WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Adventure Envelope Excursion 

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<v Speaker 1>Second, so I never do this, but in the interest

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<v Speaker 1>of saving time here, Yeah, because this is a more

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<v Speaker 1>involved date than we normally get. I need to read

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit from Josh's email before we bring him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Okay, Josh, is that cool with you? Yeah? Ok.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he basically transcripted out his entire online conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, Haley did and said she's very good looking,

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<v Speaker 1>so he went above and beyond for her because they

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<v Speaker 1>matched on Hinge and one of her dating prompts said

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<v Speaker 1>dating me is like an adventure. I'm spicy, spontaneous and sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>And Josh replied to that saying, well, if we ever

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<v Speaker 1>went out, we'd meet somewhere and I'd give you the

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<v Speaker 1>option of choosing one of three adventure envelopes. Whatever one

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<v Speaker 1>you pick will do. And I promise none of them

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<v Speaker 1>say go back to my place inside if all three

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<v Speaker 1>of them said that, yeah, And two weeks later, she

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<v Speaker 1>finally responded to that, saying, oh two weeks wow, I'm intrigued. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>And so he wrote back, intrigued, just wait till you

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<v Speaker 1>see what's behind envelope number three. What is it? I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know? It's kind of teasing her here dude,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really good. And she asked him, do I get

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<v Speaker 1>an idea of the types of things in each envelope?

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<v Speaker 1>And he told her, sure, exactly from your bio envelope

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<v Speaker 1>number one, spicy, envelope number two sweet, and envelope number

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<v Speaker 1>three spontaneous. Am I chubby? Or do all three something

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<v Speaker 1>like food? I mean I did. I did also draw

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<v Speaker 1>the analogy to that food competitions for all. But look

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<v Speaker 1>how interested you all are and finding out what is brilliant.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd better have done the envelope date because I

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<v Speaker 1>Am going to be horribly disappointed if I don't find

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<v Speaker 1>out what's in these things after all this. That is

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<v Speaker 1>how Josh locked down a date here with Hailey. So Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is really elaborate. Man. Thanks. I guess I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I just wanted to an effort. Dude. It's awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>but you are building yourself up pretty big here, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I would think the dates have to be really really

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<v Speaker 1>special because if she picked spicy date and then you

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<v Speaker 1>just ended up going to like McDonald's and trying the

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<v Speaker 1>Mick Chipotle milkshake, that would be kind of a letdown

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<v Speaker 1>after all this build up that's the worst case scenario.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, you've got to realize the

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<v Speaker 1>bar has kind of been set pretty low these days. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear right. At the same time too, like be

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit classer than that, like a taco, like

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<v Speaker 1>a taco truck for SPA. But that's such a big

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<v Speaker 1>build up to end up just going to a taco truck.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not just go to a taco truck. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>putting on the Bachelor right now, Jeffrey. He's just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make like the intro to something a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more enticing. I don't know what envelope did she pick.

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<v Speaker 1>She went with spontaneous. So she opened the spontaneous envelope

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<v Speaker 1>and what was inside, Well, so we we meet up

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<v Speaker 1>at the spot that I told her to public areas,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry about it, And inside there was a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of paper thank you. Oh wow. On the paper it

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<v Speaker 1>said follow the arrows. Follow the arrows. What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>There's an arrow on your chest pointing down? Terrible? I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, Yeah, where are the arrows? So there is

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<v Speaker 1>an arrow? Like she finally finds one on the graft

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<v Speaker 1>and it led to the corner and there was another

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<v Speaker 1>arrow there. It's like your date is following a GPS

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<v Speaker 1>system like turn left here, turn right in ninety feet

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<v Speaker 1>walking date, No, no, no, no, I wasn't trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get my steps in or anything like that. Okay, where

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<v Speaker 1>did where did they end up in a circle? Right right?

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<v Speaker 1>And meanwhile, by the way, she's loving this, I'm laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like looking at me like where do they go? Josh? Where?

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<v Speaker 1>So finally there is you know, one of those like

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<v Speaker 1>merge arrow signs, Like I want less details on the arrows.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know where you were, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I had taped an envelope on the back of the

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<v Speaker 1>on the merge sign of the highway. Okay, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>about the street. I didn't put her in if like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so now we have another envelope. What's in the second envelope?

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<v Speaker 1>So we were right by the train station. It was

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<v Speaker 1>basically a made up coupon and said, hey, we can

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<v Speaker 1>stop at any of the stops and stop at a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant at any of these places in town, am track

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<v Speaker 1>or something. We're talking just like the local. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you tricked her onto mass Transit after walking through a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of I kind of take back what I said earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have just on the taco truck. Yeah, who

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<v Speaker 1>say there wasn't a taco truck where we were going?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there a taco truck? All right? All right? We

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<v Speaker 1>go end up going to this small little restaurant in

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<v Speaker 1>this Termaini town. We have a wonderful dinner. We got

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<v Speaker 1>to know each other along the way on the train,

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<v Speaker 1>which is awesome. And at the end of the meal,

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<v Speaker 1>reaching to my jacket, and I pulled out a flower

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<v Speaker 1>in a note and it says I had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>and it says and followed the arrows home. So at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night, looking back on it, were

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<v Speaker 1>you thankful that she chose the spontaneous date as opposed

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<v Speaker 1>to one of the other spicier sweet Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of a wildcard either way. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I thought all of them were pretty awesome. Okay, did

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<v Speaker 1>you get a vibe on what she thought of the

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<v Speaker 1>spontaneous date. I've thought she really enjoyed it. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was using her smiling and laughing and what I

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<v Speaker 1>thought was good rapport. As is the judgment for this.

