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Speaker 2: It's your girl lex Speak and it's Sugarl dre and

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Speaker 2: a call and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 2: of Poor Minds where.

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Speaker 1: A drunk mind speaks thought.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I just feel like a sigh of relief.

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Speaker 1: There's been a lot going on in the media. Bitch,

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Speaker 1: stop dancing.

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Speaker 2: There's been a lot going on, you know, between the coronavirus,

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Speaker 2: between the police brutality and everything going on. So, you know,

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Speaker 2: we took a week off last week, and we were

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Speaker 2: really debating on going back and forth with having a

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Speaker 2: regular episode today. So we just decided to have a

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Speaker 2: regular episode just because we want to get happy again.

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Speaker 2: Although we're still in the process of you know, protesting

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Speaker 2: and donating and doing what we're supposed to do.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like y'all.

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Speaker 2: Just need some comedian relief. So yeah, we're back on

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Speaker 2: a lighter note. So this is gonna be a regular

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Speaker 2: episode today. But thank y'all so much for everybody last

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Speaker 2: week tuning in. I know y'all come here for the Joe,

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Speaker 2: but you know, you gotta stand for.

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Speaker 1: Something, fall for anything, period. So what's been up this

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Speaker 1: past week? What's hell? Gay? Oh? Hey, I have a

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Speaker 1: bit of drama. You know.

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Speaker 2: Well, I know you're not gonna talk about it, but

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Speaker 2: we can talk about the other drama that you got

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Speaker 2: going on. I just dream got this friend, y'all who

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Speaker 2: just don't like me, and she will not shut the

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Speaker 2: fuck up about me, and I can't stand her like bi.

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Speaker 3: On another note, she don't really like Keiki neither. She

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Speaker 3: don't like she's so fucking weird. Let me tell y'all something.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. She's not my friend.

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Speaker 3: How we wish you would stop saying. I literally hadn't

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Speaker 3: even talked to her in a month and a half.

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Speaker 3: This is the first time I talked to her well

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Speaker 3: rolling her eyes. But I was at Kiky house and

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Speaker 3: we're just sad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel like, let me tell y'all something

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Speaker 2: for anybody that has a friend there, Like, say, you're

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Speaker 2: friends with somebody and you don't like another person that

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Speaker 2: they're hanging out with. But guess what we're grown If

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Speaker 2: Drea has a friend that I don't like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: about to sit on the phone and call Drey and

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Speaker 2: be like, why are you hanging out with Latanya? You

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Speaker 2: know I can't stand at behch. You know, I like

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Speaker 2: to make up a character name. So yeah, So, ladies

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Speaker 2: and men, if you if your friend is friends with

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Speaker 2: somebody that you don't like, and it's not that you

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Speaker 2: don't like them for a reason, you just don't like

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Speaker 2: them just because maybe they're batter than you, maybe they're

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Speaker 2: younger than you, Maybe they just have more personality than you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they have more things going on your life and

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Speaker 1: they're life than you.

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Speaker 2: But whatever those issues that you have, keep them to

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Speaker 2: yourself and keep it cute.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I think one of the great things about me is

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Speaker 3: that people around me know that they can't influence me

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Speaker 3: to not be.

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Speaker 1: Cool with me. Of course, Oh it's kind of like

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Speaker 1: she'd be talking to.

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Speaker 2: A talking to a brick wall then and then you

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Speaker 2: get off the phone and we laugh at the hole.

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Speaker 1: So you know, it is what it is.

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Speaker 3: So now you've being messy cause you gonna come listen

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Speaker 3: to the episode and be like, oh, maybe laughing at me.

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Speaker 2: Well, honestly, I feel like I've never had a problem

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Speaker 2: with her. I've never had anything to say about her.

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Speaker 2: So she was just coming out the woodworks. But she

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Speaker 2: needs to realize that y'all became friends in a time

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Speaker 2: where me and you weren't that cool, and shit happens

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Speaker 2: and people get over it. Drea's over it, so bitch,

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Speaker 2: you need to get over it too. Yeah, I'm not

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Speaker 2: worried about you, so I have no idea why you're

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, that's the drum I'm going on and Drea life.

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Speaker 1: I guess y'all wanted to know.

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Speaker 3: That is the drama going on in my life. So

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Speaker 3: what's going on in your life?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, it's been kind of like slow. Nothing's really been

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Speaker 2: going on. Me and Throwback Bay really don't talk no more.

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Speaker 2: We cool, We decided just to be friends.

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Speaker 1: We don't. It's like the seven time you don't say.

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Speaker 2: No, but no, this is real this time, Like I

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Speaker 2: think we're really really done. But rapper Bay is back

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Speaker 2: and he came back swinging bitch, Oh my god, he

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Speaker 1: He hey, I'm getting my beach bag.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he was like, no, I'm tired of my beach

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Speaker 2: out here, popping that put, popping that pussy.

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Speaker 1: He is tired of it.

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Speaker 2: So no, rapper Back has come back and he's being like,

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Speaker 2: I showed Dre the text messages, so she sees how good.

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Speaker 3: He's been being such a gentleman, such a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna see where that goes. I'm gonna be hanging out

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Speaker 2: with him a little bit this week. Are you excited?

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Speaker 2: You know this is somebody I've been dealing with on

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Speaker 2: and off for four years.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: I know, for some reason, I'm nervous to see him.

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Speaker 2: I've planned out like a whole like date thing for us.

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Speaker 3: But I told you it be like that sometimes when

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Speaker 3: you haven't talked to somebody in.

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Speaker 1: A long time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why, but it's like you be

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Speaker 1: It's not that I don't know that, not that I'm nervous,

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Speaker 2: Time we hang out or do anything, he plans everything,

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Speaker 2: He takes care of everything. This is the first time

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Speaker 2: like I feel like, I guess I'm kind of taking

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Speaker 2: like we gonna go walk the belt line. I booked

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Speaker 2: us in a skate room.

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Speaker 1: Girl, Well, I'm probably not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not paying when we go to dinner because I

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Speaker 2: know he's not gonna let me. But already I already booked. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I already booked a skate room. I bought us tickets

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Speaker 2: stuff I already paid for. So like, I'm actually kind

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Speaker 1: Cute and fun. Like we got a little hotel, so

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Speaker 3: Definitely think it's gonna be cute. I'm super excited to

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel like, you know how my dating

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Speaker 2: life is. One week I'll be talking about this bay.

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Speaker 2: Next week I'm talking about this bad y'all just gonna

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Speaker 1: Okay, one week I'm talking about no baby, I'm never somebody.

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Speaker 3: Didn't somebody say that on our YouTube video or something

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Speaker 3: retweeted it was like you'll hear about it on poor minds,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I don't really be saying that

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Speaker 3: she's talking about exactly, never say anything, you motherfucking right.

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Speaker 2: Well, y'all know, I don't mind sharing my business in

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Speaker 1: A please God who knows me.

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Speaker 2: So we gonna go ahead and get into these topics today.

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Speaker 2: So of course, y'all know we have to address everything

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Speaker 2: y'all rundown basically, be Simone said something on the lines

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Speaker 2: a nine to five.

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Speaker 1: I saw that.

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Speaker 2: I want to date somebody who is an entrepreneur, somebody

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Speaker 2: if you're not an entrepreneur, you don't have your own business,

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Speaker 2: she's not fucking with you.

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Speaker 1: So what do you think about that? Cause we have

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Speaker 2: Conversations about nine to five men versus like, you know,

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Speaker 1: So, but how do you feel.

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Speaker 2: About saying, I don't like the mentality of a person

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Speaker 3: I think that was kind of stupid a little bit,

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Speaker 3: because just because somebody working nine to five don't mean

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Speaker 3: I disagree with you, think mainly because I just feel like,

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Speaker 3: some people got to pay their bills and people what

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Speaker 3: all people. We all got bills to pay and shit

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Speaker 3: even more ignorant to me that she would say that

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Speaker 3: So being somebody who was homeless chasing your dream, to

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Speaker 3: it's just kind of like that's ignorant to say that

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Speaker 3: is wrong with having your preference, But to try to

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Speaker 3: I feel like to me, you have to realize that

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Speaker 3: to get to where they are. First of all, money

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Speaker 1: I ain't true some of them was.

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Speaker 2: What well, yeah, of course, but I'm saying a lot

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Speaker 2: weren't hustlers as far as dealing drugs and stripping or

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Speaker 2: five and they use that to fund whatever business they have,

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Speaker 2: I just think to say that people who working nine

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Speaker 2: First of all, being an entrepreneur is not for everybody,

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Speaker 2: So let's just say that. And just because you don't

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Speaker 2: want to be an entrepreneur doesn't mean you're necessarily not

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Speaker 2: making money. Because I know a lot of people that

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Speaker 2: making nine to five that trial the world do what

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Speaker 2: the fuck they want to do. They've been working for

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Speaker 2: their company for so long, they make their own schedule.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, what are you talking about? That freedom

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Speaker 2: to get up and go. It's a lot of niggas.

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Speaker 2: When I say nine to five, I don't necessarily mean

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Speaker 2: like going, when going and clocking in. When I think

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Speaker 2: of nine to five, I think, you just have a

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Speaker 2: corporate job. You have somebody you have to check into,

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Speaker 2: you have a boss, somebody over you, you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. So at the end of the day, there's

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Speaker 2: a lot of people who have nine to five who

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Speaker 2: probably making just as much money as you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you not work for Nick Cannon yourself?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody has to answer to somebody, You have to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like one of my babie bees had a

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Speaker 2: But I will say I'm gonna be some own fan.

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Speaker 1: She said that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was like, I don't need I don't need

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Speaker 2: But you can't turn your back on the people who

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Speaker 1: These are the people.

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Speaker 2: Who found you on Instagram, who found you on Twitter,

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Speaker 2: They going work, they nine to five taking their checks

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Speaker 2: it's like, before you get on your platform and disrespect

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Speaker 2: You just need to think twice about the things you say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, because I do like her too, Like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's just like, you know, we just want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because he was like basically saying, he was like,

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of people out here with a nine

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Speaker 2: and that shit is real. He checked uh Shakana for

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Speaker 2: I mean, she's just said a lot of problematic things.

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Speaker 2: So I take the things that she says very likely. Yes, same,

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Speaker 2: So that's how we feel about data, Nina Horus. So

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Speaker 2: if you got a nine to five, don't worry, lex

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Speaker 2: Pie's still gonna give you some pussy.

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Speaker 1: And that's on period. What about you? All right? So

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Speaker 2: First, because I got to say I indeed sorry, y'all.

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Speaker 2: We usually I stopped drinking on the show, but this

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Speaker 2: We can, but it's not easily accessible to us.

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Speaker 1: What's easier is for us to go buy.

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Speaker 2: A camera, get start filming our own content, edit it,

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Speaker 2: shoot it, come up with it, and give it to

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Speaker 1: I felt like you, that's what YouTube was.

