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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Jazelle Bryant. What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here with us. Yes,

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Speaker 1: happy New Year. Okay, we're already in the year riving.

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Speaker 1: Do we still say no? No, you said to the fifteen?

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Speaker 1: Today is the sixteen? Oh darn yes, it's actually and

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Speaker 1: right now? Okay, you know what this is. This is good.

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Speaker 1: Once we get to Martin Luther King's birthday and the

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Speaker 1: celebration of Martin muth King. Happy New Year's over. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's fair. That's fair enough. Because you like Martin Luther King.

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Speaker 1: We have to give them right. Yeah, we can't be

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Speaker 1: all happy New Year, mart happy Martin Luther King like no,

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Speaker 1: But Martin Luther King can inspire you to do what

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Speaker 1: to to live your life with greatness in the new year. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Coretta. All right, I have a reasonably shady moment.

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Speaker 1: So throughout the holidays, my youngest daughter, ador Cecilia Bryant,

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Speaker 1: had four of her wisdom teeth taken out and at

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Speaker 1: the same time, all four all four at the same time,

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Speaker 1: and and we did it during the holidays because the

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Speaker 1: doctor was like, that's the best time to do it

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Speaker 1: because it's downtown. Blah blah blah. She was gonna miss

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Speaker 1: school whatever, so she didn't miss any school because we

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Speaker 1: were at home. Door was very dramatic, you know, right

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Speaker 1: before she got it done, she screamed, she hated me,

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Speaker 1: she hated the doctor. You know, I was like, just

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Speaker 1: knocked that ch out out, chat, just knock her. She

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Speaker 1: was she under the not yet almost a little bit. Well,

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Speaker 1: she okay, So they put some um because she doesn't

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Speaker 1: like needles, so they put a numbing thing on her arm. Oh,

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Speaker 1: she's so extra, so extra. Before they were going to

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Speaker 1: shoot her arm up with the needle. Apparently the numbing

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Speaker 1: thing didn't work, so they put the They shoot her

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Speaker 1: up with the needle and she's like, hey, that work, liars.

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Speaker 1: The doctor shade everybody. So the doctors was telling me

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Speaker 1: to leave the room and I was like, oh, thank god,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to be in here for this.

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Speaker 1: And she was like, no, Mommy, don't leave, don't leave,

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Speaker 1: don't leave. I hate you, mommie, don't leave, don't leave.

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Speaker 1: It was it was so drama. Some doctors to me

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Speaker 1: was like I think you should leave now, and I

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Speaker 1: said I think so too, and bye bye, and you

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Speaker 1: have my permission to totally knock this job out. Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 1: that's not the point of the story. So we get home.

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Speaker 1: He gives us subscriptions of antibiotics, UM and painkillers. The

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Speaker 1: antibiotics I could not find any pharmacy to fill. So

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Speaker 1: my little safe way that I always go to, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they't had none. And they were like clear, like we

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Speaker 1: won't have any tomorrow either. I went to a little CVS. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I like CBS. They didn't have me. They were like,

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Speaker 1: we don't know when it's coming in. I went to

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Speaker 1: a Walgreens, which you know they're on top of it.

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Speaker 1: All this Walgreens does is filled prescriptions, and I finally

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Speaker 1: got it filled when it was expensive. But that's not

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Speaker 1: the point, Like what's going over to antibiotics? And I

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Speaker 1: know there's a shortage for children, but why is there

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Speaker 1: a shortage? Right? Like why do we keep going through

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Speaker 1: this like supply chain issues with anything? But I guess

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So I did hear that. So that

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Speaker 1: was in response to the RSV that was I think so.

