Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,
Speaker 1: Julia is on the phone today and she's been with
Speaker 1: her husband John for three years, but now she thinks
Speaker 1: he might be being on faithful. So we're going to
Speaker 1: see if we can find out if he is. We
Speaker 1: try to catch him in a few minutes. But first, Julia,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think your husband's cheating?
Speaker 2: You know, we've been together for you know, like three
Speaker 2: years now, We've been marriage for three years at least,
Speaker 2: I've been been together for much longer. But I just
Speaker 2: I've noticed lately we've just been arguing like constantly, like distickering.
Speaker 2: I just feel like we're not really connecting. And he's
Speaker 2: never around, he's always at work. He never really has
Speaker 2: the time to even prioritize me likely and we never
Speaker 2: spend time together. We never even actually talk, and I
Speaker 2: just feel like something's off. You know, you just know,
Speaker 2: it's like an instinct where you just have a feeling
Speaker 2: that something's not right. And what I what I worry
Speaker 2: about is that he's he's a super close relationship with
Speaker 2: my sister Aaron. So John and my sister Aaron have
Speaker 2: been friends forever and.
Speaker 1: Do you think it's a sister, your sister.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate to say that, Yes, I think it's
Speaker 2: I think it's my sister. And they text constantly, Like
Speaker 2: I've said, they they were friends before we even got together,
Speaker 2: and it just it feels all so suspicious to me.
Speaker 2: It just doesn't feel right.
Speaker 3: That's quite a leap, though, to assume that it's your
Speaker 3: sister spending time with him. I mean, are they just
Speaker 3: good friends? I mean I text with my friends all
Speaker 3: the time, you know, even ones that are dudes in relationships,
Speaker 3: but we're just friends. Is there anything else other than texting?
Speaker 3: But listen, your gut always listened to it. But is
Speaker 3: there anything else that you've seen that makes you feel
Speaker 3: like for sure this is happening.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, well hang out all the time,
Speaker 2: Like he's get lunch lunch with her, they get coffee.
Speaker 2: Not too long ago, we got together for my mom's
Speaker 2: birthday party and they hung out the entire time. You know,
Speaker 2: they had these cute little jokes back and forth.
Speaker 3: You know, have they always done this though, like ever
Speaker 3: since y'all kind of like started.
Speaker 2: I don't think I noticed if they were. I didn't
Speaker 2: notice it because I felt like he made time for me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, I felt like it was a normal balance
Speaker 2: of you know, they were friends, but now it just
Speaker 2: it just feels excessive.
Speaker 1: Is your sister sketchy?
Speaker 2: Do you trust her at this point?
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's just I don't know
Speaker 2: who to trust.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's such a tough position. Are there any other
Speaker 1: things that have happened to make you think he might
Speaker 1: be cheating?
Speaker 2: I just think that, you know, he's working really late,
Speaker 2: like all the time. He won't even come home for dinner,
Speaker 2: which I think is super strange. Like before we had
Speaker 2: a pretty normal routine. Okay, and you know, he's he's
Speaker 2: just been weird. He doesn't he just doesn't. I don't know,
Speaker 2: he's not affectionate. We just don't do anything together. We
Speaker 2: don't he doesn't make we don't go on dates, we
Speaker 2: don't do anything. It's we're just not we're not intimate.
Speaker 1: Did you say anything to him about it?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I did bring it up. I just I basically
Speaker 2: said that I felt like he was making more time
Speaker 2: for her than me, and it turned into this giant argument.
Speaker 1: Like how did it turn into an argument? Was he
Speaker 1: super defensive?
Speaker 2: Yeah? It was he was basically didn't say it out right,
Speaker 2: but he's basically saying like I'm crazy, you know.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's usually a red flag when you confront
Speaker 1: somebody about that kind of behavior. So we'll see. I mean,
Speaker 1: maybe in this case it's just because it's your sister,
Speaker 1: you know, but also that still shouldn't be something that
Speaker 1: somebody makes you feel like you're crazy.
Speaker 3: Sure, but don't you think that like a person would
Speaker 3: want to make their person feel better, Yeah, comfortable in
Speaker 3: a situation, so when they can get defensive so quickly,
Speaker 3: or especially when they go to the cry.
Speaker 1: But no matter what, if you have that feeling, you
Speaker 1: have that feeling, if they do care about you, they
Speaker 1: shouldn't make you feel crazy for But we'll see if
Speaker 1: we can figure it out. You already told us what
Speaker 1: grocery store he's an awards card member at, So we'll do
Speaker 1: the usual and we'll play a song come back, and
Speaker 1: then call him and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 1: store and say that he's this month's big winner of
Speaker 1: thirty six long stim red roses to be delivered anywhere
Speaker 1: he wants in the entire country, to anybody that he
Speaker 1: wants and we'll see if he sends those flowers to
Speaker 1: you or to somebody else. Okay, all right, yep, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song. Come back and get your to catch
Speaker 1: a cheater. Next it's time to Catch a Cheater only
Speaker 1: on the Jubile Show. Right in the middle of to
Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater and if you're just joining us, Julia
Speaker 1: is on the phone and she thinks that her husband,
Speaker 1: a three years named John might be cheating on her.
