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Speaker 1: You've got to wait.

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Speaker 2: Wait.

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Speaker 3: Fred's show is on How Honest Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: A viral video shows a Southwest Airlines pilot telling passengers

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Speaker 4: that if they continue to air drop nude photos to

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Speaker 4: each other, he's gonna have to deeplay in the thing,

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Speaker 4: turn the thing around. I think I may have some

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Speaker 4: audio on this. Let me see if I here it is.

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Speaker 4: This is the actual Southwest pilot telling people, this is

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Speaker 4: the world that we live in. Please stop sending air

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Speaker 4: dropping nudes of yourself to other passengers on the plane.

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Speaker 5: Continues where we're on the ground, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna have to pull back to the game. Everybody's gonna

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Speaker 2: have to get off. We're gonna have sparity ball and

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Speaker 2: it's vacation.

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Speaker 6: That's gonna be room.

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Speaker 4: So your host, whatever that air drop thing is, let's

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Speaker 4: send a negga picture.

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Speaker 2: Let's get yourself to the commo.

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Speaker 7: Someone sounds mad that he's not getting he's not part

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Speaker 7: of the air drop team.

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Speaker 4: My air drops are open. It's been brought to my attention,

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Speaker 4: but nude to make sense to rebel cabin, I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: need to see those, so I can You're gonna need

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Speaker 4: to see them.

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Speaker 1: I can get you to Cobo a cobo.

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Speaker 4: You should get your bikini ready. Actually, Wax send that

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Speaker 4: over than me.

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Speaker 1: Ye, can we just get no, No, it's.

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Speaker 2: Me because I'm Captain Can on the air drop. Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much. Cross check, I don't know whatever.

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Speaker 1: Whatever they say, Yeah, they do say that.

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Speaker 4: Finn attendance, please prepare for a crush check. You gotta

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Speaker 4: talk like that. You gotta put the micro If you're

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Speaker 4: a pilot, you got to put the microphone all the

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Speaker 4: way inside your mouth.

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Speaker 2: It's imperative. But this is the world that we live

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Speaker 2: in now.

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Speaker 4: You can't even just sit on the plane and mind

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Speaker 4: your own Businessess, I'm not trying to send you a nude.

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Speaker 4: And I don't understand the endgame. You're gonna get caught,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna get labeled as a creep. It's not worse.

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Speaker 4: And what do you think it's gonna do you know

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Speaker 4: someone's sitting there trying to enjoy their you know, ginger

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Speaker 4: ale or whatever. They're gonna be like, oh wow, that's

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Speaker 4: a very good looking part. I would love to meet

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Speaker 4: this man and make love to him. Like, I don't

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Speaker 4: understand what you think is gonna happen, Like, are they

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Speaker 4: changing the name of their phone to like their seat number, like.

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Speaker 2: Be six by the way. Photo by the way.

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Speaker 4: All this does is reiterate my point that the airport

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Speaker 4: is a horny place. It's a horny place. I don't

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Speaker 4: know why. It's a sexually charged place. You know, it's

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Speaker 4: you got strangers everywhere. It's like you may never see

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Speaker 4: these people again. I don't know. I don't know. Jason,

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Speaker 4: you agree, don't you?

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Speaker 8: I think the airport bathroom is a horny place. Okay,

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Speaker 8: that's that wasn't no? People be looking? Yeah, people be looking. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 8: that's not what I meant. I meant just to you

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Speaker 8: know the in open public areas. Look you you know

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Speaker 8: when you get the stair police bathroom.

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Speaker 4: In jail exactly it comes in. So you're Jason, you're up.

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Speaker 4: You're publicly admitting that you you you get to you

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Speaker 4: take a peek at other men?

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Speaker 2: Well then yeah, guess I mean it happens. Yeah whatever, standing.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that a no?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: Where you're going where.

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Speaker 2: You have to fill it out? I'm moving, I'm moving

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Speaker 2: my Sometimes people want you to look.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't going to Kansas City, but I see that

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Speaker 4: you're going to Tampa. So I'm going to Tampa.

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Speaker 2: So but that's you know what.

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Speaker 4: It's funny women have asked me that question before, like

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Speaker 4: when when men are at the Year and old asked

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Speaker 4: because I'm a man, they'll be like, do you look

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Speaker 4: at other men? And the answer is no, and you

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Speaker 4: don't want to. Generally, you don't want to get caught

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Speaker 4: looking at somebody else. You're Cubs game, that would be

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Speaker 4: a more obvious place because there's no divider.

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Speaker 2: It's a big drawing wants you to see at a

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Speaker 2: Cubs game. There to your enirement that people want to.

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Speaker 4: You're saying, airport bathroom is a place where Okay, I

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Speaker 4: didn't know this, I'm learning and there in the bathroom

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Speaker 4: of Rosco's did you go there? Okay?

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Speaker 9: Game?

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying there are environments and.

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Speaker 10: Situations that the airport is it like some people just

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Speaker 10: want and how do you okay, as a gay man,

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Speaker 10: how do you know is there like a look I'm looking?

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Speaker 4: But how do you know when that's when it's invited?

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Speaker 4: Eye contacts?

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Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, so there is a consent of some sort

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Speaker 11: like oh yeah, okay, let me.

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Speaker 4: Tell you I never looked at any one in the

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Speaker 2: I've got a mail flight.

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Speaker 4: Like right the guy, the guy in the ramp hold like, yeah, straight, now.

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Speaker 3: You're in.

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Speaker 11: Okay, you're there, you're the you're gonna see I'm giving.

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Speaker 2: You up killing. I want to see what you think

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Speaker 2: it looks like standing.

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Speaker 4: Like that. Let me see that a big one, because

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Speaker 4: such a thing like that.

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Speaker 1: Because the splash back, you got to lead home.

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Speaker 2: I touched them. Yeah, for sure, you lean because I

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Speaker 2: don't want to say on the floor. I like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm the least I'm like so far into a touching.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you why I'm not because of the

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Speaker 4: splash back. I'm not fur away exactly. If it winds

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Speaker 4: up on the floor and then it does peeing all

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Speaker 4: over the floor in the bathroom five, there's a pie

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Speaker 4: p in that back.

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Speaker 12: Stand up.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how this.

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Speaker 4: I'm not getting splash back of strangers on my clothes

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Speaker 4: in your period.

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Speaker 11: You're the person that you're going to ask if I

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Speaker 11: have consent via yeah, yes.

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Speaker 2: We're peeing. We're paying hands as soon as your hands free.

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Speaker 2: Where do you think the p is going? If you're

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Speaker 2: not if you're not aiming, okay, if you don't have

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Speaker 8: You're already inviting me to look.

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Speaker 2: You're pointing down. You have to like time it out right,

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Speaker 2: like the long time. If I'm standing at.

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Speaker 13: If you're standing there for a really long time, you're like, okay,

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Speaker 13: this is a really time you know, to one of these.

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Speaker 13: And then when you when you make that content and

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Speaker 13: you like look away, but then they like slow our

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Speaker 13: eyes went again. Maybe you want me to say yeah,

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Speaker 13: and then you start pointing, and now it's not ridiculous.

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Speaker 7: The only thing killing you're missing. You gotta make some

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Speaker 4: Thing. You gotta drop your pants all the way that

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Speaker 4: don't use don't don't use singers you can.

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Speaker 11: I do know that you just got bare ass at

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Speaker 11: the there hangers hooks.

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Speaker 2: What do you think I don't use the public restaurants

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Speaker 2: or it takes too much fluid?

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Speaker 12: Yes, I know.

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Speaker 4: I don't have a lot of time in the commercial

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Speaker 4: breaks to completely just robe the way that you're supposed to.

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Speaker 7: And then if it's not an automatic flush, you got

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Speaker 7: to kick your foot.

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Speaker 2: Up like this.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that I do do in the women.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want to touch any.

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Speaker 1: Of that m And then do I shake it off.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you shake it to make sure this too, because

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Speaker 4: how long are you shaking it?

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Speaker 14: Like?

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Speaker 1: Maybe you know this just to me?

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Speaker 2: Are you sure about this or is this just your

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Speaker 2: sexy dream?

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Speaker 4: I don't I know about this.

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Speaker 8: Airport is a gateway for it was my first leg perience,

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Speaker 8: you know something like that.

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Speaker 2: No, not an airport, somewhere else. Stop. Yeah, in the bathroom, so.

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Speaker 1: Your first gigs. And someone was like, yes, look at me.

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Speaker 14: Now that you are.

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Speaker 15: You know what?

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Speaker 2: That looks an awful like a decent explosion. It looks

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Speaker 2: like it's the Fresh show. This is what's trending a woman.

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Speaker 2: This is for you, Kalin.

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Speaker 4: A woman warns both close and estranged friends not to

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Speaker 4: invite her to weddings or baby showers if they aren't

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Speaker 4: regularly inviting her to movie night's, coffee runs or lunch dates.

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Speaker 4: She thinks an invitation is just for the sake of

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Speaker 4: receiving a gift. In a TikTok, the woman said, don't

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Speaker 4: invite me to baby showers, weddings, house swarming parties. If

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Speaker 4: you don't invite me to other stuff movie nights, girls'

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Speaker 4: night out, dinner, coffee dates to lunch, it's extremely offensive

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Speaker 4: to pressure somebody into spending money on life milestones without

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Speaker 4: including them in your life's professions. Oh that is period,

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Speaker 4: it's what she said. Other people commented that they are

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Speaker 4: sick of people desiring their presence only at important events

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Speaker 4: how I only get invited when my presence requires that

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Speaker 4: I bring a gift. Another said I couldn't have said

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Speaker 4: this better. I feel this so deeply on many levels.

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Speaker 4: Another praised people, saying, preach love this. Yes, a lot

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Speaker 4: of people, I guess can relate to the idea that

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Speaker 4: from somebody who I don't even know if they really

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Speaker 4: think you're going to show up or not, but but

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Speaker 4: going to feel some obligation to send something at least

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Speaker 4: right yep, But I want to know how to eight

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Speaker 4: five five five one three five you get text the

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Speaker 4: same number. By the way, how do you treat that

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Speaker 4: that random invitation? Because I've gotten invited in more than

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Speaker 4: one thing before that included it was like an email invitation,

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Speaker 4: or even if it was a written invitation, and then

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Speaker 4: it included like some form of link you know to

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Speaker 4: to Here's how you can donate to our honey fund.

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Speaker 4: Here's here's an easy way for you to send a present.

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Speaker 4: And I haven't heard from this person in years, so

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you don't you don't care one way or

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Speaker 4: another if I actually show up, I don't think right,

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Speaker 4: but you definitely want to get something out of me.

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Speaker 4: I feel this, But how do you treat how do you?

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Speaker 4: I mean, are the people as offended?

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Speaker 2: Are they?

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Speaker 4: Or are you guys as I'm enthusiastic about the idea

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Speaker 4: of like forget about it. If I don't see you regularly,

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Speaker 4: then I'm not going or is it like no, I'll

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Speaker 4: just I'll acknowledge I once knew this person, so I'll

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Speaker 4: acknowledge their special occasion.

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Speaker 2: For me.

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Speaker 4: I don't like, I love a party. I don't mind.

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Speaker 7: Like it doesn't bother me that I if I really

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Speaker 7: don't talk to somebody in whatever, like on a normal basis,

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Speaker 7: and they invite me to their wedding or a house

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Speaker 7: arding party, I'm going to bring a gift and have

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Speaker 7: a good time. Like that doesn't it really doesn't bother me?

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Speaker 7: Like especially if like I invited them to our like

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Speaker 7: they were at my wedding and I was at their wedding,

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Speaker 7: so we do have history.

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Speaker 4: Like I actually feel sometimes.

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Speaker 7: I get more mad if I don't get an invite

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Speaker 7: to Like if I had history with somebody in the

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Speaker 7: I'm like, Damn, that's kind of like, like yes, like

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Speaker 15: I think I'm supposed to be invited everywhere, Like I

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 15: I just feel like, like, dang, I thought we were

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Speaker 15: Love like every like I'm coming to people's stuff. I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know you got I'm kind of relieved

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Speaker 4: And you know what I mean, Like there was a

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Speaker 7: Right, like wai, like they invite wasn't even there like

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Speaker 4: You know, yeah, like give me the chance to say hell, no, hey,

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Speaker 4: so figure good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey. Does it

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Speaker 16: It's that they want. They just want gifts because they

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Speaker 16: Then they won't invite you, but then something big do

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Speaker 12: Yeah again, I mean.

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Speaker 11: But what if you mean I have a big impact

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Speaker 4: That could be, or if we don't live in the

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Speaker 4: but I'm not expecting to get invited in you know,

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Speaker 4: I don't so if someone got married like that, then

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Speaker 4: I would expect to.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just I guess it's case by case.

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Speaker 15: It's tough though, because you're kind of offended if you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's true. Yeah, it's true, Sophia. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I have a good Yeah, as long as I can

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Speaker 4: send a gift. Actually for me, if I can send

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Speaker 4: I'm fine with that.

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Speaker 2: So I'm actually the opposite.

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Speaker 16: Wow.

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Speaker 4: But I can remember in my in my mid to

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Speaker 4: why I say this topic is for you, Kitalin, because

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Speaker 2: Hey, Cam, all right, good morning.

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Speaker 4: I can good morning. This woman went viral on TikTok

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Speaker 4: because she's like, look, if you don't invite me to

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Speaker 4: then then don't send me an invitation to baby showers,

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Speaker 4: weddings or house rumming parties, because why would I go.

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Speaker 4: I barely know you. I know why because you want

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Speaker 18: I've been feeling that way probably the past year or two.

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Speaker 18: I feel like I don't see my friends on the regular,

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Speaker 18: but I'm getting these invites to baby showers in particular,

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Speaker 12: And then from there, like.

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Speaker 18: I don't meet the baby.

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Speaker 18: even see you. Yeah, so I agree. I mean, I

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Speaker 18: don't know. People have different things going on with their lives,

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Speaker 17: Show up for you.

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Speaker 2: So I agree. I agree, Thank you, cam have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Of course you do.

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Speaker 4: But that's my thing, is like I don't That's why

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Speaker 4: for me if I ever got married, if it were

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Speaker 4: two or three really close friends. I'm talking about fewer

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Speaker 4: that person, and that person. So for me at this

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Speaker 4: I mean, because I don't want to have to play

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Speaker 4: this game where like you know this mentor of mine, Well,

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Speaker 4: I thought we were closer and people get their feelings

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Speaker 4: certain they would have won. This is the opposite of this.

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Speaker 4: This is somebody who would have wanted to go, and

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Speaker 4: I don't want any gifts, so I don't care about that.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm gonna be so offended if I'm not their friend. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but like, don't send me. I don't need you to

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Speaker 4: I don't need you to send me a I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I'm I China.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like I'm It's not about the presence

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Speaker 4: And I'm having it on Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: But if you want to Lobe, I think you should

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Speaker 4: Hey Kylie, Hey, Hi morning, Kyle. I have felt this

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 20: So we got a wedding invite for someone that we

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Speaker 20: We don't even know how they had our new address,

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Speaker 4: They had leftover, they had already committed to a certain

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Speaker 21: Yep, yep.

