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Speaker 1: This show contains adult material and swearing. You have been warned.

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Speaker 1: Are you bored of modern dating?

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Speaker 2: Being shown the same people half your friends have already

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Speaker 2: matched with from the same app you keep deleting and

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Speaker 2: downloading over and over again, and going on the same

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Speaker 2: boring dates to that bar near your house, which, let's

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Speaker 2: be honest, you only go to so you can make

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Speaker 2: your usual quick escape. Whatever we're doing is clearly not working,

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Speaker 2: So it's time to change the narrative on how we

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Speaker 2: find love. It's time to start looking for love in

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Speaker 2: all the wrong places. I'll be going on a date

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Speaker 2: with that guy who refers to himself as a wine connoisseur,

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Speaker 2: saying yes to the overly enthusiastic couple trying to get

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Speaker 2: me as their third and having a drink with the

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Speaker 2: man who is more interested in my feet than what

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Speaker 2: I have to say. Not only that, I'm going on

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Speaker 2: twenty eight of these dates in two months, only picking

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Speaker 2: people who are the total opposite of my type.

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Speaker 1: Will I find that special someone?

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Speaker 2: Or while listening back to myself on these dates, convinced

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Speaker 2: me that I should just quit dating for good and

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Speaker 2: instead hang out with my adorable dog, dissecting my dates

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Speaker 2: and listening in on all the cringiest moments will be

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Speaker 2: my friend Roz.

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Speaker 3: Every time I hear a bad dy, I go in

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Speaker 3: and call my boyfriend. I'm like, thank God and my

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Speaker 3: friend Dan okay, the deadest flirg I've ever heard of

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Speaker 3: my life.

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Speaker 1: Who won't be giving me an easy ride?

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Speaker 4: Honestly, if you had said that to me on a date,

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Speaker 4: I would have walked out.

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Speaker 2: My friends think I'm mad, But how bad can it

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Speaker 2: really be?

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Speaker 1: It's time to find out.

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Speaker 2: I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later.

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Speaker 3: Hi Grace, Hi ros, how are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling nervous about this whole process.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like nervous and you, Grace Campbell, do not work well together.

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Speaker 3: How long have we known each other? How long have

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Speaker 3: we been friends?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like fucking oh my god, it's you

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Speaker 1: been years now, and.

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Speaker 3: In all that I have known you once to be

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Speaker 3: nervous or like even talk about being nervous.

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Speaker 2: I know there's a huge misunderstanding about me because I

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Speaker 2: get so nervous, especially around like gigs and dates, and

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Speaker 2: so I'm just nervous about the amount of people that

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna meet and I don't know, some of them

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Speaker 2: are maybe going to be freaks.

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Speaker 3: So we are both going out, Well you're going on

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Speaker 3: twenty eight dates and I get to listen to them all,

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Speaker 3: which I'm actually just cringing for you so bad. But like,

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Speaker 3: how are these going to be different? Because I know,

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Speaker 3: like obviously, you know we've gone on a night day before,

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Speaker 3: like you do meet guys on night days, So how

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Speaker 3: is this wilder? How is this different?

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Speaker 1: Love that?

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Speaker 2: Thank you just for firstly clarifying that I've got game,

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Speaker 2: which I do because I don't want anybody listening to

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Speaker 2: think that I don't have game, because I.

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Speaker 3: Do, Grace Desperado Campbell.

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Speaker 2: I've just gotten into like such a routine with my dating,

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Speaker 2: which is what you've witnessed. I'll go out, I'll meet

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Speaker 2: a guy, I'll have sex with him, I'll wake up

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Speaker 2: and I'll never want to see him again.

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Speaker 3: And it literally this is literally the night out we had.

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Speaker 1: So you know the vibe.

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Speaker 2: I am single and I'm a bit bored of my

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Speaker 2: dating life, and so I thought the so called right

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Speaker 2: ways of meeting people just haven't been working for me.

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to try some unconventional ways of finding love.

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Speaker 3: So you're telling me I can live my dating life

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Speaker 3: vicariously through you.

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Speaker 1: You can? Yeah, this is your mail.

