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Speaker 1: the boys.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited. They're not just any boys, They're lunatics.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about Nate and Scary. We promise them, I

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Speaker 1: think maybe last episode, but they were both ducking and

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Speaker 1: dodging for a long time because they think we're about

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Speaker 1: to try and set them up. But I don't have

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Speaker 1: to set them up. Then you just let them talk

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Speaker 1: and they're interesting, and you have a theory about the

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Speaker 1: two of them. Yep, and I thought it was a

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Speaker 1: pretty interesting theory. Let's toss it out right now and

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Speaker 1: see if that holds true as this episode goes on.

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Speaker 2: I think that Nate is Scary's translator. He Scary just

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Speaker 2: says shit that doesn't make sense, but for some reason,

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Speaker 2: Nate just knows how to decode it and make it

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Speaker 2: sound normal.

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Speaker 1: So okay, yeah, okay, So together they have cohesive thoughts

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Speaker 1: on their own, not as much.

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Speaker 2: Nate's not that bad.

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Speaker 1: It's Scary. We just want to talk to them about

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Speaker 1: a lot of their theory. They've been going out together.

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Speaker 1: They've been having a good time, kind of partying. Native

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Speaker 1: is single. We'll get to all of that is there

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Speaker 1: anything else on your mind that you want to talk

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Speaker 1: about before they join us.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just really excited for this conversation.

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Speaker 1: Okay, don't have it up too much.

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Speaker 2: What if it sucks, Well, if nobody else likes it,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure I'm gonna get a few laughs.

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Speaker 1: So and that's all that matters. We're here for us.

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Speaker 1: We don't even care if anyone listens. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: I totally care that you're listening. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for listening. You keep me employed, and that's important. We

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Speaker 1: had a good laugh at our homie who wanted us

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Speaker 1: to get eaten by bears. Yes, called us some dumb bitches.

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Speaker 1: More of that if you would like. We should probably

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Speaker 1: check talkbacks at some point, but that one I think

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Speaker 1: we could survive on for so long that.

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Speaker 2: One I need injected into my veins at least once

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Speaker 2: a week.

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Speaker 1: You just want me to call you dumb bitch?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Only absolutely cool dumb bitches ahead, we should start a

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Speaker 1: podcast just called dumb bitches. Yeah, they're probably is already

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Speaker 1: one called dumb bitches.

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Speaker 3: But it wouldn't be this.

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Speaker 1: It wouldn't be dumb bitches with Diamond and Gandhi all right,

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Speaker 1: So I think we should just get them in here

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Speaker 1: because I see them lurking and Nate's acting like he

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Speaker 4: I'm ready, all right.

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Speaker 1: I'm very excited about this episode. Oh God, why Diamond?

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Speaker 1: We have Scary and Nate in here?

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Speaker 3: Is this our.

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Speaker 4: Cherry Poppin experience. Scary first time.

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Speaker 5: I've ever been invited to saw us on the side,

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Speaker 5: and I gotta say, it's a pleasure.

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Speaker 6: To be You know, I'm not gonna say that yet,

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Speaker 6: because we're gonna be grilled and we're gonna be made

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Speaker 6: just as the bait and switch here is.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna hear.

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Speaker 6: Oh, this is gonna be like an Oprah episode. So

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Speaker 6: tell me what did you mean when you said, well, no,

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Speaker 6: there is.

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Speaker 1: A little bit of that. But I'm glad I have

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Speaker 1: the two of you, okay, so that it's not it's

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Speaker 1: not anyone teaming up on anyone, and you guys can

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Speaker 4: Safety in numbers.

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Speaker 1: This is what we have in the We have Nate

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Speaker 1: from the show straight, Nate, our lovely producer. We love him.

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Speaker 1: We're scary Scary. We talk about you often in the podcast,

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Speaker 1: glad that you're finally here, well.

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Speaker 5: Finally here to defend myself. Can I also plug my

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Speaker 5: podcast while we're at it at the end, I gotta

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Speaker 5: get going, okay, because I plugged your podcast all the

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Speaker 5: time on my podcast.

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Speaker 1: Oh fine, go ahead.

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Speaker 5: So if you never listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast,

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Speaker 5: I think.

