WEBVTT - "Tough Love" Season 7 Ep4 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:20.239 In the spirit of old people in general. I mean 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:22.720 just you know, you get to do whatever you want. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:25.800 You just get to be weirder and weirders given that 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:27.200 here we go, here we go. 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:29.960 Now you have You've reached it. 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:34.240 Ab you have done it, my dear, you are fifty 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:34.840 years old. 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:37.200 Hell yeah yeah. 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:39.879 Well, And the ironic thing is that everybody at this 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:44.120 resort I went to, they kept saying congratulations, not happy birthday, 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:46.320 but congratulations, like and I'm. 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:47.360 Like, yeah, I made it. 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:50.440 I made it to Beaty and I am Maddy Betty, Hey, 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:51.360 good job. 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:55.240 You know it was an accomplishment. I made it to 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:58.880 this day. Congratulations, Thank you. I worked quite hard should 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.160 get to this point. I always say that when people 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:01.480 are like. 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:03.319 I want to say my age, I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:07.320 no no. You earned every day that you have up 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.480 until now. Do not deny yourself or anyone else. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.720 The ability to know that you have fought for every 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:14.480 day of fifty that you've been here. You know. 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:20.480 Heck yeah no, it isn't songs. It's all over now. 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:24.720 Hey, I'm just getting started. I'm so ready for my 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:27.800 Golden Girls era. Like, give me my breaking. 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:32.080 Toss out the momos and the cattans. Here we come, 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:33.319 here we come. 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:37.679 Yes, we are back, we are back, And yeah, I 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.600 had such I'll give you the recap. I had an 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:42.280 amazing fiftieth birthday. 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:43.600 I did not your picture. 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:45.960 I just had the picture you sent us our little 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:50.440 HRT group chat was like ab just chilling in. 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:51.400 A pool with her son hat. 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:53.240 I think you posted it maybe too, but it was 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:55.720 I was so happy. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:56.760 For you in that moment. I was like, that is 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.040 exactly what she needs to be doing. 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:00.440 That is exactly what I wanted to do, and it 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:03.640 was just incredible. So I did not go to see 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:07.320 Backstreet Boys in Orlando like you, like you suggested im. 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:10.320 Don't you don't remember you making that joke like three 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:10.880 weeks ago? 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:12.799 Yes, I said I didn't want. 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.560 To go to Vegas because it'd be too crowded and loud. 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:16.800 So I am doing the opposite. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:20.399 And you said, are you going to see Backstreet Poison Orlando, 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:23.160 which is the opposite in Vegas. 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:25.440 It's funny. Yeah, it was a great joke. Yeah, he's funny. 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:29.280 I like that you but I said that I'm a 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:32.480 fifty year old and I've explined the joke made me 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:34.400 and my friends trying to write a show. We all 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.320 of a sudden come out with four brilliant jokes and 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.520 then none of us can remember what us or the 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:41.160 other person said, and we're like, oh, no, I have 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:42.519 to turn on my AI. 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:46.080 Not taking just so I know what I said. This 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:48.880 is so related away back to your old day, so 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:51.600 really good, back to my old day. So no. 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:57.280 I went to Nayarit, Mexico, which is the jungle part 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:59.840 of Mexico, which I didn't even know existed. 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:02.080 I mean, you didn't know it existed. 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:04.320 Well, when I think of Mexico, I think of like beaches, 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.400 you know, and sand I didn't. 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:08.200 I did. There is like, there's what do you think 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:12.280 about in between the beaches, because there's a coast on 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:18.519 one side, as a coast on the other. What's in between, Well, dungle. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:21.400 It turns out there's jungle this place. 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.119 So I went to one and only Mandarina, and it's 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.800 where the jungle meets the ocean. So I was in 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:31.440 a treehouse, in a treehouse in the jungle with a 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:35.680 view of the ocean, which was absolute perfection. 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:37.560 That's I want to do that. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:39.720 I didn't want sand I didn't want, like I just 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:43.800 wanted to be surrounded by nature, and this resort delivered. 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.280 Like being hugged by a tree. Yeah, that's exactly what 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:46.760 it was. 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:50.160 And this this place, this was not camped or anything 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:52.880 like this. They don't I'm not doing an ad or 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:53.440 anything right now. