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Speaker 1: Let's service. What's up this slip service? And it's a

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Speaker 1: girl's talk day today. I'm Angela Ye, I'm Stephan in Santiago.

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Speaker 1: I'm g. G. Maguire, I'm Little Rial and we have

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Speaker 1: two special guests today. They things spos start with a

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Speaker 1: Astra Hey and Ashley Hi. I just asked his first

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Speaker 1: time doing something like this, so we're gonna be nice

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Speaker 1: to her. But you actually have a spy up spa, Yes,

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Speaker 1: up spa on the Upper East Side. Yes, in Manhattan

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Speaker 1: that I think GJ and I have been there. Have

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Speaker 1: you been there? Stuff? Abien's been there, okay, but not

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Speaker 1: everyone's been there. But it's a beautiful spy. I had

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Speaker 1: a facial there. I had one of the side side

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Speaker 1: I've never had in my life. They'll talk about that.

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Speaker 1: My side don't need to come back and there. We

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Speaker 1: know it's good because we've seen the massage you had

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Speaker 1: on your Instagram. Yeah, it's not at a happy ending.

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Speaker 1: She's actually one of my co workers and I hurt

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Speaker 1: you is on Katie you so you can check her

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Speaker 1: out there. Welcome to the family. Asked you, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for having me. I'm so excited. We understand

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Speaker 1: with the tip of the day. And I'm glad we

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Speaker 1: have you here, asked me, because you guys also do vajacials.

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Speaker 1: Vagacians were very well known for our vagacial So explain

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Speaker 1: what a vajacial is because some people weren't sure. So

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Speaker 1: a vajay show is like a facial for your vagina basically.

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Speaker 1: You know, I started my career in waxing, and so

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Speaker 1: I've seen thousands and thousands of vaginas, and in doing so,

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Speaker 1: some of my clients, as my boyfriend, I bet you

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Speaker 1: I have seen more vaginas than both of your boyfriends.

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Speaker 1: But um, and seeing so many of them, um, I

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Speaker 1: get to know many women and I also get to

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Speaker 1: know their vaginas, and a lot of women have different

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Speaker 1: problems in their vaginas here. Yeah, some of them have ingrowns,

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Speaker 1: which is something that's very common. But some people have

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Speaker 1: dark spots, some people have dry skin, some people sweat

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Speaker 1: a lot. Some people even get keney and their vagina right.

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Speaker 1: And so you know, this is not something that you

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Speaker 1: would go to the guy to colleges for because it

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Speaker 1: has to do with your skin, and a lot of

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Speaker 1: women don't know that you should have a skincare regiment

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Speaker 1: for your vagina. So after seeing clients for so many years,

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Speaker 1: I started doing um the experiments with them, Like, let's say,

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Speaker 1: if you have acting on your vagina, I'll ask you

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Speaker 1: what you're using. How do you know it's not herpies? Right, herpes?

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Speaker 1: Between acne and blister bees, you can tell the difference

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Speaker 1: between a blister and acnes. I have people wait, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: so you want to go give waxes before and somebody

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Speaker 1: has had like a herpie or breakwark No, if it's

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Speaker 1: herpies or not. Honestly, most I don't think if a

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Speaker 1: woman had like a herpies outbreak, they would come for

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Speaker 1: a while. A lot of people that have herpies don't

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Speaker 1: even realize they have it. Right, So if I do

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Speaker 1: see something ever that looks a little serpius, yeah, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh you know, um, do you know you have something

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Speaker 1: down here? A blister? Whatever? And if they don't know,

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Speaker 1: know that maybe they should go to the doctor. That

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Speaker 1: you want wax, but it's very rare. I won't wax

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Speaker 1: over that area, no what you do around it? I

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Speaker 1: have never ever like directly touched. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you know what. I've heard stories about women getting like

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Speaker 1: i mean because you mean it's like paperwork. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: what if a woman was like, I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 1: her pussy is getting I've definitely seen women leak a

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Speaker 1: little bit? Is that this year? Is that is that

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Speaker 1: some women? I feel like some women sometimes can just

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Speaker 1: I've seen a lot of things I've seen it could

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Speaker 1: What if they were like actually, what if they were like,

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Speaker 1: it'll hurt less if you stick your finger and me professional?

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Speaker 1: And I have even worked with other waxers because I've

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Speaker 1: just like waxing. No, you know what was the weirdest

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Speaker 1: but that's not really okay. She has a enlarged clitters.

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Speaker 1: I want everybody to give a vagina tip that you have,

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Speaker 1: because clearly Ashley is advising that we need a Jay shows, right,

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Speaker 1: So what's some other tips that you can give to

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Speaker 1: make your vagina beautiful. I was reading an article about

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Speaker 1: um people that have loose pussies. No, it's like a

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Speaker 1: rejuvenation and yeah. One woman says she had four kids

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Speaker 1: and like it's not the same as she had. Tries

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Speaker 1: vaginas where they're they're vagina is just wider. So you

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Speaker 1: and then there are some people who are very small, right.

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Speaker 1: what that I was batching that show Jiggolo, And they

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Speaker 1: did have a woman that who's vagina it was painful

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Speaker 1: So it is possible, yes, yes, yes, but remember remember

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Speaker 1: X ray, it looked like a beer bottle. Thought that

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Speaker 1: you know, most women who come for waxing are very clean.

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Speaker 1: They're very well kept women because you could just go

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Speaker 1: time I will. I can refuse anybody I want to. So,

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Speaker 1: But you don't have this problem, no, but some women do.

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Speaker 1: Some girls have a natural smell, like you know, like

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Speaker 1: I give your right here, I'm gonna take your head. Okay.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't talk a lot with Gabriel. I couldn't find

423
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 1: this has a big as dick the sex too or something. Damn.

424
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: Just feel like a guy has to feel like such

425
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 1: a scumbag masturbating because that's what it is. It is

426
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 1: ration with a doll. But guys masturbate all the time.

427
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: Gave me just like when you watch a porn right,

428
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: I just watched the porn and masturbated dog to day

429
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 1: and it was the filthiest form you could ever imagine

430
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:10,679
Speaker 1: what it was like. It was it was and listen

431
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: it was. It was like humiliation, like slapping her around

432
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 1: and fisting her coming out. Everybody come on and had

433
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: such a dirty war. And I'm like nasty. I'm gonna

434
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 1: called Elliott from her and then I'm like this disgusting filth.

435
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:33,679
Speaker 1: This is disgusting, and you feel nasty. So if you

436
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: have boyfriend, if your boyfriend had a doll, would you

437
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 1: be mad? But you imagine masturbating with a dog and

438
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 1: you're like holding it because this is a doll feels

439
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 1: like a body. You're like holding it and grabbing it,

440
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 1: and then you come and and it's just dead, like

441
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: it's not a titty just tell jiggling because I saw

442
00:23:50,400 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 1: them titties. There's no emotion. But wouldn't look like if

443
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 1: that's how I am after sex, I've had it right

444
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: at least you're breathing and you're like getlessly right after,

445
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: like a scumbag. But would you be so you would

446
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: be mad if your boyfriend had a sex dog? No, no, no,

447
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: no no, you've been fine with it all right. What

448
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: if he wanted to have a threesome with you? Like

449
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: if my boy my boyfriend was like like if my

450
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: boyfriend was like playing basketball in another country or something,

451
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: I would I would be like, you know, get the

452
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: doll that looks just like me. It would make me

453
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. Okay, I'm having it. I'll be like, you know,

454
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 1: but what if he'd be like, I don't need you

455
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 1: no more. He could call me like while he's sucking

456
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 1: a dog on facetimes? No, what if he facetimes you

457
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: with the dog he got? He got faced on me

458
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 1: like this around that bitch, This bitch, don't complain. She

459
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 1: never hungry. Look, you're just back. You wanted it, Yeah,

460
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: I wanted for her squared Now, I asked you, what

461
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 1: if your boyfriend had a sex doll? God bless him.

