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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: We're back with another episode with Trista and Molly and

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Speaker 2: Daz and we're just talking bachelor weddings and the drama

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Speaker 2: that ensues in them. And I want to know, because

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Speaker 2: we're all married. From the show, Molly and Trista had

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Speaker 2: big televised weddings. I wasn't offered a wedding, nor do

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Speaker 2: I think I would have not after the engagement would

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Speaker 2: I have taken the wedding because we had a televised

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Speaker 2: engagement and the whole episode became about like how my

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Speaker 2: ex was annoyed that, like okay, so I was like, wow, guys,

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Speaker 2: uh missed the point?

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Speaker 3: Wow, like really really didn't like that.

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Speaker 2: Of course, in the day of like when I think

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Speaker 2: about the day of the engagement, amazing, it was watching

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Speaker 2: it back and like the episode that goes along with it. Right,

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Speaker 2: So I don't think I would have ever wanted a wedding,

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Speaker 2: and I also wanted to have everybody that.

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Speaker 3: I wanted there.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to do it my way, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: But does you were back in the day that, like

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Speaker 2: they were doing the weddings, did you kind of.

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Speaker 4: I think the last one that was Molly and Jason,

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Speaker 4: and then we were and Sean Catherine well, well we

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Speaker 4: were right around Sean and Carian cut off around your time, right.

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Speaker 4: I don't think they were used to like couples staying together, so.

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Speaker 3: You know, they didn't.

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Speaker 4: They probably didn't expect like because then because then after me,

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Speaker 4: Andy was staying with Josh for that time being when

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Speaker 4: we were, you know, planning our own wedding, and so,

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Speaker 4: you know, honestly, I don't know, I can't assume. I mean,

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Speaker 4: we were talking for quite a while about that possibility

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Speaker 4: with them, but it just kept dragging on and dragging on,

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Speaker 4: and so we just chose to do it ourselves.

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Speaker 3: And you have a beautiful It was amazing.

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Speaker 4: And it was like you said everything we wanted, you know,

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Speaker 4: and we got to invite who we wanted and make

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Speaker 4: it a little more intimate.

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Speaker 5: Yea, which is great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well that's great.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad we all had the weddings that we wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Would you too go wait, Tristis quints er eyes, Molly,

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Speaker 2: and would you want to go back and do it

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Speaker 2: the way you did it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, like my style is changed.

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Speaker 6: I'm going to say that I would change my hair,

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Speaker 6: yeah for sure, and not have Ryan get his haircut

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Speaker 6: the day of the wedding.

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Speaker 3: And that's always always had Why did you think that? Actually, no,

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Speaker 3: the style.

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Speaker 6: Number one change is obviously we had it outside. With

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Speaker 6: the helicopter situation was a problem exactly what And the

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Speaker 6: first row of the wedding was of course his family

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Speaker 6: and my family right, and all the other rows had

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Speaker 6: had a speaker so you could hear what was happening

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Speaker 6: when we were saying our vows. Everyone else in the

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Speaker 6: front road didn't have a speaker. The people don't matter,

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Speaker 6: the people that and they couldn't hear anything because of

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Speaker 6: the stupid helicopters. So like if we could have either

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Speaker 6: put speakers in that front row or done it inside.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know, even though I loved.

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Speaker 6: The outdoors and Rancho mirage were gorgeous and it was

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Speaker 6: a perfect night, that's just a little.

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Speaker 5: So then that I was have the questioned, our helicopter

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Speaker 5: is going to be here tonight?

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Speaker 3: M that's question.

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Speaker 7: That is a good question because it's been leaked. Well,

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Speaker 7: we were saying, doesn't I went on a walk this morning.

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Speaker 7: Can you imagine being a Bachelor fan and you just

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Speaker 7: happened to be on vacation.

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Speaker 6: Like what a wild time percent I would go like

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Speaker 6: if that's so fun? If I was if I was here,

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Speaker 6: I would be those people like walking around and being like,

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Speaker 6: oh my gosh, there's there, there's so much.

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Speaker 7: So there's crashers at our wedding totally.

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Speaker 3: Yes, there were people at the hotel that just I mean,

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Speaker 3: how would you know? There were so many people? So

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Speaker 3: they just came right in.

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Speaker 6: Yes, So I feel like, yes, helicopters very well could

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Speaker 6: be here because it has been spoiled and people know

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Speaker 6: about it, but who who knows if they Also, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Remember helicopters at Sean and Catherine's. I don't think they were.

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Speaker 3: There were news news not like tablet tablet, tabloid.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so but it's live, so like why even like

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Speaker 2: everybody can see in the moment that's happening, the first pictures.

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Speaker 6: Are exactly and stuff that's happening that's not on on camera.

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Speaker 6: So we actually had people, so we took over Rancho mirage,

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Speaker 6: like our wedding guests were the there were there was

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Speaker 2: Huge, huge, but there's never gonna close it for And

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Speaker 2: they didn't Tanner's wedding, they didn't close.

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Speaker 6: It either, No, no, no, and and that's fine, that's great.