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Speaker 3: Was that's what you're going to do? Because I have

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Speaker 3: been in a heterosexual, monogamous relationship trap since I was

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Speaker 3: probably seventeen, all right, take fourteen. God, I've actually never

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Speaker 3: gone to a dating app in my life, which.

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Speaker 1: I know it must be nice, it must be fucking nice.

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Speaker 3: And like you said, I started getting too long term

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Speaker 3: relationships before there was even dating apps. I'm like a relic. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So like what apps are you using? Are using apps?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: There are, first of all, so many apps I'm using

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Speaker 2: in this that I have never even heard of before.

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Speaker 2: So for this day I use an app called Seeking

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Speaker 2: right now?

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Speaker 3: Sorry? Is this Seeking Arrangements?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is an app I do know, Like, Grace,

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Speaker 3: isn't this not for like when you, like, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: like you're looking for sugar daddy or something. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why why wouldn't I be looking for sugar daddy?

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Speaker 3: I need to stop being.

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Speaker 1: Sugar daddy.

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Speaker 3: I'm just going to relate there, Grace Cander, You'll be

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Speaker 3: the worst sugar baby ever. I'm sorry, I missed the

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Speaker 3: days when the sugar Babes just released music. No, No Grace,

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Speaker 3: Candle's a sugar babe. So I met this guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now, on Seeking, you have like usernames, which also

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Speaker 2: feels very like twenty ten. But he referred to himself

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Speaker 2: as the high end Bachelor. Right, okay, So when we

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Speaker 2: sat down on the day, the first thing I asked

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Speaker 2: him was why he'd preferred to himself as the high

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Speaker 2: end Bachelor. I'm seeking, Thank you so much for me,

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Speaker 2: So tell me why are you called the high end Bachelor?

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Speaker 5: So use that site?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well, dating, yeah, it's obviously the other means for it.

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Speaker 4: King Yeah, yeah, some people use it.

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Speaker 5: For other means, but for me, it's more very busy lifestyle,

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Speaker 5: always flying.

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Speaker 1: What do you do?

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Speaker 5: But spoiled?

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Speaker 4: Really really?

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Speaker 1: Wait what you're a trust fun baby?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Okay, it never worked because my pictures are quite out

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Speaker 5: there on the Let's be honest, I'm not I haven't

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Speaker 5: gone all of the pictures.

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Speaker 1: You have sunglasses on there?

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Speaker 4: Why is that so just a thing with our friend?

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Speaker 4: We're always out in glasses and were always taking pictures

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Speaker 4: of each other.

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Speaker 3: It's just the way it is, right, You're perfect. You're

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Speaker 3: both NEPO babies. I know. I love that he's just

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Speaker 3: actually briefly honest. He's like, yeah, I'm just a trust

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Speaker 3: fun baby. I'm spoilt.

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Speaker 2: So on his profile, it says that he's a chivalrous

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Speaker 2: gentleman seeking a philanthropist.

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Speaker 1: Don't you mean that sounds like me?

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Speaker 3: I could be a philanthropist.

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Speaker 2: I could be like Julie Cooper and the OC, like

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Speaker 2: a really really rich wife who just does fundraisers and

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Speaker 2: is secretly laundry money.

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Speaker 3: I was actually just gonna say secretly swindling all the money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, So this lad I'm obviously looking at

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Speaker 3: his profile now, like he kind of looks.

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Speaker 1: Like he does look a bit like Pitpull.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the lad you see in the club, like

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Speaker 3: just hanging around the ladies toilet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, he's always got the

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Speaker 2: bottles in the club.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is his vibe. And he's also like not

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Speaker 1: to be rude, but like you know, he's in his forties.

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Speaker 1: That's quite a lot older than me.

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Speaker 2: And also like I've never gone a date with someone

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Speaker 2: that old before. But he's quite like, like you know,

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Speaker 2: in his pictures, he's got like a Cardier bag to

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Speaker 2: suggest he's just into Cardier. He has the vibe of

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Speaker 2: like I'm on a private jet.

