Speaker 1: Hey, we are here live backstage Wango Tango. Big thank
Speaker 1: you to Sugar Bear Hair because without them this would
Speaker 1: not be possible. They made it possible for us to
Speaker 1: be recording our help. I suck a dating live from
Speaker 1: this concert venue, which is pretty exciting. The Jonas Brothers
Speaker 1: are performing, Taylor Swift is performing, Dean is performing. He
Speaker 1: just doesn't know it yet he's gonna go up on stage.
Speaker 1: More importantly than any of that, there's sugar Bear Hair
Speaker 1: an arm's length away from us at all times, and
Speaker 1: it is awesome. You guys know they've been growing my
Speaker 1: hair out for a while. Actually, your hair is getting
Speaker 1: pretty long. It's pretty long. I'm in the in between
Speaker 1: awkward stage of where it's you want to know long
Speaker 1: enough so I either get a haircut or I just
Speaker 1: continue going. That's where I am. I feel like the
Speaker 1: awkward stage last is from three months to fifteen months.
Speaker 1: It's like the it's the range is so long. But
Speaker 1: thankfully Sugar Bear Hair allows us to grow some beautiful locks.
Speaker 1: And I was gonna say earlier, I've been taking Sugar
Speaker 1: Bear Hair for I've been growing my hair for at
Speaker 1: this point, like eight or nine months. I'm still on
Speaker 1: awkward stage, as you're saying, but I don't think you
Speaker 1: are well, I think the awkward stage is starting to
Speaker 1: fade away. You were. I look back at pictures of
Speaker 1: us from promoting the podcast, probably like two months ago,
Speaker 1: you were in the awkward stage ten and I just
Speaker 1: didn't know. You even made a comment the other day
Speaker 1: you were like, you know, I don't think I've seen
Speaker 1: you not wear a beanie for like seven or eight months,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, I'm still kind of in the
Speaker 1: awkward stage, you know what I mean. Like it looks decent,
Speaker 1: and it's flowing out the bottom looks like a mullet
Speaker 1: a little bit right now, and what I kind of like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I dig it. I love flow. That's like my biggest thing.
Speaker 1: When especially wearing a beanie with the hair flowing out
Speaker 1: the back, you think like, well, Tom Brady two thousand
Speaker 1: six or whatever, the heck, he doesn't tend get it right, man,
Speaker 1: he was. I showed Actley a picture of Tom Brady
Speaker 1: from two thousand ten earlier today actually because we're talking
Speaker 1: about the awkward phase and hair, and I said, oh,
Speaker 1: what what he has the best Buddies thing that he
Speaker 1: was at. We saw pictures at him, and she says, oh,
Speaker 1: he looks his best right now, and I was like,
Speaker 1: he does not. And I showed her a picture from
Speaker 1: thousand and ten we had the hair flow, and I
Speaker 1: was like, this was Tom Brady. Is I appreciate that
Speaker 1: you enough with yourself to give a man credit for
Speaker 1: his best looking phase of his life? Dean? How many
Speaker 1: times is a day do I tell you how good
Speaker 1: looking you are? I'm saying, I'm I appreciate that you're
Speaker 1: not comfortable. I'm very comfortable. You're very comfortable as well.
Speaker 1: I like that there's no toxic masculinity on this podcast,
Speaker 1: Oh none at all. Honestly, Vanessa is probably the most
Speaker 1: masculine out of all. And that's you know, it's a
Speaker 1: compliment to her. She could definitely, I think Vanessa could
Speaker 1: easily beat us up. Probably at the same time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I bet you she could squat more than me. She's
Speaker 1: got some powerful thighs, legs. And again I mean that
Speaker 1: respectfully too. Yes, I'm not compliment and she's strong down there.
Speaker 1: I'm single. Vaness has got some hot damn legs. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you that right. Let's just hope her boyfriend doesn't listen.
Speaker 1: To that or her or anyone listens. Very embarrassing. And
Speaker 1: I know, thinking about it because East and you're sitting
Speaker 1: right nest to us as well. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: say you're not, you know, a masculine man, but I
Speaker 1: think you're in the same group as us. We're we're
Speaker 1: just self aware. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're delta hand
Speaker 1: when you're born, and you've got to either play that
Speaker 1: hand or pretend you have something else, and we're just
Speaker 1: playing the handword playing the hand. We're doubt well, we're
Speaker 1: very excited to be here at Wango Tago. Like we said,
Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers, Taylor Swift is performing. We're also gonna have
Speaker 1: a guest, uh coming Jared. Before you talk about the guests, though,
Speaker 1: I have something really important to do. Perfect it's not
Speaker 1: good dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared and I heard
Speaker 1: radio podcast. How could have we forgotten about our intro song?
Speaker 1: We were flowing pretty well without an intro song. I'm
Speaker 1: pretty proud of us. Yeah, that was really good. So
Speaker 1: tell us what we're gonna have on today. So we're
Speaker 1: gonna have a guest that was formerly part on the Bachelor,
Speaker 1: So a Bachelor alum. I won't say who it is.
Speaker 1: It's a female. She will be on the podcast in
Speaker 1: a little while. What was that sound, by the way,
Speaker 1: that was my phone? I'm sorry, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: I was texting Vanessa about her legs. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: that's a fair stating. So we're excited to have her
Speaker 1: come here and talk to us about her dating life
Speaker 1: and what she's up to. Now, let's before she gets here,
Speaker 1: what should we ask her? What kind of questions do
Speaker 1: you want to have for you spoiled it? Dean? Are
Speaker 1: you spoiled last week? I spoiled this week? Now we're
Speaker 1: even all right, that's fair. Well, we have karn Olympias
Speaker 1: on the podcast today, well, obviously talking about her dating life,
Speaker 1: what she's up to. Now. I feel like it was
Speaker 1: a genuine mistake. I didn't mean to spoil that. I know.
Speaker 1: I wonder if she's going back on paradise. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: never know who's going to be on paradise, you know.
Speaker 1: So we're here at Wango Tango. Who are you most
Speaker 1: excited to see? I am excited. Well, I'm just happy
Speaker 1: to be here, honestly with you. I'm always happy to
Speaker 1: be with you. Um, I've heard there's new Kids on
Speaker 1: the blocker Here God, here we go. Yeah, keep going
Speaker 1: Backstreet Boys in Sync, in Sync is reunion? Yeah. Jonas
Speaker 1: Brothers are here. Yes? Do you know a Jonas Brothers song?
