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Standard message 9 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 2: of data rates may apply all thanks to Live Nation. 10 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: Yeah they talk better than they excited. 11 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 3: Tell me. 12 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show, like. 13 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: Corotting in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 14 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: We call it blogs. Kaylin's got one. 15 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 4: Go, Yes, thank you, dear blog. 16 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 5: So my friend Tatiana, one of my best friends, who 17 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 5: you think all of you know her, and to know 18 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 5: her is to love her. She wants what she wants, 19 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 5: she likes what she likes. She voices that she's very opinionated, 20 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 5: and this trickles all the way down into her family, planning, 21 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 5: her children having if you will, So, I was at 22 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 5: dinner with her the other night and she was telling 23 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 5: us she doesn't by the way, she does not even 24 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 5: have a baby who has hit one years old yet, 25 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 5: so she has a newborn at home. And she is 26 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 5: telling me that she has begun trying again for another 27 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 5: baby because it's very important to her that they are 28 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 5: back to back in the same or back to back grades, 29 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 5: so not the same grade, but like Irish. 30 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: Twins, they would have to be a year apart, correct, 31 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 2: but and no more. 32 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 4: Yes, And she was doing the math. Doing the math. 33 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 5: However, she said, if I'm not pregnant right now, I'm 34 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 5: going to stop trying for a couple months. 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 4: And I said, well, why is that? And she said why. 36 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 4: I don't want a baby with a holiday birthday. 37 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 5: And I'm like, you care about that? And she's like, 38 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 5: oh yeah, so it's crazy. And I was researching and 39 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 5: I guess that a lot of moms feel a certain 40 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 5: type of way about their baby's birthday. I know, like 41 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 5: if it's a c section, a lot of people will 42 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 5: you know, schedule it such as though they have a 43 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 5: birthday that they want. I know, Paulina didn't want an 44 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 5: April Fool's baby. 45 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 3: I almost did, though, you yes, because I was induced 46 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 3: on March thirtieth at seven pm and you guys are 47 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 3: texting me everything. 48 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 4: It was like a Monday or something. 49 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 3: And I was like, you guys, like I could have 50 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: this baby any second. 51 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 4: You don't know. 52 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 3: But I was so scared because if she came out 53 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 3: on April first, I would have been very upset that 54 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 3: my poor baby has the April full birthday. 55 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: And been listening for a while. 56 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: Then you know that Paulina clearly didn't plan that because 57 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: she was pregnant at her wedding. 58 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 3: I was pregnant three months pregnant. My wedding did not 59 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 3: plan that. 60 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 1: That was not on purpose. 61 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 4: My wedding theme was like wild weekend in Vegas. That 62 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 4: was the thing with my wedding. 63 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: That was your husband, Oh he didn't make it to 64 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: the party, the pre party. Yeah, I was like, we're 65 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 2: hobby at the engagement party. Didn't make it, no friend 66 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 2: engaging party that. 67 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: Whatever? 68 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 4: Your propavy up? Yeah, like we propped. We don't talk 69 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 4: about that enough. I'm not mad enough about that. I 70 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 4: was surprised that you were so sad about it, But well, 71 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 4: you know me, I like to go without him sometimes, 72 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 4: you know. Yeah, that was getting into. 73 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 2: A lot that night, Shelly. Was there much planning for 74 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: your kids? 75 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:05,679 Speaker 1: No? 76 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 6: You know me, I'm kind of like, let the universe 77 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 6: do what it's gonna do, whatever's gonna happens. That happened. 78 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: So we well. 79 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 6: For my first we were trying to have a baby 80 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 6: and then wonderful experience. And for the second we did 81 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 6: not plan it at all whatsoever. It was a complete 82 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 6: shock and surprise. So it is it trying? 83 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 2: Is that kind of is it get kind of like annoying? 