1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: This is the most traumatic podcast ever an iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: Why do we keep doing throw pillows at hotels? I 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: hate it? It's so gross. 4 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 3: You will not find them at any of the Firestone properties. 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 3: Really do not have throw pillows or those are called shams, 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 3: the kind of the fake blankets there. They offer no warmth, 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 3: They're only offered bacterial content. 8 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 2: They're gross. You've eliminated them. 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 3: I don't know why I'm answering this. 10 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: It's a great start to the podcast. No, I like this. 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: Let's this is this is the stuff you have hotels 12 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: and yeah, because this is something Laura and I have 13 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: a problem with. You got hotels and there's like a 14 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: blam wake. We're in a room right now. You're at 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: this lovely hotel. But there's a blanket that I would 16 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: like to burn on the bed. There's a throw pillow 17 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: that looks like maybe it's fifty years old. 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you throw the blanket on the floor in 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 3: the middle of the night, when you wake up, it'll 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 3: actually be back on the bed. 21 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: It just goes home to wait. Because I know you 22 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: have some hotels, Like, do you guys consciously make sure 23 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: you don't do that? 24 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean there's a bunch of stuff that we 25 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 3: do in the hotel business, Like we would never have 26 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 3: drawers because ninety percent of the time people will forget 27 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 3: something in a drawer or cleaning a drawer is really hard. 28 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: Also under the beds, yes so space. 29 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, so we actually have platforms on all our beds, 30 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 3: so the thing gets under there. 31 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 2: And then you don't have to clean under that, do 32 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: you guys? 33 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 4: People don't lose things under there. 34 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: I might be dating your shoe. Come to these hotels. 35 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 2: They will not let you lose a thing. 36 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 3: You will walk out with the hopping out because I 37 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 3: will have forgotten both of my left shoes. 38 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: It's just I might be dating myself. But when I 39 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: was younger, and we just watched Mission Impossible the other night, 40 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: and it made me think of this. They used to 41 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: always have a bible. Yes, every hotel room had a Bible. 42 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I remember that a lot. 43 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: Probably Lauren and I just watched Mission Impossible, the original, 44 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: and of course he was like talking about the Gideons. 45 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: He stayed at the Drake Hotel, and it's like the. 46 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 5: The boiler alert for the nineteen ninety six Mission Impossible. 47 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: It wasn't like I said Amelia dies in the beginning. 48 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, come on, it was forty five years ago. 49 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: She was like, I was just about to jump into 50 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: that Mission Impossible series tonight the Wife and never gonna 51 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: sit down. We're going to dive in ghost protocol. And 52 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, let's start at the beginning, you know. 53 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 5: Okay, by the way, like my little brother and his 54 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 5: girlfriend are doing this really fun thing where they're watching 55 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 5: old movies, like they're like. 56 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: This is this is what offends me? 57 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: Before you get to that, can we answer the question 58 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: I really want to know, like is that still a thing? 59 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 1: Like do you guys put Bibles in your hotels? 60 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: Uh? So, different categories of hotels do, okay, And but 61 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 3: it's it's a it's a bit of a controversy which 62 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 3: Bible goes in because they're gifted. 63 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: We don't we don't purchase them. 64 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 3: They're brought to us King James or the Yes or 65 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 3: which religion or which faith and all that kind of stuff. 66 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 2: I did not know. 67 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 3: So with the beauty of it in the in this 68 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: modern age, you can pull up whatever verse you'd like 69 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: on your phone or your tablet and enjoy it that way. 70 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 3: Which do that? Yes, you can do that. I mean 71 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 3: you might be blocked from those sites. Yes, most long 72 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 3: lighting text paying citizens can. 73 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: Chris, No, I just didn't because you know, obviously you 74 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: used to open up a drawer which don't exist anymore apparently, 75 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: and you see the Bible and it was very interesting, 76 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: and so there you go. 77 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 2: I just can't believe the Bibles are swag. 78 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: They're gifted. 79 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. 80 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, it makes sense. 81 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: Though, to promote the church. Yeah, I guess it makes sense. 82 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: So sorry, you were asking about old movies. 83 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 5: Well, no, my brother and his girlfriend are starting are 84 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 5: doing the thing where they watch old movies, including like Costablanca. 85 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 5: I mean they are going back, yes, black and white movies, 86 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 5: and I was wondering if they ever get through a movie, 87 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 5: or like if I try to watch an old movie now, 88 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 5: I can't not start looking up about it on my 89 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 5: phone and then like, I'm probably spoilered the movie because 90 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 5: I get interested in like how it was made and 91 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 5: all that, and I'm googling it as I'm watching it. 92 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 3: Certain movies that, yes, the keeping the suspense is important, 93 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 3: like the sixth sense, remember that, you know the Bruce 94 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: that's one that you don't want to research dead. 95 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: But like we are running every movie. 96 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 3: That was so rude. 97 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: His father. 