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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we are here live backstage Wango Tango. Big thank

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<v Speaker 1>you to Sugar Bear Hair because without them this would

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<v Speaker 1>not be possible. They made it possible for us to

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<v Speaker 1>be recording our help. I suck a dating live from

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<v Speaker 1>this concert venue, which is pretty exciting. The Jonas Brothers

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<v Speaker 1>are performing, Taylor Swift is performing, Dean is performing. He

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<v Speaker 1>just doesn't know it yet he's gonna go up on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>More importantly than any of that, there's sugar Bear Hair

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<v Speaker 1>an arm's length away from us at all times, and

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<v Speaker 1>it is awesome. You guys know they've been growing my

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<v Speaker 1>hair out for a while. Actually, your hair is getting

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<v Speaker 1>pretty long. It's pretty long. I'm in the in between

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<v Speaker 1>awkward stage of where it's you want to know long

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<v Speaker 1>enough so I either get a haircut or I just

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<v Speaker 1>continue going. That's where I am. I feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>awkward stage last is from three months to fifteen months.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the it's the range is so long. But

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<v Speaker 1>thankfully Sugar Bear Hair allows us to grow some beautiful locks.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was gonna say earlier, I've been taking Sugar

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<v Speaker 1>Bear Hair for I've been growing my hair for at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, like eight or nine months. I'm still on

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<v Speaker 1>awkward stage, as you're saying, but I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>are well, I think the awkward stage is starting to

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<v Speaker 1>fade away. You were. I look back at pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>us from promoting the podcast, probably like two months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>you were in the awkward stage ten and I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know. You even made a comment the other day

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<v Speaker 1>you were like, you know, I don't think I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>you not wear a beanie for like seven or eight months,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, yeah, I'm still kind of in the

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<v Speaker 1>awkward stage, you know what I mean. Like it looks decent,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's flowing out the bottom looks like a mullet

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit right now, and what I kind of like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I dig it. I love flow. That's like my biggest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>When especially wearing a beanie with the hair flowing out

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<v Speaker 1>the back, you think like, well, Tom Brady two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>six or whatever, the heck, he doesn't tend get it right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>he was. I showed Actley a picture of Tom Brady

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<v Speaker 1>from two thousand ten earlier today actually because we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the awkward phase and hair, and I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what what he has the best Buddies thing that he

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<v Speaker 1>was at. We saw pictures at him, and she says, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he looks his best right now, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he does not. And I showed her a picture from

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<v Speaker 1>thousand and ten we had the hair flow, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, this was Tom Brady. Is I appreciate that

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<v Speaker 1>you enough with yourself to give a man credit for

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<v Speaker 1>his best looking phase of his life? Dean? How many

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<v Speaker 1>times is a day do I tell you how good

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<v Speaker 1>looking you are? I'm saying, I'm I appreciate that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not comfortable. I'm very comfortable. You're very comfortable as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that there's no toxic masculinity on this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh none at all. Honestly, Vanessa is probably the most

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<v Speaker 1>masculine out of all. And that's you know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>compliment to her. She could definitely, I think Vanessa could

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<v Speaker 1>easily beat us up. Probably at the same time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you she could squat more than me. She's

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<v Speaker 1>got some powerful thighs, legs. And again I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>respectfully too. Yes, I'm not compliment and she's strong down there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm single. Vaness has got some hot damn legs. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that right. Let's just hope her boyfriend doesn't listen.

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<v Speaker 1>To that or her or anyone listens. Very embarrassing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know, thinking about it because East and you're sitting

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<v Speaker 1>right nest to us as well. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>say you're not, you know, a masculine man, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're in the same group as us. We're we're

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<v Speaker 1>just self aware. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're delta hand

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<v Speaker 1>when you're born, and you've got to either play that

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<v Speaker 1>hand or pretend you have something else, and we're just

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<v Speaker 1>playing the handword playing the hand. We're doubt well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>very excited to be here at Wango Tago. Like we said,

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<v Speaker 1>Jonas Brothers, Taylor Swift is performing. We're also gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a guest, uh coming Jared. Before you talk about the guests, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I have something really important to do. Perfect it's not

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<v Speaker 1>good dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared and I heard

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<v Speaker 1>radio podcast. How could have we forgotten about our intro song?

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<v Speaker 1>We were flowing pretty well without an intro song. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty proud of us. Yeah, that was really good. So

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<v Speaker 1>tell us what we're gonna have on today. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have a guest that was formerly part on the Bachelor,

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<v Speaker 1>So a Bachelor alum. I won't say who it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a female. She will be on the podcast in

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<v Speaker 1>a little while. What was that sound, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>that was my phone? I'm sorry, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I was texting Vanessa about her legs. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a fair stating. So we're excited to have her

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<v Speaker 1>come here and talk to us about her dating life

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<v Speaker 1>and what she's up to. Now, let's before she gets here,

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<v Speaker 1>what should we ask her? What kind of questions do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to have for you spoiled it? Dean? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you spoiled last week? I spoiled this week? Now we're

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<v Speaker 1>even all right, that's fair. Well, we have karn Olympias

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast today, well, obviously talking about her dating life,

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<v Speaker 1>what she's up to. Now. I feel like it was

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<v Speaker 1>a genuine mistake. I didn't mean to spoil that. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if she's going back on paradise. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know who's going to be on paradise, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're here at Wango Tango. Who are you most

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<v Speaker 1>excited to see? I am excited. Well, I'm just happy

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<v Speaker 1>to be here, honestly with you. I'm always happy to

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<v Speaker 1>be with you. Um, I've heard there's new Kids on

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<v Speaker 1>the blocker Here God, here we go. Yeah, keep going

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<v Speaker 1>Backstreet Boys in Sync, in Sync is reunion? Yeah. Jonas

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<v Speaker 1>Brothers are here. Yes? Do you know a Jonas Brothers song?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you Jonas Brothers? Guy? I honestly couldn't name a

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<v Speaker 1>single one of their songs. Have you heard Sucker? That's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty popular one right now. Here's my thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>know all the names, I could recognize the names. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know any of the songs. I probably don't know

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<v Speaker 1>many lyrics. I'm not big into the Top forty um,

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<v Speaker 1>which I know I am. I allowed to say that

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast because I hearts like all Top forty.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Um, you're just a little different. There's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with that. I love like alternative folk music and

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<v Speaker 1>like that type of stuff. I don't know, No, I'm down.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that kind of stuff too. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>who Greg Laswell is? Now? But I should look him up?

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<v Speaker 1>Great artist. I love him a lot anyway. Um. So,

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley is obsessed with the Jonas Brothers to the point

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<v Speaker 1>where she bought her She brought her sister Lauren and

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<v Speaker 1>her friend Lizzie here as well, and here today, here today,

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<v Speaker 1>and they've been apparently Jonas Brothers fans for like ten

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<v Speaker 1>to twelve years. I have to constantly hear about these

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<v Speaker 1>three guys, to a point where they even said, I

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<v Speaker 1>heard this one time, that this is the first time

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<v Speaker 1>they're bringing a significant other to a Jonas Brothers concert

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<v Speaker 1>and they feel awkward about it because as if their

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<v Speaker 1>level of obsession is so high. Yes, because apparently Ashley's.