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Speaker 4: And that means they didn't really care if you were

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Speaker 4: there or not. But you definitely are there to write

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Speaker 4: a check. That's what that means. One hundred percent yep.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: And I'm still going to drink all that alcohol for free.

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Speaker 7: I'm telling you that.

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Speaker 4: But it's not free because you got to show up

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Speaker 2: It is not free in the fact.

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Speaker 20: No, we didn't even respond one way or not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not doing it. Thank you, Covin.

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Speaker 1: Let's tech.

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Speaker 2: You had a good day. No, this happened to me,

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Speaker 2: I don't. You weren't on the show yet.

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Speaker 4: This happened to me a couple of years ago where

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Speaker 4: in her family, and she's like, hey, will you be

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Speaker 4: say hell no to her. I politely declined because I

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Speaker 4: had a conflict, which I did. But you're inviting me

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Speaker 4: seven days before. She's never been married before, so this

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Speaker 4: is the sister's first wedding too. So you're inviting me

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Speaker 4: to the biggest occasion in your family history, modern history,

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Speaker 4: seven days before somebody mailed on you.

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Speaker 2: There's no way another plan.

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Speaker 7: As the maid of honor, you're doing a lot of things.

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Speaker 4: Don't tell me that you didn't have any concept of

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Speaker 2: So what's the timeframe? Hanky? Fine advance? Do I need

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Speaker 4: Like, Hank, you can't defend this. Seven days is not

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Speaker 4: seven days for me. It was in a different state,

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Speaker 4: by the way. Okay, Well, so she thought not only

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Speaker 4: thought it was a little I thought it was a

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Speaker 4: hey it was it was like a Sunday. Literally, It's like, hey, Saturday,

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Speaker 4: my sister's getting married in this other place.

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Speaker 2: Uh, will you be my date?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't you had you were going to

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Speaker 4: was for it.

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Speaker 15: I invite big timis of an hour before we go.

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 4: It's not your wedding, but it's not your sister's wedding.

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Speaker 2: Oh come on, I don't think she's arrogant.

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Speaker 4: Yes, arrogant, because I don't think she I don't think

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Speaker 4: she expected me to say no.

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Speaker 7: You should be a lot of somebody. You should be

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Speaker 7: happy you made the list. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 7: who do I want to buy?

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Speaker 4: This?

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Speaker 2: Word?

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Speaker 14: Like?

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Speaker 21: Is a good time?

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Speaker 2: Maybe we'll smash later, let's go. You said you probably

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Speaker 2: would have thought of that.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know, say when she got engaged, or

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Speaker 4: maybe I don't know a month or two ahead of

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Speaker 4: time you might have thought. I mean, you're assuming I

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Speaker 4: got an outfit that fits. You're assuming. Let me ask

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Speaker 4: you a question that express the day of I shouldn't

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Speaker 4: have to. Oh my, let me ask you guys this.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask you guys this, and then I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: wrap it up. If we're Shelley here, we're Shelley. Hold

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Speaker 4: on this time, push.

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Speaker 14: Hold on, I.

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Speaker 2: Can't, I gotta put again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here's my question to you, guys, and I already

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Speaker 4: know the answer. This is rhetorical. If I came in here,

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Speaker 4: you know, my sister got married two years ago. If

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Speaker 4: I came in here and said, it's a Monday and

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Speaker 4: the wedding is a Saturday, and I came in here

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Speaker 4: and said, guys, I just invited uh someone to my

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Speaker 4: sister's wedding, which is on Saturday in Arizona, you guys

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Speaker 4: would say that is so rude. No. No, she has

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Speaker 4: no time. She has no time to get to figure

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Speaker 4: out how to get there. She has no time to

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Speaker 4: get an out of their she has your year clause.

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Speaker 4: You're expecting that you could ask someone to a major

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Speaker 4: family my also in six days in advance. That is rude.

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Speaker 4: Miss rid You guys, I'm sorry, but I stand by this.

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Speaker 4: I'm one ercent right.

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Speaker 7: I would ask I want to ask how many I

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Speaker 7: want to ask how many people did you ask before hers?

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Speaker 4: No, she absolutely had another date and decided not to

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Speaker 4: take him into the last minute, which means that was

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Speaker 4: not her first choice.

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Speaker 1: Who cares that?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you no choice? You were leads. I was the

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Speaker 2: last choice. I was be team that best.

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Speaker 1: You guys weren't dating.

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Speaker 2: It's okay.

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Speaker 4: I think I thought it was rude. I didn't like

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Speaker 4: it was rude. I like, I didn't go thank you, Shelly.

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Speaker 4: Don't tell me, Shelley, do not tell me. You wouldn't

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Speaker 4: be like, well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, take that aside. Do you like this girl? Like

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Speaker 1: you said you liked it?

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Speaker 22: Right?

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Speaker 1: She seems like a good person.

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Speaker 14: I thought.

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Speaker 2: I held her to hire regard.

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Speaker 4: I don't think it would be cool for me to

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Speaker 4: do this to somebody else, So I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't. I don't think it would be cool.

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Speaker 11: Maybe who knows what kind of bind she got caught in,

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Speaker 11: but she wanted you there.

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Speaker 2: I don't know somebody else that you're much into this.

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Speaker 7: She invited you to a wedding, So what if it

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Speaker 7: was seven days out?

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Speaker 2: She invited you. That's it because the other guy who

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Speaker 2: she invited five days ahead of time?

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Speaker 1: Assumption?

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Speaker 18: Right?

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Speaker 2: Who knows?

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Speaker 1: Can we talk about poop again? I don't want to

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Speaker 1: know about weddings anymore.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that we've had a number of days

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Speaker 4: of conversation worth of Well, Shelley, you have stomach issues.

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Speaker 1: I know that I have the opposite problem.

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Speaker 11: I always say I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: You know that's all right, all right, showdown. I love

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Speaker 4: you guys. But I'm one percent right here, and I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I'm not always one hundred percent right. Sometimes I'll sell

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Speaker 4: my I'll sell the idea like I really believe in it,

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Speaker 4: but I don't today I'm right.

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Speaker 11: So this sample group means nothing to you saying my

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Speaker 11: question is question.

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Speaker 2: Because our text is blowing up with people agreeing with me,

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Speaker 2: it's over.

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Speaker 1: Well did you know you would probably know?

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Speaker 7: Did you ever follow up after the wedding like hey,

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Speaker 7: you want to hang out?

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Speaker 2: Like? Hey, you know?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: But I never heard from her either, So I was

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Speaker 2: that important?

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Speaker 1: That so apparent she was like, oh no, this she.

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Speaker 2: Did that to herself. I didn't do that. I do

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Speaker 2: you is all of a sudden a phone call?

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Speaker 4: Can you come to the biggest occasion in my family's history.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you know her, Maybe she doesn't care about weddings.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it wasn't right.

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Speaker 15: Maybe they got closer to the day found out that

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Speaker 15: you can't bring a date. You know what?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 2: And then, oh, you know what, let me call friend.

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Speaker 2: Of course she knew the rules. You guys all people

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Speaker 2: I know, But friend, I can't ride with you on this.

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Speaker 2: I love a party, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Care if I'm I'm going, I'm drinking. I don't like

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Speaker 1: a party and I just.

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Speaker 2: Entertainment. Report is on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 11: Former Bachelorette star Katie Thurston sadly took to Instagram to

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Speaker 11: share that she was raped. She wrote, it took seven

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Speaker 11: months for the San Diego justice system to let me

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Speaker 11: down as a victim. The justice justice system continues to

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Speaker 11: let down victims every day. I refuse to feel defeated

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Speaker 11: and the strength it took to be an advocate for myself.

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Speaker 11: And she basically shared all this because she wanted to

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Speaker 11: help others if they were feeling alone, to find the

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Speaker 11: support they may need. She's not ready to share her story,

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Speaker 11: she says, but she wants to share some valuable resources

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Speaker 11: that saved her life.

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Speaker 1: You can go on her Instagram and check those out.

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Speaker 11: But she did think nurses other advocates before specifically sharing

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Speaker 11: how she feels like she was let down, and basically

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Speaker 11: said she had so many things text calls, photos, videos,

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Speaker 11: witnesses locations, timestamps, surveillance footage. I mean, she felt like

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Speaker 11: she did everything she was supposed to do as a victim,

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Speaker 11: but over and over again she was told the same thing.

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Speaker 11: A guilty verdict is hard in criminal court. So she

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Speaker 11: eventually things came to a halt. But she started in

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Speaker 11: season seventeen of The Bachelorette got engaged to Blake Moyin's.

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Speaker 11: They ended up getting engaged in the season finale, but

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Speaker 11: broke up in October of twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 1: I just checked her Instagram.

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Speaker 11: It seems like she's doing stand up now and I

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Speaker 11: think she's dating another comedian on there.

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Speaker 1: But check that out if you want to see any

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Speaker 1: of that.

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Speaker 11: Kendricks June teenth pop out concert continues to have a

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Speaker 11: really positive ripple effects on LA, bringing in two hundred

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Speaker 11: thousand dollars for twenty LA based charities and city community

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Speaker 11: initiatives like the Compton Girls Club.

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Speaker 1: If you missed it somehow, if you're.

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Speaker 11: Living under a rock, it you know, brought out some

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Speaker 11: of LA's biggest names. Dre Tyler, the creator ty Dallas sign.

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Speaker 11: Yeah he laughed, but he was mentioned. Yeah he was

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Speaker 11: mentioned again.

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Speaker 1: Mustard. I mean, there were a Ton. Wasn't Lebron there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And uh Russell Russell Westbrook was there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Lebron was there.

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Speaker 7: No, but Demarto Rosen who's also from Compton.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought, you know, okay, he wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Maybe because I have a story about him in a

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Speaker 1: couple of stories.

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Speaker 11: But Audrina Patridge is dating country singer Michael Ray. The

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Speaker 11: Hell's alum, shared a photo of her or on her

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Speaker 11: rather Instagram story. She was being held up by him,

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Speaker 11: had her legs wrapped around him, smooching.

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Speaker 1: She kept in the photo this one. Oh, okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if this is a right Michael Ray.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean there's only one Michael Ray.

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Speaker 11: He's just a random country singer. It's cute, but I

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Speaker 11: don't know, yeah, yeha. Audrina obviously dated Hill's co star

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Speaker 11: Justin Bobby Ryan Cabrera she dated, so she's like the

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Speaker 11: queen of the early two thousands. She was married to

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Speaker 11: a dude named Corey for two years, has a daughter

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Speaker 11: with him.

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Speaker 1: And then Michael Ray was married to Carly Pearce.

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Speaker 11: Oh and if you listen to Miss Carly's music, you

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Speaker 11: know that she doesn't fail too clean about Michael Ray.

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Speaker 11: She filed just eight months after they were married, so

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Speaker 11: some went down. But yeah, they're cute couple. They're both

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Speaker 11: really hot. Lebron James, this is why he was on

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Speaker 11: the mine. He opted out of the final year of

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Speaker 11: his contract with the Lakers, expected to re sign with

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Speaker 11: the team.

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Speaker 1: I think we thought this was happening.

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Speaker 11: This is just confirmation he would have made fifty one

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Speaker 11: point four million this season if he opted in. His agent,

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Speaker 11: Rich Paul said that Lebron could take a pay cut

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Speaker 11: to help the Lakers sign another impact player. Rich that

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Speaker 11: he's hoping to have a deal in place before Lebron

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Speaker 11: it leaves for training camp later this week for the

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Speaker 11: Paris Olympics.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he better hurry because dudes are signing everywhere left

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Speaker 7: and right.

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Speaker 4: Like Paul George is on the Sixers.

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Speaker 7: Now I saw that, like all the big names, like

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Speaker 7: you think you get Chris Paul is in the Spurs. Yeah, Russell, No,

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Speaker 7: James Harden is staying with the Clippers. So you better

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Speaker 7: you better act fast, because there ain't gonna be no

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Speaker 7: nobody left to join you, Lebron.

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Speaker 1: Who else would there be?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, he doesn't strike me as someone that would take

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Speaker 11: a pay cut Lebron.

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Speaker 23: Yeah, I mean it's gotta be some kind of deal, like, hey,

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Speaker 23: draft my son.

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Speaker 1: I'll take Oh my god, we're still Yeah. Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: like there's a lot of right, there's.

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Speaker 2: A lot of behind the scenes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my okay, Well that's on your sports report.

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Speaker 11: Catch up on everything you missed from the Fred Jhoe

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Speaker 11: on our free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if.

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Speaker 4: It's just me, but I feel like I have my

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Speaker 4: disproportionate amount of stories I think gives me. I think

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Speaker 4: it's because I'm way too I'm inquisitive to my own peril.

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Speaker 4: Like I ask questions I don't want the answer to

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Speaker 4: because it's I think it's wired in my brain. It's

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Speaker 4: who I have become. It's who I am. A curious person,

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Speaker 4: you know, and I make money. People call up here

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Speaker 4: and I talk to them, and if there's a you know,

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Speaker 4: if there's a little string, I pull on it see

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Speaker 4: what I can get. And I feel like you do

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Speaker 4: the same thing in my relationships, which is why occasionally

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Speaker 4: I'm considered inappropriate and a little invasive and interesting because

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Speaker 4: I just I'll just ask, I'll ask questions and I'll

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Speaker 4: you know, if you give me an inch, I'll try

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Speaker 4: and take a mouth see what I can find out

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Speaker 4: about you. I'm a very curious person, and so I

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Speaker 4: find out from this woman. I don't even know how

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Speaker 4: it came up. I think she was like, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: have a Delta buddy pass, which you And there's a

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Speaker 4: couple of different ways I guess that terminology could work.

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Speaker 4: Either you have a pass an individual pass given to

668
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 4: you by an employee, which means you can fly stand

669
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 4: by in this case, though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner,

670
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 4: this woman, so she gets a good one. Yeah, that's

671
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 4: the golden one. Yeah, that's the one where you know

672
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 4: you don't need an individual pat You show up and

673
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 4: it's almost you're the same as the employee the way

674
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 4: that I understand it, or the way you can list

675
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 4: yourself on flights to fly, because it's a privilege that

676
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 4: you would get if you were married to somebody who

677
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 4: works for the airline.

678
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 11: Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works

679
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 11: for Delta, but they they're not as good as they

680
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 11: seem to be.

681
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: But that's like the best one you can get.

682
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think you still run into the same

683
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 4: issues where you might get stranded, but nonetheless, you know

684
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 4: it's unlimited from the way I understand it, at least,

685
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 4: and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever, it

686
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,959
Speaker 4: doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been going

687
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 4: on for like ten years, she's been on this guy

688
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 4: or a long time, she's been on this guy's buddy list.

689
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 4: Has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.