462
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 1: Enjoy keeps me from having to have sex with him

463
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 1: all the time. Damns you are you gonna give her

464
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: a backup? I can't keep all He likes to have

465
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: sex way more than you. Yeah, so fucking go enjoy yourself.

466
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 1: What's this so for you? What's a great amount of

467
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 1: time to have sex and per week? Don't even talk

468
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: to me about that. He's already mad at me. How

469
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: many times me? I would prefer if I could do

470
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: it maybe once a week, I'd be okay, Yeah, you

471
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: got to get a dollar doll doll striplets? No, no, no, no,

472
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: we gotta figure this out. I'm not about to let

473
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: that go just at that. So what's like, is it

474
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: like you don't want to put it in the work.

475
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: Are you lazy like I just I just I don't know.

476
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 1: I'm just not horny like that. You know. Has it

477
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: always been like that? Or is it like no, it's now,

478
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, and it's it's me. I guess.

479
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: Are you on the pillar or anything or any medication?

480
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: You just I think I'm just tired all the time.

481
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 1: I'm always like, dude, I'm tired. I'm sorry, that's the

482
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: best time to have sex. But you write the sleep

483
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: you know what? I know. But that's the thing. He's like, listen,

484
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you're tired or not. You should

485
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: still just like. I'm like, I know, but he goes.

486
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: If I was tired, I would still make sure to

487
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 1: please you. I'm like, I know, a good night. Do

488
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: you have sex a lot when you don't really feel

489
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: like it. I've had to suck it up at times

490
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: because yeah, literally literally, does he like masturbating on you

491
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: and stuff? No, but he takes care of himself all

492
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: the time. I feel bad. You don't feel that bad.

493
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm stumped. I don't even know what to say. When

494
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: I used to deny my my axed, I'm like, no,

495
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm tired. Don't touch me. I'm not in the mood. Man,

496
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: I don't be like that makes any dick goes start

497
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: grabbing my butt and jiggling it at Masterby and calm

498
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: on my leg, Superman, go get a waste. Well here's

499
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 1: the thing, because because he's got such a go ahead,

500
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: that's why it's so bad. But he's got such a

501
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: big dick, and I'm just like, deep, oh, not a

502
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: plot thickens. Literally, it's just it just doesn't fit and

503
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 1: it hurts, you know, little dick man rejoice. That's why

504
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: I say I'm always like yo, the little ones are

505
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: like you know, I could take that one to three

506
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: noblem so no, a no and nothing. And it probably

507
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: you probably hate saking his dick too. That I mean,

508
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: I don't mind doing that's fine because you just can't

509
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: deep throat no way, Oh my god, I'll die get

510
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: you drunk. Doesn't even drunk, nothing nothing else, dude, no way.

511
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 1: Time like taking a big dick, you feel like your

512
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: whole ship inside is real range it's like hitting my throat.

513
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 1: God like, when I'm drunk, I could take a big

514
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: dick when I'm so bad. I'm drunk now so yes,

515
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: that's the thing. I'm like, Yo, you're hitting my freaking ovaries.

516
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 1: Like I feel that when I'm sober, I can't take

517
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: a big dick, but when I'm drunking, I could happen.

518
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: Last year, he goes, He goes, we have the best

519
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: sex on your birthday. I was like, because we did,

520
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: I don't remember. Like, come on, He's like, why can't

521
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: you get like that again? I'm like, I mean that

522
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: is hurt though, when your your sex drive doesn't sync up.

523
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,640
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever told my boyfriend no even

524
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: if you didn't feel like it, I still just I

525
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: could be on my period up, I feel you do it?

526
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: Have I I think I might play dead? What please? Yeah,

527
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: because that'd be tired. But most of the time I

528
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: do feel like having sex. I could have sex at

529
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: least once a day. I could do more than saying

530
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: at least once a day. Yeah, I'm fine with that. Like,

531
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm good, I could do it. I really want today.

532
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: It's it's fantastic. Period break it you? Yeah? It would

533
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: you be mad if he had like a side check? Hell? Yeah, okay,

534
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm just asking because you ain't fucking I know, and

535
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: I feel bad. So I'm trying to figure out what

536
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: the funk I need to do to better called Jessica

537
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: to sex doll's name. Have you tried like a numbing cream? No, like,

538
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: here we go. Actually we went to a sex shop.

539
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: We went to a sex shop a couple of weeks

540
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: ago and bought a couple of different things. I was

541
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: trying that it doesn't work flash like for him a

542
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: numbing cream. Yeah, I gotta find that done. They have

543
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: in the sex door, and I said that would makes

544
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: sex Like that works, my boyfriend will be making luck

545
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: to you in a second. You have one of my friends.

546
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: So I have that because but I use it like

547
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: five minutes before on yourself. Okay, because it didn't he'll Yeah,

548
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to go numb. No, no, no, you

549
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,239
Speaker 1: know what tonight I'm gonna do that. I'm gonna tell

550
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: him that you guys sent me home to do that ship. Yeah,

551
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,479
Speaker 1: you don't want to be numb. And number I think

552
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: we should give her like a supersize doll doll that

553
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: I kind of loosened it up before it's time for

554
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: him to go in one. What about do you use

555
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: do you use lubricant? I've tried that too. It's just

556
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: his it's so big. I can't It's not about the moisture.

557
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 1: It's about the slip right in pencil. Were you excited

558
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: about it? At first? When I saw it, I was like,

559
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: what the like it was one of those things like

560
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: I still tell him like that moment when he pulled out,

561
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, because he's not even that tall.

562
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: So I was like, where'd that trying to tell you?

563
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: You do what you didn't? The picture and it was

564
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: a man's forearm and his motherfucking dick was down to

565
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: here and it was a remember and it was a thick,

566
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: asked dick, and he was like this next to the dick,

567
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: and the ship came up to here. I would motherfucking

568
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: run die kill. I'm not taking that. It was stuff. Yes,

569
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: it was a big dick. I've never seen a dickt

570
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: them to this one. You guys are making big dick

571
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: seemed unappealing, like a big big and I feel like

572
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: an extent is cool, but that wants to get too

573
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: big one inside. But seeing that's the thing too. In

574
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: the beginning, it was fine, like I'm like, alright, no problem, No,

575
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: it's just like I can't handle it out on me

576
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: and it was huge, and I was like, what are

577
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: you going to do with that monster? Like a little care?

578
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I eventually took it, but I wasn't though,

579
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: Like I feel like, what's the easiest position for you?

580
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: For me, he's got to be on top because I've

581
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: tried to do like dogging. It just hurts. Even the

582
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: other day we're doing dogging. I'm like, I just can't

583
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: take it anymore. He's like what. I'm like, I'm sorry.

584
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: He's like, you lay like a dead fish. I'm like,

585
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's so big. I don't know what the

586
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: hell to do. I can't do anything. So what if

587
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: he doesn't put the whole thing in? Can you do that?