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Speaker 1: But like again with these companies, these pharmaceutical companies that

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Speaker 1: make the stuff, y'all got plenty, just make some more, right,

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Speaker 1: Like you can't ramp up production right, and that there's

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Speaker 1: a demand. I don't get it. I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: If it's Johnson and Johnson, I manage y'all used to

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Speaker 1: work for them, and I have stock, so I'm not

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Speaker 1: really mad that much. But I don't know what company

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Speaker 1: it is, if it's Abbot or whatever, like, get it together,

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Speaker 1: fighter all, y'all get it together? So are they? I mean,

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Speaker 1: is this is it a matter? You know? There's a

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Speaker 1: big worker shortage? Yeah, like people do not work anymore,

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Speaker 1: like people like across the board, not just in the

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Speaker 1: pharmaceutical company. I'm just saying across across the word, there's

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Speaker 1: a worker shortage. But at an antibiotic they've been doing

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Speaker 1: this for what seventy years? It's this is this is

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Speaker 1: machine produced, right, So I don't know. Somebody got pressed

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Speaker 1: the button. I don't know. But uh, pharmaceutical industry, y'all

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Speaker 1: shady right now? That's crazy. Wow, that's insane shady. What

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Speaker 1: about you? You have a reasonably shady moment um? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting here. I can't think. I'm sorry. So maybe

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Speaker 1: is that your shady moment? Have you don't have a

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Speaker 1: shady moment? I don't, Yeah, because sometimes life is just perfect.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, No Roban Dixon with the perfect life, you

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Speaker 1: know what? Okay, So I'll just it'll this could be

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Speaker 1: a shady moment. No, it's not. I mean it's more

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Speaker 1: of an update. I forgot to update y'all on like

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Speaker 1: my my children and all of their injuries and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's going on? Okay? So all right, So

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Speaker 1: Corey over the past year, Um, he couldn't play sports

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Speaker 1: because he had bad growing pains in both of his knees.

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Speaker 1: It's called ODDS Good Schladder's disease. Yeah, so you have

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Speaker 1: bad growing pains to the point where like he would

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Speaker 1: old man, like all the type of stuff. So, like

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Speaker 1: he didn't play football or basketball at all last year.

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Speaker 1: So he went through an entire year in pain. So then,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think I talked about like Labor Day

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Speaker 1: he broke his foot, right, remember that he was he

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Speaker 1: broke his foot. He was in the boot for like

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Speaker 1: six to eight weeks or whatever. He was out of sports,

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Speaker 1: but he was finally feeling good in his knees, like

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Speaker 1: he was excited to start playing sports again. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: he got through the foot injury and you know started

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Speaker 1: playing basketball, okay, like started easing back into it, playing

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Speaker 1: playing basketball, um, training, working out, blah blah blah um.

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Speaker 1: Then Carter turned around and broke his wrist right right.

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Speaker 1: I remember that he felt braced hisself, broke discussed. So

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Speaker 1: like I've literally been like to the orthopedic doctor the

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Speaker 1: was Carter. So then Corey Hyper extended his knee. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's that mean? You know? It like went back like

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Speaker 1: never mind, don't tell me anymore, don't tell me anymore. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he heard his name. I got it in the basketball game. Yes,

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Speaker 1: finally I'm like Okay, back to the orthopedic doctor. We go. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so back to the orthopedic doctor. Um, they look into it.

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Speaker 1: She's like, you know, I think because you know there

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah. So Corey has an a c

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Speaker 1: but he does need to spend the next six weeks

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Speaker 1: definitely he should not be playing football. I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: playing football. So that has been so my shady moment.

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Speaker 1: If I was like, would just be like my life

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Speaker 1: over the past few months has been spent from going

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Speaker 1: it's just been it's sad. Yes, And I said the one.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know, and then and then in between,

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Speaker 1: reprove and blah blah blah. So I saidn't want I said,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm an athletic trainer. Uh huh. And

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Speaker 1: he said what did he say? You know what that's

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Speaker 1: called being a mom? I said, you know, shut the

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Speaker 1: hell up. You tried it. You tried it wine, right.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just like so sick of being in and

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Speaker 1: out of the doctors, Like that's just that's crazy. Okay.

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Speaker 1: But today is our observance of Dr Martin hu the King. Yes,

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Speaker 1: because he did so much for um civil rights, for

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Speaker 1: the black community. I mean, don't you wonder like, where

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Speaker 1: we really made a lot of progress? Unfortunately? Yes, have

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Speaker 1: we made a lot of progresses from the nineteen sixties

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Speaker 1: forties exactly slavery. Yes we have. Yes, But so so

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Speaker 1: I want to hold on. I want you to hear it.