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Speaker 2: Four And now these motherfuckers, all these celebrities, get these platforms.

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Speaker 2: Now you gotta Now they're all taking over fucking YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Regular people cannot have fucking shit because you know, I

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Speaker 1: All these motherfucking channels. But now I gotta turn into

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Speaker 1: Get a bitch, have something. How the fuck am I

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Speaker 2: If that gets loaded on YouTube, If that shit get

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Speaker 1: Now you're I'm just saying that. I just don't understand

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Speaker 2: Took a only fans now black Chrya popping that pussy

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Speaker 3: But honestly, I don't really have a problem with it,

442
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Speaker 3: nor do I just care like that because I feel

443
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Speaker 3: like I'm just all of our people getting they money,

444
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 3: like getting it at any means getting it however you

445
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Speaker 3: could get it. It's like whole fucking care. So, bitch,

446
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Speaker 3: you mean to tell me if you got on BET

447
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Speaker 3: just because you're on BT and you making a salary,

448
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Speaker 3: if you see another opportunity to make some extra money

449
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Speaker 3: doing something else because you see a lot of other

450
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Speaker 3: people capitalizing off of it, you mean to tell me

451
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Speaker 3: that just because you're making these large lump sum of

452
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Speaker 3: money from a sitcom or from a reality show or whatever,

453
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Speaker 3: you still not gonna try your handed OnlyFans a tryo

454
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Speaker 3: hand at a YouTube channel when you know, especially you

455
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 3: already have a large fan base, so you know that

456
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Speaker 3: you already have people who are going to most definitely.

457
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Speaker 2: By no, I ain't spend I hear what you're saying,

458
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Speaker 2: but you know you come on a listen though, because

459
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 2: these companies, there are full production companies that have just

460
00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:28,679
Speaker 2: have YouTube channels, full production companies, but instead of seeking

461
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Speaker 2: out new talent like oh coming and pick up poor

462
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Speaker 2: minds or oh going to pick up cocktails, they like,

463
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Speaker 2: fuck it, let's get Adrian Ballona talk.

464
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Speaker 1: She already got a talk show. Let's get it to

465
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Speaker 1: talk some more.

466
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Speaker 2: We're missing out on opportunities because the problem, no, I'm

467
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Speaker 2: not saying is their problem. But I'm like, damn bitch,

468
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Speaker 2: because guess what I could come up with a platform tomorrow.

469
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Speaker 2: That's for up and coming podcasters to have a platform

470
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Speaker 2: and a company. And guess who gonna come over here? Oprah,

471
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Speaker 2: Hey girl, let me have a podcast? Or come Gael,

472
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Speaker 2: hey girl, let me I got something to say.

473
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Speaker 1: Why y'all got you got your.

474
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Speaker 3: Own fucking saying that it's I'm not saying that it's

475
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Speaker 3: not fucked up, Sease, I'm not saying that it's not

476
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Speaker 3: fucked up.

477
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Speaker 1: But all I'm saying is I get it. Though.

478
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Speaker 3: You can't be upset with them for doing that, because

479
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. If I was a celebrity, or

480
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Speaker 3: if I was somebody who already had a super large platform,

481
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 3: I would not create a only fans or create other

482
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 3: things if that's what I wanted to do. No, I

483
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: made her money, I would not do it just because

484
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Speaker 3: I'm like, well them, I already at making he'll a

485
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Speaker 3: fucking money and they ain't making no money, So let

486
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Speaker 3: me just not create this you. No, I agree with

487
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Speaker 3: what you're saying, but I do realize, rather I created

488
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Speaker 3: something or not, who's to say that people will still

489
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 3: go subscribe to YO?

490
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Speaker 1: She they have though they have, though they have.

491
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Speaker 3: No talk about us specifically. But I'm just saying, who's

492
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Speaker 3: to say that even if this these celebrities weren't created

493
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Speaker 3: these things, it's a lot of people who only fans

494
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,160
Speaker 3: this shit will still be struggling.

495
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Speaker 1: I don't hear what you're saying, just don't it.

496
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 2: But I feel like I feel like it's just it's

497
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 2: more than that. Why the fuck is Safari making the

498
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Speaker 2: only fan?

499
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 1: Why not? I just want to know why not?

500
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 2: You want to and I want to know why not.

501
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 2: It's for attention. It's an attention thing. They want to

502
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 2: be talked about.

503
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 3: They want attention, and they want to be talked about

504
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,360
Speaker 3: their celebrities.

505
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Speaker 2: Fucking lames leave something for us, That's all I'm trying

506
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Speaker 2: to say, y'all gotta take over.

507
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Speaker 3: I can't side with you with that because I feel

508
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 3: like when you get to that point, which I know

509
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 3: we're gonna get to that point at one point, and

510
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Speaker 3: I feel like when we get to that point, you

511
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Speaker 3: gonna want your head in every bag.

512
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Speaker 1: And I know, damn sure I am. No, I am too.

513
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Speaker 2: But you know what, but what if I always told

514
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Speaker 2: you I wanted to do whenever I get my platform.

515
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Speaker 2: I'm definitely getting into producing, But I'm not going to fucking,

516
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Speaker 2: you know, fucking Little Ouzy and Young Thug and getting

517
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Speaker 2: them to say no, I'm going to these up and

518
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Speaker 2: coming people. I'm going to start a platform and make

519
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Speaker 2: sure I use my platform to help other people that's

520
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 2: trying to come up. I'm not have to put no

521
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 2: more pop money in Oprah pocket or no fucking white

522
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: person pocket. I'm not doing that. Why when I could

523
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 2: put other people on you know.

524
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, like what's his name? Who signed Justin

525
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Speaker 1: Bieber Usher? Usher? That I don't think he will.

526
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Speaker 2: I don't know about sign or something like that. So

527
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 2: that's what I'd rather do. I'd rather discover the next

528
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 2: two podcasts that's gonna be funny as fuck and get

529
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Speaker 2: a check out. Say the next TUPO, Well, I can

530
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Speaker 2: find that too. You know, I gotta tight it for music.

531
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Speaker 1: You all lies on me dinner dinner.

532
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm not hating on celebrities. I just feel

533
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 2: like y'all just y'all y'all do a lot. Y'all do

534
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 2: a lot, and y'all can use y'all's platform to And

535
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: the reason I guess I get upset is because I

536
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: look at a lot of these celebrities and a lot

537
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 2: of these YouTubers and stuff, and a lot of them

538
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 2: are stealing content from these smaller content creators. And I

539
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: agree with that that a lot of time can discussed.

540
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 1: A lot of times.

541
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Speaker 2: I done seen some shit where I know that people

542
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 2: don't listen to our podcast and they getting little ideas

543
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 2: and looking at us and taking little shit and don't

544
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 2: want to be like, you know what, let me see

545
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 2: if I can have them on my platform, not just

546
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 2: listening to our shit and stealing from us. And that's

547
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 2: what the thing is, you know what I'm saying. You

548
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: see somebody doing something, a smaller creator making something on YouTube,

549
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: but instead of you reaching out to them and maybe collaborating,

550
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 2: you're taking that to your production company and you're sitting

551
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: in your million dollar house and copying off their whole video,

552
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 2: but doing it better because you.

553
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Speaker 1: Have the funds.

554
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Speaker 2: I guess that's so where my problem comes from. There's

555
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 2: no help for the little people. Y'all just stealing their

556
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 2: shit and making money and making millions off of it

557
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: instead of helping people.

558
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Speaker 1: So that's what I said.

559
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Speaker 2: I know, whenever I get to where I want to be,

560
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 2: big Mama got all y'all, and that's on period.

561
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Speaker 1: I know that's right, Queen, you better stand for the

562
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Speaker 1: little people I am, because I'm time.

563
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Speaker 2: When I get these six dollars, my three dollars gonna

564
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Speaker 2: be three million. And when I get my three meal,

565
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: I got y'all, all the poor girls and all the

566
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: poor boys that's been holding it down.

567
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: Oh, and I.

568
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Speaker 3: Hope y'all hold her to these don't forget to see her.

569
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Speaker 3: Y'all cash upper quiz.

570
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:10,959
Speaker 1: Oh, I need to say cash up. I said, we're

571
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Speaker 1: gonna work something out. Internship. You want to be on set?

572
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: They not getting paid, But I'm showing you the RBS.

573
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Speaker 2: Bitch.

574
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Speaker 1: You know what, what do you want? You want all

575
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Speaker 1: this shit?

576
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 2: But when I have employees on my hid creators, we

577
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Speaker 2: don't need When we go on.

578
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Speaker 1: To everybody higher creators.

579
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Speaker 2: No, they hire people that's already been in the industry,

580
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Speaker 2: or somebody nephew or somebody brother.

581
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 3: True.

582
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Speaker 1: Always it's all about who you know. Yes it is, Yes,

583
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Speaker 1: it is.

584
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Speaker 2: I can't walk into a bill and be like, hey, y'all,

585
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Speaker 2: I know Drey and the Cold with threes.

586
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Speaker 1: They gonna be okay. But I don't mean you ain't

587
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Speaker 1: say you know other people that you know.

588
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Speaker 2: But I'm saying, but if somebody walking there be like, yeah,

589
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 2: I'm Oprah Winfree Nephew, they gonna be like, oh, we're

590
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 2: gonna hire him.

591
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Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. It's all about who you

592
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: because you know people who I know. I don't want

593
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: to say no names people.

594
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: Okay, I would say I know KICKI from Cocktails and

595
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: that's on period.

596
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Speaker 1: Well we do no Kiki, we gonna have to start

597
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 1: using hub. We're gonna start using her names for liverage.

598
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: I know.

599
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 2: Like, like I said, I don't mean to talk down.

600
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 2: I don't mean to be hateful, and you know what

601
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 2: I mean. But like I just said, I just feel

602
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: like a lot of people, especially on these platforms such

603
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 2: as YouTube, SoundCloud and all these things that were made

604
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 2: for the average creator. It was meant for us, but

605
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 2: celebrities when they use these platforms, they should do a

606
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Speaker 2: better job and you know, trying.

607
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Speaker 1: To help the little people.

608
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, So before we move on to the next topic.

609
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,639
Speaker 2: I wanted to do the item of the week. So

610
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Speaker 2: there's a little app that we know that's called Current.

611
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 2: Y'all know, Current is my favorite app because I got

612
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Speaker 2: three dollars. But let me tell you a good thing

613
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Speaker 2: about it. Current gives you a free overdraft up to

614
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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars with no hidden fees. Okay, girl, you

615
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Speaker 2: got three dollars, you really got one hundred and three dollars.

616
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Speaker 1: Okay. And another thing is that you get paid two

617
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Speaker 1: days faster.

618
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: So if you get paid on Friday, you really gonna

619
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 2: get your money on Wednesday.

620
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 1: Boo boo.

621
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Speaker 2: Okay, So download the Current app and use the code

622
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: poor minds, that's po you are in my nds. And

623
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 2: the good thing is you can get your card in

624
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: the mail. You get your car really quickly and use

625
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: it just like a regular debit card.