588
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: But that doesn't And he did it the other day

589
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: like he's like, it's not all the way and I'm like,

590
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: are you sure I reached out? I was like, damn,

591
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: I still had a handful sticking out, Like, dude, I

592
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: can't don't let anybody know who your boyfriend is because

593
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: it's something right now Instagram if you want to see

594
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: him and don't give out your Instagram now. I'm glad

595
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: you brought that up because we were talking about how

596
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: your boyfriend is supposed to be your best friend, right

597
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: and you should be able to tell him everything best friend.

598
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: But I don't believe that that's true. I believe that

599
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things that we tell our girlfriends

600
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: that we would never tell our boyfriend because certain things

601
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: you don't tell you just don't understand. Yeah, yeah, I

602
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: think it should feel like that. I feel like, yeah,

603
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: we talk about everything, right. Then you get on the

604
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: phones like this motherfucker right. What happens though, when he

605
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: goes through your text messages and sees your conversations your

606
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: best friends, Then he's like, we how come you didn't

607
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: tell me about this real best friend? You're the secondary

608
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,959
Speaker 1: best Like, would you tell your boyfriend like about other guys?

609
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: I mean I have, but to a degree nothing. Yeah,

610
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: you can't because you know why they hold everything against you.

611
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 1: Everything everything could ever make him too much information? C M,

612
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: I is not good for what do you think? Actually?

613
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: I agree? I feel like that has happened to me before.

614
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: Like you know, I dated my boyfriend before he was

615
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: my boyfriend for a long time. I dated him, so

616
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: I was just honest, like, oh, you know this one,

617
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: this or this one that and now it comes back,

618
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: don't getting an art time? Like, you know, my problems

619
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: is I talked too much. I talked to too much

620
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: and I'm not doing that again. He's like, but wait, wait, no,

621
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: you're supposed to and I'm like, no, not me to

622
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: keep bringing it up up and they bring it up

623
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: at the wrong time. That's the thing. Usually when you're

624
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: when you're gonna be with somebody, you have that moment

625
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: with them where you can see you feel so you

626
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: tell them everything. They're like your best friend all the time.

627
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: You share everything. Did this one time and oh my god,

628
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: wild vacation, you know, like just trying to hate sitting

629
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: there acting like you're girlfriend, Like yeah, girl, somebody like that.

630
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: That's how you feel. Yeah, like kicking yourself like Shay

631
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: and and and yeah, and you feel like that's your

632
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 1: best friend and you can tell them everything. And then

633
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: it's like, damn, I shouldn't have to. And you know

634
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: what else, I feel like you can't tell your boyfriend

635
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: like whole ship your friends do either. Yes, oh that's

636
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: the last thing you do, so that's not really you

637
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: really don't tell your boyfriend everything. You know what I

638
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: had my ex boyfriend I used to consider him like

639
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: my best friend. I used to tell him everything, but

640
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: I wouldn't tell him my friend's business because tell him

641
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,879
Speaker 1: everything is my business to me, I'm not gonna tell

642
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: my friends all my friends the whole and she just

643
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: suck this nigger, that's not your friend. You don't talk

644
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: about your friends like that because my yeah, not ever,

645
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 1: but my own business. Yeah, I have told them myself.

646
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: I've told and like you same thing. We were friends first,

647
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: but girls the minute we got in an argument, Yeah,

648
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 1: because your whole asks was sucking so and so and self.

649
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, I used to be like, yo, why

650
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: do you tell I tell him everything. I'm like body everything,

651
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: and you know, something like trusting, like yeah, you think that.

652
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: A lot of stories from my clients like I'm waxing

653
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 1: the vagina, so they tell me everything. And before before

654
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, now, I was with my ex boyfriend for

655
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: a long time, so I've always been in a relationship.

656
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: So I had a very like I had a little

657
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: while where I was single and a lot of things

658
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh ship, everybody's sucking like you know, and

659
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: I was like I would when I was working with

660
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: some of my Oh thank you. When I was working

661
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: with some of my other employeesement I had a job,

662
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: before I had a business, they would like write down

663
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: the names of the guys that they was working. They'll

664
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: be like, oh the guy from Vegas. Oh yeah, that

665
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: one night, and they wouldn't even remember their names. So

666
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: when I would have conversations with my boyfriend. With my boyfriend,

667
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: I would be like, yo, like everybody got a side nigga,

668
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: everybody got a savage everybody everybody you know what I'm saying.

669
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: And it was just like, oh, ship to me because

670
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,919
Speaker 1: I wasn't doing that. He's in the backgrounds like yeah,

671
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: like no, and then he's like, yeah, everybody's at that

672
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 1: one that didn't you tell me you know this about that?

673
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: Or everybody you know is that? That's not everybody I know.

674
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: It's like I speak to hundreds of women and do

675
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: this or sent this, or I'm telling you about the

676
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: crazy stories I hear from them, like, oh, let me

677
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: tell you, yeah, in this conversation. It doesn't mean that

678
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: every woman I speak to was like that, But I'm

679
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: telling you about this crazy story that I heard from

680
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,919
Speaker 1: this woman. I was waxing, like I have so many

681
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 1: stories because I speak to hundreds of write a book

682
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 1: about him. And now what about do you want to

683
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: know everything about him? Truthfully? Yes, I do. I don't

684
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: you know, Like when I first met him, I couldn't

685
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: find out nothing about him, and it made it that

686
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 1: mystery made me like him more, you know what I mean? No, no, no,

687
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: she was like what she spelled this ship on the floor.

688
00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 1: So I'm like, Okay, I didn't want to be listening

689
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: to something that's not my boyfriend, but you know, and

690
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: and and the nice thing about not knowing anything about

691
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,879
Speaker 1: him in the beginning was that I took so much

692
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: time getting to know him for him, and I really

693
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 1: got to know him very well. And then I realized

694
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 1: what I admired about him and what I liked about him,

695
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: and it made me want to know more about him.

696
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: And so now I had seen him in a certain light,

697
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: and now I have to be with him for so long.

698
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, I know certain things about him,

699
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: and I know certain ways that he has and there

700
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: is a certain amount of mystery, but I wouldn't want

701
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: anything to tarnish how I feel about him. And because

702
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: me and him have such a strong relationship, I don't

703
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: feel like somebody could come and tarnish you know how

704
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: I feel about him, But I feel like certain things

705
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: that he does can make me feel a certain type

706
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: of way about him. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

707
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: I get you. After you said you want to know

708
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: everything absolutely, because he wants an everything about me, I

709
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: want to know everything about him as well. He pulls

710
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: the whole you know we need to be best friends line,

711
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: which I'm fine with. I actually was engaged to a

712
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: best friend of mine as well, but that was an

713
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: issue we had once we got together. It was, oh,

714
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:11,720
Speaker 1: remember that guy. I'm like, dude, yeah, he knew everything.

715
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: There was no secret. So going into this one again,

716
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: like I don't like to have secrets that i'm you know,

717
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: with somebody that I'm with. So I try to put

718
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: everything out there that I possibly can, or that I

719
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,399
Speaker 1: can remember or whatever I can remember, you know, because

720
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: that's the thing. I block out a lot of stuff too,

721
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: just and be like, well, you don't know everything I got.