98 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 3: No. But then there's other ones. I mean, like the 99 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 3: Captain Phillips story. We all kind of know how that ends, 100 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 3: but it's the movie that the story behind it, which I. 101 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: Think is so compelling. Tom Hanks always makes it back. 102 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: Just know that Tom Hanks is always gonna live, whether 103 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 1: he's on a boat or in a spacecraft. 104 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 3: Uh, Private Ryan, he did not make it back. Good point. 105 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: He didn't make it off. 106 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 3: And now you and now you never will. You're right, 107 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 3: you just lost a viewer. You're right, he doesn't. That's 108 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 3: the one. 109 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: Movie where Tom Hanks goes down. Huh because he didn't 110 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: die in Big. 111 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: You know what is sad is when he dies and 112 00:04:58,880 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: you've got mail. 113 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: You think it's such an easy I'll reference that all 114 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: the time, and then Lauren never never gets it. I 115 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 1: always say, don't cry, shop girl, don't cry, and she's like, 116 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: what is that? Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan and Havana 117 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,239 Speaker 1: is looking at you right now? Like been here the whole. 118 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 4: Time, literally nothing from movies. I'll watch it the next day. 119 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, are you are you not a movie person? 120 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 4: Kind of sort of I have my favorites. 121 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 3: You're a genre specific one. If Patrick Dempsey or has 122 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 3: seen it, or has walked by a movie theater that 123 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: it was playing in, she loves it? 124 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: Is Patrick Dempsey your like exemption card. 125 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, have. 126 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 5: You guys had that conversation for real? We've never had 127 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 5: this conversation I had with. 128 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: Avon and Andrew. You're exception, Sevon and I agree, it's 129 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey. We yeah, Andrew's yours. 130 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 3: Oh uh, the weird thing. It's also Patrick Dempsey. 131 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: Don't lie to us, don't lie to me, shop girl. 132 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 3: So, oh my gosh, we've got how do we get 133 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 3: from moving? 134 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: I answer that you can't think Andrew gets Let's just 135 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: call out what it is. 136 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 5: Andrew gets so uncomfortable, so quickly, so quick we push 137 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 5: a certain b. 138 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 6: It's a kind of super fun, which is one of 139 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 6: its one of my favorite pastimes, which is making Andrew uncomfortable. 140 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: Weird because the four of us when weird. Well, I 141 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: guess maybe the three of us, now that I know this, 142 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: maybe you're never a part of these conversations. Our conversations 143 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: always get pretty sexual and deep. 144 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 3: Oh they do one hundred percent. I'm just saying I 145 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 3: do get uncomfortable, driven. 146 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 4: By me usually trying to make him feel un she does. 147 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 3: What buttons to push and so I mean, I don't 148 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: you guys were in the car ride home last night. 149 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 6: Yes, it's Kate Beckinsdale by the way. 150 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gorgeous. Yeah, she doesn't die in that. 151 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 3: She's also you know, I know, she's got the accent 152 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 3: and she's the second. 153 00:06:54,760 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: Most Your mom was British. So let's yeah, how Freudian 154 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: take the shovel and dig right in if you looked 155 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: in her past. Maybe Kate beckins was also a ballerina, 156 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: certainly a performer. Interesting, let's break this down now. Do 157 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: you think that's why you're drawn to the stage. 158 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 3: Yes, the main stage, dude. 159 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 5: I just have to say something, is we're giving all 160 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 5: this crap that I love about you. Andrew is such 161 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 5: a geeky theater kid at heart that he will do 162 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 5: a thing that only theater kids do, which is we've 163 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 5: all been taught that you can end on a song. 164 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 5: So if Andrew's uncomfortable, have you noticed he just starts 165 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 5: singing and walks out of the room like he'd be like, 166 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 5: he'll literally leaved breakfast. 167 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 3: Just now I know I shuffled off to Buffalo. 168 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: Did you ever do that? While you were filming The Bachelor? 169 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 5: He's very you. 170 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: Know, Andrew's very old vaudeville. 171 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: When I see a theater kid, I mean back then. 172 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: He pulls out a horn and honks it and leaves. 173 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: You're like, did grout your marks? Just walk out of 174 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: the room. It's right, he does, makes a scene to 175 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: get out of a situation. 176 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 5: So you know what I've never asked you about. As 177 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 5: we continue to pull you into the realms that no, 178 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 5: well you did? You were on The Bachelor? Were you 179 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 5: ever like? That's a show that gets and I'll be honest, 180 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 5: I've never seen your season, So don't spoil it for 181 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 5: because you. 182 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: Were four years old. 183 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 3: I don't end up marrying the girl, watch it, trade 184 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 3: it up afterwards. 185 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: Maybe Hey, by the way. 186 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 4: How did make him feel? 187 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: I didn't want it? How you's so uncomfortable? 188 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 3: Spoiler alert? 189 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: And literally didn't die but kind of died on that one. 190 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 3: So well, I will say, the only reason I could 191 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,079 Speaker 3: make it through is I didn't actually think anyone was 192 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 3: gonna watch the show. I mean, like I didn't like 193 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 3: that these No, it was it, I mean it was 194 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 3: it was sort of kind of getting there. 