626
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 1: You can hook it up.

627
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: So whatever you know, your light bill, your phone bill, now,

628
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 2: don't put it in y'all baby name, because you know

629
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 2: how trifle y'all get, go ahead and put it in

630
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 2: your name. You know, people be putting their cars and

631
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 2: they and their bills and their baby name.

632
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: Don't do that to y'all. Chim so glad my mama

633
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: never did you know? She can't get it to me?

634
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 2: And you can use over fifty five thousand free ATMs

635
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 2: with the Current you can deposit your checks, all that

636
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 2: good stuff.

637
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: So make sure y'all download the Current app.

638
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 2: Like I said, go to Current dot com and enter

639
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: the promo code.

640
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: Poor minds and get yourself hooks up.

641
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: When I tell y'all, this current app is the one,

642
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: It's the one, Okay, all right, So we're gonna move

643
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: on to the next topic.

644
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: Go ahead, you want me to introduce it, I'm introducing.

645
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 3: So for the next topic, we wanted to talk about

646
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 3: moving on because you know, we always talk about how

647
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 3: we cool we leave these niggas alone and leaving these

648
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 3: niggas in the dusk, but sometimes we gotta leave these

649
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 3: holes in the dust too, right, I cut these beaches off.

650
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 3: So you want us to talk about moving on from friendship?

651
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 1: Right? What you got to say? Lex?

652
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 3: See what's your what have been some of your experience

653
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 3: these weed friendships and having a could.

654
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 1: A beat your well?

655
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: See, for me, I am the total opposite from I

656
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: feel like the average woman with this, because I feel

657
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: like the average woman will cut off a bit for nothing.

658
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: And then but they'll keep trying with they nigga and

659
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 2: they'll be like, no, I'm gonna give him one more chance.

660
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give him one more chance, cause a lot

661
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 2: of girls be like, oh fuck that whole fuck her.

662
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: But they they man cheating on him, not helping them

663
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 2: pay no bills, you know, having babies on them.

664
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: They'll keep forgiving a nigga. But me, I'm opposite.

665
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: A nigga can look at me wrong and I'm like, oh,

666
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: I can't fuck with him no more. But my friend,

667
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 2: Like I've had some friends do some really kind of

668
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: like foule shit to me, and I'll just be like, man,

669
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: but this is my sister, this is my family.

670
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: I think I've always said that on the show. I

671
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: have a very small family. Growing up.

672
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 2: It was really only me, my mom, and my sister.

673
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 2: I don't have a really close knit family. So when

674
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 2: I make a friend, I take my friendships very fucking seriously.

675
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: Like some of my friends, I've had friends been friends

676
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 2: with for twenty years.

677
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, friendship is really important to me.

678
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: But I think as I've gotten older, I've realized that

679
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 2: you can't take everybody with you.

680
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: I'm dead you can't take everybody with you.

681
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: And I think sometimes and you know me, you know

682
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 2: I'm very humble. I don't I'm very naive sometimes when

683
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 2: it comes to people. I try to get people the

684
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: benefit of the doubt. But I think sometimes when I

685
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 2: realize that people didn't necessarily want to see me win,

686
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 2: they didn't ness necessarily want to see me do.

687
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: Better, they were kind of jealous, I hate to say.

688
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 2: And that's why I was like, you know what, this

689
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 2: is not a progressive relationship. I think I had to

690
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 2: realize if you're not bringing anything progressive into my life,

691
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 2: if I can't call you after having a bad day

692
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 2: and we can just laugh on the phone and you

693
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 2: can maybe forget about certain things, or if you can't

694
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 2: give me advice, or if you're not doing shit I

695
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 2: want to do that you can put me onto. It's like,

696
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 2: why are you here? If every time you call me

697
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: it's about some mess?

698
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: Are you?

699
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: I mean there's even friends I've been cool with, like

700
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 2: online and on the internet, but every time you sending

701
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: me a DM, you sending me a DM or somebody

702
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: talking shit about me. I don't care people gonna talk

703
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 2: about me all the time. I put myself out here

704
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: to have a platform. So I think I've learned that

705
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm good at cutting these niggas off, but I'm learning

706
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: to be better at cutting quote unquote friends off because

707
00:30:53,800 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 2: not everybody is your friend. Yeah, I mean you know, oh,

708
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 2: of all people, not everybody is your friends.

709
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 3: I absolutely know that, And I was gonna That's why

710
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, too, I agree with you about

711
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 3: a lot of points that you just made. But then

712
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 3: when you said that, you feel like most women are

713
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 3: like that. A lot of the women that I know,

714
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 3: they really hold on today friendships and value their friendships

715
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 3: alike to the point that like people around them will

716
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 3: do fucked up shit to them, to where people around

717
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 3: them and do fucked up shit to them, and then

718
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 3: they feel like they want to still try to salvage

719
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 3: the relationship. Yeah, I feel like me on the other hand,

720
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 3: I've kind of always been the opposite. Like it's like

721
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 3: people do shit to piece me off, bitch, I don't

722
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 3: want to be your friend of molle. But it be

723
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: the same thing with these niggas. I don't talk about

724
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: these before too. It's like I don't be wanting to

725
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 3: fuck with niggas no more, and you always say, but

726
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 3: for real you, I mean, you could make that.

727
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: I feel like I have.

728
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 3: I have situations where it's like I went against the grain.

729
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 3: Oh y'all want to get the grain with you? I

730
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 3: can say that about I'm just being real though, because

731
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 3: typically when me and people be going through shit and

732
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 3: I just be like, what the fuck, I'm not really

733
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 3: vibing with you.

734
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: I would just cut you off.

735
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: I actually had a conversation with somebody about this the

736
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 3: other day, and they were just saying, how like, you know,

737
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 3: generally they feel like I'm a good person and I'm

738
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 3: a great person.

739
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 1: But people who aren't.

740
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 3: But people who aren't friends with me anymore, or maybe

741
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 3: some guys that I don't date anymore don't talk to anymore,

742
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 3: they could understand why I would be the Vielin in

743
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 3: they story because of how I handle things. When it's

744
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 3: time to cut people off, it's just kind of like

745
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 3: it just be without warning and it's very cutthroat.

746
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: So do you feel like it's easier to cut off

747
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: friends than it is to cut off niggas?

748
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 3: I feel like it's equally easy to cut both of

749
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 3: them off for me, because it's just kind of like

750
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 3: because once I get to my breaking point with people,

751
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: and don't matter if you're a nigga that I'm funck,

752
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 3: And it don't matter if you're my partner and my homegirl,

753
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 3: And I don't care how much history we don't necessarily have.

754
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: But like, if I don't value the friendship product, if

755
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's anything beneficial about it, as

756
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 3: to why we should keep this going and keep trying

757
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 3: to remain cool, what do I need to prolong? Like,

758
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 3: what am I stretching it out for? Because I feel

759
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 3: like a lot of the time that's people's problem too.

760
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 3: People will stretch things out for so long it really

761
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 3: don't be no type of benefit to the situation, just

762
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 3: other than the history that y'all have.

763
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 2: But I think that's why me and you ended up

764
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 2: working on our friendship bard because we had a business together.

765
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt like that's what kept it together for

766
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 3: a long time. I feel like if we didn't have that,

767
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 3: it would have been but I feel like I would

768
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: have no But outside of that, it's not that we

769
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 3: didn't care about each other or anything like that. But

770
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,959
Speaker 3: I just feel like sometimes when you at a when

771
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 3: you're literally at a point with somebody like, for example,

772
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 3: people who literally be at a point with a person

773
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 3: to where it's like all you do is argue with

774
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 3: this person all the time. That's all y'all do is argue,

775
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 3: But it's nothing positive about the relationship, Like they're not

776
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 3: beneficial for you in a a in a spiritual way.

777
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 3: They're not beneficial. They're not being beneficial for you mentally.

778
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 3: They're not helping you reach your goals. They're not working

779
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 3: on things together. None of the conversations that y'all have

780
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 3: are conducive to your growth. They're not helping you get.

781
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: Closer to God, and just a lot of other things.

782
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 1: It's like, what is the point.

783
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 3: This relationship is not it's not beneficial in a monetary way,

784
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 3: because some relationships are even just only beneficial in a

785
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 3: monetary way. Definitely been in situations like that. So it's

786
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 3: just kind of like so to where it was beneficial

787
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 3: in a monetary way, friends, fucking with a nigga, to

788
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: where it was like it was only beneficial at a

789
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 3: certain point in time because of financial reasons.

790
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 1: Are financial things that was going on, And that's what

791
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I've been I know it's not.

792
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 3: Me, but all I'm saying is even so some times though,

793
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 3: even when it comes to that, that starts to become

794
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 3: to a point too where you just kind of be like, Okay, it's.

795
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: Cool because of these situation, but you stressful. So you

796
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: have a problem with my three dollars, is what you're saying.

797
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 3: No, I'm not talking about you, oh okay, but I'm

798
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 3: just saying like, I just feel like if a relationship,

799
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 3: it's not beneficial in no type.

800
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 2: No, no, honestly, all jokes aside, but I do agree

801
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 2: with you on that. But that's what I'm saying. I

802
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 2: feel like, yes, poor minds did hold us together, That's

803
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,720
Speaker 2: why we were still fucking around. But in my mind,

804
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: I knew outside of poor minds, I valued our friendship.

805
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: I missed you.

806
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 2: I know there was a lot of times we used

807
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 2: to have fun, we used to have deep conversations like

808
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 2: I missed that.

809
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, poor minds is what kept us together.

810
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 2: But it was also because I still valued our friendship

811
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 2: and I felt like it got lost in everything. And

812
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 2: I swear to God, if you would to cut me

813
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 2: off and not cut the other person off, I'd have

814
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,839
Speaker 2: been pissed off because if I was getting cut off,

815
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: we both should have got cut off all.

816
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 3: But nah, you can't say that though, And that's why

817
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 3: I think sometimes a lot of the time women do

818
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 3: be feeling some type of way about because are you

819
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 3: talking about a nigga? I feel I feel like a

820
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 3: lot of the time though, that's how women be feeling.

821
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 3: But then at the same time you be also having

822
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 3: to understand it don't be the same thing.

823
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 2: I mean, but it just depends what you put your

824
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 2: value in.

825
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:27,280
Speaker 3: Though I put my value in people that are valuable

826
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 3: to me, right so for me and for me in

827
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 3: multiple aspects of my life, it's not just necessarily one thing.

828
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 3: I do feel like I valued your friendship outside of

829
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 3: poor minds. That's what made me want to still be

830
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 3: friends with you, because I did feel like, yeah, we

831
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 3: were going through a really rough patch, but I had

832
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 3: to look at all of the other and it was

833
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 3: certain times so I feel like you weren't being the

834
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 3: best friend to me, but I had to look at

835
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 3: a lot of all of your other qualities. And I

836
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 3: think sometimes too, you have to step outside of yourself

837
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 3: and look at people not for the things that they do,

838
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 3: but who they really are. I feel like you was

839
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 3: doing certain stuff to where I feel like you wasn't

840
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 3: being a good friend to me. But then I also

841
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 3: had to look at the place that you was at

842
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 3: in your life, So it was kind of like, high, y'all.