722
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: I like, dude, you won't know everything from the minute

723
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: I was born till today, Like you just won't know

724
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 1: all that stuff. But at the end of the day,

725
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: it's like I want to know things show him. He's like, listen,

726
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm an open book. Asked me whatever you want, and

727
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 1: I'll tell you, and he truly will. Has anything ever

728
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: bothered you that he told you that? She like, I

729
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: wish I didn't know that. Uh No, But there are

730
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: things that I'll throw a little subtle hints back at

731
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: because he'll try to do that to me too, because

732
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: the world. Here's the thing. So it's like, you know,

733
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,919
Speaker 1: I know he's not an angel. I know that he's

734
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: hooked up with girls and stuff, and they have been

735
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: encounters where we've even like come across some of the girls.

736
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: They have been like, you know, jump off, and I'm

737
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: just like you, like, you know, so obviously if I

738
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: see that, I have to bring that out every now

739
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: and then. And I'm like, oh so really that And

740
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: he's like why, I'm like, dude, I'm just saying, you know,

741
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, but I don't care, like I told him, like,

742
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: I just really don't because I really don't care. But

743
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: then he gets butt hurt, so he'll start bringing up

744
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: things about an act and that. No, but he'll bring

745
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: up stuff and I'm just like, dude, why are you

746
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: bring up stuff when I'm really not. I really don't

747
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: give a shit. I don't, but it's like it it

748
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: bothers him. I guess, okay, it bothers him that you

749
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: don't give a shit or bad him stuff. You did?

750
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: Know what bothers him as I bring up stuff. So

751
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: he'll try to bring up things that will upset me.

752
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 1: But it doesn't upset That's why you bring it up, right,

753
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 1: it's not really it's just more like just like a

754
00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 1: subtle dig like that all the time, and it because

755
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: it bothers me, not to the point where I'm losing

756
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying, no, because you know what

757
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: it is. It's like if I were to, let's say,

758
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm to go somewhere, He'll be like, which one your

759
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 1: booz did you go there with? I'm like really, I

760
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: was like, but but if I know for a fact

761
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 1: that he's been somewhere with someone, I'm like, oh, it's

762
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:18,879
Speaker 1: so I'm so gonna be there. And he's just like

763
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just like, dude, I really don't care.

764
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: I'm just breaking your balls. He's like, no, but is

765
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: that why you go here? Because you go to see that?

766
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, here we go you're joking. You know

767
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 1: what they say about jokes, that there's an underlying line

768
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 1: of serious behind. Stephanie, do you feel like you would

769
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: tell I know you don't tell shit. I know you

770
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: know that. Do you want to know everything? There's nothing

771
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: to tell? Um? I don't want to know anything for me.

772
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: The more I know, the more I hate you. You

773
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: love you, baby, don't tell me nothing. I don't want

774
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 1: to find out any thing. I don't want to find

775
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: out who your exes are, like you know, Um, I

776
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: just feel like and then you know, when I really

777
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: fall in love with somebody, I like to become a sucker.

778
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: So I know everything. But if he told you that

779
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: he used to Mike, what if he's like, I used

780
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: to be in love with this girl and I'm gonna

781
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 1: get married. You don't want to know those things. I

782
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 1: have a perfect example. This is alright, the guy I've

783
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: been with. Right, he tells me, oh, I was with

784
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: this girl, and yeah, I used to I used to

785
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: work with her hard and I know the girl, and

786
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, ill, she's a sasquash. Bro's like five but nine,

787
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: and she's huge and she got these big buck eyes.

788
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: And I haven't really had a problem with her. It

789
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 1: is very specific, but now you judge your out like

790
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: this sasquad? What do you think somebody he was cool with, though, No,

791
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: And then he told me. He was like, oh, she

792
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: she told me, this is funny. This was funny. He

793
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 1: told me, Oh, she told me I were cool. But

794
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 1: you guys had a fall out. And I'm thinking we

795
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: were fine. I didn't even know we had to fall out.

796
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, do it about you? Yeah, I'm like really,

797
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm like really, I'm like, what full out? He was like,

798
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: because after I was dating this guy when I first

799
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: broke up with my son's father, I was dating this

800
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: guy who lived in another country, and he's like, you know,

801
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: he's like a good rebound joint, you know what I mean.

802
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: He's gonna take traveling, he's gonna take you shopping. Yeah,

803
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: it's not something you want to marry. It's not something

804
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,720
Speaker 1: you even care about. You know, it's just fun, some fun,

805
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: right good night? Yeah exactly, That's exactly what he was

806
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: good for. So after I was with him, after I

807
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: had already left him alone, she started working with him

808
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: and I was cool. Yeah, And I was cool. I

809
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: was so cool with it. That's somebody you share with

810
00:42:49,160 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: the community. Yeah, now you're like your friend, you know

811
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: what I mean? You keep that in the community, you know.

812
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: So I was fine, but you know, he told me.

813
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:07,479
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, she told me that, um, y'all

814
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: had to fold out over something, nigga, And I was like,

815
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: I was like, she's crazy, Like I never cared, you know,

816
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: But it's funny. You see how women talk about you,

817
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: Women talk behind your back, like I didn't even care,

818
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: Like even though as soon as he told me, I

819
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 1: was like, oh, she's a sasquash, Like, oh my god,

820
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: been talking about you too, because what if he goes

821
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: back and tells her, well, she said us a squatsh

822
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: Please she know I told her she a saskwads face,

823
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: I think I have told her so she's a sasquash

824
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: to her face. I don't, girl, you said some pretty

825
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: little sassquaws. Sasquash. You're a very honest person. So let's

826
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: talk about the best friend thing, like how much do

827
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 1: you tell everything? Like does he know everything? Especially if

828
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 1: y'all break up get back together now that y'all got

829
00:43:55,880 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 1: to tell each other. That's just clear awfully specific over here,

830
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: A right look at the faith. All right, there's some

831
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: things you're like, Okay, this goes to the grave. Um,

832
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,240
Speaker 1: I've learned my lesson about telling him certain things. Who's

833
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: him it is supposed to be guy? Well yeah, specific

834
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: guy friends. Yeah, you your lesson because it gets thrown

835
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: back in your face and who wants to deal with you?

836
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: Know you bring your back stuff from the grave that

837
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: shouldn't even matter. Um. And I also believe in like

838
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 1: what you don't know won't hurt you, right, Like, don't

839
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: come and bring some ship on me that's gonna ruin

840
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: my day because you feel like you need to get

841
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: it off your chest. Like I'm better off not no one,

842
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:44,359
Speaker 1: So yourather not now. Yeah, I'm rather not know if

843
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: I if I don't have to know, then don't tell me. No. See,

844
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 1: I have phone, don't make everything. And I'd be so

845
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: mad at myself for finding all ship that I wasn't

846
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: if I didn't look for it, I would another phone.

847
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: You want to be a stalker and now you're tight.

848
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: So imagine he needs to actually get to the bottom

849
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: of everything. Do you hold it or do you? Are

850
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: you the one that's gonna be like you know, you

851
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: know I tried. This is what happened. When I find

852
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: what I'm looking for. I got perfect evidence. I screenshot

853
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: it and I'll send it to him. And that's backed

854
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: up about like seventy five text messages. This is what

855
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: you're doing? Sen? Oh really? Sun? All right? I see,

856
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: I see what about Why he did that back to you?

