1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show, 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Julia is on the phone today and she's been with 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: her husband John for three years, but now she thinks 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: he might be being on faithful. So we're going to 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: see if we can find out if he is. We 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: try to catch him in a few minutes. But first, Julia, 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think your husband's cheating? 8 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 2: You know, we've been together for you know, like three 9 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: years now, We've been marriage for three years at least, 10 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 2: I've been been together for much longer. But I just 11 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: I've noticed lately we've just been arguing like constantly, like distickering. 12 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 2: I just feel like we're not really connecting. And he's 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: never around, he's always at work. He never really has 14 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 2: the time to even prioritize me likely and we never 15 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: spend time together. We never even actually talk, and I 16 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 2: just feel like something's off. You know, you just know, 17 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: it's like an instinct where you just have a feeling 18 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 2: that something's not right. And what I what I worry 19 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 2: about is that he's he's a super close relationship with 20 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: my sister Aaron. So John and my sister Aaron have 21 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: been friends forever and. 22 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,279 Speaker 1: Do you think it's a sister, your sister. 23 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate to say that, Yes, I think it's 24 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: I think it's my sister. And they text constantly, Like 25 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 2: I've said, they they were friends before we even got together, 26 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: and it just it feels all so suspicious to me. 27 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: It just doesn't feel right. 28 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 3: That's quite a leap, though, to assume that it's your 29 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 3: sister spending time with him. I mean, are they just 30 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: good friends? I mean I text with my friends all 31 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 3: the time, you know, even ones that are dudes in relationships, 32 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 3: but we're just friends. Is there anything else other than texting? 33 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 3: But listen, your gut always listened to it. But is 34 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 3: there anything else that you've seen that makes you feel 35 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 3: like for sure this is happening. 36 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, well hang out all the time, 37 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: Like he's get lunch lunch with her, they get coffee. 38 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: Not too long ago, we got together for my mom's 39 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: birthday party and they hung out the entire time. You know, 40 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 2: they had these cute little jokes back and forth. 41 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 3: You know, have they always done this though, like ever 42 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 3: since y'all kind of like started. 43 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 2: I don't think I noticed if they were. I didn't 44 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 2: notice it because I felt like he made time for me. Yeah, 45 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 2: you know, I felt like it was a normal balance 46 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: of you know, they were friends, but now it just 47 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 2: it just feels excessive. 48 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: Is your sister sketchy? 49 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 2: Do you trust her at this point? 50 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 3: I don't. 51 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's just I don't know 52 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 2: who to trust. 53 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: Oh, that's such a tough position. Are there any other 54 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: things that have happened to make you think he might 55 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: be cheating? 56 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 2: I just think that, you know, he's working really late, 57 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 2: like all the time. He won't even come home for dinner, 58 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: which I think is super strange. Like before we had 59 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: a pretty normal routine. Okay, and you know, he's he's 60 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 2: just been weird. He doesn't he just doesn't. I don't know, 61 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: he's not affectionate. We just don't do anything together. We 62 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: don't he doesn't make we don't go on dates, we 63 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 2: don't do anything. It's we're just not we're not intimate. 64 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: Did you say anything to him about it? 65 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? I did bring it up. I just I basically 66 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: said that I felt like he was making more time 67 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 2: for her than me, and it turned into this giant argument. 68 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: Like how did it turn into an argument? Was he 69 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: super defensive? 70 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? It was he was basically didn't say it out right, 71 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 2: but he's basically saying like I'm crazy, you know. 72 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's usually a red flag when you confront 73 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: somebody about that kind of behavior. So we'll see. I mean, 74 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: maybe in this case it's just because it's your sister, 75 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: you know, but also that still shouldn't be something that 76 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: somebody makes you feel like you're crazy. 77 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 3: Sure, but don't you think that like a person would 78 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: want to make their person feel better, Yeah, comfortable in 79 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 3: a situation, so when they can get defensive so quickly, 80 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: or especially when they go to the cry. 81 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: But no matter what, if you have that feeling, you 82 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: have that feeling, if they do care about you, they 83 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: shouldn't make you feel crazy for But we'll see if 84 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: we can figure it out. You already told us what 85 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: grocery store he's an awards card member at, So we'll do 86 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: the usual and we'll play a song come back, and 87 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: then call him and pretend to be from the grocery 88 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: store and say that he's this month's big winner of 89 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 1: thirty six long stim red roses to be delivered anywhere 90 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: he wants in the entire country, to anybody that he 91 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: wants and we'll see if he sends those flowers to 92 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: you or to somebody else. Okay, all right, yep, we'll 93 