1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve camera. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to stuff mom never told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: From how Stuff Works dot Com. Hello, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: the podcast. I'm Kristen and I'm Caroline, and today we 5 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: are talking about anxiety and stress, and right out of 6 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: the gate, I think we need to establish the difference 7 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: between just run of the mill stress that happens every day, 8 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 1: trying to get to work on time, things like that, 9 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: and anxiety. Right. Yeah, everybody experiences stress, and everybody even 10 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: experiences anxiety if you have the right kind of stress 11 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: or facing you like if you have a big job interview, 12 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: or you know whatever, a first date, first something scary 13 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: or exciting. Um. And so that's that's just normal stress 14 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: and anxiety. Thanks, Siety is normal behavior, correct, it's a 15 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: normal response. Yes, National Institutes of Health approved. Yes, they 16 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: gave anxiety two thumbs up. Um. Where it becomes a 17 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: problem when when you have an anxiety disorder is when 18 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: it just becomes this constant hum in the background, when 19 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: you just find that you are always sort of when 20 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: you always have that fight or flight feeling like at 21 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 1: any moment you're ready to punch someone and run, then 22 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: then you might, you know, have a disorder because when 23 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: we think about that, that normalized anxiety, we can usually 24 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: trace it back to stress because it's kind of like 25 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: aggravated stress. And whereas with with anxiety that becomes more 26 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: of a disorder. It's a lot more nebulous as to 27 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: why why it's happening. There's nothing really to be stressed about, 28 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: but for some reason, even riding home on the train, 29 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm speaking out right. Yeah, well, there are a lot 30 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: of people around, So you could have a social anxiety 31 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: disorder if being around a lot of people freak you out. 32 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: And that social anxiety disorder is is one of the 33 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: five sub types of anxiety disorders, and it can really 34 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: lead to completely shrinking your world down because people people 35 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: with with honest to goodness social anxiety just can't stand 36 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: to be out among a lot of people. They really 37 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: fear that they are being watched, that all eyes are 38 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: on them, and that um, everybody's judging them. Yeah, and 39 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: you develop certain avoidant behaviors, so you want to avoid 40 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: the types of settings or the potential scenarios that you 41 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: know could trigger that anxiety. So, like you said, Caroline, 42 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: kind of whittles down your your world. Right. And even 43 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: even if someone with social anxiety manages to actually get 44 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: out of the house and go to an event of 45 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: birthday party, a bar or whatever, um work. Um, the 46 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: person with anxiety is still going to worry about it, 47 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: really fread about it for before, during, and after, and 48 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: then especially after they're going to be thinking like, oh 49 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: my gosh, I did something stupid. They're all judging me 50 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,679 Speaker 1: and laughing at me, and they'll just replace scenarios. And 51 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 1: there had of clearly like I did something idiotic while 52 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: I was there. Um, So that's sociophobia. That's one of 53 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: the five. And then we talked about just the generalized 54 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 1: anxiety disorder UM. And then there's O c D, which 55 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: UM is often characterized by repetitive movements, such as having 56 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: to touch a door knob times. Right. Yeah, you're you're 57 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: prone to counting things, touching things. It's it's one thing, okay, 58 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: So like I will get into bed at night and 59 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: my eyes will pop open and be like, oh my god, 60 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: did I lock the door? Or oh my god, did 61 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: I set my alarm? And those are that's that's normal 62 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: anxiety because I have forgotten to lock the door, and 63 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: I have forgotten to set my alarm. So checking those 64 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: things once or twice is normal. If I were to 65 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: get up out of bed thirty seven times to check 66 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: the door, I might have obsessive compulsive disorder, and he 67 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: might be kind of bleary eyed in the podcast studio. Yeah, 68 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: I think up a night checking the door lock and 69 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: then moving on from there. We have panic disorder, right, Yeah, 70 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: that's some feelings of terror that strikes suddenly and repeatedly 71 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: without warning. And a panic attack is different from an 72 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 1: anxiety attack much the same way that anxiety disorder is 73 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: different from just regular anxiety. Because if you have an 