843
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 2: Think I I'm bad now I got three dollars. I

844
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 2: had negative sixteen dollars then, right, So it's just kind

845
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 2: of like my life was so hard then it was.

846
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 3: And to a certain extent, I had to realize too

847
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 3: that maybe I wasn't just always being the greatest friend

848
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 3: to you as well, But then a lot of the

849
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 3: things that you was doing wasn't personal. It was just

850
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 3: kind of like, damn, how I'm gonna really just be

851
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 3: a good friend to you when I got all these

852
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 3: other shit going on, right, you know? But I still

853
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 3: took a step back and I was like, you know what,

854
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 3: I still really fuck with legs, Like Lex is my nigga.

855
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 3: Now it's something other hose that I was cool with,

856
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 3: other beaches that I was cool with where it was

857
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 3: like you could go and I'm not gonna lie to y'all.

858
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 3: I'm definitely the type of person where if I'm tired

859
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 3: of yo ass, we ain't about to have no conversation

860
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 3: about it because I feel like I probably done have

861
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 3: a few conversations with you already. So once I get

862
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 3: to a point to where I don't want you in

863
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 3: my life, no more, beat you gone.

864
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: It takes a lot for me to cut off friends

865
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: a lot. But do you feel like that?

866
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 3: But do you feel like in turn that makes people

867
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 3: feel like they could take advantage of you?

868
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: Yeah?

869
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 2: Kind of, sort of, I feel like, but I feel

870
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 2: like that's also I think I do cut niggas off quicker.

871
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 2: But I feel like me being like such a open

872
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: hearted and I joke a lot, like I remember I

873
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 2: talked about this the other week, how I felt like

874
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 2: a lot of people don't take my feeling serious because

875
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: I'm so goofy sometimes. So I feel like sometimes people

876
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: think men they and a lot of my friends they

877
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 2: think they can just talk to me however, or treat

878
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 2: me how whatever, because I don't have feelings. So I

879
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 2: think sometimes people take advantage of me, as far as

880
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 2: people don't check on me, like it's never less, are

881
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 2: you good? What's going on? It's always hey girl, I

882
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 2: need to vent I swear to god. I got probably

883
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 2: about three text message in my phone and I've gotten

884
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: this week, and people like, hey, I need to vent,

885
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: which I don't have a problem with that, but it's like, whoo,

886
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 2: this is a fucking lie.

887
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 1: But I told you.

888
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm always that person that people call I just made

889
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 2: a new friend another day and it was just like,

890
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 2: I'm and I told you about that.

891
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: So it's just a lot for me.

892
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 2: I'm always that person for people, which I don't mind,

893
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: but it's like, damn, what about me and the friendship?

894
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes?

895
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 2: But I feel like sometimes that's me being selfish, you

896
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

897
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 1: So I don't think that that's.

898
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 3: Being selfish at all. I don't feel like that's being

899
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 3: selfish at all. I feel like, just as much as

900
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 3: other people feel like they need to vent to you.

901
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: You need to be able to vent to people right

902
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 1: as well.

903
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: I just I guess I just feel like sometimes I

904
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 2: put I put my role too big in people's lives.

905
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I can't give up on her because

906
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: I feel like she needs me. So even though she

907
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 2: said this mean shit to me, I'm gonna give her

908
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 2: a few days to cool off, and I'm gonna talk

909
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 2: to her and we're gonna work this out.

910
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

911
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: I'm always making it excuses for people, especially my friends.

912
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 3: Always any people in your life that you just kind

913
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 3: of feel like I'm cool with them, but then deep

914
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 3: down inside you know that they don't deserve to be

915
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 3: friends with you.

916
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 2: Honestly, Now now I can say no, okay, but like

917
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 2: I used to, like, I have one girl like me

918
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 2: and her, we're not. I won't say we're cooling in

919
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 2: because we're not. But we just started following each other

920
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 2: on social media again. But it was like when I

921
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 2: cut her off, it was because I had to because

922
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: she was on the internet wilin posting shit, and you

923
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 2: know me, I do not play about the internet shit.

924
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: You know, right, because you d y'all Tea.

925
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 2: Drea posted something about me one time on her trying

926
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 2: to like sub tweet me, but it was like an

927
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 2: Instagram thing, and I got so fucking mad. If you

928
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 2: want to piss me off as my friend, just sub

929
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 2: tweet me. She got so because I am not. I

930
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: guess it was triggering for me though, because I went

931
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,479
Speaker 2: through something like that. When I with somebody I thought

932
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 2: was my friend, I'm like, damn, you have my number.

933
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 2: And sometimes I'm so oblivious I don't know what's going on.

934
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: I'm a very vocal person. Again, like, I'm a vocal person,

935
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 2: so when people I don't, I have to understand that

936
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 2: not everybody is vocal like me.

937
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: So like me.

938
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So a lot of times I be thinking, oh shit,

939
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 2: everything good, everything gravy well, and then I'll be like,

940
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 2: oh shit, I didn't even know you was mad at me.

941
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: Not you. I'm just saying.

942
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I was saying I wasn't vocal. But

943
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 3: I know some of the people on some of the listeners,

944
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: it's kind of well, pretty much all the listeners, they're like,

945
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 3: you not vocal. But when it comes to people that

946
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,959
Speaker 3: I really care about, and I feel like Lyncks could

947
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 3: attestities to a certain extent, like, yeah, it'd be kind

948
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 3: of hard for me to like talk about my emotions

949
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 3: and you just shut down. And that's why I think

950
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 3: it's easy for me to cut people off, because it

951
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 3: gets it gets to a point to where it's kind

952
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 3: of like, Okay, I feel like I've tried to talk

953
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 3: to you about my feelings to the beast of my

954
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 3: to the best capacity that I can be in the

955
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 3: type of person that I am, and then you still

956
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 3: don't respect it, and you still don't care. So for me,

957
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 3: the next step be to cut you off, because I'm

958
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: already not a super emotional person. So what we're not

959
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 3: about to do is keep having the same conversation right

960
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 3: over and over about the same sheit beach, you just

961
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 3: gotta go or nigga, you just gotta go, because now

962
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 3: I'm starting to feel like you.

963
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 2: Don't you don't care, and you don't care, And now

964
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 2: I'm to the point to where I think it's because

965
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 2: I'm older, though I think I always talk about how

966
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: I struggled with like identity issues.

967
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know who I was.

968
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 2: I didn't feel like I felt like I didn't fit

969
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: in with the white people because I was black. I

970
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 2: didn't fit in with the black people because they felt

971
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: like I quote unquote act the white I didn't know

972
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 2: if I wanted to be a bad bitch, sure, if

973
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: I wanted to be funny, not realizing the bitch you

974
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: can do both. Like, I was just always stuck in

975
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 2: these weird places. So I felt like once I got

976
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 2: confident in who I was and secure and who I

977
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,720
Speaker 2: was as a person, I was like, Okay, you know what, bitch,

978
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: I don't need you and I need to put myself first,

979
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 2: and I need to be a little more selfish. So

980
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 2: I'm not one hundred percent there as far as being selfish,

981
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 2: but now sometimes I get to the point where I'm like, okay, girl,

982
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 2: I can't talk right now. I just don't have it

983
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: any I don't have like some days I be thinking

984
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 2: about my family and my nephews. I got a whole nephew.

985
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 2: I haven't met you. I'll be sad about that shit.

986
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear about your problems and your

987
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 2: nigga and this and that. You know what I'm saying.

988
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: So I think for me, I'm cool on friends. And

989
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,919
Speaker 2: what do you mean as far as making new friend? Yeah,

990
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 2: like I have something Like I said, I just made

991
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: a new friend. Quote I won't I won't say friend,

992
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 2: but like somebody I'm cool with. But stuff like that

993
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,720
Speaker 2: just kind of happens. But I feel like my soca

994
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 2: right now is solid as far as just like having

995
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 2: somebody like it's just a new bestie or something. I

996
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 2: feel like I'm cool on that. I feel like everybody

997
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: around me right now is solid. They're all productive people,

998
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 2: they're all cool. But just because I know this sounds sad,

999
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 2: but I don't even have any more energy in me

1000
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: to get my heart broken by another friend.

1001
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 1: I take heartbreak who I feel it is. I take

1002
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:52,280
Speaker 1: heartbreak when.

1003
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 2: Niggas like a feather in the wind. Bitch, well, okay,

1004
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: miss one, next fifteen one coming. I got so many

1005
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 2: nigga dick, But every one of my friends are different.

1006
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 2: So when me and a friend fall off, I take

1007
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 2: that shit to heart, like that shit really be hurting

1008
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: my feeling. You even remember when me and Killing kind

1009
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 2: of fell out for a little bit, that shit really

1010
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings. I was really fucking mad at that home,

1011
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 2: and I'm like, damn, but I kind of miss my friend.

1012
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: So it's like now that we back cool, when everything

1013
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:20,879
Speaker 2: is cool, you know. I mean I used to tell

1014
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 2: you so. I used to be like, I feel like

1015
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: Killing deserving of the change. Yeah you did, I mean

1016
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 2: everybody did. Lauren told me the same thing. She was like, bitch, okay,

1017
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: you was going to.

1018
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: It's certain things. And that's another thing too. I feel like,

1019
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 3: to me, it's certain things where you know a person

1020
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 3: will do something to you. Don't matter ifield was the

1021
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 3: first time.

1022
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: B She's unforgivable, right, But what I felt like it

1023
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: was just one.

1024
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 2: It was a misunderstanding, but too, I hold my friends

1025
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 2: at such high standard, and you know, me and Kellen,

1026
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 2: like our friendship is not new, but it's not like

1027
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: as deep.

1028
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: As like, you know, let's say, like me and Lauren's is.

1029
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: So you know, me and Kellen were still in the

1030
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,399
Speaker 2: stages of really getting to know each other and being

1031
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 2: super close. So I feel like that's just growing pains

1032
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 2: with the relationships. But it's it was like my inner circle.

1033
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: Now it's like I'm cool because I don't have no more.

1034
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 2: I don't have no energy left to me to get

1035
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 2: my heart broken by a friend, because that shit is

1036
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 2: really devastating to me. Like when a nigga does something

1037
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 2: to me, it's a nigga. That's expected. Fuck you niggas. Whatever,

1038
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 2: my feeling's gonna be hurt. But guess what, I got

1039
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 2: Big Pop on the line right now ready to fly

1040
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: me out.

1041
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: So I'm good. But when a friend hurts my feelings.

1042
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: I'll be like, bruh, God, damn, like you're supposed to

1043
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 2: be my bitch, cause it just.