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Speaker 7: You're like a little bit of the Brooklyn Boys too.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying I hear a lot of people saying

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Speaker 5: I love your podcast, you know. I'm just saying our listeners,

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Speaker 1: Okay, thanks Brooklyn Boys with Scary and Brody. I need

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Speaker 1: to turn my mic up more, Diamond up higher? Okay,

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Speaker 1: how about that? Hello, Okay, we've got Diamond. So in

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Speaker 4: Take applications.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you're taking applications. This is perfect. So we're

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Speaker 1: going to get to that. Okay, Diamond is single, single,

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Speaker 3: I'm in a long.

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Speaker 1: And then there's me who I'm in a relationship but

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Speaker 6: We don't have enough time for all these questions, but

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Speaker 1: The three of us have been on a lot of trips. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we've been traveling a lot. And I hear them sort

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Speaker 1: They're wildly different, and you guys think about things that

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Speaker 6: Well, and I say taking applications, and I'm I'm joking

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Speaker 1: We are and you're dating you, and I have to say,

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Speaker 4: Now we have pity for you. Like they don't say that, right,

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Speaker 6: And then oh, I got to hook you up with

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Speaker 6: I'm sure you know what I'm saying, Like they probably

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Speaker 4: Like, let's put these two together and it's never a

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Speaker 1: Right You You want to be the slacker in the relationship, correct, right?

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Speaker 4: You want a sugar mama that's exactly looking.

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Speaker 1: You're very stable.

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Speaker 4: When I say I'm taking applications.

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Speaker 6: If you're a wealthy woman that wants to just take

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Speaker 3: Here, I am.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Yes, Diamond. Go on.

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Speaker 2: When I said something like this years ago, people were

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Speaker 2: very upset. So I'm not affecting people to rip into

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Speaker 4: You know why I say this because it's not going

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Speaker 6: Many women out there that have guys that want to

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Speaker 5: I think someone maybe double your age, may actually pick

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Speaker 7: This office nine. Okay, let's call it this way.

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Speaker 5: A wealthy woman in her sixties will gladly buy you

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Speaker 1: And this is where I wanted to have the conversation,

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Speaker 1: We start there with one of the things that I

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Speaker 1: We were at the Fountain Blue, and the Fountain Blue

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he really cares like he's he's committed to the costs.

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Speaker 7: I just shovel things in his direction.

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Speaker 1: Shovel he doesn't need it.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't need it.

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Speaker 5: Somebody would be like, oh, you're Scary Jones kind of picture.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and this is Nate.

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Speaker 5: And then that was single and then I don't see

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Speaker 1: Lady Nate.

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Speaker 3: Ladies love cool Nate.

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Speaker 1: So diamond. Yeah, as we're checking into this hotel, there

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Speaker 1: And then later Scary decided to inform me that it's

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Speaker 1: very important that single men be as go ahead that's

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Speaker 1: This is crazy, said I said, to drag them back.

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Speaker 7: This sounds creepy and cringe.

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Speaker 5: Please, if you're listening to this podcast and you were

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Speaker 5: just correxplain myself. Okay on this the two of you

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Speaker 5: A buddy of mine has the window of opportunity theater.

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Speaker 5: There's a window of opportunity. Okay where and the window

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Speaker 5: Partly open window is the fact that maybe the friends

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Speaker 3: Because nobody couse.

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Speaker 5: They feel like well and sometimes they want to do this.

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Speaker 5: So there's right, so correct. So that's what I mean

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Speaker 1: But you also had mentioned a distance when it comes

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Speaker 6: You said, well, no, this is when it comes to hell.

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Speaker 6: You aren't getting laid that night because it's going to

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Speaker 1: To Yeah, your window.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm saying, he's a guy my window. I have

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Speaker 5: So what I was trying to say to put Nate

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Speaker 5: He needs to be in this tower right here by

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Speaker 1: Scary of living in Jersey City, cop block. You meet

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Speaker 6: So he's a million percent because I live in the city.

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Speaker 6: And then I have been invited back to Jersey City

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Speaker 4: Invited me, and I'm like, I'm not going there.

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Speaker 1: It's like ten minutes from your apartment.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going there.

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Speaker 5: But here's the thing. My single guy friends who live

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Speaker 5: in Hobo go a Jersey City for this very reason. Yes,

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Speaker 6: Do you know how much that uber is back into

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Speaker 5: And there's no way they're gonna meet someone who lives

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Speaker 4: Not gonna happen. See do you do you see what

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Speaker 4: I'm saying here? Do you agree in any way, shape

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Speaker 2: But no, I totally agree, thank you.