Speaker 1: So in a minute, we're gonna call him and pretend
Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's awards card
Speaker 1: member at and say that he's this month's big winner
Speaker 1: of thirty six long stim red roses delivered to anybody
Speaker 1: that he wants. And we'll see if he if he
Speaker 1: buys that load of crap, and if he wants the flowers,
Speaker 1: and we'll see who he sends them to, if he
Speaker 1: sends them to his wife or to somebody else. But first, Julia,
Speaker 1: why don't you tell everybody what the situation is?
Speaker 2: Ok So, my husband in three years, John, he's been
Speaker 2: busy at work, he's never home. He always has excuses.
Speaker 2: I think that he might be cheating with my sister Aaron.
Speaker 2: The text constantly. They were friends before we even met,
Speaker 2: and he's just defensive and I feel like it. This
Speaker 2: doesn't make time for me, and he spends time with her.
Speaker 1: All right, well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so.
Speaker 1: We're here with you, Carl really Ah right, this is
Speaker 1: Jorbel calling from So. I was looking for our rewards
Speaker 1: card member named John.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is me, Hi John, Please don't hang up.
Speaker 1: This is not a marketing phone call. I'm calling to
Speaker 1: actually let you know that you're this month's big winner. Congratulations,
Speaker 1: great winner of what the flowers?
Speaker 4: Flowers? I win flowers?
Speaker 1: Oh maybe you don't know. Every single month we choose
Speaker 1: one rewards card member, just totally random, who gets free
Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the country,
Speaker 1: anybody in the country, anywhere you want, absolutely free. You've
Speaker 1: just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box
Speaker 1: of chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody
Speaker 1: that you want.
Speaker 4: Thanks.
Speaker 2: Like, what's the catch?
Speaker 4: It's like you need my info or something.
Speaker 1: No catch at all, just our way of saying thank
Speaker 1: you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 4: Uh, Okay, I can send.
Speaker 1: Them more ever, Yes, you'll get confirmations of everything, so
Speaker 1: you know it's absolutely free. If you know who you
Speaker 1: want to send them to. I can take the information
Speaker 1: in just a matter of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 4: No, I think, Yeah, I know what I want to
Speaker 4: that's fine.
Speaker 1: What I would need would be the first and last
Speaker 1: name of the person, anything you want to put on
Speaker 1: the card, and then the address, and like I said,
Speaker 1: confirmations of all this.
Speaker 4: Okay, her name is Aaron.
Speaker 1: Anything you want to put on a card, they're too good, ol'.
Speaker 4: Eronh Yeah, like yeah, if you go out space, if
Speaker 4: you can just say thanks for hearing me out and
Speaker 4: letting me get some stuff off my chest. Yeah, I
Speaker 4: think that'll work.
Speaker 1: It'll be nice.
Speaker 4: She'll appreciate that, totally nice gift for it.
Speaker 1: Great, yep, And I'll get to the address here in
Speaker 1: just a second. First, I want to let you know
Speaker 1: that your wife's on the phone.
Speaker 4: What.
Speaker 1: Yes, this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 1: My name is Jubil. Yeah, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria,
Speaker 1: and your wife Julia is on the phone and probably
Speaker 1: wondering who Aeron is.
Speaker 2: Aaron is my sister, and you're sending flowers to her.
Speaker 2: So my question to you is, why are you sending
Speaker 2: my sister flowers? Are you having a shower?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Julia, this is so, this is exactly
Speaker 4: why I'm sending her flowers and not you, because we
Speaker 4: have argument.
Speaker 3: That's a valid question.
Speaker 4: Man, you guys gonna be involved in this.
Speaker 2: You really know me, all right.
Speaker 4: So I'm sending Aaron flowers because I can actually have
Speaker 4: conversations with her. We converse, we have dialogue, it's an
Speaker 4: exchange of information. Anytime we talk, you just start yelling
Speaker 4: at me and we just end up fighting and it's
Speaker 4: a drag, man. So I would really feel like getting
Speaker 4: these flowers right now. They don't much love from you,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I am not into your sister.
Speaker 4: She's just the one friend I have in this family
Speaker 4: right now.
Speaker 2: Jesus, Julia, this is.
Speaker 4: Exactly why, like this is our problems. Instead of just
Speaker 4: asking me like straight up, like what's going on, you
Speaker 4: get a bunch of radio strangers on the phone and
Speaker 4: then have them like like lie about sending flowers from
Speaker 4: a reward card?
Speaker 1: What is this?
