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Speaker 1: ex husband's new girlfriend's ex husband. That's a lot of

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Speaker 1: ex husband's girlfriend's ex husband.

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Speaker 2: So many ex husband's girlfriends ex husbands.

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Speaker 1: I forty nine female and my ex husband fifty mail

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Speaker 1: let's call him Kevin, got divorced. And the straw that

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Speaker 1: which was a Rolex watch he had looked at multiple

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Speaker 1: you're probably cheating. I don't even want it from you, which, wow,

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Speaker 1: most likely means he's actually cheating.

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Speaker 2: I talked to a.

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Speaker 1: Divorce attorney after this and we filed in a month

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Speaker 1: and he moved out. I told my attorney about this,

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Speaker 1: and he wanted to know where he moved out. As

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Speaker 1: Kevin wouldn't list his new address, it was revealed he

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Speaker 1: moved in with his new girlfriend friend fifty female, let's

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Speaker 1: call her Jenny. He was cheating. He was cheating. I

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Speaker 1: actually knew Jenny as our oldest kids have been in

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Speaker 1: and her husband fifty two male let's call him Terry,

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Speaker 1: who just got divorced right before too. So these are

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Speaker 1: family friends. These are family friends. And the op's husband

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Speaker 1: now soon to be ex husband is dating this family

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Speaker 1: Also Stella Davis says, quote unquote new because you know

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Speaker 1: they were hooking up beforehand. You know they were hooking

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Speaker 2: For however, always goes.

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Speaker 1: It takes a little over a year to finalize the

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Speaker 1: divorce since Kevin couldn't agree to any terms. A few

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Speaker 1: weeks after the divorce, Kevin and Jenny went public with

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Speaker 1: a relationship. On a luxury beach trip, Terry sends me

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Speaker 1: a friend requests that I quickly accepted. Terry is the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the other the like basically the person that's in

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I'll admit this moment, I was being shallow

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Speaker 1: after are they going to Poundtown, put your answer, put

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Speaker 1: Poundtown in the chatown, just asking if I had seen

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Speaker 1: the post, and blah blah blah. The conversation quickly turned

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Speaker 1: into making plans to get dinner and drinks. One night,

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Speaker 1: As we were eating, Kevin texted me that he was

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Speaker 1: And shortly after that, Terry admitted to me that he

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Speaker 1: Conspiracy theories? What do we think is gonna happen? So

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Speaker 1: Then Ope dated the ex husband of the family friend,

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Speaker 2: Why does that always happen? Yeah, it seems like that

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Speaker 1: Honestly, kind of good. They both have each other.

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Speaker 2: It's better.

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Speaker 1: But what do you think is going to happen now

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, how could you like what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: You know, and the other two are still together.

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Speaker 2: Of each other's lives, it's like, well.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, like the the exes, yep, will they are?

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Speaker 3: I feel like they're still together, given that they have

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Speaker 1: Stop stop? How do they do this with like no facts?

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Speaker 2: And like do they not?

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe they don't, but do they not know

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Speaker 1: Exactly? How are they supporting a fucking cheating couple?

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Speaker 2: What are we doing here?

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Speaker 1: So Terry started to help me sell my house since

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Speaker 1: he wants full custody. No way.

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Speaker 2: I find well, he's lying to get them right.

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Speaker 1: He's lying to the kids because the kids are the

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Speaker 1: husband wants full custody. So is OP the a hole?

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Speaker 3: Like if anything, OP, he needs to go way harder

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Speaker 1: So Kowala Bear twenty says, not the ahole. Are your

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Speaker 2: It's a really good point. That's a really good point.

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Speaker 1: And like so I think overall like Op's not the

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 2: So and they knew that they were dating.

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Speaker 1: like basically Kevin, the ex husband, probably said something. Yes,

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Speaker 1: They are currently with their dad. Terry was awarded full

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Speaker 1: So Kevin, Kevin and Jenny are the ones dating Kevin

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Opie's now soon to be husband is getting full coustody.

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Speaker 3: Or Opie's the man Opie's dating is getting full custody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, So so that's like even further reason that

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Speaker 1: I'm sure him and Jenny had an affair when we

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Speaker 1: actually don't know. Okay. I don't let them waste any

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Speaker 1: I'm cream and just reading this. I did tell my

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Speaker 1: Terry has been very nice, has a very nice ranch

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Speaker 2: Someone said, back it up, Terry.