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<v Speaker 1>It actually sounds pretty cute and romantic. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys end it. So we took an uber back and

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<v Speaker 1>I dropped her off at her place and just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>made sure she got in Okay, uh, small kiss and

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<v Speaker 1>that was it. Yeah, And I texted basically, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a nice time, and she responded like so did

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<v Speaker 1>I and that's basically been it. Okay. Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she did take two weeks to even respond to your

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<v Speaker 1>initial direct message, so maybe she's just blow over. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's busy. She dates at a turtles pace. Yeah, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she even went back to the arrows looking for

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<v Speaker 1>alternative routes anything that she missed it. Yeah. Yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find out what the real answer is when we call

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<v Speaker 1>her and finish your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you appreciate it. Second probably the most

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<v Speaker 1>elaborate first date that we've ever heard on the show before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because to recap, Josh met a really attractive girl online

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<v Speaker 1>and got her to talk to him by setting up

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<v Speaker 1>a big adventure date with three mystery envelopes, all based

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<v Speaker 1>on how she described herself in her profile spicy, sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>and spontaneous. Yeah, she chose the spontaneous adventure yea, which

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<v Speaker 1>led to basically a scavenger hunt for their dinner with

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of arrows, leading around the city to a

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<v Speaker 1>busy highway, onto a commuter train, over to a nearby town,

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<v Speaker 1>down to a hole in the wall restaurant. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he got our own public transit into her to

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<v Speaker 1>a hole in the wall. I mean they yeah, by

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<v Speaker 1>the train station, all right. If I'm reading the room

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Effort was obviously an a. But it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys aren't all that impressed with how the

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<v Speaker 1>date turned out a little more crazy like, oh, we're

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<v Speaker 1>swimming with dolphins, you know, a fancy car. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are all hating him. But he put in some real

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<v Speaker 1>effort to we did, and it's more than any any

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<v Speaker 1>of you jokeles have ever had in recent years. But Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what do you think may have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any regrets about how the night panned out? Uh? No,

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<v Speaker 1>not really. I mean, like, look, I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 1>completely real with you. I kind of out kicked my

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<v Speaker 1>coverage with her coverage. That means she's out of his league. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a football analogy. Is that what you don't now?

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<v Speaker 1>You want us to break down football for you too?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go back to how many arrows were on the ground,

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<v Speaker 1>and dude, you had to visualize what he was doing, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we just need to call her. Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>call Haley and find out what Haley thought, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>the real issue. Are you ready to do this, Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Yeah, okay, yeah, I need you guys. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is also kind of spontaneous. This is actually very spontan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's kick off this by calling her. That's a sports reference, Brook, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a very good one. It's baseball. So here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. They kicked the ball for the first All right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's score a home run and call the Alright, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go Hello. Hey is this Haley? Yeah? Who is this? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning whole shows on the phone right now, dying to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Honestly, that's true. We're really excited to

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<v Speaker 1>hear from you. Oh okay, we want to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>about a date that you went on recently with one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners named Josh. Okay, what's this about? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>It's part of a segment that we do call the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update, and so Josh told us about the

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<v Speaker 1>date that he set up for you, which sounded pretty elaborate.

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<v Speaker 1>Did we were all hooked when he I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>told us about the direct message and about how he

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<v Speaker 1>said he has three different envelopes for you to choose from. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what he's really told you. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it probably sounds creepy that we already know everything

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<v Speaker 1>about your date and we're really excited about it, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're loving vicariously, so just let us. We really want

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<v Speaker 1>to help out Josh, because he told us the night

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<v Speaker 1>went pretty well. Well, I mean, that was the probably

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<v Speaker 1>the most um elaborate and thoughtful date I've been on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's so nice I've been that made you

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<v Speaker 1>feel really special? Yeah? I was totally impressed by his

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<v Speaker 1>effort and like all the thought he put into every detail. Yeah. So,

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<v Speaker 1>are you just like busy and that's why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling it back? Or were there not enough arrows in

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<v Speaker 1>the scavenger? Oh? No, I mean I think everything happens

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<v Speaker 1>for a reason. Oh okay, what does that mean? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wouldn't take that date bath for anything. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd never hear it's nice, But I feel like there's

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<v Speaker 1>a buck coming. Yeah, but I wouldn't I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't do it again? What that's okay? There's other date options, apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>at least two more. Ye spicy and sweet. Why wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you do it again? Uh? Oh? When we got to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, the waiter was was so cute. Um what Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And uh there was more attraction there at the hole

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<v Speaker 1>in the wall restaurant you guys went to, you found

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<v Speaker 1>a hot waiter. Brook wants to know the name of

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant so that you could go there and check

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<v Speaker 1>him out. I mean, how does that even happen? How

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<v Speaker 1>would a guy even hit on you while you're on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody else? Like, isn't that just a

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<v Speaker 1>red flag right there? He didn't hit on me. I

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<v Speaker 1>could just feel the energy between us. It was I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just you know how you know, something sort

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<v Speaker 1>of meant to be. Yeah, it's just like the way

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<v Speaker 1>he says something like, would you like any pepper on

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<v Speaker 1>that salad? Well, it wasn't like that, And so I

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<v Speaker 1>followed my gut and went back to the restaurant. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>after the date was over, Yeah, the same night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? And did what you asked the waiter out.