690
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously,

691
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 4: right because and here I am trying to talk to her,

692
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 4: but it's like this, dude, he's he still got you

693
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 4: on his benefits. And she's like, well, my ex thought

694
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 4: the same thing. But this is all I'm going to say. Nothing,

695
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 4: nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with

696
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 4: this guy, yes, and for through multiple other boyfriends and

697
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 4: the amount of time he still hasn't removed her as

698
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 4: his domestic partner. So she must have some bomb dignity, yes,

699
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 4: I mean, and but why would you do that if

700
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 4: you had no hope of potentially reuniting. I mean, that

701
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 4: would be the if I broke up with somebody, even

702
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 4: if it were friendly. I still don't think that they

703
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 4: would be listed as my domestic partner. Because what happens

704
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 4: when I date somebody else and they're like, why can't

705
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 4: we go anywhere on your past? It's like, well, because

706
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 4: my ex is on it. That wouldn't work. I mean,

707
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 4: can you imagine if I don't know, like if I'm

708
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 4: a pilot, I meet some new woman and I'm like,

709
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 4: I'm into you.

710
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, my prime, the main.

711
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 4: Work benefit I have is still devoted to my ex girlfriend.

712
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 2: I don't think that would go.

713
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: No, but no, it would not go.

714
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 4: But he did get me thinking about what, like, what

715
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 4: is there any benefit that you are still receiving from

716
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,959
Speaker 4: an ex? And I'm not talking about like, you know,

717
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 4: child support. I mean I'm talking about, like, is there

718
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: anything that you're still getting from an ex that you

719
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 4: probably should get for yourself?

720
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: At this point? Is my question? Eight? Five five five

721
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: one three five.

722
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 4: In this case, this woman's flat around the world for

723
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 4: free because of a guy that she may or may

724
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 4: not have once hooked up with, who years later Steele

725
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 4: was giving her this benefit. Why would you do that

726
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 4: if you weren't trying to hang on to something right?

727
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't for her?

728
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: When did she say they stopped hooking up. Did she

729
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: say that she was not? She was not clear on that. Oh,

730
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 2: no clarity. Huh, she was not clear yesterday.

731
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,719
Speaker 4: I don't know meated people in between, you know. But

732
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 4: my thing is like I don't know if I had

733
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 4: some like free concert ticket benefit here where, like if

734
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 4: you knew me and you could just go to any

735
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 4: venue and get in, that's coming back with me, you.

736
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 2: Know what I mean, Like we're taking that.

737
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 4: No, you don't get to keep that after you break

738
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 4: up with me, because I don't want to have to

739
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 4: explain to the next girl. Yeah, And I know you

740
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 4: can only change them every now, and you can't. I

741
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 4: think it's every year. It depends on the airline. I

742
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 4: know you can't just like constantly be updating with new

743
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 4: domestic partners. But I mean, I think it's been long

744
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 4: enough where he could take her off if he wanted to.

745
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 4: Soone's this costco membership, Netflix subscription, nikor bill Oh.

746
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 2: Yeah text.

747
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 4: This text says the same thing. You can't constantly change

748
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 4: the domestic partner pass over to someone else. If you do,

749
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 4: the airline will flag it. Right they still hooking up, bro,

750
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 4: So for a certain period of time, I can see

751
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 4: why he wouldn't switch it because he can't. My ex

752
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 4: husband still has me listed it's hiss primary beneficiary in

753
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 4: his will.

754
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: Oh girl, yes.

755
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: You know mine.

756
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 11: I will have a free lawyer for the rest of

757
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:16,760
Speaker 11: my life.

758
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 2: High page. How are you?

759
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 4: I'm great? What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?

760
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 12: He is still paying for free music ad free music

761
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 12: for me, and I do still have his debit card

762
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 12: saved on my phone in my appay.

763
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 4: Let me ask you this page if you charge stuff

764
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 4: on it? Would he say anything?

765
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 12: I don't think he would because he does still try

766
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 12: to get back with me, so I don't think he

767
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 12: would say anything.

768
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 1: He knows I still have.

769
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 12: It on my phone, but.

770
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: Huh.

771
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 12: He still pay for my music every month.

772
00:34:55,920 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 4: So yeah, because if I, yeah, if I if your

773
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 4: credit card, if my credit card is on your phone

774
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 4: and I don't want to have some connection to you

775
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 4: or see you ever again, or whatever, then I change

776
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,919
Speaker 4: the card so that you can't share.

777
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

778
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 4: But I think that this is his way of hoping.

779
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 4: You know, it's like it's still attached in some way.

780
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean, I don't use it, but I just

781
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 12: I still have it there well, well, I want to

782
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 12: use it.

783
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 4: And I'm like, well, because you have no intention to

784
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 4: get back at him because you have integrity and rufo

785
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 4: doesn't he? Thank you have a good day. Yeah, glad

786
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,879
Speaker 4: you called. Thank you for listening. Hey Amber, good morning.

787
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 17: Good morning?

788
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 4: Hi Amber. What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?

789
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 2: So my divorce is.

790
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 12: Just finalized in July and I.

791
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,280
Speaker 18: Still have my phone totally paid for through his company?

792
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 4: Do you think that does he have any control that way?

793
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 4: Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he

794
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 4: can have access to what you're doing?

795
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 22: I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he

796
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 22: definitely was that kind of person.

797
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 17: But I'm taking it.

798
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 5: Man.

799
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 17: We've got four kids and I.

800
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 4: Would stay home on for sixteen years, So switching that

801
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 4: over it's been a slower process.

802
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 5: For me, and I'm going to take advantage of the fact.

803
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: That it's one less fillas to carry down.

804
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 4: Good for you, Amber, I'm just I'm paranoid. I would

805
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 4: I would figure somebody was doing that to to check

806
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,879
Speaker 4: out who I was texting, or you know what I mean,

807
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 4: you do it against me?

808
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

809
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's all good. It's over now, So Yeah, yeah, exactly.

810
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 4: Hamber enjoyed the single life. It's it's it's okay, it's

811
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 4: not bad, thank you, you'll be all right.

812
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 17: I'm enjoying it.

813
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.

814
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 4: He says, it's a crime. And I don't know how

815
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 4: old she is, but that must be wild. I mean,

816
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 4: can you imagine any more than ten years maybe even final?

817
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 4: What the threshold, let's just say ten Any more than

818
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 4: ten years of having not dated and then now dating.

819
00:36:56,040 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 4: It's a different world entirely. It's a whole different thing. Yeah,

820
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 4: it's really not.

821
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 11: Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and

822
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,959
Speaker 11: it seemed so scary, but it's really not. I feel

823
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 11: like people make it sound so bad.

824
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 2: It's scary. I wouldn't know what to do, like I

825
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't know the no.

826
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 11: I have seen you get hit on, and girl, you

827
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 11: know how to flirt back.

828
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's scary, it's it's just different.

829
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 4: It's really different. Yeah, I learn because you close with

830
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 4: big tis bout.

831
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 2: You right there? He his way to be a single

832
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 2: meal without me?

833
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 15: Yeah, man, yeah, I don't know you guys, I mean

834
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 15: Frand talking to Russians.

835
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 4: It's like, it's I'm still talking to the Russian.

836
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 2: I think I think she might be legit.

837
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 4: I'm not sure she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in

838
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 4: one of the pictures that she's because you know, I

839
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 4: made her send the she four fingers, she's from Michigan.

840
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: Supposedly, it's not a scammer. No one would choose that

841
00:37:58,840 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: this Russians.

842
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 4: From Michigan, apparently, but I made her hold up four fingers,

843
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 4: as you know. And then I had people. I had

844
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 4: people on the text line yesterday telling me, well, you know,

845
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 4: the scammers have like women on the ready to do

846
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 4: whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,

847
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 4: that that makes sense. I can see that. But why

848
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 4: would she wear a lion?

849
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: Switch?

850
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: All the NFL teams that scammers not picking the lions.

851
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: Please don't ever believe that.

852
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those

853
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 4: like donated switch. You know what her sweatshirt said Yon

854
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 4: super bowls him. I know she's not real. Let me

855
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 4: see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion.

856
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: Okay, I know this isn't real.

857
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 1: Where in Michigan does she say she's from?

858
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 2: Because I think I can help you Detroit.

859
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can

860
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 1: tell you.

861
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 11: She's trust that you can fit three Chicago's in Detroit.

862
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.

863
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 4: I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a

864
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 4: public meeting with a witness or something, and I'll wave

865
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 4: off the witness if I feel safe. I got you. Yeah, whatever,

866
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 4: she starts cutting down my organs, she'll run more.

867
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 2: Fread show next.

868
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 4: My show is on Good morning everybody. Thank you so

869
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 4: much for having us on. It's the Fred Show on

870
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 4: your radio. On your radio, also on the iHeart Radio

871
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,919
Speaker 4: app anytime live or later on search for the Fred

872
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 4: Show for that. Hello, Calen, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Rufio, Hi,

873
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 4: good morning.

874
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 2: Do you ever I'm sure I know the answer probably no.

875
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 4: Do you ever like see something play out in your

876
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 4: mind that could have happened, like a near accident, and

877
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:55,479
Speaker 4: then like almost feel the briefly the feeling of okay,

878
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 4: for example, this is what I'm talking about. So we

879
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 4: got the studio and then there's a studio, or we

880
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 4: go right out there and they got like big long

881
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 4: table there because you know, we got to have all

882
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 4: the communal space now around here for all the people

883
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 4: who don't come to work, right, you know, make the

884
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 4: studios as small as possible with no natural light, because

885
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 4: we got to conserve as much space as we can

886
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 4: for all the other people who might come to work.

887
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: I don't.

888
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 4: I haven't seen those people in three years, but they

889
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 4: may come, and when they do, make sure they have

890
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 4: an outside view. It's a natural life anyway. So on

891
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 4: that table, that's where we meet before the show, and

892
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 4: now all of our like coffee, and we leave our

893
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 4: stuff out there or whatever, because we used to bring

894
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 4: all that in here or you know, into the studio

895
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 4: where could spill them, you know, thousands of dollars worth

896
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 4: of equipment. But now we don't do that anymore. So

897
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 4: I walk out there and Pauline's purse is on one

898
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 4: of the chairs and like one of those hut it's

899
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:44,760
Speaker 4: like a high table you could stand at it correct

900
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 4: and it's purses like white. It's a nice purse and

901
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 4: it's wide open, and my coffee is about three feet

902
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 4: on the table from with purse. And in my mind

903
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 4: it didn't happen. But in my mind, I think, what

904
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 4: if I had just knocked that coffee over and it

905
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 4: just filled her expensive bag, not only ruining everything that's

906
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 4: in the bag, but then the bag itself potentially. Now,

907
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 4: that didn't happen, But for about ten seconds, I'm watching

908
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 4: this play out in my brain and I get the shivers,

909
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 4: you know the kind like where you're like, you know,

910
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 4: like I can't believe that didn't just happen. But I

911
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 4: saw it all play out in my mind and almost

912
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 4: had the reaction as if it did.

913
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 2: But it didn't.

914
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 24: Yeah, well, accidents happened, and I understand that, but yes,

915
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 24: would I be upset?

916
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 4: Yes, well, you don't have to be upset because it

917
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 4: didn't happen. But do you ever do you ever like

918
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 4: see something play out in your mind It didn't happen,

919
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 4: but you think about how it could have happened.

920
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 24: Car accidents all the time. Like if I almost get

921
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 24: you a car accident, I'm like, oh, this would have happened.

922
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 24: Then I'd be I don't know, the broken shoulder or something,

923
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:44,720
Speaker 24: and then I have to be at the body shop

924
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 24: all the time.

925
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 4: Well, god forbid you ever get in a car accident.

926
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 4: But if anyone in this room is going to hit

927
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 4: another car, it's you.

928
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:50,760
Speaker 2: Okay.

929
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 24: I hate that statement because I have never hit a car.

930
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 24: I'm always getting hit literally rear end it every time.

931
00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 4: That's probably because you're riding on the person's trunk in

932
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 4: front of you.

933
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 2: We're gonna say, ruvial.

934
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 7: I was gonna say, in your little scenario in your

935
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 7: mind over there, if in your mind the coffee does

936
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 7: spill and then you do whatever are you telling Paulina

937
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 7: in your mind?

938
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 2: Are you saying, of.

939
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 7: Course, you're just gonna I.

940
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 4: Don't think there's gonna be anything. I don't think there's

941
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 4: anything I could do. I think it's I would have

942
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 4: to own it, you know. But then sometimes what what

943
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 4: concerns me is that you, like, do you think these

944
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 4: things and then you know, to Paulina's point about manifesting them,

945
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 4: like if I think about it and then somehow like

946
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 4: you have this. Have you ever have you ever thought like, man,

947
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 4: I hope I don't trip and fall and spill this,

948
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 4: and then you wind up tripping and falling and spill

949
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 4: this because you almost willed it to happen.

950
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 14: Right.

951
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 2: I don't know why.

952
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 4: I don't know why this happened to me this morning,

953
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 4: but I just I'm sitting there drinking my coffee, like

954
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 4: what if this just went all over everybody's stuff, and

955
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 4: it's never happened, it's not gonna probably not gonna happen.

956
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 4: But then, like I said, for like ten seconds, I

957
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 4: almost felt the guilt and a shame that it had

958
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 4: that it had occurred.

959
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: The Frend Show is on. It's Stay or go. John

960
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 2: is here. Let's talk to John.

961
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 14: Hi.

962
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 2: John, morning, Hey, and good morning John.

963
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 4: We got your scenario, your situation, We have it here.

964
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 4: You can hit us up any anytime, all over the place.

965
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 4: Fredchowradio dot com, Fredschie Radio on Instagram and the DMS

966
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 4: or whatever.

967
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 2: So what's going on with you?

968
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 4: And we're gonna hear you out and then we're gonna

969
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 4: talk about you behind your back.

970
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 2: Go ahead, please, Okay, Well.

971
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 25: Thanks for taking my call. I don't know if I'm

972
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 25: just being paranoid about this, but my girlfriend has a

973
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 25: friend that she's really really close with, like you know,

974
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 25: like really almost as close as we are, but maybe

975
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 25: in some ways closer than the two of us are.

976
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 25: And you know, my girlfriend straight she's never had any

977
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 25: kind of history of of you know, a same sex relationship,

978
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 25: or at least she's never told.

979
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 4: Me, oh well, we're John all the way, like that close,

980
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 4: like we're going all the way there.

981
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

982
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 25: Yeah, well, I mean that's why I think it's a

983
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 25: little bizarre. But I'm wondering if their relationship is a

984
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 25: normal friendship between two women or if it's like something

985
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 25: more than that.

986
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 14: I don't know.

987
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 25: They yeah, they hang out all the time. Like if

988
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 25: she's not with me, she's with her, and they have sleepovers.

989
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 25: They're very affectionate and like she sent me you know,

990
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 25: video FaceTime her when they're having their sleepovers and they're

991
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 25: like they're not and she's not in a guest room,

992
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 25: they're in the same bed. And sometimes they you know,

993
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 25: the kiss to say hi and by not on the cheek,

994
00:44:43,920 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 25: on the lips and if they're yeah, okay.

995
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 4: All right, yeah what else? What other evidence you have here?

996
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 4: We need the whole story.

997
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 25: I mean, yeah, yeah, Well, if they're hanging out, they'll

998
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 25: sort of kind of cuddle or pickle each other's backs.

999
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 2: It's like really cute little qut stuff.