195 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: But like Bro, we had over thirty three million viewers 196 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: by then, we were the number one show on television. 197 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 3: Okay, So from my person, I didn't realize. 198 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: That he's like, I'm British. Like we had Aaron Bergie 199 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 1: thirty three million viewers, Trista wren Up in the Up 200 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 1: Up twenties thirty millions, and that was she was the 201 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: highest rated. And then we came a couple of seasons. 202 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 1: Then later was you Okay, I didn't know all the statistics. 203 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: We were at the we were at the height when 204 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: you were the Bachelor. Man, it was not on his radio. 205 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 3: This wasn't on my radar, it wasn't And I just again, 206 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 3: I just couldn't fathom not having done anything on TV 207 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 3: or or in show business or whatever else. I just 208 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 3: couldn't fathom the idea that anyone would be interested enough 209 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 3: to watch what I was doing. 210 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 2: No one's fighting him on that. 211 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 7: And crickets songs, Song Please, song play the the I 212 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,839 Speaker 7: guess we should probably say that we're with Andrew and 213 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 7: Ivana Firestars and we were recording. 214 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: We should God, I hope we should start Eastern. We 215 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 1: should start recording. We are up here in Carmel, came 216 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: up to Monterey for really no reason at all other 217 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: than this is a ginormous and doggo for all of us. 218 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 5: To Kendall as the producer of this weekend, what have 219 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 5: you been told? 220 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 2: The reason we're here is. 221 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm curious. There's what is the purpose? Just to 222 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: come together together. Ben Higgins really likes to claim this 223 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: is his family gathering or something he created, but really this. 224 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 3: Is just like, let me tell you what he did, 225 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 3: give the first toast and take credit. So last night 226 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 3: and he gives you He said that you were also 227 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 3: like a footnote. So it was really a really bush 228 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 3: league crep move by Higgins. And here's the thing. 229 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: Last night, so we're all together, we had this big 230 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: family meal. It was awesome. And I guess the real 231 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: reason is we just keep doing this because we have 232 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 1: this close, tight knit group of people that we just love, 233 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 1: and we keep bringing everybody together. We go play golf, 234 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 1: we go have great dinners. I mean, we're all together 235 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: and we slowly are adding people as well. Justin and 236 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: Susie are here. Met them last night. Unbelievably nice, both 237 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: of them, like they just started dating. Two of the 238 00:10:56,320 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: women that were on The Golden Bachelor. Yep, Susan and Athy, 239 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: who are also unbelievably sweet. 240 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 3: I met Jason Tartick for the first time. He really 241 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 3: he's quality, really good dude, really good dude, very good guy. 242 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 3: So and we're just really trying to help him find love. 243 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: Didn't you guys are setting them up with somebody. 244 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 4: He might be guilty, set up trying to also feeling awkward. 245 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: Why is that weird? That's amazing my niece that just 246 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: got weird? 247 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 3: Yeah right away? 248 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: So wait, that would make you his uncle like Jason 249 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: Tartic so much. 250 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 5: Nephew, that's fantastic, Uncle Andrew, You're over here thinking I 251 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 5: got a new friend. 252 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,959 Speaker 2: No, you got to intimidate this guy. He's gonna date 253 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: your niece. 254 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: You need a scared Tartic. 255 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 3: I don't know how he got he said date my niece. 256 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 3: I mean, how did we get there so quickly? 257 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: Because I wanna set them up. 258 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 5: Last night when we all went to a bar to 259 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 5: see a painting of Chris Harrison that hangs above a toilet, 260 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 5: what a love story it does. 261 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: This is a true story that we needed to get to. 262 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: There's a painting of me above a toilet at a 263 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: bar called Sadies here in Carmel Downtown Carmel. I had 264 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: seen this before, and I knew that this painting existed 265 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: because I'll try to make this quick. A caddie who 266 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: I've played with many times here at Pebble Beach, a 267 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: very nice guy named Josh, is an artist, and he 268 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: painted this painting of me. I didn't commission it. I 269 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: didn't ask for it. It just happened. 270 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 3: You know. 271 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: I'm not Liberaci, I'm not commissioning paintings of myself. But 272 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 1: he's like, hey, I want you to have this painting. 273 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, immediately, like Andrew, like 274 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: I got uncomfortable because like, what would I do with 275 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: a painting of myself? Put it over my fireplace or 276 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, sit over my bubble bath. 277 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: So he brings it to my house and he's like, here, 278 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: you know, I want you to have this. I's like, 279 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: thank you so much, and he wanted money for it, which, okay, 280 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: you know, it's his art. 281 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 3: It's fine. 282 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: But I wasn't prepared to buy a painting of myself 283 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: because I didn't really need that in the first place. 284 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: So I said, look, you go sell this if you 285 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: think you can make money off of it. God, but 286 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 1: it's like and Er season if anyone's going to watch 287 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: him on the Bachelor, Like, God, bless you, and so 288 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 1: a drive by shooting. 