WEBVTT -  Second Date Update PODCAST: Date Or No Date That Is The Question 

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<v Speaker 1>can't resist a man that speaks more than one language.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why whenever I've approached a foxy lady, I've always

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<v Speaker 1>used this accent right here. Excuse me. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jacques and I'm from the south of France. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>difference south, y'all like a bag at. I got these

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<v Speaker 1>bagg ats on my bicycle. Have to we eat these baggetts.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go out and watch me do some miming.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting geared up to do some miming. Laid on

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<v Speaker 1>na cans. I don't even know that that's a southern

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<v Speaker 1>accent at all, from any country south of France. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the way we speak down here. Sweet tea champagne. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Is it? My top came off? You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a sexy ax. Then couldn't resist. And on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now is Catherine And apparently the dude

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<v Speaker 1>that she met can speak another language as well. What's up, Catherine?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Hey? Hey, how are you good? It

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<v Speaker 1>says that you met the guy you want to call

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<v Speaker 1>today at a Spanish class. Yeah, we were both taking

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<v Speaker 1>a Spanish night class. And his name's Grady, so he

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<v Speaker 1>can speak Spanish. I'm guessing I would say he is

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<v Speaker 1>learning to speak It's not actually that good attempting at it,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's good. That's a great way to meet somebody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we met in class. Class been going on for a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks. I didn't real it much of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he came up to me at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>class and said I was beautiful in Spanish. Oh did

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<v Speaker 1>he actually say it well in Spanish? Or did he

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<v Speaker 1>say something completely different? You have no idea, You're like, what, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to know. I'm a bigetter too, so so

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<v Speaker 1>who knows who could have said anything to you? And

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<v Speaker 1>then he's like, that was that was your beautiful? I

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<v Speaker 1>said you're beautiful? Yeah, he attempted it. That's really sweet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we had been working on adjectives that day and so

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<v Speaker 1>it was sweet. Okay. And did he ask you out

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<v Speaker 1>right afterwards or yeah, he asked if I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get a bite to eat, and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be nice. And then he suggested we go to

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<v Speaker 1>a Mexican restaurant in the shopping center near by so

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<v Speaker 1>he could keep clack pissing his Spanish. Hey, let's go

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<v Speaker 1>learn some more Spanish. Let's go to Chipotle in the mall.

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<v Speaker 1>He like stuck with his theme. Maybe a little too hard. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know how people like at restaurants if they

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<v Speaker 1>speak the language, instead of being like, I'll have the bruschetta,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll be like, I'll have the bruce gep. Oh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know people do that all the time. I hate that.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like trying so hard, but it was really endearing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really cute, and we ordered and then we

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<v Speaker 1>just had a normal talk. Okay, well then he dropped

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<v Speaker 1>to continue the Spanish. No, no, no. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like order, which was sweet, and then just had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time platting. I think he's really funny. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's genuine. You know, he just keeps it real physically.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's definitely attractive. Okay, it was fun and

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<v Speaker 1>I think he liked me too, because he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>continue the date. And so we walked around and we

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<v Speaker 1>were in a shopping center. So we just went in

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<v Speaker 1>a few little stores. I picture you at like a

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<v Speaker 1>really bad chain Mexican restaurant and so you're just walking

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<v Speaker 1>around a parking lot. Okay, so you went into the mall.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a cute Mexican restaurant and a cute

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<v Speaker 1>shopping center with fun stores. Got it. But that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your interaction like when you guys were walking around?