1000
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 25: Yeah, they play with each other. Hey, I've seen that

1001
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 25: we've been together before and watching a movie and she'll

1002
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 25: be you know, playing.

1003
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 5: With her hair.

1004
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,919
Speaker 25: They don't even they don't go to the bathroom without

1005
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 25: each other they're doing.

1006
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 4: Well that that's not uncommon. The bathroom thing is, I

1007
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 4: don't understand that. I mean, I understand the social aspect

1008
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 4: of it, but like I don't. I'm not like, rufi,

1009
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 4: let's go to the bathroom, pe next to each other, like.

1010
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: You're already You're already in the bathroom. Yeah, he always

1011
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 2: falls me in. It's weird. This isn't a this.

1012
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 25: Isn't a public restaurant talking about let me clarify that.

1013
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: Oh wait a minute, and yeah, like yeah, that's what h.

1014
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 4: Is.

1015
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 2: You're upset that you're not being included.

1016
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 4: Is that right?

1017
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 26: I think you the side piece, homie, I've got a girlfriend, Yes,

1018
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 26: do you actually like, does your gut tell you that

1019
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 26: there's a physical dynamic between the two of them?

1020
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 25: Sometimes yes and other times no. And I would say

1021
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 25: sixty percent of the time no, but than forty percent

1022
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 25: of time.

1023
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 4: Yet, would you consider that cheating if there were, if

1024
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 4: those two were getting it on, I don't know.

1025
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 25: That's I mean, yeah, yeah, I think so, because if

1026
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 25: it's not, if it was something that was communicated to

1027
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 25: me and I was like on the word, then yeah,

1028
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 25: of course. But if it's not like something that she's

1029
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 25: upfront with and it seems like it's being kept from me,

1030
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 25: which if it's not one, that's the other.

1031
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 4: Obviously, you know it has to be if they if

1032
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 4: they were straightforward with you. Let's say it is a

1033
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 4: physical relationship. Let's say it's a romantic relationship, were dabbles

1034
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 4: in that regard? Would you allow her to have that

1035
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 4: parallel to you? Would you allow her to have that

1036
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 4: with you? I mean, what do you do if you

1037
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 4: find out that this is in fact inappropriate.

1038
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 25: I think that if if it were and I was

1039
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 25: like allowed to be a part of it, I think I'd.

1040
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 2: Be a.

1041
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: Right, right, I don't know, I mean I do know.

1042
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 11: Like sometimes like Fred will talk about how like male

1043
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 11: female like traditional friendships. I guess you know, if this

1044
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 11: doesn't include you, please don't at me, but like are

1045
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 11: pretty different, Like you will be like, oh, you know,

1046
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 11: you sleep in the same bed as your girlfriend sometimes

1047
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 11: like I would never do that, or go into the

1048
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 11: bathroom like you and probably never do that, or like

1049
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 11: getting ready in the same room while someone's like showering.

1050
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 11: Guys would probably not do that. But if there's a

1051
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 11: ton of girls getting ready, it's not that odd.

1052
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 4: So I have to but if it feels like this

1053
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 4: is targeted towards one particular person, I mean, I guess

1054
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 4: if she was this way with a bunch of people,

1055
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 4: maybe you know, but like I mean, you're talking about

1056
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 4: sleepovers in the same bed with one woman. You're talking

1057
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 4: about kissing on her lips with one woman. You're talking

1058
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,959
Speaker 4: about you know, the old tickle trick.

1059
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: It is your friend?

1060
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 4: Is she straight?

1061
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 2: You're the friend the girl the other girl? Uh I know?

1062
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 7: Okay, huh So maybe they're maybe just you're just missing

1063
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 7: the signs man.

1064
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 4: Maybe they're trying to invite you any you're just not

1065
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 4: jumping on.

1066
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 2: My friends.

1067
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: Breathed my hair, I braided Paulina's here the other day.

1068
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 1: That would be playing with her hair.

1069
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 7: That was lobby right there sitting on the camera.

1070
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 2: Was not only fans.

1071
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 4: Yes, wow, Okay, so your gut tells you maybe, but

1072
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 4: you want transparency and you want communication. But it's also

1073
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 4: very well possible that this is just a close friendship

1074
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 4: and it has nothing to do with with sex at all.

1075
00:48:53,800 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 4: But okay, the friend, does the friendship itself threaten you?

1076
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 25: No, no, because we have a great relationship. But if

1077
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 25: if they were, if there was something that was lacking

1078
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 25: in a relationship that she was looking.

1079
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 2: For somewhere else.

1080
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 25: And also she's been like this like with her from

1081
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 25: what she tells me, like her entire life.

1082
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 4: So have you asked her about this? Have you said, hey, look,

1083
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 4: you know you guys seem awfully close, Like is there

1084
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 4: anything more going on there?

1085
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 14: Yeah?

1086
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 25: Yeah, calling a radio station is not my first option.

1087
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 2: Oh it's not.

1088
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 4: I mean we're not licensed at all. Now I am offended.

1089
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 4: So what does she say? You're crazy? You know, that's silly.

1090
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 4: We're just we're just friends.

1091
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 14: Yeah, she just kind of like laughed it off.

1092
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 25: She didn't come me crazy or anything, but she just

1093
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 25: like lass it off and you're being silly, and you know.

1094
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 4: Huh okay, all right, let me take some phone calls

1095
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 4: on this. Eight five five five three five. Maybe there's

1096
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 4: nothing to this man. Maybe it's maybe they're just they're

1097
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 4: just close, right, I mean, if she wanted to be

1098
00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 4: with her, she'd probably be with her.

1099
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: I feel like you, no, if they were like getting

1100
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 2: it on, getting it on, maybe not.

1101
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 7: And if it's not affecting your guys relationship, what's the issue,

1102
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying, Like, if you and your

1103
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 7: girlfriend are perfectly fine whatever in the bedroom and everywhere else.

1104
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 4: And I don't understand the issue. If she has a

1105
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 4: really close.

1106
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 2: Girlfriend, yeah, I guess you're spending a lot of time together.

1107
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 1: Would you be okay?

1108
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 15: If Jess was having sleepovers at her age, Yes, with

1109
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 15: her female Yes, I'm going to sleep at Kaylen's house.

1110
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's perfectly fine. Okay, Hey, John, let me take

1111
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,440
Speaker 4: some calls. Have a good day, man, good luck, and

1112
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 4: have the radio one. We're gonna talk about you right now.

1113
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 4: Behind your back, you can't say okay, okay, good thank

1114
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 4: you bye, have a good day. A text eight five

1115
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 4: five five three five. These girls have serious codependency issues,

1116
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 4: whether they went through a trauma together or neither of

1117
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 4: them have been in a serious relationship before, so they'd

1118
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 4: never had someone come before their friendship. I suppose that

1119
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 4: could be true.

1120
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 11: I have some friendships like that, Like we're codependent on

1121
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 11: each other for sure.

1122
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 4: And I guess if you, if you're relying on your

1123
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:12,760
Speaker 4: friend for a lot of the things that you should

1124
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,800
Speaker 4: be relying on your boyfriend for, then that's the problem.

1125
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 4: I mean, if she, if she you know, confides in

1126
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,959
Speaker 4: I mean, it's almost the non sexual stuff that would

1127
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 4: worry me more, Like do you confide in her when

1128
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 4: you should be confiding in me? Do you do you

1129
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 4: go to her when you're, you know, sad or feeling

1130
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 4: a certain kind of way for comfort when you should

1131
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 4: come to me, you know what I mean?

1132
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 2: Like that that would worry me more.

1133
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 4: I think I agree with that. That just some kind

1134
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 4: of weird physical relationship. Hey, Lauren, Hello, And I call

1135
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 4: it weird because it would be weird if you have

1136
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 4: a boyfriend and then you and then you have this

1137
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 4: sort of secret other physical thing.

1138
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: Well, what do you think, Lauren?

1139
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 5: I mean I think that she should say. I think

1140
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 5: that it's fine. I have a similar situation, except my

1141
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 5: trend is a gay man. Actually, and we I mean,

1142
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 5: we've been friends for more time than we've not been friends,

1143
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,959
Speaker 5: and it's.

1144
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 12: Very much.

1145
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 5: It's just a romantic friendship.

1146
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:18,439
Speaker 12: Like there's nothing.

1147
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 5: Sexual about it.

1148
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 4: It's just a romantic friends. You mean it's just a

1149
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:23,800
Speaker 4: platonic friendship.

1150
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:29,879
Speaker 5: I mean, it's platonic, but it has an element of

1151
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:32,320
Speaker 5: romance being romantic.

1152
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So you would ask he would be great if

1153
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 4: he liked what you have basically.

1154
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't I don't even know if that

1155
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 5: would necessarily change things between the two of us. We

1156
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 5: just have a great affection for each other, don't love

1157
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 5: for each other.

1158
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 4: And I'm sorry if you mentioned this, but you have

1159
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 4: a boyfriend, I mean, could you have a relationship concurrent?

1160
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 14: I do?

1161
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 2: Yes?

1162
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 4: Is he threatened by this at all? No, because it

1163
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,280
Speaker 4: sounds like you would choose to be with your friend.

1164
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 9: I would not.

1165
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 5: Choose to be I mean I would not. You're not,

1166
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 5: it's not We're not compatible in that way.

1167
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 2: But it's got Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1168
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 4: If I did it a woman and she said she

1169
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 4: had a romantic relationship with another man, that would I would.

1170
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 4: You're supposed to have a romantic relationship with me, and

1171
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 4: that's I mean, I would think that it's exclusive unless

1172
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 4: it's unless it's not.

1173
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 11: Do you just mean like affectionate, because that's probably a

1174
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 11: better word than romantic.

1175
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 19: I mean it is.

1176
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 16: We do have great affection for each Yeah.

1177
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 19: Absolutely, we do everything together. We've gone and we've gone

1178
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 19: to the bathroom together, we.

1179
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:42,839
Speaker 4: Slept in the same bed with each other.

1180
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 16: It's not.

1181
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:49,360
Speaker 4: What about they went to the bathroom, bathroom.

1182
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 2: In the back room. Okay, I got it to the

1183
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 2: bathroom yeah.

1184
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,359
Speaker 1: I have gay friends like that too.

1185
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Well, hey, look if it works for you,

1186
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 4: if you if this friendship can can work concurrently with

1187
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 4: the relationship you're in, and if he's not feeling jealous

1188
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 4: about it, then I guess there are boundaries.

1189
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 2: And I suppose it's okay.

1190
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 5: I'm just saying there doesn't necessarily have to be a

1191
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 5: sexual aspect to it.

1192
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a friendship.

1193
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 4: But but that's that's interesting because just because you don't

1194
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 4: have sex, to my point earlier, doesn't mean this isn't threatening.

1195
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 4: Doesn't mean that I shouldn't be concerned about, you know,

1196
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 4: emotional boundaries just just because you're not, I mean, because

1197
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 4: you could you could just be having sex with someone

1198
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,760
Speaker 4: and that could be considered cheating depending on your definition

1199
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 4: and and and and the terms of your relationship.

1200
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 2: But but have a very.

1201
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 4: Sound, communicative, you know, emotional relationship with me. Sometimes people

1202
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 4: I think think about cheating only as it pertains to

1203
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 4: physical interaction. But if you if you connect with another

1204
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 4: human better than you connect with me, that's going to

1205
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 4: eventually get in the way of what we're trying to do.

1206
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:57,800
Speaker 1: No, it's not better. I think it's just different.

1207
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 24: Like I go to like Jonathan and Jason alive and

1208
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:03,280
Speaker 24: they're they're males, obviously, right, but like there's nothing, absolutely

1209
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 24: nothing sexual about it is and will not allow right.

1210
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 4: Well, but what I'm saying is it sounds like she

1211
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 4: relies on her friend or like like the connection with

1212
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 4: her friend is stronger than the connection with her boyfriend.

1213
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 4: And I guess that it's not. You're saying, I'm very

1214
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 4: confused about the terms of this relationship.

1215
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 2: I think so.

1216
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 5: I mean, I definitely have a very deep emotional connection

1217
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 5: with my boyfriend and.

1218
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 22: A very romantic relationship with him too.

1219
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 5: It's not like I rely on my best friends to

1220
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 5: that aspect of the relationship, just in addition to I

1221
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 5: have the other very.

1222
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 14: Close person that I have in my life.

1223
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Lauren, have a good day.

1224
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 5: Thank you you too.

1225
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 4: I don't know that you can unless you're in an

1226
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 4: open relationship. I'm not sure that I would be comfortable

1227
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 4: with someone describing more than one romantic rightly.

1228
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:54,399
Speaker 2: That's what throws me off.

1229
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 4: Romance part, And to say that you have romance with

1230
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 4: more than one man, even if sex isn't involved. Still,

1231
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 4: I wonder if that's okay. I mean, it's okay. If

1232
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 4: it's okay, but you know what I mean, I wonder,

1233
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 4: I don't know, I wonder if it's not a little blurry.

1234
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 4: Hey Raven, Yes, Hi, Raven, good morning.

1235
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 2: So say or go.

1236
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,240
Speaker 4: This dude is concerned because he feels like his girlfriend

1237
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 4: has a very very close relationship with his girlfriend with

1238
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 4: her girlfriend rather and he's wondering if it's not you know,

1239
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 4: maybe if it's not a little deeper than he thinks.

1240
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 2: What do you think, Raven?

1241
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:33,280
Speaker 19: I think, I honestly think that he should say, because

1242
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 19: it really isn't that big of a deal. I know

1243
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 19: it might seem weird, but a lot of girls have

1244
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,799
Speaker 19: that type of relationship with another girl, even if they're

1245
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 19: not by or or with a you know, a sexual

1246
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 19: orientation like that. Like I'm speaking from experience as well,

1247
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 19: like sometimes you just have this critific relationship with like

1248
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 19: your best friend or this person that that you just

1249
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 19: want to cuddle and do it and almost it's borderline actual.

1250
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 19: But it's not going to go anywhere. It's not going

1251
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 19: that far, and that's not what they're there for. It's

1252
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 19: that type of soul connection. But I will say that

1253
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 19: I feel like they need to open communication even further

1254
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 19: talk about it, and I think he just has to

1255
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 19: get out of the mentality of the whole well I

1256
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 19: want to join or or like you know, like, oh

1257
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 19: well now now it's my turn to get on and

1258
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 19: on it, you know. Like I hate that.

1259
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 4: I feel like in the case of your friends, you know,

1260
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 4: who you're that close with, where it's sort of teetering

1261
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 4: on the line, who would you favor if it came

1262
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 4: down to that person or your boyfriend?

1263
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,919
Speaker 19: I would definitely go with my boyfriend for sure.

1264
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 4: Okay, Well then I think that's that's healthy. I think

1265
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 4: it's a situation where you favor the person who you're

1266
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 4: not in a romantic relationship with. I think that's when

1267
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 4: what's the point of a romantic relationship then, you know

1268
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 4: what I mean, Like, if you can't establish that kind

1269
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 4: of connection, if you're constantly favoring the other person, then

1270
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 4: I think boundaries are not established, and that's a problem.

1271
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 2: Whether there's sex or not.