289 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 3: I'm just sitting here. 290 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: He took it back. I had no idea what happened 291 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: to this painting. It just disappeared into the ether. Years later, 292 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: I get a text message from first Ben Flannik former 293 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: Bachelor Ben Flannick, who is taking a selfie in a 294 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: toilet at a bar and Carmel, going, dude, you're up here. 295 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: Then flash forward to wells Adams. He and his brother Brett. 296 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: They are from here, so they're up here all the time. 297 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: And Sadie's is kind of an institution. It is a 298 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: dive bar in the middle of Carmel. It's kind of 299 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: like which one of these is not like the others. 300 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: You're in the middle of all these cute shops, and 301 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: then it's just like this cash only bar that's been 302 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: there forever. And there is one bathroom. It's kind of 303 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: like a water closet in the middle of this very 304 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: tiny bar. And if you walk in there, right behind 305 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: the toilet is a rather large oversized. It's an oversized 306 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: of me holding kind of a crown of roses. And 307 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: I didn't know there's also a plaque underneath it that's 308 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: like man with crown of roses or whatever. And it's 309 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: like donated by or like like by Josh. 310 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: So nobody bought it. 311 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 3: They did, they did. It was for millions. 312 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: I went to the bar. I went to the bar 313 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: keep last night. I said, Hey, what's the story behind 314 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: the paint. So here's here's the great thing is the 315 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: bartender's like tells me this story. He's like, I don't 316 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: really know. It's this guy and da da dada, apparently 317 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: like And I said, well, I'm I can break down 318 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: the first mystery. I'm the guy. He's like, didn't know 319 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: it was you, no idea we had this conversation, had 320 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: no idea was me And there was this incredibly accurate painting. 321 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: There was an older woman next to me and she's 322 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: like it was like the old man in the sea, 323 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: like hymingways, like you want to know about the painting, 324 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. I'll tell you the truth about the painting. 325 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, sit down, I said. 326 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: I was like hi, and she's like I'm Dorothy. Okay, Dorothy, 327 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: let's go. And her and her husband were sitting at 328 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: the end of the bar. Apparently they come there a 329 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: lot there drinking tea. I said, down with Dorothy, and 330 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: she says, there was a guy who came to Pebble 331 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: Beach and played golf and he agreed to have a 332 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: painting done of himself, and the person drove down to 333 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: his house in LA. They agreed on fourteen hundred dollars 334 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: and when he got there, the guy wouldn't pay. 335 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 3: I didn't hear this. 336 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: He wouldn't pay the fourteen hundred dollars. He said, he 337 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: would only offer four hundred. So the guy left and 338 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: he took the painting with him and I said, Dorothy, 339 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: that is a fascinating story, and let him have that. 340 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: I said, do you want to know the truth? 341 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 3: Truth? 342 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: I did, and she said what And I said, well, Dorothy, 343 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: I don't know why people aren't understanding this if they've 344 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: been there a lot. But I said, I'm the guy 345 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: in the painting. She said what, So I blew Dorothy's mind. 346 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: They had so I introduced myself and she's like, oh 347 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: my god. After we had a hug and we took 348 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: a picture. I said, most of that story is correct, 349 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: except for the fact that we ever agreed on the 350 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: painting or ever talked about money until he got in 351 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: my living room in la and I was like, I'm 352 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: not going to pay three or five thousand dollars from 353 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: an oil painting in myself, and I said, hey, just 354 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: take this and go sell it. So that so the bar, 355 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: the owner of this SADS somehow acquired it and during COVID, 356 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: from what I understand, he put it on an easel 357 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: because you had to drink outside on the streets. They 358 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: put it on an easel outside on the streets of 359 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: downtown Carmel, and the caddies would come and just drink 360 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: around the painting. Is that right, No way, Dave, that's 361 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: kind of your dream. 362 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 3: It is my dream. I mean, yeah, caddies. Six percent 363 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 3: truth in that story. It was just a painting. They 364 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 3: couldn't put anywhere else. They stuck it in the bathroom. 365 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: But I was so weird that that painting is the 366 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: weird thing is too is honestly Carmel, Monterey Pebble. This 367 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: is one of my and now Lauren's favorite places in 368 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: the world. We love coming up here. So the fact 369 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: that there is a weird shrine over a crapper in 370 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: a dive bar is just poet. 371 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 3: It's the least subtle bathroom in the end of any 372 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 3: public space I've ever seen. Like, if you have to 373 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 3: go to the bathroom, it's a circle bar. Everyone's watching 374 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 3: you go in and timing you how long you've been 375 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 3: in there. I mean, any Bachelor fan should make a pilgrimage. 376 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 3: Yes to Sades and Carmel, get a selfie with that, 377 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 3: which we all did last night. 378 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: We all crammed into the bathroom. You'll be seeing a 379 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: lot of those social media posts. 380 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 5: I just love I'm jealous that you had a moment 381 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 5: with someone where you got to say, Dorothy, I'm that guy, 382 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 5: I'm the guy in the painting. 383 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: Who else whoever. 