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley's told me this. She said that she always envisioned

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<v Speaker 1>that she was going to marry Joe Jonas and that

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<v Speaker 1>was just gonna happen for her one day as she's

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<v Speaker 1>aiming for shooting for the stars, literally I know, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she settled for me the poor would she would

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<v Speaker 1>you say that that's her hall pass? Is Joe Jonas?

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<v Speaker 1>She has no hall passes. I don't have a hall pass.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean tom Brady's your hall pass? I thought, no?

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<v Speaker 1>What about unless unless a hall past with Tom Brady

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<v Speaker 1>is like getting dinner and playing football. What about Giselle?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm not a big I mean she's beautiful. What

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<v Speaker 1>if just what if Tom Brady approaches you and says that, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>my marriage has been in a rout lately. I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're a big fan. My wife loves you and I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to, you know, take her out shore a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. And and what would you say, because he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>look at this will motivate me to win another super

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<v Speaker 1>Bowl for you and for Ashley? What do you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would talk to Ashley and have a

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<v Speaker 1>serious conversation and Shay, Babe, a seventh super Bowl is

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<v Speaker 1>on the line right now. I must do with Tom Brady.

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<v Speaker 1>Twist twist my arm, don't do it? I guess well.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be my celebrity cush. She used to crush,

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<v Speaker 1>used to be Rachel McAdams. She was definitely Notebook or

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<v Speaker 1>Wedding Crashers, which one. I love her both. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>why she's so beautiful. Because Wedding Crashers she's she's very

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<v Speaker 1>pale in that movie with dark hair and she's stunning.

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<v Speaker 1>And then in Wedding Crashers she's she yeah, she has

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<v Speaker 1>red hair there and she's beautiful. My favorite movie of

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<v Speaker 1>hers is Red Eye. That's where I think she looks badly.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that one Eastern perked up right there. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Killy and Murphy is the villain on that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's great. He's great movie. It's directed by r I

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<v Speaker 1>p um Um, director of Scream. Oh my God, What's

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<v Speaker 1>what's cravin? Yeah, Richard mcgam is also in DCTR Strange.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to point that out. Oh that she is

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<v Speaker 1>so Dean. You're not in a relationship, but who's who's

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<v Speaker 1>your celebrity crush? I feel like we talked about this

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<v Speaker 1>at least once a month, and I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I think, actually I maybe she was God, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. You know, Dean's just always making things awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a my celebrity crush? Like if I go

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<v Speaker 1>by who I follow on Instagram, it's Slowan from Entourage.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always followed her, always had a big crush on her.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually just went to Goal on Third, which

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<v Speaker 1>is owned by Kevin Kevin Conley. Uh, I saw him there.

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<v Speaker 1>We were just looking at his name up the Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like the last time we did the show. Realized, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's only because Kevin Connley is good friends with

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<v Speaker 1>like Wahlberg or something, but he's friends with DiCaprio and

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<v Speaker 1>he owns the bar. So it's called Goal on Third.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a sports bar. I went to go see the

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<v Speaker 1>Buruins and Watch the Burns. Was there? No, Kevin was there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about Kevin. I care about Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there. Unfortunately, that's my celebrity crush. I was. That

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<v Speaker 1>was a long explanation of who my celebrity crush would be. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what she looks like. But then also,

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<v Speaker 1>Galgada is really beautiful. Brenda's song Constance Woo, even though

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard she's not the nicest person in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you go to Paradise, you're going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>the producers when they ask, hey, who do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to see down here, You're gonna say, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see wonder Woman in a hypothetical world where I went

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<v Speaker 1>to Paradise. Hypothetic. This is all hypothetical. Yeah, yeah, it's help.

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<v Speaker 1>I second dating, Hypothetically, we suck at dating. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting engaged, you're getting married next month, a couple of months,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of months. But I mean, technically I could

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<v Speaker 1>still suck at dating. That's true. You just have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask Ashley whether I suck or not, and whether she's

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<v Speaker 1>making a sacrifice. We should actually have an episode of

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<v Speaker 1>actually on at some point. Yeah, I agree. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it would be interesting to hear her point of view

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<v Speaker 1>of what it's like dating man. But I want her.

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<v Speaker 1>I want me and her in a room, just us

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty minutes, and then she leaves. You come in

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes. I'm gonna ask you guys the same questions.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be like a love game. And then actually

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes of you and then twenty minutes all three

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<v Speaker 1>of us together. Well, we just got to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>our story straight before we do. Know we're gonna spring

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<v Speaker 1>it on your surprise. I'm gonna start formulating this Eastern

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be my accomplice, and we're gonna make this happen.

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<v Speaker 1>It would make for a very compelling podcast. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we're very open with you each other, and we talk

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, so I don't know if there wus be

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that we're on different wavelengths a

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<v Speaker 1>lot about because like anything that bothers her about me,

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<v Speaker 1>she lets me know immediately, and then things that bother

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<v Speaker 1>me about her I don't really talk about. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the things don't bother me. Oh, very nice,

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of things don't bother me. It's more so. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>because anything that bothers me, I try to rationalize in

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<v Speaker 1>my head, why is bothering me? Shouldn't be bothering me? Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I feel like it's more of a detrim it

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<v Speaker 1>on me than on her. Does that make sense. It's

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<v Speaker 1>more of a reflection on your inability to understand why

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<v Speaker 1>it's bothering you than her ability to change what she's doing. Exactly, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I agree. I've shared that sentiment in the past. Yeah. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her Instagram store the other day where she

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<v Speaker 1>was like coming home from the concert or something, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like creeping on you through the window, and

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, that was pretty funny. It was last night.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that was last night. Yeah, it was last night,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was doing the dishes by myself and over you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, look he's drying the plate. Now, he's

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<v Speaker 1>the cutest, most perfect man in the world. If that's

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<v Speaker 1>not a microcosm of like who I am deep down

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<v Speaker 1>to my soul just doing dishes by myself. It tend

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock on a Friday night. You know what, you did

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<v Speaker 1>it right because you were marrying a woman that can

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate the small things like you doing the dishes without

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<v Speaker 1>her being there. I think that's a big thing. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Ashley and I compliment each other very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys give good compliments for each other all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I love whenever you say Ashley and I

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley and I because it sounds like Ashley I, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's like, obviously Ashley and I. I really should be

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<v Speaker 1>the one changing my last name. JAREDI Conetti, Jaredikennetti. How

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<v Speaker 1>often do people ask every day? Is she gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley Age? Is that right? No, Well, she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley Han, which is really weird. The fact that she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a Haven. That's it, like the actually you know,

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<v Speaker 1>actually I actually So she's gonna keep now she's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonn hyphen it, She's but she's gonna say right now

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<v Speaker 1>Connetti on like her her brand is still gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>her braind is gonna be like Ashley I. But technically speaking,

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<v Speaker 1>her name will be Ashley Nicole Haven, which is weird

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<v Speaker 1>to think about. Yeah, because I feel bad because Ashley

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<v Speaker 1>and Lauren are the last two I Canetti's right, So

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<v Speaker 1>the poor I Canetti name. I'll marry Lauren and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>just take Lauren's last name. So no, no more on Glert,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done to get rid of Ungler. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a weird last name anyways, on Gla what is that Jerman? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but here's the thing with Ungler, I've never loved the

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<v Speaker 1>last name because it does sound like you're gagging every

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<v Speaker 1>time you say like Glert, you know, luten blurked. The

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<v Speaker 1>nice thing is it's very uncommon and so like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the only Dean Angler in the world if I remember correctly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's a pretty cool thing to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to say. If I were to become Dean I Connectie,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably would still be the only one, but yeah, probably.