1272
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 4: I mean, I've been in these relationships before, you know

1273
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 4: where it's it happens all the time, dating by committee,

1274
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 4: whether there's one or two or three or five, you know,

1275
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 4: girls who are you know, everything goes to them first

1276
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 4: they work it out and then and then the person

1277
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 4: comes to me, you judge and jury, and it's like, no,

1278
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 4: we're in the relation. I'm not dating them, I'm dating you.

1279
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 4: And they weren't there for whatever issue we're having. We

1280
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 4: were there, so like, am I dating you? Or am

1281
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 4: I dating them? It's almost like you should go date them.

1282
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 4: I guess because you got it all figured out. I

1283
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 4: think that's that everyone thinks about sex. But really it

1284
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 4: comes down to communication.

1285
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 19: Yep, Oh yeah, it comes down to communication one, Like

1286
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 19: you're completely right, like he just have to communicate further

1287
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 19: and as long as it becomes it doesn't become an

1288
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 19: overbearing problem. And as long as there isn't like this,

1289
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 19: you know, like hey, we don't like you like group activity.

1290
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 5: Like then that I think it's fine.

1291
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 19: Just let it happen as long as it's healthy. But

1292
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 19: you do have to communicate. But he's definite to say,

1293
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 19: let's be more open minded too, and don't don't be like, well,

1294
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 19: I guess.

1295
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 16: There's threesome.

1296
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 4: That he did bring that up, so who knows, maybe

1297
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 4: maybe this is sort of he's building this up in

1298
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 4: his head, like like it's more than it should be

1299
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 4: because because you're kind of opening to the bathroom together.

1300
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 25: Let's go.

1301
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 2: Hey Teresa, good morning, Teresa, good morning, Hi, good morning morning. Hey,

1302
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 2: what do you want to say? I want to say

1303
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:50,919
Speaker 2: that he should leave.

1304
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 17: I think that they're starting from romantic feeling relationship, Like

1305
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 17: she's putting a lot into her best friend, Like why

1306
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 17: is she cuddling with her? Like what is it that

1307
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 17: her boyfriend is not providing her that she's latching on

1308
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 17: to her friends for Like this is how these types

1309
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 17: of situations start. Oh, she's my friend, She's just my

1310
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 17: best friend. I need advice, Like, oh, we do everything together,

1311
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 17: like it's an excuse.

1312
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 14: I'm a woman, trust me, Like I've seen this video before.

1313
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 4: And then she gets stuck in the dishwasher and the

1314
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 4: only way out is yeah, yeah, I know.

1315
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 1: What are these types of situation?

1316
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 17: And I totally agree with what you've been saying this

1317
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 17: whole time. He should go. He should save himself for

1318
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 17: hurt and pain because obviously there's something secretive going on

1319
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Speaker 17: and they don't want him to be a part of it.

1320
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Teresa, thank you, have a good day, you too.

1321
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 4: I mean, if your friend relationships are if you're if

1322
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 4: you have a friend or a multiple friend relationship that

1323
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 4: is deeper. I mean it might be deeper, but if

1324
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 4: it interacts negatively with the romantic relationship you're trying to have,

1325
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 4: then well it's a problem, regardless of whether it's sexual

1326
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 4: or not.

1327
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 2: Hey, Rico, Hey you're going on?

1328
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 14: Bro?

1329
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 2: Hey man, what happened? Rico? Tell me everything?

1330
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1331
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 14: Yeah, so well, I mean, long story short, I don't

1332
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 14: want to keep keep going. Uh, the biggest my best friend,

1333
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 14: Like dude, we were insuperable. We were calling each other every.

1334
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 2: Day, male or female female, Okay, okay.

1335
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 14: Yeah, so uh, I mean she was so cool. So

1336
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 14: got on earth so like I was, I mean, here

1337
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 14: and there, I would hit on her, you know, as

1338
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 14: a joke obviously, just you know, because whatever.

1339
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 4: You know, unless it wasn't that job, Okay, well maybe

1340
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 4: it wasn't.

1341
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 2: Maybe it wasn't exactly, it's it's a joke.

1342
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 4: When she says no, when she says yes, it's not okay, all.

1343
01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 2: Right, so you you yeah no no.

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01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 14: But hey, so so then she got with this one guy,

1345
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 14: and I'm like, hey, really think about it about it?

1346
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 14: See see see how he makes you feel or whatever?

1347
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 3: You know.

1348
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 14: I would just give her this little advice. So so

1349
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 14: like like at the end kind of when she was

1350
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 14: gonna start with him, we almost slept together.

1351
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, so then like no, go ahead, go ahead, finish up.

1352
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 2: We kill go ahead and finish it.

1353
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 14: So so like when they started together, she like basically

1354
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 14: told me we can that she couldn't see me, see

1355
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 14: me anymore. She uh that I couldn't call her anymore,

1356
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 14: that lose her number. I'm like, you know what, that's

1357
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 14: completely fine. I understand.

1358
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 4: And you guys weren't that good of friends anyway, you know,

1359
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 4: And that's my point. She was able to identify that

1360
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 4: you were going to prevent her from proceeding in another

1361
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 4: relationship with another man, and I guess she decided that that,

1362
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 4: you know, being able to do that and have those

1363
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 4: boundaries was more important than being your friend, which is

1364
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 4: a shame. But rico, thank you man, have a good day.

1365
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 4: Gotta go, all right, Yeah, that's the thing. And I

1366
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 4: don't know, you know, some of you guys have different

1367
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 4: terms or rouview of for example, is married.

1368
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 2: So but like if I.

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01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 4: If I couldn't give a woman objective advice about a

1370
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 4: relationship with another man, that I can't be her friend

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01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 4: truly by definition like friend, and I have to just

1372
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 4: say I have to make that like when when sometimes

1373
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 4: if you get friend zoned and someone's like, well, we

1374
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 4: can be friends, it's like, no, we can't be friends.

1375
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 4: We can't be friends because I can't separate myself from

1376
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 4: the part of me that likes you romantically or the

1377
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 4: part of meat that once slept with you or whatever.

1378
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 4: You know, people will do that every now and again.

1379
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 4: They'll be like, men do it too. You know, we

1380
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 4: hooked up for a while and then it fizzles. Well,

1381
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 4: we could be friends. And so my definite in my

1382
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 4: mind if you're like, let's be friends, and I'm like no,

1383
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 4: because if you call me and you want to talk

1384
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 4: about your boyfriend and I'm going to give you bad

1385
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 4: advice because it benefits me because I want you to

1386
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 4: come back to me then, or because I feel like

1387
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 4: it conflicts with my interests, then I can't be your

1388
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 4: friend and I have to separate myself. And it sounds

1389
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 4: like that's what this lady said, you know, or this

1390
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 4: guy rather the homeboy he just called. It sounds like

1391
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 4: what she said to him was, look, I can't this

1392
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 4: is too blurry. I can't do this right yep, which

1393
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 4: sucks because sometimes people are okay just being friends, you

1394
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 4: know what I mean. I feel like this happens to

1395
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 4: women more than men because men tend to sexualize things.

1396
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 4: And then it's like a woman can actually be a

1397
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 4: friend with a guy and he can't do it.

1398
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was a joke for it.

1399
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 4: There's only a joke. Yeah, they're just joking. Yeah, he

1400
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 4: was choking unless you say yes. This phone call takes

1401
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 4: a whole different times.

1402
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 2: Calin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show.

1403
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 1: There's been so much back and forth on this.

1404
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 11: Alec Baldwin's involuntary manslaughter child is on track to take

1405
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 11: place this month. A judge projected a motion to dismiss

1406
01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:00,120
Speaker 11: the case for the third time in five weeks. She

1407
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 11: ruled to uphold the charge, so she wants this to happen.

1408
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 11: Alex lawyers argued key evidence related to the prop gun

1409
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 11: the actor allegedly fired and ended up killing cinematographer Helena

1410
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 11: Hutchins and injuring director Joel Susa was destroyed, so they're

1411
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 11: saying that some evidence was I don't know, somebody got

1412
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 11: rid of it. The October twenty twenty one incident occurred

1413
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 11: on the set of that Western movie Rust. We have

1414
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 11: been you know, talking about it ever since it happened,

1415
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 11: and now it's finally happening this month, so I'll keep

1416
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 11: you in the loop for sure.

1417
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, in time for his TV show to record it.

1418
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 11: Right, Well, I mean I think he's trying to make

1419
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 11: money because of all this.

1420
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: Also said I need a job where I can work

1421
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 1: from home. That's what he said. But it is it

1422
01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 1: is interesting timing, and I.

1423
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 11: Think the a lawyer for one, I think Helena's family's

1424
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 11: lawyer ended up saying that they feel like the show is.

1425
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 1: An attempt to like distract people or portray.

1426
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 11: Them being a good man, family man, right, right, So

1427
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 11: that is their argument. Hella Yah. ESPN is planning to

1428
01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 11: award Prince Harry the Pat Tillman Award for service at

1429
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 11: the upcoming SPS. If you didn't know, Pat, who played

1430
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 11: four seasons in the NFL, felt compelled to serve our nation,

1431
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 11: stepped away from his promising football career to enlist in

1432
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 11: the US Army following the September eleven terrorist attacks. While

1433
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 11: Pat was sadly killed in combat in two thousand and

1434
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 11: four in Afghanistan, only twenty seven years old, and after

1435
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:29,360
Speaker 11: news broke that ESPN was giving this award to Prince Harry,

1436
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 11: Pat's mom, Mary Tillman, said the sports network never consulted

1437
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 11: her about giving the Duke of Sussex the award honoring

1438
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 11: your son.

1439
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 1: She told The Daily Mail.

1440
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:40,280
Speaker 11: I'm shocked as to why they would select such a

1441
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 11: controversial and divisive individual to receive this. There are recipients

1442
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 11: that are far more fitting. There are individuals working in

1443
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 11: the veteran community that are doing tremendous things to assist veterans.

1444
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 11: These individuals don't have the money, resources, connections or privilege

1445
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 11: that Prince Harry has. I feel that those types of

1446
01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 11: individuals should be recognized.

1447
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 1: Former NFL punter and current.

1448
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 11: ESPN analyst Pat McAfee lasted the network, saying they're trying

1449
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 11: to quote piss people off.

1450
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: So he went against his own network on that one.

1451
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 2: And is it given to a veteran? Right? He is

1452
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 2: a veteran?

1453
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was a veteran, Harry did.

1454
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1455
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 11: I don't think it necessarily has to be a veteran,

1456
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 11: But I think she's just saying someone who's making a.

1457
01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 2: Change pretty much.

1458
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:25,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean he does.

1459
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:27,440
Speaker 11: Prince Harry does do a lot of good work, and

1460
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 11: he can't really help where he came from.

1461
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: But I do think that they should always consult her on.

1462
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 11: Who would be winning that because it's in honor of

1463
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 11: her Sun and she lost him in such a tragic way.

1464
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 11: So I definitely hear. I hear what she's saying. She

1465
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 11: wants someone. I get it. Simone Biles is heading back

1466
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 11: to the Olympics.

1467
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: Of course she is right.

1468
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 11: The gymnastics superstar earned a third trip by cruising to

1469
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 11: victory at the US Olympic Trials, up posting her two

1470
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 11: day all around total to clinch the lone automatic spot

1471
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 11: on the five woman team.

1472
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: I did not know that. So there's one spot that

1473
01:07:58,160 --> 01:07:59,480
Speaker 1: you just you're on it.

1474
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 7: The winner of the whole thing whatever, of the winner

1475
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 7: of the trials, you know, gets the automatic spot.

1476
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 4: Normally there's like different sports.

1477
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 7: Like track and field, it's like the race will take

1478
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 7: the top three, something will take the top three or whatever.

1479
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 7: But gymnastics, that's like one person and then everyone else

1480
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 7: has to I don't know, go by points or whatever.

1481
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 4: Whoever's in second or third.

1482
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 1: Or that's cool. When do they start?

1483
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 2: Do we know the Olympics? Yeah, the end of this month.

1484
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:27,840
Speaker 7: So, like all the sports are doing their trials to

1485
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:28,679
Speaker 7: see who's going.

1486
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 11: To be an Olympian, and they always do them where

1487
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 11: they're holding the Olympics.

1488
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, they're here and there.

1489
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, it all depends on.

1490
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, like the US, they're all here in the States

1491
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 7: because it's all Americans, you know what I'm saying.

1492
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 2: It competing to be in the Olympics.

1493
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 7: And then then those people will go to Paris this

1494
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,640
Speaker 7: year to compete for the Olympics.

1495
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: Got it all right?

1496
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 11: Well, you can catch up on everything you missed from

1497
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 11: our show, The frend Show on our free iHeartRadio app.

1498
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 2: You want to make four thousand dollars for Fiel, Yes,

1499
01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 2: I got you.

1500
01:08:58,240 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 14: So.

1501
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,600
Speaker 4: Medical researchers are looking for vallins here is willing to

1502
01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 4: earn forty two hundred dollars for being involved in their study. However,

1503
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 4: it's possible that you would get diarrhea for a week.

1504
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 4: Oh that's fine, let's do it, and you would have

1505
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 4: to spend eleven days in the hospital even if you don't.

1506
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 4: But this is forty two hundred dollars. Okay, So you're

1507
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 4: still in keep the same underwear, Gotta change it.

1508
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 2: Every time I.

1509
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 4: Think they're going to want to, I don't even know

1510
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 4: a week, I don't even wear underwear and might just

1511
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 4: skip a stop.

1512
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 2: I'm not just winning to poose this thing.

1513
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, right, exactly like I'm not dealing with pants.

1514
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 4: If this is the case, the experiment is called a

1515
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 4: human challenged trial. It means that people involved in a

1516
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 4: study are deliberately exposed to an infectious disease. In this case,

1517
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 4: it would be a bacteria, which is the primary cause

1518
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:51,880
Speaker 4: of dysentery, which is an infection that causes diarrhea. So

1519
01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 4: they're working on a more potent vaccine, and so essentially

1520
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,240
Speaker 4: they might give you the vaccine, they might not. Then

1521
01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 4: they expl at the placebo, then the exposure to you,

1522
01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 4: and then we all just kind of see what happens.

1523
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 4: She could do this in Cincinnati and Atlanta if you're interested. Yeah, okay,

1524
01:10:09,240 --> 01:10:11,920
Speaker 4: why does somebody get ghosted waiting by the phone on

1525
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:12,599
Speaker 4: the Fred Show?

1526
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:15,600
Speaker 2: We'll do it next more Fred Show.

1527
01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 3: Next the Fresh Show is on.

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01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 4: I want to shout out my aunt Paula, the Saint

1529
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 4: Cana Paula. This lady is living, this lady is out here.

1530
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 2: So I'm not going to say how old she is.

1531
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 4: She's my mom's eldest sister. My mom has a No,

1532
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 4: that's not true, that's not true. She's the middle one.

1533
01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 4: Well okay, well no, I believe what I was going

1534
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 4: to say. What I was going to say was mean.

1535
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 4: But there's one sister that's not in the picture. So

1536
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 4: she's the oldest in the picture. Anyway, she's the middle.