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Speaker 1: Josie Hot, Yeah, back it freaking up. Terry also had

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Speaker 1: Terry is the best. Terry's great, Dude, Terry, Terry's great.

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Speaker 1: I feel like op like really lucked out. But it's

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Speaker 2: I mean, do you just like go to Terry and

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Speaker 1: Just give up your kids, just give up your kids. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: get married Terry.

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Speaker 2: Because you could go to contact with your kids.

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Speaker 2: That's tough. That's tough.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't want to act like I was hiding

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Speaker 1: After everyone degrading my career, I work my ass off.

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Speaker 1: What now on to the update two thirty pm, Bro,

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Speaker 1: that's like what we're doing for this three I know.

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Speaker 1: flip like that. He did say we could go to court,

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Speaker 1: I'll admit it. I see a therapist for my own health.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing nothing wrong with with that now. I talked

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Speaker 1: The therapist was able to finally get them to open up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is good.

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Speaker 3: This feels like we're getting to the real This is

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Speaker 3: fertile ground. We're cracking the case.

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Speaker 1: You read it. Detectives were correct. He turned the story

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Speaker 1: before we got divorced, and even tried to tell the

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Speaker 1: youngest that Terry could be his dad because I was

441
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: cheating on them. You are joking, which isn't true, as

442
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 1: I never cheated on Kevin in our entire relationship. I

443
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,199
Speaker 1: was able to tell the kids the full truth, and

444
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 1: I felt the fifty pound weight was lifted off my chest.

445
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,400
Speaker 1: So oh, he telled the full truth after I had

446
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 1: never been happier to hug all three of them. I

447
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: made sure to express how much we miss them and

448
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:34,439
Speaker 1: are happy to have them home, and completely unexpected was

449
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: all three gave Terry a hug next. Terry isn't one

450
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Speaker 1: to cry about much or cry very easily, but the

451
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 1: second they hugged him, I saw his eyes water up,

452
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: and I knew I was making the right decision and

453
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Speaker 1: pick someone who loves these boys as much as I do.

454
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Speaker 1: They spent the weekend with us, and I was able

455
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Speaker 1: to tell the older two the full story about Kevin

456
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,399
Speaker 1: and Jenny how the marriage fell apart, and once again

457
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 1: invited them to live with us. So basically now giving

458
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Speaker 1: like the age appropriate.

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Speaker 2: Because the two is fifteen seventeen, like still you're getting there, Yeah,

460
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Speaker 2: you know exactly.

461
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Speaker 1: They both said that they actually wanted to, but since

462
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: Kevin had fened them lies, they didn't want to be

463
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Speaker 1: around us. They get out of school in May and

464
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: are planning to move with us for this summer. This

465
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Speaker 1: will hopefully be a good opportunity for them to bond

466
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Speaker 1: with Terry's kids and their friends. I will not be

467
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Speaker 1: pushing them to move here, as it's their own choice,

468
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,239
Speaker 1: but deep down, I really do hope they do. I

469
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Speaker 1: think going to a smaller school and living in a

470
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Speaker 1: smaller town will be better for them than living in

471
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Speaker 1: the city. I told my youngest a more watered down

472
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Speaker 1: version of events. I think that's smart. That's smart.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

474
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Speaker 1: I did make sure to tell him that Kevin is

475
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Speaker 1: his real dad and what he told about Terry was

476
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Speaker 1: not true. He seemed to understand it, so for the moment,

477
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Speaker 1: Kevin is fine with the boys moving here for the summer.

478
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Speaker 1: All three of them asked him instead of me, and

479
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Speaker 1: I think that has helped a lot, showing him it

480
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Speaker 1: was their decision instead of mine. To say I'm excited

481
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: is an understatement. I'm over the moon with how much

482
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Speaker 1: this is working out. I've talked to my lawyer and

483
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Speaker 1: he said the older two are able to decide where

484
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Speaker 1: they go. Well, Kevin and I would have to come

485
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Speaker 1: to an agreement for a youngest. I don't want full custody,

486
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Speaker 1: as I think the kids need their father and their lives,

487
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: but my lawyer is urging me to fight for full custody.

488
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Speaker 1: Do you think OP should fight for full crusty?