Speaker 1: Are you Jonas Brothers? Guy? I honestly couldn't name a
Speaker 1: single one of their songs. Have you heard Sucker? That's
Speaker 1: a pretty popular one right now. Here's my thing. I
Speaker 1: know all the names, I could recognize the names. I
Speaker 1: don't know any of the songs. I probably don't know
Speaker 1: many lyrics. I'm not big into the Top forty um,
Speaker 1: which I know I am. I allowed to say that
Speaker 1: on the podcast because I hearts like all Top forty.
Speaker 1: You know, Um, you're just a little different. There's nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with that. I love like alternative folk music and
Speaker 1: like that type of stuff. I don't know, No, I'm down.
Speaker 1: I like that kind of stuff too. Do you know
Speaker 1: who Greg Laswell is? Now? But I should look him up?
Speaker 1: Great artist. I love him a lot anyway. Um. So,
Speaker 1: Ashley is obsessed with the Jonas Brothers to the point
Speaker 1: where she bought her She brought her sister Lauren and
Speaker 1: her friend Lizzie here as well, and here today, here today,
Speaker 1: and they've been apparently Jonas Brothers fans for like ten
Speaker 1: to twelve years. I have to constantly hear about these
Speaker 1: three guys, to a point where they even said, I
Speaker 1: heard this one time, that this is the first time
Speaker 1: they're bringing a significant other to a Jonas Brothers concert
Speaker 1: and they feel awkward about it because as if their
Speaker 1: level of obsession is so high. Yes, because apparently Ashley's.
Speaker 1: Ashley's told me this. She said that she always envisioned
Speaker 1: that she was going to marry Joe Jonas and that
Speaker 1: was just gonna happen for her one day as she's
Speaker 1: aiming for shooting for the stars, literally I know, and
Speaker 1: then she settled for me the poor would she would
Speaker 1: you say that that's her hall pass? Is Joe Jonas?
Speaker 1: She has no hall passes. I don't have a hall pass.
Speaker 1: What do you mean tom Brady's your hall pass? I thought, no?
Speaker 1: What about unless unless a hall past with Tom Brady
Speaker 1: is like getting dinner and playing football. What about Giselle?
Speaker 1: Now I'm not a big I mean she's beautiful. What
Speaker 1: if just what if Tom Brady approaches you and says that, Jared,
Speaker 1: my marriage has been in a rout lately. I know
Speaker 1: you're a big fan. My wife loves you and I
Speaker 1: need you to, you know, take her out shore a
Speaker 1: good time. And and what would you say, because he's like,
Speaker 1: look at this will motivate me to win another super
Speaker 1: Bowl for you and for Ashley? What do you say?
Speaker 1: I mean, I would talk to Ashley and have a
Speaker 1: serious conversation and Shay, Babe, a seventh super Bowl is
Speaker 1: on the line right now. I must do with Tom Brady.
Speaker 1: Twist twist my arm, don't do it? I guess well.
Speaker 1: I used to be my celebrity cush. She used to crush,
Speaker 1: used to be Rachel McAdams. She was definitely Notebook or
Speaker 1: Wedding Crashers, which one. I love her both. But that's
Speaker 1: why she's so beautiful. Because Wedding Crashers she's she's very
Speaker 1: pale in that movie with dark hair and she's stunning.
Speaker 1: And then in Wedding Crashers she's she yeah, she has
Speaker 1: red hair there and she's beautiful. My favorite movie of
Speaker 1: hers is Red Eye. That's where I think she looks badly.
Speaker 1: I've seen that one Eastern perked up right there. I
Speaker 1: think Killy and Murphy is the villain on that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he's great. He's great movie. It's directed by r I
Speaker 1: p um Um, director of Scream. Oh my God, What's
Speaker 1: what's cravin? Yeah, Richard mcgam is also in DCTR Strange.
Speaker 1: I'd like to point that out. Oh that she is
Speaker 1: so Dean. You're not in a relationship, but who's who's
Speaker 1: your celebrity crush? I feel like we talked about this
Speaker 1: at least once a month, and I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think I think, actually I maybe she was God, here
Speaker 1: we go. You know, Dean's just always making things awkward?
Speaker 1: Is it a my celebrity crush? Like if I go
Speaker 1: by who I follow on Instagram, it's Slowan from Entourage.
Speaker 1: I've always followed her, always had a big crush on her.
Speaker 1: So I actually just went to Goal on Third, which
Speaker 1: is owned by Kevin Kevin Conley. Uh, I saw him there.
Speaker 1: We were just looking at his name up the Yeah,
Speaker 1: like the last time we did the show. Realized, yeah,
Speaker 1: if it's only because Kevin Connley is good friends with
Speaker 1: like Wahlberg or something, but he's friends with DiCaprio and
Speaker 1: he owns the bar. So it's called Goal on Third.
Speaker 1: It's a sports bar. I went to go see the
Speaker 1: Buruins and Watch the Burns. Was there? No, Kevin was there.
Speaker 1: I don't care about Kevin. I care about Well, she
Speaker 1: wasn't there. Unfortunately, that's my celebrity crush. I was. That
Speaker 1: was a long explanation of who my celebrity crush would be. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know what she looks like. But then also,
Speaker 1: Galgada is really beautiful. Brenda's song Constance Woo, even though
Speaker 1: I've heard she's not the nicest person in the world.
Speaker 1: So if you go to Paradise, you're going to tell
Speaker 1: the producers when they ask, hey, who do you want
Speaker 1: to see down here, You're gonna say, I want to
Speaker 1: see wonder Woman in a hypothetical world where I went
Speaker 1: to Paradise. Hypothetic. This is all hypothetical. Yeah, yeah, it's help.
Speaker 1: I second dating, Hypothetically, we suck at dating. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: getting engaged, you're getting married next month, a couple of months,
Speaker 1: a couple of months. But I mean, technically I could
Speaker 1: still suck at dating. That's true. You just have to
Speaker 1: ask Ashley whether I suck or not, and whether she's
Speaker 1: making a sacrifice. We should actually have an episode of
Speaker 1: actually on at some point. Yeah, I agree. I think
Speaker 1: it would be interesting to hear her point of view
Speaker 1: of what it's like dating man. But I want her.