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Speaker 3: So like Grace, if he doesn't work and he's loaded

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Speaker 3: and he travels around the world, what does he do

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Speaker 3: with his time?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why I asked him. I was like, something's

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Speaker 1: not quite adding up here.

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Speaker 5: Like casinos, like my spars, they poke up.

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Speaker 4: Okay, probably there four times a week.

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Speaker 5: I'll go there because I go Look, if I go

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Speaker 5: to a nightclub, it's five grands the way my friends party,

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Speaker 5: So forget that.

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Speaker 4: When I used to go a few years ago, I was.

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Speaker 5: Used to have like three girlfriends, four girlfriends out of

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Speaker 5: date at the same time, and I was just to

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Speaker 5: take Really then you all knew about it.

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Speaker 4: Was it just sort of right, three serious.

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Speaker 1: Girlfriends at the same time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they'd all stay with me as run the

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Speaker 4: house at the same time.

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Speaker 1: Would you take all of them?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Right? Did they enjoy it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? They were quite submissive in the sense of chilled.

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Speaker 4: Didn't ask for too much.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, So like, can I just took a

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Speaker 3: video fucking fain your face?

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Speaker 1: Just then? Was going through so many different modes.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, Okay, yeah, like he goes sixteen

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Speaker 3: or four times a weekplace book or like whom I

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Speaker 3: should whatever? And then he was like, no, wonder if

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Speaker 3: he just oh was he keeping three or four girlfriends

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Speaker 3: on the goal? Like serious? Not even just like hanging

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Speaker 3: out with three or four girls? Serious girlfriends?

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Speaker 1: Who has the energy, who has the time?

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Speaker 3: Grace? You wouldn't fit into that, he said, They're all submissive.

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Speaker 3: You know, I know, I know you'd be plotting everyone's escape.

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Speaker 3: You'd be like having a ring against him.

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Speaker 2: I mean at that point, I was like, obviously, this

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Speaker 2: is not someone that's a potential suitor for me. But

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Speaker 2: I'm also obsessed, Like I'm like fascinated by what he's

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Speaker 2: telling me because some of it I'm just like, Oh,

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Speaker 2: you so could be lying. You so could have not

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Speaker 2: had three girlfriends at one time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, he could completely be a liar. But I'm

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Speaker 3: also like, what are the girls getting out of it?

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Speaker 3: What is he offering? Like why is he on that site?

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Speaker 3: He's going on a date with you? But like what

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Speaker 3: is the end goal for him?

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Speaker 1: Well, I think it's that he had arrangements with them.

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Speaker 2: I guess where he's giving them a bit of a salary.

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Speaker 2: Which you know, like there's a part of that that

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Speaker 2: like appeals to me loads.

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Speaker 1: Because I was saying this to my mum the other day.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I do really want my

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Speaker 2: next boyfriend to be really rich, and she was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I've raised a daughter like to

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Speaker 2: like say that. But you know what, I just have

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Speaker 2: sex with someone a few times and then they're giving

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Speaker 2: me a chunk of money a month, Like that would

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Speaker 2: be really nice. I could take my friends on holiday,

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Speaker 2: Like I get it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I did hear Rupert muradoch.

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Speaker 2: Just I'll tell you something for free. I am Rubert

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Speaker 2: Murdoch's worse nightmare.

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Speaker 3: This lad. Is this just his life style? Like this

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Speaker 3: is just his life goal to have a lot of women.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 2: At one point he was telling me about how much

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Speaker 2: she's dated.

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Speaker 5: Just really excessively done for the playboy life. Just to

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Speaker 5: give you an example, I dated over a thousand women

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Speaker 5: in three years, a different one everything.

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Speaker 5: So over three year, a three year period, I dated

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Speaker 4: Central? All apps? But I thought, let me do a

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Speaker 5: I want to test all the age groups within legal

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Speaker 4: And then I've done all the different.

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Speaker 1: Cultures as an experiment.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that period, I wanted to just iron out a

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Speaker 3: That's we should go to him for a carriage reading.

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Speaker 3: At this stage, he should have his own fucking podcast.