489
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Speaker 3: It's tricky because, like ultimately, like if if OP gets

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Speaker 3: full custody, then she could be like, hey, I will

491
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Speaker 3: still let you see them, but still have like full control.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because full custody, full custody basically means uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think she can decide.

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Speaker 2: She can decide if.

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Speaker 1: By default she gets it, yeah, one hundred percent, right,

496
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Speaker 1: by DEFAULTY gets it on a hundred percent. But like he

497
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Speaker 1: can visit or whatever.

498
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Speaker 2: Like yeah, as much as she allows, you know.

499
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Speaker 3: And then and then at any moment, like let's say

500
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Speaker 3: he's like always keeping the kids, she could be like nah, nah, nah,

501
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 3: I can go to the you know, the court or whatever.

502
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 2: She always has that kind of like maybe yeah, maybe.

503
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Speaker 1: Maybe, especially if he's like poisoning their minds with lives.

504
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, actively, and then she can then she can control it.

505
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 3: But still she wants the Fonsa to be in the life.

506
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she wants it.

507
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe maybe yeah.

508
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: With travel sports starting up, Kevin and I were able

509
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Speaker 1: to agree on a temporary agreement of me getting the

510
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: kids on weekends that they have a game. I will

511
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Speaker 1: pick them up on Fridays, go to the game on Saturday,

512
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: and bring them home Sunday. We've been talking with lawyers

513
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: about a permanent agreement. They were able to agree with

514
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 1: the older two having a decision as long as they

515
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 1: didn't miss anything required, such as school. Some things Kevin

516
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 1: has told the kids is that Terry is still dependent

517
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: on drugs. To make a long story short, about two

518
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: years ago, Terry had been having neck problems and saw

519
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: a chiropractor for the first time in his life. The

520
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: chiropractor broke his neck in four places. What chiropractors are

521
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: fucking crazy bro resulting in him needing two surgeries and

522
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: becoming addicted to painkillers. Fuck. He was on them for

523
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: a year and took him another six months to get off,

524
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 1: but he's been clean since of any prescription painkiller. Then,

525
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 1: Kevin said that Terry and I wanted to take them

526
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: away and never let them see their other family tried

527
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: to accuse me of being addiction drugs. I get even

528
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: more sick and nause just taking painkillers, so I refuse

529
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: to take any, even after a mass miseectomy and reconstructing surgery.

530
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: And I also found out Jenny was calling them my

531
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 1: boys and wanting them to take her last name. That's crazy.

532
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: That is that that that is still Terry's because she

533
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: refused to change it after the divorce, So there's still

534
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: lots we don't know and hopefully will one day. Wow

535
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: those are something stipil lies.

536
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 2: Wow Wow Wow.

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Speaker 1: I I feel like, well, I think that the question

538
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 1: right now is should op super full custody? Yeah?

539
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so. I think super full custody. And

540
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 3: I don't know if you can say this in quarter,

541
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 3: if this like messes up your case or helps it,

542
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 3: but I would eventually be like, yeah, I do want

543
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 3: the kids to have the.

544
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Speaker 2: Father in their life. But like, given that you've done

545
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 2: all of you know, you you you've cheated.

546
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 3: Left me, you spread all of these terrible, disgusting, malicious lies,

547
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 3: you tried to my boys and go fucked up, so

548
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,919
Speaker 3: fucked up so much. So given that you've done all that,

549
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 3: I cannot trust you. So I, legally speaking need full custody. However,

550
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 3: I do want their dad to be in their life

551
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 3: and to you know, with my supervision, in my like oversight,

552
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 3: so that way I can make sure they still have

553
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 3: a stable home and like everything is good with them

554
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 3: and they still you know, maybe maybe you do like, hey, dad,

555
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 3: let's all meet together and go to the park or

556
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: chuck e cheese or whatever. Right, Maybe that's the way

557
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 3: where it's like supervised, it's you know, outside of the homes,

558
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 3: something along those lines.

559
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I almost feel like they need supervise visitations. I mean,

560
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: she she shouldn't take their father away from them. Yeah,

561
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: but like especially for the youngest, supervised visitation so he

562
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: doesn't spread lies. Yes to the I think I feel

563
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: for the older kids, they can kind of decide what

564
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: they want, but we do want to do some call its.

565
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: So Riley, do you got something for us?

566
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 2: I got you one? Hello, absolute melancholy.

