WEBVTT - | Ep 76 | We Have A Dream 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:16.080 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:19.959 of Reasonably Shady. I am Jazelle Bryant. What's up, y'all. 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:24.280 This is Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here with us. Yes, 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:28.760 happy New Year. Okay, we're already in the year riving. 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:33.159 Do we still say no? No, you said to the fifteen? 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:36.720 Today is the sixteen? Oh darn yes, it's actually and 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:38.880 right now? Okay, you know what this is. This is good. 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.280 Once we get to Martin Luther King's birthday and the 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.839 celebration of Martin muth King. Happy New Year's over. Yes, 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.400 that's fair. That's fair enough. Because you like Martin Luther King. 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:51.360 We have to give them right. Yeah, we can't be 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:53.519 all happy New Year, mart happy Martin Luther King like no, 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:56.640 But Martin Luther King can inspire you to do what 0:00:57.160 --> 0:01:01.400 to to live your life with greatness in the new year. Okay, 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:08.520 thank you, Coretta. All right, I have a reasonably shady moment. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:22.440 So throughout the holidays, my youngest daughter, ador Cecilia Bryant, 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.320 had four of her wisdom teeth taken out and at 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:28.399 the same time, all four all four at the same time, 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:30.200 and and we did it during the holidays because the 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.360 doctor was like, that's the best time to do it 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.679 because it's downtown. Blah blah blah. She was gonna miss 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:37.440 school whatever, so she didn't miss any school because we 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:39.840 were at home. Door was very dramatic, you know, right 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:41.720 before she got it done, she screamed, she hated me, 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:43.800 she hated the doctor. You know, I was like, just 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.200 knocked that ch out out, chat, just knock her. She 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:51.240 was she under the not yet almost a little bit. Well, 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:53.720 she okay, So they put some um because she doesn't 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:57.480 like needles, so they put a numbing thing on her arm. Oh, 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.480 she's so extra, so extra. Before they were going to 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:03.840 shoot her arm up with the needle. Apparently the numbing 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:05.760 thing didn't work, so they put the They shoot her 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:09.400 up with the needle and she's like, hey, that work, liars. 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:16.480 The doctor shade everybody. So the doctors was telling me 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:18.399 to leave the room and I was like, oh, thank god, 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:19.600 because I don't want to be in here for this. 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:22.240 And she was like, no, Mommy, don't leave, don't leave, 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:24.280 don't leave. I hate you, mommie, don't leave, don't leave. 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:28.160 It was it was so drama. Some doctors to me 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:29.520 was like I think you should leave now, and I 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.000 said I think so too, and bye bye, and you 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:35.800 have my permission to totally knock this job out. Okay, anyway, 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:38.360 that's not the point of the story. So we get home. 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:43.680 He gives us subscriptions of antibiotics, UM and painkillers. The 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:49.440 antibiotics I could not find any pharmacy to fill. So 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:51.399 my little safe way that I always go to, yeah, 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.680 they't had none. And they were like clear, like we 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:57.679 won't have any tomorrow either. I went to a little CVS. Yes, 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.880 I like CBS. They didn't have me. They were like, 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:02.320 we don't know when it's coming in. I went to 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.320 a Walgreens, which you know they're on top of it. 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:08.639 All this Walgreens does is filled prescriptions, and I finally 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.440 got it filled when it was expensive. But that's not 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.640 the point, Like what's going over to antibiotics? And I 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.720 know there's a shortage for children, but why is there 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.400 a shortage? Right? Like why do we keep going through 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:24.440 this like supply chain issues with anything? But I guess 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:26.440 I don't know. So I did hear that. So that 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:32.240 was in response to the RSV that was I think so. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:35.840 But like again with these companies, these pharmaceutical companies that 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:39.160 make the stuff, y'all got plenty, just make some more, right, 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:41.960 Like you can't ramp up production right, and that there's 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:44.839 a demand. I don't get it. I don't get it. 