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: play a song. Come back and get your to catch 94 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: a cheater. Next it's time to Catch a Cheater only 95 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: on the Jubile Show. Right in the middle of to 96 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater and if you're just joining us, Julia 97 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,799 Speaker 1: is on the phone and she thinks that her husband, 98 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: a three years named John might be cheating on her. 99 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 1: So in a minute, we're gonna call him and pretend 100 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's awards card 101 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,119 Speaker 1: member at and say that he's this month's big winner 102 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 1: of thirty six long stim red roses delivered to anybody 103 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: that he wants. And we'll see if he if he 104 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: buys that load of crap, and if he wants the flowers, 105 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: and we'll see who he sends them to, if he 106 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: sends them to his wife or to somebody else. But first, Julia, 107 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: why don't you tell everybody what the situation is? 108 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 2: Ok So, my husband in three years, John, he's been 109 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 2: busy at work, he's never home. He always has excuses. 110 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,119 Speaker 2: I think that he might be cheating with my sister Aaron. 111 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: The text constantly. They were friends before we even met, 112 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 2: and he's just defensive and I feel like it. This 113 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: doesn't make time for me, and he spends time with her. 114 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: All right, well, are you ready for us to call him? 115 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so. 116 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: We're here with you, Carl really Ah right, this is 117 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: Jorbel calling from So. I was looking for our rewards 118 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 1: card member named John. 119 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 2: Uh. 120 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is me, Hi John, Please don't hang up. 121 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: This is not a marketing phone call. I'm calling to 122 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: actually let you know that you're this month's big winner. Congratulations, 123 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: great winner of what the flowers? 124 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 4: Flowers? I win flowers? 125 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: Oh maybe you don't know. Every single month we choose 126 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: one rewards card member, just totally random, who gets free 127 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the country, 128 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: anybody in the country, anywhere you want, absolutely free. You've 129 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box 130 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: of chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody 131 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 1: that you want. 132 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 4: Thanks. 133 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 2: Like, what's the catch? 134 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 4: It's like you need my info or something. 135 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: No catch at all, just our way of saying thank 136 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: you very much for shopping with us. 137 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 4: Uh, Okay, I can send. 138 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 1: Them more ever, Yes, you'll get confirmations of everything, so 139 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: you know it's absolutely free. If you know who you 140 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: want to send them to. I can take the information 141 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: in just a matter of minutes over the phone. 142 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 4: No, I think, Yeah, I know what I want to 143 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 4: that's fine. 144 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: What I would need would be the first and last 145 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: name of the person, anything you want to put on 146 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: the card, and then the address, and like I said, 147 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 1: confirmations of all this. 148 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 4: Okay, her name is Aaron. 149 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: Anything you want to put on a card, they're too good, ol'. 150 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 4: Eronh Yeah, like yeah, if you go out space, if 151 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 4: you can just say thanks for hearing me out and 152 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 4: letting me get some stuff off my chest. Yeah, I 153 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 4: think that'll work. 154 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: It'll be nice. 155 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 4: She'll appreciate that, totally nice gift for it. 156 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: Great, yep, And I'll get to the address here in 157 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: just a second. First, I want to let you know 158 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: that your wife's on the phone. 159 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 4: What. 160 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: Yes, this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. 161 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: My name is Jubil. Yeah, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria, 162 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: and your wife Julia is on the phone and probably 163 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: wondering who Aeron is. 164 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 2: Aaron is my sister, and you're sending flowers to her. 165 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: So my question to you is, why are you sending 166 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: my sister flowers? Are you having a shower? 167 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Julia, this is so, this is exactly 168 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 4: why I'm sending her flowers and not you, because we 169 00:07:59,280 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 4: have argument. 170 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:02,119 Speaker 3: That's a valid question. 171 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 4: Man, you guys gonna be involved in this. 172 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 2: You really know me, all right. 173 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 4: So I'm sending Aaron flowers because I can actually have 174 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 4: conversations with her. We converse, we have dialogue, it's an 175 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 4: exchange of information. Anytime we talk, you just start yelling 176 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 4: at me and we just end up fighting and it's 177 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 4: a drag, man. So I would really feel like getting 178 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 4: these flowers right now. They don't much love from you, 179 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I am not into your sister. 180 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 4: She's just the one friend I have in this family 181 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 4: right now. 182 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 2: Jesus, Julia, this is. 183 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 4: Exactly why, like this is our problems. Instead of just 184 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 4: asking me like straight up, like what's going on, you 185 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 4: get a bunch of radio strangers on the phone and 186 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 4: then have them like like lie about sending flowers from 187 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 4: a reward card? 188 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: What is this? 189 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 4: Why not just come to me and it's awesome? I did. 190 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 2: I've had I have talked to you about it and 191 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 2: then you've got defensive. So this is exactly why I'm 192 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 2: doing it. It's because obviously this is a weird situation. 