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Speaker 1: Pop A Team six. Welcome to another episode for the Dads.

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Speaker 1: You might be in one with the missus right now. Boys, Good,

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Speaker 1: that's why you're listening to the Fellas. Maybe you just

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Speaker 1: dropped your little one off at school and you got

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Speaker 1: us on the You got us playing audio right now

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Speaker 1: on Spotify, Apple, the Amazon one, Amazon one, to Google one, Google,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is. Make sure you are subscribed and following.

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Speaker 1: And maybe as you are subscribing, there's a tear in

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Speaker 1: your eye because again, you just dropped your little one

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Speaker 1: off at school for the first time, which is what

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Speaker 1: I did last week. Good. What else could you be

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Speaker 1: doing mowing the lawn. Maybe you're in the weight room.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're at work listening to your boss, but you

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Speaker 1: don't want to really listen to your boss. You just

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Speaker 1: want to listen to the boys on for the Dads.

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Speaker 1: I am Will Compton, my co host Sherman Young. This

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Speaker 1: is a show Fellas that embraces the highs and lows

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Speaker 1: of fatherhood, embraces the trenches, embraces the suck and love

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Speaker 1: of fatherhood. We talk about dad wins and losses. Things

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Speaker 1: we'd crack a cold one too, some dad hacks, things

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Speaker 1: we put in our survival kit. We have a hotline

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Speaker 1: that you can call into that is six' oh one

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Speaker 1: The dad's where you call in you leave a voicemail

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Speaker 1: talking about a win or a loss or a dad

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Speaker 1: hack that you might. Have we feature you on the.

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Speaker 1: Show you get featured on the, show we ship you

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Speaker 1: guys some free. Merchandise and then to round out every,

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Speaker 1: episode we talk about a, lesson a, quote a, philosophy a,

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Speaker 1: concept something That sherman AND i have gravitated towards over

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Speaker 1: the last week that we're trying to challenge ourselves as better.

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Speaker 1: FATHERS i have one for us at the end of

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Speaker 1: the episode that it took some time to think on

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Speaker 1: and write down THAT i think you will enjoy BECAUSE

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Speaker 1: i do believe THE pt sixers out, there the POP

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Speaker 1: a team six, guys, me, you everybody out there consuming

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Speaker 1: this brain in this, podcast we're all cut from the

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Speaker 1: same cloth a little bit or else they wouldn't keep coming.

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Speaker 1: Back we have a great ten thousand view base right.

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Speaker 1: Now we got to get those numbers. Up the way

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Speaker 1: to do, that make sure you are subscribed to the

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Speaker 1: CHANNEL i believe we. Are are we around six thousand.

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Speaker 1: Subscribers dada on, YouTube i believe. So, yes we're around

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Speaker 1: six thousand. Subscribers we've got a great foundational base of

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Speaker 1: around ten thousand view coming. In that's not including the

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Speaker 1: tens of thousands on, audio which fires me. Up but,

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Speaker 1: again to help the boys, out to help out this,

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Speaker 1: brand continue to engage with us on our social media's

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Speaker 1: at for The Dad's. Pod you can also reach out

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Speaker 1: to me on x Or, instagram share them on ex Or.

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Speaker 1: Instagram the comments on YouTube are absolutely. Incredible we love

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Speaker 1: seeing the conversations in the back and. Forth AM i missing?

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Speaker 1: Anything just really quickly do?

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Speaker 2: It they set a new RECORD pt six six said

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Speaker 2: a new record Four they clogged the voicemail after a

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Speaker 2: fresh deletion in five.

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Speaker 1: Days and how many remind me, again, chef how many

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Speaker 1: fit in the? Voicemail three hundred three hundred and then

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Speaker 1: you have to unload. It, yeah the calls are coming. In.

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Speaker 1: Boys we absolutely love it again embracing pop a team

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Speaker 1: six and what that means for our. Brand And i'll

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Speaker 1: just give you a small example BECAUSE i saw this

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Speaker 1: YouTube comment the other night AS i was doom scrolling

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Speaker 1: a little. Bit but this comes From Miles rough and

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Speaker 1: he left us a little ps paragraph at the bottom

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Speaker 1: that was. Embracing. Good wife is uncomfortable in the beach

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Speaker 1: chairs we. Packed, good SO i have to walk back

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Speaker 1: to the, Car, good find a local store Nearby, good

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Speaker 1: and pay an inflated price for a new beach chair

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Speaker 1: that we may never use. Again. Good that right there is.

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Speaker 1: Embracing a moment OF i am pissed off AND i am,

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Speaker 1: irritated but there's this good in the back of my.

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Speaker 1: Head THE. Pt sixers out there are on my shoulder right. Now,

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Speaker 1: Hey willie, BOY i had a moment last. Week can

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Speaker 1: you hang a? Shelf didn't want to? It paying me

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Speaker 1: to my. Core there's a little bit of back and

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Speaker 1: forth with me and the. Wifey ultimately she was, right

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Speaker 1: as they always are wives out, there, sweetheart we love,

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Speaker 1: you we appreciate. You but those are the moments right.

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Speaker 1: There scherm kiddo spits up on.

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Speaker 2: You good spits up a. Lot did you see the

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Speaker 2: nickname that they tried to give you in the? Comments,

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Speaker 2: no they, said All willie one.

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Speaker 1: Shelf it's. Fair you're gonna be part OF. Pt. Six

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Speaker 1: you gotta be willing to get your.

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Speaker 1: BUCK i gotta take. That you gotta take the Hits

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Speaker 1: willie One. Schell there he goes walking down the road.

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Speaker 1: You, yeah just on on a stroll with the kid

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Speaker 1: up say, Hey willie One, shell you gotta build something.

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Speaker 1: Tonight get your back, inside old. Man uh name the

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Speaker 1: movie FOR I Break Your? Hip, Oh Happy? Gilmore? Happy

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Speaker 1: it was That Happy gilmore WHICH i know It's Adam. Sandler,

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Speaker 2: God, incredible, INCREDIBLE A willy One.

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Speaker 1: Shell we go through, it, man trust, me you paid.

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Speaker 1: Me AS i was driving home last week thinking about that,

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Speaker 1: CONVERSATION i was, like, Man i'm really gonna it's not

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Speaker 1: a good look for A Papa team. Sixer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah i'm already putting the feels out for trying to

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Speaker 2: get a handyman in. HERE i Told CHEF i think

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Speaker 2: vlog short. Vlog we have a handyman come in, Here

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Speaker 2: it and we just you, know learn a, little get

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Speaker 2: a little refresher. In this is a, hammer this is a.

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Speaker 1: DRILL i saw a comment, too this is a stud.

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Speaker 1: Fighter oh you found the stud right? Here what else you? Need?

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Speaker 1: Oh it? Works what did the? Man what did he

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Speaker 1: say in the? Comments right? Off, yeah, yeah let's let's

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Speaker 1: talk about the comments of being popping.

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Speaker 2: Up and also to add To Miles reff's, comment he

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Speaker 2: had a great first.

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Speaker 2: Never been a commenter on, anything first time, Commenter Miles.

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Speaker 2: Reff but nothing has to be more fired up than

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Speaker 2: to JOIN pt, six deploying Soon september twentieth for the

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Speaker 2: first tour of A pt six. Mission, Congratulations, miles thank.

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Speaker 1: You for your. Service.

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Speaker 2: Brother currently on the beach with the pod in one,

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Speaker 2: ear my wife is next to me and, enjoying enjoying

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Speaker 2: our final days before our little girl joins. Us couldn't

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Speaker 2: be more excited for. Fatherhood and then of course THE

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Speaker 2: ps note that will rattled off down below.

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Speaker 1: It, yeah the good. Dude the comments are so, Fun,

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Speaker 1: Bro they're great there And i've BEEN i was just

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Speaker 1: telling the boys before the show started That i've now

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Speaker 1: created the bookmark, folders the archive that what you can

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Speaker 1: i've created a LITTLE ftd folder so that WAY i

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Speaker 1: these tomorrow at work Because i'm usually scrolling at, nighttime

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Speaker 1: AND i had to find a system that actually remind

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Speaker 1: me to get back to. Someone because, dude, seriously when

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Speaker 1: you guys share our, stuff that's how everything grows. Organically

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Speaker 1: like we're gonna have the SAME pt sixers showing up every.

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Speaker 1: Week the buying is absolutely. INCREDIBLE i Love there was

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Speaker 1: i got the whole family. Watching if you're passing a

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Speaker 1: run to your dad group, chats you're just letting the

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Speaker 1: boys know out there if they have a kiddo and

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Speaker 1: you think they're you think they are cut from the

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Speaker 1: same cloth as we, are and they might be five

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Speaker 1: degrees removed That sometimes that's all it. Takes it's like

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Speaker 1: if you're in the if you're in the world, somewhere

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Speaker 1: we're not up to the. STANDARD i wasn't up the

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Speaker 1: standard WHEN i get Nicknamed willie One. Chell but if there's,

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Speaker 1: gotta recruit him to the. Brand you do that by,

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Speaker 1: sharing by, commenting by doing all the things that you

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Speaker 1: guys are. Doing but it's Truly sherman AND i we

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Speaker 1: geek out Me Sherman, chef who is also captain Of

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Speaker 1: Seman team. Six we got our little group chat and

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Speaker 1: we're showing our screenshots of the love that you guys

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Speaker 1: show and it at uh it warms our. Hearts we.

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Speaker 2: Did we've been texting back and. FORTH i saved this

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Speaker 2: Read read. It Jake frederick does not have An. Instagram,

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Speaker 2: however his, Wife Chloe. Frederick jake got on his Wife's

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Speaker 2: instagram TO dm. Me he dms this really nice. MESSAGE

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Speaker 2: pissed because he was smiling harder dming back and forth

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Speaker 2: Photo so thank, You chloe for being a part Of

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Speaker 2: Milk team. Six and congratulations and thank you for dming

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Speaker 1: Account that was. Legendary just imagine the grinest smile of

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Speaker 1: Papa team? Six what the fuck Is Papa team? Six, hey,

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Speaker 1: Deal, Yeah i'm excited to be a. Dad? Yeah, so,

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Speaker 1: hey what a, Week i'll, say a very emotional week

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Speaker 1: for your boy went to school for yes for the first.

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Speaker 1: Time so we will be diving into those. Stories reading

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Speaker 1: a stud, finder AND i mean, anytime you always gotta

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Speaker 1: make it beep on yourself. First that's the ultimate dad

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Speaker 2: are we sure this thing. Works put it on yourself

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Speaker 2: Working wife will love that. One, OH i got the.

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Speaker 1: Giggles you, say. Yay you keep playing your cards? Right

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Speaker 1: tonight's D daddy might mount.

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Speaker 4: You we're adding another, one another. One if you're a

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Speaker 1: Never hey just, Challenge, hey challenge for all Of Papa

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Speaker 1: team six within this next. Week won't you listen to this?

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Speaker 1: Episode your mission is once you get your wife to

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Speaker 1: laugh at a funny little, joke you just tell. Her

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Speaker 1: keep playing your cards, Right daddy might mountain.

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Speaker 2: Tonight, hey speaking of speaking of somebody comes off the

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Speaker 1: Soon i've been, curious BUT i don't want to get

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Speaker 1: in your. Business you're not my. Business i've wanted to

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Speaker 2: uh oh, Yeah sherman didn't do. That AND i, said

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Speaker 1: know we're all human. Beings we all have our, things

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Speaker 1: want to do all these things that you tell, yourself

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Speaker 1: going off that, example But i'm talking about in. Anything oh, Right,

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Speaker 1: Yeah i'm talking about you communicating things that you might

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Speaker 1: dads will have is to shell up or. Internalize, okay

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Speaker 1: Out it comes, out and you'll. LASH i don't know

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Speaker 1: WHERE i was going with, that but more so talking

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Speaker 2: And I'll i'll pick up from. That jill has gotten

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Speaker 2: and kind of be, like how's your. Day do anything

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Speaker 1: Are you subconsciously doing? This so are you Intentionally Like

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Speaker 2: Subconsciously, absolutely there is a part of me Because i'm

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Speaker 2: just stewing on Whatever i'm stewing. On So i'm not

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Speaker 2: even picking up on the fact THAT i came, in

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Speaker 1: And didn't say anything for thirty.

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Speaker 2: Minutes and if you know me and you're, like, Hey

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Speaker 2: Going on With he's Kind, Yeah so there's. That and

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Speaker 2: are you doing so far away from me in? Bed

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Speaker 2: let's cuddle a little. Bit, god it's been a minute

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Speaker 2: Since i've heard, that because when she's, Pregnant, hey don't

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Speaker 1: Pressure i'm comfort too. Much, absolutely it's like they'll have

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Speaker 1: Cuddling are we? Cuddling are we cuddle?

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Speaker 2: Cuddling it's, like, okay she had a glass of wine

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Speaker 1: Sure that fires me up for, her because it's like

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Speaker 1: you a little far, away it's like they're coming back to.

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Speaker 2: Juice like last night she was she was actually having

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Speaker 1: the shower and the. Shower are we talking taking her

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Speaker 1: taking her time too long? Shower? Yeah and THEN.

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Speaker 2: little the tanning. Lotion she's very excited for tailor's. Today

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Speaker 2: we're filming this On. Friday taylor's having like a little pool. Bash,

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Speaker 2: i'm just LIKE i don't. Know i'm just kind of

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Speaker 2: like feeling. Myself i'm excited, to, like you, know get

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Speaker 2: out of the house And i'm like getting in front

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Speaker 2: comes From Anna. Withrow her husband is a big fan

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Speaker 2: Of busting with The. Boys and now for the, dads she,

441
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Speaker 2: said AS i am subscribed to both as. Well my

442
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Speaker 2: husband is the director of a equipment for The. Razorbacks

443
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Speaker 2: our first daughter was born during fall. Camp she's a week. Old,

444
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 2: good she, said As will knows nine arguably ten years

445
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: in the. League there's zero downtime during season needing advice

446
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: to get through the trenches for the both of us

447
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 2: love the pod and she provided a great. PICTURE i

448
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 2: put it in our credits Of dad and his weepig

449
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 2: suie stuff and he's just passed out next to baby.