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:46.960 If it's Johnson and Johnson, I manage y'all used to 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:48.320 work for them, and I have stock, so I'm not 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:50.600 really mad that much. But I don't know what company 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:53.400 it is, if it's Abbot or whatever, like, get it together, 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.520 fighter all, y'all get it together? So are they? I mean, 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:57.480 is this is it a matter? You know? There's a 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:03.600 big worker shortage? Yeah, like people do not work anymore, 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:06.920 like people like across the board, not just in the 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.760 pharmaceutical company. I'm just saying across across the word, there's 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:13.080 a worker shortage. But at an antibiotic they've been doing 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:16.000 this for what seventy years? It's this is this is 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:19.400 machine produced, right, So I don't know. Somebody got pressed 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:22.280 the button. I don't know. But uh, pharmaceutical industry, y'all 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:26.800 shady right now? That's crazy. Wow, that's insane shady. What 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.800 about you? You have a reasonably shady moment um? Yeah, 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:33.679 I'm sitting here. I can't think. I'm sorry. So maybe 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.280 is that your shady moment? Have you don't have a 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:39.240 shady moment? I don't, Yeah, because sometimes life is just perfect. 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:43.000 Oh wow, No Roban Dixon with the perfect life, you 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.520 know what? Okay, So I'll just it'll this could be 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.919 a shady moment. No, it's not. I mean it's more 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:50.279 of an update. I forgot to update y'all on like 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:54.279 my my children and all of their injuries and stuff. 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:59.440 Oh yeah, what's going on? Okay? So all right, So 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:04.560 Corey over the past year, Um, he couldn't play sports 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.920 because he had bad growing pains in both of his knees. 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.360 It's called ODDS Good Schladder's disease. Yeah, so you have 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:12.920 bad growing pains to the point where like he would 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.479 walk in pain, he would run around looking like an 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:18.200 old man, like all the type of stuff. So, like 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.960 he didn't play football or basketball at all last year. 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:26.039 So he went through an entire year in pain. So then, 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:28.040 you know, I think I talked about like Labor Day 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:30.120 he broke his foot, right, remember that he was he 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:31.800 broke his foot. He was in the boot for like 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:34.520 six to eight weeks or whatever. He was out of sports, 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:36.719 but he was finally feeling good in his knees, like 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:41.000 he was excited to start playing sports again. Okay, So 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:44.839 he got through the foot injury and you know started 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:48.480 playing basketball, okay, like started easing back into it, playing 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:53.880 playing basketball, um, training, working out, blah blah blah um. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.200 Then Carter turned around and broke his wrist right right. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:06:00.919 I remember that he felt braced hisself, broke discussed. So 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:04.000 like I've literally been like to the orthopedic doctor the 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:06.040 X ray place, I don't love you now in and 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:09.200 out they love you. Oh my gosh. So then it 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:15.480 was Carter. So then Corey Hyper extended his knee. Okay, 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.680 what's that mean? You know? It like went back like 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:21.640 never mind, don't tell me anymore, don't tell me anymore. Okay, 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:24.520 he heard his name. I got it in the basketball game. Yes, 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:30.920 Hyper extended his knee, yes, yeah, And so you know 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:34.600 he was he was able to, like, you know, a 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:37.039 few days later, like play again. So he had played 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.919 in like five four or five basketball games, but he 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:42.600 would complain of pain, not while he was playing, but 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:45.840 while he was like sitting still or just whatever. So 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:50.880 finally I'm like Okay, back to the orthopedic doctor. We go. Yes, 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:55.599 so back to the orthopedic doctor. Um, they look into it. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:57.760 She's like, you know, I think because you know there 0:06:57.839 --> 0:06:59.920 you have to concern. The concern is with the ligament, 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:03.280 the A c L, M c O, P c O 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:06.520 all that time athletic technical terms. Yeah, no, it's like 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:10.320 body terms. You have these ligaments are in your knee. Yes, 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:12.320 I don't know nothing about this because I have girls 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.840 and they're they're fine, okay, yes, all right. So anyway, 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:17.920 so they're like, oh, he needs to go get an 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:20.720 m r I. So it's like or though to the 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.400 m R I. So we get the m R I. 