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Speaker 1: Jennifer Lawrence described this as awful and stressful, and it

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Speaker 1: was her wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was that basically her role as a bride,

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Speaker 2: and so she described parts of the experience as awful.

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Speaker 2: You're not having fun, You're just like, is this person

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Speaker 2: having fun? She basically was talking about how she's constantly worried.

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Speaker 2: Specifically at her wedding, she was so worried that all

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Speaker 2: of her guests were cold, so she wasn't enjoying herself.

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Speaker 2: She was just stressed out about all of her guests.

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Speaker 2: And then she said that she was also worried during

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Speaker 2: her rehearsal dinner. Robert de Niro was one of her

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Speaker 2: guests and he didn't know anybody, and so she was

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Speaker 2: worried about him, like wandering around not knowing anybody. She

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Speaker 2: said she went over to him and told him to

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Speaker 2: go home because she felt bad.

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Speaker 1: She tried to leave the wedding.

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Speaker 2: No, it was a rehearsal dinner, but yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: because he didn't know anybody, and so she was like

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Speaker 2: stressed that he didn't know anybody trying.

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Speaker 1: To know him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I would think that makes it easier, No,

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Speaker 2: because out of respect, people.

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Speaker 3: Aren't going to go up to him and be like, ay.

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Speaker 1: Right, it's healthy, seem always so approachable.

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Speaker 3: Right right, But just in general, I was thinking, such

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Speaker 3: a legend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so it kind of goes back to Ryan

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Speaker 2: what you always say about making the day about you

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Speaker 2: and your partner. But I feel like it's so much

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Speaker 2: easier said than done. And I don't know one person

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Speaker 2: that has been married or had a wedding that hasn't

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Speaker 2: done something because of somebody else.

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Speaker 1: But see that, to me is just so off the

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Speaker 1: mark of the point of the celebration of two people

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Speaker 1: on their day.

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Speaker 3: I know you are.

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Speaker 1: Running the risk of doing this same thing. I could

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Speaker 1: see you, Jennifer lawrenceing.

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Speaker 2: I know because I go, okay, no, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: vote like I want to do. I want to do

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Speaker 2: what Robbie and I are what we want to do.

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Speaker 2: And so then I go down that path and I

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Speaker 2: start pursuing it, and then I'm like, when.

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Speaker 1: We started talking at the table, when you were talking

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Speaker 1: about me officiating the wedding, which I will be doing

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Speaker 1: that you were like stressing about numbers of people based

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Speaker 1: on the geography of the of the wedding, right right.

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Speaker 2: I mean you go through that whole stress of like

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Speaker 2: where do you draw the line? Like how do you

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Speaker 2: not make it hundreds and hundreds of people? Then you

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Speaker 2: feel bad about let but you know, I just was

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Speaker 2: constantly feeling bad, and then when you do what you want,

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Speaker 2: you feel bad about doing what you want, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't know, I'm like I get what Jennifer Lawrence is saying.

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Speaker 1: Well, Tanya, the only person there with experience is sisiny.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any guidance?

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Speaker 4: Look, there's stress planning any event. It could be your

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Speaker 4: wedding and it can be a birthday party, it could

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Speaker 4: be something for work once you get to the event,

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Speaker 4: and that being your wedding day, which is something that

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Speaker 4: you've looked forward to for probably since you were a

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Speaker 4: little girl, Right, you have to let all that stuff go,

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Speaker 4: Like I didn't worry about one person on my actual

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Speaker 4: wedding day except for Michael and me, Like it was

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Speaker 4: just the two of us and it all worked out.

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Speaker 3: So I have you know, there's problems.

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Speaker 4: Someone was cold, if there was a baby somewhere that

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Speaker 4: I wasn't supposed to be there, I didn't care, you know,

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Speaker 4: like it was okay.

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Speaker 2: So like problems will happen, Things come up. It is stressful,

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Speaker 2: but on the day of it all, I think you

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Speaker 2: let it all go and you enjoy the day.

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Speaker 4: Like I only have wonderful, amazing memories for my wedding day,

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Speaker 4: and it's because I didn't like worry about other people.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, would have been crazy if I did.

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Speaker 1: The only absolute is don't have a wedding.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's not go to that extreme.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's the only way to make it.

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Speaker 3: For sure, So which is why you're waiting.

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Speaker 4: Obviously, you can make it an iHeart event and then

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Speaker 4: you don't have to plan it.

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Speaker 5: Someone else could plan it for you.

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Speaker 1: It's not about planning it, it's all of it.

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Speaker 5: The planning does add this layers of stress.

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Speaker 4: I will give you that. It is stressful leading up

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Speaker 4: once you come up with a date.

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Speaker 2: No, but we're down a good path right now. We're

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Speaker 2: down a good path right now. No, we're trying to

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Speaker 2: we're still in the figuring out where all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, why you do that post Malone, Nicki Minaj,

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Speaker 1: Why gee, Big Sean, they're all going to roll through

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Speaker 1: town before your wedding.

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Speaker 3: Did you listen to call her Daddy episode about her wedding?

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Speaker 3: You should?

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Speaker 5: I think listen to it, but I think you told

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Speaker 5: us about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I heard it, but everybody.

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Speaker 2: Loves something about him walking her down the aisle, knows

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Speaker 2: like she's gone through. They were gonna get married in

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Speaker 2: Nashville in this place, and like she's gone through like

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Speaker 2: seventeen different places.

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Speaker 1: Did you send it to us?

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Speaker 3: I talked about in a trending report.

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Speaker 1: I mean tell you, I can't remember the trending reports. Okay,