450
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 1: Girl so is dad a?

451
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 2: Coach he's the director of equipment for The. Razorbacks, oh unsung.

452
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: Heroes oh, yeah. Buddy and you think players and coaches

453
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: and they put in work equipment, managers bro especially them.

454
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: Gas oh. Yeah but they're there all hours of the.

455
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 2: Day and The razorbacks aren't a two uniform, team.

456
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 1: Right and there's no, like, uh you, Know i'd imagine

457
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 1: if you're a. Coach and AGAIN i don't know BECAUSE

458
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: i haven't been in the coaching, world but witnessing the

459
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: coaches That i've, had like if there's a moment like

460
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: kids like you have a little bit more not, autonomy

461
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 1: but a little bit more control of your. Schedule you're

462
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 1: still putting in a shitload of. Hours, Yeah but if

463
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 1: you're an equipment, manager if you're these equipment, guys, like

464
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: there's no there's no like say or any control like

465
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: you were. There there's no, asking there's No if you

466
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 1: have a great head, coach maybe he'll give you some

467
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: time off or work with you a little. Bit but

468
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: those equipment dudes are there all day, long even getting

469
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 1: the guys, prepped getting everything, prepped, yeah getting workout clothes,

470
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 1: prepped getting your practice stuff, prepped dealing with all the

471
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 1: sweat and the airing out the shoes and the shoulder

472
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: pads and the helmet after, practice getting all the loops

473
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: in the. Laundry they're they're doing laundry all, night getting the,

474
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: laundry getting that cycle, through setting out their workout closes

475
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: for the next, morning setting out their practice pads and

476
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: shoes for the next. Day around and around and. Around

477
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: shout out my.

478
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: Cousin, george he was an equipment manager.

479
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: Just one year AT. Tcu, yeah but, yeah they're thinking

480
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 1: about that.

481
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 2: Now i'm just, like oh, my they grind no wonder

482
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 2: he did it from?

483
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: You, Yeah and being a full time. Student. Yeah, yeah

484
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 1: would you say psychotic, hours would.

485
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 2: You say that's arguably harder than being a student athlete

486
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 2: being a student equipment?

487
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 1: Manager, yeah why. Not it's like you're you're putting your

488
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: energy and time into. Something some guys who are doing

489
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: the equipment, stuff they might not necessarily wanting to be doing. It,

490
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: yeah So i'm assuming in their brain it's like even,

491
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 1: more it feels even more like, work whereas being a student,

492
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: athlete like there's a lot of shit you gotta do because, you're,

493
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: again you're a, student you're going to, school you're getting

494
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: a twelve, hours twelve fifteen credited, hours and then you're

495
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: also trying to pour into something that you could hopefully

496
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: do one day as a. Profession there's aspects that are,

497
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: fun but it is a very like physically and mentally

498
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: hard thing to. Do but it's like if you if

499
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: you're in a, dude if you're a student and you're

500
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: also a full time, worker like you're grinding your ass.

501
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 3: Off and also like some people want to do front

502
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 3: they do it because they want an end to front

503
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 3: office stuff and. Sports there's a lot of people who do,

504
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: it especially a d one call like a college like

505
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:10,400
Speaker 3: all the guys At, tennessee they do it because they

506
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 3: fucking love the. Program, Right so you're, Putting, yeah you

507
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 3: don't get paid a, lot you're working insane outa buddy

508
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 3: who did, It you work insane, Hours but it's just

509
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 3: because you love that team and you want to be

510
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 3: a part of it in some way and you're not

511
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 3: on the, field and a lot of times you don't

512
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 3: get the, praise but it's like that's a huge part

513
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 3: of that. Operation.

514
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, YEAH i, mean you could sit here and we

515
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: could do the whole comparison, game but it's like your

516
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: hardest thing that you're doing is my hardest thing That

517
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: i'm doing because you're pouring into. It, yeah you know

518
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: what i. Mean, yeah even with this, stuff it's Like

519
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 1: chef grinds his dick. Off he does to edit and

520
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: do all the, things and not only, that but improve

521
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: on the skills that he's working on and also try

522
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: to find new creative. Ways he's also trying to think

523
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: like we, are, Hey will And shurham like, this we're

524
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: thinking of all of our we're doing our day to.

525
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: Day you're at home with the, kid like balancing work

526
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: in life in my world Where i'm not behind a

527
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 1: computer editing all, Day like my heart is still. Hard

528
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: but it's like you're sitting, here it's like YOU'RE i don't.

529
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: Know it's LIKE i think if you're somebody who grinds

530
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: every day with, work with life and you're trying to

531
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 1: learn how to balance it, all like you're doing as

532
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: hard a thing as everybody else is. Doing, yeah taking out,

533
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: compensation taking out what's more physically, grueling you know WHAT i,

534
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: Mean because at the end of the, day you're constantly

535
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: trying to challenge yourself to be, better and doing that

536
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: is fucking.

537
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 2: Hard, yeah because doing What chef is doing now for

538
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: those like first two, weeks like really before we Had

539
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 2: chef like pumping.

540
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: Out this stuff with. Us, YEAH i now am in my.

541
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 2: Situation i'm not having to do all that. Stuff but

542
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 2: Now i'm in the situation i'm. In and to your exact,

543
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 2: Point i'm, like, man.

544
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: This is, hard.

545
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: Dude it's not, impossible but it does have like its.

546
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: Challenges we kind of talked about that before the episode last.

547
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 2: Week you feel like you're so spread thin that you're

548
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 2: letting everybody, down.

549
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:15,239
Speaker 1: Right but so you got to be. Intentional it's like

550
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: she was asking for advice with the head equipment manager

551
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: and they have a one week, Old, yeah a two week,

552
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: OLD i. Guess, yeah it's, honestly it's just make sure

553
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: you guys are. Communicating you guys are able to anticipate

554
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: each other. Schedules. Yeah If dad is a way because

555
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: he's grinding his dick off being an equipment manager and

556
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: that's the life that is chosen between you, two then

557
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: it's wife just needs To dad needs to ask the,

558
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: question what do you need from me throughout the day

559
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: so he's not, guessing and wife needs to clearly communicate

560
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: the expectations of things that she would love and enjoy

561
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: with also the empathy Of, OKAY i might not be

562
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 1: able to reach him, HERE i might not be able

563
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: to reach him at this, Point dad needs to think

564
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: the same. Way you guys just need to be on

565
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: the exact same page so that way you guys can

566
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: anticipate what each other. Needs and then you just got

567
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: to know that this structure that we're putting together were

568
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: the pain points when is it going to be? Hard

569
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: and life is just going to be?

570
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: Hard and knowing the busy season right like being great

571
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: by her already. IDENTIFYING i, mean obviously football, seasons the busy.

572
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: Season but she's, like, hey this is going to be

573
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 2: hard for both of. Us she did use, us, like

574
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 2: what is some advice for?

575
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: Us, yeah And i'll say Because dad has to know

576
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: that when he's working and thinking in his. Brain because

577
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: here's what here's what dads or males will, do especially

578
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: coming from the generations before, us is we, uh we

579
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: justify us, working were wanting to put food on the.

580
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: Table we want to be the, protector the, provider all

581
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: these things to provide security at. Home so then when

582
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: a dust up happens at, home, verbally it's Like dad's

583
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: defending what he does all day, long moms defending what she.

584
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: Does it's it's, like, no you got to get that

585
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: shit out of the. Equation it's you guys got to

586
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: both know that you're pouring in an insane amount of

587
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: value for the. Family as long as you two are

588
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: on the same, page that is what. Matters dad has to, Know,

589
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: Hey i'm at, work, sweetheart you gotta tell me what you

590
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: need for. Me dad also has to be super curious and,

591
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: Intentional hey what do you what do you? Need? Yes as,

592
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: well so it all goes both. Ways, Bro it's not

593
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: about staying strong for each, other it's about just staying fucking.

594
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 2: Connected curious is a great, word and that's a great

595
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: bit of, advice that little text THAT i don't remember

596
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: every single day to, sin but WHEN i do send

597
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 2: To jill Of, Hey.

598
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about. Lunch have you eaten?

599
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 2: Yet blah blah Blah, no And i'm. STARVING i would

600
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 2: love to get lunch Right just, that, Like, Hey i'm

601
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: thinking about. You i'm thinking about your needs because she's

602
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: nap trapped at home with little.

603
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: Scarlet one thousand. Percent and then IF i say, hey

604
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: could you just, Respond it's, Like, Yo i'm at, Work

605
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: i'm doing, This i'm doing. That, No, dad you also

606
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: got to be empathizing and being conscious of what mom's

607
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: going through a, home because think about any dad who

608
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: spent a weekend or days were there with the kidd

609
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: oh by. Themselves like it's like you're you, know if

610
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: you're talking to your wife wondering what's going, on and

611
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: nobody's like checking in or tapping into, you it's just, like,

612
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: oh people Think i'm just watching the. Kid it's LIKE

613
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: i just got some easy work Because i'm just chilling

614
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: at home with the. Kids, like, no those parents that

615
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,239
Speaker 1: have kids know that shit is a. Grind, yeah and

616
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: mom's not getting out of the, house especially if you

617
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: got a young. One you got a young one in

618
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: those first few, months like you're at home most of the.

619
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: Time two, WEEKS i mean that is every three hours

620
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: on the, dot on the, dot that little girl or

621
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 2: boy is going to be hungry and it's gonna let.

622
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: You, yeah, milking, pumping even if you're not doing, that the,

623
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: hormone everything that's going. On your entire mind is around

624
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: the life of this little being at all, times and

625
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: there's no deviating because you are the vessel that this

626
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: kid comes. From, yes you can't just leave the kid

627
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: on his own at, All like they need constant nurturing and.

628
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: Attention you hope you get a great amount of three

629
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: whenever you have those three hour, breaks but you're. Tied

630
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: you're tied to having to do.

631
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 2: It and if you do lay them down and they

632
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: snuggle me and they do fall, asleep you're, like oh my. God.

633
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 2: Yeah otherwise it's only right there on mom or right

634
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 2: there on dad that they'll even get.

635
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: Sleep, Yeah and the dads that do work grueling hours

636
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: that when you do come, home you should in your.

637
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: Mind you just got to think when that garage door opens,

638
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: up all, Right i'm about to go in. Good how

639
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: CAN i take whatever load is going on from my

640
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: wife so she KNOWS i can trust this dude to

641
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: kind of operate on, himself to operate by. Hisself because

642
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: even even when mom hangs the baby, over it's like

643
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: they know everything they want to do in their brain

644
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: and they're trying to trust that you can do the.

645
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: Same so they can actually remove themselves and just go

646
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: do whatever they need to. Do if you want to

647
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: go do, laundry you want to go take a, walk

648
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: you want to go get a, call if you want

649
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: to go DO, X y AND. Z have the freedom

650
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: Knowing dad's back. Home he's A pt. SIXER i don't

651
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: have to worry about.

652
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 2: It that would be to the director Of equipment Of. Arkansas,

653
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 2: well that would be my biggest piece of advice is

654
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: no when.

655
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: You get, home because that's so.

656
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 2: True jill has her checklist because she loves keeping a tidy.

657
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: House, dude that is her. Love she wants a not

658
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: as much, mine as much mine at, all But jill

659
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: wants a happy.

660
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: Home she wants a home that smells, good looks. Good, Off,

661
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 2: yes candles are lit and so just no director of.

662
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 2: EQUIPMENT i don't know his. NAME i know his wife's.

663
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 2: Name but when you come, home your wife probably has

664
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 2: that checklist in her head exactly like you.

665
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: Said and when you take, baby.

666
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: That frees her to then all this stuff that's been

667
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 2: sitting on her head all day that she couldn't do

668
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: because she was trying to hold, Baby now she has

669
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 2: the freedom to go do. It the amount of pressure

670
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: that is going to come off of her when you

671
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 2: allow her to operate and what she wants to get, done,

672
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: dude is gonna be great for both of you, guys

673
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,719
Speaker 2: not only her but you as, well because then you're

674
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: gonna be able to really sit there and enjoy the

675
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 2: moment together once she has knocked out of her.

676
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 1: List and if you have to ask a, Question, okay

677
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: when DO i do? This or what DO i do?

678
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: Here just simply this is a little dad hack switch

679
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: the what or, when, why? Where? Whatever with remind me,

680
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 1: heymind remind me of the. Time remind me the time

681
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,439
Speaker 1: she last, ate because you should know the every three hour.

682
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: Mark if you have a. Newborn, yeah remind me the

683
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: last time she ate Versus, hey when does she need

684
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 1: to eat? Again Or, hey remind me what she had for. Lunch,

685
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: hey BEFORE i go check the, fridge remind me what

686
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: we have in there for potential. Dinner so that, way

687
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: it's just like they're. Reminding it's Not, hey what DO

688
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: i need to, do and they're just, Thinking, MAN i

689
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: wish you knew just a little bit, more.

690
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: Dude that's All i'm talking. About we hate this is,

691
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: good this little back and FORTH i like.

692
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 1: Doing Vision Papa team six are sitting at THE. Tv,

693
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: oh don't forget this, one and somebody says, like, yeah,

694
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: yes that.

695
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 2: Too you just went like four for four on stuff

696
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 2: that BECAUSE i, Mean scarlett is six, weeks but she's

697
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: not that far ahead of a two week.

698
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: Old, again we're not.

