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Speaker 2: Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez

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Speaker 2: off All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty

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Speaker 5: So just as a refresher earlier this year, I was

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Speaker 5: lucky enough to win a trip to anywhere I wanted

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Speaker 5: to go. Here at work, and so we picked turks

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Speaker 5: and caicos.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 5: So Mike and I are going uh in February, and

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Speaker 5: his mom was so sweet. She thought that, you know,

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Speaker 5: we needed some gear to be on a tropical vacation, right,

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Speaker 5: I guess that's tropical, And so she went and bought

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Speaker 5: us some new shirts that we could wear while on vacation,

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Speaker 5: and she brought them over yesterday and it's so sweet

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Speaker 5: and I'm so thankful, but she bought matching shirts for

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Speaker 5: Mike and I. And the first thing when Mike opened

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Speaker 5: it was like, we're not wearing this on the same day,

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Speaker 5: Like we're not the gay couple that matches. That's just

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Speaker 5: not our mind.

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Speaker 3: Button down.

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Speaker 5: They're button downs, like they're nicer shirts, collared button downs,

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Speaker 5: but they have like like ships, like sort of like

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Speaker 5: scattered and I'm like, I would wear like it totally

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Speaker 5: makes sense for a vacation shirt, but I'm like, I

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Speaker 5: don't know if we need to wear it.

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Speaker 2: If you wear those at the same time and go out,

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Speaker 2: people are gonna be like, hey, which way is the way?

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Speaker 2: Which way is just shopping is? Because you know this

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Speaker 2: way we're looking for my carnival cruise ship. Do you

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Speaker 2: know where it is.

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Speaker 7: People are different on vacation, and you never vacation with Mike.

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Speaker 3: So maybe you guys are the couple that matches on vacation.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we are.

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Speaker 2: There are so many layers of crazy to this trip.

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Speaker 2: Are the parents going.

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Speaker 3: With you, guys?

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Speaker 1: So his parents are coming with So the.

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Speaker 2: Very first time that you are traveling together to anywhere

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Speaker 2: matching shirt on a plane together after fourteen years anywhere, Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm more.

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Speaker 5: Worried about going through the airport together. But yes, the

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Speaker 5: first time. I've never been through the airport.

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Speaker 2: You've never been on a plane, You've never traveled together,

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Speaker 2: you never traveled internationally together. You're doing all this for

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Speaker 2: the first time in matching ship T shirt with his parents.

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Speaker 2: Why can't you go alone?

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Speaker 5: But honestly, I'm trying to of okay because I think

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Speaker 5: it like alleviates like some of it like, and also

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Speaker 5: like I just imagine it's gonna be a very stressful

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Speaker 5: situation of us because I'm very neurotic, as you can

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Speaker 5: imagine when I get to the airport, like we have

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Speaker 5: to be there at a certain time, you know, you

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Speaker 5: have to have your back right neurotic, Like we got

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Speaker 5: to have our shoes off before we get the like

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Speaker 5: we all there's a process that we need to like,

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Speaker 5: you know, work this through. And I been playing before.

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Speaker 5: Yeah he has Okay, this isn't like the first time

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Speaker 5: going by. Yeah, just never together. Yeah, we've never gone

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Speaker 5: through this situation. And also like he's a he's an

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Speaker 5: activities guy, right, like he's gonna want to do like

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Speaker 5: the snorkeling and the scuba diving.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to do any of that.

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Speaker 5: So I'm like, Okay, now you have someone to like

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Speaker 5: go with and I'm just gonna choll on the beach

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Speaker 5: and so I'm good with that. I just I don't

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Speaker 5: really know if we need to match out fits.

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Speaker 3: So this is just so many.

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Speaker 2: Lays of Wow, Well, and you've been together for fourteen

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Speaker 2: years successfully you've you add up every person I've ever met,

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Speaker 2: it's not fourteen and then spoken to it doesn't add.

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Speaker 3: Up to fourteen years.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know, but I would I usually say

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Speaker 2: you should travel with someone almost almost right away, yes,

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Speaker 2: because for sure, I mean I've learned in relationships pretty

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Speaker 2: quickly that like now or not, you know the way

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Speaker 2: people travel and the way people vacation and the way

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Speaker 2: people deal with stress or inconvenience or change it. But

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Speaker 2: I think that is all very telling, and so this

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Speaker 2: could be interesting, like how are you going to.

