasn't it? That was very impressive to me. The corporate

536
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: life in me comes out.

537
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's a chip that I don't I do

538
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 3: not have.

539
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 4: I honestly, I don't think I had it. I think

540
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 4: I was always get it, you know as in like

541
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 4: I think when you're in that environment, you don't really

542
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 4: have a choice and you're like trained a certain way

543
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 4: right and right everything has to be a certain way.

544
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 4: And to be fair, like we're more casual at Toower

545
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 4: twenty eight, we're still we still act a little bit

546
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 4: like a startup, but yeah, there's like a process there's decks,

547
00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 4: there's Excel sheets, there's agendas to meetings. You know, everything

548
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 4: is like very set in stone. So I think it's

549
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 4: you're trained almost to be that way. Yeah.

550
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 2: I mean it's just like your job. If you were like,

551
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: this is what I have to do and you told

552
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 2: me to do it, I'd be like, how do you

553
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: know how to do this? You just learned.

554
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 3: I think you'd figure it out.

555
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 2: You'd figure it out the pantone, you figure out the Paulina.

556
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 2: Would you say that you consider Tanya to be your

557
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: this is capitalized best friends?

558
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 4: Yes?

559
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 2: I do.

560
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the right answer.

561
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 3: Do you ever answer that?

562
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 2: Do you ever get jealous when Tanya hangs out with

563
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: other friends like Becca? No? Healthy your response? Did you

564
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: expect that you would be made of honor? No?

565
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 4: Oh?

566
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 2: Interesting.

567
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 4: But here's the thing. I knew that you had, let's

568
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 4: to call it three three to four people that you

569
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 4: were kind of toggling between, and I knew that our

570
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 4: friendship wouldn't. It wasn't hindering on it whether or not

571
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 4: I was made of honor, Like, I wasn't gonna like

572
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 4: be offended by it.

573
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 6: I think it can't tell me if if if it

574
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 6: was just my sister, I'm gonna get there, okay, if

575
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 6: it was just Becca fight, if it was like just

576
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 6: your sister, of course not.

577
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 4: I actually told you one night. I was like, tee,

578
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 4: do whatever you want to do, like I will still

579
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 4: act as if I am your maid of honor.

580
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,239
Speaker 3: That's what I did. I did what I wanted to do,

581
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 3: said f TP.

582
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know what that means.

583
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 3: The patriot it okay, and I'm going to do my

584
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 3: own thing. Yeah, I'm gonna have three.

585
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 4: I think if it was just Becca would have been

586
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 4: a little bit like interesting.

587
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,959
Speaker 1: But I appreciate that answer because I know I know

588
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: that No, but I wouldn't have like let it affect it.

589
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: I know, but it would have been a little salciate

590
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 1: salty about it because I'd be like, oh, okay, fine,

591
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: what did I do?

592
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 4: See I was going, but I would I didn't really

593
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 4: please choose Becca, and I wonder were it goes. Honestly,

594
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 4: you can do it. I don't really want it, I know, like.

595
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: She she wanted me to want it more, and so

596
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 2: I had to start like I don't think I ever pretended,

597
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 2: but I was basically like, here's the thing. I know

598
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 2: how you want things done, and I think Paulina is

599
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 2: going to do that for you in the way that

600
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: you want it done it and I am happy to

601
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: simply be a rads maid.

602
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, nobody's just a rads maid. Let

603
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 3: me tell you what I was gonna say.

604
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 4: That Becca has really stepped in and that yeah, sorry,

605
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 4: I stepped up. You really did. Yeah, more than you

606
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 4: thought you were going to.

607
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people were like, has there been

608
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 2: anything where that we disagreed on? And I was thinking

609
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 2: about it, and I don't think. I think both of

610
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,239
Speaker 2: us were at the point where if one of us

611
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: felt strongly about something, it was just like, okay.

612
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 4: Let's do that.