1537
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 4: But anyway, this woman has my mom is what was

1538
01:10:57,320 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 4: born to be a mother. She's an incredible mother.

1539
01:10:58,960 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 2: Whatever. I don't know about this.

1540
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:03,439
Speaker 4: I don't know about the eldest, but the uh Paula

1541
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 4: is her name, and she has always just been out

1542
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 4: here doing her own thing. You know. She lived in

1543
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 4: Arizona for a while we were growing up, and then

1544
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:10,600
Speaker 4: one day she said, but I don't want to be

1545
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:11,120
Speaker 4: here anymore.

1546
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:12,520
Speaker 2: She moved to San Francisco.

1547
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 4: And everyone was like, wow, you're just going to pick

1548
01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 4: up and move to San Francisco, like all by yourself.

1549
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:18,640
Speaker 4: Just go out there, find a job and do it.

1550
01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 4: She did that. After about ten years of that, she's like,

1551
01:11:21,040 --> 01:11:24,680
Speaker 4: you know what, I'm going to move to Buenos Aris, Argentina.

1552
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 2: Who it?

1553
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 4: Wow? And so she like did it half and half

1554
01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:28,760
Speaker 4: for a while and then one day said screw it,

1555
01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 4: got out of her apartment, retired and moved to ba

1556
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 4: and living out there all by yourself, just out here

1557
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:36,280
Speaker 4: doing it. Now it's been ten years, she calls me

1558
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 4: and says, I'm going to buy a house in Uruguay.

1559
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 1: Second was that's Liz, And She's.

1560
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 4: Like, so I'm out of it. I'm out of here. I'm

1561
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 4: going to Uruguay now, yes, and I'm going to buy

1562
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 4: this thing. It's going to have four bedrooms. We're going

1563
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,760
Speaker 4: to live out there. You never heard of Uruguay, Jason,

1564
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:50,879
Speaker 4: know what you're talking about.

1565
01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 2: It's a country I never heard of. Uruguay, said for Jason.

1566
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:11,680
Speaker 2: Who they are?

1567
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 1: Can we come?

1568
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, this lady called me up.

1569
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 4: She's like, yeah, I'm just gonna go get this four

1570
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 4: bedroom thing and I'm gonna live there. I think for

1571
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 4: a while. Now see how that goes. I'm like, oh,

1572
01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 4: I mean I love him. Yeah, you know these kids

1573
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 4: she writes hours stage, the beach there, the whole thing.

1574
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 4: She's just she says, out here doing it like just whatever.

1575
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 4: You lonely ever because she has friends, but I don't

1576
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 4: think she cares, you know, and her things like I mean,

1577
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 4: I'm this old and and she's a good looking lady,

1578
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:39,960
Speaker 4: and she's like, I'm just gonna go do it, Like

1579
01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 4: what do I have? I only have so much life

1580
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 4: to live, so by I'm out of here, you know,

1581
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 4: and no grounded. She didn't have any kids, so her

1582
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:47,720
Speaker 4: life is all about her.

1583
01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 14: You know.

1584
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:49,840
Speaker 4: I'm sure there are people listening now going, well, I

1585
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 4: would take those risks, but I chose to have a family. Well,

1586
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:54,640
Speaker 4: you know, she chose to not have a family, and

1587
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:56,600
Speaker 4: then she's given this flexibility.

1588
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I asked. I talked to her about this all

1589
01:12:58,080 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 2: the time.

1590
01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 4: As a person who's not married and doesn't have kids,

1591
01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 4: I talk to her all the time about like do

1592
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 4: you like about how people address because people people are

1593
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:09,680
Speaker 4: always like they can't imagine that you wouldn't want to

1594
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:11,680
Speaker 4: be in a relationship and that you wouldn't want to

1595
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:15,680
Speaker 4: have kids, Like people cannot imagine that this is the

1596
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 4: life that I choose, or this is the life that

1597
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 4: she chooses. Like it's just it's mind blowing. It's like

1598
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:24,679
Speaker 4: what's wrong with you? Or why are you so picky?

1599
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 4: Or like when are you going to do the marriage

1600
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,680
Speaker 4: and the kids thing? And it's like I don't think

1601
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 4: she ever wanted it. I'm not opposed to either, And

1602
01:13:32,960 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 4: she was married at one point in divorce, but a

1603
01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 4: couple of times actually, but that's how she rolls. She

1604
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 4: a much younger Latin man. Like it didn't quite work out,

1605
01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:45,560
Speaker 4: but so what can get another one? Yet another one.

1606
01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:47,280
Speaker 4: I don't think he brought much of the table except

1607
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 4: for one thing, but he certainly brought that to the

1608
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 4: table from what I understand enough to marry him. And

1609
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 4: it's just a weird thing you know about your aunt,

1610
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:56,960
Speaker 4: but that's the kind of relationship that we have. Nonetheless,

1611
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 4: I relate to her more than I thought I would,

1612
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:01,760
Speaker 4: because you'll people could argue, well, I think I think

1613
01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 4: my parents sometimes think that my life is selfish, and

1614
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:08,439
Speaker 4: it's like, well, that could be, but I also there

1615
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 4: are also the aspects of my life that I won't

1616
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 4: get to experience that that other people do, you know.

1617
01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 4: I mean, I guess some people find their partner their

1618
01:14:17,479 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 4: person and they don't have kids and they get the

1619
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 4: fulfillment and the challenge of having a family and all

1620
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 4: of that, but like, I may not get to experience that.

1621
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 4: On the flip side, you know, she and I might

1622
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:28,840
Speaker 4: have the flexibility to say, at some point in our lives,

1623
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:33,559
Speaker 4: we're moving to Oruguay or wherever. And I think, you know,

1624
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 4: there's an upside to that. There's also the fact that

1625
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 4: I may have to do that by myself. I don't know,

1626
01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 4: but it's just amazing to me that, you know, I think.

1627
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:42,680
Speaker 4: I think it's a big deal. I think it's a

1628
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 4: big deal to be moving around the world on your own. Yeah,

1629
01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 4: she is the coolest, so interesting.

1630
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 1: I was thinking that when you were telling that story.

1631
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 4: Any thoughts, boy, you're here, You're going to say, and

1632
01:14:57,400 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 4: you're all expected by the way, man, I'll tell you

1633
01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:08,040
Speaker 4: not really, it's quite I've had quite a run with

1634
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 4: Asian people and black people, and I got kids.

1635
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 2: From all over the world. That's what I'm saying. You

1636
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 2: need to go anywhere else. I don't have to.

1637
01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 4: I experienced many different things. It's multicultural up in here.

1638
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 2: You've ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the

1639
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 2: Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.

1640
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 2: How are you hey, guys doing all right?

1641
01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 14: How you doing?

1642
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:42,240
Speaker 4: We are great? Tell us about this woman, Sonia. I

1643
01:15:42,280 --> 01:15:44,680
Speaker 4: want to know everything. How did you guys meet? Tell

1644
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 4: us about any dates that you've been on and then

1645
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:49,240
Speaker 4: where things are now you think maybe you're being ghosted.

1646
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally.

1647
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:53,920
Speaker 6: So I met this girl, Sonia. We've met on a

1648
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,679
Speaker 6: hinge and you know, we chatted for a while. She's

1649
01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 6: really cute, and I asked her out to dinner after

1650
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:04,600
Speaker 6: I got her number when hinting through Hinge, and you know,

1651
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 6: I thought we had a good time and that she

1652
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 6: liked me, because you know, she invited me after dinner

1653
01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 6: back to her place, you know, to go swimming. And

1654
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:14,920
Speaker 6: I was like, okay, you got a pool. That's fantastic.

1655
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:16,880
Speaker 6: Let's keep this thing going.

1656
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:20,679
Speaker 21: And I'm really really confused right.

1657
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 6: Now because you know, like I said, I thought we

1658
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:25,720
Speaker 6: had a great time, and now she's completely ghosting.

1659
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,200
Speaker 2: Here about this. But yeah, I mean I would say

1660
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 2: that's pretty good.

1661
01:16:29,960 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 4: Like you go on a date, all's going, well, Hey,

1662
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 4: let's go back to the pool.

1663
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 2: So now we're just.

1664
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,920
Speaker 4: Automatically wearing not a lot of clothes, Like that's great.

1665
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,600
Speaker 4: I mean, that's that would in my opinion, that's a

1666
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 4: good date. Things are going well on the date if

1667
01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:56,240
Speaker 4: we're going to go back and do that, Oh yeah, man, Jason,

1668
01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 4: not to be outdone by Prince perv rufie over here

1669
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 4: and now we got Princess peeky. All right, So, but

1670
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 4: you've reached out to as woman sends the date and

1671
01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 4: she's not responding to you at all. I take it

1672
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 4: on Hinge and text and whatever else.

1673
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, I've texted her a few times. I tried

1674
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,560
Speaker 6: calling her one nothing, okay, nothing.

1675
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 4: All right, Well, I'm gonna play one song. We'll come

1676
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 4: back in a couple of minutes and we'll call this

1677
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,759
Speaker 4: woman Sonia. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions.

1678
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 4: At some point. You're welcome to jump in on the call,

1679
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,880
Speaker 4: and hopefully something's going on and we get straightened out

1680
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:29,680
Speaker 4: or if she's been busy or she has a good

1681
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:32,559
Speaker 4: excuse or reason, and the hope is that you guys

1682
01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:34,120
Speaker 4: can go out again and we'll pay for it.

1683
01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:36,320
Speaker 6: All right, Hey, that'd be great, Thank you so much.

1684
01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:38,880
Speaker 2: Hang out one second. Let's see what happens next.

1685
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:41,439
Speaker 4: Part two of Waiting Metaphone after this song on The

1686
01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 4: Fred Show. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Part two

1687
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 4: of Waiting Metaphone. Hey, Ross, all right, let's call Sonia.

1688
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 4: You guys met on a hinge the dating app, had

1689
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:53,879
Speaker 4: a great date she invited you over to go swimming

1690
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 4: after the date, which is I would think a pretty

1691
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 4: good sign, except since the date you haven't heard anything

1692
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,559
Speaker 4: from her. Has it responded to you? She hasn't reached

1693
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 4: out either, and you want to know what's going on.

1694
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 6: That's exactly it.

1695
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,960
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross, Thank

1696
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 2: you so much.

1697
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 23: Guys.

1698
01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi is this Sonia?

1699
01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 14: Uh?

1700
01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:19,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, Hey, Sonya, good morning.

1701
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 4: My name is Fredam calling from the FREND Show, the

1702
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:24,040
Speaker 4: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

1703
01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 4: we are on the radio right now and I would

1704
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:27,600
Speaker 4: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we

1705
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 4: chat for just a second, do you mind?

1706
01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:31,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? That's fine, Well, thank you very much.

1707
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 4: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who

1708
01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 4: says he met you on a dating app and you, guys,

1709
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:41,800
Speaker 4: recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,

1710
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:44,400
Speaker 4: so that's a good start. So he reached out to

1711
01:18:44,520 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 4: us and said that he really liked you and thought

1712
01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:47,759
Speaker 4: the date went well. And then I guess you invited

1713
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 4: him over to your house to go swimming or something,

1714
01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:51,960
Speaker 4: and he hasn't heard from you since, so he wants

1715
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:54,320
Speaker 4: to know why you're not responding to him, and we're

1716
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 4: sort of the middleman here trying to you know, ask

1717
01:18:56,880 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 4: the questions as well.

1718
01:18:58,240 --> 01:18:59,719
Speaker 2: So why aren't you calling him back?

1719
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 22: Well, we met on hinge on the dating app, and

1720
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 22: he took me to dinner and we had fun. I

1721
01:19:09,920 --> 01:19:12,559
Speaker 22: did invite him back to my place after because it

1722
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:15,600
Speaker 22: was close by, but I really.

1723
01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 6: Regret doing that.

1724
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 4: Now.

1725
01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 1: Why Well, when we got back.

1726
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:23,800
Speaker 22: I realized he was a lot drunker than I thought

1727
01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 22: he was. I excused myself to go to the bathroom,

1728
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 22: and then when I came back, I couldn't find him.

1729
01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 22: And then I realized that he was swimming in my

1730
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 22: pool and he was naked.

1731
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 4: Oh, I was going to ask the question. I was

1732
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,680
Speaker 4: a little curious, I'll be honest. You know, if you

1733
01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:43,600
Speaker 4: didn't know that you were going to be going on

1734
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 4: a swimming date, I mean, unless you're going to provide

1735
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 4: you know, wardrobe, unless you have a whole like selection

1736
01:19:50,479 --> 01:19:52,439
Speaker 4: of men's swim trunks at your house, I guess I

1737
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 4: was curious how that was going to work. But he

1738
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,800
Speaker 4: just took the liberty of of stripping down and jumping in.

1739
01:19:57,920 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 2: He didn't care.

1740
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:02,479
Speaker 22: H Yeah, I I mean I didn't even invite him

1741
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 22: to use the pool, and also swimming that drunk is

1742
01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:07,000
Speaker 22: just dangerous.

1743
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 2: Well there's that.

1744
01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, And I assume this is a community pool

1745
01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:13,799
Speaker 4: of some kind unless you somehow have your own pool.

1746
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Speaker 4: I mean I guess other people might use them, might

1747
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 4: come out and see old boy Ross, you know, swimming

1748
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:21,320
Speaker 4: around but ass naked.

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Speaker 22: Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean, we haven't

1750
01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:28,719
Speaker 22: even we haven't even slept together, so why would I

1751
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 22: want to see him naked? You know? And it was

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01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 22: it was it was a lot to walk out.

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01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 20: Yeah.

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01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:35,679
Speaker 2: Well here's the question, what did and sonya?

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Speaker 4: I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,

1756
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 4: completely uninvited. But what did you expect him to do?

1757
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 4: What were you thinking he was going to do going

1758
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 4: on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a

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Speaker 4: swimming date.

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Speaker 22: Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use

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Speaker 22: the pool.

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01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:52,600
Speaker 14: He just took it upon himself.

1763
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:52,559
Speaker 4: To do it.

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Speaker 22: So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to

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01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:57,000
Speaker 22: be swimming at all. I kind of thought that maybe

1766
01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 22: we just to hang out, you know, and continue.

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01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:04,880
Speaker 4: Talking adjacent to the pool, maybe not making Okay, let

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01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 4: me bring I forgot to mention that Ross is here. Ross,

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01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:09,400
Speaker 4: So you were in clothes now or if you just

1770
01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:13,400
Speaker 4: stripped down, you know, just cause because you feel that comfortable.

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01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 2: Fully closed at the moment. So that was the thought process.

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01:21:17,520 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 4: So You're like, you know what, I want to go swimming,

1773
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:20,800
Speaker 4: and I don't want to get my clothes wet, so

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Speaker 4: I'll just get completely naked on a first aid.

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Speaker 12: You know.

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01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 21: To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much

1777
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 21: of that. I remembered also, I don't. I will say

1778
01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:39,880
Speaker 21: I don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember

1779
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 21: going back to your place Sonya Tay, and the next

1780
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:48,840
Speaker 21: thing I know, uh, I was you.

1781
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 14: Know, we were we were swimming.