567
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: Hi, what was your one sentence descriptor of your story?

568
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 5: So? My story is am I the a hope for

569
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 5: helping getting Senior skip Day canceled?

570
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 1: Senior skip Day canceled? Okay, all right, give us give

571
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: us your one minute story, pets, and we'll get well,

572
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: we'll give you the verdict, give you the verdict, but judges.

573
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 5: Okay. So basically what happened was me and my friends

574
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 5: were sent an email chain, so it was sent to

575
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 5: the whole grade basically saying that Senior skip Day was

576
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 5: supposed to happen Monday. It was like December, and they

577
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 5: told us we had two senior skip gates and we

578
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 5: were like, no, that's not how it works. And so

579
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 5: they were basically saying that we could get it approved

580
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 5: at some point and we were like, no, that's not

581
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 5: how Senior Skip Day works.

582
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: You just skip a day, you don't need skip for yeah.

583
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, And so I created a pole and sent it

584
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 5: to my I got my friend to send it to

585
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 5: the whole like, you know, seniors, Senior grade. And so

586
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,719
Speaker 5: we all did a poll to see what day they

587
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 5: wanted to do Senior Skip Day, and it turns out

588
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 5: people wanted to do it April eighth, just coming up soon,

589
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 5: and so I was like, see, clearly people don't want

590
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 5: to do it in December. And then what ended up

591
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 5: happening is that we got in trouble. Our whole grade

592
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 5: got in trouble because a whole WhatsApp group got you know,

593
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 5: they were doxing people and like threatening people.

594
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: Oh wait, who was doxing and threatening?

595
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 5: So the main perpetrators were the people who originally sent

596
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 5: the email out. So the problem with the email was

597
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 5: that one they were saying it was already approved, which

598
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 5: you can't get Senior Skip Day approved obviously, and also

599
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 5: that they were so they decided Senior skip Day in

600
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 5: a psychology class, so they decided that senior Skip Day

601
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 5: was going to happen by themselves. So five people decided

602
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 5: when senior Skip Day was for the whole entire one

603
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 5: and forty kids.

604
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: And you are like, actually, let's do a poll to

605
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Speaker 1: see when we actually want it for everyone, for everyone,

606
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: And then that WhatsApp got exposed and then what they

607
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: canceled the senior skip Day totally so petty.

608
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Speaker 5: So obviously they can't really cancel that because it's not

609
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 5: something that the school can promote.

610
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: Like officially cancel it. Yeah, yeah, but they're like if you.

611
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 5: Skip me, yeah, you get in trouble if you don't

612
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 5: have like permission to.

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00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I think we're ready to make our decision.

614
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: I'm ready.

615
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: Okay. So the things, the the the the facts as

616
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: we know it right now is senior Skip Day was

617
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Speaker 1: decided by like five people in a psychology class, and

618
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: like everyone's like that doesn't make sense, and absolute Melancholy

619
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: decides to take it on her shoulders and basically be like,

620
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find the best day and make up roll

621
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: right right WhatsApp group with everyone, And then that WhatsApp

622
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: group gets exposed, and the teachers are like, if anyone skips,

623
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: you're getting in huge trouble and effectively kind of like

624
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: canceled the best dates for the senior skip day. I

625
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: would say, not the a hole at all. You were

626
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: trying to do best by your school, but that sucks

627
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: that your school is being a little little douche nozzle.

628
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: Well what can they really do? If like and I

629
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 3: will also say, not the a hole, but what can

630
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 3: they do?

631
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 5: Well?

632
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: They because because they can. What they said is if

633
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: anyone skips that day, they get in trouble. So the

634
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 1: day that they chose on the prole, if you skip

635
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: that day, you're like, and don't have an excuse, you're

636
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: gonna get in trouble. Auto trip.

637
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 5: But what if everyone does to the day that it happened,

638
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 5: they have them back and getmber. I haven't graduated yet obviously.

639
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 6: So happened back in December.

640
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 5: The people who skipped, they like basically weren't going to

641
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 5: have any of their all of their assignments we do

642
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 5: that day. So if you were like, oh, I'm skipping, and.

643
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: Oh you could not, we get zeros on the assignments.

644
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 2: That's tough.

645
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 6: And during the time we had they had some stuff.