384 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: Gets to say? 385 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: Is that both the bartender and Dorothy, who clearly both 386 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,959 Speaker 1: of them have been there quite often. And again, there 387 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: is one bathroom, and as Andrew said, the distance from 388 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: the bar to the bathroom is maybe three feet. I 389 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: mean you turn around and you hit the bathroom door. 390 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 1: So rather clean, by the way, I will give them credit. 391 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: At Sadie's. The bar itself not so clean. The bathroom 392 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: very clean. Nice, So thank you for keeping my shrine 393 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: very clean. 394 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 5: So clean that you sat on the toilet to take 395 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 5: a picture with your pants on. 396 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 2: That was one of the weirdest things. 397 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: Got so creepy outside. 398 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 6: What did I tell you to do before you went 399 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 6: back into your hotel room? 400 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: Burn my pants? 401 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 402 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 3: I did so. 403 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: I thought it would be funny because guys, you'll see 404 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: the picture on Instagram. If not, go to my Instagram 405 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: at Chris B. Harrison and you'll see that it. I 406 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: mean when I say it's above the crapper, it's there 407 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 1: twelve inches above the crapper, and it's huge. And so 408 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: I thought it'd be funny if I sat on the 409 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 1: toilet like I was using the toilet. Yeah, we'll get it. 410 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 1: You don't have to explain it. But immediately and I 411 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: thought I was actually going to drop trow. And then 412 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: I realized I didn't know where the bathroom, I didn't 413 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 1: know the situation of the geography had just been you guys, 414 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 1: I would have dropped trow. But when you open the door, 415 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 1: you're in the bar. I mean you're part of the bar. 416 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,239 Speaker 1: You guys will be sitting on the toilet and at 417 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: the bar at the same time the bartender could reach you. 418 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: So that didn't seem like a great idea at the time, 419 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 1: So I kept my pants. 420 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 6: Any point, would you have put the seat cover on though, 421 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 6: seat covers? Yeah, line it with toilet. 422 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: Build the pyramid. No, you know, I'm not to have 423 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 1: a seat cover, I said. I said this to Lauren. 424 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: I said, you know what, if you really think that 425 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: that toilet seed is any dirtier than every barstool, another 426 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,719 Speaker 1: seat we sit on, I bet it's not. 427 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 8: It might be. 428 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 2: Cleaner if it's just someone's clean naked skin. 429 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 5: No, okay, the journey on, that is what I was thinking. 430 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: I took a glance. I took a really good look, 431 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 1: and I quickly assessed that the bathroom itself is really clean. Well, 432 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: we should have had Andrew in there. 433 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 5: He's the one whose nose don't have these shams and pillowcases. 434 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: And story the mystery of the painting above the toilet 435 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 1: at Sadies and we had. 436 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 5: A great time. Thank you Annabel for buying us a 437 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 5: tequila shot. She was in town for the tournament. 438 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: She was great. Her friend thought you were Joe Rogan, 439 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 2: so that was funny. 440 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: There you go. She was like, I love his podcast. 441 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,679 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you listening like the Joe Rogan podcast. 442 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: That's really great. By the way, I love Joe Rogan too. 443 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: He has a fantastic podcast. He's also a beefcake and 444 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,479 Speaker 1: the dude's huge, So thank you. 445 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 2: We haven't heard that one before. I don't think he's 446 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 2: easily mistaken beefcake. 447 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm Jack's Yeah. 448 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 5: I'm really Ivanna was setting up Jason, your future nephew 449 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 5: with your niece. 450 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 4: That time. 451 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 3: I'm breathing. I'm not just breathing. 452 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: Wells and Sarah were. 453 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 5: There, Yeah, talking through some kind of ghost experiences. 454 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: She's had. She's very into ghosts. 455 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: Bob Guiney Canaan showed up. They were there last night, 456 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 1: so it was. He had a great group. It was 457 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 1: it was. It was a loud room. There's thirty of us, 458 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:39,360 Speaker 1: like write thirty down. 459 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 5: I don't know why I'm thinking about this, but I 460 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 5: think my mind went from like you intimidating Jason as 461 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 5: his future uncle to you having to fight Jason if needed. 462 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 5: And I don't know if you guys ever talked about this, 463 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 5: but of like the crew of guys who's here, if 464 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 5: you had to fight somebody, who are you fighting. 465 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 3: I mean there's a lot of a lot of the 466 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 3: Bachelor people else. 467 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: He grew up here, Like, I don't think he's that feisty. 468 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: He grew up coddled here and you know, Pabo Beach, 469 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 1: that's my best shot. 470 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know he is. 471 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:09,959 Speaker 5: My first time meeting Wells was when I started him 472 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 5: on JoJo's season and they were having them do a 473 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 5: challenge where they all had to like pretend to be firefighters. 474 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: Oh god, yes, like Jordan Rodgers is crushing it. 475 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:19,919 Speaker 2: That Luke pel guy is crushing it. 476 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 1: It was we had a real firefighter on the show, 477 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: Grant Yes. 478 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 5: And they have me interview Wells, and the producers like, 479 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 5: this guy's going to be great. He does radio for 480 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 5: a living, so he's gonna be like a SoundBite machine, 481 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 5: like sound really great. And I go over there and 482 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 5: he's like so gray and like near passing out, like truly, 483 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 5: like in the middle of the interview. 