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<v Speaker 1>But similar to how people know Ashley is actually I Conettie,

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<v Speaker 1>Dean Ungler is like, oh, you're the only Dean Ungler,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Yeah, but people only knew

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<v Speaker 1>he was Danny Babies. That's a good point. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>like you're the last name too, Babies. Yes, it's pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>It's explaining idea. Maybe that's why I suck at dating?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think you're second dating? What's the number

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<v Speaker 1>number one reason why do you think you suck a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I self brand myself as a baby. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's up there, I'll say that. And your license plate

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<v Speaker 1>is your license plate still Deanie Babies? Yes? It is?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? Really? Yeah? I've got Danny Baby license plate.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby Deanie Baby is my motorcycle license plate and Vanny

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<v Speaker 1>Baby is my van's license chairs Vanny Baby. How's the

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<v Speaker 1>van life coming? It's great. I'm a weekend the van life.

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<v Speaker 1>I have appointments to get my solar pane installed, my

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<v Speaker 1>roof recks getting instelled next week. Has anybody slept over

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<v Speaker 1>in the van yet? All right? Just asking just me,

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<v Speaker 1>have you invited anybody back to the van? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking I'm going out to the bars in the

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<v Speaker 1>just curious. I think that's what people are most interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean obviously your ex you know, your adventures in

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<v Speaker 1>a van, but also the idea of like, say you

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone and you're like, hey, if I don't, if

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<v Speaker 1>I live in the van for a year and I

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<v Speaker 1>bring zero people back to my van to sleep, to

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<v Speaker 1>stay the night with me, I will be perfectly happy

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<v Speaker 1>with that, as you will should because I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is more of a self discovery right part of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you say that that's not really self. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean surely everything I guess we can do is we

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<v Speaker 1>can say is self discovery. It's mostly just like uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>um yeah. I think I talked about this last week

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<v Speaker 1>like I have at the bar. Actually last week with

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<v Speaker 1>my friends, we went golfing and then we went to

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<v Speaker 1>the bars afterwards, and we were like they were like

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<v Speaker 1>dancing with girls, like talking to girls. When I was

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in the corner, I was like, I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be here. I have no interest in like

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<v Speaker 1>meeting girls and like hitting on girls or anything like that. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>why is that? I don't know, it's just like kids,

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<v Speaker 1>just I've lost all interest in it, you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think it's a your over it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>or is it more just where you are right now?

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<v Speaker 1>You just think part of it is the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>I know that it's so impermanent of me being in

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<v Speaker 1>this area. So it's like, oh, if I'm gone for

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<v Speaker 1>the next nine months recording my podcast obviously every week,

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously I guess we're not losing dean. Um, that's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the point. You know. I don't want to waste

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else's time. I definitely don't want to waste my

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<v Speaker 1>own time. Um so yeah, and so you just plan

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<v Speaker 1>on because I think that is an interesting part of

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<v Speaker 1>the van life is you you do have roots here

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<v Speaker 1>in Los Angeles with the podcasts and other avenues of work,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're also going to be traveling so much so

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<v Speaker 1>have you kind of started mapping out exactly where you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go and what you want to do with

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<v Speaker 1>your van? Uh? Yeah, I have where's your first stop? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to drive it up the Pacific Northwest? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>check out like Seattle up there all the way. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna go to Canada all the way all the

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<v Speaker 1>way to the tip of North America. I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>find some Polar Bears. Um yeah, I'm gonna go up there,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm gonna come down into like the Rockies

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<v Speaker 1>and explored Rock East for a little bit and then

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<v Speaker 1>go to Central America and South America. Depending on my

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<v Speaker 1>ability to record a podcast, I think it'll be easy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have to do is get a Mike Vanessa does

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<v Speaker 1>it from Montreal. Montreal and like the Rocky Mountains are

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<v Speaker 1>basically equal in terms of Wi Fi capability. Sure the

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<v Speaker 1>van has great sound quality. It does. I've sound proved.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally built a recording studio in my van for

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<v Speaker 1>the sole purpose of recording on podcast from It's quite impressive.

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<v Speaker 1>It supposed to be one big gas van. It's big.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just me Jared to me in the studio every

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<v Speaker 1>week and Mark and Marko and Mark and so being

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<v Speaker 1>Eastern Marco, the three of us. Yeah, it'd be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I think it's good times. This is really

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work. I'm pretty confident in our ability to make

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<v Speaker 1>this work. I agree. So when you're driving up the

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<v Speaker 1>Pacific coast, actually, sorry to interrupt you, Um, I might

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<v Speaker 1>drive it out to your wedding. I think did say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're driving across country, I mean that's do you

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<v Speaker 1>like being in a car, because for me, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I would be able to do this because I

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<v Speaker 1>hate being in a car and I get I get

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<v Speaker 1>car sick unless i'm driving. But I also don't like

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<v Speaker 1>driving from than probably four hours four hours. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I started getting a little anxious. Right, But so my

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<v Speaker 1>friend is moving to Boston and she's like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>moving back, Like, let's road trip across the US and

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<v Speaker 1>you can just bring me to Boston. And at first

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, now, that sounds lame, And then I

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<v Speaker 1>realized I was like, well, I mean I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>bought the van to see all of America anyway, so

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<v Speaker 1>you might as well drive at east and see all

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<v Speaker 1>those states over there. Um. But it's not like you're

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<v Speaker 1>in a car for thirty five hours because it's basically

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<v Speaker 1>your house, you know. So it's like, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to stop and play a video game for an hour,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do that. You want to look like watch Netflix,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do that in the comfort of your own

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<v Speaker 1>house essentially. You know. Did we ever ask where the

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<v Speaker 1>initial thought of you living in van came from? Like

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<v Speaker 1>what really sparked it? Maybe when I saw Free Solo

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<v Speaker 1>and alex Hoandold just really just crushed it. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I should probably do that. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>see a movie Into the Wild? I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that would inspire you too. I almost destroyed my driver's

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<v Speaker 1>license after that movie. Same. It's a story Chris McCandless

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<v Speaker 1>I think his name is It's It was a book,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I read the book in high school. I

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<v Speaker 1>read Quota school. What was those notes? What was that notes?

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<v Speaker 1>Spark notes? We're you just big spark note guy? I

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<v Speaker 1>was just a big like, hey, let me borrow your

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<v Speaker 1>paper and make my own out of it. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>cheat through high school? Oh yeah, big time for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>college too. We're you a good student? No, my My

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<v Speaker 1>high school gp A was maybe like a three point

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<v Speaker 1>to my college gp was like a two point five.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not terrible. It took me five years to graduate

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<v Speaker 1>three point two. That's not bad. I mean high school. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's whatever. I guess it's what was yours?

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a b uh, probably right around there. I

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<v Speaker 1>just was I was never that great of a student.