646
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 5: So like I go to this school, it's kind of

647
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 5: like uh ib diploma, So like if you don't turn

648
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 5: in some of these like assignments, like you are barred

649
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 5: from getting like your special diploma.

650
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: Oh so yeah, they might not get the diploma. That's

651
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: a lot of power, a lot of power. Sucks that

652
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: they're doing that, but I feel like not the a

653
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: hole of course. And also, thank you so much for calling.

654
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Speaker 1: Uh we are really appreciated. Thanks for supparting the show.

655
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Speaker 5: Of course. I'm so happy that you guess called of.

656
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Speaker 2: Our cars, Riley.

657
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Speaker 1: Do we should we do another? Call it? I have

658
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Speaker 1: another one for you, okay, by absolutely amazing.

659
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Speaker 2: Ready, yeah, I got I got two for you.

660
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: You got too, Okay, a special one. Hello?

661
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: Hello?

662
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: Who is this?

663
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 4: Hello?

664
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, the myth allegend.

665
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 7: How are you I am?

666
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 4: I'm good?

667
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: Holy wow. Also, if anyone has questions in the chat

668
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: for Sleepless Nights, I feel like everyone's like chat's going

669
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: crazy crazy if you don't know who Sleepless Nights is

670
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: the chatgend allgend.

671
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 3: Wow.

672
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: How's your shift going?

673
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 4: It's going I'm slow. I barely have any work today.

674
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: Okay, we're glad. We're glad you're here.

675
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: We're glad you're here. Do you do you have a

676
00:33:58,680 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: story for us?

677
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 4: In the text, I just kind of put down, like,

678
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 4: my dad cheated on my mom and married the hoe

679
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 4: he cheated on her with.

680
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: Wait, your dad cheated on your mom and like, what

681
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: was that last bit?

682
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 4: Married the hoe he.

683
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:22,439
Speaker 1: Married, married the hoe that she he cheated on her with.

684
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: That is a fucking title, Sleepless nights. Can you give

685
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: us the one minute breakdown of what happened? And uh,

686
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: and then we'll we'll dive in with questions I was.

687
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 4: I would say about three between my dad and my

688
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 4: mom divorced. Yeah, and my baby sister had probably just

689
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 4: before she was born. Uh, my dad ended up like

690
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 4: uh you know that, as the title says, ended up

691
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 4: marrying or not married. She I think they married like

692
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 4: maybe ten or fifteen years after or something. But uh,

693
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 4: my grandparents even had my mom and dad go on

694
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 4: a trip to try and like fix things.

695
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: And you guys need some alone time.

696
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 6: My grandparents were on top of it.

697
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 4: They're trying to fix things and funny.

698
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 1: Top of being on top of okay, I'm not gonna

699
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:37,720
Speaker 1: make that chuck anyway, Okay.

700
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:39,800
Speaker 4: My grandpa even told me that she hit my dad's

701
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 4: dad sat there telling my grandfather that my dad wasn't

702
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 4: good enough for my mom, And so my dad was

703
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 4: still on the phone with like my stepmother.

704
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: Your dad's dad said that about his own son son,

705
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: about his own son, Yes, yes, wow.

706
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 4: I didn't end up meeting him because he had passed

707
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 4: away before I was born, I think, yeah. I think

708
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 4: they just said that he had passed away before I

709
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 4: was born. I only met technically my dad's grandfather, but

710
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 4: that was like a few months after he ended up

711
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 4: passing away too. I guess I kill people, and so

712
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 4: that's another story too. So they tried, like I said,

713
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 4: they tried to go on a thing together, a trip,

714
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 4: and my dad was still on the phone with this woman,

715
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 4: and I remember, distinctly, I think I was like fifteen.

716
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 8: I'm maybe fourteen.

717
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 4: Maybe less than that. I asked my dad and I

718
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 4: was like, hey, so.

719
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 9: Like, why did you and mom like split up?

720
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 6: And my dad.

721
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 8: Verbatim kids do not. It's just like, well, your stepmother,

722
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 8: she she needed love, and I wanted to make sure

723
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 8: that she knew love was, and so I chose to

724
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 8: be with her.

725
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Speaker 1: Waitow, wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, let

726
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: me clear that up. So wait, so your your your

727
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: you're you were talking to your dad right and your

728
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: your dad said you're like, why did y'all y'all break up?

729
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: And your dad said, I wanted to stay with your

730
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: mom because your mom needed to know what your love

731
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: is like.