484 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 2: Goes, I don't think I keep talking anywhere. 485 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 5: I need some water because he just done like the 486 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 5: physical exertion that all of the other Meal contestants were 487 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 5: sailing through. 488 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 2: To be honest, I think Wells is a good choice. 489 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I think I could just picture a fight 490 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,360 Speaker 1: with us. It would kind of be one of those 491 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: like slap fights that ends up with us just kind 492 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,439 Speaker 1: of like hugging and wrestling each other on the around 493 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,399 Speaker 1: and then in like a minute and a half or like, 494 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 1: I'm exhausted. I'm exhausted. All right, let's go play golf. Andrew, 495 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: are you going with? 496 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 3: Who am I gonna fight? Yeah, I'm not gonna fight. 497 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 3: I'm gonna fight Bob Guinea. No, yeah, Detroit, and he's 498 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 3: also big, you know, and he was a you know, 499 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: he was an athlete. I'm not going to fight him. 500 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 3: Justin who I met last night, definitely not going to 501 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 3: fight him. 502 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: Monsters tartic buffalo. 503 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I know he's definitely he's fit, 504 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 3: like I learned, and. 505 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: You're going to be spending Christmases and Thanksgivings together the rest. 506 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 3: Of to make it ocer. 507 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 5: I just learned Jason used to play hockey. I never 508 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 5: knew that. I definitely soccer. 509 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it's Wells or Ben or Brett. 510 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 3: I take Brett Adam. 511 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 1: Brother. 512 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 5: Yeah no, I think Brett can throw a punch. That 513 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 5: guy can throw back. 514 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 8: And yeah, I. 515 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: Have a quest for you and I'm very serious about 516 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: this question. Do you feel like you have been ostracized 517 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: and cut out of this bachelor world because of our relationship? 518 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 3: One hundred percent, But I don't care, Like it's so 519 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 3: funny you said that because Bob and I were just 520 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 3: talking about this. Yeah, and you know again, I'm one 521 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 3: of the dinosaur bachelors, So it's not like you know. 522 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, so is Trista. So is getting 523 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: like there are others that are, you know, old school 524 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: that they keep like Sean Lowe even at this point, 525 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: and they keep having them back and keep propping the 526 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: franchise up. I've noticed you are easily one of the 527 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 1: most popular I'm not just blowing smoke. You're easily one 528 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: of the most successful, one of the most popular shows 529 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: we ever had, and people are You're very beloved when 530 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: we go out, and about as much as any bachelor 531 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: we've ever been with. And they have cut you completely 532 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,959 Speaker 1: out of the picture, like you don't get invited to anything. 533 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 3: I'll tell you the only thing that I we got 534 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 3: invited to, and it was Evan of myself and our kids. 535 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 3: We came down to the wedding of Jad and Tanner 536 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 3: Jade and Tanner. 537 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: And that's still when I was with the show though 538 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 1: no I know, but but but you and. 539 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 3: And the only they had asked me before, They're like, 540 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 3: do you want to come down? I'm like, I don't 541 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 3: even know. These people are like, I mean, why. 542 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: Would I go? 543 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,400 Speaker 3: But then but then Chris, Chris said, listen, no, come down. 544 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 3: It'll be fun and we can hang out. We can 545 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 3: play golf and you can. We met Ben Higgins that time. 546 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,239 Speaker 3: I wanted to hook you up with that so and 547 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 3: so we did, of course, because I'll hang with you 548 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 3: guys anytime. I don't have a real connection with the 549 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 3: Bachelor because they don't foster it really and and like 550 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't really try, and I don't cling 551 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 3: onto it or hold on to it. 552 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 1: Well, you're right, it's twofold one. They don't. They do 553 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: a really poor job, always have even when I was there. 554 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: They did a really poor job of keeping that family 555 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 1: tight knick group together and using it for good I mean, honestly, 556 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 1: for for the benefit of all of us. But the 557 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: other side of that is you've never sought that out, 558 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 1: like you've never needed it or wanted it, And so 559 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: that's a big part of it too was if these 560 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: people really want it, they'll they'll make a way to 561 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: get back in. 562 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. And I mean, I don't think I've talked to 563 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 3: anybody from the bastlor in, you know, besides from this 564 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 3: crew here in forever. I can't even remember the last time, 565 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 3: and which is totally fine, which is awesome, and Ivon 566 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 3: and I have our you know, our own life and 567 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 3: everything else going on. So it's it's there's not really 568 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 3: a big I just it's available. 569 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: I saw a big they it's something where a bunch 570 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: of formers were there, and I'm like, that's weird that 571 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 1: the Firestones aren't there. 