1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Okay, this is from anonymous in Atlanta. I dated a 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: very famous man for seven years, and we traveled extensively. 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: I had access to his accounts, cars, homes and everything. 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,159 Speaker 1: He even got me a salon one Christmas till that 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: I still own. The only problem was that he cheated 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: on me a lot. So we broke up for good 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 1: a few years ago, and now that I'm trying to 8 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: date again, regular men don't do what my ex did, 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: nor can they afford to. My mom said that when 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: I meet mister Wright, his finances won't even matter. 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: Is that true? 12 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 3: That's true? 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 4: When you meet mister Wright, his finances won't matter. The 14 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 4: only problem is your mister right, got to have finances. 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 4: So now tear your mama, dad. No, okay, see now. 16 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 3: Your mama right? But see you you you into money. 17 00:00:54,920 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 4: So yeah, if money is a criteria, then that's what 18 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 4: it's going to take. 19 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: And good luck. Yeah me and with money got options? 20 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 4: Yeah options with an s. 21 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: That means more than one. 22 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: All right, So you're saying what. 23 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 3: I'm saying, You're probably gonna have to go back to him. 24 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 4: Oh today, what I'm saying what. 25 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,839 Speaker 1: It sounds like to me? All Right, we have time 26 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: for another one. This is from Dynasty in Orlando. 27 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 3: Uh. 28 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: Dynasty says, I'm having a baby by a married man. 29 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: His wife found out about me, but she doesn't know 30 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: that I'm pregnant. We'd been dating for months and one 31 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: day his wife followed him to my house. 32 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: She and I. 33 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: Talked it out just like adults, and she was heartbroken. 34 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: We tried to break up, but I found out I 35 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: was pregnant. His wife will be even more hurt. So 36 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I should tell her myself before she 37 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: hears it on the streets. It's terrible news. So is 38 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: it best that she hears this news from me? 39 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 3: Wow? 40 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 4: How you think that's gonna be a man? She was 41 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,839 Speaker 4: devastated to find out y'all was seeing each other. Y'all 42 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 4: donet talked it out. Look y'all not friends. Yeah, see, 43 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 4: you know what you're gonna mess around do? Lady, You're 44 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 4: gonna mess around and get your That's what you do. 45 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 4: You're gonna mess around and say something to this woman 46 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 4: that she done took that. Y'all talked about it like women. 47 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 4: She was devastating. They're going to tell her this or not? 48 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,399 Speaker 4: Are you are you crazy? 49 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 2: Yeah? You can't do this. 50 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 3: See, you're not a good you're not a. 51 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 4: Good side piece because you won't see you won't, you 52 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 4: won't main course rights and. 53 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 3: You you is rice. 54 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 4: You're rice corn, you know them wood potatoes with their 55 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 4: white gravy. And what you are you're not. You're not 56 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 4: the chicken. You're not You're not the chicken. Ain't Nobody 57 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 4: can't about to come in and order you? And where 58 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 4: foe legs? 59 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 3: Orlando. 60 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: This is bad because she's in North Carolina, US. 61 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's in Orlando. Yeah right, she'd be sued. This 62 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: is bad. She's pregnant, so that means you're. 63 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 4: Pregnant by a married man. Y'all only been stating for 64 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 4: two months. 65 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: Well, unprotected sex, all the things. 66 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: I don't know what to tear. He's so still. 67 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, it's his fault too. He gets 68 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: some of this blame, a lot. 69 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: Of No, no, he gets all of it, all of it. 70 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, he get a. 71 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 3: Bunch of the blame. You know. 72 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 4: But let me tell you what. He's not finna do. 73 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 4: He's not finna leave his wife for you. 74 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 2: Oh. 75 00:03:54,720 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 3: Now the wife may leave him, m hmm, but he 76 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: not coming to you. 77 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: I feel her pain, and you. 78 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 3: Know the reason. It could be a funeral. 79 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: Actually yeah say that. 80 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 4: Yeah were not, but you know, but that's what so 81 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 4: you can't he's I don't know, man. This is see 82 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 4: the reason once you're the problem that causes a man 83 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 4: the agony of a divorce. 84 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 3: He don't normally go to that person. 85 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: Mm hmmmmm yeah. And then now you've got a baby. 86 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,119 Speaker 2: This is just a mess. You're listening to the Steve 87 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show.