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<v Speaker 1>It was great. You know, we were very bantery, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>joking with each other. And he bought me this hat

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<v Speaker 1>that I liked. Um, it wasn't super expensive, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was a hat I was looking at and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it looks great on you, and he bought it for me,

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<v Speaker 1>which was so cool. That would make me think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. But then he walked me to my

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<v Speaker 1>car and he gave me a hug, which was like

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<v Speaker 1>really a hug, and then he thanked me for a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, which was gentlemanly. And he hasn't contacted me since.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's been a week and you guys are done

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<v Speaker 1>with your Spanish class at this point. No, we're still

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<v Speaker 1>in class, but he didn't show up. Oh so he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't been to class. Okay, and have you tried to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to him. I just texted him the day

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<v Speaker 1>after our outing. I guess I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 1>it was a date at this point. And I thanked

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<v Speaker 1>him and said I had a great time and he

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<v Speaker 1>said me too, but didn't ask me out again. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>that's totally a date. He bought you a hat. Did

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<v Speaker 1>he pay for dinner too? He did, He paid for dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>He paid for our Parkarita's for sure. You don't buy

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<v Speaker 1>somebody a hat unless it's a date. That's what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter who it is. Yeah, and you had a

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<v Speaker 1>follow up text? Yeah, I mean I followed up to

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<v Speaker 1>thank him him, because like that's polite. And I did

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time and he did respond, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was just me too, like very short. I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>ask him out. Yeah, have you tried to ask him? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's only we've only been at once. It's not time

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<v Speaker 1>for that yet. Okay. Well maybe so you're like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to risk asking him out and ask

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<v Speaker 1>him out. I'll just call you guys to ask him out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes forect sense. I think you made the right decision.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll play a song come back and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, that sounds great, Okay, hang

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<v Speaker 1>up looking jubil in the morning. Hey Catherine, Hey, are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure that you want to get a date with

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<v Speaker 1>this guy? Because as far as I'm concerned, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that this is the lowest anybody has ever stooped when

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<v Speaker 1>these second date updates. Yeah, I think I still want

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<v Speaker 1>to date with him. I just what kind of monster

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<v Speaker 1>buys a hat for somebody and then doesn't ask them

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date. It's ridiculous to me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I can think of a lot worse. Oh I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. Katherine, Well, I guess we're gonna call him anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just tuning in for the second day, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get Katherine is on the phone. She wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a dude named Grady. They met in their Spanish class

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<v Speaker 1>they were taking like a night Spanish class. He asked

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<v Speaker 1>her out after class. They went and got some Mexican

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<v Speaker 1>food and then walked around the mall. And while they

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<v Speaker 1>were walking around the mall, he bought her a hat

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<v Speaker 1>but hasn't asked her out on another date. You are disgusted, Yeah, ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've finally found your line and this guy's crossed.

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<v Speaker 1>This is it, Katherine. Why do you think he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back? I truly have no idea. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've run through every scenario in my head, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of staying to wonder if he just feels insecure

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm better at Spanish. No, no, okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he is avoiding Spanish class altogether. It sounds like this

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<v Speaker 1>week as well, So that's not a bad theory. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be. I'm just I'm really anxious. All right, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'll call him right now. See if we get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone and get your answer. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello, Hello, puto a block

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<v Speaker 1>on Grady? Please? Hello? Oh hey, what's up Grady? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh sorry? I speaking Spanish again? Is this Gray? Okay? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is him? Who's Who's this? This is Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I

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<v Speaker 1>know there's a lot of things you don't understand right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Why this is really the radio station? Well, I'm a person,

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<v Speaker 1>not a station. But yeah, there's a show that airs

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<v Speaker 1>on radio stations. Yeah. Uh, why are you? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? Me for? Well, we do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with somebody and then

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<v Speaker 1>don't call them back after, they can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>give you a call and find out what happened. And

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<v Speaker 1>we got an email from Catherine. You spent an evening

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<v Speaker 1>with Catherine, getting Mexican food and walking around the mall.

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<v Speaker 1>You bought her a hat. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>remember that or not, but hold on, man. So Catherine

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<v Speaker 1>emailed you guys about a date that we went on. Yes, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>was it not a date? She wasn't actually sure on

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<v Speaker 1>that one, but she thought it was a date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>as far as I know, it was not a date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought that was clear. Oh well, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it was Claire with Catherine because well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't sure, but she was sure hoping it was

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Did you have fun with her at all? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a great time. I just honestly, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I met her at Spanish class and I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she looked pretty and she was nice, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe she could also help me find like

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<v Speaker 1>a little fashion on my own, because she seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>a little fashionable. So I thought it would be cool