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Speaker 7: This is creepy.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn'tdate a guy in Harlem all the way back told.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Or if you met a guy out and you're

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm very glad that you guys are here together

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Speaker 6: Up until now does come across as very predatory, creepy

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Speaker 1: The way that you described it was like you gotta

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Speaker 6: Actually and to his joy as a okay, as a

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Speaker 6: it's like that scene in a beautiful Mind with all

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Speaker 6: of the numbers flying through the.

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Speaker 4: Air, the calculation to actually get laid.

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Speaker 6: You have got to be Einstein sometimes in order to

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Speaker 6: that's going to be a that's going to be a

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Speaker 6: set number in your equation. You know exactly where you're

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Speaker 5: He has to catch lightning in a bottle, But to

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Speaker 4: You got to say for success.

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Speaker 5: He's got to put himself in the best possible situation

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Speaker 1: No, I hear what you're saying. Now I'm going to

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Speaker 1: say this, Yeah, I'm still appalled as a woman in

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Would the drive matter?

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Speaker 2: No? Not if I really wanted to know?

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Speaker 1: Really Yeah, Okay, So here's what I'm saying, which this

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Speaker 1: doing these beautiful mind equations all night, which I find

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Speaker 5: Think because you're speaking from a woman's h standpoint, right.

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Speaker 7: Because women, women could get laid whatever the hell.

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Speaker 1: They want anytime they get It.

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Speaker 6: Doesn't work like that for guys. It doesn't work like

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Speaker 1: Doesn't work like that, but I'm just saying I also

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Speaker 1: That's all you need.

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Speaker 3: But I wish it was.

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Speaker 4: I wish it was.

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Speaker 8: Okay, So even in his own neighborhood, even in his

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Speaker 3: And he's gotten into conversations with people before.

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Speaker 5: And you know, I think you might have left with

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Speaker 5: And it's because to me, that's the embarrassment factor. I'm

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I like the.

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Speaker 1: Sexual assault murder aspect of it that women really care about.

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Speaker 1: Nate is more afraid of getting raped than anyone I've ever.

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Speaker 4: Made with the guy. Anyway.

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Speaker 5: Do we have a friend Joe, our friend Joe who

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Speaker 3: Do we just call him out to we did?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Anyway, he showed this because he he met these two

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So the one roommate wanted him. The other roommate

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Speaker 3: Look like a six.

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Speaker 4: He makes me look like a two.

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Speaker 1: Here's my question to you, lady.

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Speaker 6: So you know, we just made a statement that you

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Speaker 6: Because my content is, yeah, I probably could meet somebody

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Speaker 4: Probably? I mean, have I fallen on the grenade? Everyone

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Speaker 4: we all have. We all have. That's guy mentality. Yes,

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Speaker 4: that happens. That happens.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I was ever going to situe. I'm

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Speaker 1: Do you think someone fell? Just asking?

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Speaker 6: Now, that's funny. What else did you want to talk about?

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Speaker 6: Because I think we made us enough of a predator. No,

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Speaker 6: I don't like your final cut rights on this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you can. You can tell us what you'd

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Speaker 4: Sort of online presence.

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Speaker 6: Do I care if they're actually doing anything on there,

449
00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,359
Speaker 6: I'd actually prefer not at this point, and as time

450
00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,080
Speaker 6: goes on, less and less so.

451
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,040
Speaker 4: But it is a little weird that.

452
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Speaker 6: Somebody doesn't have an Instagram account or.

453
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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, an old Facebook or something

454
00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:39,959
Speaker 4: like something like.

455
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,440
Speaker 2: Okay, first of all, do you have a secret family

456
00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 2: out there with children and everything?

457
00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,000
Speaker 1: And he became a stocker?

458
00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,760
Speaker 2: See, yeah, I need to know. I need to I

459
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,640
Speaker 2: need to find your mom on Facebook. That's my new thing.

460
00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:56,680
Speaker 2: I have to find someone's.

461
00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:57,640
Speaker 4: Mom on Facebook.

462
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:00,320
Speaker 1: Listen, listen.

463
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,400
Speaker 2: Do you reach out to them, No, never, But you

464
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:07,520
Speaker 2: find the mom because mom's usually if someone has like

465
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,439
Speaker 2: a girlfriend that they take home to their family on

466
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:13,960
Speaker 2: the holidays, the mom will post the evidence. So you

467
00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,199
Speaker 2: need to just look. Okay, there's no one there, no

468
00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 2: one in the picture. Okay, well then you know everything

469
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 2: else is up to whatever the world has for me.