857
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 1: Did he do that back to you? No, guys are

858
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: not investigators. No, hold on, because my boyfriends that my

859
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: boyfriend will stuck me and he'll say, it's okay for

860
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,479
Speaker 1: me to stuck you. You're my girlfriend. How cute? Yeah,

861
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: but what's the level of stock? I mean, I don't

862
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: think he like does does he get mad if you're

863
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: dancing with a guy, if you're really gets mad at me? See,

864
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: because they can't see my EXTU used to go through

865
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: my followers, like why are you following this? Baseball? Baseball players? Now,

866
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: they will stalk you, but they won't let you know

867
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: that they're talking you. But then sometimes they say something

868
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: like that, because I remember this, they go to make

869
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: a g how do you do that? On Twite? You

870
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: can definitely do said, how did they see that? She said?

871
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: Alert on my name? I was like, you know how

872
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: to do with Twitter. That's good pussy right here? Got alert?

873
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: Stuck is pussy. Every time you tweet, it's a little

874
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: notification she just tweeted, Not when I tweet when somebody

875
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 1: asks me. That's even worse. I feel like what he does,

876
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,919
Speaker 1: he acts like he doesn't care about I don't even

877
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: be on that. I don't even be on there. I

878
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: don't need to see what you'd be doing. But as

879
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: soon as I post a photo like promoting an add

880
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: oh my outfit is from pretty Little Thing or been

881
00:46:55,440 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: Vixen's shop, use my code stuff I he's like, oh,

882
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,280
Speaker 1: where he was going? You see that you be acting

883
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: like you home all the time, but then you dressed

884
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: up in these outfits. I know you would out like

885
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: I'm getting paid, but I thought you worried. I got it.

886
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: Ten times I post those as I have no makeup on.

887
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: I just threw the picture. I just put on the outfit,

888
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: and I've listened. I'm taking some of those pictures. But

889
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:26,439
Speaker 1: you can't have an outfit good like but you got

890
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: on the outfit. But let me ask you something. Okay,

891
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: but let's keep it real. But Stephanie, let's keep it real.

892
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 1: Do you like that you like all right, I'm gonna

893
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: say this, keep it real, I do my my man

894
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: has to be on me like that, Like I can't.

895
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: I can't be with somebody who like it's like, oh

896
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: okay date that the guys. But you like the fact

897
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 1: that he's on you like that? Yeah? Yeah, I mean

898
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I need a little more breathing room,

899
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: you know, because he literally guess upset if I go outside,

900
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: like right now, I'm at work and he's probably like

901
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: going crazy. Do you feel like that makes someone guilty?

902
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: Out to me? I would be like, yeah, what's your guilty?

903
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:13,879
Speaker 1: As I catch him in all the time, I catch

904
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: him in something new, if it's not one thing, it's

905
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: the other, And I feel like it's because of his

906
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 1: guilty guilty conscious he you know, I know he loves

907
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: me and I love him too, but you know, he

908
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 1: knows the ship that he does is wrong. So he's

909
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: always trying to accuse me of doing something. I'm really

910
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: because he's probably doing something himself, really literally in the house,

911
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: like doing Instagram ads right right, and he thinks you

912
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: out on a date like I need a cat. When

913
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: do you discuss finances with your man? When did you

914
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: get to the point where y'all discussed like your credit score,

915
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 1: your financial history together together, and you own something together,

916
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: when you're gonna open the business together and something together,

917
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: because he ain't breaking bread together. Then don't worry about

918
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: what the funk I got going up? But doesn't that

919
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,879
Speaker 1: indicates you whether or not there's a future sometimes too, Yes,

920
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: and mine brought that up to me. Actually in the

921
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship. He was like, you know, we

922
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: got to talk about this kind of stuff. And I

923
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: was like, no, no, no, no, right, not in the beginning,

924
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 1: but towards the beginning, early, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah,

925
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: because things were moving fast in our relationship and yeah,

926
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: you listen. Actually one day was single and then the

927
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 1: next day she had a boyfriend. I was like, when

928
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: did this happen? Yeah, pretty much. And I was complaining

929
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: too about like I'm never gonna be a good guy.

930
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 1: He is a great guy, and everything was going super fast,

931
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: and he started bringing that, yeah, I do he needs

932
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: to like instead of the enlargement, he needs like reduction.

933
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: But he did. He brought up about finances and stuff,

934
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't feel comfortable talking about that.

935
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: That's like I don't want to tell you what I make.

936
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to tell you my like

937
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: you know, my job, like for a living. I don't

938
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: want to tell you what's in my bank account, like

939
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: it's none of your business unless we own something. He's like, yeah,

940
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: but I want to know for our future, like where

941
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: we're going. And I'm like, what do you make? What

942
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: do you got in your bank account? You know? He's like,

943
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: I don't mind telling you, and you like splurt it

944
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: out to me, and I'm like interesting. People say that

945
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: people are more comfortable talking about their sex life and

946
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 1: personal things and they are talking about their finances. Absolutely, yeah,

947
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: we'll talk about everything, their favorite sex position, partners, anything

948
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: like that. But then you ask them what wasn't your

949
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: bank account and they have a problem talking about that.

950
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: I feel like I get offended as somebody who asked me, like, well,

951
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: how much do you get paid to do this? Why

952
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 1: the fund? Is it any of your business? Yeah? Somebody,

953
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: if it's somebody you're seriously dating. I mean I might

954
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: volunteer the information, like okay, lunteer, but don't ask me

955
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: because why you want to? You want to borrow some money?

956
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 1: So why I so much more personal than somebody asking

957
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: you other questions about because you know why because the

958
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 1: guy was woman who makes more than him. I'm telling

959
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: you right now, and if a woman makes more than

960
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 1: the guy, he'll feel a little inferior to them. Yeah,

961
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: it kills their ego, feel like kill. Woman would never

962
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 1: respect a man. And I always have this conversation with

963
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: my man. I feel like, and especially because I speak

964
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: to so many career women too, I feel like a

965
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,479
Speaker 1: woman would never add respect a man if she makes

966
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: more money. There I agree, you don't think Oprah respects Stem,

967
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: but no, she won't even claimed him for a boyfriend.

968
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: She don't be like I just want to think she'd

969
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: be like, he's like a trophy wife. She's a lawyer.

970
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that you're making anything close very accomplished.

971
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: I feel like, as a woman, how do you feel?

972
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like this. I've never really cared

973
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: that much about what a man makes. I don't mind

974
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 1: having any discussion about money because I am very much

975
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 1: like trying to concentrate on my finances and being an

976
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: entrepreneur and opening businesses. And I want somebody that feels

977
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: the same way. And I feel like I would rather

978
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: you be and be shifts, then have a job making

979
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: a lot of money that you don't like that you're

980
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: staggning in. So if you're making a job and you're

981
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: on Wall Street and you're making a million dollars a year,

982
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: but you hated and you're miserable and you're stressed out

983
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 1: and you're suffering from anxiety and depression, I would rather

984
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 1: you want to be an entrepreneur and you know, just

985
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: doing well at least, like trying to make things happen

986
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: and having a plan and working hard and enjoying it.

987
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: I prefer that. But don't you feel that you'd be

988
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: able to help him out then, because it's like to me,

989
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: that's the way I would look at I would love

990
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: to help him out, you know. I like to help

991
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: vice person. I'd like for him to help me in

992
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: certain things. The only money conversations I have where guys

993
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: is like how much don't we all wish we could

994
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: have that? I don't know, it's a pretty good conversation.