699
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 2: Experts we're not, experts but everything that you're hitting, On i'm, Like,

700
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 2: GOD i WISH i knew that at the beginning because

701
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: it's so. True And jill AND i have had those

702
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: conversations of, like if you're at home And Will compton

703
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 2: texted you at nine, pm do you know how fast

704
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 2: you would reply to that? Text because it's work it's

705
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 2: worth this might be. Important that's my. Boss, yeah, bro

706
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 2: LIKE i got to answer, that But i'm on home time.

707
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: And, gentlemen, gentlemen these conversations come about like what this uh?

708
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: Situation are hypothetical that term's talking. About these conversations come

709
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: up when it's getting toward the breaking, point, yes because as,

710
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: men we don't know until it's being said to, us

711
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,280
Speaker 1: and then we're just thinking if you'd have just told.

712
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: Me but it's, like, listen this is just some game

713
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: to be aware of so you don't get to. Win

714
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: you ask too many what when DO i do? This

715
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: how DO i do? This because in, time in a

716
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: couple of weeks, time when it gets to the breaking,

717
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: point you guys are having a big, conversation that's when

718
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: those things are coming. Up it's like. Sweetart when you ask,

719
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 1: me what DO i do? This when DO i do?

720
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: That and your wife's kind of giving you a talking

721
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: to a little, bit that's when it's starting to click

722
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: a little bit in your mind that she's putting you

723
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: in her. Shoes but now it's got it's gotten so

724
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: far to where your guard might be up and you

725
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: might be a little defensive to where you don't want

726
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: to handle the conversation that. Way these are things to

727
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: just be aware of before they happen.

728
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 2: And be willing to have an open mind that When

729
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,919
Speaker 2: jill does bring up the great point of If will

730
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:38,959
Speaker 2: did text me at nine.

731
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: O'clock because that's a good one.

732
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 2: About something, IMPORTANT i would want to reply very quickly

733
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i want to Show Will i'm on top of.

734
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: IT i.

735
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: Care i'm a good. Employee i'm not. Lazy his time

736
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 2: is important to. Me he took the time to, text

737
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 2: And i'll text him. Back and she goes flip that

738
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: you're at, WORK i text you so being important AND

739
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 2: i you, know not that she's.

740
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 1: One like your wife's texting, you not your. Boss, yeah

741
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: is your marriage? Important is getting back to the family?

742
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 1: Important are you having the same urgency that tells HER

743
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: i got it? EASY i? Care?

744
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yes and she and she's not, like, UH i

745
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: want to text back in five, minutes but.

746
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: She Knows i'm.

747
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 2: Busy. Yeah but IF i did ghost her like all,

748
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 2: day she would feel some type of, way, right just

749
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 2: like you would if you texted me something important AND

750
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: i ghosted you for, like, yeah twelve eighteen, hours like

751
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 2: you kind of be, like, yo sure. Question, like knowing,

752
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 2: you you'd probably just like emphasize.

753
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: It, yeah you're spot. On, Hey i'm, here you're spot,

754
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: on because it'll be the same thing like Like charli

755
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: texts me SOMETHING i have don't RESPONSE i get, home she's,

756
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 1: LIKE i texted. You, Yeah she's like if this would

757
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: have been so and so that's a great. Point great

758
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: question by the. Wife, yeah, great, yeah, yeah great. Question

759
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: by the, WAY i HAVE i HAVE i. LISTEN i

760
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: know we got to keep it under an, hour SO

761
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: i have three more little quick comments THAT i can rattle.

762
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: Off go, ahead and then we can get into the

763
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: to the meat and potatoes of the. Episode, Cheers, cheers Bro, hey, cheers.

764
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 1: Cheers shout Out, Anna Shout. Anna this one's From kevin

765
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: jack seventy seven to fifty. Three baby boy do in four.

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Speaker 1: WEEKS i needed this episode for football Talk chin strap

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Speaker 1: on about to head into the. Trenches let's go. Boys NICK.

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00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: C ninety six got my Girl dad had on at

769
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: the beach with my three year old ROCK. Pt six.

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Speaker 1: Shirt last night we up Sled dog out Sled. Dog

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Speaker 1: Noah Earl jackson. Pt six just got my. Shirt i'll

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00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: be tagging the boys in two weeks when my baby

773
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Speaker 1: girl gets. Here, guys if you want to support the,

774
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: boys you want to Rock Papa team, Six Papa team

775
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: six merch or for The Dad's merch bwtv dot. Com

776
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 1: that is where you get the. Merch that's how you

777
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 1: can tag, us that is how you can. Share that

778
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: is how you can wear the. Merch proud knowing that

779
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: you're a you're A pt six. Er and what do

780
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,919
Speaker 1: you have on top of your head right? There will? Hat,

781
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 1: sherman what do you? Ask? WHAT i believe one of

782
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: our new. Hats, yes the black and white for The

783
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: dad's hat little patch up. Top this is a newer.

784
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: Hat we have them in this. Color they've been sitting

785
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: in that. Color we have them also in the black and.

786
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: White and you were, Saying i'm wearing a visor right.

787
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 2: Now we also have a same visor over here with

788
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 2: different color. Scheme so funny on the inside they got

789
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 2: the little teddy bears standing up and the little for

790
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 2: The dad's patch on the inside.

791
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 1: TOO i love.

792
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 2: That so MANY pt six sicos that, like you.

793
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: Know you're a visor. Guy i'm a huge visor like.

794
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: ME i don't think i'd be wearing. That and There

795
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: i'm worry For Papa team SIX i. Worried that's not my,

796
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: style AND i PUT i put the feelers out.

797
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: There gr head of merchant was, like hey put, it

798
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 2: put it tweet out you, see.

799
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: And you had enough sickos that wanted a.

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00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 2: Few there were some, sicos, dude there was some SICK

801
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: i think we have like nine or ten definite like,

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00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 2: yo that's. Gas but One siko filmed his. Desk he

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00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 2: had like nine golf. Eyes he was, LIKE i added

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00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 2: to the. Collection but this exact same, logo we will

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00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 2: also be putting on a. Hat chef off camera is

806
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 2: actually wearing said. Hat we want to tease that at

807
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 2: a later. Time, yep we want to tease it at

808
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 2: a later.

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00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: Time but chef looks. Good chef looks, good and it's

810
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: a great hat For Semen team. Sixers there just, hey

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00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: take a photo of chef right, now so that way

812
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: you can just shoot him the shoot him the photo

813
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: to put in during the. Episode and this hat is bad.

814
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: Ass this one is one that maybe you're not a

815
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: father yet and you just you you're about the, brand

816
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: but it's got the little you guys see the photo

817
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: the little bear with the with the whiskey with the

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00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 1: cigar in his. Mouth. Exactly, yeah that exact emblem That shirm's.

819
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: Wearing we'll tease.

820
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 3: It we're gonna do a different color than the One

821
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 3: i'm wearing right.

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00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 1: NOW i do like that.

823
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 3: Color we can also do this, color but we have,

824
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 3: well as long AS i can just have that.

825
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 1: One, Yeah i'll just fuck with. You do you like the?

826
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 2: Green just really? QUICK i like the.

827
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: Green i'm, LIKE i love the, colors like fall, colors earthy. Colors,

828
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 1: YEAH i like the green. Too can we do the

829
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: green and the other two colors that you.

830
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 3: WERE i think this hat's good enough to where we

831
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 3: can do a couple of different. Colors white's gonna be.

832
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 3: Badass white is for sure gonna be. Badass and it's more,

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00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 3: universal just a couple more so the social.

834
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: MEDIA i know every week we talk about YouTube, comments but,

835
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: again just to not leave out the social media people out,

836
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: There Nick giles number, one shout out you being a

837
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: new father, Brother Nick, Giles he, said, UH i shared this.

838
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: Comment Thanks, will the pot has been amazing to listen

839
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: to the whole family listens, now and thank you for

840
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: the honesty about situations you wish you handle. BETTER i

841
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: know it makes all of us dads feel normalized when

842
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: we do the. Same love and appreciate you. Boys and

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00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 1: then another one From wes W Underscore murray twenty. One

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Speaker 1: you saw THE x ray broke my toe on? Night

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Speaker 1: dude tripping over my wife's? Shoes? Good, yes and see

846
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: that's one. AGAIN i used the bookmark BECAUSE i hadn't

847
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 1: engaged with it. Yet so he's probably, wanting, like, damn the,

848
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: boy see this you probably you do a great job

849
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: of responding to.

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00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 2: DO i D m him and he said best part

851
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: was he, said wife told me to stop faking it

852
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: and get our daughter to. Sleep so in True pt six, Passion,

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00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,480
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Speaker 2: Com back to the, Episode, hey chev, boy you were

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Speaker 2: going to say something earlier.

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00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 3: Too, yeah you, guys IF i read a comment real,

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00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 3: QUICK i know we're pressed for.

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00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: Tys, yeah you got to keep it under an.

888
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 5: Hour.

889
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: Chef, now we're got to keep it right, now really.

890
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 3: Good right, Now i'll be really quick. Here, uh this

891
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 3: is from. YouTube i saw.

892
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: This by the, way people, listening this Is Chef, jack

893
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: captain Of Steamen team.

894
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: Six i'll wear that honor. Proudly this Is Forrest dobbs

895
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 3: nineteen thirty, One Cap Jack. MAN i THINK i might

896
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 3: have been one of the people you grabbed after autome

897
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 3: P lmao season ticket holder since twenty. Nineteen so this

898
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 3: is the throwback to last week WHERE i talked about

899
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 3: probably one of my most embarrassing moments as A tennessee volunteer.

900
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 3: Fan it balls up where we were Leaving Neeland stadium

901
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 3: AND i was coming to grips That Joe milton was

902
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 3: not a heis and hopeful and that we might be

903
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 3: regressing from the year prior With Hennon. Hooker we had

904
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:50,760
Speaker 3: an awesome.

905
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: Offense and tell tell everybody what you were telling me

906
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: that your girlfriend Was Jess yeah was how she was

907
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: breaking it.

908
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 3: Down SO i called them my wonderful Girlfriend alex after

909
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 3: who's with? Me that's still with?

910
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: You still with?

911
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 3: Me?

912
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah thank?

913
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 3: You.

914
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 1: Alex.

915
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 3: Uh BASICALLY i was like, WELL i told the story

916
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 3: AND i kind of, said you, KNOW i kind of

917
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 3: the gist of what we said on the, episode and she, goes,

918
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 3: baby it was way fucking worse than. That she was,

919
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 3: like you were grabbing seventy year old men and screaming what.

920
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: The fuck are we?

921
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: Doing AS i was, leaving kneeling and uh, Yeah So,

922
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 3: FORREST i want TO i want to give you a sincere.

923
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 3: Apology i'm a passionate claim that is. Unacceptable AND i love.

924
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: The fact too That forrest is listening to for the

925
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: dance and he's, LIKE i think it's going that's the

926
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: fucking kid that grabbed my.

927
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 3: ASS i THINK i might force it's unmistakable if it was,

928
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 3: me because you couldn't miss me if he. Tried it was, like,

929
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 3: UH i think we left like a couple of minutes

930
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 3: in the fourth quarter. Left it, was you, know. Awesome

931
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 3: at the end of the, year we're trying to walk.

932
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 3: Back but, YEAH i think what we should. Do this

933
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 3: will be an extra. Step but we get a. Shirt

934
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 3: you link up With.

935
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: Forrest, yeah you get his, information what, Size you get

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Speaker 1: a shirt shipped, here so that way you can personally

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Speaker 1: ship you could personally ship something to with with a. Note,

938
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: yeah that just says my Bad, Forest.

939
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 3: Forest i'm Sorry. Forrest you know what we can. Do

940
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 3: he's a season. TAKEHOLDER i will be In knoxville for

941
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 3: The georgia. GAME i will get your contact if you.

942
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 3: Guys i'm sure if your season take aholder you have

943
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 3: your tailgate in g ten or something like. That if,

944
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 3: so please let me. KNOW i will swing by personally

945
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 3: deliver with the photo photo to photo. Two that's if

946
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 3: you're up for, It i'll reach out to.

947
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 2: You that's the general Of Seamen team six right.

948
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: There.

949
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 2: YEAH i don't want to air dirty, laundry AND i

950
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 2: know that we're trying to keep it under an, hour

951
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 2: but do you want to share that story that you

952
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 2: remembered about said girlfriend that you are matching each other's.

953
00:46:58,040 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: Energy.

954
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, also to My alex's, credit she shouted out. Story,

955
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,919
Speaker 3: yeah shout out, out we love, You, alex because she, goes,

956
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 3: well don't forget That i've had my moments, too BECAUSE

957
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 3: i was, like that's so. Embarrassing she we last YEAR

958
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 3: i brought. Her we came back To nashville For tennessee

959
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 3: was Playing, arkansas and, uh that's the same Weekend vanderbilt

960
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 3: was Playing alabama And bandy Upset, alabama and we were

961
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 3: at the tavern In midtown. Eating we could hear the,

962
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 3: stadium and so we watched the fourth quarter in the

963
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 3: red door saloon In. Midtown shout out and, uh bandy.

964
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 3: One And i'm not one to always root On. Bandy

965
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 3: shout Out cay. McConnell, uh you.

966
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,959
Speaker 1: Know at shout out the boy. Came we love my brother.

967
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,280
Speaker 3: Now but we were pumped, because you, know banda loss

968
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 3: AND i was, like, oh it's so. Great we're gonna

969
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 3: kick the shit out Of. Arkansas And alabama just. Lost

970
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 3: and then we lost To. Arkansas and we're sitting in

971
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 3: that bar that's a bandy. Bar it's a bandy student,

972
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 3: bar and people are coming back and they're starting to

973
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 3: filter in and they're, hammered and people are starting to

974
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 3: say stuff to us because we're inn all. Orange and,

975
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 3: finally this, DUDE i forgot what the zact words were

976
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 3: it came up and said some and my girlfriend looked

977
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 3: over and, said you better shut the fuck up BEFORE

978
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 3: i kick your fucking.

979
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: Ass AND i.