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Speaker 6: But they had paparazzi come in and put a little

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Speaker 6: cameras in bushes and then they went up to people

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Speaker 6: and they said, this is before we were there. They

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Speaker 6: were like, we'll pay you five thousand dollars if you

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Speaker 6: find this particular bush and go in the bush and

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Speaker 3: Camera and way.

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Speaker 4: Like the old days, old right, because we didn't have

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Speaker 4: ours televised, but there was still photos that got.

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Speaker 3: Because you still do, you still do.

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Speaker 4: There was someone working for a certain news station that

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Speaker 4: was at the wedding and let's just say a little

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Speaker 4: made it apparent that he was. We were upset because

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Speaker 4: we knew obviously it was yeah anyway.

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Speaker 3: But no, there were I guess that wouldn't be invited back.

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Speaker 4: No, it's fine, but no, but you still have exclusives

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Speaker 4: like with a magazine or with a news outlet, and

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Speaker 4: so there was pictures that were leaked and it's just

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Speaker 4: so annoying because they obviously were like in a tree

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Speaker 4: or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like and it's like me walking into.

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Speaker 5: The chapel, like with my dad. It's just like so weird.

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Speaker 6: What do you do with that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why can't you?

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Speaker 4: Then they were actually right when we were walking into

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Speaker 4: our reception and I that's where I think the wedding planner.

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Speaker 6: Set it up.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I do a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Or not the planner, someone who was like from the

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Speaker 4: hotel or from the location got it.

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Speaker 2: This is my last question that I want to dive

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Speaker 2: into with you guys, because of just this franchise, well,

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Speaker 2: the Golden Bachelor, making it so that like it's giving

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Speaker 2: a lot of older people hope that like normalizing like

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Speaker 2: finding love again at a certain age. And I have

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Speaker 2: talked on multiple podcasts now, but like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: and I don't know where I'll be mentally and emotionally

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Speaker 2: at seventy or hopefully I'm not widowed by seventy that

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Speaker 2: would be awful. But like I don't think I would

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Speaker 2: have any interests in like pursuing a relationship. If it

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Speaker 2: fell on my lap, then maybe, but like I don't

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Speaker 2: think I would seek it out through this show or

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Speaker 2: any other mechanism.

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Speaker 5: What about you just have curiosity?

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Speaker 6: I honestly feel like it's something that you can't talk

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Speaker 6: to until you're you're in the situation because they both

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Speaker 6: like Teresa and Gary, and then everyone else has their

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Speaker 6: story too, from the Golden bachelretats that were on the show,

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Speaker 6: but they have their own individual stories and they both

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Speaker 6: lost their spouse, you know, tragically, tragically through you know,

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Speaker 6: health issues. So I feel like you can't know until

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Speaker 6: you get there, Like obviously you're in a very happy

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Speaker 6: relationship and so you can't predict that you would even

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Speaker 6: want to look for something else. But I feel like

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Speaker 6: when you've been alone for that long and you do

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Speaker 6: have you know, the end of your life is closer

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Speaker 6: than right now it is for you. I feel like

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Speaker 6: when you get to that point, you probably are like,

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Speaker 6: you know what, I would love to be able to

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Speaker 6: share every day with someone, at least that's how I

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Speaker 6: would be with someone.

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Speaker 3: I feel I would do to live with my sister.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we would just be like a comedation,

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Speaker 2: would basically be Golden Girls probably, And I do think.

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Speaker 4: It's important to have some sort of companion, so like

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Speaker 4: if you have your friends or if you have family members,

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Speaker 4: Like as long as you're in community and you're feeling

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Speaker 4: loved and loving you know in return. I think that's

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Speaker 4: what really helps no matter where you're at in your life.

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Speaker 4: But I don't think, you know, a thirty forty something

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Speaker 4: you still have those same desires of being loved and

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Speaker 4: the desires of you know, feeling that that feeling of love.

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Speaker 5: Ye, So yeah, I don't know, Yeah, I just probably

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Speaker 5: it was probably just like something you can't really speak of.

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Speaker 6: Right until you get there.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: Although I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 5: I am very introverted and I really do love me

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Speaker 5: alone time I.

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Speaker 3: Get out, because I could never want to, never want

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Speaker 3: to date again.

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Speaker 7: You know, I can't imagine, like I I was so

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Speaker 7: young when I did the show. I can't even imagine date,

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Speaker 7: Like there weren't dating apps when I before I went

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Speaker 7: on the show, Like I wouldn't even know how not date.

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Speaker 6: I have to go on.

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Speaker 3: The Golden would be the most like natural strends.

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Speaker 7: No, But you know, I think about Jason dying all

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Speaker 7: the time. We talked about this at length last night.

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Speaker 7: You just can't die. I don't know how to do

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Speaker 7: like him same. It's so funny We're like we we

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Speaker 7: wouldn't know, like the pusswords or the.

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Speaker 1: We can't.

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Speaker 3: Alright. Well, thank you ladies so much. This is really fun.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having us. Thank you all right, See you

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Speaker 3: next time, guys. Okay bye.

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