613
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think there was ever a disagreement of

614
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 2: like like a tension that I can think of. But

615
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: I have to compliment you, your sister and your mom

616
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: because y'all threw one of the most gorgeous, gorgeous parties

617
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 2: events that I have been to in a long time,

618
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: and for Tanya and Robbie, and it was absolutely stunning.

619
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: Haley and I walked up and the lady goes, just

620
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 2: go walk down this path and to the left, the

621
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 2: harpist will be there.

622
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 5: We each other like the hoops, and it was just

623
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 5: I was like, is there someone here that can marry

624
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 5: these two?

625
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: Because it was literally so We're like walking in and

626
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: I looked at everything and I was like, oh my gosh,

627
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: the attention to detail is like what really blew me away?

628
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: So like it was the invisible string theme themed wedding shower,

629
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: and so like everything was made on acrylic, so everything

630
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: was see through, Like the menus were see through, the

631
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: bar menu was see through, the welcome thing was see through.

632
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: They had strings tied to all the champagne glasses that

633
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: said invisible string and her names, everyone's names were an

634
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: invisible string, and like it was just so much thought

635
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: and detail and love and I literally turned to robbing

636
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: and I was like, I feel like this is more thoughtful.

637
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: Than that weddings gonna be.

638
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 4: Let me tell you, I do need to major shout

639
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 4: out to Sophia and my mom because I had a

640
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 4: hand in it, and like a lot of things were

641
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 4: like loosely my idea, but like they really executed, Like

642
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 4: the harpist was Sophia's idea, Like my mom flew with

643
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 4: all the acrylic things from Miami. Oh yeah, like her

644
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 4: like it was really like I don't deserve as much credit.

645
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 4: They really deserve full credit here. They really it was

646
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 4: incredible and I'm so glad that you loved it.

647
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: And not only did I love it, Honestly I could

648
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: cry thinking about it. But it was because it was

649
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: like my immediate family, Robbie's immediate family, and then it

650
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: was like our chosen family. And it was obviously like

651
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: everybody's met and everybody's hung out before, but it was

652
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: in such an intimate setting and like, I want to

653
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: give Becca a little bit of credit because she gave

654
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: a speech on the off the cup. People are standing

655
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: up and giving speeches like off the cuff, and it.

656
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 4: Felt like such a It got everyone really emotional from

657
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 4: the start. And Robbie's mom the next day told my

658
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 4: mom like it felt like this like enchanted fairy tale

659
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 4: other world because it was it was also fully closed off. Yeah,

660
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 4: so we didn't really see the outside world for a

661
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 4: few hours and we're just in this little bubble and

662
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 4: everyone was just so emotional with such a special like

663
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 4: Robbie's son made a speech out of nowhere, like yeah,

664
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 4: he was just so sweetn.

665
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 3: Age she stands up and she goes.

666
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: So pink starboards used to be my favorite stars of

667
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: the bunge.

668
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, she's going there.

669
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 2: But no one knew. Looked around, you know.

670
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: Robbie, and I understood and all I cared about. So

671
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: then she goes onto this whole speech. Becca breaks down

672
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: in tears, which is very rare.

673
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 2: I do that when I it's talking in front of people.

674
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 2: It's like I get nervous, and then when I'm also

675
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 2: talking about something emotional, it like.

676
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: And then she rounds out the speech with so now

677
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: red starbursts are actually my favorite flavor. And I was like,

678
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: oh wow, it was poetic poetry, poetry.

679
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 2: Wow.

680
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because at first I was like, how is

681
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 4: she going to circle back to the pink starboards.

682
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to end on that, but everyone started

683
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: clapping and I was like short to the point.

684
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: And then Sophia I had like the playlist and the

685
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: harpist was playing like the most thoughtful songs to a

686
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: relation Mare Morris Like it was just like.

687
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: I felt like it was just a mini wedding.

688
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 3: It was a mini wedding. It really was a mini wedding.

689
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: It was so so special and I was like so

690
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: emotional the whole night. And I also just got like

691
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: I drank champagne, martini, tequila shots.

692
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 3: I was just like balls to the walls.

693
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 4: It was so special and I yeah, it's just how

694
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 4: much we love you.