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<v Speaker 1>You're dating the waiter? What what is happening? Yeah, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been on three dates and we're not slowing down. A

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cute. I know the fact that Josh has

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<v Speaker 1>been hearing all of this and has not said a word. Why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because Haley, he's on the phone. Yeah, sorry, Yeah, Josh

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<v Speaker 1>has been listening this whole time. Um, yeah, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>heard the whole thing. She really she really lived up

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<v Speaker 1>to the spontaneous. Yeah. Yeah, wow, table's really turned on

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<v Speaker 1>the whole spontaneous. You know, just suck. Let's just really stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Yeah, but I'm so happy that we out

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<v Speaker 1>and we got to know each other. But oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's thrilling, absolutely thrilling. You could have just told me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't leave me like hanging on the line. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a hard thing to tell somebody. I met somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else on the date I was out with. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>even but I mean, like make something up, don't you

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<v Speaker 1>like ghost me, like just like hey, I'm just not

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<v Speaker 1>feeling it or whatever, like come on, Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>maybe Haley, were you like kind of keeping him in

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<v Speaker 1>your back pocket as a backup plan and cases didn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out or was there an arrow on the table

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<v Speaker 1>pointing at the waiter and she was just following the arrows? Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want where my heart was paining. Oh man, God, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>just like Josh, what are the chances like you get

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<v Speaker 1>on the train, you pick a random restaurant and there's

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<v Speaker 1>an attractive waiter. So yeah, you put her on a

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<v Speaker 1>train to her next boyfriend. Yeah, your date dated to

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<v Speaker 1>work in helping find love, just not for your self, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for other people. Again, I'm absolutely thrilled about that, Brian side,

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<v Speaker 1>you have two other dates pre planned and envelopes for

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<v Speaker 1>some other lucky girl out there. Silver linings, I guess, yeah, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And the silver lining here could be that she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know you were on the phone listening. So you two

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<v Speaker 1>are together right now, and I'm going to give you

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to win her back right over the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>live on the radio. That must have happened for a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the fourth all its good point. Read the signs, Haley, Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>the floor is yours. Look, Haley, I put in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of effort, and I think that says a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about me and the kind of person that I am,

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<v Speaker 1>and definitely way more effort than the waiter did. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what does he have that I don't. Basically

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<v Speaker 1>an employee discount at that restaurant, for one, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and also whatever tip money that Josh left, that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>But besides that, what else? Haley? I mean, I really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate the effort Josh and all your thoughts. You're a

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<v Speaker 1>really special person. But I feel that things, again, it

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<v Speaker 1>will happen for a reason. I feel like she's like

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<v Speaker 1>reading a sign on her wall, right, it's right, and

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<v Speaker 1>her family lived with an arrow all over that side,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So it sounds like we're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to get you another date here, Josh. That

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<v Speaker 1>definitely seems apparent. Yeah, I mean we tried, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>You guys did try, and I do appreciate that, all right. Yeah, sorry, buddy. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just curious, like if you had chosen one of

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<v Speaker 1>the other two envelopes, the spicy or the sweet possibility, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think maybe things could have turned out differently

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<v Speaker 1>and you'd be with Josh. Hmm, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the way things have just turned out

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<v Speaker 1>were the way they were supposed to turn out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>everything happens Fruk and Jeffrey in the morning. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>lesson learned. If you're a guy and you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with an attractive lady, do not go within a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>yards of any other male on your two risky. She's

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<v Speaker 1>probably gonna fall in love and leave you. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where you're gonna go without men. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>go someplace where men are rare, like an a nail Salonen. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a Bravo convention, one of Jose's comedy shows. It's all

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<v Speaker 1>ladies that those Actually, we have a very high ratio

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<v Speaker 1>of ladies and dudes at my show thanks to our show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna say, I think he lucked out that

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<v Speaker 1>woman in her motivational quotes. I just couldn't take him

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<v Speaker 1>say yes. We can officially add everything Happens for a

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<v Speaker 1>Reason to the list of most hated single dating quotes,

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<v Speaker 1>along with You'll find love when you least expect it.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't count if you're more than second cousins. People

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<v Speaker 1>say it. Trust me, but remember, if you ever want

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<v Speaker 1>help getting another date, you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call that person who isn't calling you back, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can find all our Second Date podcasts up on

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<v Speaker 1>the Brooke and Jeffrey website or wherever you get your podcasts. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.