193 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: This is my sister. Like I don't I don't want 194 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: to accused either of you of this, but it feels 195 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: weird and I don't feel right about it. I feel 196 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: like I have every right to say something to you, 197 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 2: and this is the only way I can talk to you, 198 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 2: because yeah, everything turns. 199 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 4: To an argument, you know, like I've been friends with 200 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 4: her before we even met. Dude, Like we're like you, 201 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 4: I am good friends with your sister. 202 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 2: That's just something, you know. 203 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 4: I'm not into her like that though, It's like we've 204 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 4: known each other for years, like nothing's ever happened. I'm 205 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 4: into you. But like then you know, you call strangers 206 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 4: and to moderate our argument, which like just this is 207 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 4: like jumping the sharks, like if you have, if we 208 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 4: had an issue. 209 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: We weren't talking the supposed to moderate anything. We're just 210 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: trying to catch you. 211 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, god, just like people in a fight. Like 212 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 4: great work, guys, really did your homework. 213 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 2: You did send flowers to my sister, Like that's weird. Man, 214 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 2: Like that doesn't make any sense. I don't know if 215 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 2: we have problems, sure, but in fact that your first 216 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 2: thought to send flowers to my sister. That's like not right. 217 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 2: I don't even care if your friends are not. Like, 218 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 2: if you are into me and you do love me, 219 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: then you would send me flowers. You wouldn't be sending 220 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 2: them to my sister. That's just weird. 221 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 4: Did you see then? Did you listen and you listen 222 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 4: to the note that I sent her? Like was there 223 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 4: anything flirty in like, like just it does thank you 224 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 4: for being there for me. That's like not even romantic. 225 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 4: That's like sad. That's straight up sad, Like I'm not 226 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 4: even happy that that's the person hunting flowers, who's just like, 227 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 4: you know, things are tough at home, you know what 228 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 4: I mean, Like come. 229 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 2: On, yeah, but what is she there for you for? 230 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 2: Like she's there for you? 231 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. 232 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 2: I could mean so many things. 233 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 4: So I can talk with her about our issues, because 234 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 4: every time I talk with you about it, you just 235 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 4: shut down and start yelling at me, and then I 236 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 4: gotta go back to work. Anyone and hired from the 237 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 4: day your sister actually listens to me man, like, she 238 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,199 Speaker 4: probably knows more about how I'm feeling about our relationships 239 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 4: than you do. Could you never actually listen? 240 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 2: I just want to feel good about this, and I 241 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 2: don't feel good about it. I just just feel like 242 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 2: more confused. 243 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,319 Speaker 4: Oh great, that's fine. Well, well, because you're not ever 244 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 4: gonna listen to me, Like, I'll talk to Aaron after 245 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 4: this and like explain the situation and she'll actually listen 246 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 4: to me and like empathize with me, and you can 247 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 4: hear it from her because you talk with her more 248 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 4: than you talk with me. Absurd, It's absurd. Listen, Julia, 249 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 4: I am busy right now. I am at work. When 250 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 4: I get home, we can talk about this, but I 251 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 4: know it's just going to end up being us yelling 252 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 4: and you like having to leave the house again. So 253 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 4: you know what, Thanks for this, This is great for us. Bye, guys, 254 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 4: y'all suck. 255 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, he hung up. 256 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 3: I think the problems are a little bit deeper than Yeah, 257 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 3: we are qualified. 258 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 1: For definitely, Julia. I'm sorry, so sorry. 259 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, guys, I was I don't even know. 260 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 3: I honestly don't think he's cheating though, Julia, but I 261 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: do see that there are clear problems. 262 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean even especially, I mean even if your sister, 263 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: if he's confiding in her all that stuff, is she 264 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: talking to you about it too? Or no? 265 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 2: Not really? 266 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm aware of. 267 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 2: Any of this. I mean, you know, I get that 268 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 2: he feels like he doesn't that you can't talk to me. 269 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 2: I mean if we're arguing that, yeah, we're not being 270 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 2: able to talk to each other. So that's an issue. 271 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 2: I'm assuming she isn't so comfortable talking to me about, 272 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: which it seems. Also, it's so weird, it's like a weird. 273 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 3: Maybe when he comes home today, just listen, Yeah, just 274 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 3: listen to what he has to say, and then you 275 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 3: can react and decide what you want to do based 276 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 3: off of that. 277 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are right, good luck let us know. Yeah, 278 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. We can help it anyway, Okay, Yeah, I. 279 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 2: Appreciate you guys. Thank you so much too. The Double 280 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 2: Shows to Catch a Cheater