Speaker 1: I want me and her in a room, just us
Speaker 1: to twenty minutes, and then she leaves. You come in
Speaker 1: twenty minutes. I'm gonna ask you guys the same questions.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be like a love game. And then actually
Speaker 1: twenty minutes of you and then twenty minutes all three
Speaker 1: of us together. Well, we just got to make sure
Speaker 1: our story straight before we do. Know we're gonna spring
Speaker 1: it on your surprise. I'm gonna start formulating this Eastern
Speaker 1: You're gonna be my accomplice, and we're gonna make this happen.
Speaker 1: It would make for a very compelling podcast. I think
Speaker 1: we're very open with you each other, and we talk
Speaker 1: a lot, so I don't know if there wus be
Speaker 1: a lot of things that we're on different wavelengths a
Speaker 1: lot about because like anything that bothers her about me,
Speaker 1: she lets me know immediately, and then things that bother
Speaker 1: me about her I don't really talk about. But honestly,
Speaker 1: a lot of the things don't bother me. Oh, very nice,
Speaker 1: A lot of things don't bother me. It's more so. Um,
Speaker 1: because anything that bothers me, I try to rationalize in
Speaker 1: my head, why is bothering me? Shouldn't be bothering me? Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: It's I feel like it's more of a detrim it
Speaker 1: on me than on her. Does that make sense. It's
Speaker 1: more of a reflection on your inability to understand why
Speaker 1: it's bothering you than her ability to change what she's doing. Exactly, Yes,
Speaker 1: and I agree. I've shared that sentiment in the past. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: I saw her Instagram store the other day where she
Speaker 1: was like coming home from the concert or something, and
Speaker 1: she was like creeping on you through the window, and
Speaker 1: You're like, that was pretty funny. It was last night.
Speaker 1: Oh that was last night. Yeah, it was last night,
Speaker 1: and I was doing the dishes by myself and over you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, look he's drying the plate. Now, he's
Speaker 1: the cutest, most perfect man in the world. If that's
Speaker 1: not a microcosm of like who I am deep down
Speaker 1: to my soul just doing dishes by myself. It tend
Speaker 1: o'clock on a Friday night. You know what, you did
Speaker 1: it right because you were marrying a woman that can
Speaker 1: appreciate the small things like you doing the dishes without
Speaker 1: her being there. I think that's a big thing. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I think Ashley and I compliment each other very well.
Speaker 1: Do you guys give good compliments for each other all
Speaker 1: the time. I love whenever you say Ashley and I
Speaker 1: Ashley and I because it sounds like Ashley I, and
Speaker 1: that's like, obviously Ashley and I. I really should be
Speaker 1: the one changing my last name. JAREDI Conetti, Jaredikennetti. How
Speaker 1: often do people ask every day? Is she gonna be
Speaker 1: Ashley Age? Is that right? No, Well, she's gonna be
Speaker 1: Ashley Han, which is really weird. The fact that she's
Speaker 1: gonna be a Haven. That's it, like the actually you know,
Speaker 1: actually I actually So she's gonna keep now she's not
Speaker 1: gonn hyphen it, She's but she's gonna say right now
Speaker 1: Connetti on like her her brand is still gonna say
Speaker 1: her braind is gonna be like Ashley I. But technically speaking,
Speaker 1: her name will be Ashley Nicole Haven, which is weird
Speaker 1: to think about. Yeah, because I feel bad because Ashley
Speaker 1: and Lauren are the last two I Canetti's right, So
Speaker 1: the poor I Canetti name. I'll marry Lauren and we'll
Speaker 1: just take Lauren's last name. So no, no more on Glert,
Speaker 1: I'm done to get rid of Ungler. It sounds like
Speaker 1: a weird last name anyways, on Gla what is that Jerman? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but here's the thing with Ungler, I've never loved the
Speaker 1: last name because it does sound like you're gagging every
Speaker 1: time you say like Glert, you know, luten blurked. The
Speaker 1: nice thing is it's very uncommon and so like I'm
Speaker 1: the only Dean Angler in the world if I remember correctly.
Speaker 1: You know, that's a pretty cool thing to be able
Speaker 1: to say. If I were to become Dean I Connectie,
Speaker 1: I probably would still be the only one, but yeah, probably.
Speaker 1: But similar to how people know Ashley is actually I Conettie,
Speaker 1: Dean Ungler is like, oh, you're the only Dean Ungler,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, but people only knew
Speaker 1: he was Danny Babies. That's a good point. So that's
Speaker 1: like you're the last name too, Babies. Yes, it's pretty much.
Speaker 1: It's explaining idea. Maybe that's why I suck at dating?
Speaker 1: Why do you think you're second dating? What's the number
Speaker 1: number one reason why do you think you suck a date?
Speaker 1: Because I self brand myself as a baby. I mean
Speaker 1: that's up there, I'll say that. And your license plate
Speaker 1: is your license plate still Deanie Babies? Yes? It is?
Speaker 1: Is it? Really? Yeah? I've got Danny Baby license plate.
Speaker 1: Baby Deanie Baby is my motorcycle license plate and Vanny
Speaker 1: Baby is my van's license chairs Vanny Baby. How's the
Speaker 1: van life coming? It's great. I'm a weekend the van life.
Speaker 1: I have appointments to get my solar pane installed, my
Speaker 1: roof recks getting instelled next week. Has anybody slept over
Speaker 1: in the van yet? All right? Just asking just me,
Speaker 1: have you invited anybody back to the van? No? I
Speaker 1: just thinking I'm going out to the bars in the
Speaker 1: just curious. I think that's what people are most interested in.
Speaker 1: I mean obviously your ex you know, your adventures in
Speaker 1: a van, but also the idea of like, say you
Speaker 1: meet someone and you're like, hey, if I don't, if
Speaker 1: I live in the van for a year and I
Speaker 1: bring zero people back to my van to sleep, to
Speaker 1: stay the night with me, I will be perfectly happy
Speaker 1: with that, as you will should because I think this
Speaker 1: is more of a self discovery right part of your life.