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Speaker 3: I can't even say. I can't even say, like, oh, what,

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Speaker 3: what is this an experience? Because you're pretty much doing

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Speaker 1: But do you think that means that he would be

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Speaker 1: Anyone, you know what.

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Speaker 2: He was giving me very strong Dan Bulzarian vibes like

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Speaker 2: He's always on a yacht of like beare women and guns.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's he was giving me that kind of vibe

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Speaker 2: He just gave me that vibe.

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Speaker 5: A lot of people get money, men can't handle it.

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Speaker 5: And I think to be a man, you got I

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Speaker 5: That's got to be in check. You've got to be

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Speaker 5: you'll be a supermodel. We've got beefs, yes, healthy. I

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Speaker 5: might only be forty one, but I've got the mindset

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Speaker 5: mighte sham chipe, like Sean Connery type, if you like,

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Speaker 3: Greece, I'm actually just like I thought he was conveying

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Chris, I'm just like astandish. Have you

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Speaker 3: found this guy?

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Speaker 2: No? I know, but this is this is what I

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Speaker 2: And it's a world that we're not exposed to ever,

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Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, I don't go

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Speaker 2: I would be hell on a night out because I

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Speaker 1: We would not it would not go well. And also

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Speaker 1: I would not.

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Speaker 2: Get let enter the club because I wouldn't be wearing

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Speaker 3: Idea of how And he still went out of the date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so obviously he was talking loads about like his money,

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Speaker 2: but as you are as well, was we're both girl bosses.

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Speaker 2: So I was asking him about what I could do

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Speaker 1: I always do and I meet rich people. If I

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Speaker 1: was going to invest in one thing, what do you

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Speaker 4: It depends on what you got to invest Tell me

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Speaker 4: tell you what to do. Okay, So I believe in life.

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Speaker 5: Look, if you have your base sorted, which is a property,

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Speaker 5: Yeah maybe some investment property were one, two, three or

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Speaker 5: four five, whatever, You got all your materialistic crap out

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Speaker 3: You didn't give you any advice. He basically just said,

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Speaker 3: really wants this day and age, all you need.

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Speaker 2: Your watches, your cars, your property. Once you've got that,

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Speaker 2: it's like, thanks, mate, didn't think of that.

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Speaker 3: I'm great now. I honestly thought he was going to

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Speaker 3: be like, you need to invest in this company right now.

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Speaker 3: They're heart. Well, there was no advice.

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Speaker 1: I want someone to tell me to do that. I

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Speaker 2: There were moments, yeah, when this just felt like I

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Speaker 2: was on a date with one of my dad's friends.

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Speaker 3: I honestly can tell Grace, Like from knowing your dad

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Speaker 3: online and meeting a few times. You're like, I you

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Speaker 3: do not think your dad would be friends, isn't I?

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Speaker 1: No, that's true.

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Speaker 3: No, that's true.

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Speaker 1: That is true. This guy is very not my dad's band.

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Speaker 3: My dad hangs out with like.

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Speaker 1: Politicians and like yeah, and then ex footballers.

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Speaker 2: Only friends friends are ex politicians, ex footballers, and like

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Speaker 3: So like for those who may not know who your

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Speaker 3: Ireland and I'm not up with UK politics, I don't

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Speaker 3: now I'm like, who was playing him in love? Actually

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Speaker 3: that's what I wanted to know.

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Speaker 2: He had a show actually based on him, wal bluesy

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Speaker 2: based name which called The Thick of It, which then

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Speaker 1: But his name is Alice the Campbell. That's my dad,

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Speaker 1: and he worked for Tony Blair, who.

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Speaker 2: He's always going on the news shouting about the current

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Speaker 1: But he's actually becoming just very known for being my father.

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Speaker 3: But the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree

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Speaker 3: because you're well known, known for going on dates with

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Speaker 3: on obviously you're kind of trying to be a sugar babe.

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Speaker 3: He's a sugar daddy. Like what would be the arrangement

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Speaker 3: if you were to date him? Like did he offer

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Speaker 2: At one point he sort of said this thing, but

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Speaker 2: me ten thousand pounds a month. If it's take round

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Speaker 2: a month, thank you, thank you, that would be great holiday.