1044
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: Be like that's a different type of hurt.

1045
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, cause it'd be like, damn, bitch, what the fuck?

1046
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 3: I thought we was I thought we was here. I

1047
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 3: thought we were here home with things you don't it

1048
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 3: don't be like that I would have to agree to,

1049
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: though I feel like definitely hurts a lot more when

1050
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 3: you get your feelings hurt by a friend, then buy

1051
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 3: a nigga, because I feel the same way about these

1052
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 3: niggas generally too, like you a nigga, come, he gonna go,

1053
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 3: And it's just really what it is. So it's like

1054
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 3: on one of my friends and somebody that I really

1055
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 3: be like, oh, this is my beach and you do

1056
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 3: some fucked up ass, she to me that shit be

1057
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 3: crazy and you don't be no coming back from me

1058
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: like we should.

1059
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: And I and I.

1060
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 3: One thing I will say that I hate about myself

1061
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 3: that it's something I probably should work on, is that

1062
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 3: once I don't fuck with you, I literally don't fuck

1063
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 3: with you.

1064
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 1: For real, I cant you.

1065
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 3: Because somebody that I used to be cool with, every

1066
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 3: time I run into them, they'd be trying to be

1067
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:23,760
Speaker 3: like hey, and I'd be like, girl, you know, I don't.

1068
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: Fuck with you. So let us know.

1069
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 2: We're gonna move on from this topic because we had

1070
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 2: a lot of questions to read today. We do, so

1071
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,720
Speaker 2: let us know how y'all feel about, you know, moving

1072
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 2: on from friendships and how easy or hard is it

1073
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 2: for you to do.

1074
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 3: So next we're gonna get into the baby a baby.

1075
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 2: So if y'all are fans of Insecure, I had tweeted

1076
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 2: something like two weeks ago, so y'all gonna understand this reference.

1077
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 2: I said, tsa bay is the nigga that you accidentally

1078
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 2: let beat and they won't let it go. Yeah, So

1079
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: I tweeted that. It went viral and everybody was like,

1080
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 2: accidentally let be you as this crazy y'all be letting.

1081
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: So I want to talk today about accidentally letting the

1082
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 2: nigga be because that happens. It happens often. It happens

1083
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 2: very fucking off. I mean not often, but it does happen.

1084
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 2: I mean shit, sometimes you slip and fall on some

1085
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 2: dick you do. I could agree with that. So I

1086
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 2: want to talk about a time that you accidentally let

1087
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: a nigga be, oh fucking brother, just so I can

1088
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 2: give the people an example, and then we're gonna talk

1089
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 2: about how to avoid it in the future for all

1090
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 2: of us. I feel like I let a nigga be

1091
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 2: before it just solely because I was drunk. Like, outside

1092
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 2: of me being drunk, it wasn't a situation where it's

1093
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 2: like I would have ever had sex with that person

1094
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 2: or even flirted with them, engaging any type of sexual behavior,

1095
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 2: not probably even kids if I wasn't drunk as fuzzed.

1096
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 2: So I feel like for me, And that's not the

1097
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 2: only situation that something like that has happened to me,

1098
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: but I feel like for me every time that a

1099
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 2: situation happened where I fucked somebody that I woke up

1100
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 2: the next day and was like, fuck, I ain't mean

1101
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 2: to fuck that nigga, or I shouldn't have fucked that nigga.

1102
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: I was always drunk. That's usually always what it is

1103
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 1: for me.

1104
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 3: I've never accidentally let nobody beat and wasn't influence absolutely,

1105
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 3: let me tell y'all, because when I'm sober beached, I'm

1106
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 3: very calculated about my movie.

1107
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess for me, I accidentally let this

1108
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 2: nigga be this year. I'm gonna say when, and I'm

1109
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 2: just like mad about it because I accidentally let him

1110
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 2: beat twice. And that's you can accidentally let somebody beat

1111
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 2: twice because I was so fucking horny. I was so

1112
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 2: fucking horny, and throw Back Bay wasn't acting right me

1113
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 2: and Rapper Bay wasn't fucking around at this time, and

1114
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh I met hear me. Seemed

1115
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 2: kind of cool, and it's like we chilled a couple

1116
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 2: of times, and you know, it was cool. But it's

1117
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 2: like now I was like, Okay, you're doing a lot.

1118
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 2: It's not ever gonna be this. It's never gonna be that, Like,

1119
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 2: it's not gonna be no. Oh hey, babe, oh hey,

1120
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,319
Speaker 2: it's not we're not dating. This is not what it is.

1121
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: And I'm like, now I'm to the point where how

1122
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 2: can I break this off? Because I don't want to

1123
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 2: go ghost on you. I don't want to just you know,

1124
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: just straight up ignore you. But it's like, shit, I asked,

1125
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have let you beat. I went over there sober,

1126
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 2: and I was like, damn, I'm not gonna have sex

1127
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: with this nigga.

1128
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: I'm just seeing what his vibes is like. But I

1129
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: was like fuck it, and I got real drunk and

1130
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: we had sex and it was cool. But now it's

1131
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 1: just like, man, I was drunk, so he was drunk,

1132
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: like no, before I was drunk. I knew. I was like,

1133
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let him be.

1134
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 2: But once I got out, like I'm probably gonna let

1135
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: him beat, you know, because I was like, you know,

1136
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 2: you gotta fill out the scenery. Went over there, he

1137
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,919
Speaker 2: had a nice little call house, was nice. I said, okay,

1138
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:49,760
Speaker 2: I could I can give a little something something.

1139
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: I was just gonna let him taste the kuchie. So

1140
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 1: what made it accidental? Because I don't want to do

1141
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: it no more. Because if you went.

1142
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 3: Over there sober, that's what I guess. That's what I'm

1143
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 3: trying to figure out about. Why was it the accidental bead?

1144
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 3: Like if you went sober and you've seen the car,

1145
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 3: you've seen y Z, and then you was like, okay,

1146
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get drunk and I'm still gonna puck this

1147
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 3: nigga because I'm horny.

1148
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: But you already had premeditated and you knew he was.

1149
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,760
Speaker 2: It was like a maybe, but it's an accident because

1150
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 2: it's an let me tell you it's an accident. It's

1151
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 2: an accident because I don't want him on my roster

1152
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 2: no more.

1153
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: Not that's not what an accidental.

1154
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 2: It's a fucking accident.

1155
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: It was a mistake.

1156
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 3: I feel like accidental accidentally letting a nigga be is

1157
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 3: when you know immediately.

1158
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,760
Speaker 1: Did I did? That's what that's all the accident.

1159
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be funny. I knew it was

1160
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,839
Speaker 2: an accident when he was in the pussy because he was.

1161
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 1: This is so good girl. I said that a lot. Yeah,

1162
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: but you don't know me and I don't know you.

1163
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 1: Why you're crying in my ear about car for you?

1164
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 2: I know, okay Garfield got his tricks, but we was

1165
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 2: not pulling off the stops for you, So why are

1166
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 2: you and my pussy crying?

1167
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: Weird? Though I hated here, I'm very upset that I

1168
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: gave him some pussy. So, yeah, he's an accident. Why

1169
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:24,439
Speaker 1: just figured out who it was? The diner? I just

1170
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: I just called on.

1171
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 2: I know, and he just be texting me like, oh,

1172
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,359
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get some of that good ass

1173
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 2: pussy again. I just be like, and I be very upset, y'all.

1174
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 2: It's not funny, Drea. I'd be very upset.

1175
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 3: It is funny because we all to some niggas that

1176
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 3: we didn't mean the fuck that after the fact, we

1177
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 3: was like, dang, why fucking it, even if it was

1178
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,240
Speaker 3: months later. But although I do feel like a nigga

1179
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 3: who I regret fucking months later, it wasn't really accidental,

1180
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 3: like you done need some shit that doesn't piece me

1181
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 3: off to make me wish that I could just take

1182
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 3: you off.

1183
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: He didn't do anything. An accidental nigga is like.

1184
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 3: The niggas that I really just immediately after him or

1185
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 3: shortly after, was like.

1186
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: Dog, I should not have fed these nigga or I

1187
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 1: didn't mean to. Well, I'm laughing at you because I

1188
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: know who yours is.

1189
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 2: I know it's not one, but I'm just thinking of

1190
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 2: the ones that I can think of yet I know.

1191
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: But for me in this situation, it's just like he

1192
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 2: didn't do anything. He's actually very attractive. He does well

1193
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 2: for himself, you know. But it's just like, I guess

1194
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 2: need you. I told you I accidentally failed twice.

1195
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 1: It's okay. I didn't let niggas accident bring up the.

1196
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 3: Facts, but I'm not trying to embarrass you.

1197
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:44,839
Speaker 1: I'm just asking because that too.

1198
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 2: Yes, I slipped a feil on the dick twice, but

1199
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,240
Speaker 2: like I said, it could be an accident if you now.

1200
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 3: If you go over like five times, and this is am.

1201
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 2: I had to go back for the second time and

1202
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 2: check to make sure that that it wasn't it you.

1203
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, this was an exta beat.

1204
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 3: You said, I think after three times, Okay, we's on.

1205
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 2: It was three times niggas. I left because I let

1206
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 2: him beat that night and I woke up. I let

1207
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 2: him beat again, I said, I went back for three.

1208
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: Oh so I'm at three. I'm at three. If you

1209
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: fuck the fourth time? Seen you like that, nigga? No,

1210
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie.

1211
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 2: When we walk up the next morning, it was like

1212
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 2: I let him beat and I was like, oh my god,

1213
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,959
Speaker 2: can you hurry up? I was ready to go home,

1214
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 2: said I did. He was like, what you want this dick?

1215
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: I was like no, and he just kept coming. I

1216
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: was like, fuck it, man, here goes some pussy. Damn.

1217
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 1: Take this shape. That's really sad. It's not sad, he's sad.

1218
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 2: Make it seem like it's sad because it makes it

1219
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: sound like it's kind of like rapie it.

1220
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying sad for him. No, I think it's sad,

1221
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 3: like when a nigga be fucking you and you be like,

1222
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 3: oh my god.

1223
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong, his dick wasn't bad, but it's

1224
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 2: definitely not no like who got some good dick. Rapper

1225
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 2: Bay has amazing dick. Throwback Bay has amazing dick like

1226
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 2: that dick. I'll tell you right now. I've always said

1227
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 2: this on past podcasts before. When you really fuck with

1228
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 2: a nigga, especially when he a BDB, you don't tell

1229
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 2: him no. Anytime Rapper Bay ask for some pussy. Oh,

1230
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 2: he's getting the pussy. There's no complaints, there's no nothing

1231
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:23,959
Speaker 2: he could say, Hey, can you send me a picture? Done?

1232
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: Sin? You know some niggas you just act right with

1233
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 1: and you gotta do what you gonna do. I agree,

1234
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: it's certain niggas I don't.