470
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 2: But you need to check the mom's Facebook. If I

471
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 2: can't find your mom's Facebook, you're done.

472
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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

473
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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no long term stuff just like regular random guys,

474
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 2: No big deal, but like uh uhh scary.

475
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,920
Speaker 5: I think if you don't have a social media presence,

476
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,640
Speaker 5: or at least a footprint of social media, I think

477
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 5: I think you're hiding something. And it could be it

478
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 5: could be like something really nefarious. It could be like

479
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 5: like a murder or corruption or something not a murder,

480
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 5: but like you're in trouble with It could be.

481
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:52,960
Speaker 3: Legal issues and stuff.

482
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 5: Because everyone has everyone has should have something, you know,

483
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 5: like you don't have to be active on it.

484
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,119
Speaker 7: I don't have to be active, but I need to

485
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:02,720
Speaker 7: know that you.

486
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 3: Have a Facebook page.

487
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 5: And I think if if you meet a guy I'm

488
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 5: specifically talking about guys that have zero social media presence,

489
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 5: not one, no Facebook, no Instagram, though, Snapchat, not one.

490
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 7: Piece, I think it's us. I think you need to

491
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 7: be Yeah.

492
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 4: And I don't think you're going out with that person.

493
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 7: I don't think something.

494
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 4: I don't think a woman would go.

495
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 7: Hiding something clearly.

496
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, with a guy, I think another thing they could

497
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 5: be hiding a family yeap that's.

498
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: What Diamond said, and that actually did happen to me.

499
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,600
Speaker 1: He had a lady and a child. And then when

500
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Speaker 1: I found out, he acted like I did something wrong.

501
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 7: So did you have a social media presence?

502
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

503
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't find it. So here's the thing. I couldn't

504
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,720
Speaker 1: find it because as soon as we started hanging out

505
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 1: he blocked me every way. But my best friend shout

506
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 1: out to Ashley. She found his ass and she was.

507
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,479
Speaker 4: Like, look at this, see and you.

508
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 6: I guess My point to this is they're going to

509
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:54,120
Speaker 6: find out something about you, period, Right, if you dig

510
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 6: deep enough, you're going to find something. I was talking

511
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 6: to a girl and they actually heard and her friends

512
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 6: pay for a background check service that as soon as

513
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 6: they meet somebody, what do they do? They put their

514
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 6: the guy's phone number in, full name in and boom

515
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 6: they do the whole background.

516
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 4: Check like they're gonna do it anyway. You know, you

517
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 4: might as well have a social media presence at this point.

518
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: Two other things so quickly with you bigger is too

519
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: big of a social media presence? Also a red flag

520
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,119
Speaker 1: because I feel like I've heard you guys tell me

521
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 1: what you think high maintenance is and I'm like, I

522
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,879
Speaker 1: don't think that that sounds like a it's a hardy

523
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: she got a good job. Guys like her. I'm out.

524
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 5: No, it's hard to because we have big media followings

525
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 5: and we post so at least I do. So I

526
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 5: don't have a problem with anyone. Listen, if my if

527
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 5: my girlfriend suddenly blew up and became this huge internet

528
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 5: media star whatever on social so be it.

529
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 3: That's great.

530
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 5: I welcome it because that's the world that I'm in.

531
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 5: I live in this world, I swim in this world,

532
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 5: so it's not a problem.

533
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: All Scary needs is a tag and a double Paris filter,

534
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 1: and he is.

535
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Speaker 3: Happy and the point five.

536
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 1: Point five please sorry, Nate, Okay, the bigger the better

537
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: or no.

538
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 6: No, I I I prefer an online presence that is

539
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 6: restricted to like friends.

540
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 4: You know, we've met you know, I've met.

541
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 6: Girls out that they have a very strong social media presence,

542
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 6: and you know they just have guys sliding into those

543
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 6: dms constantly. And I'm at an age where I don't

544
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 6: want competition. If you want to hang out with me,

545
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 6: hang out with me. I don't want to have to

546
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 6: be competing with every everybody leaving a comment.

547
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 4: On your dms.

548
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: But is that competition though, because if you're the winner,

549
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: you're just gonna win. She's like, I think the vast

550
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: majority of women that I know aren't super interested in

551
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: the guys who slide into their dms like hey, because

552
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: usually that's all it says, correct and it's awful correct.