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.840 This is an I didn't good shipped for free. I 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.600 just really had a good time and they told me congratulations. 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:03.640 Everywhere they don't know who I am. There was nothing 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:06.600 that anything like, So yeah, this is just my genuine 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:09.440 impressious But the thing that I loved most about this 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:12.080 place is that it's not like they bulldozed a bunch 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:16.480 of rainforests to create this hotel with a view. They 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:21.920 very intentionally built this place using the existing like topography. 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:26.440 So yeah, that's like, look, if you're gonna do it, 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.880 don't don't mess with it. 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:30.960 Don't mount me as little as possible. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:34.280 Yeah, no, this is They very much put nature at 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:38.320 the forefront of every thoughtful design, and they did not 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:42.320 cut down a single mature tree to build this place. 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.880 That makes me so happy if they it makes me 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:46.520 really really happy to that. 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.719 I'm sorry, Like I get really excited when I find 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:51.360 out that, like people are actually trying to not cut 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:52.160 down trees. 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.239 Yeah, yeah, it makes. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.760 A big like I think they relocated some trees and 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.359 replant like a few sometimes happened the. 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.479 Mature trees, like the two hundred year old. 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:05.479 Trade, the big old ones, the treehouses on stilt, you know, 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:07.000 up and around these trees. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.680 So that's the view that I had. Was natural. 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:12.640 They didn't create this view, but the trees, like this 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:13.800 is what it was. 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:15.080 It was just amazing. 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:17.600 Those pictures are now even more incredible and now I 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:19.000 want to go back and be like, oh wow. 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:21.080 That's so cool. Yeah, it was very very cool. 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:25.120 It was very like living in Avatar basically. Yeah, it 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:30.479 was minus the blue people. So yeah, it was just 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:34.479 it's a very magical place. It's on the resorts on 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:39.159 eighty acres of this jungle. The entire property six hundred acres, 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:41.080 but the place where I stayed was eighty acres, and 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:41.839 so there's lots. 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:45.040 Of like hills and winding paths and like. 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:48.520 There's heavy just like meander around the nature. 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:50.560 Oh my gosh, I said, I think I sent you 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.240 the video of the found your. 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:58.279 New favorite bird, the Kuka birr or whatever's Legitimately, I 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.600 woke up with Chachalaca jo a lot. 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:06.479 It's you know, they they sounded like rusty machinery. This 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:08.520 is how I woke up on my fiftieth birthday. Was 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:11.359 and I'm like, what's happening? 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:13.120 But it was fascinating. 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:18.640 So I was all about like the birds and the kawakilars, 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:20.839 that's the first thing we said. 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:25.040 And you did not bring your birding binocular you know. 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.880 Michael said the same thing. He's like, we forgot the binoculars. 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.280 And I was like, ah, so you know, that's okay. 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:31.640 But I was in a treehouse. 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:36.880 I was like, yours, so that's okay. But yeah, it 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.680 was just it was so me, just feeling like there's 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:42.919 I came home thinking a lot and learning more about 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:46.520 like biophilia, which is like humans innate need to connect 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:50.240 with the nature and how it restores us mentally and emotionally. 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:53.920 And that's me Like, that's why I like the birds, 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.400 the bald eagles, That's why I love It's. 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:01.240 I found that when I came back from Panama after 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:03.120 I did that show, lived in the jungles for two weeks. 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:05.320 I always was like, I'm not really an outdoorsy person. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:06.480 Oh and I. 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:09.120 All of a sudden realized, No, I really really am. 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:10.760 Like I was just thinking this week, I was like, 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.480 I need some nature. I need to be in trees 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.960 because I just I realize now, like it's the only 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:20.239 thing that really calms me completely down. 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:23.840 Wants to be like in a forest, in trees, in nature. 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:26.320 Oh, it's it's very restorative. 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:29.760 And I biophilia. That sounds a little weird, but I'm 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.720 gonna it sounds like a disease, but no, it's a 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:32.360 it's a concept. 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:34.040 Sounds like something that you wouldn't want to research on 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:35.000 the internet, you know what I mean. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.480 Yeah, it's just yeah, I know it's about how that's 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:43.560 why your nervous system feels like it's calming down as 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.280 you go barefoot in the grass or surround yourself with 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:49.560 the rainforest noises or you know, there's I'm very deeply 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:52.160 connected to that. So in that sense, this was the 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:55.400 perfect place for me to be. And we did like 0:07:55.520 --> 0:08:00.160 clay mud treatments, we did coples massage, we did a 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:06.720 tequila tasting of different spirits like repissodo and mescal. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.520 So I thought of your husband I was doing that, 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:14.160 and so toll Ri si Ya or what there was 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:17.280 isn't there like an inejo and it's like a yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.000 it's like I used to really went back in my 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:22.280 drinking days. There was a great little bar. It was 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.640 an all tequila bar and they had it was the 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:27.000 first place that I learned that tequila doesn't have to 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:29.239 burn your throat and make you puke. 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:32.360 Yeah yeah, and it can actually be really like yeah, 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:33.280 like really. 0:08:33.000 --> 0:08:36.680 Smooth, like I had like an Oakie tequila because it 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.000 had been aged in a barrel for like fifteen years, 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:41.920 which is like I didn't know that. So there's yeah, 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:44.960 there's different ways of making it, distilling it so that 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:46.920 it creates different tastes and different. 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.800 Strengths and different Yeah, it was just super cool. I was. 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:53.000 I just very much sipped that because otherwise between the. 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:56.240 Humidity and the heat and my age, Like, first of all, 0:08:56.320 --> 0:09:00.640 it's health water that we've determined that the water, but 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:04.319 I shot time has determined tequila is actually has ren 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:08.280 rebranded as health water, and I you need to stay hydrated. 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.360 It's very humid. Yeah, it was very humid. So it's 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:13.040 actually one reason not to drink is because well yeah. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:14.600 That's why I just did the SIPs. There was eight 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.880 different types of spirits. So I was like, I'm just 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.679 doing one sip per and that was plenty. 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:20.200 But there was that. 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:23.200 We did a nature hike and saw a five hundred 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.400 year old tree they call Abuela, which is like this 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.920 ancient fig tree, which is it's dying unfortunately but it's 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:31.160 still up for now. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:35.439 Like the Grandmother tree. Yeah. Oh it was so great. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:37.760 It was just a did you get to hug it? 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:38.640 I did. 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:40.400 I got to hug it. Michael and I took some 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.520 pictures in front of it. Oh, and then they laid 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:45.080 out like this yoga mat and so we did some 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:48.240 meditations and like the sound bath and I was like, yes, 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:50.280 I never wanted to leave it was. 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:53.760 It was incredible, but oh, that's amazing. It was great. 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:57.160 I was very ready to get back to southern California 0:09:57.200 --> 0:10:00.960 weather because the humidity kicked my I am just not 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:03.439 used to that type of I don't. 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.360 Mind humidity if I can be if I'm at a 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.640 resort or at a beach or like, I don't have 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:10.720 to look cute and I can just be roaming around 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:12.719 in like shorts and a bathing suit tie, you know 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:14.160 what I mean. Then I'm like, oh, this is great. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:17.440 I love humidity. Ye, I like love tropical weather. But 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:21.600 if I have to be looking human and not sweaty. 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:23.200 Oh, it's not the place for me because. 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:24.920 I start sweating and it doesn't stop. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:25.520 Absolutely. 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.040 I brought makeup and never put any on because it 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.559 would just melt off my face. 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:34.280 I've actually started stopped taking like makeup really on vacation. 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:37.760 Yeah. There's because I'm like, I don't care when I'm 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:39.120 at home. Why am I going to start doing it 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:41.800 on vacation? Exactly. Yeah. I was like, well, I want 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:43.760 to look I want to look ill, look good on 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:44.360 my birthday. 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.560 But I was like, no, I'm just like I care, 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:51.160 I'll just put up my wet hair and sunscreenuse. 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:55.720 Yeah. So great. So yeah, it was just otherworldly. It 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:56.400 was dreamy. 0:10:56.960 --> 0:11:00.960 I loved it, and it's my celebration aren't over. I'm 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:02.960 now I'm going to celebrate with my kids in the 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:06.839 upcoming weeks. We're going to Catalina, just just me and 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:07.800 my kids. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.440 No offense to Michael, but this is very special for me. 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:12.760 I was going to say, this is like, this is 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:15.680 a thing for your family Catalina, and so like to 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:16.400 go with them. 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:17.560 It's a big one. 