84 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: Because I feel like the when people are trying, then 85 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 2: it's like, you know, we're sort of tracking things, and 86 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 2: then it's like, oh, now is we got to now? 87 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 2: And then, like I've heard from my buddies, it gets 88 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: to the point where if you're trying for a while 89 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: that it becomes very unromantic and like almost not even 90 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: enjoyable because it's like a now we're just we're doing 91 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: this for the purpose, we're not doing this for the fun. Right. 92 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 4: Well, I will say it did no, I mean we 93 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 4: were lucky. 94 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 6: I feel very lucky because I know not everybody's as 95 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 6: lucky as like, we didn't have to try that hard. 96 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 4: Guess okay, yeah I. 97 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 5: Didn't take two many times, but oh hell yeah yeah. 98 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 2: But you know, I think for some people, like they 99 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 2: try and try and try and try and then it's 100 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: like at some point, you know, and we're getting really 101 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 2: granular about the process, and it's oh god, my buddies 102 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: will be like, Okay, well this weekend, I'm busy, and 103 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 2: it's not. And it's busy in a fun way, but 104 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 2: not a fun way because at some point it's like, okay, 105 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: enough is enough, Like it's not gonna work. It's like, 106 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I never thought there'd 107 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: be a world where like I wouldn't. I wouldn't be 108 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 2: into that. But my poor sister, I mean, she had 109 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 2: polly within I think I don't know, after maybe six 110 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 2: or eight months of being married, because she was told 111 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 2: by her doctor that it would be extremely difficult for 112 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: them to conceive, if at all, and then they didn't 113 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 2: do anything special and then they just she got pregnant. 114 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: She was like, oh, so we're doing this now. I 115 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: think she was hoping they had a little more time, 116 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 2: like to be you know, married and not without kid. Interesting, 117 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 2: but yeah, it was like yeah, and I won't I 118 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: don't know the whole process, but there's something going on there, 119 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: and it was like, yeah, it's gonna be hard. 120 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: It went hard. Apparently it was pretty easy. It was 121 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:04,919 Speaker 1: so be careful, I guess. 122 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 3: But you know what, though, I think a lot of 123 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 3: people will appreciate what your friend is doing, especially because 124 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: I have friends whose birthdays fall right like on New 125 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 3: Year's Christmas and someone just texted about that too, and 126 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 3: they're like, it sucks, and I feel like, because you 127 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: get the shine taken. 128 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 4: Away from you, right if your birthday's near Christmas? You 129 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 4: guys got Thanksgiving? I like you, thank you. 130 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: That was not so bad. 131 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 4: I don't think Thanksgiving. 132 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 2: And that was a month early, so I wasn't I 133 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: think I was supposed to be closer to Christmas. 134 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: Oh you were? 135 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 4: Oh you were a month early? 136 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: Yes, I was. I was born small, and. 137 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 2: It was there was viability was a question. I won't 138 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: sure if I was ever going to get big and tall. 139 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 4: Look at you now? 140 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Gosh. 141 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 2: Apparently I had a gigantic head for for a premie 142 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: and so that my mom was convinced. I was like, 143 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: what do they call that? U was a hydro cephalic? 144 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it turns out I just I didn't. I 145 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: had to grow into my head, is what it turned 146 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 2: out to me, which is still true. It's still true. 147 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 2: I need to go into my ears too. Yeah, maybe 148 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: that's more common than people think. Text us if they 149 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 2: don't want to have a summer baby. Some people don't 150 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: want to be pregnant in the summer. 151 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's the thing too. 152 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 5: My one friend said my other friend that it's like 153 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:10,239 Speaker 5: the best to be pregnant starting around like right before 154 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 5: the holidays, because then you're like inside it's cold, and 155 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 5: like you don't have to do a lot, you know 156 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 5: what if you're eating. 157 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I guess in the winter you can 158 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: sort of get away with that, was me. Yeah, and 159 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 2: I would imagine it would be more enjoyable to be 160 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: carrying around another human being and gaining weight when it's 161 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: when it's cold outside because it's hot, but it's I 162 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 2: don't know, hard child childbirth is not for me. That's 163 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: a good thing. Now. 164 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: It's a miracle that hasn't ever happened.