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Speaker 1: Real, for real celebrity joined the Breakfast Morning. Everybody is

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Speaker 1: DJ M v Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got two special guests in the building.

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Speaker 1: Now our intern has really done his homework we have.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to pronounce his full name, Boris Frederick

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Speaker 1: Cecil tating the tat tway. It pains me in my heart.

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Speaker 1: Boris Frederick Cecil. Don't count the cole you posting though,

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Speaker 1: that you study over and over. Thanks for having us absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Now you guys have a TV show coming on Fox

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Speaker 1: to talk show, Yes, daytime talk show. One kind of

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Speaker 1: relationship with Vice. Because I get from a beautiful, rich couple.

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Speaker 1: How can all relate to us regular see? Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you my wife actually answered as best this morning

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Speaker 1: when when asked the same question you want to repeat, No,

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Speaker 1: I don't answer. Remember what she was on the day?

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Speaker 1: She don't remember. It was like six in the morning.

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Speaker 1: When it comes to open in the morning, putting sneakers on,

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Speaker 1: the kids, checking the homework. Everybody's the same. We all

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Speaker 1: got the same stuff going on at home. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: matter where you live, doesn't matter what color you are,

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Speaker 1: It's all the same, and that's what we want to

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Speaker 1: talk about. We want to talk about stuff that everybody's

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Speaker 1: passionate about, everybody's worried about, concerned with, whether it's current

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Speaker 1: topics issues or whether it's parenting, love, relationship, sex. Um,

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Speaker 1: that's the kind of stuff that we're gonna have on

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Speaker 1: our show every day. But what about if there's a

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Speaker 1: problem in the household and one goes one way, one

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Speaker 1: goes the other way, who wins? You really have to

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Speaker 1: ask that question, you have to answer, you know what,

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Speaker 1: we accepted. Absolutely, we accepted. That's what we're signed up for.

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Speaker 1: And we're learning how to communicate every day. We're getting

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Speaker 1: better at it every day. Like guys have to learn

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Speaker 1: how to be more present, to listen, how to listen.

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Speaker 1: Women have to understand that we became parents the exact

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Speaker 1: same second, right right, because they sometimes treat us we

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Speaker 1: don't know. This is how you gotta do it. This

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Speaker 1: is how you gotta feed them. Don't you understand I

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Speaker 1: do it my way. That's what they do. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: feel like it's a father. You become a parent the

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Speaker 1: exact we do. Maybe comes out, I mean we do.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you have kids, Oh, so were you there at

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Speaker 1: birth about you, That's what I'm saying. You became father

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Speaker 1: the same exact time she became a technically, but I

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Speaker 1: don't feel the same attachment, probably not until her later. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: but maybe that's just your individual fee. I mean, I,

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Speaker 1: for one, when my daughter was born, she came out screaming.

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Speaker 1: She was screaming, and then I started talking to her

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Speaker 1: everybody has their own experience, but I feel that, um

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Speaker 1: as it as it pertains to parenting, we're equal. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like so if if if you don't think we're equal, no,

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Speaker 1: that's nothing with parenting. That's that's that's your relationship with

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Speaker 1: your wife. Absolutely, I'm just talking about. Yes, yes, well,

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Speaker 1: I think as a wife, I needed to stop caring

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Speaker 1: are the kind of pancakes you just sit here and

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Speaker 1: be all perfect. Now, let me ask you something recently.

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Speaker 1: He's always sat down and was on the news talking

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Speaker 1: Would you ever have considered being, you know, Boris Parker Kojoe. No,

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Speaker 1: because it doesn't sound good pancakes. Nobody will believe me

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Speaker 1: making great pancakes. And my name is BLUs No, no, no, seriously,

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Speaker 1: though my heritage, my African heritage, you would go through

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Speaker 1: So when we named our children, we had to go

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Speaker 1: And that's how I was named as well as you

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Speaker 1: Two individuals made these people like the Jolie Pitts, like

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Speaker 1: I am, however, considering changing my name after ten years

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Speaker 1: do you take us your wife take your name? Well?