1235
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 2: Tell I would never tell him no. I'm never gonna

1236
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 2: tell him no. But yeah, it was just like he's

1237
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 2: a cool guy. But like I said, he did nothing wrong.

1238
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 2: He's attractive, he does well for himself.

1239
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: I want.

1240
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 2: I don't know if he's a bad b He's might

1241
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 2: be a I don't know, a medium dick baller.

1242
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 3: So how can we stop letting niggas accidentally be What

1243
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 3: is the solution?

1244
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 2: Stop at the well one? I have to stop fucking

1245
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 2: so soon. But I don't have time for that. I

1246
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 2: don't want to get to know you. I don't care

1247
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 2: where you grew up at. I don't care like I

1248
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 2: need to. But I need to stop doing that. I

1249
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: need to start getting to know people because I bet

1250
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 2: if I would have hung out with this nigga for

1251
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 2: longer than three minutes and my three dollars, I would

1252
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 2: have known that I wouldn't have didn't want to have

1253
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 2: sex with him.

1254
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 3: See my solution simple, I just gotta stop getting drunk

1255
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 3: as fucked.

1256
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this. I'm never gonna stop.

1257
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 3: Literally, the only times I've ever accidentally fucked niggas that

1258
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 3: I deny that I felt like when I would never have.

1259
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 2: When you're drunk and when I'm extremely horny, I need

1260
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 2: to fuck my nigga on a consistent basis. That's when

1261
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 2: I start cheating, because that's when I cheated in my

1262
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 2: relationship when I first moved out here.

1263
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,919
Speaker 1: Remember, I cheated because I just need to be dicked down.

1264
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 3: So I guess for me, it's a mixture because I

1265
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 3: be drunk. But then when I'm drunk, I get really horny.

1266
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 3: Oh I know, fucking brother, you are so annoying.

1267
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 2: When you're drunk, you start humping on everything, even Kiki,

1268
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 2: I said, X, I'm.

1269
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1270
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, fa, let us know if you've ever let

1271
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: a man accidentally a beat. Okay, So now we're gonna

1272
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: get into the bop a A Okay. So y'all know

1273
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: I have been in my alternative mood lately and that's

1274
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 2: all I've been listening to. So this song is not

1275
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 2: a new song at all. Actually came out in twenty eighteen.

1276
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 2: But if you like My Gray's Anatomy playlist, I think

1277
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 2: I posted it, but I'll post up My Gray's Anatomy

1278
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 2: playlist in the bio.

1279
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 1: But this song is called give Me the Night by Foy.

1280
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 2: And it's just such like it's like the type of

1281
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 2: song you would listen to if you and your man

1282
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: are like outside gazing at the stars and y'all just

1283
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 2: like a romantically kissing. It's just like one of those

1284
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 2: feel good songs and you just want to be in

1285
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 2: love and you're just in the moment, you know what

1286
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like, not every song is about fucking and

1287
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: sucking dick and getting your puss he ate and putting

1288
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 2: that thing down, flipping it and reversing it.

1289
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 1: Like someone said, every song was about this.

1290
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 2: You know a lot of people like when they feel

1291
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 2: like when you were making out for the song is

1292
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 2: gonna lead to that. This is a song that you

1293
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 2: really don't need to fuck to. You just kiss to

1294
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 2: this song. This is not that song that turns into

1295
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 2: getting your back beated. This is a song that you

1296
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 2: kiss romantically under the blue corn moon?

1297
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: Do you feel what I'm saying? No? Have you ever

1298
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: heard the wolf cry hitting the blue corn? Thank you, Kiki, kik.

1299
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Speaker 3: See you your ass always gotta take it too far.

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00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 3: You Kiki always got to egg the shit on.

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Speaker 1: But you know how it is when you chill. You

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00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,840
Speaker 1: ain't never chill with a nigga under the blue corn moon.

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00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 3: Bitch, No, you have only ain't never chill with the

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00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 3: nigga under the blue corn What the fuck do the

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00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 3: blue corn moon look like the blue.

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Speaker 1: You know what the blue corn moon is? No, we

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00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,919
Speaker 1: don't see. Kiki was agreeing with you at first.

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00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 2: Now she like, Okay, I definitely hung out with a

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00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: nigga under the blue corn moon.

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Speaker 1: And this is the song I play.

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Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is called give me

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Speaker 2: the Night by fory f O y your turn.

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Speaker 1: I don't laugh about oh fucking brother. Okay, we got

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Speaker 1: a shout out lit Yatty just came up with a

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Speaker 1: new album.

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00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 3: It will be three, and I've been hearing great things

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00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 3: about it, so you know, get shout him out of course,

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00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 3: Atlanta rapper up and coming. You know, we stand five

1319
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 3: black men on the show.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Yati. Shout out to Yati, Shout out

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00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 2: to Yady. Yet Little Bow three just came out. I

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00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 2: haven't got a chance to listen to it, but I'll

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00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 2: go ahead.

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 2: It's nineteen songs. When that motherfucker it is, it's a

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00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 2: lot of songs.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. Oh, but it's only fifty four minutes.

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Speaker 1: So I'll listen to it.

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00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 2: I'll give it a listen to this week, and then

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00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 2: i'll do a little review on it next week. Yes, okay,

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00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 2: so we gonna get what else we got the questions? Right,

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00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 2: I'm a beat show, dirty ass. Oh okay, so I'll

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Speaker 2: go first. If my phone will work, hold on, yeah,

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00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, okay, Actually you go first.

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Speaker 1: Read the bottom. I'm sorry, my phone not working. Go ahead, okay, Hey, ladies.

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00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 2: So we all know what BDB stands for and we

1337
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 2: and what we expect. But what if they don't really

1338
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 2: have a big dick? What if they're an LBD? Do

1339
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 2: we still fuck with them? Do they still get the title?

1340
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 2: Have y'all ever dealt with this? I want to know

1341
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 2: if we're supposed to fake it for the bag or

1342
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 2: move the fuck on? Thanks for reading this, best regards.

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00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 2: This is from Chatise. I mean, honestly, all, bdb's not

1344
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 2: gonna have the best dick when she said bed right,

1345
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 2: So she said, what if they're a little dickballer? But

1346
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 2: I feel like got to be super big for you

1347
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 2: to have good dick.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

1349
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 3: I personally, I met a age where I don't really

1350
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 3: like like super big digs. I like Garthie Well, honestly,

1351
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 3: when I say big big baller, I don't even care

1352
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 3: about the dig.

1353
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm more concerned about the baller part.

1354
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 3: I mean same, but I guess mainly I feel that

1355
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:12,959
Speaker 3: way as well.

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01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: But she's asking about what if they don't have a

1357
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: big dig? Girl who cares get your bags? Sees?

1358
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that really shouldn't matter sea as

1359
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 3: long as the bag, not little.

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Speaker 1: Matter okay to this storm here. Okay, hello Lex Andrea.

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01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: I love the show. You both really keep me laughing.

1362
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 3: So my question is related to a topic you guys

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01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 3: recently talked about. So, my cousin and her husband always

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01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 3: come to our family gatherings pre quarantine with to go plates,

1365
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: and they always end up eating all the food and

1366
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 3: drinking up all the drinks without really bringing anything. So

1367
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 3: my mama is trying to plan the next gathering post quarantine,

1368
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 3: and she's saying that if they don't contribute, they can't come.

1369
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 3: I really want my family to be there. What are

1370
01:00:58,320 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 3: your thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you need to let them know they

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01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: need to contribute. Yea, yeah, that's feeling real easy.

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01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 2: I feel like whenever you send out the invite, be like, hey,

1374
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 2: y'all were having a family gathering Saturday at seven, Just

1375
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 2: bring your favorite liquor or bring some food. Just bring something.

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01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,439
Speaker 2: Everybody gonna bring something, so just treat it like a pot.

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01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 3: Look, you know what I'm saying, you're sucking us dry.

1378
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 3: Y'all need to bring some shit.

1379
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have to necessarily be like, Okay, bitch,

1380
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 2: don't come unless you bring something. Be like, hey, make

1381
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 2: sure you bring some liquor or make sure you bring

1382
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 2: some food.

1383
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, I hit on the invite, right. I feel

1384
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: like that's that's an easy solution.

1385
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, cause ladies and gentlemen, like I told y'all,

1386
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 2: stop showing up to these parties empty handed unless they

1387
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 2: specify that you don't need to bring anything. Anytime you

1388
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 2: go to anybody's house and they're having to get together,

1389
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 2: you always supposed to bring something.

1390
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Speaker 1: It's just like you. Even if they don't say something,

1391
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: you should still ask, right of course.

1392
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 2: So yeah, just tell her, hey, bring some liquor, all right. Okay,

1393
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 2: So y'all, I'm sorry we behind on questions, so that's

1394
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 2: why we're trying to run through these and give y'all

1395
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 2: some advice and move on.

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01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: Okay.

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01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 2: So it says, hey, ladies, please leave me anonymous. I

1398
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 2: am twenty nine years old and I have never been

1399
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 2: I have never been in a relationship over a year.

1400
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 2: I've had a lot of issues growing up that caused

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01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 2: me to come off as cold and heartless and most

1402
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 2: relationships because people always come and go, so I don't

1403
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 2: like to get to attached. This is backfiring, especially when

1404
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 2: it comes to this guy that I like he has

1405
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 2: everything I want in a man. He treats me so well.

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01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 2: He has brought up to me that I come off

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01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 2: as selfish and don't show affection. He says, he likes

1408
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 2: everything else about me. How can I show him for

1409
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 2: affection and connect with him better. I don't want to

1410
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 2: lose him and want and I want to make him

1411
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: feel special even when in quarantine. Thank you love your podcast. Well,

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01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 2: I'll just say this because I'm a softie, so I'll

1413
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 2: just say this, falling in love and dating, your feelings

1414
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 2: don't get hurt. It just comes with the territory. So

1415
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 2: it's like it's just a part of being a relationship.

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01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 2: You're gonna get hurt, You're not always gonna be happy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, you sound like me, because that's kind of

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01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 3: I feel like that kind of sounds like me a

1419
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 3: like because people guys that I'll be dated to be

1420
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:07,960
Speaker 3: thinking I'm called and hardly too. I just feel like

1421
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 3: you have that's just something that you, honestly just have

1422
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 3: to work on within yourself, because it's like, if that's

1423
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 3: just really you as a person, it's something that you

1424
01:03:15,120 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 3: have to work on to change, just like with anything

1425
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 3: else about you that you feel like you want to

1426
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 3: change or you want to become better.

1427
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: At you have to diligently work towards it.

1428
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 3: So I just feel like you need to just try

1429
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 3: to be more affectionate, try to be more open, because honestly,

1430
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 3: in the long run, the situation is not gonna end

1431
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 3: up turning out how you want it to turn out.

1432
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 3: If he's an affectionate person and you not and you're

1433
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 3: not giving him what he wants, he just gonna go

1434
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 3: find somebody who's gonna give him what he wants.