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Speaker 3: Deal with that?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 5: But like one thing that I think he's he is

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Speaker 5: so crazy. He's like he's gone on trip so far,

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Speaker 5: and he was like, Okay, do you want, like I'll

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Speaker 5: log into my Netflix on your iPad?

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Speaker 3: Like you can like watch something on the plane, right,

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Speaker 3: some toys for the trip?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't need anything.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, so you just sit there.

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Speaker 3: Oh he's going to row dog the trip.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you just keep every plane trip has ever taken.

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Speaker 5: He just sits there like.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, do you want something on your crazy? Well,

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Speaker 3: it's true.

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Speaker 8: You sit and stare at nothing on the plane.

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Speaker 9: That's a key.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that. I can do that, though, hek

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Speaker 2: you can't do that. I can just sit there look

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Speaker 3: I can Like, what do you do?

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Speaker 2: I'm never in the middle seat. I will not get

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Speaker 2: on the plane. I won't get on the plane. If

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Speaker 2: it's a middle seat, I will take the next plane.

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Speaker 2: I'm not getting on that plane. I'm not like I

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Speaker 2: won't sit in I'm ninety feet tall and I'm two

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Speaker 2: hundred and forty pounds. I'm not sitting in the middle

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Speaker 2: for everyone's best interest, Oh for sure.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it's definitely not my choice. But no,

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Speaker 3: if I'm in the middle seat, I'm especially I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: have to stare. What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 5: I have to have like five shows that I'm not

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Speaker 5: gonna watch, probably on my iPad. I'm gonna have a book.

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Speaker 5: I need to have stuff on my phone is back up, Like,

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Speaker 5: it's not like I need something to divert my attention.

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Speaker 5: I can't just sit in a plane. I can bring

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Speaker 5: all that stuff and then don't do anything. Like I'll

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Speaker 5: I'll have.

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Speaker 2: A whole plan. Yeah yeah, just like that. You can

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Speaker 2: people at home can see it. I said, just like that,

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Speaker 2: I don't burn what you.

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Speaker 1: Do hands folded.

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Speaker 5: I know I need something to like escape that I'm

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Speaker 5: on a plane, because I don't ever want to think

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Speaker 5: that I'm want to play uniforms.

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Speaker 3: For your vacation.

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Speaker 2: That's it's very kind of them, obviously very thoughtful.

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Speaker 3: Shirt.

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Speaker 2: Wait hold they have the same shirts though, No, so

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Speaker 2: this is the bread show. Let's get you a hotel,

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Speaker 2: a trip for two to see Jennifer Lopez her brand

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Speaker 2: new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez Up All Night Live

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Speaker 2: in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six, at the

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Speaker 2: Coliseum at Caesar's.

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Speaker 3: Palace, Text Vegas.

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Speaker 2: He's seven three three seven right now for a chance

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Speaker 2: to win two tickets to the March thirteenth show at

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Speaker 2: two Night Hotels Day March twelfth through the fourteenth at

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Speaker 2: the Flamingo Hotel Casino, Las Vegas and Round Trepair Fair.

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Speaker 2: Tickets are on sale now at ticketmaster dot com for

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Speaker 2: all shows running December thirtieth through January third, and March

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Speaker 2: sixth through the twenty eighth.

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Speaker 4: Never Been Last Waiting by the phone, It's.

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Speaker 1: The Fred Shell. Hey, Carly, Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 10: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Loud and clear, loud and clear, clear morning morning to Carly.

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Speaker 2: What's going on with this guy?

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Speaker 1: Chris?

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Speaker 3: Who? I guess?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you tell us how you met? About any

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Speaker 2: days you've been on and then where things are now?

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Speaker 7: Or yeah, I.

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Speaker 6: Don't know, man.

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Speaker 10: It was such.

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Speaker 7: It was interesting because we met on a dating app,

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Speaker 7: and you know how those are, like sometimes just you

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Speaker 7: get some randos. But I met this guy, Chris, and

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Speaker 7: she was super hot and he suggested that we go

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Speaker 7: on a weekend trip for our first day really, and

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Speaker 7: I just, yeah, isn't that wild?