995
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: Asked me, like what's your credit score or anything? All

996
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 1: the gods that they are like really rich, they do

997
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: not really care if they after you your credits. They're

998
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:57,879
Speaker 1: rich side of town right. I've worked in midtown where

999
00:52:57,880 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: there's a lot of career. When I worked right by

1000
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: the hearst, then right. And so there's some women who

1001
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: are like, listen, I make more money than him when

1002
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: I come home, I'm not sucking his dick. He better

1003
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: suck my dick. You know. Like, let's say he is

1004
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:18,240
Speaker 1: very ambitious, and he's really he wants to be an entrepreneur.

1005
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 1: He has all this motivation, but he think it right.

1006
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: So he's in your house and cook and he ain't

1007
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:30,439
Speaker 1: really cleaning. And then you came home after you did

1008
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: everything that you did for the day, and you already

1009
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: you know, clean your house everything, and now he's like,

1010
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:38,439
Speaker 1: all right, so sucking dead. You're like, you're gonna suck

1011
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,479
Speaker 1: your old day. How I feel like now, I feel

1012
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: like your man, if you worked all day and he

1013
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 1: worked really hard, and let's just say he was at home,

1014
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: he should be like, let me take care of you,

1015
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: and he should be in tune to that. But I

1016
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: also feel like, you know, I don't want you to

1017
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: not make no money, but you don't have to make

1018
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: what I made, you know what I'm saying. I feel like,

1019
00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 1: as long as you have a plan by me, I'm

1020
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: not when I got it, then I'll be looking like okay,

1021
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: oh that bill better be taking care to wait. So

1022
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,959
Speaker 1: if you make more money than your man, who pays

1023
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: when you go out to dinner? I mean I think

1024
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: we alternate. I think no matter what, who makes more

1025
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 1: than who? I think he'll pay sometimes and sometimes I'll

1026
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: pay money. I'm gonna be honest with you, like, my

1027
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: life isn't about like who makes more money? How much

1028
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: money does he have? Can he pay for me? Like

1029
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: if my man treats me really really well, you know,

1030
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: I try to do nice things for me for him,

1031
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: and he should do nice things for me too. And

1032
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:31,840
Speaker 1: him doing nice things for me doesn't have to be

1033
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: him like paying for shi it all the time or

1034
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 1: like buying me things. Him doing nice stuff for me

1035
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: could mean that he's really thoughtful and it's like really

1036
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: sweet to me and takes care of me and does

1037
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 1: a little cute stuff and that means a lot to me.

1038
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 1: Because people will always tell you, like I buy myself

1039
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: a lot of ship, it's hard for people do that.

1040
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: You can't even buy his bit of birthday present, be

1041
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: like do I have ten thousand dollars for back with

1042
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: the digital side that listen, young dog got it. I

1043
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 1: don't want to wear it again after that. But exactly

1044
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: when you could buy a bag that's that much and

1045
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 1: you're like, I'm not wearing it. But that's what I'm saying.

1046
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: It's hard because I do, like do a lot of

1047
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 1: ship for myself, and it's hard for somebody to figure out.

1048
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 1: But if you could be really toughful and pay attention

1049
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: to things that you know, it's about creativity, and I

1050
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,359
Speaker 1: think that's really sweet. I feel like my boyfriends all

1051
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: know that they make more money than me, just off

1052
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 1: the bat, but I still take my boyfriends to dinner. Yeah.

1053
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: I think that you know how many guys are not

1054
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: used to women doing it for them. Yeah, And I

1055
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: don't know, Maybe I'm maybe I'm fucked up. G g am.

1056
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: I alone here because my even my father, My father

1057
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: even taught me and he didn't even he thought I

1058
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: was never gonna have a boyfriend in my life because

1059
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed up until he said, not till you're

1060
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,919
Speaker 1: fifty years old, can you have a boyfriend. But this

1061
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 1: man told me like, don't ever. You don't pay for

1062
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: no man. The man pay for you. That's what he

1063
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: told my mother my father took me out to dinner

1064
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 1: every weekend, nice fancy restaurant. And that's when I was

1065
00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: used to no, no, no, I don't mind. Don't get

1066
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: me wrong, I don't mind. But I've tried and they've

1067
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 1: I've always been turned down, like you're not paying for this,

1068
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,359
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, let me tip, even for me,

1069
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,280
Speaker 1: like with guys who are my friends, Like I've paid,

1070
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:12,879
Speaker 1: like when we went out to eat and been like, oh,

1071
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: I got it, and they're like, oh my god. They're

1072
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: not used to that. And I think that's a really

1073
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: nice gesture for somebody that you care about. And I

1074
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: think it means a lot if a guy can accept

1075
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,720
Speaker 1: that from you too. Yeah. My parents have been together

1076
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 1: for like a really long time. They've been together forever,

1077
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: and they always my mom always does nice stuff for

1078
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: my dad, nice and I feel like she would take

1079
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: nice vacation, you know. I remember her telling me that

1080
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: she was engaged to somebody before my dad, so um,

1081
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: before she was with my dad, she was engaged to

1082
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 1: another guy. And she was like so surprised because she

1083
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 1: said that she had took him, she took him to

1084
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: a rule, but for his birthday and they only been

1085
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: dated for nine months, and that he proposed to her

1086
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: and she was like, wow, Mama, gotta have a life too.

1087
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: You know. It's like you know, she was like, I

1088
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: think that he just wasn't used to having a woman

1089
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: who buys him gifts and does things for him too,

1090
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: And like I feel like I always treated my boyfriend

1091
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:05,879
Speaker 1: like that, Like you know, it doesn't matter what he has,

1092
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: Like if he buys me this, I'm gonna try to

1093
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 1: It feels like competition. I I buy my rich boyfriend gifts.

1094
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: I like gifts better than I like with his money,

1095
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: with his money, and it's like if you could playing

1096
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: at dinner and take him out, Like listen, we take

1097
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: for granted sometimes that guys do stuff for us all

1098
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: the time, and how much they appreciate when you try

1099
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: to do something for them. When I think it's my guys,

1100
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 1: I deal because literally I even one time, I like

1101
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: schedule a spa date for a guy I was dating,

1102
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: and he was like, you're not spending money on this?

1103
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 1: How much it wasn't you know this is before this

1104
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: because you know, we only go on the up with

1105
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: the best masside. But now, yeah, he had my nose hairs.

1106
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: Wexed with it first. You were so excited. I was

1107
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 1: so how did that fail? It was great? I want

1108
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: to do that. Try that. Yeah, that especially, I've ever

1109
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: heard of that. It's such a different flow. I've never

1110
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: heard of it before. I didn't even know you could

1111
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: do it. Sounds like it don't hurt. It don't hurt.

1112
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: It doesn't because it felt like somebody just plucked you

1113
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, we'll go together. I never let's go.

1114
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: Let's but as do you do stuff like for your boyfriend?

1115
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: Do you pay? And yeah, yeah I do? I do,

1116
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: and he does. He hasn't been going above and beyond

1117
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: for me as well, which I have to say because

1118
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's like I definitely make more than he does.

1119
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: I'll put it out there. But he has proved himself

1120
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: to me to be like, listen, I want to make

1121
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: sure that you, you know, are happy. And you know

1122
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: it's not about again, it's not about the gifts and

1123
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: all that stuff. It's basically about the creativity behind it.

