1 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: Don't want to ask your question real good. 2 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 2: Let's just keep it real straight. Shout with No Chase, 3 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 2: say I'm gonna get a little bit rougher. I'm here 4 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 2: for it. 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 3: Those who really believe in the American process, all of 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 3: us street shot No Chase with your girl Teslim Figure 7 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 3: Out on the Black Effect podcast Network. 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 2: At work Tea, everybody, this is Teslim Figure Out. 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: Tap in with Teslim Figure Out, a news show. I 10 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 3: think we're on episode eight. I believe very very excited 11 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 3: about this new platform. Shout out to all of the 12 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 3: team that is making this work. A new platform called 13 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 3: two Way. Shout out to the homie Chris Gotti. Today 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 3: We're gonna do something a little bit different. I am 15 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 3: also streaming live on my Instagram. Shout out to my 16 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,279 Speaker 3: Instagram family. I see you guys popping up. 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: Uh. 18 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 3: I see my YouTube family popping up. I see my 19 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: Twitter family popping up. 20 00:00:58,560 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: I'm doing this on. 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 3: Purpose because I have a very very special guest with me, 22 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: doctor Steve Perry, and I want to involve those that 23 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 3: follow my work and his work because we do, I 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 3: guess you would call it cross pollinate in many of 25 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 3: the same circles, and so I thought this was a 26 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 3: really really good conversation Instagram family. As you know, I 27 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 3: am always looking at your comments, so I will be 28 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 3: looking down and on the two Way app. Let me 29 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 3: give a moment to explain what that will be. It 30 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 3: will be an app very similar to what we do 31 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 3: on Instagram. So you guys know my comment caucus. I 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: see you in the building. I see you, Cliff, he said, 33 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 3: he is the chairman of the comment Caucus. And so 34 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: I'd like to everybody knows on Instagram that I love 35 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: to bring you in my conversations. 36 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 2: You are literally my third host. 37 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: So as you watch this, I am going to direct 38 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 3: you to watch this on two Way on YouTube stream 39 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 3: streaming right now on the two Way app on YouTube. 40 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 3: My apology so you is Google and put in two 41 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: way and put in just put in two Way, tesslim 42 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 3: figure o that app should that YouTube channel should pull up, 43 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 3: and then you can watch us live. 44 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 2: But fear not, this. 45 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 3: Link will be available if you want to actually see 46 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 3: the video. So if you're on Instagram saying hey I 47 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 3: can't see the video, let them know comment a caucus chair, 48 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 3: I see you in the building. Let people know that 49 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 3: they will be able to watch this video. We're gonna 50 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 3: have this up this evening, no later than in the morning, 51 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 3: so let's get straight to it. So, Wow, I was 52 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 3: going to come on and talk about something else today. 53 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,359 Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about abortion. I wanted to talk 54 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 3: about what's happening in politics. But then we learned of 55 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 3: the passing of O. J. 56 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 2: Simpson. 57 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 3: I immediately got on the phone to talk to doctor 58 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 3: Steve Perry because this was such an important conversation and 59 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 3: those of you know, I normally don't just follow whatever's tree, 60 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,399 Speaker 3: you know, whatever conversation is trending. I don't just jump 61 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 3: on every conversation for the sake of clicks and views. 62 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 3: But this is so important because it really is was 63 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,119 Speaker 3: a milestone in my life. Would it is This particular 64 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: case in nineteen ninety five when I was in high 65 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 3: school really made me want to get into the legal profession. 66 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 3: It also showed me what commentating was all about on 67 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 3: court TV. You know, I learned that, Wow, you can 68 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 3: be an attorney and have an opinion without getting in 69 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 3: trouble and TV all at the same time. My mother 70 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 3: was the news director's assistant, and we would come home 71 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 3: and she would record this case every day on VHS. 72 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 2: For those who don't know what that is, it is 73 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: actually a tape that you used. 74 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: To have to put in a machine that would record. 75 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 3: And so this was just a pivotal, pivotal time in 76 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 3: my life. There's probably not a motion, an objection and 77 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: piece of evidence that I don't know about this case. 78 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 3: I literally watch it even until this day. It is 79 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 3: something that that just from a legal standpoint, has always 80 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: been fascinating. Man set aside of O. J. Simpson, but 81 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 3: just the case set aside. I normally, Doctor Perry, I 82 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 3: don't even like getting in these conversations with people because 83 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 3: I am so in deep with this case that I 84 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 3: always feel as if, you know, I'm speaking to somebody 85 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 3: that may not have watched it the way that I did, 86 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: and I always feel that it's an uneven conversation. But 87 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: you are the man for the conversation for today. We 88 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,359 Speaker 3: don't have a lot of time, so there's only a 89 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 3: few things that we can unpack with this case. First, 90 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 3: let me introduce to you doctor Steve Perry, an educator, 91 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 3: best selling author, founder of founder and head of schools 92 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 3: Capital Preparatory Schools, Arthur of Man Up, Nobody's Coming to 93 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 3: Save Us? And push has come to shove. You've seen 94 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: him on many platforms much larger than mine. 95 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: So I am humbled in honored. 96 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 3: He's shaking his head, humbled in honor to have him 97 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 3: joined the little old me Teslam fiery on, tap it 98 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 3: with tens he Hello, doctor Perry. 99 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 4: Says, I am so humbled to be part of your great, 100 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 4: big platform because what you do is tackle topics that 101 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 4: other folks are either afraid to or incapable of offering 102 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 4: up the nuances to engage in. So this is a 103 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 4: conversation I could not be happier to have. 104 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a blessing to have because you know, we 105 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,239 Speaker 3: unpacked things all the time, you know, and the listeners 106 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: don't notice, but. 107 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 4: We unpack all the time, the show between the shows, 108 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 4: the show between the. 109 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 3: Show, so they're really just going to be listening to 110 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 3: a conversation that we would just typically have cameras off 111 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 3: and just you know, just you and I just really 112 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 3: talking about So we heard Ojay Sinson passed away from 113 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: cancer to age of seventy six. A lot of people 114 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 3: wasn't awhere. You know that he was suffering with cast 115 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 3: so a lot of people do keep that private. My 116 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 3: mother did. 117 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 2: For sure. 118 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 3: It's not something that people broadcast. I don't know how 119 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 3: many people knew it or not. Of course, there's so 120 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 3: many conspiracy theories that are out today. Of course there 121 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 3: always is, UH, there's always going to be somebody on 122 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: the Internet that comes up with their own theory. But 123 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 3: I really wanted to jump in due to limited time, 124 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 3: and thank you for taking out your in time today. 