Speaker 4: Why not just come to me and it's awesome? I did.
Speaker 2: I've had I have talked to you about it and
Speaker 2: then you've got defensive. So this is exactly why I'm
Speaker 2: doing it. It's because obviously this is a weird situation.
Speaker 2: This is my sister. Like I don't I don't want
Speaker 2: to accused either of you of this, but it feels
Speaker 2: weird and I don't feel right about it. I feel
Speaker 2: like I have every right to say something to you,
Speaker 2: and this is the only way I can talk to you,
Speaker 2: because yeah, everything turns.
Speaker 4: To an argument, you know, like I've been friends with
Speaker 4: her before we even met. Dude, Like we're like you,
Speaker 4: I am good friends with your sister.
Speaker 2: That's just something, you know.
Speaker 4: I'm not into her like that though, It's like we've
Speaker 4: known each other for years, like nothing's ever happened. I'm
Speaker 4: into you. But like then you know, you call strangers
Speaker 4: and to moderate our argument, which like just this is
Speaker 4: like jumping the sharks, like if you have, if we
Speaker 4: had an issue.
Speaker 1: We weren't talking the supposed to moderate anything. We're just
Speaker 1: trying to catch you.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, god, just like people in a fight. Like
Speaker 4: great work, guys, really did your homework.
Speaker 2: You did send flowers to my sister, Like that's weird. Man,
Speaker 2: Like that doesn't make any sense. I don't know if
Speaker 2: we have problems, sure, but in fact that your first
Speaker 2: thought to send flowers to my sister. That's like not right.
Speaker 2: I don't even care if your friends are not. Like,
Speaker 2: if you are into me and you do love me,
Speaker 2: then you would send me flowers. You wouldn't be sending
Speaker 2: them to my sister. That's just weird.
Speaker 4: Did you see then? Did you listen and you listen
Speaker 4: to the note that I sent her? Like was there
Speaker 4: anything flirty in like, like just it does thank you
Speaker 4: for being there for me. That's like not even romantic.
Speaker 4: That's like sad. That's straight up sad, Like I'm not
Speaker 4: even happy that that's the person hunting flowers, who's just like,
Speaker 4: you know, things are tough at home, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean, Like come.
Speaker 2: On, yeah, but what is she there for you for?
Speaker 2: Like she's there for you?
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means.
Speaker 2: I could mean so many things.
Speaker 4: So I can talk with her about our issues, because
Speaker 4: every time I talk with you about it, you just
Speaker 4: shut down and start yelling at me, and then I
Speaker 4: gotta go back to work. Anyone and hired from the
Speaker 4: day your sister actually listens to me man, like, she
Speaker 4: probably knows more about how I'm feeling about our relationships
Speaker 4: than you do. Could you never actually listen?
Speaker 2: I just want to feel good about this, and I
Speaker 2: don't feel good about it. I just just feel like
Speaker 2: more confused.
Speaker 4: Oh great, that's fine. Well, well, because you're not ever
Speaker 4: gonna listen to me, Like, I'll talk to Aaron after
Speaker 4: this and like explain the situation and she'll actually listen
Speaker 4: to me and like empathize with me, and you can
Speaker 4: hear it from her because you talk with her more
Speaker 4: than you talk with me. Absurd, It's absurd. Listen, Julia,
Speaker 4: I am busy right now. I am at work. When
Speaker 4: I get home, we can talk about this, but I
Speaker 4: know it's just going to end up being us yelling
Speaker 4: and you like having to leave the house again. So
Speaker 4: you know what, Thanks for this, This is great for us. Bye, guys,
Speaker 4: y'all suck.
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, he hung up.
Speaker 3: I think the problems are a little bit deeper than Yeah,
Speaker 3: we are qualified.
Speaker 1: For definitely, Julia. I'm sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, guys, I was I don't even know.
Speaker 3: I honestly don't think he's cheating though, Julia, but I
Speaker 3: do see that there are clear problems.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean even especially, I mean even if your sister,
Speaker 1: if he's confiding in her all that stuff, is she
Speaker 1: talking to you about it too? Or no?
Speaker 2: Not really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm aware of.
Speaker 2: Any of this. I mean, you know, I get that
Speaker 2: he feels like he doesn't that you can't talk to me.
Speaker 2: I mean if we're arguing that, yeah, we're not being
Speaker 2: able to talk to each other. So that's an issue.
Speaker 2: I'm assuming she isn't so comfortable talking to me about,
Speaker 2: which it seems. Also, it's so weird, it's like a weird.
Speaker 3: Maybe when he comes home today, just listen, Yeah, just
Speaker 3: listen to what he has to say, and then you
Speaker 3: can react and decide what you want to do based
Speaker 3: off of that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are right, good luck let us know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. We can help it anyway, Okay, Yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Appreciate you guys. Thank you so much too. The Double
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