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:19.480 Yeah, they have you guys been have you been out 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:21.880 there since like with your dad? 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:25.320 Oh, we went with my dad a couple of years ago. Okay, 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:29.080 since we've been since my mom passed, and so yeah, 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:30.800 I think we went once or twice with my dad 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:31.320 since then. 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:33.960 But yeah, it's just it's just me and the kids. 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:37.079 Just I just want to reconnect with my my baby adults. 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.600 They're so excited about it. They're not even like rolling 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.360 their eyes and endurance because it's. 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:42.559 All of a sudden, You're like, look, it's kind of 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:44.319 a different that, like, you guys are baby adults now, 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:46.880 Like I'm not, I don't have to monitor you. You 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:49.160 guys want to go hang out, Okay, fine, but like 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:50.600 now we get to connect in a different way. 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:51.000 I love that. 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.760 Yeah, yeah, you know, I'm I'm I'm very excited. And yeah, 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:56.280 they were like, why don't we get to go to Mexico? 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:57.880 So I'm like, we're going to Catalina because. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:02.960 Vacation, right right, there's that. But yeah, there's just something 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:03.480 about in this. 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:07.000 I mean, there's something about and you can relate to 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:10.760 this being a single mom and raising your kids, like 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:12.920 and I've I've that's not to say I've had a 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:15.080 lot of help. I haven't raised them alone, right. 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:17.000 Right, right right, I know he's gotten a lot Like 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:18.680 my dad's are completely gone. 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.559 When you have your mom is mom's mom. 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:24.080 Mom is mom on the emotional labor and the all 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:25.800 of a lot of the other exactly. 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:27.679 And so this is kind of a celebration of like 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:30.040 I did it, Like the city has just graduated from 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:30.720 high school. 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:32.920 It's a celebration of, like. 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:35.600 I raised these kids, not alone, but I did a 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:37.920 huge part in and raising them into the huids at 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:40.720 the r And I'm really excited about it. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:45.960 Nobody's dead. Yeah, yeah, I mean like that, but for real, 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:46.880 for real. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:49.800 Yeah, I'm I think it's gonna be a very meaningful 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:53.160 It's just an overnight of that. But I'm super super 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.400 excited about it in a completely different way than I 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:56.400 was for Mexico. 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.760 So what was the name of the Mexico place again? 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:00.360 Because I know people will want to see it and 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:01.920 I want to write it down because I'm like, wait, 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:05.280 hold on, treehouses, it's Mexico commnity. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:06.720 The keyword is Mandarina. 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:09.559 Mandarina Okay, got it, like a little mandarin. 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:11.640 Yeah, it's a it's I stayed the one and only. 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:14.480 It's a one and only property, so one and only Mandarina. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:18.120 They have a Rosewood next door as well, and it 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:19.600 was it was fantastic. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:20.400 It was. 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:23.600 It was I've never been anywhere like it, like that, 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:30.280 and it's in the state of Nayarite, which is about 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:31.920 like an hour hour and a. 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:33.319 Half north of Porto Riarta. 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.720 Okay, so yeah, we flew into Porto Arcta and uh 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.439 and drove up to up the coast, through. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:42.520 The jungles into the jungle. Turns out there's more in 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:44.600 between the coasts. There's more in between. 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:49.920 And our last night was the Mexico versus England. 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:54.880 Yeah, bummer to watch that game there. My house was 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.880 very happy because of course it was Scal's English, so 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:58.400 that's that's right. 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:00.600 We had an opposite time watching. Oyeah. 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:03.840 We were all yes, we were very sad, I'm sure, yeah, 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:05.840 but it was very loud that night too there. 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:11.600 Watching watching like World Cup in a place or in 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:14.120 a country where people like live and breathe. 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:17.880 Yep, soccer, it's a religion. Yes, so great. 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:20.920 We tried to be like it was during our dinner 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:22.480 hour and I'm like, I'm sorry, I don't want to 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:24.240 disturb you guys, like, we'll just order and. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:26.360 Get out of here, right, We're good. Yeah, yea, yeah, 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:30.320 I get I'll get my own my own pasta, I'll 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:33.640 get the bar. Yeah. Yeah, back there making yourself a margarita. 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:38.840 So that's it. I've talked enough. I love it. 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:42.760 It was great, and yeah, I'm I'm very relaxed and 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:43.480 very good. 