74 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: anxiety attack, that's like, oh my gosh, I'm so worried 75 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: about this job interview tomorrow, or I'm so worried about 76 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: this date, denied how it's gonna go, and and you know, 77 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: your heart starts racing, your palm starts sweating, you might 78 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: feel a little short of breath. But panic attack is 79 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: something that's maybe not related to a specific stressor it's 80 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: just you'll be sitting there, like typing on the computer 81 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, like, yeah, your chest will 82 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: feel tight. You know, you might even think you're having 83 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: a heart attack. You know, you'll just feel nervous, and 84 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: you know that fight or flight thing kicks in. You know, 85 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: I actually can explain the difference very clearly between an 86 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: anxiety attack and a panic attack. I had an anxiety 87 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: attack last night in my roommate and her boyfriend were 88 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: watching a or a movie about or they Taana is 89 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: really loudly, and I couldn't go to sleep. I thought 90 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: you were gonna say, they were watching what is it? 91 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: Just play me misty to you for me. I know 92 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: I did set my DVR to record that because I 93 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: don't want to. I want to be able to practice 94 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: what I preach. I want to watch those movies. UM. 95 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 1: And then we also have rounding out the five post 96 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: traumatic stress disorder, which we've heard about so much she's 97 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: past few years in the news related to soldiers coming 98 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: home from Iraq and Afghanistan because a lot of time 99 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: PTSD is linked to some kind of traumatic stressful situation 100 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: UM or current among war vets like we mentioned, and 101 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 1: then also victims of sexual AsSalt, sexual violence UM and 102 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: other traumatic situations. Yeah, that whole fight or flight reaction 103 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: just kind of goes haywire and you basically can't shut 104 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: it off. You just always feel With PTSD UM, people 105 00:05:54,839 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: typically feel constantly stressed and frightened. And I gotta say, uh, 106 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: talking about all of these symptoms that put me a 107 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: little on edge? You talking about and is it? Is 108 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: it the fact that these symptoms of general anxiety disorder 109 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: include fatigue, headaches, muscle eggs, trembling, and irritability, having to 110 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 1: go to the bathroom frequently, feeling out of breath, and 111 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: having hot flashes. So it could just be that, like 112 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: a hangover, You're like, oh my god, I have an 113 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 1: anxiety disorder. I am about to cry. I'll hug you. 114 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: Laugh ground last ground. Uh Well, but here's the thing though, 115 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: because I'm sure that I'm not the only one who 116 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: it was a little on edge thinking about all of 117 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: these these symptoms of anxiety. Uh So, here is sort 118 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: of I don't want to call it good news, but 119 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: something to put it in perspective for anyone listening right now, 120 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: because I know there's someone and a lot of you 121 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: probably listening right now who have experienced some of these 122 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: anxieties emptems. And here you go. You are not alone. 123 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 1: You are not okay, right, No, you're not You're not 124 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: a lot of people are saying that anxiety disorders are 125 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: on the rise. Actually, just for baseline statistics, forty million 126 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: Americans affected by anxiety disorders one of those five that 127 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: we're talking about, and according to Psychology Today, in any 128 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: given year, about seventeen percent of us will have an 129 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: anxiety disorder, and across our lives, about twenty eight percent 130 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: of us will be affected by one of those disorders 131 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: or multiple disorders. Right. Yeah, And so if you're standing 132 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: at a party or something or at some event and 133 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: you're like, oh my gosh, everyone's looking at me, and 134 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: then you make yourself feel even more worked up because 135 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, I'm getting anxious. I sound ridiculous, 136 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: and so you start panicking even more. Fifteen million Americans 137 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: have social anxiety disorder of some level. So you know, 138 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: people are probably more worried about themselves than they are 139 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: about you and what you're doing and rearing and saying. 