732
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 3: The new woman, the stepmother. Yeah, so you're talking to

733
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 3: the step mom. That's who the dad was referencing. So

734
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 3: he's like, no, I wanted to go to your you know,

735
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 3: step mom, this new woman, just show her what love

736
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 3: looks and feel like in all this.

737
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, your your Oh your dad is trash.

738
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 1: Yes, oh, oh my goodness. He said that to you.

739
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 4: Absolutely no contact with him After a bunch of bullshit

740
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 4: happened later down the road.

741
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: He said, I needed to show your stepmom what real

742
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: love is like.

743
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, it's like, what about my fucking mom?

744
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 7: Yeah?

745
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: What about me? I guess.

746
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 9: So, Karen was an absolute h because my dad and

747
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 9: stepmom tried and tried and tried to conceive, and my

748
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 9: stepmother was only able to have one kid, and that

749
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 9: was before my dad had come.

750
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 3: Into the pictures, so they were never able to have

751
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 3: a kid together.

752
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 6: No.

753
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 4: Wow wow, and because that kid would probably have been tortured.

754
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh wow. So is the question is your dad

755
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 1: in a hole?

756
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: Sam? Can we sing it together?

757
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: Always yes, or you'll say that then we always spent Yeah, okay,

758
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 1: you are not the a hole your dad is is

759
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: the a hole?

760
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: In fact, you're You're the greatest angel of all time.

761
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: I know, Sleepless night, sleepless, respect for giving us these

762
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 1: sleepless nights. Oh my goodness, your dad is an ass hat.

763
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 4: Oh oh yeah, no, wholeheartedly. He's also I think we

764
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 4: were probably diagnosing him that, like they're manipulators.

765
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, well, thank you for sharing that story.

766
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 2: We're glad. We're glad you're in our adopted Ye.

767
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have adopted you. We have adopted you. My goodness. Well, sleepless,

768
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 1: thanks for calling it. We're gonna give you guys another story.

769
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. Uh, well, please sleepless submit another story. Yeah, sleepless,

770
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: sleepless stories, my sleepless you're the best.

771
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 2: Oh my wow, we just chatted with the legend of.

772
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: The personal legend. Wow wow wow an icon an icon icon.

773
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:25,359
Speaker 1: What a crazy thing to say to your daughter. It's

774
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: also like Funnily enough, it's kind of like the PG

775
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: version of saying like, yeah, I had sex with another woman.

776
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: It's like I needed to show this woman what love meant. Yeah,

777
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 1: so at least he put it PG.

778
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: Guys, ready for another one?

779
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: Lisa and Tiago says, bro, my dad begged my mom

780
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: for a baby then shagged her high school bestie. They

781
00:40:47,000 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: should grab a beer. Wow yo wo what? Oh my goodness,

782
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 1: y'all got some crazy stories in the pocket. Do we

783
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: got another one?

784
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:05,760
Speaker 6: Riley?

785
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: Or should we go into an next story?

786
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 5: Bore?

787
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 2: This one's really good?

788
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: Okay?

789
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, it is John and Sam from okop. Who

790
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: are we talking to? My name is Ria, Rita, Rita,

791
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 2: what's going on?

792
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: What's your one sentence descriptor of your story?

793
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 6: So I don't really need a judgment on this. I'm

794
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 6: just being chaotic and telling the story about how my

795
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 6: sister dated my mom's third X husband.

796
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: Sister dated the mom's third ex husband. Wow, yeah oh ye.

797
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 1: How old is everyone in this story?

798
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 6: So we're my sister and I are twenty nine my months,

799
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 6: my mom is forty five, and her third ex husband,

800
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 6: I believe I'm doing the math light is thirty six

801
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 6: now fucked. My sister and I. We were my mom's

802
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 6: first kids. It was a teenage pregnancy. Fast forward to

803
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 6: her meeting her third next husband. We were thirteen, he

804
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 6: was twenty one. Nothing weird happened at that point as

805
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 6: far as I know. They get married. Ten years later,

806
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 6: they get divorced immediately because he was.

807
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: An asshole, all right, So to recap really quick, really

808
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: coup really quick. So third husband and and your mom

809
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: get divorced.