695
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 2: A lot of people thought it was the what people

696
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 2: were like, did they get mayor it was just a

697
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: wedding ceremony.

698
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I thought it was.

699
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: It looked beautiful like I'm literally never. I mean, I'm

700
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: never in my life.

701
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 2: I love you literally, we're just making one into it. Yeah,

702
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: it was very special. Speaking of love, A lot of

703
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 2: people were wondering about, oh, your love life. But before

704
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 2: we get to that, we're gonna take another race.

705
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 5: Today.

706
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 4: I think I was giving me the.

707
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 2: Signals though, ride on time another electric teaser before the.

708
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 3: Brain click today. Let me tell you a.

709
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 2: Lot of people were wondering about your love life. All

710
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 2: this talk about love and weddings and goodness.

711
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 4: I am not single, but I do keep that part

712
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 4: of my life private.

713
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,280
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.

714
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: I am just so excited for, like any of my

715
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: friends to get engaged, Like I'm like so ready for it.

716
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean looking at around the room.

717
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, point, I just stare at each other.

718
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm just so excited because I feel like there's something

719
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: like there's just something so I can't put into words,

720
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: like how special it is to have like these people

721
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: that are just so so formative and so close to

722
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: you spending so much time together, Like it is really

723
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: and like even like it's so funny because so many

724
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 1: people kept coming up to me and like they like

725
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: want your mom to like my parents want her to

726
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: come visit them in San Diego, and like yeah, and

727
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't know, just I just feel

728
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 1: like everybody got so much closer and it's just such

729
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing to be a part of that. Like

730
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: I can't wait for my best friends to experience.

731
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 4: I will say, like this week and because it was

732
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 4: like two events back to back, and the Bachelorette was

733
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 4: two weeks ago, it's just it's made me so excited

734
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 4: for that phase of life, not that it's anytime soon,

735
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 4: but just like it's just such a beautiful thing to

736
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 4: your point to see, Like even my mom was saying,

737
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 4: like these three families that have never even truly like met,

738
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 4: spent that much time, and it just felt like it

739
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 4: just became this one big family and it was just

740
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 4: so especially like the next day when like Robbie's parents

741
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 4: to do that event, like it was just so nice,

742
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:04,359
Speaker 4: so nice, so nice.

743
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: And like that was also so cool too because I've

744
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 1: never experienced anything. Yeah, there's like a Persian wedding tradition

745
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: and I've never gone to one, and so for it

746
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: for my first one to.

747
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 3: Go to be.

748
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: Very very wild but like so much fun, like just

749
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: the best time. And it made me realize too, Like

750
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: it just made me so excited for the wedding because

751
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's gonna be it's gonna be all this

752
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: times too.

753
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 4: I think I made everyone that's so puffed for the wedding.

754
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think Hayley's kind of been like, you know,

755
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: is it gonna be like a lot of people I

756
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 2: don't know, And after the dinner She's like this that

757
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: made me so excited. I feel like the wedding's gonna

758
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 2: be so so much fun. Yeah, And I was like

759
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 2: it is. Those are the people, like it's all about

760
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: the people, and they surround themselves with good people.

761
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you are good people.

762
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 4: Thank you.

763
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 3: We stick together.

764
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 2: I get it.

765
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 4: People are asking for giving speeches at the while listen

766
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 4: wrote my speech. I have timed my speech. This is

767
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 4: more minutes and thirty seven seconds.

768
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 3: Wo. The wow? Was that long or short?

769
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, sorry, I didn't realize that part of this.

770
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 2: I know the wow that she went to. She thinks

771
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,439
Speaker 2: so meticulous about exactly exactly right.

772
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 4: Four minutes seems perfect. Fine. I can shorten it, I

773
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 4: can make it longer.

774
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 3: I have no idea. What I fly sounds likely by Bye.

775
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 4: Was told to add a few jokes in there, but

776
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 4: I'm not a jokey person to do that. Jokes people did,

777
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh man, okay, a lot some

778
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 4: jokes in there. I did put one in, but it's

779
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 4: kind of like calling Robbie out a little bit.