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Speaker 1: Do you think I should take his name? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think you should keep yours too that I think

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Speaker 1: That's a whole lot ooh on the Oscar. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of hard. That's a compromise only you know.

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Speaker 1: like after two years. Yeah, but we kind of I

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Speaker 1: I think that's the basis of a good relationship that

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Speaker 1: West logic. Ten years you run the manage too. Now

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Speaker 1: Let's come up today, Like somebody else asks us, what

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Speaker 1: I was like, what a date with? Good? A date

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Speaker 1: like dinner cheesecake for like a double date? Wow, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, we are there. Yeah, I'm with swinging. Let

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Speaker 1: Name any couple, Will and Jada. Okay, well, somebody will

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Speaker 1: like not enjoying myself. So there's always gonna be trouble.

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Speaker 1: But you always know your wife. You wouldn't you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: know what don't we're talking about that I Will and Jada.

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Speaker 1: I do not want to smash either one of them.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to smash Kim and Kanye. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: How do y'all like stay out of the news, Like

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Speaker 1: And when we prioritize that way and we're instill good

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Speaker 1: that Mark, why do you say, why do you say woman?

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Speaker 1: She sacrificed her career, she said, to raise their two.

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Speaker 1: That's the point right there, what you said. I think

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Speaker 1: mine started running your mom on the breakfast club. No, look, look,

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Speaker 1: he deserves all the success. He's incredible. And I think

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Speaker 1: like I don't negotiate with my nanny, Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 1: You're acting weird on your phone and riding it and

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Speaker 1: What you gonna do? Everything before y'all got with each other,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, for sure you got to reveal

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Speaker 1: he was like, oh, nicky love. I was like, whoa,

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Speaker 1: what is that? What anyway exactly that's exactly what time

423
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Speaker 1: because famous and now it's like everybody was the claim,

424
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Speaker 1: I don't know whatever. What about discipline and your children?

425
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 1: How do you guys discipline your children? We do, definitely

426
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Speaker 1: it's important well because kids need structured and they need

427
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: to they need to schedule. They need structured and discipline

428
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: because it gives them a sense of safety, you know,

429
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Speaker 1: that confidence. And I grew up in Germany. German mother

430
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: so boom, boom boom, everything was on time and dinner

431
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: at this time, and so I was. I was raised. Yeah,

432
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Speaker 1: he's kind of the dress, but I was really I

433
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 1: was spank discipline and I and I don't I haven't

434
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Speaker 1: spanked my children yet, but I do said yet ten

435
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 1: and eight. That's pretty good. No, but I jacked up. Yeah, yeah,

436
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: I yoke up because sometimes it's just you just have to.

437
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: It's not about abuse, it's about you're all. You're almost

438
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Speaker 1: saving them for the real world. Like listen, watch yourself,

439
00:24:55,800 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: pull yourself together, because you know someone's gonna watch him out. Now.

440
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Speaker 1: Did you too pitch this show or did they come

441
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Speaker 1: to you and say, you know it would be a

442
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: great idea. No, it came from us. We conceptionalized it

443
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: five years ago as a radio show, and then we

444
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: couldn't do it scheduling wise, And the last year we

445
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 1: looked at the show said the timing is right to

446
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 1: do it right now, we got to do it mental

447
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: Fox and they were excited about it. Yeah, yeah, we're

448
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: excited about it. That bors. You also said one time

449
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 1: that infidelity is justified in certain cases. Bo, what was it?

450
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: Hold on? What was the context? Is that? In a movie?

451
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: It's very out of context for me to say what

452
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Speaker 1: what do you remember what that was looking like? When

453
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Speaker 1: did he say that because it's justified in certain cases?

454
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Speaker 1: He was, I was gonna ask you what are those cases?