810
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 6: Yes, okay, So they're trying to figure out, you know,

811
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 6: custody and all that stuff. My mom's just he's an asshole,

812
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 6: so she doesn't really want to deal with him. So

813
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 6: she tells my sister, hey, can you help me out

814
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 6: with this, just kind of you pick up and drop

815
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,919
Speaker 6: off because my little sisters they're ten now. So they're

816
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 6: figuring that out, and then they start getting friendly because

817
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 6: they were They got along with my sister and her

818
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 6: ex husband and her my mom's ex husband got along

819
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 6: really well when they were when my mom and him

820
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 6: were married. So they start and how old your sister

821
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 6: at this point at this point, well, this was last year.

822
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so relatively yeah, okay, oh god.

823
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 6: So they start hanging out going, let's go get dreams

824
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 6: blah bah blah. And I guess from what I hear,

825
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 6: and are you taking weird?

826
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: Like weird is going on? Like are you like, why

827
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: is she hanging out with mom's ex ex husband.

828
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 6: I thought it was weird. Everyone else thought it was weird.

829
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 6: My mom was like, oh no, it's fine. You know,

830
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 6: you know, your sister and I are just friendly with people.

831
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 6: You know, we just want to keep the like the

832
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 6: party in peace. You know, we don't want to we

833
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 6: don't want things to get weird. I'm like, okay, well

834
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 6: this is already weird. Okay, So so you start hanging

835
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 6: out and then eventually my sister comes down and they're like, yeah,

836
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,479
Speaker 6: we've been you know. I started to develop feelings for him,

837
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 6: and he started to develop feelings for me. And she

838
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 6: was telling my mom, I just want to get your

839
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 6: blessing that it's okay for us to continue. And my

840
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 6: Mom's like, okay, because my mom's already husband in the

841
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 6: state relationship for like five or six years now. Yeah, yes, yeah.

842
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 6: She doesn't address say well, she said it was fine

843
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 6: because she didn't want her boyfriend, her current boyfriend, to

844
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 6: think that she still had feelings for him for her ex.

845
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: Husband, But it's totally normal for you not to want

846
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: your daughter to date your ex husband, right, chat I

847
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: missing You're wrong.

848
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 6: No, no, no, you're not. But like I said, my

849
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 6: mom really just she doesn't like having problems with people,

850
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 6: so to her in front of her current boys, and

851
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 6: she's like, no, you know, it's fine to let them

852
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 6: do whatever they want, Like, it's not my problem. She's

853
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 6: an adult. But like, she came to my grandma's house

854
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 6: and I live with my grandmother, and she was crying,

855
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 6: like it almost seemed like someone had died, that's how

856
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 6: hard my mom was crying. And she's like, I'm not

857
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 6: crying because you know, I miss him, I'm crying because

858
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 6: his mother's fucked sorry. And I was like, cause, but

859
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 6: this motherfucker's didting my my daughter, you know.

860
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah.

861
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 6: So then that, yeah, it was weird. So then that'll happen.

862
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 6: And then I found out what they were dating. The

863
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 6: woman he cheated on my mom with was still living

864
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 6: in the same apartment with them, and right, wait, oh.

865
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 2: Wha wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.

866
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: The woman the wait wait, this is so messye okay, yeah, okay, Okay, okait, wait,

867
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: let me see if I'm geting this right. So the woman, so,

868
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 1: the woman that your mom's third ex husband cheated with,

869
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,399
Speaker 1: was living in the same apartment as him. While he's

870
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: living in the same apartment with this this lover he's

871
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: dating your sister.

872
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then rip too real one. She unfortunately did

873
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 6: die during that time from loops.

874
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: Wait, who dies.

875
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 6: The mistress?

876
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: The mistress?

877
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a whole thing. We're like, I don't

878
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 6: we don't know what happened in that apartment, Like she

879
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 6: had loops, so she was already not doing that well

880
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 6: in health, and yeah, she passed away during that time.

881
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: Is it at all suspicious? All right?

882
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 6: I don't want it, Okay, I didn't want to point fingers.

883
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: Isn't it all suspicious that she died right as he's

884
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: dating your sister?

885
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 6: I just want to say he is a son of

886
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 6: a So I don't know. It is weird. They ruled

887
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 6: it that it was because of her loopus, so I

888
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 6: cannot confirm nor deny that he might have done something.

889
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

890
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, So.

891
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: Is your sister worried?