780
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 2: I think I'll laugh the trigger of it, from the

781
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 2: trigger of it.

782
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 4: From what he wears the bed.

783
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 2: Oh I heard it.

784
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 4: No, No, I will leave it for the wedding. But

785
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 4: I do. I do have my speech like ninety eight

786
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 4: percent ready.

787
00:37:56,800 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 2: Wow, dang, I don't don't look at me here. I

788
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 2: have not written it.

789
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 3: Off the cuff. Becca was pretty good, So I mean

790
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 3: save that for the wedding.

791
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 4: You should, Honestly, there's so many more people at the

792
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 4: wedding you should started with the Pink Star Wars and

793
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 4: it with the Red it's like the perfect I realized.

794
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 2: Like the people who don't know him as Red Star.

795
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 3: Wars, it might lay a little flat.

796
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta I gotta be a little bit more universal.

797
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 2: Yeah that's porch. Yeah.

798
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 4: As I was writing and I was like, oh damn,

799
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 4: I know, because you don't want to do jokes, and

800
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, they're not gonna laugh, and I look like

801
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 4: I'm not funny.

802
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 5: And I don't know.

803
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 2: I know.

804
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: That's the hardest thing about speeches. I know, I know,

805
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: I haven't even written my vows, but well.

806
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 2: My chat GBT GBT are funny speech from Made of Honor.

807
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 4: Oh my TikTok searches are. Before I wrote my now,

808
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:58,479
Speaker 4: I was like, you see, I was doing research because

809
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: I didn't know how long they were supposed to be.

810
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 3: What did it say for four minutes and thirty seconds?

811
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 3: She's like, got it done done?

812
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 4: No, it did say around five minutes. Okay, Yeah, So

813
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 4: I kind of kept it under just because there's a

814
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 4: lot of speeches I heard, Yes, Robbie's grooms, wos wait,

815
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 4: are you.

816
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 2: Gonna write it down? Are you gonna read off your phone.

817
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 4: I'm gonna read it off my phone unless printed is better.

818
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: I don't know, totally up to you. I'm zero preference.

819
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 4: I don't ask my mom.

820
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 3: I'm may me memorize it.

821
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no joking.

822
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a notebook and pretend like i'm reading.

823
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 2: But I'm just I think I'm gonna go off the cap.

824
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 2: Let me tell you.

825
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 4: For a Sophia's album party, I memorized my speech. I've

826
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 4: never been more nervous in my life.

827
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

828
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 4: It was like to fifteen people, I was like, never again.

829
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: No, I know, it's pressure to memorize, and also like

830
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: when you read something it's fucked out.

831
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I was so concerned with like hitting every

832
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 4: sentence that I had memorized. Yeah, never again.

833
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no, I I don't know what. I don't

834
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 2: know how I'm gonna hit navigate that, but I'll know

835
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 2: in about three weeks.

836
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 4: It's gonna come to you. Mine. Just it was the

837
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 4: Sunday after the Bachgerette and I was sitting in bed

838
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, I'm gonna write. I'm gonna

839
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 4: write it now.

840
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 3: Dang, it just kind of flowed.

841
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,959
Speaker 1: How would you guys rate me as a bride. Oh

842
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: but in what sense high strong or bride chilla?

843
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,959
Speaker 4: You think your bride chilla. I don't think you're as

844
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 4: chilla as you think. But she's not high but you're

845
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 4: not high strung. She's not as high strong as I

846
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 4: expected her to be. Same, So I guess anything under

847
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 4: that to me is chill for you. But she's like

848
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 4: in the middle.

849
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: Where do you feel like she's been not chilla?

850
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 3: Not chilla?

851
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 4: I feel like you've been chilling. You've been chilling areas

852
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 4: that I did not expect you to be chilling. But

853
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 4: then like the batcherette, you were like pretty specific with

854
00:40:58,440 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 4: what you wanted.

855
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but specific is one thing, but like high strong

856
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: is another.