980
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 3: In that, moment the pride built up inside me AND

981
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 3: i but Also i'm, going, oh. Ship NOW i call

982
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 3: an uber and we Got i'm, like, hey, baby we gotta,

983
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 3: go you, know getting out of. There and she we're

984
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 3: both passionate, fans.

985
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: So they couldn't see this fas't he like tells those

986
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: story and he's, like we're passionate. Fans you could just

987
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: tell deep in his soul the balls don't. Play the

988
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: balls don't.

989
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 2: Play to quote, chef don't start with that.

990
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: Ship he don't start with that.

991
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 3: Ship, also she probably. DIDN'T i don't know if an

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00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 3: f bambas in. THERE i don't want to speak for,

993
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 3: her but of course she's Got i'm gonna hear.

994
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: That that's.

995
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 2: Cool.

996
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: Graphic shut the fuck up BEFORE i beat your ass

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00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:04,080
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998
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,600
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999
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: Rude going to. School very emotional week for your boy this.

1000
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 1: Week back to. School back to, school that's why we

1001
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: have these school. Supplies. HERE a little bit of, coffee

1002
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: not to shut Up, parn but no free shoutouts to.

1003
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: Paren got a nice little coconut Cloud americano THAT i

1004
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 1: enjoyed instead of mind for a pretty long. Time shout

1005
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 1: out chef on the, decor the decor, chef the decorse.

1006
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: Chef we got the back to school. Supplies but it

1007
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: was a back to. School it was a first time

1008
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: to school week for your. Boy And rue went to

1009
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: school On wednesday and dropping her off and it's a very,

1010
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 1: uh weirdly, happy sad stage because and there was also

1011
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: just to give you guys some more context on it

1012
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: being like an emotional. Week my the day she went

1013
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,439
Speaker 1: to school for the first time was also it would

1014
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: have been my mom's sixty first. Birthday you're, Kidding, yeah,

1015
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 1: Yeah so had all the fields going. On was fired

1016
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: up Because rue was so excited to go to. School and,

1017
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: dude it's like we're sitting there prefacing she goes To

1018
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: she goes to like where it's like there's three to

1019
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: five year, olds so she's in this she's in this.

1020
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,239
Speaker 1: Classroom it's kind of like a PRE k type primary,

1021
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: school and prepping her to go to school because the

1022
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: teachers and stuff are telling us that we can't get

1023
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 1: out of the car to like hug her kiss or

1024
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: tell her godbye because you gott to keep the line.

1025
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: Going i'm now in the school lines and experiencing that

1026
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: for the first. Time but we can't get out of the.

1027
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: Car so two days prior we're running her. Through dad

1028
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: has running her through on a very like calm. LEVEL

1029
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: i don't want it to come off like, sad, Like,

1030
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: hey when we go, there you won't be able to

1031
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: hug mom and dad. Ads i'm more just telling, Her,

1032
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: hey now when we go to, school here's how it's

1033
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: gonna go. Down we're gonna give you hugs and kisses

1034
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: before we get in the. Car, yeah and then whenever we,

1035
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: arrive we'll give you three SQUEEZES i love you in

1036
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: the back before you get, Out, yeah before you get

1037
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: jack the door almost slam coming in, here give you, one,

1038
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 1: two three squeezes before you get. Out teacher is gonna get,

1039
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: you unbuckle you and get you. Out and then when

1040
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: she pulls you, out we'll have the windows down and

1041
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: we'll just do hug, kiss, hug, hug, kiss and then you,

1042
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 1: know say. Bye. Yeah and we're prefacing her for that

1043
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 1: for like a couple of, days just to get her,

1044
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: ready because we don't know if she's gonna. Cry we

1045
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: don't know if she's gonna be. Sad you, know we

1046
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: don't know if we're gonna be. Sad and we pull up,

1047
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 1: dude and she's she's, excited and then when the teacher

1048
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,720
Speaker 1: opens the, door you can tell her shyness and nerves

1049
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: are kind of kicking them a little, bit like as

1050
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: she's getting, unbuckled the teacher's trying to engage with her

1051
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: and we're getting under the. Squeezes rue gets out and

1052
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 1: the teacher says, like we're gonna go on a little

1053
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,399
Speaker 1: walk today or the kids don't know, it but we're

1054
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 1: gonna get to DO, X y AND z, today And

1055
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 1: rue kind of lights up st our song With rue

1056
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 1: gets out of the car and is, like By, Mama, dad, hug,

1057
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 1: hug go be great to day and then ends up walking.

1058
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,359
Speaker 1: Bro And i'm watching her walk down the sidewalk going

1059
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 1: into school and water fills my eyes because it's just, like,

1060
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: UH i don't, know like in my, brain it's like

1061
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: now that she starts the chapter of, school even though

1062
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: it's not like real it's not like technically real, school

1063
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: like they're going they play a, lot they do all

1064
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: these different, things but it's like this, chapter this phase

1065
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: goes until at the end of high, school the end of, college, yes, dude,

1066
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: yeah now, yeah now yeah for the rest of, time

1067
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:40,360
Speaker 1: and just watching her handle herself, shy a little, reserved

1068
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: but confident once she got out and going to classicause

1069
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,240
Speaker 1: we start rolling off and then we end up breaking

1070
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: kind of like looking back because we hear a kid.

1071
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: SCREAMING i thought it was rude for a. Second you're

1072
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: a kid screaming the TEACHERS i. Got i'm like kind

1073
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: of halfway out of the. Car they're like hanging on.

1074
00:52:54,120 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: No and these are probably moments parents that you're just,

1075
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: like you hope that they handle it. Well you're also

1076
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: sad because it's, like is she gonna feel alone when

1077
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: she's in? There is she gonna end up telling the

1078
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 1: teacher LIKE i miss MoMA and dad, then and you

1079
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: just think of them being, alone, afraid not knowing what to,

1080
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: Do like these are the internal BATTLES i feel like

1081
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: the parents deal. With and you think of these situations

1082
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: even though it's like not. Reality then you flip, like,

1083
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 1: oh they're gonna, Crush they're gonna do this and, that

1084
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: and then you we get. Home Charles charles was sobbing

1085
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 1: in the. Car i'm, like, y all, right Sweet, alry

1086
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: give her. Hug i'm, like don't, WORRY i have some

1087
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: tears in my eyes. Too she looks. OVER i got

1088
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 1: water filling the. Eyes and it's just it's just cool

1089
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: because you're, excited but you're also sad because they're just growing. Up,

1090
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: yeah and Uh ruth saw mom teared up before she

1091
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 1: got out why you, Said, Mama And i'm, Like i'm, like, hey,

1092
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: sweet we gotta we gotta be. Hype we don't want.

1093
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: To we. Don't we don't want her to be nervous at.

1094
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: All And i'm, like, Hey, sweeter you know Every Pizza

1095
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: friday when we drive and go get pizza and come,

1096
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: back AND i said a couple of times out makes

1097
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: me happy and sad that you're growing, up and she

1098
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: when we're in the, car she will just say out,

1099
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: Loud dad that you. Ad i'm, like why WOULD i be.

1100
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: Saying she's like Because i'm growing. Up i'm, like, yeah you,

1101
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,240
Speaker 1: Know dad is both happy and sad because you're growing.

1102
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:07,919
Speaker 1: Up BUT i want you to stay my little girl.

1103
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: Forever So i'm Looking i'm going back to her and

1104
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 1: just like, Oh mama, said but she's also really happy

1105
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: because this is like you're going to, school so you're

1106
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,359
Speaker 1: just growing. Up you're you're you're becoming such a big

1107
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: girl and all this. Stuff But charles sobbing a little.

1108
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 1: Bit i'm crying a little, bit and you just kind

1109
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 1: of have that. Moment you drive. Home we Got scottie

1110
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: or nine month old in the in the car. Seat

1111
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 1: we take her out and go inside And i'm getting

1112
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,359
Speaker 1: ready to go to the shop And i'm, like, WELL

1113
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: i guess i'll uh all going to. Work it's it's

1114
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: like eerily. Quiet, yeah Because rouge just you, know you

1115
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 1: got a little, Toddler like they're on ten the whole.

1116
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:41,319
Speaker 1: Time they want to, play they want you to watch,

1117
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,320
Speaker 1: them they want your, attention they want all these, things

1118
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: not Just scotty kind of crawling around on the carpet

1119
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: and you're kind of just sitting. There, Well ring's the

1120
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 1: confident talk to. You, yeah, yeah, Yeah ru's the confident

1121
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: taller and you're she commands the. Space. Yeah but it's

1122
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: just it's it's weirdly. Quiet it's, like, man this is,

1123
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: uh this is how it. Goes and THEN i, think

1124
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: in my, brain this is how you start thinking about

1125
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: having another kid to Fill, yeah the, space you know

1126
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: WHAT i? Mean, YES i don't know how to explain,

1127
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 1: it but it was a very, uh it was an

1128
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: emotional week for your, boy AND i just thought it

1129
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 1: was really cool that there was like a, coincidentally it

1130
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:18,720
Speaker 1: was also my. Mom it would have been my mom's

1131
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: sixty first birthday and your mom was a. Teacher, Correct

1132
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,839
Speaker 1: my mom was a. Teacher that's even.

1133
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 2: More when you first said, THAT i was, like that's even.

1134
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 2: More just the, universe, Man, yeah that's.

1135
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: Awesome my mom was a. Teacher and then it was

1136
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: a principal for A catholic school. Episode, Though, yeah my

1137
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 1: mom was a, beast. Dude you, KNOW i obviously always

1138
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 1: get sad thinking about, her but she Was she was.

1139
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: Awesome she would have been so obsessed with.

1140
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 2: RUE i want to say this to you BECAUSE i love.

1141
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 2: You she'd be really proud of, you don't.

1142
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 1: You, Hey, hey, hey, HEY i know come on, NOW

1143
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 1: i was just doing a good job talking about her

1144
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: being a, beast and DON'T i don't want the he's,

1145
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: uh all. Right you, know if you've Watched busting with The,

1146
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: boys you know how emotional it makes me talking about my.

1147
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: Mom BUT i feel the SAME i feel the exact same, sentiment,

1148
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: BRO i.

1149
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 2: Do let's go, DUDE i was crying last. NIGHT i

1150
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 2: was looking AT i.

1151
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: Kind of see some water in your eyes right. Now, yeah, dude.

1152
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i just You're you're a good. Guy you're a good.

1153
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 2: GUY i love.

1154
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 3: You.

1155
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 2: YEAH i was looking at pictures Of scarlet last night

1156
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 2: and started.

1157
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 1: Crying she's so much. Bigger i'm, like, dude what the? Hell?

1158
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 2: MAN i was looking at pictures of her in her

1159
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 2: first week and she's like this little, thing and now

1160
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 2: she's got cheeks and like a double.

1161
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: Chin i'm, like what.

1162
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 2: Happened i'm, like you said the, crying, Dude the crying

1163
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 2: is totally.

1164
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 1: Different she was.

1165
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 2: Everything that you keep on saying on this, podcast Keep, mike,

1166
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,760
Speaker 2: sorry everything that you keep on saying on this podcast

1167
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 2: keeps coming. True of just those cries in the first

1168
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:59,799
Speaker 2: week are way up here and now it's saying And

1169
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 2: I'm i'm just, like oh my, gosh she's like growing so.

1170
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: Fast it's, crazy.

1171
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 3: Dude, YEAH i don't think it stops. Either my dad

1172
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:10,359
Speaker 3: was emotional last. WEEKEND i don't want to air out Old,

1173
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 3: john BUT i just came.

1174
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: BACK I i love hearing. That, Yeah AND i don't

1175
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:18,880
Speaker 1: know what the context. Is so, again if you don't

1176
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: want to air. Out john gets, fine BUT i, PERSONALLY

1177
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: i love it because there'll be a lot of times

1178
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: WHERE i talk ON i speak on things where there's

1179
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 1: some THINGS i wish looking back THAT i want to

1180
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: be better than what my dad. Was and we always

1181
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 1: have long conversations now and WHEN i did my The

1182
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: retirement podcast and he did a little video at the,

1183
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 1: end he's like talking through stuff and things they kind

1184
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 1: of make them, emotional BUT i love the masculine energy

1185
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: that feels their emotions and thinks about things that they

1186
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: wish they would have done. Differently but they feel it

1187
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: so much that they're your guys' connection and your relationship

1188
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: is it gets even better as you get, older and

1189
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: they wish they would have been more intentional like when

1190
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: you were, younger because it was a different era back. Then,

1191
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: yeah but now it's like it just it gets.

1192
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 3: Better, yeah he's awesome and he's a good like he's.

1193
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 3: Not he won't mind me talking about because he's proud

1194
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 3: all quickly HE i came back home for the. Summer

1195
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 3: parents are leting me stay with. Him WHY i kind

1196
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 3: of get on my feet and grant my little brother

1197
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 3: he's in college and my dad was just The grant

1198
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 3: went back to, school and my dad was, like he.

1199
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 3: Didn't they never thought that there'd be a time again

1200
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 3: After grant, left that we would all be home for

1201
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 3: an extended, period all under one. Roof and he was

1202
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 3: just like one of those things where you don't it's

1203
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 3: a it was a good, time and he was just,

1204
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 3: like come to terms with that's probably the last time

1205
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 3: that will ever happen for, real and he was just

1206
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 3: really glad that we had that time for the summer all.

1207
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 3: Together and he was getting choked up over the phone

1208
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 3: while he was moving my little brother, in but he's

1209
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 3: you know that's that fires me. Up, yeah he's a.

1210
00:58:55,120 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 2: Beast, yes a little shout out you being a workday

1211
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 2: as well as a dad at. Home this guy came

1212
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 2: in this morning on A. Friday we're wishing each other Happy,

1213
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 2: friday and he, SAID i got my first big boy

1214
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 2: check this. Week first big boy, check he, said and,

1215
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 2: man it feels.

