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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Yes, Hello, yeah, hello,

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Speaker 1: you have a dirty little secret? Yes I do, give yes,

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Speaker 1: give it here? What is it? Okay? My dirty little

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Speaker 1: secret is I was born a male and I had

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Speaker 1: a sex change about twenty years ago. And I had

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Speaker 1: raised my sister's kids because she was on drugs and

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Speaker 1: so they all knew. My whole family knows that I,

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Speaker 1: you know, like man. But anyways, I decided to go

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Speaker 1: and have a sex change and I love it. And

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Speaker 1: it's funny because when we go to the doors, if

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Speaker 1: the clerk don't look up at me, they'd be like, okay, sorry,

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Speaker 1: would that be all? And I'd be like, give me,

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Speaker 1: I'm a female. And my kids would just bust out

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Speaker 1: laughing because they knew, you know, and the clay all

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Speaker 1: alogetic to me. So I'm so sorry. I'm like, that's okay,

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Speaker 1: I get that all the time. Okay, So was your

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Speaker 1: dinalt secret that you actually went through and got the

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Speaker 1: operation done? Yes? I did, I did. Okay, how is that?

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Speaker 1: How is that going? Well? Had enough for twenty years

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Speaker 1: and I'm comfortable with him. I love it. It's great. Um.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to tell I was married for seven years

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Speaker 1: to a male and he did not know whoa really

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Speaker 1: it was that good, Oh my god. And I decided

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Speaker 1: to tell him, and unfortunately we got a divorce. No,

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Speaker 1: that's crazy to me. What So he was married to

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Speaker 1: you for seven years, right, he didn't know that you

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Speaker 1: were born a man. Right. Well, what made it even

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Speaker 1: more convincing for him to what he told me was

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Speaker 1: because I had my kids. Oh and so they all

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Speaker 1: called me morome. So how come you didn't want to

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Speaker 1: tell him at the beginning? Well, I don't think he

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Speaker 1: would have married me, right, So when he broke up

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Speaker 1: with you right when you told him, was it because

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Speaker 1: you lied to him? Or was it just because of

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Speaker 1: that you were born a dude? Um? You know, I

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Speaker 1: think it was because. I think it was because of both. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because then he went through very emotional stage where he

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Speaker 1: thought that he was gay, and I was trying to

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Speaker 1: convince him that he wasn't, you know, because I am

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Speaker 1: a fem Yeah, yeah, you are. When I said born,

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Speaker 1: I just mete. You had the parts when you were

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Speaker 1: born because inside you've always been a female, right correct? Yeah? Correct?

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Speaker 1: My mother has four sisters, Well, I have four sisters

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Speaker 1: my mother has four other kids besides me, and so

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Speaker 1: she would tell everybody that she has five daughters. See

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Speaker 1: that's weird. Like if you're with somebody that long though,

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Speaker 1: and then they find that out. I mean, I could

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Speaker 1: see being upset that you lie that you was you

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Speaker 1: didn't tell them, right, because this should know about your

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Speaker 1: history you no matter what. If you're with a partner,

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Speaker 1: it's cool to know where they came from and you

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Speaker 1: know them. Basically, I could see being upset about that,

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Speaker 1: but not the other thing, Like Alex and I are married,

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Speaker 1: if he didn't know that, and honestly, she could tell

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Speaker 1: me tomorrow that she's like, I want to change into whatever, right,

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Speaker 1: and I would I would stay. I'd be like, okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: all right, well fine, because you love her her as

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Speaker 1: a person, right, whatever she decides to be. It would

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Speaker 1: be shocking. Obviously, I'd be like, WHOA, I had no idea,

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Speaker 1: didn't see that coming, but all right, let's do this.

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Speaker 1: But if I was in that situation, I might be

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Speaker 1: upset because somebody lied. But then if you guys been

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Speaker 1: together for seven years and he thought you were female

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Speaker 1: the whole time and didn't know, Like, to me, that's

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Speaker 1: just weird that he would leave. Yeah, well, well you

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Speaker 1: know that we stayed together. We try to make it,

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Speaker 1: you know, for about a year after I had told him,

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Speaker 1: and I guess because of the situation and everything else,

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Speaker 1: he just couldn't handle it anymore and it just kind

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Speaker 1: of stayed it away, which is fine, you know, fine

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Speaker 1: because I'm better off now without you know, my kids

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Speaker 1: are growing now at that grand baby, Oh yeah, I thought,

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Speaker 1: live the life. You know, I've only had one person

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Speaker 1: that I have dated. Dad had questioned me about whether

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Speaker 1: I was a mail or a femail and I told

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Speaker 1: him and he was fine with that. So, you know,

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Speaker 1: we dated for a little bit. But he just looked

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Speaker 1: like that's cool, you know, and I look why you

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Speaker 1: might have had that X that you know, it wasn't supportive.

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Speaker 1: I think it's incredible that the rest of your family

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Speaker 1: seems to be just loving and supportive of you, especially

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Speaker 1: your mom, so totally for you. You You know, don't let

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Speaker 1: that one person get you down. Screw them, right, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much. And having a Pride month.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, You're welcome, and I'm a one person. Can

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Speaker 1: I have a Mother's Day and a father the Jewels

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