140 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: So in printing things, yeah, it's a good way to 141 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: keep that that's spiraling um in in perspective. Right. But 142 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: like you also said that, Caroline, it is becoming an 143 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: increasing problem. Uh. For instance, the average high school kid 144 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: today has the same level of anxiety as the average 145 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: psychiatric patient in the early nineteen fifties. These are kids 146 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: were talking about. And on top of that, a recent 147 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: study of sixty three thousand college students found that five 148 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: times as many young adults are dealing with high levels 149 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: of anxiety as in the late nineteen thirties. Soon yearn 150 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: for a fainting account. Yah, yeah, I mean the late 151 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: nineteen thirties that was not a cake walk of a time. 152 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: And we are stressing out. We are stressing out well 153 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: just because, um, it seems like our brains are maybe 154 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: not wired for the kind of world we live in, 155 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: the socially incredibly socially wired and yet kind of interpersonally 156 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: disconnected world. That's what some psychology attribute this too, right, Yeah. 157 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: Jason Eric Schiffman wrote in the Huffington's Post that you know, 158 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 1: if some of us are genetically determined, predetermined to suffer 159 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: from anxiety and it's just wired in there, well, then 160 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: surely some of our ancestors on the African Savannah must 161 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: have been kind of anxious, like, oh I got like 162 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: an online, you know, I mean, they are probably pretty 163 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 1: anxious to at times. But he says that now we're 164 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: in an environment. Uh you know where we're we're living alone, 165 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: we're separated from people. We're doing all of our communication 166 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: on Facebook, you know, so we're not having the same 167 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: sort of uh emotional connections maybe with other people. And 168 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: we're probably busier than ever because everything is in a 169 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: twenty four hour cycle. Because the news is constant, information 170 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: is constant, we can be online and quote unquote connected constantly. Yeah, 171 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: if I have my phone on, I know every time 172 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: someone writes on my Facebook ball. Yeah, it's just stabilitated 173 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: so much um information um. And there's also uh this 174 00:09:56,880 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: idea of a cultural shift away from intra pensic values 175 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: of who you are as a person to more extrinsic 176 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: values of all the things that you list as your 177 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: hobbies and interests in where you've been on your Facebook wall. Right, Yeah, 178 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: everybody is worried about I say everybody. I'm so making 179 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: a general blanket statement here, but you know, people are 180 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: worried about having money, having a nice car, having nice clothes, 181 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: having the right friends and stuff, and they're not maybe 182 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:25,599 Speaker 1: so much looking inward anymore. Yeah, And even though that 183 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: might sound kind of cliche, uh might have I might 184 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: pay off in the end because long term stress and 185 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: anxiety in particular, these anxiety disorders, if left untreated, can 186 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: have some bad health effects for men and women alike. Yeah, 187 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: panic disorders. People with panic disorders are more likely to 188 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: have mitral valve prolapse, hypertension, peptic ulcer, diabetes, angina, or 189 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: thyroid disease. So if that doesn't make you anxious right there, 190 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 1: I don't really know what will. But yeah, men and 191 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: specifically are at higher risk for cardiac disorders and hypertension 192 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: as well as respiratory illnesses and back pain, and women 193 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: are more likely to have a history of cardiac problems, arthritis, 194 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: um and then dermatological and respiratory disorders. Now, that just 195 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: hints at some gender differences with anxiety disorders, because, like 196 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: you said, there are some symptomatic differences. And there's a 197 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 1: big question in the psychiatric psychological community of whether or 198 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: not women are naturally more prone to be anxious and 199 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 1: develop anxiety disorders, because adult women are twice as likely 200 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 1: to be diagnosed with some kind of anxiety disorder as 201 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: men are. What is going on, Yeah, there's a lot 202 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: of theories. There's there's theories that talk about the combination 203 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: of um, stress hormones and lady hormones, you know. So 204 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: when you're pre minstrel that there's you're more likely to 205 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: be anxious and have um shortness of breath, which is interesting. 