Speaker 1: Would you say that that's not really self. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean surely everything I guess we can do is we
Speaker 1: can say is self discovery. It's mostly just like uh yeah,
Speaker 1: um yeah. I think I talked about this last week
Speaker 1: like I have at the bar. Actually last week with
Speaker 1: my friends, we went golfing and then we went to
Speaker 1: the bars afterwards, and we were like they were like
Speaker 1: dancing with girls, like talking to girls. When I was
Speaker 1: sitting in the corner, I was like, I really don't
Speaker 1: want to be here. I have no interest in like
Speaker 1: meeting girls and like hitting on girls or anything like that. Um,
Speaker 1: why is that? I don't know, it's just like kids,
Speaker 1: just I've lost all interest in it, you know. I
Speaker 1: mean I think it's a your over it kind of
Speaker 1: or is it more just where you are right now?
Speaker 1: You just think part of it is the fact that
Speaker 1: I know that it's so impermanent of me being in
Speaker 1: this area. So it's like, oh, if I'm gone for
Speaker 1: the next nine months recording my podcast obviously every week,
Speaker 1: and obviously I guess we're not losing dean. Um, that's like,
Speaker 1: what's the point. You know. I don't want to waste
Speaker 1: anyone else's time. I definitely don't want to waste my
Speaker 1: own time. Um so yeah, and so you just plan
Speaker 1: on because I think that is an interesting part of
Speaker 1: the van life is you you do have roots here
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles with the podcasts and other avenues of work,
Speaker 1: but you're also going to be traveling so much so
Speaker 1: have you kind of started mapping out exactly where you
Speaker 1: want to go and what you want to do with
Speaker 1: your van? Uh? Yeah, I have where's your first stop? Um,
Speaker 1: I'm going to drive it up the Pacific Northwest? Okay,
Speaker 1: check out like Seattle up there all the way. Are
Speaker 1: you gonna go to Canada all the way all the
Speaker 1: way to the tip of North America. I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: find some Polar Bears. Um yeah, I'm gonna go up there,
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna come down into like the Rockies
Speaker 1: and explored Rock East for a little bit and then
Speaker 1: go to Central America and South America. Depending on my
Speaker 1: ability to record a podcast, I think it'll be easy.
Speaker 1: I'll have to do is get a Mike Vanessa does
Speaker 1: it from Montreal. Montreal and like the Rocky Mountains are
Speaker 1: basically equal in terms of Wi Fi capability. Sure the
Speaker 1: van has great sound quality. It does. I've sound proved.
Speaker 1: I literally built a recording studio in my van for
Speaker 1: the sole purpose of recording on podcast from It's quite impressive.
Speaker 1: It supposed to be one big gas van. It's big.
Speaker 1: It's just me Jared to me in the studio every
Speaker 1: week and Mark and Marko and Mark and so being
Speaker 1: Eastern Marco, the three of us. Yeah, it'd be fine.
Speaker 1: You know. I think it's good times. This is really
Speaker 1: gonna work. I'm pretty confident in our ability to make
Speaker 1: this work. I agree. So when you're driving up the
Speaker 1: Pacific coast, actually, sorry to interrupt you, Um, I might
Speaker 1: drive it out to your wedding. I think did say that.
Speaker 1: Now you're driving across country, I mean that's do you
Speaker 1: like being in a car, because for me, I don't
Speaker 1: think I would be able to do this because I
Speaker 1: hate being in a car and I get I get
Speaker 1: car sick unless i'm driving. But I also don't like
Speaker 1: driving from than probably four hours four hours. And then
Speaker 1: I started getting a little anxious. Right, But so my
Speaker 1: friend is moving to Boston and she's like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: moving back, Like, let's road trip across the US and
Speaker 1: you can just bring me to Boston. And at first
Speaker 1: I was like, now, that sounds lame, And then I
Speaker 1: realized I was like, well, I mean I kind of
Speaker 1: bought the van to see all of America anyway, so
Speaker 1: you might as well drive at east and see all
Speaker 1: those states over there. Um. But it's not like you're
Speaker 1: in a car for thirty five hours because it's basically
Speaker 1: your house, you know. So it's like, if you want
Speaker 1: to stop and play a video game for an hour,
Speaker 1: you can do that. You want to look like watch Netflix,
Speaker 1: you can do that in the comfort of your own
Speaker 1: house essentially. You know. Did we ever ask where the
Speaker 1: initial thought of you living in van came from? Like
Speaker 1: what really sparked it? Maybe when I saw Free Solo
Speaker 1: and alex Hoandold just really just crushed it. I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I should probably do that. Did you
Speaker 1: see a movie Into the Wild? I just feel like
Speaker 1: that would inspire you too. I almost destroyed my driver's
Speaker 1: license after that movie. Same. It's a story Chris McCandless
Speaker 1: I think his name is It's It was a book,
Speaker 1: you know. I read the book in high school. I
Speaker 1: read Quota school. What was those notes? What was that notes?
Speaker 1: Spark notes? We're you just big spark note guy? I
Speaker 1: was just a big like, hey, let me borrow your
Speaker 1: paper and make my own out of it. Did you
Speaker 1: cheat through high school? Oh yeah, big time for sure,
Speaker 1: college too. We're you a good student? No, my My
Speaker 1: high school gp A was maybe like a three point
Speaker 1: to my college gp was like a two point five.
Speaker 1: That's not terrible. It took me five years to graduate
Speaker 1: three point two. That's not bad. I mean high school. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's whatever. I guess it's what was yours?
Speaker 1: That's like a b uh, probably right around there. I
Speaker 1: just was I was never that great of a student.
Speaker 1: I never applied myself. I was like, I don't need
Speaker 1: to do homeworker study. I'll just take the test and
Speaker 1: be okay, you know what I mean. Yeah, you seem
Speaker 1: like the guy who's actually smart and could have been
Speaker 1: a great student, but just never applied yourself. Application is
Speaker 1: really when I struggle with. But thanks, I think, well,
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Speaker 1: So we got a couple of emails. Dean's favorite part
Speaker 1: of the podcast emails. You love emails? How much do
Speaker 1: you love emails? It's just great because it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: we're in a podcast studio. We're recording a podcast live
Speaker 1: from Ingo Tango. Thank you sugar Bear Hair for letting
Speaker 1: us be here, but we're just so isolated here, and
Speaker 1: an email allows us to reach out and almost physically
Speaker 1: touch the listeners and listen to their stories and then
Speaker 1: respond to them and almost have a conversation with them.