125 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 3: There's so many different layers to this, so many different 126 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 3: we can peel this onion all day. 127 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 2: I really want to go back to nineteen ninety. 128 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 3: Five, and now I know there's gonna be people who 129 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: will say, you know, focus on the good things, focus 130 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 3: on the NFL and eleven seasons, Focus on the Heisman Trophy, 131 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: Focus on how he was regarded as one of the 132 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 3: greatest running backs of all time. I know people say, 133 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: don't talk about the negative, don't talk about, you know, 134 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 3: all of the negative things. The reality of it is, 135 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 3: when you are a public person, all of those things 136 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 3: will be talked about. 137 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 2: Even if you're not a public person. 138 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: You go just to your cousin's funeral, people are gonna talk. 139 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 3: They're gonna talk about the memories that that person left. 140 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 3: And one of the most impactful memories that people have 141 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:42,359 Speaker 3: of O. J. Simpson, Many people who were introduced to O. J. Simpson, 142 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 3: at least speaking for myself in high school, because when 143 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 3: he was in his prime. 144 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: I wasn't old enough to know who he was or 145 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 2: you know, people may be familiar. 146 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: He did one on good Yeah, went on good times 147 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 3: and did hurts and all that. 148 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 2: But I was a little girl. I didn't know that. 149 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 3: So my really first introduction of learning who OJ Simpson 150 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 3: was and learning about him and everything about him was 151 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 3: through the O. J. Simpson trial because I was young, 152 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: so I learned everything. And one of the things in 153 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 3: the trial is presenting that person's life from beginning to end. 154 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 2: So I want to go back to that time. 155 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 3: Where we were as a culture and where we are now, 156 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 3: and if we can, if you will compare the two, 157 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 3: because a lot has changed over nineteen ninety five versus 158 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 3: now at that time, and then I'm going to flip 159 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 3: it to you. At that time, there was a Black 160 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: America many said that he did not do it. There 161 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 3: was also Black America that said, if he did, let's 162 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 3: charge it to the game. What I have noticed is 163 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 3: in this generation, many have basically said I remember there 164 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 3: was a time where you just could not get into 165 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 3: a discussion on oda sins. 166 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 2: What I said, there's no way he didn't do it, 167 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: didn't do it. 168 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 3: But now as more evidence has come out, now that 169 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 3: the book he wrote it, if I did it has 170 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 3: come out, Now that even there was a mean today 171 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 3: that they were sharing what he was mocking stabbing somebody. 172 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 3: Now that more and more has come out, there is 173 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 3: a sector of Black America that now was saying, you 174 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 3: know what, it might be some truth to it, but 175 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: we're still going to charge it to the game. So 176 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 3: take us back, doctor Perry, from your perspective, where were 177 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 3: we in nineteen ninety five. 178 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: Let's see you put step back. Patrick Mahomes is arguably 179 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: the most celebrated football player of his generation, and even 180 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: he wasn't isn't what oj Simpson was as an actlete. 181 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 1: For those of us who grew up in the seventies, 182 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: we watched the Juice do the impossible two thousand yards 183 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: in the season, things that were not even seen, and 184 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: he was universally regarded as the greatest of all time. 185 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: So for many of us who grew up during the seventies, 186 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: he was for us a foray into great team Muhammad 187 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: Ali were seen as not just athletes, but individuals who 188 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: transcended times. Jim Brown along those same lines. These were 189 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 1: men who are black, but who transcended their role as 190 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: an athlete and even made their way into what we 191 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: now know is mainstream. During that time, we didn't have 192 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: access to somebody's every move. We could only live through 193 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: the law that was created through the media. At that 194 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: time that many of us had three networks ABC, NBC A, CBS, 195 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: and there were not twenty four hours worth of news, 196 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: so we had limited access. And so when we got access, 197 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: it was through the way in which that person was portrayed, 198 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: and in his case, he was portrayed as a hero. 199 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: He was portrayed as an absolute hero. Put that on 200 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: the shelf for a moment. Nineteen ninety one, just a 201 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: couple of years before, we still did not have much 202 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: access to the world at large, and there were rumors 203 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: and laws and experiences of African Americans in this country 204 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: of being mistreated by the police, mistreated by the justice system. 205 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: And in nineteen ninety one, we saw for the first 206 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: time in mass in American history, a black man in 207 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: the Rodney King being beaten to what appeared to be 208 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: within eaches of his death. 209 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 3: And now you mean just to put a pin right there, 210 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 3: meaning we saw what we already knew. I just want 211 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 3: to put because many of us saw it, but it 212 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 3: confirmed that we. 213 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: Know correct mass but as a country, yes, for the 214 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: first time we all saw. I remember being in college 215 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: during that time, and I remember white kids coming to 216 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: my dorm room and they were stunned, like, oh my god, 217 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: can you believe it? 218 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 4: Now? Yeah, I can believe it. 219 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: The only thing I can't believe is that we finally caught. 220 00:10:59,200 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 4: It on video. 221 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: We're finally caught it. 222 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: And so we as many of us, as like the 223 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: American at the time, especially young black people as I was, 224 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: we just knew got these mugs. This time, we finally 225 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: got they ass this time. Watch and see what's gonna happen. 