1216
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 1: Good let's. Go. Man i'm not even his, boss per.

1217
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 2: Se AND i was just fired, up, dude just seeing

1218
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 2: that smile and just, like oh that's.

1219
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: Awesome smell the, flowers, Man, yeah smell the. FLOWERS i

1220
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: love that convo that you had with your dad, too

1221
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: AND i love that he broke down a little. Bit

1222
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 1: we need more breaking, Down we need more breaking.

1223
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 2: Down Uh mike crack of cole. One i'll make this super.

1224
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 2: Quick auburn trip went, great. Sherman did she wear the? Boat,

1225
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 2: yeah she wore the.

1226
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 1: Boat Did did you take any pictures just You? SCARLET

1227
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: i maybe.

1228
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 2: TOOK i maybe took a picture With scarlet so that

1229
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 2: If baylor Beats, auburn we're right there in front Of

1230
00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: Jordan hare AND i, said good. Thing girls got Her

1231
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 2: auburn sophon with her daddy From. Baylor baylor's.

1232
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: Daddy nice, thinking, Nice And i'll work the.

1233
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 2: Caption i'll want, caption But i'm posing there with. Her

1234
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 2: we're in front Of.

1235
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: Georgian put The auburn logo on. Her. Baylor oh, Yeah

1236
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: scarlet took her first ale. Today scarlett took her first

1237
01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 1: life l.

1238
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 2: OH i already sent it to, y'all her screaming in

1239
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 2: the auburn.

1240
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: Dress, yeah that was. Phenomenal all you.

1241
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 2: Need she hated the auburn dress and she legit had

1242
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 2: a blowout after the graduation ceremony to WHERE i JUST

1243
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 2: i was so HAPPY i, go, HONEY i think this

1244
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 2: calls for an outfit. Change threw that thing into those

1245
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 2: little trash bags that you carry. Around was so quick

1246
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 2: to throw that thing.

1247
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: Out AND i love too that your your mindset as a.

1248
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 1: Father Was she's screaming because she hates the auburn dress

1249
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 1: and she had a blowout because she wanted an outfit.

1250
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 1: Change she wanted an outfit. Good. GOOD i really was.

1251
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 2: GOOD i was so.

1252
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: Proud oh you should push it out down your like

1253
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: you get it all over your. Clothes. GOOD i, uh.

1254
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 2: But, yeah the whole crack of the whole crack of cold.

1255
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 2: ONE i don't know Why i'm leaning back so much.

1256
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 2: Today uh was just being around. Family we have a

1257
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 2: ton of family and fort Where jill has twenty Six. Forst,

1258
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 2: COUSINS i have Sixteen forst. Cousins it's, crazy sixteen. SIXTEEN

1259
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 2: i THOUGHT i had a big. Family jill's got twenty.

1260
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: Six it's not.

1261
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 2: So and so we here In, nashville we're just not

1262
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 2: around that. Family and we got to be around a

1263
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 2: lot of them In, auburn and, man it was so much,

1264
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 2: fun just like how much we were passing Around scarlett

1265
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 2: and Just scarlet's being held by. Everybody, yeah it felt

1266
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 2: like a vacation to some extent because it's like we're

1267
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 2: getting to be Around scarlet and like live life and

1268
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 2: do normal. Things But i'm literally like in a restaurant

1269
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 2: with a cup like in my. Hand i'm, like oh my,

1270
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 2: God i'm not Holding. Scarlett i'm looking over At, Jill

1271
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 2: she's eating her. DINNER i was, like this is. CRAZY

1272
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 2: i look across the table And Aunt linda's Bouncing scarlett

1273
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 2: and And scarlett's you, know just sitting there loving. IT

1274
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: i was, like, oh, MAN i MISS i miss, family

1275
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 2: but these moments are.

1276
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: Great, yeah so that's a that's a GOOD i see

1277
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: another separate krack of cold one is just family and

1278
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: family members helping out to where both of you and

1279
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: the wife aren't holding the. Baby, yeah enjoying the. Moment,

1280
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: yes seeing your family enjoy the. Moment, yeah, like oh

1281
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 1: CAN i hold?

1282
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 2: ABSOLUTELY i, Go, linda do you want you want to go?

1283
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: Back she goes NEVER i said, that you, go. GIRL

1284
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 1: i would be holding Good we're at the fourth Of.

1285
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: July i'd be Holding scotty And i'd kind of, like,

1286
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 1: Uh i'd Find. CAITLYN i just Look. KATE i, said, Hey,

1287
01:02:53,760 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: CAITLYN i, said, Past, Scotty caitlyn is my Brother cody's.

1288
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 2: Girlfriend, okay, okay shout Out.

1289
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: Kate, yeah shout Out. Kaitlyn shout Out, kaitlyn or just anybody, like,

1290
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: YEAH i haven't seen you holding. You she looks pretty. Good,

1291
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 1: yeah she's kind of. Fun i'm gonna go get a.

1292
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: Beer shout, up Bud, light shut up by, Life shout

1293
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: up dad lost not cleaning up the area and putting

1294
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: clothes in the. Laundry SO i had a moment the other.

1295
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: Night Or, scottie she's. Listen people understanding are starting to

1296
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 1: understand the lore of Scott zilla a little. BIT i

1297
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 1: posted a couple of. Videos one she's all over the place, Kid, hey, Hey, Scotty,

1298
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 1: No and she'll look at me and kind of give me,

1299
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: this you, know this little evil grin where you just

1300
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 1: know she's gonna be trouble one, day and she like

1301
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 1: looks over and grins and then like army crawls faster

1302
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: and that little toes just dig a little. Buddy we

1303
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: got to put socks on her because she's got blisters

1304
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: on Her she's got blisters like on her feet from

1305
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: how she repetition after rep she's digging into The you

1306
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: keep on pulling her, back and she's, like all, Right, god,

1307
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: yeah loves that. Plant just over and. Over she's crawling

1308
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 1: back to the plant ANYTIME i. Listen it's hard to

1309
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: beat somebody that refuses to. Quit, yeah you realize she's

1310
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 1: not gonna. Quit you gotta pick her up and move

1311
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: her somewhere. Else but, anyway so the other, night changing

1312
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:24,479
Speaker 1: her into her pajamas And scottie, again she's a. Mover

1313
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: i'm talking head neck bridge head. Bridge she's rolling over

1314
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: the side AND i got on My scottie no to

1315
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 1: WHERE i got to like hold her down and hold

1316
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 1: her down to her she starts getting a little, upset

1317
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: like you are not, moving didn Min AND i grab

1318
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 1: the leg again to try and hurry up and wipe

1319
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: and change her. Diaper she's moving to the point to

1320
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: Where i'm wiping her and, say let's Say i'm holding

1321
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: her like. This i'm wiping her and she's turning that.

1322
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 1: Way So i'm holding her like this to where she's

1323
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: neck bridging up so much to WHERE i gotta keep

1324
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 1: going with. Her she's just upside down As i'm wiping

1325
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: her trying to get to where she would kind of

1326
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: back roll over onto her. Stomach is how much she's

1327
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 1: how much she's, Bridging, yes SO i have to Once

1328
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:05,320
Speaker 1: i'm done wiping, HER i have to pick her up

1329
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: and grab her neck to WHERE i can lay her

1330
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: back down on her. Back so she's almost doing a full.

1331
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 2: Scorpion, yes a full.

1332
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 1: Scorpion she's a little psycho. Bro and that's like the

1333
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: changing routine with her a little. Bit she had a

1334
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 1: great one this, morning or she kind of laid there

1335
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 1: AND i was just encouraging. Her that's how we Do

1336
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 1: that is how we change a, diaper, Kid that is

1337
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 1: how we do. It that's. Clinical, yeah that's clinic. Tape

1338
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 1: that's that's coaching tape right. There WHEN i put WHEN

1339
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 1: i cut up some pieces, together that's gonna be part

1340
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: of the. Film that's And i'm showing an eight month

1341
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 1: old how type of changes. Come, yeah one day When

1342
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 1: i'm a coach And i'm going over the a gap your,

1343
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: Clips she's gonna cut. In this is how you keep a.

1344
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 1: Standing this is how you stay, poise stay, calm and

1345
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: let the game come to.

1346
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 2: You dirty diapers just shoots up on. Screen the full,

1347
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: yeah full room of football.

1348
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:51,959
Speaker 1: Players Whoa. Yeah but ANYTIME i take her clothes, OFF

1349
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 1: i throw them on just her little her little uh. Sofa,

1350
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: yes throw them on her little, sofa because you, Know

1351
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 1: i'm a. Guy i'm thinking maybe we'll where we will

1352
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: wear this again, tomorrow like we do when we take

1353
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 1: our clothes off in a little pile by the end

1354
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: of the by the side of the. Bed might wear these,

1355
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: socks might wear these, Shorts might wear this shirt again

1356
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 1: tomorrow or sometime this. Week, Yeah SO i tossed him

1357
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 1: on the. Sofa scotty, was you, know In scott's zilla.

1358
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: Mode SO i left the diaper on LIKE i you,

1359
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: KNOW i strapped it, up but left. IT i didn't

1360
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 1: put it in a trash. Can yeap clothes on the.

1361
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 1: SOFA i go to sit, down get in her. Sleepsack

1362
01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: she's having. Milk we're having a good. Time charlo And

1363
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 1: rue come in because always suposed to Give scotty a

1364
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 1: hug and a kiss good. Night and here's where the

1365
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 1: loss comes. In, OBVIOUSLY i haven't set it. UP i

1366
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: didn't clean out my. Mess, YEAH i got the laundry

1367
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: on the, SOFA i got the diaper on the thing

1368
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 1: And charles, LIKE i see you forgot to put the

1369
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 1: diaper in the pail. Again it's two feet, away two feet.

1370
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 1: Away you know we got a diaper, pail, right, yeah

1371
01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:56,440
Speaker 1: so we don't, know we get you, Know i'm kind of.

1372
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 1: Chuckling i'm, like ah. God she she was In scott's

1373
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: zilla mode and she's, like it's just right. Here did

1374
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 1: you put the butt bomb on? Her, Yeah i'll put

1375
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 1: the butt bomb on her or it gets. You just

1376
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:10,360
Speaker 1: a reminder the diaper, pail it's right, there, yeah just reach,

1377
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:16,160
Speaker 1: over it's right. There And rue's little candy. Ass she

1378
01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: joined T. Mom she joined team mom because Cin charle,

1379
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 1: GOES i see, you, uh your favorite thing to. Do

1380
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: Leave scotty's clothes on the. SOFA i don't know if

1381
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 1: she's gonna wear him and get the, borrow, sweetheart and

1382
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,400
Speaker 1: Then scotty Are rue's little candy ass dead. Day you

1383
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: got to Put scotty's laundry, away, walks walks in the,

1384
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 1: closet Gets scotty's, laundry goes in the, closet puts it

1385
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,760
Speaker 1: in the, hamper and Then rue Goes Dad, dad the

1386
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 1: hamper is in the, Closet LIKE i, know. Sweetheart ru

1387
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: grabs the hamper and slides it out of the closet and,

1388
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 1: says this the hamper right, here dead. Day you gotta

1389
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 1: put the laundry in the, Answer i'm, thinking, hey can

1390
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 1: you guys Let scotty have her milk and go to.

1391
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: Sleep BUT i don't need both of you up my

1392
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 1: ass right. Now, yeah you guys who bought that. Hamper

1393
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: guess who knows where it is because he bought it

1394
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: and put it. There, yeah but on my, ass you,

1395
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 1: know charge joking with. Me she's on my. Ass and

1396
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: then the rue's over here putting on a. Clan, hey,

1397
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 1: dad here's the. Hamper you got to put it in the?

1398
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: HAMPER i, GOT i got. You and this is this

1399
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:15,920
Speaker 1: is why we talk about. It this is not a.

1400
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:19,679
Speaker 2: Myth we are not conspiracy. THEORISTS a man can become.

1401
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 2: Outnumbered it's a real.

1402
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 1: Thing it's a real.

1403
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 2: Thing why Is will so quiet at the? Party they

1404
01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 2: won't ask, that, Though, yeah they won't be asking.

1405
01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 3: That what?

1406
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: Happened you used to have so much charisma AND i

1407
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,799
Speaker 1: had three, girls three. Daughters the hampers in the, Closet

1408
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:37,680
Speaker 1: but either, way, Hey, will what's you up? To the

1409
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: hampers in the, closet what but two feet? Away type

1410
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 1: in the two feet. Away, OKAY.

1411
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 2: I don't have a dad loss this, week AND i

1412
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 2: don't have a.

1413
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 1: Motherfuck that's. GOOD i have a new.

1414
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 2: Segment i'll keep it, quick under an, hour under an.

1415
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 2: Hour this new segment is called The. Trenches it is

1416
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 2: where a dad loss then turns into a dad, win a, crack.

1417
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: A cold one where a loss meets the, wind where

1418
01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: a loss meets the.

1419
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 2: Win so if it's not a true definitive loss or

1420
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 2: a true definitive, win it is now the.

1421
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 1: Trenches do we like? It love? It love?

1422
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 3: It?

1423
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah love it?

1424
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 2: Good my trenches very for trenches to kick us.

1425
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:26,600
Speaker 1: OFF i was actually tweeting about this last. NIGHT i

1426
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: sent you a. Video, Yes, SCARLETT i hit THE RT

1427
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:33,679
Speaker 1: i hit the. Retweet that makes. Sense love the bet

1428
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: six when they're out there retweeting it out, there that makes.

1429
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 2: Sense BECAUSE i saw it got like one hundred, LIKES

1430
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:41,599
Speaker 2: i was, like, oh that's a lot for a selfie

1431
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 2: video with my.

1432
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 1: BABY i did not REALIZE i gotta get down in

1433
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: front Of Papa team. Six we got, to we got.