Speaker 1: And that's why I love emails so much, because it
Speaker 1: just makes it so much more personal. It does make
Speaker 1: it more personal, and my favorite emails come from one
Speaker 1: person in their person. This person's name is anonymous because
Speaker 1: I just feel like anonymous really opens up because they're
Speaker 1: anonymous and nobody knows who they are now. This email
Speaker 1: is titled no Closure. My girlfriend dumped me in January
Speaker 1: randomly on the phone and we haven't spoken since giving
Speaker 1: me no closure. Although I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: me has moved on, I still think about her quite
Speaker 1: a bit and definitely miss her. Recently, my friends stubled
Speaker 1: upon her on Bumble, which surprised me as she is
Speaker 1: not into hookups at all. Lastly, I saw her edit
Speaker 1: a picture of us on her v s c O,
Speaker 1: changing the caption to miss you. This has just made
Speaker 1: the idea of closure impossible and has me asking so
Speaker 1: many more questions. Do I reach out at all or
Speaker 1: do I just move on? It has been a while,
Speaker 1: and also I feel like I was not very respected
Speaker 1: in the relationship, but somehow I still miss her. Dean,
Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on anonymous? I think that the
Speaker 1: fact that he is checking her its VISCO, by the way,
Speaker 1: not bs c O. I don't know what is that Visco?
Speaker 1: What is that? I still don't really know exactly, but
Speaker 1: it's it's like a It's like a photo sharing site
Speaker 1: you can put fun filters kind of like has it
Speaker 1: been around for a while? Yeah, okay. I think that
Speaker 1: he obviously is still hung up on her. If he's
Speaker 1: even just going back and checking her pictures for captions
Speaker 1: and he noticed a change of in one of them
Speaker 1: to miss you, I mean he's obviously still clinging onto
Speaker 1: the past. I would just take the take, take take
Speaker 1: the blow. You know, you haven't talked to her, and
Speaker 1: it's what it's June. Now, that's four months, five months.
Speaker 1: I think you just need to forget about it, allow
Speaker 1: yourself to heal and move on, and allow her to
Speaker 1: heal and move on. Stop trying to keep tabs on her.
Speaker 1: I know it's challenging and it's easy to say but
Speaker 1: harder to do. But I think that I especially if
Speaker 1: you didn't feel respected in the relationship, Like I couldn't
Speaker 1: imagine going back to a relationship that I felt disrespected.
Speaker 1: And you know, I guess I'm confused about he saw
Speaker 1: her edit a picture of us and change the caption
Speaker 1: to miss you. So on her this visco on her visco,
Speaker 1: there's a picture of them, the two of them saying
Speaker 1: miss you, but they haven't spoken since she broke up
Speaker 1: with him, that's the confusing thing that's confusing. Or maybe
Speaker 1: she's just doing that to make another boy jealous fue
Speaker 1: I mean, if she is, then she's also also those
Speaker 1: like passive aggressive. It's the wrong term, but it's got
Speaker 1: the same meaning to it, where it's like, why are
Speaker 1: you doing that to convey any Are you doing it
Speaker 1: for self healing? Are you doing it to prove a
Speaker 1: point to someone else? Are you doing it because you
Speaker 1: hope that this guy notices? Like what is the purpose
Speaker 1: of it? It's like subtweeting, you know, or it's like
Speaker 1: posting moody captions and stuff like that. It's just like,
Speaker 1: what's the point of it. It's it's attention seeky in
Speaker 1: my opinion, and it's so vague and ambiguous it doesn't
Speaker 1: get anywhere. All it leads to it was more confusion.
Speaker 1: I personally don't think that he should be interested in
Speaker 1: a girl that thinks those methods are appropriate to communicate.
Speaker 1: I'm here's how old she is or how old? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I definitely, because it sounds like something a nineteen year
Speaker 1: old to do, like change the caption to a person
Speaker 1: that they broke up with and saying miss you, because
Speaker 1: it's it's kind of like fishing for compliments, you know,
Speaker 1: how you'll say something that you feel insecure about because
Speaker 1: you're really just vocalizing it because you want somebody to say, no,
Speaker 1: you look great, you're fine. It's similar to that where
Speaker 1: she wants you. She what she wants anonymous is she
Speaker 1: wants you to still be in love with her, but
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to be with you. She just wants
Speaker 1: the medal, but she's not even She said that she
Speaker 1: doesn't talk to her. He said that she doesn't talked
Speaker 1: to her since January. Yeah, but sometimes you put things
Speaker 1: online to kind of suggest certain things, and it's obvious
Speaker 1: that she knew that he was going to look on
Speaker 1: her profile, see the picture of them, and see that
Speaker 1: the caption had changed to miss you. I suppose I
Speaker 1: just know that I've been nineteen and heartbroken and then
Speaker 1: this exact same situation. And it's easy for someone to
Speaker 1: be like, oh, yeah, move on, like I'm telling him
Speaker 1: to do now, and I think you are as well,
Speaker 1: But in reality it's a lot more challenging. All you
Speaker 1: can really do is just kind of I would I
Speaker 1: just stay busy by a van, Maybe distractating it. Just
Speaker 1: take off college to college, go to school, just quick college,
Speaker 1: and just live the vagabond life. No, I agree. I
Speaker 1: feel like some people give advice saying that you should
Speaker 1: face it head on, but I agree with you. I
Speaker 1: think sometimes distraction is the best medicine because when I
Speaker 1: get distracted, then I get busy, and then I start
Speaker 1: thinking about other things. And then I do believe that
Speaker 1: time does heal all wounds. And so after a couple
Speaker 1: of months of being distracted and so busy, I already
Speaker 1: feel better about the situation because I feel distant from it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess that's not obviously that shouldn't
Speaker 1: be advice for every situation, because some situations you do
Speaker 1: need to handle straight on. But I think in this
Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think four months, just like
Speaker 1: distract yourself, try to get yourself away from the situation,
Speaker 1: get some beautiful long locks. Looking at someone and looking
Speaker 1: at your ex girlfriend's profile online is like the digital
Speaker 1: driving by their house, you know, how like you know
Speaker 1: you and like twenty years ago you wanted sometimes like
Speaker 1: you drive by an excess house to see if their
Speaker 1: car was in the driveway, or just like see where
Speaker 1: they used to live or where you guys used to
Speaker 1: hang out years ago. I was eight years old, so
Speaker 1: I was not saying you, but you've heard stories and
Speaker 1: watched movies where to drive by east and thank you
Speaker 1: that I would check their my space and then I
Speaker 1: get in my car and drive by their house. Well
Speaker 1: that you met you you double dipped in that one.
