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Speaker 1: Thanks so much for being with us today. I know

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Speaker 1: God sees you taking this time to learn more about Him,

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Speaker 1: to grow, and to really become all that you've created

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Speaker 1: to be. So know today that God is smiling down

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Speaker 1: on you. You love your way well, God bless you.

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Speaker 1: It's a joy to come into your homes. And if

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Speaker 1: you're ever in our area, please stop buying. Be a

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Speaker 1: part of one of our services. I promise you we'll

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Speaker 1: make you feel right at home. I like to start

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Speaker 1: with something funny, and I heard about this burglar that

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Speaker 1: broke into a home one night. As he was stealing

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Speaker 1: the stereo, he heard a voice saying, Jesus is watching you.

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Speaker 1: He froze in his tracks, shined his flashlight and saw

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Speaker 1: say that to me? The parent said yes, I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to warn you. He said, warn me? What are

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Speaker 1: you talking about? Who are you? He said, my name

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Speaker 1: is Moses. The burglar laughed, said what kind of crazy

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Speaker 1: people would name a parent Moses? He said, the same

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Speaker 1: kind of people that would name a one hundred and

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Speaker 1: This is my Bible. I am what it says I am.

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Speaker 1: I have what it says I have. I can do

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Speaker 1: taught the word of God. I boldly confess. My mind

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Speaker 1: the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. I want

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Speaker 1: to talk to you today about being vulnerable. It's easy

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Speaker 1: it's good to carry ourselves with confidence. But sometimes we

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Speaker 1: We struggle in these areas. We're people of we're supposed

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Speaker 1: to have all the answers, But the scripture says God's

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Speaker 1: power shows up greatest in our weaknesses. But if we

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Speaker 1: then God's power is not going to show up. God

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Speaker 1: won't bless who you pretend to be. He looks beyond

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Speaker 1: the mass, beyond the superficial. And when you're big enough

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Speaker 1: to admit God, I don't have it altogether. I'm struggling

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Speaker 1: in these areas. I need your help. Being vulnerable is

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Speaker 1: not a weakness, it's a strength. But when we pretend

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Speaker 1: try to impress people live for our image. That puts

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Speaker 1: think I'm good, I'm strong, I'm talented. Take off the mask.

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Speaker 1: You can be real, well, Joel, What if they think

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Speaker 1: less of me? What they think of you doesn't really matter.

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Speaker 1: They don't control your destiny. Friends judge you for being real,

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Speaker 1: they're not true friends. A true friend will accept you

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Speaker 1: for who you are. Faults, weaknesses, shortcomings, and all people

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Speaker 1: that judge you are not being honest with themselves. They

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Speaker 1: have their own issues. They're just wearing their mask hoping

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Speaker 1: that you don't notice. Everybody is dealing with something. There

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Speaker 1: are no perfect people, but we live in a society

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Speaker 1: less than. This creates all kinds of pretending. We're in

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Speaker 1: in fact it's weak. If you can't be honest with yourself.

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Speaker 1: you from your full potential. God is not looking for

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Speaker 1: apostle Paul did. He said in Philippians three, I count

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Speaker 1: not myself to have apprehended one version says I'm still

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Speaker 1: not everything that I should be now. Paul was one

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Speaker 1: But God cannot fill a vessel that's already full. If

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Speaker 1: you're full of yourself acting said it nice, acting, pretending,

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Speaker 1: A man had a son that was sick with something

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Speaker 1: please have compassion on us. Jesus said, if you believe

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Speaker 1: all things are possible. The man said, yes, Lord, I believe,

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Speaker 1: but help me in my unbelief. He was honest, he

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Speaker 1: When we're honest with God, when we're real, he doesn't

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Speaker 1: the insecure you, when you're vulnerable, God will begin to

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Speaker 1: change things. But sometimes we think we have to always

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Speaker 1: be strong in faith, strong in courage. We can't admit

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Speaker 1: I'm concerned about my finances. I don't see how it

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Speaker 1: honest before God. That's being vulnerable. The first time John

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Speaker 1: the Baptist saw Jesus, he said, behold the Lamb of God.

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Speaker 1: He knew he was Theah. In Matthew chapter three, John

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Speaker 1: A dove landed on Jesus. The heavens opened up. A

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Speaker 1: voice boomed out, saying, this is my beloved son, in

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Speaker 1: ask him if he's the son of God. What's interesting

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Speaker 1: Jesus understood. He said, tell John the blind, sea, the

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Speaker 1: don't understand, don't be down on yourself. You didn't see

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Speaker 1: God was not disappointed in John, and he's not disappointed

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Speaker 1: with yourself and honest with God and say, God, help

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Speaker 1: help me to not be jealous. I'm a coworker. Help

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Speaker 1: the first step to getting better. But sometimes religion has

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Speaker 1: taught us that God will condemn us, make us feel guilty.

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Speaker 1: God understands our doubts, our weaknesses, our failures when we

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Speaker 1: God is not waiting for the perfect you, for the

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Speaker 1: cleaned up you, for the no doubt you. He's waiting

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Speaker 1: for the real you, the honest you. God already knows

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Speaker 1: come to God open and honest, knowing that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: condemn you. He's not finding fault. He has mercy for

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Speaker 1: Our attitude should be God. My life is an open book.

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Speaker 1: everything that I'm not. Make me, mold me, help me

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Speaker 1: to become who you've created me to be. John Chapter four.

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Speaker 1: Jesus was at a well in Samaria. This woman came

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Speaker 1: but go call your husband. I can imagine time stopped

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Speaker 1: In town, everyone knew her, she was looked down on,

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Speaker 2: When God created the world, he did it specifically with

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