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<v Speaker 1>if we like hung out and shopped a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. Wait, hold on, though, I don't get that,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're like, oh, she's pretty and I to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with her, So why wouldn't you consider it a

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<v Speaker 1>date even if it was for her to help you

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<v Speaker 1>go shopping? So this is kind of awkward. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I guess should explain this. Um, I am currently trying

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with the Spanish chick, so that's why

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<v Speaker 1>it took these Spanish classes. And oh yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't trying to go out with her because I was

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<v Speaker 1>already taking the class to try to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else. Okay, so you're basically using her as a

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<v Speaker 1>stylist for the evening. That wasn't my intent. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I needed I did need help finding some clothes for

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<v Speaker 1>my date. Uh yeah, this sounds bad now. Um yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you bought her a hat even as like a

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, Like we were shopping for me and I

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad that we weren't getting her any thanks. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, saw her eyeing this hat and I bought

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<v Speaker 1>it for all Right, sounds like a barre saying, but

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<v Speaker 1>that he has no style. You go out with him

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<v Speaker 1>to Yeah, it is embarrassing. You need to do a

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<v Speaker 1>better job of shopping for yourself. I agree that, but

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<v Speaker 1>also like the mixed communication there. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's your fault, and it's not her fault either,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'd be so embarrassed if I were her. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it really wasn't a date though, Like I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her or anything like that, and it was more

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<v Speaker 1>of a business transaction, you know. Okay, well maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can do more business together, because she's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Grady, what, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Catherine. Hey, this is awkward. Why are you? Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling a radio station or emailing them about

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<v Speaker 1>a date? I really didn't think we were on a

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<v Speaker 1>date at all. You took me to dinner after telling

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<v Speaker 1>me I was beautiful. Unless you mean to say something

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<v Speaker 1>else in your space, eish is just so bad that

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<v Speaker 1>you which is possible. Let's be real, But you said

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<v Speaker 1>I was beautiful, You took me on a date to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and drinks, and you bought me a hat and

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<v Speaker 1>O wait, you never I didn't take you on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't take you on a date. So did you

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<v Speaker 1>mean to say, oh, that Spanish girl in our Spanish

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<v Speaker 1>class is beautiful or something, and you said I was

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful or because it was? I mean, I gave you

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<v Speaker 1>a compliment. It was a compliment like you are beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you know I give you a compliment. I

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<v Speaker 1>get friends compliments all the time. It's misleading when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell me why we're hanging out, when you're using

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<v Speaker 1>me so that you can hang out with another girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, you know, Arnfury, Catherine, I phone be awkward

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<v Speaker 1>if I approached you. I was like, hey, need some

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<v Speaker 1>help finding some style. I barely knew you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>probably it's more awkward now i'mna think of it. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just phone. You don't have any other

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<v Speaker 1>friends that you know better that you could have asked

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<v Speaker 1>for help, Arnty, I do have friends, but knewbody. The

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<v Speaker 1>dress is as nice as you like every time I

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<v Speaker 1>of the Spanish class, you looked so amazing, So I thought, like,

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<v Speaker 1>who better to help me out than you? Trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out if I'd be offended if I were you, Catherine,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's really complimenting you a lot. But it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to go on a date with you. Though

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not offended if he thinks I have good style.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm offended by the fact that he was manipulative and

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<v Speaker 1>it is trying to add like he wasn't yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it sounds like to me too, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not owning up to its nice. But he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>being honest, and that's the key. And he was using

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<v Speaker 1>like she obviously liked him and he knew that, and

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<v Speaker 1>you were taking advantage of that. Well, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that she thought it was a date, So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel we were just hanging out like friends and

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<v Speaker 1>Spanish class having a good song. I disagree because we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't friends. It was our first time hanging out. He

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<v Speaker 1>paid for everything and it felt like a date. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you did pay for everything too. Yeah, I told you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it was to thank you for her helping me shop.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't like, like I said, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>kiss or anything. I didn't like seal the deal afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what do you guys want. There's plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of dates that don't end in a kiss. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think that you should say I'm sorry for not being