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<v Speaker 1>I never applied myself. I was like, I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to do homeworker study. I'll just take the test and

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<v Speaker 1>be okay, you know what I mean. Yeah, you seem

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<v Speaker 1>like the guy who's actually smart and could have been

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<v Speaker 1>a great student, but just never applied yourself. Application is

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<v Speaker 1>us be here, but we're just so isolated here, and

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<v Speaker 1>an email allows us to reach out and almost physically

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<v Speaker 1>touch the listeners and listen to their stories and then

0:19:56.960 --> 0:19:59.080
<v Speaker 1>respond to them and almost have a conversation with them.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I love emails so much, because it

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<v Speaker 1>just makes it so much more personal. It does make

0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:06.440
<v Speaker 1>it more personal, and my favorite emails come from one

0:20:06.520 --> 0:20:09.840
<v Speaker 1>person in their person. This person's name is anonymous because

0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like anonymous really opens up because they're

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<v Speaker 1>anonymous and nobody knows who they are now. This email

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<v Speaker 1>is titled no Closure. My girlfriend dumped me in January

0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:22.119
<v Speaker 1>randomly on the phone and we haven't spoken since giving

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<v Speaker 1>me no closure. Although I feel like a lot of

0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:27.480
<v Speaker 1>me has moved on, I still think about her quite

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<v Speaker 1>a bit and definitely miss her. Recently, my friends stubled

0:20:30.280 --> 0:20:33.239
<v Speaker 1>upon her on Bumble, which surprised me as she is

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<v Speaker 1>not into hookups at all. Lastly, I saw her edit

0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:39.000
<v Speaker 1>a picture of us on her v s c O,

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<v Speaker 1>changing the caption to miss you. This has just made

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of closure impossible and has me asking so

0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:48.800
<v Speaker 1>many more questions. Do I reach out at all or

0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:51.320
<v Speaker 1>do I just move on? It has been a while,

0:20:51.400 --> 0:20:53.720
<v Speaker 1>and also I feel like I was not very respected

0:20:53.760 --> 0:20:57.120
<v Speaker 1>in the relationship, but somehow I still miss her. Dean,

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<v Speaker 1>what are your thoughts on anonymous? I think that the

0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:02.520
<v Speaker 1>fact that he is checking her its VISCO, by the way,

0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:04.520
<v Speaker 1>not bs c O. I don't know what is that Visco?

0:21:04.680 --> 0:21:06.480
<v Speaker 1>What is that? I still don't really know exactly, but

0:21:06.520 --> 0:21:08.800
<v Speaker 1>it's it's like a It's like a photo sharing site

0:21:08.840 --> 0:21:13.359
<v Speaker 1>you can put fun filters kind of like has it

0:21:13.440 --> 0:21:16.680
<v Speaker 1>been around for a while? Yeah, okay. I think that

0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:18.920
<v Speaker 1>he obviously is still hung up on her. If he's

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<v Speaker 1>even just going back and checking her pictures for captions

0:21:21.600 --> 0:21:23.880
<v Speaker 1>and he noticed a change of in one of them

0:21:23.880 --> 0:21:26.560
<v Speaker 1>to miss you, I mean he's obviously still clinging onto

0:21:26.600 --> 0:21:30.840
<v Speaker 1>the past. I would just take the take, take take

0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:32.520
<v Speaker 1>the blow. You know, you haven't talked to her, and

0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:35.320
<v Speaker 1>it's what it's June. Now, that's four months, five months.

0:21:35.840 --> 0:21:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I think you just need to forget about it, allow

0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:41.280
<v Speaker 1>yourself to heal and move on, and allow her to

0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:43.920
<v Speaker 1>heal and move on. Stop trying to keep tabs on her.

0:21:44.080 --> 0:21:45.840
<v Speaker 1>I know it's challenging and it's easy to say but

0:21:45.880 --> 0:21:49.399
<v Speaker 1>harder to do. But I think that I especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't feel respected in the relationship, Like I couldn't

0:21:51.440 --> 0:21:53.600
<v Speaker 1>imagine going back to a relationship that I felt disrespected.

0:21:53.600 --> 0:21:56.920
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I guess I'm confused about he saw

0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:59.919
<v Speaker 1>her edit a picture of us and change the caption

0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:04.600
<v Speaker 1>to miss you. So on her this visco on her visco,

0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:06.880
<v Speaker 1>there's a picture of them, the two of them saying

0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:09.800
<v Speaker 1>miss you, but they haven't spoken since she broke up

0:22:09.800 --> 0:22:12.560
<v Speaker 1>with him, that's the confusing thing that's confusing. Or maybe

0:22:12.560 --> 0:22:16.280
<v Speaker 1>she's just doing that to make another boy jealous fue

0:22:18.440 --> 0:22:23.439
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if she is, then she's also also those

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<v Speaker 1>like passive aggressive. It's the wrong term, but it's got

0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:29.120
<v Speaker 1>the same meaning to it, where it's like, why are

0:22:29.160 --> 0:22:32.359
<v Speaker 1>you doing that to convey any Are you doing it

0:22:32.400 --> 0:22:33.960
<v Speaker 1>for self healing? Are you doing it to prove a

0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:35.760
<v Speaker 1>point to someone else? Are you doing it because you

0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:38.439
<v Speaker 1>hope that this guy notices? Like what is the purpose

0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:40.280
<v Speaker 1>of it? It's like subtweeting, you know, or it's like

0:22:40.520 --> 0:22:43.080
<v Speaker 1>posting moody captions and stuff like that. It's just like,

0:22:43.160 --> 0:22:45.720
<v Speaker 1>what's the point of it. It's it's attention seeky in

0:22:45.720 --> 0:22:50.240
<v Speaker 1>my opinion, and it's so vague and ambiguous it doesn't

0:22:50.320 --> 0:22:52.320
<v Speaker 1>get anywhere. All it leads to it was more confusion.

0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:55.199
<v Speaker 1>I personally don't think that he should be interested in

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<v Speaker 1>a girl that thinks those methods are appropriate to communicate.

0:22:59.760 --> 0:23:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm here's how old she is or how old? Yeah,

0:23:02.840 --> 0:23:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I definitely, because it sounds like something a nineteen year

0:23:04.840 --> 0:23:07.200
<v Speaker 1>old to do, like change the caption to a person

0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:09.520
<v Speaker 1>that they broke up with and saying miss you, because

0:23:09.520 --> 0:23:12.040
<v Speaker 1>it's it's kind of like fishing for compliments, you know,

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.359
<v Speaker 1>how you'll say something that you feel insecure about because

0:23:14.359 --> 0:23:16.720
<v Speaker 1>you're really just vocalizing it because you want somebody to say, no,

0:23:16.920 --> 0:23:19.760
<v Speaker 1>you look great, you're fine. It's similar to that where

0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:24.600
<v Speaker 1>she wants you. She what she wants anonymous is she

0:23:24.680 --> 0:23:26.800
<v Speaker 1>wants you to still be in love with her, but

0:23:26.840 --> 0:23:28.879
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't want to be with you. She just wants

0:23:28.960 --> 0:23:30.520
<v Speaker 1>the medal, but she's not even She said that she

0:23:30.560 --> 0:23:32.200
<v Speaker 1>doesn't talk to her. He said that she doesn't talked

0:23:32.200 --> 0:23:34.000
<v Speaker 1>to her since January. Yeah, but sometimes you put things

0:23:34.040 --> 0:23:38.120
<v Speaker 1>online to kind of suggest certain things, and it's obvious