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Speaker 1: I think that I have profited more from the negative

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Speaker 1: I treasure them. I freaking love that. It's beautiful. Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: negativity sucks. The impression of black people sucks, but because

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Speaker 1: the other side, in in your end hopefully a better situation,

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Speaker 1: and you're better and and it teaches you a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're wiser, stronger, smarter, you know, you just value things differently.

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Speaker 1: It's just just like so many things that you get

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Speaker 1: Oprah was all over that. Yeah. So when I just said, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know what if Martin Luther King never existed, where

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Speaker 1: will we be? I do sometimes also think about had

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Speaker 1: fact that he was assassinated was that did that wake

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Speaker 1: pretty much? Six six to six and a half years ago? Right,

419
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: So um, and when I thought about it, Okay, she passed,

420
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: she was what eight what they say, So I'm thinking

421
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 1: she must have just been deteriorating, you know, like a

422
00:23:56,320 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 1: she probably just started slowly deteriorating, but too you know,

423
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: you always want to leave a legacy, leave a mark

424
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: on on this world, and she definitely did that. She

425
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 1: certainly did. Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what legacy

426
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna live behind. I don't know. I'm gonna figure

427
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: that out anyway. Okay, So we are as y'all know, Robin,

428
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: I Real Housewives and I had had been sleeping on

429
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 1: the Real Housewives of Miami. I have been sleeping on it.

430
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: And I am friends with Alexea and Mark Marisol. I

431
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: love those ladies, um and I saw Alexia and she

432
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,360
Speaker 1: was like, Gizelle, just do me a favor. Just watch Miami.

433
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 1: It's so good. It's so good. It's so good. So

434
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm gonna watching it. It's on Peacocks,

435
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 1: rob So, I don't know if I've ever said this,

436
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 1: but me, Porsche, Alexeia, and Mariso have a group chat, right,

437
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: so we're always in the group chat. A matter of fact,

438
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: Porsche left me this beautiful um end of year, like

439
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: I love you so much, Texas. She left, you know,

440
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: we left in a group chat anyway, So I went

441
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: to the group chat. I was like, yo, Alexei, O,

442
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: my amy is everything. So she was like, oh, thank

443
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: you so much. She said, it's so much coming from you,

444
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. So Marrison never comments on the

445
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 1: group chat, I think because she's drunk. But that's a

446
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: whole another story. So listen, y'all, stop sleeping on Miami.

447
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: It's good. Okay, what do you why is it? Tell

448
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: me more? Okay? So you know, we all the Lisa girl.

449
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 1: She's going through the divorce. So I'm intrigued about that.

450
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: Larsa Pippen is like a secret assassin. I slept on

451
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: Larsa because I just felt like, Oh, that's Kim Kardashian's friend, Like,

452
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 1: who cares? She has a big but Kim has a

453
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 1: big but who cares. No. Larsa is a good TV like.

454
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: I appreciate her for her role in the Friendship group.

455
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: She's funny, she's witty, she knows how to drop some

456
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: team and she needs to drop some tea. I did

457
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: not know the girl was was married to Martina Navratoalova, who,

458
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: by the way, she's going through some cancer cancer, breast

459
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 1: and lung cancer. So our prayers are for her absolutely.

460
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 1: See of course, because Alexi is just gonna say crazy

461
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: sh it out of her mouth. I'm like, Alex, stop talking,

462
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: stop talking, stop talking. So I don't know just the

463
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: whole dynamic of Oh, and then we have Kiki and

464
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 1: Gertie Ki, Kiki and Gertie Okay, I gotta be honest.

465
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell him apart for a very long time,

466
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: right thinking it out, you didn't realize, but well, I

467
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: didn't realize it was too good. Yeah. Yes, they look alike. Yeah,

468
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: I mean they're they're tall, slender with long straight hair. Yes,

469
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: and they're both oh they're both Haitians. Listen, I love

470
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: both of them. They're amazing. I just I like everyone

471
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 1: that they've got going. And then Maysoul says, crazy stuff.