892
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 6: No, because they're not dating anymore, so she doesn't deal

893
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 6: with him in that way. But my dad, my mom's

894
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 6: first husband, My dad was pissed. My dad didn't talk

895
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 6: to my sisters for like a year. Our grandmother she's

896
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 6: still pissed. She still doesn't talk to my sister. So

897
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 6: my sister slowly trying to crawl back her way into

898
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 6: the family. Wow.

899
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 7: So yeah, your sister's trying.

900
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 1: To crawl back her way in the family after like

901
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: dating your mom's ex. You know, like everybody, there's like

902
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 1: you know, like there's like quote unquote bro quote where

903
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: you don't like date your your homies exes?

904
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 2: What about mom?

905
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: What about mom?

906
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: What about what about daughter? Code?

907
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this, do you think that she

908
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 3: should be let It kind of sounds like you're cool

909
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 3: with her now, Like do you think she should be

910
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:29,760
Speaker 3: let back in the family.

911
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 6: That's right, I mean, I'm letting her. I'm dealing. I'm

912
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 6: speaking to my sister again. There was a moment a

913
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 6: couple months where I didn't talk to her, But it's

914
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 6: truly for selfish reasons, because she buys me stuff sometimes.

915
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,240
Speaker 6: So that's why I'm letting her back.

916
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: In, just for the presence.

917
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 2: What if she bought stuff the whole family.

918
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 6: I don't think she has enough money for that.

919
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: Okay, but oh wow.

920
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 6: So there's a lot of family.

921
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Yeah, well I guess get those presents.

922
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, get those presents. I mean, my goodness, you deserve it.

923
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: That was grassy.

924
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 6: Honestly, I have like so many more stories. My parents

925
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 6: got together when my mom was fourteen and my dad

926
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 6: was twenty one, So that's just the whole thing right there. Yeah.

927
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, Where are you from?

928
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 6: So I'm from California, which is why I'm still up Mexican. Yeah, yeah,

929
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 6: my parents are Mexican. I'm near like ten minutes down

930
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 6: from Disneyland.

931
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 1: Okay, no, we've gone to Yeah we did. Yes, Oh

932
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: my gosh, baby god, we need more readA stories. You

933
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: gotta stories, We don't. We don't want to pull them

934
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: all from you now.

935
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

936
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, we save the tea, save the tea for us.

937
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

938
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 6: Well, I'll rest them all down and they'll call each individually,

939
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 6: one perfect thank you.

940
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 7: Thank you for that.

941
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 2: We will be here my ya.

942
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's Lizzie Joe says, how good was the

943
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: spicy sleep that your sister had to hook up with?

944
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:11,959
Speaker 1: That dude?

945
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 2: Okay, Lizzie Joe.

946
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,879
Speaker 6: So I once I'm looking to my mom's I saw

947
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 6: it sick and I'm not gonna lie. The silence was everything. Yeah,

948
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 6: but he's discussing, so I would never think about it.

949
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 6: You know, he's gross.

950
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: How big?

951
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 6: I mean just like, you know, like a little bit

952
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 6: bigger than the six inch sub.

953
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 7: Wowly no, oh my goodness, he's nasty.

954
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 1: Oh but he but he's thick though, shut up.

955
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, it's dirty. You don't touch that ship.

956
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 2: Oh man, oh man?

957
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:09,879
Speaker 1: Shaking all the cameras right now.

958
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, all the cameras are shaping. Everything's breaking and

959
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 3: melting and dissolving.

960
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: My goodness, I oh my god, you.

961
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 3: Really dropped a bomb on us. Ty, we weren't ready

962
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 3: for this. We were not prepared for this, my goodness.

963
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, oh no, it's just don't ask questions.

964
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: You're not ready for the answers. That is true, that

965
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: is true about says, but you think though, oh my god, wait,

966
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: what is that two fifty half foot long scratched the

967
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: sides but not reached the bottle?

968
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 2: Isn't even know, I don't know, I don't even understand anymore.

969
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: Is that like a thickness joke or it's like you

970
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 1: scratched the sides like it's like pencil dip. It's like

971
00:50:56,920 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: los you scratched the side of the thickness but not reached.

972
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: Okay anyway, Rida, thanks for calling in. Please submit more stories, please.

973
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 6: Well, thank you so much you guys.

974
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: One Sole says we need birth. Holy I was not

975
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 1: ready for that.