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:24.840 So then you wait for the m r I result 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:27.240 and then you go back to the or through for 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:28.840 the you know, for them to tell you the result. 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.880 Blah blah blah blah. So Corey has an a c 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:35.760 L sprain or a like partial tear in his A 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:41.520 c L. Right, so thank god he does not need surgery. Okay, um, 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:45.000 but he does need to spend the next six weeks 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:49.400 in physical therapy rehabbing his knee. Oh my god. So 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:52.600 definitely he should not be playing football. I'm just saying 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:56.760 that for anybody who listens, she needs to not be 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.640 playing football. So that has been so my shady moment. 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:01.760 If I was like, would just be like my life 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:07.200 over the past few months has been spent from going 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:10.120 to the doctor's office, from kid to kid, to the 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:13.240 X ray place, the m R place, the I mean, 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:16.679 it's just been it's sad. Yes, And I said the one. 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:20.120 I was like, you know, and then and then in between, 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:22.560 you know, they're in the house like oh if this hurts, 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:24.080 that hurts. I'm like, okay, let me put ice on it, 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:26.080 let me wrap it up and give you advil, I 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:28.120 reprove and blah blah blah. So I saidn't want I said, 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.880 I feel like I'm an athletic trainer. Uh huh. And 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.480 he said what did he say? You know what that's 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:39.080 called being a mom? I said, you know, shut the 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:44.440 hell up. You tried it. You tried it wine, right. 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.560 So I'm just like so sick of being in and 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:49.160 out of the doctors, Like that's just that's crazy. Okay. 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:54.319 But today is our observance of Dr Martin hu the King. Yes, 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:58.000 because he did so much for um civil rights, for 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.760 the black community. I mean, don't you wonder like, where 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:04.840 would we be without him? Do you ever wonder that? Um, like, 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:08.000 what would I mean, maybe someone else would? But have 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:11.160 we really made a lot of progress? Unfortunately? Yes, have 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:16.040 we made a lot of progresses from the nineteen sixties 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:21.520 forties exactly slavery. Yes we have. Yes, But so so 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:23.880 I wonder, I mean, probably would have just taken longer. 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.600 Probably would just had to be someone else to like 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:28.600 take the torch and do it. But it's like when 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:32.120 you think about if he was, if he didn't exist, 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:36.840 where will we be? Yeah, so Cecily Tyson who has 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:39.480 passed away. I was on Instagram and she popped up 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:41.800 and she said she had like something very powerful to say. 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:43.320 I want to hold on. I want you to hear it. 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:49.960 I think that I have profited more from the negative 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:57.760 as opposed to the positively, Yes, because negative experiences, Yes, absolutely, 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:03.040 I really relish and treasure them more than positive because 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:08.480 if I haven't been able to survive it and reach 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:14.040 another level, that has given me more proof, more strength, 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:19.720 more confidence, has enriched my life more And that's why 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:25.199 I treasure them. I freaking love that. It's beautiful. Like, yeah, 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:31.400 negativity sucks. The impression of black people sucks, but because 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:34.440 of it, you're able to get out of it on 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:37.679 the other side, in in your end hopefully a better situation, 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.079 and you're better and and it teaches you a lot. Yeah, 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:44.120 you're wiser, stronger, smarter, you know, you just value things differently. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.280 It's just just like so many things that you get 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:50.360 out from negative experiences. And she was talking to um 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:54.640 Oprah was all over that. Yeah. So when I just said, like, oh, 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:56.840 you know what if Martin Luther King never existed, where 0:10:56.840 --> 0:11:00.199 will we be? I do sometimes also think about had 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:04.040 he not been murdered at his young age and lived 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:07.680 until he was, say eighty five, what would our society 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:11.640 look like? And I and I do think we would 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:14.480 be in a much better place without him. Or the 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:18.400 fact that he was assassinated was that did that wake 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:22.360 people up to say, hey, this is really left up 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:23.960 and we need to get ourselves together and like try 0:11:24.000 --> 0:11:25.960 to fight, continue to fight. I don't know, it's it's 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:29.200 uh no, I feel like we I don't know. I 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:31.120 just I feel like, you know, I'm sure in the 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:34.080 immediate like when he was assassinated, you know, I wasn't here, 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:36.520 but in the immediate I'm sure there was some sort 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:41.679 of like you know, um coming together and you know, 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:46.160 maybe society kind of being energized and wanting to like 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:49.640 live continue his legacy. But I think the longer time 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:53.240 went on and he's not here to be that fixture 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:57.240 that we all that society would have admired and respected 0:11:57.280 --> 0:12:00.600 and looked up to, we lose our way. I agree, 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.280 you know, our morals and our values and our you know, 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:06.640 like he was just all about you know, peace and 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:10.600 moving forward and blacking out the hate and all that 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:12.360 in loving your neighbor and all that type of stuff. 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:14.040 And when you don't hear that message all the time, 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:17.040 it just it's like it's a voice. So I just 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.040 I don't I just think about if he had lived 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:23.000 much longer. I just think society in general would just 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:26.839 be better. What do you have a favorite Martin Luther 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:30.400 King quote? Because it's so many great quotes. He has 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:33.680 so many, I mean, I could like go down the list. 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:37.439 So this one I love. He says faith is taking 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:43.439 the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase. Right. 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:48.440 I like that. I love that. That's amazing, Right, It's 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:50.280 like you don't know what's on the other side. You 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:52.000 don't know where it's going to go. You don't know, 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:54.520 you know, and this you can apply this anywhere in 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:57.240 your life, like you know, if you have uncertainty or 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:00.839 doubt or whatever. But like faith is the first step 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:03.559 first to take when you don't see the whole staircase. No, 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:07.480 I love that, So I in my um I'm a 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:08.880 part of Jack and Jail. I don't know if I'll 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.320 know what that is, and it's fine if you don't, 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.600 but it's a it's an organization for children. So we 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:18.800 always have a day of service, which happened yesterday, and 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:23.600 it's always great in his honor to just like really 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:26.800 give back and do service for other people and not 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:30.440 just allow it to just be on the membrance of 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.240 his day in January, but like try to continue to 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:35.120 do it all year. So that's what our pledges, reasonably 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:37.959 shady pledge to the people. Try to continue to do 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:40.760 great acts of service and just live your life with 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:44.840 peace and love. Yes, right exactly. Yeah, Like be a 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:48.480 blessing to somebody, you know, like we can't. You can't 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:50.520 be a blessing to everyone, but at least you know, 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:55.080 figure out how you can bless somebody and spread kindness. 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.280 Let me tell you who's not a blessing or at peace? 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:09.840 Those freaking people in the UK that Harry Harry William 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:13.760 and they'm arguing and then supposedly fighting, y'aller brothers. Ain't 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:17.480 that what you're supposed to do? Right? Yeah? Like why 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.640 is this a big deal? Why are we talking about this? 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.480 I know, I know, so okay, so who are you? 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:27.000 So enough Harry? Harry, I'm over you and I was 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.760 a big Harry fan, but but you're like, oh my gosh, 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:31.560 and now I want to say in my book that 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:35.000 William talked about my wife and then I attacked him 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:39.320 or we attacked. Yeah, they had a fight. Who cares? 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.840 Like it's called y'aller brothers? And when haven't you been 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.240 with your family and somebody hadn't thrown shade at the 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:49.360 in law? Yeah? That ain't that call Thanksgiving dinner? Right? 