1435
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 2: I feel like fall in love is always a risk,

1436
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 2: but you know there's what's the same without no.

1437
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 1: Risk, no no risk.

1438
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 3: I'm no risk, no risk, no rule, right exactly. So

1439
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 3: the greater the risk, the greater the world, right exactly.

1440
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 2: So, I feel like, if you feel like he's worth it,

1441
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 2: just try and open up your heart and guess what

1442
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 2: if it doesn't work out, it happens. We've all had

1443
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 2: our heartbroken before and it's not gonna be easy. But

1444
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 2: if you get your heart broken, at least you know

1445
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 2: that you tried and you gave your efforts. So I

1446
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 2: stay sis, fuck it you like this, nigga, Let your

1447
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 2: walls down, Let that man, love you girl.

1448
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 3: I agree because I feel like I just recently, in

1449
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 3: the past year of my life, started opening up a

1450
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 3: little bit more to like a nigga, that I be

1451
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 3: a nigga, that I be dating or whatever. And it's

1452
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 3: like the worst thing that can happen with you opening

1453
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 3: up to a nigga and telling him how you feel

1454
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 3: and putting it all on the table, is him like

1455
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 3: turning you down or just telling you know. But at

1456
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 3: least if he turned you down until you know or

1457
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 3: he don't feel the same way, or you feel stupid

1458
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 3: after the fact, at least you put it out there,

1459
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,919
Speaker 3: so at least you're not gonna always have them thoughts

1460
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 3: about But what would have happened if I would have

1461
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 3: said these or what if I would have said so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, this one, yes, so yeah, this one right?

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01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, Hey ladies, Okay, hey ladies. I just wanted

1464
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 3: to let you guys know that I'm so happy that

1465
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 3: I came across y'all YouTube channel.

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01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: You two are the best.

1467
01:04:57,440 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 3: I enjoyed watching your YouTube channel as willis listening to

1468
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 3: your podcast. I enjoy all of you guys topics and segments,

1469
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 3: especially about the music and the bops. So I recently

1470
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 3: have been noticing that I come across as rude when

1471
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,920
Speaker 3: I really could have just let some fuck boys be.

1472
01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 3: For example, as I was checking out the store. As

1473
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 3: I was checking out of the store, the guy at

1474
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 3: the register asked me for my ID and I was

1475
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 3: buying some lotto tickeys and I was out of state,

1476
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 3: and I said, okay, but how old do you have

1477
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 3: to be to buy the lotto tickis? He stated, In

1478
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 3: this state, we check IDs if you look under forty.

1479
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 3: I said, okay, cool. He proceeded to say, so, yeah,

1480
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 3: that's like me giving you a compliment. In my mind,

1481
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 3: I was like, boys, shut the fuck up. I actually

1482
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 3: told him, okay, y'all. Then he said again, it's like

1483
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 3: a compliment. So I grabbed my stuff in my receipt

1484
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 3: and said whatever and loved like that shit ain't.

1485
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 1: Sent right with me? Did this negro?

1486
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 3: I really think I was finna say thank you to

1487
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 3: a half assed compliment?

1488
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 1: What y'all think? Typical me?

1489
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 3: I started to feel bad afterwards, But I really need

1490
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 3: to start not caring how people feel. Will fuck boys

1491
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 3: in parentheses feel love? You guys are like keep being yourselves,

1492
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 3: living in life.

1493
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 2: I feel like, as women, we go through that and

1494
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 2: we don't owe people to be nice.

1495
01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: I get it, you know what I'm saying.

1496
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 2: A lot of times I hate when I'm like pumping

1497
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 2: my gap.

1498
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 1: Smile baby girl. Oh why?

1499
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 2: A lot of times men they they're fucking worrisome and

1500
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 2: they're annoying.

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01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: So I get it.

1502
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 2: So what I've learned to do because honestly, I feel

1503
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 2: like it takes more energy worrying about something and let

1504
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,959
Speaker 2: somebody getting over my skin. So now I just smile,

1505
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 2: I say thank you, and I let it be known

1506
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 2: that that's all. That's all you're getting out of me.

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01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 2: You can get a thank you out of me, and

1508
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 2: that's it because I feel you sis. But like I said,

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01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 2: I notice myself getting upset when men would speak to me,

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01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 2: when men would look at me, and it would really

1511
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 2: fucking ruin my whole day. So I stopped doing that

1512
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 2: and I just start. I just say thank you, and

1513
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 2: I move on with my day. So a lot of

1514
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:57,520
Speaker 2: times people speak to me, hey, baby girl, you find

1515
01:06:57,560 --> 01:06:58,040
Speaker 2: and say hell.

1516
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, Hey, how you doing? Thank you?

1517
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 2: I don't even care. I don't even know they can

1518
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 2: say hello, thank you. I don't even because I'm not

1519
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 2: even listening. But I'm just saying thank you, cause You're

1520
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 2: not gonna be another person that's walking around saying, oh,

1521
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 2: black women are mean because of me.

1522
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 1: I agree, you know what I'm saying.

1523
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 2: So I feel like it doesn't give a lot of

1524
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 2: energy just to say thank you and keep it pushing.

1525
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

1526
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 3: I agree because I'm definitely like that a lot, and

1527
01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 3: I agree with Lex. Like when I was younger, I

1528
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 3: used to get very annoyed by.

1529
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 1: Shit like that.

1530
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 3: But then also too, girl, you know, I'm sure that

1531
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 3: you're a beautiful girl. So if you're a pretty girl,

1532
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 3: then you have to understand like niggas is gonna they

1533
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 3: gonna want to holler.

1534
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:32,760
Speaker 1: They gonna want to holler.

1535
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 3: They gonna being overly friendly and shit, and you might

1536
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 3: be out of day league and stuff like that, but

1537
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 3: they're still not gonna stop niggas from trying.

1538
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: Like niggas are gonna try.

1539
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 3: But when you get to a point to where you

1540
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 3: just like, okay, I'm not gonna let like stupid ass

1541
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 3: shit like these affect my day. Like leg said, the

1542
01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 3: nicest thing you could do is just say thank you.

1543
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: If nigga keep trying.

1544
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,040
Speaker 3: You or whatever, then I always go to the approach

1545
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 3: where I just let them know, okay, straight up, I'm

1546
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 3: not interested, or I got.

1547
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: A boyfriend right right, and just leave it at there.

1548
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1549
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 3: But it's not no need to be necessary to somebody

1550
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 3: who's not even a big part of your life, who

1551
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 3: you probably not gonna never even see again.

1552
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:10,040
Speaker 1: All right, I agree? I agree.

1553
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so this says call me Jacks. Oh that's my

1554
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 2: nephew name. Okay, I'm gonna keep it short and sweet.

1555
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 2: How do I balance being an independent bitch with all

1556
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 2: my own shit and getting these niggas to cut a

1557
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 2: check or offer the help. I'm quick to be like

1558
01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 2: I got it because I'm used to handling shit, but

1559
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,799
Speaker 2: I need to come off more damsel in distress ish help.

1560
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 2: I have trouble asking because I don't like being told

1561
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:35,200
Speaker 2: no or being disappointed. I'm quick to tell a nigga

1562
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 2: I don't need you help, Sis. I need to make

1563
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: a man feel more like a man. As my good

1564
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:41,960
Speaker 2: sis Dread would say at the end of the day,

1565
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:46,679
Speaker 2: help me tap into this divine, feminine energy, this pussy energy, love,

1566
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 2: the show y'all the shit period.

1567
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 1: I'll let you go first, because I know you itching

1568
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 1: to give us some advice, bitch.

1569
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 3: Only because it's so crazy. All of the questions that

1570
01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 3: y'all sending us today.

1571
01:08:57,080 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 1: Sound like me, like, oh my god, I don't like

1572
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: the type of person that I am. I definitely am

1573
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 1: like that.

1574
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 3: Lex has had to really show me throughout the years

1575
01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 3: that like, you have to learn to kind of be

1576
01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 3: okay with like sometimes just being soft and letting a

1577
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:16,280
Speaker 3: nigga feel like you need him, Like niggas love to

1578
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 3: feel like you need them. No, you don't want to

1579
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 3: seem like in the words of our faith, cause you

1580
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 3: don't want to feel like you don't want to seem like.

1581
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:23,639
Speaker 1: A Beggie Bundy.

1582
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 3: Now you don't want to be begging a nigga or

1583
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 3: just coming off too damn needy and stuff. But niggas

1584
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 3: actually really like to feel needy. They like to feel wanted.

1585
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 3: They like to feel appreciated as much as us as

1586
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 3: women feel like we don't want to be cleaning and

1587
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 3: stuff like that.

1588
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: Men like affection.

1589
01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:41,879
Speaker 2: And let me tell y'all something, I take care of myself.

1590
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 2: I pay my own bills, right, I'm very independent, But

1591
01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 2: I don't.

1592
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 1: I don't let these niggas know that for what.

1593
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can just be like, oh yeah, I

1594
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:54,519
Speaker 2: like this shit boy, fuck you guess what I'm short

1595
01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 2: on n I got three dollars. I don't say it

1596
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:58,679
Speaker 2: like that, but you know what I'm saying. I feel

1597
01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 2: like clothes mouths don't get fit. If it's good to

1598
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:03,080
Speaker 2: be an independent woman, it's good, but you don't have

1599
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 2: to showcase that for everybody.

1600
01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:06,559
Speaker 1: You know that, and that's good enough.

1601
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 3: And like I've said before, I think I've said this

1602
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,920
Speaker 3: before in the past as well, you don't necessarily like

1603
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:13,840
Speaker 3: if you need things or if it's certain things that

1604
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:16,280
Speaker 3: you want, it's different approaches to trying to get what

1605
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:19,719
Speaker 3: you want. You don't have to necessarily always ask, because

1606
01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:23,120
Speaker 3: sometimes just straight out asking do make you seem like

1607
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 3: you need or you want too much. I personally like

1608
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 3: to use the approach of insinuation.

1609
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I always insinuate.

1610
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,559
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, you like that, you know, just

1611
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 2: let a nigga out sometimes.

1612
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 3: Or just let or when I say insinuate, I'm more

1613
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:42,120
Speaker 3: so mean, Like if you know that there's something specific

1614
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 3: that you want or you got going on in your

1615
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 3: life and you really need some money for it, or

1616
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 3: you need a nigga to do some shit for you.

1617
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 3: I would just try to talk about it and then

1618
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:53,639
Speaker 3: also make it seem like I'm about to do it myself,

1619
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:55,640
Speaker 3: because I feel like a lot of the time, if

1620
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 3: a nigga got the means to do it for you

1621
01:10:57,920 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 3: and you tell him this is something that you was

1622
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,759
Speaker 3: about to do, a lot of the time, you'll be surprised.

1623
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 3: He'll offer to go ahead and dowie, but he ain't

1624
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 3: gonna know if you don't say anything.