572 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 3: But there was a time and it wasn't that long 573 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 3: ago actually where we were, Like I was on the 574 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 3: cover of People magazine they were doing an anniversary was 575 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 3: me and Bob and Trista and like the ogs. 576 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 5: And I think that's because that's like the fan base 577 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 5: knowing that you guys are beloved. But I don't think 578 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 5: the show fosters that, like last night, it's. 579 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 3: No good because they're not promoting their future shows and 580 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 3: there's there's so many so like I get, there's no 581 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 3: upside for them to include me, which is totally fine. 582 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 5: But I've only realized since not covering the show anymore, 583 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 5: how many people come up to me and I'll just 584 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 5: to his orne for a second, but like say that 585 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 5: Chris was the connection and it's not just fans. Like 586 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 5: last night, Bob Guiney was talking about his season and 587 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 5: I don't think you could hear this part because it 588 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 5: was like so loud in the room, But Bob turned 589 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 5: to me and was like, Chris is the only reason 590 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 5: I survived the show, like he is the only reason 591 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 5: I even made it through my season was because he 592 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 5: was a friend to me, and it was really sweet. 593 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: Higgins and I have had this conversations too, and I 594 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: love Bob and I do love Ben. I know you 595 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 1: don't care, but I just I found it odd. Yeah, 596 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,640 Speaker 1: and I didn't know if you've thought about that too, 597 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 1: or let me you have been surgically removed. No, it 598 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: gets brought and I apologize. 599 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 3: I am. 600 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 1: I am a little sorry that, like you, we went 601 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 1: down with the boat were no. 602 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 3: Way was when I was asked like, oh, did you 603 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 3: go to you can go to the wedding, the Golden Wedding, Yeah, 604 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 3: And I was like, I don't know, why would you know, 605 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 3: why would I ever like, who's gonna go? And there 606 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,120 Speaker 3: was a lot of other people there. Trista was there, 607 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 3: and Bob went. 608 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you know, what's the worst move on that? 609 00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 5: From a TV perspective, they're literally not inviting the family 610 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 5: only of models that came out of the franchise. The 611 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 5: Firestones are literally a family of models. They model for 612 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 5: the rich Carlton, they model for Abercarmie put them. These 613 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 5: two and their children are paid models. 614 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 1: I put this family up against anyone in the Bacher family. 615 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 5: But these faces on TV, it's idiocy. 616 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 1: You know, that is a better discussion like hottest family, 617 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:25,919 Speaker 1: best looking family for sure Firestones and it's really one hundred. 618 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 5: We're sorry, we know you're in the room now, you're beautiful, 619 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 5: but they're. 620 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: Literally the well, no, it's it's not. It's first of all, 621 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 1: it's not Andrew. But you look at Ivna, brooks Anya, 622 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: even Shane, you know he's really coming into his own. 623 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: Yeah he loves Chili for some weird reason, but he's 624 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 1: a I mean, it's a good looking family, like it 625 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: is an Abercrombie fish. 626 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 5: I ask, and we need to wrap you guys, but seriously, 627 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 5: I want to applaud Evana because this is something she's 628 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 5: done in the last couple of years, like created this 629 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 5: modeling career for the entire crew, and you Gushians are 630 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 5: crushing it. They're about to go on a cruise as 631 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 5: they've been hired to film and do ad campaigns for 632 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,120 Speaker 5: a cruise line, which is incredible. 633 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 2: So what's that been like for you guys? 634 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 5: Like she's your sugar mama now and so Andrew is 635 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 5: that has that gone for you? 636 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 3: So I think one of the coolest things that's happened 637 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 3: over the last few years is like, you know, again, 638 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 3: the Bachelor thing was so long ago and I don't 639 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 3: have that big of a connection with it. But Evanna, 640 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 3: you know, raised our three kids, supported me so much 641 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 3: in my you know, starting my business. In the last 642 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,199 Speaker 3: four or five years, she has been able to go 643 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,719 Speaker 3: and like create and foster and grow this career for 644 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 3: herself that she had before when I met her. You 645 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 3: gotta remember, I used to be the one that was 646 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,840 Speaker 3: like the plus one when all her red carpets and 647 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 3: when I would go to her photo shoots. I was 648 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 3: the one that was the hanger on. And but then 649 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 3: while I was building my business, and raising the kiddos. 650 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 3: She was bearing the brunt of doing all of that work, 651 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 3: or most of that work. And now we're at a 652 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 3: point where she can now focus back on that, which 653 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: is so fun for me to watch and to be 654 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 3: able to be that again and like kind of like 655 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 3: basking that Aunt I do And then so we did. 656 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 3: So she just booked for our family a massive, massive 657 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 3: campaign and I had nothing to do with it, and 658 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 3: she did it on her own. She hustled it made 659 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 3: it happen. And she manages all three of our kids 660 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 3: who are are working all the time, and she does 661 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 3: all that and I, you know, again, I get a 662 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 3: lot of credit for things that I've done in the past, 663 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 3: but she doesn't get enough credit for the stuff that 664 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 3: she doesn't know. 665 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 1: Wow, guys, Avon, do you I mean in all seriously 666 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: because I've always known you to be a badass on 667 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: every level because I met you before kids, I've seen 668 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: you and pickleball International pickleball champion. But to have watched this, 669 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 1: you know, next chapter in your life, to have watched 670 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: that evolve, to see the fire burning in you again, 671 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 1: Like is it exciting for you to get back to 672 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: that and to feel that fire. I mean, you have 673 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 1: your kids. Your kids aren't gone, by the way, you're 674 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: not done with that. I just want to break this 675 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: to you guys. Shane, Shane can't move out yet. But like, 676 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 1: is that has that been exciting? 