553
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 6: And so what I've been trying to do now is

554
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 6: I'm just meeting people out. If I meet somebody out,

555
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 6: I get their information. I'm not going online. I'm not

556
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,400
Speaker 6: sliding into dms. And if it works at it, we're sad.

557
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 6: I met somebody when we were out a couple of

558
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 6: weeks ago, yeah, and so we went out once and

559
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 6: went out. We went out and we went on one date,

560
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 6: and I've texted her twice. She hasn't replied over the

561
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 6: course of four days.

562
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 4: Done good free. Sorry.

563
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 6: If you're not replying back to me after ninety six hours,

564
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 6: you're off.

565
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,880
Speaker 1: Well that's yeah, good for you, Nate, stay strong. So

566
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: I was telling Diamond this in the last episode. We

567
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 1: were out in Miami not too long ago, and these

568
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,160
Speaker 1: guys were trying to buy his dinner and he asked

569
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: me for my phone number, and I was like, no,

570
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm not going to give you my phone number, you

571
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: can here's my Instagram.

572
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 3: That's just as bad.

573
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 7: Okay, Okay.

574
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 1: His boys flipped out. They're like, don't do it, don't

575
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: follow her. You're not a fucking fan. Fuck that shit.

576
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 1: But they were so angry. Do you guys find that offensive?

577
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: If you ask for a number and she's like, no,

578
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: here's my Instagram, I think.

579
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 6: That's actually I mean, here's the thing. You can reach

580
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 6: out on Instagram, So you have this person's kind It's

581
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 6: as good as the phone number in my mind. And

582
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 6: plus you get to see this person in a different light.

583
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 6: You get to do some vetting, you'd get to do

584
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 6: some background research to.

585
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: See who they want you to think they are.

586
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 6: If you just get the phone number, you have no

587
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 6: unless you're paying for a background check, you have no

588
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 6: idea who this person is. I would prefer the Instagram

589
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 6: at this point.

590
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: That was my exact point. I'm like, if I give

591
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: somebody my phone number, anybody, you can search so many

592
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: different things about me. And I'm not a fan of

593
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: that because I already get enough letters from prison and

594
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 1: that is not fun. So I don't want to give

595
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: somebody my phone number. I would much rather just give

596
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: them what everybody has access to and then actually talk

597
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: to you and if it feels like it's a safe space,

598
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 1: do that. Though when I took these dudes were oh

599
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 1: fin yeah, well like what a bitch?

600
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't have any any skin in

601
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 3: this game.

602
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 5: But but I observationally, I could tell you that I

603
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 5: think a phone number at this point is more of

604
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 5: It means something a little bit more than someone getting there,

605
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 5: you know, follow each other on Instagram. I mean that

606
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,959
Speaker 5: that's my observation. I mean that's I feel like Instagram

607
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 5: d ms are like the new I'll text you kind of.

608
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 3: Thing, right, is that right?

609
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

610
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 3: Or Snapchat or Snapchat.

611
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: I'mon just made a face of Snapchat.

612
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: Snapchat for me is like maybe I'm stuck in twenty

613
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 2: and sixteen. But Snapchat is just like, oh, I'm going

614
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 2: to send you nudes and then I just kidding. So yeah,

615
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 2: Snapchat is not for texting.

616
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 3: Snapchat is not for texting.

617
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 5: But I feel like I read an article recently that

618
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 5: gen z that's how they that's how they communicate is

619
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 5: through Snapchat.

620
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 3: That's how they text each other.

621
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Speaker 4: Okay, so let me ask you a single Like we're out,

622
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 4: then we're out. Hey, what's up?

623
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 9: Hey Jesus bar No, not like I know you, but

624
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 9: yeah I don't know him.

625
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, go ahead.

626
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 6: Hey, you know you seem really cool. Uh you want

627
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 6: to get together sometime?

628
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: Sure?

629
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: Me on Instagram?

630
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 2: We could chat on there.

631
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 4: Actually I do kind of feel a little offended by that.

632
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 6: Why I would like it for vetting purposes, but and

633
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 6: like I don't deserve your phone number.

634
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 2: Well, guys have said that. Guys have been like, oh,

635
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 2: so you think I'm just gonna follow you and you're

636
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 2: never gonna follow me back, or I'm like, if it's

637
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: that deep, then don't follow me, but DM me on Instagram,

638
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: like if it's that serious. But like, no, I'm not

639
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 2: giving you my number. I lie and tell people. Oh no,

640
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 2: I've had a horrible experience with giving people my number

641
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 2: in the past just because people I know have, so

642
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 2: why not? But like, I'm not giving you my number.