455
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: I don't know what that context was. Um, I know

456
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Speaker 1: where did you get that front there? Next question, I

457
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Speaker 1: don't know what I know how because I don't think

458
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Speaker 1: it is. Um, No, I don't. I don't remember what

459
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: I said that. I mean, it's not good answer. If

460
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Speaker 1: I'm on the talk show and I raised my hand

461
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Speaker 1: and I say, hey, mister Colejo, his infidelity justified. Well

462
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: you didn't ask that. You said, mister, infidelity justified in

463
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: certain cases. Yeah, well I don't think so. But you

464
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Speaker 1: would have to give me a case that I would

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Speaker 1: understand that to be. But generally speaking, I would not

466
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Speaker 1: agree with that statement. Got you, Now correct me if

467
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Speaker 1: I'm wrong on both of you. All products of ventiation relationships.

468
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Speaker 1: No skin from Baltimore. Got you? I said. I wish

469
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: I could say I was half something, but I'm not.

470
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: So you can't play Rachel with those album But you

471
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: know that you see it's all over Twitter. This hilarious.

472
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: Now I want to ask question that we had a

473
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Speaker 1: very heated argument behind the scenes about this. Yesterday. Now,

474
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Speaker 1: this young lady was on Instagram. She posted a picture

475
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Speaker 1: of somebody that was her co worker I guess, kind

476
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Speaker 1: of above her at work, and um, she had quit

477
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Speaker 1: that day and she put out there that she quit

478
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Speaker 1: because she was tired of the b ass. You can

479
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: only take so much, and she was tired of pretending

480
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: like this fool is a good person. I couldn't do

481
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,959
Speaker 1: it anymore. And then she put out there that her

482
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Speaker 1: boss had cheated on a wife, got another, got the

483
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: intern pregnant and had a baby. So on and so forth.

484
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Speaker 1: She put all the business and she put all of

485
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 1: that on Instagram in name yes, and a picture of

486
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Speaker 1: him with the baby. All of it was true, Like,

487
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: I guess you know if it is true, he did

488
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: have a baby by the intern, And she said, I

489
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: refused to put up with this bs for another round.

490
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Speaker 1: Not in my place of business. That's unacceptable for a

491
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Speaker 1: person to make my work environment uncomfortable because they can't

492
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 1: keep their d in their pants. Wow, and so on

493
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: and so forth, so forth. Do you think that was

494
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: a bad move or do you think she's okay to

495
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: do that because it's her experience. I think it's a

496
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Speaker 1: bad move. I agree, Oh my god, there's no because

497
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Speaker 1: because social media. Social media is very dangerous. I mean,

498
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: it can be very detrimental to your life, really, and

499
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: I think that, um, she cannot possibly know the whole story.

500
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Speaker 1: I agree now, whether whether he did what he did

501
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: or not, it's not of her, it's not of her business.

502
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 1: She's she could and there's other ways to deal with

503
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: a with a with a boss who's abusing you. There's

504
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,239
Speaker 1: h nor, there's the apartment to deals with all that,

505
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,199
Speaker 1: and she could have handled it professionally to solve her

506
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: I think, I think that that social media has given

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Speaker 1: credibility to millions and millions and millions of people that

508
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: that do not deserve it. Word well, no credibilable voice.

509
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 1: But I don't know if it's credible. No. But but

510
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: but as soon as somebody tweets something, it becomes news.

511
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: I don't care people think they are, where they are,

512
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,479
Speaker 1: what they're doing, or if they have anything, if they

513
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: don't back up their stories true. That's why I include

514
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Speaker 1: ourselves in that discussion as well, because I have no

515
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: business talking about certain things. Um, I'm not an expert.

516
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm not I wasn't there when I have my opinion,

517
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: but I preface it saying this is just my opinion,

518
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: and that's how it's going to be on the show.