Speaker 1: Not only did you do the online drive by, but
Speaker 1: then you physically got in your car and drove by
Speaker 1: their house and it's quite impressing interesting, And then just
Speaker 1: saw their car there and was like, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: I'm glad I did that as well as well, yeah
Speaker 1: she's home, I don't know. And then like if she
Speaker 1: wasn't home, what would you have done? I don't know,
Speaker 1: probably that she was doing something, yeah, something horrible. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess I've been there before too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on, we've all done that, all right, Dean, I
Speaker 1: have a question for you. We have a question from
Speaker 1: the Facebook group Help I Suck a Dating. If you
Speaker 1: guys do not have not joined the Facebook group yet,
Speaker 1: please join it. Help I Suck at Dating, face book group,
Speaker 1: podcast group, whatever it's called, and then also follow us
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Help I second dating. Dean runs that Instagram,
Speaker 1: which is why he just posted a selfie of himself
Speaker 1: the last last time. I know I need to actually
Speaker 1: do a better job of like managing that profile. Well yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's okay. Um. So this comes from the Facebook group,
Speaker 1: and the reason I want to ask it is, Dean,
Speaker 1: you're single, you're out there. You know you're in the
Speaker 1: dating world. I was in the dating world until about
Speaker 1: a year and a half ago. So one of our
Speaker 1: Facebook members asked he needs help sliding into someone's d ms.
Speaker 1: How do you even approach that? What's something you should
Speaker 1: be saying? How do you slide into someone's d m
Speaker 1: s without it coming off creepy? And to try to
Speaker 1: provoke a response? You want to know who would love
Speaker 1: to answer this question? Eastern Nick File? How well? Nick
Speaker 1: would be all over it. And Nick knows what he's
Speaker 1: doing unprovoked. He'll bring up all the time, his his
Speaker 1: sliding game, his response rate. He uh, he, he has
Speaker 1: this great method, and I have to give some credit
Speaker 1: for it because I'm sure it's effectively. What's his method? Says?
Speaker 1: You find the girl that you want a d M,
Speaker 1: you go back maybe a month or two. In pictures
Speaker 1: find something like a picture of her with a dog,
Speaker 1: and like DM heard the picture dog, Yeah, look for
Speaker 1: the dog and be like that's a cute dog. What's
Speaker 1: its name? Or like something dumb like that, you know,
Speaker 1: and that way, like uh, initiates a conversation instead of like, hey,
Speaker 1: what's up? Why a month back? I'm just just just
Speaker 1: it's a blanket term. I don't generally speaking, just go
Speaker 1: back into the pictures. Well. The only reason I'm asking
Speaker 1: why a month back? Because I wonder if it was
Speaker 1: intentional to look back on their profile so they know
Speaker 1: that you were looking through it. Yeah, I think that's
Speaker 1: I think that's the take on it. You go back
Speaker 1: to the very first picture they ever posted and just comment,
Speaker 1: comment like it, then send it to him and say,
Speaker 1: what a great way to start. That's actually pretty funny.
Speaker 1: I like it. Actually, that's yeah, that's really good. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go back to both of you guys first Instagram
Speaker 1: posts and see what we got here. It's terrible, probee
Speaker 1: how you started. I would go back to yours. But
Speaker 1: do you know how many pictures have you posted? I
Speaker 1: posted a lot. Let's see. Let's look at Dinatal To
Speaker 1: answer question, I actually do really like East and I
Speaker 1: actually think that's really funny. I don't know if it
Speaker 1: should be used. I don't think should do that, but
Speaker 1: I like it. I think I like it too. Um
Speaker 1: do you think it comes off creepy? I mean, if
Speaker 1: it does, she's not the right one for you, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess right. But but because we're using your method
Speaker 1: and then she's not the right one for you. But
Speaker 1: it's me that's saying it. You know what I'm saying. Now,
Speaker 1: you're gonna get in the weeds on this. I mean,
Speaker 1: all right, Eastern, I'm gonna give you. I'm gonna ask
Speaker 1: you a question right now. Who do you think has
Speaker 1: most has posted more pictures on Instagram of all time?
Speaker 1: Me or Dean Me? You said you majors right after
Speaker 1: you went on the show. I did. I'm gonna say, Dean,
Speaker 1: you're According to the top of Instagram, Deanie Babies has
Speaker 1: posted four hundred and thirteen posts. According to Instagram, Jared
Speaker 1: Haven has five hundred posts. How how's that? How? How
Speaker 1: have you only posted fo times? Why did you create
Speaker 1: your Instagram and like two dousand eleven? I'm assuming you
Speaker 1: just never posted? Do you have a bunch of stuff? No?
Speaker 1: I don't, although I did recently going back in archive
Speaker 1: all my pictures with my exes. Was Archive been just
Speaker 1: like you delete them, but you can always put them
Speaker 1: back if you want. So why didn't you completely the
Speaker 1: pictures with your ax? You know what if we get
Speaker 1: back together, all right, that's fair. I don't know, why
Speaker 1: would I do it permanently? We Well, it's kind of
Speaker 1: like the Forgetting Sara Marshall moment right where he's like
Speaker 1: going to delete all the pictures of Sarah Marshall and
Speaker 1: then he's and then Bill Hitters like, hey, you actually
Speaker 1: didn't delete them. He's like, well, just in case I
Speaker 1: want to save them, and then Hayter and the reason
Speaker 1: back to your original point, The reason that you have
Speaker 1: so many more posts than me is because I think
Speaker 1: ever since you and Ashley became a couple, you post
Speaker 1: a picture with each other every single day, every single
Speaker 1: day on that's such a blanket wrong state. Just let
Speaker 1: me look at this. I'm scrolling every three three out
Speaker 1: of every four pictures as you and Ashley, which is great.