677 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 4: Yes, it's been so exciting. 678 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 6: And I mean we were talking about this yesterday, the 679 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 6: fact that I went back at forty five. 680 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 8: Who would have ever thought. 681 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 4: But it's been awesome. 682 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 6: And it's nice to have a thing that feels good, 683 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 6: to have a thing something to you know, work towards 684 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 6: and do. 685 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 4: And this cruise is going to be amazing. It's icon 686 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 4: in the seas. The kids are gonna have so much fun. 687 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 4: It's gonna be amazing. 688 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 3: Are we invited on that? Yeah? 689 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 1: You know right, as much as the Bachelor cut them out, 690 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: they've cut us out. This is a good place to 691 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: stop it. Such a quick note. 692 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 3: But before we before we stop, one thing that we 693 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 3: noticed a lot of our you know, like wet to 694 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 3: this age and as long as you've been married, a 695 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 3: lot of there's a lot of tension ends up boiling 696 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 3: between couples because you're at this point where like she's 697 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 3: had this assignment for so long raising the kids. I've 698 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 3: had this assignment whatever else. Then you get to a 699 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 3: point where you're like, wait a second, I want this 700 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 3: and this is what you know, like what she needs 701 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,719 Speaker 3: and what she wants and what I've gotten used to 702 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 3: sometimes aren't in congruence. And so we we had a 703 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 3: we had a rough pass where we had to try 704 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 3: and talk through and figure out that like, wait a second, 705 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 3: like this is important to her, not just because you 706 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 3: know it's important to her from a you know, from 707 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 3: a financial perspective, whatever else, but if fulfilling part of it, 708 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 3: and I had to I was like a re education 709 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 3: for me well, and to think that like. 710 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 1: I am growing and work is being done by the 711 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,239 Speaker 1: way it's it is. It's first of all, it's been 712 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 1: a great way to help self realization. This is growth. 713 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 1: But it's also something that every couple who has children 714 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: have to face. And it is one one if I know, 715 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: we talk about finances and all that, but it's one 716 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: of the biggest reasons couples end up getting divorced and 717 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: going their separate ways is because one or the other 718 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: has defined themselves for the better part of a decade 719 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: or two on raising children and and when that is 720 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: over to a certain degree, and they go to high 721 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: school or go to college or whatever, and you're like, 722 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 1: oh crap, my definition just left. Now what am I 723 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: and what? And so if you guys have not, if 724 00:31:58,560 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: you don't do the work that you're just talking about 725 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: self realization and figure that out, you do end up 726 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 1: going somewhere. 727 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 3: I promise you. I was almost too late to it. 728 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 3: I was so focused. I was looking down. I'm like, 729 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 3: everything's awesome. I've got a beautiful wife, three amazing kids, whatever, 730 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 3: I mean, my life is amazing. And I wasn't looking left. 731 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 3: I wasn't looking to my partner enough. And she you know, 732 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 3: and she wasn't quiet about it, But I was like, 733 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 3: but then, but then I didn't realize for a while 734 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 3: how important it was to fulfill her. And when she's filled, 735 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 3: when she's happy, it makes me that much happier. And 736 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 3: so it's been. It's been a I think, a pivot 737 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 3: in our in our relationship and our family that she 738 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 3: now controls this big part of what we do, and 739 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 3: it's so much more balanced than it has been I 740 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 3: think in our entire life. 741 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: Wow, I love that we FI FI five. 742 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 5: We started this podcast by saying we were going to 743 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 5: make Andrew uncomfortable and now he's he's spun around on 744 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 5: us and he's just crushed. 745 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 3: And we also talked about who you thought was going 746 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:56,720 Speaker 3: to die first, me or Bob Gami. 747 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: So you know, we didn't answer that. 748 00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know that we want to. 749 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 5: No, Dean and Calen, have we scared you with this conversation. 750 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 1: Nearly what you say? Goodbye to the Firestones. We love 751 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: you guys. Y'all are of course dear, dear friends to us, 752 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: and we love anytime we get to hang out with 753 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: you guys. And I can't wait to be done with 754 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 1: this because then we can spend the rest of the 755 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: day together. 756 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 3: I know I can't wait to go back to that 757 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 3: bathroom and look at that picture. 758 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: We just spend the rest of the day. Thank you, 759 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: love you guys, Thanks for listening. Follow us on Instagram 760 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: at the most dramatic pod ever and make sure to 761 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 1: write us a review and leave us five stars. I'll 762 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: talk to you next time.