1434
01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 2: To, Yeah scarlet can boo it'd been twenty four. Hours

1435
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:54,040
Speaker 2: dad has took her on a. Walk that's Also i'll

1436
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 2: segue that to save. Time that's my dad hack evening.

1437
01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 2: Walks just put her in that little wild. Bird, yeah

1438
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 2: and she passed, out And i'm, like, man what is

1439
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 2: the game plan going in tonight to get this little

1440
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:07,640
Speaker 2: thing to?

1441
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 1: Poop she didn't poop all.

1442
01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 2: Night she's, fussing not sleeping, well crying. Constantly jill had

1443
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 2: a day with her. Yesterday shout Out. Jill she put.

1444
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 1: Up love You, Jill love You.

1445
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,519
Speaker 2: Jill she put up with, scarlet like having this poop

1446
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 2: up in her for probably like eighteen straight hours of

1447
01:10:28,720 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 2: just like trying to figure it, out burping, her you,

1448
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:34,640
Speaker 2: know all this, stuff doing the, legs pushing it in and.

1449
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 2: OUT i did the evening. Walk we thought her being, vertical,

1450
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 2: yeah and kind of moving and stuff that that would.

1451
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:41,600
Speaker 1: Help nothing was.

1452
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:46,799
Speaker 2: Helping this, MORNING i finally get her for her seven o'clock,

1453
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 2: feed AND i put that bottle, in, dude and.

1454
01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 1: Oh my, god seven of, them seven of. Them just

1455
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 1: it's like a.

1456
01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 2: SUBWOLFER i don't know how to describe it other than

1457
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 2: your hands on a. Subwolfer, yeah AND i was so

1458
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 2: proud to you because it's not like in that moment

1459
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:07,639
Speaker 2: like you want the poop so, bad so you're.

1460
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:15,240
Speaker 1: Just like, Good, oh good, Job, scarlet good, girl good.

1461
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 2: Girl and then we get her out of her sleepsack

1462
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 2: AND i see on her onesie the brown stain already

1463
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:24,799
Speaker 2: on the, back And i'm, like good. JOB i truly

1464
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:27,640
Speaker 2: was like good BECAUSE i knew that she got it

1465
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 2: all out of. There, dude we open up that, Diaper,

1466
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 2: holy holy good.

1467
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: GOOD i THOUGHT i.

1468
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:37,719
Speaker 2: Knew what a dirty diaper. Was there wasn't a single

1469
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 2: patch of white going the full.

1470
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 1: Length the whole thing painted like with a paint. Roller

1471
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 1: it was. AWESOME i love. That so that was My

1472
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 1: The trenches, great great. Segment thank. You love the segment

1473
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 1: because again you do get caught in like dad lost

1474
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 1: DO i just talk about the lost, part crack a,

1475
01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 1: coal one could come out the. Other BUT i love

1476
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 1: how you brought it all. Together loss meets, dub lost meets.

1477
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: Dub we can find, Another i'll find. It we can

1478
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Speaker 1: Kit we'll share the same one Your. Dad shout Out

1508
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:03,880
Speaker 1: Papa shure for sending the boys this. Book Thank you

1509
01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: that The, Dad The Dad's. Playbook wisdom For fathers from

1510
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:12,640
Speaker 1: The Greatest coaches Of All time By Tim limbert with

1511
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,720
Speaker 1: a forward by By Steve. Young, Yeah hall Of.

1512
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 2: Famer maybe future guests on for the, dads that would be.

1513
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:22,600
Speaker 2: Awesome no, relation no, relation.

1514
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 1: But, yeah a bunch of, quotes a lot of things

1515
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: from again the greatest coaches of all, time.

1516
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:29,040
Speaker 2: And it has like a fun little write.

1517
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:32,519
Speaker 1: Up Bear, BRYANT i just opened it. Up, yeah take

1518
01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 1: those little, rascals talk to them, Good pat them on the,

1519
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 1: back let them think they are, good and they will

1520
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 1: go out and be the biggot and be the big Guns.

1521
01:14:41,600 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: Biggins go out and they will beat The. Biggins Coach

1522
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 1: Paul Bear bryant Coach Paul. Beart, bryant he, right didn't

1523
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: change a lot of diapers back in his. Era talk

1524
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: to the little, rascals they'll beat the. Biggins pat him

1525
01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:59,000
Speaker 1: on the, Back talk to him good they'll beat the biggest.

1526
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 1: Coach what does that? MEAN a good? Job good job? Kid,

1527
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 1: YEAH i MEAN i can change the diaper in my.

1528
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 1: Life my wife HANDLED I my quote this week is

1529
01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:07,680
Speaker 1: actually from this.

1530
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 2: Book it is very fun if you're a big quotes,

1531
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 2: guy and there's like a nice little forward at like

1532
01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 2: the beginning of each. Chapter i've only read the first

1533
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 2: chapter forward and THEN i just started peeling through like

1534
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 2: all the. Quotes but if you're just a sports guy

1535
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:24,559
Speaker 2: in general or what App, yeah there's some really great

1536
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 2: quotes in the same far as it's a fun.

1537
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 1: Read shut, up thank you. Dad that Was that was very,

1538
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:33,280
Speaker 1: thoughtful very. Thoughtful that's so funny to Bear. Bryant i'm

1539
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 1: like reading through that and it's, like, yeah it sounds

1540
01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 1: like a dad back. Then i'm you, Know i'm breaking

1541
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:39,880
Speaker 1: Down rou's first day of school to my. DAD i

1542
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 1: ended up calling that night and checking on, him catching,

1543
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: up and he's, like, YEAH i remember when you guys

1544
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:49,679
Speaker 1: went to school for the first. TIME i started. LAUGHING i, said,

1545
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: no the hell you, don't, bro you. Ain't you ain't

1546
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: think us the. School he got, it sat there for two,

1547
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:59,680
Speaker 1: seconds he, goes, yeah you're probably. RIGHT i didn't think

1548
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:01,800
Speaker 1: you guys, school and then he gave me, Though i'm

1549
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:03,720
Speaker 1: up before you guys were even. Awake i'm driving to

1550
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: work before you, Guys LIKE i. Know he's, like but you,

1551
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:07,559
Speaker 1: KNOW i get home And i'm asking you about, school

1552
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:09,640
Speaker 1: And i'm, LIKE i, know, Death, like it's just funny to.

1553
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 1: Me you're trying to LIKE i remember, dropping you, know

1554
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: seeing you guys on your first day of, school And i'm,

1555
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,880
Speaker 1: like fucking take us to, school, Man, yeah you're probably.

1556
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 1: Right here's, yeah that's.

1557
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 2: True here's another quote from Coach paul Bear bryant spit on.

1558
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 1: It yeah, good thanks. Coach that could have been a

1559
01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 1: few different things they. Could he was a smart, man

1560
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 1: a lot of. That he spit on.

1561
01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 3: It what?

1562
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 1: Coach what the? Fuck for? Dads what? Uh dad hot?

1563
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 1: Line that dad hot. Line let's dive into the dad

1564
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 1: hotline this week six oh one The. Dads if you

1565
01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: want to drop a voicemail to the boys to for the,

1566
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 1: dads is that six oh one the. Dads we have

1567
01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:56,560
Speaker 1: our caller coming into us this week named don't know his.

1568
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 2: Name we're about to find out if you're an international

1569
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 2: six on one the days at gmail dot. Com that's

1570
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 2: six o one of the dad's at gmail dot. Com

1571
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,440
Speaker 2: if you're an international, listener.

1572
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:10,679
Speaker 3: Sure preface real quick. Too from from what we talked

1573
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 3: about before the episode with the call at saying a,

1574
01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 3: name just real.

1575
01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:17,800
Speaker 2: Quick thank, You thank you for the, Reminder thank you

1576
01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 2: for the.

1577
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 1: REMINDER i, captain thank, you.

1578
01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:23,320
Speaker 2: Captain Will you're gonna love. THIS i am not upset

1579
01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 2: WHEN i say.

1580
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 1: THIS i just found it.

1581
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 2: FUNNY i got a dm uh from A pt sixer that, said,

1582
01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:32,880
Speaker 2: boys what the fuck on saying my?

1583
01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:33,599
Speaker 1: Name you got?

1584
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,360
Speaker 2: Me you got me in the doghouse with the wife.

1585
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:40,600
Speaker 2: Feet oh, no how does the wife you listen? TO

1586
01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:45,120
Speaker 2: i guess wife you listen. To but to my, Thought i'm,

1587
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 2: like if you say your, name here's here's my, thing

1588
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 2: we said at the, top and it's in the voicemail

1589
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 2: thing if you want to remain anom very first episode we.

1590
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 2: Did we were, saying very first, episode and it's in you, Say,

1591
01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 2: hey this is Will. Compter you reach for the dads and.

1592
01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 2: Listen if you want to share your, name you want

1593
01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 2: to stay, anonymous doesn't.

1594
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 1: MATTER i mean it's. There OH i say that in the.

1595
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 3: Voice, yes, okay if you got, that if you open

1596
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 3: up the, Voicemail, hey, guys this Is jack here calling

1597
01:18:14,040 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 3: in for, like it's very. Obvious we're gonna say your.

1598
01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 1: Name, Yeah we're gonna play the. Voicemail we got him in.

1599
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 1: Trouble we got likes to think that he listened to

1600
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 1: the clip and then showed his wife and then maybe

1601
01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:26,720
Speaker 1: she was busting his. Balls got him in. Trouble which

1602
01:18:26,720 --> 01:18:28,600
Speaker 1: guy did we get in? Trouble what was the?

1603
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:32,200
Speaker 2: Situation because then what is that gonna?

1604
01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 1: Do you're, right it was a.

1605
01:18:34,200 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 3: SITUATION i Don't we don't. Know we gotta go back

1606
01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:39,720
Speaker 3: and find. Out maybe the wife is standing right next to.

1607
01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:42,200
Speaker 3: Him he's, like, Look i'm telling these motherfuckers, like how dare?

1608
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 3: You and on the inside he's, like if that's the,

1609
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 3: case we'll we'll take the. Blame, Hey i'm so sorry

1610
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:51,760
Speaker 3: that we did.

1611
01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 1: That when your wife asked, you who did? It your

1612
01:18:56,600 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 1: responses pop a team. Six we're all one, heartbeat we're

1613
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: all one. Voice, Hey Brock obama slam Bin. Laden who

1614
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:07,280
Speaker 1: took the? Shot we all? Did, no, no, no who

1615
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:09,840
Speaker 1: actually took the? Shot? President with all due, respect we

1616
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 1: all took the. Shot, there you're we all.

1617
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:17,840
Speaker 2: Did her friend one hundred percent heard the clip and,

1618
01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 2: said is this Your?

1619
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:23,720
Speaker 1: Joey, yeah this is YOUR us? Familiar what?

1620
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 2: That what the hell are you doing calling into this?

1621
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,600
Speaker 1: Thing i'm What they heard me out like?

1622
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 3: That what is this?

1623
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:33,600
Speaker 1: Ship although this ship Is we'll take, It. Papa this

1624
01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:35,880
Speaker 1: is a off tame. Six that's off a team. Six

1625
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 1: took the. Shot we took the.

1626
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:40,519
Speaker 2: Shot, okay back to the voice we.

1627
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:42,880
Speaker 1: Have we have a fun. Voicemail we're just doing one this.

1628
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 2: Week we got tight, deadline we're keeping under an.

1629
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: Hour here we.

1630
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 5: Go what's not, boys it's. Nat put a quick shout

1631
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 5: out to my young Brother tom for putting me On

1632
01:19:57,560 --> 01:20:01,120
Speaker 5: butting with the. Boys couldn't have been happier to give

1633
01:20:01,120 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 5: another podcast in the, rotation especially now that it's for

1634
01:20:05,120 --> 01:20:05,639
Speaker 5: The dad.

1635
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:08,240
Speaker 1: Is The Traffic cold?

1636
01:20:08,280 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 5: One maybe a new category Called Dad. Collecting but but you,

1637
01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 5: KNOW i remember of Pat. STATES i got a foign

1638
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 5: and six year. Old i've been recommissioned out to the.

1639
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 5: Suburbs you, know getting a little long in the. Tube

1640
01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 5: and you, KNOW i don't feel Like i've been put

1641
01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 5: out the, pasture but maybe given a new, opportunity you

1642
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:28,799
Speaker 5: don't fashion. Launch there's nothing like. It you got to embrace.

1643
01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 5: It and it's really not as munch of a responsibility

1644
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 5: as an, opportunity opportunity to cultivate.

1645
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 2: And present what you can do to your.

1646
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 5: Neighbors and so last Week i'm up against the, clock

1647
01:20:40,320 --> 01:20:43,040
Speaker 5: last few hours of the week where my nanny's still

1648
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:45,880
Speaker 5: on the. Clock i'm home, early got to get the lawn.

1649
01:20:46,040 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 5: Cut it's ninety nine fucking degrees.

1650
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:50,439
Speaker 2: Outside i'm going to like a horn.

1651
01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:53,200
Speaker 5: Church what DO i get as a tap on the

1652
01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:55,720
Speaker 5: shoulder from my boy scout neighbor across the.

1653
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:56,960
Speaker 2: Street what does he?

1654
01:20:57,120 --> 01:21:00,200
Speaker 5: Want he wants me to put a shirt. Up it's

1655
01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:02,800
Speaker 5: inappromphrey for me to come to grat and my shirt.

1656
01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 5: Off you, know don't mean to flex on it too.

1657
01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:06,360
Speaker 1: Hard but.

1658
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 5: We don't all look great in our, fifties but in our,

1659
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:12,720
Speaker 5: Thirties i'm still looking good.

1660
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 1: Fellas i'm not a.

1661
01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 2: Freak short off a little.

1662
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 5: Bit get the dance flex. Showing so you know WHAT

1663
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:21,000
Speaker 5: i did and to just kindly take appreciate the, consideration

1664
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:23,280
Speaker 5: keep it. Moving what do you?