0:23:38.160 --> 0:23:40.600
<v Speaker 1>that she knew that he was going to look on

0:23:40.640 --> 0:23:44.280
<v Speaker 1>her profile, see the picture of them, and see that

0:23:44.320 --> 0:23:47.000
<v Speaker 1>the caption had changed to miss you. I suppose I

0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:49.199
<v Speaker 1>just know that I've been nineteen and heartbroken and then

0:23:49.240 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>this exact same situation. And it's easy for someone to

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:53.560
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, yeah, move on, like I'm telling him

0:23:53.600 --> 0:23:54.960
<v Speaker 1>to do now, and I think you are as well,

0:23:55.200 --> 0:23:57.200
<v Speaker 1>But in reality it's a lot more challenging. All you

0:23:57.240 --> 0:24:00.040
<v Speaker 1>can really do is just kind of I would I

0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:03.280
<v Speaker 1>just stay busy by a van, Maybe distractating it. Just

0:24:03.400 --> 0:24:08.719
<v Speaker 1>take off college to college, go to school, just quick college,

0:24:08.720 --> 0:24:11.359
<v Speaker 1>and just live the vagabond life. No, I agree. I

0:24:11.400 --> 0:24:14.399
<v Speaker 1>feel like some people give advice saying that you should

0:24:14.440 --> 0:24:18.800
<v Speaker 1>face it head on, but I agree with you. I

0:24:18.800 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 1>think sometimes distraction is the best medicine because when I

0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:24.560
<v Speaker 1>get distracted, then I get busy, and then I start

0:24:24.640 --> 0:24:27.399
<v Speaker 1>thinking about other things. And then I do believe that

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:30.720
<v Speaker 1>time does heal all wounds. And so after a couple

0:24:30.720 --> 0:24:33.480
<v Speaker 1>of months of being distracted and so busy, I already

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:36.080
<v Speaker 1>feel better about the situation because I feel distant from it.

0:24:36.320 --> 0:24:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess that's not obviously that shouldn't

0:24:39.600 --> 0:24:42.840
<v Speaker 1>be advice for every situation, because some situations you do

0:24:42.960 --> 0:24:46.080
<v Speaker 1>need to handle straight on. But I think in this

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:49.159
<v Speaker 1>I agree with you. I think four months, just like

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:51.600
<v Speaker 1>distract yourself, try to get yourself away from the situation,

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:55.640
<v Speaker 1>get some beautiful long locks. Looking at someone and looking

0:24:55.680 --> 0:24:59.640
<v Speaker 1>at your ex girlfriend's profile online is like the digital

0:25:00.760 --> 0:25:03.919
<v Speaker 1>driving by their house, you know, how like you know

0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 1>you and like twenty years ago you wanted sometimes like

0:25:07.280 --> 0:25:09.360
<v Speaker 1>you drive by an excess house to see if their

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:11.440
<v Speaker 1>car was in the driveway, or just like see where

0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:12.960
<v Speaker 1>they used to live or where you guys used to

0:25:13.000 --> 0:25:15.359
<v Speaker 1>hang out years ago. I was eight years old, so

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:17.280
<v Speaker 1>I was not saying you, but you've heard stories and

0:25:17.359 --> 0:25:20.040
<v Speaker 1>watched movies where to drive by east and thank you

0:25:20.160 --> 0:25:21.680
<v Speaker 1>that I would check their my space and then I

0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:24.600
<v Speaker 1>get in my car and drive by their house. Well

0:25:24.640 --> 0:25:26.320
<v Speaker 1>that you met you you double dipped in that one.

0:25:26.400 --> 0:25:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Not only did you do the online drive by, but

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:30.919
<v Speaker 1>then you physically got in your car and drove by

0:25:30.960 --> 0:25:34.879
<v Speaker 1>their house and it's quite impressing interesting, And then just

0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:36.480
<v Speaker 1>saw their car there and was like, all right, cool,

0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I did that as well as well, yeah

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:41.919
<v Speaker 1>she's home, I don't know. And then like if she

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 1>wasn't home, what would you have done? I don't know,

0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:48.160
<v Speaker 1>probably that she was doing something, yeah, something horrible. Yeah,

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:50.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess I've been there before too. Yeah,

0:25:50.440 --> 0:25:52.240
<v Speaker 1>come on, we've all done that, all right, Dean, I

0:25:52.280 --> 0:25:53.640
<v Speaker 1>have a question for you. We have a question from

0:25:53.640 --> 0:25:55.320
<v Speaker 1>the Facebook group Help I Suck a Dating. If you

0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:57.840
<v Speaker 1>guys do not have not joined the Facebook group yet,

0:25:57.920 --> 0:26:00.840
<v Speaker 1>please join it. Help I Suck at Dating, face book group,

0:26:00.960 --> 0:26:03.560
<v Speaker 1>podcast group, whatever it's called, and then also follow us

0:26:03.560 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. Help I second dating. Dean runs that Instagram,

0:26:06.200 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 1>which is why he just posted a selfie of himself

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>the last last time. I know I need to actually

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.959
<v Speaker 1>do a better job of like managing that profile. Well yeah,

0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:15.680
<v Speaker 1>but that's okay. Um. So this comes from the Facebook group,

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:16.960
<v Speaker 1>and the reason I want to ask it is, Dean,

0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 1>you're single, you're out there. You know you're in the

0:26:19.680 --> 0:26:22.960
<v Speaker 1>dating world. I was in the dating world until about

0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:25.239
<v Speaker 1>a year and a half ago. So one of our

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:31.480
<v Speaker 1>Facebook members asked he needs help sliding into someone's d ms.

0:26:32.280 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 1>How do you even approach that? What's something you should

0:26:35.600 --> 0:26:38.040
<v Speaker 1>be saying? How do you slide into someone's d m

0:26:38.080 --> 0:26:41.159
<v Speaker 1>s without it coming off creepy? And to try to

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>provoke a response? You want to know who would love

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:46.160
<v Speaker 1>to answer this question? Eastern Nick File? How well? Nick

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:47.680
<v Speaker 1>would be all over it. And Nick knows what he's

0:26:47.680 --> 0:26:51.119
<v Speaker 1>doing unprovoked. He'll bring up all the time, his his

0:26:51.240 --> 0:26:55.680
<v Speaker 1>sliding game, his response rate. He uh, he, he has

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:57.360
<v Speaker 1>this great method, and I have to give some credit

0:26:57.400 --> 0:27:00.200
<v Speaker 1>for it because I'm sure it's effectively. What's his method? Says?

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:01.399
<v Speaker 1>You find the girl that you want a d M,

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you go back maybe a month or two. In pictures

0:27:04.400 --> 0:27:06.080
<v Speaker 1>find something like a picture of her with a dog,

0:27:06.160 --> 0:27:09.639
<v Speaker 1>and like DM heard the picture dog, Yeah, look for

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:13.280
<v Speaker 1>the dog and be like that's a cute dog. What's

0:27:13.280 --> 0:27:15.199
<v Speaker 1>its name? Or like something dumb like that, you know,

0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:18.640
<v Speaker 1>and that way, like uh, initiates a conversation instead of like, hey,

0:27:18.640 --> 0:27:21.280
<v Speaker 1>what's up? Why a month back? I'm just just just

0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:24.119
<v Speaker 1>it's a blanket term. I don't generally speaking, just go

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:27.320
<v Speaker 1>back into the pictures. Well. The only reason I'm asking

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:29.240
<v Speaker 1>why a month back? Because I wonder if it was

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:31.800
<v Speaker 1>intentional to look back on their profile so they know

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:34.120
<v Speaker 1>that you were looking through it. Yeah, I think that's

0:27:34.160 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that's the take on it. You go back

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:39.080
<v Speaker 1>to the very first picture they ever posted and just comment,

0:27:39.600 --> 0:27:41.840
<v Speaker 1>comment like it, then send it to him and say,

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:45.000
<v Speaker 1>what a great way to start. That's actually pretty funny.