Speaker 1: I agree, there's nothing wrong with that, But I'm just
Speaker 1: saying I don't have that, So that's why you're posting
Speaker 1: more than I Well. This is also like if I
Speaker 1: post a picture of myself knows a lot. Wow, I'm
Speaker 1: like fifty pictures back and I'm only in August of
Speaker 1: last year. You know. I just I look at it
Speaker 1: as as work sometimes, you know. But I think you gotta.
Speaker 1: And the reason I post with Ashley so much is
Speaker 1: because I'll post a picture of myself and literally nobody
Speaker 1: will care like I posted, I think cool pictures of
Speaker 1: myself interested in well, I'm trying to balance the two, right.
Speaker 1: I want to post what I want to post, but
Speaker 1: I also want posts that do well that people who
Speaker 1: follow me find interesting. I think you just gotta follow
Speaker 1: your heart. I think my heart lies in the middle
Speaker 1: of both. Hi, Karin, Jared has prepared many, many questions
Speaker 1: to ask. I have primared prepared none, but we're just
Speaker 1: gonna go right into it. Karin Olympios, thank you so
Speaker 1: much for joining us on the podcast. Who really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Did you just get to Wango Tango? Yeah? How's your
Speaker 1: experience so far? Nothing has happened? Right? No, anoh has happened.
Speaker 1: I had a really long, trafficky drive here. Always my driver,
Speaker 1: Jimmy was the man. Did he talk a lot. He didn't.
Speaker 1: That's a that's a good thing, I know. Isn't it
Speaker 1: bad that it's always horrible when you're in an uber
Speaker 1: and they always want to talk to you. Yes, And
Speaker 1: then sometimes when I feel like talking, like talk to me,
Speaker 1: I never find myself I want to talk into an uber?
Speaker 1: Do you seem like an uber talker? Um, Like you'll
Speaker 1: ask the driver where they're from, how they're doing, all
Speaker 1: that good stuff. It depends if if it's like tense
Speaker 1: when I get in and I can feel attention, I
Speaker 1: would like usually diffuse it with a couple of questions.
Speaker 1: There's tension in an uber sometimes, I'm sure, Karin, you've
Speaker 1: been there before, right, Like, you know, you get in
Speaker 1: and since he's having a bad day, and you're like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's make this a little bit easier for him. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's make sure that he knows that I'm a trustworthy guy.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do anything sketchy back here, although I did. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I got an uber like two weeks ago, and
Speaker 1: we were on our way to like no Vacancy or something,
Speaker 1: and it was nighttime. Um, and this was before I
Speaker 1: did the not drinking thing. And I cracked a beer
Speaker 1: in the back and the Uber driver goes, oh, I
Speaker 1: hope you're not drinking a beer back there because it's
Speaker 1: against the rules or whatever, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: was like, it's against the law and not just the
Speaker 1: rules of the government, same thing. And I was like, crap,
Speaker 1: I just cracked this beer and I lied to it.
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, it's just a soda ha ha.
Speaker 1: And then I was getting out and I was like, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I lied to you earlier. I actually
Speaker 1: cracked a beer. I didn't drink any of it, but
Speaker 1: I just had to tell you the truth before I
Speaker 1: got out of here. That was one of the That
Speaker 1: was like my sketchiest super interaction I've ever had in
Speaker 1: my life. You're a big rebel. Um. Well, Karin, thank
Speaker 1: you for joining us once again. So you're obviously on
Speaker 1: Nick File season of The Bachelor, one of our dear friends. Uh.
Speaker 1: And then you were on Bachelor in Paradise, so that's
Speaker 1: where everybody knows you from. But where what are you
Speaker 1: up to now? I am kind of all over the
Speaker 1: place right now. I'm developing some stuff with some studios
Speaker 1: and my book. I'm still working on it and getting
Speaker 1: into music soon and getting into music. So, Um, I
Speaker 1: have a voice this time that I've hit in my
Speaker 1: whole life. You want to give us a little sample
Speaker 1: right now? That's one still working on. That's what I'm
Speaker 1: still working on. You're going to be performing at Wingo,
Speaker 1: you know what. That's going to be my my goal. Friend. Now,
Speaker 1: have you always been a singer or is this a
Speaker 1: new revelation over the past few years. Um, I've always
Speaker 1: really loved singing, like a lot, like really good in
Speaker 1: the shower and like really good in my car. Who's
Speaker 1: your favorite artist to sing? Like, do you have a
Speaker 1: song that you're like, Oh god, this is my go
Speaker 1: to right here? I am so good at singing Justin Bieber,
Speaker 1: I like pitch match him. I don't know what the
Speaker 1: tone is, I mean the word is, but like I'm
Speaker 1: like really good at like matchic. You're like, you're like
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon from Drumline. You can't read music, but you
Speaker 1: can knock get out of the park if you hear
Speaker 1: someone do it first, exactly exactly, That's exactly it. Oh,
Speaker 1: that's very interesting. And you're writing a book as well.
Speaker 1: What are you writing about your experience? On the show Yourself.
Speaker 1: So for I changed it already three times because I
Speaker 1: just like like not exactly like happy with it yet,
Speaker 1: and it's just been like so along. I'm kind of
Speaker 1: just getting exhausted of it, and like I just needed
Speaker 1: to take a break from it because I was like, no,
Speaker 1: I can't be doing a project that I'm getting exhausted of,
Speaker 1: Like that's terrible. So like put it to the side
Speaker 1: for a few Now I'm back writing it again with
Speaker 1: my ghostwriter, and it's coming along really great. It is
Speaker 1: going to be kind of like a self help slash
Speaker 1: biography autobiography self help slash. That's three separate books. I
Speaker 1: sense a trilogy coming, perhaps the karn Olympios trilogy. It's coming, guys.
Speaker 1: I really like that. So this is also a relationship podcast.
Speaker 1: It's called help I Suckit Dating. So the questions for you, Oh, man, well,
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend. Yeah I knew that. Actually I've
Speaker 1: seen you see you posted about him, right, yeah, I
Speaker 1: always post about Yeah, that's true. So what's his name?