1665
01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:25,080
Speaker 2: Do goes and complain to my.

1666
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 5: Wife it's been, better but.

1667
01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:32,120
Speaker 1: You just can't keep him.

1668
01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:34,479
Speaker 5: Down we're here to build a, community not tear each other.

1669
01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:38,200
Speaker 5: Down so get out, there flett the, muscles showing your

1670
01:21:38,240 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 5: most muscular and don't be afraid to pop the top

1671
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 5: off every once in a.

1672
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 2: While keep it.

1673
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 5: Up love hearing it every. Week can't wait to hear.

1674
01:21:46,240 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 1: Him, No oh, GOD i love, that he Said nate

1675
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:54,679
Speaker 1: From Papa team. SIX i thought he said, smitty, smitty?

1676
01:21:57,320 --> 01:22:00,720
Speaker 2: Smitty is It? Nate let's rune it?

1677
01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 1: Back hold on By, Nate, nate It's. Nate, yeah, yeah It's.

1678
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:11,280
Speaker 1: Hey you got the shirt's got the computer over? There

1679
01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:13,000
Speaker 1: so my you, know, hey you, KNOW i don't know

1680
01:22:13,000 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 1: If i'm gonna need to hear no by. Here, Yeah

1681
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:19,360
Speaker 1: oh my. Love that's a great example of a get back,

1682
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 1: inside old, man break your, hand put a shirt?

1683
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 3: On what on? This on?

1684
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:33,559
Speaker 1: This oh you don't like what you, see old? Man

1685
01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,639
Speaker 1: why don't you come say it to my? Face? Oh fuck, Off?

1686
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 2: Scott what the?

1687
01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:42,920
Speaker 1: Fuck what'd you?

1688
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 2: Say?

1689
01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:44,720
Speaker 1: Scott you need me to piss on your?

1690
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 2: Lawn?

1691
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 1: Yeah i'll piss on it After i'm. Done. Cut how

1692
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:54,400
Speaker 1: about that sounds like you haven't mounted your wife in a.

1693
01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 1: While scott.

1694
01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 2: That he told him to keep, pushing and Then scott

1695
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 2: or whatever neighbor went to his wife to then go.

1696
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:11,120
Speaker 2: Complain do you hear that part of the.

1697
01:23:11,160 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 1: Time, Yeah so he told he had the shirt. Off,

1698
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: yeah said it's, inappropriate told him to keep, pushing, like,

1699
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:19,680
Speaker 1: guy keep mowing the.

1700
01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:23,240
Speaker 2: Lawn, no, no guy that had his shirt. Off nate

1701
01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:28,200
Speaker 2: Told scott the, Neighbor, hey keep pushing. It, scott thanks

1702
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:31,680
Speaker 2: for the, tip but keep. Pushing kept his shirt.

1703
01:23:31,479 --> 01:23:35,559
Speaker 1: Off finished the. Lawn So scott went to his wife

1704
01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 1: to tail on. Him, yes we got a tattletail on our. Hands,

1705
01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:44,600
Speaker 1: dude what in the. World AND i.

1706
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 2: Love that he kept it. Positive he's, Like, hey we're

1707
01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:48,800
Speaker 2: just trying to build a, community not holding it against the.

1708
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:52,639
Speaker 2: Neighbor not holding it against the. Neighbor But i'm gonna

1709
01:23:52,720 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 2: keep on mowing the lawn with my shirt off when

1710
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:58,479
Speaker 2: it's ninety nine, Degrees thank you very. Much and somebody

1711
01:23:58,560 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 2: that's From, texas he's.

1712
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:01,200
Speaker 1: Trying to get the. Sell you're trying to get a

1713
01:24:01,240 --> 01:24:03,720
Speaker 1: little tangle, on you, know what the farmer's tans are,

1714
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:05,760
Speaker 1: fun but it's like he's trying to get some color to.

1715
01:24:05,920 --> 01:24:08,360
Speaker 2: Him, yes, dude a rat house that we had In

1716
01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 2: texas that WE i did the unknowing for on those summer.

1717
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 2: Days it is like almost. Unbearable it is almost, unbearable

1718
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 2: especially when it's getting up to like ONE o, two

1719
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 2: one oh, three which.

1720
01:24:22,240 --> 01:24:27,240
Speaker 1: Happens Bro nate should next time He moslon do the

1721
01:24:27,320 --> 01:24:30,400
Speaker 1: exact same. Thing put some booby tassels. On, yeah Leave

1722
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:32,560
Speaker 1: scott of notes and, says go tell my wife about this.

1723
01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:38,040
Speaker 1: One or if he wants them to wear a, shirt

1724
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: just wears something, ridiculous.

1725
01:24:40,400 --> 01:24:41,880
Speaker 2: You know WHAT i, Mean like as he's mowing the

1726
01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 2: oh yeah you have to maybe one of these visors

1727
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,200
Speaker 2: WITH thess or.

1728
01:24:48,320 --> 01:24:50,160
Speaker 1: Just wears a shirt and cuts everything like all the

1729
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:52,360
Speaker 1: way up to where it's, like you, know flowing in

1730
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:52,720
Speaker 1: the wind.

1731
01:24:52,800 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 2: Everywhere IT'S pt six shirt and just cropped off.

1732
01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:58,160
Speaker 1: There yeah Go pt six cut it up to the.

1733
01:24:58,240 --> 01:25:02,719
Speaker 1: Sternum so you still show off the app as just short.

1734
01:25:02,840 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 2: Shorts just give him the biggest thumbs up when he

1735
01:25:05,439 --> 01:25:06,960
Speaker 2: pulls into it drive.

1736
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:10,879
Speaker 1: So some badass sunglasses crop top up to the. Sternum

1737
01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 1: really short cut off jean shorts or something so you

1738
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:17,760
Speaker 1: can get the quads. Out, yep maybe that busting bucket at. On,

1739
01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 1: YEAH i got a shirt.

1740
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:25,600
Speaker 2: And you gotta keep the mower going and yell over the.

1741
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:28,800
Speaker 2: Mower that's the biggest power move. Ever somebody trying to

1742
01:25:28,880 --> 01:25:31,040
Speaker 2: talk to you and you just keep on ripping on

1743
01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:31,479
Speaker 2: whatever your.

1744
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:33,680
Speaker 1: Tools, yeah we'll write him a little, note put it

1745
01:25:33,680 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 1: in his. Mailbox heard you tattle to my? Wife what's

1746
01:25:38,360 --> 01:25:41,559
Speaker 1: a lot of stones you? Have that's a crazy. Movie,

1747
01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:42,519
Speaker 1: yeah that is a crazy.

1748
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 3: Move what's the scene In Step brothers Where Will ferrell's

1749
01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:48,240
Speaker 3: going along Like derek's trying to sell the house And

1750
01:25:48,400 --> 01:25:50,280
Speaker 3: Will ferrell's in the FULL ss.

1751
01:25:50,360 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 1: Outfit, Yeah ain's, great, Great oh my.

1752
01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:01,759
Speaker 2: GOD i had a neighbor in his like late, Sixties

1753
01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:03,960
Speaker 2: steve shout Out steve back In.

1754
01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:06,599
Speaker 1: Texas every other day he's.

1755
01:26:06,680 --> 01:26:08,960
Speaker 2: Retired every other day he's out in his front yard

1756
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:13,200
Speaker 2: with his little docks in no shirt, on killing it

1757
01:26:13,800 --> 01:26:16,160
Speaker 2: and he had the, hunchback like the early hunchback going

1758
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:21,000
Speaker 2: he's just Fucking he's just oh and he got me juiced.

1759
01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 2: UP i don't see how A pt sixer could see

1760
01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:27,360
Speaker 2: ANOTHER pt sixer with his shirt off that late in

1761
01:26:27,439 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 2: the game and, go, dude fuck, him put a shirt.

1762
01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 1: On was hein't a REAL pt? Sixer, Yes scott AIN'T

1763
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:37,719
Speaker 1: pt Six scott ain't A pt sixer for. Real Maybe

1764
01:26:37,880 --> 01:26:40,920
Speaker 1: nate should put him on for the. Dad that's a great.

1765
01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 1: Call introduce him to the. Culture you might hear this

1766
01:26:45,439 --> 01:26:48,880
Speaker 1: part at some. Point, wait wait two, weeks but he'll

1767
01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:50,840
Speaker 1: be able to check. Himself. Yeah, wait you know what

1768
01:26:50,960 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 1: these boys are, RIGHT i need to do a better

1769
01:26:53,400 --> 01:26:57,760
Speaker 1: job of embracing the fatherhood and the.

1770
01:26:57,920 --> 01:27:02,240
Speaker 2: Boy scout terminology called his neighbor by boy scout. Neighbor

1771
01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 2: that's a wild ricochet for the boys.

1772
01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:07,720
Speaker 1: Scout while.

1773
01:27:10,120 --> 01:27:14,920
Speaker 2: Oh, no, Golly, nate that was an all time.

1774
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:19,400
Speaker 1: Call great, Call, Nate thank. You we did our call.

1775
01:27:19,520 --> 01:27:22,320
Speaker 2: In we're doing so well on. Time we are at

1776
01:27:22,360 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 2: the end of the. Show it sounds like your lesson

1777
01:27:25,439 --> 01:27:26,560
Speaker 2: is pretty long or.

1778
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:29,519
Speaker 1: Long not. LONG i JUST i just wrote a few things.

1779
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:31,680
Speaker 2: DOWN i have a very quick quote THAT i can

1780
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 2: hit hit bro. Lesson this is from Jim. Valvano that's

1781
01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:42,200
Speaker 2: THE nc state. Coach remember back in the, Eighties JIMMY.

1782
01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:42,880
Speaker 1: V JIMMY.

1783
01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:48,639
Speaker 2: V my father gave me the greatest gift anyone anyone

1784
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:52,639
Speaker 2: could give another, person he believed in. ME i really

1785
01:27:52,720 --> 01:27:56,400
Speaker 2: love that. Quote so my father gave me the greatest

1786
01:27:56,479 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 2: gift anyone could give another.

1787
01:27:57,920 --> 01:27:59,120
Speaker 1: Person he believed in.

1788
01:27:59,200 --> 01:28:04,559
Speaker 2: Me, boom nice simple and it covers the. Bases, yeah

1789
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:05,360
Speaker 2: covers the.

1790
01:28:05,439 --> 01:28:07,560
Speaker 1: Base simple quote that you can just tell yourself in

1791
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 1: the back of your mind when you're kiddo's questioning a

1792
01:28:10,600 --> 01:28:13,160
Speaker 1: SHOULD i get on the? Scooter that's a big slide up?

1793
01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:16,360
Speaker 2: There SHOULD i put my leg overset handlebars of? Scooter

1794
01:28:17,200 --> 01:28:18,000
Speaker 2: dad's over there.

1795
01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 1: With this phone Doing, Yeah, OH i did have A

1796
01:28:22,439 --> 01:28:27,680
Speaker 1: i did have a dad hack on like on. ONBELIEF i. Had.

1797
01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:30,320
Speaker 1: Uh so by the time we're filming this, Episode rude

1798
01:28:30,400 --> 01:28:31,720
Speaker 1: just went to school for the third day in the.

1799
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:34,400
Speaker 1: Row It's, friday it's, beats A friday movie, night all

1800
01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:36,920
Speaker 1: the good. Stuff but It dad. HACKED i had because

1801
01:28:36,920 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 1: on day three we were it was just me taking

1802
01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:41,240
Speaker 1: her to school and we were waiting in the car

1803
01:28:41,320 --> 01:28:43,600
Speaker 1: line and she was all of a sudden saying she

1804
01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:45,280
Speaker 1: didn't want to go to. School why don't want to

1805
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:46,880
Speaker 1: go to? School? Sweet our deadad's not at, School, like

1806
01:28:46,920 --> 01:28:48,479
Speaker 1: come to school with? Me kind of didn't want to,

1807
01:28:48,600 --> 01:28:50,880
Speaker 1: leave that kind of didn't want to go to. School

1808
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 1: we're starting to feel a little. Sad she wasn't crying

1809
01:28:53,040 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 1: or anything. Like that was this. Morning that was this, morning?

1810
01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:58,880
Speaker 1: Okay and uh so WHAT i did is that As

1811
01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:00,280
Speaker 1: i'm talking to you about, school you, know you have

1812
01:29:00,360 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 1: so much, Fun you play a, lot you, learn your

1813
01:29:02,520 --> 01:29:04,880
Speaker 1: friends are going to be, there so and so's, there

1814
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:07,080
Speaker 1: so and so's, there, YadA, YadA. YadA AND i was,

1815
01:29:07,120 --> 01:29:09,160
Speaker 1: like and here's what we'll. Do we can Do, remember

1816
01:29:09,200 --> 01:29:11,040
Speaker 1: we're always going to do three, squeezes because she, SAID

1817
01:29:11,040 --> 01:29:12,200
Speaker 1: i want you get out of the. TRUCK i want

1818
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 1: you to hug me and kiss. Me so you know

1819
01:29:14,240 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 1: they don't let. Parents so why because we got to

1820
01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:18,599
Speaker 1: keep the line. Moving why because we got to stay

1821
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:21,320
Speaker 1: effishing and. Effective and that's just the way it, is

1822
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:23,479
Speaker 1: all this. STUFF i was, like but here's What i'll.

1823
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:26,680
Speaker 1: Do dada is going to give you five kisses and

1824
01:29:26,760 --> 01:29:28,479
Speaker 1: you can put them in your. Pocket just got a

1825
01:29:28,520 --> 01:29:31,080
Speaker 1: little pocket on the front of her dress or shirt

1826
01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:33,680
Speaker 1: whatever it, was And i'm and putting them in her,

1827
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 1: hands two, three, four, five and she puts them in her.

