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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com. Josh is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for a first date follow up and he's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a girl named Becca so well, so in

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Speaker 1: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 1: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 1: another date. But first, Josh, let's talk about your date.

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Speaker 1: What happened with you and Becca? How long has it

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Speaker 1: mentace to talk to her?

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, thanks for having me. So yeah, it's been

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Speaker 2: like about a week since the last time I talked

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Speaker 2: with Becca. But she was super cool. We met on

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Speaker 2: Bumble and we messaged her a little while for a

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Speaker 2: few weeks actually, and the vibe was great. We had

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Speaker 2: a bunch of bunch of fun like talking over tech

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Speaker 2: and so we decided a new person and we were

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Speaker 2: trying to think of fun dat ideas and we went

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Speaker 2: to this like indoor mini golf art data type thing,

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Speaker 2: you know, like throw it back, so like a classic eighties.

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Speaker 3: Movie type bud. Yeah, that was pretty fun.

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Speaker 2: And while she was there, like straight up that I

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Speaker 2: got pretty buzzed off of the martinitist. She was drinking

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Speaker 2: but she was still like super fun and having a blast,

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Speaker 2: so like I thought, it was really cute, but it

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Speaker 2: wasn't an issue for me.

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Speaker 3: It was a good time.

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Speaker 2: So then we were flirting a bit while we were

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Speaker 2: playing mini golf, and then we like made out in

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Speaker 2: one of the race car arcade games and it was honestly,

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Speaker 2: like the chemistry was great for real, but then like

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Speaker 2: a kid came up and started making fun of us,

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Speaker 2: and so then we had to like, yeah, they're real quick,

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Speaker 2: were racking up. It was straight up like out of

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Speaker 2: a classic movie.

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Speaker 1: It was awesome fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then like so we had to run out anyway,

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Speaker 2: so we decided to go back to my place, and

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Speaker 2: then like we were, I was looking for something to

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Speaker 2: cook and all I had was these eggs, so I

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Speaker 2: made a tomlet and then we put on some music.

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Speaker 2: We were slow dancing in the kitchen, and then we

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Speaker 2: made our way to the bed and then you know,

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Speaker 2: Becca was still a little buzz that. We talked for

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Speaker 2: a while, but I didn't really want to do anything,

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Speaker 2: but we just fell asleep. But awesome date, awesome night,

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Speaker 2: so much fun. But then I woke up the next

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Speaker 2: morning and she's totally gone. And there's like no note

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Speaker 2: or anything, and she hasn't left me a message, so

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Speaker 2: first time on his like a little word, like is

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Speaker 2: she okay? So I tried to like send her a

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Speaker 2: message like the next day, and she responds with absolutely nothing,

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Speaker 2: like no word at all, and like she just totally

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Speaker 2: goes to me, like totally disappears from my life. Oh

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Speaker 2: and I just like don't understand what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I.

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Speaker 4: Was gonna say, you know, she gets up and leaves

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Speaker 4: in the morning, that's not that weird, you know, especially

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Speaker 4: after her first night like that, you want to get

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Speaker 4: home and clean yourself up and not have you see

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Speaker 4: them like that or have you see her like that,

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Speaker 4: But to not say a word later strange.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like and I messaged her like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: had such a great time, like let me know if

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Speaker 2: you want to meet up again, and like it's been

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Speaker 2: totally radio silence. And I thought the vibe we had

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Speaker 2: was like incredible. I mean it was straight up like

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Speaker 3: And then the.

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Speaker 2: Fact that she just totally disappeared like it was a

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Speaker 2: total bumber. It's like totally yeah, it's just totally confused me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is weird. So I mean, what do you

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Speaker 1: think could have happened.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm like, maybe like she would have like

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Speaker 2: I hope this isn't the case, but maybe the reason

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Speaker 2: she was like drinking so much because she didn't like

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Speaker 2: get through it. That would, honestly, like that would break

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Speaker 2: my heart. But I hadn't actually told me I was

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Speaker 2: and she might have been like, Yo, this dude is

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Speaker 2: corny as all get out, Like I don't want to

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Speaker 2: But but I mean, it wouldn't be the first time

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Speaker 2: I got that note.

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Speaker 1: So you know that you were boring. It's not the

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Speaker 1: first time you got that note.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like people say I'm a little like boring or

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Speaker 2: vanilla or whatever, I don't have enough bit edge or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, I'm sure it's a good time.

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Speaker 2: I just want a mini goals and make out.