Speaker 1: What's this social Security number? All that good stuff? His
Speaker 1: name is John met So. Actually, I he lives in
Speaker 1: New York. I live in l A And I was
Speaker 1: home in Miami for like music week, and my friend
Speaker 1: from high school. I was like, okay, you have to
Speaker 1: go out with my friends, Like they're going out tonight.
Speaker 1: I'm not, but like just like, here's this kid's number,
Speaker 1: like just hit him up, he'll take you out, like whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, And so I like face timed him
Speaker 1: and I was like Hi, Like I'm Currant, I'm coming
Speaker 1: out tonight. He's like cool, like whatever, really cool guy,
Speaker 1: like hung the phone and like me, I was with
Speaker 1: my sister and me and my sister were like, you're
Speaker 1: going to date him? She was like, you're going to
Speaker 1: date him. I was like, yeah, I'm going to date him.
Speaker 1: And so we just dated after that. And how long
Speaker 1: has it been? I said that story really, I swear
Speaker 1: it actually wasn't that lame, but like it sounds pretty normal.
Speaker 1: It was cool. It sounds cool. It sounds like you
Speaker 1: were excited to meet him, and you guys met and
Speaker 1: you hit it off, and sure enough you're still together.
Speaker 1: And then how long has it been? It's been over
Speaker 1: a year already. Oh my god, So are we thinking
Speaker 1: this could be? Uh? The one? I think? So wow,
Speaker 1: that's very exciting. A year is really when you have
Speaker 1: a good I would imagine I've never hit a year,
Speaker 1: but I would imagine that would be the threshold of like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I can actually see me spending the rest of my
Speaker 1: life with this person. Yeah, a year is a good
Speaker 1: gauge to know which way this relationship is going. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just it's just like I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: like a little bit, um how do I phrase this?
Speaker 1: We haven't lived together yet, and that's a big did
Speaker 1: you guys live together now? When we started living together
Speaker 1: once we got engaged. So we've been living together for
Speaker 1: about a year now, So you waited until you got engaged.
Speaker 1: She John's like, I don't want to get engaged until
Speaker 1: like we lived together for like a little bit, Like
Speaker 1: that's fair. The only reason live across the country. It's
Speaker 1: not like we live in the same city and we
Speaker 1: don't live together. Like I live really far away. So
Speaker 1: you guys been doing long distance for a year now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm like nuts. So like I went there
Speaker 1: every weekend for a while, and like my team was
Speaker 1: kind of just like okay, like you can't do that.
Speaker 1: Does he come here at all? No? He came here
Speaker 1: like three times, but like he he works, like I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm like a floater, you know, so he work. It's
Speaker 1: just a different type before Yes, exactly, thank you, of course, No,
Speaker 1: it's true. So do you guys do you try to
Speaker 1: see like each other once a month? Is that kind
Speaker 1: of like I know, like three times a month? Oh,
Speaker 1: that's really good. A buddy of mine was doing long
Speaker 1: distance for a whole year and it was every month
Speaker 1: they would switch off. That's a good, that's a good
Speaker 1: for the listeners. Cran Can you give advice to someone
Speaker 1: that might be in a long distance relationship that you've
Speaker 1: learned that you can help them with, that would be
Speaker 1: able to help them in their relationship? I guess honestly,
Speaker 1: being in a long distance relationship, like you have to
Speaker 1: be on your communication like from the start, Like it
Speaker 1: was almost weird, like I never had this kind of
Speaker 1: communication with like anyone I've ever dated. Um he would
Speaker 1: answer every single phone call, and I was just like
Speaker 1: what a guy sounds exhausting? No, like literally, but I
Speaker 1: wouldn't call him excessively. Just like any time I called,
Speaker 1: he would answer, and it was just like like texting
Speaker 1: like check in it, Like it was just nice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no game playing yet, Like why the game playing? Like
Speaker 1: never was into that, nobody is, but somehow it still happens.
Speaker 1: Almost like guys got to cut it out like that
Speaker 1: was so like, get over it? Is he older? No,
Speaker 1: he's actually my age? It weird. I hate that. I
Speaker 1: always said I would never date a guy that was
Speaker 1: my age. Actually a secret. He's like a few months
Speaker 1: younger than and like, I just like I hate that.
Speaker 1: Actually who cares? I don't know. I just like I
Speaker 1: feel like I need like like a protector, like a man.
Speaker 1: I'm younger than Ashley, are you? Yeah, by a few months. Yes,
Speaker 1: she's March. I'm November. Were the same age, but she's
Speaker 1: born about six seven months before me. Yeah, he's up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'm turning. What's your birthday? You getting calling it now? Eleven? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm eleven fifteen. Are you a scorpion? Yes? I am
Speaker 1: obviously the best. Um so we're obviously at Wango Tango.
Speaker 1: Thank you you sugar Bear hair for putting this on
Speaker 1: for us. But who are you excited to see tonight?
Speaker 1: We've got Jonas brothers, we have Taylor Swift, all the people,
Speaker 1: all the peeps. Are you are you a Joe Jonas
Speaker 1: Brothers super fan, So that's your favorite Ashley's is Joe? Really? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Which one? Uh? Nick is Nick's Bianca? No Joe is
Speaker 1: so Sophie Turner right, I don't know, yeah, yeah, see
Speaker 1: Easton knows what's up? And then Kevin, I think, what
Speaker 1: do you think of that couple Sophie and Joe. I
Speaker 1: don't know much about it. That is, so I think
Speaker 1: she could be dating something like honestly like Jonas Brothers,
Speaker 1: you guys are geez, but she could be dating. So
Speaker 1: I think that's a great conversation for you to have
Speaker 1: with Ashley because Karn will also be on the almost
Speaker 1: famous I Heart Radio podcast, which is also recording live
Speaker 1: from Wango Tango. And I think that's a great conversation
Speaker 1: you should have with Ashley because I guarantee you my
Speaker 1: fiance will have many thoughts on this. Isn't Jonas like
Speaker 1: the pin cool of stardom in today's world or now?
Speaker 1: I don't think so, I think the pinnacle of stardom
Speaker 1: in today's world. That's actually a great question. Besides the
Speaker 1: help I suck a dating co host, I would say
Speaker 1: right now, Bradley Cooper or Kiana reeves, that's wrong. You're
Speaker 1: just you. Just on that note, we gotta wrap up
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