226 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: Watching and see what's gonna happen now, watching, See what 227 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: all these people in California you're gonna do. Watch and 228 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 1: see where you have the video of this man being 229 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: beaten to with inter and of his life. All of 230 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: them get on, every single one of them, get off 231 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 1: the streets, turn into riots. People were bold, they say 232 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: what they got to say, and then shortly on the 233 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,439 Speaker 1: heels of that, our hero is accused of killing a 234 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: white woman. That's the context of the beginning of the O. J. 235 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: Simpson trial. It's not probable that a man of his 236 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: station in life would do something like that. Many of 237 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: us thought, who would even think of earning their wife? 238 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: Who would lose all that O. J. Simpson happen? Who 239 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: would doing so That's how we start this conversation. The 240 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: conversation starts with what is today's Patrick Mahomes, what is 241 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: the nineties Michael Jordan, a man who transcended his sport, 242 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: was an international phenomenon, being accused of the most gruesome 243 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: act of all, killing the wife that he had and 244 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: the mother of his children in cold, gruesome blood. That's 245 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: the foundation of the council. 246 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 3: Now, the next layer to that would be, I want 247 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 3: you to take us back to the obvious on It 248 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 3: wasn't just a wife and a mother, it was a 249 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 3: white woman. 250 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 2: Now again, at that. 251 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 3: Time, I was in high school and I was not 252 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 3: the lens that I was looking through. Well, let me 253 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 3: be clearing my mother because she was a news director's assistant, 254 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 3: because she was in the media. My first professional meeting 255 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 3: was in ABJ National Association Black Journey. My mother was 256 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 3: very mindful of rest in peace of my mother also 257 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 3: passed away with cancer, but very mindful of images, very 258 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 3: mindful of For example, I tell people all the time, 259 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 3: I couldn't watch Sanford and Son. She didn't like the 260 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 3: fact that a black man was calling his son a dummy. 261 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 3: What many people find that show hilarious, great comedy, she 262 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 3: didn't like it. I could not watch a Good Time. 263 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: That's right, that's right, that's right. 264 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 2: I could not watch Good Times. 265 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 3: We know that we're going to be unpacking that because 266 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 3: we know that's about to come out on Netflix, and 267 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 3: that has sparked a lot of conversation. I'm sure you 268 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 3: and I unpacked that. But what's so interesting, just I 269 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 3: just want to put a pin with that, even with 270 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 3: Good Times now, how they're seeing it in almost a 271 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 3: parody form, we don't know yet what that looks like. 272 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 2: That's how my mother saw it then. 273 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 3: So when I see people applaud it and say, oh man, 274 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 3: Good Times one of the best shows ever in history. 275 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 3: Yes it was a black father, yes it was a 276 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 3: black mother, all of those things. But my mother had 277 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 3: the same problem with it. That the had with it 278 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 3: behind the scenes. So although I did sneak to watch 279 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 3: those shows, she was very much against itid but she 280 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 3: was very much in supported to be watching George Jefferson. 281 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 3: She was proud of the fact that he was an entrepreneur. 282 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 3: She was proud of moving on up. She wanted to know, well, 283 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: when are they gonna ever get out the ghetto on 284 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 3: good times? When is it ever gonna be? You know, 285 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: when do we ever get to the other side. I'm 286 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 3: sitting out here to say, doctor Parr, because I'm trying 287 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 3: to set the scene going back to man. 288 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 2: I wish my mother was alive so we could talk 289 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 2: about this. Many reasons I wish she was alive, but this. 290 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 3: Is one, but I'm trying to paint a picture for 291 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 3: the listeners on what that meant. When I would come 292 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 3: in from school and we would pop in the tape 293 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 3: that had a yellow piece of time, I mean, even 294 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 3: be we have either a white or yellow sticker on it, 295 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 3: I can see it's so clear. And we would watch 296 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 3: this and unpack this because my mother wanted me to 297 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 3: know what was happening in the media, what we're seeing 298 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 3: the media, which we see with the infamous Johnny Cochrane. 299 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 3: It was surreal to me to be standing next to 300 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 3: the Carl Douglas just a couple of years ago at 301 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 3: a press at one of his press. 302 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 2: Conferences with Attorney care Carl Douglas says, yes, So, Carl Douglas. 303 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 3: For those who are not familiar with this case, Carl 304 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 3: Douglas was one of the members of the Dream Team, 305 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 3: the infamous Dream Team that Johnny Cochrane put together. Well 306 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 3: that we can say that he I don't want to 307 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 3: say put together because OJ selected his team, but Johnny 308 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 3: Cochrane ended up leading that team after the Kardashian his 309 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 3: his friend at the time, was not leading the team 310 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 3: in the direction that OJ believed it need to go 311 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 3: in and Johnny Cochran came in and changed it. And guys, 312 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 3: if you're not for me with the Oda sis in case, 313 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: it is so many different movies, documentaries, things, but I 314 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 3: encourage you to watch them. 315 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 2: All and paler together and then. 316 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 3: Go on YouTube and watch the actual trial. They still 317 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 3: have the trial available every single day of YouTube. So 318 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 3: Carl Douglass was a member of the Dream Team. So 319 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 3: for me to be standing next to him two years 320 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 3: ago in one of his cases, it was just surreal. 321 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 3: I'm taking you back to that Doctor Perry, because when 322 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 3: I was watching this ian through the lens of a teenager, 323 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 3: I was looking at all of those different things. 324 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 2: And we knew. 325 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 3: What I knew about interracial relationships at the time is 326 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 3: not what I know now. 327 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 2: So it was not just. 328 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 3: But my mother put me up on game that it 329 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 3: was not just about a man killing his wife, but 330 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 3: it was a white wife. 331 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: And so then the conversation started happening. 332 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 3: People are even saying in the comments, now, if he 333 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 3: killed his black wife, it would have never been a thing. 334 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 2: You said, you were in grad school at the time. 335 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 3: What was the conversation about it being a white woman 336 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 3: at the time, and why did that make a difference? 337 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 3: And why did we give a pass? Because let's be 338 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 3: honest about it. O. J. Simpson to many abandoned his community. 339 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 3: Johnny Cochrane had to go in and blackify without a 340 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 3: new word that I just made up today his house 341 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 3: so that when the jurors came by, he was a 342 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 3: He took all the white pictures off the wall and 343 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 3: put black pictures on the wall. 344 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 2: So take us back to what how were you guys 345 00:16:58,800 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: looking at it? 346 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 4: About his I was, Yeah, so I was in social 347 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 4: work school, which. 