1124
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: You know, he got above and beyond for my birthday.

1125
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:52,919
Speaker 1: He did some crazy stuff that I was just like, Wow,

1126
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 1: I can't believe. It's like this poor guy is gonna

1127
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: go broke, trying to like impress me. But at the

1128
00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: end of the day, like you know, he's like, I

1129
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: don't care. As long as you're happy, I'm happy. Oh

1130
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: that is adorable. I love that because I imagine you

1131
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: pick your man up and you're like, I'm not telling

1132
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: you we were going and what we're doing everything, You're

1133
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: going to the house. And it was awesome because you know,

1134
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 1: he talks about the at the time. He's like, you know,

1135
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 1: I never had anyone do something like so insane like that,

1136
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: And I'm like, really, you've been dating. It's true. You know.

1137
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: I had a guy that had kids and on Father's Day,

1138
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 1: I bought him something for Father's Day and he was

1139
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: like the funk, like, we don't have any kids together,

1140
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: none of my babies. You know, I call him daddy,

1141
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: but he was like, none of my baby mom's even

1142
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: because he had more than one. And he was like,

1143
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: they never bought me anything for fucking fathers that they

1144
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: could collaborator. Right, No, that's up though, right, but that's

1145
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 1: how some bitches are. And like you were saying, like

1146
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,439
Speaker 1: some some guys they never been treated special and nothing

1147
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: like that. So even though it wasn't then, well it was.

1148
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: It was a good amount of money that I spent,

1149
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: but it still wasn't even about that. Just the fact

1150
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: that I knew it was the happiness on their that

1151
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: is what makes it all. I can't believe it. He's like,

1152
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: that's the only thing I got for a Father's Day.

1153
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: I got examborate. That means so much and it sounds

1154
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: good to their friends too, and you'd be like, oh, yeah,

1155
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:12,720
Speaker 1: my girl did this, this and that. For me, that's

1156
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: just sounds so popping. She bought me a raid for

1157
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 1: her name is Cardi b I can't compete. I can't

1158
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 1: compete with that. I'm sorry, you win, Cardi. Now, let's

1159
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 1: talk about one last thing, going into business with your man,

1160
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 1: because Ashley, how difficult is that? Like is that scary

1161
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: because if you're not quite married yet, do you have paperwork?

1162
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: Like if this doesn't work out, or is it just

1163
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: like okay, it better work out. Well, you know, I

1164
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: felt in the beginning like it wasn't going to be

1165
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: a good idea just because, like you said, you know,

1166
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: sometimes you'll talk about the sexual partners you have, but

1167
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: you're not going to talk about finances, and you know,

1168
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:52,000
Speaker 1: I quit my career to open my business with my men,

1169
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: and so now everything is together. And like you said,

1170
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: we're not married yet, but it's fine. You know, we're

1171
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: building this together. We're you have to remember why you

1172
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 1: started this, Like why did we start this? We started

1173
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 1: this so that we can build a life together. We

1174
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 1: started this so we can go an extra mile. We

1175
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 1: didn't start this because we planned on breaking up, you know,

1176
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: but if we do break up, everything would be split

1177
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: in half and everything would be fifty paperwork or you

1178
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: just you trust you trust him, and we have a

1179
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: little bit of both. People have both. But if he

1180
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: asked you to wax him, wax him, he would never

1181
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 1: let me. I acted, how many? How many does he see? Well?

1182
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: I hope he only say you know, but um, you know,

1183
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 1: and and there it's it's a period. It was hard

1184
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: for me because I'm so used to being so independent

1185
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 1: and having my own money and always being able to

1186
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: treat him to stuff like I'm like that. You know,

1187
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: I'd like to treat even my friends to stuff. We

1188
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: just like that. You know. I'm very I'm a very

1189
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: giving person. So when I had only my savings and

1190
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: he's there, like, let me do this and let me

1191
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,280
Speaker 1: do that. But just me being myself, I can't help it.

1192
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: I'm giving, I'm giving my things, I'm giving my half,

1193
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: I'm giving my share, and then it's gone and now

1194
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: I just have my business and it's like a right,

1195
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 1: work this because that's all you got girl, you know

1196
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 1: it was it was like there was a period in

1197
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 1: the beginning where I was just like, oh shit, like

1198
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 1: this something like that. And it's like, thank God that

1199
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: he's so supportive and he's like backs me on everything,

1200
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: and it was just so hard for me to accept

1201
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: that because I'm so used to being independent and he's like, well,

1202
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: I have it, like just let me do it, like,

1203
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 1: let me give you the money for this, let me

1204
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: do this, let me have you like, and I was

1205
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: it was so hard for me to accept that, Like okay,

1206
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:43,520
Speaker 1: because I've, like I said, I speak to hundreds of

1207
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: women and sometimes, you know, you you speak to the housewife.

1208
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: And I do have a lot of clients who are housewives,

1209
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: and I feel like they don't get the credit that

1210
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 1: they deserve because they do work T four seven and

1211
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: they don't make any money, but they don't get a

1212
01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: break either. But it's like here is this gift that

1213
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 1: you bought for you, you know, and I never want

1214
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 1: to be in that position. So I would like, they

1215
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:07,960
Speaker 1: ain't got no money, so they got so they have

1216
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: to buy the gift, you know. So it's for me,

1217
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: I would work double like I would work it's still

1218
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: in my other business because I do have a business

1219
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: with my mother as well, So I would take my

1220
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 1: clients on the side just to make extra money, just

1221
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: to do things for him too, because he does so

1222
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: much for me, and I just I'm so used to

1223
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: having my own money. I don't want to and not

1224
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 1: only that, you know, I don't want him to know

1225
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 1: every time I'm doing something or every time I'm spending

1226
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: money on something. You know, I'm used to having my

1227
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,919
Speaker 1: own money. Now we share everything. So it was a process.

1228
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: It was a growing process, it was a learning process.

1229
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: It was an adjusting process. Now our business is much

1230
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 1: more successful, so it's easier. But there was a point

1231
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 1: where it was like depressing for a second, Like I

1232
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 1: like cried every day, like I just, you know, I

1233
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: want to have I want to hold onto my independence.

1234
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 1: But that's another thing. You know, when you are starting

1235
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 1: to build a life with on one and you're starting

1236
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 1: to share everything. It's I don't know if it's this

1237
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: way for women who are not so independent, but it's

1238
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 1: like you try to hold onto your independence because you

1239
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: want to be this strong woman and you still want

1240
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: to be independent have your own things. But it's like

1241
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: I'm starting a life with him and everything is together now,

1242
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 1: Like it's a scary moment, like I'm not married, you know,

1243
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 1: do I just jump into I just let yeah? And

1244
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: if you were into you to get married, it wasn't

1245
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 1: at some point, but now yes, it is because now

1246
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: I do share everything, you know, and I'm a grown

1247
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: woman now. Maybe once upon the time of my life

1248
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 1: I didn't care about marriage. Now I think differently because

1249
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: like like I just said, like I share everything with

1250
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 1: my man. So it's just there was a process where

1251
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 1: it was I kept trying to hold onto my independence.

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01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 1: But now you know, I'm a businesswoman and I do

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01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: share everything with my man, and I've learned to just

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01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: focus on me because I can't focus, I will never

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01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 1: be able to move forward with becoming one if I

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01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: keep trying to focus on being yourself one by myself.