206 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: According to the suffocation false alarm theory, there is a 207 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: suffocation alarm system in our bodies that becomes hyper sensitive 208 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: when we're preminstrul So apparently we're all walking around hyperventilating 209 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: when we're about to have our periods. So we're just 210 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: more anxious that designed to watch out hyperventilating. I can't 211 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: catch my breath. Let's buy some tampons um. In addition 212 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: to these these hormonal differences, some studies have also indicated 213 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: that there might be some gender differences in how our 214 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: brains deal with stress that might be responsible for this 215 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: anxiety gender gap that we're talking about. For instance, there 216 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: was some research done at the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia 217 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: and this was on rats. But we get a lot 218 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: of information about human behavior from rats, and I think 219 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: this was some kind of stress swim test. It made 220 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: rats swim swimming right, Oh, that doesn't sound stressful. And 221 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: they they found that the female rat neurons were more 222 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:12,359 Speaker 1: receptive to something called cortico trope in releasing factor, or CRF, 223 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: which is a hormone that organizes a stress response in mammals. 224 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 1: So basically, when that fight or flight response kick in 225 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: kicks in, the CRF gets into gear to basically keep 226 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: keep you safe, right, And Yeah, the female rats were 227 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: just less able to adapt to the high levels than 228 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: the male rats were. Yeah, the male rat brain cells 229 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: were better at the process of internalization, which, like you said, 230 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: Carol on, is this uh adaptation basically that that allows 231 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: them to kind of chill out a little bit more 232 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: when a stressful situation comes up, like having to swim 233 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: if you're a rat. Yeah, Like, I wonder how big 234 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: the bucket was that they put them in. I hope 235 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: it was not so big. That just seems like, oh um, 236 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: So they're thinking that maybe that CRF different it has 237 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: something to do with it. Another study from Florida State 238 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: University conducted in two thousand and ten found that in 239 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: male rat brains, the higher levels of testosterone seemed to 240 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: provide some kind of buffer against anxiety, maybe linked to 241 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: that response to the CRF. It's interesting the role that 242 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: are our hormones seem to play in all of this 243 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 1: because you know, going back to the suffocation, you know, 244 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: alarm that your body has. There's something to do with 245 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: estrogen levels falling during ovulation UM that causes this hyperventilation 246 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: feeling UM because you have higher carbon dioxide levels in 247 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: your respiration. So yeah, there's something to do with all 248 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: of these hormones testosterone and estrogen UH circulating that seems 249 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: to affect anxiety. So just add another set of chemicals 250 00:14:55,800 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: to this anxiety cocktail that we're mixing up here. Roberts 251 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: the Pulsky, who's a professor of neurobiology at Stanford University, 252 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: thinks that this anxiety gender gap may also be attributable 253 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: to oxytocin released in the female brain to calm down 254 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: the epinephrine and cortisol activity that spikes when we're really 255 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: stressed out right. Basically, what happens is that cortisol and 256 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: and raise your blood pressure and circulate the blood sugar 257 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: level when you're stressed, and then the brain releases this 258 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: oxytocin which counters the production of those other two chemicals, 259 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: which promotes a nurturing and relaxed feeling. It's also released 260 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: in the brain during an organ Indeed, it is so 261 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 1: so those venobo monkeys we talked about not too long ago, Yeah, there, 262 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: they've got it all lots of oxytocin actually, and men 263 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: secrete less oxytocin when they're stressed, which I thought was 264 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: interesting because you know, these other things that we mentioned 265 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: about the rat studies show that male rats seem to 266 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: be able to handle these stress hormones better. But maybe 267 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: it's because as of that testosterone buffering effect. Perhaps it's 268 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: lengths somehow. Perhaps, So another effect of this oxytocin release 269 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: for women is that we tend to tend and befriend 270 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: when we're stressed, whereas men are more likely to have 271 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: the fight or flight response. When we are stressed, we 272 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: look to bond and take care of someone. Maybe you 273 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: know when we were cave women running around and there 274 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: was like a big bronosaurus coming to chase us, because 275 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: you know that happened. Um, you know, we were trying 276 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: to take care of our children and our cave children 277 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: and whatnot while the men were going out like kill 278 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: the kill the or it anyway. Anyway, Um, Yeah, so 279 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: this actually, this whole female self self sacrifice thing um 280 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: that we're more prone to do, actually can lead to 281 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: increased levels of stress for women because we're like, no, 282 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 1: don't worry about me, I'm going to take care of you. 283 00:16:56,720 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: Oh so kind of transposing our stress onto someone like 284 