0:27:45.520 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 1>I like it. Actually, that's yeah, that's really good. I'm

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:49.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna go back to both of you guys first Instagram

0:27:49.920 --> 0:27:52.760
<v Speaker 1>posts and see what we got here. It's terrible, probee

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:55.280
<v Speaker 1>how you started. I would go back to yours. But

0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 1>do you know how many pictures have you posted? I

0:27:57.040 --> 0:27:59.680
<v Speaker 1>posted a lot. Let's see. Let's look at Dinatal To

0:27:59.720 --> 0:28:02.119
<v Speaker 1>answer question, I actually do really like East and I

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:04.159
<v Speaker 1>actually think that's really funny. I don't know if it

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:07.399
<v Speaker 1>should be used. I don't think should do that, but

0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:10.880
<v Speaker 1>I like it. I think I like it too. Um

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:13.280
<v Speaker 1>do you think it comes off creepy? I mean, if

0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:15.000
<v Speaker 1>it does, she's not the right one for you, yeah,

0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I guess right. But but because we're using your method

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:21.600
<v Speaker 1>and then she's not the right one for you. But

0:28:21.760 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 1>it's me that's saying it. You know what I'm saying. Now,

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:26.280
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get in the weeds on this. I mean,

0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:28.680
<v Speaker 1>all right, Eastern, I'm gonna give you. I'm gonna ask

0:28:28.680 --> 0:28:33.000
<v Speaker 1>you a question right now. Who do you think has

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:36.120
<v Speaker 1>most has posted more pictures on Instagram of all time?

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Me or Dean Me? You said you majors right after

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 1>you went on the show. I did. I'm gonna say, Dean,

0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 1>you're According to the top of Instagram, Deanie Babies has

0:28:47.840 --> 0:28:53.120
<v Speaker 1>posted four hundred and thirteen posts. According to Instagram, Jared

0:28:53.200 --> 0:28:59.320
<v Speaker 1>Haven has five hundred posts. How how's that? How? How

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:02.520
<v Speaker 1>have you only posted fo times? Why did you create

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 1>your Instagram and like two dousand eleven? I'm assuming you

0:29:06.160 --> 0:29:08.960
<v Speaker 1>just never posted? Do you have a bunch of stuff? No?

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't, although I did recently going back in archive

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:14.960
<v Speaker 1>all my pictures with my exes. Was Archive been just

0:29:15.040 --> 0:29:16.920
<v Speaker 1>like you delete them, but you can always put them

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:21.000
<v Speaker 1>back if you want. So why didn't you completely the

0:29:21.560 --> 0:29:23.120
<v Speaker 1>pictures with your ax? You know what if we get

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>back together, all right, that's fair. I don't know, why

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 1>would I do it permanently? We Well, it's kind of

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:29.040
<v Speaker 1>like the Forgetting Sara Marshall moment right where he's like

0:29:29.040 --> 0:29:30.880
<v Speaker 1>going to delete all the pictures of Sarah Marshall and

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:32.760
<v Speaker 1>then he's and then Bill Hitters like, hey, you actually

0:29:32.800 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't delete them. He's like, well, just in case I

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:37.680
<v Speaker 1>want to save them, and then Hayter and the reason

0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>back to your original point, The reason that you have

0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:42.440
<v Speaker 1>so many more posts than me is because I think

0:29:42.720 --> 0:29:44.960
<v Speaker 1>ever since you and Ashley became a couple, you post

0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 1>a picture with each other every single day, every single

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:51.880
<v Speaker 1>day on that's such a blanket wrong state. Just let

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:54.600
<v Speaker 1>me look at this. I'm scrolling every three three out

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 1>of every four pictures as you and Ashley, which is great.

0:29:57.680 --> 0:29:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I agree, there's nothing wrong with that, But I'm just

0:29:59.120 --> 0:30:00.920
<v Speaker 1>saying I don't have that, So that's why you're posting

0:30:00.920 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 1>more than I Well. This is also like if I

0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:05.560
<v Speaker 1>post a picture of myself knows a lot. Wow, I'm

0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:09.000
<v Speaker 1>like fifty pictures back and I'm only in August of

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 1>last year. You know. I just I look at it

0:30:12.480 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>as as work sometimes, you know. But I think you gotta.

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:19.000
<v Speaker 1>And the reason I post with Ashley so much is

0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:21.920
<v Speaker 1>because I'll post a picture of myself and literally nobody

0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:24.800
<v Speaker 1>will care like I posted, I think cool pictures of

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:30.520
<v Speaker 1>myself interested in well, I'm trying to balance the two, right.

0:30:30.560 --> 0:30:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I want to post what I want to post, but

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I also want posts that do well that people who

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 1>follow me find interesting. I think you just gotta follow

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 1>your heart. I think my heart lies in the middle

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:46.000
<v Speaker 1>of both. Hi, Karin, Jared has prepared many, many questions

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 1>to ask. I have primared prepared none, but we're just

0:30:48.760 --> 0:30:51.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna go right into it. Karin Olympios, thank you so

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:53.479
<v Speaker 1>much for joining us on the podcast. Who really appreciate it.

0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>Did you just get to Wango Tango? Yeah? How's your

0:30:57.320 --> 0:31:00.520
<v Speaker 1>experience so far? Nothing has happened? Right? No, anoh has happened.

0:31:00.520 --> 0:31:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I had a really long, trafficky drive here. Always my driver,

0:31:04.160 --> 0:31:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Jimmy was the man. Did he talk a lot. He didn't.

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 1>That's a that's a good thing, I know. Isn't it

0:31:10.280 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 1>bad that it's always horrible when you're in an uber

0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 1>and they always want to talk to you. Yes, And

0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:17.240
<v Speaker 1>then sometimes when I feel like talking, like talk to me,

0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I never find myself I want to talk into an uber?

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Do you seem like an uber talker? Um, Like you'll

0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 1>ask the driver where they're from, how they're doing, all

0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:27.840
<v Speaker 1>that good stuff. It depends if if it's like tense

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>when I get in and I can feel attention, I

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>would like usually diffuse it with a couple of questions.

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 1>There's tension in an uber sometimes, I'm sure, Karin, you've

0:31:34.000 --> 0:31:35.479
<v Speaker 1>been there before, right, Like, you know, you get in

0:31:35.520 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 1>and since he's having a bad day, and you're like, okay,

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:40.400
<v Speaker 1>let's make this a little bit easier for him. Okay,

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:42.720
<v Speaker 1>let's make sure that he knows that I'm a trustworthy guy.