472
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 1: I Mars is very funny. She was not. You know,

473
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: I did um the Ultimate Girl's Trip with her. She

474
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:46,199
Speaker 1: wasn't that funny as she is on Miami Ya. She

475
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 1: was a little sick in time Element, she was a

476
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: little sick and tailand stomach she has some stomach problems.

477
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: But anyway, guys watch it. So because I've watched a

478
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 1: few episodes and um, you know, I like they're done

479
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: am I think, Um, their drama is their drama amongst

480
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: the group is not like toxic, you know what I mean.

481
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: It's like stuff that they can get through. Yes, and

482
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: and you definitely feel like they're friends or that they

483
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: at least like each other. Yeah, for sure. I found

484
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: myself though only interested in Lisa and Lenny and their drama. Yeah,

485
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: so Lenny is let me tell you something. I don't

486
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: really use this word often, but a mother. Okay, that's

487
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 1: what he is. I really wanted in a horrible way. Yes,

488
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: he just was like I'm out. You see him on

489
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: social media now, trying to like explain. I saw it's funny.

490
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: I saw something pop up, and then I lost it

491
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: and I wanted to go back back to So he's

492
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: basically saying she was, but I saw. I started reasoning

493
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 1: she was bossy or something. Treated she treated him badly,

494
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 1: and she bossed him around, and she always told him

495
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: what to do, and she wasn't supportive. Boy, by you

496
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: got you went and got a twenty five year old boy.

497
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: That's gonna work out. Well okay, so wait, let me

498
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: ask you this, um, did you ever get like d

499
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: M s from his office asked offering services? I think so? Yeah,

500
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: I think I didn't realize it was his office. Oh really?

501
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah I remember. You know. It's like a few

502
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: times they would like reach out and ask like did

503
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: we did I want to like come down and get

504
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: some services. Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. But anyway, I

505
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: truly enjoyed. Um. Okay, so, oh, we didn't talk about

506
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: Tory Lanes. I just want to talk about this very quickly, okay,

507
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 1: because what intrigued me. Okay, So, Tory Lanes and Meg

508
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 1: Stallion finally had there and this is kind of like

509
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: old news, but they finally had their day in court

510
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: and uh, Tory was found guilty of shooting Meg right foot?

511
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: Did we need a trial for this? Because didn't we

512
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: know that this was going down? So I'm so I'm

513
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: a little slow and behind and confused because, um, I

514
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: guess I wasn't really keeping up with the story because

515
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: apparently didn't believe Meg that it happened. That they did

516
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: not believe Megan, which was well weird to me because

517
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: she was in the hospital right yeah, and I don't understand,

518
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: like why would they not believe her and why would

519
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: they take his side over her? So there was a

520
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: lot of like, you know, I guess vindication for her

521
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: because you know, exactly was found guilty and you know,

522
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: some of the testimony from like the witnesses like her friends,

523
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: and then um just the phone call that he made

524
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: to the friends from jail, what it was just as himself,

525
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: he sure did so, Okay, my question is, apparently Megan

526
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: and her friend fell out, but why because they were

527
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: fighting too. I think that they over over him. Yeah,

528
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: it wasn't didn't Megan have a boyfriend? Listen, that was after.

529
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: That was after. This is what Wait, the boyfriend is after.

530
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: The party was after. But anyway, she's I think it

531
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: was got a little convoluted because at one point she

532
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: told Gail King she didn't sleep with Tory, but we

533
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: all knew that was a lie. But anyway, I first

534
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: of all, it's Tory. Tory Lanes is short, right, I

535
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: think he's like three eleven. Okay, So Tory Lanes is

536
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: like three ft five four maybe, and Megan is like

537
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: five probably, She's pretty tall. I kidt even listen when

538
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: they lay down in the same time. No, no, not, don't.

539
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: I say, it don't matter when you lay down. I

540
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: guess like that's that's that's one that like, you know,

541
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: I'm visualizing. That's very interesting visualization. Okay, but this father,

542
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: Tory's father, This is where I want to get to. Okay,

543
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: so the verdict happened father, and I think Tory's mama

544
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: somebody came out or Auntie came out up the courthouse

545
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: and the father was like, how dare this happened to

546
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: my son. He's the next best thing since Martin Luther

547
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 1: and the King. He's amazing, and this is not right

548
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: and this is gonna bring a whole culture down. He

549
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: lifted Tory up to be the best thing since not

550
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: only Martin Luther King, but Martin and Malcolm mixed together.