643
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: I don't know you.

644
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 6: Do you know you could block these people like you

645
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 6: They already.

646
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: Have your number, so then they can use another phone

647
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 2: to call you if I block you on Instagram.

648
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 4: All right, here's the question.

649
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 1: And you're afraid of getting I have you.

650
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 6: Here's the thing with stockers. They will always find a

651
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 6: way to get in touched.

652
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: I've gotten hit up on Venmo.

653
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 6: I have had people show up at my door. What like,

654
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 6: you know, you block them on social media, you block

655
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 6: their phone number, and.

656
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 4: They show up at your door. It is not fun.

657
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 6: So if it's a stock or stalker, they will find

658
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,959
Speaker 6: a way to get you. But are you passing up

659
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 6: love just because you don't want to give out your

660
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 6: phone number?

661
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 2: No? But I'm like I don't. Also, I don't like

662
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: when I tell a guy like, oh no, just add

663
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 2: me on Instagram and you make a big deal out

664
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: of it, because now I'm like, well, what's on your

665
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: Instagram that you don't want me to see just yet?

666
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: Now I'm flipping it on you.

667
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: What's going on here?

668
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 7: You know?

669
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 2: Like, if it's that big of a deal to you,

670
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 2: then maybe maybe I am passing up on love because

671
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: something is not right.

672
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Speaker 1: I don't know, So are you guys?

673
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Speaker 2: Okay?

674
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: And I think there's only one answer to this question.

675
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: If when you start talking to someone and maybe start

676
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: dating someone, they're also talking to other.

677
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 4: People, I'm fine with it. I actually fully expect.

678
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: That right as an adult, you should absolutely expect that.

679
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: I think it's wild. I mean, we were talking about

680
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: this girl we knew who started dating a guy that

681
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: she worked with, and one of the other girls was like,

682
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's stating like twenty people. Somebody needs

683
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: to tell her why they just started talking. It should

684
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: be expected, like I wouldn't it be a.

685
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 5: Little sudd That's a red flag in my opinion. That's

686
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 5: somebody who's very insecure and has low self esteem if

687
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 5: they expect that you're the only person that they're going

688
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 5: to be speaking to, And like.

689
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: How he if you meet somebody and they aren't talking

690
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: to anyone else, that's wrong with you. You don't have anybody

691
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: nobody in the hotel.

692
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 5: If I were single and I was out there, I

693
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 5: would I would expect every woman would would would have

694
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 5: have like fifteen twenty guys that they're talking to.

695
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 3: I would. I just assume that.

696
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: So, then, Nate, when you said you don't want to

697
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: be in competition with all these guys sliding into her dms,

698
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: you're okay being in competition with them in real life.

699
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely, yeah, I fully expect not to be. I

700
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 6: would like to if I meet somebody that I want

701
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 6: to have a relationship with have that conversation down the road,

702
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 6: there will probably be a natural point to have it, like, hey,

703
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 6: are we exclusive?

704
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 4: But yeah, that point?

705
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: What's that point?

706
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 3: Oh?

707
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 4: God didn't work out for me last time, so okay.

708
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: But the question I asked Simon was how long could

709
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: a situation situation should remain that until you had to

710
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: have a conversation.

711
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 4: You when you know, you know you have that conversation.

712
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: Really yeah, no, once I start feeling like this could

713
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 2: be a situationship, we can have one conversation and after

714
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: that if the games keep, like if there's still games

715
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: after that, well, but you see, guys love the wing,

716
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: you know, you know they use that as a way

717
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: out ofttle.

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00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 4: I mean, like, when you know you have the cut

719
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 4: to have the conversation, right, but how.

720
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: Long does it take you to have the conversation? Nate?

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00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: You know, so that's a red flag to you? Okay, Nate.

722
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: If people want to, like, say, there's some absolute babe

723
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: who's the exact person that you want, she wants to

724
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: reach out to you, is there a way to even

725
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: do that?

726
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 4: I don't know.

727
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 6: I say that jokingly. I would really like to meet

728
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 6: somebody the good old fashioned way when I'm out like

729
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 6: a movie, you know, but I.

730
00:30:59,080 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 4: Know it's not going to happen.

731
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 1: I think up her handkerchief when she drops it.

732
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 4: I would love that seriously, but I know it's not

733
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 4: going to happen.

734
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: Okay, And then build your woman the things that are important.