857
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 4: I don't think you've been high strung at all.

858
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, thank you.

859
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 4: No, No, not high strong, that's a very yeah.

860
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 2: I'm really curious what it's going to be like once

861
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 2: we're there and it's happening, if like all of it's

862
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 2: gonna rise to service, right, or if you'll just be

863
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: I do you're gonna be?

864
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 4: I think it'll be chill because I think you and

865
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 4: Robbie have like a good perspective on like what matters

866
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 4: is that like you have your people there and like

867
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 4: you guys are happy and it's about the marriage, and

868
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 4: I think you guys have like a good perspective on

869
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 4: it where I think a lot of people it's all

870
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 4: about the details, details and the wedding and the performance

871
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 4: and the show of it all, and I think you

872
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 4: guys are just really No.

873
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 1: My biggest fear is that like we're forgetting somebody, like

874
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: that's my invite. No, no, no, no, because the way

875
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: we like did the invites, it was kind of like

876
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 1: a little bit of a hodgepodge, like we were getting

877
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:56,959
Speaker 1: names and addresses from parents like later on than we wanted.

878
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 2: And having a space for them at the table.

879
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I'm just worried that like we've missed

880
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: an RSP somewhere and like that's kind of where my

881
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 1: anxiety lies, not in like the is it going to

882
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:06,919
Speaker 1: be pretty enough?

883
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 3: Is it going to be this enough? Like my anxiety

884
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 3: is in the like did I.

885
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 4: Miss some scene for someone?

886
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 2: Yes?

887
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 3: Yes?

888
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 2: What are our duties come wedding time? Wedding day?

889
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,280
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know. I'm assuming like getting ready

890
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 4: with you and making sure that you have everything you need,

891
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 4: bringing chalk.

892
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,360
Speaker 2: I heard that's yeah. You can write in the dress.

893
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 2: You can chalk the dress and it doesn't ruin it,

894
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: but it covers scenes.

895
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, chalk, I don't know. I think making sure

896
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:38,720
Speaker 4: you're happy that day.

897
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: Honestly, I think just that's all I need. Yeah, like

898
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: get ready with me, don't leave my.

899
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 4: Side attached at the hip from the get there, which

900
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 4: Becca is going.

901
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 2: A little earlier than me, which is you're in chargeable

902
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 2: the time you get there, I'll be like, she's all yours,

903
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 2: going to go out by the pool, your own babysitting.

904
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 2: That the como, baby, that's what you go to.

905
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 3: That's I'm saying.

906
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 1: Don't you feel like nice that you had other people

907
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: to like lean on?

908
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 2: And honestly, Sophia, we dubbed her Junior Como because she, yeah,

909
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 2: very earned and deserved. She was like really part of

910
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 2: making She made the boat day happen. She did the blues,

911
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: you know, a lot of that was on our Junior Como,

912
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 2: and so it's just it was like a fully it

913
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 2: was a team effort.

914
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: It was Sophia really does I don't know what the

915
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: word is because it's like it's not it's not mother.

916
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: It's like she really really she's kind of like me

917
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: in that sense.

918
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: She's so thoughtful.

919
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 4: And then follows with thoughtful.

920
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: No, but I know she is. Yeah, it's not.

921
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think motherly is the wrong word. I think

922
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 4: you and I are motherly. Yes, but she is very

923
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 4: thoughtful and like when she planned something.

924
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 2: She's very intentional everything. I did get to a point

925
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: where I said, Sophia, if I hear invisible string one

926
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: more time, I love that. I know I'm not saying

927
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 2: she was doing it for, but you weren't around. We

928
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 2: were we were doing something in the living room and

929
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't hear this jingle one.

930
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 4: Or I feel like she's also good at like being

931
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 4: intentional and thoughtful, but like knowing what for the person why,

932
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 4: Like I wouldn't want some of the things that she did,

933
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,919
Speaker 4: but like she knows that like you would.

934
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't want to think that.