551
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: Marlu know, but that's how he was acting. It was

552
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: so crazy to me. I'm like, dude, you're talking about

553
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: Tory Lane and I don't is this is he a

554
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: rapper or a singer? I'm so bad he's a singer.

555
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: Lessons that you're asking, says daddy came. We know this

556
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: is your son day, and you know, we know you're

557
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: riding hard for your son. But sir, your son got

558
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: a gun and shot Meg in the foot. People so

559
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: delusion old. I don't want to say even delusion. I

560
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: woult to say he was righting his son. And then

561
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: the next day the audio leaked of Tory being like, yeah,

562
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: I know Meg and gonna mess with me no more.

563
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: I know, Yeah, sir, you shot her. I ain't gonna

564
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: be your friend either, because you shot her. And that

565
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: was like, that was a complete and utter mass and

566
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,239
Speaker 1: I loved everything that was. That was a saga. That

567
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: was like, that was saga. Okay, so this is this

568
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: is the last this is the last point. So one

569
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: of Meg's people that was like telling the story was

570
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: her I think her stylist, either her stylist or her

571
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:23,959
Speaker 1: or her hairstyles. He was stylens. Okay, that thing. That

572
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 1: thing was bad to the bone. Okay. He came into

573
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: the courtroom bad. I mean I think was snatched at

574
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: too toe baby and he sat down, and so somebody

575
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: was was giving an account of what he said, and

576
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: I think it was something like so when I first

577
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: got to Meg's house, yeah, we would drink in and

578
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: we would drinking and you know, oh my gosh, it

579
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: was such a situation and it was such a problem

580
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: because I looked up and Meg's wig was like twisted

581
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: to the side, and I had to fix it. I

582
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: had to fix it. This is like in the courtroom,

583
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: I had to fix it. Had you fix it? Right?

584
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: That apparently person who gave an account of what he

585
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: said said it like that. And then but then long

586
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: story short, he really did give a good account of

587
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: what happened, and then he walked out. He very very

588
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: nicely sachete out that courtroom. Honey, he was snatched. I

589
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: am at at him at all. I don't even know

590
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: his name, but baby, I saw the only thing I

591
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: saw about him was that he posted himself outside the

592
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: courtroom picture um no like you know, and with next

593
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: to um with law and Order music on top of

594
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: it is. And guess what he deserved it because he

595
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: apparently his testimony was really um what like turned the jury.

596
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: That is funny. Yeah, but you know, of course people

597
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: were mad because he was out there, you know, showing

598
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: off and chasshay in and making light of something, and

599
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: you know, cannot just can we talk about how like,

600
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: why are people just always so mad about everything? Y'all

601
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: mad about being mad? Y'all just stay on mad streets.

602
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: It's just like people like just I want to complain

603
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: and criticize about everything. So I saw this story um recently,

604
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: and you can kind of speak to this that Equinox

605
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: posted something pretty much that they are not allowing new

606
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: sign ups for membership in the month of January because

607
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: they're like these New Year's resolutions, like people like you're

608
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: not they're they're pretty. Like the gist of it, I

609
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: should probably read it just um, you know, to be accurate.

610
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: But the gist of it is like, um, no, we

611
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: don't want you to make a new Year's resolution and

612
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: all of a sudden join the gym and like fall off,

613
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: Like we don't fall off in February and cancel your

614
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: membership in February, right exactly. So of course there was

615
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: like a little uproar about that. People, I'm mad at that. No,

616
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: I appreciate that exactly. So I wanted to ask you

617
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 1: what you thought about because my thought is, like that

618
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 1: makes so much sense, because how do I want to

619
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: read exactly what I said? So equos, Rob got a

620
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: new phone case. It's really pretty. I think you got

621
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 1: a new phone. Thank you, thank you. Yes, I have