348 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 5: Was overwhelmingly white and female. I was I am the 349 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 5: only African American male who graduated from my class in 350 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 5: nineteen ninety five. 351 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 4: So the conversations were lopside, to say the least. And 352 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 4: it wasn't just that she was white. She was and 353 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 4: you'll understand the term that she was pretty. She was 354 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 4: a pretty white woman, blond and blonde in all that matters. 355 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 4: It does matter. And during that time, one of the 356 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 4: things that was happening in the media, which we referred 357 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 4: to back then, which is mostly magazines, is they would 358 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 4: actually darken his picture to create a more brooding aesthetic. 359 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 4: So they would go they would put filters on his 360 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:51,360 Speaker 4: picture on the cover of Newsweek and other magazines where 361 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 4: they darkened his esthetic. Now keep in mind, during the 362 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 4: same time, during the same time period, Mike Tyson was 363 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 4: already in prison for rape. So you have our heroes 364 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 4: and again, by parallel, you'd be looking at and I 365 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 4: don't mean to make the parallel, cause I don't want 366 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:07,919 Speaker 4: to put this on this brother, but the likes of 367 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 4: a Pat mahomes the likes of a Lebron James, you know, 368 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 4: the lights on the money Madeweather, like, these cats were 369 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 4: at the top of their game in terms of as athletes, 370 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 4: as entertainers, and as wealthy people. These were the same 371 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 4: things that were happening during that time. So we were 372 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:32,199 Speaker 4: now looking at a global phenomena, an actor who was 373 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 4: being accused of killing a pretty white woman. And so 374 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 4: the presentation of it was the the most taboo of taboo. 375 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 4: Whos we ain't talking about just whistling and a white 376 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 4: woman that em Mattil was accused of, We're talking about 377 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 4: full fledged murder. So for many of us it was like, oh, 378 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 4: if he is accused of killing a white woman to 379 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 4: rap you know, so sad, too bad, brother, you about 380 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 4: to get a death penalty, two three in a row. 381 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 4: You gonna die. And there was no notion that there 382 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 4: was such a thing as an African American who had 383 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 4: the financial wherewithal to be able to hire attorneys of 384 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 4: the caliber that he was able to every single way 385 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 4: that you know, a social work school in Philadelphia at 386 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 4: the time, my knowledge of attorneys was public offenders or 387 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 4: whoever you knew who knew somebody would get you in there. Basically, 388 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 4: you were still going to be guilty, but you would 389 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 4: you wouldn't go to prison for the entire rest of 390 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 4: your life. And you rolled on somebody, you might be 391 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 4: able to see the light of day at some point. 392 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 4: So this notion that you could even conceive that you 393 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 4: might get off, that was something that was inconceivable. So 394 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 4: I remember where I was the day that he was 395 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 4: found not guilty. I watched the case myself. During that time, 396 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 4: I was doing an internship for an African American man 397 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 4: was pretty wealthy, and during that time I was doing 398 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 4: an internship and in his office they had you know, 399 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:09,120 Speaker 4: the CNN. We were watching it, and I remember we 400 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 4: were all sitting in the conference room and I remember thinking, 401 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 4: OJ going to jail, OJ get a death sentence, OJ 402 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 4: going to die. And then I remember seeing the verdict 403 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 4: and I remember that CNN if it was what because 404 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 4: I was watching seeing it in the time. I remember 405 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 4: they went to I think it was Howard University, and 406 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 4: people jumped up like we had just won the election 407 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 4: of President Obama. They all there was just like this, hooray. 408 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,640 Speaker 4: And I'll be honest with you, I grew up watching 409 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 4: someone be domestic I grew up in a domestic violence 410 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 4: Ashold for the time that they were together, and I 411 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 4: remember knowing what it's like to watch my mother under 412 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 4: those conditions, and as a social worker, I had seen 413 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 4: it enough time that I had seen it, and as 414 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 4: a black man, there was a part of me that thought, 415 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 4: did we just get away with this? We didn't get 416 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 4: away with the Ridy King thing, didn't get away with 417 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 4: the Mike Tyson thing. Did we just get away with this? 418 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 4: Or a spell? Even as somebody was going with a 419 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 4: master's on social work, the complexity of the emotions were 420 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 4: like wow. I never thought for a second, and to 421 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 4: this day I never thought that he was innocent. 422 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 3: I didn't still, you know, there was a time you 423 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 3: would never say that people would just you know, because people, truly. 424 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 3: Johnny Cochrane had a way and this is what I 425 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 3: actually teach a class on the how to win in 426 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 3: the court of public opinion. He created such an environment 427 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 3: that people actually believed that ol J. Simpson and people 428 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 3: can are still debating this to this day, that people 429 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 3: believe that it's no way that one man could do this, 430 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 3: even though they showed how it's I don't people who 431 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 3: have stabbed multiple people at that time, or even though 432 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 3: they shown and even though the blood was everywhere, even 433 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 3: though the DNA was everywhere, even though you know, his 434 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 3: hand was cut, even though Johnny Cochran did such a 435 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 3: masterful job of his job. 436 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 2: So let's just pause there for a moment. 437 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,400 Speaker 3: Let's really deal with what people were celebrating, the majority 438 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 3: of what black people were celebrating. It was not a 439 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 3: matter of Now, there were people who believed he didn't 440 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 3: do it, but there was not a matter of if 441 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 3: he did it or didn't do it. It was what 442 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,439 Speaker 3: you said, did he actually get away with this? And 443 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 3: did a black man an attorney make that happen? Was 444 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: the system finally beat? And what I think is interesting 445 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 3: is how O jay sentence because even at that time 446 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 3: he went to the Black church, like Johnny Carran really 447 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 3: did it, like he brought him to the Black church. 448 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 2: He did all. 449 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 3: Imagine if that happens now. I'll just use an example 450 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 3: with Candice Owns. A couple of weeks ago, everybody kept 451 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 3: asking my pen on that you know somebody who people said, 452 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 3: you know, it's not for us who mocked the murder 453 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 3: of George Floyd. Mocked the murder of George Floyd. And 454 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 3: she's pretty much going on at Black Church tour, and 455 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 3: I'm looking at the majority of people saying no, no, no, 456 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 3: you can't come back over here. And then there's some 457 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,959 Speaker 3: people say, well, you know, she kind of got a point. 458 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 2: It reminds me of this O. J. Simpson. 