1625
01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 2: Don't ever feel like you know, we always love to

1626
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 2: act stress.

1627
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: That always works for me. Always industry. I'm always in

1628
01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 1: the stress, honey.

1629
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, don't be shy and don't Like I said,

1630
01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:20,160
Speaker 2: being independent is a very amazing thing. But like I said,

1631
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 2: you don't always have to let these niggas know that

1632
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 2: you i't n D E p E n d E

1633
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 2: n T.

1634
01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 3: Cause niggas don't want a lot of especially since if

1635
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,479
Speaker 3: you're looking for a BDB are you trying to fuck

1636
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 3: with a bdb bdbs really.

1637
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 1: Don't be liking that type of shit all the time, right.

1638
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:36,879
Speaker 1: They want to feel like you need them for something.

1639
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 3: If they wanted to be you was like super super

1640
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,400
Speaker 3: independent or whatever. The case may be they will probably

1641
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 3: be dating somebody. This's non time I have to see

1642
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 3: you on their level.

1643
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 2: M h. Okay, so this is the last one I

1644
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 2: think we're gonna do, because we done did a lot today.

1645
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 1: Okay, so this says, Hey, ladies.

1646
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 2: My name is Ari. I'm a twenty three year old, slim,

1647
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:57,839
Speaker 2: thick college graduate who is looking to move to Atlanta

1648
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 2: this summer. My question is what play should I go

1649
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:03,799
Speaker 2: to be in the scene. I'm very shy at first

1650
01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 2: and terrible at making friends, but once I get to

1651
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 2: know someone, I really open up. Any advice on budgeting

1652
01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 2: for the move and what are some great areas to

1653
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 2: live in without having to pay crazy buckhead prices? Love

1654
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,560
Speaker 2: the show. You are both such an inspiration to me.

1655
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:22,439
Speaker 2: Ps I'm moving from Charlotte to Atlanta. Thank you so much,

1656
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:26,959
Speaker 2: Ari the Stallion. I know that's right, Ari the Stallion. Honestly,

1657
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 2: if you want to live in Atlanta, there's no cheap

1658
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 2: place to live.

1659
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm the cheapest bitch in Atlanta. My apartment still

1660
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: ain't that cheap.

1661
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 2: So it's like, if you want to live in the

1662
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 2: city like in Atlanta, you're not gonna find a one

1663
01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 2: bedroom that's like livable and that's nice. That's gonna be

1664
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 2: under like twelve thirteen hundred dollars. And that's just me

1665
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:52,599
Speaker 2: being honest. Atlanta is a growing city. It's just crazy

1666
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 2: out here. You can probably find a two bedroom if

1667
01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:57,600
Speaker 2: you have a roommate for like seventeen eighteen hundred, you

1668
01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. But yeah, one bedroom, you're not

1669
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 2: going to find anything less than twelve thirteen hundred dollars.

1670
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 2: As far as budgeting, I didn't budget, bitch. I packed

1671
01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:09,720
Speaker 2: up my bags and I moved in with Dre so

1672
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 2: I got.

1673
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:16,040
Speaker 1: So you can take that one. Tell her how to budget, girl.

1674
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:18,479
Speaker 3: I mean, I hear to be honest, though I can't

1675
01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:21,880
Speaker 3: really tell her how to budget either. I when I

1676
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 3: moved here, I had got laid off from my job,

1677
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:28,639
Speaker 3: maybe like six months six months or so, or maybe

1678
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:33,400
Speaker 3: seven months before I moved to Atlanta, so I had

1679
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 3: had a sever I got a severance package from my job,

1680
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 3: so I had a decent amount of money in my savings.

1681
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: But then also I'm.

1682
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 3: Literally moved here with a roommate, So I feel like

1683
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:46,639
Speaker 3: maybe that could be something that maybe you could visit

1684
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 3: as well. You know what I mean is moving out

1685
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 3: here with a friend, Like maybe I don't know if

1686
01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 3: you have some friends who want to move to Atlanta

1687
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:55,439
Speaker 3: or who wouldn't mind moving out here with you, or

1688
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 3: maybe when you get here, just trying to find you

1689
01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 3: a roommate. Because I feel like that's how I made

1690
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 3: it out here. Honestly, the first year that I was

1691
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 3: living here was because I had a roommate, so my

1692
01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 3: expenses weren't that high, and I was making really really

1693
01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 3: good money because I was working like two jobs in

1694
01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:12,719
Speaker 3: the club.

1695
01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: I had two different bartending jobs at the time.

1696
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 3: So young girl, I'm not gonna lie, but I probably

1697
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,160
Speaker 3: shouldn't have I probably should have saved way more money

1698
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:21,720
Speaker 3: than I did when I moved here. And that's so

1699
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:23,679
Speaker 3: I said, I can't give you no advice on budgeting

1700
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 3: because I'm I'm gonna keep it one hundred with y'all.

1701
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:27,679
Speaker 3: I probably had like about a good eight thousand dollars

1702
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 3: in my savings when I moved to Atlanta, But within

1703
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 3: like the first three weeks that I was living here,

1704
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 3: I spent all that sheep because I had to buy frien.

1705
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 1: I literally had to buy everything brand new.

1706
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 2: I was very lucky that I had a BDB at

1707
01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 2: the time that bought my furniture.

1708
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,800
Speaker 3: So I was lucky enough to find a job I

1709
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,720
Speaker 3: think two weeks after I moved.

1710
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: Here, But that was just furniture. Furniture is expensive as fuck.

1711
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 3: I literally spent them near all my savings buying all

1712
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 3: the sheep that I needed from me and my roommate

1713
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 3: for the sheet that for our apartment or whatever. And

1714
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 3: so I was just fortunate enough to find a job

1715
01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:01,799
Speaker 3: two weeks after moving here, and that's why I was okay.

1716
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:03,519
Speaker 1: But I should have saved way more money.

1717
01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:07,280
Speaker 2: And as far as being on the scene, I feel

1718
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 2: like it's just all like you just gotta meet people.

1719
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 2: There's no like place you can go to be in

1720
01:15:12,200 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 2: the scene. It's just like people roll with people and

1721
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 2: it just kind of happens.

1722
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:19,160
Speaker 1: In Atlanta, it's definitely a who's who.

1723
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 2: It's definitely a who's who city. It's definitely very mixy,

1724
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 2: but there's nowhere you can just go like like Installlu

1725
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 2: is super fucking mixy. But if you don't know who

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01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 2: to talk to or know who to go to, you're

1727
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 2: not it's gonna be in instant blue and be popping,

1728
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 2: you know what. I'm saying, or be around the popping people.

1729
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I mean you're gonna get in. Anybody can

1730
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:38,200
Speaker 1: get into instant blue.

1731
01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 3: That ain't true, not on Sunday, not on Saturday and

1732
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:41,639
Speaker 3: Sunday night.

1733
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: I ain't never been turned I ain't never seen nobody.

1734
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 3: Ever been turned around myself. But they gonna make you

1735
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 3: wait if you don't have no name.

1736
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 2: I have never seen that happen seen. Well, maybe because

1737
01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 2: I be with my BDB every time I go. But

1738
01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 2: like I said, there's no it's Atlanta is super mixy.

1739
01:15:57,520 --> 01:15:59,719
Speaker 2: So that's just really on you to make your connection

1740
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:03,360
Speaker 2: with people that you need to connect with. Always use

1741
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:05,640
Speaker 2: social media, That's what I always say for people. But

1742
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 2: Atlanta is just mixy. And it's not hard to meet

1743
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:10,200
Speaker 2: people out here because everybody friendly if they feel like

1744
01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 2: you can do something for them. So that's really what

1745
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 2: it's about, like, Yeah, what what do you bring to

1746
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:17,559
Speaker 2: the table?

1747
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: How can how can you help me so I can

1748
01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 1: help you.

1749
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 3: But you also got to be realized sometimes too that

1750
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 3: they ain't always the friends that you wan.

1751
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is not always the friends that you want.

1752
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 2: But it'll mean if you want to be mixedy, it'll

1753
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:31,840
Speaker 2: get you on the scene though you will, so yeah,

1754
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 2: So make sure if y'all want y'all question answered, y'all

1755
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:37,360
Speaker 2: email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1756
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 2: Now next week. I said this last week. We're not

1757
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:41,679
Speaker 2: in the studio this week, but we will be back

1758
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 2: in their Monday. I confirm with Djscreen today we will

1759
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:46,479
Speaker 2: be back in the studio next week. So I want

1760
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 2: to do our Q and A segment, So make sure

1761
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 2: you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot

1762
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,760
Speaker 2: com and make the type, make the subject Q and A.

1763
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 2: This is for y'all to ask us questions, like personal

1764
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:00,600
Speaker 2: questions about us that you want us to answer, like,

1765
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 2: for example, what where did you grow up at?

1766
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 1: What kind of niggas you like?

1767
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 2: Like little stuff like that, like personal questions to get

1768
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:10,599
Speaker 2: to know us?

1769
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, like stuff like that, y'all me, yeah, stuff like that.

1770
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 2: So we're gonna do a whole segment a Q and

1771
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:19,519
Speaker 2: A segment next week on our episode. So make sure

1772
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 2: you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot

1773
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 2: com and make the subject Q and A.

1774
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 3: And y'all y'all can literally ask us anything y'all want

1775
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:30,360
Speaker 3: to ask. And because we do in a Q and A,

1776
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 3: I would definitely try to be more open world.

1777
01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 2: I know most of these questions are going to be

1778
01:17:36,840 --> 01:17:39,400
Speaker 2: about asking you shit, and they're gonna be asking us

1779
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:40,760
Speaker 2: like plastic surgery question.

1780
01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely feel that way. But yeah, so I

1781
01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:45,400
Speaker 3: just want to let y'all know because I know sometimes

1782
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 3: we do.

1783
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 1: Get emails where people will.

1784
01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:50,200
Speaker 3: Be like, oh, I feel like Drea don't be always

1785
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:53,559
Speaker 3: being transparent, or I want y'all to be more both

1786
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 3: sometimes both of us to be more open about certain things.

1787
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:57,599
Speaker 1: So if it's.

1788
01:17:57,479 --> 01:18:00,679
Speaker 3: Anything specific that you want to know about, go ahead

1789
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 3: and ask it, and I'll do my best to answer

1790
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 3: your questions.

1791
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:07,719
Speaker 1: Yes, and make sure y'all stay safe.

1792
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 2: Corona is still out there and kicking, keep protesting, keep donating,

1793
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 2: keep reposting, and raising awareness to everything that's going on

1794
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 2: right now Black Lives Matter. I'll put a bunch of

1795
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,840
Speaker 2: links in the bio again today. Thank y'all so much

1796
01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 2: for tuning in. Yes, thank y'all all back in action

1797
01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 2: next week with the YouTube video video. Yes, and yeah,

1798
01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 2: we'll see y'all next week.

1799
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:34,840
Speaker 1: Bye, y'all,