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: a big cycle. I'm stressed, I'm gonna hug you, but 285 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,479 Speaker 1: hugging you stress with me attending and befriending. That's an 286 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 1: interesting theory, and I wonder if that might be why, um, 287 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: one of the reasons why women are diagnosed with anxiety 288 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 1: more often, Because perhaps it is not so much that 289 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: women are naturally worry wards, because obviously stress and anxiety 290 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:29,679 Speaker 1: affect men too, but maybe it's just because, related to 291 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:34,360 Speaker 1: that whole tendon befriend theory, that we're simply more likely 292 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: to express it and to talk about it, and therefore, 293 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: by talking about it to say, I don't know, a 294 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: psychiatrist be diagnosed with some of some kind of anxiety disorder. Right, 295 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: And women are definitely more likely to go seek help 296 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 1: for anxiety and depression than men are. Yeah, I think 297 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: that men comprise I think thirty seven percent of psychiatry patients, right, 298 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 1: So there's a gap right there. Yeah, women are more 299 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 1: willing to generally more willing to talk about their problems 300 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 1: and Taylor Clark over at Slate recently, Um brought up 301 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 1: the question of this nature versus nurture when it comes 302 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: to that that huge anxiety gender gap. Right, He said 303 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: that the way we treat our children and react to 304 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: their outbursts has a lot to do with how children 305 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: end up developing anxiety disorders and who is more likely 306 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: to be anxious. Um He said that boys actually show 307 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 1: show more emotional neediness in the first few months of 308 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,919 Speaker 1: life and up until age eleven, boys and girls are 309 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 1: equally likely to develop an anxiety disorder. But then, but 310 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: then at age fifteen, during puberty, and a lot of 311 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:44,360 Speaker 1: stuff happens, a lot of the gender will switcherrou happens. Yeah, 312 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: during adolescence because of hormones, girls become six times more 313 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: likely six times to be diagnosed with some kind of 314 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: anxiety disorder, and Clark wonders whether or not it has 315 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: to do with something that psychologists referred to as the 316 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 1: skin and knee effect, which is the idea that okay, so, uh, 317 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 1: me and my brother playing outside, we're kids, I skin 318 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: my knee, he skins his knee. I run in, and 319 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: you know, Mom's gonna take me up into her lab 320 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 1: be like, oh, Christ, didn't let me take care of it. 321 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,160 Speaker 1: What kind of band aid do you want? And with 322 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 1: my brother she'd be like, Netty, you wash up your knee, 323 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: dry those tears. We don't take care of boys in 324 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: this house. And that was a fictional mother. My mother. 325 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: First of all, we only had one kind of band 326 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: aid and it was a plain band aid and that's 327 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 1: all you got. But secondly, she was she was kind 328 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: and didn't talk like a witch, right, And so yeah, 329 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: that kind of relates to how, um, maybe women grow 330 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: up thinking like, oh, it's okay to be shy and 331 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: and meek and anxious and neurotic, because oh no, not 332 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: necessarily giving us some past to be to be weakly 333 00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 1: scareline expressing anxiety. It's not a sign of weak is 334 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: but simply the idea that advocate that it is okay 335 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: for us to to emote, right, whereas for guys it's not. 336 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: You have to suck it up, stiff upper lip. Yeah, 337 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: so they're not they're not as accustomed to asking for 338 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: help and you know, please put a band aid on 339 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: my knee. And chances are we could probably learn a 340 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: lot from each other by meeting in the middle. Perhaps 341 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: women could use a little bit more of that stiff 342 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: upper lip, and perhaps men could use a little more 343 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 1: of our tending and befriending. Right. It's interesting though that women. 344 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: Not only is there this idea of women as more 345 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,880 Speaker 1: anxious and more prone to anxiety disorders, but we think 346 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 1: we're more anxious and emotional too. There was this study 347 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 1: that showed that even when men and women experience the 348 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: same level of emotion, women are consistently seen as more emotional, 349 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 1: and we see ourselves as more emotional too, So you know, 350 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: and uh. And Taylor Clark, the person writing it Slate, 351 00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: concludes that it is definitely nurture over nature, writing that quote, 352 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 1: the idea that women are naturally twice as anxious as 353 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: men is nothing more than a pernicious illusion. And he 354 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:13,199 Speaker 1: also cites a study finding that if women go to 355 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: a doctor complaining of symptoms of chronic stress and anxiety, 356 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: such as chest pain, doctors might write it off and 357 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 1: just say, you know what, you're just probably stressed out, 358 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 1: just go take a nap or something, whereas if a 359 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,360 Speaker 1: man a man patient, if a male patient comes in 360 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: complaining of the same symptoms, typically they'll get a full physical. 