935
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: I find that I'd love so much is because like

936
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: with you, with my friendship with you, I feel like

937
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: we're very similar with both cancers. We really like we

938
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: deal with stuff in a similar way. Things hurt us

939
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: in a similar way. So I feel like you really

940
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 1: like understand me, whereas I feel like Sophia and I.

941
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 3: Are very different, very different.

942
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: So for me, like when she does stuff that like

943
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: really speaks to my love language, I'm like wow, like

944
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: that's an effort, you know what I mean, because it

945
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: doesn't come natural to her. I kind of feel like

946
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: that way with you too, Like we're so different that

947
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: the things that you do like really hits, not saying it,

948
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: It isn't hit with you.

949
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 3: It's just like you don't get it. You don't get it,

950
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 3: you know, like me.

951
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: And so when you do stuff that that is like

952
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 1: my love language, I'm like wow, like that was Actually

953
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: it makes me want to be a better friend and

954
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: like being more intentional and like thoughtful in that way.

955
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 4: It's easy to be thoughtful in the way that you

956
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 4: want to be thoughtful, yeah, versus like what the person

957
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 4: would want.

958
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Yeah, that's true, It do be true. I

959
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 2: am so excited for the wedding. I I literally I

960
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: told Haley when I came back from the Bachelorette, I

961
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,240
Speaker 2: was like, I am obsessed with Puline and Sophia Raquel,

962
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 2: Like we had so much fun. It was such a

963
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 2: fun weekend with everybody was perfect, and I was like,

964
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 2: she was like, I can't wait for the wedding. If

965
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 2: this was how much fun you'll had on the Bachelor,

966
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 2: I want.

967
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 4: My bachorette to be a copy and paste the same people.

968
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 4: I just I don't want to change a thing and

969
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 4: like do that in a few years we can just go.

970
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: We do I have to?

971
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:11,959
Speaker 4: That's true?

972
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, I mean we will kind of in

973
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 2: a few weeks.

974
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 4: So it's going to be.

975
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 2: So I've loved, I've loved I've loved the whole process.

976
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want it to end. I'm like kind

977
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 4: of sad, Like.

978
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: That's so nice though, because it was so funny. I

979
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: was listening to Victoria Garrett did a podcast about like

980
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: or being a maid of honor and like all the

981
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: duties that come along with it, and I remember listen.

982
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: I was like listening to it and I was just like,

983
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: I would be a horrible made of honor if that's.

984
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 4: Like the noted.

985
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,800
Speaker 1: No, But I feel like I didn't have those expectations

986
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: on anybody. Like I wasn't as much as I like

987
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: I joke about it, I wasn't very like militant about

988
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: like I would throw things out to the group and

989
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: say like, hey, can one of you, Like, I just

990
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: need one person for a lot of these things. I

991
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: wasn't like I need somebody to hear every single thing.

992
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. No, is that how it usually is? Yeah,

993
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 4: Like I have nothing to compare it to, Like this year,

994
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 4: I'm you're maid of honor and then my cousin's getting

995
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 4: married and I'm not technically her maid of honor, but

996
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 4: like basically yes kind of. So it's my first time

997
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 4: doing it, but I've never been on the other side

998
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 4: of it, so I don't really know what the expectation

999
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 4: versus well we've done is well.

1000
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 2: I also think it's so dependent on who the bride is,

1001
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: you know, Like I was Alley's made of honor last year,

1002
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 2: and it was also very chill. It was like I

1003
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 2: wanted to I wanted to be there for more like

1004
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 2: the dress things, and then she would just go to

1005
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: San Diego by herself. I'm like, why didn't you tell me?

1006
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 2: She's like, it's fine, my mom came.

1007
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you were like even like you had your

1008
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 4: lost stress fitting and we were like, oh, we're all.

1009
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: Going yeah, and we just just to learn up and

1010
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: everyone's like we'll be there I've.

1011
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 4: Had a call in the back room, so I had

1012
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 4: roses for everyone. Sonny Wood like, yeah, we're I think

1013
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,319
Speaker 4: we also we want to do the stuff that we're doing.