459 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 3: He was embraced, and I want you to talk a 460 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 3: little bit about that. Do you think some of the 461 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 3: embracement was the the love, because you know, I did 462 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 3: bear me when I get my words. I did a 463 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 3: podcast on this, on the love that we have, the 464 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 3: forgiving love that we have, the come on back home. 465 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 3: The prodigal son was some of that, you know, were 466 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 3: hurt that you left us, because oh, they did leave 467 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: the black community. 468 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 2: Let's just be clear. 469 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 3: It wasn't even just about maryoring a black a white woman. 470 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 3: It was about he disconnected himself. And it made for 471 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 3: me to say that he was not black. He's ojay, 472 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 3: go ahead, He's not the one. 473 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 4: I'm gonna answer that question a second. There are many 474 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:07,479 Speaker 4: black people who we see in media today who if 475 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 4: you check the last ten people they've spoken to, if 476 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 4: you check the last ten people they have text, you text, 477 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 4: the last ten people they went and hung out with, 478 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 4: then none of them are black. They're hired by media 479 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,239 Speaker 4: to come on and talk from the perspective of being 480 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 4: African American, but many of them are on MSNBC and CNN. 481 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 4: They don't have black friends, they don't have black partners, 482 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 4: they don't live in the black community at all, not 483 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 4: at all. They can reflect on having grown up in 484 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 4: the whatever community. But if you look, they went to 485 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 4: our lady of this or that, or prep for this 486 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 4: or that, and they went to this elite school, and 487 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 4: so you'll hear them. Those people spend this significant amount 488 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 4: of their time in the black community. Here the distinction 489 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 4: between them and of the black people. But many white 490 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 4: people don't know the difference. They just see two black people. 491 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,439 Speaker 4: They don't know that there's a significant, not nuanced difference 492 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,360 Speaker 4: between these people who've only gone to private white schools 493 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 4: and then to an elite college, but who were still 494 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 4: phoenotypically black, and these people who are phoenosipically black, but 495 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 4: who spend the lion's share of their time engaging with 496 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 4: the African Americans experience writ large, not just the ink 497 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 4: Well experience, not to Jack and Jill experience, but the 498 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 4: full experience. I don't think that people, and I'll start 499 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 4: with me. We the people I was talking to you 500 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 4: during that time, we weren't celebrating OJ Simpson. I was 501 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 4: never expecting OJ to come back. I accepted that he 502 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 4: was gone. I except that he was gone. What I 503 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 4: as a black man who was just getting to a 504 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 4: place where for the first time in my life, I 505 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 4: thought that I might be an intellectual. Like I remember 506 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 4: growing up thinking I was stupid. I stayed back in 507 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 4: the third grade. I was our medio classes. I just 508 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 4: thought I was stupid. I knew I struggled to read. 509 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 4: I didn't know why I thought I was stupid, Like 510 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,239 Speaker 4: I thought all the black boys like we were just 511 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 4: not smart. But we were ones got in most trouble. 512 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 4: School wasn't for us. So I remember coming into what 513 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 4: I believed to be my intellectual own during that time, 514 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 4: and I remember somebody calling me intellectually one time. I 515 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,120 Speaker 4: thought they were trying to clown me, like somebody trying 516 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 4: to call me white, Like yo, what you just called me? 517 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 4: So to see Johnny Cochran, I was like. 518 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 1: That that. 519 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 4: During that same time, you have to realize Cornell West 520 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 4: was starting to do this speaking engagements. During that same time, 521 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 4: Mike Dyson was doctor Mike Dyson was out there. So 522 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 4: you got West Dyson and and and and and Cochrane 523 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 4: who people like me were starting to read what Garrick 524 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 4: Bell were reading face at the bottom of the well, 525 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 4: like we're reading this stuff and we're starting to stuff. 526 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 4: This is I need you to understand. It's the same 527 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 4: time as the Million Man March. So the Million Man 528 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 4: March is happening, right, So you got the Me and 529 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 4: Man March coming to coming to be. So I'm in 530 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,400 Speaker 4: Philly during this time and I'm going to see Fara 531 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 4: con and he's doing organizing. So we got black men 532 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 4: coming together. We got uh Derek Bella we're reading, We 533 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 4: got uh uh kawanzi be Drinjufu, We got all these 534 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 4: people like we're starting to be like, okay, so you 535 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 4: can be black and you can smart about o J. Yeah. 536 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 3: Just to put a pin there and got thinking to 537 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 3: join us just quickly. I'm this is doctor Steve Perry. 538 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 3: We got a couple of hundred on Instagram, five hundred 539 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 3: on YouTube. Make sure you tap in, do a quick 540 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 3: search and put in two way with teslam figure oh 541 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 3: god on YouTube, and you want to see this line, 542 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 3: don't forget your thought down pair. I just want to 543 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 3: make sure I'm putting a pin in that on what 544 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 3: you're actually saying. 545 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 2: For the first time, you got. 546 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 3: To see the black intellectual be black, present black, act black, 547 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 3: talk black, and be smart. 548 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 4: During the same time. During that time, black hip hop 549 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 4: was about black medallion's no goal. During that time, self 550 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 4: destruction was what we were talking about. That was so 551 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 4: there was a there was a black consciousness occurring simultaneous 552 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 4: to literally saying burn Hollywood, burn yes. 553 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 3: And if the police so let's be clear, so they're 554 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 3: all will sign, will take that. 555 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: You had that goal on that, but you had nw ain't. 556 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 3: Who I subscribe to where you had Because again we're 557 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 3: coming out of Rodney Key, you know, shout out to Spot. 558 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 3: I talked about him all the time. I'm my very 559 00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 3: best friends. 560 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 2: He was a part of the Blood and Crypt treaty. 561 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 3: So now you're coming out of you're seeing what I 562 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 3: call the homies were the black militia, those on the ground, 563 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 3: those same men that went to the Mallie Man March. 564 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:12,880 Speaker 2: The homies saying no, yes, yes, he's treaties, yes, wasn't. 565 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,959 Speaker 4: Crips in certain sets were coming together and say, yo, 566 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,880 Speaker 4: what are we doing. So there was a black consciousness 567 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 4: that was taking shape and it was running alongside when 568 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 4: we referred to as gangster rap, but it was gangster 569 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 4: rapping because it was people who were saying, we are 570 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 4: tired of you having your boot on our neck. We're 571 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,119 Speaker 4: tired of y'all beating us and getting away with a 572 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 4: wee about that one of us is gonna get it through. 