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:51.880 You know? But I feel like maybe they live in 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.800 such a bubble that like they don't realize like this 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.680 is normal behavior, you know what I mean? Like maybe, 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.880 I mean, if you watched the Kardashians, you gotta know 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:04.960 that like siblings fight, they talked about each other, then 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:09.520 they come back to one another and they that. So, 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:12.040 so if y'all don't know what we're talking about, what 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:14.760 is I was talking about? Prince Harry has written a 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:17.040 book and now he's doing interviews about the book and 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:21.080 he's telling people that, you know, William was talking down 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:25.520 about his wife and by megan to do, I'm just 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.560 saying I said it. I think he was saying like 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:30.720 she's abrasive and all this time to the staff. Yeah, 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:36.720 and then it turned into uh, William in in Harry's words, 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:41.240 William attacked Harry physically. Yes, good, y'are supposed to fight, 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:44.080 That's what you're supposed to do, right, And I'm like, okay, wait, 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:49.360 like yellow brothers, I know. And I was definitely like okay, 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.880 and my team Harry or team William on this, well, 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:56.920 I just feel like I don't need to know this, right, 0:15:57.080 --> 0:16:01.400 So this is actually really house business and it's not 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:05.320 for us. It's family business and there and they're airing 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:09.400 their dirty family laundry and it's so if I'm in 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:12.200 the UK, if I'm part of the royal family, yeah, 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:15.360 I'm mad. I'm like enough already, you know what I mean. Like, 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:19.520 and but then maybe maybe this has always been Harry's 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.360 m O, you know what I mean, Like, maybe he's 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:24.800 just like he was the one. Maybe he felt like 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.600 he was the black sheep of the family, like he 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:29.120 was not kind of in line for the throne, and 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:34.000 so he probably felt treat it differently. He probably felt different. Um, 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:37.320 he probably had a chip on his shoulder. Um. And 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:38.960 all of this is just a man, you know, it's 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.560 just kind of manifesting in his adulthood. And now he's 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:45.480 in the US and needs money, like he doesn't the 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:49.360 security of so down. You just you're gonna do anything 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:52.840 to get money. I mean, I think they're dangling a 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:55.480 lot of money to these people for them to put 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.960 to be putting as out there. So the Netflix special, 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.800 which did you watch? I did not. I did not. Okay, 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.480 I was not interested. But I mean I would assume 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:07.120 that they made a lot of money from it. Yeah. 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:10.119 Did I hear like a hundred million or something? They 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:11.880 shouldn't have made that much. Did I make that up? 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:13.560 You made that up? I don't know. I don't know 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:17.080 what the contract was a lot, right, So they have 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:20.480 the Netflix. She's got her podcast, which I guess she's 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:23.000 talking about other stuff on the podcast. But she's about 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:24.960 to write a book. She's about to write a book. 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:27.320 She wrote it. Yeah, he writes a book. I mean, 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:30.720 I think they're just totally trying to um, how about 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.040 go back home? How about go back to the UK 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:37.880 something I don't know. They don't want to back. Yeah, 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:40.800 I don't know if that's happened, that's why. No, they're 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:44.000 not going. Hence the reason why they're over here writing 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:46.520 books and doing Netflix specials so they can make all 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:52.159 this money. Well, I but clearly there's somebody in this 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:54.840 world cares because people are paying them for this. I 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:57.399 used to care until you do. You start telling me 0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:00.200 about this little these little how often do Corey and Cardify? 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:03.240 Oh my god, what twice a day? Okay, so I 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:06.639 don't care, William And and Harry don't care. But and 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:08.679 you know what's funny, It's like, Okay, if that was 0:18:08.720 --> 0:18:12.200 the first time that y'all fought, then that's weird. Actually 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:14.720 that's the really weird part, Like this is the first 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:20.239 time y'all fought. I mean lead anyway, Okay, so I 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:26.840 heard that um TikTok's being you have to delete it, 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:29.320 Like if you're a federal employee, you have to delete 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:33.520 TikTok from your phone because they're like, TikTok is causing something. 