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01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 21: I don't remember if I had anything on or not.

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01:21:52,800 --> 01:22:00,160
Speaker 4: But I don't think anybody else was there with you.

1784
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 4: I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,

1785
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:05,800
Speaker 4: but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.

1786
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Speaker 2: In a pool.

1787
01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:09,639
Speaker 1: You never got skinny topping well.

1788
01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:11,960
Speaker 4: When invited, but it wasn't. It wasn't because I was

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01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 4: so drunk I decided to take all my clothes off.

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01:22:14,600 --> 01:22:23,800
Speaker 4: That a lot oh okay, well okay, okay, well that's yeah.

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01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:27,200
Speaker 4: I mean, but ross, she lives in a community. I mean,

1792
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 4: she could be evicted for this behavior. I mean, I

1793
01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:33,120
Speaker 4: don't she probably is. You know, Sony, you're not saying much.

1794
01:22:33,240 --> 01:22:36,479
Speaker 4: I mean, so it was a lot. And did you

1795
01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:37,160
Speaker 4: like what you saw?

1796
01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:39,759
Speaker 2: At least? Was he good looking? Naked guy? Was he tanned?

1797
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 2: Was he he have lines? Was he you know?

1798
01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:45,120
Speaker 22: I mean I wasn't really thinking about that. I was

1799
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 22: more concerned with, like making sure that he didn't drown

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01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:49,880
Speaker 22: because he was so drunk. So you know, I just

1801
01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:51,799
Speaker 22: got him dressed and sent him home in an uber.

1802
01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 22: But I guess he doesn't seem to remember it, which

1803
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 22: maybe shows that he really was he was too drunk,

1804
01:22:58,280 --> 01:22:59,879
Speaker 22: because that's I mean, that's what happened.

1805
01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:03,440
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember, he was overserved.

1806
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:06,640
Speaker 4: I mean, I guess I hear him taking responsibility for

1807
01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 4: he's sort of making an excuse. But I mean, you

1808
01:23:09,120 --> 01:23:11,320
Speaker 4: liked him up until that point. So are we willing

1809
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:14,719
Speaker 4: to say, look, that was you know, poor decision making,

1810
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:18,639
Speaker 4: had too much to drink, No harm, no foul, We'll

1811
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 4: try it again, or no.

1812
01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:23,680
Speaker 22: I think I'm going to pass on a second date.

1813
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:24,599
Speaker 16: I think all.

1814
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 4: Right, Well, Michael Phelps. I'm sorry, it's not going to

1815
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:29,960
Speaker 4: work out. You know, you should always carry a speedout

1816
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 4: with you. You just never know.

1817
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:33,760
Speaker 21: Now I'm now, I'm not now, I'm in the know,

1818
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:36,240
Speaker 21: So I'll keep that in the back pocket at all times.

1819
01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 14: Thank you.

1820
01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:40,719
Speaker 2: Well, there you go, Sonya, thank you for your time.

1821
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 14: Ross.

1822
01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:42,719
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, so not going to work out. Best elected

1823
01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 2: both of you, guys.

1824
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 12: Thank you.

1825
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 4: Calen has the Entertainment Report and eats next on the

1826
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:48,120
Speaker 4: Fread Show.

1827
01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:51,719
Speaker 2: Caln's Entertainer Report. He's on the Fread Show.

1828
01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 11: Former Bachelorette star Katie Thurston sadly took to Instagram to

1829
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 11: share that she was raped. She wrote, it took seven

1830
01:23:57,360 --> 01:24:00,320
Speaker 11: months for the San Diego justice system to let me

1831
01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 11: down as a victim. The justice system continues to let

1832
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:06,960
Speaker 11: down victims every day. I refused to feel defeated in

1833
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 11: the strength it took to be an advocate for myself.

1834
01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 11: And she basically share all this because she wanted to

1835
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:15,600
Speaker 11: help others if they were feeling alone, to find the

1836
01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:17,920
Speaker 11: support they may need. She's not ready to share her story,

1837
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:21,680
Speaker 11: she says, but she wants to share some valuable resources

1838
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:23,519
Speaker 11: that saved her life. You can go on our Instagram

1839
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:26,120
Speaker 11: and check those out. But she did think nurses other

1840
01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:29,160
Speaker 11: advocates before specifically sharing how she feels like she was

1841
01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:32,200
Speaker 11: let down and basically said she had so many things

1842
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 11: text calls, photos, videos, witnesses, locations, timestamps, surveillance footage. I mean,

1843
01:24:39,479 --> 01:24:42,040
Speaker 11: she felt like she did everything she was supposed to

1844
01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:44,519
Speaker 11: do as a victim, but over and over again she

1845
01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 11: was told the same thing. A guilty verdict is hard

1846
01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 11: in criminal court, so she eventually things came to a halt.

1847
01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:53,920
Speaker 11: But she started in season seventeen of The Bachelorette got

1848
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:57,360
Speaker 11: engaged to Blake Moyin's. They ended up getting engaged in

1849
01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:00,760
Speaker 11: the season finale, but broke up in October twenty twenty one.

1850
01:25:00,800 --> 01:25:01,919
Speaker 1: I just checked her Instagram.

1851
01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:03,600
Speaker 11: It seems like she's doing stand up now and I

1852
01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 11: think she's dating another comedian on there.

1853
01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:08,040
Speaker 1: But check that out if you want to see any

1854
01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 1: of that.

1855
01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 11: Kendrick Lamar's Juneteenth pop out concert continues to have a

1856
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 11: really positive ripple effects on LA, bringing in two hundred

1857
01:25:15,520 --> 01:25:19,480
Speaker 11: thousand dollars for twenty LA based charities and city community

1858
01:25:19,520 --> 01:25:23,120
Speaker 11: initiatives like the Compton Girls Club. If you missed it somehow,

1859
01:25:23,120 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 11: if you're living under a rock. It, you know, brought

1860
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:28,960
Speaker 11: out some of LA's biggest names, Drey Tyler, the creator

1861
01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 11: ty Dallas sign.

1862
01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah he laughed, but he was mentioned. Yeah, he was

1863
01:25:34,720 --> 01:25:38,240
Speaker 1: mentioned again Mustard. I mean there were a time. Wasn't

1864
01:25:38,280 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 1: Lebron there?

1865
01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:39,679
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1866
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:42,639
Speaker 7: And uh Russell Russell Westbrook was there.

1867
01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:43,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, Lebron was there.

1868
01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:46,639
Speaker 7: No, but Demarto Rosen who's also from Compton.

1869
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:49,840
Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought, you know, okay, he wasn't.

1870
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:51,640
Speaker 11: Maybe because I have a story about him and a

1871
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:55,960
Speaker 11: couple of stories. But Audrina Patridge is dating country singer

1872
01:25:56,040 --> 01:25:59,479
Speaker 11: Michael Ray. The Hell's alum shared a photo of her

1873
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 11: or on her or rather Instagram story. She was being

1874
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 11: held up by him, had her legs wrapped around him, smooching.

1875
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:09,280
Speaker 11: She kept in the photo this one. Oh okay, I

1876
01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:09,599
Speaker 11: don't know.

1877
01:26:10,040 --> 01:26:11,760
Speaker 4: I don't know if this is the right Michael Ray.

1878
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:15,080
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean there's only one Michael Ray.

1879
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:17,240
Speaker 1: He's just a random country singer.

1880
01:26:17,280 --> 01:26:23,839
Speaker 11: It's cute, but I don't know, yeah, yeha. Audrina obviously

1881
01:26:23,960 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 11: dated Hill's co star Justin Bobby Ryan Cabrera she dated,

1882
01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:30,799
Speaker 11: so she's like the queen.

1883
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:31,840
Speaker 1: Of the early two thousands.

1884
01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:34,639
Speaker 11: She was married to a dude named Corey for two years,

1885
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:35,479
Speaker 11: has a daughter with him.

1886
01:26:35,479 --> 01:26:39,120
Speaker 1: And then Michael Ray was married to Carly Pearce. Oh

1887
01:26:39,240 --> 01:26:39,719
Speaker 1: and if.

1888
01:26:39,560 --> 01:26:41,880
Speaker 11: You listen to Miss Carly's music, you know that she

1889
01:26:41,920 --> 01:26:45,360
Speaker 11: doesn't fail too clean about Michael Ray. She filed just

1890
01:26:45,439 --> 01:26:47,800
Speaker 11: eight months after they were married, so some went down.

1891
01:26:48,880 --> 01:26:52,320
Speaker 11: But yeah, they're cute couple. They're both really hot. Lebron James,

1892
01:26:52,320 --> 01:26:53,799
Speaker 11: this is why he was on the mine. He opted

1893
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:56,759
Speaker 11: out of the final year of his contract with the Lakers,

1894
01:26:56,760 --> 01:26:58,200
Speaker 11: expected to re sign with the team.

1895
01:26:58,439 --> 01:27:00,200
Speaker 1: I think we thought this was happening.

1896
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:02,720
Speaker 11: This is just confirmation he would have made fifty one

1897
01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 11: point four million this season if he opted in. His agent,

1898
01:27:06,080 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 11: Rich Paul said that Lebron could take a pay cut

1899
01:27:09,040 --> 01:27:11,760
Speaker 11: to help the Lakers sign another impact player. Rich that

1900
01:27:11,840 --> 01:27:13,879
Speaker 11: he's hoping to have a deal in place before Lebron

1901
01:27:13,920 --> 01:27:17,120
Speaker 11: it leaves for training camp later this week for the

1902
01:27:17,160 --> 01:27:18,080
Speaker 11: Paris Olympics.

1903
01:27:18,160 --> 01:27:21,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, he better hurry because dudes are signing everywhere left

1904
01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:22,200
Speaker 7: and right.

1905
01:27:22,360 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 4: Like Paul George is on the Sixers.

1906
01:27:24,479 --> 01:27:26,280
Speaker 7: Neck I saw that, like all the big names, like

1907
01:27:26,360 --> 01:27:28,840
Speaker 7: you think you could Chris Paul is in the Spurs. Yeah,

1908
01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:31,760
Speaker 7: Russell no, James Harden is staying with the Clippers, So

1909
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:34,519
Speaker 7: better you better act fast because there ain't gonna be

1910
01:27:34,520 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 7: no nobody left to join.

1911
01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:36,519
Speaker 2: You, Lebron.

1912
01:27:36,560 --> 01:27:37,719
Speaker 1: Who else would there be? Yeah?

1913
01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 11: He doesn't strike me as someone that would take a

1914
01:27:39,360 --> 01:27:40,479
Speaker 11: pay cut, Lebron.

1915
01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:41,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean.

1916
01:27:41,880 --> 01:27:44,439
Speaker 23: I it's gotta be some kind of deal, like, hey,

1917
01:27:44,960 --> 01:27:46,840
Speaker 23: draft my son, I'll take it.

1918
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:48,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're still Yeah.

1919
01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:51,160
Speaker 26: Maybe it's like there's a lot of right, there's a

1920
01:27:51,160 --> 01:27:52,160
Speaker 26: lot of behind the scenes.

1921
01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my Okay, Well that's on your sports report.

1922
01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:00,280
Speaker 11: Catch up on everything you missed from the Fred Show

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Speaker 11: on our free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 4: The formula for the perfect start to your day. Someone's

1925
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:09,240
Speaker 4: figured this out, okay, and I read about it this morning,

1926
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:12,200
Speaker 4: And if you can hear us now, then unless you're

1927
01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:14,760
Speaker 4: listening to us later on the podcast, then we've all

1928
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:17,599
Speaker 4: already screwed this up. So if you want to start

1929
01:28:17,640 --> 01:28:21,760
Speaker 4: the day right according to this, you want to get

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Speaker 4: out of bed at seven twelve am and then exercise

1931
01:28:24,840 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 4: for exactly twenty one minutes. I'm done.

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Speaker 1: I have a job.

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01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:33,720
Speaker 2: No, it's exercising part for me. I wish I could

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Speaker 2: do that.

1935
01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:36,160
Speaker 4: I wish that I could get up an hour earlier

1936
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Speaker 4: and get my workout done first thing. I wish I could,

1937
01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:43,160
Speaker 4: but that would mean getting up at three instead of like,

1938
01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:44,760
Speaker 4: just no way, there's no way.

1939
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 24: That show, the morning show, the one that you guys

1940
01:28:46,920 --> 01:28:49,519
Speaker 24: are watching, Jennifer Aniston waking up and going to like

1941
01:28:49,560 --> 01:28:51,200
Speaker 24: on a peloton at three am because she worked a

1942
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Speaker 24: morning show.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, that is so unrealistic, Like we're

1944
01:28:54,080 --> 01:28:54,680
Speaker 1: not doing that.

1945
01:28:55,240 --> 01:28:57,920
Speaker 4: Like I read somewhere the George Stephanopolis, the guy who

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01:28:57,920 --> 01:29:01,040
Speaker 4: hosts Good Morning America. I heard he gets up at

1947
01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:04,760
Speaker 4: like three and meditates for thirty minutes or something before

1948
01:29:04,800 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 4: he does anything. I'm like, dude, you want me to

1949
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:10,160
Speaker 4: get out of bed and then get into a meditative

1950
01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:13,479
Speaker 4: state and not fall asleep, you know what I'm saying.

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01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 2: Like I don't.

1952
01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:17,720
Speaker 4: I would fall asleep, even though it's uncomfortable. If if I

1953
01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:19,559
Speaker 4: sat there, had to close my eyes and think about

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01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 4: nothing or whatever, I would I would. You'd be calling

1955
01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:23,439
Speaker 4: me at six o'clock every day, going to do where

1956
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 4: you done? Like I'm meditating, I'll get there when I'm done. Aka,

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Speaker 4: I fell my ass asleep. You're supposed to spend ten

1958
01:29:30,040 --> 01:29:34,599
Speaker 4: minutes in the shower, eighteen minutes for breakfast. They talked

1959
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:37,759
Speaker 4: to two thousand people and they analyzed all the results.

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01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 4: A mathematician did the average answers show the optimal time

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Speaker 4: in the showers ten minutes. People preferring eight hours in

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Speaker 4: bed waking up, This.

1963
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Speaker 2: Is preferring eight hours.

1964
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Speaker 4: Come on, this is waking up at six forty four

1965
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Speaker 4: but not getting up until seven twelve.

1966
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:58,320
Speaker 2: Now I do that. I get up at four, but.

1967
01:29:58,280 --> 01:29:59,880
Speaker 4: I don't get out of bed until like four th

1968
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:01,599
Speaker 4: thirty four to forty five because I just sit there

1969
01:30:01,600 --> 01:30:06,519
Speaker 4: and do all my stuff in my bed. Okay, yeah,

1970
01:30:06,640 --> 01:30:09,640
Speaker 4: and so I guess there's a way to calculate this mathematically.

1971
01:30:09,960 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 4: So to calculate if your routine will put you in

1972
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Speaker 4: a good mood, double the time you spend on breakfast.