1828
01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:38,439
Speaker 1: Pocket i'm, like you can use those throughout the. Day

1829
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:40,120
Speaker 1: so if you think about, dad dad Or mama and

1830
01:29:40,160 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 1: you get, sad just know you can pull out a

1831
01:29:41,920 --> 01:29:43,760
Speaker 1: kiss out of your pocket and you can put it

1832
01:29:43,840 --> 01:29:46,280
Speaker 1: on your. Cheek and, also you know how mom and

1833
01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:48,240
Speaker 1: daddy got you that little roo necklace you wear in

1834
01:29:48,240 --> 01:29:50,040
Speaker 1: your little. Necklace she's, like, YEAH i was like if,

1835
01:29:50,240 --> 01:29:52,160
Speaker 1: again if you run out of your kisses or again

1836
01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:54,280
Speaker 1: you're feeling sad that mom and dad aren't, there we

1837
01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:57,320
Speaker 1: got you that. Necklace just squeeze your necklace and we'll feel.

1838
01:29:57,360 --> 01:29:59,560
Speaker 1: It and just know that we're always going to be

1839
01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:01,560
Speaker 1: with you as we. Are we got your necklace and

1840
01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:03,479
Speaker 1: it is around your. Neck so if you're feel, sad

1841
01:30:03,600 --> 01:30:05,880
Speaker 1: just squeeze it and just know That i'll feel it

1842
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:07,040
Speaker 1: Wherever i'm, At i'm gonna feel.

1843
01:30:07,080 --> 01:30:07,120
Speaker 3: It.

1844
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 2: Bro that's a little dad having a. Girl fucking, rocks

1845
01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:14,400
Speaker 2: dude having. IT i want some boy dads on the,

1846
01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:16,240
Speaker 2: show but little moments like.

1847
01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:20,040
Speaker 1: That that's so, sick. Dude and she ripped. It you,

1848
01:30:20,120 --> 01:30:25,280
Speaker 1: know teacher got her out by. Dad dad uh walked

1849
01:30:25,320 --> 01:30:27,439
Speaker 1: off and you just see your little human just walking, off,

1850
01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:30,000
Speaker 1: bro just being a little g, bro just being a.

1851
01:30:29,960 --> 01:30:32,680
Speaker 2: Little with their little five is there necklace along the.

1852
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:35,519
Speaker 1: Way but that was my that was my. Dad, heck

1853
01:30:35,600 --> 01:30:39,840
Speaker 1: here's here's the, lesson here's the lesson or theme uh

1854
01:30:40,040 --> 01:30:44,000
Speaker 1: for this, segment for this topict some, DOWN i emailed

1855
01:30:44,040 --> 01:30:47,080
Speaker 1: it to. Myself here we are you? Ready sure? HIM

1856
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:53,479
Speaker 1: i am, Ready Captain Chef jack. Ready it's our job

1857
01:30:53,560 --> 01:30:56,840
Speaker 1: to break the cycle of pointless punishments when our children are,

1858
01:30:56,920 --> 01:31:00,200
Speaker 1: developing learning and. Growing this is a challenge THAT i

1859
01:31:00,320 --> 01:31:02,640
Speaker 1: Know i'll face because growing up in an era of

1860
01:31:02,800 --> 01:31:05,400
Speaker 1: choosing what you'll get spanked, with having that fear of

1861
01:31:05,520 --> 01:31:08,080
Speaker 1: dat anytime you do something, wrong and the feeling of

1862
01:31:08,280 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 1: isolation after. Punishment life is too short to get upset

1863
01:31:12,200 --> 01:31:14,760
Speaker 1: over your toddler being a, toddler or your kiddo going

1864
01:31:14,800 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 1: through a developmental. Stage they fuck, up they break, things

1865
01:31:18,439 --> 01:31:20,479
Speaker 1: they lose their mind over little, things and push you

1866
01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:23,760
Speaker 1: to your. Limits but they're also learning how to regulate their,

1867
01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:26,439
Speaker 1: emotions develop their, skills and how to show up to the.

1868
01:31:26,479 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 1: World and that is where our job comes. In don't

1869
01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:33,200
Speaker 1: reprimand them for the mess ups and. Outbursts, instead encourage

1870
01:31:33,360 --> 01:31:36,240
Speaker 1: and guide them and guide, them walk through the fire with,

1871
01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:38,800
Speaker 1: them and challenge yourself to stand in the storm with

1872
01:31:38,960 --> 01:31:41,680
Speaker 1: them and show them the way we need to get

1873
01:31:41,720 --> 01:31:44,000
Speaker 1: out of the way of our own bullshit and lead our.

1874
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:47,280
Speaker 1: Children it's why we embrace good and it's why we

1875
01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:51,800
Speaker 1: will help set the standard for the next. Generation that

1876
01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:56,880
Speaker 1: concludes my ted. Talk those are big, words, Dude, yeah

1877
01:31:57,040 --> 01:32:00,400
Speaker 1: those are big. Words. Yeah i'll come across stuff that

1878
01:32:00,520 --> 01:32:03,400
Speaker 1: talks about, like you, know, punish like the punishment, stuff

1879
01:32:03,720 --> 01:32:07,719
Speaker 1: or your, children you, know going through a developmental stage

1880
01:32:07,840 --> 01:32:10,120
Speaker 1: or having a, tantrum or the moments that you just

1881
01:32:10,240 --> 01:32:12,719
Speaker 1: know push you to the absolute end of the. Earth

1882
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:14,920
Speaker 1: we all have. Them we all fail at times a

1883
01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:17,840
Speaker 1: lot of, times where then it's all about how you

1884
01:32:17,960 --> 01:32:20,320
Speaker 1: self talk after that and look back on what happened

1885
01:32:20,360 --> 01:32:21,880
Speaker 1: and see how you could have done a better job

1886
01:32:21,920 --> 01:32:24,280
Speaker 1: of keeping your, poise because, again they're going through so

1887
01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:28,280
Speaker 1: many big emotions and it's our job to again sit

1888
01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:31,040
Speaker 1: in the storm with them and help guide. Them or

1889
01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:33,360
Speaker 1: If ruth's yelling, you there's only so many times where

1890
01:32:33,400 --> 01:32:34,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna. Yell it's, like, hey you're starting to piss

1891
01:32:34,960 --> 01:32:36,800
Speaker 1: me off a little, bit or you're starting to frustrate dad,

1892
01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:38,800
Speaker 1: Dad or it's like IF i give you something and

1893
01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:42,320
Speaker 1: you're like CAN i do this or blah blah, blah ask, Dad,

1894
01:32:42,439 --> 01:32:44,720
Speaker 1: hey use your confident. Voice that's not how we, talk

1895
01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:47,679
Speaker 1: that's not how we do. Things yeah, yeah, hey, dadda

1896
01:32:47,760 --> 01:32:49,400
Speaker 1: can you? Help can you turn on Little bear for?

1897
01:32:49,520 --> 01:32:52,559
Speaker 1: Me can you ask? Nicely? All all like all these

1898
01:32:52,600 --> 01:32:54,639
Speaker 1: other or they're having a, moment they just want rue

1899
01:32:54,640 --> 01:32:57,000
Speaker 1: didn't want to see. Me this, morning she came, downstairs

1900
01:32:57,720 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 1: sent her. Outfit she usually comes and Sees dad ad

1901
01:33:00,160 --> 01:33:01,400
Speaker 1: me to like look at her, outfit And i'm, like

1902
01:33:01,439 --> 01:33:04,040
Speaker 1: oh my, gosh you look. Amazing what'd you do with your?

1903
01:33:04,040 --> 01:33:05,840
Speaker 1: HAIR i love to all like all this. Stuff that's

1904
01:33:05,880 --> 01:33:08,080
Speaker 1: like every. Day that's a that's a daily routine that we.

1905
01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:10,439
Speaker 1: Have but this morning she came down stairs for whatever,

1906
01:33:10,680 --> 01:33:13,599
Speaker 1: reason she didn't want to see dadd or didn't want

1907
01:33:13,600 --> 01:33:15,400
Speaker 1: me to talk to. Her i'm making breakfast and, stuff

1908
01:33:15,400 --> 01:33:16,840
Speaker 1: And i'm kind of hearing her talk to, MOM i

1909
01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:18,960
Speaker 1: don't want to See. Dada goes in the mudroom and

1910
01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:20,640
Speaker 1: just sits in the. Mudroom she was, like, oh we

1911
01:33:20,680 --> 01:33:22,240
Speaker 1: don't got to put our shoes on. Yet we got any.

1912
01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:24,200
Speaker 1: Breakfast Her she's just LIKE i don't want to see, dad,

1913
01:33:24,240 --> 01:33:26,080
Speaker 1: dad OR i don't want daddad to talk to, me

1914
01:33:26,160 --> 01:33:27,800
Speaker 1: AND i didn't do shit when she got out of,

1915
01:33:27,800 --> 01:33:30,160
Speaker 1: there LIKE i haven't seen her yet in the, morning

1916
01:33:31,160 --> 01:33:34,000
Speaker 1: AND i kind of give it some. TIME i finished

1917
01:33:34,040 --> 01:33:36,280
Speaker 1: some breakfast going. On THEN i just KIND i, slowly

1918
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 1: kindly walk in there And i'm, like, hey, sweetheart like,

1919
01:33:39,040 --> 01:33:40,439
Speaker 1: DAD i don't want you in, here And i'm, LIKE

1920
01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:42,160
Speaker 1: i know you've. Done i'm gonna leave here in a.

1921
01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:44,240
Speaker 1: SECOND i just wanted to, ask, though CAN i ask

1922
01:33:44,280 --> 01:33:47,040
Speaker 1: you a? Question, yeah, like how are you feeling? Today

1923
01:33:47,080 --> 01:33:49,120
Speaker 1: i'm feeling sad and kind of like lays down and

1924
01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:52,479
Speaker 1: does her, thing And i'm just, like all, right that's.

1925
01:33:52,520 --> 01:33:54,120
Speaker 1: Fine i'm gonna walk out of. Here but just, know

1926
01:33:54,439 --> 01:33:56,120
Speaker 1: here's ALL i want you to. Know i'm gonna be

1927
01:33:56,240 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 1: right out here in the. Kitchen if you need da

1928
01:33:58,200 --> 01:33:59,880
Speaker 1: death or anything anything THAT i can do for, you

1929
01:34:00,040 --> 01:34:02,559
Speaker 1: you just let me. Know a minute or something comes,

1930
01:34:02,600 --> 01:34:05,559
Speaker 1: by and then you just HEAR i Need, Dad, Dad

1931
01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:07,360
Speaker 1: LIKE i JUST i want to hug and, stuff and

1932
01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:11,040
Speaker 1: THEN i go. On there's LIKE i feel like if

1933
01:34:11,040 --> 01:34:12,160
Speaker 1: you take it the wrong, way you can go in

1934
01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:14,120
Speaker 1: there like, hey what's going? On, like, well that hasn't

1935
01:34:14,120 --> 01:34:17,599
Speaker 1: done nothing to. You you're, like you're like defending your. Position. Yeah,

1936
01:34:17,640 --> 01:34:21,720
Speaker 1: yeah it's like whatever moment she's having right, now, like, hey,

1937
01:34:21,760 --> 01:34:25,920
Speaker 1: sweetheart number, one we are number, one we are. This,

1938
01:34:26,280 --> 01:34:29,080
Speaker 1: yeah you know. THAT i know. That i'm just, thinking,

1939
01:34:29,120 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 1: hey how are you feeling this? Morning i'm feeling. Sad all,

1940
01:34:31,160 --> 01:34:32,920
Speaker 1: right that's. Fine, Listen i'm not gonna talk to. YOU

1941
01:34:33,040 --> 01:34:34,720
Speaker 1: i just want you to. Know can you look at?

1942
01:34:34,760 --> 01:34:36,080
Speaker 1: Me she looks at. ME i just want you Know

1943
01:34:36,120 --> 01:34:37,479
Speaker 1: i'm gonna be right in. Here if you need me for,

1944
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:40,960
Speaker 1: anything do whatever you need me to. Do walk. Out

1945
01:34:40,960 --> 01:34:43,200
Speaker 1: and then all of a, sudden you hear need, dad,

1946
01:34:43,280 --> 01:34:46,360
Speaker 1: DAD i need a, hug you, sweetheart that's all you

1947
01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:48,120
Speaker 1: have to. Say pick her. Up we just have a great.

1948
01:34:48,200 --> 01:34:52,040
Speaker 1: HUG i love. That did you wad for school? Today

1949
01:34:52,080 --> 01:34:53,000
Speaker 1: let's go kick some ass.

1950
01:34:53,080 --> 01:34:55,439
Speaker 2: Bro, yeah whatever you push, Out i'm not buying because guess,

1951
01:34:55,520 --> 01:34:56,000
Speaker 2: WHAT i love.

1952
01:34:56,080 --> 01:35:00,040
Speaker 1: You, YEAH i love your. Kid on that, note we

1953
01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:04,320
Speaker 1: got a roll BECAUSE i got an eleven. Thirty i'm.

1954
01:35:05,120 --> 01:35:07,720
Speaker 2: DONE i covered EVERYTHING i wanted to, cover AND i

1955
01:35:07,960 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 2: loved your lesson of the.

1956
01:35:09,240 --> 01:35:11,320
Speaker 1: Week, Dude thank you. MAN i loved your lesson of the.

1957
01:35:11,360 --> 01:35:14,760
Speaker 1: Week thank, you. Dude fucking love. FATHERHOOD i do. Too

1958
01:35:14,880 --> 01:35:18,000
Speaker 1: keep embracing the. Trenches boys pop a team. Six we

1959
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:21,320
Speaker 1: have a, standard we have a. Responsibility keep carrying the

1960
01:35:21,400 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 1: torch and keep recruiting guys to this. Brand. Yeah share the,

1961
01:35:25,520 --> 01:35:28,840
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1962
01:35:28,920 --> 01:35:31,479
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1963
01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:34,759
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