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna do anything sketchy back here, although I did. Okay,

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 1>So I got an uber like two weeks ago, and

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>we were on our way to like no Vacancy or something,

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:53.400
<v Speaker 1>and it was nighttime. Um, and this was before I

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.320
<v Speaker 1>did the not drinking thing. And I cracked a beer

0:31:56.320 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 1>in the back and the Uber driver goes, oh, I

0:31:57.920 --> 0:32:00.360
<v Speaker 1>hope you're not drinking a beer back there because it's

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:02.000
<v Speaker 1>against the rules or whatever, and I was like, I

0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:03.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, it's against the law and not just the

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 1>rules of the government, same thing. And I was like, crap,

0:32:07.440 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I just cracked this beer and I lied to it.

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh, it's just a soda ha ha.

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 1>And then I was getting out and I was like, hey, listen,

0:32:11.880 --> 0:32:13.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry I lied to you earlier. I actually

0:32:13.680 --> 0:32:15.720
<v Speaker 1>cracked a beer. I didn't drink any of it, but

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I just had to tell you the truth before I

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:18.680
<v Speaker 1>got out of here. That was one of the That

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 1>was like my sketchiest super interaction I've ever had in

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:23.640
<v Speaker 1>my life. You're a big rebel. Um. Well, Karin, thank

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you for joining us once again. So you're obviously on

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:30.760
<v Speaker 1>Nick File season of The Bachelor, one of our dear friends. Uh.

0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 1>And then you were on Bachelor in Paradise, so that's

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>where everybody knows you from. But where what are you

0:32:34.600 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 1>up to now? I am kind of all over the

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:43.760
<v Speaker 1>place right now. I'm developing some stuff with some studios

0:32:43.920 --> 0:32:46.800
<v Speaker 1>and my book. I'm still working on it and getting

0:32:46.800 --> 0:32:53.440
<v Speaker 1>into music soon and getting into music. So, Um, I

0:32:53.440 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 1>have a voice this time that I've hit in my

0:32:56.280 --> 0:32:58.280
<v Speaker 1>whole life. You want to give us a little sample

0:32:58.400 --> 0:33:01.280
<v Speaker 1>right now? That's one still working on. That's what I'm

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 1>still working on. You're going to be performing at Wingo,

0:33:05.080 --> 0:33:08.760
<v Speaker 1>you know what. That's going to be my my goal. Friend. Now,

0:33:08.920 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 1>have you always been a singer or is this a

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 1>new revelation over the past few years. Um, I've always

0:33:15.200 --> 0:33:18.680
<v Speaker 1>really loved singing, like a lot, like really good in

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:21.480
<v Speaker 1>the shower and like really good in my car. Who's

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:24.440
<v Speaker 1>your favorite artist to sing? Like, do you have a

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 1>song that you're like, Oh god, this is my go

0:33:26.400 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 1>to right here? I am so good at singing Justin Bieber,

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I like pitch match him. I don't know what the

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:35.120
<v Speaker 1>tone is, I mean the word is, but like I'm

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:37.240
<v Speaker 1>like really good at like matchic. You're like, you're like

0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Nick Cannon from Drumline. You can't read music, but you

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 1>can knock get out of the park if you hear

0:33:40.920 --> 0:33:45.080
<v Speaker 1>someone do it first, exactly exactly, That's exactly it. Oh,

0:33:45.080 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>that's very interesting. And you're writing a book as well.

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 1>What are you writing about your experience? On the show Yourself.

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 1>So for I changed it already three times because I

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:58.640
<v Speaker 1>just like like not exactly like happy with it yet,

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>and it's just been like so along. I'm kind of

0:34:00.680 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 1>just getting exhausted of it, and like I just needed

0:34:03.120 --> 0:34:04.600
<v Speaker 1>to take a break from it because I was like, no,

0:34:04.680 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 1>I can't be doing a project that I'm getting exhausted of,

0:34:07.760 --> 0:34:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Like that's terrible. So like put it to the side

0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>for a few Now I'm back writing it again with

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:18.839
<v Speaker 1>my ghostwriter, and it's coming along really great. It is

0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 1>going to be kind of like a self help slash

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>biography autobiography self help slash. That's three separate books. I

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:34.360
<v Speaker 1>sense a trilogy coming, perhaps the karn Olympios trilogy. It's coming, guys.

0:34:34.640 --> 0:34:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I really like that. So this is also a relationship podcast.

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:43.880
<v Speaker 1>It's called help I Suckit Dating. So the questions for you, Oh, man, well,

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:48.920
<v Speaker 1>I have a boyfriend. Yeah I knew that. Actually I've

0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 1>seen you see you posted about him, right, yeah, I

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:53.879
<v Speaker 1>always post about Yeah, that's true. So what's his name?

0:34:53.920 --> 0:34:56.560
<v Speaker 1>What's this social Security number? All that good stuff? His

0:34:56.680 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 1>name is John met So. Actually, I he lives in

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:03.080
<v Speaker 1>New York. I live in l A And I was

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:08.359
<v Speaker 1>home in Miami for like music week, and my friend

0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:11.840
<v Speaker 1>from high school. I was like, okay, you have to

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:13.840
<v Speaker 1>go out with my friends, Like they're going out tonight.

0:35:13.840 --> 0:35:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not, but like just like, here's this kid's number,

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 1>like just hit him up, he'll take you out, like whatever.

0:35:18.640 --> 0:35:22.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm like okay, And so I like face timed him

0:35:22.920 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was like Hi, Like I'm Currant, I'm coming

0:35:24.680 --> 0:35:27.479
<v Speaker 1>out tonight. He's like cool, like whatever, really cool guy,

0:35:27.880 --> 0:35:30.000
<v Speaker 1>like hung the phone and like me, I was with

0:35:30.040 --> 0:35:32.839
<v Speaker 1>my sister and me and my sister were like, you're

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:34.080
<v Speaker 1>going to date him? She was like, you're going to

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 1>date him. I was like, yeah, I'm going to date him.

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:38.400
<v Speaker 1>And so we just dated after that. And how long

0:35:38.400 --> 0:35:42.640
<v Speaker 1>has it been? I said that story really, I swear

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:45.680
<v Speaker 1>it actually wasn't that lame, but like it sounds pretty normal.

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:50.239
<v Speaker 1>It was cool. It sounds cool. It sounds like you

0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:51.880
<v Speaker 1>were excited to meet him, and you guys met and

0:35:51.920 --> 0:35:53.760
<v Speaker 1>you hit it off, and sure enough you're still together.

0:35:54.000 --> 0:35:55.919
<v Speaker 1>And then how long has it been? It's been over

0:35:55.960 --> 0:35:58.880
<v Speaker 1>a year already. Oh my god, So are we thinking

0:35:58.880 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 1>this could be? Uh? The one? I think? So wow,

0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 1>that's very exciting. A year is really when you have

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 1>a good I would imagine I've never hit a year,

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:10.919
<v Speaker 1>but I would imagine that would be the threshold of like, Okay,

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 1>I can actually see me spending the rest of my

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.359
<v Speaker 1>life with this person. Yeah, a year is a good

0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 1>gauge to know which way this relationship is going. Yes, yeah,

0:36:18.320 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 1>it was just it's just like I don't know, it's

0:36:20.200 --> 0:36:25.440
<v Speaker 1>like a little bit, um how do I phrase this?