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<v Speaker 1>more forthright. Why would I apologize though you don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, people like everything on the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like, it's not like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go up to and be like, oh I

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<v Speaker 1>have that CDs from other relationships or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think anything open like that too, are on

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<v Speaker 1>the first date. Well that's where you're wrong, Grady. I

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<v Speaker 1>always disclose all my STDs before any date, always, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think more people should do that as well, and

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<v Speaker 1>you find better matches that way too. It's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you got one I don't have. Well, let's I got

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<v Speaker 1>one you don't have. It's like trading cards. But now

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<v Speaker 1>you're describing it as a date. So now I'm even

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<v Speaker 1>more confused. I don't see what you guys think that

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<v Speaker 1>there was a date, because it wasn't a date at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just two friends hanging out having a good time. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how about this, I think you guys should go out, Grady,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go on a second date with Catherine?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it d D Yeah, like an actual date.

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<v Speaker 1>Well this is uh more because that Spanish chick didn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually work out. It turns out you had a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would be okay with going on a date. Oh, Catherine,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think it went from not being on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and helping him shop for clothes and now

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<v Speaker 1>he's willing to date you? Are you interested? No? Thank you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just called the radio station to talk about our

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<v Speaker 1>first date. So why don't we actually make the first

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<v Speaker 1>date of thing and just go out and do? I agree?

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<v Speaker 1>I hold the whole time? Why weren't you more nice

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<v Speaker 1>and open to hearing what she had to say? I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want a date back then because I was interested

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<v Speaker 1>in somebody else, But since that somebody else just rejected me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested in Katherine. They're in a big pity date

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<v Speaker 1>for you if you want it, and he is a

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<v Speaker 1>romantic Catherine, I cannot believe this path. I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting asked out on a date right now. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe it is that's what she meant for you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>truly notice interested. Yeah. No, okay, at least you got

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<v Speaker 1>your answer there, Katherine and Grady, thank you for your time.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry the Spanish chick turned you down. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I will be seeing Katherine in Spanish class next week.

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<v Speaker 1>A text message in at seven eighty five to nine two, says,

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<v Speaker 1>Catherine sounds so sweet and loving and caring. That guy

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<v Speaker 1>was a told layhole. I'm glad you decided not to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again. She deserves so much better. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a very thorough text. I'm assuming it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be followed up with, By the way, can you give

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<v Speaker 1>him my number? Break and jewel in the morning, talking

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<v Speaker 1>about today's second date update if you missed it, Katherine

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a dude named Grady. They met in

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<v Speaker 1>a night Spanish class. Grady actually asked her out to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards they walked around shopping a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>he even bought her a hat that she liked. But

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<v Speaker 1>after that he didn't ask her on another date, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was wondering why, Like, who buys somebody a hat

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<v Speaker 1>and doesn't ask him? Well, I know, I'm still on

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<v Speaker 1>that so angry. I think it's just the hat. But okay, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>We called Grady and he revealed that the only reason

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<v Speaker 1>that he wanted to hang out with her was to

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<v Speaker 1>get some fashion advice on new clothes, because he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to impress a different girl. And he says Catherine had

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<v Speaker 1>great style, and he thought maybe she could help him,

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<v Speaker 1>but he never told her that, like the entire time

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<v Speaker 1>he paid for dinner. He bought her. The hat says

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<v Speaker 1>she was pretty. I mean, I get why she was

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<v Speaker 1>led astray. He basically pretended it was a date. And

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, if he would have just said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you dress really nicely, could you help me because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I would like to impress this girl, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she probably would have been like yeah, she'd be like

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<v Speaker 1>friend zoning. Yeah, yeah, totally. It's still a compliment, like

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<v Speaker 1>you have such nice style, I'd like you to help

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<v Speaker 1>me shop. In the end, it did get a little

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<v Speaker 1>weird because Grady told us that that different girl turned

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<v Speaker 1>him down, and then he was like, but I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you now, Catherine, Yeah, yeah, after all those things,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, no, remember, if you want a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>just email the show and we'll call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back.