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Speaker 2: That's kind of a bull So you meet a guy

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Speaker 2: in a dating app and he's like, let's go out

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Speaker 2: of town immediately. I mean, that's that's how Dately episodes

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Speaker 10: Yeah, that's how you end up dead.

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Speaker 7: But you were like, okay, you know, I was like,

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Speaker 7: he's super hot, and I thought, you know what, I'm

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Speaker 7: just going to take the risk. And I thought the

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Speaker 7: worst that could happen is we meet at the air he's.

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Speaker 1: Not who he said he was, and I leave.

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Speaker 7: And the wild thing is he under up being totally

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Speaker 7: who he said he was.

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Speaker 11: And you know, he had he had like a hand friends.

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Speaker 11: When his profile he looked like he did some things.

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Speaker 11: And we ended up going to New Orleans.

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Speaker 9: We had a great weekend. He was a gentleman, he

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Speaker 9: paid for everything. We had a great time. And then

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Speaker 9: at the end of the trip, we hugged at the

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Speaker 9: airport and I never.

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Speaker 1: Heard from him again.

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Speaker 2: Really, this dude took you to New Orleans and you're

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Speaker 2: saying that the trip went well and then he never

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Speaker 2: called you after the trip Like that is that's a

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Speaker 2: wild story. I mean you met at random standary and

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Speaker 2: went on a trip. I will tell you this though, Carly.

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Speaker 2: When I'm first dating someone, if I think it's going

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Speaker 2: to go somewhere, which just doesn't happen very often, but

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Speaker 2: if I think it's going somewhere, I do kind of

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Speaker 2: rush the trip effort. Now, not like on the first date,

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Speaker 2: but you know, within like the first month or two,

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Speaker 2: because I think you can tell a lot about somebody

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Speaker 2: about how they travel and how you travel together. And

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Speaker 2: you know, are they the people that show up after

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Speaker 2: the flight already left? You know?

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: How much do they pack? You know, do they have

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Speaker 2: a TSA pre check or not? It's a huge deal for.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Well, now I'm wondering. I agree, But now I

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Speaker 7: am thinking, maybe there's a reason when you did that

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Speaker 7: after a month or two and not the first time

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Speaker 7: we've ever met.

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Speaker 2: But okay, so I get it totally. Yeah, you want

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Speaker 3: And maybe you guys can go out again.

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Speaker 2: We're not paying for a trip, we don't have that

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Speaker 10: I'm so confused by this dude that's desire to me.

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Speaker 2: So hey, Carly, all right, I always call this guy Chris.

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Speaker 2: You met on the dating apps and and you just

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Speaker 10: You got is exactly right? Has the airport?

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Speaker 2: This is wild. Well let's call chrisye we can get

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Speaker 2: all right, good luck?

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Speaker 10: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hi? Is this Chris Chris?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Friend. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,

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Speaker 2: the morning radio show. I have to tell you the

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Speaker 2: I would need your permission to continue with the call,

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Speaker 2: which after just a second, would you mind?

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Speaker 1: Do you have to do?

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Speaker 2: I mean you have to use my last name? No,

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to use your last name. I don't

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Speaker 1: Sure, so that's fine, that's yeah, you're sure?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, i'd so no last name, just Chris. But

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Speaker 2: I'm calling on behalf of a woman named Carly, who

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Speaker 2: I guess you just went to New Orleans with you

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Speaker 3: He the date nap and he went to New Orleans.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember this?

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Speaker 1: I hope I do remember that. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, she reached out to us, had nice things

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Speaker 2: But she said you were good looking, You were who

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Speaker 2: in her opinion, everything went really well. That was kind

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Speaker 2: here we are. Why are you calling her?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like this, Okay, she I like to

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Speaker 4: I mean it's not very common for somebody to ask

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Speaker 1: That is that is a big thing. And she said yes.

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Speaker 4: And for me, when somebody says that, that means something,

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Speaker 8: So I was.

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Speaker 4: But she, I mean, let me just lay it out here.

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Speaker 4: She didn't want to stay in the same hotel room

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Speaker 3: Well, what do you hold on a second? Let's stop

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Speaker 3: right there.

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Speaker 2: So when did you learn that she wasn't going to

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Speaker 10: Like?