735
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 6: To you, you know, can't he caring? Like just compassion

736
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 6: I think would be the number one thing.

737
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 4: That's the number one number one.

738
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

739
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 6: I can't even really give you physical attributes.

740
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: But you have a type right lines.

741
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 4: Tan lines is my pornhub search, but.

742
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: Which I think should also be a first date question.

743
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 4: What is that?

744
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 6: Is a pretty good Well, depends on the person. Some

745
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 6: people you can get away with it by asking that question.

746
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: But I like to think the person of my dreams

747
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: or your dreams, you could get away with that on

748
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: the first date because they would laugh.

749
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 6: Well, and that's that's the thing, right Like I could

750
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 6: like the person I went out with a couple of

751
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 6: weeks ago, I couldn't. I just knew by the tenor

752
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 6: of the conversation, I couldn't ask them that question where

753
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 6: I would ask that question on a first date, So

754
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 6: I knew right then this person really isn't for me.

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00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: Okay, so far we're just that compassionate and that's it.

756
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 6: Compassionate. Yeah, I think that's a great starting and just

757
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 6: get back to me seriously.

758
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, be compassionate.

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00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's it. As of now, it takes very little

760
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 4: to get my attention.

761
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: I need to put more thought into this. Scary, what

762
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: do you think his dream girls like?

763
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 3: His dream girl?

764
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 7: Yeah?

765
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 3: Ah man, uh some blonde? Okay, I think so definitely blonde.

766
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 3: I think you're staying blonde.

767
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. He likes sometimes.

768
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:30,719
Speaker 7: I also think that you like.

769
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 5: I think you like women who are five seven, five

770
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 5: eight in that range, like a lower short Okay, see

771
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 5: I don't.

772
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 3: I don't know because I haven't.

773
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 4: I have data across suspect.

774
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 3: I also you like you.

775
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: Like what spectrum?

776
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know he likes He likes uh snippy women

777
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 5: who are kind of slightly rude because he can, because

778
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 5: he feels like he could play with them and give

779
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 5: it back to them and they I do.

780
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 7: Like a little bit of a fight.

781
00:32:58,840 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 4: Scary does know me?

782
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 7: He loves you?

783
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 4: No, don't make this rapee Okay, he likes him?

784
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 3: No, no, no, he likes it.

785
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 7: No struggle no, he likes. I likes it when a

786
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 7: woman is like it doesn't get.

787
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 5: Him all the attention right away, and maybe he has

788
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 5: a has a jokey.

789
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: Way about it, like chemistry with I love, and I

790
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: love somebody that can make fun of me, right.

791
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 4: I love somebody.

792
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 7: That does that, who condish it out and can take.

793
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 4: It because I feel like that makes me a better time.

794
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

795
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 1: Absolutely? It puts you in your best light when you

796
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: get to play he gets.

797
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 5: I like what he gets because he'll get snarky too.

798
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: Give him permission.

799
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: I love snarky Nate. Snarky Nate is so fun to me.

800
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: I enjoy it. See if I could build it, build

801
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: it for him, which I feel like you should just

802
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: let me do it. But I don't also want to

803
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: be that personal.

804
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 6: If you want to set me up guy, that will

805
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 6: be uh sauce on the side number two with.

806
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 4: Me after the thing.

807
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: Ladies, let me know you think your Nate's type. But

808
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: this is what I think. I think he likes a

809
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: small woman, maybe blonde hair. I think you'd go for

810
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: a brunette too. I think he wants somebody who obviously

811
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: is compassionate, fun, playful, like doesn't take themselves too seriously,

812
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: but is intelligent and has a good career, not a job,

813
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: like not just going out and being a bartender on

814
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: the weekends. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but

815
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 1: I think Nate is interested in somebody who has a career.

816
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: I think you led and it's passionate about something and

817
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: can also just it's kind of well read. I think

818
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:31,959
Speaker 1: Nate's very well read.

819
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 4: I do like intelligence.

820
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I noticed that about you.

821
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And I think that there are a lot

822
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: of these people out there. I don't know where they are.

823
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I know where my friends are. But again,

824
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this.

825
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:43,479
Speaker 4: They're all taken.

826
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: I don't have some single ones. I think it'll be great,

827
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: but I leave it alone.

828
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 7: I will.

829
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll all hang out one day and you'll just

830
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: organically run into them, all.

831
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 6: Right, if you want to try and you know, pull

832
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 6: those strings, I'm more than happy to be on the

833
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 6: stage with you.