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:44.000 Fifty. 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:46.480 I feel very fifty, but I feel great about it, 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:46.760 you know. 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:49.640 Yea and stretch. 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:57.000 Yeah, Ki, thank you Molly Shannon for that brilliant Yeah. 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.160 Well good, I'm glad. I'm glad you enjoy that. 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.840 I he was for a little bit finishing up some 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:05.560 work stuff. And it was also hot and miserably humid. 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:07.280 It was the day that I think the heat index 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:08.960 said it felt like one hundred and twelve and we. 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:11.000 Had to work outside that day. So that was fun. 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:15.320 Oh my gosh, that's right. Just pools of sweat, just 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.920 just we can't help. 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.640 We Southern Californians can't cope. Mad respect to the people 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:21.440 who lived full time. 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:26.480 Even everybody that was like this is terrible, like the 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:29.120 locals are like, it's this is awful, even for us. 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:32.280 So yeah, so I didn't feel as bad. Did you 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.680 do anything for the fourth? Like, I didn't do anything 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:37.600 that was not a damn thing. Yes, all right, so 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:39.240 I came. 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:43.720 I flew home on the third from Philadelphia, actually, which 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:47.640 I'm sure was killing it on the fourth, although for 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:50.200 many reasons, they had i mean Fourth of July in Philadelphia, 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:54.840 but also they had a World Cup game that. 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:54.200 That day too. 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:57.040 Oh yeah, it was like it was actually kind of 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.800 probably would have been a fun day to be in Philly, yeah, 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.080 other than the fact that it was miserably hot and 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:04.720 everything was terrible and they were like thunderstorms and stuff. 0:16:06.120 --> 0:16:08.080 But no, I didn't do anything. Got home on the third. 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:10.200 I came home, and I'm pretty sure I slept for 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:14.920 like three days because the humidity just it. 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:15.600 Wiped me out. 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:17.720 We were only out there for like a week doing stuff, 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:21.040 and it sucked the life right out of me. And 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.560 then also just like the work schedule, you know, I 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:26.160 always kind of have the decompression like a few days 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.440 after work where I'm just like, I'm just gonna eat 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:31.000 and sleep basically I'm going to hibernate for like three 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:32.320 days and then I shall return. 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:32.640 Yeah. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.440 Oh, it's that's what I did when I got home 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:36.960 from Mexico. I just like I drew all the blinds on, 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:40.560 Like I just like, I just don't write, don't talk 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:40.760 to me. 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.320 I'm just gonna recover. And you know, it's interesting. 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:46.760 There's a it's a transition between coming home and between 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:47.920 vacation and coming home. 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.320 There's an adjustment. Yeah, it is. 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:54.000 Yeah, and I struggle with adjustments sometimes, so like coming 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.880 back from work or vacation or leaving or you know, just. 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:02.240 My little, my little touch of this, you know, Okay, sorry, 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:05.080 This is why we all need to connect more with nature, 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:08.560 you know, when you're in the middle of transit. Tree 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:10.240 wild bear tree. 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:13.440 I had like a three hundred and fifty year old 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:17.080 tree in Scotland where we were staying. We're staying at 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:18.440 this little place on a lock. 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:20.360 Lot and it was this old yeah. 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:22.640 Yeah, it was an old house that they'd converted into 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:26.320 a small like little inn and one of the trees 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:28.360 planted there and it was played by someone famous, but yeah, 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:29.560 it was like three hundred fifty years old. And I 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:31.200 just went and like I was like hugging trees on 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:31.639 the property. 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:33.200 People thought I was probably crazy. 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:35.199 But oh, you know, I love tree, so yeah, go 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:46.800 hug a tree and breathe some fresh air. Welcome back 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:49.040 to how Rude Tan RINOs. I am now the fifty 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:50.840 year old Andrea Barber. 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:54.000 And I am not the fifty year old yet, Jody Sweeten, 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:56.160 but my brain feels like seventy. 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:01.600 And today we're discussing season seven episode for Tough Love. 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:05.840 It originally aired October fifth, nineteen ninety three, and it 0:18:05.960 --> 0:18:09.880 goes a little something like this, Nicky and Alex's behavior 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:12.520 gets out of hand when Becky and Jesse can't bring 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:14.200 themselves to discipline them. 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:16.440 When Jesse finally puts his foot down. 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.920