519
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: We're not trying to be When you make states statements

520
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: like this. You have to be accountable and a lot

521
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: of oftentimes people that tweet have like a picture of

522
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: a balloon or whatever, they don't they're not accountable. They

523
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: don't take responsibility for that, for their statements, and that's private.

524
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: That's very dangerous because because I don't mind stating your opinion,

525
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 1: but then being man or woman enough to be accountable

526
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: and be responsible to say, look, it's me. How long

527
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: you've been married? Thirteen years? My wife's in sixteen? Wow? Yeah?

528
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: Four kids? Eazy? Those two boys, how old are they? Thirteen? Eleven,

529
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: two and one. We took a little break and then

530
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: right back to more. We just love kids, love kids.

531
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: It wasn't easy. He was, you know, up and down.

532
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: Tell us do you think it's beneficial? So what is

533
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: somebody like you working? Dad? Big family thirteen years? What

534
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: would make you tune into a new talk show? What

535
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: do you want to see with married people being there?

536
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: You know what, it's just real life conversation. I think

537
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: the best thing about the Breakfast Club is is we're real.

538
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: If something happens in my relationship with my wife, good

539
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,719
Speaker 1: or bad, we talk about it. It was just somebody

540
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: going through the same problem. Somebody going through the same

541
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: having the same health, and sometimes let's somebody else feel

542
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: like I can work through it or I can get

543
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: through it as well. You'll have to drop your own experiences.

544
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: I'd like to hear from y'all. I'd like to see

545
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: y'all be transparent right as opposed just telling everybody else

546
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: what to do. No, absolutely, I mean we relate everything

547
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: to what we have gone through. That's what we wanted,

548
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: you know. Whenever we whenever somebody an ask us a question,

549
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: we always bring it back to you know, where we

550
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 1: went through and what we have done, what we haven't done,

551
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: where we have learned, where we're still learning, where we

552
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: don't know, because we're not experts, you know, so all

553
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: we can be Israel. And you know, sometimes you think

554
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: it's the only one going through something right absolutely, and

555
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: then somebody says it on the radio or on TV,

556
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my god, I cannot believe that,

557
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: Like it's with kids especially, or you think your kids

558
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: the only one that googled kissing or sex on the computer.

559
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: And then you talk about that and you realize it

560
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: helps to share that kind of information. You can help

561
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: each other. How did you deal with that? What is

562
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: the age appropriate way to deal with something like that.

563
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: You know, let's go back to it a lot. So

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00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: do you think starting a relationship before social media was present? Probably, um,

565
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: is a beneficial thing because it's way harder now, so

566
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: it seems with the Twitter, with the Instagram, the Facebook

567
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: and all of that. Absolutely, um, social media is a

568
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: great thing because it's liberated people. It's helped people voice

569
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: their concerns, and you know, the whole Middle East has

570
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: changed because of social media. But I also think that

571
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: it can be, like I said, detrimental to relationships, especially

572
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: because we get so isolate and insulated by social media.

573
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: We don't we don't take in people anymore, we don't

574
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: communicate the same way. We don't look at people anymore.

575
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: And we got people walking down the street like this

576
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: and bumping into you. I do that sometimes when people

577
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: do that and hold him, I say, hey, you would

578
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: have just missed me. Look it's me. Do you want

579
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: to smash me in? Right after the fourth of July

580
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Speaker 1: on and we got to give a shout out to

581
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: P Diddy, my Man and JB who I've been holding

582
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: it down with revolts. Congratulations, congratulations and everything until you guys, nice,

583
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 1: What if you're what if what if you're on stage

584
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: and you know, somebody stands up and goes, yo, Nikki

585
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: love me security out back right now, I'm get you

586
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Speaker 1: out back six for joining us. Thank you, they burst

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00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 1: his whole name again. Boris Frederick C Sue taking the

588
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Speaker 1: tute kojo. Okay, let's do real quick. There you Breakfast

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Speaker 1: Club game on