1973
01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:18,639
Speaker 4: Then add the minutes spent exercising and showering. Now work

1974
01:30:18,680 --> 01:30:21,599
Speaker 4: out the difference between how long you slept and the

1975
01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:25,280
Speaker 4: optimum eight hours. For example, if you got six and

1976
01:30:25,320 --> 01:30:27,720
Speaker 4: a half hours and the difference then would be an

1977
01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:29,719
Speaker 4: hour and a half, then I supposed gus, you're supposed

1978
01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:33,560
Speaker 4: to minus that. So the total this is very complicated.

1979
01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:37,080
Speaker 4: The total minutes for breakfast doubled exercise and showering, divided

1980
01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:40,400
Speaker 4: by the sum on sleeping and getting up times. Then

1981
01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:42,720
Speaker 4: the minutes spent doing things such as reading the newspaper

1982
01:30:42,760 --> 01:30:46,240
Speaker 4: and doing a crossword. If the numbers higher than thirty seven,

1983
01:30:46,840 --> 01:30:48,880
Speaker 4: then you have the best morning. I'm not doing any

1984
01:30:48,920 --> 01:30:51,960
Speaker 4: of this. Oh, that's a lot of stuff. I would

1985
01:30:51,960 --> 01:30:55,880
Speaker 4: like to see the correlation of that to their bank account. Like, yeah,

1986
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Speaker 4: none of the lad is like millionaires just do that

1987
01:30:58,360 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 4: all day. You know what I'm saying. I think this

1988
01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:02,360
Speaker 4: was based on like having a good day. What is

1989
01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 4: this based on the perfect start to your day? So

1990
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:07,679
Speaker 4: it doesn't necessarily mean that, you know, these people get rich.

1991
01:31:08,320 --> 01:31:11,200
Speaker 4: It just means that this is apparently the best way

1992
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Speaker 4: to start your day.

1993
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Speaker 7: But I feel like the rich people have that time.

1994
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:21,559
Speaker 7: You know, I got breakfast in the morning. What's I

1995
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Speaker 7: know for breakfast?

1996
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Speaker 2: Ten minutes?

1997
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Speaker 4: What Jeff Bezos doesn't His first meeting is at ten am.

1998
01:31:28,560 --> 01:31:30,599
Speaker 4: He doesn't schedule a single meeting before at ten am.

1999
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Speaker 4: And he says he likes to get up at like

2000
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:34,800
Speaker 4: seven or eight. And he says it's quote putter. He

2001
01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:37,320
Speaker 4: likes to just putter around, just like with nothing to do.

2002
01:31:38,800 --> 01:31:41,840
Speaker 4: My Putter is I'm sleeping like I don't if I

2003
01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:44,000
Speaker 4: get up for something that I'm getting up and I'm

2004
01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:47,240
Speaker 4: going there's no getting up an hour before, so I

2005
01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:50,240
Speaker 4: can just screw around like I'm gonna stay in.

2006
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Speaker 2: Bed, you know.

2007
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Speaker 4: But then again, he's a gazillionaire and I'm not, so

2008
01:31:55,160 --> 01:31:56,439
Speaker 4: you know, maybe he's doing something right.

2009
01:31:56,479 --> 01:31:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm not sure.

2010
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Speaker 3: More breadshell Next, The Fread Show is on Fred's fun

2011
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Speaker 3: Fact Fund.

2012
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Speaker 2: This one.

2013
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Speaker 4: But if you didn't, you're gonna be very interesting today

2014
01:32:17,760 --> 01:32:20,479
Speaker 4: when you go to the movies, I mentioned you went

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01:32:20,520 --> 01:32:21,360
Speaker 4: to an actual movies here.

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01:32:21,400 --> 01:32:24,480
Speaker 1: Oh, I just went yep, okay.

2017
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Speaker 2: I guess Air was the last movie I went to.

2018
01:32:26,439 --> 01:32:27,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a little date night.

2019
01:32:27,640 --> 01:32:29,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a date night. It was great. Went

2020
01:32:29,200 --> 01:32:32,320
Speaker 2: to some weird place before and it was yeah at

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01:32:32,360 --> 01:32:33,120
Speaker 2: dinner it was weird.

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Speaker 1: I think about that place a lot more.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to say the place because I don't

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01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:37,559
Speaker 4: want to do that, but it was very strange. It

2025
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 4: was like we walked in they were like, what are

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01:32:39,120 --> 01:32:45,639
Speaker 4: you doing here? What you need something from us? Like, yeah,

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01:32:45,880 --> 01:32:47,559
Speaker 4: actually we're here for food, and yeah we're here for

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Speaker 4: subsidence please.

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Speaker 2: But movie trailers the show before the movies.

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Speaker 4: Yes, they used to show after the feature film, which

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01:32:56,760 --> 01:33:00,760
Speaker 4: is why they're called trailers. Jason, Oh, but everyone would

2032
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:03,600
Speaker 4: probably leave. They used to trail the main attraction. The

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01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:06,120
Speaker 4: first trailer premiered in nineteen twelve. It was for a

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01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:10,040
Speaker 4: Broadway show, The Pleasure Seekers, not a movie. Gradually, trailer

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01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:13,599
Speaker 4: started spreading in popularity. They were produced by theaters themselves.

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01:33:13,680 --> 01:33:17,240
Speaker 4: In nineteen sixteen, the movie studios took the reins. And

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Speaker 4: so you're right. I would not wait until the end

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01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 4: of the movie and then all the credits to watch

2039
01:33:22,280 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 4: a trailer. I would not do that. But now when

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01:33:24,360 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 4: you go in, you're forced to watch. You know, however

2041
01:33:26,920 --> 01:33:28,480
Speaker 4: many minutes of trailers.

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Speaker 7: And a lot of the times now with superhero movies,

2043
01:33:30,439 --> 01:33:33,000
Speaker 7: you're forced to watch all the credits because there's you know,

2044
01:33:33,360 --> 01:33:34,519
Speaker 7: little easter eggs at the end.

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01:33:34,600 --> 01:33:36,320
Speaker 2: Oh yes, sorry scenes at the end to.

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01:33:36,520 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what they are because my eyes

2047
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:40,800
Speaker 4: an't gone. Soon as things start rolling, I'm like no.

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Speaker 7: Because there's pre post credit mid credits scene.

2049
01:33:44,479 --> 01:33:47,880
Speaker 2: Soon hits, I'm like i gotta go. Nope, not stand.

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Speaker 3: More.

2051
01:33:49,960 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 2: Fred Show Next, You've Got Your Way Fread Show is on.

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01:34:00,120 --> 01:34:00,719
Speaker 11: Funny South.

2053
01:34:04,439 --> 01:34:05,920
Speaker 4: This is a story from earlier in the week that

2054
01:34:05,960 --> 01:34:09,040
Speaker 4: I hadn't gotten to yet, But a drunk man caused

2055
01:34:09,120 --> 01:34:14,000
Speaker 4: chaos after breaking into the police department when they were closed.

2056
01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:18,800
Speaker 4: So this guy broke into the Naples police department. Most

2057
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:21,360
Speaker 4: people are trying to stay out of the police department.

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01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:24,880
Speaker 4: This guy broke into it. He vandalized. First of all,

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01:34:24,920 --> 01:34:28,599
Speaker 4: he got into an unlocked patrol cruiser, sat in there

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Speaker 4: for a minute it couldn't get started, waited for all

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01:34:31,200 --> 01:34:34,080
Speaker 4: the cops to leave. Then he got into the police station,

2062
01:34:34,160 --> 01:34:38,120
Speaker 4: flooded it, whoa pooped on the women's locker room floor,

2063
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Speaker 4: which is nice of him. And then he stole a

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01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:45,160
Speaker 4: uniform and a nine hundred dollars bulletproof vest and apparently

2065
01:34:45,200 --> 01:34:47,280
Speaker 4: went down the street to seven to eleven, where the

2066
01:34:47,280 --> 01:34:49,439
Speaker 4: police had then figured out that he had done this,

2067
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Speaker 4: and they arrested him. He's being charged with grand theft

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Speaker 4: and two counts of burglary. Naples Police not commenting at

2069
01:34:56,400 --> 01:34:59,800
Speaker 4: the moment as they are further investigating. But it makes

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01:34:59,800 --> 01:35:01,840
Speaker 4: me feel better because I've been drunk and done really

2071
01:35:02,120 --> 01:35:04,519
Speaker 4: and said dumb things, but I've never broken into a

2072
01:35:04,560 --> 01:35:08,479
Speaker 4: police station. That's got to be the ultimate broken into

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01:35:08,920 --> 01:35:10,920
Speaker 4: you here people bringing out. I can see why you

2074
01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:14,679
Speaker 4: might break out, if you could get out, broke into

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01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:16,880
Speaker 4: Also another story that I wasn't able to get to

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Speaker 4: this week, but I'm gonna get to now. Is that

2077
01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:23,920
Speaker 4: a redditor or a redditor someone who uses Reddit has

2078
01:35:24,240 --> 01:35:27,479
Speaker 4: been heartbroken to discover that the perfect woman that he

2079
01:35:27,520 --> 01:35:33,400
Speaker 4: had met online was actually an AI creation. AI going

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01:35:33,439 --> 01:35:35,920
Speaker 4: on to another level now of AI. You know we're

2081
01:35:35,920 --> 01:35:38,599
Speaker 4: worried about people say it's gonna take over radio. It's

2082
01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:43,599
Speaker 4: gonna take over uh, you know music, it's gonna take

2083
01:35:43,640 --> 01:35:47,200
Speaker 4: over Kanye's life. It's gonna take over all the education,

2084
01:35:48,960 --> 01:35:51,879
Speaker 4: you know, people not doing homework anymore, not learning anything.

2085
01:35:52,600 --> 01:35:54,679
Speaker 4: But a reditor was heartbroken to discover that this woman

2086
01:35:54,720 --> 01:35:57,920
Speaker 4: named Claudia is actually a I. He said he felt

2087
01:35:57,920 --> 01:36:01,120
Speaker 4: a bit cheated, a bit cheated that he had been

2088
01:36:01,280 --> 01:36:06,280
Speaker 4: cybernetically catfished. That's a new word, cybernetically used that today

2089
01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:09,240
Speaker 4: in a sentence. So he was one of many fans

2090
01:36:09,240 --> 01:36:11,960
Speaker 4: of Claudia, an alleged Reddit girl who became a fixture

2091
01:36:12,000 --> 01:36:15,479
Speaker 4: on the platform by sharing glamorous selfies. One riscape pick,

2092
01:36:15,800 --> 01:36:18,040
Speaker 4: which has since been deleted, showed the web girl in

2093
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:20,479
Speaker 4: the nude with a caption what do you think about

2094
01:36:20,520 --> 01:36:27,839
Speaker 4: my body? That may have been the first clue, he said, Claudia,

2095
01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:30,680
Speaker 4: you're pretty sexy and perfect. Unfortunately, the girl of his

2096
01:36:30,800 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 4: dreams was in fact a deep fake. She'd been created

2097
01:36:34,040 --> 01:36:37,400
Speaker 4: by two computer science students who concocted the avatar as

2098
01:36:37,439 --> 01:36:39,840
Speaker 4: a goof to see if you can fool people with

2099
01:36:39,920 --> 01:36:43,320
Speaker 4: AI pictures. They'd reportedly been inspired after encountering a post

2100
01:36:43,360 --> 01:36:45,479
Speaker 4: from a reditor who claimed to earn five hundred dollars

2101
01:36:45,600 --> 01:36:50,759
Speaker 4: from catfishing victims online. So there, you gotta be careful

2102
01:36:50,800 --> 01:36:54,280
Speaker 4: these days on these apps. Man, I don't know that.

2103
01:36:54,439 --> 01:36:56,400
Speaker 4: I feel like we're trying to get tricked at every turn.

2104
01:36:57,160 --> 01:37:00,280
Speaker 4: It's you know, you get text messages with talked about

2105
01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:03,400
Speaker 4: that yesterday. That's a scam. Now we got fake AI

2106
01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:08,320
Speaker 4: women and women. Some women are offended by the fact that, Like,

2107
01:37:09,160 --> 01:37:10,920
Speaker 4: if you're on the dating apps, I try and get

2108
01:37:10,960 --> 01:37:13,400
Speaker 4: proof of life pretty quickly. Like I try and get

2109
01:37:13,439 --> 01:37:15,599
Speaker 4: to the point, can I see an Instagram? Can I,

2110
01:37:15,640 --> 01:37:18,160
Speaker 4: you know, hold up my famous hold up three picture,

2111
01:37:18,479 --> 01:37:21,479
Speaker 4: hold up three fingers and the like. And some people

2112
01:37:21,520 --> 01:37:24,200
Speaker 4: are offended. And I hate to say this, but there

2113
01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:26,599
Speaker 4: are a lot of fake Asian women on these apps too.

2114
01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:29,400
Speaker 4: I don't know why, but they tend to pick. I

2115
01:37:29,400 --> 01:37:31,040
Speaker 4: don't know if it's because the pictures are harder to

2116
01:37:31,080 --> 01:37:34,160
Speaker 4: trace or whatever, but on like Hinge for example, or Bumble,

2117
01:37:34,360 --> 01:37:36,920
Speaker 4: there tend to be And so if you do match

2118
01:37:37,120 --> 01:37:39,599
Speaker 4: with certain you know, people of certain ethnicities, and I'm

2119
01:37:39,600 --> 01:37:41,920
Speaker 4: so I guess I'm a little more cautious. And sometimes

2120
01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:43,840
Speaker 4: these people have been like, you know, what is it

2121
01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:46,680
Speaker 4: with you guys in the catfishing. It's like because a

2122
01:37:46,720 --> 01:37:49,639
Speaker 4: lot of these people are not real, and who knows.

2123
01:37:49,640 --> 01:37:51,599
Speaker 4: Maybe I'm talking to mabe. I maybe I'd be better

2124
01:37:51,640 --> 01:37:53,080
Speaker 4: off than an AI relationship.

2125
01:37:53,800 --> 01:37:56,720
Speaker 2: Do you think? No, I need I need the real thing.

2126
01:37:56,800 --> 01:37:59,240
Speaker 2: Though I need the real thing, you deserve the real thing.

2127
01:37:59,479 --> 01:38:02,720
Speaker 4: I'd probably to get yelled at by an AI girlfriend though, yeah,

2128
01:38:02,760 --> 01:38:04,000
Speaker 4: girlfriend be liked.

2129
01:38:04,160 --> 01:38:10,360
Speaker 26: How do I turn his computer off?

2130
01:38:13,200 --> 01:38:14,200
Speaker 2: You're not really.

2131
01:38:16,280 --> 01:38:18,759
Speaker 4: Fred Show, thank you so much for having us on today.

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2134
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Speaker 4: bring you more things because we love you. Like waiting

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Speaker 4: on the phone, which you do every day. Why did

2139
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:41,120
Speaker 4: somebody get ghosted? It's our public service Each game show

2140
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Speaker 4: Wednesday tomorrow as well, So definitely gonna beat Paulina and

2141
01:38:44,680 --> 01:38:47,599
Speaker 4: Kiki karaoke tomorrow. Can I keep my own stuff straight?

2142
01:38:47,640 --> 01:38:49,040
Speaker 4: I'm not sure. Have a great day.

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Speaker 2: Bye guys, Bye,