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Speaker 1: That's thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: You should come out with me for a night just

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Speaker 4: I'll give you my number later.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, but I think I'll show you my way

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Speaker 5: and you could say, yeah, it's a load of bollocks,

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Speaker 5: or actually I really like it.

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Speaker 4: I think I'll enjoy it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why. I'm just getting the creep so bad.

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Speaker 3: Listen to that, like so ten grand for what?

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Speaker 2: No, and also real listening to that, he is basically

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Speaker 1: If you like it, you'll get to tank around them.

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Speaker 3: But no, no, no, because he also said come home

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Speaker 3: with me. So what does that entail?

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I don't know, but that's what I mean. Like,

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Speaker 3: Deal? Is it all different levels? Some sugar daddies just

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Speaker 3: or they want more, like where's the line?

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of them want sex, is what

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Speaker 3: We don't know about him. Maybe he just wants a

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Speaker 3: few girls. Well he said they were girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: Though, no, he was definitely shagging those those definitely, Oh

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Speaker 3: He said, he probably doesn't remember any of their names. No,

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Speaker 3: I know, so great. I think the main question is

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Speaker 2: I think, yes, I don't think that's a lifestyle that's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I also think that how would you even

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Speaker 2: I know, well, I'd be like, listen, guys, you should

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Speaker 2: be happy because you know, I found a sugar daddy,

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Speaker 2: so don't need to financially spundle with you lot anymore.

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Speaker 3: Well, great, it's I can safe to say he's very honest. No, actually, sir,

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Speaker 3: we don't know what he's being honest, Like he could

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Speaker 3: with whoever he wants to do it with. But it's

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Speaker 3: a note from me. No, do you know what?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, but maybe one day, Yeah, I'll be

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Speaker 2: like checking in to a flight at an airport, right,

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Speaker 2: and it'll be like British Airways, but I'm an economy

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Speaker 1: Nice time with you. I'll upgrade your flight and I'll

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Speaker 3: Listen, if I ever see him in the airport, I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, can you can you make him up grade? Please? Mate?

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Speaker 3: Unless he's listened to this, I think you're a really

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Speaker 3: nice guy. I know I am in a long term relationship,

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Speaker 3: but I can be I can be marals support. Yeah exactly,

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Speaker 3: you can.

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Speaker 1: You can be at the other end of the phone.

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Speaker 3: Roles and when he does his podcast called one thousand Dates,

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Speaker 3: I can be I can help him out. So grace

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Speaker 3: your first date with a sugar daddy. How are you

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Speaker 3: feeling about the next twenty seven dates?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's such a big number us.

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Speaker 3: Well, look, Lisa's not nine hundred and ninety nine, that's true.

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Speaker 2: And my Sugar Daddy he had to really go through

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Speaker 2: the trenches a lot more. But I do feel I'm

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Speaker 3: Twenty seven left, like I don't know how you're going

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Speaker 3: to top Sugar Daddy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Rose. I feel like we are going

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Speaker 1: to top it next time on twenty eight dates later.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, if you.

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Speaker 5: Had said that to me on a day, I would

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Speaker 5: have walked out, since before you would have finished the sentence,

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Speaker 5: I'd have walked out.

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Speaker 3: I was really popular. I was the poshest girl of

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Speaker 3: I was. I was popular for a poshcar.

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Speaker 2: You around me.

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Speaker 3: I'm a savage.

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Speaker 2: Can help it. Twenty eight dates Later is produced by

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Speaker 2: Novel for iHeartRadio. For more from Novel, visit novel dot Audio.

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Speaker 2: The series is presented by me Grace Campbell, with help

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Speaker 2: from Roz Pursu and Dan Whyde. The producer is Diggory Way.

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Speaker 2: The executive producer is Claire Broughton. Our editors are Mithilly

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Speaker 2: Raw and Max O'Brien. Production management from Sharie Houston and

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Speaker 2: Charlotte Wall. Willard Foxton is our creative director of Development.