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01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: And it's just like anything, it's an adjustment period when

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01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 1: you're growing as a person, you have to learn to

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01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: let go of your past and walk into your future.

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01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 1: And one of the most important things before you could

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01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: be successful in a relationship with somebody is to be

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01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 1: successful on your right. And I was successful on my own,

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01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: So it was so hard to do it. It's hard.

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01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 1: You worked hard, it becomes it's a sacrifice and it's

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01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 1: like letting go of everything that you worked for. But

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01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: it's not really because he needed that in order to

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01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 1: be in the grow. And he's just like, he's like, yo,

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01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 1: like I'm doing this for you so you can be better.

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01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, but don't I don't know, nify myself.

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01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:51,800
Speaker 1: I got a dot note, I'm gonna move together. But

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01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 1: he compliments me, and I've always been a relationship. I've

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01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 1: always been a relationships where I try to level up

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01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: my guy. And this is the first time I'm in

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01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: a relationship with he leveled me up to you know,

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01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: so it's like level yeah that that usually be the

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01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: one right there, and leveled me up as well. So

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate him and I love him, and I

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01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 1: appreciate my business. And we'll be upspected in our vacation

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01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:18,400
Speaker 1: and we're gonna talk about it. We're gonna try to

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01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: come so that the next time we come back, we

1281
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,959
Speaker 1: can talk about our vacations. And anyone who mentions lip

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01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: service or follows lip service, and you can show me

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01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 1: on your social media that you follow lip service and

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01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 1: that you stream lip service, I will give you pop

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01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 1: in I follow a lip service? Can I get twenty percent?

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01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: I follow a lip service? To you have a account?

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01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta upgrade my life so I could

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01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 1: be like like I got thank you, well the wax

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01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 1: for free? I probably, well, I bring it free, Stephanie,

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01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 1: and after I'm coming to get a wax. I'm not

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01:06:57,240 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 1: playing with you. We need to that held my hand,

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01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 1: my mind. Dude, he just he mentioned it does dude, like, dude,

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01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 1: why don't you work? I was like that if you've

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01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 1: been not spurred on her? Like him right in the face.

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01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,480
Speaker 1: I swear it was probably see him coming out of

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01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:19,280
Speaker 1: my ears when he said that. He said, dabe, well

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01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: you don't watch now. That would be a nice present

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01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 1: for him and that would be no sex for a week,

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01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:24,680
Speaker 1: like he was. I was about to kill him. And

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01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 1: I was like, why you don't get that? I said,

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01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: why are you asking me that what bit you fucking

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01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: got her back day? I was like what, I was like,

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01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? We're gonna wax it. He

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01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: made he came back. He came back. He spend me

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01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 1: with a good comeback. He spend the ship out of me.

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01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 1: He was like, he's like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: It an't. The only reason I know you shaved is

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01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: because you left the raising the showers like that's from

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01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 1: my late You're like, that's not my amazing whatever. You

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01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 1: know that what I said? You know, if you if

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01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,440
Speaker 1: you actually'll be able to take the dick more, you

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01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:56,440
Speaker 1: know what, I'll try it. She's making it ship out

1313
01:07:56,600 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 1: like I was like, you met that thing in Atlanta.

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01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 1: I just wanted to ask that because I know you

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01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 1: got the spot. You know that thing in Atlanta that

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01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 1: they have at that temple thing? When on the is

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01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: that is that like really legit a good thing to do?

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01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: You can vagina at home to. I always tell women

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01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 1: that they should seem the vagina if you have very

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01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 1: bad cramps. It helps. It helps because okay, as we

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01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 1: age the walls in our vagina, they get a little

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01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 1: bit tough, right, So when not tight but tough, like,

1323
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 1: so when you steam your vagina, it rejuvenates the cell

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01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: walls inside your vagina. So what happens is the steam

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01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 1: will help to replenish your vagina and yoursels. They'll your

1326
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 1: cell walls will shed. So for the first couple of

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01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: days you may have a little bit of discharge and

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01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 1: it kind of looks like a East infection, but it's

1329
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 1: not a East infection. And it makes the inside of

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01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: your vagina soft again, and it helps it to stay moist.

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01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 1: Your eyes and stuff like that are saying. It helps fighting,

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01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 1: and it helps with cramps. Yes, if you if you

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01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 1: have one of those, you gotta get a crack pot.

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01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: How do you do it at home? That's good. You

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01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 1: gotta get good potty. Can you get a potty and

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01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: just put hot water? Can we get potties? And just

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01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 1: like you if you're gonna in my bathroom, you know

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01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 1: up like that you can pool better and altic. They

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01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,600
Speaker 1: give you that step right, yes, yes, yes, they do

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01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 1: give you the step in they and you got steam

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01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: your vagina at home. You boil a pot of water,

1342
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 1: but be very careful because it could be very hot.

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01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: We don't want that. You boiler a big pot of water.

1344
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:49,640
Speaker 1: And you can wear like a long skirt something that

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01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 1: will you know, keep steam in and once it cools

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01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 1: down just a little bit. Yeah, you would put the

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01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,920
Speaker 1: hot skirt over the pot and kind of squat. Don't

1348
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: try to sell your junk, you mind full. Please tell

1349
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: you that same pot you can use the same water

1350
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: to throw boil some Boston you can. You come out

1351
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 1: with some hardball and your squat and spaghetti. You can

1352
01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 1: stand up while you're making your rice. Really, it's a

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01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,719
Speaker 1: good thing. I do it all the time, you do. Alright,

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01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:29,519
Speaker 1: I'm actually up for one soon. I'm gonna be Yeah.

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01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 1: I'll tell you everybody like at least every two to

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01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:34,479
Speaker 1: three months. But did you learn that from Atlanta? Atlanta?

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01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm telling you everybody in Atlanta does it, Like all

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01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,600
Speaker 1: the girls shippers all that they got the what's it

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01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:45,719
Speaker 1: called that house? I guess we're gonna ja next you. Alright,

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01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:48,840
Speaker 1: but that is lip service, you guys. This is very shot.

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01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 1: Or get off the pot. Yeah, this was the Vagina Special.

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01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 1: We have the vagina Whisperer here with us, Ashley from

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Speaker 1: up Spy. Awesome, My girl asked, who's now at Katie? You?

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01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 1: Congratulations for joining the iHeart family, Thank you, thanks for

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01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 1: joining us today. And of course I'm Angela, Ye, I'm

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Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm McGuire and I'm Love And I gotta

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01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: tell you we are doing another Live Live Nervous at

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Speaker 1: Highline ball Room. It's going down February thirteen, right before

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. I'm made Hi, Miami will be joining us.

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Speaker 1: Little mo Is gonna be there with her husband Carl.

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01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 1: He'll be joining us right before Valentine's Day. Whack said

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Speaker 1: he really wants to come back. He missed you, Stephanie.

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01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 1: And we got another special guys to possibly. Okay, we're

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01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: taking it out and we were sold out last time,

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01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 1: so make sure you get your tickets ahead of time.

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01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: And I just want to tell you there was a

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01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:41,360
Speaker 1: lot of ladies there, so for then there were some

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01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 1: guys that were there also put a lot a lot

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Speaker 1: of women please die dies. So for guys, handle Valentine,

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01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 1: this is perfect. Find you two three, Yeah, and those

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01:11:54,160 --> 01:12:00,160
Speaker 1: ladies were definitely feeling saucy. If you don't, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: have service