834
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: I only want to pull a string if I know

835
00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 1: it's going to succeed.

836
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 4: Because I don't see you can't do that. You can't

837
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 4: do that.

838
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: I think the arranged marriage thing works well for a

839
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: lot of reasons. Yeah, and a lot of people think

840
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: it's oh because you can't get divorce, as you can.

841
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: But who's gonna come up with a better person for

842
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:19,720
Speaker 1: you then your mom, your siblings and your best friends.

843
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 4: Well, I've already proven that I'm not the best judge

844
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 4: a character.

845
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: You can't pick a pick. Okay, So people want to

846
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 1: find you, guys online? Where they can find you.

847
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 5: Scary you could follow me on Instagram at Scary Jones

848
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 5: uh and listen to your podcast, to the podcast The

849
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 5: Brooklyn Boys with Scary Jones and David Brody.

850
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 1: Sar and Brody.

851
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 3: Scary and Brody. Right, yeah, we we have.

852
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 5: These kinds of fun conversations as well. Yeah, conversations like this. Yeah, yeah,

853
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 5: but we make fun of each other. But Brodie's a clown,

854
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 5: you know, in a fun way. You know, he's very

855
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 5: snarky bastard. He's Larry David Nate.

856
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 1: Where can they find you at?

857
00:35:55,840 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 6: Nate Underscore Marino and just give me a follow If

858
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 6: you think you my type based on Gandhi's description, be

859
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 6: all those things.

860
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,439
Speaker 1: If you're not those things, leave them alone, do not apply.

861
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: I think that's my favorite. When we say this person's

862
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: interested in let's say, like we set a petite blonde

863
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: and like a six foot black haired chick shows up

864
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: like I heard you're interested, no specifically not what he wants,

865
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: all right, and you can find Diamond at Diamond sincere.

866
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 1: She just ran out of the room for a minute,

867
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: and I am at Baby Hot Sauce. Also follow the

868
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: podcast at Sauce on the side like follow, subscribe, leave

869
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: us a review, and guys, thank you for joining us

870
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: and clearing the air about the elevator situation.

871
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 5: This is I hope to be invited back again sometimes

872
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 5: for another creepy topic.

873
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 1: Please come back any time you want. People want to

874
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 1: hear from you, Guys, hear that often.

875
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 4: Just don't make me sound like a predator. Thank you?

876
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 4: Was Scary?

877
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: Scary the predator? What okay? And you had to run

878
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 1: out at the end of that, and you are now back.

879
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts?

880
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 2: Same thing that I said in the beginning. Scary says

881
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 2: shit that does not make sense, and Nate is the

882
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,760
Speaker 2: only person that can make sense of it. Honestly, Scary

883
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 2: needs Nate by his side. Twenty four to seven.

884
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, are you gonna tell Scary that?

885
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 2: Sure?

886
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: Okay, we play a game with Scary. By the way,

887
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know if he knows this,

888
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,479
Speaker 1: but now he's gonna know it because he's probably gonna

889
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 1: listen to this episode because he's on it, or someone

890
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: he knows is gonna listen to it and tell him.

891
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: We play a game where we ask serious, where we

892
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 1: ask Scary a question, and then we all guess how

893
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: long he's gonna take to answer the question. If none

894
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,720
Speaker 1: of us interrupt him, how long will he continue talking?

895
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Speaker 1: Who is We don't worry about who's we?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, Scary, if you're listening, I have nothing to

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Speaker 2: do with this.

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Speaker 1: I'm a rich lady. Just know that thanks to you, Scary,

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Speaker 1: he's like our own personal a little like Calshi over here.

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Speaker 1: He gives us all these little side beats and it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: So Diamond, I already dropped it earlier, but say it again.

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Speaker 1: If people want to find you or can they find

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Speaker 1: you online.

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Speaker 2: At Diamond sincere on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm basically doing the whole end of the podcast

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Speaker 1: again because now you're back, So like, follow, subscribe, leave

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Speaker 1: us a talkback, no matter what the talkback says, we

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Speaker 1: are interested in hearing your feedback. You can find me

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Speaker 1: on Instagram at baby Hot Sauce and follow the podcast

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Speaker 1: page at Sauce on the side. We're growing. We're growing slowly,

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Speaker 1: but we're growing.

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Speaker 2: Love it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like to grow faster. I would love

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Speaker 1: that more. Follow please that's all.

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Speaker 2: Say bye bye