622
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh we gotta talk about this phone. I have the

623
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: Big fourteen fourteen, the fourteen pro max ro Max. Ye,

624
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: your handglas are hurting. My hand has been heard, and

625
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: I told you this ship. My hand hurts like I

626
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: gotta exercise my hand. So I'm I'm literally I have

627
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Speaker 1: to downgrade. So I Rob needs to make fun of

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Speaker 1: me because I have a thirteen Mini. I have a

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Speaker 1: Mini phone because it's like the size back in the

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Speaker 1: day of the phones, which are small you can hold

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Speaker 1: it in one hand. And I got the Mini because

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Speaker 1: my hand was hurting on the bigger owns. So y'all

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Speaker 1: can miss me with the programs. You didn't even have

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Speaker 1: the Max, you just had the regular one, and that

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Speaker 1: ship hurt. Yeah. Yeah, like this, It is unbelievable how

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Speaker 1: much my hand like just from holding it, Like I

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Speaker 1: find an article because we don't. I don't even you

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Speaker 1: don't even need to read the article. I can tell

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Speaker 1: you how I feel about that. I'm sorry, I just okay,

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Speaker 1: let me just say this. I went to the gym

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Speaker 1: this morning and my normal class, which I be bop

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Speaker 1: in at the last minute, Yeah, there was no room

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Speaker 1: for me, right because everybody has joined the gym. I

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Speaker 1: go to Equinox, by the way, I've been a member

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Speaker 1: since I don't know, I've been a member of like

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Speaker 1: fifteen years. And yeah, I was mad about that, but

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Speaker 1: of course they made room. However, all of y'all johnny

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Speaker 1: come lately. January sign ups get out, and then it's

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Speaker 1: counterintuitive to like New Year's resolutions. Yeah, I know, your

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Speaker 1: new resolution is you want to work out, Yeah, try

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Speaker 1: to get in February. Right, So the post as we

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Speaker 1: don't speak January. We're not accepting new memberships today. It's

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Speaker 1: not you, it's January. January is a fantasy delivered to

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Speaker 1: your door in a pastel colored box. It talks about change,

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00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: It needs a new outfit before it, but can begin

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Speaker 1: shortcutting giving up just a few weeks later. You are

657
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Speaker 1: not a new Year's resolution. Your life doesn't start at

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Speaker 1: the beginning of the year. And that's not what being

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Speaker 1: part of Equinox is about. Yes, we go beyond what's possible.

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Speaker 1: We defy expectations. We are not moderation. We want it

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Speaker 1: all every day and you deserve it all. At Equinox,

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Speaker 1: we don't speak January, and neither do you. We look

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Speaker 1: forward forward to welcoming you to our Equinox community tomorrow

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Speaker 1: February right, so December. So people are literally of course, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm a person, I'm in All Access MX Platinum member,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to support a gym that shames

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Speaker 1: people for setting fitness goals during any month of the year.

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Speaker 1: It can have a large public health impact for a

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Speaker 1: gym to support their members, even if drop off after

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Speaker 1: no that's not even good for their bottom line exactly,

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Speaker 1: it messes up their numbers. Yes, then this other person

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Speaker 1: didn't realize the health club would be so vehemently against

673
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Speaker 1: people trying to improve their health and well being. Like like,

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Speaker 1: shut up, it just shut up. You weren't gonna join anyway, exactly,

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Speaker 1: you sit on your couch. Okay, so arky, but equinocs

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Speaker 1: that makes sense. You don't want all these new people

677
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Speaker 1: to sign up in January and cancel in June boom right.