0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 1>We haven't lived together yet, and that's a big did

0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:32.800
<v Speaker 1>you guys live together now? When we started living together

0:36:32.800 --> 0:36:34.640
<v Speaker 1>once we got engaged. So we've been living together for

0:36:34.680 --> 0:36:36.840
<v Speaker 1>about a year now, So you waited until you got engaged.

0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:38.919
<v Speaker 1>She John's like, I don't want to get engaged until

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:42.600
<v Speaker 1>like we lived together for like a little bit, Like

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 1>that's fair. The only reason live across the country. It's

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:46.680
<v Speaker 1>not like we live in the same city and we

0:36:46.680 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>don't live together. Like I live really far away. So

0:36:49.640 --> 0:36:51.480
<v Speaker 1>you guys been doing long distance for a year now. Yeah,

0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm like nuts. So like I went there

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:56.279
<v Speaker 1>every weekend for a while, and like my team was

0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:58.879
<v Speaker 1>kind of just like okay, like you can't do that.

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 1>Does he come here at all? No? He came here

0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:05.000
<v Speaker 1>like three times, but like he he works, like I don't.

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like a floater, you know, so he work. It's

0:37:07.680 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>just a different type before Yes, exactly, thank you, of course, No,

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 1>it's true. So do you guys do you try to

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:15.839
<v Speaker 1>see like each other once a month? Is that kind

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 1>of like I know, like three times a month? Oh,

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:21.319
<v Speaker 1>that's really good. A buddy of mine was doing long

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 1>distance for a whole year and it was every month

0:37:23.040 --> 0:37:24.879
<v Speaker 1>they would switch off. That's a good, that's a good

0:37:24.880 --> 0:37:26.719
<v Speaker 1>for the listeners. Cran Can you give advice to someone

0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:28.520
<v Speaker 1>that might be in a long distance relationship that you've

0:37:28.600 --> 0:37:30.960
<v Speaker 1>learned that you can help them with, that would be

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:33.120
<v Speaker 1>able to help them in their relationship? I guess honestly,

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:38.040
<v Speaker 1>being in a long distance relationship, like you have to

0:37:38.160 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 1>be on your communication like from the start, Like it

0:37:41.640 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 1>was almost weird, like I never had this kind of

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>communication with like anyone I've ever dated. Um he would

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:50.319
<v Speaker 1>answer every single phone call, and I was just like

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:52.759
<v Speaker 1>what a guy sounds exhausting? No, like literally, but I

0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't call him excessively. Just like any time I called,

0:37:55.200 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 1>he would answer, and it was just like like texting

0:37:59.040 --> 0:38:01.399
<v Speaker 1>like check in it, Like it was just nice. Yeah,

0:38:01.480 --> 0:38:04.239
<v Speaker 1>no game playing yet, Like why the game playing? Like

0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>never was into that, nobody is, but somehow it still happens.

0:38:08.080 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Almost like guys got to cut it out like that

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:14.440
<v Speaker 1>was so like, get over it? Is he older? No,

0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:17.360
<v Speaker 1>he's actually my age? It weird. I hate that. I

0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:19.200
<v Speaker 1>always said I would never date a guy that was

0:38:19.239 --> 0:38:22.839
<v Speaker 1>my age. Actually a secret. He's like a few months

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:26.719
<v Speaker 1>younger than and like, I just like I hate that.

0:38:26.880 --> 0:38:29.799
<v Speaker 1>Actually who cares? I don't know. I just like I

0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:32.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like I need like like a protector, like a man.

0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm younger than Ashley, are you? Yeah, by a few months. Yes,

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:39.040
<v Speaker 1>she's March. I'm November. Were the same age, but she's

0:38:40.239 --> 0:38:48.160
<v Speaker 1>born about six seven months before me. Yeah, he's up. Yeah,

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:53.240
<v Speaker 1>and I'm turning. What's your birthday? You getting calling it now? Eleven? Okay,

0:38:53.239 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm eleven fifteen. Are you a scorpion? Yes? I am

0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:59.400
<v Speaker 1>obviously the best. Um so we're obviously at Wango Tango.

0:38:59.520 --> 0:39:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Thank you you sugar Bear hair for putting this on

0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 1>for us. But who are you excited to see tonight?

0:39:03.600 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 1>We've got Jonas brothers, we have Taylor Swift, all the people,

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:11.840
<v Speaker 1>all the peeps. Are you are you a Joe Jonas

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:18.839
<v Speaker 1>Brothers super fan, So that's your favorite Ashley's is Joe? Really? Yeah?

0:39:18.880 --> 0:39:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Which one? Uh? Nick is Nick's Bianca? No Joe is

0:39:25.080 --> 0:39:28.239
<v Speaker 1>so Sophie Turner right, I don't know, yeah, yeah, see

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Easton knows what's up? And then Kevin, I think, what

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 1>do you think of that couple Sophie and Joe. I

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:35.680
<v Speaker 1>don't know much about it. That is, so I think

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:39.320
<v Speaker 1>she could be dating something like honestly like Jonas Brothers,

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:42.680
<v Speaker 1>you guys are geez, but she could be dating. So

0:39:42.719 --> 0:39:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that's a great conversation for you to have

0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:47.680
<v Speaker 1>with Ashley because Karn will also be on the almost

0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:51.319
<v Speaker 1>famous I Heart Radio podcast, which is also recording live

0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:53.520
<v Speaker 1>from Wango Tango. And I think that's a great conversation

0:39:53.560 --> 0:39:56.440
<v Speaker 1>you should have with Ashley because I guarantee you my

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:59.680
<v Speaker 1>fiance will have many thoughts on this. Isn't Jonas like

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:01.839
<v Speaker 1>the pin cool of stardom in today's world or now?

0:40:02.440 --> 0:40:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't think so, I think the pinnacle of stardom

0:40:04.840 --> 0:40:08.200
<v Speaker 1>in today's world. That's actually a great question. Besides the

0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:10.000
<v Speaker 1>help I suck a dating co host, I would say

0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 1>right now, Bradley Cooper or Kiana reeves, that's wrong. You're

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:16.239
<v Speaker 1>just you. Just on that note, we gotta wrap up

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:19.160
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0:40:23.320 --> 0:40:25.920
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0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.399
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0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:37.640
<v Speaker 1>l P. Big thank you to Karin. Of course we're

0:40:37.640 --> 0:40:41.480
<v Speaker 1>stopping by and saying hi, Um and Jared and Easton.

0:40:41.520 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Of course we're being here on a Saturday. Thank you, Dean,

0:40:45.160 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I was waiting for that. You're so welcome. You guys

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:50.000
<v Speaker 1>are so welcome. Um, thank you, Twango Tango. We're excited

0:40:50.040 --> 0:40:52.279
<v Speaker 1>to go catch some shows and then one last time,

0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:54.200
<v Speaker 1>big thank you to sugar Bear Hair. Be sure tune

0:40:54.200 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 1>in a couple of days. We're still gonna have a

0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:58.759
<v Speaker 1>Tuesday episode this week, so we'll we'll we'll talk to

0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:00.840
<v Speaker 1>you that. Yeah, it's Saturday, so hopefully on Monday we

0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:04.160
<v Speaker 1>all suck a little less. Follow help by suck at

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<v Speaker 1>Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared on the Heart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>or wherever in the podcast he