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Speaker 2: Was that part of the Hey, I'll go with you

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Speaker 2: you guys text about that ahead of time or how

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Speaker 2: did how did you know that that's what she wanted?

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Speaker 1: No, when we got to the hotel is when I

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Speaker 4: And it's fine, you know, I'm like, like, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm willing to pay for everything. But I mean, number one,

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Speaker 4: it was inconvenient. I found out right when I'm getting

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Speaker 4: I mean, it would have screwed up the whole thing

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Speaker 4: we kind of went back and forth on it and

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Speaker 1: That is what I would say.

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Speaker 8: We got like two beds in the same room, which

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Speaker 8: you know, because I flew her, I paid for everything,

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Speaker 1: There was no reciprocal action at all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you know, I mean, so you didn't there

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Speaker 2: was nothing physical, You didn't. You didn't have any adult

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Speaker 2: And you're and you so and and you suggested that

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Speaker 2: you had known from the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, yes, okay, we agree with that.

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Speaker 2: So so basically, because you paid for everything and she

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Speaker 2: supposed to be other things that happened like that was just.

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Speaker 3: Implied by this.

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Speaker 10: He never said that, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's I got to mention Carly's here. I'm very

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Speaker 2: forgetful Carly, Chris, you guys know each other. But I

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Speaker 2: to be clear. I don't want to mischaracterize here. You

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Speaker 2: you said, hey, let's go on a trip. I'll pay

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Speaker 2: for everything. But it wasn't. It had conditions, they were

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Speaker 4: It's in my opinion, it's common knowledge. That is a

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Speaker 4: common knowledge thing that you know. Otherwise I would have

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Speaker 4: just taken my buddy. It's common knowledge.

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Speaker 2: You go, you okay, So back to you, Carly. It's

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Speaker 2: common knowledge, right, I mean you heard the man.

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Speaker 1: No way, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 10: There's nothing we've just that we go on the trips.

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Speaker 10: There's no set precedent for that.

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Speaker 6: I look on a neuraland date, you have.

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Speaker 10: Some drinks, you needed a bar, you can make it.

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Speaker 10: We literally get on a plane, we.

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Speaker 7: Go straight to a hotel and I'm going after have

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Speaker 10: And we didn't talk about it. You sort of made

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Speaker 1: I mean that's what you say.

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Speaker 4: Listen, if you didn't want to get you know, intimate,

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Speaker 4: you shouldn't have agreed to the trip, like it's I would.

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Speaker 10: Never would you didn't. You didn't. You didn't torture me

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Speaker 10: on a trip. You didn't say anything.

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Speaker 7: You made it sound like you were totally having a

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Speaker 7: good a good time like I wasn't even aware that

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Speaker 10: Upset until I didn't care from you.

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Speaker 7: You didn't say anything either, nobody no, you.

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Speaker 6: Set you go you.

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Speaker 10: I can promise you that nobody said that.

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Speaker 4: It's like you want a free car and you went

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Speaker 3: Who's who got a freak kia? What happened?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Look, here's the thing. She owes you nothing, Chris. Let's

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Speaker 2: just be really clear. She doesn't owe you.

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Speaker 3: Whether they travel or not.

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Speaker 5: Though, Like even if it was their hometown, nobody owes

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Speaker 2: Nobody owes you anything now now here, I will say this.

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Speaker 2: There's a I don't know. I will say this though,

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Speaker 2: I suppose that it might have been a good thing

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Because I will say if I'm if I'm staying in

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Speaker 2: some ways in my mind, I think there's a possibility

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Speaker 2: that's an unfair thing to consider. That being said, she

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Speaker 2: not this is not you're not buying things so that

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Speaker 2: she does other things. That's there's a there's a name

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Speaker 2: for that. It's the world's oldest profession, and that's something

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Speaker 2: that happens other places.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe there couldn't have been some kind of conversation from

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Speaker 3: I will accept this trip. I'm excited to go.

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Speaker 2: I just want you to know, you know, nothing is

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you would have said no, I don't

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not, I'm not I'm not defending you. I'm

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Speaker 2: Say that I understand why it might have been valuable

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Speaker 2: to discuss these kind of things before we go on

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Speaker 2: she owes you nothing, you know, I in.