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:36.520 It's like a security it's security issue and blah blah blah. 0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:38.520 And I mean, I'm I actually want to know how 0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:40.639 Ashley feels about this, because it makes me feel like 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:43.199 TikTok is about to die. Oh and she's gonna be 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:47.679 okay because she's a TikTok queen. However, I do feel 0:18:47.720 --> 0:18:54.000 like more apps need to be regular, yea, regulating that 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:57.320 well looked at from a from a security perspective, because 0:18:57.320 --> 0:19:00.200 I feel like China could just like you know how 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:02.440 people you know though those that app that was like 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:05.200 everybody was doing it and it was pictures of themselves. 0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:09.280 Oh yea, yeah, the AI all of that. Yeah, I 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:11.640 find that to be weird, Like I think that that's 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:15.200 they're trying to get your information some kind of way 0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:18.080 and then use it against you later. Yeah, there's definitely 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:22.000 like a security privacy issue and they can't be sure 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:24.520 of what it is. So it's funny. Okay. I didn't 0:19:24.560 --> 0:19:26.800 talk about on the podcast my issues with my Instagram 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:30.520 A right, right, I don't think I have I don't know, 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:32.639 so all right, so let me let's stay on the 0:19:32.640 --> 0:19:37.159 TikTok first. So TikTok, I find this interesting. So the 0:19:37.280 --> 0:19:40.320 US is all worried about you know, security and privacy 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:43.320 and what China is going to do and blah blah blah. Meanwhile, 0:19:43.440 --> 0:19:47.119 I heard that in China all of their most of 0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:50.800 their TikTok content. First of all, it is regulated and 0:19:51.119 --> 0:19:57.440 it's educational. I like that, right, versus in the US. Yes, 0:19:57.960 --> 0:20:02.480 it's work fast. I am also to be blamed for 0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:04.680 the tork fast and my work is terrible, y'all y'all 0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:08.760 know that. So it's so funny, just like the difference 0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:12.520 in like, you know, Hina, they can control everything, but 0:20:12.640 --> 0:20:16.600 it's like, yeah, they're it's educational and and that's a 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:20.280 great thing. And so that's so TikTok is is um 0:20:20.320 --> 0:20:22.919 an asset over there. Over here, it's just making us 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:27.439 dumber and dumber and dumber and dumber. Like Carter the 0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:30.119 other day was like, oh, mine, can you buy some 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:33.280 whipped cream and buy some hot cocoa and this and other? 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:35.240 He's like, I want to I wanna try this hot 0:20:35.280 --> 0:20:38.560 chocolate drink that Cardi B made. Yes, I saw that. 0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:40.159 What was so crazy? I thought that she made it 0:20:40.160 --> 0:20:42.760 for for Offset, and Offset took that thing and he 0:20:42.800 --> 0:20:44.879 was drinking. He was like, oh, this is good. And 0:20:44.960 --> 0:20:46.880 she's like, I now I make up for you all 0:20:46.880 --> 0:20:51.760 the time. He's like, no, no, you bitch, but thank 0:20:51.800 --> 0:20:55.480 you for the happy holidays. So like what, So I'm 0:20:55.520 --> 0:20:57.919 like looking at this video and she's all in her 0:20:58.359 --> 0:21:02.000 nails are all just tapping away to and and it's 0:21:02.040 --> 0:21:04.280 just so gool with y'all. And you put the hot 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:06.800 chocolate hand and you put the whip cram out and 0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:09.080 I'm like, was there any liquor in it? It's yes, 0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:12.560 So clearly Carder did not have the liquor, but like 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:15.199 he was just like he had to get the Like, 0:21:15.359 --> 0:21:18.160 so when I ordered my groceries on Safe Way, I'm like, Okay, 0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:20.360 is there anything you want? So he's like, yes, can 0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:23.080 I order some things? So I'm like yes, So he 0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:28.600 ordered his Garadelli Jeradelli Jared I think it's Jared Dali 0:21:28.800 --> 0:21:33.840 whatever it is, because Cardi b was going TikTok Magan 0:21:33.960 --> 0:21:36.840 hot coco with it, right. Yeah, It's like it's just like, 0:21:36.960 --> 0:21:40.480 what's so cute? But yes, that's if that's the state 0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:43.240 of TikTok we're in trouble because we need to be 0:21:43.320 --> 0:21:47.400 learning some educational things. Okay, we are in big trouble now. 0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:50.679 I want to bring this up a couple of weeks ago, okay, 0:21:50.720 --> 0:21:52.560 So and I know that I know how you feel 0:21:52.560 --> 0:21:54.520 about it. Okay. A couple of things, A couple of 0:21:54.520 --> 0:21:58.879 things we didn't talk about. The Pope, Barbara Walter's peele 0:21:59.359 --> 0:22:02.320 all passed him over the holidays. It was so much. 0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:06.240 And you know, Barbara Walters did so much for so 0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:11.000 many women journalists, like she paved the way. Remember I 0:22:11.040 --> 0:22:13.240 saw this clip of the view and like all the 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:19.679 women that she kind of empowered and hired, it was 0:22:19.800 --> 0:22:24.160 so many. Her legacy is yeable, like Oprah talks about 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:27.399 her all the time. Um. So yeah, I just you know, 0:22:27.600 --> 0:22:29.560 Barbara will be missed even though she lived you know, 0:22:29.880 --> 0:22:32.280 long life. Here she's ninety something years old. The pope 0:22:32.320 --> 0:22:36.400