573 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 4: It's either the thugs and we're gonna get out, or 574 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 4: it's gonna be the intellection. But one of us gonna 575 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 4: make it to the top and we ain't gonna make 576 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 4: it being polite. That was what this was about. So 577 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 4: you have all these things happening at the same time. 578 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 4: I don't ever think that there were any capsule like 579 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 4: come on back, OJ, trying a hell OJ. That was 580 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 4: not even what I was thinking when I was connected 581 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 4: to and what the brothers who we would have these sets, 582 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 4: because we would have these sets at my cribbin and 583 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 4: Philly brothers would sit around they like I mean brothers, 584 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 4: like brothers, brothers even like real dudes, like I don't 585 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 4: want to go through you understand what I'm saying. Like 586 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 4: those dudes were sitting around and were debating over over 587 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 4: what topics it was. This is the time when even 588 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 4: the roots, the group, the Roots, this is when they 589 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 4: were in Philly and they were coming up like that 590 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 4: was just black consciousness. Black thought in that, like this 591 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 4: is who we were. And so at the same time 592 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 4: as we're going to the million man March planning committees, 593 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 4: at the same time as we've got black men coming 594 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 4: to campus to speak to us on white campuses, at 595 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 4: the same time as we got Rodney King being his 596 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 4: head split literally open, we have OJ comes in. So OJ, 597 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 4: for many of us himself was not who we were 598 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 4: pulling for. I never thought for a second that the 599 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 4: cat was in it, and it just didn't seem like 600 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 4: it made sense. But for me, it felt like, if 601 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 4: we're gonna play this thing, let's play it all the 602 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 4: way out. They just got to put reasonable doubt in here, 603 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 4: right m. 604 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 2: Hm showed for us. 605 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 4: I never felt good about OJ getting off. I said 606 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 4: it then and I say it now. I never felt 607 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 4: good about that. 608 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 2: Why do you think people did why? 609 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 3: Why do you think there were people that just did 610 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 3: not believe that it was possible that one person could. 611 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 2: Decapitate two people. And again, if. 612 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 3: People actually go back and watch the trial and actually 613 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 3: look at the evidence, which you know nobody likes evidence 614 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 3: who wants to read. But if you actually go back 615 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 3: and look at how Ron Goldman was, how Nicole's head 616 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 3: was basically chopped off, there was no fighting two people 617 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 3: at the same time, and then there was the struggle 618 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 3: with that's correct correct? So why do you think because 619 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 3: even now, even looking in the comments, you know, resting 620 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 3: piece of oj OJ, I wonder if these people are 621 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 3: really connected to the man oj are still connected to. 622 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 4: I wasn't charged even then, And let me be clear, 623 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 4: let me not attempt to present myself as someone who 624 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,719 Speaker 4: was deeply thinking during that time. I want to make 625 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 4: sure that I'm clear. What I don't want to do 626 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 4: is into the conversation pious I'm saying, I know where 627 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 4: I was sitting in mister Wade's conference room when it happened. Yes, 628 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 4: I know, I know, feeling a duplicitousness. I watched the 629 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 4: kids down at Howard say what they were saying, and 630 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 4: I watched them celebrate, and I felt badly about that, 631 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 4: But there was enough of me, if I'm gonna be frank, 632 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 4: to think about we got one, they got four hundred 633 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 4: years of it. We got one right. I didn't feel 634 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 4: good about what the we was. I didn't feel good 635 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 4: about what the one, what the one was. But any 636 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 4: black man who's ever been pulled over by a cop, 637 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 4: any black father who's ever had to say to his 638 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 4: son before he leaves the house, listen, do this, do this, 639 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 4: do this? Do this. Up the street from me, literally 640 00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 4: less than a mile from me, a young black man 641 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 4: about two years ago was murdered by cops. He was 642 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 4: murdered like it was what it was. I mean, they 643 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 4: broke the window. There was they had the young man 644 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 4: surround it. They broke the window, he's still strapped in 645 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 4: the seat, and they just unload into the car, just 646 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 4: unload into the car. He was murdered. That's murdered. That's 647 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 4: murd that's murdered. None of those cats have been none. 648 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 4: All of them have been reinstated. Everyone, every cop who 649 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 4: did that has done it. So there so there's still 650 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 4: this feeling of in the way in which many of 651 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 4: us can celebrate a drug dealer, like we can celebrate 652 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 4: a drug dealer because he's getting his he's trying to 653 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 4: do right by him. At the same time, it is 654 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 4: feeling very, very conflicted about the fact that he's killing 655 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 4: somebody's mother right now. Like somebody's mother right now is 656 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 4: a drug addict. Somebody's father right now is a drug addict. 657 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 4: I just I just lost a very good friend of 658 00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 4: mine last week to an overdose. I don't feel good 659 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 4: about that. It's just a matter of who do we 660 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 4: identify with at what point. I don't ever feel like 661 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 4: the people who I was around were ever like pro Oj. 662 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 4: We loved him as an athlete, but then we just recognize. 663 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 4: And I'm saying this because I want to Test. I 664 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 4: want so many people who watch you to understand that 665 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 4: you Test are different than a lot of the black 666 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 4: women and men that they see on television. And he 667 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 4: has gone the radio, and I want people to really 668 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 4: understand that a lot of those people you see, a 669 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 4: lot of the ones you see, they don't spend a 670 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 4: lot of time in the black community, and they damn 671 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 4: sure don't spend a lot of time with poor black people. 672 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 4: They may spend a lot of time with the intellectual elite, 673 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 4: which again, thank God, go you great that your mother 674 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 4: and father have been successful. I mean, I'm now that 675 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 4: person to my own sons, I don't want somebody dog 676 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 4: and my sons out because they don't spend time in poverty. 677 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 4: That's just not their lifestyle. But it does give them 678 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 4: a certain perspective that the kids who they went to 679 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 4: school with in our school who don't have our kids, 680 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 4: have a very different experience. So I want people to 681 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 4: understand that. Very often the commentators who are talking, who 682 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 4: are telling you what black people think, don't spend a 683 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 4: lot of time around black people who we would typically 684 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,760 Speaker 4: consider when we think of black people. They're not talking 685 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 4: about them, even. 686 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 3: Though they say all the time, the barbecue, the barbecue. 