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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: This is from Shelton in Myrtle Beach. Steve Shelton says,

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Speaker 2: I'm in an emotionless marriage now. My wife and I

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Speaker 2: used to cuddle and watch movies, and now she prefers

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Speaker 2: to watch her movies alone. We used to have meals together,

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Speaker 2: and now she eats before I get home from work. Surprisingly,

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Speaker 2: we still have sex, but she doesn't kiss me anymore.

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Speaker 2: I can't even take showers with her now, But as

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Speaker 2: soon as her friends schedule brunch or a girl's night out,

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Speaker 2: she's happy as she can be. Why don't I excite

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Speaker 2: my wife anymore? How do I fix this? He oo?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, don't. Yeah, you waited too late, so you

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Speaker 1: let it get to this point. You didn't address it

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Speaker 1: will it was drifting. You didn't just let it drift

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Speaker 1: all this slid it all off the table. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how you get that back, because I don't know

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Speaker 1: what you was doing. You might not been doing nothing

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Speaker 1: in the beginning. She was just dealing with and me

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Speaker 1: and nothing. Hut.

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Speaker 2: Now she had it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Twino, woman's feed. There ain't nothing you can do

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Speaker 1: about it. I don't know, man, I really can't help you, bro.

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Speaker 1: You should sit down and talk with her, apologize, ask

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Speaker 1: her how you've heard her, what has changed in me?

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Speaker 1: What could I do to be better? And then see

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Speaker 1: if she even want to You can start with that conversation.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because it sounds like he still loves her and

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Speaker 2: wants her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's because he'd a lost to What do

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Speaker 1: you mean you should have had all that energy when

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Speaker 1: you see trying to keep them, But if you wasn't

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Speaker 1: doing enough to hold her attention, then when she lose

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Speaker 1: your attention, we got to come up with something, broh.

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Speaker 1: So the best thing for you to do is sit

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Speaker 1: down and have a conversation with her and ask her

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Speaker 1: where you went wrong? Take the on this on this one,

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Speaker 1: own this one, and just say, hey, look, obviously I've

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Speaker 1: done something wrong. Can you please tell me what I've done?

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Speaker 1: Because I want my wife back and I'm willing to

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Speaker 1: change and that's the best way to do it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we do have time for another one.

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Speaker 2: This is from Charlene in Brentwood. Charlene says, I want

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Speaker 2: to know what's the difference in Pollyamory and dating a

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Speaker 2: lot of different people at once. That's what single people

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Speaker 2: should be doing. So they can find an ideal mate.

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Speaker 2: We did it back before I got married, and there's

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Speaker 2: nothing wrong with that. Is there a difference?

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Speaker 1: But yeah, there is a well, dating a lot of people,

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Speaker 1: you ain't got tail nobody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just dating.

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Speaker 1: You got tail nobody. Yeah. I don't even suggest you

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Speaker 1: do tell I'm dating several people. Shut your mouth, just

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Speaker 1: do it. Colleamory is people who get together at a

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Speaker 1: group that I'm going to be one of multiple and

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Speaker 1: we're in a relationship. Neo that what neo got?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, got three women.

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Speaker 1: And it's all sitting up in here.

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Speaker 2: I had a social bed made all of that. You're

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Speaker 2: in a relationship with more than one person, with several

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Speaker 2: people dating, you're just dating.

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm too old to be in the bed with

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Speaker 1: four people, because I got it. I go to the

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Speaker 1: bathroom too many times that night. I got to climb

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Speaker 1: over people. That's what I'm saying, because I can't get

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Speaker 1: out of there right now. Really, that's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Charlene thinks that if you date a lot of people,

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Speaker 2: your chances are.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to climb over people. When you got to

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Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, I've never done it before. You I

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Speaker 1: just like to get out the bed and go to

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Speaker 1: the bathroom. Now I can climb over people, and now

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Speaker 1: I really I can't be something. Excuse me, excuse me.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. Then I'm gonna forget your name.

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Speaker 1: Call you the roll on. Excuse me, Brn damn, Charlie.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I don't know who I stepping.

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Speaker 2: Charlene wrote, Oh you stepped on my toe.

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Speaker 1: I didn't see it toes down there. It's you stepped

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Speaker 1: on my You hurt my leg?

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Speaker 2: Who lego? Who was darking? Who's talking?

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody got no makeup on? Everybody laying up in here?

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Speaker 1: What happening here?

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Speaker 2: It's dark? How would you know? Yeah? All right, I

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Speaker 2: don't think we helped Charlene coming up in twenty minutes

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Speaker 2: after the hot We.

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Speaker 1: Can't help everybody.

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Speaker 2: Let's deal with that own that.

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Speaker 1: I help myself though. I know that is what I

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Speaker 1: need to do, because, like I said, I go bathroom

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Speaker 1: too many times in night, so I can't more stepping over,

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Speaker 1: timbing over people and everything coming up.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me?

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Speaker 1: After this?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? This is your boy, Kevin Hart, and

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Speaker 2: right now you're listening to that. Steve Hobby Morning Chuck,