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Speaker 1: You don't want all these new people to make your

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Speaker 1: members that have been committed and been there all the

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Speaker 1: time every day like you gisell like uncomfortable and have

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Speaker 1: you know, like then that's going to make them leave

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Speaker 1: exactly and go somewhere else that's not as crowded like

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Speaker 1: all that type stuff. I get it, Like people shut up, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but my paint is we're in a bunch, And I

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Speaker 1: know I don't like when people's pants in a bunch,

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Speaker 1: But my paints were in a bunch. Yes, so Rolling Stones,

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Speaker 1: who we we enjoyed, respect them, by the way. By

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Speaker 1: the way, speaking of respect, um, Vanity Fair put out

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Speaker 1: an article. Did we talk about that didn't. Vandy Fair

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Speaker 1: put out an article of the top twenty two shows

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Speaker 1: twenty three shows. No, no, no, I'm sorry, it's just

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Speaker 1: the top. I think it's top twenty two shows of

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Speaker 1: two and I do believe the only reality show on

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Speaker 1: the list was The Real Housewives of What That was

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Speaker 1: amazing and that's Vanity Fair and Vandy Fair is extremely reputable.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Vanity Fair. We love you. Yes, it was

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Speaker 1: the best twenty three shows. Okay, So we love that,

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Speaker 1: thank you. We appreciate that we were the only reality

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Speaker 1: TV show. Yes, okay, So Rolling Stones who we we

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Speaker 1: we you know, we think that they know what they're

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Speaker 1: talking about. They updated their two hundred greatest Singers of

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Speaker 1: all time? Yes, okay, so I have beef. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna give you. I didn't look at it,

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Speaker 1: but I heard the uproar. Okay. So I read this

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Speaker 1: number one, Whitneys number two, Sam Cook number three, Billy

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Speaker 1: Holiday number four, Mariah number five, Ray Charles as a

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Speaker 1: Little Suspect number six, Stevie Wonder seven, Beyonce eight, Oldest

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Speaker 1: Reading to nine al Green Town? What's the criteria? Where's

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Speaker 1: but you know what my beef is? What is my

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Speaker 1: beef robbing. Um, I mean, Adele, where's the town? Right?

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Speaker 1: Where is Celene Dion? Well, Selene Dion is not on

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Speaker 1: the list at all apparently right, Yes, I'm just dealing

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Speaker 1: with the I don't know the rest of the list

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Speaker 1: because they said two hundred Selene gotta be on the list.

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Speaker 1: I heard that she's not on the list, like at all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I everybody had issue with Mariah Carey and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why do you have issu with Mariah? Maria

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Speaker 1: can blow oldest reading and Al Green? Yeah, I need

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Speaker 1: to know the criteria? Does this say the criteria? Like

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Speaker 1: what it says greatest singers of all time? Like? What

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Speaker 1: are we basing it on their voice? Just their voice?

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Speaker 1: Is it on their their voice? Their music? There? You

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Is or is it just the voice?

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Speaker 1: I think it's just the voice like a wreathing Whitney. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I give you all that, even though I think Whitney

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Speaker 1: need to be number one to read the two that's

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Speaker 1: just my opinion. But Adele definitely needs to be needs

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Speaker 1: to be top ten because like let me knock out

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Speaker 1: Otis Red and Al Green, Billy Holliday great, Um, but

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Speaker 1: you know who else needs to be Sam Smith? Have

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Speaker 1: you ever heard him live? Sam Smith's voice is unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: He's not on there? No, Well, I read a minute,

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Speaker 1: so apparently it says the list rolling Stone. This is

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Speaker 1: a headline rolling Stone two Greatest Singers list snubs. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Celine Dion, Jennifer Hudson, She another one that needs to

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Speaker 1: be on the list, Justin Bieber, which cares and more. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so the list excluded powerhouses like Celine Dion, Pink just there,

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Hudson, Janet Jackson, Tony Bennett, Madonna, net can Call,

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Speaker 1: Dion Warwick and more. Where's a Dell? No, that's that.

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Speaker 1: These are people who were snubbed. So where is she? Ye?

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Speaker 1: Where's it? So? Like I need to talk to where's

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Speaker 1: the meeting that Rolling Stones had? I want to be

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Speaker 1: in the meeting because apparently y'all don't know what y'all

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00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: talking about. Okay, what are y'all talking about? Yeah? This

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00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: is crazy. I need to see this full list because

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Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, it's yeah, where is a Dell? Um?

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Speaker 1: Where is Ashley Darby with coffee and love? Where's that?