361 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:36,160 Speaker 1: So it seems like even among the medical community, men's 362 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: anxiety is taken a little more seriously because it's assumed 363 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: to be less common. Right. Yeah. I actually the last 364 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: time I went in for a physical, I just happened 365 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: to tell my doctor and I was like, yeah, you know, 366 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 1: I haven't really been sleeping all lately and I've just 367 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 1: been kind of stressed out whatever. And she first thing 368 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: she says, She's like, well, I think I'll prescribe you 369 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: some ambient but have you ever thought about anxiety drugs? 370 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:03,640 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, but tell me more is their menus? 371 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I think there are definitely doctors 372 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: who are uh, very willing to just prescribe anxiety medicine 373 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: and maybe not look further. And I mean that's fine 374 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 1: if I if I had felt the need to, you know, 375 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: really look look deeper into my anxiety, than maybe I 376 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 1: would have. Well, speaking though, of going to the doctor, Uh, 377 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 1: let's talk about how to treat stress and anxiety what 378 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: people can do, because let's start out with what not 379 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,880 Speaker 1: to do, and that is avoid it. Avoiding well, yes, 380 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: don't avoid it, and also don't self medicate with things 381 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: like cocaine, alcohol, tobacco, and caffeine because that will only 382 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:47,239 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, amplify your anxiety levels. Right. 383 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 1: There's one study that shows that UM addicts who avoided 384 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 1: their anxiety and did not deal with their stress were 385 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: much more likely to have cravings. So people who were 386 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: able to get their feelings out, talk about them, and 387 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: deal with their stress had fewer cravings, whereas people who 388 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: just bottled it up and ignored it were more likely 389 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,679 Speaker 1: to go back to whatever it was that they had 390 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: a problem with. Right, the key to recovery was practicing 391 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: adaptive coping skills, which makes sense because a lot of 392 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: times the intense stress and anxiety that will confront is 393 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 1: directly related to some kind of change coming down the line, 394 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,679 Speaker 1: and it can be very hard to adjust and to 395 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 1: deal with that kind of stuff. Um. So, and on 396 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: a daily basis, things that you can do to keep 397 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: your stress levels at bay, I mean, it's stuff we've 398 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 1: all heard before. Eating a well balanced, healthy diet, getting 399 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: enough sleep, getting enough exercise. Um And that exercise thing 400 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: I think is incredibly important. I know when I have 401 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 1: good weeks where I exercise multiple times, I feel like 402 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: a superstar. Yeah, well, it releases all those endorphins, And 403 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 1: it's sort of one person and one thing that I 404 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,479 Speaker 1: read about how to fix your anxiety or or alleviate it. 405 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 1: Um just called exercise meditation motion, because you sort of 406 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 1: lose yourself in the repetitive nature or whatever you do, 407 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: whether it's running or racket poll or whatever, and also 408 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: spend time tending and befriending, tend to yourself others, right 409 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: develop those important emotional connections so that you don't feel 410 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: like you're isolated. But there's also therapy, you know, speaking 411 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: of those connections, you know you can you can go 412 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,400 Speaker 1: to a therapist and talk about your problems. And then 413 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: there's also of course medication. So there are antidipressence available 414 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,479 Speaker 1: which alter brain chemistry right away, but they take like 415 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: four to six weeks to really kick in and start 416 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 1: to alleviate symptoms. There's anti anxiety drugs which are generally 417 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: prescribed for short periods, like xan x um, and you 418 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 1: may need eventually to get higher doses. There's beta blockers, 419 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 1: but there's also research on a heart disease drug which 420 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 1: actually interferes with stress hormones like and f friend like 421 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 1: we talked about earlier, and this drug would actually have 422 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 1: more to do with quote unquote curing rather than just 423 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: alleviate symptoms. So researchers are really trying to get at 424 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: the root of anxiety instead of just kind of make 425 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: you feel better on the surface. That would be fantastic, 426 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 1: indeed you find a cure for anxiety, But I think 427 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 1: that the overall care for stress and anxiety is uh 428 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 1: really just not living, not encountering anything at all. Because 429 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: again it's something to freak out about if you encounter 430 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: anxiety right now and then, because it is a normal behavior. 