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Speaker 4: My mind, like I said, there's an unspoken code and

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Speaker 4: she broke it, and it just you know, I didn't

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Speaker 4: put any pressure on her the pressure.

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Speaker 1: I didn't put any pressure. She agreed to go.

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Speaker 4: So there is that code and it is what is expected,

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Speaker 4: and I was missing.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I was misled.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you were misled. I think he took

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Speaker 2: think she has every right to not do anything with you.

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Speaker 2: And and you, guys, it appears that you had a

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Speaker 2: good time anyway, So why are we blowing it now?

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Speaker 2: And it sounds like maybe if you go on another date,

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Speaker 2: like things could have happened. But now I don't know. Carly,

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Speaker 2: what do you think you want to go out with

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Speaker 10: We'll pay for it, I mean definitely not now.

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Speaker 6: But all that said before was no rules, So in

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Speaker 6: I feel.

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Speaker 10: Like you're right like he didn't indicate.

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Speaker 7: So for me, the fact that he asked is like

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Speaker 7: he was having a good time and this.

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Speaker 1: Is what he was thinking. Is really that's the part

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Speaker 1: that you know.

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Speaker 10: Makes me very turned off.

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Speaker 4: So this is a blatant example of me being used.

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Speaker 3: Is what this is?

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Speaker 1: You deserve?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would use you to You don't even know

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Speaker 3: her name. You don't know her favorite color? A light

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Speaker 3: like you did. I mean she knows.

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Speaker 1: I don't know her favorite color?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: She she knows if I fly first clanswer coach. You

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Speaker 4: know she knows a lot Aboutmies.

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Speaker 3: New Orleans. And I don't blame city girls are okay?

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Speaker 2: You you swung thing, and I respect the move. I

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Speaker 2: see what you were doing. It didn't work. She doesn't

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Speaker 2: know that to you, you don't have a right to

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Speaker 2: be angry about it.

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not angry. I'm not angry. I'm not angry.

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm disappointed and I feel used, and I'm just.

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Speaker 3: Not really.

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Speaker 10: That a first date is the first date.

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Speaker 7: And if you were like you may not come on

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Speaker 7: this strip unless you give me sex.

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Speaker 10: You I have said that. You didn't say.

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Speaker 1: It, right, I agree, I didn't. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: say it. You don't have to say it.

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Speaker 3: If you read the foot.

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Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You know what's ever read the fine front of the ticket,

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Speaker 2: But it says it right there. You have to look

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Speaker 2: a little more carefully, he says, Chris, Uh.

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Speaker 1: It's implied. We flew, we flew to a different city together.

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Speaker 1: We didn't go to do that.

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Speaker 10: On the first date. You didn't present yourself that way.

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Speaker 10: You never said anything, and to me even implied that.

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Speaker 10: That's like, there.

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Speaker 7: Are dates that are very clearly we're gonna go on

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Speaker 7: this date and there's no expectations we're going to get

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Speaker 7: to know each other.

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Speaker 10: And there's other dates where you know, if you show

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Speaker 10: up to that date, the.

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Speaker 7: Guy is interested in one thing, and you show up

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Speaker 7: to those dates knowing that that's.

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Speaker 11: The only thing on his mind.

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Speaker 10: And you were very much the first.

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Speaker 1: That's every date. That's every date you that's every date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, because here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: If Chris had been like, hey, so we getting it on, well,

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Speaker 2: then I suppose that that makes it very clear. But

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Speaker 2: then you know, he didn't do that because he knows

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Speaker 2: that runs the risk of her not going, and then

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Speaker 2: she could have been like, hey, I'm not by just

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Speaker 2: for the record that nothing's happening. That also could have

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Speaker 2: shut things down. I mean, so yeah, I guess there

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Speaker 2: could have been a very unromantic conversation about ground rules

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Speaker 2: to begin or there just could have been you know,

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Speaker 2: common human decency which did happen. But all the while

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Speaker 2: he's mad about it and now he won't go out

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Speaker 2: with her again. I think that's the risk you take.

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Speaker 2: But look, she doesn't want to go out with you again. Chris.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you were used. You took a shot,

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Speaker 2: it didn't work. I wish you the best, Carly. I

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Speaker 2: wish you the best as well.

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Speaker 10: Thanks,