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Speaker 1: And like, you know, like that's all I want. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that sounds like good goals to me. All right, Well

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Speaker 1: we'll try to figure out for you, man, We'll play

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Speaker 1: a song come Back, and then call her and see

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Speaker 1: if she tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 1: get you another date right after this. All right, all right,

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Speaker 1: I tell you we'll play Don't come Back, get your

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Speaker 1: first Day follow up next. If you're just joining us

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Speaker 1: for today's first Day follow up. Josh is on the

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Speaker 1: phone and were about to call a girl that's ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Becca and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 1: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 1: But first, Josh, why don't you refresh everybody's memory and

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Speaker 1: your situation?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, So like mess with this girl. Becca

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Speaker 2: on Bumble, we had an awesome vibe. We met up

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Speaker 2: for like a mini golf state and had like the

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Speaker 2: most ethic perfect did ever. She came back to my place,

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Speaker 2: was super romantic. We went to bed together, like didn't

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Speaker 2: do anything, but I had a great time. But then

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Speaker 2: when I woke up, she was totally gone, and I

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Speaker 2: have heard nothing from her then. So I'm just trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out why a date that went so perfect

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Speaker 2: could have ended the third like totally ghosting.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, we're ready for us to figure it out.

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Speaker 1: For you and give her a call. Yes, yes, all right, please,

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Speaker 1: here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Becca?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is she?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Becca? How are you? My name is Jewbell and

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi back, the whole show's here.

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Speaker 4: My name is Nina.

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Speaker 1: Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: I'm good?

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Speaker 3: How are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Good? Do you listen to this show?

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Speaker 3: I do? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wow, Carzy, thank you, I appreciate it. Have you ever

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Speaker 1: heard a first date follow up before? Yes? I have wonderful. Well,

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Speaker 1: guess what what this is about? Oh you do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Is it Josh?

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Speaker 1: Yes? It is Josh. You have been ghosting him and

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Speaker 1: he doesn't know why, and he would like to know.

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Speaker 1: Why would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Wow, Okay, I was not ghosting him? Wow, this

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Speaker 3: is crazy.

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Speaker 5: Okay, No, I was not ghosting him at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I was wondering about him. No, like, okay, so we

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Speaker 5: were we had a great date, but I was I

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Speaker 5: thought he was rejecting me. We had a great date.

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Speaker 5: I tried to make the moves on him.

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Speaker 3: After we got back after our meeting date, but he

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Speaker 3: I just felt super rejected and so I yeah, I

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Speaker 1: I was just really embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: Whoa Becca, Hey, Hey it's me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah Becca, In case you forgot, Josh's on the phone

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Speaker 1: least thing and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay, Becca, Like I thought you rejected me. I

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Speaker 2: had such a fun time with you. I just knew,

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Speaker 2: like you've been drinking a bit. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: just like, you know, we'll leave it romantic for tonight

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Speaker 2: and then if you know, if you want to get

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Speaker 2: talk to be like, you know, on another date, like, hey,

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Speaker 2: well you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, okay, yeah, I wouldn't. I didn't think I.

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Speaker 3: Was like that trying now was humble, so I guess

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Speaker 1: I didn't think I was that strong.

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Speaker 5: So I was like, I've just never been rejected before.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, you've.

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Speaker 2: Never been rejected in your life. I mean at tracks

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Speaker 2: you're super hot, but like you like that's never happened

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Speaker 3: Not really, I mean not really, No, it was just fun,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, well It wasn't because you guys. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: like you know, I was drinking you because you're not attractive.

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Speaker 2: But I don't like you guys, just you know, like

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to be like gentleman, like I guess,

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Speaker 2: I mean. I didn't want to like screw it up,

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Speaker 2: but you're super hot. I wasn't trying to reject you

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, uh okay. I mean I didn't seem like

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Speaker 3: I don't know, like over eag or anything. I just

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Speaker 3: like that?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I just felt like really embarrassed. That's why I left

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Speaker 5: Star early the next day.

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Speaker 2: No, it was like I just wish I wish you'd

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Speaker 2: been around, you know, in the morning, like you could

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Speaker 2: have you know, I know we had eggs that before,

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Speaker 2: but I could have made eggs again in the morning

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Speaker 2: and got a little different crambler or something. Put a

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Speaker 2: little totally don't though. I had to eat all by myself,

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Speaker 2: you know, put on some like sat moating. Yeah, literally,

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Speaker 2: you know, crying some to the eggs. Come on, wasn't

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Speaker 2: quite the morning after I expected Becca.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with Josh again on

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Speaker 1: another date? We'll pay for it and he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: to cry into his eggs again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean i'd like to.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I yeah, I mean I would love to.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, well, congratulations, Josh got another date?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Hell yeah guys, thank you. We'll do something. We'll do

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Speaker 2: something crazier this time. Back well, yeah, we'll go to

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Speaker 2: like you, we'll race some like cars or something. No,

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Speaker 2: we'll get it high oxra maybe like.

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Speaker 1: Maybe both be confident this time and no ghosting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, no, I won't. I won't.

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Speaker 2: I promise.

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Speaker 1: Good luck to you guys.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, guys, thanks so much.

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Speaker 1: Jubile's first date follow up