1014
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 4: It's not like because we are you're maid of honor,

1015
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 4: we have to do it.

1016
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: And I feel like you all were my best friends before,

1017
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: but I feel like this like took it to a

1018
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: whole other level for me.

1019
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 2: Well, I think personally, I think that it's you know,

1020
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 2: we know how important this time is for you and

1021
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 2: how this is You're God willing the only time it happens.

1022
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 2: And I think it's you know, as your friends getting

1023
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 2: to watch you go through the process of dating and

1024
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 2: finding Oh no, I'm tired and not might cry too,

1025
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: but I don't want to. I think being your best

1026
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: friends and watching you go through all the dating, even

1027
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 2: though it was like fun and for the plot, I

1028
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 2: know how I think we all know how much this,

1029
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 2: what this means to you and like finding your person

1030
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 2: and having the wedding and all these festivity, So I

1031
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 2: think we all wanted it to feel important and big,

1032
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,800
Speaker 2: even if it was a needing to learn how to

1033
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: zip your dress, you know, I think it was just

1034
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 2: it's been important to show up for something that you've

1035
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 2: waited for so long.

1036
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 4: I think, like since we met you, it's really all

1037
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 4: you've ever wanted is for like this season of life

1038
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 4: and to meet your husband and start a family and

1039
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 4: get married. And I think we would be like the

1040
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 4: worst friends in the world if we didn't put that

1041
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,399
Speaker 4: level of importance on this.

1042
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we love you.

1043
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1044
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 3: I love you guys too a lot.

1045
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 4: I'm tired.

1046
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had some big weekend weekend big weekends.

1047
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: Like amazing again, like it's like it's so yeah, but

1048
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: you can still be tired.

1049
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 3: I'm not on my period right now.

1050
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 2: I'm about to be. But you should rest upstill until

1051
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 2: I think you need to suck.

1052
00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 3: That you're about to get your period.

1053
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 4: Goals.

1054
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 2: You should rest up until the wedding, is my como advice.

1055
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: Oh, you best believe I will be jeweled. I will

1056
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: be I'm gona try and focus on sleep and.

1057
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 2: Sleep wellness in ten thousand steps a day.

1058
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 3: Ten thousand steps.

1059
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 4: Wow, that's the guys. I can never hit that.

1060
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 2: How long it takes to do that?

1061
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 4: The half No, the only days I've hit it is

1062
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 4: my marathon training because I was running. Yeah, every other day,

1063
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 4: I hit maybe two thousand steps in an office, sitting

1064
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 4: and meetings all day.

1065
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not realistic, I think unless you have a

1066
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 2: job like Tawny was telling me that she hits like

1067
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 2: seventeen to twenty a day just her shop is going

1068
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: back and forth on her feet.

1069
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 3: I know that's crazy.

1070
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 2: But if you're just spending time in like just you're

1071
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 2: simply your intention is to just get two thousands steps,

1072
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: it takes forever.

1073
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 4: Ten thousand steps is four to five miles. Yeah, that's

1074
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 4: I'll trust me as the person that ran. That's a

1075
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 4: lot of miles. That's a lot of miles.

1076
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 2: But she said she's gonna try and do it every

1077
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 2: day until the wedding.

1078
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 3: Every day.

1079
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 4: I mean, you can do it. Gets Sunday, do it?

1080
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 2: Walk down the air one.

1081
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: Oh, we're having so much fun with Paulina. It is

1082
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: time to wrap up today's podcast. Oh yeah yeah yeah,

1083
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: but we're gonna ask if you could stay around this

1084
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 1: week for a Thursday episode.

1085
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 2: Oh wow, come back for a Thursday episode? Wait?

1086
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,280
Speaker 4: Really yeah, I gotta check my calendar.

1087
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: Guys, there will be a game. There will be questions

1088
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: from scrubbers speaking of you have a best friend. You

1089
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,760
Speaker 2: have a best friend who's a scrubber.

1090
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 4: Oh, Mike, Okay, okay, okay, can I say this story?