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00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: I mean? Geez? I mean she's can you please Selene

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Speaker 1: Dion what okay, Adele is not even top twenty. Wow. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so Rolling Stone, we're done with you. As a matter

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Speaker 1: of fact, you should be my show is Honestly, I

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00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: feel like their credibility is like out the door with this. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you're in the toilet. This is ridiculous, this is crazy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we have some advice. I mean, somebody wrote in

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Speaker 1: they want and they need advice. Okay, So I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: read this to you. It's very short. I think it's

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Speaker 1: a man. Name is Tyler Erskin. I think Okay, so

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00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: I go by ty. I love R H O P

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Speaker 1: and the podcast. I'm a third two year old comedian

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Speaker 1: and I'm about to pop the question to my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: of ten months. My sisters, especially the youngest, and my

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Speaker 1: mom love my girlfriend. However, the transition to marriage is

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Speaker 1: hard for them. Dealing with all these emotions from women

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Speaker 1: are tough. What advice do you have for this transition

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Speaker 1: and what advice do you have for our marriage? So

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Speaker 1: my advice for the marriage it is to not listen

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Speaker 1: to your mama and your sisters right, leave them out

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Speaker 1: of your marriage. And then as you transition from being

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Speaker 1: I guess uh boyfriend. You're now a spouse. You now

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Speaker 1: have to take this other person's advice and thoughts and

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00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: everything into consideration before you make decisions. It's all about compromise, right. Well,

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Speaker 1: what I love is that he's thinking about his mom

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Speaker 1: and his sister, you know, so you can tell he's

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Speaker 1: probably close to them, right, and he values their feelings

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00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: and their their opinions and wants them to continue to

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Speaker 1: be close to him and can you to continue to

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Speaker 1: be like a big part of his life. So um,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. But you know the fact is, once

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Speaker 1: you get married, yeah, your first priority is your wife.

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Speaker 1: And if y'all are going through something, don't tell your

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00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: sister and your mama and your mother at the business,

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00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: because you know they might You might get over something, right, Um,

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00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: you might have a little spat and she might have

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Speaker 1: called you a name and you know, and then you're

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Speaker 1: going and tell your mom and your sister and they're mad, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and they're not gonna forget, right, and you get over it,

787
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: but they're they're not going to forget, and they're gonna

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00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: remind you any chance you get. Well, remember when she

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00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: said this and blah blah blah blah, so even though yeah,

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00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: they like her, they love her all that, um, just

791
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 1: do your best to keep them out of your business,

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00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: like real whatever it is. Like, don't like I don't

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00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: want to say like be secretive, but like literally like

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00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: don't tell them, only tell only tell them the good stuff. Yeah, yeah,

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00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: tell them the good stuff. And I wonder how the

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Speaker 1: wife or the the soon to be fiance feels about them,

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00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 1: you know, so it might yeah, because it goes both ways,

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00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,760
Speaker 1: right because if she doesn't like them, she gonna tell you.

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Speaker 1: And you don't want all that drama in your marriage, right,

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Speaker 1: Or it might just be worth a conversation just saying like, hey, babe,

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Speaker 1: you know you know, I'm really close with my mom

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00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 1: and my sister. Just want to see you know, how

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00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 1: you feel about our relationship, you know, once we get married,

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00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: and what boundaries you want to say? You know what

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00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: I mean? Just have about open conversations. Just talk you'll

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00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: talk on just talk about it. But but yeah, don't

807
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 1: go run into them with every little like nitpicky thing

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00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,919
Speaker 1: that you'll go through, because that that that's a kiss

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00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: of death. They will never forget. Literally, y'all can be

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00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: ten years into your marriage and they're going to be

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00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 1: like remember in when she said this, and well I

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00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: knew she wan't no good, you know, yeah, yeah, But

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Speaker 1: I do appreciate the question because I think that if

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Speaker 1: more people just kept stuff between them and their spouse,

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Speaker 1: we'd have some longer marriages. Very true. Yes, And don't

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00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: get on reality television. What's your business? Because that's listen

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Speaker 1: they're real kissing dad. Oh my gosh. All right, that

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Speaker 1: is our episode. We love y'all so much. Don't ever

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Speaker 1: forget to live your life, either reasonable or shorter. About

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