687 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 3: For some reason they think that makes them look cool. 688 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,800 Speaker 3: But continue they keep saying, who's invited to the barbecue? 689 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 3: And I mean, you ain't at the barbecue. The barbecues 690 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 3: and I go to you wouldn't be invited, but. 691 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 4: Let's let's call it. Let's call it what it is. 692 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 4: They would be the ones who would stop by the 693 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 4: Costco and get you the macaroni chief She's like, I 694 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 4: see the sticker on it. Come on, what did you 695 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 4: just do here? Now I invited you. I look like 696 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 4: a goddamn fool because you come up to this joint 697 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 4: and you got costco. 698 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 3: Yes, and well with let's and while let's let's use 699 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:57,880 Speaker 3: that that metaphor that analogy. Johnny Cochrane brought OJ to 700 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,319 Speaker 3: the barbecue. He brought them to the bar because he's 701 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 3: left many many times. 702 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 4: Let me put let me push you on that. Let 703 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 4: me push you that. I don't think Johnny Cochrane brought OJ. 704 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 4: I think Johnny Cochrane was always seen as there. So 705 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 4: it's just like, it's just like the cousin who you bring, 706 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 4: who brings his girlfriend or his friends to the to 707 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 4: the cookout. You're like, he's cool because he's with you, 708 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 4: but if you leave, he gotta go. 709 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,919 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, No, nobody goes to the crom table 710 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 3: playing space. 711 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 4: He ain't get nobody's partner the space table. He's gonna 712 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 4: this dude is gonna is gonna cut your your your 713 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 4: ace of spades. Yes, you're gonna put it down the 714 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,400 Speaker 4: spade and this dude gonna throw he gonna. 715 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 2: You know, well, that's what I mean. 716 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 4: It was. 717 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 2: It was a plus one deal. 718 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 3: And I want to put a pin here too, because man, 719 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 3: this is such a good conversation. 720 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 2: You guys tag a friend, join in. 721 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 3: But I want to put a pin in here too, 722 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:55,359 Speaker 3: because what I talked about a couple of weeks ago 723 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 3: with the Candice Owns conversation is the love of a 724 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 3: black woman, because this is very critical and how we. 725 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 2: Love and love and love and love and. 726 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 3: Take back and take back and take back and stand by. 727 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 3: That's why I compared the love of black woman to 728 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,920 Speaker 3: the love of God, the forgivingness, the even now you 729 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,880 Speaker 3: know people saying, you know, hey, I'm looking in the 730 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 3: coming Kaitlyn jenneral is out of pocket, we are quick 731 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 3: to lace up our shoes and fight. 732 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:20,800 Speaker 2: Even if you're wrong. 733 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 3: We will still go put that house up, get you 734 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 3: out of jail, custs you out all the way home. 735 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 3: We will still say no matter what you did. So 736 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 3: even in using the analogy of the barbecue, if O. J. 737 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 3: Simpson came back and the brother's like, hey, we know 738 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 3: what you want. 739 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 4: We ain't really with you. 740 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,320 Speaker 3: But since you with Johnny, that's cool, that black woman 741 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,400 Speaker 3: is still gonna say can I fix your plate? 742 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 2: Can I get you something? 743 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 4: Have you eate? 744 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 2: Now? Some of the sisters are gonna say, no, you 745 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 2: want to go with that white girl. 746 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: Move on. 747 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 3: But the reason why I'm using this example doctor pear 748 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:56,320 Speaker 3: is because fast forward to Jonathan Majors now and obviously 749 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 3: he didn't murder anybody, But I look at the comments, 750 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:01,840 Speaker 3: and I look at the black women. When he got 751 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 3: back with before he started dating Megan, the black women 752 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 3: were saying some were saying, you learned your lesson. 753 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,280 Speaker 2: It is what it is. This would have been a different. 754 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 3: Time in nineteen ninety five because the black women, for 755 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,720 Speaker 3: the most part, were lining up behind O. J. Simpson 756 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 3: because they looked at his black mother, they looked at 757 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 3: his black daughter. But now you have I wonder what 758 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 3: this will be like now, because now you have black 759 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 3: women say, hey, Jonathan Major, you shouldn't have been over 760 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 3: there anyway. But there's still an overwhelming amount of black 761 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 3: women that are still saying, you know what, you made 762 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 3: a mistake. We're gonna ride with you anyway. What we're 763 00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 3: not gonna do is let them tear you down. What 764 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 3: we're not gonna do is let them take everything from you. 765 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 3: We hope you learn and if you don't learn, whatever 766 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 3: this learning lesson is, because there's still people say love 767 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 3: for you, love, We don't have a problem learning you love. 768 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 3: But there's always been this thing where black women what 769 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 3: pains us, and I'm gonna give it back to you. 770 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,320 Speaker 3: The trauma that pays us is being forgotten about being 771 00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 3: left like O. J. Simpson's first wife, being there with 772 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 3: that man through it all thick and thin. You get money, 773 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 3: and then you leave us. Kanye said it leave you 774 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 3: for a white girl. Ironically, Kanye did the same thing. 775 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,400 Speaker 3: So black women at that time moved past that pain. 776 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,279 Speaker 3: Some stayed in that trump and said no, they say 777 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 3: where you at? But we're gonna rule for Johnny Cochran. 778 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,400 Speaker 3: So just now I see the same things happening in 779 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 3: these conversations, just you know, looking at Jonathan Major's for example, 780 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 3: what's your thoughts on that? 781 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I would say this to me, it's bigger 782 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 4: than just the woman, the second woman he married. For me, 783 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 4: it is when I look at Judge Clarence Thomas, I 784 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 4: think of him as someone who rarely ever engages with 785 00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 4: African Americans. It's not just that he's married to a 786 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 4: white woman. It is that he is someone who has 787 00:38:55,960 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 4: very little sway or interest in the uplift the African 788 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 4: American community versus someone like a Dawn Stanley, who I'm 789 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 4: told is with a white woman. I don't think that 790 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,880 Speaker 4: there are very few people who doubt her integrity for 791 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 4: cultural integrity or commitment to our greater cause. I think 792 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:22,360 Speaker 4: most people, if there were a black draft, would put 793 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 4: Dawn Stanley at the top of their card, and she 794 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 4: would be a first round draft pick to borrow from 795 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 4: The Chappelle Show. So I think in the case of O. J. Simpson, 796 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 4: I think of the in the case of Clarence Thomas, 797 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 4: I think in the case of Candice Owens, these are 798 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:46,320 Speaker 4: people who have very little put into the cultural bank, 799 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,600 Speaker 4: very little interest other than the functional interest of I 800 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 4: ain't got nobody else. It's like being they would have their. 