1091
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1092
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. My good friend slash coworker. Her name is

1093
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 4: Vina love her. Her best friend is like die hard scrubber.

1094
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 4: Her name is Alissa, like die hard. Like she listens

1095
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 4: every single week, knew about me to do you guys, wow,

1096
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 4: and put it together that like, wait, Paulina isn't a

1097
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 4: common name. It must be the same Paulina. Anyway, Tea

1098
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 4: was very nice to do a little surprise meet up

1099
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 4: with her.

1100
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: She had come to visit her friend who works with Paulina.

1101
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 1: She came to La for her birthday, and so we went.

1102
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,799
Speaker 1: Pauline and I went to the restaurant they were having

1103
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 1: lunch at and brought her cupcakes and so I got

1104
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 1: to meet her. We were there for like an hour.

1105
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 4: So sweet, so sweet.

1106
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 3: She said she's more of a Becca, yeah, which I

1107
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 3: was like.

1108
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,839
Speaker 4: And Veena is more of a Tanya, Like Veena's more

1109
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 4: like us, and Alyssa is more like you and Becca facetimed.

1110
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 3: Her yeah and met her.

1111
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. She was so cute.

1112
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 4: She made it so cool.

1113
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 2: Let me tell you she did everyone always plays it cool,

1114
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I respect it. You know.

1115
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 4: She was so happy and it really is a testament

1116
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 4: to both of you, like Tea did not have to

1117
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 4: do that, and you did not have to pick up

1118
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 4: the phone and like take the time. And I really know,

1119
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 4: I do think it's so special that you guys are

1120
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 4: always willing.

1121
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 3: You tell me there's a big scrubber where.

1122
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:16,720
Speaker 4: But not everyone's like that and bring it to her.

1123
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 4: And I was like, Tea, like I do, are you freeing?

1124
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 4: She was like, on it, let's do it.

1125
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 2: We're the cupcakes.

1126
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 3: I'll be there and I was like, I was on

1127
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 3: Balentine's Day too.

1128
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 4: It was it was.

1129
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: Lissa, Wait, a lot of people are saying, are you

1130
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 2: a Becca Tanya what? She kind of answered that, and

1131
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 2: I'm I'm fascinated by this.

1132
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 4: Let me tell you.

1133
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 3: I am Tanya.

1134
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 4: Hold on, hold on, I am a Tanya. But I'm

1135
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,800
Speaker 4: kind of in the middle. Yeah, I think so, I'm

1136
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 4: not as Tanya as Tanya, but I'm definitely not a Becca. Dude,

1137
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 4: and I feel like I'm in I'm in a spectrum.

1138
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: You are a Tanya with a Becca cuss with a

1139
00:53:58,640 --> 00:53:59,240
Speaker 2: wing Becca.

1140
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 4: Okay, I am a Tanya wing Becca an Tanya wing Becca. Yeah,

1141
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 4: okay there, Yeah, I think I'm an enneagram eight.

1142
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 2: Oh I just got what I was. I think you've

1143
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 2: taken the test of different answers. But yeah, all right, good.

1144
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 4: To know people you've heard that first, like the best

1145
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 4: case scenario, like right in between.

1146
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 3: No, honestly, we say all the time.

1147
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, if I could just have a little more

1148
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:25,799
Speaker 1: Becca and she could have a little more Tanya.

1149
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 2: It'd be like a really, I have a little because

1150
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 2: I'm in I'm Datana.

1151
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 4: Is that what you're saying?

1152
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe maybe you're the perfect blend.

1153
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,879
Speaker 4: Of both of you, both of us. Oh, I love that.

1154
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 4: What a compliment our love child. You're a child. Can

1155
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 4: I be the scrubbing in child?

1156
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, scrubbing in child. And check your calendar if you're

1157
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 2: available for a Thursday episode.

1158
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 3: She's in the time.

1159
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 2: All right, We'll be back on Thursday with more from Paulina.

1160
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 2: We have a game, We have questions, all the things

1161
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 2: you could ever want. Love you, somebody love you. M hm.