431 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: But the question is a why what you know, what 432 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 1: happens when it doesn't go away? And be why does 433 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: that seem to happen more among women right you? I mean, 434 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 1: I try to calm myself down, Like I get migraines, 435 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: and a lot of the time they're related to the weather, 436 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: so I can always tell you when it's going to rain, 437 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: it's weird. But anyway, um, a lot of them are 438 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: stress related to And so what happens is if I 439 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: become anxious about something or very stressed out and I 440 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: start to get a headache, then I get even more 441 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: anxious because this headache is coming on, and I you know, 442 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: my anticipating it. You've ever had a migraine, I mean 443 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 1: they're terrible, They're awful, and so oh yeah, I become 444 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: more act just like, oh my god, here it comes, 445 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: here it comes, and then it gets worse in its cycle. 446 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: And then I go home and sit in the dark. 447 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,199 Speaker 1: The spiral spiral. So yeah, I try to, you know, 448 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 1: when I feel something like that coming on, I try 449 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: to before I take an excedrin or some other stronger prescription, 450 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: my great medicine. I tried to take some deep breath, 451 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: maybe go for a walk, calm myself down. Yeah, stop 452 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:23,160 Speaker 1: the stop the spiral. Indeed, well, I think I think 453 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: that about covers it for anxiety. Um, and let us 454 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 1: know your thoughts about anxiety. Guys out there too, really 455 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: curious about sold tending and befriending notion in whether or 456 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,680 Speaker 1: not you do tend to keep it a little more 457 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: bottled up compared to perhaps women in your life who 458 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: you've observed. Moms. Stuff at how stuff works dot com 459 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,479 Speaker 1: is our email address, and we'll start out with an 460 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: email from Richard And this is in response to our 461 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 1: HPV Vaccine podcast. And I don't normally do this, but 462 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to respond directly to this email in this segment, 463 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: maybe as I just didn't feel like typing, I said, 464 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: just finished listening to the HPV vaccine podcast, Can you 465 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: give us your thoughts on the risk reward analysis? In 466 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: the link below, which is a CBS news story from 467 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 1: two thousand nine about HPV vaccine, and he points out 468 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: the cervical cancer death rate versus the deaths resulting from 469 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: the HPV vaccine, and he's saying that more people have 470 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: per hundred thousand have died from HPV vaccine versus cervical cancer, 471 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: and he asked for a risk reward analysis of those statistics. 472 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 1: And I'd like to point out that the death rate 473 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: from quote unquote from the HPV vaccine is misleading because 474 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: that was in two thousand nine. Uh. This is from 475 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:50,919 Speaker 1: the CDC as of September. They looked into all of 476 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 1: the death reports those thirty four confirmed reports that were 477 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: related to the HPV vaccine, meaning that at some point 478 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: the people who had died had gotten the vaccine, and 479 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 1: the CDC reports that there was no unusual pattern or 480 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,680 Speaker 1: clustering to the deaths that would suggest that they were 481 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 1: caused by the vaccine, and some reports indicated a cause 482 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: of death unrelated to vaccination, so one prime example of 483 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: correlation causation. Just because there have been people who have 484 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 1: gotten the vaccine have died does not mean that gardasil 485 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: is killing people. And even though the cervical cancer death 486 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: rate is pretty low, we have to underscore the fact 487 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: that HPV does not only lead to possibly cervical cancer, 488 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,399 Speaker 1: but also those head and throat cancers which are on 489 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: the rise, anal cancers, vaginal cancers, possibly lung cancers, and 490 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: not to mention that of genital lords cases traced back 491 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: to HPV strains, which are also targeted by the vaccine. 492 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: So when we talk about whether or not people should 493 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 1: look into the vaccination, you've got to look beyond just 494 00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: cervical cancer. 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