801 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: Way to remove themselves basically. 802 00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 4: Well, I would say, but if it's even more than that, 803 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 4: it's being the person who that person never wanted to date. 804 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 4: And then when the other people drop you, you go 805 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 4: back and say, well, at least there's always you, like 806 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 4: WHOA right, right, I don't feel right. I don't think 807 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,719 Speaker 4: I won right there, I don't feel like I won. 808 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 4: So I don't feel that people. I feel that people. 809 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,400 Speaker 4: And I use it Dawn as an example because she's 810 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:33,000 Speaker 4: someone who aint nobody on question her quote unquote blackness. 811 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 4: I don't think I think you have to Well, let 812 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 4: me just say this. They are always when people question 813 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 4: people's blackness. I'm not that group. 814 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 2: But the majority of a miracle was rooting for her. 815 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 3: For those who listen, you're talking about Don Staley, the 816 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 3: coach of UH doctor South Cairlineman. 817 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,320 Speaker 4: That's correct, National champion coaches South Carolina, one of the 818 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 4: greatest athletes of male. 819 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,800 Speaker 2: Who won three times. 820 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 4: But go ahead, right, so you know, but but but 821 00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 4: Ann did so jet black and so jet black when 822 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 4: she gave her victory speech that was torn from a 823 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 4: Baptist pulpit that might have been a pental costal. Four 824 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 4: o'clock in the afternoon, church is still going on from 825 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:18,279 Speaker 4: eleven a m right. So oj was never that and 826 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 4: there was an anti race perspective that he had taken 827 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,399 Speaker 4: and had ridden to his zenith. Again, I'm gonna stay 828 00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 4: here for a second because a lot of people, a 829 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 4: lot of people love Michael Jordan, but not a lot 830 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,799 Speaker 4: of people who love Michael Jordan have loved him for 831 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:38,319 Speaker 4: his open love of the black community. Right, They've not 832 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 4: openly said that. He has been the guy who has 833 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 4: taken stances on the African American experience. Michael Jordan's done 834 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,400 Speaker 4: fine for himself. He's done really really well for himself, 835 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,279 Speaker 4: you know, and it's one of the greatest athletes of 836 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 4: all time. I don't know what he's given or what 837 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 4: he hasn't given. I'm not in that man's pocket, but 838 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 4: I'm saying is well, he said. 839 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,359 Speaker 3: He's about selling shoes, so he said, don't don't look 840 00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 3: to him for the. 841 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,319 Speaker 4: I remember when he actually, I actually remember when he 842 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,319 Speaker 4: said that. But let's just use some you know, there 843 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,799 Speaker 4: are certain people who are and you and I talk 844 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 4: about this, who are conservative, let's just say, who have 845 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 4: a political perspective that is not let's say, bought and 846 00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 4: sold by the by the by the left. But I 847 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 4: would say, you would say they're just as black as anybody. 848 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 4: Just because they don't believe in abortion, and just because 849 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,279 Speaker 4: they don't think that they mean they're as committed to 850 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 4: the community as anybody. They go to a black church, 851 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 4: they know what to bring to a cookout. They could 852 00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 4: be a spade part that. They are the people who 853 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,120 Speaker 4: are in the community doing the work. They're deeply committed. 854 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,879 Speaker 4: They just have a different different spin on what who 855 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,320 Speaker 4: to vote for and why. That's not what we're talking about. 856 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 4: What we're talking about is people who buy and large 857 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 4: have no interest, connection, or commitment to the black community. O. J. 858 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,759 Speaker 4: Simpson was that person and was proud of it. I 859 00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 4: don't know him as a man. I'm just talking about 860 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,799 Speaker 4: what his public right. What do the public offerings were right? 861 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 4: Because even even somebody like a Jim Brown who said 862 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,759 Speaker 4: you've been throwing white women out windows, or James Brown 863 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 4: who was doing his share of, you know, domestic violence, 864 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 4: each one of them at points in their lives were 865 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:14,440 Speaker 4: very clearly trying to organize other black men's proud to 866 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:15,880 Speaker 4: be resources. 867 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 2: And that's so important, Doctor Perry. I'm so glad man, 868 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:18,960 Speaker 2: this is good. Y'all. 869 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,280 Speaker 3: Make sure y'all tag somebody again. Let me just reiterate 870 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:22,919 Speaker 3: there and put a pen in it, because I'm looking 871 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,360 Speaker 3: at the comments and want to make sure they know 872 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 3: exactly what you're saying. This is not about saying that 873 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,440 Speaker 3: anybody that has an interracial relationship is anti black. 874 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,480 Speaker 2: It is about the position. 875 00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,279 Speaker 3: Because we can look to Harry Belafonte, there is no 876 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 3: question about his blackness married to a white woman. So 877 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:43,399 Speaker 3: this is not a bred Douglas that's right, Yes, it's right. 878 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 3: So this is not about because you know, they always 879 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 3: try to dumb that to day. I owe somebody just 880 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 3: mad because somebody. No, that's not it. It is about 881 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,879 Speaker 3: the intentional disrespect, the intentional separation, the intentional. 882 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,280 Speaker 4: Not just abandon. 883 00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 2: Proud about it. 884 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:02,799 Speaker 4: That's an aggressive how'd an aggressive abandon? Like the if 885 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,960 Speaker 4: y'all want to know who these people are, they're the 886 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,360 Speaker 4: black student that you see when you're walking on campus, 887 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 4: who looks away. It's like who raised you? 888 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:12,239 Speaker 3: If you? 889 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,439 Speaker 4: If you if you're a black kid on a white 890 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,919 Speaker 4: campus and you see another black person walking towards you, you 891 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 4: don't give the head nod. I see you, little boy, 892 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,480 Speaker 4: I see you. But remember somebody else is gonna see 893 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 4: you too. It's that person who's at the company that 894 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 4: you both work at, who's African American, who doesn't even 895 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:30,239 Speaker 4: acknowledge your existence. That's like, wow, that's what we're doing. Now. 896 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 4: I got you and said you're gonna go off. You're 897 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 4: gonna go off for crack beers with them. Tell me 898 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 4: how long it's gonna take before they drop an inWORD 899 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,239 Speaker 4: on you. They just say they just playing, And yet 900 00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,800 Speaker 4: it don't come over to me afterwards. 901 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 2: That's right. And yet it's the and see that. That's 902 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 2: the point. 903 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,680 Speaker 3: Some people say, don't come over to me afterwards. But 904 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,760 Speaker 3: we find ourselves as black people, what are forgiving? Loving self? 905 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 3: And that's the part that I think I say, interesting. 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